Tate Speech - November 05, 2018


EP43 - Tate on Child Discipline

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Episode Stats


Length

6 minutes

Words per minute

241.91

Word count

1,520

Sentence count

114


Transcript

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00:00:04.000 This is a sensitive subject for me.
00:00:06.000 I was raised in a very particular manner, and the way I was raised is that if you fuck with authority, authority fucks you up.
00:00:13.000 I don't think that's a bad thing.
00:00:14.000 I think the reason the world's so fucked and we have all these stabbings and all this crazy shit and people breaking into houses and moped gangs and all this garbage that we never had before is because there's no longer discipline at home.
00:00:23.000 Because it's against the rules to discipline your children.
00:00:25.000 You can't hit your kids.
00:00:27.000 The most you can do is send them to their room to play Xbox.
00:00:29.000 Ooh, big punishment.
00:00:30.000 The fuck to do with an Xbox in their bedroom anyway?
00:00:32.000 It's insanity.
00:00:33.000 I'll take my son to stop for this one because this is serious business.
00:00:37.000 So.
00:00:38.000 You're not allowed to hit children.
00:00:39.000 I'm actually a massive advocate for hitting children.
00:00:42.000 I never said you should abuse your children.
00:00:44.000 You can't hit children without reason.
00:00:46.000 There's a difference between abuse and discipline, and I think anyone with a sensible mind knows that difference.
00:00:51.000 But let me tell you something.
00:00:53.000 Kids need their asses kicked.
00:00:56.000 Now, when I'm talking about children, I'm talking exclusively about boys because I'm a man and I was raised and I was once a boy and I understand the male mindset.
00:01:03.000 And the male mindset, the only way you truly understand authority is to have a whooping now and again.
00:01:08.000 The reason these kids walk around on street corners at 16 with a knife thinking they're the hardest thing in the fucking world is because no one's ever whooped their ass.
00:01:15.000 If they would have had their asses whooped, they'd know the difference between a child and a man.
00:01:19.000 But they don't fucking know because no one's fucked them up.
00:01:22.000 These kids need fucking up.
00:01:24.000 So when I have this debate, because I've had this debate recently with people saying you should hit your kids, there's nothing wrong with hitting your kids, you shouldn't abuse your kids, but they need to understand that if they fuck with you too tough, they're going to get hit.
00:01:32.000 There has to be a line they can't cross.
00:01:34.000 I'm not saying you have to beat them up for everything, but they have to know if they keep stepping to you and you've said something, there is a line you will not cross, that they cannot cross.
00:01:42.000 Because there's a limit to what you will take.
00:01:44.000 I was arguing with some fucking bimbo.
00:01:46.000 It's always some woman.
00:01:48.000 Like, women know shit anyway.
00:01:49.000 Women don't know nothing.
00:01:50.000 So, what do you know about being a man?
00:01:51.000 What do you know about being a boy?
00:01:52.000 I was one, and I'm telling you, I'm glad I got my ass kicked.
00:01:55.000 I'm happy I got my ass kicked.
00:01:57.000 And you're going to sit here and tell me that that was wrong.
00:01:59.000 What the fuck do you know?
00:02:01.000 Moron ho.
00:02:02.000 Anyway.
00:02:03.000 So, I was arguing with her, da da da da.
00:02:04.000 And she goes, oh, but it's bad for their development, da da da.
00:02:07.000 What the fuck?
00:02:08.000 This is what I don't understand.
00:02:09.000 This whole not hit kids thing is a super recent phenomenon.
00:02:13.000 This is a new age think.
00:02:15.000 The reason we have all these problems is because this new mindset, it's all brand new.
00:02:19.000 In the last 30 years, we've decided it's terrible for children if you hit them.
00:02:23.000 Yet before that, every kid that was ever raised, ever, at some point, got its ass kicked.
00:02:30.000 And yet we still managed to go from a small tribe of basically none to populate the entire Earth and send rockets to the moon and build the pyramids and the Panama Canal and explore every single inch of the planet.
00:02:41.000 Look at all the amazing things we managed to do.
00:02:43.000 Go from a few thousand to billions, but supposedly hitting kids is bad.
00:02:47.000 If it's so bad, how did humans progress so fantastically and do all those amazing things if it's so terrible for a child?
00:02:55.000 If you're hitting a kid, it's going to fuck it up to a point where it can't function as an adult.
00:02:59.000 How did humans function for basically all of recorded history ever?
00:03:04.000 You fucking moron.
00:03:05.000 And then she sits there and goes, Yeah, but abusing kids?
00:03:08.000 I didn't say abusing kids.
00:03:10.000 You know what?
00:03:10.000 I'm going to actually change subject on this video because that shows how fucking stupid women are.
00:03:13.000 You're trying to stay on track.
00:03:14.000 I'm talking about disciplining kids.
00:03:15.000 She's trying to talk about abusing kids.
00:03:16.000 She's trying to mix the two.
00:03:18.000 Women do that when they start to lose arguments.
00:03:19.000 They try and.
00:03:20.000 They try and mix the arguments up.
00:03:22.000 Because if it's a straight line, it's a clear argument, they lose.
00:03:24.000 So then they try and mix it in with something else or just jump path.
00:03:28.000 She's trying that basic ass female tactic with me.
00:03:30.000 Garbage.
00:03:31.000 But kids need hitting.
00:03:32.000 I'll tell you a little story.
00:03:34.000 It's not very often I like to really interfere in people's parenting, it's not really my thing.
00:03:39.000 But about three or four years ago, I saw something, and I had to just go over there and say something.
00:03:44.000 So this woman was walking along with this, she had three kids with her, she had a boy who was about 12.
00:03:52.000 A girl who's about eight and another boy who's about four.
00:03:55.000 And she was, I think, no, it must have been longer now because it was in Woolworths.
00:03:58.000 When the fucking Woolworths got out of business.
00:04:00.000 So it was in Woolworths.
00:04:01.000 I'm sitting there with Tristan having a coffee.
00:04:03.000 She's walking home with her kids.
00:04:04.000 Her kids are all screaming like brats, demanding things, screaming like it is.
00:04:08.000 She's like, turns around and goes, Look, girl, girl, girl, girl, on the verge of a mental breakdown.
00:04:11.000 She goes, Listen, listen, if you're good, if you're good, I'm going to get you all sweets at the end of the day.
00:04:17.000 And the oldest one goes, What sweets?
00:04:19.000 And the little one goes, I want this sweets.
00:04:21.000 I want this sweets.
00:04:21.000 I want them now.
00:04:22.000 I want them now.
00:04:23.000 And they started just kicking off again.
00:04:24.000 And I sat there to Tristan and said, Man, this is ridiculous.
00:04:27.000 Since when do you have to do a business deal with your children?
00:04:31.000 Those children are the.
00:04:33.000 The reason those children get to exist, the only reason they have a place to sleep and they have food on their plate is because you provide for them.
00:04:39.000 And then you have to do a business deal with them to get some basic respect.
00:04:44.000 You have to negotiate, well, if you do this, I'll do this.
00:04:46.000 How about this for a business deal?
00:04:48.000 How about this in the way I was raised?
00:04:50.000 If you want to breathe, if you want to breathe for the rest of the day, if you don't end up in a fucking grave, if you want to sleep in the house where I have to pay the fucking bills, you're going to shut the fuck up, you little prick.
00:05:01.000 Because this is my fucking world and you exist in my world.
00:05:03.000 If you think you're smart enough to live on your own, fucking run away from home.
00:05:06.000 But if you don't want to play that game, shut the fuck up or I'm going to hurt you.
00:05:10.000 That's the business deals I was part in.
00:05:12.000 I didn't have any negotiation power.
00:05:14.000 I didn't ask for sweets.
00:05:15.000 I sat there and thought, fuck.
00:05:17.000 Okay.
00:05:18.000 And I shut the fuck up.
00:05:20.000 It's absolutely insane that children think they can bargain with full-grown adults.
00:05:24.000 And then you wonder why they don't want to listen to school and why they're not afraid of the police or anyone else because they've never had discipline in their lives.
00:05:30.000 Fucking insanity.
00:05:31.000 I went over to that woman and I said to her, I said, you're raising your kids wrong.
00:05:34.000 She goes, what?
00:05:34.000 What?
00:05:35.000 I said, this is garbage.
00:05:36.000 You're raising your kids all wrong.
00:05:37.000 They need discipline.
00:05:39.000 Then she wants to get fresh to me.
00:05:41.000 You want to get fresh to me?
00:05:42.000 Get fresh to your 12-year-old who's just basically disrespecting you in front of fucking 500 people, you dumb bitch.
00:05:47.000 Fucking insane.
00:05:48.000 If you have children, go into the room right now and let them know.
00:05:51.000 Fuck with me too tough today, you're getting hit.
00:05:53.000 And if you think that's a bad way to raise kids, then you're a fucking moron too.
00:05:56.000 Because I'm telling you something.
00:05:57.000 We don't live in a world where there's too many stabbings because there's not enough youth programs or not enough police officers or not enough blah blah.
00:06:05.000 We live in a world where there's too many stabbings because you've got too many dickhead kids with no discipline raised by dickhead parents.
00:06:11.000 And I'll tell you something, if they were all raised the way I was raised, they might turn out half as fantastic as I am.