Tate on Therapy
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Summary
The problem with therapy is that it is detrimental not only to your mental health, but it actually makes people worse. Therapy is not only useless, it is not science, not only is it bullshit, it s bullshit, and it s actually detrimental to our mental health. If you want to be a millionaire, do things quickly. Action wins. Therapy is sitting and crying and complaining, talk is not action, and if you feel depressed, go to the gym, do something, not sit and cry about it, let s go sit and bitch about it. That s what therapy is about, right? No, you don t need to go through life crying about the bad things that have happened to you to some other mortal being as if they are god and that somehow that makes things better, and that somehow that somehow this inaction is going to improve your life. And that somehow, somehow, this inaction will improve you. Why the fuck do you think they know anything if therapists understand psychology so well? Why are they not living these perfect ideal lives? Well they re not because they don t know shit, because they DON T know shit. And they just want to sit there and let you just talk shit, as long as it takes you, and complain about it all the time. And that s not in the harsh realm of reality, because that s their business model to improve you, is it? Why are therapists not living a perfect lives? Why do they can t be a perfect person? Why can t they live a perfect life? Why don t they know shit? Why does it make you feel better? Why is it so hard to get better? And why do you need to be better than other people? You don t get better than you? How can you be a better person if you don't have a job, you can't be more than a normal human with a good life? You don't get a job? You have to have a good education? You need to learn how to be more like a better life? How do you have a better job? How does it all be better? You can t you get a better than someone else? You must be a good enough to help you get better, you have to be good at your life? This is a question you can t have a life, you must be good enough, you need a job and you must have a degree in some sort of understanding of how to deal with your problems?
Transcript
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it is detrimental not only is it useless not only is it not science not only is it bullshit
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it actually makes people worse the worst thing you can do if you have a problem is sit and
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talk about it all day people say you shouldn't bury your problems because if you repress them
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that's bullshit welcome back to the best most underrated undersubscribed to youtube channel
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on the internet take speech i'm here with my coffee chilling and today we're going to talk about
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therapy because i have a gripe with therapy and if you've been watching my channel for long enough
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you know that i have a gripe with many things and i'm always right i'm eternally correct if i have a
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gripe with something then that something is in trouble because my logic is infallible and i have
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a genuine problem with therapy as a whole so let's start from the beginning what is therapy well
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therapy is the idea that you need to go through life crying about the bad things that have happened
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to you to some other mortal being as if they are god and that somehow that makes things better you
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need to go to some other normal human with their own problems who is who's no better than you and
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sit there and go oh this happened that happened and sit there and bitch about it and that somehow
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this inaction is going to improve your life this take speech is going to have a lot of different
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elements to it because my problems with therapy are varied but one of my largest problems with therapy
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is that it's an antithesis to my worldview and my worldview is that action always wins momentum
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speed power forward forward forward anyone who's done business with me knows the first thing i say
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is okay good idea how quickly is it done the sooner it's done the sooner it makes money if it takes two
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days instead of one day that's one extra day we've lost we can never make money during you want to
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be a millionaire do things quickly action wins therapy is not action therapy is sitting and crying
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and complaining talk is not action a fucking chit chat isn't action is it g no g knows action is doing
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something if you feel depressed g you're gonna spill my fucking coffee and you're ruining my tape speech
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piss off if you feel depressed you go to the gym you do something you don't sit and cry about it
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no i feel depressed let's go sit and have a talk words don't count as action not in the harsh realm
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of reality so that's one of the first problems i have with therapy the second problem i have with
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therapy is therapists don't want you to get better therapists want little piles of goo they can poke at
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little weak individuals they can just poke at and ask stupid questions to we're going to pay an hourly
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rate forever it's not in their business model to improve your life it doesn't make any sense they just
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want to sit there and let you just talk shit as long as it takes what's crazy about this is how
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can you go and sit in front of a therapist and not and not cross your mind that this this therapist has
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a bullshit life anyway all these therapists are getting divorces and cheating on their fucking wives
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and are just as depressed as you so why the fuck do you think they know anything if therapists
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understand psychology so well why are they not living these perfect ideal lives well they're not because
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they don't know shit and i say this to them and we're going to get on to my story about therapists
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when i said this to therapists ago we don't claim to be perfect well if you don't claim to be perfect
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then what you know doesn't mean shit if you're telling me that your own knowledge cannot be
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applied to yourself to provide yourself with the perfect life then you cannot provide anyone else
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with a perfect life therefore who gives a fuck what you think you're an idiot the idea that therapy
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is somehow necessary or mandatory is just new age western garbage i actually watched a really
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interesting documentary about a girl in the 1970s who was in a plane crash in brazil i think it was
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somewhere in south america and the plane crashed and everyone died except for her and when she woke
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up she the plane crashed she was knocked out she woke up still in the seat next to her decapitated
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mother and dead bodies all around her she got up she foraged for food she had some cuts and bruises
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one of them got an infection for four days she was surviving the jungle before she was succumbing to
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the fever she had from the infection she laid down ready to die and got found by some local people
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which nursed her back to health she ended up going back to germany she was a german girl
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and they said what happened afterwards she goes well i went to germany and my dad uh obviously thought
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i was dead but i wasn't so uh he told me to get a job and i got a job and uh that's it carried on with
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life and literally they ask her well didn't you do didn't you go to therapy she saw her decapitated
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mother next to her after a fucking plane crash and her reply was no in those days we didn't do
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therapy she just carried on with life now you're telling me that she can carry on with life and get
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on with things after seeing her decapitated mother after fucking nearly dying from some jungle fever
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bullshit but you need therapy because people say mean words to you on the fucking internet
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you're a pussy the thing with all this new age shit is that something should be universal across the
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human condition if therapy was so necessary it would have been necessary forever the fact that
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it wasn't necessary before and is now necessary means it's new think new age and you've been
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conditioned to believe that you need it people survived without it for a very very long time
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therapy is not necessary that bitch from germany in the plane has been through more shit than you
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will ever go through more shit than i've ever been through and she didn't need fucking therapy so why do
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you need therapy because you're a pussy now i've actually sat across from therapists three distinct
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times three individual times i have been forced to attend some psychoanalyst bullshit i'm going to
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tell you what happened so for these three times i had to see a psychoanalyst we're all for tv shows
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i've been on a variety of reality tv shows genuinely eight of you genuinely eight of you are the piss
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i'm telling you i'm telling you what i've seen from what i've seen eight of you
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snakes you know snakes not arguing with someone to their face and slacking them off to the diary
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you call us all snakes oh yeah well be respectful you've come into here you came into here and we
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call eight of us snakes yeah of course and they make you go and see a psychologist to ensure you're not
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going to kill anyone else or kill yourself or anything weird when you're on tv so i'm sitting
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in front of this psychologist i sit down he goes oh hi what's your name i'm talking to him we're having
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a little bit of a chit chat and then i said to him he asked me oh why'd you become a kickboxer
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thinks he's fucking smart mr fucking pen and paper why'd you become a kickboxer violent tendencies uh
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mass he likes to appear masculine fuck knows what he was writing down some gay stupid shit because you
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know these people are fucking idiots why'd you become a kickboxer he said why'd you become a therapist
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he goes oh i really found it interesting i said yeah but it's not science is it he goes well why
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do you say that i said well one plus one is always two but with an alcoholic you can have a person
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whose father was an alcoholic so they're an alcoholic you can have a person whose father
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was an alcoholic so they don't drink alcohol at all people can be in the same situation have very
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different outcomes depending who they are as an individual so it's not science because it's not exact
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the whole point of science is that you can predict the future for something to be science for
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something to be exact you have to be able to predict the future with it one plus one is two
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which means if i take one and one and put them together again it will be two again in the future
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this is how we can put rockets into space because we can predict we can see where the planet's going
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to be we know where to put the satellites we can work things out you can predict the future with a
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science you can't predict the future with psychology you can't sit there and psychoanalyze someone and
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tell me what i'm going to do you can't stop me throwing this cup of coffee in your face you can't stop me
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you don't know anything so it's not a science and he sat there and he thought hmm this motherfucker's
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smarter than i expected and he waited for a few seconds he goes oh well it's not exact but you
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know there are there are some very general rules and that was his answer now psychologists do this a
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lot psychologists therapists etc they give stupid ass answers and because 99 of people are stupid they
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get away with it there's some general rules i said oh there's some general rules then why are we
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speaking friend because i'm not a general individual general rules by your own description
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general rule means it must apply to people in general it must apply to the masses it must apply
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to normal people it's the average of the bell curve i'm an exceptional individual i'm a four-time
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kickboxing world champion with a genius iq i've made more money than you will ever make i've done
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things you could never do i'm smarter than you are so why are you talking to me all of your general
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rules do not apply to exceptional people otherwise they'd be rules for the exceptions you just said
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general rules you have just admitted you are not qualified to interview me
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is it true or false true or fucking false he just admitted general rules for general idiots you're
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clearly above everyone andrew tate you're the lord of earth so i don't know shit about you so he sits
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there with his pen doesn't know what to say because i'm correct and just starts writing things down
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so he's writing things down and eventually i got tired of writing things down so i stood up just stood
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up really quick and as i stood up he shat himself and dropped his pen i stood up and he went and
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dropped his pen this is the these these are your masters these are the therapists you worship these
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are your lords when i stand up he shits himself don't hurt me like a fucking pussy therapist i just
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looked at him he had genuine shame in his eyes he knew he fucked up him and i know i guarantee i changed
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the trajectory of his career for the rest of his life he will never forget the day he met andrew
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tate not only did he get out argued not only did he get embarrassed but he felt shame when he dropped
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his pen and i said his pen was on the floor i said you dropped your pen and i walked out the room
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he didn't call me back he didn't want to see me again i never saw that report i don't know what he
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wrote down and i'm sure he made up a whole bunch of shit oh aggressive oh this oh that try to like
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make himself feel better by writing bad things on the piece of paper but the reality is he could not
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defend his own profession and in the harsh reality of the world he shat himself now why did he shit
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himself i'll tell you why because when i said at the beginning of this video action versus inaction
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therapists live in a world of inaction to sit and chit chat and talk and discuss maybe hmm tell me when
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you were 12 when you that time you had that orange juice uh like who gives a shit i live in a world of
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action and you know what action is physical force he was afraid i was going to attack him now i'm not a
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violent man but because i embarrassed him because i destroyed his worldview so brutally he was left
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in a state of childlike fear he was left in a state where he was sitting there feeling vulnerable
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so when i stood up and he saw my pure physical prowess
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he shat himself a vulnerable man in a vulnerable state with supreme force moving quickly in front of
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him of course he dropped his pen what else is he going to do action me standing up is real action
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me whooping someone's ass is real action sitting there having a chit chat and writing things down
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is inaction therapists live in a world of inaction i live in a world of action and as i said at the
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beginning action always trumps inaction my final point on therapy is as follows it is detrimental
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not only is it useless not only is it not a science not only is it bullshit it actually makes
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people worse the worst thing you can do if you have a problem is sit and fucking talk about it all day
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people say you shouldn't bury your problems because if you repress them that's bullshit
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world war ii how many people died did everyone sit around and fucking go oh we don't have time to
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rebuild all the cities and and create the nhs we need to sit and fucking talk about all the bad
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things happened every single person has a horror story from russia to germany through france england
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america the japanese the philippines everyone has something bad to say so let's somehow clone the
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entire population of earth so we have enough fucking therapists and sit there and talk all day
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instead of getting shit done bullshit people shut up and they got shit done there's nothing wrong with
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fucking having something bad happen to you internalizing it the best you can maybe speaking
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about it with someone close to you but in general just shutting the fuck up and getting on with it
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therapy is detrimental and i'll tell you why i'm gonna prove it to you i'm gonna prove it to you once
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and for all robin williams is my test case so i often say depression isn't real if you
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don't know that about me you can watch my video on tate speech about my mind tricks on how to beat
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depression depression is a state of mind and with an iron mind you can destroy it i teach people how
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to do this but robin williams is the case people often come at me and say well if depression isn't
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real why did robin williams kill himself and that's a good that's a pretty good argument i mean
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robin williams was famous he was a millionaire he didn't have to grow old gracefully he could have
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had 19 year old girlfriends the rest of his life and drove lamborghinis and bungee jumped and do
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whatever the fuck he wanted he was liked by everyone no one disliked him no negative attention
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no negative media nothing so why does robin williams kill himself well i'll tell you why
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therapy is why robin williams did 12 years of therapy for 12 years not only was he taking
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mind-altering antidepressant drugs which is a video in and of itself why i'll never do antidepressants
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but on top of that every single day he's sitting there with a fucking therapist if you sit in front
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of someone all day every day and talk about all the bad things that have ever happened to you all
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day every day you're gonna feel pissed off even i would want to jump off a fucking bridge if i spent
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12 years talking to some dickhead about all the bad things that's happened in my life it's detrimental
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sitting there crying about bad things is never going to help you if you're the kind of person who
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feels like they need therapy you need someone to talk to to make me feel better do you know what you
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are you're useless because in the harshest realities of this cold world there are people in syria whose
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entire families have been blown to fuck with a bomb from the sky who are still getting up every day
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making fucking bread and selling it on the streets so they have enough money to buy a new pair of sandals
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sometime next year while you're crying about fucking nothing with your first world bullshit to some
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dickhead therapist who probably does coke on the weekends another thing therapists do you'll notice
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they talk in riddles they speak in riddles hmm well why do you think that is the reason they spot
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speak in riddles is because they don't tell you anything they ask you questions because if they ask
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you questions they can never be wrong if they tell you things they're wrong if you sit there and go
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xyz and they go oh that's because of xyz then you can say no it's not fucking moron i'm out of here
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but if you if you go xyz and they go hmm and how do you think x is related to y
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then you talk for another 20 minutes that's another hour burned burn that time up keep paying the
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fucking bills they don't say anything of relevance or anything of merit because they can be used
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against them they don't want anything used against them they just want you to fucking sit and chat shit