00:06:30.000I used to talk openly and honestly about my sex life, how I deal with women, you know, who I sleep with, in what position, and by what manner.
00:06:39.000And this content was actually at the time extremely popular.
00:06:45.000So, In a moment, I'm going to talk to you a little bit about the sex life of a man approaching 40, how things have changed, and why things are different.
00:06:58.000Because sex is an important topic for young men and women everywhere.
00:07:03.000They're all looking to have it, they're all looking to be safe.
00:07:06.000Some of them are looking to have kids, some of them are looking to not have kids.
00:07:09.000So I'm going to give some sex advice in this podcast.
00:07:13.000And the reason I'm going to give sex advice is because of some questions I got.
00:07:21.000Because of my previous podcast, people asked me about when I said your group chat you have with the boys, be very careful about that group chat and read it through the eyes of a federal prosecutor.
00:07:33.000A bunch of people started messaging me, what about my text with girls?
00:07:36.000I was like, shit, I need to cover this for all the young men and ladies out there to extra protect yourself from fake accusation bullshit in today's 2026 world.
00:08:04.000But every time I get back in Romania, I always get word.
00:08:07.000You know, I know various people in the country, various people connected to politicians, connected to policemen, connected to the prosecutor's offices, connected.
00:08:17.000And people give me bits of information.
00:08:23.000And I asked this guy quite a pertinent question today when I landed.
00:08:44.000And I was told by a very prominent person here in this country that they dislike us.
00:08:53.000A lot of people who are in charge of deciding whether or not we get new charges and accuse us of new things don't like us personally because, and I quote, we won't stop talking shit about Romania.
00:09:08.000So, I called my friend and I said to him, I did nothing but promote Romania and talk about how great it was for seven and a half motherfucking years.
00:09:25.000I was the number one ambassador of this country, and I've never committed a fucking crime here or anywhere else.
00:09:32.000The reason I say Romania is a corrupt shithole, if you're listening, Romanians, is because you stole two and a half years of my life from me, and then your file failed to even go to trial.
00:09:59.000And I'm like, sorry, I thought you were supposed to accuse me of being a human trafficker, take me to trial and prove it.
00:10:05.000I thought you're supposed to accuse me of being a criminal, take me to trial and prove it.
00:10:09.000I didn't realize that you're watching the fucking emergency meeting podcast and me sitting here and being like, he said something bad about us.
00:10:24.000If you're walking down the street and some midget, Comes up and kicks you in the nuts five fucking times, ruptures your nutsack, and you do two and a half years in a hospital bed.
00:10:37.000And then you get out and you say, you know what?
00:14:16.000The conversation actually still goes on to this day because I still speak to her to this day, all these years later.
00:14:22.000And he said, This looks like coercive controlling behavior.
00:14:27.000And I was like, Motherfucker, you're reading me five year old messages about fucking anal sex.
00:14:32.000What do you mean coercive and controlling?
00:14:34.000Well, this girl, you may have coercively controlled her.
00:14:38.000I said, You know what's really going to break your heart, Mr. Prosecutor?
00:14:41.000I had sex with that girl this morning.
00:14:45.000Before I came to your office, reading our five year old messages to back up the false allegation of some American psychopath is not going to make you look any better.
00:14:55.000It's not going to stand in court because she's just going to show up and say, leave him alone.
00:15:32.000They have stolen my ability and made me cautious enough to not engage in basically any type of sex that can make a prosecutor say, hmm, this is bad.
00:15:45.000Or in the worst case scenario, this doesn't happen to me, but it happens out there to all you guys.
00:15:50.000The girl to say, Well, I didn't really consent to this.
00:15:54.000I wasn't really into this and try to get you that way.
00:15:57.000So I had a sexual encounter a few months ago with this lady.
00:16:03.000And the lady said to me the next day on text message, You know, you could be more rough with me if you want.
00:16:11.000You were really gentle, really polite, and it was really nice.
00:16:14.000But you could be much more rough, you know, if you like.
00:16:39.000So I'm going to read you through some basic things that all you young men think I may like to try that one day with my girlfriend or a girl I meet.
00:16:48.000And I'm going to tell you why I don't do it.
00:17:52.000You want to bring some random woman into my bed so I can have a bit more sexual pleasure at the risk of her going around selling stories to newspapers, many years later getting contacted by prosecutors and her being like, well, it wasn't really my idea.
00:18:31.000Way too easy to paint a negative picture, and way too easy to, uh, uh, way too easy to paint a negative picture, and way too easy to say it was coerced, or you might not know the new girl, you may not trust the new girl.
00:18:45.000So yeah, no more threesomes for Tristan Tate.
00:19:03.000I don't even watch porn, but maybe you watch porn and you think, oh, well, it makes me hard, so I'm going to watch porn with my girlfriend because she watches porn too.
00:21:03.000Me and my girlfriend used it together.
00:21:05.000No matter how true your story might be, when those police come for you and they find a dildo under your pillow, you're a man who owns a dildo.
00:21:15.000And you know what's funny about prosecutors that I found with my text messages about anal sex that they put out there?
00:23:55.000I am not going to suggest to my girlfriend in person or especially on text or otherwise hey, we should try sex where your legs are behind your back.
00:24:20.000Here's some money, and we're going to try a bunch of new positions.
00:24:23.000Tried to bribe her as a method of control with financial gifts so she could participate in sex that she may have found painful and humiliating.
00:32:09.000Because when your motherfucking extensions come out, and the next morning the police raid my house, and they say, Girl, why are there hair stitches here?
00:33:06.000Because if that spank leaves a bruise and you take a picture of that bruise, then in five years when you don't like me anymore and I'm all over the news, you say, oh, look, he beat me with, he spanked my ass till it was blue.
00:34:02.000He's patient zero of don't text stupid shit and don't engage in kinks.
00:34:09.000No, I will not bite you on your neck wrong Never Now I wrote down dress up Covered that earlier in roleplay.
00:34:27.000You know what I mean Let's get even more vanilla Hey Tristan Blindfold me.
00:34:37.000No, I will not blindfold you you crazy bitch absolutely not Absolutely not if she's a psycho.
00:34:46.000I couldn't even see what he was doing to me He blindfolded me.
00:34:51.000I couldn't how could I consent to what I couldn't see no Keep your motherfucking eyes right here lock in Let's go.
00:35:01.000No, you're not fucking getting blindfolded ever Ever.
00:35:09.000He would cover his lover's eyes, his victims.
00:35:12.000He would recruit girls and cover his victim's eyes so they could not see what he was doing to them.
00:35:20.000He could have been recording, he could have been inviting other people into the room, he could have been doing things she didn't consent to because she couldn't see.
00:36:45.000But what the state tries to do, as they did with some of my messages, which were very vanilla, very much like that, is they try to humiliate these poor girls.
00:36:55.000These girls who are listed as my victims have sat through interview after interview after interview with prosecutors who try to humiliate them.
00:38:33.000Now the problem with BDSM, never really was into it, never really wanted to tie these girls up, never really wanted to fucking spank them and choke them and do all this shit, never was never really into it.
00:38:48.000It's only consensual at the time, and the only people who know it's consensual are you and her.
00:38:56.000And once you do it, once you tie her down to a leather-bound bed and spank the shit out of her until she says the safety word, or maybe she doesn't, you leave your marks, your bruises, you bite her, you penetrate her in various different ways, you choke her.
00:39:12.000And it is consensual at that moment between you and between her.
00:39:18.000But if any evidence of this type of sex ever falls into the wrong hands, federal prosecutor, false accuser, her parents, maybe if she's 2021.
00:39:29.000Her fucking social worker, her friends who think you're a bad guy.
00:39:33.000If any evidence of this kind of sex ever falls into anyone's hands, it immediately becomes non-consensual.
00:39:41.000And they can paint you as a picture as somebody who ties women up and does things against them against her will.
00:39:47.000You sitting there saying, oh, but four years and three months ago when we actually did it, she said, yeah, and we agreed on the safety word and it was all fine.
00:39:55.000Then you're sitting there with your fucking whip and your dildo and your chains and your handcuffs in your hands, being like, That's a dildo, handcuffs, chains, whip.
00:41:31.000I simply don't trust you enough to engage in any of that shit.
00:41:38.000You've got to be careful in this day and age when someone can give you consent and retrospectively, a month, a year, a week, a day later, take it back.
00:42:22.000It's not as woken as wild as it was in 2022.
00:42:24.000And Andrew and I have done our part to try and shift that.
00:42:29.000So, why is this podcast called The Big Payback?
00:42:31.000You know, I thought I'd deliver to my fans a bit of old school Tristan.
00:42:37.000I'd turn on the old school Tristan for my old school fans.
00:42:42.000But there's a lot more coming for my old school fans if you download the Rumble wallet.
00:42:49.000I've spoken about this on a few podcasts so far.
00:42:53.000I am going to significantly change someone's life.
00:42:57.000Life, depending on how well you're doing, I'll certainly change your month, probably change your year.
00:43:02.000If you do hold the Rumble wallet, Andrew and I at the end of this year have something very big planned, but we need the Rumble wallet on as many phones as possible.
00:43:11.000And we are pushing it ourselves so we know that our fans have it.
00:43:15.000And when things happen, we know our fans are going to benefit.
00:43:19.000So I want you all to download the Rumble wallet now.
00:43:56.000So if you're not inside, I suggest you get inside now.
00:43:59.000Because depending on popularity, you may have to cap student number.
00:44:02.000Get the Rumble wallet if you don't have it.
00:44:04.000And remember, guys, protect yourselves, protect your girlfriends.
00:44:09.000Because I don't do this boring sex life to protect me.
00:44:14.000I do this boring sex life to protect my girlfriends so they're not forced into fucking prosecutors' offices and waiting rooms and embarrassed with messages about the sex they do and the sex toys they found and the roles they played and that.