SNEAKO - Why LonelyFans is Destroying Our Brains

00:00:00.000 this is the evil economics of only fans by moon only fans is a putrid nauseating assault against 1.00

00:00:05.580 everything that's pure and decent it's a site created by losers for losers 0.98

00:00:09.960 only fans is a virtual meat market where men pay women to degrade themselves the business 1.00

00:00:17.400 model of only fans capitalizes on giving men a hollow sense of connection to a steady supply

00:00:21.600 of surrogate girlfriends i love you my simps i love each of you and i can't stop thinking about

00:00:27.380 you but where did only fans even come from well the simple truth is that only fans is only a thing

00:00:33.740 because our society is deteriorating we need a great reason millions of young people have no jobs 0.62

00:00:40.800 and even less have any meaningful relationships and when you get this lack of social connection

00:00:45.540 colliding with economic stagnation men get sadder women get happier people start to become desperate

00:00:51.280 and when people are desperate you start to see tumors like only fans begin to metastasize

00:00:55.820 this is a pattern which is seen in broken societies across the globe you know it really wasn't that

00:01:00.300 long ago when you'd only see this sort of thing in parts of africa and bits of this in europe but

00:01:03.980 now you see it in the west and nobody seems to care in fact only fans now reports that seven to

00:01:09.000 eight thousand new women sign up every single day every single day let me read some of these donuts 1.00

00:01:13.460 quick because we need to finish that conversation people are saying he's thinking small uh bad guy

00:01:18.140 said he's thinking small you think it big it's better to team up and work on both your perspectives

00:01:20.800 and be separate than do nothing i think he's kind of taking a passive approach overall

00:01:24.120 like look what's happening with this you know we're getting set right in front of our face you

00:01:29.160 can see what's happening and people choose to ignore it be like okay care about your community

00:01:32.220 but there's a bigger problem jacob5 says ace nico can i only watch your live streams on patreon yeah

00:01:36.240 that's where i upload all the live streams thank you five for our free band slug anybody can make a

00:01:39.700 big saying it's not for everybody it's a mindset that holds you back everybody can get rich if you

00:01:43.760 have a phone if you have an internet connection anybody can do it don't think well i'm gonna give up 0.97

00:01:48.460 and be a slave what we can all we can all make it out of this shit i don't want to give up that is 0.96

00:01:54.160 a defeatist mentality thank you um love said bro steve when uh when you're not yelling and try to 0.98

00:02:00.780 listen to your intelligence so the stuff you say is true but it can't be applicable to all it will

00:02:04.100 require a reset well that's what i'm trying to do i'm trying to reset people's minds because we've

00:02:07.260 been brainwashed back to the video the evil economics of only fans and rather than seeing shock

00:02:13.880 concern of this fact our society embraces it with only fans being formed over for empowering women 0.98

00:02:19.760 and changing the face about our entertainment because only fans is now the new beacon of

00:02:23.520 progressivism we're salivating young lonely men such for their next dopamine heads by paying a 0.92

00:02:28.300 monthly fee for a mass-produced hollowed-out sensation of connection

00:02:31.580 and the people who broker this exchange between atomized men and desperate women are called pimps

00:02:42.820 great civilizations do not celebrate pimps pimps are shamed pimps are put in prison but in our

00:02:49.860 society pimps receive millions and are applauded for their efforts

00:02:53.800 buzzfeed went so far as to comparing driving for uber to uploading to only fans claiming that quote

00:03:01.480 work is just another revenue for the average worker to make ends meet which is why i think it's

00:03:06.440 fair to say that only fans is the harbinger of our imminent societal collapse i disagree with the

00:03:11.520 statement that pimps are bad people because pimps back in the day they give you happiness at least 0.99

00:03:15.080 you get a fucked bitch for twenty dollars right you get something out of it only means you get 1.00

00:03:19.360 nothing out of it you just get fatter and sadder and lonelier sitting in your room getting nothing 1.00

00:03:23.380 while she's getting happier showing your titties to three thousand guys at once three hundred 0.99

00:03:28.240 thousand guys at once at least back then the pimp would like sell you the you gotta actually 1.00

00:03:33.540 spend time with her you're just online messaging an agency stupid this is worse 0.99

00:03:38.940 because great civilizations collapse when the economy serves not to elevate but to denigrate 0.99

00:03:44.840 the population we're now at that point where dignity and youth is chopped up and distributed

00:03:49.700 for a profit where young lonely men are bombarded with lies of finding intimate connection for a

00:03:55.060 fiver it's a lie and with our stagnation a fake relationship where she does not respect or care 1.00

00:04:00.480 about you at all they laugh to the bank they think you're stupid and you just get sadder because of it 0.99

00:04:05.940 creating economy women are left with nothing to sell but their bodies and souls for the next 1.00

00:04:10.120 month's rent this combination of emotionally desperate men and economically desperate women 0.92

00:04:14.580 serves to create this weird debauch concoction of self-destructive societal deterioration from now on

00:04:20.320 like every day i'm going to give you money and all of my wages are going to go to you all the time

00:04:25.640 because i think your life is perfect and your life should be so easy and i shouldn't have any money

00:04:30.420 in my whole life defeatist mentality someone gave 20 and said not everyone can do it here five five

00:04:35.620 if you have an internet connection you can do it don't give up you're gonna end up like this dude

00:04:39.760 i'm gonna give you money all the time i'm gonna give you money all the time yes you will yeah so

00:04:44.980 your alpha boyfriend is going to be invited to my house my three-bedroom house and you can treat 1.00

00:04:50.880 you like it's his home a stupid white loser does not deserve his own house 1.00

00:04:54.580 one moment you're lost in a carnival of delight next 1.00

00:05:00.220 i'll teach you somewhere you don't want to be 0.99

00:05:03.540 somewhere dark get cool filled with the damn damn big huge shapes and things you'd rather forget 0.99

00:05:09.800 a billion dollar fucking media giant it's not the same anymore 0.99

00:05:13.520 ava was comparing it to playboy magazine this is not this is a billion dollar industry 0.99

00:05:18.800 with all that said you may think i'm exaggerating you may think i'm just being prude or simply out

00:05:28.000 of touch you may want me to instead poke fun at simps incels and ethos or you may only want me to

00:05:33.240 talk about why adult entertainment is bad but if i only did that i would be ignoring the much bigger

00:05:37.960 picture i'd be ignoring the side 20 fans that few actually speak about because to understand how

00:05:43.460 truly damaging look how much money they're spending a playboy magazine's eight dollars and you get

00:05:48.640 to look at it every day only fans is we first need to understand these guys think they trade a 0.96

00:05:53.680 girlfriend they trade a relationship for an online relationship where they don't give a fuck about 0.55

00:05:58.020 you and the roots of its growth we need to understand how only fans became a defining part

00:06:02.800 of millennial and zuma culture we need to understand the psychology of the young men and young girls who

00:06:07.360 feel the urge to sell their dignity and self-respect to a giant faceless corporation we need to understand

00:06:12.520 the wider implications of only fans because only then can we mitigate its effects so join me as we

00:06:17.940 cover the toxic world of only fans 0.99

00:06:20.100 this shit really is evil and to to ignore it is just like this is becoming a bigger and bigger 0.82

00:06:30.520 problem and as we come as online becomes a second world this is a market where all guys like nowadays 1.00

00:06:36.400 are going to fall into this trap and if we don't tell people about it she's going to keep getting worse

00:06:39.940 there's no point in like comparing it to playboy magazine this is an economy this is people's new

00:06:45.160 relationship but before we get on to that i need to tell you about something that isn't toxic 0.97

00:06:52.380 only fans was launched in 2016 by 33 year old timothy stokely this guy's rich as fuck now and do you 0.76

00:07:01.580 think he's on no he's not what he does is i actually heard about i want to say he goes like this 0.83

00:07:06.200 and three tens come and do whatever he says young guy he just has to go like this

00:07:11.040 and all the girls flock to him the top one percent of only fans girls he's the biggest

00:07:16.060 pimp of them all but before creating only fans stokely was just another unknown businessman

00:07:20.100 back in the late 2000s cam girls were the closest thing you'd get to only fans and the cam girl market 0.99

00:07:25.660 was oversaturated to say the least so how could stokely tap into this market well like in all

00:07:31.040 business he needed to focus on a specific niche what were other people not doing they weren't tapping

00:07:36.320 into the limps and people are donating right now saying like what do i do if i'm not funny or if i

00:07:40.280 don't make content there's a million ways to make money online don't like in here ask me go start an

00:07:45.060 e-com business go invest in crypto go capitalize off all these limps there's a million ways to get it

00:07:50.640 the internet bro everybody can get rich if they have a phone now there's no excuses someone said

00:07:55.000 sneak on my g keep spreading the truth thank you safani i worry about you man uh you know what uh you know

00:08:00.080 what they do to people who speak truth may allah protect you my g yeah i'm protected i'm protected bro

00:08:03.860 nothing's gonna happen to me the chosen one podcast said i figured it out sneeko needs to

00:08:07.120 leave all this bs behind and chase his comedy career this is my comedy career comedy's truth 1.00

00:08:10.900 only funny is true i don't want to be like well what's the deal with bumble fuck that shit thank 0.99

00:08:15.340 you five for the uh barry he said we can't stop the fall of the west uh you're doing good waking 0.99

00:08:19.180 people up for real keep going but i'm gonna keep taking money from these only fans since look at him

00:08:22.720 this guy barry is uh he's running an only fans agency i know it's fucked up but at least make money 0.92

00:08:28.020 off of it you see the problem do something about it don't be in my chair well what if i'm five five 0.93

00:08:31.740 bro the internet doesn't know how tall you are where was their untapped demand the answer was

00:08:36.380 clear the financial market now bear with me here the financial is where those terms submissive

00:08:43.700 give money and material to the dominant stokely's idea was to monetize this after finding his

00:08:50.440 subreddit promoting the stuff in his research stokely observed that people would spend large

00:08:54.800 chunks of their paycheck for these weird economic relationships on sites like reddit and do you know

00:08:59.980 why they spend all these money on girls online it's because they've made the girls unwifeable 1.00

00:09:03.980 they made the girls more masculine they made the girls toxic and crazy and so guys are like like the 0.99

00:09:08.420 average guy cannot handle all the bullshit that comes with a western woman so instead they go online 1.00

00:09:13.180 where she's going to be submissive it's fake it's an agency saying nice things but guys just want like 0.99

00:09:17.560 a nice comfortable good woman after a long day of work so they'd rather go online and pay for it 1.00

00:09:22.280 than have to deal with the girl who makes no sense and worships kim kardashian 0.94

00:09:25.120 and so after gaining investments from his relatives glam worship was launched in 2011

00:09:30.980 and an economical dominance economy began to blossom although glam worship's success wouldn't

00:09:36.560 last long because in the same year twitter and venmo were gaining popularity across the internet

00:09:41.420 this would be the final nail on glam worship's coffin because through twitter and other social

00:09:45.820 media sites consumers would view the content on glam worship and then reach out to performers on

00:09:50.420 platforms like twitter for their own personal videos causing glam worship to lose large chunks

00:09:55.240 of revenue which is why it didn't take long for stokely to shut down glam worship not long after he

00:10:00.920 would go on to his next venture customs for you customs for you was created by stokely and his father

00:10:05.980 in 2014 the purpose of the site was to serve as a remastered glam worship site but unlike glam worship

00:10:12.440 customs for you made contracts with the cam girls this was done so that users could directly request

00:10:17.440 made to order content with customs for you acting as the broker in a way customs for you was basically

00:10:22.980 just the beta version of only fans but before customs for you was officially launched adult film

00:10:27.920 stars were reluctant to join the platform the reason they could see that over time customs for you would

00:10:33.340 lower the bar to entry in the adult entertainment industry these stars for saw the site's business 0.98

00:10:38.660 model relied on the over so you guys are the prawns the prawn stars don't even make any fucking money 0.97

00:10:42.540 all the money that they make is online is from only fans i mean it's online too 0.91

00:10:46.620 but all the girls on prawn hub they don't make any goddamn money me and kalifa made like 150 000 1.00

00:10:50.960 getting ran through for everybody to see she made like 150k bro i think 100k stupid you can make 1.00

00:10:57.580 three million in a month not even showing your body anymore showing feet pictures it's stupid 0.99

00:11:03.280 saturation of the adult entertainment market whilst also seeing that the site preyed on the naivety and 0.90

00:11:09.260 vulnerability of young girls wanting to make quick easy money and so at the time the site was rejected

00:11:13.960 and seeing something flat out damaging because in this time the world was a different place

00:11:18.280 people weren't desperate enough for the site and as a result stokely never launched the site

00:11:22.960 but it wouldn't take long for this to turn around after custom for you's failure to launch

00:11:27.720 doesn't you look like the tinder swindler stokely began reading into the prevalence of adult

00:11:31.180 entertainers creating private content for money before only fans adult entertainers would use

00:11:35.780 instagram to post videos promoting themselves it's the same thing instagram is the same thing as of

00:11:40.060 just lighter and instagram promotes it you remember when instagram used to be pictures

00:11:44.080 instagram is all videos now it's designed to keep you on it as long as possible and pay attention to

00:11:49.580 what you're really looking at pay attention to the girls you follow think about it if you're following

00:11:53.340 a girl who doesn't even know you or respect you or laughs at you is profiting off the fact that you're 1.00

00:11:57.180 following her and liking all her pictures unfollowing bro what are you spending your energy on

00:12:01.620 but with instagram's need to keep its brand polished adult entertainment would be cracked down upon

00:12:06.340 stokely had struck gold why not build a platform that allows these artists to monetize their work

00:12:11.260 in a simple and secure manner only fans would be similar to a social media network with the features

00:12:15.780 as instagram or twitter except that fans would have to pay a monthly subscription to view these

00:12:20.340 artists content this was all because artists are you stokely understood that instagram had done

00:12:26.560 something unique instagram gave followers the opportunity to become almost virtual friends

00:12:31.240 with influencers so stokely's idea was simple only fans would be the paid version of instagram

00:12:36.020 to access only fans paid membership fee the paid version of instagram that's why guys are getting

00:12:41.140 sadder it's a fake friendship they get everything you get nothing that's why you're getting more

00:12:46.980 miserable it's a one-sided relationship obviously you would be charged a monthly fee with the fee

00:12:53.500 ranging from five dollars to fifty dollars only fans then also sets up pay-per-view content where

00:12:58.400 customers would pay up to fifty dollars just for a single piece of content and if you really want to be

00:13:03.200 a simp you can pay up to a hundred dollars in tips and you're gonna how are you gonna compare this

00:13:09.600 to playboy magazine

00:13:11.020 this model of pimping was revolutionary it meant everyone from the girl in your class innocent

00:13:31.240 looking ethos to experience professional adult entertainers and even furries could all sell their

00:13:35.560 dignity for cash and to put into perspective how much money is circulating on only fans let's take

00:13:40.680 a look at one of the first only fans stars danny harwood when only fans started in 2016 harwood was

00:13:46.600 one of the first 10 members on the site her earnings in the first month were 257 dollars in an

00:13:52.120 attempt to gain more money she would create these special occasions for her followers where she'd get 0.93

00:13:56.280 men to do things like quote order a pizza to her home and she'd answer the door naked 1.00

00:14:01.320 ew one of you guys watching this was doing that too come on man you're disgusting 0.99

00:14:08.200 but what quickly became apparent was that these guys weren't watching for this material what these 0.87

00:14:13.160 guys really wanted was a relationship they wanted some sort of intimacy was for her to act as an online 1.00

00:14:19.000 girlfriend where she'd message her lonely subscribers and learn everything she could about them to

00:14:23.240 squeeze as much of the harder money as possible she'd feast on their insecurities you can get 1.00

00:14:29.880 up for free she said guys don't want to pay for that they want a girlfriend they want the opportunity

00:14:35.320 to get to know somebody they've seen in a magazine or on social media i'm like their online girlfriend

00:14:40.200 rough day huh life seems meaningless huh well you're correct chat you've seen blade runner before its purpose

00:14:47.240 must be chosen by you understand that sadness and pain is a natural part of life by acting as an online

00:14:53.720 girlfriend hardwood was able to generate 52 000 in november 2019 alone and this isn't an anomaly

00:14:59.880 either in a vice article they spoke to creators on only fans the article highlighted how these atomized

00:15:04.920 men basically beg these ethos and tip them extra just for them to talk longer beg and bro and who saw

00:15:10.600 the e-date yesterday on aiden stream that hot tub girl the thought in the bikini in a hot tub i was reading

00:15:15.800 the chat for five minutes and you see the same exact attitude don't you shouldn't even care about 0.98

00:15:20.200 those guys those guys are bad you're a queen you're 10 000 guys all picturing this dumb hot tub thought 0.96

00:15:28.120 as their girlfriend it's sad it takes three seconds of looking at it to discover it it's not that it's 0.99

00:15:34.680 not just prawn if they just wanted to beat off they will go to prawn hub they're out here going oh you're

00:15:39.800 a queen these guys are all bad because you don't have a girlfriend they're lonely and they're

00:15:45.480 profiting off of your depression come on man what what do we have here look at you look at you

00:15:58.760 you may kiss my boots

00:15:59.880 and with the money this is generating you're now starting to see all these other soulless

00:16:09.160 self-indulgent celebrities joining in on the fun for example the hollywood actress bella thorne made

00:16:14.200 over a million dollars just a day after making her only fans account and of course cardi b would

00:16:20.600 go on to release promotional material for her wap song on her only fans page

00:16:23.880 which is why in 2020 only fans reported that it made 1.2 billion dollars only fans also reported

00:16:37.960 that the company gained a 42 increase in new accounts crowning stokely as the king of homemade

00:16:43.800 adult entertainment but only fans isn't just any old adult entertainment site it's a lot worse than that

00:16:49.800 and to understand what i mean we need to look into why only fans has had unrivaled success because in

00:16:55.160 any healthy society a site like only fans would never grow so fast it would just be another fringe

00:16:59.880 site like customs for you or glam worship so why is only fans a household name well to understand the

00:17:05.400 full scope of this phenomena we need to look into what catalyzed only found success and to do that

00:17:10.760 we first need to look into why so many men are forking over their money to this soulless website 0.98

00:17:15.880 because they're encouraging it we're empowering women too much and so they think this shit is 1.00

00:17:22.920 normal look at you on your knees bro kissing a boot of a thought only fans wouldn't exist if it 0.99

00:17:28.040 wasn't for the pandemic the loneliness pandemic tell people to stay inside you can't interact

00:17:36.200 stay six feet away from everybody now everybody's lonely and needs intimacy where do they go but you're

00:17:40.600 not gonna find it you can't even meet people go online give girls your money dummy they're taking 0.52

00:17:45.720 away all the power you have talking about community this is what they want you to do stay inside

00:17:51.800 and fork over all your money to a thought on a camera in the last 10 years we've seen our society

00:17:57.160 become increasingly atomized in the past decade homelessness among young men has skyrocketed with

00:18:03.080 28 percent of men aged 18 to 30 reporting no contact within the past 12 months that's a disaster

00:18:13.000 so how did this happen well let's take a look at the typical life for so many young men today's young

00:18:18.040 men start their life for the family that isn't connected to their community or religion most

00:18:21.960 young men come home from school to hear their parents argue most men are raised in school by a

00:18:26.280 joyless crone who shouts at them who yells at their innate boyish behavior young men then see that those

00:18:31.480 who sit quietly and act feminine are rewarded by the teacher in school the boy is unable to access any deep

00:18:37.000 connection with the people around him often in conversations people feel like they have nothing

00:18:40.840 interesting to say and they don't feel like anybody else does either you go to bed for peace for

00:18:44.840 relief and as soon as the alarm goes you feel the chaos rushing back the dread the stress the

00:18:49.480 hopelessness in school most of your interactions will be very surface level simply because there is

00:18:54.600 no shared struggle or shared accomplishment we are made to always because everybody's living in denial

00:18:59.560 there's a very serious problem going on and we don't talk about it because there's a well you could go

00:19:05.480 volunteer and vote for your local poll this is the bigger problem people are getting lonelier no one

00:19:12.040 feels like they have any connection and they don't want you to stay inside six feet apart and now people

00:19:19.080 are looking for some sort of intimacy man this is what we need we need community and they took it all

00:19:23.800 away we've been working against each other in the same artificially lighted room doing the same tasks

00:19:28.680 silently on our separated desks there is no affection for you or others how could that be when your peers

00:19:34.760 don't know you and you don't know them added into the mix is the introduction of social media into

00:19:39.800 a generation completely uneducated of the danger of internet addiction in our most formative years we

00:19:45.320 become addicted to social media we look for the next dopamine hit we dampen the pleasure and satisfaction

00:19:50.520 so make money on this stop using it just for entertainment profit off of it just like the hose bro

00:19:57.720 you need to make money online if you're just using it to scroll you're wasting your time your time

00:20:02.680 should be spent making profit they're making it harder to make it out of the matrix this is the

00:20:07.320 way to do it as long as you're online profit off of it satisfaction of real achievement before we're

00:20:12.280 even 18. increasingly we are dampening our brain's ability to achieve homeostasis we've become

00:20:18.120 infantilized by the deluge of anodyne content that saturates our mind keeping us in permanent adolescence

00:20:23.880 oh man look at his just look at him look at him

00:20:37.880 meanwhile more than half of us have no long-term romantic partners with reports now estimating

00:20:58.360 that one in four people will be single for their entire life on top of that we have a media industrial 0.99

00:21:03.640 complex that tells us being atomized is healthy and that being single is empowering so it shouldn't

00:21:08.200 be any surprise that more of us are dying from drug and alcohol abuse than at any other time in living

00:21:12.680 memory depression is skyrocketing and now loneliness has become a normal facet of day-to-day life and as

00:21:19.080 we grow up we become enslaved to student debt we become enslaved to soulless jobs waiting to be replaced

00:21:24.200 by robots so when the uk's manufacturing sector collapsed like a warm easter egg where did all the workers go

00:21:31.160 well today over a million of them are employed in one of these it's called a supermarket

00:21:37.400 you might see one of these things in the aisle the next time you're in a walmart

00:21:40.840 every job all these jobs are getting automated so even if you think that you have a secure job they're

00:21:45.240 going to take it away they're going to tell you that you all the industries are going to go away soon

00:21:48.760 they're going to take away jobs we're all going to spend time online you need to start making money online

00:21:53.560 look at what they're doing with the job because they're using these robots now to see what's in stock and what's out of stock

00:22:01.320 where our entire economy is centered around a crony capitalist system that eviscerates the family 0.92

00:22:06.440 where we feel like tools of convenience rather than members of a community and with falling wages

00:22:10.760 and broken relationships we see the collapse of family bonds we see collapsing marriage rates we see

00:22:15.080 single parenthood become more and more common we see children left without any resemblance of a moral 1.00

00:22:19.800 grounding so is it really any surprise that we see a corresponding rise in desperation is it really

00:22:25.080 any surprise that something so abhorrent as only fans has become as mainstream as it is today and this

00:22:30.280 is what makes only fans so grotesque only fans is exploiting the misery of a collectively ill 0.73

00:22:35.640 society exactly they make you miserable they make you they feed you these pills they dumb you down

00:22:43.000 they make you weaker and here's the antidote only fans this is your here's some intimacy and all it does 0.95

00:22:49.560 is make you worse make you weaker make you sadder they profit off of your mental health problems

00:22:57.240 society men are now lusting after pixels rather than chasing women and finding real love in real 0.99

00:23:02.600 life because it's so difficult to chase women now because they all make no goddamn sense these women 1.00

00:23:08.600 have nothing going on they're not interesting they all think they're tens they're getting so gassed up 0.94

00:23:13.480 by social media you don't even want to spend time with them they all think they deserve the top one 0.99

00:23:17.880 one percent man so you really need to get to it or else you're going to be lonely as shit 0.96

00:23:22.440 of course we're just a connection because i was dealing with a lot of loneliness and i had no one 0.93

00:23:26.520 to talk to and that's why i started using it these men who desire only fans girls are doing so because

00:23:31.640 their spirit is repressed you know cole young often spoke about how the soul is a compensation for 1.00

00:23:36.520 your outer persona which is why when you see these evil tyrants you realize they are that way because

00:23:40.680 they're being chased by their own affairs but in the case of only fans you have all these young lonely

00:23:45.240 men in society who feel socially anxious and repressed all these guys who are afraid to talk

00:23:49.640 to women after their ego is crushed by apps like tinder you get these guys who are so desensitized to

00:23:54.520 natural pleasure by booze pot and pills and the rampant internet addiction that they have to project

00:23:59.320 their soul onto e-girls they desire these girls who seem so full of confidence and power these girls

00:24:04.040 who appear to have no doubt a regret rendering only fans is this massive toxic illusion for death how many

00:24:09.640 of you are one of these guys don't lie about it type a one in the chat if you're one of these guys

00:24:13.320 from men who need to feel real life connection the most

00:24:21.560 only fans is an illusion that only makes men's loneliness worse because not only are these men

00:24:26.120 getting a drip drip of anodyne intimacy but these men are in turn permanently molding their psychological

00:24:32.200 framework in freudian psychology there's this phenomena known as the madonna hall complex this

00:24:37.160 complex is defined when you have this inability to maintain within a committed loving relationship

00:24:43.000 which means as a man you may only see a woman as a saintly mother of mary or as a debased thought

00:24:47.960 men with this complex desire intimacy with a degraded woman whilst being unable to have the same desire

00:24:53.480 for their respected partner freud argued that this leads to a situation where men love these

00:24:58.200 respectable women but have no desire for them and yet they have desire for these girls they know they 1.00

00:25:03.000 they cannot love it's so empty and for every guy who's typing one right now i'm telling you

00:25:07.560 just erase it i know that you're lonely i probably know that you want a girlfriend the best thing you

00:25:12.600 can do is ignore it and focus on yourself it's not going to be easy i know it's hard to do it but how

00:25:17.480 do i do it figure it out try to make some money online focus on yourself and eventually like when you

00:25:23.480 really start becoming higher level a good girl will come to you that's the only way to do it i don't

00:25:28.680 interact with a lot of girls i'm really just focusing on trying to elevate myself bro and try

00:25:32.680 to get out of the situation i want to get out of the west i really think this is done so i'm trying

00:25:38.120 to really just level up and keep spreading truth and try to keep helping people out but the only thing

00:25:42.200 you can do is ignore the distractions stop watching prom stop beating in me and it's going to be it's

00:25:47.400 going to be difficult but that's the only thing you can do because spending more time on this is just

00:25:52.280 going to make you sadder and it's uncomfortable reality but you don't need to just like

00:25:58.280 wallow in your sadness and like go on these forums online and get sadder and sadder do something about

00:26:03.240 it don't come here and cry in my chat either boom wake up wake up something that's why i'm trying to 0.99

00:26:09.960 give you high energy bro i want people to like take their fucking manhood back man only fans is 0.99

00:26:14.520 catalyzing this phenomena because you have all these men becoming desensitized to the pleasure and 0.99

00:26:19.080 satisfaction of authentic intimacy these men are instead being programmed to last after these egos

00:26:24.760 who they know they cannot love because they're now addicted to this over-the-top raunchy behavior

00:26:29.480 and unrealistic physical appearances and then when they meet a real girl they can't meet up to the

00:26:33.640 standards that they've expected from these e-girls because e-girls do everything you want at any 1.00

00:26:38.280 second for like 20 they never argue with you they don't have you don't have to put up with all the 0.95

00:26:42.680 emotional bullshit that every girl has they're just perfect right here perfect girl so when you have 1.00

00:26:46.600 to interact with the real girl you don't know what to do so interact with these toxic women it's way better 1.00

00:26:51.800 this is empty this is going to brainwash you and make you think that these are what girls are like 1.00

00:26:55.720 no stop fucking your whatever weird pillow thing throw out your waifu pillow don't get one of those 1.00

00:27:01.960 fake plastic butts or whatever no bro talk to a real toxic girl and hate it and then realize what they 1.00

00:27:08.360 are and then focus on yourself so that you can get a better girl only fans gives these guys all this 0.82

00:27:16.280 pleasure with no responsibility something that just doesn't exist in real relationships

00:27:21.160 this means that you will need more and more stimulation as you build up a tolerance which

00:27:25.960 means when you become so used to the only fan system of affection you become unable to get

00:27:30.760 excited by real life encounters you no longer have that lust for the woman you genuinely care and love

00:27:36.760 for studies now show that this can cause such a shift in your brain chemistry that it contributes

00:27:41.480 to a certain dysfunction by consuming all this explicit only that's why you guys can't get hard that's

00:27:47.000 why you need blue chew and all these pills just to get it up for a real girl because you're so 0.99

00:27:51.000 desensitized by the crazy furry holy what the hell you watching that when it's time to actually have 1.00

00:27:56.840 like missionary boring stinky pussy you can't get it up you that's what you need to put up with so that 1.00

00:28:02.680 your brain doesn't get hardwired to this nonsense you need to have kids one day that's what we need to 1.00

00:28:06.920 do to be happy and the more you watch this the less you're going to be able to have any type of 1.00

00:28:11.400 relationship with a real girl who whose pussy stinks fans content you were further miring yourself in 1.00

00:28:17.480 the endless loop of self-gratification you were destroying any hope of finding good partners and 1.00

00:28:28.200 actually improving your position in life by destroying the skill of delayed gratification

00:28:32.680 you destroy self-discipline and concentration you lose the desire of chasing after real life women

00:28:38.600 who were actually good for you because instead you're sedated because in only fans the difficulty 0.98

00:28:43.800 of finding relationships with madonna's is now replaced by paying for e-whores to acknowledge 1.00

00:28:48.280 your existence and listen to your insecurities it's not even her dummy it's an agency it's a dude 0.94

00:28:55.640 typing back to you it's a dude laughing at you getting your money and you're like oh god i had a 1.00

00:29:01.400 tough day at work and the guy's like ha ha idiot only fans will give you a long distance girlfriend 0.97

00:29:07.000 experience all without you having to actually improve yourself to attract her you no longer 0.96

00:29:11.560 have to change your habits to get different results in your romantic life only fans instead

00:29:16.120 subconsciously indoctrinates you into thinking that only fans is reality you're beginning to think that

00:29:21.160 the tube is reality and that your own lives are unreal you do whatever the tube tells you you dress

00:29:27.000 like the tube you ain't like the tube you raise your children like the tube you even think like the 0.97

00:29:31.560 tube this is mass madness you maniacs it profits from you being unable to grow it leeches off your

00:29:37.880 relationships it takes away your desire for the types of women you're actually supposed to be 0.59

00:29:42.040 compatible with all to keep you hooked on their services so that they can milk you for every last

00:29:47.000 drop yo shout out to moon has he said anything that wasn't pure facts right now isn't all of this

00:29:52.600 true this should wake you up and stop this video alone should make you stop paying for these online

00:29:57.320 horrors man leaving you with nothing more but a thick goo of lost potential

00:30:10.920 when women act like e-thoughts online they begin to get treated like e-thoughts in real life 1.00

00:30:15.720 but because they are when you're allured by the prospects of becoming rich and having an endless

00:30:20.600 supply of guys it's probably hard to resist the temptation of selling your body especially when you

00:30:25.160 have the media and celebrities telling you it's empowering especially when only fans is treated

00:30:29.160 just like another job in the gig economy but once you go down this path there is a harsh reality

00:30:33.880 awaiting you because in reality you are selling yourself in a virtual meat market you're subconsciously

00:30:39.640 devaluing your self-respect because when you become an only fan star you know that deep down

00:30:45.320 you're corrupting yourself you can feel it you always feel this blanket of insecurity it's empty

00:30:51.400 wherever you go in your day-to-day life you are quite literally disempowering yourself you signal

00:30:56.680 to all your future potential partners that you are willing to intimately share yourself with anyone

00:31:01.240 for a fiver and so whether right or wrong people will label you in the back of their mind and this

00:31:06.280 label doesn't have an expiry date once your family and friends find out your image is forever tainted by

00:31:11.720 your past word travels fast when one person sees it it spreads like wildfire oopsie and i come from

00:31:19.960 a very conservative family whoops very religious a lot of military and military and now you are 0.97

00:31:27.480 thought for life because i could buy your titties for 20 dollars sorry you got to a bag you made a lot of 0.98

00:31:32.760 guys miserable but now you are thotty for life chat she belongs to the chat sorry no and i went through 0.99

00:31:42.440 a lot i went through a lot i went through a lot of i mean a lot of you went through a lot but you you 0.86

00:31:46.280 got a bag right depression a lot of suicidal thoughts um it was rough at first and my family still

00:31:54.200 dislikes what i do what i do you're not just paying with insecurity and embarrassment you're instead

00:31:59.240 paying with your own ability to form deep social connections with men you're compatible with

00:32:03.240 because you're making something like which is a deep deep experience become just another cheap

00:32:08.040 transaction you're turning love and connection into a cheap commodity so ask yourself this why would

00:32:14.600 anyone want to invest their time and emotional well-being into you when a group of thirsty guys are

00:32:19.560 getting the exact same experience for five quid a pop and so you see this is the real cost of being

00:32:23.880 an only fans model the cost being the opportunity to establish long-term mutually beneficial

00:32:28.600 relationships amanda summer for example was an ex ryanair host turned only fans model and she

00:32:33.480 ended up earning 15 000 a month on only fans i remember her she was a youtuber but of course it

00:32:39.000 wouldn't take long for her to admit that she's deeply unhappy the reason because it's empty she can't

00:32:44.600 find real love oh buddy you made a lot of money in an article she revealed that men would often dump her

00:32:52.680 after finding out what she does for a living admitting that she's crippled by loneliness and

00:32:59.640 when you scroll online to see men's views on these only fam ethos almost all of them say they would

00:33:04.520 never have a relationship with someone on only fans that's the real life but when i'm on the e-date what

00:33:09.240 did everybody say they're all limping because that's what twitch is telling you to do of course i would 0.95

00:33:13.560 date you queen in a hot tub with 10 000 guys handing you money because they're looking at your boobies 0.96

00:33:18.920 i would date you no you wouldn't stop lying i was the only one who said no you are unwifeable i could 1.00

00:33:25.640 buy your shit for 5.99 you not wifey later come back in five years once you aged out and now you want 0.99

00:33:34.920 kids and nobody want to wipe you up what you gonna do so chat next time you think about paying for these 1.00

00:33:39.480 fucking whores online remember the fact that they unwifeable because the binding fabric of 1.00

00:33:45.240 relationships is trust and when the most private and intimate thing that should be exclusive to 1.00

00:33:49.960 real life relationships is being sold to anyone it shouldn't come as much of a surprise because we

00:33:55.240 all instinctively understand this there's something grotesque about reducing relationships into a

00:33:59.560 soulless business transaction it's inhuman it's degrading and it's naked egoism that's a great piece

00:34:06.120 of real estate you got there and so when your partner is inviting all these people into a private

00:34:10.120 world that should be exclusively between the two of you this should be intimate that trust will

00:34:15.560 always be broken and with a side like only fans this lonely hedonistic cycle is almost impossible to

00:34:21.160 escape because you become addicted to the lure of easy money if you can make good money on only

00:34:26.200 fans you'll never want to work another way again you don't know how to just like when strippers 0.96

00:34:29.880 start stripping they get used to the lifestyle they get yeah at least screaming outside of a nissan

00:34:34.280 ultima they're used to the fast money buying birkin bags and all that and they don't know

00:34:37.960 how to do a job anymore you're used to stripper money how are you going downgrade from that you 0.97

00:34:42.040 made three thousand a knife shaking ass now you're going to work as a secretary nope i mean how could 1.00

00:34:48.120 you go back to making eight quid an hour waiting tables when you can make double the money in half the 0.99

00:34:52.200 time even though your mental health will deteriorate you'll always be chasing that next paypal

00:34:57.080 notification exactly that's what these websites do you're sacrificing your mental health for money

00:35:04.440 you're sacrificing your mental health for a girlfriend it's making you both sadder the girl 0.51

00:35:10.760 and the limp and y'all both know it it's just a sad industry all around all it's doing is just 0.65

00:35:18.360 separating your soul from your body stop it let him if bro it's okay just just stop it i don't know

00:35:25.880 what else to say that next dopamine head that next message from a guy validating you

00:35:30.760 but as you follow this route you'll always have this underlying sense of loneliness a sense of

00:35:36.200 numbness but you know the real damage of only fans isn't just towards the broken woman posting on only

00:35:41.320 lonely fans lonely fans we got to change the name of that yo someone in the chat just started that

00:35:45.400 it's called lonely fans now fans the damage is to all the other normal healthy women in society 1.00

00:35:51.480 i mentioned earlier about the madonna hall complex and the effects only fans has in ruining men's

00:35:55.640 desire and whilst yes this is incredibly damaging to men in the long term it's also toxic for women

00:36:01.640 because sites like only fans make women feel inadequate like they're just too vanilla like 1.00

00:36:05.880 they can't compete with young men's increasing expectations only fan obfuscates the divide between

00:36:10.840 adult entertainment and reality i also mentioned how this is leading to men not growing up so how

00:36:21.320 does this impact women well when men don't grow up women become starved of masculinity this is why new 0.98

00:36:26.920 data highlights that women's adult searches are loaded with terms like brutal it's why 62 of 0.99

00:36:32.680 women have had involuntary fantasies every girl says that bro every girl has one of their fetishes 1.00

00:36:40.600 is the r word they want you to like just come in and they want you to just completely

00:36:47.640 every girl wants to be choked bro every single one they'll lie about it like if you really tell 1.00

00:36:52.520 them but i'm telling you they all want that because all the guys they interact with they don't respect 1.00

00:36:58.120 they're they're lame they want a man to be dominant and control them and smack their ass ah 1.00

00:37:05.160 bia come here come here come here shut the fuck up come here yeah that's what they want that's 1.00

00:37:10.520 misogynist that's what you want i'm sorry i'm sorry it's why strangulation play has become so 1.00

00:37:17.640 normalized to the extent that one woman in the uk is accidentally strangled to death by her partner

00:37:23.160 every two weeks they're overcompensating because they're starved of that natural male force in their

00:37:32.520 life now of course i'm not saying this is the case for all women but what i am saying however is that

00:37:37.000 the success of only fans is creating a generation of men who neglect the necessary development needed

00:37:42.040 to blossom their innate masculine traits traits like confidence stoicism and discipline which is in turn

00:37:47.960 creating a generation of women starved of masculinity a generation of women who are made to feel that to 1.00

00:37:53.400 be loved and and that's what sucks about that e-date is because a lot of guys watching that because the 0.98

00:37:58.200 fat dude one who bought her fucking hot tub water if you watch the e-date deal with aiden i stayed true 0.99

00:38:02.280 to myself i was just being me saying i would not wife you the guy that she picked to win is a fat dude 0.99

00:38:07.320 who bought her hot tub water and so all the guys watching it is damaging because he has entertainment 0.95

00:38:11.560 and shit like that but every guy like oh well maybe if i buy her hot tub water i can get her too 1.00

00:38:16.440 no she does not want that she wants a strong dominant man don't believe that nonsense that 0.99

00:38:22.600 twitch is promoting and that tiktok's promoting and that of is promoting you need to you need to yeah 1.00

00:38:28.360 come here shut the fuck up shut the fuck up that's what you need to do i'm telling you don't do it like 1.00

00:38:34.200 just like to random girls in the bar like that's what i'm trying to do but they want that energy they 1.00

00:38:39.400 don't want to go i love you queen of course you can do as many only fans pictures as you want

00:38:45.720 i'll hold the camera she will lie on camera to get more subscribers and it's brainwashing 1.00

00:38:51.880 all the people watching that i feel bad for those teens because they get a false idea of what girls 1.00

00:38:56.680 are like desired they have to be a thought which is why i think it's fair to say that only fans is

00:39:03.320 further catalyzing our society into an ever-increasing atomized barren and hedonistic landscape

00:39:09.160 although only fans isn't the cause of this instead only fans serves as the crow pecking on

00:39:15.000 our gray wooden remains facts chat isn't that facts

00:39:29.560 in a society's final days bizarre hedonistic and nihilistic behavior proliferates this behavior is

00:39:35.480 then legitimized by the mainstream culture causing the population's moral filter to become irreparably

00:39:40.920 damaged and only then do you see things like only fans rise to prominence so on the one hand you kind

00:39:46.760 of have to admire only fans as relentless predatory capitalism but on the other you have to feel

00:39:52.120 nauseous about the state of western civilization nauseous about the infantilization of millennials and

00:39:57.240 generation z nauseous over eroding moral filters and the resulting self-destruction not only on a

00:40:04.920 personal level but on a population level only fans is what happens when you bring up a generation of

00:40:09.960 men desperately fleeing from the mere hint of any form of responsibility i mean people say it like it's

00:40:14.440 a bad thing you know running away from your problems but if your problems never catch up with you

00:40:18.520 what's the hitch you'd be in the woods playing the ukulele with the rabbits and the squirrels

00:40:22.600 only fans is what happens when we innovate our own self-destruction we look to simulate real life

00:40:27.720 interaction as we neglect the most rewarding interactions that life is all about community

00:40:32.680 relationships and real life intimacy we've abandoned high culture in favor of lowbrow junk culture

00:40:39.320 we've abandoned strength of character in favor of technological dependence but where's the outrage

00:40:43.960 where's the quick y'all gotta check out this channel moon bro he's really everything he says is facts

00:40:48.440 criticism instead of criticism we see praise we see applause we see mindless enthusiasm for pimps

00:40:55.080 pimping out the vulnerable where men blow what little amount of disposable income they have left 0.76

00:41:00.200 for a virtual ethos experience where women turn to selling their bodies on only fans to continue living 1.00

00:41:06.120 their dreary lives and what do they spend the money on what are they really spending the bread on 0.99

00:41:10.760 hotels like girls trip to vegas miami birkin bags it's not going to fucking charities they're not 0.99

00:41:18.200 saving dolphins and doggies they're just spending it on louis vuitton and bigger titties to make more 0.98

00:41:23.960 money and a bbl and lip fillers it's all this plastic nonsense the whole industry the whole thing

00:41:31.720 is fake and it's all sacrificing your head with no prospect of loving relationships and no prospect of

00:41:38.040 fulfillment only fans is the consequence of a generation where rampant narcissism is seen as a

00:41:43.240 form of stress relief where we're kept in a perpetual state of distraction and disruption by

00:41:47.880 billionaire technocrats just look around you at the people crouched over on their phones as they

00:41:52.760 walk the streets or drive their cars or walk their dogs or play with their children go to an airport

00:41:57.080 and just look around you at the sea of crane necks and dead eyes we have gone from looking up and

00:42:01.560 around to constantly looking down

00:42:11.800 even kids like the parents don't even want to raise a kid here's the ipad

00:42:15.400 and the kid is trained to do that 1.00

00:42:19.720 fuck physically and spiritually we live in a society that legitimizes social media or addiction where you 1.00

00:42:27.320 wake up in the morning you pick up your phone you check your notifications you open instagram and 1.00

00:42:31.880 scroll through all the stories and new posts you check the news sports reddit you then go onto youtube

00:42:36.520 where you're bombarded with brightly colored thumbnails playing on your psychology you watch

00:42:40.360 videos that leave you with a drip drip of anodyne lethargic dross but with just enough engagement

00:42:45.640 tactics to keep you permanently hooked you then look at your messenger and see no new messages you look at

00:42:50.760 the couple of new emails in your inbox you realize an hour of your life has already gone and you're still in bed

00:42:55.480 and you didn't do nothing you didn't make no money so chad i'm gonna say it one more time you can clip

00:42:58.920 up the stream go viral on tiktok creator fun as uh ways to make money on tiktok the creator kit i'm

00:43:03.640 dropping next week you should be making money online stop giving your energy away for nothing profit off

00:43:10.680 of it i'm gonna teach you how at work you check your phone for every five to ten minutes for the next

00:43:15.560 eight to ten hours you play youtube or a podcast in the background you go home turn on netflix youtube or tv

00:43:21.880 you watch more videos you can't pay full attention to anything you're doing you tell yourself just

00:43:26.200 one more video then you'll stop you play games for videos in the background you wait for the next

00:43:30.600 notification for someone to say something to you and if you've become so atomized and lonely and so 1.00

00:43:35.080 entrenched and this is all of you you know that this is all of us right like you might but this is stupid 0.97

00:43:40.360 this is this is all of us man it's lifestyle you may start to think that five dollars is worth it just 0.99

00:43:45.720 to feel loved by some skanky ethos and so you give in by a virtual girlfriend who listens to your

00:43:51.640 problems even though you and her both know she secretly despises you yep you then repeat this

00:43:57.480 pattern every day every week every month every year every decade for the rest of your life meanwhile

00:44:03.160 the machine learning algorithms become better and better addicting you to this toxic lifestyle

00:44:07.640 only fans is only a success because of this because of this degenerating lonely lifestyle which is

00:44:13.000 now the norm for millennials and zoomers we forget that this lifestyle never even existed just a 0.99

00:44:17.640 decade ago but now this is our shared reality this is real life and the studies have made clear that

00:44:24.120 this life's wake up i'm sick of it bro stop living in denial go volunteer go vote this is the world now 0.70

00:44:30.840 wake up wake the fuck up so it's now beginning to take its toll 1.00

00:44:52.680 damn man 0.99

00:45:00.840 the only cure to only fans is a healthy society lonely fans in the chat everybody lonely fans and to 1.00

00:45:28.680 cure a sick society we have to cure ourselves to take back power to ourselves to be take the power

00:45:35.080 back moon shout out to moon exactly take your power back realize what they're doing they're

00:45:40.280 controlling and manipulating us wake up and take it back i'm sick of it i hope you're sick of it too

00:45:46.040 this is some sick going on virtuous in a world where virtue is laughed upon we need to take back

00:45:51.560 control of our lives to cool out the pimping of our youth we need to stop mindlessly scrolling across

00:45:56.600 the endless amount of nihilistic barren distractions that serves as filler to our holiday lives we need

00:46:02.120 to take a step back and just look at how truly isolated we've become for only then can we start

00:46:07.560 taking back our time and attention only then can we start our real life journey of self-development

00:46:13.240 and real world connection let's get it let's get it chat let's get it don't be sad about it i know it's 0.90

00:46:18.520 tough bro but just we need to act accordingly don't wallow in your sadness wake the fuck up and act 0.65

00:46:23.400 accordingly invest in crypto make some money online start doing social media propping off of 0.97

00:46:28.840 it stop dming these girls on instagram get off only fans and get to it let's take the power back 1.00

00:46:35.000 man i'm sick of it i'm i'm really makes me upset seeing all these sad guys bro i see what's happening

00:46:40.840 and it's getting worse every year and the amount of people who say passive about this obvious is not

00:46:45.880 helping this is a genuine problem bro but we can bro it doesn't we can't just give up we can't just give

00:46:51.080 up wake up wake up man come on man we're not done yet we ain't done yet

00:47:00.680 or you can end up like this dude

SNEAKO - July 29, 2022

Why LonelyFans is Destroying Our Brains

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