SNEAKO - Why 2s Think They’re 10s

00:00:00.380 Masculine, feminine, presenting. Rules of modern dating, it's complicated.

00:00:03.160 Who do you perceive to be more feminine? Straight women or gay men?

00:00:08.020 Gay men. 0.98

00:00:08.740 Ooh, depends on the situation, but my mind goes gay men immediately. 1.00

00:00:12.440 Women are masculine now. They get to pick and choose when they want to be feminine. 1.00

00:00:16.220 They get to be a man when they feel like it. It's fun for them.

00:00:18.300 But we can never be a woman because they're going to be like, gay! 1.00

00:00:21.020 And you can be gay as a woman and it's fine, we'll still fuck. 1.00

00:00:23.440 But if you're ever gay as a man, bye. 1.00

00:00:25.640 Why is that? 0.97

00:00:26.080 I think Hollywood has shown us that. Hollywood has portrayed the gay man as flamboyant. 0.80

00:00:31.160 Hey, shout out to this lesbian for seeing the truth about it. 1.00

00:00:33.040 Gay best friend, shopaholic. So in my mind, I think coffee, I think Starbucks. 1.00

00:00:38.140 I think cheeseburger, I think McDonald's, I think gay man, I think Hollywood best friend girlier than me.

00:00:44.040 Girl, let's go shopping, period. You need a makeover. 1.00

00:00:48.640 Gay men, definitely. They take the cake. 1.00

00:00:52.440 That's crazy that women are saying gay men are more feminine than them. 1.00

00:00:56.080 That ain't too hard. They're trying to be feminine. 1.00

00:00:59.140 And women are already feminine. So they're, it's an act. 1.00

00:01:02.840 And I mean, it's not, it's an act because they have to act like a woman. 1.00

00:01:10.000 Who do you perceive to be more masculine, straight men or butch lesbians? 0.99

00:01:14.560 Straight men. 0.98

00:01:15.480 Why is that?

00:01:17.020 Again, it's kind of perception. It's what Hollywood has told us, what society has told us.

00:01:20.600 But I think straight man and I think caveman type, adjusting his whatnots in public. 0.99

00:01:26.260 A butch lesbian is like the android version of a straight man. 1.00

00:01:31.080 What does it mean to be masculine? 0.99

00:01:32.460 Good point. That's kind of, is that not her?

00:01:34.120 Or feminine?

00:01:35.940 Um, I think that's, that's changing. Perception is changing.

00:01:38.900 I think any gender can be feminine or masculine.

00:01:43.020 I don't think there's terms on it necessarily, parameters.

00:01:46.420 What is the difference between masculine and feminine energy? 1.00

00:01:50.660 Oh, that's a, that's a new question.

00:01:52.160 What?

00:01:52.600 That's a new question.

00:01:53.460 That's a new question.

00:01:54.040 Good guess.

00:01:55.000 Alright, uh, BUMBOKA! 1.00

00:01:57.400 Feminine energy is more like, accepting, I would say, like more engulfing. 0.99

00:02:04.780 And like masculine energy is more like, um, like take charge, I would say.

00:02:11.820 Um, I would say feminine energy reminds me of like, I think of the color pink. 0.94

00:02:18.240 I don't know why.

00:02:19.480 Okay.

00:02:20.520 Uh, like.

00:02:22.760 Okay.

00:02:23.200 You see, masculine, I think for me, would be someone who looks like they have a big build

00:02:31.040 or either they're actually acting like a man and actually taking care of themselves like

00:02:37.100 a man and their family like a man.

00:02:39.620 Now feminine could be both. 0.72

00:02:43.120 And it doesn't mean that, actually it could go both ways because now.

00:02:47.420 Exactly.

00:02:48.380 Masculine is, you have to be a man and act like a man all the time and feminine nature. 0.99

00:02:52.160 That's what she's about to say.

00:02:53.440 Women can pick and choose what femininity means. 1.00

00:02:56.020 And that's her.

00:02:56.620 Cause she's definitely acts out and yells. 1.00

00:02:58.520 She acts like a man like 30% of the time. 0.97

00:03:00.840 And it's fine.

00:03:01.380 We say that that's empowering, but it's really messed up everything.

00:03:04.100 And it's like, no guy wants to deal with a masculine woman. 1.00

00:03:06.860 We're told that we're supposed to put up with a strong woman.

00:03:09.120 And that means put up with a woman who acts like a man. 1.00

00:03:12.620 Gross. 0.98

00:03:12.940 I was just telling someone like, I don't want to be a man. 0.97

00:03:17.900 I don't want to be tough.

00:03:19.000 But I have to.

00:03:19.720 But I have to be.

00:03:21.140 Woo! 0.99

00:03:22.800 Cause I don't have a guy.

00:03:24.440 Why can feminine be both, but masculine can't? 1.00

00:03:27.700 Um, because men will probably, even if they're not gay, sometimes they will, you know, see stuff from a woman's point of view.

00:03:37.640 If they are in tune with themselves.

00:03:40.780 And they, a lot of men who protect women understand femininity.

00:03:46.480 When two lesbians go out. 1.00

00:03:47.620 You have to understand it as a man.

00:03:48.960 You have to understand femininity. 1.00

00:03:50.280 And you need to understand women and feminine nature. 0.58

00:03:52.420 But you can never act feminine. 1.00

00:03:53.960 Because as soon as they see that, they sniff blood and walk all over you and treat you like a bitch. 1.00

00:03:59.960 Cause these women are masculine now. 1.00

00:04:01.540 If you act like a bitch, a bitch is going to treat you like a bitch. 1.00

00:04:03.700 And you don't want to be treated like a bitch by a bitch. 1.00

00:04:04.980 Trust me. 1.00

00:04:05.920 Make you feel like a bitch. 1.00

00:04:06.960 Bitch. 1.00

00:04:07.800 Out on a date. 1.00

00:04:08.640 Who pays? 0.71

00:04:10.320 The one who asks the other one on a date.

00:04:12.700 When two lesbians go out on a date, who pays? 1.00

00:04:16.180 The more masculine one. 0.81

00:04:17.880 The one with the strap on.

00:04:19.100 Um, both of them.

00:04:20.060 Or the one who argues less.

00:04:23.020 Why is it as soon as a man is involved?

00:04:25.000 I pressed the wrong button.

00:04:26.000 Hold on.

00:04:26.880 I was just telling someone, like, I don't want to be a man. 1.00

00:04:29.840 I don't want to be a bitch. 0.99

00:04:31.580 And they, a lot of people believe, even if they're not gay, sometimes they will, you know, 0.99

00:04:38.020 see stuff from a woman's point of view, if they are into...

00:04:41.240 My bad.

00:04:41.480 My bad, Che.

00:04:43.980 Um, both of them.

00:04:44.880 Or the one who argues less.

00:04:47.200 When two lesbians go out on a date, they often hold the door open for each other and split 1.00

00:04:51.980 the bill.

00:04:52.860 Why is it as soon as a man is involved, he suddenly has to do all the work?

00:04:56.420 I think that just goes back to, like, being a man, you know, like, we're considered the

00:05:02.800 providers and as a man, you're expected to take care of a woman. 0.89

00:05:09.420 I think that's just society norms.

00:05:12.040 I mean, he opens the door for me and I let it in.

00:05:15.240 I like it like that.

00:05:16.200 I just think it's just, it's the role you want to take.

00:05:18.860 In some gay relationships, somebody's always dominant. 0.94

00:05:21.300 Whoever wants to be more dominant or wants to feel that.

00:05:24.080 Um, I think, and that still goes back to, like, men and women.

00:05:26.940 Why is there more flexibility with gender roles in a same-sex relationship than there

00:05:30.780 is in a heterosexual relationship?

00:05:34.300 Well, in the sense of that, I think it's more flexibility because, um, in the same-sex

00:05:40.380 relationship, you do have, like, more than likely, like, you know, the other person is

00:05:45.740 really understanding what the other person wants.

00:05:48.400 So, in a situation like that or a relationship like that, you understand what the other person

00:05:52.960 wants or what they're looking for.

00:05:54.400 So, you do understand just a little bit more.

00:05:57.260 Because we said, I'll answer for him because you're going in circles.

00:06:00.460 We've said that gender roles are oppressive. 1.00

00:06:02.340 So, male and female relationships, you kind of have to act and, like, go all the way around

00:06:05.700 it.

00:06:05.840 But gay people get to operate in straight gender roles because they're gay and nobody's going 1.00

00:06:10.760 to call it problematic.

00:06:11.820 So, they get all the benefits of what we naturally want from a regular relationship, masculine and

00:06:17.640 feminine, dominant and submissive.

00:06:19.100 I mean, they get operated in that.

00:06:20.580 They take the male-female roles and just apply it to themselves, but it's, they're the same 0.97

00:06:24.360 sex.

00:06:24.940 But for men and women, it's oppressive. 0.97

00:06:27.580 But they enjoy it.

00:06:28.440 They love that.

00:06:28.980 Every relationship needs somebody in charge.

00:06:30.740 Someone needs to lead.

00:06:33.060 Instead of that, do you have anything to say? 0.97

00:06:36.260 Um, I think it's more flexible because that's just being gay. 1.00

00:06:40.140 You can be whatever the fuck you want to be. 0.99

00:06:41.140 When a woman says she's tired of dating men, why do they often end up dating a woman who 1.00

00:06:46.280 looks and acts like a man?

00:06:48.940 Because they're not actually gay. 0.98

00:06:50.760 Maybe they still want the masculine energy, but they want to try different genitalia. 1.00

00:06:58.860 Why wouldn't a woman just prefer to date a feminine man than a masculine woman? 1.00

00:07:02.760 Because women hate feminine men. 1.00

00:07:05.420 They hate it. 1.00

00:07:06.380 It's disgusting to them. 0.73

00:07:07.520 They can't help it.

00:07:08.260 Because if they still want that masculine energy, a feminine man may not have a lot 1.00

00:07:14.280 of masculine energy, may not have more masculine energy than a masculine woman, if that's what 1.00

00:07:20.560 they're desiring.

00:07:21.720 Because with women, you get more of an emotional, emotional concept. 1.00

00:07:26.200 Women are gorgeous. 1.00

00:07:27.300 I mean, have you seen women?

00:07:28.780 We have all of the parts that men lack.

00:07:31.280 And even though I may dress and act like a man, I may be the one to open the doors and

00:07:36.180 pay for dinner, I'm still a woman deep down.

00:07:38.600 I still have the emotional, I have depth.

00:07:41.180 We could sit all night for-

00:07:42.500 W, man.

00:07:43.460 She's really figured it out.

00:07:44.520 A lot of people end up turning trans because they're like her, but she's just accepted

00:07:48.640 what she is.

00:07:49.440 Eight hours completely naked and talk about our feelings and nobody's sexualizing the

00:07:53.880 other person.

00:07:54.500 We're just being sensual with each other.

00:07:56.180 You lack that with a man.

00:07:57.660 Don't a lot of men have the parts that women lack? 0.99

00:08:00.840 Yes, but I can attach my parts and choose their size.

00:08:03.240 If women are always right, how do lesbians settle arguments? 1.00

00:08:11.960 The more masculine one has to take the L always.

00:08:15.760 Can you say that again?

00:08:16.400 I couldn't hear that.

00:08:16.940 The more masculine one has to take the L always.

00:08:19.540 What does that mean?

00:08:21.200 That they have to, like, just, like, please, like, the more feminine to just, like, get 0.99

00:08:26.740 along, like, like, like, yeah, like, okay, babe, like, you're right, you know?

00:08:30.220 Just to de-escalate the situation, I guess.

00:08:32.940 So, why would anyone want to be the more masculine one when the more feminine one just 0.96

00:08:37.820 gets to show up and be spoiled?

00:08:38.940 I honestly have no control over that, because, like, you know, like...

00:08:45.660 If a woman is bisexual, does she hold her girl... 0.98

00:08:48.540 This dude is a dude. 1.00

00:08:49.520 This bitch is a dude, man. 1.00

00:08:50.920 Even if you got this... 1.00

00:08:51.420 I want to smoke a cigar right now, man.

00:08:52.760 ...friend to the same standards she holds a man to.

00:08:55.240 She should.

00:08:56.400 Why would any woman want to be the more dominant one when the submissive one gets to show up 1.00

00:09:01.040 and be spoiled?

00:09:02.180 Power hungry.

00:09:02.700 Because dominance has its own... own things.

00:09:06.420 People like dominance like to be dominant because they get something from it just like

00:09:09.600 a submissive person does.

00:09:10.860 What do you get?

00:09:11.800 From being dominant?

00:09:12.860 I get spoiled just as much.

00:09:14.280 I get to see the joy on my person's face when I do things like open doors and buy dinner

00:09:18.000 and help out around the house.

00:09:19.320 It surprises them, and I love it.

00:09:22.220 I love serving my person.

00:09:23.840 Dominance really, you think submission is serving, but dominance is serving.

00:09:28.380 If women are always right, how do lesbians settle arguments? 1.00

00:09:33.600 Um, rock, paper, scissors, and I mean that in the most literal way.

00:09:38.920 Do you believe in the concept...

00:09:40.180 She's so honest, man.

00:09:41.580 ...of gaydar?

00:09:43.440 Yes.

00:09:44.360 What are the characteristics of a closeted gay person? 0.88

00:09:48.120 Oh, for the boy's side, if he listens to Cher and Madonna, 100%.

00:09:53.040 I don't care if he wears pink, that's not a tell, but if he listens to Cher, if he's

00:09:57.140 going to watch...

00:09:57.680 Bro, she even gets to be homophobic like I want to be homophobic. 1.00

00:10:00.540 She's just being honest about what gay guys are like, man. 0.98

00:10:03.200 I'm a Mio with you, and he's gay. 1.00

00:10:05.400 What about for women? 0.93

00:10:07.260 If they're checking me out.

00:10:08.840 There really isn't any way to tell someone's gay without them. 1.00

00:10:12.860 Cap, bro, you think I can... 0.71

00:10:14.900 You look like Lil Nas X's boyfriend.

00:10:17.140 I'm being, like, behaviorally different.

00:10:19.000 Like, I can tell that, like, someone is gay by, like, the way that they walk, you know? 1.00

00:10:24.200 Or, like, if they're wearing something like I'm wearing.

00:10:26.680 Like, I'm bisexual, and, like, I want people to know that.

00:10:29.360 So, like, I'm not gonna wear, like, a typical, like, straight male, like, alpha male outfit.

00:10:37.580 You know, like, I'm gonna, like, present to the world that, like, hey, like, I'm bisexual,

00:10:41.180 you know?

00:10:41.900 So, like, yeah.

00:10:43.380 So, like...

00:10:44.420 Alright, I don't know what you're talking about.

00:10:46.060 Um, it's in, like, the behavior, like, the manners of speech, um, clothing wear.

00:10:52.580 Some of the chat said Lil Nas, why?

00:10:55.240 Why are gay people more aware of how their clothes and behavior present to the world 1.00

00:11:04.380 than the straight women who complain that revealing clothing shouldn't get them unwanted attention? 0.96

00:11:11.180 Huh.

00:11:13.120 That's a confusing question.

00:11:15.660 Do you want me to explain it, or do you don't understand it?

00:11:18.560 I guess I understand.

00:11:19.560 What I'm saying is, like, okay, if you're a... 1.00

00:11:21.400 A lot of gay men will dress a certain way because they want to let people know that they're gay or bisexual.

00:11:26.280 They'll wear, like, kind of feminine-looking clothes, right? 0.94

00:11:28.560 Definitely, yeah. 0.99

00:11:28.820 A lot of butch lesbians will, like, smoke cigars and, like, get a certain haircut 1.00

00:11:32.560 that presents them as more masculine so people know that they're more of a... 0.99

00:11:36.320 Okay?

00:11:36.820 Yeah.

00:11:37.020 So, your image matters.

00:11:38.380 Yeah.

00:11:38.720 Okay, your image matters.

00:11:39.980 Definitely.

00:11:40.380 So, once again, why are gay people more aware of how their clothes and behavior present to the world 1.00

00:11:46.840 than the straight women who complain that revealing... 1.00

00:11:50.520 Because we live in delusion. 0.96

00:11:51.940 Because gay people are trying to emulate the gender roles that straight people have, 1.00

00:11:55.360 and straight people are like, it's oppression! 0.95

00:11:57.420 Clothing shouldn't get them unwanted attention. 0.77

00:12:00.020 Well, because if you're gay, and let's say, like, you're a guy, 0.94

00:12:05.540 and you want to be perceived as a woman, then... 1.00

00:12:08.980 And this is Lil Nas Z.

00:12:10.680 Naturally, you have to dress more feminine, you know what I mean? 1.00

00:12:14.400 And then, for women who have always dressed a certain way, 0.52

00:12:18.340 or that's their typical way of dressing, they're, you know...

00:12:21.740 They feel like they shouldn't have to be bothered because that's how they should be dressed,

00:12:25.480 you know what I mean?

00:12:27.200 Doesn't your image define who you are?

00:12:28.860 Yeah.

00:12:30.660 To an extent.

00:12:32.220 Women get the benefits of being... 1.00

00:12:34.640 Women get the benefits of being empowered and being the victim now. 1.00

00:12:37.960 So, not only do they get to go out and be submissive and be the object of attention by the way they dress,

00:12:42.620 but they can also empower themselves.

00:12:44.200 Why would you look at me?

00:12:45.760 I'm not an object.

00:12:47.120 I'm just being comfortable.

00:12:48.520 I'm doing this for me.

00:12:49.980 And then they also get to be, ooh, do you like the way I look?

00:12:52.100 This is for me!

00:12:53.280 At the same exact time.

00:12:55.240 They get the power and the victim power.

00:12:57.680 To an extent.

00:13:00.800 Like, to an extent.

00:13:01.760 So, like, if I'm, like, sagging my pants and I have, like, a flag on my back pocket,

00:13:06.280 like, you're gonna know, like, okay, that dude's a gang maker.

00:13:08.700 But, you know, if I don't wear a belt that day and my pants are sagging,

00:13:11.760 then maybe my pants are just loaded then.

00:13:14.100 You know what I mean?

00:13:14.580 A few years ago, everybody agreed on simple principles, like gender, for example.

00:13:20.360 All of a sudden, these ideas became complicated, controversial, and sometimes downright confrontational.

00:13:26.120 What do you think happened?

00:13:27.000 We got programmed.

00:13:31.960 But she don't know.

00:13:32.880 I think that it was, like, people not being upset that other people don't feel the same way that they do.

00:13:41.800 That might fall into the entitlement category, I think.

00:13:44.340 I don't know.

00:13:44.820 So, I think that might be entitlement of, you know, I want to be special.

00:13:49.580 I mean, gay rights have made huge leaps and bounds.

00:13:52.240 And, you know, if you want to do whatever you want to do with your sexuality in your life, that's fine.

00:14:00.340 And if you want to be treated equal as everyone else, that's cool, too.

00:14:03.080 But I don't, you know, necessarily agree with having to put all these labels on all this craziness.

00:14:10.540 Like, that doesn't make sense, you know?

00:14:12.100 You're either a male or female. 0.82

00:14:13.680 Like, I'm not a doctor, but it's pretty easy to tell.

00:14:16.680 Do you think it's okay to label people?

00:14:20.860 No, not at all.

00:14:22.420 If it's wrong to label people, why do some people get offended if you don't refer to them with the right pronouns?

00:14:27.480 Isn't that labeling people?

00:14:28.520 Yeah.

00:14:28.840 It's not okay to label people by the traditional standards because we like to flip everything upside down.

00:14:34.420 But the same people who complain about the labels will also insist upon the labels.

00:14:38.680 And you just realize how nonsensical that sounded.

00:14:42.400 Well, I guess you label and you refer to people the way they would like to be labeled and referred to.

00:14:49.360 You don't give them labels yourself.

00:14:51.500 You know what I'm saying?

00:14:53.120 I mean, they're labeling themselves.

00:14:55.460 Like, if they get upset that we're not saying the right things, they can just let us know.

00:14:59.400 And, like, then we'll tell them the right things.

00:15:00.940 But, like...

00:15:01.420 Yeah, but the entitlement is even getting upset in the first place.

00:15:04.060 If we don't know what they are, then we're just going to assume what we see, you know?

00:15:08.340 I kind of got to ask you this question because I think it's funny.

00:15:11.100 In the acronym LGBTQ, how did they decide which letter came first?

00:15:15.620 I think that maybe...

00:15:20.360 Yeah, why are the women first there? 1.00

00:15:22.660 Women's entitlement for the lesbian women's act. 0.99

00:15:26.720 I don't know.

00:15:27.220 So, that's a good point.

00:15:28.540 Yo, you think that could start beefing the LGBTQ community?

00:15:31.140 Yo, LGBT people, alphabet people, why are the L's first? 1.00

00:15:35.440 Huh?

00:15:36.520 Do they get oppressed the most?

00:15:37.840 I feel like the G's got oppressed more than the L's. 1.00

00:15:40.120 Even a lot of people argue that the T's get it the worst.

00:15:42.560 Should the T's be at the front? 0.99

00:15:43.740 If it's really all about inclusivity, I think you should flip it to T, G, B, L.

00:15:52.040 T should be at the front.

00:15:53.180 Or the Q.

00:15:55.000 Or the plus.

00:15:56.040 You should actually start with a plus because that's the most inclusive one.

00:15:58.480 But, the fact that you guys put the L's at the front.

00:16:01.040 Personally, me personally, the G's, man, I wouldn't let that slide.

00:16:05.100 That you're letting the L's go. 0.99

00:16:06.120 Personally.

00:16:06.900 I don't know how you let that, bro.

00:16:08.380 That's crazy to me.

00:16:10.380 That sounds cool, so I don't know if Q, L, B, T sounds very cool.

00:16:13.740 So, could it be because ladies first?

00:16:15.820 Very well could be.

00:16:17.520 Ladies are always first, though, you know. 1.00

00:16:19.200 Ladies are always first? 1.00

00:16:20.200 That's never going to change if you're just-

00:16:20.960 Wow, wow.

00:16:22.500 LGBT ladies always first? 1.00

00:16:24.800 But are the T's not ladies? 1.00

00:16:26.120 Oh, shit, Lstream. 1.00

00:16:28.680 Alphabet people, are the T's not ladies, too? 1.00

00:16:31.920 If it's ladies first, then why did the L go first to LGBT? 0.99

00:16:34.260 I thought the T's were also women. 1.00

00:16:37.020 So, it should be T first.

00:16:38.940 How do you let that slide?

00:16:40.660 You okay with that?

00:16:41.740 With biological women getting a priority over you? 1.00

00:16:45.320 So, basically, you're saying that the L's, the biological women, are better than the T's, 1.00

00:16:49.480 the chop-off women. 1.00

00:16:51.020 The snip-snip women. 1.00

00:16:53.900 That's not very inclusive.

00:16:55.460 Just saying.

00:16:57.160 Just saying, LGBTs. 1.00

00:16:59.380 Gentlemen.

00:17:00.240 Could it be because ladies first? 0.98

00:17:02.340 Yes.

00:17:03.220 Could it have been settled in an arm wrestling tournament?

00:17:06.060 Probably rock, paper, scissors. 0.84

00:17:07.900 Why didn't lesbians claim the G for themselves? 1.00

00:17:11.800 Because we didn't think of it. 0.97

00:17:12.940 Aren't all lesbians gay, but not all gays are lesbian? 0.98

00:17:15.580 Whoa! 1.00

00:17:17.660 That shit don't even make sense. 1.00

00:17:19.380 And, Chad, you even know what Q means? 1.00

00:17:21.060 What the fuck is a queer? 1.00

00:17:22.420 I thought that was an insult until last year, now that LGBTQ+. 1.00

00:17:25.960 Damn, bro. 0.99

00:17:27.300 You're not wrong. 1.00

00:17:29.320 A hetero man has this logic.

00:17:31.300 You're not wrong. 0.55

00:17:32.520 Aren't all lesbians gay, but not all gays are lesbian?

00:17:35.040 Yeah, but lesbian is, like, specifically for women, and gay is, like, for men and women, 0.61

00:17:40.480 but, like, lesbian is for the women. 1.00

00:17:42.760 What?

00:17:43.380 Why did they get the wrong word, though?

00:17:46.420 LGBTs! 1.00

00:17:47.060 This shit's not really adding up! 1.00

00:17:48.600 Can I just combine the G and the L into an H for homosexual, or just get rid of the L? 1.00

00:17:52.800 Ooh! 0.96

00:17:54.640 Different strokes for different folks, man. 1.00

00:17:56.440 Yeah, a lot of very different strokes for different folks, but nah, LGBT, that shit 1.00

00:18:00.240 makes no sense when you really think about it. 1.00

00:18:03.340 That shit makes no sense. 0.99

00:18:05.240 I don't know. 1.00

00:18:05.700 Why not just combine the G and the L into an H for homosexual? 0.97

00:18:10.920 You know what?

00:18:12.040 That would be inclusive.

00:18:13.560 I think we should, we can look at that.

00:18:15.080 Maybe it's in the gay constitution. 1.00

00:18:16.880 We can make some amendments. 0.74

00:18:18.240 Or maybe just get rid of the L.

00:18:20.280 Hang on now.

00:18:21.380 Hang on! 0.81

00:18:21.880 Hang on! 0.81

00:18:23.140 Let us not be forgotten on the day after Pride Month. 0.77

00:18:26.500 Why do women seem to bond better with gay men?

00:18:30.400 Because they're both feminine, duh. 1.00

00:18:32.800 Because I think women relate to gay men more, because gay men are typically feminine. 0.99

00:18:37.920 So I feel like they relate to each other.

00:18:40.120 They have common interests. 0.99

00:18:41.500 If gay men love men and aren't controlled by pussy power, why are they more likely to 0.99

00:18:49.280 support women's issues than men's issues? 0.99

00:18:53.160 Because every woman has a gay best friend for the most part or somebody in their life.

00:18:59.500 Why are women so welcoming of the gay community yet so quick to shame a man as gay when they 0.98

00:19:04.180 don't get what they want? 1.00

00:19:06.800 That's the most ironic shit that I hear. 0.99

00:19:08.600 And, Chad, you know what I'm talking about. 0.99

00:19:09.840 Whenever someone on Twitter or, like, any app on TikTok shows support for me, the first 1.00

00:19:13.800 thing I say is, Sneeko Dick Rider, get off Sneeko's dick. 1.00

00:19:17.240 You're sucking dick right now. 1.00

00:19:19.980 I thought you guys were all, like, about inclusivity, and I thought you were being supportive of gay 1.00

00:19:24.420 people. 0.91

00:19:25.040 Is that not homophobic to insult by saying, Dick Rider, Dick Rider, what if they're gay? 0.94

00:19:30.740 Like, why are you using that as an insult? 0.91

00:19:33.720 The same people who will yell about gay and go to Pride Month will immediately call a straight 0.99

00:19:37.820 guy a dick rider as an insult. 1.00

00:19:40.180 Is that not fucked up? 1.00

00:19:41.320 You're not supposed to call things gay anymore. 1.00

00:19:43.080 We had this whole thing, like, don't call things gay that are stupid. 1.00

00:19:46.320 It's just stupid. 1.00

00:19:47.340 It's not gay. 1.00

00:19:47.960 But then you're a dick rider if you like someone's song. 0.99

00:19:50.820 That's a good question. 0.99

00:19:56.000 Wow!

00:19:57.000 That's a good question.

00:19:57.760 That's a great question.

00:19:59.960 I don't know.

00:20:01.160 That's a good question.

00:20:02.100 That's a great question.

00:20:02.820 What do you think?

00:20:03.240 I don't have an answer for that.

00:20:05.180 I never thought of that.

00:20:06.460 Yeah, I don't.

00:20:07.200 Yeah.

00:20:07.520 Okay.

00:20:08.560 Why are women so welcoming of the gay community, yet so quick to shame a man as gay when they 0.98

00:20:14.600 don't get what they want?

00:20:16.260 Who does that?

00:20:17.060 Well, a lot of women will attack a man's masculinity when they don't get what they want. 1.00

00:20:22.980 Oh, okay.

00:20:23.680 I understand what you're saying.

00:20:24.660 Okay, so... 1.00

00:20:25.620 That's why your dick's small. 1.00

00:20:28.780 If they're their friends, they're probably not going to want to hurt their feelings. 0.99

00:20:32.000 But if it's someone that you're dealing with, you want to tell them the truth.

00:20:35.300 And you want to make sure that they understand what you want.

00:20:38.100 A few years ago, everybody agreed on simple principles, like gender, for example.

00:20:42.940 All of a sudden, these issues became complicated, controversial, and sometimes downright confrontational.

00:20:49.500 What do you think happened?

00:20:50.680 The world is becoming more, like I said, it's like more people are being indulgent.

00:21:00.060 And people, the laws are changing, for one.

00:21:03.600 You have a lot of people that are out of the closet, and it's a lot of media.

00:21:08.540 There's a lot of television that shows and promotes it. 0.76

00:21:11.640 I mean, be gay if you want to be gay. 0.99

00:21:13.060 But we don't have to see it on every show, and pretty much, it's everywhere. 0.78

00:21:18.320 It's just being thrown into people's faces, even the kids.

00:21:21.880 I was at a book reading, and they had a drag queen there, and that's just not... 1.00

00:21:26.620 Stop that. 1.00

00:21:28.280 Young parents watching this, that's so fucked up. 1.00

00:21:30.780 Do not let your kids be around drag queens. 1.00

00:21:32.720 You think it's woke, that shit is fucking disgusting. 1.00

00:21:35.200 You want to bring your kid to a strip club, you should not bring your kid to a drag show. 1.00

00:21:37.960 Stop thinking that shit is woke. 1.00

00:21:39.340 You're a bad parent if you do that. 1.00

00:21:40.620 That's cool.

00:21:41.120 So you feel like it's an agenda that's being pushed?

00:21:44.560 Absolutely.

00:21:45.820 If a person can identify as whatever...

00:21:48.100 She's right.

00:21:48.660 It's an agenda being pushed.

00:21:49.680 They're trying to brainwash us.

00:21:50.700 They're trying to make us make no sense.

00:21:51.920 ...they want.

00:21:52.580 Why does your identity even matter in the first place?

00:21:55.340 It doesn't.

00:21:56.500 So then why do so many people talk about how important their identity is?

00:22:01.140 I don't know, and they shouldn't.

00:22:04.080 They just shouldn't.

00:22:05.200 I just feel like we are just all one alive being, and it's like...

00:22:09.040 You ever heard of identity politics?

00:22:10.860 No.

00:22:11.800 Identity politics means I deserve special treatment because I'm a woman, or because I'm gay, or because I'm black, or this or that.

00:22:17.280 Yeah.

00:22:17.620 Why does that matter?

00:22:18.900 It shouldn't matter.

00:22:19.860 But it certainly does.

00:22:20.920 It certainly does.

00:22:21.600 That's exactly what our politics are today.

00:22:24.080 Because people want to be what they are at the time that is convenient. 0.93

00:22:27.400 Like, I may be black and gay, but if I need to be black at the moment, I will be black. 0.93

00:22:33.440 But if I need to be gay at the moment, I need to be gay. 0.99

00:22:35.320 Or if I'm white and I want to be white at the moment, I'll be white. 0.95

00:22:37.960 If I want to be gay at the moment, I'll be gay. 0.93

00:22:40.420 So you can't... 0.54

00:22:41.280 That's why they feel like that.

00:22:42.540 Because they want to be able to choose whichever one is going to get them what they want.

00:22:46.220 Right.

00:22:46.640 But isn't that just manipulative and disingenuous?

00:22:50.780 Absolutely.

00:22:51.220 So how do you trust and respect those people?

00:22:55.680 Um, you have to... 1.00

00:22:56.840 See through their bullshit. 1.00

00:22:58.580 Actually know who you're talking to. 1.00

00:23:00.500 If they're doing it like that, then you don't trust them because they're wishy-washy.

00:23:03.960 And they can sway.

00:23:06.680 Great video.

00:23:07.500 Subscribe to What's Complicated.

00:23:08.740 Best interview channel on YouTube.

00:23:10.360 And congrats, man.

00:23:11.000 He hit 200K.

00:23:17.560 That's it.

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SNEAKO - August 16, 2022

Why 2s Think They’re 10s

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