SNEAKO - August 19, 2022


Why Woke People Are Undesirable


Episode Stats

Length

30 minutes

Words per Minute

190.49257

Word Count

5,721

Sentence Count

424

Misogynist Sentences

51

Hate Speech Sentences

24


Summary

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Max is a 20-year-old kinkster who has been acting like a 5 year old for the past 15 years. She is a part of a kinky community called Daddy Dawn Little Girl (DDDLG) and she has been involved in BDSM since she was 5 years old.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 How progressive ideology is making people undesirable?
00:00:03.140 Go ahead, little girl.
00:00:05.420 My name is Max, and I'm 20, but not really, because I'm 5.
00:00:12.200 My name is Johnny, and I'm 31.
00:00:14.300 This is my little corner, and this is where I keep most of my stuffies and some other stuff, and this is...
00:00:24.500 Chad, I did not know what this was. I did not know what this was, but this is...
00:00:29.440 My passy box, and it has all of my pacifiers and stuff in it, and I have a lot of them.
00:00:42.040 Yep, this is a real thing.
00:00:44.100 That is a full-grown adult pretending to be a 5-year-old mixed in with the staff at Truly trying to tell us that this is not unhealthy by calling it extreme love or love, don't judge.
00:00:53.700 Uh, newsflash, everyone makes judgments.
00:00:56.080 Assuming people would be judgmental of the relationship that you're displaying is a judgment,
00:01:01.020 so even the morality police trying to shame you into not being judgmental can't refrain from being judgmental.
00:01:07.120 Not that it really matters, because all of that shaming is just to trick you into ignoring the fact that engaging in behavior like what Max and Johnny are doing
00:01:14.280 is not good for them and is actually being acted out as a way of avoiding their real-life problems.
00:01:19.740 For example...
00:01:20.080 In the words of Peter Pan, I never want to grow up.
00:01:26.520 Any responsible adult would freak out if they heard their kid saying this at 20,
00:01:30.520 because people who work, pay bills, and make enough to survive without living off their boyfriend
00:01:34.320 know that her mentality about not wanting to be an adult and take on responsibility
00:01:38.440 is going to lead her to a very miserable life.
00:01:41.760 Then imagine being a kid raised by this person.
00:01:44.300 And yes, some kids have parents who are like this.
00:01:47.520 But maybe I'm all wrong about this.
00:01:49.360 Let's have Max explain it in her adult voice.
00:01:52.440 DDLG, by definition, is Daddy Dawn Little Girl, and it is a subsection of BDSM, which is a part of kink.
00:02:00.480 I was just discovering things about the community, learning a bit more about it.
00:02:04.200 I decided to, um, try it out, and I've just loved it ever since.
00:02:09.100 It's just me.
00:02:10.140 See?
00:02:11.020 I explained it calmly, and that means it's not unhealthy.
00:02:14.160 It's an alternative lifestyle choice.
00:02:16.200 We are just different.
00:02:18.080 Uh, no.
00:02:19.320 There's a reason why people look weird at a 20-year-old who owns a full box of pacifiers and does stuff like this.
00:02:25.360 Yeah?
00:02:26.580 Yeah?
00:02:27.740 Can you go for it?
00:02:28.900 Yes, because you're off, and I have a Daddy Baby Day.
00:02:31.740 Daddy Baby Day.
00:02:32.580 That's a good jacket on.
00:02:33.340 Also, I want to take Moana...
00:02:35.460 Okay.
00:02:36.280 Yo, does that make this dude a fucking...
00:02:39.600 Michael Jackson?
00:02:42.740 A credit file?
00:02:46.560 Because...
00:02:47.120 I'm...
00:02:48.560 I don't...
00:02:49.420 Can't...
00:02:50.140 What the...
00:02:51.560 Throwing to the park!
00:02:53.980 Whee!
00:02:56.020 Whee!
00:02:57.940 Oh!
00:02:58.660 Whee!
00:03:00.060 Whee!
00:03:01.060 Whee!
00:03:02.500 I understand that she's still young, so she can get away with this stuff.
00:03:05.740 You can drink, party, and waste time in your 20s engaging in addictive behaviors, or highly stimulating behaviors without it being the end of the world.
00:03:13.320 But there's something to be said about learning how to be socially desirable at a young age, and refraining from behavior that most people would look at and say,
00:03:20.600 That girl needs therapy!
00:03:22.240 Because doing so will give you a huge advantage.
00:03:24.360 A big problem with society today is that people are learning important skills at 25 that they should have learned at 15.
00:03:31.380 What's going to happen if Max doesn't take care of her mental health is eventually she's going to be 35, life is going to smack her right in the face, and she's going to be a victim to whatever happens to her because she spent the last 15 years avoiding growing up.
00:03:43.780 Now, I try to be empathetic, and I will say that if someone is acting like this as an adult, then they went through some stuff as a child.
00:03:50.780 There's a reason why Max found DDLG desirable after seeing some videos on the internet.
00:03:55.900 Over the years, I've listened to-
00:03:57.140 Yo, nah, that makes that fucking-
00:03:59.500 Thousands of stories of people in pathological relationships.
00:04:02.800 A lot of the time when you have a victim of severe abuse or tragedy, their development will arrest at a certain age.
00:04:08.300 So if something bad happened at 5, then you might get an adult with the voice of a 5-year-old.
00:04:13.200 There's a reason why Max chooses to roleplay at that age, and if she were to go to therapy, that is the time period that she needs to discuss.
00:04:21.280 Whatever happened to her, I'm sorry that she had to go through that.
00:04:24.500 That being said, where I get a lot less empathetic is when media companies take these well-known signs that someone is acting out trauma instead of getting treatment,
00:04:33.200 and pretend that this is a normal, healthy behavior as a way of suggesting that more people should become like this.
00:04:38.620 My daddy and I are very much in love, and this is something that we do to strengthen that bond.
00:04:46.540 This is what I mean.
00:04:47.960 They're talking about how great the lifestyle is and how it empowers them,
00:04:51.480 without truly providing the psychological context that led to her desire for that kind of relationship.
00:04:57.020 That is encouraging the behavior.
00:04:58.560 There are a lot of people in the community that do this sexually, and I am not one of those people.
00:05:04.320 This is a completely non-sexual lifestyle for me.
00:05:06.780 Cap, I know a lot of people look down on more hardcore versions of the DDLG subset,
00:05:13.640 but for a lot of people, it's non-sexual.
00:05:17.780 And for us, it's non-sexual.
00:05:19.520 Well, it's certainly creepy that people do that.
00:05:23.000 Also, I don't believe you.
00:05:24.860 I understand that you have to say...
00:05:25.880 Yeah, yo, that dude is on some fucking...
00:05:27.860 That it's non-sexual for the camera,
00:05:31.780 but I'm pretty sure that the vast majority of people would have trouble being intimate with a person
00:05:35.700 who spends half the day pretending to be...
00:05:37.740 To be a kid going, weeeeee!
00:05:41.460 ...their daughter.
00:05:42.220 There's a reason why this guy goes along with this roleplay.
00:05:45.080 Um, I'm little when it's right to be,
00:05:49.260 but of course it's not something that I can't control if we're out in public, you know?
00:05:54.500 Yo, this dude is...
00:05:55.620 Why do they look like siblings?
00:05:57.160 I don't just randomly shout daddy,
00:05:59.920 because that's involving other people in something that they didn't consent to.
00:06:04.020 Okay, stop, I'm sick!
00:06:05.640 Easy, daddy!
00:06:08.020 Bleh!
00:06:09.420 Bro.
00:06:10.900 What?!
00:06:12.620 What?!
00:06:13.780 I bet some disgruntled editor cut her contradicting herself by saying daddy
00:06:18.340 as she roleplays in a public park with kids in the background
00:06:20.740 right after she said she doesn't do that.
00:06:23.380 I honestly don't see how she could avoid doing this around children or other people who
00:06:27.160 didn't consent to it if she's behaving like this in public.
00:06:30.520 I don't believe she can fully control this behavior,
00:06:33.120 or certainly in the future she won't be able to
00:06:35.020 because fetishes and strange behaviors like this
00:06:37.400 are addictive and they progress over time and get more intense
00:06:40.340 as the person seeks things that are more novel.
00:06:42.540 When someone is a new alcoholic and doesn't want other people to know,
00:06:46.260 they will hide their alcohol stash like they're storing it in Fort Knox,
00:06:49.500 and they will never let people see how frequently they drink.
00:06:52.620 As the years go on, that level of secrecy becomes inconvenient,
00:06:56.060 they get less careful, and eventually...
00:06:58.140 Yo, at some point, we just gotta start shaming these people.
00:07:01.000 We say don't kink shame,
00:07:02.060 and, like, we've just been so accepting of every single
00:07:04.780 LGBTQ, BB, a boo-bah, boo-boo-boo.
00:07:09.240 Start shaming, because what the hell's going on?
00:07:13.000 What the hell's going on?
00:07:14.220 They are just under the influence all the time,
00:07:16.120 surrounded by beer bottles.
00:07:17.640 Even if Max doesn't do this now,
00:07:19.440 if she doesn't get treatment,
00:07:20.660 her roleplay will eventually progress to the point
00:07:22.780 where she is not so careful to not impose on other people
00:07:25.420 who didn't volunteer to be around it.
00:07:27.220 I am an adult. I'm 20 years old.
00:07:29.980 I pay my bills. I do my taxes.
00:07:32.860 It's never interfered, and I don't think that it will.
00:07:41.240 Bro, you gonna tell me this shit is not...
00:07:43.120 Oh, God.
00:07:44.780 How is this allowed on TV,
00:07:46.540 when my shit gets deleted for copyright?
00:07:48.480 How...
00:07:49.200 How does this not get censored?
00:07:53.200 Yeah, you're in your 20s
00:07:54.720 and probably working unskilled labor.
00:07:56.440 Come back and talk to me when you're ready for a real job
00:07:59.000 and see how much not taking care of your mental health
00:08:01.060 hurts you socially.
00:08:02.660 It absolutely affects you
00:08:04.160 because it is limiting the number of people
00:08:05.960 who are willing to socially connect with you.
00:08:08.220 Now, I'm not saying that you can't do this roleplay.
00:08:10.600 America is a free country, sort of,
00:08:12.780 and if they really want to behave like this,
00:08:14.580 that's fine.
00:08:15.600 No, it's not.
00:08:16.120 As long as they aren't causing harm to other people.
00:08:17.100 No, it's not. No, it's not.
00:08:18.300 I don't like mine!
00:08:19.520 This should not be allowed.
00:08:20.640 ...people.
00:08:21.340 But understand that roleplaying the avoidance of responsibility
00:08:24.080 by saying things like,
00:08:25.420 I never want to grow up
00:08:26.880 is going to make high-quality people
00:08:28.580 not want to be around you
00:08:29.880 and that will cause you to miss a ton of opportunity.
00:08:32.980 Being socially desirable is important.
00:08:35.480 Caring about what other people think about you is important.
00:08:38.400 Look at the millennial generation.
00:08:40.340 This doctrine of
00:08:41.060 do whatever you want and don't care what people think
00:08:42.940 was promoted during the childhoods of that generation
00:08:45.200 and now you have a bunch of people
00:08:46.780 in their late 20s and early 30s
00:08:48.440 who act like adult teenagers
00:08:49.900 and can't get jobs
00:08:51.020 because they wasted tons of vital years
00:08:52.700 doing nonsense
00:08:53.560 instead of focusing on things
00:08:55.140 that will make people like them.
00:08:56.740 Brainwashed, bro.
00:08:57.720 We've all been brainwashed.
00:09:00.380 We need traditional gender roles back.
00:09:02.960 We need some conservative values back.
00:09:07.180 We need some God back.
00:09:09.840 It's gone.
00:09:10.800 It's gone too far.
00:09:12.200 This is the result.
00:09:13.900 Which makes it very hard to know.
00:09:15.220 Why is that really like really crazy to say
00:09:16.860 this has gone too far?
00:09:19.180 Tons of people have no idea
00:09:20.560 how nice it is to have good friends
00:09:22.180 who actually have the ability
00:09:23.620 to help you when you need it.
00:09:25.100 Those kinds of people
00:09:26.100 don't want to be around people
00:09:27.380 who behave like children or adolescents.
00:09:29.580 I will always have
00:09:31.160 that childlike sense of wonder about me.
00:09:33.700 And whether or not in 20 years
00:09:36.380 I still call myself a little,
00:09:38.640 I know that I'm going to have that inside me
00:09:40.540 because I just,
00:09:42.040 I don't want to grow up.
00:09:43.080 Again, you're 20.
00:09:46.180 You have no idea
00:09:47.220 what you're going to be like
00:09:48.160 when you're 40.
00:09:49.220 Hopefully you become much different.
00:09:51.240 This kind of like pseudo starry-eyed mentality
00:09:54.000 and not taking reality for what it is
00:09:56.160 is a sign that you aren't-
00:09:57.000 It's people who just don't want
00:09:58.040 to confront reality
00:09:58.900 and just be kids
00:09:59.660 who have no responsibility,
00:10:01.280 no accountability.
00:10:02.280 They're always victims forever.
00:10:04.940 They don't want to,
00:10:05.760 they don't want to live life.
00:10:07.260 They'd rather be kids forever.
00:10:09.940 And it's not just like
00:10:11.000 that girl dressed up as a fucking baby.
00:10:13.360 It's a lot of the mentality on the left.
00:10:15.660 They just want to stay victims
00:10:16.800 and to take no responsibility
00:10:18.240 for anything forever.
00:10:20.460 You aren't really developmentally
00:10:21.860 where you should be at 20.
00:10:23.340 This is what I would expect
00:10:24.280 from a 13-year-old.
00:10:25.680 There are so many red flags here,
00:10:27.500 including the fact that her boyfriend
00:10:28.900 is 11 years older than her.
00:10:31.080 Spoilers,
00:10:31.640 relationships with a 10-plus year age gap
00:10:33.720 don't really have a great track record
00:10:35.480 when it comes to healthy behavior.
00:10:37.240 This guy has over a decade of experience
00:10:39.260 as an adult
00:10:40.040 while she is just barely out of high school.
00:10:42.740 Of course,
00:10:43.260 as you get older,
00:10:44.260 age difference matters less,
00:10:45.820 but these two are in a completely
00:10:46.980 different place in life.
00:10:48.200 Not only that,
00:10:48.820 she thinks she's five.
00:10:50.340 This dude is 30
00:10:51.240 dating a 20-year-old
00:10:52.880 who thinks she's five.
00:10:54.040 That is not good
00:10:55.020 for creating a space
00:10:55.960 where you can communicate
00:10:56.700 on the same level
00:10:57.540 and grow together.
00:10:58.980 Anyway,
00:10:59.600 the story continues
00:11:00.460 as Truly promotes
00:11:01.320 another couple as alternative.
00:11:03.500 This is Danny
00:11:04.240 who engages in puppy play.
00:11:07.400 Hey,
00:11:08.040 come on in.
00:11:09.300 Come here.
00:11:09.720 Boom, buka!
00:11:10.560 How's your walk?
00:11:11.960 You want a treat?
00:11:13.400 Yeah?
00:11:13.900 You want a treat?
00:11:14.920 Okay,
00:11:15.400 I'll get you a treat.
00:11:16.840 My name's Danny
00:11:17.620 and I'm a puppy girl
00:11:18.840 just looking for head pats.
00:11:20.320 My name is Jack.
00:11:21.460 I mean,
00:11:21.860 chat,
00:11:22.180 let's be honest,
00:11:22.780 would you?
00:11:24.240 WL,
00:11:24.780 would you?
00:11:25.780 Be honest.
00:11:26.800 And I'm Danny's owner.
00:11:29.880 You want something sweet?
00:11:31.020 Here you go.
00:11:32.220 I mean,
00:11:34.920 I would.
00:11:36.300 I mean,
00:11:36.840 I would.
00:11:37.280 It's not okay.
00:11:38.840 I can't.
00:11:39.380 It's just,
00:11:39.720 I would,
00:11:39.960 yeah.
00:11:43.340 So this is Danny
00:11:44.380 who likes to play as a dog.
00:11:46.060 Again,
00:11:46.600 it's alternative
00:11:47.240 and totally not mentally.
00:11:48.620 Like,
00:11:48.820 be honest,
00:11:49.320 be honest.
00:11:49.640 I know it's gross.
00:11:50.500 I know it's bad.
00:11:51.200 I know it's.
00:11:51.600 I know it's.
00:11:51.620 I'm not like,
00:11:52.260 but you would you?
00:11:55.460 Would you?
00:11:56.720 Oh,
00:11:57.140 good girl.
00:11:58.920 This is a part
00:12:00.760 of a series called
00:12:01.540 Love Don't Judge,
00:12:02.820 which is an ironic title
00:12:04.060 because in my experience,
00:12:05.520 the people who constantly
00:12:06.480 say don't judge
00:12:07.460 are some of the most
00:12:08.680 judgmental
00:12:09.400 and intolerant people.
00:12:10.780 If you've watched
00:12:11.680 some of my other videos,
00:12:12.880 then you'll know
00:12:13.420 that during the
00:12:14.080 Love Don't Judge segment,
00:12:15.660 truly baits
00:12:16.440 and pushes the people
00:12:17.240 being interviewed
00:12:17.880 to talk about
00:12:18.860 how oppressed they are
00:12:19.780 when they read comments
00:12:20.660 that literally
00:12:21.360 every creator gets.
00:12:23.180 Even when the creators
00:12:24.020 being interviewed
00:12:24.620 aren't actually bothered
00:12:25.640 by
00:12:25.800 what's being said
00:12:29.580 or even when
00:12:30.440 what's being said
00:12:31.280 is not really
00:12:32.000 a hate comment.
00:12:33.180 Let's see the oppression
00:12:34.120 that Dandy faces.
00:12:35.080 While Jack was happy
00:12:36.500 to get on board
00:12:37.200 the puppy play boat,
00:12:38.540 many onlookers
00:12:39.700 had other opinions
00:12:40.760 about their unusual
00:12:41.940 relationship dynamic.
00:12:44.000 We do get a lot
00:12:44.920 of negative comments
00:12:45.820 online.
00:12:46.780 Jesus Christ,
00:12:47.520 you need therapy.
00:12:49.300 Uh, yeah.
00:12:50.260 I would say that
00:12:50.880 she needs therapy
00:12:51.560 judging by her actions.
00:12:53.300 Full transparency though,
00:12:54.560 there is a comment
00:12:55.300 towards her about
00:12:56.000 a dog pound
00:12:56.700 that I cut out,
00:12:57.780 but it was obviously
00:12:58.600 a joke and I don't think
00:12:59.720 she was that offended
00:13:00.520 by it because
00:13:01.360 she laughed at it.
00:13:02.580 Also, welcome
00:13:03.580 to content creation.
00:13:05.180 Probably a good
00:13:05.980 most of content creators
00:13:07.320 need therapy.
00:13:08.560 Addictive person-
00:13:09.300 Nah, there's too much
00:13:10.060 therapy going on.
00:13:11.080 Alright, I'm ending
00:13:11.460 the poll.
00:13:11.940 What's it at?
00:13:13.240 68% smash?
00:13:15.500 68% wood.
00:13:16.680 Okay, I was worried
00:13:17.420 that I was getting
00:13:17.840 weird at this point.
00:13:19.880 Oh my God,
00:13:20.840 Matthew said.
00:13:23.180 I put up with
00:13:24.120 the meowing bitch
00:13:25.000 for over a year.
00:13:26.540 You know that shit,
00:13:27.540 you know the top
00:13:28.320 was crazy though.
00:13:29.940 You can't even lie.
00:13:31.480 The meowing ones
00:13:32.460 and the barking bitches,
00:13:33.580 the ha, ha, ha.
00:13:34.860 That shit gotta be fire.
00:13:36.680 Come on, man.
00:13:38.700 They lick that shit
00:13:39.500 like a fucking toy.
00:13:40.920 Now these are a part
00:13:41.920 of what makes people
00:13:42.680 successful in a super
00:13:43.700 competitive environment.
00:13:44.920 So it should be no shock
00:13:46.080 that a large number
00:13:46.860 of successful creators
00:13:47.800 are addicts.
00:13:48.880 Personally, for me,
00:13:49.980 it's why I rarely drink
00:13:51.220 and I don't do
00:13:51.800 any recreational substances.
00:13:53.580 I make sure that
00:13:54.320 proclivity in me
00:13:55.060 is focused-
00:13:55.620 Yo, thank you.
00:13:56.200 Yeah, it's weird,
00:13:56.940 but yo,
00:13:57.420 if she wants to go
00:13:59.340 on her knees
00:13:59.780 and go up and down
00:14:00.400 panning
00:14:01.000 and she needs
00:14:02.620 a bone to lick,
00:14:03.860 like, bro,
00:14:04.180 you gonna say no to that?
00:14:05.340 Like, I know,
00:14:06.020 close the doors,
00:14:07.500 pull the windows down,
00:14:08.520 don't tell your friends,
00:14:09.280 but come on, man,
00:14:09.880 look at her.
00:14:10.860 Look at her.
00:14:11.400 She, that top
00:14:12.340 has gotta be
00:14:12.880 a dog top?
00:14:14.800 Why do you think
00:14:15.240 the peanut butter shit
00:14:16.020 is so fucking popular
00:14:17.000 with-
00:14:17.580 Yo,
00:14:19.480 with one of these bitches
00:14:20.360 put peanut butter
00:14:21.020 on your shit?
00:14:21.620 Oh, my God, man, yo.
00:14:23.720 What is her Instagram?
00:14:24.780 It's not something productive
00:14:25.660 and not something
00:14:26.440 that's pathological.
00:14:27.880 So again,
00:14:28.580 that statement
00:14:29.140 that person made
00:14:30.020 can be applied
00:14:30.820 to most people
00:14:31.540 who enter the public space.
00:14:33.140 Same thing
00:14:33.600 with negative comments.
00:14:34.960 Every single creator
00:14:35.840 big enough
00:14:36.320 to have a comment section
00:14:37.360 gets negative comments.
00:14:39.100 I don't see why
00:14:39.960 Truly needs to frame it
00:14:41.120 as some special case
00:14:42.100 when that comment
00:14:42.720 is made towards Danny.
00:14:43.700 With that said,
00:14:45.200 let's go over
00:14:45.780 why I think
00:14:46.300 Danny needs therapy.
00:14:47.780 I've had chronic anxiety
00:14:49.640 and panic attacks
00:14:50.620 since I was a kid.
00:14:52.060 Puppy play
00:14:52.700 is this really great
00:14:54.200 coping skill
00:14:54.800 that-
00:14:55.080 Come on!
00:14:56.660 You wouldn't-
00:14:58.040 You know that shit crazy!
00:15:00.600 It's gotta be!
00:15:03.700 You gon' tell-
00:15:04.500 Come on, man!
00:15:06.600 Peanut butter with her?
00:15:08.100 It's a rat!
00:15:08.980 Of course, man!
00:15:10.340 You fuck outta here, bro!
00:15:12.940 I don't care!
00:15:13.700 I don't care if I'm weird, man!
00:15:15.000 You know,
00:15:15.360 I respect that puppy play, man.
00:15:17.900 I respect that-
00:15:18.740 I wouldn't wife it up!
00:15:20.580 Put-
00:15:20.820 Look at her!
00:15:22.220 With the little-
00:15:22.800 Aw, man!
00:15:23.480 I've had a really stressful day.
00:15:26.120 I can come home
00:15:27.580 and just
00:15:28.580 kind of
00:15:29.780 lose myself
00:15:30.580 in that puppy space
00:15:31.860 and he'll take care of me.
00:15:34.080 Chronic anxiety
00:15:34.980 seems like a good reason
00:15:36.020 to go to therapy.
00:15:37.280 Panic attacks
00:15:37.820 also seem like
00:15:38.660 a good reason
00:15:39.160 to go to therapy.
00:15:40.340 To add to that,
00:15:41.360 obviously I can't show
00:15:42.520 this next thing
00:15:43.260 and it's not said
00:15:43.940 in the Truly video,
00:15:45.280 but Danny is a sex worker
00:15:46.580 with an OF account
00:15:47.580 and I have never heard
00:15:49.040 of someone choosing
00:15:49.740 that field
00:15:50.240 who is not a trauma survivor.
00:15:52.180 Yet another reason
00:15:53.180 to get treatments.
00:15:54.440 Then she says
00:15:55.140 that she's using puppy play
00:15:56.380 as a coping mechanism.
00:15:58.100 Well, you know,
00:15:59.000 a lot of people think
00:15:59.800 that drinking
00:16:00.260 is a really good
00:16:01.000 coping mechanism
00:16:01.700 for anxiety
00:16:02.360 or having a stressful day.
00:16:03.940 And I'm making the comparison
00:16:05.100 to addiction
00:16:05.680 for a reason.
00:16:07.000 Addiction is a continued,
00:16:08.420 uncontrollable behavior
00:16:09.440 that is leading
00:16:10.220 to negative consequences.
00:16:11.320 One, you know
00:16:12.760 she can't control it
00:16:13.680 because she's using it
00:16:14.620 as a coping mechanism
00:16:15.640 and a way
00:16:16.120 of regulating emotion.
00:16:17.940 Using a drug of choice
00:16:18.960 or a problematic behavior
00:16:20.040 to regulate emotion
00:16:21.040 is a key identifier
00:16:22.400 of addiction.
00:16:23.740 Also, like with Max,
00:16:25.340 it will eventually progress
00:16:26.560 to more extreme behavior.
00:16:28.340 Two, it's going to have
00:16:29.460 social consequences for her
00:16:30.800 because people are going
00:16:31.860 to see this behavior
00:16:32.700 and not want to be around her.
00:16:34.620 The reason
00:16:34.900 No, I kind of want to be around her.
00:16:36.060 for that
00:16:36.460 is because she's acting
00:16:37.380 like someone's dog.
00:16:38.840 Dogs are children
00:16:39.680 with no responsibility
00:16:40.680 and cannot take
00:16:42.040 Hey, hey bitch.
00:16:43.600 Woof, woof.
00:16:44.340 care of themselves.
00:16:45.820 She can be my bitch.
00:16:47.180 Acting out this role
00:16:48.060 and saying they don't want
00:16:49.000 to shoulder responsibility
00:16:50.080 makes them undesirable.
00:16:52.360 Third, it's putting strain
00:16:53.480 on her relationship
00:16:54.240 with her boyfriend.
00:16:55.480 We'll get to that.
00:16:56.620 This is what I mean
00:16:57.480 when I say this behavior
00:16:58.500 is an addiction.
00:16:59.800 You can also see
00:17:00.700 that she's not taking care
00:17:01.740 of her physical health.
00:17:03.060 She was much healthier
00:17:04.060 looking in the older photo of her.
00:17:06.000 But more importantly,
00:17:07.300 there are healthier ways
00:17:08.380 to treat anxiety.
00:17:09.720 The reason you get therapy
00:17:10.740 is so things like anxiety
00:17:12.120 don't constantly
00:17:12.980 cause you to suffer
00:17:13.940 and so you don't develop
00:17:15.300 a pathological behavior
00:17:16.460 to cope with your anxiety
00:17:17.580 which is what will happen
00:17:18.900 when you don't have guidance.
00:17:20.460 Also, here's where
00:17:21.660 the relationship
00:17:22.280 is being strained.
00:17:23.840 When I first told Jack
00:17:25.100 that I was in a puppy place
00:17:26.120 Come on, look at that, bro.
00:17:27.160 You know that shit go crazy.
00:17:29.800 Why are you lying to me?
00:17:30.960 Why are 36%
00:17:32.080 of these people lying, man?
00:17:33.060 Here's where the relationship
00:17:34.000 is being strained.
00:17:35.000 Look, are you joking?
00:17:37.880 Are you joking?
00:17:38.960 I told Jack
00:17:39.440 that I was into puppy play.
00:17:40.880 It was really small
00:17:42.860 and innocuous.
00:17:43.680 I just said,
00:17:44.460 hey, you should call me puppy
00:17:45.760 as like a pet name.
00:17:48.360 And once he was fine with that,
00:17:51.380 I kind of just spilled it like,
00:17:52.980 okay, cool.
00:17:53.640 I'm actually into puppy play.
00:17:55.040 I like acting like a puppy.
00:17:56.160 You should buy me a bowl.
00:17:57.340 Again, wanting to be referred
00:17:58.940 to as a puppy,
00:17:59.820 which is a child,
00:18:01.020 just like Max wanted
00:18:02.020 to be referred to
00:18:02.740 as a five-year-old.
00:18:03.940 So it's similar behavior.
00:18:05.660 But the fact that she had to hide it
00:18:07.100 is a problem in itself.
00:18:08.780 Now, I'm not saying
00:18:09.540 that this is first date material,
00:18:11.220 but this is something
00:18:12.160 that she should have been
00:18:12.820 upfront about very close
00:18:14.060 to the start of the relationship.
00:18:15.800 Her trying to ease him into it
00:18:17.140 is dishonest behavior.
00:18:18.940 It's like saying,
00:18:20.160 once I've hooked you
00:18:20.980 to the point where you'll
00:18:21.680 feel guilty for leaving,
00:18:23.020 I'm going to lay
00:18:23.760 my personality disorder on you.
00:18:25.580 Yeah, it was pretty
00:18:26.600 like spontaneous kind of.
00:18:28.020 Yeah.
00:18:29.360 Yeah, no.
00:18:30.660 Damn, but imagine
00:18:31.500 that was your daughter.
00:18:32.540 Imagine raising
00:18:33.240 a girl,
00:18:34.640 carrying a girl
00:18:35.280 in your stomach
00:18:36.560 for nine months
00:18:37.240 and she comes out
00:18:38.140 doing puppy play
00:18:39.920 with another man.
00:18:40.960 Oh, God.
00:18:41.860 Licking through a bowl
00:18:42.620 in the park,
00:18:43.840 putting peanut butter.
00:18:45.340 Some guys put a peanut butter
00:18:46.480 on his crotch
00:18:47.040 while she licks it up.
00:18:47.960 Oh, my Lord.
00:18:48.880 This was not spontaneous.
00:18:49.800 Oh, my Lord.
00:18:50.180 She hid this from you
00:18:51.180 and likely profusely
00:18:52.220 planned out every step
00:18:53.220 for when she would tell you.
00:18:54.480 She didn't just magically
00:18:55.660 come up with it one day.
00:18:57.240 This was on her mind
00:18:58.220 from day one.
00:18:59.600 I've never dated anyone
00:19:01.260 that's been into
00:19:01.940 puppy play before.
00:19:04.620 She's definitely the first.
00:19:06.540 Yeah, because she tricked
00:19:07.480 you into it.
00:19:08.440 I bet if she was more
00:19:09.280 upfront about it
00:19:09.900 at the start of the relationship,
00:19:11.300 you would have said no to it.
00:19:12.640 And it seems to be that way
00:19:13.700 from my perspective
00:19:14.400 because when you look
00:19:15.180 at their interactions,
00:19:16.340 he doesn't appear
00:19:16.920 to be all that into it.
00:19:18.040 It's more like he's being used.
00:19:19.480 All right, sit.
00:19:24.440 Good girl.
00:19:25.880 Yeah, good girl.
00:19:26.720 Stay.
00:19:27.480 Yeah, stay.
00:19:28.780 Come on, look at that.
00:19:30.360 Look at that face.
00:19:31.600 Are you joking?
00:19:32.460 Yo, the 36% is lying.
00:19:34.940 Reese said,
00:19:35.280 my nine-year-old sister
00:19:36.020 got a puberty blocker L
00:19:37.320 and my mom thinks
00:19:38.060 artificially altering her DNA
00:19:39.420 because of her emotions
00:19:41.400 are normal.
00:19:42.380 Bro,
00:19:43.440 maybe you should clip this
00:19:44.880 to send it to your mom.
00:19:46.980 Chad, can you give a response
00:19:48.340 to Reese's mom real quick?
00:19:50.880 Reese's mom is giving
00:19:51.920 this guy's sister
00:19:53.400 puberty blockers.
00:19:55.480 What do you think?
00:19:56.020 W or L?
00:19:57.120 And to your mom,
00:19:58.160 I hope you clip this up
00:19:58.880 and send it to her.
00:19:59.860 L is bad.
00:20:00.800 L means loss and W.
00:20:02.120 Maybe this is not the best frame
00:20:03.240 to go do this at.
00:20:08.360 This is not the best frame.
00:20:10.020 This is not the best.
00:20:10.520 Let me cover her up.
00:20:15.980 My nine-year-old sister
00:20:16.960 got a puberty blocker
00:20:18.040 and your mom thinks
00:20:19.900 it's normal.
00:20:20.180 Chad, what do you think?
00:20:20.780 Can you talk to Reese's mom
00:20:21.620 real quick?
00:20:24.680 L, right?
00:20:27.560 Yeah, Reese's mom.
00:20:29.420 There's 6,000 people
00:20:30.380 watching the stream right now
00:20:31.320 and look how many people
00:20:32.200 are spamming L.
00:20:34.160 I don't know these people.
00:20:35.340 They're saying that
00:20:36.440 your decision-making
00:20:37.460 to raise your daughter
00:20:38.400 is false.
00:20:40.420 Her emotions are normal now,
00:20:41.840 but puberty blockers
00:20:42.620 are very bad for her.
00:20:44.460 Your sister's,
00:20:45.300 bro,
00:20:45.700 your daughter's nine years old
00:20:47.460 and you're giving her hormones.
00:20:48.980 That's disgusting.
00:20:49.820 And you have failed as a mother
00:20:50.860 if you don't take her
00:20:51.740 off those blockers right now.
00:20:53.080 You're fucking with her hormones.
00:20:54.660 You think you're really woke,
00:20:55.820 but it's just not good parenting.
00:20:57.620 You're being brainwashed
00:20:58.640 by all this bullshit
00:20:59.440 the teachers and the therapists
00:21:00.720 and what your friends are saying.
00:21:02.340 You're not woke.
00:21:03.160 You're full of shit.
00:21:04.500 You're doing a bad job as a mom.
00:21:06.520 That's a nine-year-old girl.
00:21:07.620 She should not be on puberty blockers.
00:21:08.860 She should be playing with Barbies.
00:21:10.100 She should be running outside,
00:21:11.460 going on a scooter,
00:21:12.800 going to birthday parties.
00:21:13.860 What the fuck are you doing?
00:21:15.180 You're doing a bad job as a mom
00:21:16.660 and everyone else in here,
00:21:18.120 everyone in the chat,
00:21:19.000 if I'm an asshole,
00:21:19.980 they're all saying L mom.
00:21:21.560 This should be a wake-up call for you.
00:21:23.160 You're fucking up as a mom.
00:21:24.920 Respectfully,
00:21:25.440 I hope that you can take her off
00:21:26.720 those fucking terrible,
00:21:29.040 like life-changing hormones
00:21:30.360 and do better
00:21:31.500 because right now,
00:21:33.100 you have the opportunity
00:21:33.760 to raise your daughter
00:21:34.560 and keep her healthy
00:21:35.260 if you take her off that shit now.
00:21:36.620 But as of now,
00:21:37.160 if she keeps taking that,
00:21:37.940 you're going to fuck her up for life
00:21:38.940 and she's going to regret
00:21:39.940 the decision that you made
00:21:41.020 for a nine-year-old.
00:21:42.180 She's not trans.
00:21:43.500 You're just a bad mom right now.
00:21:45.460 I'm sorry, Reese.
00:21:46.120 I had to tell her the truth, bro.
00:21:47.440 That shit's fucked up.
00:21:49.900 Okay, get it.
00:21:56.120 You would think she would have, like,
00:21:57.480 practiced that trick
00:21:58.280 before going on camera.
00:21:59.800 But can you hear
00:22:00.480 how his voice is flat
00:22:01.560 and he's not really engaged?
00:22:03.160 Even though he says he likes it
00:22:04.660 at the end of the video,
00:22:05.840 I don't believe him.
00:22:07.280 Reese, I'm sorry for disrespecting your mom,
00:22:08.700 but, like, that shit is really fucked up.
00:22:10.720 That shit's really fucked up.
00:22:12.820 His affect and his facial expressions
00:22:14.700 are all wrong.
00:22:15.880 He looks like he is constantly
00:22:17.220 putting on a forced smile.
00:22:19.140 This is different from Johnny,
00:22:20.500 the guy from the other video.
00:22:21.940 He is clearly into that kink.
00:22:23.960 But I've seen a lot of people
00:22:25.120 interact with actual dogs,
00:22:26.640 and this is certainly
00:22:27.400 the most unenthusiastic interaction
00:22:29.120 I've seen from a pet owner
00:22:30.340 getting their animal to do a trick.
00:22:32.220 Probably because in his mind,
00:22:33.580 he is thinking,
00:22:34.740 Hey, can you stop pretending
00:22:35.680 to be a dog for, like,
00:22:36.780 five seconds
00:22:37.380 so we can have an adult conversation?
00:22:39.740 Also,
00:22:40.340 who wants to be
00:22:40.820 in this sort of relationship
00:22:41.840 where it appears to be
00:22:42.800 very one-sided?
00:22:44.200 He's playing along
00:22:44.960 with the dog thing
00:22:45.680 and doing something
00:22:46.200 that he seems like
00:22:46.980 he doesn't want to do.
00:22:48.200 So let me ask,
00:22:49.420 what does she do
00:22:50.240 in return for the inconvenience?
00:22:52.440 Ultimately,
00:22:53.000 the reason people develop
00:22:54.020 these proclivities
00:22:54.640 relates back to family history.
00:22:56.600 The people involved
00:22:57.460 have had a bunch of
00:22:58.340 pathological relationships
00:22:59.640 from their family of origin.
00:23:01.460 Therefore,
00:23:02.040 being in a relationship
00:23:02.900 is scary,
00:23:03.460 so they find ways
00:23:04.640 to put up barriers
00:23:05.340 to avoid real intimacy.
00:23:07.180 It's them saying,
00:23:08.440 I'm going to act like a dog
00:23:09.780 or a five-year-old girl
00:23:11.040 because real relationships
00:23:12.660 are scary to me
00:23:13.600 and this is my way
00:23:14.700 of avoiding them.
00:23:15.580 Yes, Gen Z
00:23:16.420 and, like,
00:23:17.040 we get to avoid
00:23:18.000 the realities of the world
00:23:19.100 more and more
00:23:19.680 with every passing year.
00:23:21.000 Juan's right.
00:23:21.760 We need to face
00:23:22.600 like an actual environment
00:23:23.720 where reality
00:23:24.340 is not something
00:23:24.840 you could ignore.
00:23:25.760 Consequences help create
00:23:26.620 a no-nonsense culture.
00:23:27.900 That's a fact.
00:23:28.600 I'm not your girlfriend,
00:23:29.740 I'm your daughter.
00:23:30.780 Or,
00:23:31.380 I'm not your girlfriend,
00:23:32.240 I'm your dog.
00:23:33.920 There are all kinds
00:23:35.680 of ways people
00:23:36.320 avoid intimacy
00:23:37.160 when they've experienced
00:23:38.160 bad childhoods.
00:23:39.280 This is just
00:23:40.040 a more extreme example.
00:23:41.680 Like I said,
00:23:42.460 do what you want,
00:23:43.460 but what I don't like
00:23:44.300 is them bringing this stuff
00:23:45.260 into public spaces
00:23:46.140 where kids can be involved.
00:23:47.420 I mean,
00:23:48.200 I love him so much.
00:23:49.560 He's my owner.
00:23:51.160 He takes really good care of me
00:23:53.380 and just makes my little puppy heart happy.
00:23:57.160 I know that it looks weird
00:23:58.980 from the outside,
00:23:59.960 but, you know,
00:24:00.760 I feel like...
00:24:01.100 Yeah, don't bring this shit
00:24:01.880 into the playground.
00:24:02.680 Don't do this outside.
00:24:03.820 Just walk her at home.
00:24:05.180 There's a lot more to it.
00:24:06.960 What we do works for us.
00:24:08.820 This is what I don't like.
00:24:10.480 I don't like the suggestion
00:24:11.600 that this is just
00:24:12.340 an alternative behavior
00:24:13.480 along with ignoring
00:24:14.740 this series of mental health issues
00:24:16.320 that come along
00:24:16.920 with acting like this.
00:24:18.300 There's a reason it looks weird.
00:24:19.840 It's a sign of poor mental health.
00:24:21.860 What you should really be asking
00:24:23.040 is why don't you want to be
00:24:24.220 who you actually are?
00:24:25.640 Why doesn't Max want to behave
00:24:26.820 like an adult?
00:24:27.880 Why doesn't Danny want to behave
00:24:29.220 like a human?
00:24:30.260 These are the important
00:24:31.220 mental health questions
00:24:32.200 that need to be asked.
00:24:33.500 We've gotten a lot of negative
00:24:34.980 comments online.
00:24:36.520 Things like,
00:24:37.820 you're in a...
00:24:38.280 You still wouldn't though, Chad?
00:24:40.640 Just...
00:24:42.000 Puppy head?
00:24:42.920 Abomination to...
00:24:43.720 Little puppy top.
00:24:44.460 God!
00:24:45.260 It's just a little bit
00:24:46.100 to puppy top
00:24:46.640 from her, man.
00:24:47.380 Like...
00:24:47.680 You need Jesus.
00:24:49.220 You do.
00:24:49.700 You do.
00:24:50.040 She needs Jesus.
00:24:51.400 Maybe I need some God too,
00:24:52.880 but I'm not...
00:24:53.820 I'm just not going to cap
00:24:54.700 on the street.
00:24:55.300 I can't do it.
00:24:55.880 I can't lie.
00:24:56.740 I see her the way
00:24:57.580 she's looking up that bull.
00:24:58.920 The way she's there,
00:24:59.640 like eating the treats
00:25:00.540 and like being put in a cage.
00:25:01.900 Bro, I would.
00:25:02.840 I would.
00:25:03.480 This is bestiality.
00:25:05.080 This is disgusting.
00:25:06.880 You need a therapist.
00:25:08.340 You need help.
00:25:09.560 I make it a point
00:25:10.400 not to respond to
00:25:12.220 any of those negative comments
00:25:14.320 just because I know
00:25:15.740 it's not worth it.
00:25:17.180 Hands down,
00:25:17.980 this is the most
00:25:18.560 mentally healthy thing
00:25:19.480 that Dani has said.
00:25:20.840 I mean,
00:25:21.180 if Dani,
00:25:21.780 a person who has
00:25:22.480 actual anxiety issues,
00:25:24.100 can ignore negative comments,
00:25:25.680 then I don't see why
00:25:26.460 people like Taylor Lorenz
00:25:27.560 have to go cry in a corner
00:25:28.660 for a week because
00:25:29.280 someone said they didn't
00:25:30.000 like an article she wrote.
00:25:31.720 The bottom line,
00:25:32.780 though,
00:25:32.980 is that this is not just
00:25:33.980 some quirky alternative lifestyle.
00:25:36.240 It's people who have been
00:25:37.260 victims to likely
00:25:38.080 some pretty bad stuff
00:25:39.180 and they're...
00:25:39.580 Okay, new poll is up.
00:25:40.440 ...are acting out
00:25:41.020 these characters
00:25:41.580 as a way of not
00:25:42.480 dealing with their issues.
00:25:44.240 And what the promotion
00:25:45.060 of these kinds of
00:25:46.000 behaviors of denial
00:25:47.020 from many different movements
00:25:48.180 like, say,
00:25:48.660 the fat acceptance movement
00:25:49.900 has done
00:25:50.900 is it's pretty significantly
00:25:52.340 reduced the number
00:25:53.140 of partners who are desirable.
00:25:55.000 Again,
00:25:55.500 just to make this clear,
00:25:56.900 Truly is actively
00:25:58.080 promoting this stuff
00:25:58.960 along with many
00:25:59.780 other unhealthy relationships.
00:26:01.660 Can this
00:26:02.380 puppy-loving pair
00:26:03.540 convince the world
00:26:04.780 that what might seem
00:26:05.980 weird to others
00:26:06.740 is perfect for them?
00:26:08.560 So what will happen
00:26:09.420 is that people
00:26:09.980 watching this stuff
00:26:10.800 who are socially
00:26:11.440 on the edge
00:26:12.200 and don't know
00:26:12.960 that these behaviors
00:26:13.740 stem from psychological trauma
00:26:15.280 and mental health issues
00:26:16.440 is that they will
00:26:17.540 lean into their weird behaviors
00:26:18.980 and call themselves quirky
00:26:20.300 instead of fixing
00:26:21.100 their problems.
00:26:22.340 Remember that Max
00:26:23.240 got the idea
00:26:23.920 for her DDLG relationship
00:26:25.580 Why do so many
00:26:26.960 white couples
00:26:27.560 look like siblings?
00:26:28.660 and the idea
00:26:29.280 to behave like a five-year-old
00:26:30.580 from watching YouTube videos.
00:26:32.420 So then they go
00:26:33.280 through life saying,
00:26:34.500 Why don't I have any friends?
00:26:35.940 Why can't I get a job?
00:26:37.680 Why do things
00:26:38.340 not go my way in life?
00:26:40.160 This is why.
00:26:41.260 People are constantly
00:26:42.180 being pushed
00:26:42.860 into being less desirable
00:26:44.100 by big media companies
00:26:45.820 and activists.
00:26:47.080 Do you want to know
00:26:47.740 why there are less
00:26:48.640 and less good
00:26:49.200 relationship partners
00:26:50.120 out there?
00:26:51.060 How about we look
00:26:51.740 at the overweight
00:26:52.280 and obesity statistics
00:26:53.540 which describes
00:26:54.400 around 70% of America.
00:26:56.660 Both men and women
00:26:57.420 don't want
00:26:58.060 overweight partners.
00:26:59.680 Oh wait,
00:27:00.160 I can't say that
00:27:00.940 because it's been
00:27:01.500 deemed hate speech.
00:27:02.480 That's fatphobic!
00:27:03.760 Then add on the fact
00:27:04.680 that tons of people
00:27:05.540 can't get good jobs
00:27:06.660 because they were lied to
00:27:07.700 about the efficacy
00:27:08.380 of college
00:27:08.980 which in reality
00:27:10.280 just ended up
00:27:11.280 wasting four to six
00:27:12.440 important years
00:27:13.160 of their lives.
00:27:14.040 Yep,
00:27:14.320 because you were
00:27:14.660 learning about
00:27:15.040 gender theory
00:27:15.780 instead of actually
00:27:16.300 learning anything
00:27:16.800 that's applicable
00:27:17.420 to the fucking marketplace.
00:27:19.020 Being completely broke
00:27:20.160 in your mid-20s
00:27:21.000 and in tons of debt
00:27:21.900 is not sexy.
00:27:24.060 Then you have
00:27:24.600 the massive promotion
00:27:25.700 of sexual promiscuity
00:27:26.940 by mainstream media
00:27:28.100 Slut walk!
00:27:29.420 Feminism and the red pill
00:27:30.640 which is another behavior
00:27:32.100 that both men and women
00:27:33.180 find undesirable.
00:27:34.860 Where have all the good men gone?
00:27:36.380 Where have all the good women gone?
00:27:38.220 This is where they went.
00:27:39.640 They got convinced
00:27:40.440 to take on pathological behaviors
00:27:42.200 instead of self-improving.
00:27:44.100 We've had decades
00:27:45.100 of mainstream movements
00:27:46.360 promoting behaviors
00:27:47.280 that people find unattractive
00:27:48.900 and it's preventing us
00:27:50.140 from getting along.
00:27:51.020 Honestly,
00:27:52.140 maybe that's the point
00:27:53.100 because I've noticed
00:27:54.160 that people who have no friends
00:27:55.480 or good people around them
00:27:56.720 are quite susceptible
00:27:57.720 to tribalism.
00:27:59.260 All it takes
00:27:59.820 to screw people over
00:28:00.880 for many years
00:28:01.740 is a company like Truly saying
00:28:03.660 lean into your weirdness
00:28:05.340 you're just quirky.
00:28:07.160 No,
00:28:07.740 fix your mental health problems.
00:28:09.660 Go to the gym,
00:28:10.440 eat healthy,
00:28:11.360 take care of your appearance,
00:28:12.760 learn how to detect social cues,
00:28:14.740 learn how to maintain
00:28:15.620 good social boundaries,
00:28:17.240 start caring about people's needs
00:28:18.840 and start helping them.
00:28:19.920 Isn't it crazy, Chad,
00:28:20.740 how that's become
00:28:21.420 like conservative talking points
00:28:23.640 telling you to improve?
00:28:25.460 Did Brett Cooper
00:28:25.920 talk about me again?
00:28:26.800 We already fucking reacted to it.
00:28:28.140 You guys are obsessed
00:28:28.940 with Brett Cooper, man.
00:28:29.660 Get off your dick.
00:28:30.200 When you get all this stuff right,
00:28:31.620 people will magically
00:28:32.460 start to like you.
00:28:33.800 Like I said,
00:28:34.560 this is bad on both ends
00:28:35.840 of the spectrum.
00:28:36.960 You have feminism saying,
00:28:38.700 how dare you like a woman
00:28:40.000 because she is beautiful
00:28:41.080 and feminine?
00:28:42.100 That's sexist.
00:28:43.460 Then from the red pill side,
00:28:44.780 you see guys saying,
00:28:46.260 women are so shallow,
00:28:47.360 they never talked to me
00:28:48.320 until I got muscles
00:28:49.240 and started making more money.
00:28:50.900 How dare they like things
00:28:51.980 that are attractive?
00:28:53.560 No.
00:28:54.040 No, that's not what
00:28:54.780 people say.
00:28:56.140 Do what works.
00:28:57.180 If you improved yourself
00:28:58.240 and people responded well to that,
00:28:59.760 then great.
00:29:00.760 Stop getting resentful
00:29:01.840 because people want to be around you.
00:29:03.700 That's a great way
00:29:04.340 to end up alone and miserable.
00:29:06.180 I feel like I have to say it again
00:29:07.640 because this appears to be
00:29:08.780 people's number one sticking point.
00:29:10.760 Do what works.
00:29:11.880 If something's not getting you
00:29:13.360 what you want,
00:29:14.220 stop doing it.
00:29:15.100 The people who are successful
00:29:16.640 are able to quickly throw out
00:29:17.900 things that don't benefit them
00:29:19.140 and replace them
00:29:20.000 with things that do.
00:29:21.220 But in order to do that,
00:29:22.500 you need to
00:29:22.840 let go of your ego,
00:29:25.600 let go of your hurt feelings,
00:29:27.260 and critically assess
00:29:27.980 and critically assess
00:29:28.760 I sound like a 1930s journalist
00:29:32.480 and welcome back to
00:29:34.020 Doggy Top.
00:29:36.440 What you're doing
00:29:37.180 is actually leading you
00:29:38.300 in the right direction.
00:29:39.020 In the right direction.
00:29:40.100 Welcome back to
00:29:40.920 I'm lying that I don't want
00:29:42.180 some puppy top
00:29:42.940 when I really would get
00:29:43.940 slopped up by a bitch
00:29:45.160 acting like a dog.
00:29:46.820 You will be shocked
00:29:47.660 at how fast your life
00:29:48.720 will improve
00:29:49.340 when you start doing that.
00:29:50.960 Anyway,
00:29:51.700 thanks for watching,
00:29:52.800 follow me on Twitter,
00:29:53.720 and I'll see you
00:29:54.520 in the next video.
00:30:00.820 That's it.
00:30:01.340 Is this your job?