SNEAKO - September 25, 2022


Why Monogamy Is for Broke People


Episode Stats

Length

25 minutes

Words per Minute

205.87231

Word Count

5,226

Sentence Count

112

Misogynist Sentences

34

Hate Speech Sentences

35


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 Do these things matter to women? Car, job title, salary, and more.
00:00:03.460 I'm Courtney Ryan and as a guy you hear a lot of things on the internet of
00:00:07.440 women care about this or do women care about this. A whole list of requirements
00:00:12.060 and different things that you guys think that women care about. So I have a group
00:00:15.380 of seven girls here with me today. I put a list together of some of the most
00:00:18.920 common things I see online that women care about. So today we're going to find
00:00:22.500 out if they actually care or not. Let's get into it. So number one would be his
00:00:26.780 car. Yes and I like when guys keep their cars clean. Like if there's stuff all
00:00:33.620 over like trash and cups and whatever. That just kind of gives me the ick. The
00:00:39.940 make and model and your don't really matter to me but just like I don't know
00:00:44.100 being respectful of the things you have and you know just being cleanly and
00:00:47.440 things like that. I really appreciate. It matters to me because I want to be in
00:00:53.060 like a safe nice reliable car. It doesn't need to be like anything sexy or
00:00:59.180 crazy. But I've been in situations in the past when I would be with like a guy
00:01:04.700 and his car is like constantly breaking down or like he can't come see me
00:01:08.080 because his car isn't reliable. I think it does matter to a certain degree.
00:01:13.480 But they don't care if it's a V8. It doesn't need to necessarily be something
00:01:16.800 crazy nice. No. If you got a V6 bro stop shit talking about V6 charger bro.
00:01:23.260 It sounds good. It's white. That's all they care about. Do you think they know
00:01:27.280 the difference between a charger and a Hellcat? They don't. They don't. They
00:01:31.720 don't even know the set. Nothing. It's it. Whoa it's loud and fast. Come on. You get in
00:01:36.940 that Hellcat for the fucking men. But I think it goes back to the cheap thing. If a guy is
00:01:43.020 driving a shitbox car and he's too cheap to repair it. That's I mean it's just not
00:01:48.740 safe. That's unattractive to me. And I guess if a guy does drive a really nice car
00:01:54.420 it's harder to walk away. I wouldn't say it's everything.
00:01:59.860 It doesn't matter to me because
00:02:02.600 it just depends on like what kind of phase of life he's going through. You know if he's
00:02:09.520 if he's struggling but he's working hard and he just needs a three thousand dollar
00:02:14.280 beater to get him to point A to point B. You know the grind and the struggle of that I respect.
00:02:22.100 So I don't for me personally it doesn't matter if he drives a nice car. As long as he has
00:02:26.320 a car. Okay that's I think a good call out. Yeah as long as he has a car. So for me it matters
00:02:31.500 in the sense of is it reliable? Is it burning oil when I get in the car? Is it unsafe to get
00:02:36.880 in? As long as you have a safe reliable vehicle that is not embarrassing to pick your girl up in
00:02:41.520 it doesn't really matter too much. Just make sure you take care of your precious cargo. To me yes it's
00:02:47.220 not really about like the make and model of the car but reliable clean. They've also the same exact
00:02:54.200 thing. Take care of maintenance. Just take care of me. Get me safe. As long as it's clean and it's taken
00:02:59.520 care of. I don't think a lot of girls would mind what kind of car he drives if he's saving up his
00:03:05.120 money to be more responsible with his finances and his future goals then car is not a deal breaker
00:03:12.120 as long as it's clean. I can get a few like cars and you're a car person and you have a nice car
00:03:18.040 and but you're humble about it then that's way more attractive than you know being caught. They're
00:03:22.820 all the same voice too. Number two is his manners. Very important. Don't be addicted to the waiter.
00:03:29.040 It doesn't really matter. When I go on dates when I when I even go get coffee with a guy
00:03:34.380 I look to see how he treats. Chad they didn't even hear each other talk. This is just how
00:03:39.900 like the truth is type of one if if I'm right most of these girls have copy and paste personality.
00:03:48.620 You can blame Instagram. You can blame TikTok or just the fact that a lot of pretty girls don't have
00:03:52.400 to develop one because they get by on their looks but I don't think that they heard each other's
00:03:57.400 answers. I just think that this is just you know default. I want to be a girlfriend personality.
00:04:03.480 Yeah like a nice car and it's nice and manners are good and I did my hair and I look good
00:04:10.260 and la la la Instagram. Everybody else if he's saying thank you. Hi how are you? I always grew up
00:04:19.400 with manners are very important in my family so yeah to women I think it's very important because it
00:04:26.980 shows how they're going to treat you. Oh that definitely like matters to me. You have to
00:04:31.400 have good manners. I want you to meet my family. Same shit. Very much matter to me especially like
00:04:36.980 if we're out to eat at a restaurant. I don't like people that are being dick to the waiters.
00:04:41.280 They're rude to service industry people or just. Oh he watched this before. Shut the fuck up.
00:04:48.500 To anyone in general I really like friendly people so yeah manners are a huge thing to me.
00:04:54.500 Manners do matter a lot especially how you treat your girlfriend treat any woman in your life
00:05:01.040 and treat elders. That's that's a gateway into how you would treat. In a relationship.
00:05:08.200 Your future partner or. Your future partner and like a nice car have nice manners and take me on a date.
00:05:16.440 person you are so that's that's a great way to get an insight on what kind of person you are.
00:05:24.980 I think that definitely matters uh manners are kind of what determines how you feel around them
00:05:31.320 how they make you feel so I think that's one of the most important things. Yes manners matter um
00:05:35.900 because I feel like that's something that can't be taught like manners are just instilled in you
00:05:39.060 at a younger age. Absolutely matters. Yes it matters to all of them. Yes we get the point. Um I know I was
00:05:43.080 raised correctly. Copy and paste people bro. They don't need to act like bro. They don't need to
00:05:47.760 develop unique talking points. You know what girls want in the west. It's very simple. Conduct yourself
00:05:54.420 like a gentleman. Be rich. Be tall. Be funny. And you're good. If you're not tall get high heels.
00:06:01.640 And I'm very particular on how a gentleman talks to me so I definitely demand the highest respect
00:06:05.140 possible and I would hope that my partner wants the same things. Okay and can you give like examples
00:06:08.460 of gestures or manners that men might do on a first date or just in general that would stand out to
00:06:11.600 you in a good way? Definitely opening doors. I think that is the hugest thing for myself as a
00:06:15.660 woman that a lot of guys don't think to do or don't think it's a nice gesture but these pretty hands
00:06:19.040 should not be touching door handles um so I think that's a huge thing um pulling out the chair for
00:06:21.680 a woman uh when they're coming to dinner is very nice as well. Pay for dinner. Um if you guys want a bottle
00:06:25.020 of wine allow her to taste it make sure she's comfortable with the atmosphere that she set for the
00:06:27.920 evening and really just focus on her. Do everything for her. I just like when guys are friendly um to everyone like when I go out
00:06:33.940 I don't know I always try to be like hello to people and see chat isn't this a great experiment you
00:06:38.180 see so the girls watching there's probably like 10 of you you see how everyone is saying skip skip skip
00:06:43.460 skip skip skip skip skip board board board board board board board board you don't need to develop
00:06:48.720 a personality you can get by on this this is what you add to society your hair your makeup and do
00:06:57.480 everything else be nice have a good car take me out to dinner know the waiter know what to say know what
00:07:02.540 to do and I'll just be here and smile and yes and I don't know what's your favorite color you don't
00:07:08.900 have much going on besides what you look like I want to keep watching and for the people getting bored
00:07:14.840 maybe this could be a good experiment to figure out female psychology a lot of the girls that you
00:07:19.820 limp over or you overanalyze or when she doesn't text back within an hour or two and what what is she
00:07:25.240 thinking it's not that complicated it's not girls who want to be girlfriends and wives this is their
00:07:32.160 personality for the most part there's different variables you might like this movie compared to
00:07:37.940 that movie maybe she thinks that bitch is a bitch and that one's a bigger bitch but other than that
00:07:44.100 they talk the same sound the same they don't need to be unique I'm sorry if that offends you but I
00:07:50.840 mean deep down you all know it I like when a guy matches that energy I really hate when people are rude
00:07:56.100 to strangers for no reason so yeah and I think it's really sweet too if a guy opens the door for me or
00:08:00.520 walks me in my car that's a huge thing that goes a long way it makes me feel like I don't know really
00:08:04.620 respected and valued so yeah yeah I always notice when like a man opens the door opens the door
00:08:10.320 talks to the waiter that's a good manner to have how they are around my family like respect of elders
00:08:16.300 like my grandparents like offering out the seat like if I'm like in a public transportation type
00:08:21.500 setting and I notice like a younger middle-aged man sitting down and he doesn't offer the seat to
00:08:25.520 maybe like an older person that always stands out to me being considerate of your needs uh if
00:08:30.560 you're coming over cleaning up before you get there being open to communication no gas lighting
00:08:38.400 I don't even know if that's man I feel like that's just common decency but I feel like it falls under
00:08:42.280 definitely opening the door being chivalrous um being a gentleman opening the door um making eye
00:08:46.160 contact eye contact is big for me and a lot of women um and that's a 1.5 let's go back to one
00:08:50.260 the way you hear yourself the way you talk to servers it feels slowed down now strangers
00:08:55.320 strangers these little things do matter a lot to women it's like slomo
00:09:01.680 definitely definitely I think if you're walking like in the street and he stands closest to the
00:09:10.920 street um I also like when they're kind of protective not as in like overbearing but just kind of like
00:09:18.480 like standing close to you I don't know if you go on a first date and you're in a crowded place
00:09:21.880 um just making sure he's right by your side and it kind of does go back to the manners things because
00:09:25.880 you know I really observe if I'm on a date or with a guy I observe how he treats other people so
00:09:30.300 um if he's respectful saying please thank you and he's just a warm guy um then that's going to get
00:09:34.700 my attention but I'm not big on like huge gestures like if we were to go to dinner I wouldn't expect
00:09:38.820 you to pay the whole bill or things like that I would be nice but yes you would yes you would you
00:09:42.600 don't want to split stop lying I think it's just a preference of the female I'm a little bit more laid
00:09:46.380 back but some females are more don't be wrong on the nips pointed out of the shirt
00:09:50.400 is that haram put on a bra right or put some tape over them nips um I don't want to say high
00:10:00.020 maintenance because that's not the right term but um they expect more of the gestures it's for me
00:10:04.120 it's more of like a soul connection while gestures are important and nice but it's like for me for me
00:10:09.140 something like so little I don't know if this is even considered a manner but opening the door
00:10:12.640 I love when I'm walking on the street and he walks on the right side so that if I get hit by a car
00:10:17.080 I die and you don't die or like the sidewalk and the guy's like taking the the street side and I'm
00:10:21.060 like inside closer to like the buildings I feel like that is like an important manner that goes
00:10:24.280 unnoticed all of them pay attention to that bullshit bro they saw that one instagram post and now you
00:10:28.320 bro I hate that that's chivalry what like if I get hit by a car I'm not gonna die something
00:10:34.580 were to happen it's like the guys out there and I'm like safe um another like just opening up doors
00:10:40.420 um like I don't know if this is like really old school but offering like to pay the bill like
00:10:46.260 the first date or something like definitely picking up the bill um and continuing you know to put effort
00:10:51.160 and not expecting like me to pick up number three is his job title um to me that doesn't matter so
00:10:56.380 much as long as he makes money he loves what he's doing and he shows up every day on time I don't
00:10:59.660 think it matters you're motivated um that definitely matters right now but I feel like I'm also at the
00:11:03.060 age when we're all getting like established in our careers so it doesn't matter to like the point
00:11:07.200 where I would be completely like turned off by someone because what you're doing now can be so
00:11:09.960 different than what you're doing actually okay what about stripper what about drug dealer does
00:11:14.320 that job title bother you yeah it depends on your age and um if you're working towards if you're
00:11:19.500 ambitious and you're driven that matters a lot and it doesn't really matter where you are in life but
00:11:24.000 more so where you want to go that's the big thing for me is ambition and drive no that doesn't really
00:11:29.420 matter to me I think what's more important is if they copy and paste are doing something that they
00:11:34.860 like but that's not always possible but I feel like job title doesn't really matter to me that much
00:11:39.380 I think it matters yeah I think it matters I would probably not be comfortable bringing someone
00:11:45.580 home who's a porn star wouldn't be comfortable telling my parents that so yeah no job title doesn't
00:11:51.500 matter too much because I think I think that's like an age thing um I wouldn't want my job title to
00:11:56.220 matter too much to somebody else because I'm young and we can all grow I mean the title is important I
00:12:00.680 mean I I think it it does matter but then again it's also situational you know because he could be
00:12:06.060 somebody's assistant at a big company and then maybe one day he could be a boss at that big
00:12:10.120 company so um exactly it just kind of goes back to his drive and his motivation and how hard he's
00:12:14.680 willing to work what about his salary yeah it definitely matters because how much you think
00:12:18.080 chat before we skip this video how much you think 100k it's like money security like financial
00:12:22.980 security is important to me as long as like we have enough money to I don't know go on dates and
00:12:28.400 like do like concerts like fun stuff no it doesn't really matter if he has goals like if the salary is
00:12:32.980 not amazing right now but he has goals for himself and you know he's working toward I want him to put
00:12:36.540 a number on it so they're saying no it doesn't matter just take me on a date I'm jacking each
00:12:40.520 one all of them 100k something that's important to me but and the average is what chat like 50
00:12:45.080 someone google the average and type in the chat for me everyone's in different places at different
00:12:48.160 times so I feel like immediate salary just as long as we can still have fun it is fun yeah just take me
00:12:54.700 on a fun bills are paid and he treats me right I don't think money should be an object because it
00:12:58.240 doesn't last forever no salary not too much um as long as you're making like six figures right
00:13:02.760 income for yourself and you can how much though live within those meetings how much though I'd say
00:13:06.240 like the same answer as his job title it doesn't really matter what you're making right now but
00:13:10.240 if you're ambitious and um you have like high expectations for yourself and high goals for
00:13:14.220 yourself then that's very attractive it is important because you know for me as a female
00:13:19.060 average is 52k someone say 40k I plan to be making a certain amount at a certain age and um
00:13:24.440 the man that I expect to be with I want him to be a hustler and a go-getter too and you know the harder
00:13:29.040 you work the more you work the higher you're gonna move up the more your salary is gonna
00:13:31.260 um raise so also if you plan to be with somebody and you plan to have a family you have to support
00:13:36.740 um your children and each other so I do think salary matters because it's you know kind of going to
00:13:41.940 show you what the future is going to look like and what kind of struggle is the work
00:13:45.420 I want to go back to normal speed bro this is I'm exhausted at this let's go back to normal
00:13:50.660 kind of things you can do I wouldn't say it doesn't matter I think you know if we're thinking
00:13:58.520 about a long oh this is the bitches you'd be stressing about is she gonna text me back
00:14:03.420 this is her talking to another girl about what she wants her dreams her goals she has an opportunity
00:14:09.300 to spice it up nothing this is her personality term thing we're partners so thinking about things
00:14:19.880 in that way I you know I had to consider what my
00:14:24.480 my salary is and what kind of life we want to live if he's making less money than me and I'm the
00:14:36.080 breadwinner I feel I personally would be uncomfortable just from what I'm making at this moment if we're
00:14:44.000 like at a point where I feel like I'm comfortable on my own we'd be fine together I really don't care
00:14:47.820 does that make sense yes is there is there a number that stands out to you what's the number
00:14:52.080 chat okay predictions finally finally fuck how much 100k each like a decent salary like something
00:14:59.580 that you would be like okay he needs to make this much money I don't think there's a number in mind
00:15:03.720 say a number though take accountability right now but I would say if if he's not ever making more
00:15:09.760 than let's say a hundred thousand dollars oh honey k wow what did I say then I would be a little bit
00:15:17.660 worried twice the average double what the average salary is that's what she deserves why look why
00:15:24.180 why you're boring you look okay why do you deserve twice of what the average man makes our future I'm
00:15:33.420 gonna say like in the 70s I don't know there's like the gender wage gap so I don't even know
00:15:37.520 okay so two-thirds more or a third more than the average I would say enough 100k 100k right now
00:15:45.860 she she thinks she's bougie but she about to say 200k to live a life of leisure in a sense like not
00:15:51.200 have to worry about your rent your utilities stuff like that but also um put a number on it obviously
00:15:56.860 a more desirable desirable man would be able to take care of my of our kids of myself of our older
00:16:02.020 parents so I would say somewhere between uh 400k 400 400 000 for nothing personality for just sitting
00:16:16.440 there eight times what the average man makes wake up wake up start getting to a bag this is what they
00:16:27.840 all think they've been brainwashed to think that they deserve eight times more than what the average
00:16:33.120 man makes so you gotta get to it so you gotta stop prioritizing and you know what she thinks she
00:16:37.780 deserves a guy who makes eight times the average but she also wants you to be monogamous fuck that
00:16:43.360 fuck that you based on what your looks think you deserve a man eight times that's eight guys if you
00:16:52.120 want eight of myself you want eight salaries i deserve eight bitches wake up make demands no i'm not being
00:17:00.500 monogamous i make eight of eight times more than the average guy so i deserve eight of you what the fuck
00:17:07.980 do you bring to the table what you've been boring this whole time people are leaving the stream you got
00:17:13.960 nothing you're slow you're predictable you're copy and paste i am not gonna sit here and be
00:17:21.860 loyal completely to one of you when you bring nothing nothing
00:17:28.880 400k bro eat a dick fuck out of here whatever like there's no bar 23 if i were to be dating a man
00:17:39.220 right now 23 dating not even married 20 what's she about to say nips out honey k um 80k is pretty
00:17:48.080 good okay nobody not one of these girls has accepted that she's average all of them are set
00:17:53.880 in the bar
00:17:54.600 the average is 56
00:17:59.480 okay um is what i'd be looking for um yeah somewhere around 80 to 100k and you're mid-20
00:18:07.040 okay there you go honey k um cleavage honey k honey k i think six figures is definitely decent
00:18:16.060 there you go man so predictable they don't know what the average is they don't fuck with the average
00:18:23.060 guy anymore they all fuck with the guys who are making bread and they complain when they don't want
00:18:28.140 to be monogamous to one of them why are you gonna cry but all of you want the same guy
00:18:32.700 be realistic about what's available if you are all trying to fuck with the guy making six figures
00:18:39.300 then accept the fact that there's a lot of you because all you bitches want six figure men
00:18:43.820 so all of you want me i'm not gonna be fucking one of you i want all of you get in line
00:18:51.460 for it's a little you gotta work hard for it nowadays but for an income you know to create
00:18:59.940 a family things of that nature like at least 100 000 is acceptable i mean we'll take less but it
00:19:03.280 just depends on your job and your career what you're doing yeah a lot of girls have said that
00:19:05.820 and i actually just recently read the statistic where only two percent of men between the ages of
00:19:09.460 20 and 40 make six figures and only two percent of men and they all want it do you see how the
00:19:16.380 standards have been fucked up from social media two percent of men make six figures and a hundred
00:19:22.120 percent of women want that and a hundred percent of women want you to be monogamous the game's fucked
00:19:28.060 up the game's fucked up act accordingly get to a bag and hold your standards bro if they have
00:19:36.180 unrealistic standards then i have unrealistic standards i want eight of you are over six feet
00:19:43.420 which is like two of the things that women typically say they want right but it's crazy
00:19:46.320 to think about the fact that there's only two percent of men yeah that are out there
00:19:49.040 i'll take a short guy that makes a million all day long that's a fair compromise right okay she
00:19:53.700 compromised now she's going up to a mil if you're short yeah that's sad because i plan to be making
00:19:58.720 100k or more hopefully before 30 so it's just crazy that is crazy yeah and then when all girls
00:20:04.680 want that they're all going after the same men and it's like what are you gonna do right you see
00:20:08.280 this is basically fresh and fit right now but just a female version this is exactly what fresh
00:20:13.260 and fit talks about every single day to these hoes and they don't change but you have it from a
00:20:18.540 female perspective no one's calling a misogynist when a man says it when a man is telling you how
00:20:22.660 the game is fucked up nobody want to listen i don't know maybe i'll have to get into a different
00:20:30.040 industry i guess his hobbies um yes so for me like i'm not a gym rat so someone that was a gym rat i
00:20:37.540 don't think that it would really work just because that's not what i'm doing but i love when our
00:20:41.840 hobbies align um or interests just like what we like to do i think it really helps your relationship
00:20:46.380 and the quality time you can spend like my boyfriend and i love to just play cards together
00:20:49.520 go see shows things like that so you don't have to have all the same hobbies but i think it's really
00:20:53.500 fun too to introduce each other to new hobbies and just try to you know do new things but yeah
00:20:57.540 um hobbies matter a lot to me they must be in aligned with something that we want to do together
00:21:03.060 it's kind of like counting it as our quality time together i think that makes the relationship very
00:21:07.000 very strong his shared hobbies and even if i don't like some of the hobbies that he has i would try
00:21:11.960 to be a part of it as like a supportive partner and vice versa i would expect the same from him
00:21:17.080 definitely oh my god definitely definitely matters um because you know i me personally when i look for
00:21:23.380 a man i like creative so in his spare time is he working is he is he reading is he doing photography
00:21:29.780 is he doing things that is going to better himself um i think hobbies are very important because
00:21:33.920 it's what we do besides work so boring you are all so boring
00:21:38.420 is that misogynist are you entertained you know your hobbies this is normal speed listen to that
00:21:47.760 imagine putting up with one of these for your whole life i only want only you just you i want
00:21:54.420 you all of myself why they don't define you but they say a lot about who you are as a person
00:22:00.680 um you know if if you like to nap all day or besides work your your hobbies are playing video
00:22:06.820 games oh now you can't play video games i got to play fucking cards with you it's just a no-go for
00:22:12.660 me okay it's a no-go you can't even play video games you got to be six feet tall you got to make
00:22:16.540 100k and nope to the ps4 you got to stare into my eyes and take me to dinner and you guys get mad
00:22:21.400 at me when i talk about wanting a one-sided open relationship are you fucking kidding me you want
00:22:27.200 to be monogamous to one of these are you fucking kidding me you can't play games you got to stare
00:22:32.900 at her look in her eyes hold her hand take her to concerts take her to dinners walk on the fucking
00:22:36.120 far side of the road get hit by the car kill the spiders wake up at night talk to her all day make
00:22:40.800 her feel happy entertain her have good hobbies that she only she likes have a job title that only she's
00:22:46.980 secure with be wholesome be spiritual be funny entertain her talk to her make her feel safe
00:22:53.420 and you just want one don't bro this is why i'm saying demand more you see what the fuck they're
00:23:01.880 demanding you can't even play the game all you hear game bro i know all of you game don't put up with
00:23:07.380 this demand more fuck one oh my god all these religious people w monogamy w monogamy fuck
00:23:17.060 that fuck that so i think it is really important because also when you're in a relationship
00:23:24.040 you start to share hobbies um share hobbies now you got to go on a picnic where you got to share
00:23:29.620 her hobbies bro you we have nothing in common i'm not doing your hobbies so 100 matters for females i
00:23:37.240 think i don't really think it matters too much i just uh i think it more matters if he can distinguish
00:23:44.640 time doing whatever and then time with you or if he can blend them together but oh yeah that matters
00:23:53.060 because i feel like that just shows what you're passionate about and like how you spend your free
00:23:57.780 time i'm so bored chat i'm out of here i got dinner with iman gaji and jordan welsh tonight be safe set
00:24:03.920 your bar high get to it because you can improve women are limited to what they look like men are limited to
00:24:10.600 what we achieve we're limited to what respect we garner from people we are not really limited we
00:24:17.420 can conquer they can conquer too but they don't really want to or else you end up like hillary clint
00:24:22.100 so creativity kid we got another call on monday i'm gonna go to romania i'm gonna see if uh andrew
00:24:28.380 messaged me back he messaged me on wednesday i missed it um look forward to that that's gonna be great
00:24:35.800 start thinking about questions that i could ask andrew probably gonna talk for a while and
00:24:41.280 oh i re-upload all the streams to patreon.com slash the sneeko make sure to repurpose and upload
00:24:47.760 these clips on tiktoks blow it up it's a great side hustle stop scrolling and start monetizing
00:24:52.620 you spend so much time online here's an opportunity i'm handing you clip this up whatever you want from
00:24:57.640 the podcast i've been streaming for three months clip it up post it on tiktok go viral easily run up
00:25:02.640 an account follow me on instagram at sneeko my twitter's banned because the matrix doesn't want
00:25:05.920 me to talk peace out i love y'all follow god wc i'll be back tomorrow i'll see you from romania i
00:25:14.960 don't know about tomorrow i gotta figure that out i gotta buy my ticket
00:25:16.760 this is your job