SNEAKO - July 31, 2022Why Broke Girls Pretend They’re Rich
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Summary
On this episode of Thick & Thin, we have our first guest on the podcast, my good friend . We talk about a variety of different topics and topics related to fatphobia, dating in your 20 s, and what it means to be a bitch.
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It's complicated catty women and role models my first question will be have you ever loved somebody more than you love yourself
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Yes, I have actually and it turned out very bad for me. I really shout out the flag of socks, bro
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We got a cloud eyes after my relationship that you have to live yourself first
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That just ruined that take. Okay. Okay. Do you have more girlfriends or guy friends? And do you think that says something about you?
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You know what that means chat, you know that meme of like the girl with a bunch of hot dogs shoving in her mouth
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And I don't really think there's like a reason for it. We're actually our only friends
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This is my only girlfriend, but I can say I have more guy friends than girlfriends
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Look at that. I'm telling you every single one is stupid because girlfriends are fake and they tend to hate a lot
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Yeah, they do girls are haters, bro. They don't want to see each other winning
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Why is it hard for some women to get along with other women?
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Oh, because they're more competitive than us because women can be very catty
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Because we always look at other women's competition. We have to stop that but we do you know what the the slickest thing about the fat phobic
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movement is they all encourage these fat people like you're fat queen go be fat
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You know why they do it so that they're not competition anymore. She's the queen. Yeah, I keep eating the twinkies. Okay. I'm gonna go to pilates
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They cheer it on because they're not a threat anymore. It's like neutralizing the threats
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Do you think that guys look at each other as competition in the same way or of course they do?
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Because some of us we don't I don't look at guys
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Especially in the dating marketplace. You should never let a bitch get between you. That's some bitch shit
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Sir alphas and that's when it starts to be a problem when two alphas get together
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I think it's a stereotype that that is I think all women can get along we need to start uplifting it
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Why do some women give out and even offer up their phone?
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And do you know why they're so competitive because even though they say like women are empowered and we're not objects deep down
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They know that that's what they are. So they're competitive based off like they'll talk to a girl like oh my god
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Where's her hair? Did she get a lip filler? That stupid bitch got some breast implants. I fucking hate that bitch
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Look at her hair. It looks disgusting. Why does she even think that looks good?
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Because they are because they'll just objectify each other like we do phone number, but then never take the call
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That's it. I'm sorry, but I do the same stuff. I'd be doing that too. Oh, hey, how you doing? Oh
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And sometimes it's to get you to stop talking to me
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Choose to seek attention of either single or taken men and they see that as some
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The audio is not my fault. It's as complicated man. It's you got some complicated audio
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Why are there some women who are proud of being bitches?
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Because look at him laughing. He phrases the question so well instead of just calling them bitches
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They're just like yeah, I'm a bitch if you're not a bitch, then everyone's gonna think they can walk all over you
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So like if yeah, no one can walk off that's feminism now
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You they don't know how to be submissive anymore. There's bitches
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over me because they think I'm a bitch then that's better because you get tired of being walked on and
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I mean, why do some men when men like to have their masculinity? We like to have our bitchy this
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I don't know men like to have our masculinity and we like to have our bitchiness see what i'm saying feminism has just deleted
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Feminine nature feminism has got rid of feminine
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How funny is that we need to be masculine? They're bitches
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And they like it. Look at him laughing about it. Haha, i'm a bitch. Yeah, you're also fat as fuck
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Do you think bitchiness and femininity are synonymous?
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So i'm saying why would you compare masculinity?
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Yeah, it's not that tough. You just make no sense and you ruin people's lives for the exact reason
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I was saying that there was cat calling me over there because i'm like no and then they kept going
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Period it just depends some guys aren't respectful some guys
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Do not respect your boundaries and they keep pursuing you even after you're like no, thank you
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The prettiest girls are sometimes the biggest bitches. So well, what?
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Where's the line between not getting walked on and just being rude?
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Knowing your worth there's some things that you're willing to do you know and when you're in love with someone or you know
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You just love them in general. There's something that you're willing to do and something that you're not willing to do
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You know, like basically, I heard this quote one day and it stuck with me
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Like I'll do anything for you except look like a fool for you, you know
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Nah, I'll do it, but you made me look stupid. So now i'm a bitch too bad. You think i'm dumb
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You think i'm gonna look dumb toward these bitches
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Me, I don't play that. I don't play that fool shit. Who do you think you know?
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You think you could play with me? No, i'm not a fool
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Trust your man around other women. I do. I don't think she does. I don't have a man
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But if I did probably not do you trust other women around your man never even more so than him around other women
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If women don't even trust other women, why do they expect a man to trust women?
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Why is it that if a man approaches a woman every time they don't admit that they're wrong like oh, that was tough
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I look dumb at a bar or a club. There's a good chance
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This is like how good the socratic method is instead of being like
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Aggressive like me. So I get all the heat. I get all the hate and it's complicated
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He just gets to make these videos talking about the same exact thing and bob and leave all the allegations
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But i'll take all of it because I like call him stupid
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Because I think there's a lot of there's a good chance her friend is gonna rescue her
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Because I think there's a lot of like preconceived notions about a guy approaching a girl at a bar like one they're drunk
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One they're just trying to get one thing. I think we all know what that is
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So what what are you doing at the club then but if you approach a girl in the correct way?
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What is the correct way correct? I don't know ready wait
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Like hey, where are you from? You know, how's it going? Not like hey
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Do you think it's true that women often find do you think it's true that women often find attractive men cute and romantic when an ugly one
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There's no difference. She went like hey, how you doing? Hey, how you doing?
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The only difference of that was she's picturing an attractive guy versus a non attractive guy
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So don't listen to them. So then wouldn't the right way mean don't be ugly?
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No, not everybody deserves love and that's some nonsense that we tell people now self-love
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You don't just get it because you're alive because you make no sense. Most of you are dumb. You're delusional
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Do you think that everyone just look how quickly it is to just fucking debunk your nonsense? No
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Why do you deserve love and you don't love nothing but yourself?
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You know what he's picturing saying this all these western bitches
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Why you think you could just play with me? Who do you think you stupid? You're not even a real man
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And they still think they could do all that shit and just get the same terms of the relationship
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Today there are many women who are out earning men
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Why do women consider a male breadwinner to be normal for a man
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While a female breadwinner is considered to be dating down for a woman
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Because most females want a man or whatever they want to call them to take care of them
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You ain't, you know what I'm saying, walking around with a bust down
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You ain't got no Louis belt or something like that
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You don't look nice, you're not dressing nice, they don't want to see what you got going on
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Do you believe it is generally true that men objectify women sexually while women objectify men financially?
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Why are you being sassy? This is what I'm saying
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He was asking a respectful question and you replied with attitude
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So do you think that all is fair in love and war?
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I'm gonna look right into her eyes while she says this bullshit
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We encourage these thoughts to say this bullshit
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Do you think that gender roles matter in a same-sex relationship?
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That kind of proves it right here actually when you think about it
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And she just applied that same logic to men and women
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We're terrible people by saying the same exact thing
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Because the power balance is stronger than ever
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Do you think that gender roles matter in a same-sex relationship?
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There's always a leader and a follower in a relationship
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If they don't matter in a same-sex relationship
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Why do they matter in a heterosexual relationship?
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I also don't think they matter in heterosexual relationships
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On people to fulfill gender roles in heterosexual relationships?
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I think that society has painted a pretty clear picture