00:06:42.000If you're a massively influential celebrity like me, companies and political parties want to use you.
00:06:48.000Everybody is trying to use you all of the time.
00:06:53.000And it is your objective to be so useful that you can sometimes elicit in return less than you give.
00:07:02.000And we're going to talk about how you come to terms with the fact that people are going to gain more from you than you will ever gain from them if you're truly a man.
00:07:12.000Because people are trying to extract from you all of the time.
00:07:17.000And because you're the man, because you're so useful, although there is a value exchange, often you don't get back what you give.
00:07:27.000And this is the baseline of masculinity since the dawn of human time.
00:08:36.000When things get hard, when things go wrong, when she has anxiety, when she's worried, she wants her man next to her because she feels better because she believes you're superhuman.
00:08:46.000She believes you can do something about the drones and the bombs or the 5,000 men with guns.
00:08:52.000If she really loves you, she believes you can fix that.
00:11:41.000We want her to have sex with only us in return for money, entertainment, safety, education, a life plan, in return for me being prepared to die for you.
00:12:22.000And if we're really lucky, if you get a real good woman on top of exclusive sex, you'll also get, on top of that, you'll also get some positivity.
00:12:34.000You'll get some happy words, some, it'll be okay, babe.
00:14:27.000And although I will get less than I give, I will still get something I want.
00:14:33.000I will be giving less than I am getting, but I am still getting something I want.
00:14:39.000And I have come to terms with the fact that I'm the prize, that I'm the giver, that I'm exploited, that I am being used, but at least in return, I am getting something that I want.
00:14:50.000And this is how all friendships, all relationships, all business networking, all interactions with humanity as a man are going to operate.
00:15:02.000This idea that you don't want anybody to use you is completely incorrect.
00:16:15.000And because I'm so charismatic and funny and entertaining and interesting, I can also give you a fun life.
00:16:21.000Once you have all these things, then perhaps when you open yourself up to the free market, you now get to choose who gets to benefit from you.
00:16:32.000They're still going to get more than you get.
00:16:35.000But instead of getting two things, sexually exclusive and happy, you might be able to add in three things.
00:16:47.000Now she's a baddie because you can get a sexually exclusive, happy, ugly chick all day long.
00:18:29.000When you go on a date with a girl, you're trying to convince her that you're rich, that you're strong, that you're smart, that you have a plan if it all goes wrong, that you're fun.
00:20:06.000And you need to be good at being used, which means you need to be one, capable, very capable as a man.
00:20:13.000And two, this is the most important thing.
00:20:16.000Although you need to keep the parameters in check to avoid exploitation, to ensure that you're not giving and not getting anything back, to make sure that you're giving more than you get, but you are getting something.
00:20:34.000They struggle to gracefully give more than they get back.
00:20:39.000If you give a woman all these things and she gives you this, and then you start complaining that you spent money on her, she's going to bounce.
00:20:49.000Even though you should be able to remove some of these because she's only given you three.
00:20:56.000So you should be able to remove it and make it fair.
00:20:58.000But if you take away safety saying someone tries to stab you, I'm going to let them do it.
00:21:55.000I'm going to gracefully accept handing out more than I ever get back.
00:22:00.000But if I get a few crumbs of the things I want, over time, I can build a life worth living.
00:22:07.000Because why would you keep your money, keep your muscles, keep all your information, and keep your plan if you don't have a woman to use them for?
00:23:28.000If a woman is not giving you the few things you ask for back, if she's constantly in a bad mood with you, or constantly talking to you like shit, or constantly negative, then yes, she's exploiting you and she must go.
00:23:42.000And the best thing you can do is remind her of how much she is taking and how little she is giving back.
00:23:49.000Because the woman's mind, she thinks, well, I give him this and this and this, and they forget all you give.
00:23:53.000That's why it's so hard to be graceful, so hard to be accepting of this parameter.
00:24:02.000This is the true test of Qi, of mental clarity for you to wake up as a man and say, okay, another day of giving more than I'll ever get back.
00:24:12.000Another day of struggle so that I'm underappreciated and under-renumerated, but I'm a man.
00:24:21.000And if you get good at that, if you get good at that, you can win.
00:24:27.000Because every man, whether he likes it or not, will be extracted from.
00:24:31.000Most give all of this to get one or zero points in return.
00:24:36.000Some men are giving a woman money, safety, education, plans, and she's fucking other men.
00:24:41.000Some men give a woman everything and get zero or one.
00:24:44.000But if you're good at giving and you can do it gracefully, you can get three or four or five things.
00:24:50.000So although you're still being used, you're being used less than every other man.
00:25:25.000A real G with a good woman who loves him is used less than all the other men are.
00:25:33.000He's still used, but he's used less, which means he must be hyper-useful and hyper-graceful about it because that opens up the free market of all the users in the world.
00:25:46.000And all of a sudden, you can get a lot more bang for your buck.
00:25:52.000Don't go through the world saying, I don't want to be used.
00:29:37.000So your job as a man is to wake up every day and you're already doing it, whether you accept it or not, and show the world how useful you are.