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00:00:00.200 Why men and women can't be friends. 1.00

00:00:02.560 When you first meet a guy, how do you decide if he's going to be a friend or more than a friend?

00:00:06.640 And more importantly, when do you decide?

00:00:08.380 She's attracted to him.

00:00:10.300 Then she wants him.

00:00:11.140 If she's unattracted, that's a friend.

00:00:13.020 I just like you like as a brother.

00:00:14.860 It's often said a woman will know right away.

00:00:17.720 Oh, I don't know.

00:00:19.260 I like to keep them all as friends for the first little bit.

00:00:22.220 Bruh.

00:00:23.260 Wrong.

00:00:24.240 If the vibes are good, then he can be more than a friend.

00:00:27.300 I agree, because if the vibes are good and the energy.

00:00:30.680 If the vibes are vibey and I'm feeling manifesting, then it's vibey.

00:00:34.920 If it's feeling, if I'm manifesting it, then we're compatible.

00:00:39.460 If it's good, then you can't really go wrong.

00:00:42.800 What is the difference between a friend and an acquaintance?

00:00:46.560 An acquaintance is someone that I'm just going to talk to for a day.

00:00:49.600 If I run into you, I'll talk to you.

00:00:52.020 But a friend, I'm going to talk to you.

00:00:54.320 I'm going to check up on you.

00:00:55.060 I care about you.

00:00:55.660 I feel like an acquaintance is just somebody I know, you know?

00:00:59.620 And then, like, a friend is somebody I talk to on, like, a regular basis.

00:01:04.220 Like her.

00:01:05.520 What does it mean when people say dating is more than friends?

00:01:10.280 I feel like dating, your acquaintance, not your acquaintance.

00:01:13.800 Your partner should be your best friend.

00:01:15.940 Wrong.

00:01:16.720 Nope!

00:01:18.240 Nope!

00:01:19.440 You're, like, friends with many people,

00:01:21.460 But dating is, like, you only date this person.

00:01:24.420 Yeah.

00:01:24.620 Or you're sharing more of your, yeah, personality with only one person.

00:01:30.020 Yeah. 0.98

00:01:30.140 And I definitely wouldn't have, like, sex with a friend.

00:01:33.060 So that is, like, not possible for me.

00:01:35.020 So would you, would you say that the purpose of dating is, is sex?

00:01:39.740 Yeah.

00:01:40.360 Kind of.

00:01:40.720 Like, it's not the main purpose, but it is, like, it goes hand in hand, I would say.

00:01:46.460 It's a requirement, I guess you would say.

00:01:48.440 Yeah.

00:01:48.880 But, yeah, yeah.

00:01:49.720 If a friend expected you to provide everything, would that be a toxic relationship?

00:01:54.880 Hell yeah! 0.95

00:01:56.100 Yes.

00:01:57.200 So why is it considered toxic when friends become users,

00:02:01.140 But it's normal when women expect a man to provide more than just his company? 1.00

00:02:06.840 A man is a provider.

00:02:08.560 A man is a provider, even if you're friends!

00:02:11.360 Get out! 0.98

00:02:12.300 Get out! 0.98

00:02:13.260 This is the part of the movie where it's like, no!

00:02:15.700 No!

00:02:16.140 Get out! 0.98

00:02:17.000 Get out! 0.98

00:02:17.860 You're being used!

00:02:20.700 A man has to provide for me because he's a man, but I'm doing nothing. 1.00

00:02:24.740 Are you dumb? 1.00

00:02:25.880 That's not a friend! 1.00

00:02:27.400 You're her boyfriend, and she's not your girlfriend! 1.00

00:02:31.140 But I think, I do think it should be 50-50 equal from both partners.

00:02:35.540 I agree, because if you don't have any part in it, then you're really just not doing anything.

00:02:39.600 And usually your partner would say something to you, but if not, then they usually don't mind.

00:02:44.000 But I think it's 50-50.

00:02:46.660 A guy doesn't have to always pay.

00:02:48.940 It should be both parts.

00:02:50.040 Oh.

00:02:51.580 Oh.

00:02:52.620 If a friend expected you to provide everything, would that be a toxic relationship?

00:02:58.240 Hell yeah.

00:02:59.560 So then why is it considered toxic when friends become users, but it's normal when women expect 1.00

00:03:05.580 a man...

00:03:06.580 Whoop!

00:03:07.800 God.

00:03:09.120 This is...

00:03:09.640 At least make it look a little bit natural, bro.

00:03:13.000 Holy...

00:03:13.500 To provide more than just his company.

00:03:15.520 Well, see, if I'm in a very deep, like, relationship with a man, like, it just means he should be giving

00:03:29.740 his all to me.

00:03:31.640 Well, shouldn't you both be giving your all to each other?

00:03:34.860 I mean, yeah.

00:03:36.220 Yes, but the man should want to give more.

00:03:40.040 Well...

00:03:40.540 Boom, Bukka! 1.00

00:03:42.540 I don't like Bukka! 0.93

00:03:43.520 Okay, so how come...

00:03:44.800 Okay, so why is it in the age of independent women, a man's value is often determined by what

00:03:49.740 he provides?

00:03:50.520 Oh, wow, that kind of threw me for...

00:03:55.740 Ah, she belongs to the streets! 1.00

00:03:58.240 Focus on yourself.

00:03:59.440 They will bleed you dry of everything you got, bro!

00:04:02.780 Bro, look.

00:04:05.480 I don't think it's always based off of what he provides, but we do want to provide her

00:04:11.340 probably because of history.

00:04:13.220 It's history's fault.

00:04:14.440 It's not mine.

00:04:15.240 I don't take any accountability.

00:04:16.900 It's society-stigmatized stereotypes.

00:04:18.900 Honestly, though, with independent women, they don't need a man. 1.00

00:04:23.500 They don't.

00:04:23.800 So it doesn't matter what you have because...

00:04:25.860 It depends on the woman, for sure. 1.00

00:04:26.820 The woman is wanting you, not needing you, if she's independent. 0.99

00:04:29.580 Now, if she's not independent... 0.82

00:04:30.780 Chat, do you want an independent woman? 1.00

00:04:33.700 Does anyone want an independent woman? 1.00

00:04:35.380 Who gave them this idea, bro?

00:04:37.140 Then she's for sure gonna be all on you about what you have to offer because she don't got 1.00

00:04:42.300 shit. 0.99

00:04:43.160 You need a man because all that, I'ma go get it on my own, get the bag and run off, 1.00

00:04:48.640 and do all this, man.

00:04:51.380 Okay, see where you at later on.

00:04:53.660 Nobody wants that.

00:04:55.180 Stop.

00:04:55.620 They're telling them that.

00:04:56.640 They're brainwashing them to think that.

00:04:58.380 So we're all confused and we get sadder.

00:05:00.520 I'm independent.

00:05:01.520 I'm independent.

00:05:02.560 I'm a girl boss queen, okay? 1.00

00:05:04.580 Nobody gives a fuck with your friends, bro. 1.00

00:05:06.620 All that shit. 1.00

00:05:07.300 When the ass flatten out, all the ass shots get, uh, and the titties start. 1.00

00:05:10.780 And when the plastic fades and the lip fillers dry out and the eyelashes fall and you just 0.99

00:05:16.940 look like a goofy 40-year-old with a bunch of fading plastic and dying eyelashes, nobody's

00:05:21.860 gonna want you. 0.98

00:05:22.800 Man.

00:05:23.020 It is what it is.

00:05:25.140 Yeah, when tattoos ain't looking like that and you used to be light-skinned, uh-huh, 0.94

00:05:30.140 baddie, out the window.

00:05:32.200 Go.

00:05:33.060 Bye.

00:05:33.800 Go ahead and pack it up.

00:05:35.160 You're gonna be looking for what?

00:05:36.700 You ain't finna be looking for no female. 0.99

00:05:38.580 You ain't finna be looking for no OnlyFans.

00:05:40.040 You're gonna be looking for me.

00:05:41.880 Look what?

00:05:42.480 A man.

00:05:43.040 So get it locked right now.

00:05:45.280 Get it on top right now.

00:05:46.820 You know what I'm saying? 1.00

00:05:47.580 Get your shit right, bro. 1.00

00:05:48.460 I'm hella married, you know, so me and my girl for life. 1.00

00:05:53.600 That's the face of a guy who's in a good relationship with a good woman.

00:05:56.820 Look how happy he is.

00:05:57.740 You know what I'm saying?

00:05:58.600 But y'all other hoes, which y'all is hoes. 1.00

00:06:01.520 I'm sorry.

00:06:02.160 You know what I'm saying? 0.99

00:06:02.820 But goddamn, y'all tripping now. 0.99

00:06:05.180 I don't like mine. 1.00

00:06:06.360 Get him out of here.

00:06:07.120 Megan Thee Stallion.

00:06:08.840 Body, body, body, body, body, body, body, body, body, body, body, body, body, body,

00:06:11.180 brain washing all of you, brain washing all of you. 0.88

00:06:13.560 You have nothing.

00:06:14.660 And she just lies. 0.79

00:06:15.920 And all you believe her lies, bro.

00:06:17.580 Free Tory.

00:06:18.920 Free Tory.

00:06:19.680 Megan, you lied.

00:06:20.500 You stepped on glass, Goofy. 1.00

00:06:22.440 I fuck with you, but I don't fuck with you like that. 1.00

00:06:24.320 That shit. 1.00

00:06:24.720 I would fuck with you, but I'm not gonna fuck with you. 1.00

00:06:27.340 Cold, man. 1.00

00:06:27.880 You killing these bitches, man. 1.00

00:06:29.060 You killing the whole situation. 1.00

00:06:30.860 Why do women often choose to make lists of what they want in a relationship rather than 1.00

00:06:35.240 what they bring to them?

00:06:35.960 He needs to be six feet tall, six feet, six pack, six figs, six inch, six...

00:06:41.360 But I just have...

00:06:43.140 I'm perfect.

00:06:43.680 I'm a 10.

00:06:44.100 I don't need to change.

00:06:45.620 Manifestation.

00:06:46.020 Lists of what they want in a relationship rather than what they bring to the table.

00:06:54.720 Manifestation.

00:06:55.900 Bumbucker. 1.00

00:06:56.680 Shut the fuck up. 1.00

00:07:00.360 Go manifest a non-stinky pussy first. 1.00

00:07:04.080 Can you be more specific? 1.00

00:07:05.140 What does that mean?

00:07:05.700 Like that if you say you want something in a man, you can find it. 0.53

00:07:09.480 If you write it down, you can find it.

00:07:11.000 What are you talking about?

00:07:13.400 You writing spells?

00:07:15.700 You have feathers on your head.

00:07:17.780 You don't deserve a... 1.00

00:07:18.700 What the fuck? 1.00

00:07:20.400 Okay. 1.00

00:07:21.320 When it comes to relationships...

00:07:22.500 Look at her. 1.00

00:07:22.980 She's like, yeah, I'm full of shit. 1.00

00:07:24.560 I'm realizing it right now. 1.00

00:07:25.800 But ha ha ha.

00:07:26.780 My friend won't check me.

00:07:27.960 Chips, is there anything that a woman brings to the table that a man isn't also expected to 0.99

00:07:32.240 bring?

00:07:32.500 No.

00:07:34.900 I don't think so.

00:07:37.200 Okay.

00:07:37.500 I mean, a lot of women might say they provide children, but does a woman provide children 1.00

00:07:41.380 for every man she dates?

00:07:42.640 No.

00:07:43.700 So then if women basically don't provide anything that a man doesn't also provide... 1.00

00:07:47.860 Get them up out of here.

00:07:49.100 Focus on yourself.

00:07:50.260 Why do so many women think that they're the prize? 1.00

00:07:54.460 Halfway.

00:07:56.540 If your friend...

00:07:57.400 Silence.

00:07:58.000 If you become more than friends with somebody and they expect you to treat them and pay for

00:08:02.360 them all the time and stuff, we would consider that a user.

00:08:04.780 But if you become more than friends with somebody and they expect more than it's expected, why

00:08:10.120 is that not a user?

00:08:11.320 Again, society's labels, man.

00:08:12.800 I mean, it's the upbringing and the way people are taught it should be.

00:08:16.660 Dating is just glorified prostitution nowadays. 0.96

00:08:20.040 Don't women typically just have to show up and look attractive? 1.00

00:08:22.940 Yep.

00:08:23.340 It could, that could be a yes, but it's not, it's not even...

00:08:29.880 He knows the answer is yes, but he's too afraid to because he doesn't want to get canceled.

00:08:34.640 It's not even that.

00:08:35.960 Well, who gets the better deal?

00:08:37.740 Um, of course a woman do, because the looks. 1.00

00:08:40.280 Okay, don't women enjoy sex too? 1.00

00:08:42.160 Oh yeah, they enjoy more than men. 0.96

00:08:44.260 Well, isn't sex something that's shared while money is something that's taken?

00:08:47.500 Of course.

00:08:48.440 So then who gets the better deal?

00:08:49.900 Oh! 0.99

00:08:52.540 Sex. 0.99

00:08:53.340 No, I mean, women get the better deal. 1.00

00:08:55.140 What the hell are you talking about? 0.93

00:08:56.440 What? 0.98

00:08:57.240 Yeah, women get the better deal. 1.00

00:08:58.720 Right, that's what you're saying.

00:08:59.740 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:09:00.660 I'm from Kentucky.

00:09:01.740 I'm from, I'm from the, from the country, from the South.

00:09:04.180 It's the upbringing where a man is expecting to take care of a woman. 0.98

00:09:07.620 That's, that's, that's just expected.

00:09:09.220 That's how, that's, that's how we're up, that's, that's how we're brought up.

00:09:11.980 But now the West Coast style of living that I'm more accustomed to now, after being here

00:09:15.940 for two years, I see the more even, it's like, it's an even playing field where a woman

00:09:21.300 is just as responsible as a man.

00:09:22.700 Well, right, but is it really?

00:09:24.740 Because at the same time.

00:09:26.000 There's equal opportunity.

00:09:27.040 I believe it's become more these days than ever.

00:09:29.360 I'm saying if a woman doesn't bring more to a relationship than a man does, and a man 0.98

00:09:34.980 often brings more to a relationship than a woman does, because a man typically is seen 0.99

00:09:38.260 as the provider and the protector, why is the man not considered the prize?

00:09:43.520 I feel like a man is considered a prize. 0.70

00:09:46.360 Wrong.

00:09:46.760 At least in my perspective, if my, like, at least my man is, like, he's a, you know what

00:09:51.060 I mean?

00:09:51.300 Like, they're doing what they're supposed to be doing.

00:09:52.540 And then here you are in the streets selling your body, bro. 0.99

00:09:55.060 You're taking pictures with tourists with your titties out. 0.99

00:09:57.140 Half-sweigh. 0.98

00:09:57.720 He's doing them their prize.

00:09:59.220 Okay.

00:10:00.100 Who gets to define what a man is supposed to be doing?

00:10:04.280 If he meets your needs.

00:10:08.180 Get him up out of here. 0.99

00:10:11.020 They all think this shit, and they don't see how nonsensical it is, and I'm trying to 1.00

00:10:15.260 tell you it's bigger than just the red pill. 1.00

00:10:17.560 It's not some incel-hating women shit. 1.00

00:10:19.480 They are all brainwashed to think this, so that they can take our power away. 1.00

00:10:24.880 The solution is to focus on yourself, bro, because no, it's not worth it.

00:10:29.960 They're going to cheat on you. 1.00

00:10:30.900 They're going to leave you.

00:10:31.580 They're going to key your car. 1.00

00:10:33.100 They're all insane. 0.97

00:10:34.080 They think being toxic is fun. 0.98

00:10:35.840 They look smiley and goofy now, but as soon as they do something, if you don't read their

00:10:40.080 mind, literally, they'll key your car.

00:10:43.260 Should a man be expected to love a woman for who she is if a woman only loves a man for 1.00

00:10:49.200 what he provides?

00:10:51.700 Well, that's what it's about, though.

00:10:54.400 See what I'm saying?

00:10:55.660 They will bleed your wallet dry and give you nothing.

00:10:59.440 That's exactly the definition of a relationship between a man and a woman. 0.80

00:11:05.000 Do you see how brainwashed they are?

00:11:06.680 The definition, exactly the definition of a relationship between a man and a woman is 1.00

00:11:11.420 a man giving everything while this bitch gives nothing but la-la-land nonsense, and 1.00

00:11:19.060 she thinks she's perfect. 1.00

00:11:20.520 They won't improve.

00:11:21.680 She's toxic for fun, and she's on Instagram all day. 1.00

00:11:24.600 It's broken.

00:11:25.840 They all think this, and they were taught this.

00:11:28.420 They're bots.

00:11:29.280 Wake up, man.

00:11:32.620 As a woman appreciates what a man has to offer, they'll always hold them down. 1.00

00:11:36.660 Because he's a provider.

00:11:37.800 He's an omega.

00:11:38.820 The woman... 1.00

00:11:39.460 What's the difference between this and prostitution? 1.00

00:11:42.300 Someone explain to me what the difference is.

00:11:44.460 Providing money and your whole life? 0.99

00:11:47.420 Because a prostitute is just money. 1.00

00:11:49.460 But these bitches, it's not just money. 1.00

00:11:51.300 It's your whole life. 1.00

00:11:52.420 For what?

00:11:53.480 What do you bring to the table, eyelash girl? 1.00

00:11:55.780 And it's the person that's supposed to be a nurturer, and really, she's there to just

00:12:00.340 procreate.

00:12:02.140 And just there to procreate.

00:12:04.260 And do they procreate in most of your relationships?

00:12:06.400 No!

00:12:07.360 No!

00:12:09.560 Ah!

00:12:11.100 Doesn't provide.

00:12:12.480 Calm down.

00:12:13.300 Take a pill.

00:12:13.880 Why are you so mad?

00:12:15.400 When are...

00:12:15.780 Who hurt you? 1.00

00:12:16.660 Shut the fuck up. 1.00

00:12:17.460 He ain't gonna get the girl, so therefore, she's... 1.00

00:12:20.080 She's used.

00:12:21.340 I mean, you know what I mean?

00:12:23.340 She's gonna use you for your money regardless. 1.00

00:12:25.780 Social space. 1.00

00:12:26.420 You're better off going with, like, a prostitute or something. 1.00

00:12:28.580 What, bro? 1.00

00:12:29.720 That's better.

00:12:30.880 It's better.

00:12:31.840 It does less mental damage than all that prom you watch.

00:12:34.420 It's cheaper.

00:12:35.320 It's faster.

00:12:36.120 And she's funnier.

00:12:37.200 You know what's cool about these ladies? 1.00

00:12:39.060 A lot of them got way more personality than all these astrology girls running around with 1.00

00:12:42.560 eyelashes because the sex workers have experience with life. 1.00

00:12:46.020 They know the reality of men.

00:12:47.300 They see the truth.

00:12:48.440 And a lot of them are funny. 1.00

00:12:49.600 Dead ass, bro. 1.00

00:12:50.740 I prefer prostitutes because, you know, you pay them. 1.00

00:12:53.000 They leave at the end. 1.00

00:12:54.080 A wife or something else. 0.57

00:12:55.320 She's got to continue and continue pain and pain and pain. 1.00

00:12:58.720 You know what I'm saying?

00:12:59.440 Once you get a little bit of coochie, you know what she's gonna say? 0.99

00:13:02.260 Do you like me?

00:13:03.780 But also, do you want to watch a movie?

00:13:06.640 Do you want to cuddle with my leg on top of your leg?

00:13:09.960 But what about now?

00:13:11.740 Why don't we just watch a little movie?

00:13:14.140 I don't want to go out.

00:13:15.480 Let's go to the park.

00:13:16.640 Let's go outside on a walk.

00:13:18.060 It's nice out.

00:13:18.920 You see the sun?

00:13:19.840 Let's go to the zoo.

00:13:20.820 You never take me to the zoo anymore.

00:13:23.500 Okay, let's go to the zoo.

00:13:24.640 Can I have some head?

00:13:25.680 What? 0.63

00:13:26.120 You only like me for my head?

00:13:28.000 But why would you do that?

00:13:30.040 Why would you do that?

00:13:32.440 No, I'm sorry.

00:13:33.620 I'm sorry.

00:13:34.140 You're a queen.

00:13:34.640 You're special.

00:13:35.480 Okay, I'm good again.

00:13:36.840 Now do you want to go?

00:13:37.940 Do you want to go to lunch?

00:13:39.140 Do you want to go to a movie?

00:13:40.520 Do you want to go watch a movie?

00:13:42.300 Can you cook for me?

00:13:43.380 You never cook for me.

00:13:44.620 I don't want to just cook alone.

00:13:46.200 Cook with me.

00:13:47.120 Stand next to me.

00:13:48.060 Hold my hand while we cook.

00:13:49.240 Okay, I'll hold your hand while we cook.

00:13:51.540 Okay, okay.

00:13:52.700 Can you buy me my nails?

00:13:54.140 Can you take me shopping?

00:13:55.460 Can you get me some lashes?

00:13:56.980 Can you do this for me?

00:13:58.180 Can you drive me there?

00:13:59.260 Okay, fine.

00:14:00.140 Can I get a little bit ahead?

00:14:01.360 No, what are you saying?

00:14:03.260 Am I only worth my...

00:14:04.360 You don't like my personality?

00:14:06.160 But what about my star sign?

00:14:08.300 Okay, I'm sorry.

00:14:09.480 I didn't mean to do that.

00:14:10.360 I didn't mean to do that.

00:14:11.460 Tell me more.

00:14:12.540 Tell me you love me.

00:14:13.640 You didn't tell me you love me today.

00:14:15.120 You never tell me you love me anymore. 1.00

00:14:17.040 If you just get a whore, bro. 1.00

00:14:19.240 All of that. 1.00

00:14:25.700 What would be the incentive today for a man...

00:14:27.880 Who hurt you?

00:14:29.020 Did someone hurt you?

00:14:30.100 ...to get married? 0.94

00:14:32.120 Incentive?

00:14:32.780 Yeah.

00:14:33.540 Can we get a definition, please?

00:14:34.840 I mean, is there anything that a married couple can do that an unmarried couple can't? 0.99

00:14:39.340 Absolutely.

00:14:40.200 They can definitely...

00:14:40.800 Yeah, the support.

00:14:42.700 What?

00:14:43.480 Microphone.

00:14:44.540 You got to speak in the microphone.

00:14:45.480 Definitely more support.

00:14:48.140 And honestly, like, legally, they can do more things financially versus a single couple.

00:14:52.940 There's a lot of perks with that.

00:14:54.320 Can you give me some examples?

00:14:56.040 Just like...

00:14:56.500 Tax breaks.

00:14:57.560 Home equity.

00:14:59.120 Like, investing into longevity and wealth between your family.

00:15:03.820 You can't...

00:15:04.300 What? 1.00

00:15:04.560 She read some LLC, Twitter shit, now she's making no goddamn sense. 1.00

00:15:07.600 A-A-A-A-A-A 1.00

Your Female Friends Are Not Your Friends

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