SNEAKO - July 18, 2022


Why Women Can’t Take Accountability for ANYTHING

Topics
politics and religion in dating dressing for themselves generalizing alcohol-fueled rape vs consensual sex
Hosted by
Nicolas Kenn De Balinthazy
Mentioned
Ruby Rose Cardi B Meg Thee Stallion Cardi B. Fucking Cardi B. Like Cardi B Mm-mm-mm Freezing Twerk Chad
Astrology Turns American Girls into Idiots. She Is In A Relationship With Herself...

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Length

26 minutes

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187.92

Word count

4,979

Sentence count

583

Harmful content

Misogyny

73

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Toxicity

102

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Hate speech

51

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In this episode, we discuss self-esteem, self-confidence, dating in your 20's and 30's, and what it means to be a woman in the 21st century. We also talk about how to deal with the pressures of social media, and why we shouldn t care so much about our social security numbers.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 What were some of the things that you were told about men while growing up?
00:00:03.520 I was told about men while I was growing up.
00:00:06.280 Yeah.
00:00:06.720 Not to get drunk around men.
00:00:09.100 Okay, so just like don't trust them?
00:00:10.700 Yes.
00:00:11.280 Okay.
00:00:12.120 Just a fun one.
00:00:13.160 Okay.
00:00:13.420 On a scale of 1 to 10, how would you rate yourself?
00:00:16.040 I'm a 10.
00:00:16.920 I'll definitely say a 10.
00:00:18.320 You're a 10.
00:00:21.620 Yeah, a 10 of course.
00:00:23.160 Does that mean there's no room for improvement?
00:00:25.460 No, always room for improvement.
00:00:27.300 But I just feel that I have a lot to bring to the table.
00:00:31.080 So, yes.
00:00:31.820 What?
00:00:32.060 If there was besides your eyelashes, what you got to bring to the table?
00:00:34.360 Are you 10?
00:00:35.180 One thing you can improve.
00:00:36.180 Chad, is she a 10?
00:00:37.540 I mean, it's like.
00:00:39.080 Prove about yourself.
00:00:39.900 What would that be?
00:00:42.140 I'll say.
00:00:47.020 I don't know.
00:00:48.760 Me?
00:00:49.260 Yeah.
00:00:51.820 Halfway mark.
00:00:53.140 Five, six.
00:00:54.220 If you could improve one thing about yourself, what would it be?
00:00:56.480 My self-confidence.
00:00:57.820 So, we're all 10s.
00:00:59.500 We're all 10s.
00:01:01.600 What the eyelashes look like.
00:01:03.340 There's a correlation between how long your fake eyelashes are and how diluted your self-esteem is.
00:01:09.840 Pretty much.
00:01:10.500 Pretty much.
00:01:11.080 Pretty much.
00:01:11.220 Okay.
00:01:12.320 Okay.
00:01:12.940 If you're all.
00:01:13.320 We're all 10s.
00:01:14.720 Does that mean like there's no room for improvement?
00:01:17.480 Of course.
00:01:18.380 You can always go to 20.
00:01:19.600 There's always room.
00:01:20.660 Okay.
00:01:21.080 If you were going to improve like one thing about yourself, what would it be?
00:01:24.340 My attitude.
00:01:25.600 My anger.
00:01:27.740 Your anger.
00:01:28.300 Yeah.
00:01:29.560 Being punctual.
00:01:30.960 I'm always late.
00:01:31.800 Punctional.
00:01:32.420 Okay.
00:01:33.440 All right.
00:01:34.580 Can you think of any time in recorded human history where women have had more power than 1.00
00:01:41.100 they do right now?
00:01:42.880 Not at all.
00:01:44.180 No?
00:01:44.640 No.
00:01:45.100 Okay.
00:01:45.300 Can you think of any countries other than Western countries like America, Australia,
00:01:49.460 Canada, where women have more power than they do in those countries? 1.00
00:01:56.120 Maybe the Queen of Elizabeth, you know, over there.
00:01:59.860 But I mean, probably not Asia.
00:02:01.560 The Queen of Elizabeth of London.
00:02:04.200 I'm a 10.
00:02:06.960 Probably not Asia or the Middle East or anything like that.
00:02:08.920 The Queen of London.
00:02:14.180 Right?
00:02:14.920 Women are pretty... 1.00
00:02:15.600 Okay.
00:02:16.060 Why do you think women... 1.00
00:02:17.020 Why do you think so many women feel so oppressed in both the time and place where they have the 1.00
00:02:20.600 most power?
00:02:21.220 Women have literally never had more power than today and they still... 1.00
00:02:26.520 Oh, age gap!
00:02:28.900 That's touchy.
00:02:29.780 That's gonna...
00:02:30.240 Right?
00:02:30.720 That's gonna go political.
00:02:32.280 Woo! 0.99
00:02:33.820 Because there's still like a lot of men who don't see the value of women.
00:02:38.260 What value do you have?
00:02:40.000 You 10?
00:02:41.060 Okay.
00:02:41.380 So it feels like we're always constantly having to prove ourselves.
00:02:44.000 Yeah.
00:02:44.280 What do you think is the difference between confidence and arrogance?
00:02:46.280 Ooh.
00:02:46.720 I literally just asked this question on the one minute podcast.
00:02:48.880 Ooh, your attitude.
00:02:50.320 Your attitude, okay.
00:02:50.860 How you carry yourself.
00:02:52.420 I was just having a conversation with my girls tonight about like wearing something like this.
00:02:55.960 It brings a lot to light because I still want to be viewed a certain way and not be viewed
00:03:03.340 a certain way.
00:03:04.620 If that makes any sense.
00:03:06.020 It makes no sense.
00:03:06.920 Right?
00:03:07.260 No, I don't know what I mean.
00:03:07.900 Okay.
00:03:08.540 Do you think that your partner's past body count matters in dating?
00:03:13.360 It shouldn't.
00:03:14.480 It shouldn't, but does it?
00:03:16.700 Not all the time.
00:03:17.460 Personally, it has affected me because an ex got a little crazy when I told him mine,
00:03:23.020 but.
00:03:24.360 What do you think her body count is?
00:03:26.440 Her ex went crazy.
00:03:27.420 She's got to be 25 plus. 1.00
00:03:29.720 Other than, yeah.
00:03:30.940 I think because my number was better than it.
00:03:32.740 Well, here's the thing, right?
00:03:33.920 Her number was better?
00:03:36.020 It's like a leaderboard.
00:03:37.580 If it, if it doesn't matter, why do so many people insist on keeping it a secret?
00:03:42.740 Because the opinion of a person.
00:03:45.380 Well, right.
00:03:45.820 But what's there to hide if there's no, if there's no.
00:03:48.140 It's just personal.
00:03:49.060 Like, because you don't want to be judged.
00:03:50.900 You don't want to come off being judged about something that had nothing to do with them
00:03:54.520 before.
00:03:54.800 I get that, but I'm saying the fact that you might be.
00:03:56.980 I feel like that's just like your social security number.
00:03:57.940 The fact that you.
00:03:58.620 Yeah, I can tell you, but why?
00:03:59.680 I want that to myself.
00:04:00.660 Right, but, but, but isn't.
00:04:01.940 Why though?
00:04:03.400 The fact that people feel judged by that, doesn't that mean that it shouldn't matter, but it
00:04:07.840 often does?
00:04:08.760 Yes.
00:04:09.420 So it does matter.
00:04:11.240 Not to me.
00:04:12.100 I'm not saying it.
00:04:12.860 Okay, but.
00:04:13.440 If it doesn't matter to you, then why do you tell everybody?
00:04:15.640 Generally, yes, it does matter.
00:04:16.840 To some, to some people, it actually does matter.
00:04:18.900 For the majority, it does matter where.
00:04:21.400 Do you think men and women can be just friends?
00:04:22.980 Yes.
00:04:25.000 So if you asked your best straight single male friend, if he.
00:04:27.360 Would you smash?
00:04:30.080 Would he say no?
00:04:31.140 Date you or hook up?
00:04:31.920 What do you think he would say?
00:04:32.660 He would say yes.
00:04:34.620 Yes.
00:04:35.300 So you can't be friends.
00:04:36.500 You're right.
00:04:37.560 But you can.
00:04:38.320 I retract that.
00:04:39.280 But you can, but usually it's the woman who sets the boundaries. 0.95
00:04:42.300 If you're not attracted to the person, you can be.
00:04:45.900 Yes.
00:04:46.140 Yes.
00:04:46.900 Okay.
00:04:47.500 Each of you, if you asked your best straight single male friend, if he date you or hook up,
00:04:52.100 what do you think he would say?
00:04:52.980 Yes.
00:04:53.940 So then you can't be friends.
00:04:55.440 You can't, but you can't.
00:04:56.580 You just have to know your boundaries.
00:04:57.860 Well, right.
00:04:58.420 But who typically.
00:04:59.060 I have a best friend for 10 years and we've never slept together.
00:05:01.560 Who's the one who typically sets the boundaries in the relationship? 0.71
00:05:03.840 The man or the woman? 0.99
00:05:04.940 Both.
00:05:05.540 The women. 0.81
00:05:07.060 Because if.
00:05:08.600 I'd say both, but definitely the female. 1.00
00:05:10.680 Me and him.
00:05:11.460 Is it, is it both or is it, is it one or is it the female?
00:05:14.180 I'd really say the female because she, as soon as he makes that move, she's like, okay, 0.96
00:05:19.280 I got to back up because you're catching feelings.
00:05:21.560 Okay.
00:05:22.000 So who typically sets the boundaries in the relationship?
00:05:24.620 The man or the woman? 0.99
00:05:25.240 Women. 0.81
00:05:25.560 The women. 0.81
00:05:26.020 Yes.
00:05:26.500 Do you think that gives them an advantage in relationships?
00:05:29.500 Um.
00:05:29.940 Yes.
00:05:31.300 Yes.
00:05:31.820 Yeah.
00:05:32.260 They have all the leverage.
00:05:33.420 Get all the attention for nothing.
00:05:35.480 Say that.
00:05:36.100 Because, I mean, if you're setting boundaries, then I guess you can let them have a little
00:05:39.240 bit, you know, of advantage.
00:05:40.580 Yes.
00:05:41.540 Why do you think women want equality in everything except for dating? 1.00
00:05:45.580 Um.
00:05:47.720 I'll say.
00:05:49.380 So they, so they can just have a more di, no, diagnic.
00:05:53.120 Uh, diagnic.
00:05:54.380 That's what I'm trying to say.
00:05:55.160 You know?
00:05:55.680 Oh, yeah.
00:05:56.360 So.
00:05:56.560 Was there anything in your experience dealing with men that came as a surprise to you? 0.96
00:06:03.140 Yeah, they're horn dogs. 0.99
00:06:04.720 They're horn dogs.
00:06:05.440 Okay.
00:06:06.320 Interesting.
00:06:06.720 No one tells you that.
00:06:08.320 Well, I mean, okay.
00:06:09.260 You figured that out.
00:06:10.120 Okay.
00:06:10.540 Pretty obvious, though.
00:06:12.500 So if, uh, if men are just natural horn dogs, why do you think women don't typically approach
00:06:18.180 men?
00:06:19.340 I mean, because pretty much, I mean, wouldn't that, wouldn't that make sense?
00:06:22.180 I mean, any, any guy, you know, that you go approach would probably be down, right?
00:06:25.560 Right.
00:06:25.800 So why are men typically the ones that approach women?
00:06:28.260 Interesting.
00:06:29.820 Um, I just think that's the way it should be.
00:06:33.760 That's the way it should be?
00:06:34.960 What's that based on?
00:06:36.660 Probably my values growing up, because I was not allowed to chase boys or call boys.
00:06:41.940 They had to pursue me, and they had to meet my dad first.
00:06:45.520 It's very hard.
00:06:46.640 Do you think, uh, religion and politics matter in dating?
00:06:50.140 Yes.
00:06:51.760 No.
00:06:52.820 No.
00:06:53.540 Okay.
00:06:54.100 I don't think that should define a relationship.
00:06:56.100 Okay.
00:06:57.020 So...
00:06:57.620 Love is love.
00:06:58.280 Well, let me ask you this. 0.99
00:06:59.220 They're going to argue about this shit later. 0.99
00:07:02.780 They're going to fight the rest of the night. 0.99
00:07:04.120 You don't think it does, but I mean, most women, like, probably wouldn't date a guy who,
00:07:09.000 like, was a Trump supporter, or they wouldn't date a guy who was a...
00:07:12.660 Or a Christian wouldn't date an atheist. 0.89
00:07:16.360 Right.
00:07:17.040 Or a vegan probably...
00:07:18.800 So it does matter.
00:07:20.060 Right.
00:07:20.260 Religion does matter.
00:07:22.160 Politics do matter in relationships.
00:07:24.260 Right.
00:07:24.600 I mean, I actually think it matters a lot, because...
00:07:27.160 Yes, of course.
00:07:27.380 Yes, of course.
00:07:27.820 Because, you know, I mean, like, there are some people I know...
00:07:29.780 You can have somebody that's Christian and have somebody that's atheist, and then, like,
00:07:33.200 the spirituality doesn't match because, you know, like, what if I believe in God,
00:07:36.120 and they don't believe in God, you know?
00:07:37.760 So I feel that's very important.
00:07:39.240 So why do you think that a lot of people will say don't discuss politics or religion on a first date
00:07:43.540 when it seems to be the first thing that you would want to talk about, right?
00:07:46.640 Yeah, I feel that maybe because they don't want it, like, to be too much drama all at first.
00:07:51.540 That's probably why, and they just want to keep it, because that's those hard topics they're really going to.
00:07:56.260 Yes.
00:07:57.000 But at the end of the day, if you love somebody, it's because you love them because of who they are,
00:08:01.320 not for what they do or what they stand for.
00:08:04.120 Do you think unconditional love is possible in a romantic relationship?
00:08:07.780 Yes, absolutely.
00:08:08.680 Nope.
00:08:09.800 You're one paycheck away from her leaving you.
00:08:12.080 Okay.
00:08:12.780 I believe it's possible, but why do we have a term called deal breakers?
00:08:17.100 Deal breakers.
00:08:18.580 Ooh.
00:08:19.180 Because people tend to find the, how do you say, the defects of other people.
00:08:26.940 I don't know, wait, los defectos in Espanol.
00:08:29.280 You see the beef brewing between them?
00:08:31.180 Look at this girl plotting right now. 1.00
00:08:33.840 Mm-mm-mm.
00:08:35.040 There's evil brewing in that head.
00:08:36.540 I'm sorry, of other people, you know, because they try to, I think because sometimes, like,
00:08:47.240 there just needs to be some drama that people want to cause, but I don't think it should
00:08:51.220 be, like, a problem with it, honestly.
00:08:53.060 Like, because if you're going to love somebody, like, I really hope somebody loves me the way
00:08:57.940 I am without having to force me to change, you know?
00:09:00.820 Sure.
00:09:00.940 So if I'm going to ever love somebody, I don't know, I'm sorry, did I lose myself?
00:09:05.740 No, it's okay, we'll move to a different question.
00:09:07.120 Okay.
00:09:07.400 Do you think men are socialized to protect and provide for women?
00:09:11.820 Yes.
00:09:12.260 Yes.
00:09:12.520 Okay, so they're raised that way.
00:09:14.560 Do you think some men go as far as putting women up on a pedestal?
00:09:17.740 Some men.
00:09:18.420 Yeah.
00:09:18.940 Okay.
00:09:19.500 If all that is true, why are there so many women who are angry at men? 0.99
00:09:23.940 Aren't those all good qualities?
00:09:25.940 Hmm.
00:09:26.760 That makes you think women are angry at men. 0.91
00:09:29.740 Because a lot of men are kind of demonized for being cheaters and liars and players and 0.99
00:09:35.740 corn dogs. 0.98
00:09:37.220 No, goes both ways. 0.85
00:09:38.340 Toxic masculinity. 1.00
00:09:39.720 You're toxic. 1.00
00:09:40.800 Please. 0.98
00:09:42.980 Okay, but I'm just saying, like, you know. 0.91
00:09:45.000 But you basically, a general, a generalization of men is cheaters and womanizers. 0.90
00:09:49.260 There's a term called toxic masculinity. 0.93
00:09:50.800 There's no term called toxic femininity.
00:09:52.440 Right, right, right.
00:09:53.380 So I'm just saying, like, why do you think a toxic...
00:09:55.180 Because women can never be wrong. 0.98
00:09:56.700 That's a fact, man.
00:09:57.720 There's no term called toxic femininity.
00:10:00.560 Term like that exists when most men are socialized to protect and provide for women and be, put them
00:10:06.900 on pedestals and be gentlemen.
00:10:08.180 Mm-hmm.
00:10:08.940 Where does that come from?
00:10:10.800 I think that's the way it used to be.
00:10:15.180 And hopefully, we're trying to continue those types of standards for our boys.
00:10:20.580 But I do see society, unfortunately, has changed a lot of that.
00:10:24.860 Do you think society is getting...
00:10:27.540 Like, what about society is changing?
00:10:28.920 Like, what...
00:10:29.920 Oh, first of all, you don't date.
00:10:30.680 You don't date.
00:10:31.420 Everything's online.
00:10:32.640 Okay.
00:10:33.260 Everything's online.
00:10:33.900 And I don't date.
00:10:34.660 I'm married.
00:10:35.240 But from my friends, you know, there's...
00:10:37.020 You don't meet up and have a beer and have a date.
00:10:39.220 You are online and you text.
00:10:41.480 And then it usually goes to sexting or wanting nude pictures of you very quickly.
00:10:48.100 And I've experienced even married where I've had that and I'm like, whoa.
00:10:52.360 Do you think there's a difference between what women say that they want in a relationship 1.00
00:10:56.720 and what they actually respond to?
00:11:00.260 Yes.
00:11:00.920 There's a difference.
00:11:01.600 So how can you trust a woman's dating advice? 1.00
00:11:03.920 How can I...
00:11:04.560 Oh.
00:11:05.900 How can you trust a woman's dating advice? 1.00
00:11:06.920 A lot of women will say that they want a nice guy, but then they'll go and date the bad boy. 1.00
00:11:11.580 Yeah.
00:11:12.240 So if women aren't backing up... 1.00
00:11:14.720 The girl on the right was not getting enough attention, so she left. 0.99
00:11:17.300 ...say that they want with their actions, doesn't that mean it's kind of hard to take women seriously 1.00
00:11:21.840 when they say they want certain things?
00:11:24.060 I think relationships are something that if it's a mutual feeling, both people will want
00:11:31.700 to work towards it.
00:11:33.440 If it's just like women like to say like, oh no, you know, do whatever you want. 1.00
00:11:39.240 But at the end of the day, we still want you to do what we want.
00:11:41.620 Like we're not, I'm not going to lie to you about that.
00:11:43.580 I can tell a guy like, oh, you don't have to get me...
00:11:46.140 Oh, I'm sorry.
00:11:46.920 You don't have to get me flowers.
00:11:48.380 But at the end of the day, I'll still want flowers.
00:11:50.720 Because women don't like to ask. 1.00
00:11:52.100 It makes no sense.
00:11:54.100 It makes no...
00:11:54.740 They want you to read their mind.
00:11:56.620 I don't want flowers, but get me flowers anyway.
00:11:58.800 No, don't touch me, but keep going.
00:12:00.920 But you have to master them.
00:12:02.960 You just need to master their minds.
00:12:04.520 Because look, she's just saying, I don't make any sense.
00:12:07.900 I want you to just figure it out.
00:12:11.960 It's set up.
00:12:12.920 The system is set up for men to fail now. 1.00
00:12:15.360 And if you don't get it right, you could slip up and hear this nonsense and then end up in jail. 0.99
00:12:20.320 You have to be really careful and be five steps ahead of their bullshit. 0.99
00:12:24.500 You don't have to get me flowers. 0.99
00:12:25.820 But at the end of the day, I'll still want flowers.
00:12:28.140 Because women don't like to ask for things. 1.00
00:12:31.140 So, sorry, going back to your question.
00:12:36.480 I'm not saying you shouldn't trust women.
00:12:38.120 You should.
00:12:38.520 But men should, like, you know, put their effort.
00:12:46.780 Women like to see effort. 1.00
00:12:47.860 At the end of the day, it's all about effort.
00:12:49.760 Okay.
00:12:50.080 Right?
00:12:50.320 Now, as far as...
00:12:51.560 I don't want to ask for paper flowers.
00:12:52.900 Okay, but here's the thing, right?
00:12:54.480 Do you think that it's true that women often find...
00:12:56.340 Do you think it's true that women often find...
00:12:59.700 What did that keep saying?
00:13:00.440 Do you think it's true that women often find attractive men cute and romantic 1.00
00:13:06.820 when an ugly one doing the exact same thing is creepy?
00:13:09.500 It's creepy. 0.71
00:13:10.740 Yes.
00:13:11.680 So then why do women... 1.00
00:13:12.620 So you can't trust women because they make no sense. 1.00
00:13:15.480 They make absolutely no sense. 1.00
00:13:16.840 If you're an ugly guy and you bring your flowers... 0.99
00:13:18.420 Ew! 0.99
00:13:19.480 Complain about guys not willing to make an effort.
00:13:21.780 All right, let me ask this.
00:13:22.920 When single women dress sexy and wear makeup, are they seeking attention? 1.00
00:13:28.700 Yes.
00:13:29.060 Not always.
00:13:30.040 Not always, but I mean, generally... 0.94
00:13:32.260 Who the fuck else are you putting on makeup for? 0.99
00:13:34.220 I hate this question because... 0.99
00:13:35.600 Not always.
00:13:36.220 Sometimes I put on makeup to feel good by myself.
00:13:39.780 But why? 1.00
00:13:40.620 If you were the only person on earth, you would throw that shit in the garbage and have to survive. 1.00
00:13:44.500 Makeup only exists because you're looked at all the time. 1.00
00:13:47.440 Come on.
00:13:48.180 Now I don't always put on makeup to be...
00:13:50.640 Not always.
00:13:55.120 Not always, but I mean, generally...
00:13:57.260 I mean, generally, I think you probably are.
00:13:59.140 I mean, that's just human nature.
00:14:00.180 Okay.
00:14:00.340 Are they seeking attention from other women, men, or the right man?
00:14:03.760 I think they're seeking some validation.
00:14:08.100 Validation.
00:14:08.640 Okay.
00:14:09.440 And there's a lot of women who say, you know, I dress a certain way for myself, right?
00:14:13.940 Right.
00:14:14.880 My question... 1.00
00:14:15.320 Horse shit. 1.00
00:14:16.980 My question is, if women are dressing for themselves, why do you often see women walking 1.00
00:14:22.380 around in uncomfortable shoes and skimpy dresses when it's freezing cold outside?
00:14:27.800 For myself, I'm gonna trip and fall and have to carry my shoes in my hands when I walk to
00:14:32.100 the cab because I'm doing it for myself and I'm freezing cold for me.
00:14:35.860 I don't do that.
00:14:37.160 I can't answer that.
00:14:37.500 I'm not saying you do, but I'm saying...
00:14:39.100 Why do they?
00:14:39.480 Are those women dressing for themselves? 1.00
00:14:41.200 I'm not like the other 40-year-old women. 0.98
00:14:43.920 If they're walking around with, you know, uncomfortable shoes and...
00:14:47.040 No.
00:14:47.240 No.
00:14:47.560 So they're dressing for attention, right?
00:14:48.720 Maybe.
00:14:49.320 Maybe.
00:14:50.000 But, you know, again, I...
00:14:51.480 Freezing, wearing skimpy outfits or, like, wearing really uncomfortable shoes.
00:14:56.980 I mean, they can't be dressing for themselves because otherwise they'd be comfortable and they
00:15:01.260 don't look very comfortable.
00:15:02.200 So what do you think about that?
00:15:03.100 I think a lot of women say that they dress for themselves, but they're really not dressing 0.99
00:15:07.380 for themselves.
00:15:07.700 Thank you.
00:15:08.260 I think it's, like, subconsciously dressing for others, but, like, they're like, oh, my...
00:15:12.440 Subconsciously? 0.99
00:15:13.680 You know what the fuck you're doing, but they gotta live in la-la land. 1.00
00:15:16.580 Mitzvah me! 1.00
00:15:17.740 I'm just dressing for myself.
00:15:19.860 Right.
00:15:20.220 Do you think there's a difference between what women say that they want and what they actually 0.93
00:15:22.880 respond to?
00:15:24.820 Yeah.
00:15:25.860 Yeah.
00:15:26.100 So can you trust a woman's dating advice? 1.00
00:15:27.740 No!
00:15:31.400 Depends.
00:15:31.800 Well, I'm just saying...
00:15:33.520 Probably not.
00:15:34.360 Probably not.
00:15:34.980 Thank you.
00:15:35.580 Thank you.
00:15:36.120 Thank you.
00:15:36.580 Thank you.
00:15:37.780 I like you.
00:15:39.420 You're the best one there.
00:15:40.760 I can't...
00:15:41.120 I don't know.
00:15:41.600 I mean, every woman's different. 1.00
00:15:42.880 You know, some of them choose to wear high heels every day of their... 1.00
00:15:46.000 No, there's definitely exceptions to every rule, but do you think generalizing is always
00:15:49.700 wrong?
00:15:51.020 Generalizing is wrong.
00:15:52.240 Is it always wrong?
00:15:54.820 No.
00:15:55.020 Now you're...
00:15:55.720 Bro, this guy has really good questions and it's the perfect example of how the Socratic 0.99
00:15:59.640 method works.
00:16:00.920 Instead of lecturing people, he's not...
00:16:02.700 He's saying all the stuff that I believe and I get all angry about it, but people can't
00:16:09.680 handle the truth and get turned off when you start...
00:16:11.480 You know, I understand.
00:16:12.460 It's abrasive.
00:16:13.020 It's annoying. 1.00
00:16:13.560 It's kind of being an asshole. 1.00
00:16:14.780 So he's just asking the questions and making them realize it for themselves. 1.00
00:16:18.200 That's the Socratic method.
00:16:19.480 That's the same thing I do with the One Minute Podcast. 0.99
00:16:21.200 So then people have to figure out their bullshit for themselves. 0.99
00:16:25.720 But there is an objective truth. 0.99
00:16:28.100 And if you really talk to enough people, you realize it.
00:16:30.800 Just like this interviewer.
00:16:32.100 Making me think about words that you're using.
00:16:34.200 Well, don't women typically want to date men taller than them? 0.96
00:16:36.760 Is that a generalization?
00:16:39.140 Men?
00:16:39.800 Yes.
00:16:40.280 Yes.
00:16:40.660 Women typically want to date a man taller than them, right? 1.00
00:16:43.040 Typically, yes.
00:16:43.640 So that's a generalization.
00:16:45.080 It must be, yes.
00:16:45.820 So generalizing is not always wrong.
00:16:47.520 It's not, right?
00:16:48.220 It's not always wrong.
00:16:48.820 There's certain patterns.
00:16:49.900 Yeah.
00:16:50.100 This guy is really good.
00:16:51.960 He's nice with it.
00:16:52.720 Do you guys like hip-hop music?
00:16:54.780 Yeah.
00:16:55.120 Yes.
00:16:55.640 A lot of women like hip-hop music. 1.00
00:16:57.260 Why do you think so many women like hip-hop music when so much of it is degrading to women? 1.00
00:17:02.100 Degrading to women. 1.00
00:17:03.240 Because it's truthful.
00:17:04.500 Because real music sounds good. 1.00
00:17:06.400 Oh, like ass, titties, all that. 1.00
00:17:09.000 Yeah, or just like, you know, uh... 1.00
00:17:11.040 Twerk, twerk, twerk, twerk, twerk.
00:17:13.000 Bust it open for real. 1.00
00:17:14.560 Pop that pussy, pop that pussy. 1.00
00:17:16.380 Yeah! 1.00
00:17:16.620 Uh... 0.81
00:17:17.340 Bitches ain't nothing but hoes and tricks, you know? 1.00
00:17:21.680 Why do so many women, you know, why do they listen to that music if it's degrading to women? 1.00
00:17:28.100 I think it's different now in 2020.
00:17:31.160 Because they like being degraded, but they also love complaining about it too.
00:17:34.760 I think now women listen more to female rappers, female singers. 1.00
00:17:43.300 Thoughts.
00:17:44.680 All the female rappers are just thoughts. 1.00
00:17:47.980 Just strippers who rap a little bit and didn't write their music. 1.00
00:17:52.620 Ruby Rose, Meg Thee Stallion, Cardi B. 1.00
00:17:55.200 Fucking thoughts. 1.00
00:17:56.940 They gave nothing. 1.00
00:17:58.200 They barely write their music. 0.99
00:17:59.440 Meg Thee Stallion's a liar. 1.00
00:18:00.700 Ruby Rose is a glorified stripper. 1.00
00:18:02.620 Cardi B's a former stripper.
00:18:03.900 They're just thoughts with microphones.
00:18:06.320 With nothing good.
00:18:07.500 And that's who all the girls look up to. 0.62
00:18:09.220 It affects the youth.
00:18:11.120 Like Cardi B.
00:18:11.620 Like Cardi B.
00:18:12.760 Meg Thee Stallion.
00:18:13.680 I think...
00:18:14.960 Okay, so...
00:18:16.080 So...
00:18:16.880 I think people are trying to normalize that.
00:18:19.120 Okay.
00:18:19.400 But it shouldn't be normalized.
00:18:20.700 Because we still have a lot of problems going on with sex trafficking. 0.98
00:18:24.560 You know, with women being raped. 1.00
00:18:27.000 Shut up! 1.00
00:18:27.320 Men also can get raped. 1.00
00:18:28.460 I'm not saying they can't. 1.00
00:18:29.340 Shut the fuck up! 1.00
00:18:29.820 But it's a very popular thing towards women. 1.00
00:18:31.580 Women being harassed when they're younger.
00:18:34.220 So...
00:18:34.580 I'm going to ask you... 0.97
00:18:36.560 Can I ask you a rape question? 1.00
00:18:37.820 It's a...
00:18:38.080 Yes.
00:18:38.400 It's a controversial question.
00:18:39.860 But I want to ask you and just go with me on this because it's an interesting topic.
00:18:42.800 Yeah.
00:18:43.040 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:18:43.260 Okay. 0.97
00:18:45.080 Imagine a woman jogging through a park and some drunken homeless guy just, you know, attacks her and rapes her and stuff, right?
00:18:51.580 I think we can all agree that that is criminal, that is a terrible thing, and that guy should be, you know, prosecuted, right?
00:18:57.160 Yes.
00:18:57.600 Okay. 0.54
00:18:58.220 Is there a difference between that alcohol-fueled rape and consensual sex under the influence of alcohol? 0.74
00:19:04.720 Is there a difference between that alcohol-fueled rape that I just described versus...
00:19:15.720 He's talking about the fact that, like, nowadays you say, like, you can't consent if you're drunk, but you could also get prosecuted if you drink and drive.
00:19:22.100 So why are you responsible when you get in a car when you're under the influence of alcohol, but if a girl is drunk, I didn't know what I was doing! 1.00
00:19:31.660 Versus consensual sex under the influence of alcohol.
00:19:34.980 Is there a difference between those two situations?
00:19:37.280 Yes, there is.
00:19:38.140 Okay, there is a difference.
00:19:39.040 Because...
00:19:39.240 Okay, go ahead and start.
00:19:40.180 Oh, sorry.
00:19:40.960 Because I know a lot... 0.97
00:19:42.780 Consensual sex, like, you... 0.99
00:19:44.820 Even if you're drunk, you know...
00:19:46.300 And you say yes, it could still be un-contextual.
00:19:51.100 It can't.
00:19:51.860 Un-con-sexual? 1.00
00:19:52.540 You fucking idiot. 1.00
00:19:55.000 You don't even know how to say the word that you're disgusted by. 1.00
00:19:58.020 It can be un-consensual.
00:19:59.460 It can be...
00:20:00.420 Un-contentual?
00:20:02.000 Un- un- con- lightning-
00:20:04.300 You just don't want to take accountability.
00:20:06.220 You regret it.
00:20:07.460 I was drunk, so I didn't.
00:20:08.840 I am literally incapable of making decisions.
00:20:12.960 Chat, the same logic does not ever apply to men.
00:20:16.460 Why don't they say that it's ever consensual? 0.98
00:20:18.280 like it's only non-contentual for women but men can be drunk and fuck anything and nobody says 0.99
00:20:25.240 whoa are you okay do you need did you did you consent did you could could you contend did you 0.99
00:20:34.240 context women like i mean i don't know but i'm guessing like when they do that it's because 1.00
00:20:40.860 they're drunk and i understand they're drunk you know sometimes you don't know what you're doing
00:20:44.680 whatever i don't know where i am that shouldn't be because i drank a beer even if you said yes when
00:20:49.520 you were drunk like it shouldn't matter it does matter wait i don't want to say shut up it matters 0.54
00:20:54.500 it matters but just because you were drunk that's not an excuse you know what you're doing you have 0.99
00:20:59.240 control over your body over your mind and when it comes to somebody jogging and getting raped
00:21:04.080 then that's different well because they have no control over that but here's my here's my ultimate
00:21:08.440 question why are women typically held accountable for their own actions when they babe i didn't 0.99
00:21:14.380 cheat i drank a shot of casamigos it's not my fault drive drunk but not when they have drunk sex 0.98
00:21:19.640 when they drive drunk but not when they have drunk sex do y'all know this
00:21:23.200 why are women typically held accountable for their own decisions when they drive drunk but not when 1.00
00:21:29.480 they have drunk sex because women are never wrong okay 1.00
00:21:32.920 maybe because this shit is blowing her fucking contextual mind the way our society works 1.00
00:21:42.920 women are always seen as lesser than men 1.00
00:21:46.220 yo chris from a and p is calling me should i pick up
00:21:48.180 a and p chris is calling me 0.53
00:21:52.740 what's popping gang i'm streaming right now what's popping
00:21:57.360 say what's up to my chat real quick we're on a red pill rage thing right now 0.81
00:22:06.000 what's up chad what's up chad what's up chad what's y'all doing what's y'all doing today what's y'all doing
00:22:11.260 what's y'all doing i was just trying to check in on you 0.97
00:22:13.100 check in on me we check out many why i'm fine how you doing they deleted your shit off youtube 0.98
00:22:16.960 yeah no no no but hold on hold on hold on 0.92
00:22:20.940 five seconds five seconds if i'm gonna keep i'm gonna censor everything out right
00:22:27.640 but i put this it's youtube's gonna like everything i censor i censor it's the actual thing
00:22:33.260 uh-huh
00:22:34.140 i can kind of see i can kind of see 1.00
00:22:38.900 damn nigga oh there we go 1.00
00:22:41.140 if i censor everything the fucking 1.00
00:22:44.920 the actual heat bill 0.96
00:22:46.880 it's only seven minutes
00:22:47.860 wait so what's the problem if you censor everything then what 0.98
00:22:52.740 but like youtube bill a certain fucking 0.99
00:22:56.740 i'm so sick of these niggas i i don't like susan 1.00
00:22:59.740 yeah susan sucks bro susan belongs to the streets 0.99
00:23:02.320 bro but but listen if if if if all right 0.99
00:23:05.540 but it will for this one thing 0.64
00:23:08.060 if the ceo of youtube was black 0.99
00:23:11.900 you think they were age-restrict fireworks nigga 1.00
00:23:15.480 if a nigga was in charge he'd be like fireworks is fun 1.00
00:23:19.960 yeah 0.97
00:23:20.540 am i true am i true am i
00:23:22.260 come on bro ain't no waist shoes in this
00:23:26.700 oh 0.99
00:23:27.480 they're just trying to keep the black man down 1.00
00:23:30.800 and if i see her i don't know how i'ma act 0.85
00:23:33.800 you'll be all right send me the video when it's done
00:23:38.960 all right done done done
00:23:40.380 l susan in the chat
00:23:44.080 if a woman it's true we both know it okay so let me no no i'm not saying you think like that
00:23:54.760 but a lot of you know in the society that we live in like people see women as less than men and it's normal we all understand that so when a woman is becoming powerful you know and wants to stand up for herself that's when the people start responding back because they don't know that they don't know how to control it because they don't see a woman and they don't know how to control it because they don't see a woman and they don't know how to control it
00:24:14.060 okay follow me on this question okay can you think of any time in recorded human history where women have more power than they have right now 1.00
00:24:23.060 look at that the ceo of youtube is susan women have more power today than ever and then look at she's never even contemplated this before she's never even heard of this contextual in her life 0.98
00:24:38.060 no no no can you think of any countries other than western countries like america canada australia where women have more power than they do in those countries 1.00
00:24:51.160 nope yes um also is australia a western country the middle east no southeast asia no so any western countries
00:25:00.700 no no so why do women feel so oppressed in both the time and place where women have the most power ever 1.00
00:25:08.440 because because either way at the end of the day they're women and women no matter what we do women are 1.00
00:25:18.380 always going to be seen as less than men at the end of the day because it's just the society that people
00:25:25.660 have normalized up until this day and unfortunately it's the truth like i've personally gone through it
00:25:35.240 like i'm a po you know do you think my people like my clients respect me as much as they respect the men
00:25:43.260 officers they don't you know even as much as they try to do that they don't do it because i'm a girl
00:25:50.120 we're complicated so i think you kind of just have to roll with the punches and be willing to
00:25:57.740 be flexible because women are naturally just complicated okay why do you think women are 1.00
00:26:03.420 naturally complicated because you make no fucking sense we're all very different um what it's just 0.76
00:26:09.500 i don't know if i could give you a good answer on that but we are uh what is the incentive to get 0.92
00:26:15.300 married i don't know i don't want to be married you don't want to get married you want to get married
00:26:19.580 yeah you want to get married you want to get married will you marry me no
00:26:22.120 yeah
00:26:25.160 no no no
00:26:25.820 no no no no
00:26:27.020 no no no no no
00:26:27.200 no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no
00:26:28.060 no no no no no no no no no no no no no
00:26:29.000 no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no hey no no do
00:26:29.220 no no no no no no yeah no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no