Tate Speech - October 28, 2018


EP40 - Tate on Arguing with Girls

Hosted by
Andrew Tate Tristan Tate
Mentioned
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EP38 - Tate on Females (An Old Rant on Females from Paris in 2015) EP41 - Tate on the MeToo Movement

Episode Stats


Length

6 minutes

Words per minute

241.09

Word count

1,555

Sentence count

134


Transcript

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00:00:03.000 I have a PhD, which means I have a pimpin' hoes degree.
00:00:10.000 So basically, I work with lots of women in my job.
00:00:14.000 I've always had lots of women.
00:00:15.000 I've experienced every type of woman.
00:00:17.000 I've experienced, I know the game.
00:00:19.000 I can sit down with a girl, and after the first date, I'll tell you inside out.
00:00:21.000 She's girlfriend material.
00:00:23.000 She's a hoe.
00:00:24.000 I can just read it.
00:00:25.000 I just know.
00:00:26.000 I've had every kind, so I understand the game.
00:00:29.000 But all women do the same thing.
00:00:32.000 There's a couple universal traits amongst females, and one of them is how they argue.
00:00:36.000 And women have a very, very It's an obvious argument tactic, but they all do it exactly the same, and the tactic is subversion.
00:00:44.000 So, with a female, if you have a point to discuss, her aim is not to prove her point right, because she can't, because 99% of the time she's wrong.
00:00:52.000 So, her aim is to muddle the point, or switch points, or fuck up the argument so that it's very difficult for you to lay out a logical answer.
00:01:01.000 If you say 2 plus 2 is 4, then she loses the argument.
00:01:05.000 She goes, Yeah, but what if, what if the plus, what if we turn to the side and it's a times?
00:01:09.000 Or what if, what if it's minus 4?
00:01:12.000 Or what, and just starts adding in irrelevant bullshit.
00:01:14.000 You're like, no, two plus two is four.
00:01:16.000 In this particular circumstance, two plus two is four.
00:01:18.000 But her main aim is to subvert, is to just completely and utterly fuck with the argument so it's no longer straightforward.
00:01:26.000 So I said this to someone the other day, I saw making a video about it.
00:01:28.000 When I argue with women, which I try not to do, because it's a waste of time, because unlike men, women are not interested in the truth.
00:01:35.000 When you argue with a man, you're looking for truth.
00:01:37.000 Women don't care about the truth.
00:01:39.000 Most of the time, they're arguing you for attention or for some other fucking emotional bullshit.
00:01:43.000 They don't give a fuck if they're right or wrong.
00:01:45.000 A man is embarrassed to argue a point if he's wrong.
00:01:48.000 Women are happy to argue if they're wrong.
00:01:50.000 They don't have any shame.
00:01:51.000 They don't have any honors.
00:01:52.000 They don't give a fuck.
00:01:53.000 I just want to argue.
00:01:54.000 I don't care if I'm wrong.
00:01:55.000 I don't care if I look stupid.
00:01:56.000 I just want to argue.
00:01:58.000 So when I argue with females, I said, I only ask yes or no questions.
00:02:02.000 What do you mean?
00:02:03.000 What do I mean?
00:02:04.000 Yes or no questions.
00:02:05.000 Because they can't subvert the argument, and they can't dilute the argument, and they can't add to the argument, and they can't change subject with yes or no questions.
00:02:13.000 So when a bitch wants to get fresh, I say, cool, you want to talk about this?
00:02:16.000 We're going to talk about this.
00:02:17.000 But if you really believe you have a point, I'm gonna ask you yes or no questions.
00:02:21.000 You can answer yes or no.
00:02:22.000 If you're right, it should be very easy for you to prove yourself right answering yes or no questions.
00:02:27.000 And when they either refuse to do that or by the third question sit there and don't want to answer you, well, I did it.
00:02:35.000 So talk about some other shit.
00:02:37.000 That's how you just break it nice.
00:02:38.000 Look, you can't answer yes or no questions because you're completely wrong.
00:02:41.000 With females, you have to find a way to keep them on one track because it doesn't matter how many times, if you're gonna start using language and talking, they're just gonna fucking mix it all up and talk about some other dumb shit.
00:02:50.000 If the woman won't answer yes or no questions, you've only got one tool as a man.
00:02:53.000 I say this a lot.
00:02:54.000 There's a couple guys who I'm talking to, a couple dudes who I coach on how to get girls and all this shit.
00:02:59.000 As a man, you only have one weapon.
00:03:01.000 You only have one currency.
00:03:03.000 This is not the olden days.
00:03:04.000 You can't keep the fuck out of the hoe anymore.
00:03:06.000 You can't fucking even shout at a girl.
00:03:07.000 You only have one weapon.
00:03:09.000 And that weapon is that females like attention.
00:03:12.000 And if she likes you, she wants your attention because your attention's high value.
00:03:16.000 The only thing you can do is shut that shit off.
00:03:18.000 It's all you've got.
00:03:20.000 My woman starts getting fresh.
00:03:21.000 I say, okay, I'm going to be stupid.
00:03:23.000 This is.
00:03:24.000 XYZ, true or false?
00:03:26.000 Well, true.
00:03:27.000 XYZ, yes or no?
00:03:28.000 Well, yeah.
00:03:29.000 So then you're wrong.
00:03:32.000 And they either sit there and go, okay.
00:03:34.000 Or they don't reply and calm down.
00:03:36.000 Or if they get too fresh, yeah, but you know what?
00:03:39.000 Blah, blah, blah, blah.
00:03:40.000 They start getting too fresh.
00:03:41.000 The only thing you can do is just not reply.
00:03:44.000 Just not answer them.
00:03:45.000 Just cut the attention off completely.
00:03:46.000 Because what they really want is the attention.
00:03:49.000 It's too easy to get in a trap with women.
00:03:51.000 And I've seen it a million times where, especially if you're a busy man, I'm telling you, I'm a busy dude.
00:03:55.000 So if you're out there, you're hustling, you're making money, you're busy.
00:03:58.000 You don't often text a girl that much because you're busy.
00:04:01.000 So, when she wants attention, she knows, she starts to learn.
00:04:04.000 Well, if we have an argument, he'll sit here and text me for two hours arguing with me.
00:04:08.000 But if we're not arguing, he's busy working.
00:04:10.000 So, the only way she can get your attention is through a negative path.
00:04:14.000 And then, what you're going to end up having is a girl who starts arguments all the fucking time because she wants attention.
00:04:19.000 What you need to do is train her, and you've got to be, even when you're busy, it's a bit annoying.
00:04:23.000 When things are going good and smooth, you've got to give her lots of attention, message her all the time, ask how she is, da da da da.
00:04:28.000 But the second she becomes a dickhead, boom, cut it off.
00:04:31.000 And I don't mean you can't tell her you're cutting off.
00:04:33.000 You can't be like, I'm not going to message you till you calm down.
00:04:35.000 No, none of that shit.
00:04:36.000 Just fucking ignore her.
00:04:38.000 Let her sit there on her own for two fucking days.
00:04:41.000 If you're worried about during those two days she's going to fuck someone else or some stupid shit, then you shouldn't be with her anyway.
00:04:46.000 So let her sit there for two days.
00:04:47.000 And eventually, when you decide to talk to her again, say, Yeah, you were being rude.
00:04:49.000 I don't have time for that in my life.
00:04:50.000 I'm busy.
00:04:51.000 I'm running a business.
00:04:51.000 I'm busy.
00:04:53.000 And let her learn the hard way.
00:04:54.000 When I act nice, I get attention.
00:04:56.000 When I act stupid, I don't get attention.
00:04:57.000 That's the simplest way to get a girlfriend who behaves themselves.
00:05:00.000 I've had guys say to me, I'm out here trying to find a good girl.
00:05:04.000 That ain't so.
00:05:05.000 I don't believe in the finding a good girl.
00:05:06.000 You can find a good blueprint of a girl.
00:05:09.000 You can find a girl who's susceptible to your way of life and your thinking.
00:05:13.000 But in general, as a man, if you want a woman to be a particular way, you ain't going to find it.
00:05:18.000 You've got to make it.
00:05:19.000 You're not going to find a woman who's a certain way.
00:05:21.000 You've got to make a woman be a certain way.
00:05:23.000 So I've seen it a million times before where dudes give their girl the most attention during arguments, and the rest of the time when everything's cool, they're like, okay, love you, I'm busy.
00:05:31.000 That ain't the way to do it.
00:05:32.000 You've got to flip reverse it.
00:05:33.000 It's a bit annoying, but you've got to flip reverse it because she has to know when she gets fresh, that attention shuts off.
00:05:39.000 Literally, when my girl wants to step to me, the first thing she says is, Look, please don't ignore me, but, because she knows!
00:05:46.000 She has to ask at the beginning with a please.
00:05:48.000 Because she knows if I don't like what she's gonna say, I won't even just fucking reply to her.
00:05:51.000 Fuck you.
00:05:52.000 I don't have to talk to you.
00:05:52.000 I don't explain myself to you.
00:05:54.000 Four time kickboxing world champion, self made millionaire, six foot three, sexy as a motherfucker.
00:05:58.000 I don't have to explain shit to you.
00:06:01.000 I don't give a fuck what you found out.
00:06:03.000 But please don't ignore me.
00:06:04.000 Please don't ignore me, but you fucked this girl.
00:06:07.000 Yeah, I did.
00:06:09.000 And I don't know why it's anything to do with you, because you're still my main chick.
00:06:13.000 That's a bit on the side.
00:06:14.000 Whatever, whatever.
00:06:15.000 If you want to talk about it, we'll talk about it in my own time.
00:06:17.000 And if you ask me really nicely and politely, I'll explain to you how good her titties were.
00:06:21.000 But if you're going to come to me getting fresh, you're going to get nothing but fucking blanked.
00:06:26.000 That's how you have to run your shit.