Tate Speech - Interview: Andrew Tate & Rollo Tomassi

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00:00:11.000 Okay, goodbye.

00:00:12.000 We are live finally.

00:00:13.000 Hey, how's it going, man?

00:00:14.000 I haven't seen you in a long, long time.

00:00:16.000 I wanted to have a get together with you again because I just came up on one year of this channel being a, excuse me real quickly here, this channel just came up on a one year anniversary and you were, I think my, well, you're my first interview, but you were like my second or third show when I just decided to do this, like on my own.

00:00:40.000 Yeah.

00:00:41.000 And, um, and people kept asking me, why don't you get Tate on?

00:00:43.000 Of course, then, you know, you, the, a recent picture, which we'll, we'll get into later, actually, everybody wanted to know what was going on.

00:00:50.000 And, and, um, I, I, you don't, I don't know, do you do a lot of, um, A lot of interviews because I mean, I know that you do a lot of videos and I know that you keep yourself out there and you're, um, you're, you're highly visible.

00:01:04.000 It's what, what I would call like certain like e-celebrity, I guess you're highly visible.

00:01:09.000 Um, you put yourself out there.

00:01:11.000 Um, I think pretty much everybody who knows you, um, understands what you're about, but, um, Like, do you do other interviews with other people as well?

00:01:20.000 I don't do too many.

00:01:21.000 I get a lot of requests.

00:01:23.000 I get a whole bunch of requests, but you know, I don't, I really don't do too many.

00:01:27.000 I guess I'm, I'm kind of known now for what I am, the internet pimp, you know, and I get a lot of people who come along and want to ask me things, but there's very few I really speak to.

00:01:35.000 There's been a couple I've done.

00:01:37.000 But a lot of people find my views and my themes, especially on females and the way I pay money, etc.

00:01:43.000 They find them very offensive.

00:01:45.000 I don't know why.

00:01:45.000 I don't know why what I do or what I've done or how I think is so offensive.

00:01:50.000 Well, actually, I do know why.

00:01:51.000 It's because it blows their minds and they don't want to hear it.

00:01:53.000 That's what it is.

00:01:53.000 But a lot of the time I've tried to do interviews with people and I can just tell they're getting upset.

00:01:59.000 Yeah, you know, it's, it's funny.

00:02:01.000 Cause like every once in a while, like I, like I talk with you all the time on, on our Twitter DMS and stuff like that.

00:02:06.000 And you know, you and I've had sort of a friendship for a while now.

00:02:10.000 And so people will always come to me and ask what was, what was he thinking about that?

00:02:16.000 And so every once in a while you, you have the, you have the capacity to surprise me because like there was, there was some pictures you were putting up not too long ago of you and Paul Joseph Watson.

00:02:27.000 And I had no idea that you, like, knew this guy or you were in any way, like, in tight with this guy enough to go and get, like, you know, publicity shots with him.

00:02:36.000 That was one.

00:02:36.000 And who else was the other?

00:02:38.000 There was some other guy.

00:02:39.000 I think it might have been... Was it...

00:02:43.000 I want to say it was like Ann Coulter, but it wasn't Ann Coulter, it was somebody else.

00:02:48.000 I know exactly what you mean.

00:02:50.000 I've ended up in the right-wing kind of politics side of things, but to be perfectly honest with you, although my politics are my politics, I'm kind of trying to step away from it in some regard.

00:03:00.000 And the reason for that is because I don't see Any fruitful end to just getting banned repeatedly.

00:03:07.000 I mean, obviously, I know what I know, and I know what I believe, and I know this sounds like a pussy's way out, but if you speak the truth, you don't exist online for very long. 0.99

00:03:16.000 Eight accounts in, it gets to a point where it's like, you know, Do I really need to sit and repeat this shit? 0.99

00:03:24.000 I know Paul Joseph Watson very well. 0.98

00:03:26.000 Alex Jones texted me this morning.

00:03:28.000 He's trying to get me on InfoWars.

00:03:30.000 It's kind of weird where I'm an internet pimp and I'm a degenerate, but I'm also aligned with the right.

00:03:35.000 I love you.

00:03:36.000 Where do I fit in?

00:03:39.000 I know all these guys and they really want me, I guess because I'm a smooth talker, they like the idea of me being a lot more politically motivated.

00:03:47.000 In many ways, I've given up on politics.

00:03:48.000 I've moved.

00:03:49.000 I've left the West.

00:03:50.000 I don't live here anymore.

00:03:52.000 I don't think me running my mouth on Twitter is going to fix anything.

00:03:54.000 It just feels, it feels to me kind of fruitless now.

00:03:57.000 It's gotten to a point where I, I scroll up and down the timeline and I see people saying, Oh, you know, I'm going to fix the way, like, I'm going to fix this.

00:04:04.000 And it's just like, Are you?

00:04:06.000 With Twitter?

00:04:07.000 Really?

00:04:08.000 You know, it's just like, you're just gonna get banned.

00:04:09.000 Twitter activism.

00:04:09.000 You're just gonna get banned.

00:04:11.000 And like, look at AJ.

00:04:12.000 AJ is a friend of mine.

00:04:13.000 I know, like, there's been a split in the Manosphere, etc.

00:04:16.000 I'm a person.

00:04:16.000 If I'm your friend, I'm your friend.

00:04:17.000 You know, I don't, I don't take, like, these sides and whatever.

00:04:20.000 But, um, he's a friend of mine and he got banned.

00:04:22.000 And where did he get banned for? 0.99

00:04:23.000 For fucking insulting pedophiles? 1.00

00:04:25.000 Tweet. 1.00

00:04:25.000 Yeah. 1.00

00:04:25.000 It's the world we live in. 1.00

00:04:27.000 And that's why I put that in there.

00:04:28.000 I talked about that on Wednesday on my Wednesday show, and that was actually one of the first things I said is, and you probably know this better than most because you've been banned so many times, but there's a storm coming, man.

00:04:41.000 I mean, especially with the 2020 election cycle, and you look at just how the mainstream media is cracking down on Messaging and narratives that they don't like.

00:04:55.000 And that's why, that's why I put out that tweet.

00:04:56.000 I said, you know what, uh, you know, me and me and AJ have our differences, but that was in no way anything that should have got him banned.

00:05:03.000 No, no.

00:05:03.000 And certainly not a perma ban too.

00:05:05.000 You know what I mean?

00:05:06.000 Oh, okay.

00:05:06.000 Suspend him for like, you know, a couple of days, but like a perma ban for that.

00:05:10.000 And then it was, if anybody was wondering what it was about, go check out my show on Wednesday.

00:05:14.000 I put up the tweet up.

00:05:16.000 I don't have it convenient right now, but it's on that show.

00:05:19.000 And essentially he said, yeah, he came out against, uh, what was it?

00:05:22.000 Was it Salon?

00:05:23.000 I forget which, uh, which outlet it was.

00:05:26.000 It might've been somebody was saying to the effect that there had been research on pedophiles and that they can't help themselves.

00:05:32.000 Right?

00:05:33.000 Like it's a, it's a genetic thing or the, you know, the only, there's nothing that can, that can make them, uh, feel differently or whatever.

00:05:40.000 And then AJ says something about like castration camp.

00:05:42.000 That's all he said.

00:05:43.000 And that was enough to get him banned.

00:05:45.000 And that's my exact point with it all.

00:05:47.000 So it's kind of like, you know, is it, I mean, people come to me all the time inside of my war room.

00:05:52.000 I've got my private members community and people join and they say, I'm in the West and I'm worried about getting divorced, raped, and I'm worried about the female imperative. 0.61

00:05:59.000 And I'm worried about the left.

00:06:00.000 I'm worried about this.

00:06:01.000 What should I do? 0.89

00:06:01.000 And I say, look, become anti-fragile, put money in a foreign bank account and get the ability to get the fuck out. 0.89

00:06:06.000 Oh yeah, but what else can I do?

00:06:08.000 I'm like, nothing!

00:06:08.000 What do you mean, what else can you do?

00:06:10.000 You're living in a country where if you get a woman pregnant by accident, your fucking life's over. 1.00

00:06:14.000 You're living in a country where you can marry a woman and she can divorce you and completely destroy your life and turn your son into a fucking girl without your permission. 1.00

00:06:21.000 And you want me to help you? 1.00

00:06:22.000 What the fuck do you want me to do? 0.99

00:06:24.000 You gotta have the ability to get the fuck out. 0.99

00:06:27.000 And that's the only thing there is. 1.00

00:06:29.000 If I had an American wife, I'm a spiteful motherfucker. 1.00

00:06:32.000 I'm going to say it now. 1.00

00:06:33.000 I'm spiteful. 1.00

00:06:34.000 So if I had an American wife and we were getting a divorce, I would set the house on fire before I'd give her a fucking thing. 1.00

00:06:39.000 That's just who I am as a man. 1.00

00:06:41.000 But, you know, you've got to have the ability to pick your son up for his visit and get on a plane and get the fuck out of there because you're living in a world where you don't stand a chance. 0.95

00:06:50.000 The system is so rigged against you to think you can even use the system to protect yourself in any regard is infantile. 0.75

00:06:57.000 And when that's why people come to me and they go, what do we, what do I do?

00:06:59.000 I'm living in the West.

00:07:00.000 I'm concerned about X, Y, Z. I'm like, well, do you need a backup plan? 0.99

00:07:03.000 And your backup plan is to get the fuck out because it ain't getting better anytime soon. 0.98

00:07:07.000 And there's very little you can do. 0.99

00:07:08.000 It's the weight of the system.

00:07:09.000 And it's, we, I mean, we've discussed all these themes before and we'll go into them again.

00:07:12.000 I'm sure everything from marriage to having kids to divorce, everything, the whole system is rigged against you and they will destroy your life.

00:07:20.000 They will destroy your life from head to toe. 0.99

00:07:22.000 And they don't give a shit how you feel. 1.00

00:07:23.000 Yeah, that's it. 0.99

00:07:24.000 That's it.

00:07:24.000 I was going to say, that's a great, you know, tomorrow I'm doing a rule zero with the guys and that was actually going to be one of our topics, which is what's the alternative?

00:07:32.000 What else is there?

00:07:33.000 Right? 0.93

00:07:33.000 Like how, like going forward, I've, I've been, I have been, um, very vocal about this new poly initiative, like this new messaging that like guys should just basically, uh, cuck themselves and be, um, be happy with that or accept that or, or find some kind of normalcy in, In allowing their woman to go off and have sex with other guys, right? 0.93

00:07:57.000 Or to open their marriage or whatever.

00:08:00.000 There's euphemisms for it, right?

00:08:02.000 It's the customizable relationship or alternative relationships.

00:08:07.000 And it's like, no, what gets me is that it's...

00:08:11.000 It's something that goes against our, our evolutionary imperatives, right?

00:08:15.000 I mean, for a guy, men want to know that they want paternity.

00:08:18.000 We want a harem. 1.00

00:08:19.000 We want to know it's like, we want that variety, but we want to know what's ours is ours.

00:08:23.000 Because when we're like that, because when we're wired like that, because we want to know that the child is ours, this is, you want to call it the, our primate brain, our lizard brain, whatever.

00:08:33.000 That's why guys get jealous.

00:08:34.000 That's. 0.97

00:08:35.000 And so, so we're listening to all of this shit right now about, um, About how we should just accept that, and how we should just go with that, and how we should live with that. 0.96

00:08:42.000 And now, I think we're starting to see, and like you're saying, there's this resistance, there's this pushback against that narrative. 0.96

00:08:49.000 And unfortunately, you know, a guy like Ajak has one bad tweet, or one, I don't even think he thought about it, to be honest with you.

00:08:57.000 I think he just thought, oh, you know, he was just being witty or pithy, right?

00:09:01.000 And what had happened, and let me, I should also put this into some context here, is because of what happened on Project Veritas, The guy, I forget the guy's name off the top of my head, but the guy had put out some video, some secret video that he had leaked to him from ABC about, or was this, I think she was a host or she was a news anchor.

00:09:21.000 She was talking about how ABC tried to bury that story and they wanted it to go away.

00:09:26.000 And it was at that point when that came out, there was a sweep.

00:09:31.000 It was Twitter.

00:09:32.000 It was Google.

00:09:32.000 It was YouTube.

00:09:33.000 It was all of these major platforms decided that they were going to ban you if you had said anything, like if you were saying something about pedo, if you were saying something about Epstein, if you're saying something about whatever.

00:09:47.000 That was, that was enough to get you banned.

00:09:49.000 And that's what I'm, that's why I keep talking about this storm that's coming because that's just a taste of it.

00:09:55.000 I think once we get into the election cycle proper and you see these big, um, these big platforms exercising their real control over, over, you know, your influence, they are the ultimate influencers right now.

00:10:08.000 But it's like exactly what you're saying is that these are the guys that are promoting that are pushing that agenda out there.

00:10:14.000 What can you do?

00:10:15.000 They control the information people see.

00:10:18.000 If you type something into Google, Donald Trump, they control if it's good or bad.

00:10:22.000 They control the world from head to toe.

00:10:24.000 And this is my point, to try and resist against that.

00:10:27.000 I mean, it's different if you're like an older guy, you're established, you have a job, et cetera, et cetera, in America. 0.98

00:10:31.000 But when young guys come to me, like 22, 21, I'm like, you need to get the fuck out. 0.96

00:10:35.000 Like, go where? 0.97

00:10:36.000 Like, oh, just go anywhere. 0.96

00:10:37.000 And I know that seems like a bullshit answer, but I can't think of another solution to it. 0.90

00:10:41.000 Just to tap into this poly thing. 0.94

00:10:43.000 I was discussing this with someone the other day.

00:10:44.000 It was a girl, actually.

00:10:46.000 Of course, it was a Western female because Eastern European females don't talk. 1.00

00:10:49.000 You know, it's funny.

00:10:50.000 I didn't think we were going to talk about this, but I'm kind of glad we are now, so go ahead.

00:10:53.000 Yeah, so I was explaining to her that paternity has always been the most important thing for the man.

00:10:59.000 You know, paternity is what it's all about. 0.97

00:11:02.000 The reason that women can't be whores and men can be as promiscuous as we want is for paternity. 0.98

00:11:06.000 Women get pregnant, we don't. 1.00

00:11:08.000 Before paternity tests, the only insurance that you were the father was to have a virgin. 0.96

00:11:12.000 This is why Throughout human history, virgins were so valued.

00:11:15.000 That's why, to this day, in many cultures, virgins are still the only acceptable thing to marry because it ensures paternity.

00:11:22.000 You don't want to tie yourself and cuck yourself to raising some kid that ain't yours. 0.92

00:11:25.000 Absolutely normal behavior.

00:11:27.000 So, it's completely normal for a man.

00:11:29.000 And I don't like the word jealous.

00:11:30.000 People talk about men being jealous.

00:11:32.000 Jealous is the idea of wanting something someone else has.

00:11:35.000 I'm not a jealous person.

00:11:36.000 I'm an extremely caring Actually, that would be envy.

00:11:39.000 Jealousy is the suspicion that something is not right with you.

00:11:45.000 Envy is like saying, I want what that guy has.

00:11:48.000 Jealousy is like mate guarding. 0.99

00:11:52.000 The word I use is territorial.

00:11:55.000 Okay, we can go there too.

00:11:57.000 That's my card.

00:11:58.000 It's my woman.

00:11:58.000 It's my house.

00:11:59.000 You ain't touching none of them.

00:12:01.000 And that's a perfectly normal masculine stance.

00:12:03.000 What's funny about all this is the whole poly thing. 0.99

00:12:06.000 In my experience, if a woman loves you, she doesn't want to fuck anyone else. 1.00

00:12:10.000 If I were to try and say to my girl, you have to fuck a bunch of guys. 1.00

00:12:15.000 She'd be like, what the fuck? 1.00

00:12:16.000 No, no, no. 1.00

00:12:17.000 I don't want to. 1.00

00:12:18.000 You're free to fuck guys. 1.00

00:12:19.000 I don't want to. 1.00

00:12:21.000 She wouldn't want to! 0.53

00:12:23.000 That's the crazy thing about this whole Polly thing, is that the idea that women want to sleep with lots of men. 1.00

00:12:28.000 No, they don't. 0.99

00:12:28.000 If they truly respect you and they love you, I guarantee they don't want to fuck anyone else. 0.99

00:12:32.000 They really don't want to fuck anyone else. 1.00

00:12:34.000 Polly doesn't want to fuck everything that moves. 1.00

00:12:36.000 Polly isn't out. 0.99

00:12:39.000 It's for guys who say, you know what? 0.53

00:12:40.000 I know I'm not the best you can do, but I need sexual access. 0.87

00:12:42.000 cute little word, right? The normalization of it is now that I've written two, actually three articles about this right now.

00:12:48.000 Polly is now a mating strategy for beta males. It's for guys who say, you know what, I know I'm not the best you can do, but I need sexual access. So tell you what, ladies, I'll be your I'll be the good guy for you. 1.00

00:13:01.000 You give me sexual access and you can go have sex with whoever you want and you have your options open to optimize. 0.99

00:13:06.000 That's really what the underlying message of it is. 0.99

00:13:09.000 You can go out and you can optimize your hypergamy with whoever you want.

00:13:13.000 I'll be here babysitting and keeping the home fires going. 0.97

00:13:17.000 And that's just all I have that sexual access.

00:13:20.000 And I tell you what's interesting is there's a there's a parallel to this in primates, right?

00:13:24.000 That's exactly what beta male primates do, like gorillas and bonobos.

00:13:28.000 They there's women go for the women. 1.00

00:13:31.000 The female primates are part of a harem. 0.99

00:13:34.000 They're part of the alpha male harem.

00:13:36.000 And when it when they go into estrus, when it's time for them to when they're in their proliferative phase, that's when they start pushing all these beta male guys off to the side and everything.

00:13:46.000 And then they want to go and they seek out sex with the alpha male.

00:13:49.000 And then when they're out of that or when they're in pregnancy or whatever, they give sexual access to beta males, but only if they have something, if they have resources, if they pick little nits off of them, if they watch the kids, right?

00:14:02.000 If they will ensure the safety of their children, their offspring.

00:14:06.000 So they give them sexual access when they are not in estrus, but they push them away when they are.

00:14:12.000 And I think that people, okay, so that's a really loose way of describing what I see going on right now is we have a, at least in Western societies and in the country you're in right now, we have this, we have such a low estimation of masculinity.

00:14:29.000 We have devalued conventional masculinity.

00:14:32.000 We've devalued like even the idea, just me saying alpha or beta male, people just go, I can't believe he's saying that unironically.

00:14:38.000 Like, no, just me mentioning that.

00:14:41.000 We want to remove the letters M-A-N from the English language.

00:14:46.000 So this builds and builds and builds.

00:14:48.000 And so this, when I see Polly, and when I see the customizable relationships, it's not about You know, our promiscuous nature, you know, human beings are promiscuous, men are promiscuous, and women are promiscuous, too.

00:15:02.000 But we do, we have different mating strategies, and we have different goals in mind for those mating strategies.

00:15:08.000 But to say that, you know, that this is a healthy way to raise kids, this is how we're going to go, no, it's a mating strategy.

00:15:14.000 It's a mating strategy for women, too, because they go, OK, Well, I got to settle for some guy, but wouldn't it be great if I could still have the options to go get with the hot alpha that I once got with before?

00:15:24.000 I wish I could still do that and still have this guy here because women right now don't look for a guy who is the best of both of those. 1.00

00:15:32.000 They're not looking for the guy who's the provider and the guy who's the alpha male.

00:15:35.000 There's two different guys.

00:15:36.000 There's a guy for each one of those roles.

00:15:38.000 If they find that guy, hey, great, but I don't even think today they're even really looking for that.

00:15:43.000 So what's the, what's the, um, What's the solution? What's what's a workable arrangement for people to you know to come together in a relationship?

00:15:50.000 Whatever have kids you know have a family and stuff that this poly thing looks like a solution The problem is is exactly what you just said a minute ago is that there's that jealousy thing and that's part of men's nature It's part of that paternity absolutely. It should be yeah I mean absolutely it should be and and this girl was trying to say to me I'm a hypocrite because I have lots of girlfriends and that should be the same the other way around because this is part of the gender imperative that men and females are the same.

00:16:15.000 And I said, no, that's absolutely not true.

00:16:16.000 Every king, every sultan, every knight of history had maidens and mistresses and a wife.

00:16:21.000 This has been the normal, the normal, the absolutely normal path of human nature is alpha males have all the women, and like we just discussed with the primates, a man at the top has unlimited sexual choice, and the other men struggle for sexual choice. 0.98

00:16:35.000 This is the natural reality of the human condition, and that's the way it's always going to fucking be. 0.96

00:16:40.000 And the idea that women can do it too is completely inane because females get pregnant and the new age pill and all this shit that's come along new age that somehow can prevent a female from getting pregnant when she has sex doesn't change the biological realities of human nature. 0.98

00:16:53.000 Right. 0.99

00:16:55.000 And women know this. 1.00

00:16:56.000 Women know this. 1.00

00:16:56.000 I've had women say to me, well, I know because of the kind of guy you are, I know you'll never be loyal. 1.00

00:17:01.000 They've literally said to me, I know you're too big of a fucking G to sit around here and watch TV with me all night. 1.00

00:17:07.000 They've said it and they still stay with me and they'll say, I know what you're doing, but I just don't want to hear about it because you're not that stupid. 1.00

00:17:14.000 They know the fucking game. 1.00

00:17:16.000 And even their hindbrain understands that as well. 1.00

00:17:18.000 Yeah.

00:17:18.000 I was just going to say, I've got, I'm about like halfway through.

00:17:21.000 Let's see.

00:17:21.000 You can see I'm about halfway through Hector Garcia's Alpha God.

00:17:24.000 And this is exactly what you're talking about right here.

00:17:27.000 It's as far like I'm everybody knows I'm writing my fourth book right now, which is basically The Red Pill and Religion.

00:17:32.000 And as a result of that, I'm like sort of digging into cultural narratives, religious narratives. 0.96

00:17:37.000 And this shit goes back all the way to, you know, ancient Greece and like beyond that. 0.98

00:17:42.000 And exactly what you were just saying a minute ago is powerful men always cordon off a harem. 1.00

00:17:46.000 They always have a harem. 1.00

00:17:47.000 And so whether that's the patriarchs of the Old Testament or it's like Gilgamesh or it's what, you know, all these people, all these, you know, great, what we would consider like alpha males of history have all done the same things.

00:18:00.000 Even in our hunter-gatherer tribes, even hunter-gatherer tribes that still exist today, the chief always cordons off all the women for himself.

00:18:10.000 And that's why when you look at, let's say, dynastic China right now, there was the Forbidden City, and it was guarded by eunuchs. 0.99

00:18:17.000 Well, we've got to cut off those guards' dicks because we don't want them breeding with the harem in there. 1.00

00:18:22.000 So that is the ultimate goal for guys, is unlimited access to unlimited sexuality, but also to know that the reproductive efforts that he's putting into that are his. 0.99

00:18:34.000 That he's not taking care of somebody else, like he's not taking somebody's genetics and pushing them on into the next generation.

00:18:40.000 And that's why you're jealous.

00:18:42.000 I want to stop you there really quickly, because I've said this before and everyone thinks I'm the worst man in the world.

00:18:48.000 I have absolutely zero interest in a child that's not mine.

00:18:52.000 That's the truth.

00:18:53.000 Someone goes, oh, what if you couldn't have kids?

00:18:54.000 Would you adopt?

00:18:55.000 Truthfully, no.

00:18:56.000 I have zero interest. 0.99

00:18:58.000 What's the fucking point? 0.99

00:18:59.000 Like, I know that sounds crazy. 1.00

00:19:01.000 There's orphans and whatever, whatever.

00:19:03.000 I have less than zero interest in a child that's not mine.

00:19:06.000 I can't explain how much I won't care.

00:19:09.000 And if that makes me a bad person, so be it.

00:19:10.000 This is just the reality of who I am. 0.99

00:19:12.000 I just won't give a fuck. 0.98

00:19:13.000 It ain't mine. 0.98

00:19:14.000 Have you put that out there on the internet and what was the response when you did that?

00:19:18.000 People lost their minds.

00:19:20.000 They were like, oh, what kind of man are you?

00:19:22.000 What kind of person?

00:19:23.000 You're not grown up.

00:19:23.000 You're not real man.

00:19:24.000 You're not this.

00:19:25.000 You're not that.

00:19:26.000 And I'm like, well, you know, you can call me whatever you want, but I understand that I'm proud of who I am and I'm proud that I'm Andrew Tate and I want my genetics to be passed on.

00:19:33.000 I want to give them all my energy and time.

00:19:35.000 I don't want to pass my energy and time to other genetics.

00:19:37.000 Why would I?

00:19:38.000 I mean, in fact, I know we shouldn't look at humans purely from an evolutionary animal standpoint, but there are two sides to humanity.

00:19:48.000 There's the evolutionary standpoint of how we've evolved as animals, and there's the societal standpoint.

00:19:53.000 But if you look at us, look at what a lion does.

00:19:54.000 A lion will turn up, get a chick, and kill the cubs that ain't his. 1.00

00:19:57.000 He doesn't give a fuck. 1.00

00:19:58.000 Ain't his! 1.00

00:19:59.000 You know, like, so I'm not saying you should go that far, but I'm certainly not sitting there fucking changing diapers or something like that. 0.93

00:20:04.000 I'll tell you another thing, that's another part of this book is infanticide is across the animal kingdom, right? 0.90

00:20:11.000 If a new alpha comes into a troop or into a pride of lions like you're talking about, yeah.

00:20:18.000 The new alpha male will go and kill the offspring of his rival alpha males, right?

00:20:23.000 Human beings have actually something pretty close to that.

00:20:26.000 Although we're not killing them, we express this and manifest this in other ways.

00:20:30.000 But I'll tell you what will really bake your brain here is that the act of doing so, killing the offspring, the prior offspring, sends the females into estrus. 0.88

00:20:41.000 They want to have sex right after that with the guy who, with the, with the murderer, the murderer.

00:20:48.000 And I, you know, it's, I, people keep hitting me up about, um, what is it? 0.93

00:20:52.000 Hybristophilia?

00:20:53.000 Like, why do women want to go and get with guys who are like convicted killers in prison right now? 0.77

00:21:00.000 And we want to make it into a, you societally, we want to turn it into like a, like a psychological disorder.

00:21:06.000 So we give it a name like hybristophilia, but only women do it. 1.00

00:21:10.000 Only women are the ones that are creating fan clubs for convicted killers in prison right now. 1.00

00:21:16.000 So if you want to call it some sort of social disorder or some psychological disorder, okay, tell me how you're going to do that.

00:21:24.000 But the fact still remains that it's only women that are doing that. 1.00

00:21:27.000 And why is that?

00:21:28.000 Why do they have such a fascination with violence?

00:21:30.000 Why do they have such a fascination with a guy who has the capacity to take another person's life?

00:21:35.000 Yep. 0.97

00:21:35.000 Well, maybe it has something to do with the fact that they get off on the guy that goes and kills off all their babies. 0.97

00:21:41.000 And that was the bottom line of masculinity since the dawn of time. 1.00

00:21:44.000 Like before you had sports cars and bank accounts and fucking social media and Instagram likes and all this bullshit. 0.99

00:21:49.000 What was the bottom line of masculinity? 1.00

00:21:50.000 Well, he whooped ass. 0.99

00:21:52.000 What was the bottom line of masculinity? 1.00

00:21:54.000 Like that's evolutionarily hard.

00:21:55.000 Demonstration of buyer value.

00:21:57.000 Yeah. 1.00

00:21:57.000 DHV was the ability to beat someone's ass. 1.00

00:22:00.000 That's it. 1.00

00:22:00.000 I can whoop his ass. 1.00

00:22:01.000 I killed those three. 1.00

00:22:02.000 Now you're mine. 1.00

00:22:03.000 Boom.

00:22:04.000 You know, and that's the bottom line of masculinity. 1.00

00:22:07.000 And all these imperatives that are being forced by the West are basically, I mean, we could go into this forever, but it's an attempt to feminize men because you have to feminize men for them to accept the society they now live under in the West. 0.98

00:22:19.000 If the men of Russia were forced to live under the society that the men live under here in the West, there'd be fucking riots. 1.00

00:22:25.000 You think a Russian man's gonna sit there and pay alimony to his ex-wife so she can fucking have enough gas money to drive over and suck a new dick? 1.00

00:22:32.000 You think he's gonna sit there and go, I better pay? 1.00

00:22:34.000 You think he's going to do that shit? 1.00

00:22:36.000 No fucking way! 1.00

00:22:39.000 Viv says to me all the time, or any of the chicks, they say to me all the time, I don't know what would happen if we split up, but I know for sure you wouldn't be giving me money to fuck. 1.00

00:22:47.000 And I was like, yeah, like, I don't know what planet these chicks are on. 1.00

00:22:50.000 I'll divorce him and I'll take this. 1.00

00:22:52.000 I'll take, I will set it all on fire and I will go to jail for the rest of my fucking human life before I give you a penny. 1.00

00:22:58.000 because I'm not a pussy. That's the reality. But most of these men are such pussies. 1.00

00:23:03.000 Oh, the court said, fuck the court and fuck you. I'm out of here. 1.00

00:23:07.000 You know, like it's just, we have to feminize the men. 1.00

00:23:10.000 Otherwise, I don't have to accept this bullshit. And then they're easily ruled. Yeah. 0.99

00:23:17.000 They're more easily ruled.

00:23:18.000 They're more easily ruled.

00:23:20.000 And then their sexual market value is so low, they end up picking up some single mother with eight kids and playing second daddy.

00:23:26.000 That's where I was going to go next.

00:23:30.000 That's where I was going to go next with that because you're just saying, you know, you don't want to invest in children that are not your own.

00:23:37.000 And I think right now in Western culture, A part also of this, you know, it's really a war on paternity.

00:23:44.000 It's really this social engineering program to teach men to give up that jealousy.

00:23:52.000 In fact, we characterize that jealousy as toxic masculinity.

00:23:55.000 Well, guess what?

00:23:56.000 Guys are going to feel that, and they're not going to know why they feel that, but it's a genetic evolved imperative for them to want to make art, for them to want to be on top of Why?

00:24:07.000 you know, their own their own efforts and their own their own genetic legacy being pushed forward. They can't describe it. They can't put it into words. They can't articulate it, but that's what they feel. And so when we get guys are saying like, oh, you know, Polly's not for everybody. You know, we have to condition ourselves to to, you know, repress that jealousy instinct. And it's like, well, that's there for a reason.

00:24:29.000 Yeah. Why? It's like it's like a hundred thousand years of evolution that puts that in there.

00:24:34.000 Why would a man protect a woman if he's not jealous?

00:24:37.000 Why would a man even protect her?

00:24:38.000 You know, I'll tell you.

00:24:39.000 We were evolved to be this way so we can protect, so we'll risk our life to keep her alive.

00:24:42.000 This is the basis of humanity.

00:24:44.000 They're trying to reprogram the basis of humanity. 0.98

00:24:47.000 And what's amazing to me is that they're fucking successful on some level. 1.00

00:24:52.000 There's resistance, but there's still a whole bunch of fucking dorks sitting there going, oh, okay. 1.00

00:24:57.000 It's insanity. 1.00

00:24:58.000 It's like the beta males who will go, if I do this, do I get laid?

00:25:02.000 Because beta males will do anything to get laid. 0.61

00:25:04.000 They'll do anything to get laid. 1.00

00:25:06.000 And that's the crazy thing about it.

00:25:07.000 And this is one of the things I teach.

00:25:09.000 And people come to me and go, what do I do to get laid? 0.56

00:25:11.000 And I'm like, very little. 1.00

00:25:12.000 Like, I don't do shit. 0.99

00:25:14.000 It's part of your personality, that's why. 0.98

00:25:20.000 For these guys, it's not part of their personality.

00:25:21.000 One of the things I've always said, and I know you're reading my book right now, but one thing I say in that book is that you need to internalize this.

00:25:29.000 It needs to be part of your personality.

00:25:31.000 And I think for you, because of the way you were raised, I would say it's probably because your father raised you to be the way you are, from what I know of you.

00:25:38.000 This is it.

00:25:39.000 Guys come to me and they go, well how should I act?

00:25:41.000 When I've got guys who I train, how should I act?

00:25:43.000 naturally that way because it does. 0.98

00:25:45.000 And anything that's outside of that seems like, what the fuck are you talking about? 0.98

00:25:47.000 How is this not obvious to you? 0.98

00:25:49.000 Yeah.

00:25:50.000 This is it.

00:25:50.000 Guys come to me and they go, well, how should I act?

00:25:52.000 Like, like when I've got guys who I train.

00:25:54.000 Act.

00:25:55.000 And I say, why are you acting?

00:25:56.000 Be.

00:25:57.000 You're like, you have to act a certain way when a woman disrespects you. 0.99

00:26:00.000 If a woman disrespects me, I haven't got to act shit because I'm pissed off for real. 0.98

00:26:03.000 I'll never talk to her again for real like there's no act like when you talk to me like I'm a dickhead fine I'll never reply to you again and then she'll then she'll lose her mind because she's never had a guy ignore her. 0.97

00:26:14.000 No, to me, it's not an act.

00:26:16.000 They're coming along.

00:26:16.000 What do I do here?

00:26:17.000 What do I do there?

00:26:18.000 You need to become the kind of person who doesn't take disrespect from females.

00:26:20.000 Why are you going to take disrespect from people?

00:26:22.000 Why are you going to have a woman live in your house? 1.00

00:26:25.000 And if someone breaks into the house, you have to go downstairs and face, face an attacker who could have a fucking machine gun. 1.00

00:26:31.000 You have to go down there as a man to protect her. 0.99

00:26:33.000 But when you asked her for a cup of coffee, she's going to give you attitude. 1.00

00:26:36.000 And you're gonna accept that shit. 1.00

00:26:37.000 You're gonna sit there and go, oh well, you know, she's had a long day. 1.00

00:26:40.000 I don't give a fuck how long your day is. 0.99

00:26:42.000 I ask for coffee, I pay for this house. 0.99

00:26:44.000 I'll risk my life to keep you alive.

00:26:45.000 If you don't want to make me a cup of coffee, that's perfectly fine. 1.00

00:26:48.000 Pack a fucking bag. 1.00

00:26:49.000 Get out. 1.00

00:26:51.000 And people go, you're crazy, you're out your mind. 1.00

00:26:53.000 I've had girls, I've had that exact situation happen to me, and girls go to me, you're fucking crazy, you're crazy. 1.00

00:26:58.000 I'm like, bitch, get the fuck out. 1.00

00:26:59.000 You're crazy. 1.00

00:27:00.000 You're the most crazy. 1.00

00:27:01.000 And they'll leave. 1.00

00:27:02.000 And then they'll be texting me for fucking months. 1.00

00:27:04.000 The crazy man. 1.00

00:27:05.000 Then they want the crazy man back. 1.00

00:27:06.000 Then they want the crazy back. 0.97

00:27:07.000 Yeah.

00:27:08.000 I'll make the coffee.

00:27:09.000 I'll make the coffee.

00:27:09.000 I'm sorry.

00:27:10.000 I just didn't like the way you said it.

00:27:12.000 Your tone. 1.00

00:27:13.000 Bitch, I talk to you in a tone I fucking want to my house. 1.00

00:27:15.000 And that's not an act. 1.00

00:27:17.000 It's not about being an act.

00:27:18.000 It's just who I am as a person.

00:27:19.000 I'm not a mean person.

00:27:20.000 I'm a nice guy.

00:27:21.000 But there's boundaries and limits.

00:27:22.000 And I have my view of the world.

00:27:24.000 And you comply to my view of the world and you get replaced.

00:27:26.000 I think that that throws off a lot of guys because a lot of guys, particularly in the, I would say in the last like three to four generations, because at least in Western culture, they have been feminized and have been brought up in a feminine primary social order that convinces them that they have to be in touch with their feminine side.

00:27:45.000 They have, like, it's, it's bad for you to, to be masculine.

00:27:48.000 It's like, it's what I call gender loathing. 1.00

00:27:50.000 It's for these guys.

00:27:51.000 So you've got these guys, and people wonder why there's this generation of Lost Boys that are coming to me, to you, to Jordan Peterson, to anybody else.

00:27:59.000 Why is there such a mass of these guys, and why isn't it obvious?

00:28:04.000 For you, because of the way you were raised, because of who you are, you've already internalized this stuff.

00:28:10.000 One of the things I run into when I'm talking with guys, Like if I'm interacting with them, like say in my comments on my blog or something, guys will say, how was this in question?

00:28:22.000 How are these guys don't even see this?

00:28:24.000 Don't these guys know?

00:28:24.000 And women will ask me too.

00:28:25.000 They'll say, don't these guys know that they're being pussies? 0.99

00:28:28.000 Don't they know that they're, and it's like, no, they really don't because they've never had that education and it's never become part of who they are. 0.99

00:28:36.000 And so like when people tell me, like they'll say, well, I really pity Rolo because you know, he's married and he has to game his wife all the time.

00:28:42.000 And it's like, No, I don't game my wife.

00:28:44.000 I am the game.

00:28:45.000 I understand that.

00:28:46.000 It's taken root. 1.00

00:28:47.000 It's part of my reflexive personality to pass a shit test. 0.99

00:28:52.000 I don't sit there and go back to my book and go, what did I write about that? 0.99

00:28:55.000 Exactly, it's who you are.

00:28:56.000 And that's the thing, it has to become who you are.

00:28:58.000 Because if it's not who you are, you can only fake for so long until someone calls your bluff and you get checked. 0.99

00:29:02.000 If you fake that you don't give a shit and then she walks out the door and you actually give a shit, game's up. 0.99

00:29:07.000 And it doesn't matter how good you are with women. 1.00

00:29:09.000 I've had women who I've told to fuck off and they've never texted me again and I've lost them. 0.99

00:29:12.000 You've got to be prepared to lose to win. 1.00

00:29:13.000 I use chess a lot because I'm a chess guy.

00:29:17.000 It's an analogy.

00:29:18.000 I've had loads of guys come to me and they tell me their sob story by email.

00:29:20.000 They're like, what should I do?

00:29:21.000 I'm like, leave her.

00:29:22.000 Like, oh, but I love her.

00:29:23.000 I was like, in the situation you're in, the only chance you have a victory is such a, it's like a queen sacrifice in chess.

00:29:30.000 Maybe it'll all go wrong.

00:29:32.000 Maybe it'll all go right.

00:29:33.000 But if you don't do the queen sacrifice, you're going to sit there and it's going to be ground down and slowly pressured down and lose the game.

00:29:39.000 You're going to lose the game and time's running out.

00:29:41.000 So you better do something drastic now. 1.00

00:29:42.000 She's talking to you like a dickhead, walk out the fucking door. 1.00

00:29:45.000 Maybe you can shock her into compliance. 1.00

00:29:47.000 But if you don't shock her into compliance, then it was always over. 1.00

00:29:50.000 If you leaving is not enough to make her talk to you nicely, how long is she going to sit there until she sucks a new dick? 1.00

00:29:57.000 Are those few weeks really that much more important? 1.00

00:29:59.000 Like, but people just ain't got the balls. 0.97

00:30:01.000 They're not prepared to take the risk. 1.00

00:30:03.000 I've lost loads of girls doing that shit. 1.00

00:30:05.000 But the ones who stick around are absolutely and utterly compliant. 1.00

00:30:09.000 And that's how you gotta be.

00:30:10.000 And this is another reason why I talk about how important it is to have numbers as a guy.

00:30:14.000 Lots of guys are like, well, what if I just want one girlfriend? 1.00

00:30:16.000 I was like, if you want one girlfriend, you better go fuck 20 chicks. 1.00

00:30:19.000 And then you're going to end up with one good girlfriend. 1.00

00:30:21.000 The world we live in now, like, I'm not saying you can't train any girl, but I'm saying some blueprints are better than others. 0.79

00:30:27.000 So you need to go out there and you've got to run the game a bit to find one that isn't a complete mess to begin with.

00:30:32.000 Like, you're going to pick something.

00:30:33.000 If you're going to fall in love with the first girl you bang, she might have a whole host of issues. 1.00

00:30:37.000 Why are you dealing with that shit for? 1.00

00:30:38.000 You know, like you want to build a race car. 1.00

00:30:40.000 You want to start with a Ferrari. 0.99

00:30:41.000 You don't want to start with a fucking pedal bike. 1.00

00:30:42.000 That's the point. 0.99

00:30:44.000 Also having the game and being able to have access to lots of females is ultra important. 0.99

00:30:49.000 Even if you have the goal of being the trad con, one man, one woman, even if that's your goal, you still need to have access to a whole bunch of chicks or you're not going to have a good selection. 1.00

00:30:58.000 This is the world we live in now.

00:30:59.000 So I've had guys email me and say, I don't want to be a player, Tate.

00:31:01.000 I want to be a good man.

00:31:02.000 I'm like, well, you better be a player first.

00:31:05.000 You better be a player first.

00:31:06.000 Otherwise you're going to struggle.

00:31:07.000 You're going to double down on the first chick you bang. 1.00

00:31:10.000 Yeah, I get that a lot too, is when people, one of the things that especially now I see this, and I saw this about like 2015 as well, but it's almost like the atmosphere goes in cycles right now.

00:31:26.000 And so right now, right before an election cycle, the idea of like, Being traditional or being, you know, I want to be a monogamous guy.

00:31:35.000 I want to be a stand-up dude.

00:31:36.000 I want to have, you know, I just want to have one wife and have a dog in the yard and three kids and a wife that really loves me and wants to have sex with me and that's it. 0.96

00:31:44.000 And anything else is degenerate.

00:31:46.000 Like, what gets me, and I was, I wanted, I've got a list of questions here, but what gets me about What is that you do like I know what you do for a living But I also know that you have like you're at the war room right now, right?

00:31:57.000 You're talking to guys who want to live better lives They want to do something more with their lives and just whatever it is that they're doing.

00:32:05.000 Um, I think it's fascinating to me that For guys who will come to me and they'll say well Rollo.

00:32:12.000 He just talks about hypergamy He just talks about like spinning plates or any of that kind of stuff.

00:32:15.000 You just described exactly what?

00:32:18.000 What I wrote in my first book about spinning plates is you need to be non-exclusive so that you can get experience with women. 1.00

00:32:24.000 So maybe like I was like you were just saying a minute ago, as you go through, you know, you get a notch count up to, you know, 20 or 30, at least then you can understand the nature of women and you understand how it works. 0.63

00:32:35.000 And then maybe you get one.

00:32:37.000 Yeah, and you have some options.

00:32:39.000 In my PhD course on Curb Your Tate.com, one of the elements, one of the lessons in the PhD course is how to tell if she's a good girl or not.

00:32:45.000 So I have a very specific test you can run on the female you're seeing, and I won't give it away because people need to buy it, but there's a very specific test you can run on a female to see if she's a quality female, a quality candidate to make into a girlfriend or not.

00:32:59.000 It's a very specific test.

00:33:00.000 And I've said this test has never failed me.

00:33:02.000 I'm not a man who lies, Rollo.

00:33:03.000 I swear on my father's grave, I don't lie. 0.99

00:33:05.000 I've fucked maybe like 500 girls. 1.00

00:33:06.000 Last time I counted, it was like 400 and something. 1.00

00:33:08.000 It's ridiculous. 0.65

00:33:09.000 It's a huge number. 0.99

00:33:10.000 It's a huge number.

00:33:11.000 And this test has never once failed me.

00:33:13.000 If they pass it, they're a good candidate.

00:33:15.000 If they fail, they're not.

00:33:16.000 This is the reality of this test.

00:33:18.000 And that's why if you're only going to have one girl and you're going to double down on it, and you haven't even tested her, you could have a bad apple to begin with.

00:33:25.000 And why put yourself through all that stress?

00:33:27.000 Why put yourself through all that problems when you can just find a better candidate to begin with?

00:33:32.000 And that's the ruthlessness of the game.

00:33:33.000 Females are absolutely ruthless in their mating strategies. 1.00

00:33:37.000 So why are you not going to be ruthless to make sure you get the best for you?

00:33:39.000 And if that means you have to sleep with a whole bunch of girls to find one who's compliant and submissive, then do so.

00:33:44.000 You have to look after yourself.

00:33:45.000 If you're thinking, oh, that's the bad thing to do, what do women do? 1.00

00:33:48.000 You think women aren't ruthless with their selection processes? 1.00

00:33:51.000 You can be the best man in the world, but if you ain't tall enough, she still thinks you're a bitch. 1.00

00:33:54.000 That's what women think. 1.00

00:33:56.000 Women can be that ruthless with the way they are. 1.00

00:33:58.000 So, you know, you have to fight fire with fire, and you have to be absolutely and utterly self-interested.

00:34:03.000 Self-interested.

00:34:04.000 The more selfish you are, the happier she's gonna be. 1.00

00:34:08.000 And this is what blows people's minds.

00:34:10.000 You have to be a one-way train on a track to Tate Town and they either get on board or they go find another train.

00:34:16.000 You can't be bending and complying because it doesn't work.

00:34:19.000 It doesn't work in any realm.

00:34:21.000 You have to just be absolutely, this is who I am.

00:34:23.000 If you don't like it, leave.

00:34:24.000 And I've said that plenty of times.

00:34:25.000 I've had plenty of girls leave and I've had plenty of girls stay. 1.00

00:34:28.000 I've had girls change from veganism to full-on meat eating because I refuse to have a vegan in my house. 1.00

00:34:34.000 I'm literally that level.

00:34:35.000 I'm like, I want steak.

00:34:36.000 Cook me a steak.

00:34:37.000 I won't cook a steak.

00:34:38.000 You're cooking it because it's my house.

00:34:39.000 You're doing as I say.

00:34:40.000 Yeah.

00:34:40.000 I'll leave there.

00:34:41.000 Go then.

00:34:42.000 I'll tell you what's interesting.

00:34:43.000 Like you can, you can bend reality that much.

00:34:46.000 If you just, you're adamant.

00:34:47.000 I was gonna say one more thing quickly.

00:34:49.000 The war room guys last night.

00:34:52.000 We are talking about all this kind of stuff.

00:34:53.000 They're talking about frame, etc, etc.

00:34:56.000 And we were doing inside the war room, we have different sections, but we're doing a PhD mindset.

00:35:00.000 And I was explaining how in the world we live in today, very few things men say are said adamantly.

00:35:07.000 We live in a world where men say things, but they don't say them adamantly.

00:35:09.000 They don't say them and they don't mean them.

00:35:11.000 So when you say things you mean, in the current world we live in, it almost makes you a hypnotist.

00:35:17.000 Because a beautiful woman's never had that. 0.98

00:35:19.000 A beautiful woman's never had a man say something to her and mean it.

00:35:22.000 So one of the guys go, can you give me an example?

00:35:24.000 And this is one of the examples I give.

00:35:25.000 One of my girlfriends hated one of my other girlfriends. 0.91

00:35:27.000 I had these two girls.

00:35:28.000 I was sleeping with them both.

00:35:29.000 One of the girls hated the chick. 1.00

00:35:30.000 I hate her. 1.00

00:35:31.000 She's a bitch. 1.00

00:35:31.000 She's a bimbo. 1.00

00:35:32.000 She's always writing this on Instagram, blah, blah, blah, blah. 1.00

00:35:35.000 And I sat there and I said, the only reason you talk about her all the time and watch all her stories and you're obsessed with her is because you want to fuck her. 1.00

00:35:42.000 She's like, what? 1.00

00:35:43.000 No, I don't. 1.00

00:35:43.000 I hate that bitch. 1.00

00:35:44.000 I was like, look, all you do is talk about her. 1.00

00:35:45.000 All you do is watch her stories.

00:35:46.000 You're obsessed with her. 1.00

00:35:46.000 You want to fuck her. 1.00

00:35:47.000 You don't even know it. 1.00

00:35:48.000 You think I don't know the game? 1.00

00:35:49.000 I know when you're, I know, I know you want to fuck her. 1.00

00:35:50.000 I've seen this a million times before. 1.00

00:35:51.000 You're obsessed with her.

00:35:53.000 And I said it so adamantly.

00:35:54.000 I mean, a couple of weeks, I repeated it every time she insulted the girl. 1.00

00:35:57.000 I was like, you want to fuck her. 1.00

00:35:58.000 You're desperate. 1.00

00:35:59.000 You know, I know, I know she's what you think about.

00:36:02.000 It's like a hypnotist. 0.99

00:36:03.000 I said it so adamantly when I was fucking them both a month later. 0.99

00:36:06.000 I almost burst out laughing. 1.00

00:36:08.000 I knew this shit was gonna happen. 1.00

00:36:10.000 It's like because you just adamantly state. 1.00

00:36:13.000 And women, if you can adamantly state things and stick to your guns, you can become a fucking magician. 1.00

00:36:19.000 Because they never had that before in their lives. 1.00

00:36:20.000 They never had a man come along and say, no, this, this, this.

00:36:24.000 And what can they do?

00:36:24.000 They can either leave or comply.

00:36:26.000 Some will leave, some will comply.

00:36:27.000 It's as simple as that.

00:36:29.000 And people say to me, Tate's lying.

00:36:30.000 How does he have all these girls?

00:36:32.000 They're not loyal to him.

00:36:33.000 They must be cheating.

00:36:35.000 They're really not. 0.99

00:36:36.000 I'm not a fucking liar. 0.99

00:36:37.000 None of my girls are fucking any other dude. 1.00

00:36:39.000 They're all with me. 0.99

00:36:39.000 They all know I cheat. 0.99

00:36:40.000 Because the ones who weren't compliant, the ones who wouldn't play the game, got kicked out long ago.

00:36:45.000 So it's just the way it is.

00:36:46.000 And if you don't believe me, that's completely up to you.

00:36:49.000 But the fact they're all making me millions of dollars might be proof enough.

00:36:52.000 Yeah. 0.98

00:36:52.000 What the fuck more do you want? 0.98

00:36:54.000 But that's my point. 0.99

00:36:55.000 Men don't say anything adamantly.

00:36:56.000 They don't even stick to our guns anymore.

00:36:57.000 And if you do that, you could become a magician in the modern world.

00:37:00.000 It's really not that complicated.

00:37:02.000 Yeah, definitely.

00:37:04.000 That's great that you say that, because I don't think a lot of women, particularly in Western culture, have that experience.

00:37:12.000 Where they're dealing with a guy, like in some way, they've got to be invested in that guy because you can be adamant.

00:37:19.000 And if that woman is not in any way, if she hasn't, if she's not beholden to you, if she's not into you or whatever, it doesn't matter.

00:37:25.000 You just sound like a, you know, a guy who's just sort of like petulant.

00:37:29.000 You're like, but if she is into you, if she has an, a, an emotional or physical investment into you, very few women have that experience of the guy that says, look, here's how it is.

00:37:42.000 This is, you know, this is how it's going to work out and then have a guy that actually means that and actually backs that up.

00:37:47.000 So like when I'm talking to guys in there, they'll, they'll hit me up and they'll say, well, you know, I, I'll be listening to like Rich Cooper's channel and it's like always the same.

00:37:55.000 He does this one show on Mondays called Before the Train Wreck and it's always the same phone call.

00:37:59.000 It's like, should I take her back?

00:38:00.000 Should I go back to her?

00:38:01.000 Should I?

00:38:04.000 She's the only thing I got going.

00:38:05.000 She's a single mother.

00:38:07.000 That kind of stuff.

00:38:08.000 It's coming from a position of scarcity.

00:38:10.000 And you know what?

00:38:11.000 The unconscious dynamic between you and that person is she does not need you as much as you need her.

00:38:17.000 Absolutely.

00:38:18.000 And you can't get away with being adamant unless she needs you.

00:38:23.000 More than you need her.

00:38:24.000 So when you put that down and they want and that's the direction they want to be directed They want command presence.

00:38:30.000 That's exactly what you're just talking about is command presence police officers use this all the time It's like they are the one like they you know being a police officer I think we're sort of training this out of society right now, but I think up until recently there is a It's a concept that's used in law enforcement called command presence.

00:38:47.000 And so if you are a police officer and they see you in the uniform, there's this precise, it's in the military as well.

00:38:53.000 They see you in that position.

00:38:55.000 There is an implied authority that goes with that position that people automatically acknowledge.

00:39:01.000 And that presence needs to be something that you live because the moment you let that down, the moment you stop that, the moment you stop telling a woman no, Just even something as simple like what you're saying right there is like, yeah, I get it.

00:39:13.000 You know, you can hypnotize them, whatever, as long as you're forceful about it.

00:39:16.000 But no, women simply today don't get told no by men who actually mean no.

00:39:22.000 No, you can't do that.

00:39:23.000 No, I don't want you to do that.

00:39:25.000 No, you know what? 1.00

00:39:26.000 You can go off on your girl's night out, and then when you come back, all your shit will be on the on the curb. 1.00

00:39:31.000 Yeah. 0.99

00:39:32.000 And so, yeah, I 100 percent.

00:39:35.000 Are you familiar with the idea of command presence?

00:39:38.000 I've heard of it before, and I guess, you know what's funny?

00:39:42.000 Someone said to me yesterday the same thing you said to me.

00:39:43.000 They're like, yeah, but Tate, you do all this without thinking.

00:39:45.000 And I'm like, yeah, this is just how I've always been.

00:39:47.000 It's almost like it's how I've always been.

00:39:49.000 It's funny you just said about the girls night out.

00:39:51.000 I remember a conversation I was having with a girl maybe five or six years ago.

00:39:53.000 She was my girlfriend at the time. 0.80

00:39:54.000 And we're watching some show and there's some bitch went on some hen do before she got married running around with her girls So I ever got married which probably won't happen But if I ever got married if my girl thinks she's gonna run off with a bunch of hoes To another country to be a hoe for a night like no way Stick what do you mean? No way? 1.00

00:40:11.000 I said, what do you mean? 0.99

00:40:11.000 What do I fucking mean? 0.99

00:40:12.000 I'll end the marriage right then and there. 1.00

00:40:14.000 You ain't doing that dumb shit. 0.99

00:40:15.000 You know, like it's almost like, and another thing is this leads me on to something else I put on Twitter on one of my band accounts that went viral and everyone lost their minds. 0.99

00:40:22.000 I said, if you're a woman has a celebrity crush, she doesn't respect you. 1.00

00:40:26.000 Yeah, I remember that one.

00:40:27.000 Everybody lost their mind.

00:40:28.000 Yep, yep.

00:40:30.000 The dudes were sticking up for their girl, like he's hot.

00:40:34.000 I was like, on what planet are you? 1.00

00:40:37.000 If your woman's truly obsessed with you and truly in love with you, there's no man on earth she wants to fuck. 1.00

00:40:40.000 It doesn't matter if he's famous or not. 0.99

00:40:42.000 My girl's inbox, her Instagram's on my phone.

00:40:45.000 She gets three or four blue checkmark inboxes from football players, NFL players, a day.

00:40:50.000 And she just ignores them. 0.99

00:40:51.000 She's completely uninterested.

00:40:52.000 They're richer than me.

00:40:54.000 They may be bigger than me.

00:40:55.000 They may be, well, no one's stronger than me, but you know what?

00:40:58.000 I mean, they're dudes.

00:40:59.000 They're real people, you know?

00:41:01.000 And she's just like, no, you're the one I love.

00:41:03.000 To me, the smell of another man makes me feel sick.

00:41:06.000 Yeah.

00:41:07.000 And that's true love.

00:41:08.000 That's a true frame for a female. 1.00

00:41:11.000 People say females aren't loyal. 1.00

00:41:12.000 And I say, well, they can be loyal if you're really, really the one she believes is the best for her.

00:41:16.000 They're the most loyal people on earth.

00:41:18.000 They're only the opposite when they don't believe that.

00:41:20.000 That's the reality of it, you know?

00:41:22.000 Yeah, it's funny you should say that because I was talking to you.

00:41:28.000 It was similar to what you were saying about how, you know, if you're in a solid, stable, healthy relationship where there's respect for you, that's not even going to be an issue.

00:41:39.000 So when guys come up to me and they say like, this is a common question I'll get from guys.

00:41:43.000 My girlfriend wants to go on a girls night out or she wants to go with her girlfriends off to Las Vegas. 1.00

00:41:49.000 For the weekend with her girlfriend, you know, a girl's getaway or some shit like that. 0.97

00:41:53.000 And I go, so the whole, the conflict, like the inner conflict that these guys have is that they don't know if they should say yes or they should say no.

00:42:02.000 Or would it be more alpha to say yes or would it be more alpha to say no?

00:42:05.000 And I said, that's not the question you need to be asking yourself.

00:42:08.000 Why is she asking this in the first place?

00:42:10.000 Why is this even an issue?

00:42:12.000 Why does she even think that this is a good idea to go off and do that? 0.99

00:42:15.000 And now here's what happens is when you say stuff like that and when you tweet stuff out, this is the most common response.

00:42:21.000 Women will say, well, imagine being you so insecure in your masculinity that that you wouldn't let your girl go off on a girl's night out or you wouldn't let her, you know, you wouldn't let her go and indulge in a fantasy of a celebrity that she'll never get with, you know.

00:42:36.000 But you're so insecure in your masculinity that And it's always this, you always notice that it's not anything else.

00:42:43.000 It's not, you're, you're insecure about this or this or this.

00:42:45.000 It's always, you're insecure in your masculinity because that's always the attack angle.

00:42:49.000 It's always to attack men's sexuality. 1.00

00:42:52.000 That's why a real man lets his woman fuck everyone, doesn't he? 1.00

00:42:55.000 That's what a real man does. 1.00

00:42:55.000 Yeah, and so you can, and I got into it, and getting back to the Pauly thing, I got into it with Jeff Miller, Dr. Jeff Miller. 1.00

00:43:05.000 I call him Dr. Giggity.

00:43:06.000 He's the guy that is, and I like Jeff, I really wish I had a better relationship with him, but it's like, I think I call him to the carpet and I ask him the tough questions that he doesn't really want to answer.

00:43:17.000 But he's very, he's a very vocal opponent, or vocal proponent, I should say.

00:43:22.000 of the poly lifestyle because he's in a poly relationship with his, I guess his wife, Dr. Diana Flashman.

00:43:30.000 And so they're very open about this and they're trying to popularize this and they're trying to make it something that's a little bit more normalized.

00:43:35.000 And I was thinking to myself, how do you get past that jealousy part?

00:43:39.000 First of all, why does your woman want to do that in the first place? 1.00

00:43:42.000 And then second of all, how do you get past this evolved jealousy side?

00:43:45.000 And he says, well, you have to find a way to eroticize it.

00:43:49.000 You have to find some way to get off on the fact that you're off of on the jealousy, To feel jealousy is some way to, uh, to, to repress that, that bad, bad gel.

00:44:01.000 Like jealousy is a bad thing.

00:44:02.000 You shouldn't feel it.

00:44:03.000 And so how do we get over that?

00:44:04.000 Well, we, we, we get turned on by it and, and you know, we see cuckold porn or whatever else that's going on.

00:44:10.000 But what I think is interesting is that the, the fact that we are finding ways to condition ourselves to fit into this This thought paradigm, this way of thinking, as opposed to going with what our gut instinct is, which is jealousy, which is at least a degree of possessiveness, of mate guarding, to say, you know, I'm interested, like you're saying, I'm interested in my own paternity.

00:44:38.000 I don't want to deal with another man's progeny. 1.00

00:44:42.000 I'm only interested in what I want to do here, and if that's what you expect from me, then you need to go find some other guy that's going to do that.

00:44:49.000 Women right now, what they'll say is, if I bring that up, if I say, I would not marry, I would not date, I would not get involved with a single mother. 0.85

00:44:59.000 Why?

00:45:00.000 Well, because I am essentially signing up for my own cuckoldry.

00:45:04.000 And if you view cuckoldry as taking the parental investment responsibilities of another man's child on yourself, whether it's deceptive or whether it's right up front and we normalize it and saying, oh, these guys, they're not the stepfathers, they're the father that stepped up.

00:45:21.000 We can normalize it in society and we can find ways to repress those natural instincts.

00:45:28.000 Like the natural instinct is my own paternity, right?

00:45:30.000 Just like you're saying.

00:45:32.000 And so it's, it's odd to you because you've internalized this, but there's guys who will go to great lengths to convince themselves that they are more masculine or that they're better men because they're cuckolding themselves because they'll, I'm, I'm more secure in my masculinity because I let another dude rail my wife. 0.99

00:45:51.000 Yeah, it's bullshit. 0.91

00:45:51.000 I mean, the single mothers thing is one thing about, I guess, the red pill space that kind of annoyed me. 0.91

00:45:55.000 I saw a bunch of people hailing, running in on single mothers, and my argument was, well, why are you fucking them? 0.99

00:46:03.000 Like, that's the truth. 0.99

00:46:03.000 Like, if you're such a fucking big bad G, which you're talking about, then why are you fucking single mothers at all? 0.99

00:46:08.000 People come to me and go, oh, what should I do about single mothers? 1.00

00:46:10.000 I was like, don't fuck them. 1.00

00:46:12.000 Fuck a 19-year-old beauty queen. 1.00

00:46:14.000 A lot of guys, a lot of dudes will say that like, well, you should just fuck them and you shouldn't get involved with them, right? 1.00

00:46:22.000 It's like, why get involved? 1.00

00:46:24.000 Why even have sex with them? 0.78

00:46:25.000 Why even do that? 0.98

00:46:26.000 And the reason for that is because that's easy.

00:46:29.000 It's low hanging fruit.

00:46:30.000 It's easier for them to do that.

00:46:32.000 It's the path of least resistance.

00:46:34.000 It's much more difficult to run game and to get with the 19 year old beauty queen, like you're saying. 1.00

00:46:39.000 Than it is to get with a woman who is predisposed to finding a new father, trying to find some way to settle down, right? 0.98

00:46:46.000 You might be having sex with that person, but again, and then what else do you run into?

00:46:50.000 You also run into the fact that that kid is always going to supersede you no matter what. 0.59

00:46:54.000 Even if you're just having sex with that single mother and you're like, oh, we're just having no strings attached sex, that kid still comes before you. 0.97

00:47:00.000 Yeah, and maybe that's maybe that's the way it should be.

00:47:02.000 But here's the thing is you are never going to you know, we're gonna have anything in the long term.

00:47:06.000 So if you want to make her a plate and then she's gone.

00:47:08.000 Okay, I get that.

00:47:10.000 But why are you doing that in the first place?

00:47:12.000 That's another thing is like guys don't they never ask themselves?

00:47:16.000 Why does why does this a good idea?

00:47:18.000 Why is my girlfriend asking me to go on a girl's night out? 0.94

00:47:21.000 Why is she asking me for my girls want to do my girls are completely uninterested in any of the shit that my money can buy all my girls want to do. 1.00

00:47:29.000 Is, is try and get me to stay at home and watch bullshit TV next to them. 0.99

00:47:33.000 And all they say, can't we just stay home today? 0.99

00:47:35.000 Can't they don't want to go Vegas with the girls. 1.00

00:47:38.000 They don't want to go out. 0.98

00:47:40.000 They don't want to fucking go anywhere expensive. 0.98

00:47:42.000 People go, your girls are with you for money. 1.00

00:47:43.000 I'm like, my girls are the cheapest thing I can possibly do. 1.00

00:47:45.000 I turn off, I got home cooked meal and they just want to sit next to me while I ignore them and sit on my phone and tweet and bang them at the end of it all.

00:47:52.000 That's all a woman, when she's truly in love with a man, wants to do. 1.00

00:47:55.000 Stay at home with that man.

00:47:57.000 If she starts saying, oh, I want to do this.

00:47:58.000 I'm bored.

00:47:59.000 Let's go here.

00:47:59.000 Let's do that.

00:48:00.000 We need more excitement.

00:48:01.000 All of those are red flags.

00:48:03.000 Because if she truly loves you, you being in the room is exciting.

00:48:07.000 Yeah.

00:48:07.000 And that is enough.

00:48:08.000 And they don't want to go Vegas.

00:48:10.000 When guys come to me with a similar situation, my girl wants to go Vegas. 0.98

00:48:13.000 Vegas, what should I do?

00:48:13.000 I say, well, you tell her girls with boyfriends don't go to Vegas.

00:48:16.000 So you either go to Vegas single or you stay here. 1.00

00:48:19.000 And if she decides to go anyway, to call your bluff, you have to be man enough to make sure you fucking stick to your guns and not be a little pussy. 1.00

00:48:26.000 Because if you allow her to go and you stay with her, you've just told her she can do whatever the fuck she wants and she's going to have you anyway, which includes sucking dick. 1.00

00:48:34.000 And then she's going to end up cheating on you. 1.00

00:48:35.000 And then you're going to email me again.

00:48:37.000 Well, you're setting the paradigm.

00:48:39.000 You're setting the paradigm here.

00:48:41.000 Like, it's very simple.

00:48:43.000 And people go to me, yeah, but what if she leaves me?

00:48:44.000 And I say, look, I've said that to girls and girls have left.

00:48:47.000 You lose some girls.

00:48:49.000 There's no man who keeps them all. 0.99

00:48:51.000 But you know, if you have access to 100 and you lose 30, who gives a shit? 0.99

00:48:54.000 There's 70 more. 0.97

00:48:56.000 That's why the abundance mindset is so important.

00:48:59.000 Because you're not going to end up with quality women who would literally die for you. 1.00

00:49:02.000 Unless you have the abundance mindset.

00:49:03.000 You have to tear through them.

00:49:05.000 Some girls are just hoes. 1.00

00:49:06.000 Some hoes are just hoes and they're gonna be hoes. 1.00

00:49:08.000 And there ain't much you can do about it.

00:49:10.000 I mean, why would you fight that fight?

00:49:12.000 She's already had 30 dudes. 1.00

00:49:14.000 You're gonna come along and really try and fix her?

00:49:15.000 Why?

00:49:16.000 Why?

00:49:17.000 And that's why the test I teach in the PhD is so important.

00:49:19.000 Test her. 0.99

00:49:20.000 Because if she's fucked up, just save your time. 0.99

00:49:22.000 And a lot of these dudes know this. 0.99

00:49:24.000 Loads of guys get with a girl and they know deep down she's a hoe. 1.00

00:49:27.000 In fact, people will come up and say, that girl's a hoe, bro. 1.00

00:49:30.000 No, no.

00:49:31.000 They'll defend.

00:49:31.000 They know it.

00:49:32.000 They just don't want to know it.

00:49:33.000 Because they don't feel like they have any other choice at that level. 0.99

00:49:35.000 Maybe she's hotter than the girls they fucked before. 1.00

00:49:38.000 Maybe they don't get laid that often. 1.00

00:49:40.000 And they end up settling for some shit that they know is a fucking bit broken. 1.00

00:49:43.000 That's the reality. 1.00

00:49:44.000 And people go, oh yeah, but Tate, it's easy for you.

00:49:47.000 You're rich and you're a kickboxer.

00:49:48.000 I made myself rich.

00:49:49.000 I made myself a kickboxer.

00:49:51.000 I did it myself. 1.00

00:49:51.000 I wasn't born with this shit. 1.00

00:49:53.000 So like, yeah, I increased my own value. 1.00

00:49:55.000 So you need to increase your own value.

00:49:57.000 It's like, this is the name of the game as a man.

00:49:59.000 The name of the game as a man is just making yourself so valuable that you get to a point where it becomes easy.

00:50:04.000 The game becomes easy.

00:50:05.000 Man, a top 5% male has access to unlimited females.

00:50:11.000 Unlimited females! 1.00

00:50:14.000 And the thing about the world is this.

00:50:16.000 I'm near sure of it.

00:50:18.000 The idea of a single girl. 0.98

00:50:20.000 Is is isn't true people guys, especially beta guys.

00:50:23.000 I just want to meet a nice single girl There is no girl out there who's attractive who ain't talking to some dude who's banging her ex Or flirting with a new guy or already on dates girls are never single because females love attention and they have unlimited options This is the difference between men and women. 0.95

00:50:38.000 This is why men hate the breakup more than the woman, because they know the woman can have a new boyfriend tomorrow. 1.00

00:50:42.000 Your dumb ass needs to take six months to find something. 1.00

00:50:44.000 So that's why it bothers you. 1.00

00:50:46.000 But women are never single. 0.91

00:50:48.000 So how come every girl I message replies?

00:50:50.000 I mean, I can steal, I'm stealing girls off dudes left, right and center. 1.00

00:50:53.000 This is the harsh reality of the world. 0.99

00:50:55.000 You know, once you get to a high value, you just fucking end up taking chicks. 0.97

00:50:58.000 Because there's no such thing as a single girl. 0.96

00:51:01.000 And this is one of the things about the game people don't realize.

00:51:03.000 The reason it's so hard as a man, one thing, it's getting much harder.

00:51:06.000 This is something we can talk about how it's getting much harder as a man to get laid.

00:51:10.000 The things it took to get laid in the 50s are not enough anymore.

00:51:14.000 A job at the factory and a pickup truck ain't gonna do it.

00:51:16.000 That's old social contract right there.

00:51:20.000 Yeah, it's all changed.

00:51:21.000 And secondly, the reason it's so hard to get laid as a man is that you're not trying to make her like you. 0.98

00:51:25.000 You're trying to make her like you more than she likes the guy she's already fucking. 1.00

00:51:29.000 That's the part of it. 0.98

00:51:30.000 You have to make her like you more than the guy she already likes.

00:51:33.000 She has unlimited access and unlimited choice.

00:51:36.000 So why does she choose you? 1.00

00:51:37.000 And that's the whole name of the game.

00:51:39.000 The whole name of the game is just positioning yourself in a way so that the woman goes, you know what? 1.00

00:51:44.000 This motherfucker, he's crazy. 1.00

00:51:46.000 But maybe there's something that he's unique at least. 1.00

00:51:49.000 Or there's something about him. 1.00

00:51:50.000 Or he doesn't tolerate my shit. 1.00

00:51:52.000 There has to be something about them that you've got to get in their mind. 0.99

00:51:57.000 What I get is like I get guys who will say the beta mindset is this is it's they want to pretty much every guy wants to do this but the beta mindset is I you need to stand out amongst the crowd right what makes you need what makes you 0.97

00:52:12.000 More attractive than another guy like you were just saying that she's she's got access to the woman that you want has access to lots of other guys what makes you so special the beta mindset is I'm not going to be like other guys and his concept is like all these other guys are just these assholes who don't care about them and don't like hold their hands and don't watch. 0.97

00:52:31.000 I don't have any feelings.

00:52:33.000 know, uh, aren't I shouldered a cry on and they go that kind of soft feminine, like the more alike I am with a woman, then the more she's going to like me.

00:52:41.000 And so that's, and I'm a grounded, I think a lot of this is conditioned into these guys through like, you know, year, like a lifetime really of believing that woman, what women want you to be a friend, they want you to be comfortable.

00:52:55.000 They want you to be nice. They want you to be sensitive.

00:52:57.000 Like, yeah, I don't, I don't believe in that. I don't believe in that.

00:53:00.000 Girls I'm sleeping with girls. I'm trying to sleep with and girls. 1.00

00:53:02.000 I don't talk to boy women have boyfriends and girlfriends. 1.00

00:53:06.000 And if you're not fucking her, you are her girlfriend. And people will say, well, that sounds pretty harsh role. And I'm like, well, think about it this way is like women, when they relate to their own friends, to their girlfriends, how do they relate? 0.99

00:53:17.000 Well, how, you know, they, they, They're catty with each other, they relate as women relate with other women, right? 1.00

00:53:25.000 If you come in like that and you pretend to be a woman, like if you identify with a feminine and you think that that's going to get you in women's good graces, all she's going to do is respond to you as if you are another woman.

00:53:38.000 Her hindbrain sees how you're relating to her. 0.52

00:53:41.000 And then it responds to you as if you are one of her girlfriends.

00:53:46.000 And you're giving away your only weapon.

00:53:48.000 Yes.

00:53:48.000 Your only weapon is attention.

00:53:51.000 This is the thing with people don't understand about the whole dating game because it's getting much, much harder to live in.

00:53:55.000 And the reason is, is because attention has been weaponized now.

00:53:58.000 Females used to have to give sex to get attention from men. 1.00

00:54:01.000 I give him sex, he gives me attention. 1.00

00:54:02.000 Now all they need is an Instagram account. 1.00

00:54:04.000 They get unlimited attention from his fucking pictures. 1.00

00:54:06.000 They don't need your attention. 1.00

00:54:07.000 All over the world.

00:54:08.000 Unlimited attention from all over the world.

00:54:09.000 Millions of people.

00:54:11.000 Because the men are so thirsty, all the beta males have made it harder for the alphas because they just give all their attention away. 0.97

00:54:17.000 If you're friends with a girl, you're saying you can have all my attention without giving me sex. 0.78

00:54:21.000 So you've given her all the money and she ain't giving you the product.

00:54:25.000 So why is she going to give you the product at the end of that?

00:54:27.000 And then your attention becomes worthless because it's too easy to get.

00:54:33.000 It doesn't matter how much you give.

00:54:35.000 It doesn't matter how many times you buy flowers, take her out, take her to the movies, text her all the time, call her, are you okay?

00:54:39.000 It ain't worth anything.

00:54:40.000 It's hyperinflation.

00:54:42.000 This is the world we live in, and this is why the bad guy's attention's worth something, because if he texts her once a week, because his attention's hard to get hold of, and you have to weaponize your attention.

00:54:51.000 She fucks up, you don't give her any attention. 1.00

00:54:54.000 She doesn't fuck up, you give her a lot. 1.00

00:54:55.000 And this is one of the big things. 0.99

00:54:56.000 I have guys saying, I'm arguing with my wife.

00:54:58.000 I'm like, why are you arguing with her?

00:54:59.000 Oh, because of X, Y, Z. Just don't talk to her. 0.66

00:55:02.000 If she can get an argument out of you, every time she fucks up, she gets unlimited attention on tap. 0.99

00:55:06.000 So why the fuck is she going to behave? 1.00

00:55:08.000 I don't argue with my girls. 0.99

00:55:09.000 I don't argue with them.

00:55:10.000 I don't have arguments with them.

00:55:11.000 They're either complying and doing as I say, or I disappear for a week.

00:55:15.000 Oh yeah, but what if she cheats? 1.00

00:55:17.000 What if she cheats? 0.99

00:55:18.000 My girl ain't fucking cheating. 1.00

00:55:18.000 And if she does, she's out the door. 1.00

00:55:20.000 That's the reality.

00:55:21.000 I'm not playing the argument game.

00:55:22.000 I'm not screaming with some woman back and forth, you better do this. 0.99

00:55:26.000 No, it's just like comply or goodbye.

00:55:29.000 It's really simple.

00:55:30.000 And the whole attention with most guys, I think one of the biggest mistakes, and this is something else I cover in the War Room and the PhD course.

00:55:36.000 Well, the biggest mistakes people make is they have their attention thing the wrong way around.

00:55:39.000 So because men are busy, we're busy working, we're busy getting stuff done.

00:55:43.000 We'll text our girl.

00:55:44.000 Hey, love you.

00:55:45.000 Busy day at work.

00:55:46.000 I'll speak to you later.

00:55:47.000 We'll work all day and we're busy.

00:55:49.000 And then she ain't text us.

00:55:49.000 We ain't text her.

00:55:50.000 And then, you know, afterwards we'll go for a drink with our boys.

00:55:52.000 We'll come home late at night.

00:55:53.000 She got one text and no attention all day. 0.99

00:55:55.000 Whereas if you text her, hey, I've got a busy day, then she replies, yeah, you're always fucking busy. 0.92

00:55:59.000 You know, I'm tired of this relationship.

00:56:01.000 And then you spend all day at work texting her. 1.00

00:56:03.000 What do you mean you're tired, bitch? 1.00

00:56:04.000 I do that. 1.00

00:56:04.000 Then she gets attention. 1.00

00:56:05.000 So she gets attention for misbehaving and she doesn't get attention for behaving. 0.95

00:56:09.000 And one of the hardest things even for me to do is to remember when my girls are acting good, to text them all the time.

00:56:16.000 Because when they're acting good, most men can't be bothered to talk to them.

00:56:19.000 They're like, oh, she's fine.

00:56:21.000 I'm busy.

00:56:22.000 But what you have to do is when you're acting good, you have to give them all this attention. 0.99

00:56:25.000 As soon as they start acting a fool, ghost. 0.99

00:56:27.000 Vanish. 0.99

00:56:28.000 And this is going to send the world crazy, but it's very much like the way you train a dog. 1.00

00:56:32.000 They do the right shit, they get the treatment. 1.00

00:56:34.000 You do the wrong shit, they don't. 1.00

00:56:36.000 And it's really that simple. 1.00

00:56:37.000 People don't believe my life.

00:56:39.000 They don't believe that I have girls who are loyal to me.

00:56:41.000 They don't believe my girls give me all their money. 1.00

00:56:43.000 I've had guys sit... If anyone's watching this, they don't know what I do.

00:56:45.000 I run a webcam studio.

00:56:46.000 So girls work on webcam, talk to betas, take the money, give it to me. 1.00

00:56:50.000 It's the ultimate hierarchy.

00:56:53.000 But people sit and they go, well, why would she give you all the money? 0.79

00:56:56.000 It's like, well, because she gets all my attention.

00:56:58.000 They don't want money.

00:56:59.000 Girls, why would she want money when she can have attention? 1.00

00:57:01.000 I'll have girls running the room screaming, I did really good today.

00:57:03.000 I made $2,000.

00:57:05.000 She gets none of that.

00:57:06.000 So why is she happy? 1.00

00:57:07.000 She's happy because she knows she's going to get some dick. 1.00

00:57:09.000 And I'm happy. 0.99

00:57:11.000 My attention is so valuable, they'll pay for it.

00:57:14.000 And that's just because of where I position myself and where I position my attention, the fact that I've never given it away for free ever.

00:57:20.000 And it's a fine line because guys at the beginning are sitting there going, Well, I had to give her attention to get her to sleep with me in the first place.

00:57:27.000 It's a fine line.

00:57:27.000 You know, I've got, I've got to talk to her.

00:57:30.000 You got to work it out.

00:57:30.000 It takes experience.

00:57:31.000 And obviously I teach it in the PhD course.

00:57:33.000 You got to keep it weaponized.

00:57:34.000 The second you're giving attention away, you're not getting anything in return.

00:57:37.000 You're never going to get anything in return.

00:57:38.000 And that's all the friend zone is.

00:57:40.000 All the friend zone is, is just, it's just being taken for a ride. 1.00

00:57:42.000 And if you're going to stay there, you're a fool. 1.00

00:57:45.000 You deserve it. 1.00

00:57:46.000 You deserve it.

00:57:47.000 Yeah.

00:57:49.000 Again, it's like these, it's, it's power dynamics is what it is, but like they, You know, when guys will listen to this right now, one of the things that I hear, particularly in certain sides of the manosphere right now, is that it's not worth it.

00:58:05.000 It's not worth it to go through all this trouble.

00:58:07.000 It's not worth it to be a G. It's not worth it.

00:58:09.000 I'll never be able to do that.

00:58:11.000 Particularly the MGTOW mindset is they want to just give up on it.

00:58:15.000 They say, you know what, the juice is not worth the squeeze.

00:58:18.000 And just exactly what you just said there, and I'm playing devil's advocate here because you probably know how I feel about this, but I think the misconception that they have is that hypergamy is a straight jacket.

00:58:30.000 Like, if she's always got all these guys on speed dial, it's too exhausting to stay on top of this.

00:58:38.000 It's too exhausting to make myself the kind of guy that she's going to be a ride-or-die girl for. 1.00

00:58:44.000 And as soon as a guy like Tate walks in the door, Then she's going to go out with that guy and fuck him. 1.00

00:58:49.000 And then all the effort and all the energy that I put into all this is all gone. 1.00

00:58:53.000 And so it's certainly not worth it.

00:58:56.000 And you were just saying a moment ago, when you get into these relationships, when you get into a marriage right now, particularly in Western society, there's a lot of investment on a guy's part.

00:59:06.000 Risk is one of the things.

00:59:08.000 Effort, getting taken to the cleaners and a divorce, those kinds of stuff. 0.98

00:59:12.000 I think they get into these, maybe not MGTOWs, but I think that a lot of married, like, kind of blue pill guys get into these situations where they have to make up their own narrative for themselves to believe in, right?

00:59:25.000 So it's like, well, I have to do that because I'm a better man because I do that.

00:59:29.000 I'm a better man than Tate because I'm the guy that, you know, takes care of my family and I listen to her and I talk with her and I'm, you know, they put in all this effort But they don't understand that that effort just flies out the window because a guy like Tate walks in the door.

00:59:47.000 And so my question is this.

00:59:49.000 I'm sure you're probably familiar with what's going on with MGTOWS right now, but what do you have to say?

00:59:54.000 I know what you're going to say here, but what do you have to say with respect to guys who think that they should just exit the game and be done with this whole thing?

01:00:03.000 They want to go their own way for whatever that means to those guys.

01:00:08.000 Well, it's a defeatist attitude, which is the first thing.

01:00:11.000 It's the most feminine beta thing you can have in anything. 0.69

01:00:14.000 It doesn't have to be about women.

01:00:15.000 Having a defeatist attitude towards life is already probably why you ended up where you've ended up.

01:00:20.000 Because if you were too much of a man to quit, you probably wouldn't be there to begin with.

01:00:24.000 And that's not just about women. 1.00

01:00:25.000 It's about anything.

01:00:26.000 It's about fighting.

01:00:27.000 It's about money.

01:00:28.000 It's about anything.

01:00:29.000 A defeatist attitude is never the right way.

01:00:31.000 Secondly, you can always win the game.

01:00:33.000 You can win the game because, yeah, hypergamy may be true and girls value certain things. 1.00

01:00:37.000 But like I just said, I have guys who are bigger, stronger, richer than me messaging my girl.

01:00:41.000 She doesn't leave because I am her man.

01:00:44.000 And that's down to conditioning.

01:00:45.000 And you can condition females to be that way. 0.98

01:00:47.000 And yeah, you need to have multiple females. 1.00

01:00:48.000 And yeah, you need to find a good one.

01:00:50.000 And yeah, you need to have options.

01:00:51.000 But you can definitely win this game.

01:00:53.000 Any man can win this game.

01:00:55.000 But you have to be prepared to go through, especially for some of the softer guys, a degree of heartbreak.

01:01:01.000 So me and Tristan always laugh.

01:01:02.000 We say, we go through a breakup a week.

01:01:05.000 And that's literally true.

01:01:06.000 Guys talk about their breakup.

01:01:07.000 I go through a breakup a week.

01:01:09.000 I lose a girl a week.

01:01:10.000 Is that a point now where it's just like, Whatever.

01:01:14.000 I don't care anymore, at all.

01:01:17.000 But for most dudes, because they haven't got the kind of sexual access I have, you're gonna have to be prepared to lose the girl because she wants to go Vegas. 1.00

01:01:24.000 You're gonna have to be prepared to sit there and miss her and not message her.

01:01:28.000 You have to be a man about it. 1.00

01:01:29.000 You just have to stop being a pussy. 1.00

01:01:31.000 If you stick to the rules of the game as a man, you can absolutely win. 1.00

01:01:34.000 Nearly any man can.

01:01:35.000 I'm not saying you're going to have a beauty queen, but you'll have something that's loyal to you. 0.98

01:01:39.000 She may be a fucking five in my book, but she's a nine to you. 1.00

01:01:41.000 So who gives a shit? 1.00

01:01:43.000 You know, you're happy, whatever. 0.99

01:01:44.000 The point is, but you have to be man enough about it.

01:01:46.000 Most of the guys, MGTO and Betas, all they're trying to do is just alleviate heartache. 0.99

01:01:50.000 They're such cowards. 0.98

01:01:51.000 They're afraid of feeling sorry. 1.00

01:01:53.000 They're afraid of missing her.

01:01:54.000 I had one guy who messaged me and he's like, Oh, I don't know what to do.

01:01:57.000 I really miss my girl.

01:01:58.000 So why'd you split up?

01:01:59.000 Oh, she was talking to these guys.

01:02:00.000 It's like, why do you miss her?

01:02:03.000 Oh, but you know, cause she was my only girl.

01:02:04.000 I was like, well, what you need to do is you don't need it.

01:02:06.000 He goes, and he wanted her back.

01:02:07.000 I said, you don't, you don't want her back. 1.00

01:02:09.000 Cause you know, she's a shit girlfriend. 1.00

01:02:11.000 Cause she messaged other guys. 1.00

01:02:12.000 You just don't want to miss her anymore.

01:02:14.000 It's not about wanting her back. 1.00

01:02:15.000 You're just too much of a pussy to deal with the feeling of missing her. 1.00

01:02:19.000 That's what the reality of it is. 1.00

01:02:20.000 Most of these guys are in love with girls and they don't even want the girl.

01:02:23.000 All they do is argue with the girl.

01:02:24.000 They can't stand her. 1.00

01:02:25.000 She's a dickhead. 1.00

01:02:26.000 And she's a cheater. 1.00

01:02:26.000 And she's a bimbo. 1.00

01:02:27.000 But they're just too much of a pussy to feel like they miss someone. 1.00

01:02:30.000 It's all a huge act of cowardice. 1.00

01:02:32.000 I'm afraid to feel bad.

01:02:34.000 If you're not afraid of heartbreak and you stick to your guns, you're going to have a fantastic life with females. 0.99

01:02:39.000 If you're not afraid to say, sorry, not good enough for me, goodbye, and stick to it as a fucking man, you're going to do just fine. 0.99

01:02:45.000 That is 85% of the game. 0.99

01:02:48.000 But men are just too afraid to do it because they feel like they're not going to have another girl for a while. 1.00

01:02:52.000 It allows them to get their dick wet. 1.00

01:02:54.000 And that's what it is. 1.00

01:02:55.000 And it's just cowardice, head to toe.

01:02:57.000 So all the mid-toe guys, You're quitting the game without even trying.

01:03:01.000 If you were to just, if you're really a man going his own way, and you're really focusing on yourself, and you're really, you know, putting yourself first and upgrading your value as a man, you can, if you're doing that, then you should be fine with females. 0.64

01:03:11.000 Just continue with your mission.

01:03:13.000 Don't be compromising.

01:03:14.000 Make sure you put your mission first.

01:03:16.000 Treat her with respect, but don't take any disrespect.

01:03:19.000 One of the biggest things I want to actually say now, because I don't want people to think, I know the way I come across is hyper aggressive.

01:03:24.000 People think you have to be mean to girls.

01:03:26.000 I'm never mean to girls.

01:03:28.000 I'm nice.

01:03:29.000 I'm nice to my girls. 0.99

01:03:30.000 People have this idea that I'm walking around the house, I'm beating them up and shit. 0.94

01:03:34.000 I'm the complete opposite. 0.96

01:03:37.000 I'm a super nice guy.

01:03:38.000 I'm like, let's watch a movie or get some popcorn.

01:03:40.000 Let's have a party.

01:03:41.000 I'm a super nice dude.

01:03:42.000 I just won't tolerate disrespect on any level.

01:03:44.000 You disrespect me, I stop talking to you.

01:03:47.000 It's not about being an evil person.

01:03:48.000 You can still be the nice guy, but when she steps to you, you have to remove all your attention.

01:03:53.000 It's really that simple.

01:03:54.000 There's nothing else to it.

01:03:55.000 You haven't got to be a big evil man.

01:03:57.000 And you can be a MGTO and be going your own way and have that same philosophy.

01:04:00.000 It really isn't that hard, but these guys are just too afraid to miss a girl.

01:04:04.000 That's the biggest mistake.

01:04:06.000 That's what all this comes down to.

01:04:07.000 These dudes are too afraid of the heartbreak and they can't take it.

01:04:11.000 I think a lot of what I'm seeing right now in the MGTOW community is it's mirroring a lot of Red Pill stuff. 0.91

01:04:18.000 Honestly, Red Pill came a long time before MGTOW, and a lot of the stuff that they are throwing out there right now is really just straight-up Red Pill stuff.

01:04:26.000 Everything we've been talking about up to this point has been just straight-up Red Pill stuff.

01:04:30.000 You can find it in my book, you can find it in other people's work, you can find it everywhere in the Manosphere.

01:04:34.000 But what I see right now is there's this I think there's the idea I think if you if you unplug yourself from all of this if you if you become red pillow where you can't help but go your own way you can't help but live your life in a different way because.

01:04:52.000 Now you see how the game is played.

01:04:53.000 If you listen to this video and you listen to me and Tate talking right now, and this is something that's raising your awareness of the nature of women or the nature of intersexual dynamics right now, you won't be able to stop this video and go out the door and live exactly the same way that you did before.

01:05:12.000 And I, you know, when I talk about mental point of origin, it's exactly what you're talking right there is, is you've got to have, you have to come first.

01:05:19.000 Your, your rules are first.

01:05:22.000 And guys will say, well, you know, she'll just leave me or, you know, if I, if I put my foot down or whatever, most guys are afraid to even experiment with that.

01:05:29.000 They won't do it because they think that they have too much to lose because of exactly what you said is they have that scarcity mentality.

01:05:35.000 They think that they'll never get a girl as good as this woman. 1.00

01:05:38.000 You know, she's my dream girl.

01:05:39.000 And if I do, if I mess it, I don't want to mess it up.

01:05:41.000 Right.

01:05:41.000 And it's like, yeah, but you're going to be living out the life of this character that you think that she wants rather than who she, well, who she really wants, but then also not even really being yourself.

01:05:53.000 You're living this character, this life of a guy who is what he thinks that she thinks is the perfect dude and perfect is boring man perfect is always boring why do women like soap operas because that indignation man It's indignation. 1.00

01:06:11.000 They want to feel that rise.

01:06:13.000 He loves me.

01:06:14.000 He loves me not.

01:06:14.000 He loves me.

01:06:15.000 He loves me not.

01:06:16.000 We argued. 1.00

01:06:16.000 He fucked me good. 1.00

01:06:17.000 He's disappeared. 1.00

01:06:18.000 Where is he?

01:06:18.000 He's cheating.

01:06:19.000 Where are you?

01:06:19.000 It's interesting.

01:06:23.000 At least it's interesting.

01:06:24.000 You'll never be boring.

01:06:26.000 Someone who I know very well said something that's completely true.

01:06:28.000 You can do anything you want to a woman except bore her. 1.00

01:06:31.000 It's completely true. 0.99

01:06:33.000 There's men out there who beat the fuck out of their wives and their wife won't leave them. 1.00

01:06:37.000 You can't call them boring. 0.99

01:06:38.000 You might beat me up.

01:06:39.000 You might not.

01:06:40.000 You know, it's like literally anything for excitement, anything for attention.

01:06:44.000 It's like a drug.

01:06:47.000 In the first book, there's a chapter in there called indignation and I get into that as well.

01:06:51.000 I actually make the case that there is like the chemical cocktail that women feel when they feel indignation is something that they actually need to sort of feel alive.

01:07:01.000 So that's why if you're not the person that's creating that indignation for them, they're going to go find it somewhere else.

01:07:07.000 If that's like on daytime talk shows or that's a soap opera or that's the romance novel or whatever, they're going to go for it.

01:07:14.000 Think of indignation as a drug.

01:07:16.000 You might as well be her drug dealer. 0.99

01:07:18.000 Right now, Tate, you are your girl's drug dealer. 0.97

01:07:21.000 That's where they go to get their indignation fix. 1.00

01:07:25.000 And why they're going to get it from somewhere.

01:07:27.000 It might as well be from you.

01:07:28.000 So so why wouldn't you do?

01:07:30.000 OK, I want to I want to move.

01:07:32.000 We're at the top of the hour here and I would people are going to throw rocks at me if I don't ask you about Michaela Peterson.

01:07:37.000 So I'm going to put this this infamous now infamous tweet up here really quickly.

01:07:44.000 And I just want to Give you a chance to sort of share what was going on in this picture right here.

01:07:52.000 People kept asking me the most popular question.

01:07:54.000 I said, get your questions in for Tate and let me know what the situation is here.

01:08:00.000 How do you even know her?

01:08:03.000 How did this even come about?

01:08:05.000 Because she's leaning into you and I know she's split up with her now ex-husband, I guess.

01:08:10.000 Yeah, there's not too much of a story to be honest with you.

01:08:12.000 her. She's like, she looks like she's into it. And you want to talk about like all the dynamics that you were just telling me right now for over the last hour, I can see a lot of that sort of being manifested in this picture right now. So, so what's the story here? Yeah. Uh, there's not too much of a story to be honest with you. I mean, she, she was, uh, in Europe, uh, we were talking I said, Romania is an awesome country.

01:08:34.000 Come check Romania out.

01:08:36.000 She said, how do I know you're not going to get kidnapped?

01:08:37.000 Blah, blah, blah.

01:08:38.000 Because everyone's scared of Romania.

01:08:39.000 I said, you will get kidnapped.

01:08:40.000 Don't worry. 0.99

01:08:41.000 I will kidnap you. 0.94

01:08:42.000 You're lucky. 0.99

01:08:44.000 That was it.

01:08:44.000 She came in, and this is us having dinner.

01:08:46.000 That's all there is.

01:08:46.000 There isn't too much of an elaborate story behind it.

01:08:48.000 So this is in Romania.

01:08:49.000 She just decided to take it upon herself to fly out to Romania just to see you.

01:08:54.000 Yep.

01:08:57.000 So you had some correspondence with her, I guess.

01:09:00.000 Yeah, we were talking for a while, and she's nice, obviously.

01:09:05.000 Everyone knows who her father is, etc.

01:09:06.000 Yeah, really nice girl.

01:09:07.000 I have absolutely nothing bad to say about her.

01:09:09.000 She came out and yeah, that's just us eating dinner.

01:09:12.000 That's all I saw.

01:09:12.000 I can really say but yeah, I mean, yeah, I know.

01:09:17.000 I know to some guys because it's Peterson's daughter.

01:09:19.000 They're like, wow, like, to me, it's like, she's just another she's a person.

01:09:22.000 She's Michaela Peterson.

01:09:23.000 She's a girl.

01:09:24.000 Girls like I've had Bollywood stars fly out to see me. 0.99

01:09:28.000 I've done I've done loads of things to me like, you know, I was interested in her because of who she is as a person, not necessarily because of who her father wasn't.

01:09:36.000 I think it's interesting that she took it upon herself to come out and see you like to I've said and this is in the first book as well as when I'm talking about genuine desire and this is what you got into just a little while ago is like when a woman has genuine desire for you.

01:09:53.000 She won't want to go out on girls nights out. 0.96

01:09:56.000 That won't ever enter into her thought process if you are the person who is her drug dealer, right?

01:10:01.000 You're the one who's supplying her with the indignation. 0.77

01:10:03.000 You are her best option.

01:10:05.000 And I've always said this as well about hypergamy, is that hypergamy is based on doubt.

01:10:09.000 And that doubt is, is this guy the best that I can do?

01:10:12.000 Can I do better? 0.99

01:10:13.000 And when that answer, when that question is like answered, like firmly validated, affirmed, answered, that's when women will do shit like this. I honestly, I think she probably, why, you know, why do you think she decided to just get on a plane and come out and see you? I mean, was it because you were because you are who you are? Or maybe she was looking for that rather than what she was getting before? Yeah. I don't know. 0.99

01:10:37.000 I, I, I.

01:10:38.000 I can't say why. 0.97

01:10:39.000 I can give you a whole bunch of arrogant answers about how fucking great I am. 0.97

01:10:42.000 But she obviously found me interesting. 0.98

01:10:45.000 She obviously found my attention valuable.

01:10:47.000 That's what this all comes down to.

01:10:48.000 I don't know if you can get another picture up now.

01:10:49.000 I don't know if you can load up.

01:10:50.000 It's going to take a while for my Instagram to find a picture of me with the Bollywood star.

01:10:53.000 I don't know if you can find that.

01:10:56.000 Uh, attention is the coin of the realm.

01:10:57.000 So I have a quick story about the ball.

01:10:59.000 I was in India.

01:10:59.000 I was in Mumbai and there's a picture of me on Instagram.

01:11:02.000 I'm with a Bollywood girl.

01:11:03.000 She's got 3 million followers.

01:11:05.000 Um, so we're chilling in India, whatever happens happens.

01:11:08.000 And after our night together, she messages me, you know what?

01:11:11.000 I don't, I think you're a playboy and I don't think you're the man for me.

01:11:15.000 And I sat there and I burst out laughing to the phone and Tristan goes, what's funny.

01:11:19.000 I said, I just slept with Karishma, and this must be her standard tactic with Indian guys, because they're so beta, that she sleeps with them. 1.00

01:11:27.000 The next day, she dumps them.

01:11:29.000 It's actually quite clever.

01:11:30.000 It puts her in a position of power from the get-go, doesn't it?

01:11:34.000 It's actually quite a smart move.

01:11:36.000 That's why I laughed, because I know the game.

01:11:38.000 I could see the game.

01:11:40.000 This is actually beautiful.

01:11:41.000 So I'm supposed to reply, oh, what do you mean? 0.95

01:11:44.000 And then when she originally forgives me and I convince her I'm a good guy, the whole relationship, the power dynamic's fucked. 0.68

01:11:51.000 So when she texts me that the next day, of course I just didn't reply.

01:11:54.000 And then when she texts me again later, I knew I was right.

01:11:58.000 Didn't reply.

01:11:59.000 And then when she texts me the next day, you know what, while you're here, maybe we should talk about it.

01:12:03.000 I'm just judging you on your Instagram.

01:12:05.000 I didn't reply.

01:12:06.000 And it's, I'm going to have to try and find the message and put them on Twitter.

01:12:08.000 But the next three days I was running around Mumbai with Tristan, putting on my Instagram story, just, you know, having fun without her.

01:12:13.000 And when she sent me that message and I completely ignored her and didn't play her game, she had a full on mental breakdown. It went from angry to I'm sorry for getting angry, to you know what, fuck you, angry again. It was like a full on cycle. She couldn't handle it because like now I've dicked her and now I'm not talking to her. And that must have never happened to her before in her life. 1.00

01:12:32.000 She's famous.

01:12:33.000 I'm on your Instagram right now and you'll have to forgive me because there's so many chicks here. 1.00

01:12:41.000 I don't know which one it is.

01:12:43.000 There's me on the couch with a drink and she's sitting on the couch behind me.

01:12:46.000 She's got a red top on.

01:12:47.000 I'm wearing a green flowery shirt.

01:12:50.000 I don't know if you can see it.

01:12:51.000 A green flower.

01:12:52.000 If I find it, I'll put it up there.

01:12:54.000 But yeah, I hear what you're saying.

01:12:58.000 She absolutely lost her mind.

01:13:00.000 So now whose attention is valuable?

01:13:02.000 Mine.

01:13:03.000 I've withheld it.

01:13:04.000 Now she'll do anything to get my attention. 1.00

01:13:06.000 So what was happening is if I tagged myself in a nightclub in Mumbai, she'd be turning up.

01:13:10.000 By day three, she was following me.

01:13:12.000 All because I didn't play her game. 1.00

01:13:14.000 So most men would see that shit and go, what do you mean? 1.00

01:13:17.000 Any reply is wrong. 1.00

01:13:19.000 It's like the ultimate shit test. 0.99

01:13:21.000 Why are you even playing the game? 1.00

01:13:22.000 The best way to win the game is to not play.

01:13:24.000 Indifference.

01:13:25.000 Yeah, indifference. 0.99

01:13:26.000 I don't give a fuck. 0.99

01:13:27.000 I don't care. 0.99

01:13:29.000 And that's not an act for me.

01:13:31.000 It's the truth.

01:13:33.000 So it's very easy for me to do the right thing.

01:13:35.000 Because it's the truth.

01:13:38.000 This is a really good question, real quick.

01:13:40.000 This guy, DJ Hansel, he says, how do you train a woman to be loyal in stages?

01:13:46.000 Does she need to be raised properly? 1.00

01:13:49.000 Is it like a raising thing?

01:13:50.000 Is it something about like family, do you think?

01:13:52.000 No.

01:13:53.000 So in my PhD test, in my PhD course, there is a test, and you need to buy the course to do the test, because the test is the basis of it.

01:14:02.000 The test is going to give you a head start of whether you know that's a quality woman or not. 1.00

01:14:06.000 So there's the test, but without being ambiguous, I'll answer the question. 0.98

01:14:10.000 I've had girls who I fucked on the first date who ended up being amazing girlfriends. 0.99

01:14:14.000 I've had girls who made me wait months who were dickhead hoes. 1.00

01:14:17.000 I've had girls from single parents who were amazing girlfriends. 0.99

01:14:20.000 I've had girls from loving families who were dickhead hoes. 1.00

01:14:22.000 There is no blueprint that you can look at and go, okay, mom and dad are together. 0.96

01:14:27.000 She has a dog and she, you know, she goes to church. 0.99

01:14:30.000 None of that means a fucking thing. 1.00

01:14:32.000 It's bullshit. 1.00

01:14:34.000 The reality to it is this. 1.00

01:14:35.000 I agree with the red pill speech about the more mates she has, the less likely she is to bond. 0.99

01:14:40.000 And the reason for that is if it's in her mind to jump on a new dick when things get tough, things will inevitably get tough and she will inevitably think about a new dick. 1.00

01:14:49.000 If she's had less dicks, she's less likely to consider that as an option. 0.99

01:14:53.000 So she's more likely to work hard towards fixing a problem. 0.99

01:14:55.000 That is true.

01:14:56.000 I agree.

01:14:57.000 That's true.

01:14:58.000 But the basic strategy and the basic way to train a girl to be loyal in stages It's very simple.

01:15:04.000 It's all the things we've been talking about thus far.

01:15:06.000 It's not tolerating bullshit, giving her attention when she behaves, and removing all attention when she doesn't behave, and not allowing her to get any kind of lifestyle or any kind of ideas which are going to be detrimental to her ability to be loyal to you.

01:15:19.000 If you start a relationship and allow her to go out every night with her girls, she's never going to want that taken away from her. 0.98

01:15:24.000 And that means that she's only one line of coke and too many drinks away from running into me, and it's game over.

01:15:29.000 So you need to construct a lifestyle on top of all this.

01:15:33.000 This is the absolute truth. 1.00

01:15:34.000 I know my women love me, but I still don't trust them for shit. 1.00

01:15:38.000 That's the truth. 1.00

01:15:39.000 My girls are fucking beautiful. 1.00

01:15:40.000 They don't go to clubs. 1.00

01:15:41.000 Every dude in the world would be desperate to get in their pants. 1.00

01:15:44.000 And I know they're loyal to me.

01:15:45.000 I know I'm the best.

01:15:46.000 But still, why would I allow people to take that shot?

01:15:49.000 Why would I park my Lamborghini in the worst part of town and go, oh, it doesn't matter.

01:15:53.000 It's got good locks.

01:15:54.000 Why let them try?

01:15:56.000 Why not try and steal your car?

01:15:58.000 So a lot of it is just being man enough to also build a lifestyle that allows her to not be in many chances to cheat, if that makes sense. 0.87

01:16:05.000 I say this all the time, doesn't matter how good your game is, your girl shouldn't be around dudes all the time. 1.00

01:16:09.000 Right.

01:16:09.000 That's just a recipe for disaster sooner or later.

01:16:12.000 So you want a girl to be loyal, you also need to make sure your girl's living a loyal lifestyle to the point where she shouldn't really be interacting with dudes, hardly at all.

01:16:19.000 She shouldn't be on Instagram. 0.74

01:16:21.000 She shouldn't want to.

01:16:24.000 She shouldn't hang out with dudes she doesn't want to.

01:16:25.000 She should have a couple work colleagues she replies one word answers to. 0.87

01:16:29.000 And that should be basically it.

01:16:30.000 So how is she going to cheat? 1.00

01:16:31.000 Like that's the biggest keys of loyalty.

01:16:33.000 And they go, well, how do I make her do that? 1.00

01:16:35.000 By not accepting anything else.

01:16:37.000 Being uncompromising.

01:16:38.000 If you get with a girl and you sleep with her and she has a bunch of male friends, you can just say, look, I like you, but I'm not prepared to get in a relationship with a girl who hangs around with guys all the time. 0.67

01:16:46.000 Yeah, or has more... Yeah, that's fine.

01:16:48.000 Has more guy friends than girl friends.

01:16:50.000 Yeah.

01:16:51.000 Choose.

01:16:51.000 Make a choice.

01:16:52.000 And if she chooses her male friends over you, are you telling me she won't gonna fuck one eventually? 1.00

01:16:57.000 She already picked them over you. 0.99

01:16:59.000 So, this is the most crazy thing about it to me.

01:17:01.000 To me, it's not even a risk.

01:17:03.000 They're like, oh, but what if she chooses them?

01:17:05.000 Like, it's some kind of risk.

01:17:06.000 If you write that down, choose me or the friends, you either have a proper relationship with a man who cares about you and you don't have male friends, or you can hang out with a bunch of dudes and we ain't talking anymore.

01:17:14.000 If she chooses to hang around with a bunch of dudes, are you telling me she wasn't going to eventually cheat on you anyway? 1.00

01:17:20.000 To me, you're just saving time. 1.00

01:17:22.000 You're just speeding up the process and keeping your dignity and honor instead of waiting to get cheated on like a little pussy. 1.00

01:17:30.000 Walk out on your feet instead of your knees. 1.00

01:17:32.000 Fly, goodbye.

01:17:33.000 It's that simple.

01:17:34.000 Right.

01:17:35.000 I was just going to just a couple of things in here.

01:17:37.000 Like, I completely understand what you're talking about with respect to a woman having more, a woman who has more access or has more sexual partners in her past has a lower, higher incidence of divorce, but also a lower incidence of being able to form healthy relationships or healthy attachments to a man in the future.

01:17:59.000 This is like, this is research, you know, studied stuff, right?

01:18:03.000 And so, one of the reasons, you just brought this up, and one of the reasons I think that is, is it's not necessarily the sex part of it so much as it is her having a greater pool of guys from which one of them could be you.

01:18:17.000 One of them could be an alpha guy that she is going to fixate on that, and that answers that hypergamous question, is he the best I can do?

01:18:25.000 The guy I'm with, no.

01:18:26.000 But the guy I was with, Back when I was in college, back at the club, back when I was, you know, 22 years old, that guy was so much better.

01:18:35.000 And so, there's that inability to form that healthy attachment for that guy.

01:18:42.000 It's what I call the alpha widows, right? 1.00

01:18:43.000 They become widowed to the alpha that they had, the one that got away, and the one that they pine for later, when they are less able to even get that kind of guy later on in life.

01:18:54.000 Also, another reason I think is, I think that every woman naturally, even Western women, understand. 0.97

01:18:59.000 Every woman naturally, because they biologically understand, they shouldn't fuck lots of people. 1.00

01:19:03.000 There's a stigma around fucking lots of guys. 1.00

01:19:05.000 For every girl, if she slept with one or two guys, the idea of fucking five... You're gonna say to a girl who's had two partners at 23, you're gonna fuck five guys next week. 1.00

01:19:13.000 She'll be like, what the fuck? 1.00

01:19:14.000 Five guys in a week? 1.00

01:19:15.000 What the... Like, they know it's wrong.

01:19:17.000 So, if a woman's slept with a bunch of guys and they've got rid of that stigma, they've trained that stigma out of them. 1.00

01:19:25.000 Then it's like, well, this guy's being rude to me, so I'll just go get another guy.

01:19:29.000 Then they become the kind of, they're doing the kind of thing I'm talking about. 1.00

01:19:32.000 And they're just like, fuck them. 1.00

01:19:33.000 Reply, comply, goodbye. 1.00

01:19:35.000 And then they become the one in control. 1.00

01:19:37.000 You know, because there's no stigma against taking a new dick. 1.00

01:19:39.000 So they're like, oh, we'll do as I say and be my slave and be a little pussy around me, or I'm going to go fuck someone else. 1.00

01:19:44.000 Then that's just exactly everything I've been talking about reversed. 1.00

01:19:47.000 You don't want to put yourself in that situation.

01:19:49.000 That just made me think of this, is that, like, what you were saying there, and remember what we were saying just a little while ago about how, like, I was getting into, I was locking horns with Jeff Miller about, you know, finding a way to get past the jealousy, finding a way to get past that revulsion, right?

01:20:07.000 Like, if you, then this is like, if you know anything about me, my background is behavioral psychology.

01:20:11.000 So, it's like, if you can get past Those natural reservations, like you were just saying just a second ago, if you told a girl, if you told the girl, 23 year old girl, next week, you're gonna have sex with five guys, she would be like, Oh, my God, you know, be creeped out.

01:20:24.000 It'd be weird to be like, you know, like she would want to avoid that, right?

01:20:28.000 That's a natural, unconditioned, Yeah.

01:20:31.000 response to, you know, because that seems, because the natural way, of course, is to want to filter, you know, use your hypergerms filters and find the best quality guy, right? 0.52

01:20:40.000 Not just have like random sex with strangers.

01:20:42.000 But what happens is, so what we do, I think now, with an agenda here, is that we want to condition people, men and women really, to get past that natural revulsion.

01:20:54.000 Because once you can get past that revulsion instinct, you can mold behavior to be damn near anything you want it to be.

01:21:01.000 So if you have, for instance, the poly thing, we can teach guys to be more polar, to accept cuckoldry, which to us, we go, Oh, that's, we have that natural revulsion to the idea of being cucked.

01:21:14.000 But if we can say, well, but here you can get off on this cuckoldry, you can mold that cuckoldry to make that person or to mold that behavior any way that you want to.

01:21:24.000 Same thing that you're just talking about right there is you can condition women to not think twice about having five guys in one week.

01:21:33.000 I mean, I'm sure porn stars probably do that as well, right?

01:21:35.000 You know, they're having sex with whoever, but there was a point where they had to get past that natural revulsion.

01:21:41.000 And so if you can condition that out of someone, Then you can make them do pretty much anything they want.

01:21:48.000 But what I always get at when I talk about this stuff is that the reason you have that revulsion instinct in the first place is because it was evolved into you, because it's part of your mental firmware.

01:21:59.000 It's something you naturally feel like.

01:22:00.000 Exactly.

01:22:01.000 And this is what actually blows my mind.

01:22:02.000 There's two things I hear a lot, which Which aren't real in my reality.

01:22:07.000 And I'm sure that it's true in their realities, but in my realities, it's untrue.

01:22:10.000 The first thing I hear is that it's hard to find a good girl.

01:22:13.000 And the second thing I hear is that girls don't want babies. 1.00

01:22:15.000 They'll do it one by one. 1.00

01:22:17.000 When you say it's hard to find a good girl, yeah, that's true because you're a pussy. 1.00

01:22:19.000 But I think every woman deep down actually wants to be a good girl. 1.00

01:22:23.000 I don't believe women want to really be whores, unless they've had 30 dicks and they're already broken. 1.00

01:22:28.000 Every woman, before she's broken, doesn't want to be a whore. 1.00

01:22:31.000 She wants to find a guy she's happy with and stay with that guy. 0.99

01:22:34.000 I think that, like we just said, that's their natural instinct.

01:22:37.000 They don't want to be that way. 0.98

01:22:39.000 So if you're saying, I can't find a good girl, you can't find one girl who doesn't want to jump on every dick, the problem is your low value. 0.98

01:22:45.000 That's the truth. 0.99

01:22:46.000 That's the truth of it.

01:22:47.000 Because most girls want to be that way. 1.00

01:22:48.000 In fact, one of my game tips, I guess, I have this thing with girls I do, and it's like if it's girls I barely talk to, or I haven't spoke to in a long time, or I stopped talking to, I removed all my attention, whatever.

01:23:01.000 I have this thing where I call girls cheaters. 1.00

01:23:04.000 So let's say I speak to a girl after three years.

01:23:06.000 After three years, she'll message me.

01:23:07.000 I say, you're still cheating.

01:23:08.000 She goes, what do you mean cheatings?

01:23:09.000 We broke up.

01:23:10.000 I said, no, once you've been mine, you're mine forever. 1.00

01:23:12.000 Why the fuck you're a cheater? 1.00

01:23:13.000 That's why I got rid of you. 1.00

01:23:14.000 I'm just saying, and I, or I say, or if I stopped talking to a girl and she's like, what's your problem?

01:23:19.000 Why aren't we talking anymore?

01:23:20.000 I said, I just, you're nice and you're pretty.

01:23:22.000 I just don't think you're serious.

01:23:23.000 I don't think you want anything serious.

01:23:25.000 If you tell a girl, she doesn't want to be a good girl. 1.00

01:23:29.000 If you tell a girl, she's not quality. 0.98

01:23:31.000 If you tell a girl, you don't want a serious relationship. 0.97

01:23:33.000 I, she will try her ass off. 1.00

01:23:36.000 I see the girls all the time. 0.97

01:23:39.000 Yeah, you're pretty, but you know, I met you in the club and you're really nice, but I just don't know if you want something serious.

01:23:46.000 Well, I'm a man.

01:23:47.000 Oh no, I do want something serious.

01:23:49.000 Why do you think that?

01:23:50.000 Why do you think bad of me?

01:23:51.000 Why do you think all of a sudden they're the ones trying to prove they're traditional?

01:23:54.000 Like, cause you can reverse the game.

01:23:55.000 So women are instinctually designed to try and prove they're a good girl. 1.00

01:23:59.000 So if you're saying you can't find a good girl, there's something wrong with your game.

01:24:01.000 Yeah, that's that's interesting.

01:24:03.000 You should say that because what happens when women fight with other women when they have that intra sexual combat, the first thing women will do is try to disqualify their competitors. 1.00

01:24:15.000 So if you and I'm sure you've done this because you have you have women around you all the time.

01:24:19.000 I see this happen when I'm at a promo or something like that.

01:24:22.000 If there's women in a social setting and another woman walks into the room, an unfamiliar one, and she looks good, and she's gaining the attention of guys around that room, what's the first thing that that group of women will do? 1.00

01:24:34.000 They'll go, oh, I can't believe she wore that. 1.00

01:24:36.000 Oh, what a slut. 1.00

01:24:37.000 Only sluts wear that, right? 1.00

01:24:39.000 Or only a non-quality woman looks like that. 1.00

01:24:43.000 And they broadcast that to guys because what they're doing is they are disqualifying that woman from the consideration For, you know, reproduction, long-term, whatever, short-term, from anybody that's in that room.

01:24:56.000 And how do they do that?

01:24:58.000 By implying the idea that she would be a bad choice to reproduce with. 0.99

01:25:06.000 Because she will have sex with anybody. 1.00

01:25:09.000 She is loose. 1.00

01:25:10.000 She will go have sex with lots of guys. 1.00

01:25:12.000 Why is that? 0.99

01:25:14.000 Why would that be a disqualifier for a woman? 1.00

01:25:17.000 Well, because men are interested in paternity.

01:25:20.000 If you're going to have a long term, if men are looking and we're vetting for two things, sexual fitness and paternity, I got to know she's loyal.

01:25:29.000 She's got to be hot and she's got to be, she's got to be mine. 1.00

01:25:32.000 And I say this all, and this is the side joke I have is every man wants a slut. 1.00

01:25:37.000 He just wants her to be his slut. 1.00

01:25:38.000 Correct. 1.00

01:25:39.000 And that pretty much sums up what women, and women understand this, it's in our hindbrain. 1.00

01:25:44.000 It's like our subroutine that's running in our brains all the time.

01:25:47.000 And that's why they do that.

01:25:48.000 That's why they try to disqualify and that disqualification is based on the idea that she would not be a good candidate For your paternity or any of you other guys, I would be, but she wouldn't because only a hoe dressed like that and she won't be loyal. 1.00

01:26:03.000 That's what a woman who won't be loyal looks like. 1.00

01:26:07.000 So she's out, I'm in, look at me, focus on me.

01:26:11.000 And that's, uh, you're breaking that down for guys.

01:26:14.000 Sometimes it's like, well, this will happen in the blink of an eye.

01:26:17.000 It's not like it's like when, when, when a woman walks in and the girl's like, You know, or, and you've probably seen this as well, is if you've been in a social situation and a woman comes in and she's talking to you and your girls are right there and then she goes off, what's the first thing a girl say? 0.99

01:26:34.000 Did you see that dirty look that that bitch gave me? 1.00

01:26:36.000 You know, like they have this because they understand subcommunications. 1.00

01:26:39.000 They understand a whole lot more.

01:26:42.000 Women are more, uh, And that's the kind of like this is how instantaneous all of what I was just saying. 0.99

01:26:48.000 All of this happens in the blink of an eye.

01:26:49.000 in front of you, like it was going on right there and you didn't see it, but they do.

01:26:53.000 And that's the kind of like, this is how instantaneous all of what I was just saying, all of this happens in the blink of an eye. And I think raising awareness for guys of that is very important. Oh, absolutely.

01:27:05.000 Yeah, completely.

01:27:06.000 You nailed it.

01:27:07.000 And like you said, women insult women by saying she's not a good girl. 1.00

01:27:10.000 You tell a girl she isn't a good girl, she wants to prove she's a good girl. 0.97

01:27:13.000 Every woman instinctively wants to be a good girl. 0.88

01:27:15.000 And the way I do it, I don't do it in a horrible, nasty way. 0.99

01:27:17.000 If I disqualify them as a good girl, I do it almost for shits and giggles, or call them a cheater. 0.99

01:27:23.000 They lose their minds. 0.99

01:27:24.000 They can't stand it.

01:27:25.000 They hate it.

01:27:26.000 So every woman wants to be a good girl. 1.00

01:27:28.000 So when guys go, there's no good girls left, I say, no, there's a problem with your game.

01:27:31.000 Something else I teach in the PhD course.

01:27:34.000 I'm glad you brought that up because I wanted to sort of move this on here a little bit too.

01:27:38.000 Because people are going to hit me on this and say, well, Rollo, so there's no such thing as a quality woman. 0.98

01:27:43.000 Well, when I say that, I say that because guys take that idea of a quality woman, just like you just did a minute ago here, and they use that as sort of their ideal.

01:27:54.000 I have a lot to say about this. 0.99

01:27:57.000 Everybody says the chick that they marry is a quality woman, but when they're in the divorce settlement, she's the bitch I married. 1.00

01:28:04.000 She's the ex. 0.98

01:28:05.000 So I think there's that idealistic idea of are there women who would be loyal? 0.91

01:28:11.000 Who would be a better choice?

01:28:12.000 Yes, but the quality woman narrative is something guys believe in so that they can sell themselves on that kind of girl. 0.95

01:28:20.000 Just like you were saying before, it doesn't matter if the girl goes to church. 1.00

01:28:23.000 It doesn't matter if she comes from a good family.

01:28:26.000 Like all this stuff, women are women. 1.00

01:28:28.000 And that's what I was getting at when I was saying there's no such thing as a quality woman, because women are just women and you need to work with them by their nature. 1.00

01:28:36.000 I've been asked, sorry, I've been asked this a million times.

01:28:38.000 Is there such thing as a good girl? 0.98

01:28:40.000 And this is, this is what I say.

01:28:42.000 The PhD tests I do in the PhD course will tell you if she's a good blueprint and that's all.

01:28:47.000 If you want a quality woman, you need to build her into a quality woman from the ground up. 1.00

01:28:52.000 She is a reflection of who you are as a man.

01:28:55.000 My woman, or my women who work for me and have worked for me for four or five years, have made me over a million dollars each, have never cheated, who cook, who clean, who obey, who comply. 0.99

01:29:04.000 Do you think they'd do that for any man who fucked them? 0.99

01:29:06.000 Do you think if some other loser banged them, they'd be doing that for him? 1.00

01:29:09.000 No, I built them into that woman. 1.00

01:29:12.000 I, through being me, through conditioning them, through passing shit tests, through putting down, like we said earlier, putting down red lines that they cannot cross, through whatever, have built myself the perfect woman. 0.99

01:29:23.000 A woman is a reflection of her man. 1.00

01:29:25.000 I was talking to a guy, I won't say who, he's a high profile guy, he's got blue checkmark, he's on Twitter, and he was messaging me saying he has problems.

01:29:31.000 And he was saying, I can't find a girl who understands that sometimes they need to take a look back and realize they have a part to play in the argument.

01:29:39.000 I can't find a girl who's this.

01:29:41.000 And I got advice from this guy or some other guy with a blue checkmark.

01:29:44.000 And he says, you need to find a girl who's like, been through therapy and done the work.

01:29:48.000 And I'm like, bro, bro, bro, bro, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa. 1.00

01:29:51.000 That is all bullshit. 0.99

01:29:53.000 You need to be the kind of man who's going to set boundaries and she's going to comply for them and eventually end up being a good woman for you. 1.00

01:29:59.000 You're never going to find a good woman. 1.00

01:30:01.000 You need to build a good woman. 0.99

01:30:02.000 Now you can get a good blueprint.

01:30:04.000 You can get a good base model.

01:30:05.000 Like we said earlier, trying to build a race car. 1.00

01:30:07.000 It's better to start with a fucking Ferrari than it is to start with a fucking Honda. 1.00

01:30:11.000 Obviously, that's normal. 1.00

01:30:12.000 You can get a good base model, but to actually have a truly quality woman where you can say, I'm going to jail for four years. 1.00

01:30:19.000 I'm gonna see you every Sunday for visitation. 0.99

01:30:20.000 You ain't gonna fuck nobody. 0.99

01:30:22.000 That's something you're gonna have to build. 0.99

01:30:23.000 You're not gonna find it.

01:30:25.000 You're not gonna just stumble out in the world and find it.

01:30:27.000 Because if girls like that existed naturally in the wild, the very few that do, I guarantee they're already shacked up with some dude and they ain't talking to you. 1.00

01:30:35.000 So, it's like you have to build a quality woman. 1.00

01:30:38.000 Quality women have to be made. 1.00

01:30:39.000 And that's what these guys don't understand.

01:30:41.000 They're like, oh, there's no such thing as a good girl. 1.00

01:30:43.000 It's like every girl who sticks around me for long enough ends up being a good girl.

01:30:47.000 Cause I turned into one or they're not there.

01:30:49.000 They either end up being a good girl or they fail tests and they get tossed aside.

01:30:53.000 There's no in between.

01:30:54.000 There's no other possible option.

01:30:55.000 It's binary.

01:30:56.000 They're a good girl or gone. 0.99

01:30:58.000 You have to be, you have to make a good girl.

01:31:00.000 I think that a lot of guys right now, when they're, when they listen to this, they, just like I was saying before, they, they see this as being a lot of effort.

01:31:09.000 It takes effort on the part of a guy To make a good girl to have that good relationship like to to build that to build the ferrari, right?

01:31:17.000 You're gonna build a race car, right?

01:31:19.000 There's still uh, you still have to build it.

01:31:21.000 You still have to put it all together You have to be the one that is responsible for that.

01:31:24.000 I think a lot of guys Think that it should be just like turnkey Like you should just be able to just go in and if she should just you know Come to you as as she is and then maybe you guys develop something later on and I think that Really what this is, is it's this idea, it's this old school idea, like it's the old social contract.

01:31:43.000 Back in the day, when women were more dependent on men, when women had, where they were dependent on them for security, for protection, for provisions, for, you know, to be a good, like, you can talk about that, I keep bringing up the Alpha God here, but like back in the day, in the time of like, you know, the Old Testament or something like that, 0.59

01:32:03.000 There was an understanding that that's what the guy was supposed to do, and this is what women are supposed to do, and they were supposed to be the woman who did all those things that you were just talking about right now. 1.00

01:32:16.000 It was probably a lot easier because there were well-defined gender roles. 1.00

01:32:24.000 Barrier to entry for it to have a good relationship, a man has to put in more.

01:32:30.000 He's got to be the guy that is actually going to put his foot down, the guy who's going to control the frame of the relationship.

01:32:36.000 He's got to be the guy who's actually going to, like you were saying, you've got to build that woman into the woman that you want her to be.

01:32:42.000 Whereas I think a lot of guys still cling to this old school idea that, well, she should just come to me like that.

01:32:47.000 Or if she came from a good family, then she would already be the perfect girl.

01:32:52.000 Or if she didn't have feminism, she would already be the perfect girl. 1.00

01:32:57.000 It's like, no, it doesn't work that way.

01:32:59.000 You have to build that woman into the way that she is or the way that you want her to be. 0.93

01:33:04.000 Hey, I got another question here.

01:33:05.000 Hang on, let me look at this real quick.

01:33:06.000 It says, how do I respond?

01:33:08.000 This is DJ Hansel.

01:33:09.000 How do I respond to a woman saying to me, you look like a mugger. 0.95

01:33:13.000 I wish my boyfriend was here while I am gaming her.

01:33:18.000 So you're asking me why I would personally say that.

01:33:20.000 How do you respond to a woman saying to me, you look like a mugger.

01:33:25.000 I wish my boyfriend was here while I'm gaming her.

01:33:27.000 That's actually the boyfriend disclaimer, but I'll let you answer that one.

01:33:30.000 Yeah, there's lots of different ways to do it.

01:33:32.000 My philosophy to women is super, super simple. 1.00

01:33:35.000 And it's like I said, it's about attention.

01:33:37.000 And my biggest weapon is to take away.

01:33:39.000 So if that was, let's say that happened to me, I consider that an insult.

01:33:43.000 Negative reinforcement.

01:33:44.000 Mostly.

01:33:45.000 And she said she has a boyfriend or whatever.

01:33:46.000 So if she said, I wish my boyfriend was there, I'd say, oh, you have a boyfriend?

01:33:48.000 I don't like girls with boyfriends. 0.97

01:33:49.000 Have a good night.

01:33:51.000 And I'd walk off.

01:33:52.000 That's the truth.

01:33:53.000 That's what I genuinely do.

01:33:54.000 And I'm guaranteeing you, she'd sit there and go, And she'd be pissed off that the guy who was giving her attention just vanished.

01:34:02.000 Now, there's gonna be other guys who'll say, do other things.

01:34:04.000 I'm just telling you what I would do.

01:34:05.000 Cause I've had similar situations.

01:34:07.000 My boyfriend's coming soon.

01:34:07.000 Oh, boyfriend.

01:34:08.000 You have a boyfriend?

01:34:09.000 I don't, I don't like girls with boyfriend. 0.99

01:34:11.000 You shouldn't be a virgin when I meet you.

01:34:12.000 No, no, no. 0.97

01:34:12.000 Bye. 0.97

01:34:13.000 Some bullshit and walk off and I'll just vanish on them. 1.00

01:34:16.000 I just do the takeaway. 0.98

01:34:17.000 And that's always worked very well for me because girls, when you start gaming a girl, she doesn't expect you to just disqualify her. 0.88

01:34:23.000 Oh, you're not good enough.

01:34:24.000 Bye.

01:34:25.000 They don't, their ego's confident.

01:34:27.000 Oh, you have a boyfriend?

01:34:28.000 Oh, I don't like girls with boyfriends. 0.96

01:34:29.000 Goodbye.

01:34:30.000 You're telling her she ain't good enough.

01:34:32.000 And that's what's always worked well for me.

01:34:33.000 That's what I would personally say.

01:34:34.000 Yeah, it's funny, I 100% agree with you, but I think that there is, in old school PUA, there was this idea that you, depending on who you are, if you had the ethics that said, you know what, I don't want to deal with a, you know, if she's already in a relationship, whatever, that's what it's called the boyfriend disclaimer.

01:34:52.000 When a woman starts talking about her boyfriend while you are in the process of talking to her or chatting her up, she is saying that she's inserting that into the conversation To basically tell you, I know what you're doing and I'm not into it. 0.97

01:35:05.000 So at that point, you can either do what you, what you would do is just like, Hey, I'm not into girls with boyfriends.

01:35:10.000 See you later.

01:35:11.000 Um, or like a lot of guys will say the P from the PUA side, they will say, well, you know, you can push past that.

01:35:18.000 You gotta, you gotta run what's called a boyfriend destroyer. 0.94

01:35:21.000 You can, you can move past that.

01:35:22.000 But my, My take on that was always if the chick is not 100% into you, if she's not 100% interest, if there's not 100% genuine desire, I don't want to be responsible for having to try to kick that up if she's not really into it, right? If she doesn't have the genuine desire, if she's not really into me, if she's not the kind of girl who wants to blow off her boyfriend to get with me 0.99

01:35:51.000 in the first place, like I want a woman who has the kind of desire where she will tattoo her name on her body, your name on your body. I was going to bring that out.

01:36:00.000 That kind of, but, but that be her idea. Not me going, Hey, why don't you talk to my name on your butt? No, she goes, you know what? Look, I got this new tattoo. It's your name. 0.99

01:36:08.000 That's where you want. That's the desire. If a girl says to me, Oh, well, if I'm talking to a girl for a while and she goes, well, what will my boyfriend think?

01:36:17.000 I'll say, well, are you going to tell him?

01:36:20.000 Are you going to tell him?

01:36:20.000 And they start laughing.

01:36:22.000 You can say, like, who's telling him?

01:36:23.000 I'll tell him if you want.

01:36:24.000 I'll tell him.

01:36:24.000 I'll tell him right now that I thought that me and you were going to get married.

01:36:27.000 What's he going to do? 1.00

01:36:28.000 I'll be very like, fuck him. 1.00

01:36:30.000 That's how I'll be. 1.00

01:36:31.000 But the way he phrased the question, if she's saying, you're a mugger, I can't wait till my boyfriend gets here, as in he's on his way, but then you may as well fucking pull the ego shot to her and leave anyway, because otherwise you're gonna end up in a fist fight when the dude turns up. 0.85

01:36:41.000 So like, you know, like you, there's not much else you can do there besides, oh, boyfriend, disqualify it.

01:36:46.000 But if I'm talking to a girl online or something, and she goes, what would my, and I say, look, you're coming with me, I'm gonna see you on Thursday, what would my boyfriend think?

01:36:51.000 I'll just reply, don't tell him then, question mark. 0.98

01:36:54.000 Or if someone has to tell him I will, he won't say shit. 1.00

01:36:57.000 I said, he's a pussy. So you can disqualify him in a few different ways. But yeah, the boyfriend thing happens now and again. But the way he asked that question, I don't think there's much else you can do. Yeah. Boyfriends go. That's one thing I say when people, girls go, I have a boyfriend. 1.00

01:37:14.000 Yeah. I want to get into this too. I got We're coming up on the 2 hour mark here.

01:37:20.000 We've got about 20 minutes left.

01:37:22.000 I do want to ask you this because I know you're doing the PhD program and I know right now you're in LA and you're doing these seminars, well I guess they're get-togethers or whatever, the War Room thing.

01:37:34.000 One of the things I see and I I find this kind of fascinating, particularly in the environment that the Manusphere has been sort of, I don't know, evolving into recently.

01:37:45.000 There seems to be more guys, like you were saying before, the guys who are looking for that traditional, they want one chick, they want to go to church, they don't want to listen to what I have to say, because what I have to say with respect to women, or any of this conversation that we've just had over the course of this last hour and a half, They would take that as being degeneracy.

01:38:08.000 They would take that as being, well, you're destroying Western culture.

01:38:18.000 Tate is bad.

01:38:19.000 But what I find fascinating is the same guys that end up in your war room.

01:38:24.000 Are the same guy, like having this conversation right now, if it comes from you, if you're talking about this stuff, I mean, pretty much everything we've discussed here, if I talk about spinning plates, if I talk about, you know, not genuine desire, if I start talking about aspects of hypergamy, they'll come down on me for that, because they think that that is non-traditional, that doesn't go with their religious beliefs, or maybe their ideological, it could be political, their political

01:38:49.000 you know, convictions, right? And but yet you seem to be able to get these guys to still want to live the kind of lifestyle that you are living right now. But it seems like they're trying to balance what you like your life with the kind of life that they claim to want, like that traditional conservative lifestyle with the good girl. But yet you're telling the like the stuff you're saying, I don't think they would disagree with. But yet it seems like there's kind of like, I don't call it

01:39:18.000 hypocrisy, but there's just sort of like a contradiction that's going on. Yeah, let's talk about it. So So.

01:39:24.000 What's the first thing?

01:39:25.000 Let's take it away from girls. 1.00

01:39:26.000 What's the first thing online?

01:39:29.000 Let's say if you're a strong guy or you're a fighter, the first thing you get messages about is, well, what's the point in learning how to fight?

01:39:35.000 Or if you have a Lamborghini, well, that car is impractical.

01:39:37.000 Exactly what we were saying earlier with the girls.

01:39:39.000 Well, she's a hoe. 1.00

01:39:40.000 Oh, anyone who comes along and says that a man who lives an uncompromising life who does whatever he wants and has unlimited access to beautiful females is living a life wrong is a man who is jealous and is trying to disqualify that lifestyle because they can't have it.

01:39:55.000 That's all it is.

01:39:55.000 They want to make themselves feel better about the fact that they cannot build that life.

01:39:59.000 If you were to say to any man, do you want a harem of four to five women who are beautiful and all loyal to you, knowing you cheat? 1.00

01:40:06.000 They're going to sit there and go, well, yeah, of course I do.

01:40:09.000 But because they believe they can't have it, they're going to sit there and go, that's bad, that's bad, that's bad.

01:40:13.000 That's just typical human psychology.

01:40:15.000 That's just typical disqualification.

01:40:17.000 I make men be honest with themselves, especially in the war room.

01:40:19.000 In the war room, we've got policy and the way it goes through.

01:40:21.000 You have to be honest with yourself about what you want.

01:40:24.000 There is no man alive in his 20s who doesn't want more than one female. 1.00

01:40:29.000 I'm going to say that, and it's going to piss a whole bunch of trad cons off.

01:40:32.000 Maybe you have religious whatever.

01:40:34.000 Maybe you want this, this. 1.00

01:40:35.000 If you are honest with yourself, there's no 20-year-old man who doesn't want more than one chick for the rest of his fucking life. 1.00

01:40:41.000 Let's cut the bullshit. 1.00

01:40:43.000 I'm not saying you can't find one girl you love. 1.00

01:40:45.000 I'm not saying you can't have a family.

01:40:47.000 I'm not saying, hey, I love my girls.

01:40:49.000 I love them with all my heart. 1.00

01:40:50.000 If a man touched them, I'd fucking rip his throat out. 1.00

01:40:53.000 But I'll still fuck something else. 1.00

01:40:54.000 And I'll do that very easily without a guilty conscience. 0.99

01:40:57.000 And I think that's a normal attitude for a lot of men, especially when you're younger.

01:41:01.000 Like, the idea that you can't possibly... That's another female imperative that's been drilled into the heads of women. 1.00

01:41:08.000 That if a man loves you, he wouldn't want another girl. 1.00

01:41:10.000 That is bullshit! 1.00

01:41:11.000 That is the biggest crock of shit. 1.00

01:41:13.000 And that's female imperative. 1.00

01:41:15.000 A man can love you with all his heart, a man can be ready to take a bullet for you, and he can still walk over there and have a threesome with those two hoes. 1.00

01:41:21.000 Very easily, very easily can a man do that.

01:41:25.000 So all the people who come along and say, I know he's degenerate, he's bad, there's a huge tint of jealousy in there.

01:41:30.000 That's the first thing.

01:41:31.000 The second thing is, I built a life out of exploiting the pre-existing sexual dynamic.

01:41:38.000 I didn't create thirst traps.

01:41:40.000 I didn't create betas.

01:41:41.000 I didn't create webcam.

01:41:43.000 I didn't create any of this.

01:41:44.000 I saw a gap in the market and I exploited it.

01:41:47.000 If there's a man who owns a liquor store and alcoholics keep buying liquor from him, is he a bad man?

01:41:52.000 Well, if he closes his liquor store, let us buy it somewhere else.

01:41:55.000 So the only person whose life gets, his life gets worse, no one's life gets better.

01:42:00.000 I'm making millions of dollars a year.

01:42:02.000 Why should I close down in the name of morality so these guys can go send money to some other girls? 1.00

01:42:07.000 I don't save the world.

01:42:09.000 I just damage my own life.

01:42:11.000 So I don't have any moral objections.

01:42:13.000 I've exploited a sexual dynamic which has been created, and I don't see any problem with that.

01:42:17.000 So a lot of people who have an issue with me, part of it's jealousy.

01:42:21.000 I think a lot of it is jealousy because a whole bunch of dudes just don't like the harsh reality of the life I live.

01:42:25.000 And they sit there, and when they're forced to accept that my women, knowing I cheat, are more loyal than their wife, Most of the time, it grates on them to a level that they can't tolerate.

01:42:38.000 It just bothers them.

01:42:39.000 It's a huge thing, and that's all it is.

01:42:41.000 But I make men, especially in the war room, I make men be accepting of what they really want.

01:42:45.000 Last night at the war room event, I said to the guys, every guy, I said, you're king of the world.

01:42:50.000 You're Jesus and you control minds.

01:42:53.000 How many wives do you want? 1.00

01:42:54.000 Every single one of them is like, well, three, To be honest with our company.

01:43:02.000 I'm not saying that you're less of a man if you don't have it.

01:43:04.000 I'm not saying anything like that.

01:43:05.000 I'm saying if you're truly in touch with your biological instinct, especially because I'm starting to feel it now.

01:43:13.000 I'm only 32, but I'm starting to think like if I've got two chicks around the house now, that's enough. 1.00

01:43:17.000 When I was 23, 24, there was like seven, eight girls living with me.

01:43:21.000 It was insane.

01:43:22.000 You know, so like, especially when you're younger, this is the natural state of man. 1.00

01:43:26.000 And anyone who says it's not true is a fucking liar. 0.99

01:43:29.000 And they'll convince themselves it's not true because they can't pull it off. 1.00

01:43:31.000 And that's up to you.

01:43:32.000 But I'm a person who's very, very in touch with what he wants and refuses to compromise. 0.99

01:43:36.000 I don't give a shit what society says. 0.97

01:43:39.000 There's two more points I want to mention quickly. 0.99

01:43:41.000 The first one is about that, uh, if he loves me, he will never love you.

01:43:44.000 You wouldn't want to cheat thing. 0.71

01:43:46.000 That is the ultimate weapon.

01:43:47.000 The female pair imperative has instilled.

01:43:49.000 And one of the things I get asked the most about is how do your women accept cheating? 0.99

01:43:55.000 And I can talk about this at length, because I get this all the time.

01:43:58.000 I've got a girl, but I want other girls. 1.00

01:44:01.000 How do I get her to accept cheating?

01:44:03.000 I get this all the time.

01:44:04.000 And I try and explain that it's actually not very, very difficult.

01:44:07.000 She has to obviously respect you.

01:44:09.000 You have to obviously be in a super dominant position.

01:44:11.000 You can't just pull this off if you're jack average. 0.99

01:44:13.000 I'm not saying that.

01:44:15.000 But my point is very simple, is that females show love. 0.99

01:44:19.000 Through sexual exclusivity.

01:44:21.000 This is how females show their dedication to a man. 1.00

01:44:23.000 And men have been conditioned that they have to show love and show dedication through sexual exclusivity.

01:44:28.000 And this is not natural for men.

01:44:30.000 And the way that most men show their love is purely through sexual exclusivity.

01:44:35.000 If you can find another way to show a girl you love her. 1.00

01:44:38.000 Anyway, it can be stupid. 0.99

01:44:40.000 If you can find another way to show a girl you love her and she knows that she only gets that but other girls get sex, she will still be satisfied enough in the relationship. 0.99

01:44:48.000 So I had one guy come to me.

01:44:49.000 It's about a couple months ago.

01:44:51.000 He said he joined the war room.

01:44:52.000 He bought the PhD course.

01:44:53.000 He had a girlfriend.

01:44:54.000 He goes, I want what you've got. 1.00

01:44:56.000 I'm cutting the bullshit. 1.00

01:44:57.000 I want lots of women. 1.00

01:44:58.000 How do I have multiple girls? 1.00

01:45:00.000 I said, all right, here's what you're gonna do.

01:45:02.000 We're gonna start off easy.

01:45:04.000 You're going to start sleeping with other girls. 0.93

01:45:06.000 You're not going to tell your girl you're going to wait till you get caught because there's no point sitting down trying to be rational with females. 1.00

01:45:11.000 It doesn't work.

01:45:12.000 Wait till you get caught.

01:45:12.000 Don't try and get caught, but wait till you get caught.

01:45:15.000 You got caught.

01:45:15.000 We did a Skype call.

01:45:16.000 He goes, what do I do now?

01:45:17.000 It's like, look, be uncompromising. 1.00

01:45:18.000 Be very, very clear about, look, I fuck girls, but I only love you. 1.00

01:45:21.000 It ain't a big deal. 1.00

01:45:21.000 If you want to leave me, leave me. 1.00

01:45:23.000 Be indifferent.

01:45:23.000 Just be very strict with it.

01:45:25.000 Anyway, we got to a point where he now, him and his girlfriend have an agreement.

01:45:29.000 He only sleeps next to her because he hugs her, he cuddles her, he kisses her.

01:45:33.000 He only sleeps there. 0.98

01:45:35.000 But if he's out and he fucks girls, as long as he comes home, she doesn't even ask anymore. 1.00

01:45:39.000 So this is a guy I've taken from, if I cheat, she'll leave, to now his girl going, well, you can fuck anyone you want because I know you don't love them, but you have to sleep next to me. 1.00

01:45:47.000 And he's messaging me all the time with these hoses banging. 1.00

01:45:50.000 And he's like, I can't believe it.

01:45:51.000 And I was like, no, it's very simple.

01:45:53.000 Your woman has a way to latch her mind onto believing that you only love her because you're showing your love through another method as opposed to sexual exclusivity.

01:46:01.000 If you remove and change that barrier, it's very easy to sleep with lots of women and your women go, yeah, but I know he loves me.

01:46:06.000 And she'll be secure enough to let you do it.

01:46:09.000 It's really doable.

01:46:10.000 And it's not doable for everyone. 0.99

01:46:12.000 I mean, if you're not in control of your chick or you're barely hanging on to a relationship, don't try that shit. 0.99

01:46:16.000 But that's the game. 1.00

01:46:19.000 But this whole idea that men have to be sexually exclusive to show that they're dedicated to a woman is a complete fucking farce. 1.00

01:46:25.000 Like I said, I'll take a bullet. 1.00

01:46:27.000 If 10 men were to walk in here with machetes and try and rape my girl, I would die defending her. 1.00

01:46:32.000 But I will cheat on her ass every fucking day. 1.00

01:46:35.000 And that's the reality of the life. 1.00

01:46:37.000 That's the reality.

01:46:39.000 That's part of, um, it's, uh, gosh, I forget the, no, it's, um, it's, what is it?

01:46:45.000 Strategic pluralism theory, which is that they, we talk about this in the red pill a lot, which is the 80, 20 rule, right?

01:46:52.000 85% of guys are always going to be on the low end of the sexual market value.

01:46:58.000 Now, that's not to say that they can't make more of themselves.

01:47:00.000 They can, but then there's the top 20 percenters and there's this idea that if you are, if there's, if it's not one man, one woman, then that means like, for instance, like you say, you've got three girls.

01:47:12.000 That means two more guys out there don't have a wife and they're going to get pissed off and they're going to be the guys that come in with the machetes and try to take what you have.

01:47:21.000 That's sort of the downside of polyamory, I guess, is that it is a destabilizing of society.

01:47:31.000 Yes, it's not stable.

01:47:32.000 It's destabilizing of society in that, like, if there's, like, this is why we see, like, countries that are, where polyamory is the norm, they tend to be the most war-torn countries that there are.

01:47:45.000 Because if there's one guy that's got four wives, that means three other dudes don't have a wife, and therefore those three guys get together and they want to go and kill Tate because he's got three women and that's the only way we're going to get through this.

01:47:55.000 Why are they socially conditioning men So this is how it started.

01:47:59.000 The social conditioning that if you're a real man, you only want one woman. 0.99

01:48:03.000 But now it's gone so far to the point where we're into Pauly and all this other crazy shit. 0.99

01:48:06.000 But that's all part of the social conditioning. 1.00

01:48:07.000 They don't give a shit. 0.99

01:48:09.000 Here's the reality about it. 0.99

01:48:10.000 Most men do not have happy marriages. 1.00

01:48:13.000 Most men are sitting in a marriage where they don't get sex, they're not respected, working a job they hate to pay bills for kids who don't listen to them, and they're on the verge of fucking suicide. 0.99

01:48:24.000 But they're afraid to get divorced because they know the court will turn on them and destroy them. 0.99

01:48:27.000 This is the reality for most men.

01:48:29.000 And I know this, because these are all the customers who are talking to my girls, crying their eyes out late at night, halfway through a bottle of whiskey, saying they wish they could do their life again.

01:48:37.000 I've seen it.

01:48:38.000 I know this is true.

01:48:39.000 But this is what society wants, because it allows a taxpayer to raise the kids, a little family unit, put the ants in the right boxes, the government ain't gonna raise them, bang.

01:48:48.000 I know that men like me are no good for a government.

01:48:51.000 How am I good for a government with all my females? 1.00

01:48:53.000 Imagine I started impregnating them all and just, and whenever any one of them half annoyed me, I said, welcome to the struggle, bitch. 1.00

01:48:58.000 Bye. 0.99

01:48:59.000 Like who's raising those kids? 0.96

01:49:00.000 A whole bunch of cucks. 1.00

01:49:01.000 And the government is, I don't give a fuck. 1.00

01:49:04.000 I won't do it. 0.99

01:49:05.000 I know men like me are hard to control.

01:49:06.000 Men like me are the absolute public enemy.

01:49:08.000 Number one, they don't want people thinking like me.

01:49:11.000 So of course that's, that's, that's the whole point of the man, the woman. 0.98

01:49:14.000 And that's why they say, if you're a real man and you, if you really loved her, you wouldn't cheat.

01:49:18.000 That is complete. 1.00

01:49:19.000 Bullshit. 1.00

01:49:20.000 It's absolute bullshit. 1.00

01:49:21.000 It's not true. 1.00

01:49:22.000 Um, I was really quickly though.

01:49:25.000 I, I think that the, the paradox that I'm seeing right here is like, I, and I understand a hundred percent.

01:49:30.000 I get what you're saying.

01:49:31.000 I've said this before, is that men's basic instinct are a natural evolved.

01:49:36.000 If we had, if we had the, like you said, if we could be Jesus and turn had mind control and all this other stuff, You think all the men writing these thirst trap captions on Instagram, you think they're not all fucking, they probably all half of them are married, half of them have a girlfriend, you think they're not carrying on chasing some other hoe? 1.00

01:50:01.000 Yeah, they would like to. 0.92

01:50:02.000 That's a male instinct!

01:50:03.000 Yeah, that's a male.

01:50:04.000 Let's see.

01:50:04.000 Here's the thing is like that.

01:50:05.000 But not every guy can be Tate.

01:50:09.000 Not every guy can be that top 20 percent.

01:50:11.000 So what those guys do there.

01:50:12.000 So so for the guys who are in the top 20 percent, they can pursue because they are higher sexual market value.

01:50:19.000 They can pursue women as they as they're not as their nature would imply. 0.66

01:50:24.000 Right.

01:50:24.000 They would say, I want unlimited access to unlimited sexuality.

01:50:27.000 And then there's the guys who are the bottom 80 percent.

01:50:29.000 And they're the ones who will try to coerce you Yeah. 0.98

01:50:33.000 into believing that it's unnatural for that, or you're a man whore, or you're ruining society, or Western culture is declining because you guys keep nailing all these chicks, ruining these girls for guys like me who want to take care of them and have a good Western family. 0.97

01:50:56.000 These are the guys, and what, what, what I, okay, so, so putting that out there, there's the, this is, I just, in, in brief, I just gave you the strategic pluralism theory. 0.97

01:51:05.000 Guys who are on the low end of the sexual market value scale, the 80% are guys. 0.93

01:51:11.000 Those are the ones who are always going to advocate for religion, for traditional conservatism.

01:51:17.000 Those are the guys who are going to say, one man, one woman.

01:51:19.000 And if you don't do it, the whole system's going to go to hell.

01:51:22.000 And that's the way it should be, because it's actually what works in the best interest of them, because at least it ensures them to get it with one woman, right? 0.99

01:51:31.000 If not many women, at least I get one. 1.00

01:51:32.000 And these are the guys, of course, who are addicted to porn, addicted to feminism. 0.99

01:51:38.000 Yes. 1.00

01:51:38.000 in the hope that poorish women would suck their dicks. 1.00

01:51:41.000 The feminism was propped up by betas from the beginning. 1.00

01:51:44.000 This is why male feminists are always the biggest creeps on earth. 1.00

01:51:46.000 These men, this is what the betas don't understand. 0.99

01:51:50.000 Betas say the sexual marketplace is so difficult and they're correct. 1.00

01:51:53.000 They made it difficult for themselves by promoting this feminism garbage and coming along with this bullshit. 1.00

01:51:59.000 We make all women hoes, maybe she might fuck me one day. 1.00

01:52:02.000 It's just bullshit, man. 1.00

01:52:03.000 And I completely agree. 1.00

01:52:04.000 If you're at the bottom, 80% is difficult.

01:52:06.000 My answer to you is to try and raise your value.

01:52:08.000 Yeah.

01:52:08.000 Don't be the 80%.

01:52:09.000 Tips you can do.

01:52:11.000 I mean, you know, build yourself up.

01:52:12.000 And that's why, and that's why today, that's why this Lost Boys Generation is so, they need They need father figures.

01:52:18.000 They need guys to to give them direction.

01:52:20.000 One of the reasons Jordan Peterson is so influential is because he least he said, hey, go this way.

01:52:25.000 Try this.

01:52:25.000 Right.

01:52:26.000 And it's like, you know, clean your room, stand up straight.

01:52:28.000 That kind of stuff sounds revolutionary to these guys because nobody's ever, you know, slapped him upside the head and say, look, you know what you're saying, what I think.

01:52:36.000 But what I wanted to ask you this and I'll get to this other question here in just a second.

01:52:39.000 Yes.

01:52:41.000 But yeah, I agree with you.

01:52:43.000 I think we're both on the same page here.

01:52:45.000 But yeah, I see a lot of these traditional conservative guys seeking you out.

01:52:50.000 They look for you.

01:52:51.000 They're looking towards you.

01:52:53.000 They're looking to you as some, maybe they're the guys who are looking for a thing, but they want to.

01:52:58.000 It's almost like they're going against that conviction.

01:53:01.000 Yeah.

01:53:01.000 There's a big part to that.

01:53:05.000 And there's another big thing I get guys come to me for.

01:53:07.000 And a lot of guys, I have guys come to me who may be married, and they may have one woman, but they want their woman to listen to them.

01:53:14.000 I think I have another thing that people find interesting about me.

01:53:17.000 It's not that I just get females. 0.87

01:53:19.000 How do I get females to comply? 1.00

01:53:21.000 How do I get females to work for me for free and give me all the money? 1.00

01:53:26.000 My wife doesn't listen to me, but this guy has girls listen to him. 1.00

01:53:30.000 So I do have a lot of traditional guys who I think come to me maybe for that reason.

01:53:33.000 I mean, I know that every guy wants loads of chicks, but I do have guys coming. 1.00

01:53:36.000 How do I get a woman to obey me? 1.00

01:53:39.000 Because deep down, every man on earth, it doesn't matter who you are, every man on earth wants to feel respected.

01:53:45.000 You want to feel respected, especially from your woman.

01:53:48.000 If you feel like your woman doesn't respect you, you're going to live an unhappy life.

01:53:52.000 If she talks to you like you're a punk, you're going to be unhappy.

01:53:55.000 Men value respect to the point where, in the olden days, if a man dishonored a man, it was a duel. 1.00

01:54:01.000 You said what, motherfucker? 1.00

01:54:03.000 Someone's got to die. 1.00

01:54:05.000 You can't call me a name.

01:54:06.000 Men value respect. 1.00

01:54:08.000 So, when your woman's hitting on you and not respecting you and calling you names and shit, this is why you're so miserable. 1.00

01:54:13.000 So, men want to feel respected. 1.00

01:54:14.000 So, I have a lot of guys come to me and say, how do I make my woman respect me? 0.96

01:54:17.000 And how that's done, we've discussed already a lot throughout this podcast.

01:54:21.000 But I think that's one of the appealing things I have is when guys understand that I do have a can business, I do have girls who obey me.

01:54:28.000 I have guys who don't like the answer because the answer is you have to cut the ones who don't obey and you have to be ruthless and you have to be a man.

01:54:35.000 But then when you start telling them that they're like, oh, I'm not man enough to do that too much.

01:54:39.000 Yeah.

01:54:40.000 Yeah.

01:54:40.000 I can't do that.

01:54:41.000 Well, I have, um, I have guys.

01:54:43.000 Well, we'll hit me up.

01:54:45.000 And they're usually older guys are usually between they're in the prime suicide demographic, which is like 45 to like 60 somewhere on there.

01:54:54.000 And.

01:54:55.000 These are the guys who just want to have a better marriage. 0.99

01:54:58.000 They just want their wives to have sex with them because they've gone so long and they don't know how to do it. 1.00

01:55:07.000 Women fuck men they respect. 1.00

01:55:09.000 I have girls who have said to me, you know what? 1.00

01:55:11.000 I actually fucking hate you, but I can't stand you. 1.00

01:55:16.000 Like, at dinner, and then fuck me same night. 1.00

01:55:19.000 Women will fuck you if they don't like you, if they respect you. 1.00

01:55:22.000 It's nothing to do with like, it's nothing to do with nice, it's nothing to do with love, even love. 1.00

01:55:27.000 It's to do with respect.

01:55:28.000 How many times have you heard a girl go, well, I still really love him, I love him, but we're just not right for each other. 0.99

01:55:35.000 She can still love you, but she doesn't respect you, she ain't fucking you. 1.00

01:55:39.000 It's all down to respect. 0.99

01:55:41.000 If you want a woman to sleep with you, she needs to respect you. 1.00

01:55:43.000 I'll tell you something now, man. 0.97

01:55:45.000 Women want sex more than men do. 1.00

01:55:47.000 I turn down sex 90% of the time. 0.84

01:55:49.000 I can't be asked. 0.97

01:55:50.000 My chick wants sex or all these chicks want sex more often than I can be bothered to do it because I got to do all the work. 1.00

01:55:56.000 So, women should be the ones chasing the man. 1.00

01:55:59.000 When they respect you, they become dick obsessed. 0.99

01:56:03.000 Every time I open my phone anywhere public, if anyone's ever like kind of looking over my shoulder, all they see is just titties. 1.00

01:56:08.000 It's just fucking all these chicks are sending me pics and all that. 1.00

01:56:10.000 All it is, please bang me. 1.00

01:56:13.000 Because this is how women are. 1.00

01:56:15.000 They respect you.

01:56:16.000 They want it non-stop.

01:56:18.000 My dad used to say, the pole gets tired before the hole.

01:56:21.000 It's true.

01:56:22.000 This is the reality of it. 1.00

01:56:26.000 Women will become completely frigid as fuck when they don't respect you. 1.00

01:56:30.000 So you have to make a woman respect you. 1.00

01:56:31.000 So I have a lot of guys come to me and say, how do I make a woman respect you?

01:56:34.000 But they don't like the answer.

01:56:36.000 The answer is the hard, cold truth is that if you have no other options, how would she respect you?

01:56:41.000 Trump said it.

01:56:42.000 Art of the deal.

01:56:43.000 Know when to walk away from the table.

01:56:45.000 If you will never walk away from the table, Well, then you never have a bargaining position.

01:56:49.000 If you never have a bottom line, you never have a bargaining position.

01:56:53.000 If you never have a red line they can't cross, you never have a bargaining position.

01:56:57.000 So, if you're never prepared to walk away, you're never going to be truly, truly respected.

01:57:02.000 I've been with my girls five, six, seven, one of them eight years. 0.99

01:57:05.000 But she knows to this day, there's limits of how much she can fuck with me. 0.98

01:57:10.000 People say to me all the time, Tate's gonna end up lonely. 0.99

01:57:13.000 Tate's unhappy.

01:57:14.000 Tate's never gonna have a quality girl. 1.00

01:57:16.000 I've had a girl longer than most of you guys have been married. 0.99

01:57:20.000 I've had a girl who's fucking a 10 or a 9 in my book. 1.00

01:57:24.000 She's hot as fuck for 8 or 9 years. 1.00

01:57:27.000 I've had a girl forever. 1.00

01:57:28.000 And here I am, and she's still listening to me.

01:57:31.000 So you can't tell me I don't understand long-term relationships.

01:57:33.000 It's exactly the same.

01:57:35.000 And she's a female, so my life's not perfect. 1.00

01:57:37.000 Every once in a while, she gets out of line.

01:57:39.000 But she knows there's lines she can't cross with me. 0.99

01:57:41.000 Because she knows I'll just fucking vanish. 1.00

01:57:43.000 And I'll vanish until she's begging to see where the fuck I am. 1.00

01:57:46.000 That's just what I'll do. 1.00

01:57:47.000 She knows it.

01:57:48.000 You know, and you've got to be that way.

01:57:49.000 So, guys come to me and say, how do I get my woman to respect me? 0.71

01:57:52.000 And then I tell them the truth and they're like, oh, I don't want to do that.

01:57:54.000 Well, then you never have a line.

01:57:56.000 You never have a red line.

01:57:57.000 You're never going to have that truth.

01:57:58.000 You'll put up with anything.

01:57:59.000 Yeah, you'll put up with anything.

01:58:00.000 You'll put up with anything in the end. 0.99

01:58:01.000 So, who gives a shit what you say? 0.99

01:58:03.000 Words are cheap. 0.99

01:58:04.000 Talk is cheap.

01:58:06.000 It's all about the action.

01:58:07.000 It's how you gotta be. 0.99

01:58:09.000 And a lot of these men are just too afraid of their girl fucking someone else. 0.99

01:58:12.000 Yeah, whatever you can't say no to makes you its slave. 0.99

01:58:16.000 That's what it says.

01:58:17.000 Absolutely true.

01:58:19.000 Okay, we're at two o'clock here.

01:58:20.000 I want to throw this one on here because I thought this was pretty funny.

01:58:23.000 This is DJ Han Solo again.

01:58:24.000 He says, do you believe Taoism and Zen is important in life and martial arts?

01:58:30.000 Anything that can emotionally affect you can steal your power.

01:58:33.000 I don't know if I've ever asked you this before, yeah.

01:58:37.000 What do you think of that? Yeah, so we're gonna apply this to women because we're talking about women right now. Anything that can emotionally affect you can steal your power. If you allow a woman to make you angry, she can control you. Maybe she can only control you in one direction, but she can control you. 1.00

01:58:51.000 She can say X words and you'll react X way.

01:58:54.000 You've given her a control mechanism.

01:58:55.000 You've given her a way to affect you.

01:58:57.000 Indifference is the absolute weapon against fema- fema- is fema- is femality a word? 0.97

01:59:03.000 Femality? 0.68

01:59:04.000 Formality?

01:59:06.000 Femaleness? 0.97

01:59:07.000 Femininity? 1.00

01:59:09.000 Indifference is the absolute weapon to formality.

01:59:11.000 Against formality.

01:59:12.000 Because if she can control you, of course you have to be Zen.

01:59:15.000 Because you can't allow things to make you angry because then she can control you.

01:59:18.000 I'll give you an example of how women think very quickly. 1.00

01:59:21.000 When I was fighting, every single girl I was dating, they behaved most of the time, but when it was a three or four days before a fight and I was on edge and I was nervous and I was weight depleted, I'd lost like five or six kilos.

01:59:31.000 I haven't eaten in three days.

01:59:32.000 I haven't drank water.

01:59:33.000 I'm tired.

01:59:34.000 I'm on edge.

01:59:34.000 I can't sleep.

01:59:36.000 When I was on my, when I was most vulnerable to bullshit, they'd all try and start some bullshit. 0.99

01:59:44.000 And I'd say to them, I'd sit there and say, I'm about to get in the cage and I could die. 1.00

01:59:49.000 People die. 1.00

01:59:50.000 I could die in the cage if you distract me from my upcoming fight with this bullshit about dirty plate. 1.00

01:59:57.000 Do you really think now's the time to argue? 0.99

01:59:59.000 Well, I'm just saying, I've said before about the plate. 1.00

02:00:01.000 They don't give a fuck if you die in the cage. 1.00

02:00:04.000 They don't give a fuck if you die. 1.00

02:00:06.000 They want an argument because they want to affect you emotionally. 0.99

02:00:10.000 Once you're susceptible to emotional affection, they're going to come at you.

02:00:15.000 So, I mean, at the time, all I had to do was just get rid of them, stay calm, kick them out the house and just ignore them.

02:00:20.000 And after the fight, bang a bunch of ring girls, watch them cry and beg for me back. 1.00

02:00:24.000 But the point is this, if you're always the guy that they can emotionally affect, then they're going to do it like a cat with a fucking string for fun, like a puppet. 0.99

02:00:32.000 Let me make up an argument. 1.00

02:00:36.000 Let me just fuck with him. 1.00

02:00:37.000 He's at work. 1.00

02:00:38.000 Let me just make up some bullshit. 1.00

02:00:39.000 Let me fuck with his day. 1.00

02:00:40.000 It's all a game. 1.00

02:00:42.000 It's the soap opera we were talking about.

02:00:43.000 You got to be Zen to it all. 1.00

02:00:46.000 If a girl messages you some bullshit, okay. 1.00

02:00:48.000 Or just don't reply. 1.00

02:00:50.000 You've got to be so zen that they're like, well, he doesn't give a fuck. 0.99

02:00:55.000 The only way he shows he gives a fuck is if I behave so perfectly that he starts giving me attention. 1.00

02:01:00.000 When I cook and clean, and I suck dick, and I'm quiet, and I behave so perfectly, then he starts to talk to me a lot more. 1.00

02:01:07.000 But otherwise, he's completely uninterested in me. 0.99

02:01:09.000 That's the only way. 1.00

02:01:10.000 If you're going to allow women to annoy you, if you're going to start screaming, bitch, you better shut up, bitch. 1.00

02:01:15.000 If you're going to start doing that shit, she's just going to play with you all day long because they love a soap opera. 1.00

02:01:19.000 Chicks love a soap opera. 1.00

02:01:21.000 That's why you'll say, like, a woman will be with an abusive man and you'll see her shouting at him, fuck you. 1.00

02:01:27.000 You can beat her up. 1.00

02:01:28.000 She doesn't care. 0.61

02:01:30.000 She doesn't care.

02:01:31.000 She wants the fun of it all.

02:01:32.000 She wants the drama of it all.

02:01:34.000 I know that's going to send the world into a tailspin. 1.00

02:01:35.000 Women would rather cry over an asshole than be saddled with a boring out better than bored Except bore her. 1.00

02:01:44.000 This is the fault in line. 0.99

02:01:46.000 This is why they like funny guys funny ain't enough anymore Hey, this is a good this is a good one now because I've written about this as well He says don't women and men view respect differently.

02:01:54.000 I would say yes I don't know if you would say yes or no, but I think yes, and I'll tell you why I I've said this before, is that men and women have different concepts of love, but they also have different concepts for other things, and respect is one of those things.

02:02:09.000 So, when women are raised, particularly in Western society, there is this presumption that they get a default respect just for being a woman.

02:02:16.000 Like, you don't respect women!

02:02:19.000 When men hear that, we go, what have they done to earn my respect?

02:02:22.000 The reason for that is because men, our concept of respect is between other guys.

02:02:29.000 So, I respect you, you respect me.

02:02:31.000 Why?

02:02:31.000 Because I know what you've done, you know what I've done.

02:02:35.000 There's a dominance hierarchy in there, but there's also a meritocracy that is in there.

02:02:40.000 It's unspoken.

02:02:41.000 We don't go, well, what have you done to earn my respect?

02:02:43.000 We don't do that, but we understand that kind of innately when we're dealing with each other as men.

02:02:51.000 And so there's a male kind of respect, and then there's the female kind.

02:02:55.000 So women, when we talk about respect with women, women think of that not as, oh, I got to earn respect.

02:03:02.000 I'm a woman, so I'm already deserving of respect.

02:03:05.000 And this goes back to what I've always said, is that men must become, and women just are. 1.00

02:03:10.000 So, when we view that dynamic in terms of respect, men must earn and become respect.

02:03:19.000 Women just are respect. 1.00

02:03:20.000 And so, that's where I go with that.

02:03:22.000 Would you agree with that?

02:03:24.000 I completely agree.

02:03:25.000 Another thing I've noticed with respect between the males and the females is that men can separate respect from their emotions and they can respect retrospectively.

02:03:35.000 So with a man, let's say I'm doing business with a man and we make a lot of money and then we have an argument and we fall out.

02:03:42.000 I can sit and go, you know what?

02:03:43.000 I don't like that guy anymore.

02:03:44.000 But back then he was okay.

02:03:46.000 We had a good time together.

02:03:48.000 So I have enough respect for him.

02:03:49.000 I'm just going to leave it be, you know?

02:03:51.000 Not all men, but some men can do that.

02:03:54.000 Whereas a woman, she respects you when she respects you and she hates you when she hates you. 1.00

02:03:57.000 There's no such thing as, well, I used to love him.

02:04:00.000 You talk about divorcing.

02:04:02.000 That's the perfect example.

02:04:03.000 I used to love him, so I don't want to destroy his life.

02:04:06.000 When does a woman ever say that? 1.00

02:04:07.000 No, I loved him and I loved him with all my heart.

02:04:09.000 Now I don't love him. 1.00

02:04:10.000 Fuck him. 1.00

02:04:11.000 I'm going to ruin everything. 1.00

02:04:12.000 Like they don't, they don't think, well, I used to love that man.

02:04:15.000 He gave me three kids who I love.

02:04:17.000 I don't want to leave him on the street. 1.00

02:04:19.000 They don't, that doesn't cross their fucking mind. 0.99

02:04:21.000 So women are only, women only respect you when, while they love you as and when it's never an eternal thing. 0.99

02:04:28.000 Men can have respect for each other forever.

02:04:30.000 I have men who I fought in the cage and we were enemies effectively, but I still respect him.

02:04:34.000 I'll still shake his hand.

02:04:35.000 And you know, but women don't work that way. 1.00

02:04:37.000 Women are purely emotional. 1.00

02:04:39.000 And that's how it is.

02:04:39.000 And that's why the idea that a woman will, Oh, she loves me now.

02:04:42.000 She loved me forever.

02:04:43.000 You know, it's that, that I agree with. 1.00

02:04:45.000 There's a, there's a whole bunch of bullshit. 0.99

02:04:46.000 They have different concepts. 1.00

02:04:48.000 They have different concepts of respect, but it's not that women don't understand that. 0.87

02:04:53.000 Men have a separate concept of respect than women do. 0.98

02:04:57.000 So like you were just saying, a woman is not going to have sex with you unless she respects you. 1.00

02:05:00.000 Yeah, I get that.

02:05:01.000 But for him, respect is based on merit.

02:05:04.000 You have to be the guy who is worthy of respect, who has merited that respect.

02:05:09.000 So women do, because I think what people are going to say as well. 0.67

02:05:12.000 Well, if they see it differently than men, then how is it that they have sex with a guy that they respect?

02:05:16.000 Well, it's because they do recognize the respect dynamic amongst other men. 0.99

02:05:21.000 I've said this a million times is that women want to be with a guy who other men want to be and other women want to fuck. 0.99

02:05:29.000 And that is all based on respect. 0.99

02:05:32.000 The easiest way to make a woman respect you is for her to realize you have access to all these other women. 0.73

02:05:37.000 And then she's going to respect.

02:05:39.000 And then on an instinctive level, she's just going to respect you as a man.

02:05:43.000 There's something instinctively there. 1.00

02:05:45.000 Well, he's a man and he can fuck all these girls. 1.00

02:05:47.000 She has to respect you on some level. 1.00

02:05:49.000 Yeah, it's pre-selection is what it is.

02:05:52.000 Women see you as being pre-selected and they see that men look up to you or they have some sort of respect for you. 0.59

02:05:57.000 Even if they don't look up to you, at least they have some respect for what you've done and what you're about.

02:06:01.000 And this goes into the tattoos because I get asked all the time about how I get girls to get tattoos. 0.88

02:06:06.000 I get asked this all the time.

02:06:08.000 And that's and they think I've got some trick like I tricked the girl or I forced the girl or it's really not like that.

02:06:14.000 One of its respect is a huge respect is a huge part of it.

02:06:17.000 The girls are proud of my name to the point where they respect me enough that they're happy to put my name on them.

02:06:23.000 But the other thing is the thing we talked about earlier about how there's no good girls and how if you tell a girl she's not a good girl, how much it bothers them.

02:06:31.000 And that's about 90% of the tattoo game.

02:06:33.000 So, I'll say to the girl, well, you're serious about us.

02:06:36.000 She goes, yeah, I'm serious.

02:06:37.000 I said, why don't you tattoo my name on you?

02:06:39.000 Because we're going to split up.

02:06:40.000 I said, well, I thought you were serious.

02:06:42.000 Well, I am.

02:06:42.000 Are you going to cheat?

02:06:45.000 No, I'm not going to cheat, but you might cheat.

02:06:47.000 So what?

02:06:47.000 So if I talk to a girl, you're going to leave me?

02:06:48.000 That's not, I thought you were loyal.

02:06:50.000 Well, I am loyal.

02:06:50.000 So then if you're loyal to me and you're a good girl and you do as I say, why are we going to split up?

02:06:55.000 Well, we're not.

02:06:56.000 Then what's the problem with the tattoo?

02:06:59.000 Yeah, I mean, it's pretty simple logic.

02:07:02.000 You sit there and go, and then one day they walk in, surprise, look what I did for you.

02:07:06.000 You know, it's like, I told you you're not a good girl. 1.00

02:07:10.000 Show me you're a good girl.

02:07:11.000 So when they say there's no such thing as good girls, these girls will do anything to prove to you they're a good girl.

02:07:15.000 If they respect you and you qualify it correctly.

02:07:17.000 So when a girl refuses to get a tattoo, I'm like, well, why? 0.97

02:07:20.000 Why wouldn't you?

02:07:21.000 I thought you were serious.

02:07:22.000 Like all the blames on her.

02:07:24.000 Like, are you going to cheat?

02:07:25.000 Are you going to run off?

02:07:27.000 I thought we were serious here.

02:07:29.000 And now it's funny because all these girls say, yep, I've seen on your Instagram, all these other girls have tattoos and you're not with them anymore. 1.00

02:07:34.000 You left them. 0.99

02:07:35.000 I was like, oh, so you're going to act stupid like they did. 1.00

02:07:38.000 I just flip it all on that. 1.00

02:07:39.000 It's all them.

02:07:40.000 And they do it voluntarily.

02:07:41.000 There's no me marching them down to the tattoo parlor with a gun.

02:07:44.000 And I know this blows guys' minds.

02:07:46.000 They're like, it must be some trick.

02:07:48.000 He pays the money.

02:07:49.000 Yeah.

02:07:49.000 He pays for his chicks.

02:07:51.000 Yeah.

02:07:51.000 Well, that's, that's fine.

02:07:52.000 Okay.

02:07:53.000 I got it.

02:07:53.000 I got to cut us off here real quick, but I do want to like, okay.

02:07:56.000 Echo Alpha said, what do you think of the, we've talked about Pauly all throughout this.

02:08:00.000 So.

02:08:00.000 But I do want to end with this because I think this is actually kind of along the lines of what we've just been talking about.

02:08:06.000 Alex asked us, he said, it would be interesting to see Tate's take on Dan Blitzerian.

02:08:09.000 Okay.

02:08:10.000 What do you think?

02:08:11.000 Okay, because everybody has said this.

02:08:13.000 Anytime Dan Blitzerian puts a tweet out there, everybody goes, the first response anybody says is, you pay for your women.

02:08:21.000 All those girls are just models you bought. 1.00

02:08:23.000 They think that it's all about the money or it's all about the grift for him.

02:08:26.000 But then I, this really kind of, I'm glad this guy asked this because it goes back to what I was asking you before.

02:08:33.000 Like you have Dan Blitzerian who is with nines and tens.

02:08:38.000 I would say these girls are nines and tens that he's with. 1.00

02:08:40.000 I can show you messages with three girls who've been on his boat.

02:08:45.000 Yeah, so it's like, so it's like, okay, I get that.

02:08:48.000 But then, you know, so he is who he is.

02:08:51.000 Everybody gets what he's all about.

02:08:53.000 And then he'll go on, he'll go on the, what was that interview?

02:08:57.000 He was just in an interview where he was saying, yeah, I'm thinking about slowing down.

02:09:00.000 I really want to get with one woman.

02:09:02.000 And I want to live a more, like, conservative, you know, traditional lifestyle with one chick, and then he'll occasionally, like, in between his Instagram shots of his Halloween parties, he's like, oh, is this all there is to life kind of thing?

02:09:19.000 And what happens is when a guy like that puts out those tweets, or he in some way affirms for Trad cons.

02:09:29.000 He affirms for them like, oh, see, even Dan Blitzerian, he can have anything he wants and he still comes back and he still wants the basics of life, which is a good woman and, you know, two kids and a dog in the yard and a white picket fence.

02:09:42.000 And so they use that as kind of like their own like self-righteous justification for, you know, for their own, for what it is. But I want to throw that out there because I'm interested as well. Like what do you think about Dan Blitzerian, particularly with his, with respect to him having it all and then still wanting to live that more like conservative lifestyle?

02:10:02.000 He's trolling.

02:10:02.000 You think? I think so, yeah.

02:10:04.000 I'll give an example.

02:10:06.000 We'll talk about Dan Bilzerian quickly.

02:10:08.000 So many people try and compare us to, and we're not the same.

02:10:11.000 One, because he has more access to females than I do. 0.64

02:10:13.000 I'll be honest, the guy can get any girl on earth because he has a much higher status than I do.

02:10:17.000 He's more famous than I am.

02:10:18.000 Let's be honest.

02:10:19.000 So that's the first thing. 0.95

02:10:21.000 Second thing, we're in a different category, because although I don't think he pays his girls, I know for a fact, because I know girls who have fucked him, who I've fucked too, he pays their flights, he pays their hotel. 0.64

02:10:30.000 So he does look after the girls, whereas my girls work for me and give me money. 0.96

02:10:34.000 So in many ways, I see me as above him from a game perspective, because I'm saying, I'm going to teach you how to make girls pay you. 0.64

02:10:40.000 Whereas he can never teach that because he just pays for his girl's things.

02:10:43.000 He doesn't physically hand them money, but he's a multi-multi-multi-millionaire.

02:10:46.000 So he'll book him a flight.

02:10:47.000 He'll do whatever, whatever.

02:10:48.000 So I think we're on different planes.

02:10:50.000 We have different attitudes towards women.

02:10:52.000 That's the first thing.

02:10:53.000 The second thing is, I'll tell you something I do.

02:10:56.000 If I pull up to a gas station in a Lambo and a guy comes out and goes, wow, that's all Lambo.

02:11:00.000 I'd love to have a Lambo. 0.98

02:11:01.000 I usually reply something like, yeah, it's uncomfortable. 1.00

02:11:06.000 And I do that to come across as an ungrateful fuck. 0.99

02:11:09.000 Like, I have the car everyone dreams of and I'm moaning the seats too hard. 1.00

02:11:12.000 And it's almost like another level of fuck you on top. 0.99

02:11:15.000 So yeah, it's alright, but it's uncomfortable. 0.99

02:11:18.000 And that's all Dan Bilzerian's doing.

02:11:20.000 Oh, I have all these models.

02:11:22.000 Is there nothing else to life? 0.96

02:11:25.000 It's a troll.

02:11:26.000 It's just an extra level. 1.00

02:11:28.000 You get to a level of fuck you when you know you have something everyone wants. 1.00

02:11:32.000 To pretend you don't want it is a fuck you. 1.00

02:11:35.000 That's all he's doing. 1.00

02:11:36.000 If he wanted the traditional life, why doesn't he live it? 0.65

02:11:39.000 Yeah, he could do it tomorrow.

02:11:40.000 He could do it tomorrow. 1.00

02:11:41.000 I'm not going to sign up for a fucking multi, multimillion dollar husband. 0.99

02:11:46.000 You have to look at people's actions, not their words. 1.00

02:11:48.000 He obviously very happy with what he's doing because he continues to fucking do it. 0.99

02:11:53.000 So this is the reality of it. 1.00

02:11:55.000 So anyone who's tries to look at Dan Bilzerian to justify a trad life is a fucking moron. 0.99

02:12:00.000 Anyone who tries to look at Dan Bilzerian and say that his life is vapious and he's unhappy, look, he's going to need kids one day because I think men have a natural, we all want offspring. 1.00

02:12:10.000 This is natural.

02:12:11.000 Are you going to have kids?

02:12:11.000 Do you want to have kids?

02:12:12.000 Do you want to get married?

02:12:13.000 Maybe you don't want to get married.

02:12:15.000 I'm going to have loads of kids.

02:12:18.000 I want kids.

02:12:18.000 When do you want to do that?

02:12:20.000 When do you want to start doing that?

02:12:21.000 I mean, I'm 32, which I guess I'm kind of old.

02:12:23.000 As a man, you don't have a ticking clock, really, do you?

02:12:26.000 So maybe when I'm 33, 34, this is actually another thing that I don't want to say anything that's going to get us banned or anything, but I'm half black, half white.

02:12:34.000 So this isn't racist, but all the black side of my family.

02:12:38.000 They just, their strategy for keeping girls is almost to get them pregnant. 0.97

02:12:45.000 I know this sounds, I'm not trying to be racist.

02:12:47.000 I'm saying I know black guys, my black cousins who go, yeah, I like her, she's hot, so I'm gonna give her a baby, and then she can't cheat. 1.00

02:12:53.000 That's like literally their mating strategy. 0.99

02:12:56.000 They're not interested in raising that kid.

02:12:57.000 They ain't gonna stay at home and be dad.

02:13:00.000 They ain't got any money, so she can't take them to divorce court, because they ain't got anything. 1.00

02:13:03.000 That's just their strategy to fucking keep their women in line, just to get their babies out. 1.00

02:13:07.000 So that's another whole nother strategy you can discuss. 0.99

02:13:11.000 Yeah, I absolutely am going to have kids and I think it's natural for a man to want to have kids and want to have offspring.

02:13:16.000 I think it's a beautiful thing.

02:13:17.000 And I think every man should want to do it.

02:13:19.000 Am I going to live a traditional life to do it?

02:13:21.000 No, I believe I can have kids. 1.00

02:13:23.000 with a woman without marrying her, I believe I can be a good father while still fucking something else. I really believe I can. That's what I'm going to do. 1.00

02:13:30.000 I don't think it's going to affect my, my child. My child's not going to fucking know what I'm doing. I don't think it's going to affect it. I'm not going to change my life. I'm black. 0.99

02:13:38.000 It's true. It's true, bro. I'm not going to change. I love screaming. People try and use that again. People try to use it against me and say, well, when you want, you're never going to have kids.

02:13:49.000 They have this mindset.

02:13:50.000 I can never have kids.

02:13:51.000 I, my lifestyle, I could easily have kids with my lifestyle.

02:13:55.000 I could have kids if I wanted to.

02:13:57.000 I won't do this.

02:13:58.000 It'll be one mother, but I could have kids with five different mothers if I want to and just run around.

02:14:02.000 And because I live in Eastern Europe as well. 0.99

02:14:04.000 So there's no such thing as none of this divorce shit. 0.99

02:14:07.000 None of this alimony shit. 0.99

02:14:08.000 None of it can come after me. 1.00

02:14:10.000 I can do whatever the fuck I want. 0.91

02:14:11.000 So I'm absolutely going to have kids. 0.98

02:14:12.000 I think it's natural to do it. 1.00

02:14:13.000 And Dan Bilzerian is going to want kids too, but he's never going to, you think he's going to give up all that pussy and go down to one girl. 0.99

02:14:19.000 You think he's going to be satisfied with one girl after the life he's lived? 0.99

02:14:23.000 I know even after the life I've lived, I can't be satisfied with one girl. 0.75

02:14:26.000 I know there's always, it doesn't matter how beautiful she is, as soon as she's a brunette, I'm going to want a blonde one day. 1.00

02:14:32.000 That's just how it is.

02:14:33.000 It's the instinct, the predator instinct of it.

02:14:35.000 It's just normal, you know?

02:14:37.000 So yeah, Dan, I have nothing against Dan.

02:14:40.000 I think we teach very different things because I don't think he really Teach his game.

02:14:44.000 He's not really a teacher.

02:14:45.000 What do you learn from Dan? 1.00

02:14:47.000 Be rich as fuck? 1.00

02:14:48.000 Well, duh. 1.00

02:14:49.000 Make a lot of money.

02:14:50.000 Sell weed.

02:14:51.000 Yeah, exactly.

02:14:52.000 There's nothing to learn there.

02:14:54.000 Be the most famous man on Instagram.

02:14:56.000 So Insta-hoes want a picture. 1.00

02:14:57.000 I mean, like, fucking duh. 0.99

02:14:59.000 Of course he has girls. 0.99

02:15:00.000 But we do different things.

02:15:01.000 But I have nothing against the guy.

02:15:02.000 I think he's a guy who's uncompromisingly living the life he lives.

02:15:06.000 The only thing that has me curious about Dan Yeah.

02:15:10.000 I don't know if he has these girls signing contracts. 1.00

02:15:13.000 I don't know what's going on, but the fact that he hasn't been hit with a sexual allegation case has blown my mind.

02:15:17.000 Yeah.

02:15:18.000 He's never been hit with a me too.

02:15:19.000 Isn't that crazy?

02:15:20.000 Yeah.

02:15:21.000 I was just going to say, I have a, I have a, I have a theory about that.

02:15:26.000 I when Me Too started blowing up and everybody was saying, you know, if you look at these guys who the guys who get the Me Too allegations are usually guys who try to play along with women's narratives.

02:15:38.000 So if it's a guy who's like a male feminist, as soon as you say you're a male feminist, you can pretty much start the clock because you're going to get your something's coming down the down the pipes right there. 0.99

02:15:49.000 But then you got a guy like Gene Simmons, right?

02:15:52.000 He's had one, I know, one allegation.

02:15:54.000 It went away.

02:15:55.000 It's completely gone.

02:15:56.000 Why is it that rock stars who have had like, you know, who are happily say, I've had sex with thousands of women. 0.76

02:16:03.000 Not one of those thousands of women has come back and said, Oh, he raped me or he touched me the wrong way.

02:16:08.000 You're not seeing those things because there's a difference between the kind of guy that a woman wants that attention from and the kind of guy that she doesn't want.

02:16:15.000 And I think that when, Nine times out of ten, when you look at the Me Too allegations, it's usually women who say, oh, that guy was creepy.

02:16:25.000 Why?

02:16:25.000 Because he's a beta guy who's trying to pass himself off as an alpha and he thinks he can get away with behaving as if he's Tate, right?

02:16:34.000 As if he's somebody else.

02:16:36.000 But he's not really like that.

02:16:37.000 And there's this incongruency.

02:16:38.000 Well, guess what?

02:16:39.000 Now women have the ability to sort of like Mandate that legally that if you're a beta guy, you shouldn't be trying to pretend that you're an alpha guy. 1.00

02:16:47.000 And that's why guys like you, guys like me, guys who are in the particularly in pickup artistry and that kind of stuff, guys who are in in the game teaching guys to be better.

02:16:56.000 The reason why women hate that so much is because you're teaching guys to be better. 1.00

02:17:01.000 To actually be that guy, to actually be the guy that maybe he inspires respect and arousal and attraction and might actually be that guy because it removes a degree of control away from them because they want 100% total control.

02:17:15.000 They want the guy who's the real deal.

02:17:17.000 Well, It's one thing to be the guy who's the creepy 80 percenter guy, and it's another thing to be the 20 percenter guy who actually gets laid and is deserving of respect that women want to get with, but to say, hey, Mr. Beta guy who's like, you're part of the 80 percent, you want to be part of the 20 percent?

02:17:34.000 I'll teach you how to be part of the 20 percent. 1.00

02:17:36.000 Women hate that because now you're tricking them. 1.00

02:17:38.000 You're getting past that hypergamous filter by turning those guys into better people.

02:17:43.000 That's why they hate you.

02:17:44.000 That's why they hate the red pill, really.

02:17:47.000 Yeah.

02:17:47.000 is because it reveals the game and then it teaches guys, look, here's how it's played and here's what's being done with you.

02:17:55.000 Why don't you become a better person?

02:17:57.000 I'm not trying to say be disingenuous or trick or fool anybody, actually be that person.

02:18:01.000 Here's how you can do that.

02:18:03.000 Oh no, you're gonna turn a creep into a guy that I might actually like, right?

02:18:08.000 Sorry, but that's, you know, now we, again.

02:18:11.000 It's not gonna be guys like me that do this.

02:18:13.000 It's gonna be women It's gonna be women's actions that wake up guys more than you or me or anybody else So anyways, this has been great man.

02:18:19.000 I got it.

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Tate Speech - July 25, 2022

Interview: Andrew Tate & Rollo Tomassi

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