SNEAKO - December 21, 2022Women Happily Live in DELUSION
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss common sense vs. common sense wisdom, feelings vs. facts, and generalizing vs. generalizing. We also talk about a lot of other stuff that's not really important, but we'll get to that later.
Transcript
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one more time it's complicated the exception tell him tell it's free sneeko in the chat i wanted to
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post that interview so bad i'm not a i got nothing against you man you'll be all right you'll be
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all right can you tell me it's gonna be okay you're not gonna get canceled for posting an
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interview with me or at least it's complicated just put the date of the video before before i
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was part of the 824 what is the definition of common sense the opposite of what you got can
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don't you miss it what am i about to say what am i about to say
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wow i knew it was gonna be like crazy um i knew it was gonna be the opposite of everything that's
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when to do it, in the right place, at the right time.
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a uh an idea it might be a social norm it might be things that you gain through life experience
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as an adult this guy looks like he does unboxing videos like a if you know right from wrong kind of
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is common sense common it should be but it's not if not why do we still call it common sense
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that's a good question it should be but we live in a clown world dummy well what else would we
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call it what would be another word for common sense wisdom wisdom knowledge but we call it
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that either way both ways do you believe that feelings are more important than facts i do not
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feelings are real and they should be acknowledged but they shouldn't be disregarded when there are
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facts presented good good good and look at the eyelashes normal big ass forehead though do you
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I'm telling you, the Lee-Lee-Lee method is always accurate
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Do you believe feelings are more important than facts?
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You ready for the Lee-Lee to say some bullshit?
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That they shouldn't be disregarded when there are facts presented
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Do you believe that feelings are more important than facts?
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the li li li method they should write it in science books it should be studied in
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elementary school kindergartners should know about the li li li delusion I've
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never seen it spelled out so accurately in my life
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You could be upset by a fact, but that doesn't mean that the fact's wrong.
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Feelings are validated, but they're not like overruled by facts.
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Quote me in that paper, in that study when they talk about eyelashes.
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Was the correlation of how long your eyelashes are and the level of delusion that you live in.
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The chat is too slow for what the fuck just happened right now.
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How do you know the difference between what you feel and what you know?
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and you feel stuff that's obviously not factual.
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and words are made up by humans and everything's fake.
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How can you tell the difference between what you feel and what you know?
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I would say that if you can't directly state it
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and I can feel another way in a different moment.
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it's objective, it's factual, it's data, you know?
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to assume about a group of people, a group of places,
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You're gonna put that in there and be like this woman.
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my dog does. Yes. Aren't NBA players generally tall? Yes. Why is it so hard for people to
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identify patterns in the world? Because there's so much diversity. No, because they hurt your
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feelings. Every rule has an exception. Hey, Michael, Esau's here. Once might be a fluke. Twice might be
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a coincidence. Three times or more might be a pattern. So if there is one single exception,
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for example, for example, no, I personally believe, in my opinion, that does not disprove
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the rule it depends because with those patterns there's feelings involved so motion chat stop
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saying nigger faggot we want to get it's complicated to post my interview you're fucking
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it up you're fucking it up and facts are kind of operating in two different spectrums and sometimes
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they do cross but you can you can say facts that go against what somebody believes and they have a
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hard time processing are feelings more important than facts no i'm a middle man again yeah you led
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me sorry boy that's why you got earrings to that one but uh i believe i believe a good middle ground
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his feelings and facts and be able to control be able to control your own feelings and your own
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emotions based on facts but oh so no okay okay that was a bad answer but he believes and he's
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okay everyone's different nba players are often tall uh dogs usually bark i get that so generalization
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is helpful in that and it's something that people generally know but at the same time there are
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exceptions to these rules uh the exception you know every rule has an exception that's something
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Well, let me ask you this. At what point does a generalization become a stereotype?
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At what point does a generalization become a stereotype when that generalization has negative connotations?
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Chat, stop it. This dude sneaked a lot and said, hey, Vsauce, faggot here.
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Do I have, yo, for the documentary Soy Boy clipping this up right now, man, you can't even lie.
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It's a gray area if it's okay to make generalizations
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this may sound like it's stuck in the question,
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at least acknowledge the possibility that you might be wrong
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toasty racers hey d sauce michael here so what is a nigger
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no no bro bro daily beast you know how many chat you say this shit i know it's funny but
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i'm thinking about how many people are triggered watching this this is gonna end up on it in a
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Twitter thread. You know this, right? This dude just said, hey, Vsauce, Michael here. So what is
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a nigger? At least acknowledge the possibility that you might be wrong. Some people use
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stereotypes out of ignorance and I get it at the point where they're serious in belief. I can say
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white men can't jump play basketball and nobody gets offended all black men have uh big feet
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but uh if i'm just joking it's a joke but if i really believe in that truth in my heart
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then um that's ridiculous that's ignorant aren't jokes funny because they point out
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uncomfortable truths see truth they're funny absolutely i had a i had a biology teacher
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once who used to say that we laugh at jokes because we're uncomfortable. Women will often
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say things like all men cheat or men only want one thing. Are women more likely to accept negative
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generalizations about men than they are about women? Women can't handle the truth. Yes, that's
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very true. Yes, because there's so many negative experiences about men that it just makes it seem
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like every man cheats. Well, what if a man said that all women are gold diggers? Oh, you got me
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there just like men are more willing to accept negative negative generalizations about women
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than they are about men the thing is there's another old saying I got a million of these
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everybody is the hero of their own story everyone is the good guy of their own story whether whether
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factual or not you do want to believe that you are the bad guy us versus them them are not us
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so them must be in the wrong, for lack of better words.
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So a lot of it runs into confirmation bias as well.
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You want to believe that the side you're on is right.
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Yeah, yeah, come go on Podbean and check out my podcast.
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I talk about tech, I talk about food, and what coffee I'm drinking.
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Prove, if even to themselves, that the side they're on is, for lack of better words, the winning side.
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Why is it when it comes to calling out female behavior, it depends on the woman?
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Why is it labeled sexist to make generalizations about women but not men?
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I guess that's just how it's been going on for decades.
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because we prioritize feelings over facts and who has more feelings and who operates in facts
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women are emotional so they operate based on feeling and they are in charge right now so
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you can say anything you want about men you can't say shit about women isn't saying that
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masculinity is toxic generalizing about men yes yes why is it when giving a compliment it's okay
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to generalize but when giving a criticism it depends on the person because criticism can be
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positive or negative why is it labeled sexist to make generalizations about women but not men
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hmm i i feel like it'd be fair to label them both i don't think there's really an exception to be
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sexist if it's men or just a woman isn't saying that masculinity is toxic generalizing about men
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you're right yeah that would be toxic masculinity would be a label that generalizes men because
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masculine you attribute that to the male gender um if there are just genders nowadays who knows
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right um why do people often ask about somebody's zodiac sign when meeting a potential love interest
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because we prioritize feelings over facts good question i think because some people like to
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generalize being born is what you how you act isn't that generalizing absolutely do you think
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it gives false expectations yes are women more likely to believe in things like astrology and
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crystals than men are and if so why i have met more women that do that um but once again we're
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trying not to generalize here but i have met more women who believe in that kind of thing so
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i've never met a guy that wasn't gay that believed in astrology and crystals is that not generalizing
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to talk about zodiac signs it is absolutely yes do you think it gives false expectations yes yes
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are women more likely to believe in things like astrology and crystals than men are and if so why
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feelings over facts this is the stuff that i all realize and what really red-pilled me in college
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yes because they're more open-minded i would say like they don't believe like men usually
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don't believe in bullshit they want the facts i know that now i'm generalizing right but
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it's true is that not generalizing oh 100 it is 100 how can you say that some person won't
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be compatible with me just because they were born on a certain day when certain constellations
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or in the sky. Zero sense. It makes zero sense. Once again, lack of logic, lack of accountability.
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It's ridiculous. Do you believe that it's okay to generalize about men and women?
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Yes. Why are there countless best-selling books like Men Are From Mars and Women Are
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From Venus if generalizing is always wrong? Because people like that kind of stuff. They
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like to just believe that what they think is true and everybody else believes it.
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Why are there several best-selling books like Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus, if generalizing is wrong?
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Because life is complicated. The truth is complicated.
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Listen, I always say, I can do complicated just fine.
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Barely black and white. Black and white is simple, but reality is often more in shades of gray.
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So people often want to seek black and white answers to more easily explain and describe things that often may just be beyond man's realm of understanding.
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Women will often say things like, all men cheat or men only want one thing.
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Are women more likely to accept negative generalizations about men than they are about women?
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I think yes because I have heard that phrase many times before so I think that
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generalization of the other sex is very common. So why is it labeled sexist to
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make generalizations about women but not men? Oh it should be sexist all around
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the board. Stop laughing so much man. Am I being a hater just like. Saying that
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masculinity is toxic generalizing about men? Absolutely. It's I hate that's one of
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my the statements that I hate so much like it's such a generalization on men
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And it's like, if you say women are toxic, there's something wrong with that.
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But if you say men are toxic, it's like, oh, yeah, yeah, girl, like, my ex was blah, blah, blah, blah.
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And to say that men are toxic is just, to say a whole demographic, a whole population.
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it's evidence you have gotten by observing is it a valid argument to say i'm the exception
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or not all of something is true when being challenged on a social trend w edit yes i would
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say that that's a common phrase to say but i don't know that necessarily like oh i'm the exception
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well a lot of people are the exception does the exception disprove the rule yes absolutely it
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disproves the generalization well just because there are some women who will date a short guy
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does that mean that most women don't have a preference for height no so wouldn't that
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mean that the exception doesn't disprove the rule these are very thought-provoking questions
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i think that yes now that we've circled back yes small piece of anecdotal evidence opposed to
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actual facts and data so i think if there's like something small that they're like oh what about
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this but it's like hey that's that's a very very small percentage of what the general you know the
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truth is so i think that people if they have the exception is not the rule an agenda they're going
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to want to identify with the piece that goes along with their agenda if you have anecdotal evidence
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that is one thing but that anecdotal evidence must be backed up that's why we have the scientific
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method that's why we have peer review that what does he have that megaphone for like what is he
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That is why we have the constant presentation of evidence.
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Anecdotal evidence does have its use, but it is severely weakened, in my opinion, without true, hard, irrefutable, concrete evidence.
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If all women are so different, why do we have the expression, know how to treat a woman?
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Wouldn't that imply there's a universal nature that all women exhibit?
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It's going to depend on the society and what the society norms are.
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are right so like cultural relativism you're not going to use um what american women are like and
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go to india and treat them the same and think you're the best you know what i mean so i think
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it depends on the culture and the society and who the women are you know but i mean a universal
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truth it's not good to just punch a woman so i guess that's a good stereotype tonight well
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chat w or l on domestic abuse i hit them you know is there a difference between my truth and the
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truth yes there's an old saying when you tell a story there are three versions of the story
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your story my story and the truth chat should i pick up salim's phone call
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okay delay i'm gonna pick it up anyway yo i'm streaming what's up
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what's up guys what's up with you you're in a good mood
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i should have gotten to say a racial slur damn it hey i'm streaming say racial slur
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one rumble oh we'll leave we'll leave yeah okay chat folks with him
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uh and hence the phrase the truth usually lies somewhere in the middle and that's something i
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usually believe as well so i here's the thing your truth could possibly be the same as the truth
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however often with personal biases and whatnot things might get distorted it's quite possible
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so again that goes into what i say if you know something there could always be the possibility
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that you are wrong i try and acknowledge that whenever that i can but i'm not perfect
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isn't my that was good okay all right truth your subjective perception of the world and the truth
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is an objectifiably verifiable description of a situation ideally that is how it should be
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my truth is subjective because again it may be subject to my own personal biases and the truth
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is objective it is fact it is concrete it is proven it's there it's observable it's provable
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Would you ever take advice from somebody who didn't follow their own advice?
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Qualifies a person to be able to give good advice?
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Would you take advice from a personal trainer who was fat or a dentist
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with that soy boy who was taking antidepressants would you take would you listen to a fat trainer
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everybody knows no would you let a fucking surgeon operate on you
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with alzheimer's would you let a retarded surgeon operate on you probably not
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this is the heart you don't want that they are clearly incapable and they do not practice what
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they preach you cannot have a fat trainer so if somebody who's taking a pill every day and
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deciding i'm depressed i'm depressed i'm depressed don't let them tell you about happiness don't let
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him talk to you about what is masculine and what's toxically masculine get the fuck out of here you
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don't know shit it's complicated post the interview man we agree on everything
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experience different yes would you take advice from a personal trainer who was fat or a dentist
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who had rotten teeth no so don't you think people should lead by example they should yes so if you
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decide every day i'm depressed i'm depressed i'm depressed you know what you're doing you're
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suppressing your emotions you're gonna say people like oh you're toxically masculine you suppress
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your emotion you know what you do faggot every single time you take that you're suppressing your
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emotions you can't handle life so you alter your your serotonin with ssris and then they got the
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fucking nerve to call me toxically masculine yo eat an antidepressant they don't absolutely but
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if you tell me uh i have a hole right here you just look
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Then I'm going to look at that gross sentence and say, you're damn right.
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If the woman is fucked and after going up a flight of stairs that only had three steps,
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If I didn't see it look like your teeth, you're damn right, I'm going to start brushing and
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flossing and paying more attention to my oral hygiene schedule a lot of times they say do as
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i say not as i do all right and we're all guilty of that the thing is we make mistakes we are
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a lot of times for lack of better words we can be who we are and we make mistakes a lot of times
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we give advice to other people because we don't want them to make the mistakes that we made
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Even worse, sometimes we continue to make the same mistakes
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Most people might not always be right when they give you the advice.
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Like, for example, I give my friend's relationship advice out the wazoo,
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and I haven't been in a relationship for seven years.
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even though they might continue to make the same mistakes,
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bank for a loan and look at this monkey face probably it's probably like yo w monkey face
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in the chat that i'm not going to get a loan and also based on my uh fico score but still
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uh lead with that don't go with the monkey face lead with the fico score bro it is a lot of
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things that uh are possible but the probability is no it's not going to happen for you i thought
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about this i think i saw this in uh an andrew tate podcast he was talking about how 18 year
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will walk in a bank and they will quicker very quickly you don't even need to walk in a bank
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you could sign up online and get an 150 000 loan to go to school to go pay for your school and then
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make no money but if you go into a bank and you try to get a 30 000 loan and you're 18 for a
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business they are gonna ask for so much paperwork 90 of the time you're not gonna even get it you
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see how quickly they want you to get in debt but if you want to make something of yourself they're
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and be like whoa whoa whoa we need you a slave what's possible yeah you're not gonna go by what's
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more likely to happen no never why is that because the more chances that you take and the more risks
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that you take the better the outcomes are more exciting your life will be exactly why do people
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prefer to focus on the rare exceptions rather than the general truth because we like to believe that
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we're special and that we can do it like out of the extraordinary than like the average person
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but if everyone's special doesn't that mean that nobody's special yeah i think it's i think it's
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more so it's the people that take the steps to do it they're not necessarily special they're
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just action takers i think it goes thank you for the five sneak i just wanted to thank you
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for changing my life you helped me realize the truth about the world which is that you are a
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It goes to the fact that for some, reality may be unfavorable.
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The predicament you find yourself in is not where you want to be.
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well, it doesn't seem like it's ever going to get any better.
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You look at the exception because ideally it shows that that is possible, you know, because
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We'll always take this one dude who goes on like some nonsense rant and then put it way
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And if that exception happened once, maybe it can happen again for me.
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Maybe I can get to where I want to get in life.
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Maybe I don't have to be stuck in the spot I'm in.
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Maybe things can change from something unfavorable to something better.