SNEAKO - September 16, 2022Tristan Tate Tells SNEAKO The SECRET to Getting Rich!
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Summary
In this episode of the podcast, I sit down with my good friend, Tristan, to talk about his experience with not being rich and how he came to terms with it. We talk about what it was like growing up poor and how it shaped him into the person he is today.
Transcript
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Or genuinely a lot of people are just going to be okay with that life?
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I don't think everyone's going to be okay with that life
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because I believe if you had a magical time machine
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and you were to show a guy who was complacent, chilling,
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I have to do something. I have to wake up. So if you're watching this podcast, this is that time
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machine right now. Stand yourself in front of the mirror if you are that person. Imagine yourself
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30 years older. Imagine yourself fat, out of shape, bags under your eyes, wrinkles on your skin,
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gray hair. Imagine that man exactly where you are today. And if you don't like it, do something to
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change it because it's complacency that damages people. And that's a mix of brainwashing and
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programming and your personality. It's a mix of lots of things. But I think growing up really
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really impoverished and looking around at the other adults, you know, who are still in. I was
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while I was 16, 17 years old working at McDonald's, I was working with people who were in their 40s
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and 50s doing exactly the same job as me. And I thought, whoa, this is fucked. I'm going to have
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to do something. Why did that click in your head? That clicked in my head really early too. And that
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was always my biggest fear was being complacent and not having a life of abundance and not doing
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what I wanted to do. Why do you think most people don't make that realization?
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I remember once I was watching a YouTube video.
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I can't even remember what the debate was about.
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And I said, I was maybe 19 years old at the time.
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Tristan, what the fuck do you care who wins this debate?
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turn it off and i was like you know what that's a very good point we're broke what the fuck do i
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care about these two people debating xyz i don't even remember what they were talking about to
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this day because i turned it off because he's right we were broke andrew was a big inspiration
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to me as well because he was a lot more as as unhappy as i was with our current financial
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situation he was a lot more unhappy and it may just be that he was a year and a half older than
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me because i found myself when i reached the the marks in age that he was a year and a half later
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down the line i find myself self-thinking and and speaking in exactly the same he way he was
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but he was correct why the fuck was i watching that debate you know at least watching content
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like you and content like me is going to wake people up and encourage them to make positive
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changes in their life that's the kind of content you should be consuming but if you're watching a
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debate on i don't know the the war in ukraine or you know the the the england leaving the european
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union or even if you're watching i'll go as far as saying even if you're watching an american
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presidential debate and these two candidates are arguing and you're flipping burgers bro
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you're going to be flipping burgers whoever fucking wins turn it off do something else
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how did you not get upset about hearing that because i've said similar things to my family
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members like if we get into a pointless argument it's like well you're broke you're not successful
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and it hurts their feelings and it i mean even i said something hurtful to my to my dad when i had
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my first six figure i'm going to be completely transparent even though i said i'm my first six
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figure month and i'm like i just made more in a month than you make in a year and when you say
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stuff like that it hurts a lot of people's feelings rather than inspires them when you
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heard andrew say you're broke why do you think that you were able to separate your feelings
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where most people are like don't why would you say that well i i've never been an emotionally
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led person i've always been a factual objective um objectively factual person so if someone
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says to me for example i got a comment on one of my fucking photos on instagram recently saying
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well bro your hair is receding and i'm like i'm 34 years old yeah my hair's i'm 34 like what
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what am i gonna do say no it's not shut the fuck up like if someone calls me broke or someone says
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something about me that's true fuck am i gonna say argue with them tell them that they're wrong
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i'm happy to accept the truth of the universe and i think we should all be happy to accept the truth
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of the universe and if you're not then you have work to do on yourself um perhaps there were
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stages in my life where i was a little less i was a little more touchy about things like that
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but i think with uh certainly with age and wisdom because you have to understand i didn't make my
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first million till i was 28 i didn't have any real money in terms of being able to do what i
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want and buy a nice car till i was 24 and a half like i was broke a lot longer than i've ever been
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rich and um i just knew it i think it comes with age and experience there was certainly more i could
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have done when i was 18 19 20 21 but i didn't have the the role models that young men have today i
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didn't have the access to intelligent people that young men have today so i think today there's a
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lot less of an excuse but if you find yourself if someone says something about you um let's use
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fitness i had uh some surgery on my arm in january i'm getting back into shape now i'm looking i'm
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looking good these days uh i'm gonna have some progress pictures coming soon because i've been
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uh i'm gonna let people into a little secret me my brother have been working on a supplement line
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but i myself have been um experimenting with this trying to get my my own fitness back into check
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um when i after my surgery in january i'm walking around with no shirt in my house
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my brother looked at me he said bro you look fucked you look fat as fuck and i was out of
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shape for me i was still in better shape than the average person i looked in the mirror i was like
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You know, especially if you have good friends around you,
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let people encourage you by telling you the truth.
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Young men will come to me with their business ideas
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That's the worst business idea I've ever heard.
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And now if you wish to pursue it after the fact,
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that's fine because that's your own personal choice.
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and try to take people's opinion and people you trust and people you respect's opinion
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into account that's the best advice i can give so if you're hanging around with a bunch of
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fucking losers that's dangerous because if you put on 30 pounds by being a lazy fuck over the
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next six months your friends aren't going to tell you you know you're going to read shit on the
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internet cope like girls like dad bods and you're gonna be like oh well girls like dad bods what
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you talking about girls on like dad balls you seemed the same amount do you consider yourself
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happier before and after youtube because i think uh one of the differences between me and you is
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that most of my satisfaction in life comes from the fact that i can inspire people and i can share
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my art online and i could i can inspire people and you i get the satisfaction that an artist gets
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from mostly my main channel not my streaming channel but you seem the same amount of happy
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i've got my brother next to me you know i'm i'm living well i'm eating well i'm sleeping well i
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have been doing for many many years the the contentment hasn't changed uh my level of wealth
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has increased certainly uh over and it will do every year for the next 20 years till i decide
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to just you know give up and enjoy myself and i've always been content my i think that it's added a
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level of happiness because like you said there are things that i didn't experience before that
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are now a big part of my life um you know just like i get the hate comments and the hit pieces
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and the stupid videos the emails i get and the messages i get of people saying that i've inspired
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them to to make a positive change you know and you do this you talk about me in this way that
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nothing makes me happier than that so i feel like i was missing out beforehand because i had a lot
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to teach the world and perhaps i mean i can call it selfishness almost i was too wrapped up in
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living my wonderful life uh everything that's happening now i'm exactly as content as i was
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before but believe me i am happier knowing that i have the power to help people yeah i saw the
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the kids surround you on your boat in uh croatia when you docked and you see like a horde
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of teenagers and young adults stand there what is that how does that affect you because before
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you weren't really famous before you might have been known as an entrepreneur something like that
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but how have you handled the fame um you know what in a very boring way you like you have to handle
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it in a personal security kind of way etc but um the the actual fame it does get annoying being
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stopped on the street all the time or having crowds form or they find out you're in a restaurant
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etc but i try not to let it bother me because i understand that it's a because the fame isn't
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necessarily good but i feel like it's a it's a price i have to pay to be a positive role model
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in so many young men's lives and to inspire so many young men i feel like is a is a gift like i
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said about me not wanting to run this fight to take on big tech and to build other platforms
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etc maybe i was chosen for it but i just i can't look at it as a as a negative thing as much as it
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may negatively affect my life sometimes i'm just a lot more careful i roll with more bodyguards i
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keep my movements a lot more uh secretive etc but it's easy to handle what a bunch of people who
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love me and admire me the people who hate me don't turn up in big mobs they just write shit
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on the internet because they're scared of me so you know i've ever encountered a hater in real
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life i almost never not one never not one not one ever and i don't think i ever will so what does
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that say what do you say because who on earth is going to think i don't like those two giant strong
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kickboxing brothers who roll with a team of security let me go and fuck with them in person
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these people are cowards they're never going to think that not in a million years so what do you
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think that says about the human psyche the fact that people exercise so much hate online but in
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real life they probably wouldn't even look at you twice i don't even notice like dirty looks or
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anything like that but the amount of hate i hear online is is a daily thing well it's a testament
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to their own character it's a testament to their own character and that people will make brand new
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profiles and uh you know with no followers and no following and no display pic just to write hateful
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comments to you and it honestly makes me happy it honestly just builds me up to understand that
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the number of hours put in per day to trying to bring me down are more hours than i could possibly
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live in a day hundreds of hours sometimes per day are are taken from people who dislike me
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and i'm just like good these people are wasting their lives giving me their energy i i feel
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powered by it i feel fueled by it so it's motivation it's a sense of motivation like the
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other day i didn't want to stream and then i saw uh three videos drop all an hour long edited up
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and just like hating on me and it woke me up a little bit i was like whoa yeah and good
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and good they're taking time out of their lives but i i would never do that and i don't think
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that's a good way to behave i mean you could comment on people's videos you could comment
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on people talking about you but i'd never just watch someone for what they're saying unless what
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they were saying was genuinely no no i don't think i'd i'd ever watch someone who was saying
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something stupid and then comment on it and make a hit piece on it because i don't want to give
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those people my energy you have to understand that people with the right frame of mind are built up
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by this so if any of my haters do see clips of this and do watch this please keep spending your
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time thinking about me because i don't know your name i don't know your story i don't know your
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problems but i'm living well i think it was floyd mayweather who said something like this he said
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look if you want to talk shit about me or my boxing career or my trainers and my friends
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don't worry about me because i'm living well worry about yourself i'm a billionaire i'm the i'm the
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best boxer who ever lived don't worry about me it's all fine for me so yeah i like it i like it
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i'm not gonna pretend i don't i am it's eye-opening hearing you when i asked the question how do you
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handle the fame i was curious to if you enjoyed it or not but you only talked about it as if it
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was a negative thing i'm seeing a lot of entrepreneurs and people like you want to get
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into this game because they desire fame and it seems like you never desired that but i noticed
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a lot of like crypto guys entrepreneurs e-commerce dudes they're kind of following your method and
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they're now getting into the youtube space because they have all the riches they have a lot of money
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but you guys talk a lot about you can't really like you can't make money and not become a dork
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you're still a dork and so they want that level of respect and they want to be admired
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why do you think that you didn't desire fame i i feel like i've always been proud of myself and
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who i am i think a lot of people look for validation from other people and i i think that's
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why i never really desired it it's a it's a consequence and it's one of the circumstances
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that i now find myself in for everything that i've done everything my brother has done but you
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know if you're really truly content and love yourself lots of people desire fame to make
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the money but it's the guys chasing fame for the sake of fame say they already have money
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they're they're unhappy about something i think perhaps you know i mean if you're a youtuber and
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you make your money from youtube good chase the fame chase the numbers because now you're also
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chasing your paycheck you're chasing you know what's going to what's going to put food on your
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table what's going to get you through life but just for the sake of having all these people
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following you around and commenting on you and and you know trying to take pictures of you in
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the street it's not that great if i'm honest and uh because i'm so happy in and of myself and when
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i'm sitting around with my friends whether it be at a five-star restaurant or like literally on
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someone's kitchen kitchen floor drinking cheap cans of beer i'm so happy i don't give a fuck
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who knows who i am so i i think you could tell a lot about somebody's uh station in life and how
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how how uh proud they are of themselves and how happy they are of with themselves by how how hard
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they chase fame do you think that what do you think people can do to stop being dorks what's
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the best way to try to fix the dork the dorkum i think everybody knows already everybody knows
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the answer a healthy body is a healthy mind get into shape you know uh try try try to try to look
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your best try to um you know become more knowledgeable whether that be you know watching
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youtube videos uh watching stuff that my brother or you put out just try to understand the world
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better try to understand that you know you can't just walk through the world as a dork because
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the things you desire don't come very freely to dorks i would like to think that every single
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young man watching would love to have a beautiful woman they would wouldn't they beautiful women
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beautiful women don't like dorks they really don't so look at the things you want from life
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and look at who you are as a person and think how can i positively change myself to get the things
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that i want from life and i think you're naturally going to come out of your dork state just from
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doing that if you understand one percent how women think how high value men think i'm a high value
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man and people message me all the time hey man i'd love to sit down and play a game of chess
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with you i'd love to sit down and smoke a cigar with you don't send me that message without first
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looking at who you are and thinking would tristan tate benefit or want to sit around with me and
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play chess and smoke cigars what would i talk to tristan tate about and if the answer is i just
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loved a fanboy on him then you're probably a fucking dork and you know do something about
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yourself to change that that's what i've realized on from your impact on social media is that
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inherently i've always known that and even before you it was like guys like dan bilzerian or like
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the stereotypical high value man bitches in shape big houses big cars and everything that's what
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everybody every man inherently wants that's what every like man is wanted at when we were like 12
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and then the matrix beats it out of you slowly they make you cope and they make you say that
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you want other things i'm okay with the dad bod i want to be monogamous i want these other things
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i don't want that life and i've what separates me from a lot of the content creators i've realized
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is that most people would rather not admit that and they would rather make justifications for why
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they're at that point in their life and i and you see what happens because when you're a content
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creator you don't get cool points for being a fan of somebody else you don't get to make a hit piece
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I can't make a 57-minute edited video of you or Andrew because what would I say?
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And it's because I think a lot of people, and you've probably seen it, they are – you don't get cool points for supporting someone else.
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Everyone says every day like you're a dick rider.
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you're and i'm i don't get bothered by that because i'm upgrading my life and i've realized
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that the life that you're living is the ideal life for most men just most people are coping
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and decide not to to want that and and and you have to understand that all these men are doing
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the same thing themselves if we were to say if you were to start complimenting me in this chat
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and please don't saying oh tristan i think you're the best and i think you're a cool guy i think you
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live well i think you dress well i think that you've made a lot of money i think you're smart
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and the people would type in the chat dick rider dick rider dick rider well what the fuck are you
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watching us for you're watching me you're sitting at home watching me in sneeko talk
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who the fuck are you to say shit like that like literally no one knows who you are on this stream
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and you're sitting watching us and that would be i think a very low percentage of the people
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watching but uh some people would be saying that but at the same time how do they know
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if they aren't spending their own time being a fan of myself or you so it's a very strange mirror
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that you need to kind of hold up to the viewers at home when they start saying stuff like that
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happens a lot when my brother goes on twitch they're talking and they'll be like oh dick
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rider they tell people or tell the streamers are dick riding and you're for giving me a compliment
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i'm like well this stream is massive and a bunch of people are watching this because my brother's
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on the fucking stream so what does that make you like it's the way it is it's much easier to hate
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and yeah you get a lot more points for it yeah that's the nature of social media is a play
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negativity is what people it really encourages a lot of negativity there's not a space for
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positive speak it's it's immediately shot down well we are creating it i think because i now
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with the way that i speak the way you speak and the way a lot of people who i've influenced uh
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who have watched me and andrew speak um you know i have videos literally of guys at their school
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15 year old boys playing that stupid theme tune that's associated with my brother opening doors
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for women who walk by and letting the women into the classroom and i look at that i just think
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you know what good i i like to create positivity and i like to put it out there and i like i like
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to see you know young men become become better men and it's it's it's very cool and i think that
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we are guys like us are hopefully and there's lots of good guys online lots of fitness trainers
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lots of guys who preach a lot of good stuff but i think with our popularity that we currently have
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all of us um us too as well i feel like we are now creating a positive dynamic and a positive
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conversation and positive talking points this whole fucking podcast has been positive no one's
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going to walk away from this having not learned something important about themselves or you know
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or haven't taken away a lesson that they can apply to their lives and make their lives better
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and yeah just just keep doing it you keep doing it on your own personal streams as well because
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you know the world needs this just because everyone's doing one thing doesn't mean doing
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the opposite is wrong sometimes that's the best thing to do and um all the content creators i would
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say do exactly the same thing if you can and also get over to rumble i'm on rumble sneaker live i
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want to start streaming there and how does that is the monetization system good that's the one
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thing i'm a little bit worried about oh it's good it's good you know you'll you'll do well on rumble
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you'll do well on rumble and um you know and hopefully you can pull in some bigger audiences
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because your fans want to see you they don't want to watch youtube they want to watch you speak
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so if you make a big enough deal and a big enough splash and a big enough you know a song and dance
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about the fact that you're going to be on rumble i feel like your fans are going to follow you
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and you know you could speak more freely there you could be a lot less careful there you could
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say like you know like your your honest true opinions there about lots of things and um and
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so you should and and in which case you're going to your fans are going to resonate with you more
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get to know you better and uh if super chats are something that you know that that you uh that
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helps finance your life and that is uh you know helping you get to where you want to be then good
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because you work hard man you're you're fucking you're streaming like almost every day aren't you
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every day yeah like you yeah like you work hard so you you know everyone you know feel free to
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you know if you're watching me and you're a fan of me fucking throw some super chats in you don't
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even have to ask questions to support this young man because he's working harder than most people
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i know i don't know if you've ever seen my videos but um to the chat too i just dropped a documentary
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on my main channel sneko it's there's a short film and documentary on there that's my bread
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and butter the streaming thing is just it's just a side hustle that's where uh me and tristan
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diverge is that at heart i'm more of like i got that misunderstood artist when like one day i
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want to be a filmmaker i want to i got into this because of i wanted to be a stand-up comedian
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this it's very different than i saw that you did some stand-up i didn't actually watch it i'm a
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busy man but i've seen clips of you doing stand-up on tiktok etc so people have sent me
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but and yeah and um not one day i want to be a filmmaker one day you will be a filmmaker my
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friend because i believe you have the drive and ambition and the plan to do so you're not one of
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those people who is just sitting around thinking oh i want to be this one day with no plan you know
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and a dream without a plan is just oh what's the saying fuck a goal without a plan is just a dream
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is that it might be anyway that sounds correct a goal without a dream is delusion
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yeah well yeah also true also true thanks for coming on it's uh it's pretty late where you're
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at you're making me want to have a cigar i don't i can't smoke inside i'm not at that level in my
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in my apartment yet it's it's gonna stink up the whole shit make sure you do 200 push-ups first
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man health health is wealth so you know make sure you do 200 push-ups first two push-ups
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then have your drink i'll just say i do sets of 50 if need be but um yeah any young men out there
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if you're gonna smoke if you're gonna drink make sure you earn it make sure you take care of your
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health first and um yeah that's it thank you for having me on sneak i appreciate you always man
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and keep up the good work let's uh let's do it again in a couple weeks so that some time could
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pass and we're not just we have something to talk about but i would love to have you on again
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absolutely in the in the in the months to come especially in around the beginning of november
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time i'm gonna have some very exciting uh things to talk about and some very exciting things coming
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up for myself and my brother and i'm happy to jump on the channel and uh tell everyone all about them
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but yeah we'll stay in touch in the meantime stay safe peace everybody watching thank you very much
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very much ladies and gentlemen peace out have a wonderful evening be safe i've got plans so i'm
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gonna have a good time tonight see you guys later keep fighting the good fight man enjoy