SNEAKO - January 12, 2025
YOUR BIGGEST FEAR SHOULD BE A LIFE OF REGRET.
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Summary
In this episode of the One Minute Podcast, Ronster talks about the fear of regret and how to overcome it. He talks about his own experience with regret, and how it shaped him into the person he is today.
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when i was a little kid watching that like on god bro i'm watching your videos every day and i was
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oh sorry i don't have anything i don't got any like actual like coins but i think i have like
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coins or something are you killed coins oh yeah i just said
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okay it's an ashtray what is it so there's no real
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80 of you over 19 years of age haven't accomplished the dreams you had as a kid
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that's a statistic i made up and it sounds pretty reasonable i used to want to be a professional
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soccer player but every 10 year old wants to be a pro whatever shitty sport their parents made
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them play when i was 11 i wanted to be a doctor because that's what my filipino grandparents said
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i wanted to be one of the very few stereotypes i actually have but now as a 15 year old my dream
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job is to be a comedian i know it's not realistic and i know it's probably not going to happen but
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that's why i call it a dream job but that's just what i tell people i actually think i could become
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a comedian if i really tried it has nothing to do with that follow your dreams disney
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bullshit i really believe that if you're motivated to do something that you're good at you can do it
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people throw the term selling out a lot and i believe that if you accept a dead-end
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fucking job to pay your bills you're selling out it's not like you can accomplish your dreams later
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on in life this is something you can't procrastinate you actually have to do it those conversations you
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have when you're 40 about what could have been should have been that was 12 years ago if you can
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believe that and i hate watching that because i don't think i've topped that video since
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and nothing has changed the only thing i fear beside god is a life of regret i always had a lot
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of dreams that i don't think that anybody doesn't and the only nightmares i can truly remember was
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rocking back and forth in a rocking chair on the porch imagining what could have been the fear of
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having lived a life where my dreams were always dreams 12 years ago i had the realization that a life
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of regret is usually realized by the fear of judgment and the only common denominator that helped me start
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pursuing my dream so early was the realization that embarrassment is way better than regret imagine
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you try and fail and people ridicule you and maybe you realize you're not even talented at all but
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being a little bit cringe is always better than thinking what if what if i should have tried imagine
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rocking back and forth on that porch thinking imagine if i had given it my all what if i dropped out of
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college when i knew i should have what if i never took that nine to five job and followed my dreams
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instead other kids would crawl under the bed thinking that there might be a monster i would
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crawl under the bed out of fear of living a life of quiet desperation yesterday when i did the one
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minute podcast this kid was about 17 years old came up to me and he didn't care about the questions
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he just wanted some advice i'm trying to do content too i mean what would you say is the best like
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advice for doing content you know it's funny i was having this conversation with uh five kids on the
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train earlier they're like is streaming really harder than a nine to five and i'm like yeah it is
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in every way but you can't say that publicly because people who work nine to fives they're they
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get really oh your streaming is easy every streamer publicly will be like no nine to fives are harder
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because they want to get those people watching their videos streaming consistently at the top level
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it's one of the hardest things you have to always be on it you have to constantly deal with pressure
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you have to be consistent you have to always be motivated thinking of new things it's a very
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difficult job but the trick is not acting like it's difficult and keeping it fun and and
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he was right at that age where you approach the crossroads where you could fully follow your dreams
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or decide to start going down the path of a comfortable safe life that choice everyone in life
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needs to make where you need to decide if your dreams are even realistic at all and i had to be
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realistic with him because most people won't make it it seems plausible to most because they only see
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success streaming is actually harder than the average nine to five and the reason it's a well-kept
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secret is because the world only wants to see who's at the finish line they want to see the end result
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the ribbons the lamborghini everything that's flashy and interesting to look at but they don't care
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about those late nights grinding in the gym nobody wants to hear or see about the endless sleepless
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hungry nights so the grueling parts are kept a secret and you let the world look at the flashy
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parts and dream even more for example there's a running joke in the love speech community where
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people called me lazy co there was a barrage of people calling me that after a stream with aiden
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ross and islam makachev do you know about my friend was supposed to come to do you know who snico is
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he's muslim he talks highly of you no he couldn't be here today but he he's just a big fan of you he likes
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you a lot what's up man where are you and it's a running joke but there's truth in it because
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people only care to see the end product do you think chronically online people want to see anybody
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chronically working the idea of that fear was realized 12 years ago but as i got older you figure
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out that you really just fear none except god of course because if you truly fear nothing judgment
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criticism failure then there's nothing in this life that's capable of stopping you on your mission
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you're hosting the casey nice that look-alike contest who wants that fifty dollars
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who wants that fifty dollars so five laps three two one go let's go come on how is the cheater losing
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oh my god are you okay are you okay are you okay are you okay yeah yeah thanks everybody we're coming
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out thank you how you doing man how's it going bro how is no one like stormed here bro so why you
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i'm uh right now i'm bruce wayne i'm undercover i thought you should have won hey hey you know i
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could have won but look at my shoes i'm wearing dress shoes and my shoes little oh yeah yeah my
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she got a little but your most inspirational all right because when i was a little kid watching your
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videos every day and i was oh sorry i don't have anything i don't got any like actual like coins but i
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think i think i have like coins or something are you killed coins
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every time i'm right here you know how i'm flowing yo my son can't do that's the camera man he got the
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canyon man yo that's manga man see it's all around this pool have to settle man but i ain't moving
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like a settlement and he got the skin man trying to block the face you know that i'm writing you know
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my spot is great just in case you would know you know how i flow