SNEAKO - July 31, 2022


Why Broke Girls Pretend They’re Rich

Topics
bitchiness and masculinity
Hosted by
Nicolas Kenn De Balinthazy
Mentioned
Aggressive
Kevin Samuels VS SNEAKO Why Short Women Insist on Tall Men

Episode Stats


Length

14 minutes

Words per minute

184.54

Word count

2,602

Sentence count

105

Harmful content

Misogyny

52

sentences flagged

Toxicity

98

sentences flagged

Hate speech

39

sentences flagged


Summary

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On this episode of Thick & Thin, we have our first guest on the podcast, my good friend . We talk about a variety of different topics and topics related to fatphobia, dating in your 20 s, and what it means to be a bitch.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 It's complicated catty women and role models my first question will be have you ever loved somebody more than you love yourself
00:00:07.400 Yes, I have actually and it turned out very bad for me. I really shout out the flag of socks, bro
00:00:13.340 We got a cloud eyes after my relationship that you have to live yourself first
00:00:17.440 self-love
00:00:22.120 Well, oh
00:00:24.120 That just ruined that take. Okay. Okay. Do you have more girlfriends or guy friends? And do you think that says something about you?
00:00:31.560 I think mine are pretty equal. I
00:00:34.560 would say I probably have more guy friends and
00:00:37.780 Red flag
00:00:39.340 You know what that means chat, you know that meme of like the girl with a bunch of hot dogs shoving in her mouth 0.99
00:00:44.320 And I don't really think there's like a reason for it. We're actually our only friends
00:00:48.960 This is my only girlfriend, but I can say I have more guy friends than girlfriends
00:00:53.900 Uh-oh hot dogs flying in your mouth
00:00:55.820 Look at that. I'm telling you every single one is stupid because girlfriends are fake and they tend to hate a lot 1.00
00:01:04.180 Yeah, they do girls are haters, bro. They don't want to see each other winning 1.00
00:01:07.180 Why is it hard for some women to get along with other women? 1.00
00:01:11.020 Oh, because they're more competitive than us because women can be very catty 1.00
00:01:15.180 Because we always look at other women's competition. We have to stop that but we do you know what the the slickest thing about the fat phobic 1.00
00:01:23.880 movement is they all encourage these fat people like you're fat queen go be fat 0.99
00:01:28.640 You know why they do it so that they're not competition anymore. She's the queen. Yeah, I keep eating the twinkies. Okay. I'm gonna go to pilates 0.92
00:01:35.860 They cheer it on because they're not a threat anymore. It's like neutralizing the threats
00:01:40.620 Do you think that guys look at each other as competition in the same way or of course they do?
00:01:46.760 Because some of us we don't I don't look at guys 0.99
00:01:49.920 That's only bitch ass dudes 1.00
00:01:52.140 If guys look at other guys as competition 1.00
00:01:54.680 Then you're you're a bitch, bro 1.00
00:01:56.880 Especially in the dating marketplace. You should never let a bitch get between you. That's some bitch shit 1.00
00:02:00.980 Sir alphas and that's when it starts to be a problem when two alphas get together 1.00
00:02:06.220 I think it's a stereotype that that is I think all women can get along we need to start uplifting it 0.99
00:02:12.300 You can't get along
00:02:13.500 Why do some women give out and even offer up their phone? 1.00
00:02:19.560 And do you know why they're so competitive because even though they say like women are empowered and we're not objects deep down 1.00
00:02:24.940 They know that that's what they are. So they're competitive based off like they'll talk to a girl like oh my god
00:02:28.960 Where's her hair? Did she get a lip filler? That stupid bitch got some breast implants. I fucking hate that bitch 1.00
00:02:33.680 Oh my god 1.00
00:02:34.760 I miss you so much
00:02:38.440 Look at her hair. It looks disgusting. Why does she even think that looks good? 0.99
00:02:42.440 Because they are because they'll just objectify each other like we do phone number, but then never take the call
00:02:49.680 Because I like the attention. Yep
00:02:51.840 That's it. I'm sorry, but I do the same stuff. I'd be doing that too. Oh, hey, how you doing? Oh
00:02:58.020 And sometimes it's to get you to stop talking to me
00:03:00.580 Most single women
00:03:02.720 Choose to seek attention of either single or taken men and they see that as some
00:03:12.180 The audio is not my fault. It's as complicated man. It's you got some complicated audio
00:03:15.820 Exciting or even unfortunately
00:03:18.220 As a hunt 1.00
00:03:20.660 Why are there some women who are proud of being bitches? 1.00
00:03:25.000 Well 1.00
00:03:25.400 Because look at him laughing. He phrases the question so well instead of just calling them bitches 1.00
00:03:29.720 They're just like yeah, I'm a bitch if you're not a bitch, then everyone's gonna think they can walk all over you 1.00
00:03:35.060 So like if yeah, no one can walk off that's feminism now 1.00
00:03:38.700 You need to be a bitch to be empowered 1.00
00:03:41.320 You they don't know how to be submissive anymore. There's bitches 1.00
00:03:44.240 over me because they think I'm a bitch then that's better because you get tired of being walked on and 1.00
00:03:51.360 I mean, why do some men when men like to have their masculinity? We like to have our bitchy this 1.00
00:03:56.160 I don't know men like to have our masculinity and we like to have our bitchiness see what i'm saying feminism has just deleted 1.00
00:04:04.000 Feminine nature feminism has got rid of feminine 1.00
00:04:07.520 How funny is that we need to be masculine? They're bitches 1.00
00:04:10.640 And they like it. Look at him laughing about it. Haha, i'm a bitch. Yeah, you're also fat as fuck 1.00
00:04:16.160 Do you think bitchiness and femininity are synonymous? 1.00
00:04:20.240 No
00:04:20.560 So i'm saying why would you compare masculinity?
00:04:25.680 You know you got some tough questions
00:04:27.360 Yeah, it's not that tough. You just make no sense and you ruin people's lives for the exact reason
00:04:32.960 I was saying that there was cat calling me over there because i'm like no and then they kept going 1.00
00:04:37.240 Okay, well then i'm gonna have to be a bitch 1.00
00:04:39.020 You know i'm saying like a bitch 1.00
00:04:42.540 Period it just depends some guys aren't respectful some guys 0.99
00:04:47.340 Do not respect your boundaries and they keep pursuing you even after you're like no, thank you 1.00
00:04:52.060 The prettiest girls are sometimes the biggest bitches. So well, what? 1.00
00:04:59.020 Where's the line between not getting walked on and just being rude?
00:05:03.660 I
00:05:06.140 I felt like it's just
00:05:09.580 Knowing your worth there's some things that you're willing to do you know and when you're in love with someone or you know
00:05:15.500 You just love them in general. There's something that you're willing to do and something that you're not willing to do
00:05:20.060 Like you don't want to objectify yourself are
00:05:24.700 You know, like basically, I heard this quote one day and it stuck with me 0.99
00:05:28.300 Like I'll do anything for you except look like a fool for you, you know 1.00
00:05:32.700 Do you 1.00
00:05:33.980 That's the dumbest quote i've ever heard bro 1.00
00:05:35.980 You think i'm gonna look stupid? 1.00
00:05:38.300 Nah, I'll do it, but you made me look stupid. So now i'm a bitch too bad. You think i'm dumb 1.00
00:05:43.740 You think i'm gonna look dumb toward these bitches 1.00
00:05:47.900 Me, I don't play that. I don't play that fool shit. Who do you think you know? 1.00
00:05:53.100 You think you could play with me? No, i'm not a fool 0.94
00:05:56.460 It's just that quote 1.00
00:05:58.300 Validated her to just be a bitch 1.00
00:06:00.300 Trust your man around other women. I do. I don't think she does. I don't have a man 1.00
00:06:06.620 But if I did probably not do you trust other women around your man never even more so than him around other women 0.92
00:06:13.340 I'm just a trusting person
00:06:15.340 If women don't even trust other women, why do they expect a man to trust women? 0.99
00:06:21.500 That kind of got me there. Yeah, that was deep
00:06:25.100 Why is it that if a man approaches a woman every time they don't admit that they're wrong like oh, that was tough 0.94
00:06:29.980 I look dumb at a bar or a club. There's a good chance 0.83
00:06:33.980 This is like how good the socratic method is instead of being like
00:06:37.740 Aggressive like me. So I get all the heat. I get all the hate and it's complicated
00:06:41.740 He just gets to make these videos talking about the same exact thing and bob and leave all the allegations 1.00
00:06:46.620 But i'll take all of it because I like call him stupid 0.99
00:06:49.900 And her friend and is gonna rescue her 0.99
00:06:53.500 Because I think there's a lot of there's a good chance her friend is gonna rescue her
00:06:58.540 Because I think there's a lot of like preconceived notions about a guy approaching a girl at a bar like one they're drunk
00:07:05.180 One they're just trying to get one thing. I think we all know what that is
00:07:08.620 So what what are you doing at the club then but if you approach a girl in the correct way? 0.61
00:07:14.940 There's a difference. I think
00:07:17.340 What is the correct way correct? I don't know ready wait
00:07:21.500 Just don't try to think you're a hot shit like 1.00
00:07:25.100 Like hey, where are you from? You know, how's it going? Not like hey 1.00
00:07:29.820 How's it going?
00:07:30.620 Do you think it's true that women often find do you think it's true that women often find attractive men cute and romantic when an ugly one 0.98
00:07:37.580 Doing the exact same thing is it's creepy
00:07:40.620 Yes
00:07:42.220 Yes
00:07:42.860 So then
00:07:43.980 So don't see how that makes no sense
00:07:47.580 There's no difference. She went like hey, how you doing? Hey, how you doing?
00:07:51.500 The only difference of that was she's picturing an attractive guy versus a non attractive guy
00:07:55.260 So don't listen to them. So then wouldn't the right way mean don't be ugly?
00:07:59.500 Yep
00:08:01.340 That's it 0.99
00:08:02.860 Damn, you got me right there 0.99
00:08:05.340 Do you think you make no sense? 1.00
00:08:07.260 Stop talking that everyone deserves love
00:08:10.060 Yes, even if somebody is toxic
00:08:12.860 No, not everybody deserves love and that's some nonsense that we tell people now self-love
00:08:17.260 No, you don't earn it. You got to earn love
00:08:20.300 You don't just get it because you're alive because you make no sense. Most of you are dumb. You're delusional 1.00
00:08:24.380 You don't just get love. No
00:08:26.220 So then they don't all deserve love
00:08:28.220 You're right 0.99
00:08:29.420 Do you think that everyone just look how quickly it is to just fucking debunk your nonsense? No 0.99
00:08:34.300 So then they don't all deserve love
00:08:36.300 You're right
00:08:41.660 Great question
00:08:42.300 Do you think that everyone deserves love?
00:08:45.340 No
00:08:46.380 Because some people don't love
00:08:48.220 Why do you deserve love and you don't love nothing but yourself?
00:08:50.940 Facts 1.00
00:08:51.500 Narcissist ass 0.99
00:08:52.540 Today 1.00
00:08:54.380 You know what he's picturing saying this all these western bitches 1.00
00:08:59.420 I know that face 1.00
00:09:01.020 I've been there
00:09:04.860 Why you think you could just play with me? Who do you think you stupid? You're not even a real man 1.00
00:09:09.660 But now what are you gonna do?
00:09:12.220 Try me try me like oh my god, man 0.98
00:09:15.100 And they still think they could do all that shit and just get the same terms of the relationship 0.98
00:09:20.940 But if we do that that same 0.98
00:09:22.700 What are you gonna do? You're not gonna hit me
00:09:24.540 You're not gonna hit me
00:09:25.580 I'm going to jail for doing that
00:09:26.940 But yourself 1.00
00:09:27.660 Narcissist ass 1.00
00:09:28.940 Today there are many women who are out earning men 1.00
00:09:33.420 Female doctors, lawyers, etc 1.00
00:09:35.820 Why do women consider a male breadwinner to be normal for a man 1.00
00:09:39.500 While a female breadwinner is considered to be dating down for a woman 0.99
00:09:43.820 Because most females want a man or whatever they want to call them to take care of them 1.00
00:09:51.180 So if you ain't making no money, you broke
00:09:53.660 You ain't, you know what I'm saying, walking around with a bust down
00:09:55.740 You ain't got no Louis belt or something like that
00:09:57.340 They're not worried about you really
00:09:58.540 You don't look nice, you're not dressing nice, they don't want to see what you got going on
00:10:03.100 Do you believe it is generally true that men objectify women sexually while women objectify men financially?
00:10:08.860 Yes
00:10:09.100 First of all, they both do both
00:10:11.500 Okay
00:10:11.820 So that's, that's just yes
00:10:14.060 Why are you being sassy? This is what I'm saying
00:10:16.540 All they give is attitude
00:10:17.820 Well, first of all
00:10:19.340 He was asking a respectful question and you replied with attitude 1.00
00:10:22.700 This is the shit that pisses me off, bro 1.00
00:10:24.300 Men objectify men financially 1.00
00:10:26.380 First of all
00:10:27.180 First of all, nobody was arguing with you
00:10:29.340 He was asking you a polite question
00:10:31.340 And you gave attitude
00:10:32.700 Because that's all they know how to do now
00:10:34.380 They both do both
00:10:35.740 Okay
00:10:36.220 We objectify men financially and sexually 0.50
00:10:39.260 And men do the same thing to women 0.81
00:10:41.420 Period
00:10:41.980 We don't objectify you financially, period 0.98
00:10:44.780 No one gives a fuck 0.96
00:10:45.820 Period 0.97
00:10:46.540 You know what I'm saying, there's no
00:10:48.220 Oh, we just do men financially
00:10:50.220 No, because
00:10:51.180 I be looking at people like
00:10:52.460 He ain't got nothing down there
00:10:54.140 You know what I'm saying, and I'm like
00:10:55.180 I don't like men
00:10:57.340 Yeah, that's not for me
00:10:58.860 Women do it just as much as men 1.00
00:11:00.620 And men do the same thing to women 0.81
00:11:02.140 Like, oh, she doesn't have her own car
00:11:03.660 She doesn't have her own place 1.00
00:11:04.380 I'm gonna have to take care of her 1.00
00:11:05.340 It's the same thing
00:11:06.780 I'm gonna be honest
00:11:08.220 Me, where I come from
00:11:09.580 I feel like if you want something 1.00
00:11:10.860 You're gonna go and go grab that shit 1.00
00:11:12.220 You're gonna go and go get it 0.99
00:11:13.260 You're gonna go and go try
00:11:14.140 No matter what
00:11:14.620 If you really want it
00:11:16.140 You're gonna go and go get it
00:11:17.340 So do you think that all is fair in love and war?
00:11:21.500 Yes
00:11:22.460 Do you think all is fair in love and war?
00:11:26.540 No
00:11:28.380 Men are always wrong 1.00
00:11:31.740 Bruh
00:11:32.940 Wrong
00:11:35.660 Listen up
00:11:36.780 Feminism in a nutshell 1.00
00:11:38.140 Ready? 1.00
00:11:38.540 I'm gonna look right into her eyes while she says this bullshit 1.00
00:11:41.260 No 1.00
00:11:43.100 Men are always wrong 1.00
00:11:44.620 Yeah
00:11:48.060 Who taught you that?
00:11:50.460 Who raised you?
00:11:52.140 Who raised you?
00:11:57.100 Who brought you into this world?
00:11:59.180 Who paid for the house? 0.81
00:12:01.260 Who drove you to soccer practice?
00:12:03.500 Men are always wrong 1.00
00:12:04.620 And they get to laugh about it 1.00
00:12:06.140 We encourage these thoughts to say this bullshit 1.00
00:12:09.900 Haha, you're empowered if you hate men 1.00
00:12:12.780 Yep
00:12:13.740 And women
00:12:14.460 Honestly, I'm bisexual 1.00
00:12:15.740 So both of them suck 0.99
00:12:17.340 Do you think that gender roles matter in a same-sex relationship? 1.00
00:12:25.980 That kind of proves it right here actually when you think about it
00:12:28.540 And women
00:12:29.260 Honestly, I'm bisexual 1.00
00:12:30.540 So both of them suck 1.00
00:12:32.540 This is kind of proves it 1.00
00:12:34.220 She's a submissive for men and women 1.00
00:12:36.780 So the reason that women get to be bitches 1.00
00:12:39.900 And make no sense 1.00
00:12:40.860 And just be haters
00:12:42.140 Is because we'll put up with it anyway
00:12:44.460 And she just applied that same logic to men and women 1.00
00:12:47.020 Because she's bisexual 0.95
00:12:47.740 That kind of proves it
00:12:49.260 Because she's attracted to men and women
00:12:51.660 She gets to go around with this nonsense 0.99
00:12:53.260 Saying I hate both of you 0.99
00:12:55.020 Because she knows she'll still get laid 1.00
00:12:57.260 Saying that nonsense
00:12:58.220 Guys can't say that
00:12:59.740 Because
00:13:01.340 We get canceled
00:13:02.220 We're terrible people by saying the same exact thing
00:13:04.860 But it's not actual feminism 0.86
00:13:06.940 It's not empowering
00:13:08.700 You're just saying nonsense
00:13:10.220 Because people will still put up with you
00:13:11.900 Because you have value
00:13:13.180 Just by the way you're born
00:13:14.860 Because the power balance is stronger than ever
00:13:17.180 Oh, okay
00:13:18.580 Do you think that gender roles matter in a same-sex relationship?
00:13:23.420 Um, I don't think so
00:13:24.940 They do
00:13:26.220 There's always
00:13:27.260 In a gay relationship 1.00
00:13:28.140 There's always a top and a bottom
00:13:29.620 There's always a male and female 0.99
00:13:31.020 If they're both
00:13:31.740 It makes no sense
00:13:33.020 There's always a leader and a follower in a relationship
00:13:35.100 If they don't matter in a same-sex relationship 0.84
00:13:36.860 Why do they matter in a heterosexual relationship?
00:13:39.500 I also don't think they matter in heterosexual relationships
00:13:42.540 Okay
00:13:43.820 Why do you think then
00:13:45.180 There's so much pressure
00:13:46.220 On people to fulfill gender roles in heterosexual relationships?
00:13:50.140 Right
00:13:50.620 I think that society has painted a pretty clear picture
00:13:54.060 Of what like a man is supposed to be
00:13:56.140 And what a wife is supposed to be 1.00
00:13:57.900 And I don't think it has to be that way
00:14:00.860 Society
00:14:01.980 All right, bro 1.00
00:14:02.460 I'm tired of this shit 1.00
00:14:03.100 It's the same conversation every time 1.00
00:14:04.460 You get it
00:14:04.940 Feminism has gone too far 1.00