SNEAKO - July 27, 2023
Why Girls Are Incels Too
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Summary
In this episode, I talk about a phenomenon that's been going viral on TikTok and TikTok, and why I think it's a thing that's going to happen to women in the modern dating landscape, and how it's getting worse and worse.
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they're really good at lying i've not had my first kiss like like it's so horrifying it's so
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horrifying whoa and chat a lot of you fucking autist people who are the parasocial people
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who are like speculating about like sneakos grifting you see something like this and we
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see how often women lie i was like 22 21 i was like we're talking about red pill issues all the
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time you see these women say i'm an abuser and you believe women genuine you're watching red pill
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content and you don't know that women lie i want to watch brett cooper aka bot cooper because even
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though we know daily wire blah blah blah they're controlled opposition and they can't talk about
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certain issues and they're always going to be boxed into certain things i think that she's talking about
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something a phenomenon i haven't seen this video though but she's saying that there's a there's a
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very large contingent of girls in the west that are they're virgins they haven't even had a kiss yet
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and i think a lot of us have this doomer mentality if you guys are an incel type of one if you guys
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are black pill also type one incels a black pill type one i think that all these girls are ran through
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all these girls are are useless you can't spend time with a lot of them are saying and brett's out
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here like please pick me pick me a lot there's there's a lot of girls that they're kissless virgins
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25 years old i want to see this phenomenon because i did not know about it in this
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well okay incels there we go welcome back to the comment section i'm brett cooper and i can't talk
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about who really controls america in the last couple of months i have talked a few times about
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men and i'm owned by ben shapiro and not dating in the modern relationship landscape and so many of
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them are choosing to stay single but i have not touched on women recently and in all of these
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reports and these articles talking about men choosing to stay single they say that yes the
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majority of men are not dating but women are still dating and most of them are actually in
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relationships which i thought was interesting and i kind of brushed off and moved on because i was more
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interested in why men were not dating but then i saw this video going viral on tiktok and twitter and
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it made the whole thing a lot more confusing so we're going to try to break it down before we do
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though make sure that you like this video here we go actually starting to get so scared like it's not
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even funny anymore how am i 23 and i still have not had my first kiss like like it's so horrifying
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when i was like 22 21 i was like haha it's kind of cute kind of quirky like not really but kind of
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like i could play it off now it's getting scary like i don't see it changing anytime soon and like i just
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keep getting older this is why she's going to tiktok she's saying please please she's begging she's
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putting out that energy into the world she's begging a guy to ask her out on a date but i think
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part of the reason that there's so many of these girls i want to see if there's actually more this
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is not just like traditional people looking for traditional people looking for attention
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a lot of guys are afraid of talking to girls because because of the me too movement you see
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how the western culture has made guys think that all girls are whores but also they're going to be
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called a misogynistic human trafficking rapist if they even talk to a girl
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and you see like i'm right now which is all early in the stream people girls are calling me an abuser
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without any sort of evidence at all it happens to any guy any straight man is going to feel it any
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straight guy is going to see this you guys all know this is going to happen to me too like me too
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there's going to be girls who are trying to to call me uh as all this garbage that happens to any guy
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who has any sort of notoriety now it's going to be so weird because i'm going to be so old and i'm
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going to have to tell somebody like yeah i've never done this before like i'm so that's not
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weird that's beautiful oh humiliated i didn't even have a first kiss in like middle school when
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everybody has one and it's like the awkward weird relationship where you're dating them for like a
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day i never even did that i don't know i'm really starting to feel like something's wrong with me like
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i don't know why i am the way i am but it's not good it's so funny when she talks about the middle
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school relationship where you only date somebody for a day i always felt weird in college because i never had
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any of those either people would talk about their high school relationships and their middle school
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relationships and i just lacked all of that i was like i don't really know that's really really weird
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i didn't have any of those everybody's saying she's lying she's lying she's lying some of the
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chats that she was joking experiences you're holding my hand chuck you sly dog so i understand what
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she's saying this video obviously went viral and women are resonating with it so many of them are
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also in the exact same boat as this girl like somebody said i had no romantic experience no typical
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teenager and college student experiences it feels so empty i believe that one i believe that because
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the name of this account is weirdo from space she's probably ugly and also look at the profile picture
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the black pill ideology i don't know if you guys agree with this but is that any girl who's attractive
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is already going to be ran through by the time she's 16 that any girl like if she's good looking
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she's just going to be sucked into the matrix she's going to be getting attention from too many guys
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she's going to be corrupted before she's even fucking 18 another person said every year i'm
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like this is jedem says bro chat is mad cope i maybe that girl is lying but there there must be
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a lot of these girls i i have met these girls that they're really kisses virgins um and it's because
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guys are afraid to ask girls a year and then it's not again another person said girl i'm 27 and even my
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hands were never held another person said i just turned 24 and i'm feeling the exact same way not even a
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crumb of romance somebody said 23 haven't had my first kiss or anything else don't worry girl it'll
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happen we've got this it's just interesting to see so many women be totally honest and upfront
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about this because in our modern age where everything is hyper sexualized everybody is you
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know starting to have sex at a much younger age and everybody is just much more mature than they were
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you know mature 20 30 years ago it's just interesting how much of a stigma there is around
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not having a first kiss or not having a boyfriend and that's such a stupid thing i hate using the term
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social construct but i feel like that is a correct place to use social construct it does not
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matter if you're 23 and you've not kissed a guy it's okay you don't need to be humiliated by it
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that's you know i understand there is social pressure but it is not the end of the world at
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all you do not need to feel upset about it just read these comments there are other girls that are
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in the same boat as you now on twitter people were desperate and that's also true that i saw that on the
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on the button or whatever that show where they're supposed to go on a date and then beep the button
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that there's a lot of guys like these man whores who i don't like that word but there's a lot of
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guys that that don't even want to and even admittedly we listened to that song from low
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wayne earlier that don't like shy girls girls who have no experience because it's too much work to try
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to get them to come out of their shell and be sexual that is true and we are to blame men are to
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blame for that by getting turned off by a girl that has no experience because you don't know how to
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turn her out take the responsibility as a man to try to get a girl to be more comfortable with
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their sexuality don't ignore a girl because she has no sexual experience that's a lot of the there's
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a big reason why a lot of these girls are like 24 25 and are afraid to come out of the shell because
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they they feel the same sense of shame that guys feel by being virgins because they're like they're
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going to be afraid of my lack of sexual experience we need to shift that men and men can take more
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responsibility than women for that we need to shift our perspective and be like and not
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think that it's it's weird or that girls should be shamed for the fact that they have no experience
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that's a beautiful thing spiritually trying to rationalize it like this girl said she's not ugly
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or anything so it seems like the answer yes it is something wrong with her as in she's extremely
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introverted also shy girls do be the freakiest chat that's true picky can't imagine what else would
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explain it other people were saying that she might have family problems so she has like avoidant
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attachment issues which is just like we don't know this girl come on guys like this person called it
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out and said i love how the men in the comments see women as having standards as to who they date
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and sleep with and exercising restraint as some kind of undiagnosed problem but then if these women
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did date and said that they hadn't had a successful relationship then they would be calling them
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a slut and that is just the internet my friends i'm not trying to call out these individual
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commenters but that's just the internet you literally cannot win everybody's gonna have an opinion
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about everything i have an opinion about everything i'm on the internet so that's just kind of how it works
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welcome to the internet my friend how can i help you somebody said maybe she wants a meaningful
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and the funny thing about girls like brett cooper and all the conservatives like even pearl falls into
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this category she tweeted pearl tweeted today 16 year olds are objectively hotter than 26 year olds and
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then deleted the tweet this is like all the the girls that talk about conservative issues and how
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important it is to have traditional values they are using feminism to their advantage the fact that a
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girl like brett cooper has a platform this big is also a result of feminism is a result of the fact
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that women are are pushed into the workforce more if she was really a traditional girl she wouldn't be
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here with the fucking shore sm7b and the beats headphones she'd be married she'd be cooking for her
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children right now she'd be cleaning the house all these girls that talk about traditional values are
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going against it by working for ben shapiro because if you were traditional you would just shut up
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and then serve your husband and pray to god that's what an actual traditional woman is traditional
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woman is like she might use social media to talk like take a picture of her cat look at my cute cat
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or like look at the little flower they're not using social media to be like this is my political
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opinion and this is what i think about ukraine and russia in the age of consent traditional values
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relationship with somebody she has a mutual connection with and not a one-night stand
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shocker some girls just don't want to kiss a guy to get it over with i had a really really good friend
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who had not had a first kiss you know into her 20s and you're uh someone in the chat the leon says
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the girl who made this video says she's never been kissed she took down the original video has released
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an update and she lied okay you mentioned this video about how men never approach anymore or men
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don't initiate yeah men men also do not initiate enough i've heard that from a lot of girls saying
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that men are definitely initiating far less because we're afraid of getting canceled we're afraid of
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the rejection and a lot of our other friends were just saying you know go get drunk just go find
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somebody just kiss him just kiss him and she didn't want to do that and that was her prerogative
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and that was totally fine she did want to wait and i'm proud of her for that i'm glad that she's stuck
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by her guns and this just is a great comment because obviously there is a social pressure
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to date somebody and to just have those experiences for the sake of you know having them as a young
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adult but if she is picky and maybe she just hasn't had great relationships with men in the past hasn't
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had great options maybe this will help her out more in the end because she actually is kind of
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preserving herself and protecting herself somebody else said i think she's normal i was 20 when i got
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into my first relationship people are delaying a lot of things these days and that's funny actually
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that the fact that she lied here look how they're really good at lying i've not had my first kiss
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like like it's so horrifying it's so horrifying whoa and chad a lot of you fucking autist people
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who are the parasocial people who are like speculating about like sneaker's grifting you see something like
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this and we see how often women lie i was like 22 21 i was like we're talking about red pill issues
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all the time you see these women say i'm an abuser and you believe women genuinely you're watching
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red pill content and you don't know that women lie you're still gonna accuse me of this stuff
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and see go respond to the in every order respond to what the you really don't think that women lie
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how much of this rep did none of this resonate with you all the the amount of energy that i've spent on
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these fresh and fit panels talking to these whores and you you still don't understand that women lie
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it's kind of cute kind of quirky like not really but kind of like i could play it off now it's
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getting scary like i don't see it changing anytime soon and like i just keep getting older now it's
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gonna be so weird because i'm gonna be so old and i'm gonna have to tell somebody like yeah i've never
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done this before like i'm just oh yeah wow herself and protecting herself somebody else said i think
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she's normal i was 20 when i got into my first relationship people are delaying a lot of things
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these days it also doesn't help that people don't know how to socialize it's funny when you see this
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especially like now that we have this lens knowing that traditional women aren't going to have
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uh platforms like this and i used to think that brand cooper was like oh my god news mommy all this
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stuff but okay one you're a slave to ben shapiro you can't talk about the real issues you're going
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to stick to normie topics while pretending to be a traditional woman but also
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women got the right to vote 70 years after black people in america black people before they got the
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right to vote were literally considered three-fifths of a human they were considered property they were
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three-fifths of people and women didn't get the right to vote till 70 years after the people that
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are three-fifths of a real human so what fraction are women based on american politics if black people
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were three-fifths and they can vote before women women are like two-fifths one-fifth
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and we're still gonna sit here and be like oh well traditional woman your opinion's valid
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well consider post-covid dating is apocalyptic guys it really is i think that socially we're all just
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very very confused especially with all of the socio you want to know another truth about about women
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is that they're pretty and they're not going to talk about this to all these traditional conservative
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women are not going to really talk about the fact that just being feminine being a woman
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is being a vessel for masculinity you're being a vessel to some sort of masculine energy
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whether that's going to be ben shapiro whether it's going to be the government or the ceo of only fans
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the people that control instagram mark zuckerberg women are always going to be owned by some masculine
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energy even the most independent feminists of all time these feminists don't even understand that just
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existing as a woman you are always going to be a vessel for some masculine nature to program you
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a lot of the times and what it should be is that the father is programming the daughter
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and then he finds a husband that is capable of being a proper husband and then he marries a daughter
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off to to this capable man because she's always they understand in islam we understand that a woman is
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is a vessel for some sort of masculine energy but these independent feminists who scream that women
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are in i'm an independent queen i'm a girl boss queen you're still owned by the whoever you think you're
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in an office you think you're a girl boss the ceo owns you you're on only fans posting your butthole
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online only fans owns you the people that run the porn industry own you if you're a social media
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influencer and all you make your money is from ad revenue and you're just relying on the algorithm
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for attention and views you're owned by the people that own these companies
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you're always going to be they don't understand that
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for brett bruh it's bot shapiro political nonsense and how divided we are and how people are very
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confused about gender roles and then de leon says in the update video she says she's yo link the update
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video she says she's getting a bunch of creepy messages saying i'll be your first kiss you see how
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like you see how the the evil nature of women she puts out of this video saying oh my god i've never
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had my first kiss lying and then when she gets messages from god saying i'll be your first kiss
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let me go solve your problem that you're putting out into the world she's like oh these guys are
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creepy how is it creepy if that's what you're literally asking for the manipulative nature of women man
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just think nobody knows what they're actually doing and we live in this digital age but we still
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you know want more traditional things we want a guy to come up to us in person you know we want
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to meet a girl in real life whatever it is but we now live in this digital age and everybody
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is living online because we didn't leave our houses for three years it's just it's so confusing
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and i think everybody's struggling you're not alone that's basically the point i'm actually
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sitting here and i'm trying to think of ideas for people because i get these comments all the time
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like brett how do i meet somebody there's nobody in my area what should i do and right now for the
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girls i'm like really at this point you need to go stand out by a grill with a grill blazer
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all right shut up and you're right chat oh where do i see myself in five years um more successful
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than i am now it's only creepy if you're ugly she's saying she's getting creepy messages because
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she looks at their profile and she doesn't think it's attractive but if she got a message from
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the famous tiktok influencers like the white boys with the dangly earrings she wouldn't say that
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those are creepy messages she would have laughed it off and she would have made a response video
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or she would have flown out to la and then kissed that guy and then did the the special adult hug
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with them that's the nature of women it's it's only it's only creepy if you're unattractive if you're
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a random dude if you're a nobody with no like if you have nothing about you then it's creepy
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and hope that it attracts a guy and i know you might be tired of waiting ages for a man to come
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up to you and ask you out but you also might be tired of waiting ages for your grill to heat up well
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or bear and explore barbara.com or use for blazers about that somebody else said once upon a time you
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would have been seen as a princess in society for not having your first kiss by this age and now it
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is weird and that is an excellent point and kind of what i was saying earlier where you don't need
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to be humiliated by this years ago that was very desirable and to a lot of men it still is and if you
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are going out with a guy and you tell him you've never kissed anybody before that this is your first
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relationship oh i'm doing this all for the first time and he acts weird about it get out that is a red flag
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she makes some good points sometimes do not hide that because you're too nervous that's stupid a
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good moral person will think that that is something to be admired or will simply just not care because
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they like you so do not be humiliated by it you don't need to be worried about it this was my
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favorite comment though a guy said be right back i downloaded tiktok and i'm going to go under this
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video on the comments to find my wife okay okay done all right we get the point she's just going to
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keep reading tiktok comments but cool cool cool cool okay you're moving too slow right now you're
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just so there's like what there's 8 000 people watching this this is way too slow monkey time
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monkey time yes or no i'm ready to go and tell me what should i ask you guys are bro you guys are
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like quiet today man i'm the only one bringing energy in here what's up that