Tate Speech - Interview: Tristan Tate & Rich Cooper

00:00:01.000 Essentially, we all know what it means.

00:00:03.000 When we used to play video games when we were little kids, there used to be a little cheat code that made you transcend from the rules of the game.

00:00:11.000 Now, I don't follow the rules of the game or the rules of life.

00:00:14.000 I'm a man who lives life completely on his own terms, so I can think of nobody better as my first guest on the God Mode podcast than this man right here.

00:00:24.000 Now, if you know me from Twitter, you probably know who the man sitting Next to me, on my screen at least, is.

00:00:30.000 But if you are from Romania, Eastern Europe, Slovakia, maybe a few of the guys in the UK and you don't know who this guy is, he lives his own version of God Mode over in Canada.

00:00:40.000 He certainly is not following the rules of the game.

00:00:42.000 Most 46-year-olds aren't built like him.

00:00:44.000 They don't drive cars like him.

00:00:45.000 They don't live life like him.

00:00:47.000 So I'm going to hand this over to Mr. Rich Cooper, who has kindly joined me today.

00:00:53.000 Tell us a little bit about yourself, Rich.

00:00:55.000 Yeah, hey, thanks for having me, Tristan.

00:00:56.000 I appreciate it.

00:00:57.000 It's always a pleasure to talk to you guys.

00:01:01.000 Well, what can we start with?

00:01:01.000 So, my name is Rick Cooper.

00:01:02.000 I started a YouTube channel about five or six years ago, really just to interview my friends and their success rides and pivoted to kind of deal with the wounds that I needed to make my work and just started talking about a lot of Red Pill concepts, understanding women better and how guys can get better results out of life by applying some basic skills, which a lot of guys still struggle with, especially the white knight type fellows.

00:01:26.000 But I was an entrepreneur long before I got anywhere near any of this content or even thought about it.

00:01:32.000 I had a number of successful business, a couple that flopped, but yeah, that's the too-long-didn't-read sort of version of my life.

00:01:40.000 Yeah, and when you're talking about your core values as such, which you like to preach on your YouTube channel, people can find you at Rich underscore Cooper on Twitter, by the way, if you didn't know that already.

00:01:51.000 Social status, fitness, was this something that you were conscious about and interested in your entire life?

00:01:56.000 Or is it an epiphany that kind of hit you later on?

00:02:00.000 I was not aware of any of these specific details that you get when you kind of start consuming, like starting with Rollo Tomassi's work, you know, for example.

00:02:10.000 I was always always naturally alpha, right?

00:02:12.000 Like big guy, strong, always muscular, rode motorcycles, drove fast cars, didn't really have a hard time with women, even when I was losing my hair and, you know, had to start wearing glasses for shade vision and stuff like that.

00:02:23.000 But playing life at a higher level is always going to be accomplished and achieved when you see things as they truthfully are.

00:02:31.000 I don't really like the whole red pill stuff and the manosphere.

00:02:33.000 I think it's a silly kind of word. 0.99

00:02:35.000 The manosphere to me sounds like a gay nightclub. 0.99

00:02:37.000 Yeah, it does. 0.98

00:02:38.000 Yeah, like I look at it more along the lines of, do you like comforting lies?

00:02:42.000 Or do you prefer the uncomfortable truth about the way the world works and the way that you can operate to get better results to make yourself, you know, put yourself first?

00:02:50.000 And for me, it's always a ladder.

00:02:51.000 It's, you know, what, what's the uncomfortable truth about the world that we live in?

00:02:55.000 Let's deal with that.

00:02:56.000 Okay, and you started your YouTube channel and your teaching, let's say, five or six years ago.

00:03:02.000 Was there a specific event in your life that led you up to thinking, you know, I need to tell more people about this?

00:03:07.000 Is there something you discovered, perhaps?

00:03:09.000 Well, it was two things.

00:03:10.000 I mean, I kind of had to run up to it because about 2011, two really shitty things went down in my life.

00:03:16.000 One, I was going through my divorce, which was just something that I'd never thought would look like the way that it did.

00:03:25.000 I blissfully walked into a slaughterhouse basically, not knowing what I was walking into.

00:03:30.000 So, that was an eye-awakening moment.

00:03:32.000 The other thing too was I had some stuff going down in my business where Competitors and very large financial institutions with pockets deeper than God could potentially change the legislation, the landscape, which would put our business out of operation.

00:03:49.000 I was super busy with that, dealing with lobbyists.

00:03:51.000 I spent a ton of time and money dealing with all those things, trying to try to solve those problems and then exiting the divorce machine.

00:03:56.000 But the thing that really kind of red pilled me, like this is the thing that really pushed me over the edge. 0.73

00:04:00.000 I was stupid enough after my divorce, once I got clear of it to get involved with a single mommy for a few years, she had two boys and that was the thing that red pilled me. 0.99

00:04:08.000 Like that was a point where a friend of mine was like, dude, you need to read this book. And he's like, read rational male. 0.99

00:04:14.000 I downloaded the audiobook listen to it on my flight back from this men's retreat and then that's kind of what pushed me into okay.

00:04:20.000 There's a lot of stuff going on here that I kind of knew and I saw happening but I didn't want to believe because I watch way too many Disney movies or I spent too much time watching cable television growing up and My dad was pretty much a beta.

00:04:33.000 He was a big, strong guy, but he was always bending the knee to my mom sort of thing, right?

00:04:36.000 So all of this programming, I really had to unplug from and kind of subscribe to some new beliefs that would get me better results.

00:04:44.000 Yeah, I mean, divorce, it's guys like you listening to guys like you and every older man I know who's been an influence in my life.

00:04:51.000 Some of my mother's brothers, my uncles have warned me about marriage and they've warned me about divorce.

00:04:58.000 Essentially, what they say is no matter how sweet a woman is, no matter how much she loves you, when it comes time to get divorced, the love is gone.

00:05:04.000 So she's ruthless. 0.93

00:05:06.000 Well, they always say that the woman you marry is never the same woman that you divorce.

00:05:09.000 She completely pivots when she has access to family law and realizes how beneficial that is for her to leverage it so she can get access to the kids, control decision-making processes, and get more money from the father. 1.00

00:05:24.000 Absolutely.

00:05:25.000 And you got divorced in Canada, is that correct?

00:05:27.000 Yeah, you do not want to get divorced in Canada, trust me.

00:05:30.000 That's a question I have for you.

00:05:31.000 A lot of my listeners are from Eastern Europe.

00:05:33.000 I think things are a bit more forgiving here.

00:05:35.000 And if I do go down the marriage route, it's going to be the church-only, no state legislation marriage route.

00:05:41.000 I'm certainly not going to be signing that piece of paper.

00:05:43.000 But what are the main differences between the United States and Canada?

00:05:46.000 Is it better?

00:05:48.000 They're pretty similar throughout most of the West.

00:05:50.000 So, I mean, I've talked to thousands of guys now in my coaching sessions because I do a lot of one-on-one.

00:05:56.000 So, when I'm doing videos, guys have the opportunity to book me for consoles, you know, if they want to deal with trying to figure out how to untie the knot.

00:06:02.000 So, I've talked to guys all throughout most of Western Europe.

00:06:05.000 So, England, France, Germany, all throughout North America, even guys that are expats that are dealing with women that they brought back to North America from places like Asia or, you know, other places in the world.

00:06:15.000 But It's incredibly hostile towards fathers, generally speaking, in North America.

00:06:21.000 There's places in the states where it's a little more friendly, like there's some states like Nevada and Florida, you know, for example, which are a lot, well, I'm not gonna say a lot more friendlier, but they're a little more balanced towards fathers.

00:06:31.000 But generally speaking, everything within family law is designed to give the mother as much control and as much resources as possible.

00:06:41.000 And that's going to come at somebody's expense, which is always going to be the father.

00:06:45.000 So what most guys usually end up seeing happening is she takes the kids, she gets a new boyfriend, he spends more time with his own kids than he's allowed to while he ends up sending her money every month and he watches her alienate him from his own children.

00:06:58.000 Um, so it's, I mean, it's a pretty shitty deal.

00:06:59.000 Cause, cause I mean the whole point to having children is siring children to pass on your name, to pass on your DNA is so you have some influence and you have some ability to raise them and you know, be a part of their lives obviously.

00:07:10.000 But family law doesn't really allow men in the West to do that today.

00:07:13.000 It's, it's, it's pretty tough.

00:07:15.000 I mean, there's certain things you can do to get around it or to minimize the risks, but the risk is always there.

00:07:19.000 Like they say, not all women will destroy men in divorce court, but all women can.

00:07:25.000 Yeah, exactly.

00:07:26.000 They always have the power to do so.

00:07:27.000 And, you know, power corrupts, as they say.

00:07:29.000 A lot of people actually ask me, Richard, why I live in Eastern Europe.

00:07:32.000 I'll tell you about a law that you'll like in Slovakia.

00:07:35.000 So I have a friend from Slovakia, lived in England with his Slovak wife, got divorced, decided to move back to his country.

00:07:41.000 When they first joined the European Union, a lot of women were taking these men's children and moving to the West, moving to Germany, moving to England to work jobs. 0.90

00:07:48.000 And these men were stuck without their kids.

00:07:50.000 Slovakia actually passed a law in the early 2000s, preventing the child living outside of the country of the person who finances the child.

00:07:58.000 So the father's paying child support.

00:07:59.000 So when he moved back to Slovakia, she wanted to stay in England.

00:08:02.000 The child had to move legally with him.

00:08:04.000 So there is hope for the world, but I think it's in the East. 0.99

00:08:07.000 Yeah, there's still friendly places.

00:08:09.000 I mean, Kenya apparently is friendly to fathers.

00:08:12.000 There was a tweet that I put out today.

00:08:16.000 Apparently, they'll split custody and there's nothing the mother can do to fight anything around that. 1.00

00:08:20.000 It's just straight down the middle, 50-50.

00:08:22.000 Why do you think that is in the West more so than the East?

00:08:25.000 When did this happen?

00:08:26.000 Well, men aren't valued.

00:08:28.000 Like, men throughout history have never been valued.

00:08:30.000 Men have always been a disposable commodity, right? 0.96

00:08:32.000 I mean, if you go back 10,000 years, if warring tribes were in conflict, and there was a conquering tribe that would, you know, come in, the first thing they would do is they would fight off and kill all the men.

00:08:42.000 And any men that didn't die in the conflict will either be Tried to be put into slavery, and if they refuse to be slaves, then they just kill them.

00:08:49.000 Yeah.

00:08:50.000 Boys of fighting age were either recruited to be new soldiers in their army, or they were killed or put into slavery, and the women were kept as war brides.

00:08:58.000 So, they were used for copulation, for reproduction, you know, for childbearing, and all that sort of stuff.

00:09:02.000 So, women have always been preserved throughout history.

00:09:05.000 Like, they've always been the protective sex.

00:09:07.000 Men, on the other hand, are just always disposable.

00:09:09.000 It's just what we are, and that's okay.

00:09:10.000 I mean, you just have to accept that that's how the world views it, and then act accordingly.

00:09:14.000 Yeah, and you mentioned a book that really helped you out.

00:09:17.000 A lot of the guys watching will be Eastern European, but there is a book, The Rational Male by Rollo Tomasi.

00:09:21.000 I've actually listened to it on audiobook.

00:09:23.000 I have personal close friends of mine who've said that book literally saved their lives and saved them from their boring sexless marriages.

00:09:30.000 So, highly recommended.

00:09:32.000 I'm going to pitch my book because I just published this on Amazon, The Unplugged Alpha.

00:09:36.000 If you want a distilled version of everything in the Red Pill space, 200 pages, you'll get through it in one day.

00:09:41.000 It's on Amazon right now.

00:09:42.000 Yep.

00:09:42.000 Check it out, guys.

00:09:43.000 It's not audible yet.

00:09:44.000 See, I'm an audiobook guy.

00:09:45.000 Not yet.

00:09:45.000 I am going to record it myself.

00:09:46.000 So you're going to hear it in my voice.

00:09:48.000 Wonderful.

00:09:48.000 Now I'm going to tell you about your voice.

00:09:51.000 So I'm going to tell you why I'm an audiobook guy.

00:09:53.000 And you're going to like this.

00:09:54.000 And it leads to my next question, which I'm going to ask you.

00:09:56.000 I I don't have time to sit down with a paper book anymore.

00:10:00.000 As much as I used to enjoy it, I'm too busy with work.

00:10:02.000 I'm too busy trying to make money.

00:10:03.000 I'm too busy meeting my women.

00:10:04.000 But I do love driving.

00:10:06.000 Driving, I think, is a passion that me and you both share.

00:10:08.000 We both love our fast cars.

00:10:10.000 Now, I listen to audiobooks when I drive.

00:10:12.000 I'll be driving through the mountain roads listening to Ian Fleming.

00:10:16.000 I'm the same way.

00:10:17.000 I very rarely read books unless they're only available in paperback, but even then I'll just wait for the reading and I'll always listen to it.

00:10:27.000 Driving is a great way to get through books.

00:10:29.000 I'm exactly the same dude.

00:10:30.000 If I have a long road trip, I'm listening to a book always.

00:10:33.000 Good, so I will definitely get that when it comes out on audiobook.

00:10:37.000 Supercars!

00:10:38.000 Now, I want to play a little game with you, Rich, because you have an Audi R8 Convertible, I believe.

00:10:44.000 Absolutely fantastic car.

00:10:46.000 It's a beast of a machine.

00:10:47.000 It was actually mine and my brother's dream car when I was younger.

00:10:50.000 We wanted one more than anything.

00:10:54.000 The reason I don't have one now is I'm almost six foot five.

00:10:56.000 It's a little bit... I mean, I don't even drive my Lamborghini or my McLaren for the exact same reason.

00:11:00.000 I was going to say, how do you fit in the Huracan, especially the convertible?

00:11:04.000 Because the headroom is like, I'm six foot two and change, and it's really tight with me.

00:11:08.000 Like, I can barely fit in it.

00:11:09.000 Yeah, I put the roof down, essentially.

00:11:11.000 I put the roof down.

00:11:12.000 I've also had the manufacturers lower and reverse the seat further than it was supposed to go.

00:11:17.000 They've taken some things out.

00:11:18.000 So my driver's seat is wider than the other one.

00:11:21.000 I've got another.

00:11:22.000 I've got the Huracan Evo coming soon, and that is slightly bigger and slightly more forgiving.

00:11:27.000 So, supercars are one of those things where everybody wants them.

00:11:31.000 Every young man wants them, certainly. 0.99

00:11:33.000 And when you get one, people love to come at you with bullshit reasons of why nobody should have one, why you shouldn't want one, why having one makes you a loser. 0.97

00:11:42.000 So, you have a passion for supercars. 0.97

00:11:45.000 So, you have a passion for supercars.

00:11:47.000 I have a passion for supercars.

00:11:48.000 So, we're going to play devil's advocate right now.

00:11:50.000 I'm going to hit you with the same sort of accusations I get hit with every single day, and I want to know your response.

00:11:56.000 It's a game we're going to play.

00:11:57.000 Rich, you only bought a supercar to get women. 1.00

00:12:01.000 Women only like you because you have a supercar. 1.00

00:12:04.000 So?

00:12:07.000 Bro, when it comes to hate, the way that I look at haters is hate only ever comes from beneath you. 0.98

00:12:14.000 Nobody ever gets jealous of a loser, okay?

00:12:17.000 I mean, I'm never getting messages like that from billionaires like Elon Musk or Jeff Bezos or you guys, you know, for example.

00:12:24.000 It's always some guy that has a bus pass and wants to have a supercar but can't afford it, so they just point and sputter at you like a woman, right? 1.00

00:12:31.000 Yeah, I mean, that is the best response.

00:12:33.000 People say, oh, women only like you because of... I'm just going, so? 1.00

00:12:36.000 Yeah, so?

00:12:37.000 Because you have a supercar.

00:12:38.000 Well, I do have a supercar.

00:12:40.000 Another one.

00:12:42.000 Everyone talks about getting rich.

00:12:43.000 Everyone talks about making money.

00:12:45.000 I actually preach.

00:12:46.000 I love preaching spending money because that's what money is for.

00:12:49.000 That's why I make it.

00:12:50.000 Oh, your car depreciates, Richard.

00:12:52.000 You shouldn't have bought that.

00:12:53.000 You should have invested in X, Y, and Z stock and blah, blah, blah.

00:12:56.000 What's your answer?

00:12:57.000 Yeah.

00:12:58.000 I've already got investments.

00:12:59.000 This is throwaway money, right?

00:13:01.000 I don't care if it depreciates.

00:13:02.000 Yeah, exactly.

00:13:03.000 You buy the supercar when you already have other things.

00:13:08.000 Like when the average Joe that works the nine-to-five job and going to his job and he's got a 300-pound wife and 3.1 kids and he's miserable with everything, making $60,000 a year and he's driving his Toyota Tercel or whatever it is that he's rolling in.

00:13:23.000 To him, he's buying it after he's paid for his housing.

00:13:26.000 He's got his RRSPs or his retirement savings plan or whatever you want to call it.

00:13:30.000 Like, he's got that out of the way and he buys a car that he can afford.

00:13:33.000 So, I mean, whether you're buying an R8 or a Bugatti Chiron, you're buying it because you can afford to pay for it, not because you're a Muppet and, you know, you're leveraging everything you have just to show up in a nice car. 0.91

00:13:43.000 People that have nice cars, this is what a lot of people that don't know about supercar owners and supercar clubs, and you already know this because you already participate in rallies and stuff like this, but These are some of the coolest fucking people in the world. 0.94

00:13:56.000 Buying a nicer car gives you access, gives you the privilege to hang out with other guys that have cool shit too.

00:14:03.000 So you guys all get together and you hang out and you have events and it's like, you know, you become the average of the five people that you spend the most time with, right? 0.66

00:14:08.000 So when you surround yourself with excellence, you can't help but become better yourself, right?

00:14:13.000 Yeah, I mean, it's exactly the same principle.

00:14:15.000 When I was young, I used to hear about people who spent a lot of money in nightclubs, and I think 10,000 pounds in the night.

00:14:20.000 If I had 10,000 pounds, I'd buy a new car, and I'd buy a new bed, and I'd rent a better apartment.

00:14:24.000 But the guys who are doing it, the guys who are spending that money, already have all of those things.

00:14:29.000 It is throwaway money, like you said.

00:14:30.000 So, yeah, those are exactly the same answers as I'd give, but I'd like to hear them from someone else because I'm tired of preaching to my audience again and again and again.

00:14:41.000 So, supercars.

00:14:42.000 Now, you get a lot of flack for your car, for the things that you post.

00:14:45.000 I mean, you posted something today with some woman calling you.

00:14:48.000 What was it?

00:14:49.000 The final boss of all mansplainers.

00:14:51.000 Was that it?

00:14:53.000 Oh yeah, so what will typically happen is I posted this on the community tab of my YouTube channel.

00:15:03.000 I'm just trying to think what the lyrics were, but it was something along the lines of, if a woman says, you know, we're just friends, say fine, grab her phone and then text the guy, I'm horny, let's bang.

00:15:14.000 She's either going to freak out when you start doing it, and you won't get through the process, or the guy's going to get the messages, and he's going to be all over it like a fat kid on cake.

00:15:23.000 And then it just concludes with men and women can't be just friends, right? 0.95

00:15:27.000 So what ends up happening is, of course, all of the crazies find that, and then the Twitter mob comes in, and then they find it, and they post it somewhere on social media like Facebook and some private caring group, and they all get together, and they swarm in, and they start shitting on it, and then they watch your videos, and they start shitting in the comments over there.

00:15:43.000 And this entire snowball starts to happen, which is fine, because I end up getting an extra 20,000 views an hour on the videos, which helps me out at the end of the day.

00:15:51.000 It's like all these haters spend all this time watching my stuff.

00:15:54.000 I don't care if you disagree.

00:15:55.000 Fine, watch it.

00:15:56.000 I mean, you're helping me out with the algorithms.

00:15:58.000 But that's where that came from.

00:15:59.000 Yeah, and that's an experiment I've actually pulled myself, Rich, I promise.

00:16:03.000 I've pulled it myself.

00:16:04.000 Girls are like, oh, he's like a brother to me.

00:16:05.000 I'm like, I bet he's not.

00:16:07.000 Let me send him one message. 1.00

00:16:08.000 And a few times they've called my bluff and their friendship with that man was essentially ruined after he texts back, oh, I'm so glad you left that idiot Tristan. 1.00

00:16:16.000 He was so mean to you. 0.99

00:16:18.000 I'll treat you right.

00:16:19.000 And yeah, it is very funny.

00:16:21.000 In fact, the only thing I have and the only thing any man can have remotely close to a female friend are girlfriends of my brother, girlfriends of my cousin.

00:16:31.000 I wouldn't ever hang out with them, but I can say hi to them, speak with them, and have a conversation in a completely platonic way because you're loyal to your friends.

00:16:38.000 But that's it.

00:16:39.000 That's where the line exists.

00:16:41.000 Work buddies.

00:16:41.000 Yeah, aside from that, what do you have in common with women, right?

00:16:45.000 Like, do they know how an, you know, like the size of the engine and your Huracan Evo that's coming down the road and how much power it has and why you're buying it and, you know, Does she know about the four wheel steering system and all that stuff?

00:16:56.000 No, she doesn't.

00:16:57.000 She doesn't know about any of those things.

00:16:58.000 It's just she's going to look pretty in the passenger seat with her outfit and her handbag and her makeup on, and she'll be able to post a picture on social media proving that she's hot. 0.98

00:17:06.000 She's got a hot boyfriend.

00:17:08.000 Yeah, exactly.

00:17:09.000 That's what her benefit to it is all.

00:17:10.000 Yeah, I think the mistake I've got, I've got a theory I want to run by you.

00:17:13.000 I think a lot of men get very attached to women because they're in search of companionship.

00:17:18.000 And I think men who have, for example, like me and my brother have, we're Best friends, we live together, we're always together.

00:17:24.000 I don't need companionship.

00:17:25.000 So, I've always found myself to look at women with a smarter eye than a lot of men.

00:17:30.000 Have you found that?

00:17:30.000 I mean, did you find that?

00:17:32.000 I mean, who are your guys?

00:17:33.000 Do they keep you away from falling?

00:17:35.000 Yeah, we're not that different.

00:17:37.000 I've got two younger brothers.

00:17:38.000 So, like you, I'm real tight with my brothers.

00:17:41.000 I mean, one's five years younger, the other one's eight years younger.

00:17:45.000 Um, we get on well, we've lived together before.

00:17:47.000 I, I, at, at your age, I was actually probably still living with my brothers, I think at the time, because I had a house and they were with me.

00:17:55.000 But to me, like that's like, that's friendship.

00:17:58.000 Like that's a brotherhood, you know, blood is thicker than water.

00:18:01.000 They're like, Women don't offer anything friendship-wise that I'm looking for. 1.00

00:18:07.000 I don't have deep conversations with women about shit that matters to me. 1.00

00:18:11.000 I like women. 1.00

00:18:12.000 I have good conversations with women when I talk to them, but I don't ever consider women like my best friend, right? 1.00

00:18:19.000 Like, I had this conversation the other day and, I don't know, this chick got dumped by this guy and I said, well, what happened?

00:18:25.000 Like, why did he dump her?

00:18:27.000 And the answer was, well, He was looking for a best friend in the relationship too. 0.99

00:18:31.000 And I was like, whoa, this guy's watched way too many fucking Disney movies. 0.99

00:18:34.000 He doesn't know what the hell he's talking about. 0.98

00:18:36.000 But that's, but that's what a lot of guys think.

00:18:38.000 You know, it's, you know, men and women should be best friends, like your wife, your girlfriend, your partner, whatever should be your best friend.

00:18:43.000 But it's not true.

00:18:45.000 Yeah, no, I completely disagree.

00:18:46.000 And I completely agree with you.

00:18:48.000 I mean, I disagree with the notion.

00:18:50.000 And women have tried that. 1.00

00:18:50.000 They've tried to come in between me and Andrew. 1.00

00:18:52.000 I mean, good luck. 1.00

00:18:53.000 But they say stupid things like, oh, you're in your 30s. 0.99

00:18:55.000 And you're both still living in the same house. 1.00

00:18:57.000 And you just want to hang out with people all the time.

00:18:58.000 Yeah, they try to shape you.

00:18:59.000 Don't you think that's weird?

00:19:00.000 I said, no.

00:19:01.000 No, it's not weird.

00:19:01.000 You don't talk to your sister.

00:19:03.000 Don't you think that's weird?

00:19:05.000 Yeah.

00:19:05.000 You don't have a good relationship with your father.

00:19:07.000 Like, who are you to judge my friendship with my brother, right?

00:19:09.000 No, they haven't got a clue.

00:19:11.000 So, my next question, you obviously get a lot of smoke and you get a lot of flack and these caring groups, as you referred to them.

00:19:18.000 I'm going to remember that term.

00:19:18.000 I've never heard it before.

00:19:20.000 Do come at you very hard.

00:19:21.000 Is there a reason why you are so public with your face, your image?

00:19:26.000 Why aren't you, let's say, an anon account?

00:19:29.000 Cause you, I mean, you could, you tweet good content.

00:19:31.000 You could be an anonymous account and still get your message across.

00:19:33.000 Why do you put your face up?

00:19:35.000 Yeah.

00:19:35.000 To be honest with you, I didn't think about it when I started doing what I was doing.

00:19:39.000 I was just like, I don't give a fuck. 0.98

00:19:41.000 Like, you know, I've got a great business. 0.99

00:19:42.000 I've got money.

00:19:43.000 Like I don't bend the knee to anybody.

00:19:45.000 I don't really care what your opinion is. 0.91

00:19:47.000 I'm, I'm just that zero fucks given kind of guy. 0.66

00:19:50.000 Like I've always kind of been that way.

00:19:52.000 Um, so I just continued using my name and my face.

00:19:54.000 There's a lot of guys out there that use their face, but they don't use the real name.

00:19:58.000 Yes.

00:19:59.000 And I understand why they do it.

00:20:01.000 And there's a lot of guys that also don't use the real name or the real face.

00:20:05.000 And I have a hard time believing somebody or forming a connection or trusting what they're saying if I can't evaluate who they are.

00:20:13.000 Like, I know Tristan Tate.

00:20:15.000 I know Andrew Tate.

00:20:16.000 I've talked to your brother more than I've talked to you.

00:20:19.000 I can size you up, right?

00:20:20.000 Like if somebody were to say to me, well, what do you think of the Tate brothers?

00:20:23.000 Do you think that they're legit? 1.00

00:20:24.000 Do you think they're full of shit? 1.00

00:20:25.000 Do they rent their cars? 1.00

00:20:26.000 Where do they get their money from?

00:20:27.000 Blah, blah, blah.

00:20:28.000 I have a pretty good idea that you guys are pretty much as close to the posts that you guys make.

00:20:35.000 Like that would be your reality. 0.71

00:20:37.000 But there's a lot of people that I just don't fucking trust because I can't see them. 0.96

00:20:40.000 I can't look into their eyes and I can't judge their character. 0.98

00:20:44.000 I can judge their character by their voice.

00:20:45.000 Like there's some faceless Anon accounts that broadcast over YouTube or Twitter, for example, and you hear their voice and they sound like soy, right? 0.91

00:20:54.000 It's like, dude, you sound like somebody with a, you know, with a patchy ass neck bird, probably living in your mom's basement with low tea drinking soy milk, right? 0.91

00:21:03.000 But lots of guys will follow that advice. 0.97

00:21:05.000 And I think that men especially need to evaluate, they need to consider the source.

00:21:11.000 My dad always used to tell me when I was a kid, Rich, you know, you always have to consider the source.

00:21:15.000 When somebody throws hate at you, ask yourself, are you willing to change your life with this person?

00:21:20.000 Right?

00:21:21.000 Like, are you willing to trade lives with them?

00:21:23.000 And the answer has always been no, whenever I've looked at them.

00:21:25.000 Whenever somebody hates me, it's like, I would never trade my life for yours.

00:21:28.000 Like, who are you?

00:21:29.000 Yeah, no, you're completely right.

00:21:30.000 And what you have to look out for, the add-on accounts as well, are the famous, I call them the mask slips, when they play their character.

00:21:38.000 And there was, and I don't remember his name, but I remember someone outed him, but there was a guy who tried to play the rich kind of playboy type of character, and he did it quite well for a while.

00:21:47.000 And then someone found out he was like some 19 year old fat kid living in his, living in his mother's basement, who walked around in shorts and sandals all day.

00:21:54.000 I can't remember the exact case, but yeah, a lot, Well, I mean, we've seen a few.

00:21:57.000 Like, there was one guy on Twitter that, I don't know, your brother had a falling out with, but he was in a full-on, like, you know, faceless account.

00:22:07.000 I can't remember his name.

00:22:09.000 Illimitable Man.

00:22:09.000 Tell your son this.

00:22:11.000 That was it.

00:22:12.000 Yeah.

00:22:13.000 And he was, I'm stoic.

00:22:14.000 This is how to deal with women. 1.00

00:22:16.000 This is how to treat women. 1.00

00:22:17.000 And a lot of this stuff sounded very good.

00:22:19.000 And he literally had a full on mental breakdown and threatened to kill himself over an internet girlfriend, which I don't even think the term is real.

00:22:26.000 Internet girlfriends are, as far as I'm concerned, working for somebody like me, hustling you for your money. 0.96

00:22:31.000 If you haven't met the girl, that's what she is.

00:22:33.000 She's not your actual girlfriend.

00:22:34.000 But this guy was threatening to blow his brains out over some chick and that all leaked out.

00:22:38.000 And like, man, I mean, talk about a mask slip.

00:22:41.000 How can you preach this stuff if that's you?

00:22:45.000 Yeah.

00:22:45.000 I mean, bro, like, this is my real name.

00:22:47.000 This is me.

00:22:48.000 You know, come at me, right?

00:22:50.000 Exactly.

00:22:50.000 Which is why, I mean, you know what?

00:22:53.000 At the very beginning, when Andrew first kind of went public, he was verified on Twitter with his first account, and a lot of people started coming at him.

00:22:59.000 It never bothered Andrew, but it bothered me.

00:23:01.000 I'm like, these people are saying these things.

00:23:03.000 I used to type replies to them.

00:23:05.000 I just completely give up. 1.00

00:23:06.000 Now, I mean, people type the worst shit possible. 1.00

00:23:09.000 They'll mock my dead dad. 1.00

00:23:12.000 They'll say that they hope my kids are born with deformities. 1.00

00:23:15.000 I mean, like, literally the worst shit you could imagine. 0.99

00:23:18.000 And I read, and I smile, and I laugh, and I raise my glass, and I go and drive my Ferrari around. 0.99

00:23:23.000 Like, I don't care.

00:23:24.000 You mentioned you'd dig it over.

00:23:26.000 I have a system that I adopted.

00:23:29.000 I saw a conversation between Bill Burr and Joe Rogan, and they were talking about this very thing.

00:23:35.000 And I can't remember who it was that said it, but post and ghost.

00:23:38.000 It's post and never read the comments. 0.91

00:23:41.000 And I find if you waste too much time reading the comments of these faceless non-accounts of people that have an opinion for everything, They don't know what the fuck they're talking about 99% of the time. 0.81

00:23:51.000 Exactly.

00:23:51.000 They're just, oh, I'm an expert because I have an internet connection and I can now post things on somebody's video or a Twitter post or whatever.

00:24:00.000 It's like, dude, hop on a cast like this.

00:24:03.000 Let me see your face.

00:24:04.000 Where do you live, right?

00:24:05.000 Exactly.

00:24:06.000 I mean, it's very easy also when you're pretending to play a character.

00:24:09.000 You just read people who are the real deal, and you just kind of emulate the kind of things they say.

00:24:14.000 I mean, when you don't show your face... It's a mask, like you said.

00:24:16.000 Yeah, it's super, super easy to do.

00:24:18.000 But the mask does slip.

00:24:20.000 Famously, an account I came out with, I came out with him recently, Rivelino, bragging about how many women he sleeps with and what a playboy he is.

00:24:27.000 And I literally said to him, I was like, yeah, you post... Is that the guy with the lines?

00:24:31.000 Yeah, the lion guy.

00:24:33.000 I mean, I'm six foot four.

00:24:34.000 There are pictures of me with women where I'm probably leaning in and hunching down.

00:24:37.000 Yeah, you have to when you're smaller.

00:24:40.000 I need to get into the camera frame, you know?

00:24:42.000 I'm a big dude, and I'm as alpha as they come.

00:24:45.000 No, bro, you're beta.

00:24:46.000 Look at the line.

00:24:47.000 I mean, what was it?

00:24:48.000 Hap Thor Bjornsson, the world's biggest, strongest man.

00:24:52.000 I mean, he had one of those negative red lines.

00:24:54.000 I mean, I was like... Seven foot tall, 500 pounds.

00:24:56.000 Why don't you go up to his face?

00:24:57.000 Yeah.

00:24:58.000 call him a baiter.

00:24:58.000 You know, he'll snap you in half.

00:25:02.000 Literally, I wouldn't, I wouldn't try to fight that guy. 0.99

00:25:04.000 Jesus, he's a monster. 0.75

00:25:05.000 But yeah, the Rivelino. 0.95

00:25:06.000 So I got to set him up.

00:25:08.000 I asked him, I said, hey man, you have really good tweets.

00:25:10.000 He was like, oh, Tristan Tate likes me.

00:25:11.000 Tristan Tate.

00:25:12.000 Then he was posting about all these girls he had.

00:25:14.000 I said, hey bro, post some pictures.

00:25:16.000 He went, no, no, no, I'm Anon.

00:25:17.000 I was like, yeah, yeah, stay Anon, but post some pictures of the girls.

00:25:20.000 Blur their faces. 0.98

00:25:21.000 Don't show yourself.

00:25:22.000 Don't tell us your name.

00:25:23.000 Stay Anon. 0.99

00:25:24.000 Not saying that he fucking just broke down. 1.00

00:25:27.000 The mask does slip eventually, and he said something stupid like he slept with seven women in four years or some bullshit. 1.00

00:25:33.000 Good number for the average dude, I guess, but you're a playboy, and you think that's the number? 1.00

00:25:38.000 It reminded me of the scene in The 40-Year-Old Virgin, when the guy's talking about feeling that girl's tit and how it felt like a sandbag.

00:25:45.000 He's just throwing things out there, hoping that he's going to land a hit.

00:25:50.000 Oh, seven in four years?

00:25:51.000 Yeah, that's good.

00:25:52.000 He had no idea how bad that was.

00:25:54.000 To a guy like me.

00:25:54.000 I mean, you've seen my journal I keep, so... Jesus, I can't take that seriously.

00:26:00.000 Okay, so we're going to move on.

00:26:02.000 Yeah, we're going to move on from add-ons.

00:26:04.000 It's more about what you teach because you're one of the guys that I can look at and I can think, okay, I can learn something from Rich Cooper.

00:26:10.000 When I'm 46, I mean, you're in great shape, you're strong, you're still driving around in your super car, you're still living life on your own terms.

00:26:16.000 I'm not going to ask you about your relationship status, et cetera, but you look like a very happy, very fulfilled man. 0.99

00:26:22.000 And I've met 46 year olds who look like shit. 0.99

00:26:24.000 They're one or two years away from a heart attack. 1.00

00:26:26.000 I mean, they literally are at the end of the road and I don't feel anything could save them.

00:26:30.000 So you're the kind of guy that can teach people things.

00:26:34.000 So you talk a lot about maintaining frame.

00:26:36.000 Now, I'm asking you this, honestly, because I don't really understand what that means.

00:26:42.000 Because I think frame, the way you put it, some guys have it, and some guys don't.

00:26:46.000 I think characters like myself and my brother have always held our frame, I guess, quite well.

00:26:51.000 I've never had to learn anything from a book.

00:26:53.000 But we do have 535 people watching us right now.

00:26:56.000 A lot of people don't know what that is.

00:26:57.000 Can you touch on that and go into it a little bit?

00:27:00.000 Well, why don't we use the example that you guys preach the most, which is comply or goodbye.

00:27:05.000 Like that is frame control.

00:27:07.000 It's, you know, these are the boundaries that I'm going to set for you, sweetheart, because I love you and I care for you.

00:27:13.000 And if you go outside of those boundaries, it's goodbye.

00:27:16.000 And that's all that frame control really is, is she needs to be in the frame of a strong, masculine man that she admires, that she respects, that she adores.

00:27:25.000 And that's essentially what you're aiming to do.

00:27:27.000 But most guys don't do that.

00:27:28.000 What they'll do is they'll just get a stamp, like Chris Rock talked about in his standup, Never Scared, I think it was, and they'll just stamp everything.

00:27:34.000 Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, honey, yes, yes, yes.

00:27:37.000 And The process of making all of these concessions over a period of time is known as betatization over a thousand concessions.

00:27:45.000 It starts with something like, honey, put the white socks in the white hamper and the dark socks in the dark hamper and don't brush your teeth over there by the window because it's going to get on the carpet, blah, blah, blah, chirp.

00:27:55.000 And it turns into, let's go vegan together.

00:27:57.000 And then a few years later, it turns into, I love you, but I don't love you anymore.

00:28:01.000 Because over time, and you see these guys all the time, right?

00:28:04.000 I mean, like, you see all these 40-year-old guys, 50-year-old guys, they've got, like, the barbed wire tattoo, like, around their arm, you know, when it was cool back in the day, but now they're fat, you know, they look horrible. 0.98

00:28:13.000 They've got some care and wife chirping them all the time, who's 300 pounds, that doesn't respect him, hasn't had sex with him in forever, and he's just miserable.

00:28:22.000 And this is why frame is important, because in every relationship, one person enters the other person's frame.

00:28:29.000 If you're a strong masculine guy running God mode, she's going to be in your frame. 1.00

00:28:40.000 But for the most part, the vast majority of society with men, men are operating in their wives frame. 0.63

00:28:46.000 They almost always defer to her.

00:28:48.000 As the leader in the relationship and society programs that, right?

00:28:52.000 Like it encourages it.

00:28:53.000 You know, it's why you see guys like one of the things that makes me sick is when you see these guys make these posts on social media, a picture of him and his girlfriend or him and his wife.

00:29:02.000 And it's like our five year, our 10 year anniversary, my much, much better half. 0.95

00:29:07.000 I couldn't have done all of this shit without her, blah, blah, blah, blah. 1.00

00:29:10.000 And then you click through on her and it's fucking crickets. 1.00

00:29:13.000 She's got nothing nice to say about the guy. 0.99

00:29:15.000 And.

00:29:17.000 You know who runs that relationship, right?

00:29:19.000 So that's really what frame is, if that makes sense.

00:29:21.000 Yeah, I mean, the equivalent, I guess, for the younger generation is when you see a guy going to exotic locations.

00:29:29.000 I mean, he's in, I don't know, Jamaica, Mexico, Barbados with his girlfriend, and there's pictures of them holding hands on the beach, and there's pictures of them eating dinner together, and there's pictures of them at the restaurants.

00:29:37.000 And then you click on her profile, and it's just so... You know he's holding the camera.

00:29:42.000 That's the guy he is, you know, taking the hot Instagram pic so she can have her Yeah, he's the Instagram boyfriend.

00:29:47.000 Yeah, exactly.

00:29:47.000 So she can get her followers up and get hit up by dudes with blue tics who have a higher social value than him.

00:29:54.000 What I like to do when I travel is I like to fuck with these guys, right? 0.99

00:29:57.000 So like I'll see them taking pictures of their girlfriends and I'll just walk up to them. 0.99

00:30:00.000 I'll be like, you know, tap them on the shoulder and be like, hey man, are you one of those Instagram boyfriends?

00:30:07.000 I mean, that's what they are.

00:30:08.000 And then I'll turn around and walk away and I'll be like, you know she's going to use that to get the attention of other guys on her Instagram account. 1.00

00:30:13.000 I'll just fucking cruise away. 0.93

00:30:14.000 Because that's what an Instagram account is. 0.99

00:30:17.000 That's what it's for.

00:30:17.000 I mean, I always say, if you, if I have a main chick or a side chick even, if I'm running, I don't know how many, depending on how many relationships I'm running, if I have a girl who says she's in love with me, I'll hang out with her, I'll say delete Instagram.

00:30:29.000 If she doesn't instantly comply and delete her Instagram and not give a fuck, does she really love me? 0.98

00:30:33.000 Like, no, because women love attention. 1.00

00:30:36.000 They crave attention constantly.

00:30:38.000 They're always checking their likes.

00:30:39.000 They're always checking their feed.

00:30:40.000 Oh, who's this person who likes to meet girls and guys?

00:30:43.000 And that's never ever a good thing.

00:30:45.000 So I mean, I let girls keep their social media. 1.00

00:30:48.000 I'm not some weird controlling guy, but that is a good test for you for young guys out there.

00:30:51.000 Tell her to delete your Instagram.

00:30:52.000 She won't do it.

00:30:53.000 Then it's Instagram and other male attention over you. 0.51

00:30:56.000 Yeah.

00:30:57.000 I'll put it this way because I spent some time in my book and a couple of chapters on this very topic.

00:31:02.000 But if you're vetting a chick for a long-term relationship, I mean, for mother stock, if you're looking for a wife or something like that, for whatever crazy reason, you're thinking about getting married.

00:31:11.000 If she's running an Instagram account and it's not a business, like she's not selling something, she doesn't have a product or service that she sells, that's the reason why she runs it and it's public.

00:31:21.000 She's basically on the ice trying to score a goal. 0.99

00:31:24.000 She's going to be selling herself and marketing herself publicly with the post. 1.00

00:31:27.000 So, if you see these sexy posts, these provocative posts, it's just her and all this sort of stuff, then you've got somebody that's still looking to actively upgrade. 0.95

00:31:36.000 And what you said is true.

00:31:38.000 You've got to put your foot down and say, look, girlfriends with boyfriends don't behave this way. 1.00

00:31:43.000 So, you can either make your Instagram account private, where it's just you and your family, or you can delete it, right?

00:31:49.000 Yeah.

00:31:50.000 Oh, or I mean, a third option is every third or fourth pitcher have pictures with me.

00:31:55.000 You know, I love my boyfriend, blah, blah, blah.

00:31:57.000 You know, I mean, that's acceptable enough.

00:31:58.000 But as someone like me, as public as I am, I would I would never want that, but for a lot of guys that is an option.

00:32:04.000 So yeah, pug's pictures of us together.

00:32:06.000 Right. 0.95

00:32:06.000 By all means, you know, because then she can still show off her life, show off her little vacation, show off her new shoes and whatever and try and build her following because maybe she wants to be a fucking influencer or whatever it is. 0.95

00:32:15.000 But it's very clear she has a boyfriend and some girls do have Instagram accounts like that. 0.99

00:32:19.000 There are some girls with millions of followers who are with their husbands, she's married and half their pictures are with their husband.

00:32:25.000 Yeah.

00:32:25.000 Fair enough.

00:32:25.000 You know, I think that's still acceptable because they're not advertising themselves as available.

00:32:31.000 But man, I see all the time and I put this on Twitter the other day.

00:32:35.000 These girls... I said this and you'll understand this actually.

00:32:40.000 You're a high social value guy.

00:32:41.000 We're going to move on to what social value is in a moment and your takes on it.

00:32:44.000 But I said, if you're a beautiful woman, you see the worst aspects of male character. 1.00

00:32:48.000 The unsolicited dick pictures, the I'm going to rape you if I see you, all that nonsense. 1.00

00:32:53.000 But if you're a high value man, you see the worst aspects of female character. 1.00

00:32:58.000 And I posted a screenshot of some girl who was begging me to take her to Dubai.

00:33:01.000 Oh, you're in Dubai.

00:33:02.000 I want to fly out with you.

00:33:03.000 I'll come and see you.

00:33:04.000 I don't fly girls out, you know, unless I mean long-term girlfriends I'm going on vacation with, but I don't fly girls out to Dubai who I don't know.

00:33:10.000 That's not my game.

00:33:11.000 I told her no.

00:33:12.000 And a few weeks later, she posted some picture of her and some dude saying two years with my baby.

00:33:17.000 And I was like, what?

00:33:19.000 He's lucky I don't fly girls out to Dubai. 1.00

00:33:20.000 I would have taken his girl from him. 0.69

00:33:22.000 And yeah, she's advertising. 0.99

00:33:24.000 She's advertising for something better.

00:33:25.000 Just like you said.

00:33:27.000 Alpha seed, beta need, man.

00:33:28.000 You know, it's just common out there.

00:33:30.000 It's so common.

00:33:31.000 Hilarious.

00:33:32.000 So, yeah, social value.

00:33:34.000 Now, you preach a lot about maintaining social value.

00:33:37.000 Now, I've seen guys actively, so this is advice you could probably give to me, I've seen guys actively deteriorate from the ages of 30 to 40 in quite a big way.

00:33:47.000 Obviously, I think I know how to avoid that.

00:33:51.000 I see myself and my value as a man certainly going up every single year.

00:33:54.000 I'm 32.

00:33:55.000 I'm nowhere near peak.

00:33:58.000 What would you say to younger guys, maybe guys of my age or late 20s about maintaining your social value as you go?

00:34:07.000 Well, I think your social value – I mean, if you're a guy on a purpose that's chasing excellence in life, it's going to go up by osmosis.

00:34:13.000 It's not like you're going to have to try that hard.

00:34:17.000 You and your brother, as an example, I can't see why you wouldn't be wealthier as you get older and have more reach and more influence. 1.00

00:34:24.000 I mean, as long as you don't do anything stupid and fuck it up, basically. 0.99

00:34:28.000 You'll be on the right path and the right trajectory. 1.00

00:34:31.000 The thing that guys need to understand is there's still, you know, the importance of optics, right?

00:34:36.000 Like what you look like.

00:34:38.000 I know what my value is in the sexual marketplace.

00:34:40.000 I know what my, you know, detractors are and I know what my positives are, right?

00:34:45.000 Like I'm a bald man.

00:34:46.000 So what am I going to do?

00:34:47.000 Am I going to hold on to scraps?

00:34:48.000 Okay.

00:34:48.000 Well, that's one thing I can do.

00:34:49.000 I can get a hair transplant. 0.99

00:34:50.000 I can tattoo my scalp or I can just shave a fucking thing, grow a bitching beard and just look, you know, have a look. 1.00

00:34:56.000 Yeah. 0.99

00:34:56.000 I'm a year or two away from that, by the way, you know, my hair is not what it used to be when I was 25. 0.99

00:35:00.000 But I mean, it's still there for now, but one or two years, I'll just shave my head, you know, and I'll grow a bigger beard.

00:35:05.000 Yeah, it's, it's, it's part of life, like it's part of aging, like you understand, but You know, like as I look around at other guys my age, like I'm 47 now, but as I look around at other guys my age, most of them don't even look anything close to me, right?

00:35:19.000 Like I can date women as young as her early 20s all the way up to 50 if I want. 1.00

00:35:25.000 I mean older even if I want, but I don't even mess with anything that old to be honest with you.

00:35:29.000 But yeah, like you want to look the part. 0.95

00:35:33.000 What's the point in having money, having a great social circle, having fun stuff to do if you're living in an unhealthy, inflamed, sick body, you're overweight, your knees hurt, you can't fucking walk, you know, you get out of the shower and you look down. 0.99

00:35:47.000 Yeah, you get out of the shower, you look down, you can't see your dick because you got a big fat belly covering it up. 0.98

00:35:51.000 Like, there's so many guys out there that could improve their lifestyle just by taking some ownership and really doubling down and doing some work on themselves. 0.99

00:36:00.000 And I get hate for that all the time.

00:36:02.000 Oh, Rich, why do you tell guys to do that?

00:36:04.000 Like, the juice isn't worth the squeeze, it's not worth it, blah, blah.

00:36:06.000 Okay, fine.

00:36:07.000 Go sit in your corner and cry about it.

00:36:08.000 I don't care.

00:36:09.000 Do whatever you want.

00:36:10.000 More for you.

00:36:11.000 Yeah.

00:36:12.000 More for people like you.

00:36:12.000 Yeah, exactly.

00:36:13.000 I mean, I always say anyone can do it, but not everyone can do it.

00:36:17.000 In terms of, you know, because if everyone did it, it wouldn't be special.

00:36:20.000 So, I mean, if everyone stayed in shape and got rich and drove supercars around and, you know, read books and became smart, I mean, it would suck.

00:36:27.000 It would mean nothing.

00:36:28.000 So, yeah.

00:36:29.000 Well, that's the thing, though. 0.99

00:36:30.000 You know, that I find funny is there's so many guys complaining about stuff online on an ongoing basis, and they just sound like these whingy, whiny little bitches, and they don't understand how unattractive that is to the world, to women. 1.00

00:36:44.000 Like, women want to be with high-value guys. 1.00

00:36:48.000 Men want to be high-value guys.

00:36:49.000 It's innate.

00:36:50.000 It's in our DNA.

00:36:51.000 Stop fighting it.

00:36:52.000 Stop lying to yourself, right? 0.95

00:36:53.000 Or just shut up and sit in the corner and cry about it with, you know, the rest of the people that want to cry about it. 0.94

00:36:58.000 And when these crybabies call people like you lucky, I've used this example on myself, but I'm going to translate it to you. 0.98

00:37:06.000 In an alternate universe somewhere, sitting in Canada, there was a 46-year-old man named Rich Cooper, who is 6'2", he still has his height, but he's fat, and he's old, he's had two heart bypasses already, and he never gave a shit about his appearance, and he never went to the gym, and he never made money, and he's broke. 0.94

00:37:21.000 So people say, oh, well, you're lucky. 0.88

00:37:23.000 There's no luck involved because a lot of work comes into it.

00:37:26.000 I mean, yes, I'm tall, but the years of being a professional athlete, all the hard work that went into business, these crybabies don't understand that it's not just luck.

00:37:35.000 You're not just a high-value dude or you're not.

00:37:39.000 You have to look smacks, right?

00:37:41.000 There's some areas of my, again, I'm bald.

00:37:43.000 I've got third-degree burns all over my chest.

00:37:46.000 I don't know if you can see here on my chest, right? 0.97

00:37:50.000 Okay, so I've got burns on my chest, I've got burns on my arms, I have to wear glasses to read shit, right? 0.91

00:37:56.000 Like I don't have great vision, right? 0.92

00:37:57.000 So I'm not perfect, right?

00:37:59.000 But you have to max out in the areas that you can control, right?

00:38:03.000 And see, Women have patience for a 22-year-old guy that's an alpha chad with a plan, but they don't have patience for a guy that's 46 years old with a plan. 0.86

00:38:15.000 They don't care, right? 1.00

00:38:16.000 Women hang out at the finish line and they fuck the winners. 1.00

00:38:19.000 That's how they operate. 1.00

00:38:20.000 Yeah, you're right.

00:38:21.000 No, you're right.

00:38:21.000 And I found that as my values increased more and more and more, I have found that.

00:38:25.000 But what I do is I just fuck the girls waiting at the finish line and I leave them back there for somebody else to marry. 1.00

00:38:31.000 So be the winner at the finish line. 1.00

00:38:32.000 That's really as simple as that, right?

00:38:34.000 Exactly.

00:38:34.000 But yeah, guys like to complain.

00:38:36.000 Guys don't really, you know, they don't take ownership.

00:38:39.000 I think they don't take responsibility.

00:38:40.000 So you're talking, you're talking about, okay, you're, I mean, I'm losing my hair.

00:38:44.000 I got, my teeth aren't straight.

00:38:45.000 My nose has been broken a few times, but as you know, Women don't find men attractive for the same reason men find women attractive. 0.99

00:38:52.000 I mean, I wouldn't date a woman who was losing her hair with crooked teeth and a broken nose. 1.00

00:38:55.000 I wouldn't, but plenty of women date me. 1.00

00:38:58.000 It's not about looks so much for men.

00:39:00.000 It's about being a man, being manly. 1.00

00:39:02.000 Certainly being in shape is very, very important, but you can be ugly as fucking in shape. 0.99

00:39:06.000 I know guys who look like monsters with beautiful wives. 0.99

00:39:08.000 You know, their faces have been smashed up in the MMA cage and, you know, they're dating nine out of ten fucking models here in Romania, certainly. 0.99

00:39:15.000 Yeah, looks, money, status, right? 0.98

00:39:18.000 Like, those are the main things.

00:39:19.000 Game, of course, you know, game can be an equalizer if you know how to game women. 1.00

00:39:22.000 Yeah, yeah, and good for them.

00:39:24.000 Now, you've... I don't know exactly what ages you were married in between. 0.72

00:39:29.000 I don't think it matters that much.

00:39:30.000 I'm going to ask you, because I have quite a young audience, especially a lot of the people from Eastern Europe watching me.

00:39:36.000 They'll be 16 to 18.

00:39:39.000 How have you found, and the latter part of your answer is going to help me as well, how have you found, let's call it the sexual marketplace or the dating marketplace or just dating or meeting women as a man, different throughout the decades?

00:39:55.000 As you get older, you should, in effect, become better with game and with women.

00:40:07.000 If you're paying attention to stuff, you should be learning from your lessons. 0.99

00:40:10.000 Don't lose when shit goes sideways. 0.99

00:40:11.000 Learn from the experience. 0.99

00:40:12.000 There's a silver lining in it.

00:40:14.000 Pick yourself back up. 1.00

00:40:15.000 Don't cry like a bitch. 1.00

00:40:16.000 Dust off your shoulders and get back to work. 1.00

00:40:19.000 So, as you get older, your value as a man should increase.

00:40:25.000 With that being said, if it is increasing, then you should have better experiences with women.

00:40:30.000 Like, I have better experiences now than what I did in my 20s, okay?

00:40:35.000 You're never going to get away from, you know, you're going to have the best sex of your life in your 20s because everything's working like all the cylinders are firing 100%.

00:40:42.000 Like when you get older, you start getting on testosterone replacement therapy. 0.98

00:40:45.000 You never thought about things like Cialis when you're fucking 20, right? 0.91

00:40:48.000 But these are all things that you introduce in your life and your protocol. 0.99

00:40:51.000 you know, because you want to live as an optimized guy and have a good experience with women. 0.55

00:40:55.000 But as you get older, you will have to do more work. Like your body does break down, right? One of the things that I always tell guys over and over again, that they probably don't listen to that I probably wouldn't have listened to when I was 20 or 16 or whatever, but time flies, Like, I can think back to times when I was 21, 22, 23, wasting time doing some of the dumbest shit in my life that I probably could have used for better outcomes.

00:41:19.000 But I never thought about it because at 22 years old, you're way closer to your birth date than you are the grave.

00:41:25.000 At 47, I'm probably closer to the grave than I am my birth date now, right?

00:41:30.000 A man of my size, I'm there already.

00:41:32.000 I mean, 32.

00:41:32.000 I should live more than 65, 66.

00:41:34.000 Yeah, most big guys don't live too long.

00:41:36.000 There's not a lot of, you know, big, you know, six foot whatever guys that are 90 years old.

00:41:41.000 They don't live that long.

00:41:42.000 No, it's true.

00:41:43.000 So, I'm probably about the halfway point if I'm lucky.

00:41:46.000 But, you know, it is what it is.

00:41:47.000 Better to live 100 years as a lion than 100 years as a sheep.

00:41:53.000 Cheap, yeah.

00:41:54.000 That old thing.

00:41:54.000 So, you know, I'll take that.

00:41:55.000 I'm perfectly fine being a six foot four, 110 kilogram man.

00:41:58.000 That's fine by me.

00:42:00.000 So, you have said before, and I'm going to get on to a few things that we don't agree on in a moment.

00:42:09.000 Let's do it.

00:42:09.000 Which is going to be a lot of fun.

00:42:10.000 But you said before, and this one I'm 50-50 about, but I'd like you to explain your point of view when you say there's no such thing as that women are either good or women are either bad.

00:42:18.000 There's no such thing as a perfect woman. 1.00

00:42:21.000 Yeah, I don't think there's a perfect woman. 1.00

00:42:22.000 I think that women are just women. 1.00

00:42:25.000 Yes, but I'm going to throw something out there to you.

00:42:29.000 It's kind of the opposite of something that I like to teach.

00:42:32.000 I believe if you meet a woman young enough with low enough body count, plenty of naivety, plenty of respect, still a healthy respect for men, so probably a good relationship with her father, I believe you could convert women. 0.88

00:42:45.000 Um, to your perfect woman. 0.96

00:42:47.000 There's no woman that's perfect for every single man, but I know guys.

00:42:50.000 Um, and I'm not going to say their names, but you probably know exactly who I'm thinking of guys.

00:42:53.000 I know very, very well who have women who they met when they were 16 and they are essentially for all intents and purposes.

00:43:00.000 Perfect for that man.

00:43:02.000 Would you, would you not agree?

00:43:03.000 Yeah.

00:43:05.000 Like, I mean, guys use the term training women and, um, people hate the term, but it's true. 1.00

00:43:10.000 Yeah, whatever.

00:43:11.000 I mean, I suppose you can train them by enforcing boundaries, but when I say that, you know, women are just women, it's because guys are always like, well, I'm looking for a high value woman. 0.86

00:43:22.000 Like, how do I find a good girl?

00:43:23.000 Blah, blah, blah.

00:43:24.000 And it's like, you know, the thing that you have to understand, like I mentioned earlier, not all women can destroy a man in family court, but all women Could, right?

00:43:34.000 So not to say that they're going to do it, but they could.

00:43:36.000 So when I say that, you know, women are just women, I think that if you understand female nature, that's what matters more than, you know, let's try to decipher the good ones from the bad ones. 0.95

00:43:45.000 I mean, you definitely want to keep the bad ones out of your life.

00:43:48.000 You don't want to invite them to your inner circle.

00:43:50.000 You don't want to have Anything on a long-term basis with them.

00:43:53.000 So you should be repelling those out of your life.

00:43:55.000 So yeah, you definitely want to make decisive choices when it comes to these women that you invite inside. 0.52

00:44:01.000 But generally speaking, all women are pretty much the same when it comes to their operating system. 1.00

00:44:06.000 They use pretty much the same firmware.

00:44:08.000 Can you enforce boundaries?

00:44:10.000 Can you do some work with that?

00:44:11.000 For sure.

00:44:12.000 Yeah, of course.

00:44:13.000 Okay.

00:44:14.000 Fair enough.

00:44:15.000 So I think that we're in disagreement.

00:44:16.000 It's just I'm looking at it as an older guy because I'm 47.

00:44:19.000 Yeah.

00:44:21.000 And we'll see.

00:44:21.000 And the problem is with women is, and I'll say it right here, right now, and God knows which women I know that are watching this.

00:44:27.000 So I'm probably going to get my phone blowing up with a bunch of insults after this.

00:44:30.000 But also, you know, you can get the perfect woman.

00:44:33.000 But you know, time is the fire in which we all burn and women expire before men do. 0.84

00:44:38.000 I mean, you can be 24, you can have a 16 year old wife, it's all going perfectly fine. 0.95

00:44:42.000 You love her and it's great.

00:44:43.000 And then suddenly you're 50 and you're still still got the hots for women in their early 20s.

00:44:47.000 And yeah, she just doesn't cut it anymore. 0.93

00:44:50.000 Which is, you know, which is, which is why I think women need to stick to their gender role, have some kids, have your babies in their value is in, in being a mother and gender roles is something that you talk a lot about. 1.00

00:45:00.000 Now, it's also something that I judge women on who's a good one, who's a bad one. 1.00

00:45:06.000 I think a very early women is how to stand gender roles. 0.98

00:45:10.000 Do you want to go into this a bit?

00:45:11.000 Cause it's something that you talk a lot about.

00:45:13.000 Yeah, I mean, like, you'll see these women that think that they're high value and they deserve a high value guy because they're a third year law student. 1.00

00:45:22.000 Yeah.

00:45:23.000 So, like, even if you get a degree, frame it in mahogany and put it on your wall.

00:45:28.000 Like, I married a lawyer.

00:45:29.000 Like, I know what it's like to be with a lawyer.

00:45:31.000 I don't care, right?

00:45:32.000 Like, women don't share their pot of gold with men. 1.00

00:45:35.000 And in fact, any woman that gets into a profession where It's designed to create acrimony where they're designed to, you know, fight with the other side on a consistent basis. 1.00

00:45:45.000 Guess what?

00:45:46.000 That's going to invite itself into your relationship, right?

00:45:49.000 Now, why would you want to get involved or mess with a chick like that when you can find a woman that's more compliant, that's more feminine, that will defer to the masculine and look at you as her best option, not, I don't need no man to control me or any of that. 1.00

00:46:03.000 Like, fine.

00:46:04.000 Enjoy your cats.

00:46:05.000 I don't care.

00:46:07.000 And that's one thing I will say about Eastern Europe.

00:46:09.000 I've met women here, 18, 19 years of age.

00:46:12.000 I say, oh, what do you want to do?

00:46:13.000 What do you want to be?

00:46:13.000 They say, oh, I'd like to find a good man and get married and have a family.

00:46:17.000 And they have a body count of zero or one.

00:46:19.000 Like these women who exist out here. 1.00

00:46:21.000 I think in the West, it's a lot harder.

00:46:22.000 I'd say probably, my guess would be Canada's probably better than the United States.

00:46:26.000 The United States is...

00:46:28.000 Bro, you could date a hundred women, like you could go out with a hundred women here, and one might be worth a second or third date.

00:46:35.000 Jesus, is it that bad?

00:46:37.000 It's brutal here.

00:46:38.000 Oh man.

00:46:38.000 It's brutal.

00:46:40.000 Yeah.

00:46:40.000 So here's another question.

00:46:42.000 This is something we may disagree on, because I largely disagree with you in every aspect of this, but I'm going to hit you with some exceptions that you probably haven't heard.

00:46:53.000 So, single mothers. 1.00

00:46:56.000 Fuck him, don't fuck him, date him, don't date him. 1.00

00:46:59.000 Hit me, Richard. 1.00

00:47:00.000 What do you have?

00:47:01.000 You played him, you don't date him.

00:47:03.000 You played him, you don't date him.

00:47:04.000 I mean, the extent of your involvement with single mothers, and as you get older, guys, you're going to run into more women that have children in tow from past Relationships.

00:47:15.000 I cover single mothers an entire chapter in my book.

00:47:17.000 Okay.

00:47:18.000 There's really a lot to get in with this one, but at the end of the day, the juice really isn't worth the squeeze because the amount of extra liability that you take on dating a single mother, it's just not worth it. 0.79

00:47:28.000 I mean, you're far better off finding a woman that doesn't have children because your life is that much simpler. 1.00

00:47:33.000 Yeah, you know what?

00:47:34.000 You've already hit the nail on the head.

00:47:35.000 When you said play him and don't date him, I didn't think you were going to throw that one out there because I had an example for you I was going to hit you with.

00:47:43.000 I've dated lots of single mothers. 1.00

00:47:45.000 I know that you have as well.

00:47:46.000 I mean, there was one famous one that was a total smoke show, right?

00:47:51.000 Yeah, mine was very attractive as well that I got into my LTR with.

00:47:54.000 I mean, she looked like Jennifer Aniston. 1.00

00:47:56.000 I'd go on vacation, people would be like, oh wow, you know, all this sort of, but the thing that you got to remember is all of that stuff goes away when you start dealing with the drama that comes along with her bringing some other dude's child in tow from a past relationship into your life.

00:48:11.000 I never saw that woman's kid. 1.00

00:48:12.000 And I'm sure the people are going to start, the Romanians watching, are going to start typing her name out in the comments.

00:48:16.000 So I'm not going to say her name.

00:48:17.000 But yeah, she's a millionaire. 0.99

00:48:19.000 She's super famous. 0.99

00:48:20.000 Super famous television presenter.

00:48:21.000 Looks like a smoking hot model. 0.98

00:48:23.000 Now, the guys, you're not one of them, but there are guys out there who curse all single mothers and say, don't go near him.

00:48:29.000 Don't touch him. 0.96

00:48:30.000 And I always say, like with a picture of this woman, you're telling me that this loser wouldn't touch this girl. 0.98

00:48:36.000 Like, come on. 0.98

00:48:37.000 I mean, play him, don't date him.

00:48:39.000 Play him, don't date him.

00:48:40.000 Yeah, I'll break down the exception for you because I put it in my chapter.

00:48:45.000 In the chapter on single moms, I break down every reason why you want to stay away from them. 1.00

00:48:49.000 Trust me, there's far more why you want to stay away from them than you'd want to invoke in your life.

00:48:54.000 The one exception that I would consider it if it existed would be, well, I've got a kid.

00:48:59.000 If she had a kid the same age, same gender as mine, and she had all of her shit together, didn't bring any other baggage to the table, had no other red flags, then and only then I might consider it.

00:49:09.000 But for that to happen, it's like, you know, finding a pot of gold at the end of the rainbow. 0.93

00:49:14.000 You don't go looking for it.

00:49:14.000 You don't go, well, if I have the choice between this kid that, you know, this chick that doesn't have kids and the one that's got these three kids from two different guys, who are you going to date?

00:49:22.000 I'm going to make time for this one.

00:49:23.000 And that's what most guys should be doing.

00:49:24.000 Absolutely, and it's exactly what I do.

00:49:27.000 You read my blog, which is coming out at the end of this year.

00:49:31.000 I might turn it into a book, we'll see, but you see that I play on different levels.

00:49:35.000 The amount of time I will invest in a woman like that is simply for the, you know, go to a restaurant, have your sex, have your fun, drink some champagne. 1.00

00:49:45.000 I'd never meet anyone's kids, spend time with anyone's kids, pick up another man's kid.

00:49:50.000 You are very, very right on single mothers, but I thought you were going to say, Stay away under all circumstances. 1.00

00:49:55.000 In which case, I was going to hit you with that one exception.

00:49:57.000 So, you know.

00:49:58.000 No, I get, I get lost.

00:50:01.000 Bro, I get lots of guys.

00:50:01.000 Yeah, yeah.

00:50:02.000 I mean, like, I get lots of guys that are, like, sending me field reports and conversations with, you know, single mothers and it's like, look, if you're dating them, like, if you just want to, like, have a friends with benefit type of relationship, okay, fine. 0.61

00:50:12.000 But when you start complaining to me about the shit that's going down because of her kids behaving badly and the baby daddy drama, it's like, okay, why did you invite this into your life?

00:50:22.000 Like, why did you take it to that level? 0.99

00:50:23.000 Right?

00:50:23.000 Like, blame yourself for this.

00:50:25.000 Exactly.

00:50:26.000 And to be fair, single mothers where I live aren't really that common.

00:50:30.000 In the United States, I mean, I don't really- They're pretty common here. 0.99

00:50:33.000 Yeah, I don't date in North America very much, but I swipe on Tinder if I travel, you know, and you just see, I've got three kids, I've got two kids, I've got eight kids, I've got- I'm just like, the fuck? 0.98

00:50:42.000 Why would I meet you? 0.96

00:50:43.000 Some of them are even pregnant when they're on the dating apps. 0.98

00:50:46.000 I know you post these. 0.95

00:50:47.000 Your posts are absolutely atrocious.

00:50:48.000 Those are my favorite ones.

00:50:49.000 To be fair here, it's a more traditional society.

00:50:54.000 I've never seen anything like that.

00:50:56.000 I think even if a woman was left in a situation where she was pregnant without a man, she's not downloading Tinder.

00:51:01.000 No, no, no.

00:51:02.000 Not over here.

00:51:02.000 Not in the most Orthodox church.

00:51:04.000 I know, but here, they've got no shame, man.

00:51:06.000 Yeah, I know. 0.99

00:51:06.000 It's ridiculous. 0.99

00:51:07.000 One of the girls I dated here, I famously said she was a 26-year-old virgin. 1.00

00:51:11.000 And she was nine!

00:51:12.000 And people say, oh, no, I don't believe it.

00:51:13.000 There's no such thing as a 26-year-old virgin. 0.99

00:51:14.000 I'm like, okay, you think I, Tristan Tate, don't know a virgin when he fucks one? 0.99

00:51:19.000 Like, seriously. 1.00

00:51:20.000 Fucking give me a break. 0.99

00:51:21.000 But yeah, in North America, I mean, that's a unicorn. 0.99

00:51:24.000 I think that's basically mythical, isn't it?

00:51:27.000 In England, it certainly is.

00:51:28.000 That's where I lived for a long time.

00:51:31.000 I remember I was in England for three months in my early 20s, and there was a lot of single moms pushing around kids in prams. 0.99

00:51:38.000 It's only got worse.

00:51:39.000 It's only got worse.

00:51:40.000 I love to talk about them on my Twitter and talk about how they mismanage their families.

00:51:46.000 I attract all sorts of smoke and all sorts of hate for that, but largely I'm right.

00:51:51.000 Like with you, when the haters are coming at you, but you're basically right all the time.

00:51:55.000 Well, people don't get mad if it's a lie, right?

00:51:58.000 They're just like, ah, whatever.

00:51:59.000 You know, they only get mad and they only get offended if it's true.

00:52:02.000 Like a bomber only gets flak from the target, right?

00:52:05.000 Yeah.

00:52:05.000 Or if there's an element of truth to it, that's when people get most offended.

00:52:08.000 Someone, you know, I mean, it was, it was Troy Francis saying the other day, people keep calling him a homosexual.

00:52:12.000 He's like, I don't care if you call me a homosexual because I'm not.

00:52:14.000 And this one came out of him for like being into BDSM.

00:52:17.000 He was like, I wrote a book about being into BDSM. 1.00

00:52:20.000 What the fuck are you talking about? 0.99

00:52:22.000 Like, oh no, you caught me. 1.00

00:52:23.000 Yeah, I know, yeah.

00:52:24.000 What next?

00:52:25.000 The Tate Brothers or webcam pimps?

00:52:26.000 Like, what's the next big story?

00:52:28.000 Which brings me to a point where we will have some slight disagreement on, and I'm super interested to hear this.

00:52:37.000 All right.

00:52:37.000 OnlyFans.

00:52:39.000 OnlyFans is the big one right now on Twitter.

00:52:41.000 Everybody's talking about OnlyFans, especially now in the pandemic with every single girl trying to get a part of this hustle.

00:52:47.000 And yeah, I get it. 1.00

00:52:49.000 It's filled with cheap, trashy, dirty women you wouldn't want to touch. 1.00

00:52:53.000 I mean, that's the nature of a business like this. 0.99

00:52:55.000 But what do you think about, could you date a girl who does OnlyFans?

00:52:59.000 Would you recommend it to younger guys?

00:53:02.000 Well, you guys are unique, right?

00:53:03.000 Like, you operate in God mode, so you have to understand that, you know, when I say things about certain areas like OnlyFans, generally speaking, most guys, if they're messing with women on OnlyFans, it's because they're simping and they're throwing the money, or two, they're a guy dating a chick on OnlyFans, she's getting all the money and using it, and he's taking the pictures for her, getting no value out of it.

00:53:24.000 You guys flip the script, though.

00:53:25.000 You're like, all right, well, we've run webcam businesses, so let's show these girls how to be an OnlyFan. 1.00

00:53:30.000 Yeah.

00:53:30.000 check and if they're giving you money, fine, whatever. I mean, I wouldn't want like the mother of my kids to be on OnlyFans or anything like that, but I understand the model that you use so I can't really fault it. So we're not in disagreement from that perspective. It's just the way that most guys look at OnlyFans right now in the West. It's like they're just throwing money at these garden tools all day long thinking that they're going to win over their affection, and their attention, their love.

00:54:00.000 And then on the flip side of the coin, there's some bonehead that's taking all the pictures while she's raking in all the money, getting all the attention from these guys, and he has nothing to show for it but a bunch of pictures of her on his phone that he's taken.

00:54:12.000 You're right, you're right. 0.99

00:54:13.000 But the character of the type of woman, I really do believe that a lot of the flack that OnlyFans girls take is because in the West, The trashiest women. 0.95

00:54:23.000 In the West, women can get careers. 0.95

00:54:25.000 In the West, a woman can make $50,000 per year working at whatever job after getting her law degree, etc. 1.00

00:54:30.000 But there's women that make $50,000 a month leaving their husband. 1.00

00:54:35.000 There was this one example that I came across last year.

00:54:38.000 I'm sure you know the one.

00:54:39.000 She was a pastor and she was married.

00:54:42.000 She had two or three kids or something like that.

00:54:43.000 She left her husband at 37.

00:54:46.000 You're going to be an OnlyFans model, right? 0.98

00:54:49.000 Like, give me a freaking break, lady. 1.00

00:54:50.000 Grow up, man. 0.98

00:54:51.000 But hey, listen, you know, she's making $50,000 a month.

00:54:55.000 The good side of it all is she's probably paying him money now because family law is written in such a way that it basically piles both the incomes in a pot and splits them down the middle.

00:55:04.000 There's no way he's making $50,000 a month, so at least he's getting that out of it.

00:55:08.000 Exactly.

00:55:08.000 Let's hope so.

00:55:09.000 Let's hope so.

00:55:10.000 But I'll take this.

00:55:12.000 A quick second to say that there are girls, especially in Eastern Europe, who treat OnlyFans webcamming like a career. 1.00

00:55:18.000 They'll have a body count of one.

00:55:19.000 They'll have husbands. 1.00

00:55:20.000 They'll be married.

00:55:21.000 But there's no other way for them to bring in $150,000 a year.

00:55:23.000 And they treat it very professionally.

00:55:26.000 It's essentially like being an actress.

00:55:28.000 But when you meet them in real life, they aren't hoes. 1.00

00:55:30.000 And I'll say that there are girls on OnlyFans that aren't hoes. 1.00

00:55:34.000 Shoot me if you like, but I know this business better than anyone.

00:55:38.000 I don't have any personal experience, so I have nothing to say about that. 0.98

00:55:41.000 I mean, I know a virgin who webcams. Literally, I mean, she's not a virgin because I'm the only guy who's banged her, but she was doing webcam for a year as a virgin. So it's hard to call a virgin a ho. 0.61

00:55:49.000 Yeah, like the flip side of that too, and I kind of got into this with your brother, I don't know, last year sometime, but we were talking about female employees and he turned it into, well, webcam models, you know, basically aren't that bad of a thing.

00:56:05.000 And I'm like, bro, I'm not working with any women employees on a go-forward basis. 1.00

00:56:08.000 I'm a company of one.

00:56:09.000 I don't care.

00:56:11.000 I'm not employing women to do anything for me. 1.00

00:56:13.000 Yeah, no, I understand.

00:56:15.000 And especially in the West, man.

00:56:16.000 I know, in fact, I'm not gonna say her name, but she's a relative of mine who's a big lawyer in Chicago.

00:56:22.000 And she was talking brazenly on her Facebook about a man who kissed a woman.

00:56:28.000 At a bar, but the woman worked for him. 1.00

00:56:31.000 So now the woman's suing him because he had some sort of power or duress over her and she's going to take him for everything he's got. 0.99

00:56:36.000 I'm like, you can't kiss your employees.

00:56:38.000 I mean, I used to have, I used to have 75 webcam models working for me. 1.00

00:56:42.000 I used to fuck half my employees. 1.00

00:56:43.000 Andrew would fuck the other half. 1.00

00:56:46.000 Eastern Europe, man. 1.00

00:56:46.000 I couldn't run that business in the United States. 1.00

00:56:49.000 You could run it, but I couldn't run it the way I run it.

00:56:51.000 It would have had to be- Hey, listen, if you guys can pull it off, I, you know, I tip my hat to you.

00:56:56.000 Awesome.

00:56:57.000 All right, fair enough.

00:56:59.000 You know what, Richard?

00:57:00.000 We don't actually disagree on basically anything, do we?

00:57:02.000 I was hoping to get into something, you know, more of a... Well, what about tattooed women? 1.00

00:57:08.000 Ah, tattooed women. 1.00

00:57:09.000 Now, this is a good one.

00:57:10.000 Okay.

00:57:11.000 Now, I have a very unique view on tattooed women because it all depends on the context in which they get their tattoos. 1.00

00:57:19.000 So, I will say that I know girls who have a body count of one. 1.00

00:57:23.000 Let's call their ex-boyfriend Christian.

00:57:27.000 Now, they have tattoos saying, I love Christian, back of their neck, on their leg, on their hips, etc.

00:57:32.000 And they're still with Christian.

00:57:33.000 So they're tattooed women with a body count of one who are madly in love. 1.00

00:57:36.000 I don't know this Christian character.

00:57:38.000 I think his last name is Kate.

00:57:40.000 But uh, yeah, he's quite a savage cat.

00:57:42.000 Now, these women have tattoos. 1.00

00:57:43.000 Now, are they damaged goods to anyone who gets them after Christian? 1.00

00:57:49.000 Well, they're basically alpha-widowed. 0.98

00:57:52.000 Any woman that tattoos the name of a man on her body saw that man as her best possible option because tattoos last a long time. 1.00

00:58:00.000 So yeah, she's probably going to be alpha-widowed. 0.94

00:58:04.000 Yeah, but you know what?

00:58:05.000 I believe, and we will disagree on this, I don't know what the United... Different countries have different cultures, man.

00:58:11.000 I've met women who love the tattooed look, they love the aesthetics of it, just like a lot of men do, and they have been very good girls.

00:58:21.000 And maybe, you know, I live in a traditional Christian country where a girl could think, I'm gonna have a tattoo, and I'm gonna have a tattoo here, and they get the rosary beads sometimes tattooed on their wrist.

00:58:30.000 I know in America that's a red flag, and that just means, oh, But I've met some girls. 1.00

00:58:34.000 Now, tattooed women are sluttier than non-tattooed women. 1.00

00:58:37.000 I'm not gonna die on that hill. 0.99

00:58:39.000 They are.

00:58:40.000 But I've met some girls who are very, very good church-going girls who have a lot of tattoos, man.

00:58:45.000 I just have.

00:58:45.000 But maybe that's for me.

00:58:47.000 I just don't have that experience.

00:58:48.000 My experience with tattooed women has always been they've got a lot of red flags and they really have more problems than a Chinese math test going on in their life and I don't want to deal with it. 1.00

00:58:58.000 Yeah, fair enough.

00:58:59.000 And you know what?

00:59:00.000 That may just be the difference.

00:59:01.000 I'm sure that some exist that aren't mentally insane, but generally speaking, the more tats they have and the greater the frequency of them, the more likelihood there is going to be that she's got some red flags going on in her life.

00:59:12.000 I do agree with that.

00:59:13.000 I do agree with that.

00:59:14.000 I'm saying that, but I think there are more exceptions to the tattoo rule in the country that I live in.

00:59:19.000 That's, I guess, the only thing I can put it down to.

00:59:22.000 Because keep in mind, I dated English women From age 16 to about 24, and after that... I'm sorry to hear that.

00:59:30.000 Yeah, I know.

00:59:31.000 Horrible, right?

00:59:32.000 No, but you know what?

00:59:33.000 To be fair, even when I was 18, 19 to 24, a lot of the girls I was dating were from Poland, Slovakia.

00:59:39.000 I speak Polish, I speak Slovak, I learned the languages working at the McDonald's restaurant I used to work at.

00:59:43.000 So I used to pick them up in my hometown.

00:59:45.000 So I was into Eastern European women, really, as far as my late teens.

00:59:49.000 Yeah, I mean, Jesus, I mean, the Eastern European and Russian women are the most beautiful women in the world, hands down, in my opinion. 0.99

00:59:57.000 But yeah, I lived in Slovakia for a year and a half.

01:00:00.000 Now I've lived in Romania for five years.

01:00:01.000 I think it's just a different culture and a different experience.

01:00:04.000 I think I've met girls here who have got tattoos and thought, I want to get a tattoo. 1.00

01:00:08.000 I think this will look nice on me.

01:00:09.000 And they still have only had one serious boyfriend in their life.

01:00:13.000 Their dad didn't beat them up or touch him inappropriately.

01:00:15.000 And there's no red flags or trauma.

01:00:17.000 I have seen that.

01:00:18.000 Now, apparently in the United States, it's a very different game.

01:00:21.000 I haven't slept with all that many American women. 1.00

01:00:24.000 You know, I Tinder around when I'm in LA and California and New York, and the women I meet are always... I mean, they're hot, but... 1.00

01:00:33.000 Garbage. 0.99

01:00:33.000 I mean, I think that's just the nature of America, I think. 0.99

01:00:36.000 But I'm telling you, come out and see me, Rich, one time.

01:00:40.000 I'll introduce you to two or three women who have tattoos, and you can judge them for yourself. 1.00

01:00:45.000 I think that's fair.

01:00:46.000 If you're ever in Eastern Europe, you're invited any single time.

01:00:50.000 Now, I've heard, and I'm just going to bring this up in a moment because we're coming up, we're over an hour now, we're going to talk about your books momentarily, but I heard that a character by the name of James Altucher opened your eyes to a lot of things.

01:01:06.000 Now, I'm a James Altucher fan, and I don't know if you know this, But after my father passed away, I didn't know who James Altucher was.

01:01:14.000 But he famously played a chess game against my father at a tournament.

01:01:17.000 And he wrote this big write-up about this character that he respected so much for his indomitable spirit.

01:01:23.000 And my dad was obviously very famous in the chess world.

01:01:25.000 So I became a James Altucher fan after that.

01:01:27.000 So when I heard you were into him, I'd like to know who is James Altucher first for the 635 people watching this podcast.

01:01:35.000 And what did you learn from him?

01:01:37.000 Because I have a lot of respect for that guy.

01:01:41.000 He's a very quirky, nerdy, Jew-y looking guy from New York. 1.00

01:01:46.000 I met him at a conference a few years ago in Napa Valley.

01:01:50.000 He was married to an Argentinian girl at the time, I think.

01:01:54.000 I think he's divorced from her now, so that was his second wife. 0.72

01:01:58.000 He's quite clever with his words.

01:02:00.000 I mean, Choose Yourself was a good book.

01:02:02.000 I recommend you guys take a look at it if it's something you haven't come across.

01:02:06.000 I don't spend that much time reading any of his other material, but I like some of the concepts that he put together in some of the blogs. 0.68

01:02:13.000 I mean, one of the things that I tripped across one time was he was talking about dealing with haters, and haters are like pigs, you know?

01:02:21.000 They want you to get down in the mud and roll around with them, and that's what makes them happy. 0.99

01:02:26.000 Don't waste your time engaging with these pigs, basically, is what he said. 0.97

01:02:29.000 So, I think he's clever with the way that he writes. 0.90

01:02:31.000 He's definitely smart when it comes to his writing.

01:02:33.000 He's got an interesting podcast.

01:02:35.000 I wouldn't lean on him for advice on women. 0.99

01:02:37.000 I mean, the guy's been married practically three times now, and he hasn't got much of a style about him or exude much in the way of masculinity, but I don't think he would argue those points if I sat beside him and said that.

01:02:49.000 No, he wouldn't.

01:02:51.000 So, I mean, we've covered basically everything I want to cover.

01:02:54.000 Everybody from Romania, Eastern Europe, etc.

01:02:57.000 I'm going to do a bit of a question and answer session for the next, no, for about 10 minutes.

01:03:04.000 If I read any good questions coming up now, I am now looking at the feed.

01:03:09.000 If it's a good question, I'm going to answer it.

01:03:11.000 If it's for me or I'll pass it over to Rich, if it's for Rich.

01:03:14.000 But for the next five minutes, I want to ask Rich about his books because I didn't know about your books until a couple hours before this podcast when I was doing some reading up.

01:03:23.000 So, I mean, you've written a number of titles.

01:03:26.000 Tell me about them.

01:03:27.000 Tell me what they are.

01:03:29.000 So the Unplugged Alpha is my most recent one, really the only one that I would call like the main piece of work because the other stuff I wrote before when I was in the debt business and I was basically putting together DIY guides on how to settle your own debt.

01:03:41.000 So this over here again, it's called the Unplugged Alpha, the No Bullshit Guide to Winning with Women in Life.

01:03:47.000 It's on Amazon as a Kindle or a print copy.

01:03:51.000 If you're in a country where you can't get it because Amazon is unavailable, go to bookdepository.com and they will ship it to you.

01:03:58.000 It's basically everything that I've learned throughout my entire life so that you can get better results with women in life and not make stupid mistakes like I did, like get involved with a single mom and her kids or think that women are sugar and spice and all things nice or that marriage is a good idea.

01:04:13.000 And I break down in a logical assessed way why you want to pay attention to these things so that you can get better results.

01:04:20.000 Basically, I look at life like this.

01:04:22.000 If you plot out a map and there's minefields everywhere, you know, single mommy over here, a chick with daddy issues, she's got 7,000 tattoos and a notch count of 7,000. 1.00

01:04:31.000 You know, you just mark those out on the map and you tend to avoid them.

01:04:35.000 So you navigate around them.

01:04:36.000 That's really what the book does for guys.

01:04:39.000 Okay, absolutely.

01:04:39.000 Now, guys, check out the book.

01:04:41.000 He just told you where it was available.

01:04:43.000 Rewind this video if you don't know.

01:04:45.000 The questions you guys are asking are all awful.

01:04:49.000 I mean, no offense.

01:04:50.000 How do you start a webcam business?

01:04:51.000 I tweet about this all day long.

01:04:53.000 Check out CobraTech.com.

01:04:55.000 Yeah, and a lot of a lot of very personal questions to reach, you know, how do you raise your kids, blah, blah, blah.

01:05:02.000 This is this is one of the questions I will throw to you.

01:05:04.000 I will throw to you, Rich, because you made a lot of your money when you were younger.

01:05:07.000 How I mean, you mentioned you're an entrepreneur, and you ran several businesses, some did well, some didn't.

01:05:12.000 But how did you make your money?

01:05:13.000 You're obviously a well to do guy.

01:05:16.000 Most of it came from the credit card debt relief company.

01:05:19.000 It still runs today.

01:05:20.000 It's been around for almost 20 years.

01:05:22.000 My brother runs a business actually, so I basically moved out of it with the exception to some basic roles that a chairman would do to consult on.

01:05:31.000 Yeah, but I ran that business for a long time.

01:05:32.000 It was really profitable in the first 7 to 12 years, so it threw off a lot of money.

01:05:39.000 I made some good investments with that.

01:05:40.000 I I've just, I've just been clever with the money that I've made.

01:05:45.000 One of the things that James Altucher talks about, you know, to kind of reference that is you have ideas and you have money and you kind of have to have these things get together and have idea sex and have money sex so that it can make more of it.

01:05:57.000 And it's a skill that you have to get good at and you get good at it by just doing it and applying yourself at it.

01:06:03.000 So most of the money has been made over time, but again, you know, it just kind of multiplies itself.

01:06:08.000 Like you guys know exactly how it works.

01:06:11.000 Yeah, I mean, it's one of those questions that doesn't really need answering.

01:06:15.000 Now, a bunch of the questions, I'm actually going to basically dismiss this Q&A, because what you need to do for a lot of these questions is check Rich out on Twitter.

01:06:24.000 Rich underscore Cooper.

01:06:26.000 If you don't have Twitter, get on it right now.

01:06:28.000 I'm obviously Liv's Talisman on Twitter.

01:06:31.000 If you're watching this podcast, you probably know who I am already.

01:06:33.000 Everything that you're asking is answered in the videos that Rich puts out, in the videos that I put out, in the material that we produce.

01:06:41.000 But yeah, I just want to say... We give them the YouTube channel so they can find it.

01:06:44.000 It's Entrepreneurs in Cars.

01:06:47.000 One moment.

01:06:48.000 Let me just... Go to the YouTube search card to search for Entrepreneurs in Cars and you'll find it there.

01:06:52.000 I'm going to post a link to Rich's YouTube and I want you all to check it out.

01:06:58.000 Give me 10 seconds.

01:07:00.000 But yeah, every single question that you're asking him, I feel like it'd be very mundane and with not much point in... This is another video by someone else that you did.

01:07:10.000 Here we go.

01:07:13.000 Yeah, I think it would be very a waste of time to answer these questions right now on my channel when all of the material that you could hope to find is on his YouTube channel right here.

01:07:23.000 I've just posted three links in a row.

01:07:25.000 Please check this out.

01:07:27.000 This is a super chat.

01:07:29.000 Five euros.

01:07:30.000 Cool.

01:07:30.000 But you're both alphas in your own way.

01:07:33.000 Any advice to guys?

01:07:35.000 There's a lot of work in these areas.

01:07:37.000 What should you prioritize in your 20s?

01:07:39.000 What should people prioritize in their 20s?

01:07:40.000 One question, because he paid for this question.

01:07:43.000 So why don't you tell them?

01:07:45.000 Don't get into a long-term relationship with a woman. 1.00

01:07:47.000 Work on yourself.

01:07:48.000 I say the same thing.

01:07:49.000 Fall in love when you're already rich.

01:07:50.000 Right now, it doesn't matter.

01:07:51.000 All right, guys.

01:07:53.000 Thank you very much for joining me.

01:07:54.000 This has been me and Rich Cooper.

01:07:55.000 Check him out.

01:07:57.000 This is his Twitter.

01:07:58.000 This is his YouTube channel.

01:08:00.000 It's all now in the feed.

01:08:02.000 A lot of the questions are... Ask me privately.

01:08:06.000 I'm not going to burn too much of Rich's time asking these questions because a lot of them are about Romanian showbiz and that's not very important and relevant as to what we're doing right now.

01:08:14.000 But you know where to find me.

01:08:15.000 You know where to check me out.

01:08:16.000 Information about the webcam business, information about joining the War Room or learning what I know about how to meet women is available on coprotate.com.

01:08:23.000 You know where to find Rich.

01:08:24.000 Check out the book.

01:08:25.000 Thank you for joining us today.

Tate Speech - August 18, 2022

Interview: Tristan Tate & Rich Cooper

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