Tate Speech - January 01, 2019


Uberboyo Interview

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00:00:01.000 We are live.
00:00:03.000 Welcome, people.
00:00:04.000 Boyo fucking alert.
00:00:05.000 I'm here with Warrior Boyo, Andrew Tate, and he's just back from a fucking war.
00:00:10.000 Andrew, tell the people hello.
00:00:11.000 How are you doing, sir?
00:00:13.000 I'm good, man.
00:00:13.000 I'm good.
00:00:14.000 I don't look it, but I am.
00:00:18.000 I went sparring yesterday.
00:00:19.000 You know, there's a whole bunch of guys who are in fight shape, training for fights.
00:00:23.000 I'm the four time world champ who used to whoop their asses all the time, but I came in out of shape and they decided to come for me and they knew I'd get tired quick, so they came for me.
00:00:32.000 But I don't go down.
00:00:33.000 I take my shit.
00:00:34.000 Hey!
00:00:34.000 The guy who gave me this black eye, he quit first because I busted him in his face and he fell down.
00:00:39.000 So I still won.
00:00:40.000 I just got a little bit of a little bit of damage, you see.
00:00:43.000 That's how it goes.
00:00:43.000 But I still won.
00:00:45.000 Was that a you should have seen the other guy situation you just pulled there?
00:00:49.000 Yeah, absolutely.
00:00:49.000 But normally, normally it's you should have seen the other guy and I'm like perfectly, you know, silky smooth.
00:00:55.000 But sometimes you've got to hold your licks.
00:00:57.000 That's what I get for fucking smoking cigars, drinking vodka, and hanging around with big booty cuties all day.
00:01:01.000 I need to get back in the gym.
00:01:03.000 Well, yeah, maybe you could rub that in their face and see how that goes.
00:01:05.000 They'll punch harder next time, I'm sure.
00:01:08.000 And so you're in preparation.
00:01:09.000 Since we are looking to talk about warrior stuff today and fear, and we could say the dark side to some extent, you're in preparation for a fight.
00:01:18.000 And I'm sure you've announced this before.
00:01:21.000 Yeah, so me and I have a throne.
00:01:23.000 We're supposed to have an exhibition match in Bucharest.
00:01:26.000 On top of that, I've been offered a fight contract for March 11th in Romania, which I might take.
00:01:33.000 I mean, I've been out of the ring for a while now, but I might take it and come back, step in the ring a couple more times.
00:01:39.000 I don't need it anymore like I used to, but.
00:01:41.000 It's good just to prove to yourself you can still do it, you know.
00:01:43.000 Like when you spend 10 or 11 years honing a craft, the last thing you want to do is feel like it slipped away from you.
00:01:50.000 You want to feel like you can still do it, you know.
00:01:52.000 So I might be in there on March 11th whooping some ass, but it ain't easy now because when I was broke and I had nothing, there was nothing else to do but train.
00:02:00.000 But now I've got businesses in different countries.
00:02:02.000 I need to be all over the world.
00:02:03.000 I got shit going on.
00:02:04.000 I got fucking women.
00:02:06.000 Fuck me, Tate.
00:02:07.000 Fuck me.
00:02:07.000 Fuck me.
00:02:07.000 Like I'm busy.
00:02:09.000 So it ain't easy, you know.
00:02:10.000 I got stuff to do.
00:02:10.000 I got to push my Lambo around the streets for the haters.
00:02:13.000 I got stuff to do, so it's hard just to stay as motivated as I used to be.
00:02:16.000 But we'll see.
00:02:18.000 I have noticed that with high level chaps.
00:02:20.000 For example, I'm from Dublin, and that is Conor McGregor's hometown.
00:02:24.000 And he, of course, when he had the hunger, he was a monster.
00:02:26.000 He was killing them all.
00:02:27.000 But I noticed recently when he stepped in that cage with Khabib, he was selling a lot of that fucking whiskey, and he seemed a little bit like he underestimated the man across from him who literally had nothing only God to carry him forward.
00:02:39.000 I mean, we're all human.
00:02:41.000 Of course.
00:02:42.000 And you're a very rare.
00:02:44.000 Individual, if money doesn't change you, or here's my particular case.
00:02:50.000 In my case, the problem is this it's not that money's changed me, it's that I don't make my money with fighting.
00:02:56.000 If you give me a million dollars to fight, I'll be motivated, but in kickboxing, I won't get that much.
00:03:01.000 From my comeback to fight, I'll get maybe 30 grand, which is good money, but I make that every two weeks to another shit.
00:03:06.000 So it's like money isn't motivating me, so I'm actually taking my eye off of the money to go back to fight.
00:03:12.000 So then you need to put your eye on both because you can't just forget about the money side of things.
00:03:16.000 Do you know what I'm saying?
00:03:18.000 So for me, it's like I make more money if I don't fight.
00:03:22.000 So that's the thing for me.
00:03:23.000 So it's just like a passion of love, you know, just doing it because I miss it, whatever, whatever.
00:03:28.000 But yeah, I mean, as for Connor, he's selling whiskey.
00:03:31.000 He's doing this.
00:03:32.000 He's doing that.
00:03:32.000 He's running all over doing coke and acting crazy.
00:03:34.000 And then he's trying to fight a guy who's a strict Muslim and, you know, he ain't banging bitches.
00:03:39.000 He ain't doing cocaine.
00:03:40.000 He ain't selling whiskey.
00:03:40.000 He's doing nothing but hit the gym.
00:03:42.000 I mean, I knew he was going to take a whooping.
00:03:43.000 For me, there was no surprise.
00:03:45.000 I was like, it's got to be.
00:03:46.000 I knew it.
00:03:47.000 I knew it.
00:03:47.000 And I think deep down, Connor knew it.
00:03:49.000 So.
00:03:51.000 I suffer from that thing where it just kind of talks, and I'm just like, he's going to, he's telling the truth.
00:03:54.000 He's going to win.
00:03:57.000 So, he's done really well.
00:03:59.000 He smashed the game.
00:04:00.000 And yeah, he's good, but he's overpaid.
00:04:03.000 I mean, he isn't getting paid what he's getting paid because how good a fighter he is.
00:04:06.000 He's getting paid because he fucking has a big mouth.
00:04:09.000 And this is the nature of this.
00:04:11.000 But you can translate this into the world.
00:04:12.000 I say this to people all the time.
00:04:14.000 You know, don't be walking around through life being humble.
00:04:18.000 Where has that gotten anyone?
00:04:20.000 You need to rock up in the place like I'm the baddest motherfucker.
00:04:22.000 You just walk up.
00:04:23.000 I'm number one.
00:04:24.000 Tell them the girl you want someone to fuck.
00:04:26.000 My dick is huge.
00:04:28.000 Let her find out the hard way.
00:04:31.000 At least you get what you want.
00:04:32.000 She can be like afterwards, well, that wasn't that big.
00:04:34.000 You're like, well, who cares?
00:04:35.000 Still bagged, yeah.
00:04:38.000 I've noticed with Connor, I think, I believe the reason why people admire him so much is he does display something that will deviate us quite nicely into our first topic, which is the idea of fear.
00:04:48.000 I've noticed that Connor seems to have an amazing mindset of making you either feel that he feels no fear, or in essence, he has really good management of fear.
00:04:56.000 And that is something that I learned from when I started learning fighting as well.
00:04:59.000 Like those first couple of spars, you'd be vibrating.
00:05:02.000 In fear, just going up to them.
00:05:04.000 And it's like the idea of having 400, like a million people around the world watching you get choked out.
00:05:09.000 Like, I don't, it's the ability to control that level of nervous energy and then channel it into a performance, I think is such a high level skill that people cultivate, try their best to cultivate, but often do not achieve.
00:05:23.000 And that would be something I'd love to ask you about.
00:05:25.000 Like, what do you do with dealing with fear when it comes to fighting, especially when you're younger and coming up?
00:05:30.000 Well, this is the thing.
00:05:32.000 No, people aren't very often afraid of fighting, they're afraid to lose it.
00:05:37.000 So, if you train to fight, it's not the art of fighting or the act of fighting that scares you, it's the thought of losing.
00:05:43.000 I think a lot of it for especially the high level guys, the skill is teaching yourself to not think about losing.
00:05:51.000 If you think about losing, no matter who you are, you're going to get you're going to start to feel nervous because you think about I'm going to look like a dickhead, this guy's going to make fun of me, everyone's going to see me get knocked out.
00:06:00.000 Everything I said in the press conferences, they're going to make memes out of me and make fun of me.
00:06:04.000 Everyone's going to laugh at me.
00:06:06.000 My girl ain't going to look at me the same when she sees me asleep.
00:06:09.000 If you start thinking about it, it goes through your head.
00:06:11.000 So you have to master the art of just forgetting the fact that there's a negative possibility.
00:06:15.000 And that's what Connor does.
00:06:17.000 When he's talking the fight up, he's talking himself up.
00:06:19.000 When he's saying, There's no way you can beat me, there's no way you can beat me.
00:06:22.000 What he's really doing is convincing himself that you can't even consider the fault of a loss.
00:06:28.000 Because if you consider it, then it starts to enter your psyche and then it affects your performance.
00:06:33.000 And I could see in his uprun with Khabib, maybe it's just because I'm a fighter, but I could analyze.
00:06:37.000 That's what he was doing with Khabib was what he was trying to do, the same thing he did with Aldo.
00:06:42.000 But when he did it with Aldo, he meant it.
00:06:45.000 And when he did it with Khabib, he hadn't quite convinced himself.
00:06:48.000 Even when he got into the octagon, I could see it from a mile off.
00:06:51.000 He had this fake bravado, but still, he had not quite convinced himself he was invincible.
00:06:57.000 And then you start slipping, you get caught with the right hand, and it all just starts going downhill from there.
00:07:01.000 So, yeah, and a lot of the times you have to, especially in fear and dangerous situations, the easiest way to manage fear is just to not think about the negative outcome.
00:07:10.000 If you have to run into a building to save, if you have to run into a burning building to save a child, if you're going to sit there and think, what if I get trapped?
00:07:16.000 What if I get set on fire?
00:07:17.000 What if I die?
00:07:18.000 You ain't got time for that.
00:07:19.000 You just got to go.
00:07:21.000 So a lot of fear management is willful ignorance, in my experience.
00:07:25.000 It's just there's no other option.
00:07:28.000 I'm going to win.
00:07:29.000 I'm going to be the best.
00:07:30.000 No one's going to love me.
00:07:31.000 I'm going to be rich.
00:07:31.000 There's no chance I'm going to lose.
00:07:33.000 So it ain't even a risk.
00:07:34.000 That's much easier than sitting there and actually thinking, okay, this can fire back in my face big time.
00:07:40.000 That's what I think.
00:07:42.000 I have most certainly noticed that in a different context.
00:07:44.000 I would do performing, I would do singing and rapping and whatnot, I'd be a musician.
00:07:48.000 And going up onto stage, I would notice then I get into the place where I'd be playing.
00:07:52.000 And if I'm not going soon, if I'm not going fast, I have more time to let it cook in my head about I'll be going up there.
00:07:59.000 And that's when the fierceness incubates and then it becomes more powerful the more time you have to contemplate it.
00:08:04.000 So you do need to distract yourself.
00:08:06.000 Bro, I used to say this all the time on some of my because I was world champion, I was always the last person fighting.
00:08:13.000 No.
00:08:13.000 When I got to China, I said I wanted to fight first on my contract.
00:08:17.000 And they said yes.
00:08:18.000 It is so much better to walk into the arena, get changed, warm up, and fight than walk into the arena and sit there for four or five hours.
00:08:26.000 Listening to other people get knocked out, seeing people come back to the stage, waiting for your turn, waiting for your turn, waiting for.
00:08:32.000 Finally, you got all your stuff on.
00:08:34.000 You're sitting there as the fight before your fight.
00:08:36.000 You're sitting there just waiting for the other fight to finish or to go the distance or knock out whatever.
00:08:40.000 Someone comes in and goes, Are you ready?
00:08:41.000 You're like, Yeah, it's just the whole buildup.
00:08:43.000 Yes, yes, yes.
00:08:45.000 It's a fucker, but we'll see, man.
00:08:47.000 We'll see if I return to the ring.
00:08:48.000 I mean, I don't know.
00:08:50.000 I'm conflicted about it.
00:08:51.000 I kind of feel like I need to prove something to myself.
00:08:54.000 But I don't know.
00:08:55.000 We'll see.
00:08:56.000 I've got other stuff going on.
00:08:57.000 I mean, I don't need to fight anymore for any kind of.
00:09:00.000 Finance or anything, so we'll see how it goes.
00:09:03.000 I guess, like, the only dangerous situation there is you come up against a man who has nothing to lose, and then it becomes quite interesting because it's a battle of wills in there, I imagine.
00:09:11.000 But, um, absolutely, that's the problem.
00:09:15.000 I was that guy, I was, I've grown fear.
00:09:19.000 I've grown a lot of people say, Oh, the more experience you have, the less afraid you'll be.
00:09:22.000 With me, it's the opposite.
00:09:24.000 I was fearless when I was new, I didn't give a fuck.
00:09:27.000 I'll fight anyone, I don't care on a day's notice.
00:09:29.000 I had nothing to lose.
00:09:30.000 Now I'm a bit older, I'm sitting there thinking, Do I need the licks?
00:09:32.000 Do I need the damage?
00:09:34.000 I got stuff to lose now.
00:09:36.000 I mean, like one of my friends just got knocked out.
00:09:38.000 He has brain damage now.
00:09:39.000 It's like, am I risking brain damage for 25, 30 grand?
00:09:43.000 Like, it's not worth it to me anymore.
00:09:44.000 When I was young, I had nothing to lose.
00:09:47.000 So, yeah, it's, I kind of feel like because I'm a little bit nervous about fighting, that's why I need to do it.
00:09:54.000 I kind of feel like I need to prove to myself that I'm not out.
00:09:57.000 So, you mean to stamp out the fear?
00:09:59.000 Yeah.
00:10:00.000 Yeah.
00:10:00.000 Fear needs, in my mind, if I'm afraid of something, you should engage it directly.
00:10:04.000 You shouldn't let it exist in the background, you know?
00:10:06.000 So, if I'm a little bit nervous about a fight, I should engage it directly and I should just do it.
00:10:10.000 But we'll see.
00:10:11.000 We'll see.
00:10:11.000 I've got an offer for March 11th, so we'll see.
00:10:13.000 I'm in training now.
00:10:14.000 Very interesting.
00:10:16.000 I would categorize fear that way, as I've noticed, there's a way to reason it out of your head to some extent.
00:10:20.000 Is that oftentimes you're worried about danger, oftentimes you're worried about humiliation.
00:10:24.000 I think that's even the most powerful one the idea of humiliation.
00:10:28.000 And in many senses, if you can teach yourself somehow, even through failure to some extent, that getting embarrassed literally doesn't hurt you at all, you'll be all right.
00:10:36.000 You're able to really reduce the amount of fear you have.
00:10:39.000 But a danger is one that kind of weighs heavy on you.
00:10:41.000 You need to almost have a life and death sense because when you're going into a spar, and I've never done a professional or an amateur fight properly, but I imagine it's the same thing.
00:10:49.000 It's like, I don't need to take damage in order to move forward in life.
00:10:54.000 I could move forward in other ways.
00:10:55.000 It would start to, you'd start to have a genuine worry about that.
00:10:59.000 So that might eat away at your soul somewhat.
00:11:02.000 Yeah, yeah, that's definitely a part.
00:11:03.000 I mean, like when I was younger, I couldn't see any other way out of my dire situation but fighting.
00:11:09.000 Yeah, yeah.
00:11:10.000 Broke and I couldn't see any other way out.
00:11:12.000 Now I'm already, well, one, I'm already out.
00:11:14.000 And two, I see lots of other ways out.
00:11:15.000 So it's just like, you know, what am I fighting for?
00:11:18.000 But, you know, it's good.
00:11:20.000 It's character building.
00:11:21.000 Nothing wrong with punching some dudes in the face.
00:11:22.000 So we'll do it.
00:11:24.000 Absolutely true.
00:11:25.000 It's interesting.
00:11:26.000 So you were, you were broke and you were just saying, ha, fuck, what am I going to do?
00:11:29.000 How the fuck am I going to get the fuck out of this situation?
00:11:31.000 And you're like, I will use my fists.
00:11:34.000 I will like beat, I will go and just violence is the path.
00:11:37.000 I will use violence to get out.
00:11:38.000 Cause like, what was, what was your kind of thought process there?
00:11:42.000 So I fought because I was pissed off.
00:11:46.000 I was pissed off being broke.
00:11:48.000 Like people seem, I have this because my dad is a chess master.
00:11:51.000 People have this idea that I come from money, which is completely not true.
00:11:55.000 My dad made some money with chess, but my dad was a straight G.
00:11:58.000 I all went straight away on booze and gambling.
00:12:00.000 That's how it was.
00:12:01.000 We were broke.
00:12:02.000 We grew up in America, broke.
00:12:04.000 We're on welfare, food stamps, blah, blah, blah.
00:12:07.000 We came to England.
00:12:08.000 We ended up in a council house.
00:12:09.000 My mom and dad split up.
00:12:10.000 My mom came here.
00:12:11.000 We're in a council house.
00:12:12.000 She's on the doll.
00:12:13.000 I was going to a school with like 0% pass rate, like a real crack school.
00:12:18.000 But I was just smart enough.
00:12:20.000 I think a lot of people.
00:12:22.000 Don't realize how good life can be.
00:12:24.000 I mean, I don't want to shit on everyone's parade and ruin everyone's mind, but everyone here, you talk to people and they're content.
00:12:30.000 They're like, oh, I'm happy with what I've got.
00:12:32.000 I'm like, why?
00:12:33.000 Because there's people who have a whole bunch more than you.
00:12:36.000 And I was never content having a normal life.
00:12:38.000 I wanted an exceptional life.
00:12:40.000 I didn't want a normal car, a normal house, a normal girlfriend.
00:12:44.000 I didn't want none of that.
00:12:45.000 I was like, no, no, no, no.
00:12:46.000 There's dudes out here that have the best.
00:12:49.000 Why do they deserve the best?
00:12:50.000 And I don't deserve the best.
00:12:52.000 I really believe that.
00:12:53.000 And this is something I've always had inside me.
00:12:55.000 I just didn't understand why I couldn't have the best stuff.
00:12:58.000 Even now, I don't have the best stuff.
00:12:59.000 I ain't got a yacht or anything.
00:13:00.000 You know, I've got BitMoney.
00:13:01.000 I ain't got a millionaire.
00:13:03.000 But the point is, especially when it came to women, for me, I saw the kind of girls that the big Gs were getting.
00:13:08.000 I was like, I don't want her.
00:13:09.000 I want fucking her.
00:13:10.000 I want the Instagram model with 5 million followers.
00:13:12.000 What the fuck?
00:13:14.000 So I was annoyed.
00:13:15.000 I was just angry.
00:13:16.000 So for me, fighting was just an outlet because if I didn't put it into fighting, I would end up in jail, probably.
00:13:21.000 So for me, that's kind of what it was.
00:13:23.000 And then I kind of started to make some money with it.
00:13:26.000 But the majority of my money wasn't made in fighting.
00:13:28.000 My money was actually made in the pimp game.
00:13:31.000 So, legitimately, as well, I say that people think I'm making it up.
00:13:35.000 It's true.
00:13:35.000 So, I was fighting and then.
00:13:39.000 Go on.
00:13:39.000 It was to do with webcams or something, was it?
00:13:43.000 Exactly.
00:13:44.000 So, I was fighting and I was making a bit of money, but I wanted more money.
00:13:48.000 It's a long story.
00:13:49.000 I got in debt to some fucking dude, some mafia crap.
00:13:53.000 All went down.
00:13:54.000 I needed money promptly.
00:13:56.000 I'd imagine that's real fear then, yeah.
00:13:58.000 Well, the thing is, man, this is why I think I have a bit of a following on Twitter because I have a unique resume.
00:14:06.000 There's a whole bunch of guys on Twitter, but not many, like world champion kickboxer, pimp, mafia associated criminal.
00:14:13.000 I've got all this stuff, and everyone's like, who is this dude?
00:14:16.000 Surely it can't all be true.
00:14:18.000 It's all true.
00:14:19.000 Yeah, so I did a deal with some Albanians, and I needed some money.
00:14:24.000 We won't go into details.
00:14:25.000 I needed some money pronto.
00:14:26.000 So I'm sitting there.
00:14:28.000 And I had a fight coming up, but the fight was too far away for money, and I needed money today.
00:14:32.000 So I was sitting there thinking, how could I make money?
00:14:35.000 What do I have that's worth money?
00:14:37.000 Like, what do I have that I can even sell?
00:14:39.000 And I was sitting there, and the only thing I had was all these girlfriends.
00:14:42.000 I was sitting there writing down my assets.
00:14:45.000 Like, what do I own?
00:14:46.000 What do I possess?
00:14:47.000 And I was like, well, I want these seven hot chicks.
00:14:50.000 Because when I used to fight, I'd travel the world, you see.
00:14:53.000 So I'd go and fight in Paris, win a fight, bang a ring girl.
00:14:57.000 Go to fight in Moscow, win a fight, bang a girl from the crowd.
00:14:59.000 Like, every time I want to fight, I'll smash it every time.
00:15:02.000 So, I'd all the chicks thought I was some, as long as I'm the world champion, they thought I was a multi millionaire.
00:15:09.000 So, they're all hitting me up all day on text.
00:15:11.000 I miss you.
00:15:11.000 I love you.
00:15:12.000 So, I had all these chicks completely head over heels in love with me.
00:15:15.000 Plus, I'm a master of the game.
00:15:17.000 You know, I got people.
00:15:19.000 So, I had all these chicks.
00:15:23.000 That's a great up and coming story.
00:15:24.000 I'd love for someone to throw that out into the entrepreneur startup world.
00:15:27.000 It's like, I was like, this is how I made it.
00:15:29.000 Get it onto the net.
00:15:31.000 I had a whole bunch of girlfriends.
00:15:33.000 And then I was thinking there, sitting there thinking maybe I should open a strip club.
00:15:36.000 And then, long story short, I decided to start with webcam and I flew all the girls into England, sat them all down at one table.
00:15:43.000 None of them knew each other.
00:15:44.000 All these five girls sit down and write, Who's this?
00:15:47.000 Who's this?
00:15:47.000 They sit down and say, Okay.
00:15:48.000 Newsflash of the fucking you all, but some of you stayed at the new webcam and I needed money, man.
00:15:55.000 I didn't get paid, I didn't have time to be messing around.
00:15:57.000 Like it was straight to the point.
00:15:59.000 So, four of them left, two of them stayed, and that's kind of how it went from there.
00:16:05.000 But that's how I made it to the talk.
00:16:07.000 This is what's so interesting now.
00:16:09.000 I have a course that I teach people on how to get girls, my PhD course.
00:16:13.000 And people say, Oh, Tate gets girls because he has money.
00:16:16.000 I'm like, No, I have money because I get girls.
00:16:19.000 It's the other way around.
00:16:20.000 Everything I'm teaching in my courses.
00:16:22.000 This is how I got girls when I had no money.
00:16:24.000 I used to be, I mean, when I say I had no money, I was a fighter.
00:16:27.000 I had money, but I didn't have fucking ball in money.
00:16:29.000 I had a normal ass car, normal house.
00:16:31.000 I was a normal dude.
00:16:32.000 So, what I'm teaching in my courses is all about the game.
00:16:35.000 You don't need money to get girls.
00:16:36.000 I got more girls when I was broke than I do now.
00:16:38.000 Because now I got to watch out for baby traps and, you know, Me Too cases and lawsuits.
00:16:43.000 When you get money, you got to worry about a bunch of stuff.
00:16:46.000 Back then, I didn't have to worry about nothing.
00:16:47.000 I was running all over the place.
00:16:49.000 I was just fucking everything that moved.
00:16:50.000 I didn't care.
00:16:51.000 So, Yeah, that's basically my story.
00:16:54.000 I mean, I was a fighter and I ended up because I had game, I just ended up in the pit game and I built this webcam business.
00:16:59.000 And at one point, I was turned over 400 grand a month and it all just kind of spiraled into where I am now.
00:17:06.000 Well, sounds good.
00:17:07.000 Yeah.
00:17:07.000 Congratulations, sir.
00:17:08.000 You've done great.
00:17:10.000 And you most certainly have character.
00:17:11.000 That's the thing I think the thing I most enjoy about watching your content is that, like, I guess what you're describing here is stuff like I had girls before I had the money.
00:17:19.000 And I'd imagine that would come down to character, even like an understanding of psychology.
00:17:23.000 And that resonates through.
00:17:24.000 Like a lot of your content is very fun to watch because you're going to rant about cats or something, and it'll be like, Oh, for sake, where does so much fury come towards a cat?
00:17:33.000 But it's still very entertaining to watch.
00:17:34.000 And it's, yeah, I mean, yeah, it's like you could flush money on someone or you could give people all the opportunities they want.
00:17:41.000 But I think fundamentally, it is what your character is that really makes the difference in life.
00:17:46.000 And then I really, really think that's a very interesting thing is that that is something that's a lot harder to cultivate than people think.
00:17:53.000 So maybe all those mafia experiences and all that fighting.
00:17:57.000 Did you make millions in a very sort of roundabout way, if you know?
00:18:00.000 Absolutely, absolutely.
00:18:01.000 You learn a whole bunch, you know?
00:18:03.000 You learn a whole bunch and you learn how to control your mind.
00:18:05.000 Like you're saying about the cats, I can turn my anger on and off.
00:18:08.000 I can start ranting about anything and get angry because I can turn it on and off.
00:18:11.000 I've learned how to do that.
00:18:12.000 So it's useful.
00:18:14.000 But also, even the chick thing is useful, man.
00:18:16.000 If you're hanging around with chicks all the time, and especially if you ain't got money, you learn how to be smooth.
00:18:22.000 Man, I was smooth.
00:18:23.000 I couldn't even afford to get girls on dates and I was still getting laid.
00:18:26.000 I was smooth.
00:18:27.000 To the point where, like, even in my PhD course, I teach, you don't need to take them on a date, you don't need to spend money, you don't need to do none of that.
00:18:33.000 Like, straight to the point.
00:18:34.000 I know I'm plugging a bit here, but it's the reality.
00:18:37.000 So, it's people, check out, check out, check out Tate's channel, Tate's speech.
00:18:42.000 I will link it below and most certainly check out his course.
00:18:45.000 I am, I've looked at some pickup artist content, but Tate presents you with a principle that is very, very interesting.
00:18:50.000 And it is a principle that your attention is valuable.
00:18:53.000 So, stop so freely giving it away and start to understand how to utilize it.
00:18:57.000 And all that women's stuff will fall into order.
00:18:59.000 And that is a big idea that you don't hear often.
00:19:01.000 So definitely check it out.
00:19:03.000 A very, very valuable piece of content there.
00:19:06.000 And I like to think I'm a little bit different from the pickup artists.
00:19:09.000 Because a lot of the pickup artists, what they're out there doing is they're saying, go up to a girl, say hello, blah, blah, blah, and you get to have sex with a girl.
00:19:16.000 Having sex with women is the tip of the iceberg.
00:19:19.000 Like, especially where I'm, okay, you look at it from my position, pimp game.
00:19:23.000 Having sex with girls is all good, but how do you get them to do as you say, make you money, obey you, allow you to cheat on them in front of their face, and still love you?
00:19:30.000 That's the game.
00:19:31.000 Fuck the sex.
00:19:33.000 The sex is nothing.
00:19:34.000 We got a whole bunch of stuff to do after that.
00:19:36.000 Yeah, yeah.
00:19:37.000 It's actually, that was my experience.
00:19:40.000 I did the pickup artist thing and I noticed there would be problems when I'd have a girl and then she would realize I'm with other girls and she'd be like, this is not happening.
00:19:48.000 And then it would fall apart in my hands.
00:19:49.000 I was like, fuck, I'm doing something wrong.
00:19:51.000 And it was a consciousness of principles.
00:19:53.000 And yeah, like I noticed some pickup artist dudes would talk about it, but it's almost like it's just psychology.
00:20:01.000 It's almost like I've noticed in the world that people deny that genders exist, that the principles of human nature exist, masculinity and femininity, they don't exist anymore.
00:20:10.000 And you have to relearn those.
00:20:11.000 And when you relearn those, you realize that.
00:20:13.000 Men are the prize as long as a man has a purpose and a goal.
00:20:17.000 And once you start to instantiate that back into yourself, a lot of things start falling into place.
00:20:21.000 And it's very much within the mind.
00:20:23.000 Absolutely.
00:20:24.000 Man, if you have value on your attention, this is what we say teaching the course, but you've got to have value on your attention.
00:20:29.000 And your attention becomes so high value that they'll let you get away with a lot of stuff just to make sure they retain some of your attention.
00:20:36.000 Too many dudes out here throwing their attention all over the place.
00:20:38.000 That's the reality.
00:20:39.000 That's how they messed up.
00:20:40.000 But it doesn't bother me.
00:20:41.000 Like I'm not one of them red pill manosphere guys who hates on chicks and stuff.
00:20:46.000 The nature of women.
00:20:48.000 Suits me to the ground because I understand it.
00:20:49.000 So I have as many as I want.
00:20:51.000 So it doesn't bother me.
00:20:52.000 I don't care.
00:20:53.000 It's all good.
00:20:53.000 Good.
00:20:53.000 Good.
00:20:54.000 Just at this brief moment, I will say, people, if you have any questions, the chat on the right.
00:20:59.000 I know a lot of you guys will be following Tate, so you won't be used to the YouTube thing.
00:21:02.000 Pop it in there.
00:21:04.000 Any questions, we'll answer them at the end.
00:21:06.000 Now, Tate, I think this is an hour, or Andrew, which would you rather?
00:21:09.000 This is an awesome time to go into the idea of street fights.
00:21:13.000 We talked about the mafia briefly, and I imagine you have some decent stories.
00:21:16.000 Any street fight stories you can reveal because I've, like, I think I've.
00:21:21.000 Another thing I heard you say before is that a lot of people would, the common trope would be learn jujitsu if you ever get in a street fight.
00:21:28.000 And then you were saying, yes, if you do jujitsu, you'll probably get killed.
00:21:32.000 So try not to do that.
00:21:33.000 Like, what was your experience with that?
00:21:35.000 Right.
00:21:35.000 So, yeah, firstly, I'm anti-jujitsu.
00:21:38.000 Jujitsu is anti-jujitsu, man.
00:21:40.000 It's for the cage and it's for sport fighting, which is fine.
00:21:44.000 It's for the cage and it's useful in the cage.
00:21:46.000 So when I say this, someone always goes, Royce Gracie, he won the first UFC.
00:21:50.000 Yeah, it's because it's a fair fight.
00:21:52.000 That's fine.
00:21:54.000 I have never seen a fair fight on the street.
00:21:56.000 Ever.
00:21:57.000 Ever.
00:21:58.000 And another rule of the street for me personally is never go to the ground.
00:22:03.000 Because you don't know if you're going to get headstomped.
00:22:04.000 If you're on the ground, you can't see.
00:22:06.000 You can get headstomped.
00:22:07.000 You can get jumped on.
00:22:08.000 His friends can attack you.
00:22:09.000 The guy, you could be wrestling around the dude.
00:22:11.000 He pulls a knife.
00:22:12.000 The police could roll up.
00:22:13.000 Who knows what's going to happen?
00:22:14.000 The last thing you want to be doing in a street fight is fucking around on the ground trying to put some dude in a camorra.
00:22:19.000 It's bullshit.
00:22:20.000 You're going to get hurt.
00:22:21.000 You need to stay standing.
00:22:23.000 So this is why I always recommend striking for street fights.
00:22:26.000 I mean, I've been in a few street fights.
00:22:27.000 Like everyone else, I try and avoid them.
00:22:29.000 I've gone to some messed up places.
00:22:30.000 I've dealt with a few idiots, especially if you have a lot of chicks in you.
00:22:33.000 A few times it's like me and like five chicks, and it's just because it's me on my own.
00:22:38.000 Dudes start to think, well, he can't be banging them all.
00:22:40.000 So I'm going to kind of encroach on his hoes.
00:22:43.000 And they're obviously mistaken because I am banging them.
00:22:47.000 I have to be like, yo, leave.
00:22:48.000 And then because there's him with four of his boys, he can get fresh, and then it goes down, you know.
00:22:52.000 So it's happened a few times, but there's some basic rules to it.
00:22:55.000 Like, obviously, you want to try and avoid violence.
00:22:57.000 But the reality is, man, everyone's heard it.
00:22:59.000 It ain't fair out there.
00:23:00.000 It doesn't choose a fair fight.
00:23:02.000 Everyone's out to hurt you.
00:23:03.000 My number one rule, really, with street fights is I don't let anyone get in my face ever.
00:23:08.000 Because you can't see when they're that close.
00:23:09.000 And you can't see their friends.
00:23:10.000 And you can't see what they have.
00:23:11.000 So I say to people, stay away from me.
00:23:12.000 Stay away from me.
00:23:13.000 If they come up, try and get in my face to carry on talking shit, I'll just hit them.
00:23:17.000 That's my only basic rule.
00:23:18.000 I'm like, all right, stay away.
00:23:19.000 Stay.
00:23:19.000 They start coming and going, yo, bro.
00:23:20.000 But I'll just start smashing people in the mouth.
00:23:22.000 Because I'm not having some dude in my face, screaming in my face, waiting for the fight to start.
00:23:26.000 No, if you're going to get in my face, it's on them.
00:23:28.000 That's my very goal.
00:23:30.000 Definitely, definitely, you want to keep your space.
00:23:33.000 Like, even that's where you get sucker punched when they're close and you don't see arms swinging and stuff.
00:23:37.000 It's horrible.
00:23:38.000 Yeah.
00:23:38.000 Their friend comes from behind and sucker punches you.
00:23:40.000 Like, fuck that.
00:23:41.000 It doesn't matter how tough you are, you're a sucker puncher going.
00:23:43.000 You just got to be perfect.
00:23:46.000 Have you had any situations where you have been sucker punched?
00:23:49.000 You have been boxed into a corner where you've had to use your fist?
00:23:52.000 Anything extreme?
00:23:53.000 I've been jumped, but I was never sucker punched because I saw it coming.
00:23:58.000 I was jumped recently in Moldova about two months ago.
00:24:02.000 I was in Moldova.
00:24:03.000 I was walking.
00:24:04.000 Moldova is a crazy place, bro.
00:24:05.000 Like, I live in Romania.
00:24:07.000 So, Romania is.
00:24:09.000 Crazy, but it's kind of organized in its own way because the mafia have to place on lock.
00:24:15.000 So, like, statistically, it's much safer than the West.
00:24:18.000 Like, there's very little street crime because people are afraid to commit random street crime because they don't know who they're fucking with.
00:24:25.000 And if they're a cousin of a mafia member, something's going to end up dead and the police ain't going to help them.
00:24:28.000 So, it's really like the mafia are in charge of everything, but they're after the big boy games.
00:24:32.000 They're doing like political level, political corruption and stuff.
00:24:36.000 They're not taking no one's wallet.
00:24:37.000 They got better shit to do.
00:24:39.000 So, low level crime is actually non existent.
00:24:41.000 It's just high level stuff like, like, uh, Political bribery and corruption stuff that doesn't, yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:24:47.000 So Romania is safe, but Moldova next door is still wild, wild west.
00:24:51.000 Moldova is not in the EU.
00:24:53.000 Romania cleaned up to get in the EU, so to get into the European Union, the EU said, Look, you need to reduce your crime by like 92 percent, which was really bad.
00:25:01.000 And they said, Okay, and they arrested three mafia families overnight, and the crime dropped by 96 percent.
00:25:06.000 And then, like, a day, they knew who they were, they just didn't have no idea.
00:25:11.000 Was that now street crime or would that be the high level stuff?
00:25:14.000 Like, the EU were like, it was all kinds of stuff.
00:25:16.000 These are these were like.
00:25:17.000 Human traffickers are trafficking the girl.
00:25:19.000 Ah, okay, okay, yeah.
00:25:21.000 So everyone knew who they were, but they were so powerful, no one wanted to arrest them.
00:25:24.000 But when the European Union money came along, you know, you're going to get those grants for billions of dollars from the EU if you're an Eastern European country.
00:25:31.000 So they're like, okay, we're going to take a few bills.
00:25:33.000 Sorry, dude, you're going to jail.
00:25:35.000 In fact, I know some of them guys are in jail now.
00:25:37.000 And it's kind of like the Pablo Esquemar story because they put them in jail for 20 years, but they're living with like eight girls and have got their own super oversized cell.
00:25:45.000 They're living the life of kings still.
00:25:48.000 They're on Instagram, they've got their phones, they're still banging.
00:25:51.000 So it's all corrupt still in the ground.
00:25:52.000 But anyway, Moldova next door is still wild, wild west.
00:25:57.000 And no one goes to Moldova.
00:25:59.000 Nobody goes.
00:25:59.000 Who's been to Moldova?
00:26:00.000 Nobody.
00:26:01.000 And on top of that, Moldova was in the USSR.
00:26:04.000 Romania never was.
00:26:05.000 So Moldova has that Russia hangover that Romania doesn't.
00:26:07.000 Romania was never in the USSR, even though it's communist.
00:26:10.000 So when I was in Moldova, they're like Russian and they're aggressive.
00:26:13.000 And me and Tristan were walking along the street, these three hoes.
00:26:17.000 And we were talking shit, blah, blah, blah.
00:26:18.000 And this one guy starts saying, starts speaking in Russian to the girls, saying, Why are you with American men?
00:26:24.000 You're a stupid bitch.
00:26:25.000 Why are you being slut for American men?
00:26:27.000 And then the girls start saying something back to him because it was only him on his own.
00:26:30.000 They start getting fresh to him.
00:26:32.000 Like, fuck you, fuck you.
00:26:33.000 They're richer than you, or whatever they fucking said to piss him off.
00:26:37.000 He came over to my bro.
00:26:37.000 My brother was like, look, leave it, leave it, leave it.
00:26:39.000 Tried to push my brother.
00:26:40.000 My brother pushed him.
00:26:41.000 By the time that happened, this dude and like 25 friends had left the bar and seen his boy get pushed.
00:26:48.000 So the 25 dude was on the football team.
00:26:52.000 It started going.
00:26:54.000 That's the worst way that could go down.
00:26:55.000 It's just like, just as Tristan voices him, you're like 25.
00:26:59.000 You're like, fuck.
00:27:00.000 These guys start charging us, and they're Russian dudes.
00:27:02.000 They're big.
00:27:02.000 I'm 6'3, but they're all like my size.
00:27:05.000 Yeah.
00:27:05.000 I was like, whoa, trying to calm them down.
00:27:09.000 They weren't having none of that.
00:27:10.000 One of them runs up.
00:27:12.000 He did hit Tristan, punches Tristan in the face.
00:27:14.000 Tristan took it.
00:27:15.000 Guy had a hold of my jacket.
00:27:17.000 And before I went to hit him, there were two random security guys from random of the complex who kind of got involved and were kind of trying to slow it down a little bit.
00:27:27.000 So, trying to kind of slow down a little bit, then one another one came around, tried to swing and hit me.
00:27:30.000 I moved and he missed.
00:27:31.000 I kind of threw a jab, but he moved out the way as well.
00:27:34.000 And by this time, me and Tristan were backing up, and we had them all facing one way.
00:27:37.000 We're backing up.
00:27:37.000 We're like, look, fucking, we'll go, we'll go.
00:27:39.000 They're like, get the fuck up, Mobobo, leave Mobobo, we kill you, we kill you.
00:27:42.000 We're like, okay, we're gonna leave, we're gonna leave.
00:27:44.000 And we just backed up and we got a taxi.
00:27:46.000 What was funny is the girls were, by now, the girls have broken down crying.
00:27:49.000 They're screaming because they're like, they've seen all the violence, whatever.
00:27:53.000 And we went over to the taxi and we opened the door.
00:27:58.000 And just before we get in, I said, I ain't leaving without the girls.
00:28:00.000 And just because they fucking jumped us, I still want the pussy.
00:28:02.000 We found those girls fair and square.
00:28:04.000 So we're waiting by the taxi and said, girls, come here.
00:28:06.000 These three crying girls.
00:28:08.000 Went and got in the car and came back to our hotel.
00:28:10.000 So we still had a party.
00:28:15.000 I think this offers us a good deviation into probably one of the final topics I wanted to talk about today, which was the idea of war and the idea of war protecting the boundaries of your empire in some sense.
00:28:27.000 And you're talking about a load of guys coming out of the bar there and walking up to some of their local girls and saying, Stop fucking around with some foreigners or something like that.
00:28:36.000 And I just cannot conceptualize that in my head as ever happening in the West anymore.
00:28:41.000 Like, there is no sense of.
00:28:42.000 This is it.
00:28:43.000 This is what me and my brother were talking about.
00:28:45.000 Although we got jumped, I completely respect and understand why they did what they did.
00:28:50.000 You're a Moldovan dude.
00:28:52.000 You're on $200 a month, $200 a month.
00:28:55.000 Your country has the most beautiful women on earth.
00:28:58.000 You know that there is zero reason for two American brothers to turn up besides to try and fuck your chicks.
00:29:04.000 Now, aren't you going to be a bit like Lucy's dudes just fucking.
00:29:06.000 They just took three hot young 18 year olds now.
00:29:09.000 I'm working in a fucking coal mine for pennies.
00:29:12.000 This fucking American's here trying to steal.
00:29:14.000 I don't blame him for wanting to kick my ass.
00:29:16.000 I want to kick my ass because they're still territorial and they're still nationalist.
00:29:21.000 And the problem is, when you remove that instinct, I'm not going to hate on what they did and hate on that instinct.
00:29:27.000 Because when you remove that instinct, then you're left with what we have in the West now, where we're completely overrun and conquered and no one does shit about it.
00:29:33.000 There's a reason no immigrants try and conquer Eastern Europe.
00:29:36.000 It's because the people won't take it.
00:29:37.000 You can't turn up there and start saying, this is our place now.
00:29:40.000 We're going to run you over with trucks.
00:29:41.000 And it's not going to last five minutes.
00:29:43.000 But here in the West, we're just such cowards now.
00:29:46.000 It's just like, oh, whatever.
00:29:47.000 It is what it is.
00:29:48.000 But I completely understand why they want to attack us.
00:29:50.000 I don't blame them at all.
00:29:51.000 Those girls were bad.
00:29:53.000 Girls were hot, bro.
00:29:54.000 And we just took three of their hottest girls, and they knew the girls liked us because we could buy the drinks.
00:29:59.000 It is what it is.
00:30:00.000 So I don't blame them.
00:30:01.000 I would have punched me in the face as well.
00:30:04.000 Yeah.
00:30:05.000 Yeah.
00:30:05.000 Oh, like, it's like you talk about respect.
00:30:07.000 I think it is an admirable thing to see that that instinct is still alive.
00:30:11.000 And I just can't say I see it over here at all.
00:30:14.000 It's a strange feeling.
00:30:15.000 Like, if you even spoke with that.
00:30:17.000 Toxically masculine energy and suggested these types of things, you would be ostracized from this society.
00:30:23.000 You would be the one who would be getting kicked out.
00:30:25.000 And it's a very, very strange situation we found ourselves in where it is an attempt to deny that basic, shall we say, male instinct.
00:30:33.000 And it's quite psychological in many ways as well.
00:30:36.000 So, basic male instinct was perfectly said because it's evolutionary for men to be territorial.
00:30:42.000 This is how men have evolved.
00:30:43.000 Like, I'm personally an atheist, so I believe in evolution.
00:30:45.000 We evolve to be territorial.
00:30:48.000 To protect our territory and protect the women and resources within our territory.
00:30:52.000 When you see people from another tribe up in your place, you're like, What are you doing here?
00:30:56.000 Why are you here?
00:30:57.000 This is the natural human instincts.
00:30:59.000 This is why, this is the only way that humans survive.
00:31:02.000 Any tribesman that was too friendly to the other tribe, they got their asses whooped one way or another.
00:31:06.000 They got sabotaged or attacked from behind.
00:31:09.000 But it's the people who were super sketchy, like, Whoa, whoa, whoa, stay away from me.
00:31:12.000 This is my place.
00:31:13.000 This is how the people live.
00:31:14.000 So it's evolutionary for men to be that way.
00:31:17.000 And in many countries, they still are this way.
00:31:19.000 And especially in countries like Moldova, which are extremely poor with beautiful women, they're going to be protected with the funding they have.
00:31:26.000 I understand it.
00:31:26.000 I don't blame them.
00:31:28.000 It's weird how that works.
00:31:29.000 Like, I was in Ukraine there during November, and I noticed that it's not very rich.
00:31:34.000 It's like a fifth the price of everything around here, but the women were unbelievably beautiful.
00:31:38.000 And there's a strange thing about like, there's not a strong correlation between wealth and beauty for some reason.
00:31:45.000 I think there's an opposite correlation.
00:31:46.000 I think the richer the country, the less attractive the girls are.
00:31:49.000 And I think the reason for that is threefold.
00:31:51.000 One, because in these countries like Moldova, Ukraine, et cetera, girls understand that their easiest path to economic freedom is through their beauty.
00:32:00.000 They know that if I'm hot enough, some dude's going to hit me up on Instagram.
00:32:04.000 Or I'm going to be able to find some mafia boss or whatever it takes.
00:32:08.000 Some dude's going to put up with me and fund my life if I'm beautiful enough.
00:32:13.000 So they put more effort into their beauty than the girls do in the West.
00:32:16.000 Because in the West, girls believe in careers.
00:32:19.000 I'll earn my own money.
00:32:20.000 I'll get a career.
00:32:21.000 I'll do this.
00:32:22.000 None of that exists over there.
00:32:23.000 There is no career for a chick.
00:32:25.000 And if there is a career for a chick, she's still going to have to fuck her boss to get a promotion because it's corrupt.
00:32:29.000 So she's going to have to sell her pussy one way or another anyway.
00:32:32.000 So they're not interested in that path at all.
00:32:35.000 They're sitting there thinking, okay, I need a dude to look after me.
00:32:38.000 This is why a lot of people call them like gold diggers and sluts and stuff.
00:32:41.000 I don't think they're stupid.
00:32:42.000 I think they're smart.
00:32:43.000 I think this is a very intelligent way to be.
00:32:45.000 Beauty is an asset.
00:32:47.000 You have an asset and you're trying to leverage it so that it benefits your life.
00:32:50.000 Well, who wouldn't?
00:32:51.000 Like, if I was that damn gorgeous, if I could be a gold digger, I'd be up ahead, bro.
00:32:56.000 Like, I don't blame them.
00:32:59.000 But, um, yeah, and it is that strange thing as well, where I guess I'm saying, in one sense, they depedestalize the masculine instincts, such as to be territorial, express your masculinity.
00:33:11.000 Stand for your women and fight for the sake of preserving them.
00:33:15.000 But there is also this sense where they depedestalize your femininity.
00:33:18.000 It's like you can't accept yourself as beautiful and try to make it in the world that way.
00:33:23.000 But then, in the weird sense, you can as well.
00:33:25.000 There's a weird conflict.
00:33:26.000 It's like it's a strange, strange assault on that.
00:33:30.000 It's like you want to be like this sort of proto man, this mini man, or something like that.
00:33:33.000 It's all garbage.
00:33:34.000 Like, yeah, feminine is attacked if it's the traditional definition of femininity is beauty.
00:33:43.000 I'm sorry.
00:33:44.000 I'm going to cut the garbage because I always do.
00:33:47.000 Women are valued by how they look, men are valued by who they are.
00:33:51.000 This is the reality.
00:33:52.000 If you were to ask any man, what kind of girl do you want?
00:33:56.000 No man's going to sit there and go, ugly, fat, but is a career woman and thinks this and thinks that.
00:34:02.000 No dude cares.
00:34:03.000 He's going to be like, tall, blonde, big titties.
00:34:06.000 That's all he cared about.
00:34:08.000 And as for a man, what kind of man do you want?
00:34:10.000 Well, I want a man who's important, a man of status, a man with money, a man who can take care of me.
00:34:15.000 So, men, we're not judged on how we look.
00:34:17.000 We're judged on who we are.
00:34:18.000 And this is great for being a man because it gives you the ability to change who you are.
00:34:22.000 This is what I say to guys all the time if you're born an ugly chick, you're in trouble.
00:34:27.000 I mean, surgery could do so much, but in general, you're in trouble.
00:34:30.000 If you're born a beautiful chick, you've got the easiest life on earth.
00:34:33.000 If you're born a man, you have the ability to change how attractive you are in real time.
00:34:39.000 Women can't really do that.
00:34:40.000 They can get fake tits, whatever, whatever.
00:34:41.000 But you can go from a zero to a hero.
00:34:43.000 Literally, you can go from someone who struggles to get girls to a dude with too many girls.
00:34:48.000 Based purely on what you know and what you have.
00:34:53.000 This is a liberating experience.
00:34:54.000 This is why I say in my courses I teach the PhD course, I teach guys to get physical condition, I teach guys to make money.
00:35:00.000 I say, if you're in good physical shape, you know what I know for my PhD course, and you have a little bit of money, you are never going to struggle with girls the rest of your life, ever.
00:35:08.000 Whereas, you know, so you get the ability to mold it.
00:35:10.000 Women don't.
00:35:11.000 So they attack femininity because, and the reason they do this is the people who do it are ugly.
00:35:16.000 They're just hating ass ugly chicks, man.
00:35:18.000 Feminists are always ugly, bro.
00:35:19.000 They're just ugly and they're upset that they ain't hot like the other girls.
00:35:22.000 Or they get old.
00:35:23.000 There's always some old feminist who's 55 who's basically invisible because no one cares about old chicks.
00:35:28.000 And they're just hating on the reality of the world.
00:35:30.000 The reality is, if you're a chick and you're beautiful and you're 19, your life is always going to be pretty good.
00:35:36.000 I mean, you have unlimited attention, unlimited offers.
00:35:38.000 You know, you're always having a pretty good run because you're in your peak and every dude wants you.
00:35:43.000 But that's how it goes.
00:35:44.000 I mean, that's just the nature of the world.
00:35:45.000 But they're trying to attack it from every single angle because they're trying to break down the family unit.
00:35:49.000 Because if you break down the family unit and break down the country, you can just destroy everything from the ground up.
00:35:53.000 They're just trying to turn everyone into mindless consumer slaves, just little buying stuff from Amazon.com, taking their antidepressants and jacking off the pornhub.
00:36:01.000 It's garbage.
00:36:03.000 It's most certainly there is this very, like, you know, you don't want to get those conspiracy theories, but fuck me.
00:36:09.000 There's some scary patterns that you start noticing, such as the assault on basic principles, such as the family.
00:36:15.000 And even the idea of a beautiful woman at 19, the idea would be she would get the best man she could and then hold on to him because fuck me, like, that's her peak.
00:36:23.000 And then time is going to slowly erode her.
00:36:25.000 But I've spoke to girls around here, and they would always say stuff like, a girl peaks in her 30s and a man peaks in his 20s.
00:36:32.000 And it's like, That is, it's astounding.
00:36:36.000 I'm like, how can you get that wrong?
00:36:37.000 That is the most basic thing.
00:36:39.000 I guess the most basic thing is that time is in favor of men.
00:36:43.000 Time is going to reward men if they play with time well.
00:36:46.000 Time is going to destroy women.
00:36:47.000 It is ruthless in that sense.
00:36:48.000 So there's something very strange about that.
00:36:51.000 Absolutely.
00:36:51.000 And this is why I respect Eastern European girls because Eastern European girls have a reputation of being sluts and they have a bad rep. But I think the complete opposite.
00:36:59.000 An Eastern European girl is after a man who will change her life.
00:37:04.000 So either she wants, either she's a hoe and she wants to go straight hooking to get money.
00:37:08.000 She'll go to a strip club and she'll say, Okay, pay me.
00:37:10.000 Or she's looking for a guy of status who she believes that she marries will genuinely actually be able to take care of her.
00:37:16.000 So, one way or another, they're gold diggers.
00:37:18.000 But I think if you're a beautiful woman, this is an intelligent take.
00:37:20.000 It's much better than being a Western girl who's hot and banging some dude who's on the dull smoking weed and be like, Oh, but he's funny.
00:37:27.000 He makes me laugh.
00:37:28.000 Who cares?
00:37:30.000 And then you end up with like 20 dicks deep and you just banged a bunch of nobodies.
00:37:35.000 I have much more respect for these girls in Eastern Europe.
00:37:38.000 When I see some Moldovan 21 year old in Dubai on a billionaire's boat, I'm like, well, she's a smart chick.
00:37:44.000 I don't blame her at all.
00:37:45.000 I did the exact same thing.
00:37:46.000 And I think they're just more clever with their femininity and they understand that beauty is a path to get a lot of things you want and you have to use it cleverly and not just throw it all over the place.
00:37:54.000 So, absolutely, man.
00:37:56.000 The West is all messed up.
00:37:57.000 And I don't know.
00:37:59.000 I'm not a woman hater.
00:38:00.000 I definitely don't want to bitch about them in any kind of way.
00:38:02.000 But trying to find a woman worth marrying in the West is extremely difficult.
00:38:06.000 It's near on impossible.
00:38:08.000 And that's the reality of it.
00:38:09.000 And that's what I say in my PhD course because I have a lot of people come to me saying, if you believe in the decline of the West, Why are you teaching guys to run out there and sleep with all these girls?
00:38:18.000 That's ruining the West.
00:38:19.000 And I say, no, the West is already screwed.
00:38:22.000 What I'm teaching guys to do is if you want to find a woman worth having, you need to tear through 100 chicks first.
00:38:28.000 You want to find a brilliant, beautiful, kind, gorgeous, good person who's submissive and nice to look at, and she really is the one for you.
00:38:36.000 You need to sleep with a whole bunch of girls before you're going to get that girl.
00:38:39.000 So, what I'm actually teaching my PhD course is look, if you're a man, you want to have a happy relationship, you still need to sleep with a bunch of girls first because you're just not going to find them any other way.
00:38:47.000 There's no other way to find a quality girl now.
00:38:50.000 They're not just waiting around for you to get them.
00:38:52.000 You got to tear it's blood and look for them.
00:38:56.000 I think there is, like, most certainly you need to go on a journey and almost learn what a good woman is.
00:39:04.000 You need to want you to grow up in this world as a Western man, I found.
00:39:08.000 Like, this happened to me as well, where I wouldn't have a conception of what femininity is because I wouldn't have a conception of what masculinity is because everything's sort of this bland in the middle thing.
00:39:17.000 And you really need to go out there and experience the world and see how.
00:39:22.000 Much harsher and how much more brutal reality is, and how much more women are like driven by value, and the same with men, and to really understand who what each gender brings in terms of value, and or almost to re redeem those old concepts of gender back in order to be able to set yourself up for life properly.
00:39:40.000 Because if you fall for the social conditioning that's going on now, you risk having a very, very like you know, you risk having to read Rollo Tomasi's Rational Male when you're like 40 and divorced and without kids and stuff like that, bro.
00:39:53.000 Yeah, I mean, if you take the wrong path as a man, your life can get destroyed.
00:39:58.000 But with a man, it's risk versus reward.
00:40:00.000 With a man, you have the ability to have it better than most women will ever have it.
00:40:04.000 Like, if you're the top 1% or the top 5%, whatever, of men, life's great.
00:40:10.000 I'm not going to lie.
00:40:10.000 Like, I have no trouble with women.
00:40:11.000 Women don't trouble me.
00:40:12.000 I get any woman I want.
00:40:13.000 My life's good.
00:40:14.000 But I understand from the other side how bad it can be.
00:40:16.000 So it's just putting yourself in the right position and understanding the game.
00:40:19.000 You're right.
00:40:19.000 If you follow the path, if you marry some girl and you barely know her, you have kids, and you stop having sex, you stay with her anyway, and she disrespects you, You put up with it and then she divorces you and she cheats on you.
00:40:29.000 I mean, that's a tough way to learn life lessons, man.
00:40:31.000 You've got to learn a different way.
00:40:33.000 You've got to tear through a whole bunch of girls and be able to identify.
00:40:35.000 In my PhD course, I teach guys how do you tell a quality woman from a bad woman?
00:40:39.000 Have you seen my course?
00:40:42.000 I've definitely seen your course.
00:40:43.000 I have not bought it though, my friend.
00:40:44.000 You need to watch it.
00:40:47.000 Yeah, you can just check it out.
00:40:49.000 But I teach guys how to tell a quality woman from a bad woman.
00:40:53.000 I've got a foolproof test that never fails ever.
00:40:56.000 It's never failed ever, ever, ever.
00:40:58.000 Because even when you're at my level of ultimate gold level game, some girls just aren't worth the effort.
00:41:04.000 Some girls are more effort than others and ain't worth the time.
00:41:06.000 So I have a little test I do to see if they're worth putting the time in on fixing or just letting them go back into the ether and let someone else put up with their crap.
00:41:14.000 So there's ways of getting around it.
00:41:16.000 But yeah, man, it's not easy.
00:41:18.000 You've got to be very careful as a man, especially if you're intending on getting married, signing away half your assets, all these things.
00:41:23.000 You've got to be smart.
00:41:24.000 You can't just be.
00:41:25.000 What would you make of the movement, the MGTOW movement, where there's a lot of men reacting to this?
00:41:30.000 I feel.
00:41:31.000 I see them on Reddit and stuff like that.
00:41:33.000 They talk about the fact that they're so sick of getting cucked and failing with women and all that, that they just want to completely remove them out of their life and whatnot.
00:41:42.000 And I see that happening a lot in the West.
00:41:44.000 And it's a very worrying sign because that's essentially the final defeat of the family is like a load of men saying, I'm not going to procreate anymore.
00:41:51.000 I think that's a bad idea.
00:41:53.000 And the reason for that is because for any man to be truly happy, you need to have a female in your life.
00:41:57.000 I mean, that just feels like you're giving up on something you're going to need.
00:42:01.000 You're going to need a chick at some point to be happy.
00:42:04.000 You're never going to be happy without winning, no matter how much you try and convince yourself.
00:42:08.000 So, you're going to need a chick.
00:42:09.000 So, yeah, the game's hard.
00:42:10.000 Yeah, the dice are loaded.
00:42:12.000 Yeah, Big Daddy Tate might come steal your girl.
00:42:15.000 Yeah.
00:42:16.000 But you still have to be prepared to just play the game because otherwise you can never win.
00:42:20.000 You've got to play to win, you know?
00:42:21.000 And you can win.
00:42:23.000 So, I say to all these MGTOW guys, I say, look, buy my course and you'll learn from that.
00:42:29.000 Also, you have to be realistic about your expectations.
00:42:31.000 I don't know.
00:42:32.000 I feel like some of these MGTOW guys, like on a scale of one to 10, They're like a two and they're mad they can't get a nine.
00:42:38.000 And then they want to sit there and be talking about hypergamy, chicks are this, chicks are that.
00:42:43.000 Like, come on, bro.
00:42:44.000 If you were her, would you really bang you?
00:42:47.000 Really?
00:42:48.000 She has.
00:42:49.000 You got to be realistic as well.
00:42:51.000 You got to be realistic about it.
00:42:52.000 You got to be like, okay, I don't have a fucking boat.
00:42:55.000 Even I sit here sometimes.
00:42:57.000 I've had girls.
00:42:58.000 I've had girls before.
00:42:59.000 I had a girl with 4.5 billion on Instagram.
00:43:01.000 I was slamming her for like a year and a half.
00:43:03.000 One day she started messaging me, oh, you never see me.
00:43:06.000 Blah, blah, blah.
00:43:06.000 I was like, yeah, whatever, whatever.
00:43:07.000 A couple of weeks later, I see her on Dan Bilzerian's page.
00:43:09.000 I'm like, well, Obviously, like, what the fuck?
00:43:12.000 Like, he's got more money than me, whatever.
00:43:14.000 I'm like, I'm upset about it.
00:43:15.000 I'm like, okay, well, yeah, I barely saw her anyway, so it is what it is.
00:43:17.000 Like, I understand the female dynamic, I understand it.
00:43:20.000 Yeah, I'm not going to sit there and go, Women are this, women are that.
00:43:24.000 He just won that particular exchange.
00:43:26.000 I really gave a shit.
00:43:27.000 I could have kept her, and I didn't really give a shit.
00:43:29.000 But that's my point.
00:43:29.000 Anyway, a lot of these guys, I feel like they're aiming too high.
00:43:32.000 They need to flip the mirror and look at themselves and say, You know what?
00:43:35.000 If I'm really going to go MGTOW or whatever, I'm going to get myself in a position where a nine would be proud to be with me.
00:43:40.000 And then I got nothing to worry about.
00:43:42.000 And it ain't all about money, man.
00:43:44.000 Because I had badass chicks when I had no money.
00:43:47.000 It ain't about money.
00:43:47.000 It's about self respect.
00:43:49.000 It's about confidence.
00:43:50.000 It's about drive.
00:43:52.000 It's about vision.
00:43:53.000 It's not even about money.
00:43:54.000 A lot of people think I'm talking purely about money, and I'm not.
00:43:56.000 I'm not at all because I believe that all the traits that you just described there would lead you towards money.
00:44:03.000 It's like it's the universal principles of psychology, it's character.
00:44:07.000 And most certainly, people would see the money and then they'd be like, well, it's obviously money, but it's like maybe the money was a consequence of the man.
00:44:16.000 If you're a passionate, dedicated, driven, intelligent person, then sooner or later you're going to end up having your bills paid.
00:44:25.000 I mean, one way or another.
00:44:26.000 Like it doesn't matter, it might take a little bit longer.
00:44:29.000 I'm not saying to be a multimillionaire, but I'm telling you now, chicks don't care about money anyway.
00:44:34.000 What chicks care about is fun.
00:44:37.000 This is another thing I say in the course.
00:44:38.000 I'm giving away too much fucking game here.
00:44:40.000 Oh, how many people go watching?
00:44:41.000 56 lucky motherfuckers.
00:44:42.000 Listen, women care about fun, women don't care about money, but money facilitates spontaneity.
00:44:51.000 If you have money, you can say, Oh, I'm taking the day off and we're going to go here.
00:44:54.000 We're going to go out for a meal.
00:44:57.000 It's the fun that they like.
00:44:58.000 If you sit and say to a chick, I have this much money, they're going to say, So?
00:45:02.000 My shirt costs this much money.
00:45:03.000 So?
00:45:04.000 They don't care.
00:45:05.000 When's the last time a girl sat there and go, I don't like this guy, but he's wearing a Gucci shirt, so I better fucking?
00:45:09.000 Never.
00:45:10.000 They don't care.
00:45:11.000 Even with a Lambo, even when girls first find out I have a Lambo, I've had girls, I never mention it.
00:45:17.000 So some girls I meet in the club, they come to my house to see the car.
00:45:19.000 They go, Is that your car?
00:45:20.000 I'm like, Yeah.
00:45:21.000 I'm like, Okay, I'm going to take you home.
00:45:23.000 And I go to get the Lambo key.
00:45:24.000 They go, Oh, no, just take the normal car.
00:45:26.000 They don't even want to be in it.
00:45:27.000 It's loud.
00:45:28.000 It's uncomfortable.
00:45:29.000 They just want to be in the normal car.
00:45:31.000 They don't care like people think they care.
00:45:34.000 They care about fun and spontaneity.
00:45:36.000 So, this is why money allows you to be more fun.
00:45:38.000 Being with Dan Bolzerian is fun.
00:45:40.000 You get to go all over the world.
00:45:41.000 You get to go here.
00:45:41.000 You get to do photo shoots.
00:45:42.000 It's because he's fun.
00:45:43.000 He doesn't give them any money.
00:45:45.000 It's just about being fun to be around.
00:45:46.000 That's why girls like humor.
00:45:48.000 Humor is a perfect way to be fun without spending anything.
00:45:52.000 But there's also a lot of other ways you can be fun without spending money.
00:45:54.000 So, that's what women really care about.
00:45:56.000 They don't care about money anyway, man.
00:45:58.000 They don't give a shit.
00:45:59.000 Unless they're a straight hooker, they're not chasing guys some money.
00:46:03.000 They just want to have fun.
00:46:05.000 They want to see freedom, not money.
00:46:07.000 Yeah, they want to have freedom.
00:46:09.000 Cindy Lauper said it, man.
00:46:10.000 Girls want to have fun.
00:46:11.000 That's what it's all about.
00:46:14.000 I guess this isn't a good deviation into our final topic.
00:46:17.000 But people, any more questions, pop them in.
00:46:19.000 We'll do questions after this last turn of conversation.
00:46:23.000 Mr. Tate, we were talking about evil and the West.
00:46:26.000 And earlier we were talking about family.
00:46:28.000 And I noticed we brought up this conception that there's a little bit of social conditioning going on that's quite strange, quite suspicious.
00:46:35.000 And it seems that.
00:46:37.000 Yes, it seems like the West is on rocky territory right now.
00:46:41.000 And I've always wondered why it's happening.
00:46:43.000 I've always looked at the way that male instinct is getting suppressed to some extent.
00:46:47.000 And it's almost like in the culture, people are turning around and saying, that thing is evil.
00:46:52.000 Whatever is a man, that is evil.
00:46:54.000 A real man is evil.
00:46:55.000 Like you've probably got that experience a few times in social media, I imagine, where it's like you've become evil and whatnot.
00:47:00.000 And to me, that actually plays in a lot with this inability to understand what real evil is.
00:47:06.000 People are almost naive.
00:47:08.000 To the reality of what actual evil does, or what is like the true dark side or downside of life.
00:47:14.000 And things like war, I find that people have a very small consciousness of.
00:47:18.000 They don't understand that the modern world, the West, as it is now, was built out of millions of lives from World War I and World War II and whatnot, and even more throughout the past history.
00:47:28.000 So I was wondering, what would your conception of true evil versus that false evil of masculinity be?
00:47:34.000 What would your conception of true evil be?
00:47:37.000 Well, the first things first is that if anything's truly evil, the only people who are going to stop it are masculine men.
00:47:43.000 Like, tell me a truly evil force has ever been stopped by a shrieking feminist.
00:47:48.000 Ever.
00:47:49.000 So, this is stupid.
00:47:51.000 Trying to decipher and destroy masculinity leaves you without a warrior class.
00:47:55.000 Without a warrior class, you don't have the ability to fight.
00:47:58.000 And without, as a society, if you can't fight and protect yourself, you'll be annihilated.
00:48:02.000 So, regardless of whatever the evil force is, you're going to need a big, strong man at some point anyway.
00:48:07.000 The fact that people, this is what I was actually, I'm due to go on InfoWars.
00:48:11.000 I was supposed to go on today, but we moved out.
00:48:13.000 I'm going to do it next week.
00:48:14.000 And we're going to talk about the Gillette ad.
00:48:17.000 But I'll do some here.
00:48:18.000 But the point is this.
00:48:21.000 Women and feminists, and this whole anti men movement, have this idea that men restricting their emotions is what causes them to build up and do crazy things and bad things.
00:48:31.000 Whereas I completely disagree.
00:48:33.000 I think the hallmark of being a man is the ability to restrict your emotions.
00:48:39.000 Because if you're a firefighter and the building's on fire, like we spoke about earlier about fear, you're scared, but you do it anyway.
00:48:47.000 If someone breaks into your house and you have to go protect your wife while she's in bed, you're afraid.
00:48:52.000 But you do it anyway.
00:48:53.000 The difference between a man and a woman is that you suppress your emotions.
00:48:56.000 That when bad things happen, you suppress them.
00:49:00.000 Let's say a man and a wife lose their kid, heaven forbid.
00:49:03.000 The man has to be the rock for the woman.
00:49:05.000 The man can't start breaking down what the chick does, because then the whole relationship, then they'll lose each other.
00:49:09.000 You have to be solid as a man, and you have to restrict your emotion and do the right thing regardless of emotion.
00:49:16.000 So, what they're trying to teach us is that no, we should give in and cry when we feel like crying.
00:49:21.000 We should just be emotional beings like females.
00:49:24.000 Well, there's a problem with this.
00:49:25.000 The problem with this is two things.
00:49:27.000 What they've confused about toxic masculinity is this men do have an innate instinct for violence, but that isn't based on us suppressing our emotions.
00:49:36.000 That's an evolutionary trait that we've developed because men have to fight.
00:49:40.000 This is why we have it because without the ability to fight, men wouldn't exist.
00:49:45.000 The whole reason that men look at the Romans, they didn't have Google Maps, they didn't know where they were going.
00:49:51.000 They just melted some rocks, made some swords, and said, let's just walk in this direction.
00:49:55.000 Till we get to the channel, let's build some boats, let's cross that.
00:49:58.000 Oh, what's this place called England?
00:50:00.000 Let's kill everyone on our way.
00:50:02.000 This is an innate human instinct because it allowed us to survive.
00:50:06.000 Because fighting is a reality of the real world.
00:50:08.000 We live in a society now where we pretend fighting is not a reality, fighting is a reality, violence is real.
00:50:14.000 In many parts of the world today, violence is absolutely a real part of everyday life.
00:50:18.000 So, men are born with an innate tendency to violence.
00:50:24.000 This is not toxically masculine, this is not toxic masculinity.
00:50:28.000 What's toxically masculine is not being able to control it.
00:50:32.000 So, when I feel like punching someone in the face, I don't do it because I can control myself, because I've learned to control my emotions.
00:50:39.000 What they're trying to teach people to do, especially men, is to be more feminine and not control our emotions because they think that's going to leave us crying all the time and doing all the positive things, like, I don't know, crying our eyes out at a movie.
00:50:51.000 They think that's just going to happen.
00:50:52.000 You know what's going to happen when you tell men not to control themselves?
00:50:55.000 They're going to pick up a knife and stab some random dude.
00:50:57.000 The people who do this crazy stuff, the people who shoot up schools, The people who do all these random acts of violence are guys who couldn't control their own emotions.
00:51:06.000 They're pretending the only emotion that's going to flood out when they remove men's ability to control themselves is going to be all this gushy sadness.
00:51:15.000 What's going to fly out of people when they don't control themselves is violence.
00:51:19.000 Absolutely, it's going to be violence.
00:51:21.000 And this is what's so crazy about their idea of toxic masculinity it's so innate.
00:51:25.000 It doesn't make any sense.
00:51:27.000 It's inane on every level.
00:51:30.000 I think you brought up a great point.
00:51:31.000 You brought up several great points there.
00:51:32.000 Most certainly, there is this ability for men to put their intention over their emotions, which is just.
00:51:39.000 Like an unbelievable triumph of mind over nature, if you will.
00:51:42.000 And it's for some reason we just disrespect that so casually without understanding that everything we have was built from that ability.
00:51:50.000 It's unbelievable that we treat that with such scorn.
00:51:53.000 But Rome is a great example because the Romans achieved that.
00:51:57.000 They deified reason, they believed reason was a really important thing.
00:52:00.000 And they believed that Rome, that concept of the kingdom of Rome, was really important.
00:52:04.000 They wanted to expand it.
00:52:05.000 And it's almost like we have come to this point now where we've got Rome, we've got that big kingdom, the West.
00:52:13.000 And we don't appreciate how hard it was to make that.
00:52:16.000 We don't even appreciate what sacrifices it took to make that.
00:52:21.000 And we don't appreciate that all the men who are inside that now are probably the more civilized ones because they were the ones who had the ability to use their intention to beat their violent emotions and create something big.
00:52:32.000 And now we've undeified everything that they are, and it's all going to start crumbling and it's all going to start crumbling in and out of self.
00:52:39.000 It's insane.
00:52:40.000 And all these people who want to scream toxic masculinity.
00:52:43.000 Go to Saudi Arabia and talk about toxic masculinity.
00:52:46.000 Go to Africa and talk about toxic masculinity.
00:52:48.000 Go to pretty much any country besides the Western world and talk about this garbage.
00:52:53.000 It's like you're just talking crap.
00:52:55.000 And this is just a female, I think this is a female shit test on the male population.
00:53:00.000 What happens?
00:53:01.000 That's a good way to look at it, actually.
00:53:02.000 Yeah.
00:53:04.000 If you're with a chick and she's your girlfriend and you act like a pussy, she starts to view you like a pussy.
00:53:08.000 She starts to make your life hard.
00:53:09.000 And she does it instinctively because she's trying to poke you into manning up.
00:53:14.000 She's like, you know, this is the man that's supposed to protect me if stuff goes down, but he's too afraid to even talk back to me when I tell him he's a little bitch.
00:53:20.000 So they try and push you and prod you into standing up for yourself.
00:53:24.000 That's what they're trying to do.
00:53:25.000 And I think this is just a nationwide test.
00:53:27.000 Like all these feminists are like, the men around us are such cowards.
00:53:29.000 You know what?
00:53:30.000 You should all be more like girls.
00:53:31.000 And they're waiting for dudes to stand up and go, shut the fuck up.
00:53:35.000 But no one does.
00:53:36.000 Besides me, I'm on my own, and you're a couple of us.
00:53:40.000 But most guys are like, oh, yeah, maybe you're right.
00:53:43.000 It's insane.
00:53:43.000 But the only kind of, the only kind of, The only kind of positivity I can drag from all this is that any man who isn't a man nowadays, he ain't happy.
00:53:54.000 He's living a terrible life.
00:53:55.000 Like all these dudes who are like feminist dudes and stuff, they're getting no pussy.
00:53:59.000 Their lives are shit.
00:54:00.000 Their wife treats them like crap.
00:54:02.000 Like karma's punishing them anyway.
00:54:04.000 Any guy who goes along with that agenda is going to end up with a terrible life.
00:54:06.000 If you think you're going to go along with the feminist agenda and somehow your life and your relationships with women is going to be better, you're completely wrong.
00:54:14.000 Because I'm the.
00:54:14.000 You're just taking your own grave.
00:54:16.000 Yeah, exactly.
00:54:17.000 I'm the opposite.
00:54:18.000 In fact, I'm too extreme even for most people.
00:54:21.000 Like, I'll openly say I'm a sexist.
00:54:22.000 I'm a sexist guy.
00:54:23.000 I don't care.
00:54:24.000 I'm a sexist.
00:54:25.000 So, I'm that far with it.
00:54:27.000 And my relationship with women is fantastic.
00:54:29.000 So, whatever.
00:54:30.000 I'm happy at this end of the spectrum.
00:54:31.000 Maybe I'm too far for most.
00:54:32.000 That's fine.
00:54:33.000 But it is what it is.
00:54:36.000 Well, I believe what you're getting at is the denial of human nature.
00:54:40.000 It is that sense that there is no sexes, no genders.
00:54:44.000 It's so strange.
00:54:45.000 It's like people are these things that we can mold into whatever we want them to be.
00:54:48.000 And for some reason, we want them all to be.
00:54:50.000 Effeminate consumers, something like that.
00:54:52.000 So, that is a very suspicious thing to say the least.
00:54:57.000 There was something I wanted to ask there, though.
00:54:58.000 There was a complete thought I had.
00:55:00.000 The idea of yes, okay, so this we've got this problem where we've got this massive civilization, and because these men with their rootless intention went out to Stalingrad and sacrificed their lives with unbelievable quantities, they went to Verdun, they went to fucking D-Day, you know, they ran towards a load of fucking pillboxes and got ripped apart by bullets.
00:55:22.000 Because these men crafted out this massive, giant, big Roman state that we have now, all the people inside it don't experience evil anymore, so they have this.
00:55:32.000 Insanity where they've got that human nature where they need to find something evil, but they can't find anything to clutch that onto.
00:55:38.000 So they'll say, Well, we'll just go for whatever this person tells me.
00:55:41.000 And unfortunately, that person is saying masculinity.
00:55:44.000 Have you any belief in what real evil is?
00:55:47.000 Like, would it, would we need to bring, like, say, if we were, we were two uh wizards here and we were gonna, like, how are we gonna brainwash the people back to reality?
00:55:55.000 Would we have to scare them and saying, There's a big fucking monster at the gate and it's coming to get you?
00:55:59.000 And it's the men inside are your friends.
00:56:01.000 Like, what would we do there?
00:56:02.000 What would you put in that monster position?
00:56:04.000 Interesting question because I personally believe that.
00:56:07.000 Things can be deemed evil depending purely on your perspective.
00:56:11.000 So, I think that you can have two forces which are generally good forces, but because they're opposing, they're evil to each other.
00:56:21.000 So, like, fire is not inherently evil.
00:56:24.000 We need fire.
00:56:25.000 Water is not inherently evil.
00:56:27.000 We need water.
00:56:28.000 But to each other, they're evil because they can annihilate the other.
00:56:32.000 You understand where I'm coming from?
00:56:33.000 So, I think the same thing.
00:56:35.000 I think when you look at the Western world and you look at the foreign ideologies that are coming to conquer the Western world, I'm not saying that those ideologies are necessarily evil.
00:56:42.000 I'm not going to say that people of a different faith, I don't want to get anyone banned here, we know what I'm talking about, are necessarily evil.
00:56:48.000 And I'm not saying that we're not necessarily evil.
00:56:50.000 I'm saying that if something's going to mutually, if there's only one that can survive, then you have to look at the opposing force as an evil force.
00:56:58.000 You have to look at which one you wear, yes.
00:57:00.000 Exactly.
00:57:01.000 So you don't have to sit and think, okay, what's evil in the world?
00:57:04.000 You have to sit and think, what's going to destroy what I love?
00:57:08.000 What's going to change the culture I'm willing to protect?
00:57:12.000 That's how you deem evil, even if it's still a nice force, even if it's still nice on its own merit.
00:57:17.000 Like I said, fire and water are fine on their own, but they just don't, they just don't, they're evil to each other.
00:57:22.000 So there's a whole bunch of evil stuff.
00:57:23.000 Feminism on its own is evil.
00:57:25.000 Feminism's aiming to break down everything I believe and know about the family unit and the world as a man.
00:57:30.000 So I view feminism as a force.
00:57:32.000 Feminism, feminists will sit and say, We just want women to do better.
00:57:35.000 So on the standalone, maybe their points are not evil, maybe they have good intention, but because it's so contradictory to what I believe, I have to view it as an evil force.
00:57:44.000 There's no other option for me.
00:57:46.000 So, there's a whole bunch of things you can view as evil.
00:57:48.000 And right now, the culture attack on men in the West is absolutely an evil force.
00:57:55.000 These are all evil things.
00:57:57.000 The problem is, I don't know, and I know everything.
00:58:01.000 And even I don't know the answer to it.
00:58:03.000 Because the truth is this if you talk too much truth, like me, you get banned everywhere.
00:58:09.000 I've been banned from Twitter, Facebook, bank accounts, everything.
00:58:14.000 And I'm lucky because I'm financially able to handle those kind of things.
00:58:17.000 If you have a job, You can't have a polarizing opinion, you're gonna lose your job.
00:58:22.000 So, they've got now they've got society by the balls because they've got us by the purse strings.
00:58:27.000 Like, no one really truly believes in something to stand up and risk losing your livelihood to say something, especially knowing it probably ain't going to change much.
00:58:36.000 You know, here's an interesting thought is that so it's very hard for us to properly articulate evil because that might lead us to having to say something about the elites or something like that, and we could get in a lot of trouble for doing that.
00:58:48.000 But maybe we could posit a temporary evil and say something like censorship.
00:58:53.000 Is probably the closest we're going to get to it right now because that is the thing that's restricting us from analyzing this problem properly and dealing with it.
00:59:00.000 Because if you're not conscious of the problem, you're most certainly not going to be able to solve the problem.
00:59:04.000 It's like trying to walk into a room blind.
00:59:07.000 And yeah, I do think that that censorship thing is astoundingly sinister because it's like, you know, it happened to Alex Jones.
00:59:14.000 You were talking about you're going to go into InfoWars, and it happened to Alex Jones, and it was scary how little people cared, man.
00:59:20.000 It was scary how little people cared.
00:59:22.000 They were just like, oh, he sort of deserved it.
00:59:24.000 I was like, Dude, like, you know, he could have said anything up there, and you kind of think, I, oh, it's just scary.
00:59:32.000 It's George Orwell level shit.
00:59:34.000 And then more stuff came in than next was that I think a few people on Patreon were kicked off.
00:59:40.000 That's Sargon of a cat and all that stuff.
00:59:42.000 So it's, yeah, it's a scary force.
00:59:44.000 What's behind that?
00:59:45.000 It is, man.
00:59:46.000 And the problem is, is that all these media platforms, all this social media, all this stuff, it's run by a bunch of leftist losers.
00:59:55.000 I mean, Who's going to be a big enough computer geek to invent this crap?
00:59:59.000 I mean, they're not going to be big, strong alphas, are they?
01:00:01.000 It's the reality.
01:00:01.000 And then they just spiral down the San Francisco liberal crap hole.
01:00:06.000 They end up hiring more liberals, and everyone's liberal and just goes down the pan.
01:00:09.000 And the truth is this as a conservative, I'm prepared to listen to anyone's opinion.
01:00:14.000 And I don't believe in censoring anybody because I'm not fearful of ideas.
01:00:18.000 The problem is with liberals is that they're fearful people.
01:00:21.000 And they're fearful because they're instinctively fearful because they know they're instinctively beta.
01:00:26.000 You have to understand that for a long period of human history, A beta male viewed an alpha male as a predator because he was a predator and he could destroy it.
01:00:35.000 So, this is why they have such intrinsic, deep seated hate for alphas.
01:00:40.000 Why do they hate Trump so fervently?
01:00:42.000 Why can they hate him so much?
01:00:44.000 Even he does a great job, it's because something inside of them is telling them that this man is dangerous and evil.
01:00:50.000 Even if they can't have got proof, even if they can't put their finger on it, they just can't snap.
01:00:55.000 An instinct.
01:00:56.000 An instinct, yeah.
01:00:57.000 For the same reason that a rabbit knows to run when it sees a fox, it just knows that can beat me.
01:01:03.000 So, when a beta sees an alpha, they're intimidated.
01:01:06.000 So, they're intimidated.
01:01:07.000 And now we live in a society where, for the first time in human history, these betas can fight back.
01:01:13.000 They never had a chance to fight back, ever.
01:01:15.000 No one gave a shit what they thought.
01:01:16.000 And now they're in charge of everyone's voices.
01:01:20.000 So, now they're sitting there going, because they're instinctually thinking this person's evil because they're a beta male.
01:01:25.000 They can't understand that alpha male qualities are not instinctively evil.
01:01:29.000 They're actually the only thing that built the Western world.
01:01:32.000 Yep, that's true.
01:01:33.000 Flash.
01:01:34.000 But they think they're simply evil and they have the chance to do something about it.
01:01:39.000 They feel this strong sense of duty.
01:01:41.000 We have to prevent this from spreading.
01:01:43.000 Trump is spreading.
01:01:45.000 And they just start a little panic attack in their little tiny brain and they result in censorship because it's what they can do.
01:01:52.000 Whereas me, at the top of the tree, I don't need to censor those below me.
01:01:57.000 They can have their stupid ideas.
01:01:58.000 I don't believe in censoring anyone.
01:02:00.000 If you want to come at me with some liberal garbage, you want to argue about communism, let's do it.
01:02:04.000 I'm not afraid of you because I'm at a higher tier in the food chain, but these are just low level players.
01:02:09.000 It's like giving a rabbit a button to kill all the foxes.
01:02:12.000 How many times will they press that button?
01:02:14.000 It's just a reality.
01:02:15.000 It's just human nature.
01:02:17.000 This is Nietzsche's had an interesting challenge, an interesting read of history.
01:02:23.000 He said that the savage nature of horrible men like the barbarian Vikings and the monstrous Romans is that they would go out and they would murder everybody and enslave them and then use all that power they've gained.
01:02:35.000 From being savages, having that instinct to want to create something excellent at all costs, even human suffering, they didn't give a fuck about that.
01:02:42.000 They would like to beat people down, smash them into shape, murder en masse, and build Rome.
01:02:47.000 And then, when Rome was built, they create this safe space and then they allow people to incubate in there who don't really need to be super strong, but they need to be super smart, like bureaucrats or something like that.
01:02:57.000 So, these people start to gather the power.
01:02:59.000 And then, these people would instantiate a new type of morality, which would be based on somewhat resenting those alpha types of before.
01:03:07.000 And secretly, they'd all do this secretly.
01:03:08.000 They would want to destroy those alphas because they couldn't destroy them physically.
01:03:12.000 They tried to destroy them almost spiritually.
01:03:14.000 And they would change everything the alpha meant.
01:03:16.000 The alpha would mean strength.
01:03:17.000 So, they'd.
01:03:18.000 Uh, turn strength into cruelty and flip everything around, and then slowly that would erode it.
01:03:24.000 But this is where it gets fucking scary, and this is why I don't like reading Nietzsche because he scares the shit out of me.
01:03:28.000 Is that when they do that, what they do is they destroy the soul of the thing they built, and the thing will inevitably fall for that reason.
01:03:38.000 They eat alive their gut, their master, and it's a scary thought.
01:03:41.000 Well, I was with Paul Joseph Watson and Candace Owens a couple days ago, and when we were sitting around that table, the only difference between me and them, we agreed on absolutely everything.
01:03:51.000 The only difference is they believe there's still hope for the West.
01:03:54.000 They're optimists.
01:03:55.000 And I am absolutely a pessimist.
01:03:57.000 I really am.
01:03:58.000 I believe the fight's over.
01:03:59.000 And I know I shouldn't be saying this.
01:04:01.000 I know I should be inspiring people.
01:04:02.000 But I just kind of feel like we've gone so far now.
01:04:06.000 I don't see any signs of turning around.
01:04:09.000 I don't see any signs of a halt.
01:04:11.000 I don't see any signs of the revolution that's required.
01:04:14.000 We're just being conquered from a religious standpoint.
01:04:17.000 We're being conquered from a spiritual standpoint.
01:04:19.000 We're doing our very best to destroy any kind of warrior class left in the nation.
01:04:23.000 All of the money, all of the education systems, all the communication systems, the media, the social medias are all so liberal.
01:04:31.000 I just kind of feel like when to turn this around, it would have to happen today.
01:04:35.000 And it has to be a huge turnaround.
01:04:37.000 And still, there'd be a lot of damage to undo.
01:04:39.000 And I just don't see it coming.
01:04:41.000 This is why I moved to Romania.
01:04:43.000 People say, Why'd you move?
01:04:44.000 I was like, I left because England's shit.
01:04:46.000 So I just left.
01:04:47.000 I was like, What am I staying there for?
01:04:48.000 Why would I stay in England?
01:04:49.000 Romania is a right wing country where I'm never going to get hurt by the terrorist attack ever.
01:04:55.000 So, I just left.
01:04:56.000 This is the kind of country I want to live in.
01:04:57.000 You got a nice big wall.
01:04:58.000 You got no problems.
01:05:00.000 Can't come in and out when you want.
01:05:01.000 It's permanently right wing.
01:05:03.000 Beautiful women.
01:05:04.000 And I'm not going to get terrorist attacked.
01:05:05.000 So, I left.
01:05:06.000 So, you know, I've kind of given up on it.
01:05:08.000 I see what's happening.
01:05:10.000 I'm certainly going to speak to try and resist.
01:05:12.000 But I don't know, man.
01:05:13.000 It's crazy.
01:05:14.000 I look at people like Tommy Robinson and all the great work he does and how crazy his life is and how they put him in jail for all that time for no reason.
01:05:21.000 They took all his bank accounts away and he's going without his kids and stuff.
01:05:24.000 I'm like, this guy's a hero.
01:05:26.000 Look what he's going through.
01:05:27.000 He's a national hero.
01:05:29.000 And the people he's trying to save are calling him names.
01:05:32.000 Yeah, that's the crazy thing.
01:05:34.000 He's a better guy than me because I just give up.
01:05:36.000 I say, you know what?
01:05:37.000 I'm trying to save you.
01:05:38.000 If you don't see it and you're that foolish, I'm just going to wait for you to be destroyed.
01:05:42.000 That's kind of the level I'm at now.
01:05:43.000 I'm like, you know what?
01:05:44.000 If you want to march through London saying we need more unchecked refugees from God knows where, then just, you know what?
01:05:50.000 I'm just going to leave London.
01:05:51.000 I'm going to let it become a stab capital of the world and just complain about it and pretend it's some other reason.
01:05:57.000 I just let people to fester in their ignorance.
01:05:59.000 Because I've kind of given up on them, that's the reality.
01:06:01.000 Um, like, yeah, look, dude, like, it's that black pill, it's people and plenty of people are chewing on that.
01:06:08.000 It's a very, very hard thing when you look at it deep.
01:06:10.000 When you look at how fundamental this is, like, I'm sort of describing the really, really high level spiritual stuff.
01:06:17.000 What's going on is the way that it's almost like a war of souls, the masculine soul is getting slowly killed, and I just don't see how that gets redeemed unless there's something.
01:06:26.000 It's almost spiritual in my sense, it's almost like this spiritual revolution will have to happen where people will be like, I will fight for the West.
01:06:33.000 Like, it's almost like people don't have any sense of value for the West, so they're not prepared to die for it.
01:06:38.000 And for that reason, they're not prepared to speak out and lose all their shit.
01:06:42.000 They're too trapped in their comfort.
01:06:43.000 And so, for that reason, they're not in any way able to confront sacrifice properly.
01:06:49.000 Absolutely.
01:06:50.000 They can't think beyond themselves because they're not patriotic, because all they think about is themselves.
01:06:54.000 I need to be able to shop on Amazon.com.
01:06:56.000 I need to be able to go to Ikea.
01:06:58.000 I can't lose my job.
01:06:59.000 Me, me, me, me.
01:07:01.000 They don't care about their country.
01:07:02.000 And this is another reason they destroy patriotism.
01:07:04.000 If you care about your country and you're a patriot, then you're going to be like those Moldovan guys who attack me because they're Moldovans and this is Moldova.
01:07:10.000 And what's the American guys doing here?
01:07:12.000 So, they destroy patriotism.
01:07:13.000 Patriotism is actively attacked.
01:07:16.000 You're not allowed to fly a flag in England.
01:07:17.000 That's racist.
01:07:18.000 On what in what country, yeah, wow, oh my god, that's so crazy!
01:07:23.000 That's such high level mind, yeah, it's just a blatant attack on patriotism in Romania.
01:07:29.000 Every street lamp has a flag on it, you can't drive down a road without driving past 100 flags.
01:07:34.000 So it's like it's just a blatant attack on patriotism, or they change what patriotism means.
01:07:40.000 British means anyone who has a British passport, you've handed them out to everybody.
01:07:44.000 So now, British doesn't have a language, doesn't have a color, doesn't have anything.
01:07:47.000 We're gonna pretend it's everybody, then it loses its meaning.
01:07:50.000 British, you think of everyone's British, it's just garbage.
01:07:53.000 You'd be astounded what's going on in Ireland.
01:07:55.000 Like, it's even more intense over here because we were like a sovereign state of the British Empire.
01:08:02.000 And we had many men who like died for the sake of redeeming Ireland from the British Empire and establishing our own nation.
01:08:08.000 And now, if you walk down, it only happened 80 years ago.
01:08:10.000 If you walk down this street and shout out, I'm a nationalist, people will boo you.
01:08:14.000 They'll be like, you're disgusting.
01:08:15.000 I cannot believe how intense the brainwashing must be for people to not be able to conceive.
01:08:20.000 We have the chance now to build an Irish nation and we're literally handing it away straight away.
01:08:25.000 We're like, oh, we don't even want it now.
01:08:27.000 It's so disrespectful towards those people who fought and died, those toxic men who ran up with guns and said, I will die for the family I might never get to see again.
01:08:36.000 Imagine, imagine, imagine that thought.
01:08:39.000 Like, I just don't think people can get it into their heads of what it'd be like to say, I will never taste food or a woman again and I will go die for something and then my grandchildren will throw it out the window.
01:08:49.000 It's just astounding.
01:08:50.000 Just astounded.
01:08:51.000 Bro, man, I had an Irish friend who used to play Black and Watch out, you Black and Tans.
01:08:57.000 Yeah, yeah.
01:08:59.000 But, yeah, it's true, man.
01:09:01.000 Yeah, Black and Tans.
01:09:02.000 Back at the end, yeah.
01:09:02.000 How many brave men went to Europe to die to prevent Germany from running Europe?
01:09:09.000 And now here we are in one lifetime later, and who's in charge of Europe?
01:09:14.000 Germany.
01:09:15.000 What was the point of that?
01:09:17.000 I mean, like, if you could tell all the World War II soldiers, you're going to fight, you're going to die, and this is going to happen, this is going to happen, this is going to happen, European Union, Germany's going to be charged.
01:09:25.000 I'm like, what?
01:09:26.000 Like, it's crazy.
01:09:27.000 It's absolutely crazy, man.
01:09:29.000 And I could talk about it forever, but yeah.
01:09:34.000 My man, we've gone for plenty of time here.
01:09:36.000 We could go to one last direction, depends on how you feel, and we could talk about any solutions we see for this, or we could go with questions.
01:09:43.000 Call it, sir.
01:09:44.000 Let's see.
01:09:45.000 What questions do we have?
01:09:46.000 Do we have some good questions, or do we just have.
01:09:48.000 Let's see.
01:09:50.000 The man, Tate, have you ever found exceptions to your general approach with girls?
01:09:57.000 Yeah, I mean, everyone's different, but you've got to be flexible with it.
01:10:00.000 You know, like it's like fighting.
01:10:02.000 It's like me saying, if you learn jab cross, you're going to hit everyone.
01:10:05.000 Well, no, because some people are more sneaky than others.
01:10:07.000 You've got to be able to mix it up.
01:10:08.000 You've got to be so proficient at jab cross, you can land on every type of person.
01:10:13.000 So I wouldn't say there are massive exceptions to the rule.
01:10:16.000 You've got to be flexible.
01:10:17.000 There's nuances.
01:10:18.000 You know, there's ways to, you know, pull it off as a whole.
01:10:21.000 So have I met exceptions?
01:10:22.000 Not really.
01:10:23.000 Women like attention, women get a lot of attention.
01:10:28.000 You need to make sure that your attention has a higher value than other attention.
01:10:32.000 So I recently got verified on Instagram, for example.
01:10:35.000 So, when I used to like a girl's picture, which is very rare because I didn't do that anyway, but if I did, they didn't care.
01:10:42.000 Now, if I like a girl's picture, they start liking all mine back because it's a blue tick.
01:10:47.000 Because my attention has more value now.
01:10:50.000 That's just an example.
01:10:51.000 I'm not saying everyone should get verified on Instagram.
01:10:52.000 I'm saying if you can find a way to prove your attention has value, then the female will respect it more.
01:10:58.000 This is the point.
01:10:59.000 So, I don't think that changes.
01:11:01.000 That doesn't change with any girl.
01:11:02.000 It doesn't matter who she is.
01:11:02.000 It doesn't matter if she's famous, whatever, whatever.
01:11:04.000 This is why famous girls get with famous guys.
01:11:06.000 Because they like having the attention of someone who's valuable.
01:11:09.000 So there's no exceptions.
01:11:12.000 I've never met an exception.
01:11:13.000 I know for a fact I can help any guy in the game.
01:11:17.000 Because a lot of dudes don't understand these basic premises of the rules.
01:11:21.000 It doesn't matter.
01:11:22.000 I'm not saying you need to be the best chess player in the world, but you need to know the rules of chess to at least make sensible moves.
01:11:28.000 Most guys don't even know the fucking rules.
01:11:29.000 They're just putting the pieces all over the place and wondering why they're losing.
01:11:32.000 So I just teach people the rules.
01:11:34.000 I say, here's the rules, here's the outlines, here's a few unbreakable rules.
01:11:38.000 Here's a few good signals, bad signals, few nuances, whatever, whatever.
01:11:41.000 And then you just gotta, you know, develop your own style and play within the parameters and you'll be fine.
01:11:46.000 So, no, I don't think I've ever met an exception to any of my traditional approaches with females.
01:11:51.000 Hey, I'm not the most handsome guy in the world.
01:11:53.000 Look at me.
01:11:53.000 I'm fucking my bust up face and my beard chick.
01:11:57.000 And I'm.
01:11:57.000 You've got bust up face.
01:11:58.000 Yeah.
01:11:59.000 It's not like I'm the most gorgeous man on earth.
01:12:01.000 So, if I can get chicks, anyone can.
01:12:03.000 Like, I know my course is flawless.
01:12:06.000 And unlike a lot of pickup artists, I prove what I say with my Instagram.
01:12:09.000 You see on my Instagram, you see girls, girls, girls.
01:12:11.000 See all these chicks, so it's not like I'm full of evidence.
01:12:15.000 So that is principles over techniques, people.
01:12:18.000 That's what I got out of that.
01:12:19.000 May I ask Cobra, how does he deal with threats?
01:12:24.000 Well, it depends, man.
01:12:26.000 I get threatened a lot.
01:12:28.000 In general, I think most people only threaten you for attention.
01:12:32.000 Because in my life, I've had two people try and stab me, and one of them was random, and one of them was an attack.
01:12:40.000 And what was actually taught me a lot is the guy who attacked me and tried to kill me.
01:12:45.000 He never threatened me.
01:12:48.000 Everyone who threatened me never did anything.
01:12:52.000 Now, doesn't that teach you a lot about intention?
01:12:55.000 I want this guy dead.
01:12:56.000 He stopped replying to my messages and then tried to kill me at random.
01:13:01.000 Wow, that's fucking.
01:13:02.000 Yeah, that's so scary.
01:13:04.000 Was if a guy said, I'm going to kill you, I'm going to get you, I'm going to get you.
01:13:07.000 Well, if he was going to get you, why?
01:13:09.000 Just go do it.
01:13:09.000 He'd do it.
01:13:10.000 What's he sitting there threatening?
01:13:11.000 Why is he warning you?
01:13:12.000 Yeah, why would he warn you?
01:13:13.000 Because that'd make it harder.
01:13:14.000 Exactly.
01:13:15.000 So, if you're involved in some high level mafia shit and you owe some money or you owe some drugs or something, then you might get a warning because they want to get paid.
01:13:23.000 But in general, if you're not involved in that kind of stuff, if someone's like, I'm going to get you, a lot of that is fucking bravado.
01:13:29.000 And the only sensible reply is to ignore it completely because all they want is your attention.
01:13:34.000 Just ignore it, completely ignore it.
01:13:36.000 It doesn't exist.
01:13:37.000 But I'm scared of the people who don't threaten me.
01:13:41.000 Like, if I wronged someone, which I don't do anyway because I'm an honorable guy, if I wronged someone and they didn't threaten me, I'd be far more nervous than if they started telling me they're going to get me.
01:13:52.000 You're on coming from oh 100, 100.
01:13:54.000 And if I ever wanted to hurt anyone, the last thing I'd do is threaten.
01:13:58.000 That's the truth.
01:13:59.000 If I ever wanted to, they wouldn't see it coming, they would never see it coming ever.
01:14:05.000 Yeah, if you want, if your intention is not to have a fair fight, your intention is to get a result, which is someone's death.
01:14:10.000 I'd imagine you don't make a big show about it.
01:14:14.000 You go straight in for the jugglers, they say.
01:14:16.000 So, yeah, if you're serious, the last thing you're gonna do is I'm gonna get you at this time, this day, when you go here.
01:14:22.000 Nah, you might give a small, you might say, Look, you've all paid me back by this day.
01:14:26.000 You know who I am.
01:14:27.000 I ain't playing games.
01:14:28.000 You might give them a chance.
01:14:29.000 If they don't do it, then there's nothing much more to say after that, you know?
01:14:33.000 Because the problem with threats is this most people who threat, I'd say 99.9% of threats are never followed through.
01:14:41.000 So threatening people is dangerous territory because the reason I don't threaten people is because I would never say anything I don't mean.
01:14:49.000 If I say to you, you better pay me or I'm going to fuck you up and you don't pay me, now I've got to fuck you up because otherwise you look like a dickhead.
01:14:56.000 You know what I mean?
01:14:59.000 So the last thing I want to be either is a guy who talks shit.
01:15:01.000 So I don't really give threats anyway because sometimes.
01:15:04.000 Sometimes you might reevaluate a situation.
01:15:06.000 Sometimes you might change your mind.
01:15:08.000 Sometimes, whatever.
01:15:09.000 Once you've given a threat, you put an ultimatum on it.
01:15:12.000 And you have two choices either fulfill the ultimatum or the person loses respect for you.
01:15:17.000 I do this to chicks all the time.
01:15:18.000 I say, shut up or you're getting out.
01:15:20.000 And she carries on talking and you carry on arguing.
01:15:24.000 Then she loses respect for you.
01:15:25.000 If I say shut up or kicking you out and she doesn't shut up, I've got to kick her out.
01:15:29.000 Because I said it now.
01:15:30.000 That's very interesting because I'd even suffer from this when I was growing up, I treat words very cheaply.
01:15:36.000 I think I could just say stuff and it's because they're words, they don't really matter.
01:15:40.000 They don't exist.
01:15:41.000 But there is a deep connection between your words and your actual soul, like something about what you are, that if you betray them, you're betraying yourself in a way that we would slowly erode ourselves and then find ourselves many years later saying a load of stuff that doesn't have any gravitas to it, have any force.
01:15:58.000 And oftentimes I've felt people who talk very, like you, for example, you talk very down to earth, but your words carry weight, whereas you can be very heady and talking a lot of intellectual stuff and your words are less.
01:16:09.000 Gravitated because there's almost like you don't mean them in the same way.
01:16:12.000 It's a very interesting thing.
01:16:14.000 Absolutely.
01:16:14.000 It's very easy for me to look through a dictionary and get a thesaurus and start using big words.
01:16:18.000 But I am very particular with my language because for a long period of my life, at least for the last seven or eight years, I've made a super conscious effort to A, not lie, and B, never say anything I don't do.
01:16:30.000 If I say to you right now, I'm going to do 500 push ups, I'm going to do them because I can't go to sleep knowing I'm a liar.
01:16:37.000 I have to finish because I said I would.
01:16:39.000 My word is my bond to myself.
01:16:42.000 And this allowed me to motivate myself to no end when I was training.
01:16:45.000 If I said to my brother, I'm running a marathon today, and he'd say, Well, you've said it now, so you have to do it, or you're a pussy.
01:16:50.000 It's like, Exactly.
01:16:51.000 That's why I didn't want to do it.
01:16:53.000 But now I've said it, I have to do it.
01:16:55.000 Because I don't want to be a pussy.
01:16:56.000 I'm not a coward.
01:16:57.000 So for a long time, I've only said things that I mean.
01:17:01.000 So I'm very, very careful with my language.
01:17:02.000 And that's one of the reasons I don't really give threats, because a couple of times I've given a threat and I followed through on it, and I've fought back, thinking I could have been more calm or I could have done that differently.
01:17:12.000 But if I say, shut the fuck up, or else, I got followed through on my all or else.
01:17:18.000 That's who I am as a person.
01:17:20.000 But that's also why my girls respect me.
01:17:23.000 Like my girlfriend, I've been with her six years.
01:17:24.000 I've kicked her ass out three times.
01:17:25.000 If I say, shut the fuck up, your stuff's going outside, she'll shut up because she knows I'll do it.
01:17:31.000 She's like, he's done it before right now.
01:17:33.000 He's crazy.
01:17:33.000 I've followed through every time.
01:17:37.000 So, you know, other people who know you well, they start to learn from you.
01:17:41.000 And also, man, you can get reputation amongst your people.
01:17:43.000 Like I've got to a point, there's people I can go up to and say, look, I need 100 grand.
01:17:47.000 I can't tell you why you'll have it tomorrow.
01:17:49.000 They'll be like, Yeah, no problem.
01:17:51.000 Not because it's not much money to them.
01:17:52.000 It's because they know who I am.
01:17:54.000 Wow.
01:17:54.000 That's fucking incredible.
01:17:56.000 If I say you'll have it tomorrow, they know if I have to rob a bank to get it, I'll get it.
01:18:02.000 That's who I am as a man.
01:18:03.000 So, you know, it's an awful thing.
01:18:06.000 Like that pops something into my mind.
01:18:08.000 There is this sense that, you know, people, there is an energy of a lot of men nowadays that are trying their best to redeem themselves from the pressure of turning them into cook, like just disastrous betas.
01:18:20.000 And they want to climb out of that and they want to find all the strategies and the tactics and the knowledge.
01:18:25.000 But there's something very profound about that idea of okay, all you got to do is just never betray your word.
01:18:31.000 Like, if you could do that seriously for 10 years and maybe nothing else, just take that thing particularly seriously and always live through your words properly, I'd say you would like it to be unbelievable the progress you could make.
01:18:42.000 There's something incredible about that concept that is so hard to get your head around.
01:18:47.000 It's also a reason why I think Jordan Peterson really popped for people is that he was coming out and he was like, It's not obvious.
01:18:52.000 You can just lie, man.
01:18:54.000 Like, just, you know, don't lie.
01:18:56.000 And then people were like, What?
01:18:57.000 You don't, you can tell the truth and you don't have to lie.
01:19:00.000 Fuck.
01:19:01.000 So there's something about that.
01:19:01.000 The words are sacred.
01:19:03.000 Absolutely, and for me, it gave me the power of unlimited motivation.
01:19:08.000 Wow, wow, like, there you go.
01:19:11.000 Like, I gotta get on this more seriously now, man.
01:19:14.000 I'd shoot because all you have to do is say something, and you can always find the energy to say something.
01:19:20.000 But if you really believe your words and you refuse to give in on them, then you're going to follow it through.
01:19:25.000 So if you say to yourself, you know what, I'm reading all this on Twitter about drop shipping, will it make money, will it not?
01:19:32.000 I don't know, but you know what, this weekend, I'm going to start a drop shipping company.
01:19:36.000 If you actually say it and then you're like, okay, well, I said it now, so I have to do it.
01:19:40.000 Saturday comes around, even if you don't want to do it, even if you're not in the mood, whatever, whatever.
01:19:44.000 But because you found the motivation to previously say it, and you're not the kind of guy who lies to himself, you're not a coward.
01:19:50.000 Yeah, yeah.
01:19:51.000 I'm not full of shit.
01:19:52.000 I mean what I say.
01:19:54.000 By the end of the play Saturday, you might have a dropshipping company or you'll at least know more or you'll at least look into it.
01:19:59.000 You might be making a hundred bucks a day.
01:20:00.000 Who knows?
01:20:01.000 It might change your life.
01:20:02.000 So all you have to do is find the motivation to say things.
01:20:04.000 I say to Tristan, yeah, I'm going to go on that train.
01:20:06.000 I'm going to train five hours today.
01:20:08.000 If I said it, That was it.
01:20:10.000 I had to do it because I couldn't live with myself knowing I was one of them bullshitters.
01:20:15.000 And most people's words aren't sacred, man, especially Twitter.
01:20:18.000 I got people all the time on Twitter tweeting me, yes, hey, you're the man.
01:20:21.000 I'm the same.
01:20:21.000 I'm the same.
01:20:22.000 I'm like, you're not.
01:20:23.000 I know that if I were to come up to you and say, all right, we're going to do this now, you'd have some excuse.
01:20:29.000 So, like, my words are absolutely sacred, especially to myself.
01:20:34.000 And that's why I'm very careful with what I say because, like I said, if I threaten someone, even if I don't want to do it anymore, I have to do it because I won't lie to myself, I won't betray myself.
01:20:43.000 And that allows you to start thinking a lot more carefully about what you say.
01:20:46.000 Yes.
01:20:47.000 Thinking about what you say, you get a lot more direction and clarification on which direction your life is going.
01:20:52.000 And it's just fulfilling your own word, man.
01:20:54.000 I said I was going to be world champion over and over and over again.
01:20:56.000 I was nervous to lose, not because I was nervous to get knocked out.
01:20:59.000 I was nervous.
01:21:00.000 I looked like a liar.
01:21:01.000 I told everyone I was going to win.
01:21:03.000 Oh, shit.
01:21:03.000 Yeah.
01:21:04.000 That's how I was.
01:21:05.000 I was like, no, I'm going to do this.
01:21:07.000 I'm going to have this.
01:21:08.000 When I picked up my Lambo, the best feeling about picking it up is that I told everyone for years I'm going to have a Lambo.
01:21:15.000 Lambo's my car.
01:21:15.000 I'm going to push a Lambo.
01:21:17.000 When?
01:21:17.000 I guarantee you, I'm going to find a way to push a Lambo.
01:21:20.000 I don't lie.
01:21:21.000 That's amazing because that's almost like making your words seem like magic.
01:21:24.000 It's like you're after saying, it's like, look, I said this and it came true.
01:21:27.000 Like, I literally have magic power that comes out my fucking face.
01:21:30.000 And then people are like, holy shit.
01:21:32.000 Like, to bring full circle what we were talking about earlier about the decline of the West and my suggestion that it does seem quite spiritual in its nature, there does seem to be a very subtle but pragmatic solution there is that if you could get a large enough demographic of men, In our states, to turn around and say, I will not with my words anymore and treat them as sacred, I wonder what would happen in 10 years.
01:21:53.000 Like, that's a really interesting idea.
01:21:55.000 Something that this is the thing is this this is not a new idea, no, not at all.
01:22:00.000 Not at all.
01:22:00.000 I used to say, My word is my bond.
01:22:02.000 Well, what's a man without his word?
01:22:04.000 This is all old ideas that have just been completely forgotten.
01:22:08.000 People used to just completely do things on their word.
01:22:10.000 I do business with people still today on my word.
01:22:13.000 Yeah, mind your word.
01:22:14.000 I have guys who say, Look, I want to invest 50 grand in Romania property, whatever, whatever.
01:22:18.000 I say, Okay, send it to me, I'll sort it out.
01:22:20.000 Or do we not get a contract?
01:22:20.000 I said, Look, I've told you it's fine.
01:22:23.000 That's it, done.
01:22:24.000 You trust me or you're done.
01:22:25.000 And I have people who are trusting me and they're getting all their returns and their stuff.
01:22:29.000 I've never seen anyone do business like you.
01:22:31.000 It's like, fuck, fuck.
01:22:31.000 We don't need courts and laws and signs.
01:22:34.000 You need someone who knows and means what they say.
01:22:36.000 Everyone I do business with is the same way.
01:22:38.000 That's how we are as people.
01:22:39.000 And it's so rare to find, but you're right.
01:22:41.000 If everyone thought that way, think of how much bullshit it would save even in general.
01:22:46.000 And this translates to everything.
01:22:47.000 It translates to business, it translates to everything.
01:22:49.000 But it's especially true with relationships.
01:22:51.000 I say to, like, if I get a new girlfriend or whatever, I say, look, you can't disrespect me.
01:22:55.000 I'm telling you now, I do not take disrespect.
01:22:57.000 I don't give a shit if she's Pamela Anderson.
01:22:59.000 I don't give a fuck how much I love her.
01:23:01.000 I don't care what it is.
01:23:02.000 I've told her I won't take disrespect.
01:23:04.000 So she disrespects me after that.
01:23:07.000 I have two choices.
01:23:08.000 She's gone, or I look like a little lying bitch.
01:23:12.000 I'm not going to live in that position of a bitch.
01:23:13.000 I don't give a shit who you are or how beautiful you are.
01:23:17.000 You're out the fucking door.
01:23:18.000 Because I mean what I say.
01:23:20.000 And you're right.
01:23:21.000 To a degree, it does give you magic powers because I said I won't take disrespect, and now I'm not taking disrespect.
01:23:27.000 I said it, and it's become true.
01:23:29.000 And her ass is waiting at the bus stop, sitting there thinking, You know what, this tape guy, I really can't talk to him that way.
01:23:35.000 I've got to talk to him nice.
01:23:36.000 And then when I finally forgive her ass, she fucking learned.
01:23:40.000 It's the way it's gonna be, you know?
01:23:42.000 And this can help with anything.
01:23:43.000 I say this to, I had a guy, he messaged me on Twitter the other day saying he was struggling with his girlfriend, broke up with his girlfriend.
01:23:50.000 I said, Yeah, we've all been there, bro, but you don't care about her anymore.
01:23:53.000 Say, I don't care about her anymore.
01:23:54.000 He's like, What do you mean?
01:23:55.000 I was like, Say it.
01:23:57.000 I don't care about her anymore.
01:23:57.000 I was like, Are you a liar?
01:23:58.000 Are you a bitch or what?
01:23:59.000 Well, no.
01:24:01.000 All right, then.
01:24:01.000 So what's the problem?
01:24:02.000 Go get something else.
01:24:03.000 Done.
01:24:04.000 You got it, does give your words magic powers because you break them.
01:24:07.000 So, when I say I don't get sad, that's what I say all the time I don't get sad because I've had bad happen to you.
01:24:13.000 My dad's died, I've had Bitcoin wallets hacked and lost a quarter of a million pounds.
01:24:17.000 I've had go down, bro.
01:24:19.000 But I never, instead of sitting there getting sad, I thought, you know what, Tate, you don't get sad.
01:24:23.000 It's like, you're right, I don't get sad.
01:24:25.000 That's just how I am.
01:24:26.000 My brain's wired to my words, so whatever comes out has to happen.
01:24:31.000 And it's like, I can control my mind in real time, I can literally sit there and think myself out of a sad period.
01:24:36.000 In a matter of seconds, by just saying the right words.
01:24:38.000 Nah, take it.
01:24:39.000 Your shit gets far, you work harder.
01:24:41.000 I'll say it, and that's it.
01:24:42.000 Bam, more work.
01:24:43.000 That actually sparked an idea in my head.
01:24:45.000 My dad used to always say, There's no such thing as the word can't.
01:24:48.000 And I was like, That's not logical.
01:24:49.000 Like, clearly there is.
01:24:50.000 But it's more like that word can.
01:24:53.000 That word can is hope.
01:24:54.000 And most people, when they get stuck in sadness and depression, it's literally a defeat of hope.
01:24:58.000 It's like, There is no hope.
01:24:59.000 There's nothing I can do.
01:25:01.000 There's lack of power.
01:25:02.000 But that is so, that is a failure of your own spirit in some sense.
01:25:06.000 You're like, I can't do anything.
01:25:08.000 I am nothing.
01:25:10.000 You're saying it's like if you treat your words serious, you can at least conquer your words.
01:25:14.000 You might even only be able to say, I will get up out of bed and I will do something.
01:25:18.000 But at least if you do that, you're proving that there's something you can do with your words to bring your spirit back to life.
01:25:23.000 How far could you take that?
01:25:25.000 You could dig that over 10 years.
01:25:26.000 You could do incredible things with that.
01:25:30.000 Exactly.
01:25:31.000 You don't have to say anything completely absurd.
01:25:33.000 You can just say basic stuff, you know, because you learn to respect your word.
01:25:37.000 You learn to say things you know are within the realms of possibility.
01:25:40.000 But you're right.
01:25:41.000 I'm going to wake up at 7 a.m. every day this week.
01:25:43.000 I'm going to wake up at 7 a.m. every day this week.
01:25:45.000 When that alarm goes off, I don't think about Prince of Peace and Snooze.
01:25:48.000 I said I was going to do it.
01:25:49.000 I'm just going to fucking do it.
01:25:51.000 That's how it is.
01:25:51.000 And it translates to everything.
01:25:52.000 I say this, man.
01:25:54.000 The thing I say that triggers everyone the most is I say depression isn't real.
01:26:02.000 But this all translates to that.
01:26:04.000 My point is this feeling depressed is real.
01:26:08.000 Everyone can feel depressed.
01:26:10.000 But depression as some disease you catch from the sky that cripples you and you can't do anything about is not real.
01:26:17.000 You have depressing situations that make you feel depressed.
01:26:21.000 The only thing you can do is change that situation to make yourself happy.
01:26:24.000 There's no other way out.
01:26:25.000 If you're fat and lonely and broke and depressed, you need to stop being fat, stop being lonely, and stop being broke, and you might feel better.
01:26:32.000 So, if you can respect your own word and say, you know what, I'm depressed, whatever, I'm going to the gym every day, I'm losing 20 pounds, that's what I'm gonna do, and you stick to it, you'll be surprised how much better you feel.
01:26:44.000 You'll be surprised how quickly you start to think, you know what, I can do this, I can do that, I can do this.
01:26:48.000 It's unbelievable, yeah, it's unbelievable.
01:26:52.000 So, and it's that massive problem with things like depression and the dark side and getting dragged down to sadness and all that.
01:26:58.000 First of all, people don't value.
01:27:00.000 Those things they don't think that when you get into a depressive state, there's not something that you could be learning, such as, or maybe I need a new perspective, maybe there's something I'm doing wrong in my life, and all that.
01:27:08.000 Instead, they can categorize it as something wrong with them.
01:27:11.000 And it's like, oftentimes, you're depressed because you've been up and it's a time for change and all that.
01:27:16.000 And yeah, like it's really about that idea of like you can dig yourself out of that stuff, but you've just got to have that little bit of hope at the start of it.
01:27:26.000 And that's a belief thing.
01:27:28.000 Well, depression is a blessing, and I'll tell you why.
01:27:32.000 I'll tell you why.
01:27:34.000 Because there's no light without dark.
01:27:37.000 There's no joy without pain.
01:27:40.000 You have to have both.
01:27:41.000 It's the oldest human philosophy, yin and yang.
01:27:45.000 The only reason I'm so happy with my life now is because I was once broke.
01:27:50.000 This is why having some money is fun.
01:27:53.000 I've had one and now I have the other.
01:27:55.000 So if you're depressed, you just sit there and go, okay, my life now is shit and I'm depressed.
01:27:59.000 It's going to be fucking amazing when I get my shit together.
01:28:04.000 That's a blessing.
01:28:05.000 You've been given a baseline to compare it to.
01:28:07.000 And you're going to be thankful as fuck you were once depressed when you were back at the top.
01:28:11.000 Imagine being Tyson Fury now.
01:28:13.000 He was depressed and now he fucking just fought that fight and got paid millions and millions of pounds and everyone's loving him again.
01:28:18.000 The polar, the differences in his mindset, that's where the fucking experience of life is.
01:28:23.000 Life is, you look at life and you enjoy it based purely on the differences.
01:28:28.000 Humans, if you're born rich and you stay rich your whole life, you don't fucking appreciate it.
01:28:33.000 It doesn't mean anything.
01:28:34.000 You detect differences.
01:28:36.000 We don't detect our situation, we detect differences in our situation.
01:28:40.000 And this is the reality.
01:28:41.000 So, if you're depressed, you have a shit baseline to build a great life off of.
01:28:44.000 Fantastic, good.
01:28:46.000 But you need to be man enough to get up and do something about it.
01:28:48.000 To sit there and cry your eyes out and think you're going to take a pill is garbage.
01:28:52.000 And this is what the world wants.
01:28:53.000 The world will tell you that, but it's not the reality.
01:28:56.000 Everyone has the ability to be depressed if their life is shit.
01:28:58.000 And everyone has the ability to be happy if they live the life they want to live.
01:29:01.000 There are some famous people who say they're depressed because they may not be living the life they want.
01:29:05.000 If you live the life you want to live, you're going to be a happy person.
01:29:09.000 Depression is an evolutionary.
01:29:11.000 It's an evolutionary mindset we've evolved to stop us from living lives that are shit.
01:29:15.000 Stop us from just sitting around doing nothing.
01:29:18.000 Otherwise, we wouldn't do shit with ourselves, would we?
01:29:21.000 We would just sit around.
01:29:22.000 I'm sitting beneath a mango tree.
01:29:23.000 I can sleep here.
01:29:24.000 I can eat mangoes.
01:29:25.000 I'm going to just stay here for eight years and die.
01:29:27.000 The only reason we get up and do shit is to prevent ourselves becoming stagnant.
01:29:30.000 That's all depression is.
01:29:32.000 You've got to get up and fight.
01:29:33.000 People have lost their ability to fight, man, and it all translates.
01:29:39.000 You glitched at me, sir.
01:29:40.000 Are you still there?
01:29:41.000 Yeah, I'm here.
01:29:42.000 Can you see me?
01:29:43.000 Yes, I've got you.
01:29:45.000 I lost you at the end, but an idea did pop into my head, which is bringing it quite full circle.
01:29:49.000 Is that you said that the fruit of life is in the difference, in that contrast?
01:29:55.000 And most certainly, what seems to be going on in our culture right now is that we have that great civilization, that comfort zone, and there lacks that gravitas, that danger, that evil, that sense of what it meant to be grounded into the floor and be like an ant, not a great human that we are now.
01:30:11.000 And so, what seems to be so strange, people want that, they crave that, so they have to.
01:30:16.000 Literally give themselves depression in order to justify their beautiful existence instead of just having a bit of fucking gratitude.
01:30:22.000 It's crazy.
01:30:23.000 And also, I think a lot of people, I think a lot of people have the wrong definition of happiness.
01:30:28.000 When I say I'm a happy guy, that does not mean I'm fucking.
01:30:33.000 I say I'm happy, and people go, well, you never smile in your pictures, or you're always complaining.
01:30:38.000 How are you happy?
01:30:40.000 My view of happiness is different to.
01:30:42.000 I think a lot of people have this view of happiness, like it's the same as being a kid.
01:30:45.000 When you see a kid at Christmas and they open up that toy and they're smiling and laughing, and oh, I got this toy, we're grownups.
01:30:51.000 We have responsibilities.
01:30:53.000 We have.
01:30:54.000 Duty.
01:30:56.000 We have more important things to worry about.
01:30:57.000 As a grown up, you're never going to be happy like you were as a kid.
01:30:59.000 You're never going to be joyful and laughing and smiling all the time.
01:31:03.000 It's just not the human reality of adult happiness.
01:31:07.000 Adult happiness for me is just a lack of absolute sorrow.
01:31:12.000 There's no such thing as cold, there's only a lack of heat.
01:31:15.000 Scientifically, cold doesn't exist.
01:31:17.000 Heat exists, and a lack of heat creates cold.
01:31:20.000 Well, I think it's the same thing with happiness.
01:31:21.000 There's no such thing as happiness, it's just a lack of sorrow.
01:31:24.000 If I'm not grief stricken, If I'm not sitting here and I'm really devastated, if my family members haven't died, if I'm not bawling my eyes out, if I'm not really struggling, then I'm a happy person because I'm not completely sorrow filled.
01:31:39.000 But I think a lot of people are somewhere in the middle and they think because they're not at that giddy, childish happiness, there's something wrong with them.
01:31:47.000 No grown up adult is supposed to live at the absolute peak of life's great, I'm happy, I'm happy, I'm happy.
01:31:53.000 No one's supposed to live that way.
01:31:54.000 And we're told we're supposed to live that way and that if you ever feel a little bit sad, there's something wrong with you.
01:31:58.000 That's not true.
01:31:59.000 We're human beings.
01:32:01.000 It's perfectly normal to wake up and be pissed off and be sad or be this or be that because there's nothing wrong with it.
01:32:06.000 The only thing that's wrong with it is to sit there and believe that you need to start taking a pill to fix it.
01:32:10.000 Oh, God.
01:32:10.000 Yeah.
01:32:13.000 It's very scary, that thing about the fucking pills and all that shit.
01:32:18.000 Because that is a confession that there's nothing you can do and it just erodes your soul.
01:32:22.000 But, my man, we've got a few more questions that we'll rapid fire through because this is an endless topic.
01:32:28.000 I want to ask Tate from.
01:32:30.000 I want to ask Tate from where he gets his energy and what sits his soul engine.
01:32:37.000 I want to ask Tate from where he gets his energy and maybe where sits his soul engine.
01:32:42.000 That's a good question.
01:32:43.000 But I don't know.
01:32:47.000 We spoke earlier about how I speak things into existence to give myself unlimited motivation.
01:32:52.000 That's one thing.
01:32:53.000 I still do that to this day, bro.
01:32:54.000 I've been doing that for years.
01:32:55.000 I still do that.
01:32:56.000 I'll sit there and think, you know what?
01:32:58.000 I don't want to do that, but I'm going to say it to someone.
01:33:01.000 I don't just say it to myself, I say it to somebody because then I'm accountable.
01:33:05.000 I'll say, Tristan, my brother, or whoever, I'll say, I'm going to do this.
01:33:09.000 And I'm like, no, you won't.
01:33:10.000 So now it's a challenge.
01:33:12.000 Now you think I'm a bitch.
01:33:12.000 Do you know what I mean?
01:33:13.000 Now it's a competition.
01:33:14.000 Now I get to win.
01:33:15.000 So I tell that's the one thing.
01:33:17.000 Second thing is, I don't like to waste words.
01:33:19.000 I mean, if I'm going to say something, I'm going to say it with passion.
01:33:22.000 Why talk otherwise?
01:33:24.000 Like, you know what?
01:33:25.000 Actually, one guy came up to me, a guy who I randomly met.
01:33:29.000 He recognized me from Twitter in Thailand.
01:33:30.000 He came up to me and started talking to me.
01:33:32.000 And then he fucking did a little hit piece on me on Twitter and started tweeting things at me, insulting me.
01:33:37.000 Saying that when he met me, he was disappointed because I didn't talk very much.
01:33:42.000 Uh, hey, I thought Tate would be this crazy guy, and he didn't talk very much.
01:33:46.000 And there were girls in the bar, he didn't try and talk to the girls, and he was just really didn't really barely say anything.
01:33:51.000 And he was just sitting on his phone.
01:33:53.000 The guy's a loser, anyway.
01:33:54.000 The point is, well, like, well, because I see someone I barely know, I'm supposed to jump up and start trying to get in late.
01:33:58.000 Am I?
01:33:58.000 Shut up, anyway.
01:34:00.000 Yeah, yeah, it's that thing that happens with a lot of people who are who are uh big is that they'd uh they become they're they are a character, you know, and then when people meet them in real life, they're like.
01:34:10.000 Be the character, be the character, be the end.
01:34:12.000 It's like, dude, I'm a person, like, fuck off.
01:34:14.000 But the point is also that right now, what I'm speaking to you, I'm saying it, I'm saying it with meaning.
01:34:20.000 I know it's going to resonate with people.
01:34:23.000 I know it's going to be on the internet.
01:34:24.000 So, my energy is if I'm going to talk, it's going to have meaning.
01:34:27.000 Most of the time, my general day to day life, I do get described as a quiet person because I don't speak unless I really believe it has an impact or an effect.
01:34:34.000 That's very interesting.
01:34:35.000 I will sit in groups with friends and not talk for hours.
01:34:40.000 And people say to me, Why don't you talk?
01:34:41.000 I just say, Because I have nothing.
01:34:43.000 You're talking about bullshit.
01:34:44.000 I don't care.
01:34:45.000 What are we talking about?
01:34:47.000 Breaking bad?
01:34:47.000 I don't care.
01:34:48.000 I don't care.
01:34:50.000 So, I don't talk.
01:34:51.000 A lot in general.
01:34:52.000 So I think it looks like I'm super energetic.
01:34:54.000 It's just kind of like, how do I say it?
01:34:57.000 Like a light is either on or off.
01:34:59.000 Yes, yes.
01:35:01.000 That's a very interesting because you would strike me as very extroverted and the sort of person sitting there at the table and just being like talking, talking, talking.
01:35:09.000 But that does make a lot of sense is that if you put gravitas into your words, why would you expect yourself to be doing small talk all the time?
01:35:16.000 Like it's that's completely counterintuitive.
01:35:19.000 So that will involve becoming the more.
01:35:22.000 Introverted warrior samurai type from time to time, and you'll just have to make peace with that.
01:35:26.000 And that's actually part of the process.
01:35:27.000 It's like, fuck, I just need to shut up here.
01:35:30.000 Why does gold have value?
01:35:32.000 Because it's rare.
01:35:33.000 Yeah.
01:35:34.000 If I'm in a business meeting and there's five of us and everyone's talking, talking, talking, talking, I may only say five words, but people listen to what I say.
01:35:41.000 You know what I'm saying?
01:35:43.000 So I don't talk that much.
01:35:44.000 And that's because I'm very specific with what I say, one.
01:35:47.000 And two, because if I'm going to say something, I'm going to say it with meaning.
01:35:49.000 I don't do small talk.
01:35:51.000 I don't really talk about things I'm not interested in.
01:35:53.000 I'm very to the point.
01:35:54.000 If we're sitting around and we start talking about something I care about, yeah, sure, I'll jump in.
01:35:58.000 But there's a whole bunch of conversation that I don't give a fuck about.
01:36:00.000 And I know that as humans, you kind of feel like to not be awkward, you kind of got to join in.
01:36:05.000 But I'm very clear about the point.
01:36:07.000 I don't care.
01:36:08.000 I'll openly say, oh, God, I don't care.
01:36:09.000 Just keep talking, guys.
01:36:10.000 And I'll set my phone, tweet, or whatever.
01:36:12.000 I'm very prepared to not speak.
01:36:14.000 And I feel like that means, like I said, the light's either on or off.
01:36:17.000 A lot of people go through life and they're half on.
01:36:22.000 I've heard this from someone else, this dimly lit.
01:36:24.000 I'm not sure where I heard it from.
01:36:25.000 They might move Floyd May with her.
01:36:27.000 He said that they're asking me things about fights outside of the gym.
01:36:30.000 And he said, No, I don't.
01:36:32.000 Because a lot of people are like a half lit light bulb, always worrying about it.
01:36:37.000 I think about it 1 million percent in the gym.
01:36:39.000 And then when I leave the gym, I turn it off.
01:36:41.000 I think that's a good way to be with your words.
01:36:43.000 If I'm going to talk, I'm going to talk with conviction.
01:36:44.000 I'm going to talk with passion.
01:36:45.000 I'm going to say it how I mean it because I'm on.
01:36:48.000 But if I'm off, I'm off.
01:36:50.000 I'm not going to be the guy who sits there and is like, Oh, yeah, interesting.
01:36:52.000 So, yeah.
01:36:53.000 So, where did you go to school?
01:36:54.000 Like, I don't care.
01:36:55.000 I don't care enough.
01:36:56.000 I'm just going to be honest.
01:36:57.000 I don't care.
01:36:57.000 This is how it is.
01:36:58.000 It's on or off with me.
01:36:59.000 If I'm going to talk, it's going to mean something or I'm not going to talk.
01:37:02.000 This dickhead had come up to me and goes, You barely spoke to me.
01:37:04.000 I don't know you and I didn't think you were very interesting.
01:37:07.000 I didn't want to talk to you.
01:37:08.000 Why the fuck would I?
01:37:09.000 So this is how it is.
01:37:11.000 Gentlemen, this is a very fascinating concept.
01:37:14.000 I most definitely am going to have a good think and put it into practice and see what I can relay to everybody.
01:37:18.000 But most certainly take it serious.
01:37:20.000 This is something that can't really be indoctrinated into a book or a course or something like that because it's so simple.
01:37:27.000 It's like, just take your fucking words more serious.
01:37:29.000 Look at what it can do for you.
01:37:31.000 Exactly.
01:37:31.000 Exactly.
01:37:33.000 What's Tate's opinion on the current Brexit situation?
01:37:37.000 Oh, man.
01:37:38.000 Jesus.
01:37:38.000 These amateurs, bro.
01:37:40.000 Amateurs.
01:37:42.000 Brexit.
01:37:43.000 You just triggered them, man, people.
01:37:44.000 Yeah.
01:37:45.000 I mean, the UK had the biggest, had the largest empire on earth ever.
01:37:49.000 Yeah.
01:37:49.000 We're going to sit and pretend we can't function without Europe.
01:37:51.000 Like, we fought Europe for a thousand years.
01:37:54.000 They were our enemies.
01:37:56.000 And now we have to sit and pretend we can't function without them.
01:37:58.000 This is some garbage, man.
01:38:00.000 It's just globalist elites in charge in Brussels trying to make it extremely difficult for.
01:38:06.000 It's trying to make it extremely difficult for England to leave, and all the people who are in power in England are just elitists, and it's all globalism garbage, man.
01:38:13.000 The fact that most people don't even know how Europe runs.
01:38:17.000 You know what?
01:38:17.000 EU has a parliament.
01:38:18.000 They call it a parliament because the next people think, oh, a parliament.
01:38:21.000 I know how a parliament works.
01:38:23.000 Do you know the EU parliament has no power to propose law, to repeal law?
01:38:28.000 So it's just a bunch of people sitting around talking about laws, which are proposed and implemented by a select group of people that no one's voted for.
01:38:39.000 A bunch of people at the top, which are completely beyond the ability to vote for, they have no direct correlation to the voting electorate.
01:38:48.000 And they can pass any law they want, like let's it let in unlimited refugees.
01:38:53.000 And even if the parliament argue about it, they can do nothing about it.
01:38:56.000 And the people at the base level can't vote these people out of office, so you get to pass it.
01:39:02.000 It's insane.
01:39:03.000 And then England wants to sit there and go, Oh, but we can't possibly survive without these psychos in charge of us.
01:39:10.000 If I was in charge of Brexit, here's what would happen I'd send them a letter saying, Here's how much money you're going to get from England with a big fat zero.
01:39:19.000 Yeah.
01:39:20.000 And I would then say, these are all I'd literally handle.
01:39:23.000 I'd say, okay, we're no longer in the European Union because there's a whole bunch of laws.
01:39:27.000 Everyone's arguing about the Ireland thing, the fishing, all this bullshit.
01:39:31.000 Every law, I'm going to pass a law now that says every law stays the same until it's changed.
01:39:37.000 Done.
01:39:38.000 No money.
01:39:39.000 All laws stay the same.
01:39:40.000 We'll approach them one by one in our own due time if they need affecting or changing.
01:39:44.000 Finished.
01:39:44.000 We've left the EU.
01:39:45.000 You got a problem in Europe?
01:39:47.000 Fuck off.
01:39:47.000 We're going to do trade with Donald Trump.
01:39:50.000 Get over it.
01:39:51.000 That's it.
01:39:52.000 It's just insane.
01:39:52.000 But your EU wants to make it so difficult for Britain to teach other countries a lesson.
01:39:56.000 And England's too pussy to stand up for itself.
01:39:59.000 It's really crazy, man.
01:40:00.000 It's crazy.
01:40:01.000 And it's crazy because I live in Eastern Europe, and Eastern Europe benefits most from the EU because they're taking all the money.
01:40:06.000 Because they're getting money out.
01:40:07.000 They're not putting money in because they're poor countries.
01:40:10.000 I have seen with my own eyes corruption.
01:40:14.000 I've seen Romanian lawyers go through the paperwork to get a quarter of a million pound grant to build a park and then literally lay a little bit of turf and put a swing set.
01:40:24.000 And keep 200 grand.
01:40:25.000 I've seen it in my own eyes.
01:40:27.000 I'm like, this whole system is bullshit, bro.
01:40:29.000 It's all garbage.
01:40:30.000 England needs to just get the fuck out.
01:40:32.000 But the whole leadership, they're all idiots.
01:40:34.000 They're all morons.
01:40:35.000 I mean, I'm not going to get angry about it.
01:40:36.000 England needs a Trump, but we ain't never going to get one.
01:40:39.000 So, would you approve of Trump taking that massive American industrial complex and conquering Western Europe and establishing a God Emperor?
01:40:47.000 You don't have to answer that.
01:40:48.000 That will get you in trouble.
01:40:51.000 I really like Trump.
01:40:52.000 Trump's a G. He's the extras you're going to get as a politician.
01:40:54.000 But here's what's scary Trump is the best you could ever hope for.
01:40:58.000 But has he really changed anything?
01:41:01.000 The colleges are still liberal.
01:41:03.000 All the education is still liberal.
01:41:05.000 Conservatives are still banned all over social media.
01:41:08.000 He's got a few years left and then some psycho liberal is going to come in.
01:41:10.000 Everything's going to get worse.
01:41:12.000 If Trump's the best you can hope for and still he cannot defeat the liberal insanity, then surely that proves the game's over.
01:41:21.000 Yeah, but my opinion would be it's spiritual, cultural, if you will.
01:41:24.000 Like, I don't see how you can win if you've got factories of colleges brainwashing people.
01:41:30.000 Like, it's this.
01:41:31.000 And it's like.
01:41:32.000 That starts public school shit, man.
01:41:33.000 And wait until they start with that whole gender stuff with four year olds and stuff.
01:41:37.000 Like, that's you're playing on the defensive there.
01:41:40.000 There's, I just don't see how that can be achieved unless you are.
01:41:45.000 It's almost like a software program and you need to go to the root.
01:41:48.000 And the root is actually to stop the sources of all that.
01:41:50.000 And it's like J.E. Bolsonaro down in Brazil, he said, like, he's going to kick out all the cultural Marxists in the education system.
01:41:58.000 That was actually one of his big points.
01:41:59.000 The reason why he got in is because he was so adamant that you're not allowed to tell children they're gay and you're not allowed.
01:42:05.000 Have Marxism in schools, and he's like going hard on that.
01:42:08.000 And so, it'll be interesting to see what happens in Brazil in contrast with like Donald, he's having a tough time over there, even getting his wall up, you know?
01:42:15.000 So, crazy, crazy.
01:42:16.000 I don't know.
01:42:18.000 I don't know.
01:42:20.000 Here's a good question, actually.
01:42:23.000 What's your advice to teenagers living with single mothers wanting to not go into the university debt machine?
01:42:29.000 Well, I was a single mother.
01:42:31.000 I was living with a single mother, and I didn't go to university.
01:42:33.000 And my mother was upset about that.
01:42:35.000 And I told her to trust me.
01:42:36.000 I'm a G. I'm going to be a kickboxing world champion.
01:42:38.000 And she called me crazy, and I proved her wrong four times.
01:42:41.000 So it's not about a general rule.
01:42:45.000 My question is this.
01:42:47.000 Because people say this a lot of the time, should I go to university?
01:42:49.000 I go, well, I don't know.
01:42:50.000 Are you going to not go to university and sit at home smoking weed and playing video games?
01:42:54.000 Or are you going to not go to university and do something?
01:42:57.000 I would never recommend university because I think that a degree is worth nothing.
01:43:01.000 Who has a degree nowadays?
01:43:03.000 Everyone.
01:43:04.000 The guy who works at Sainsbury's has a degree.
01:43:05.000 So who cares?
01:43:07.000 One.
01:43:07.000 Two, it does put you in massive debt.
01:43:09.000 So I would never recommend university.
01:43:11.000 But you've got to do something with that time.
01:43:14.000 You can't skip university to be a Dosser and do nothing.
01:43:17.000 So, no, don't go to university.
01:43:20.000 Tell your mother that you've got a better plan and go out there and get a job because I believe that'll be better for you in the long run.
01:43:25.000 Just a side note when I was working, I got many jobs that required a degree without a degree because I was just so flawless in the interviews.
01:43:33.000 So I think if you learn to speak correctly and R8 correctly and you have good body language and you're arrogant enough, you can do well.
01:43:39.000 I walked into positions, they said, Do you have a degree?
01:43:41.000 I said, No, I don't need a degree.
01:43:42.000 Other people need degrees.
01:43:43.000 I don't need a degree.
01:43:45.000 I know that me spending four years for your company and learning things here will teach me far more about this industry than I could learn from an outdated textbook.
01:43:52.000 In a university course, I'm prepared to sit here and work the cheapest.
01:43:56.000 I'll be the cheapest employee you've ever had.
01:43:58.000 You can pay me the least, and I guarantee I'll do the most work.
01:44:01.000 You're never going to have a member of staff as efficient and dedicated as me.
01:44:04.000 So I don't have a degree, but I'm guaranteeing you now I'll be the smartest decision you've ever made.
01:44:09.000 You say that to a boss, and they'll be sitting there going, This dude's so arrogant.
01:44:12.000 He must know something.
01:44:13.000 This guy must know something.
01:44:15.000 He can't be a complete fool.
01:44:17.000 Put him in sales at the very least.
01:44:19.000 Yeah, they're like, Okay, well, we'll give you a one week trial.
01:44:21.000 They don't want to see if I was full of shit or not.
01:44:23.000 All you have to do is early for work to be there at the desk, head down.
01:44:29.000 Just like, you know, it's like things are like this dude's crazy.
01:44:32.000 But crazy is a good thing if it's in the right way.
01:44:34.000 At the end of the day, you're making the boss money.
01:44:36.000 You know, like I say this all the time job interviews for me were so easy.
01:44:40.000 I used to ace them, I used to kill them.
01:44:43.000 Because I used to sit there with like a job interview and I'd say, okay, all right, I used to do sales.
01:44:47.000 I was a salesman because it's where you could make the most money.
01:44:49.000 But I used to say, I'm being perfectly honest with you.
01:44:52.000 I need to make at least a million pounds a year.
01:44:55.000 Oh, yeah, but this company, well, this company only turns over two million, so we're about to turn over a lot more.
01:44:59.000 I'd say, are you prepared for the amount of orders I'm going to bring you?
01:45:03.000 Because if I can't make a million dollars a year or a million pounds a year in commission, I'm going to work somewhere else.
01:45:07.000 So if the company's not large enough, isn't prepared to fulfill the orders I'm going to be bringing in so we can look after the clients so I can get repeat business, I need a job somewhere else because I'm not working for less than that.
01:45:17.000 And they were supposed to be quizzing me.
01:45:18.000 Yes.
01:45:19.000 And they're sitting there like, Ross, this dude, they're like, well, yeah, we can stay.
01:45:26.000 Yeah, we shouldn't be a problem.
01:45:27.000 But that's how I was as a person.
01:45:30.000 Even out of curiosity, they had to try me out.
01:45:33.000 Do you know this dude is crazy?
01:45:35.000 All right, yeah, come Monday.
01:45:37.000 That's good.
01:45:37.000 I never needed a degree anyway.
01:45:39.000 And I don't believe, I believe if I had a degree and I went in there and talked all pussy, I wouldn't have got the job.
01:45:44.000 I didn't need a degree.
01:45:45.000 And I don't think anyone needs a degree.
01:45:46.000 You've got to be yourself.
01:45:47.000 You've got to be adamant.
01:45:48.000 You know, fuck that shit.
01:45:49.000 You've got everything to do with four years and 30.
01:45:52.000 Say if you are introverted and you may not believe that you have that ability to just ace an interview, most certainly put into practice.
01:45:59.000 Andrew's advice on taking your words more seriously, build up that ability.
01:46:03.000 Maybe you could spend the university years getting that into practice.
01:46:06.000 But also, it's quite recent, but Google and all them tech companies said that they will accept people who are talented enough who do not have degrees.
01:46:13.000 All you need is to have a skill.
01:46:14.000 So, just learn the fucking skill, man.
01:46:16.000 And if you're like some introvert who doesn't, who doesn't, isn't good at talking, man, and you can prove yourself, all you need to do is be able to prove yourself, man.
01:46:23.000 So, just fucking, you know, figure out what you want to do, what you're good at.
01:46:26.000 Make sure you understand what you're good at, you know, maybe you have a good voice, maybe you are quite technical or something like that.
01:46:32.000 And then just see what opportunities you can make work with that.
01:46:36.000 Because, as we said before, there is this problem with the universities where they are part of this cultural machine that's more intent on, shall we say, a form of brainwashing.
01:46:45.000 As opposed to actual education.
01:46:47.000 And what's even scary about the American system is they make you pay for it.
01:46:51.000 So, yeah, it's great.
01:46:53.000 And I would say this to introverts all the time as well.
01:46:55.000 I know if you're introverted, it can seem very daunting and stuff, but for certain aspects of your life, like women, like job interviews, being confident and being extroverted certainly helps.
01:47:06.000 And I do believe it's something you can learn.
01:47:08.000 You don't have to be a full time psycho.
01:47:09.000 You haven't been the center of attention, but to learn to speak confidently and learn to be just arrogant enough to be believable, I think it's something everyone can put practice into and learn.
01:47:18.000 I learned it.
01:47:20.000 Like, I know it was semi natural to me, but I learned, I literally sat and thought, how can I come across as so fantastic they have to hire me?
01:47:28.000 It was conscious thought.
01:47:30.000 I mean, I realized that humble is not the way.
01:47:34.000 It was never the way.
01:47:35.000 It was just blow up.
01:47:36.000 Like, we talked about Conor McGregor earlier.
01:47:39.000 Look what he did with his fight career by just running his mouth.
01:47:42.000 There's a whole bunch of fighters with better records than him, but they didn't talk enough.
01:47:46.000 So, there's a whole bunch to be said.
01:47:48.000 I think you need to be able to turn on that extraversion when you need it.
01:47:51.000 But you have to be socially aware, obviously, not when you don't need it, but when you do need it, it's there, you know.
01:47:55.000 So it's all good, it's just another skill to put in the box.
01:47:59.000 You got to have as much as possible and something you can drag out when you need it.
01:48:02.000 That's always 100%.
01:48:04.000 Those skills are extremely valuable as well, and of course, not taught, and they're very hard to teach in a formal way.
01:48:09.000 You actually need to, it's more, it's very personal, it's that personal development side of things.
01:48:13.000 But you take that stuff serious.
01:48:14.000 Like, if you're a young kid at that age, you've got your whole life ahead of you.
01:48:17.000 Remember that you got time, so plan it and play it well, because most of your friends are going to be degenerate at that point.
01:48:23.000 So you're going to have a field in front of you that you can play.
01:48:26.000 A few more questions here.
01:48:27.000 Tate, when are you coming back to fight?
01:48:29.000 We want to see your body 200 pounds, man.
01:48:32.000 Also, what's your prediction for Ivan Throne versus Mr. Plenty?
01:48:37.000 Yeah, I should be coming back.
01:48:39.000 We'll see what happens to the Ivan thing.
01:48:40.000 We were going to have an exhibition match.
01:48:41.000 Ivan's an awesome guy.
01:48:42.000 He's a really good friend of mine.
01:48:43.000 So, yeah, I should be coming back.
01:48:46.000 I've got a lot of commitments, man.
01:48:49.000 I'm not making excuses or nothing.
01:48:51.000 Like I said earlier about respecting my word, I think a lot of that comes from fighting because fighting is not something you can have to do.
01:48:57.000 Like with a lot of sports, you can have to do it.
01:49:00.000 If you have to do fighting, you're looking to get your ass kicked.
01:49:03.000 So it's either something I do with my entire soul or something I don't do at all.
01:49:08.000 So I need to really make that call in the upcoming weeks so I can really justify giving up everything else to give myself every possible advantage and really, really make sure it's the only thing on earth I care about.
01:49:19.000 But yeah, that's what it is.
01:49:22.000 I would also recommend anyone watching to go to fight classes and learn.
01:49:27.000 There's nothing wrong with getting punched in the face.
01:49:28.000 It's good to learn how anti fragile you are.
01:49:31.000 It's good to learn, you know, like, especially in a class.
01:49:34.000 Like, you're not, no one's going to kick the fuck out of you in a class.
01:49:36.000 You're going to be fine.
01:49:37.000 You're not going to get badly hurt.
01:49:39.000 Like, even if you get a black eye on it, who cares?
01:49:40.000 It's going to heal three, four days.
01:49:42.000 Like, I think it's good for every man to just go and get punched.
01:49:45.000 That's why I go when I'm out of shape, specifically because I know I'm going to lose.
01:49:50.000 Well, I didn't lose.
01:49:51.000 I still won.
01:49:51.000 But you know what I mean?
01:49:52.000 I'm going to get hit.
01:49:53.000 When I'm in shape, no one can hit me.
01:49:54.000 But it's good to, you know, it's good sometimes to fucking, you're a human on the planet.
01:49:59.000 It's an experience.
01:50:00.000 It's good to know what it feels like to be wobbly.
01:50:02.000 Go take it, you know.
01:50:02.000 So, I recommend every guy to go out there and at least hold your licks a little bit.
01:50:06.000 It might save your life one day, anyway.
01:50:08.000 100%.
01:50:09.000 Like, I wouldn't, I've never done anything professional now, but I learned to fight, and the difference in my personality afterwards is astounding.
01:50:16.000 There's something about a baseline level of physical competence that improves your confidence on every level.
01:50:23.000 It's an astounding skill.
01:50:24.000 So, I really, really recommend people try it.
01:50:26.000 It's an amazing experience as well.
01:50:27.000 Like, you know, your ancestors carved humanity out of violence, and it's good to get in touch with that from time to time.
01:50:34.000 That's why Fight Club is such a resonant movie with people.
01:50:37.000 Yeah.
01:50:37.000 And we have a few questions here.
01:50:39.000 I'll try to go through them quick fire.
01:50:41.000 Tate's opinion on Brexit.
01:50:42.000 This motherfucker really wants to know.
01:50:43.000 Tate, can I pay you to get an Instagram page of mine verified?
01:50:47.000 If so, where to reach out?
01:50:50.000 Yeah, you can.
01:50:51.000 I can tell you how I did it.
01:50:53.000 So email me.
01:50:55.000 In fact, anyone who's watching this now who wants more of my knowledge, I've got a YouTube channel.
01:50:59.000 I've got youtube.com.
01:51:01.000 I'll type it into the chat now.
01:51:03.000 Let me try to type it in.
01:51:04.000 I'll link it on the description as well.
01:51:06.000 Yeah, youtube.com slash Tate's speech.
01:51:10.000 And then I've got.
01:51:12.000 On CoverTake.com, I sell courses.
01:51:14.000 So I sell a course on body language, which includes like how I speak, how I rate myself, a course on fitness, because I've got a fitness program I do from home that keeps me in fantastic shape 30 minutes a day, a course on how to get girls, a course on how to make money.
01:51:28.000 I've got a war room, which is a group of individuals who are really chasing the cash.
01:51:32.000 And there's like 50 of us, we're all in this one group on Telegram.
01:51:35.000 We're just talking, different guys helping each other with different projects.
01:51:38.000 We're launching three or four businesses between the 50 of us.
01:51:40.000 It's pretty crazy.
01:51:41.000 So we've got the war room going on.
01:51:42.000 So there's a lot of stuff I'm doing to help guys improve their lives and improve their standing.
01:51:46.000 From their current position, anyway.
01:51:48.000 So it's all there.
01:51:49.000 So, anyone who wants any more, I mean, I can talk forever if I need to.
01:51:53.000 But anyone who wants to hear any more of me, there's plenty of it there on YouTube and on the courses.
01:51:58.000 And I really, you know what?
01:52:01.000 Of my courses, my PhD course, I have a 100% approval rate.
01:52:07.000 I thought I'd have a whole bunch of like haters.
01:52:09.000 I thought there'd be some little guy who's crap with girls who's going to watch it and then still be crap and then try and blame me.
01:52:15.000 I have 100% approval.
01:52:18.000 Isn't that crazy?
01:52:19.000 Yeah, that's great.
01:52:21.000 Not a single person has said this is not worth it.
01:52:23.000 Every single person has said, Wow, what the fuck?
01:52:26.000 You made it so easy.
01:52:27.000 So I'm proud of the courses I've made, you know?
01:52:30.000 I'm very impressed with the principle as I've been unearthing it and like putting it into practice.
01:52:35.000 It's like value yourself and value your fucking attention and the world will just change.
01:52:40.000 Like a lot of what we're talking about here is so basic, but it's good to really get it grounded in and understand, put it into practice.
01:52:47.000 It's life changing.
01:52:48.000 Often the most life changing things are very, very simple in that sense.
01:52:51.000 So definitely.
01:52:52.000 I highly recommend you fucking check out this man's channel.
01:52:54.000 Like, I brought him on for a reason.
01:52:56.000 It's like he's an unbelievable orator, and he has like he's like he's a fighter, he's like a big character, and all that.
01:53:03.000 But more so, the mindset behind it is the thing that is most fruitful.
01:53:08.000 It's actually something that's really, really, really deep when you get into it and really, really can change your situation.
01:53:13.000 So, most certainly take it into play.
01:53:15.000 And, uh, anything you want to say there?
01:53:19.000 Oh, yeah, I was just going to say that I even caught myself the other day.
01:53:22.000 I had some girl I was following on Instagram.
01:53:24.000 Who I used to talk to, I don't talk to anymore.
01:53:27.000 And I unfollowed her.
01:53:29.000 And then she messaged me because these girls noticed this thing.
01:53:31.000 Why did you unfollow me?
01:53:32.000 But I sat there.
01:53:34.000 That's how I'm at that point with my attention.
01:53:37.000 Like, literally, if you won't cook me dinner or suck my dick, I don't follow you.
01:53:40.000 Like, that's the level I'm at.
01:53:42.000 My attention is so valuable.
01:53:43.000 You don't get it unless you're actively participating in my life.
01:53:47.000 So, any girl you see I'm following on Instagram is a girl I can have at a moment's notice.
01:53:51.000 That's the level I'm at.
01:53:52.000 Otherwise, I'm not going to follow them.
01:53:53.000 So, when I see these thirst traps, when I see a girl with 5 million followers and these dudes, like, you're so beautiful, you're so beautiful.
01:53:58.000 Just throwing their attention away to a chick they're never ever gonna fuck.
01:54:02.000 I'm just like, you guys have got the whole game so wrong.
01:54:05.000 You know where I'm coming from?
01:54:07.000 Oh, 100%.
01:54:07.000 Like, I think because you notice that as well.
01:54:11.000 Like, you know, talk about game.
01:54:13.000 Like, girls want something valuable.
01:54:15.000 They want to win.
01:54:17.000 They want to win.
01:54:17.000 This is, we get so stuck in our head.
01:54:19.000 It's like, I want to win.
01:54:20.000 But girls want to feel like they're winning.
01:54:22.000 They're getting like a fucking, like a G, like a high status man.
01:54:26.000 And if you pander to them and pedestalize them, they're like, well, he's not.
01:54:30.000 I'm higher up in the status hierarchy than he is.
01:54:33.000 Like, it's never going to work that way.
01:54:35.000 And there is that problem where even as a guy, like, You're sometimes so desperate that you wouldn't accept, okay, right?
01:54:45.000 I'm going to go through a little bit of scarcity and really fucking work on myself and stay true to my path, as opposed to like dissipate my attention into these Instagram posts and all that.
01:54:54.000 And the second you make that commitment and say, I will even sacrifice women to a large extent, I will scorn them, I will sacrifice them in order to go on this path to make me like, you know, my best self.
01:55:05.000 And the second you do that, your attention becomes more valuable and then they start coming.
01:55:08.000 It's astounding how that stuff works, but it's hard.
01:55:11.000 It's emotionally difficult to do that because.
01:55:13.000 In order to do that, you have to go through an actual feeling, which is like that feeling of loss, that fear of loss.
01:55:20.000 And it's so easy in theory, but people.
01:55:22.000 You know what?
01:55:23.000 I put everything down to chess because I'm a chess player.
01:55:26.000 My dad was a chess player professional.
01:55:27.000 I still play chess for hours a day, but it's risk versus reward.
01:55:31.000 So I had a guy, I'm going to keep it private who he was, but he's verified.
01:55:38.000 He's actually a very well known celebrity dude.
01:55:40.000 And he was hitting me up on Twitter for advice on girls.
01:55:42.000 He had a problem with his girl, whatever, whatever.
01:55:44.000 And he was explaining his situation about how his girl still talks to his ex, and he told her not to, and she won't stop, and all this shit.
01:55:50.000 And I told him what to do, and he didn't listen to me.
01:55:53.000 He said he didn't listen because he was afraid to lose her, just like you said.
01:55:57.000 And they split up.
01:55:58.000 But my answer to this was this I said, Look, you sit there and you say, I'm not going to go out with a girl who's texting her ex.
01:56:05.000 So you either go out with me or you text him.
01:56:08.000 You're not doing both.
01:56:11.000 That's the choice.
01:56:12.000 Now, if she chooses, and I explained to him, if she chooses him, Then she's obviously going to fuck him sooner or later anyway.
01:56:18.000 Like all you're doing is accelerating the process.
01:56:20.000 If you said, I'm going to leave you if you don't stop, and she said, leave, then how many weeks do you think it's going to be until she sucks his dick?
01:56:27.000 It's not what I want.
01:56:29.000 Now, my point is this.
01:56:31.000 My point is this.
01:56:32.000 But by shocking her and offering her an instant attention takeaway, by even if she walks out, never text her, never reply to her, completely ignore her unless she apologizes, then you might shock her system into getting what you want.
01:56:48.000 So, yeah, it's a risk because she might leave you, but is it really a risk if the outcome of her banging him is certain anyway?
01:56:55.000 It's just accelerating the process for a chance at victory.
01:56:59.000 So, I use this with the chess analogy.
01:57:01.000 I say if you're in a losing position and you're definitely going to lose, and you can see that if you sacrifice your queen, there's a hope of victory, even if it's unlikely.
01:57:10.000 Do you want to sit there and keep your queen on the board and slowly get ground down and lose?
01:57:15.000 Or do you want to sacrifice your queen?
01:57:17.000 It may not work, but you're going to lose eventually anyway.
01:57:20.000 But it might work, and you pull off the most brilliant move in history.
01:57:24.000 And this is my point, especially with relationships.
01:57:26.000 Guys are so afraid of losing the girl that they never take that risk.
01:57:30.000 I've done that exact situation countless times.
01:57:33.000 And sometimes I've lost the girl.
01:57:35.000 Not going to lie.
01:57:36.000 Sometimes I've lost the girl.
01:57:38.000 But sometimes when I didn't lose the girl, I put myself in such a position of authority.
01:57:44.000 And not in a bad way, but they knew not to fuck with me on such a level.
01:57:47.000 People say to me, Oh, Tate, your girl does whatever you want.
01:57:50.000 She knows you have other girls.
01:57:51.000 She never leaves you.
01:57:52.000 How?
01:57:52.000 It's like because.
01:57:54.000 I she's tried to test me and I stuck to my gums to such a point that she knows now.
01:57:59.000 So I can give you old stories, whatever, whatever.
01:58:01.000 But I had an argument with this girl, we were out, she was at my house, she was at my house for like three days.
01:58:05.000 I said, Can you make me a coffee?
01:58:06.000 I'm working.
01:58:07.000 She goes, Why would I make you a coffee?
01:58:08.000 I said, For three days, you've been in my house.
01:58:10.000 We've been out eating.
01:58:11.000 I've taken you out.
01:58:12.000 I'm now doing a bit of work.
01:58:13.000 I've paid two meal bills.
01:58:15.000 You're sitting in my house.
01:58:16.000 I'd like a coffee.
01:58:16.000 Is it a problem to make me a coffee?
01:58:18.000 Yeah, because you told me to.
01:58:19.000 So, all right, if you're not going to make me a coffee, then just leave.
01:58:23.000 Fine, I'll go.
01:58:23.000 All right, bye.
01:58:25.000 Are you serious?
01:58:26.000 Kicking me out of our coffee?
01:58:27.000 I said, No, it's not about kicking you out of our coffee.
01:58:28.000 It's about the fact that I looked after you for days.
01:58:30.000 I'm sitting here now working.
01:58:31.000 You're doing nothing.
01:58:32.000 I think it'd be polite if you made me a coffee.
01:58:33.000 It's not a big deal.
01:58:34.000 I didn't complain when I paid that 200 pound dinner.
01:58:36.000 If you don't want to make me a coffee, then you're not the kind of girl I want to be with So she got in a mood, she got her stuff and left.
01:58:41.000 Yeah?
01:58:42.000 So the reason I pulled that move, most people think, Tate, you're being petty.
01:58:46.000 But I pulled that move because otherwise, if she said no and I accepted it, what tone am I setting for the relationship?
01:58:52.000 Yes, yes.
01:58:53.000 What tone am I setting?
01:58:55.000 I can lay it down.
01:58:56.000 I said coffee.
01:58:57.000 You said no.
01:58:58.000 I said yes.
01:58:59.000 You want to go?
01:59:00.000 Then get out.
01:59:01.000 Two days, three days, four days pass.
01:59:03.000 Are you done being silly yet?
01:59:05.000 Then she tries to pretend I'm being silly.
01:59:07.000 So listen, I'm telling you now, I'm not going to be with a woman who's refusing to do such a small thing for me.
01:59:12.000 The kind of guy I am and the life I'm going to give you, the quality of man I am, and the kind of respect I have for myself.
01:59:18.000 If you refuse to do something that small for me, I don't want to be with you.
01:59:21.000 So you can stop texting me now if making me a coffee is a problem.
01:59:25.000 Anyway, a few texts later, blah, blah, blah.
01:59:27.000 A couple days later, she comes to my house, and the first thing she does is make me a coffee.
01:59:29.000 I said, Come, I said, You're not coming to my house, so she'll come straight in the door and make the coffee.
01:59:33.000 She was okay.
01:59:34.000 Walked in, made the coffee.
01:59:36.000 I didn't even drink it.
01:59:37.000 But I won the exchange.
01:59:40.000 But the whole point of it was, I sacrificed my queen.
01:59:43.000 I risked.
01:59:44.000 I risked losing her forever.
01:59:46.000 Most men are not prepared to do that.
01:59:47.000 I risked losing her because I would never take her back without the coffee.
01:59:51.000 But it's risk versus reward, isn't it?
01:59:53.000 Look what I pulled off.
01:59:55.000 Next time I say coffee, do you think she thought about it or do you think she got up and fucking made it?
01:59:59.000 And this is the point.
02:00:00.000 Most men don't take that risk.
02:00:02.000 And this is why I say in the PhD course, you've got to be talking to so many girls that you're prepared to lose one.
02:00:06.000 Because I'm not going to be in a relationship unless I'm in charge.
02:00:09.000 Because if we're walking down the street and someone comes up and tries to take her handbag, I'm the guy who has to get stabbed to protect her.
02:00:16.000 But she doesn't want to make me a fucking coffee.
02:00:18.000 That's not a fair exchange.
02:00:20.000 I have to be in charge.
02:00:21.000 That's how it's going to go.
02:00:22.000 So if I have to make those big risk moves for the big rewards, I'm going to be that guy.
02:00:27.000 That's how I'm going to be.
02:00:28.000 So that's what a lot of it is.
02:00:30.000 You have to look at life like that.
02:00:31.000 I mean, a lot of people are, like you're saying, especially with girls, the fear of loss prevents them from really laying their shit down.
02:00:37.000 I'm not saying you have to be a psycho.
02:00:38.000 I'm not saying to be like that.
02:00:39.000 You've got to be fair and honest.
02:00:40.000 You have to have certain boundaries that you won't break on.
02:00:44.000 And she has to see it.
02:00:46.000 That's 100% what it is.
02:00:48.000 Something just clicked off in my mind about that is you're speaking about this.
02:00:51.000 Idea of having a principle active in a moment, and people will be like, Oh, that's petty, it's a coffee, but it's not the coffee, it's the principle that you're pulling out.
02:01:00.000 It's like, This is it's like the same thing with the word.
02:01:02.000 It's like, you say, 'I will do 500 push ups,' and it's like, 'Dude, like that's just kind of a bit ridiculous.' Like, it's 500 push ups, doesn't mean nothing.
02:01:08.000 You get to 200, it's not a big deal, but you're like, 'But the principle is active.' It's like, if I violated this principle, I violate my words, and they're no longer magic.
02:01:17.000 And if I violate this relationship, it's no longer magic.' And it's that idea of drawing, it's almost like an existential and invisible boundary.
02:01:24.000 It's a principle that you're acting on, and it is actually hyper like it's a masculine thing, even if we're going to bring it this big.
02:01:30.000 It's like what that's what's going on in the West right now is that the principles which built the West are now getting violated, and people think it doesn't matter, it's not a big deal.
02:01:39.000 The boundaries of the West are getting violated, it doesn't matter.
02:01:42.000 But the thing is, is that it did, it caused a lot of death in that moment, and it's the same thing.
02:01:46.000 It's like these moments full of tension they matter because they really build something.
02:01:51.000 Like I was saying to this guy, the fact your girlfriend even thinks it's normal to be able to text her ex while she's with you.
02:01:58.000 Does that not show how fucked up society is?
02:02:01.000 Why is she talking to that guy?
02:02:03.000 He put his dick in her, and now she's with you.
02:02:05.000 He thinks he can text her.
02:02:06.000 Why?
02:02:07.000 And he's like, oh, is that not a bit extreme to tell her she can't talk to him?
02:02:10.000 I'm like, no.
02:02:11.000 Yeah, yeah, it's extreme.
02:02:12.000 Like, it's like.
02:02:14.000 These men are taught that it's wrong.
02:02:16.000 Like, when I say my girl has no male friends, they think, oh, you're a psycho.
02:02:19.000 You must control her.
02:02:20.000 I was like, no.
02:02:21.000 She knows that she has the choice of being with me or having male friends.
02:02:24.000 And she made her choice.
02:02:26.000 So she doesn't have any.
02:02:27.000 Because I'm not going to have a girl surrounded by dudes.
02:02:29.000 Because that's my call.
02:02:31.000 If you want to have male friends, that's fine.
02:02:32.000 But you're not going to have me.
02:02:34.000 So make a fucking decision.
02:02:36.000 So, I don't know why people think I'm the crazy one for sticking by my principles.
02:02:40.000 And they're like, oh, how come you and your girl always get along?
02:02:43.000 Because she ain't have a bunch of dudes in her ear trying to split us up.
02:02:46.000 That's why we get along.
02:02:47.000 That's why it's fine.
02:02:48.000 Because I'm the one she talks to, me and my brother, and a bunch of other girls.
02:02:52.000 And there's no dude in her ear saying, I'll be better to you.
02:02:54.000 I can do better than all that shit that men put up with.
02:02:56.000 They wonder why their life's so fucked up.
02:02:58.000 But they're so afraid to do what I did with the risk versus reward.
02:03:01.000 You have to be able to call a bluff.
02:03:03.000 Trump said it.
02:03:04.000 Trump said in his book, Art of the Deal, you have to know when to walk away from the table.
02:03:10.000 Yeah.
02:03:11.000 You can all be able to do it.
02:03:13.000 Most dudes never do it to a chick.
02:03:15.000 You know what?
02:03:16.000 The number of fought girls who I've dumped who hit me up years later, years.
02:03:20.000 And it's because they can't get over in their mind the one guy who dumped me, the one guy who didn't give in, the one guy who didn't care is that Tate fuck.
02:03:29.000 That Tate is the only guy who didn't give a shit about me.
02:03:32.000 Every other guy gives me what I want.
02:03:34.000 Why didn't he give me what I want?
02:03:36.000 And then they think, I've got to try again to get him to give in.
02:03:39.000 And they end up coming back because women are not even familiar with this.
02:03:43.000 Women don't even go.
02:03:45.000 Most Hulk girls have never had a dude bail on them, ever.
02:03:49.000 No Hulk girls don't get kicked out over coffees.
02:03:52.000 So when I did that to her, her brain fried.
02:03:54.000 She couldn't believe it.
02:03:56.000 She's like, Oh, you're a psycho.
02:03:58.000 You're trying to think of every reason why I'd kick her out over a coffee.
02:04:01.000 And eventually it clicked.
02:04:02.000 And she's like, You know what?
02:04:02.000 I should have just made the coffee in the first place.
02:04:04.000 I told you.
02:04:06.000 Eventually she caught it in her head.
02:04:09.000 It is 100%.
02:04:10.000 That's what's going on there.
02:04:11.000 It's astounding.
02:04:12.000 It's astounding how much comes out of that simple idea is that you have her and you value her more than your own principles.
02:04:19.000 And what that does is that corrodes your ability to have a character and you also lose her.
02:04:23.000 You lose everything by valuing the wrong thing.
02:04:26.000 And if you value your principles, which in essence is yourself, everything will fall in the right place.
02:04:31.000 And that is so psychological and like mindset and even metaphysical to an extent.
02:04:36.000 And it is the one thing that seems to be going wrong is that we live in this anything goes ism type situation where it's like there are no such thing as boundaries.
02:04:44.000 Boundaries are in fact.
02:04:45.000 Bad, and that's destroying us, and especially men.
02:04:48.000 It's especially destroying men.
02:04:52.000 I don't know what's going on with people.
02:04:53.000 I say to dudes all the time, like I said, all the time for relationship advice.
02:04:56.000 I say, Don't let your girl have male friends.
02:04:57.000 I'm like, Well, why?
02:04:59.000 If I was your girl's male friend, do you know how that ends?
02:05:02.000 I know how that ends.
02:05:04.000 So if you don't know, you should know, because I know.
02:05:07.000 Obviously, she's known guys since school, whatever, whatever.
02:05:09.000 If you're their friends too, maybe there's some exceptions.
02:05:14.000 If you're really the man your woman is obsessed with and in love with, She shouldn't want to be texting some other guy about anything.
02:05:20.000 Like, why?
02:05:20.000 Like, maybe it's a work thing, she texts him quickly.
02:05:23.000 But she's sitting there all day actively talking to some other dude.
02:05:25.000 Why?
02:05:27.000 Like, I see a warning sign there.
02:05:29.000 Other people don't see a warning sign because they're conditioned not to.
02:05:31.000 Like, it's normal to be that way.
02:05:33.000 I'm like, what do I do about it?
02:05:34.000 I was like, well, you've got to take the risk.
02:05:35.000 It's risk versus reward.
02:05:36.000 You've got to know when to walk away from the table.
02:05:38.000 Trump did it with North Korea.
02:05:40.000 This is what he did.
02:05:41.000 They organized the first meeting and he canceled it.
02:05:43.000 Because he was to the show.
02:05:44.000 He canceled it.
02:05:45.000 Because they said something bad about him on the news.
02:05:48.000 When all the shit was going down before they fixed the problem, he organized a meeting.
02:05:53.000 They said something bad about Trump on the news, so he canceled and said, I don't want to meet you while you still insult me on the news.
02:05:57.000 Now that looks petty, but what that really is showing look, you're not going to fucking insult me and me turn up.
02:06:01.000 Fuck you.
02:06:02.000 Principle.
02:06:02.000 Principle.
02:06:03.000 And then North Korea came back to the table, and guess what?
02:06:05.000 They stopped doing on the news, insulting Donald Trump.
02:06:08.000 But people, you've got to be the guy who walks away from the table, especially in relationships.
02:06:12.000 I can't stress enough how important that is.
02:06:15.000 But you also have to be mad enough to understand that that ain't going to work every time.
02:06:19.000 Some chicks you are going to lose, but you just can't give in.
02:06:22.000 I'll tell you something now, man, and this is a fact because I've run the numbers, brother.
02:06:25.000 I've run the numbers.
02:06:27.000 I've never had a girl who I split up with in that kind of situation who didn't eventually come back and message me.
02:06:34.000 Or even like an Instagram picture.
02:06:36.000 Even if it takes three years.
02:06:37.000 I've had girls three years later start liking my Instagram pictures trying to get my attention.
02:06:41.000 Like liking 10 of them in a row so I can see on my feed.
02:06:44.000 It may take two years, it may take three years.
02:06:46.000 But in the end, if you're iron willed, you will win.
02:06:50.000 But most men never are.
02:06:51.000 Most men always crack.
02:06:53.000 I'm not the text first guy.
02:06:55.000 I'm not that guy.
02:06:56.000 I refuse.
02:06:57.000 I will literally say, I'm not texting you first.
02:06:59.000 If I said it, it's real.
02:07:00.000 Done.
02:07:01.000 That's it.
02:07:01.000 And eventually they give in, man, because they're not used to it.
02:07:03.000 No, they ain't used to a guy doing that to them.
02:07:06.000 So, it's you just got to stick to your words.
02:07:08.000 And this is the thing, man.
02:07:09.000 A lot of guys, especially men, the whole world talks about how unhappy women are.
02:07:14.000 But no one gives a fuck about how unhappy men are.
02:07:16.000 I guarantee there are more unhappy men in relationships than unhappy women.
02:07:20.000 People think that women are unhappy in relationships.
02:07:22.000 Poor you, he doesn't give you enough attention, blah, blah, blah, blah.
02:07:25.000 That's bullshit.
02:07:26.000 Do you know that like 80% of married dudes are like in sexless marriages?
02:07:29.000 They can't even get laid.
02:07:30.000 They can't even fuck.
02:07:31.000 They can't fuck the woman they're married to.
02:07:33.000 And if they fuck anyone else, they lose their house and kids.
02:07:35.000 They're supposed to live the rest of their life without ever having sex, ever.
02:07:39.000 And society thinks that's normal.
02:07:41.000 Like most dudes are just miserable, and the reason they're miserable is because the woman doesn't respect them, and the reason she doesn't respect you is because you allowed her to disrespect you one too many times.
02:07:51.000 That's all it is.
02:07:52.000 You've got to fucking eventually set a boundary.
02:07:55.000 Like, this is a few years ago, a long time ago.
02:07:57.000 This is another girl.
02:07:58.000 She tried to pull that sex thing on me.
02:08:01.000 Oh, you know, I barely seen you.
02:08:03.000 I don't want to see you.
02:08:03.000 It's okay, that's fine.
02:08:04.000 But you know, I'm just letting you know if I want to have sex, I'm having sex with somebody.
02:08:07.000 You don't play these games, I'll say someone else.
02:08:08.000 I give a fuck.
02:08:10.000 What does that mean?
02:08:11.000 I'm not telling you, I'm not trying to be a rapist, none of that shit.
02:08:13.000 I'm saying if you want to get on the game.
02:08:15.000 I'm not going sexlessly.
02:08:17.000 I'm going to fuck someone else.
02:08:18.000 That's the reality.
02:08:19.000 We'll do it then.
02:08:20.000 All right, I will.
02:08:20.000 So I did.
02:08:21.000 Fuck.
02:08:22.000 Not playing games.
02:08:24.000 So you just got to be straight to the point.
02:08:26.000 And all these men and their sexless marriages, they just sat there and ate too much crap for too long.
02:08:31.000 The world is trying to, especially against men, we've been talking about this for a long time, but how it's trying to condition us.
02:08:36.000 It's conditioning you to take a whole bunch of shit.
02:08:38.000 As a man, you can be a man of honor and you can fit well in the society and you can go through life and be nice to people and still take no shit from anyone.
02:08:47.000 Yes, yes, I agree.
02:08:48.000 100%.
02:08:49.000 That is like, that is the danger.
02:08:51.000 I think that is the problem is that people say those two things can't go together.
02:08:54.000 You can't have standards and be an honorable, noble man.
02:08:58.000 In fact, I don't think you can be an honorable and noble man unless you have standards.
02:09:02.000 I would always worry about a male feminist.
02:09:03.000 Like, he's more likely to betray you than a man with honor.
02:09:06.000 And that's a very interesting problem is that we don't have a conception of that anymore.
02:09:10.000 And it's very, if you want to talk about toxic, I can think of nothing more spiritually toxic than not knowing the best form of masculinity we could have.
02:09:18.000 We only have a conception of the worst.
02:09:19.000 So it's a very strange problem.
02:09:21.000 Very strange problem.
02:09:22.000 Absolutely agree, man.
02:09:23.000 Because I say this now I am polite to everyone I meet.
02:09:26.000 I say please and thank you.
02:09:27.000 I get through my life fine.
02:09:29.000 I have plenty of good friends, but I don't take shit from nobody.
02:09:32.000 I don't take shit from you.
02:09:34.000 I saw that today.
02:09:35.000 You left a tweet and you're like, I don't insult women.
02:09:37.000 And I was like, it just kind of struck me because there was this you have this sort of thing where you're talking to girls and you want to kind of cut them down off their pedestal.
02:09:45.000 So you'd like make fun of them a bit, you know, you'd like you'd nag them or something.
02:09:48.000 And you were like, I'm quite polite.
02:09:50.000 I'm like, what?
02:09:51.000 Like, what?
02:09:52.000 That doesn't make sense.
02:09:53.000 And it's like, well, actually, yeah, if you've got the principal active, you could be a fucking gent and the principal will do the work.
02:09:59.000 And yeah, like it's shit like that.
02:10:02.000 It's just, it's like a lot of guys are getting into this manosphere stuff because they don't have a positive conception of what masculinity is.
02:10:09.000 I think women suffer from this too.
02:10:11.000 They don't have an idea of what a great man is.
02:10:13.000 And so they are always unhappy, trying to search for something and they're never finding it.
02:10:18.000 And they don't know why they're unhappy.
02:10:19.000 And eventually they start blaming men.
02:10:21.000 And maybe that's where that shit test energy is coming they're prodding and being like, something in me makes me realize there needs to be a better form of masculinity, but you're not it.
02:10:30.000 And then no guys know how to bring it out.
02:10:32.000 It's very, very interesting.
02:10:33.000 That's why every fucking hardcore left wing feminist ends up falling in love with some right wing dude because he's the first dude to tell him to shut up.
02:10:39.000 It's the reality.
02:10:40.000 I mean, I've done it myself.
02:10:41.000 I've been on dates with feminists and I changed their minds with my big dick in no time.
02:10:45.000 So it's certainly doable.
02:10:47.000 And the reason I say I don't insult women is because on Twitter, especially, if someone comes at me, I might say, oh, you're a four out of 10, so we unlock them, whatever.
02:10:57.000 But my point was very clear is that.
02:11:00.000 I think when we're saying about the power of words, if I'm going to insult someone, it does two things.
02:11:05.000 One, verbal insult.
02:11:06.000 Insults is fighting.
02:11:08.000 And I don't believe you should go down that path if you're not prepared to actually fight someone.
02:11:11.000 I wouldn't insult a guy.
02:11:12.000 I'm not prepared to fight.
02:11:13.000 So I wouldn't insult a chicken because I'm not going to hit her.
02:11:15.000 And two, I think the most masculine and probably the most annoying, especially if you're in an argument, the most annoying way you can be as a man.
02:11:22.000 As a man, I like to show that I can't be emotionally affected.
02:11:25.000 If you start insulting someone, that means they made you mad.
02:11:28.000 I love it when a girl's like, you're a fucking cheater.
02:11:30.000 You're a scumbag.
02:11:31.000 You're a piece of shit.
02:11:32.000 You're this.
02:11:32.000 You're that.
02:11:33.000 You're this.
02:11:34.000 And I'm just like, okay, anything else?
02:11:38.000 That's what annoys them more than anything.
02:11:41.000 Because what people do is they want to affect you.
02:11:43.000 If you insult a girl, it shows she's affected you mentally.
02:11:46.000 You have to show you're above her games.
02:11:48.000 So that's why I don't believe insulting women is affected.
02:11:50.000 Like a woman would rather be called every name under the sun than be ignored.
02:11:55.000 That's a fact.
02:11:56.000 So I'll just stick to ignoring.
02:11:57.000 It annoys them more in the end.
02:12:00.000 This is true.
02:12:00.000 The principle act of attention matters.
02:12:03.000 So even.
02:12:06.000 Even just like insulting them is a little bit needy on some level.
02:12:10.000 Like it's less needy than pandering, I guess, in some ways.
02:12:12.000 But if you're like insulting them, you're like, please give me attention.
02:12:15.000 This is my attempt.
02:12:16.000 I get it.
02:12:17.000 This is the thing.
02:12:18.000 Like I said, I've coached lots of guys.
02:12:19.000 So I had a guy whose wife used to go nuts at him every time he went out.
02:12:22.000 And every time he's out, he's sitting there arguing with her.
02:12:24.000 I was like, bro, you're on a night out.
02:12:27.000 She doesn't like that you're out with your friends and she wants your attention.
02:12:29.000 So she's starting an argument because you're going to sit there and text her insults all night.
02:12:33.000 She'd rather you insult her all night than ignore her.
02:12:36.000 So what I do when I argue with girls is, They start getting fresh.
02:12:40.000 I say, stop saying that, whatever, whatever.
02:12:41.000 They carry on.
02:12:42.000 Ignore them completely.
02:12:44.000 Just ignore them completely.
02:12:45.000 Because then they learn Tate only replies to me when I'm nice.
02:12:48.000 When I get stupid, he ignores me.
02:12:50.000 That's what you learn.
02:12:51.000 If you start insulting them, insulting is still attention.
02:12:54.000 Women love attention.
02:12:54.000 They don't give a shit.
02:12:55.000 If you get in a fucking big ass argument, you're still focusing on them.
02:12:59.000 Women can get so toxic with that.
02:13:01.000 This is why women stay with men who are like abusive.
02:13:04.000 Because I know girls who are with abusive guys and then they leave that eventually, abusive guy goes to jail, whatever.
02:13:09.000 They get with a normal guy.
02:13:11.000 I knew a guy who was going out with a girl who used to be abused.
02:13:13.000 Yeah.
02:13:14.000 And he was saying, she drives me crazy if I don't call her every two minutes.
02:13:18.000 She says, I'm cheating.
02:13:20.000 And she flipped it because she was so used to so much attention from this abusive guy that when a normal guy was with her, she was like, he doesn't care about me.
02:13:27.000 And she was flipping on him.
02:13:29.000 Text me more.
02:13:29.000 Wow.
02:13:30.000 Because she wanted the attention she used to get from the guy who would call her every two minutes and not let her out the house.
02:13:35.000 So the women, a lot of them stay in these relationships for the wrong reason because they're getting something out of it.
02:13:40.000 Even though they'll never admit this, they're getting something out of it.
02:13:43.000 Otherwise, they're going to be.
02:13:44.000 It's crazy how they would see abuse as valuable attention because that's so insane because that makes sense, yeah.
02:13:53.000 Because why else would they stay for 10, 11, 12 years?
02:13:56.000 I mean, they say I can't leave.
02:13:57.000 We all know that's bullshit.
02:13:58.000 It's the Western world.
02:13:59.000 You go to any police station, get him arrested, and you can just keep the house.
02:14:01.000 So, why the fuck did you put up with it for so long?
02:14:03.000 Because he called you every 10 seconds and you felt important.
02:14:06.000 Even if you didn't like it, even if it annoyed you, the attention overload, you got so accustomed to it that now when you're with a normal guy, you're calling him every name under the sun for not giving a shit because he ain't called you in two hours.
02:14:17.000 He's at work.
02:14:18.000 So, it goes to show that's how focused and fixated females can be on attention.
02:14:24.000 So, a woman would rather have a huge argument with you and you call her every single name than ignore her.
02:14:30.000 That's the best thing you can do to annoy a chick, just ignore her existence.
02:14:33.000 It's the only thing you can do.
02:14:34.000 Well, you're like, yeah.
02:14:36.000 So I say this to guys, that's why I say I don't insult females, because if a woman ever makes me mad enough to want to insult her, then I know the correct thing to do is ignore her.
02:14:44.000 If I start saying, you're a stupid bitch anyway, then I just look like a dickhead.
02:14:48.000 You're a stupid bitch and you're a fucking hoe.
02:14:51.000 Why?
02:14:53.000 When she texts me and says, Tate, you're the worst man in the world, I just completely ignore the text.
02:14:58.000 That's how I win.
02:14:59.000 That's the best way to do it.
02:15:02.000 It reminds me of some Schwarzenegger, Arnold Schwarzenegger.
02:15:04.000 He said before, when he was in his prime, properly going for that, like Mr. Olympia physique, and his car would break down, little shit like that.
02:15:12.000 He said he would literally have no emotions whatsoever because he literally dedicated all his focus towards his gym work.
02:15:20.000 And it's this idea that if you're on your path, if you're on your purpose, like even dispensing of energy towards an argument is actually a waste of time.
02:15:30.000 Sometimes it's better to be insulted.
02:15:33.000 And not care and move on and focus on your goal because, in the long term, that's what matters, and that's how you create that valuable attention thing.
02:15:39.000 It's a active principle, it's so true.
02:15:43.000 People, check out this man's PhD program, it looks very, very interesting on the surface.
02:15:50.000 And we've only barely scratched it here.
02:15:53.000 I'll see if we can get a few more questions, and then, yes, we may have to wrap.
02:15:58.000 Here we go.
02:15:59.000 What are your best methods to control your anger?
02:16:02.000 It's a good question.
02:16:03.000 I think anger is a fantastic thing to feel.
02:16:07.000 A lot of people are no, a lot of people are told no, you can't.
02:16:10.000 No, people are told to not feel angry, and I think I'm gonna send that to CNN.
02:16:15.000 Man, I think that's wrong.
02:16:16.000 I think you should absolutely feel that's a great thing, but you need to learn to channel it.
02:16:21.000 Now, there's a million things you can channel into you can channel into the gym, you can channel into your business, you can channel into whatever.
02:16:28.000 But you're not stupid, you know what's going to positively impact your life, what's going to negatively impact your life.
02:16:34.000 My life was built off the back of anger.
02:16:37.000 I was too angry to sleep that I was broke.
02:16:40.000 That's how I got rich.
02:16:41.000 I was too angry to sleep at the thought of losing.
02:16:44.000 That's why I trained.
02:16:45.000 I was completely built on anger and I channeled it all in the right direction.
02:16:50.000 I have no criminal record.
02:16:51.000 So I'm never going to tell anyone not to be angry.
02:16:53.000 I'm going to say make sure you put it into something worthwhile.
02:16:55.000 If you're genuinely pissed off, and I mean genuinely, think how much energy that is.
02:17:01.000 That's a little ball of force.
02:17:04.000 I'm pissed off.
02:17:05.000 That's it.
02:17:05.000 Fuck it.
02:17:06.000 That's it.
02:17:06.000 I'm doing this today.
02:17:07.000 I'm fucking finding a way to get this done today.
02:17:09.000 That's good.
02:17:11.000 What a lot of people do is they pretend they're angry, but they're not.
02:17:13.000 They're all angry, but really, I'm just miserable.
02:17:15.000 I feel sorry for myself.
02:17:16.000 Now, that is negative.
02:17:17.000 That's never going to help you.
02:17:19.000 But if you're genuinely angry, then you have unlimited motivation.
02:17:22.000 So I don't ever try and stop myself being angry.
02:17:24.000 I just make sure I have something to put it into.
02:17:26.000 Fantastic.
02:17:27.000 Good.
02:17:27.000 Be angry.
02:17:28.000 Good.
02:17:29.000 Absolutely.
02:17:29.000 But you need to have an outlet in your life that's going to benefit your life.
02:17:32.000 It doesn't matter what it is.
02:17:34.000 Go do push ups.
02:17:35.000 I'm so angry.
02:17:36.000 If you're so angry, you want to talk how angry you are like a tough guy, show me a thousand push ups.
02:17:40.000 Come on.
02:17:41.000 You're so angry.
02:17:42.000 Move them arms.
02:17:43.000 You're so angry, use your force.
02:17:44.000 Oh, what?
02:17:44.000 Oh, you're tired now.
02:17:45.000 Well, you're not angry anymore.
02:17:47.000 Shut the fuck up.
02:17:48.000 So, a lot of people just talk anger.
02:17:50.000 They like to talk shit.
02:17:51.000 But a lot of it's just like, feel sorry for themselves, frustration.
02:17:55.000 That's different than anger.
02:17:57.000 Anger is a positive emotion.
02:17:58.000 Feeling sorry for yourself is a negative emotion because feeling sorry for yourself, it's implying that something's going to come along to save you.
02:18:07.000 And that's never going to fucking happen.
02:18:09.000 No one's going to wake up and think, you know what?
02:18:11.000 This tape dude, I want to get him a real hot girl and a fucking Lambo.
02:18:15.000 Let me go find a hot bitch and a Lambo and deliver him to tape.
02:18:18.000 It's never going to happen.
02:18:19.000 So either I have to do it or no one's going to do it.
02:18:21.000 So sitting there, oh, poor me.
02:18:24.000 No, I don't have a Lambo.
02:18:25.000 Poor me.
02:18:26.000 That's hoping someone else is going to give a fuck.
02:18:27.000 And no one else is going to give a fuck.
02:18:29.000 So it's just a name.
02:18:32.000 It's absolutely true.
02:18:33.000 I think this is another conspiracy here.
02:18:38.000 There is a denial.
02:18:39.000 There is a fundamental, despite the fact that we deify getting all feeling and emotional in this society, there is a denial that our strongest emotions have positive qualities, such as anger.
02:18:51.000 Anger most certainly wouldn't exist unless it had a purpose.
02:18:54.000 And that purpose can't be negative if it's applied correctly.
02:18:58.000 Anger was the way a warrior would carry himself through a.
02:19:02.000 Fucking battle.
02:19:03.000 Anger is the way you'd fight against injustice.
02:19:05.000 Fear has a place for you.
02:19:06.000 It's telling you that you're about to enter risk.
02:19:08.000 And for some reason, there's this push where we take ourselves away from those power emotions, such as confronting fear.
02:19:14.000 Well, maybe fear is there a bit, but stuff like anger, like anger is higher than apathy.
02:19:18.000 And there seems to be this push where it's like, keep people in, like, be feeling, but the only feeling you can have is this low, heavy, apathetic, almost depressed state, because that's a grounding, heavy state that pulls you down.
02:19:29.000 Whereas anger pulls you up and puts you into a state of action, but it's wild and hard to control.
02:19:34.000 And most certainly, if you can control it, It can become a great asset.
02:19:37.000 Like anger has been a friend of mine many times, but it's a very intense experience.
02:19:42.000 But then again, so is life.
02:19:45.000 Absolutely.
02:19:46.000 Did you give a specific method?
02:19:48.000 Do you have methods or is it just like having the right mindset?
02:19:51.000 If I ever get really pissed off, what I try and do is I really try and see beyond myself.
02:19:59.000 I really try and think of, I really literally in my mind, I will literally sit and imagine myself sitting on this chair and looking at myself from above and realizing two things.
02:20:10.000 One, how unimportant my issue is.
02:20:12.000 And when I say unimportant, I don't mean unimportant to me.
02:20:14.000 I mean unimportant to the world.
02:20:16.000 Like, in regards to the stars in the sky and the solar system, and fucking, is any of my problems going to stop the sun rising?
02:20:24.000 Is any of my problems going to stop the tide coming in?
02:20:27.000 Like, it's just the reality of the world is that how much I am upset, it really doesn't matter in the grand scheme of things.
02:20:34.000 That's the first thing.
02:20:35.000 And two, is that anger can be channeled into anything, anger can be channeled into inaction as much as action.
02:20:43.000 So, like, if a girl really pisses me off, I'll take all that anger and channel it into not texting her.
02:20:48.000 That's an inaction.
02:20:50.000 But I'll sit and think, you know what?
02:20:51.000 I know what the right thing to do is.
02:20:53.000 If you sit long enough, no matter how angry you get, you take a few seconds as a full grown man, sit, decide the right course of action, and put the anger in the correct direction.
02:21:02.000 Because if I have a girl who doesn't really annoy me, and I have to cut her off, and I don't want to text her anymore, but she hasn't really made me mad, then even I'm sometimes tempted, like, you know what?
02:21:12.000 She had a nice ass.
02:21:13.000 Maybe I should text her.
02:21:15.000 But if she's really pissed me off, then it's very easy for me to not text her because I've got anger in that direction.
02:21:20.000 I've got motivation.
02:21:21.000 Like, nah, nah, she was out of order.
02:21:22.000 Nah, fuck her.
02:21:23.000 No, I'm not going to text her.
02:21:25.000 So, anger is a fantastic thing.
02:21:26.000 You just have to sit and think outside yourself and realize that one, whoever's stressing you out, you're not going to care about in a few years anyway.
02:21:33.000 So, you know, it's not the end of the world.
02:21:34.000 Two, the world doesn't give a shit.
02:21:36.000 And three, just make sure you make a correct decision before you channel into something.
02:21:39.000 That's all it is.
02:21:40.000 You just got to sit still for a few minutes and like meditate from outside yourself and think, you know what?
02:21:44.000 Man, it was only a few weeks ago I lost a quarter of a million.
02:21:47.000 Bitcoin wallet had a quarter of a million.
02:21:49.000 And I sat there and thought, you know what?
02:21:50.000 That's a fucking lot of money, even to me, and this and that.
02:21:52.000 And I got pissed off at it.
02:21:53.000 And I thought, you know what?
02:21:55.000 Who gives a fuck percent?
02:21:56.000 No one gives a fuck.
02:21:57.000 There's no point in me complaining about it.
02:21:58.000 There's not much I can really do about it.
02:22:00.000 Do you know what I mean?
02:22:01.000 All I've got to do is try to make more money.
02:22:03.000 Literally, even my brother said, You're the only guy I've seen lose a quarter of a million, and three minutes later, he's just talking to his normal.
02:22:08.000 So, what the fuck else am I going to do?
02:22:10.000 What am I going to do?
02:22:12.000 Just call all my friends and cry about it, sit around hoping for support.
02:22:15.000 Does it bring the money back?
02:22:17.000 You know what I mean?
02:22:18.000 It's just, I'll be like that kind of guy.
02:22:19.000 Like, all right, you know what?
02:22:20.000 I'm going to take all this anger and I'm going to channel it into work.
02:22:23.000 And for a good week, I slept three hours a night.
02:22:26.000 But who gives a shit?
02:22:27.000 Because I was all nervous and I was pissed off.
02:22:29.000 I couldn't sleep.
02:22:29.000 But half woke up, I fuck it.
02:22:31.000 Back on the computer.
02:22:32.000 You just got to channel it in the right direction.
02:22:34.000 I'll probably make more money than that quarter of a million dollars.
02:22:37.000 So it's 100%.
02:22:38.000 100%.
02:22:41.000 And it does come down to that fundamental principle you got to honor your emotions.
02:22:45.000 You got to know that they're there to help you.
02:22:46.000 And it's so weird that you're told to be more emotional, but don't in any way go toward it.
02:22:51.000 Like try to redeem your emotions and make them useful.
02:22:53.000 It's like be more of a depressed bitch, but don't be more of a hungry motherfucker who wants to change shit.
02:23:00.000 Crying their eyes out.
02:23:01.000 Boo, hoo, boo.
02:23:01.000 They want everyone just weak as fuck, dependent on systems.
02:23:05.000 That's all they want.
02:23:06.000 It's insane.
02:23:07.000 That crypto thing, just a note.
02:23:08.000 I had a friend who had, I think it might have been three and a half or four million at the peak, and he decided to hold, and he lost 500 million every month for six months.
02:23:20.000 That made him a man.
02:23:21.000 He was just quite, he was like a big callus then.
02:23:24.000 That's what his soul was after that.
02:23:26.000 He didn't feel nothing anymore.
02:23:30.000 How to, Tell when a woman is using you for your money, dinners, andor attention fast?
02:23:37.000 Well, that's a very good question.
02:23:38.000 And I answer that in my PhD course.
02:23:40.000 So that's an immediate PhD course because that explains a lot of it.
02:23:44.000 Another thing is, I believe that it's quite easy to tell.
02:23:48.000 And I also believe, you know what?
02:23:50.000 I don't think women are cunning enough to use you purely for a dinner.
02:23:56.000 Like, women are not that ruthless that they're going to go, you know, I'm going to go on dinner with, I'm going to go out with this guy.
02:24:01.000 I hate this guy, but he's going to get my, like, I'm going to save 10 bucks on dinner.
02:24:04.000 I don't think women are that ruthless.
02:24:06.000 What's probably happening is she's unsure about you and she's not sure yet.
02:24:11.000 So that's what's probably more likely in my experience.
02:24:13.000 Like, I don't really think, maybe I'm wrong, but I don't think a woman's going to sit there and go, I fucking, I hate this guy, but I need, I want dinner bought for me.
02:24:20.000 I don't want to pay for myself.
02:24:21.000 Women are not like that.
02:24:21.000 They'd rather pay for themselves and hang around with a dude they don't like.
02:24:25.000 So I think that either you're friend zoned, but that's discussed heavily in the PhD course because the friend zone is when you're giving way too much attention without any reciprocation.
02:24:33.000 That's how you end up there.
02:24:35.000 Or she's unsure about you.
02:24:37.000 So, you need to, you know, you're on a few dates, da da da da.
02:24:40.000 If after a couple dinners and you can tell she ain't texting you back very nice, then you cut your attention down to zero and you see if she chases you or not.
02:24:46.000 If she asks you to go out again or something, you can say, oh, maybe, or maybe we'll go for coffee.
02:24:50.000 How much is coffee?
02:24:51.000 Two pounds, $2?
02:24:51.000 Or we'll meet in Starbucks.
02:24:53.000 If she turns up for coffee, then you know she must want to see you because I guarantee a bitch ain't going all the way out of her way.
02:24:59.000 Just get free coffee.
02:25:00.000 You get free coffee at work.
02:25:02.000 So, you know, there's a few things you can do to think, but the PhD course teaches all of that.
02:25:06.000 That's the first thing.
02:25:07.000 But I've never really had that problem.
02:25:08.000 People think when you have money, you got to worry about girls gold digging you.
02:25:11.000 I'll tell you now, I've never had a girl get a penny out of me.
02:25:14.000 I've never had a girl even, I don't even buy girls Christmas presents or birthday presents.
02:25:18.000 I just, I say, look, I don't expect anything from you.
02:25:22.000 I don't celebrate it.
02:25:22.000 So I don't, I'm like, you're not getting anything from me.
02:25:24.000 Sorry.
02:25:25.000 And they're going to go, well, I wanted to get you something.
02:25:27.000 I'm like, and I'll make a joke.
02:25:28.000 I'll say, yeah, you want to get me something for 10 bucks.
02:25:30.000 But for me, you want something for 200 pounds.
02:25:31.000 No, I don't want anything.
02:25:34.000 What about, if you don't want to go into this as good, buy the PhD course, people.
02:25:38.000 This is where the depth comes.
02:25:39.000 But if you, if, They're trying to get attention out of you.
02:25:42.000 Well, that's obviously withhold it to have more respect for your attention.
02:25:45.000 Yeah.
02:25:45.000 Well, if they're trying to get attention out of you, that's fine because that means that they want your attention.
02:25:51.000 That's good.
02:25:51.000 But you have to understand there's some kind of reciprocation.
02:25:54.000 So I've had girls do that all the time.
02:25:55.000 I have girls trying to get attention at me, but they think, oh, I'm going to get attention, but I don't want to sleep with them.
02:26:00.000 Well, that's fine.
02:26:00.000 And the PhD course explains exactly how I do this.
02:26:03.000 You have to make sure your attention is reciprocated.
02:26:05.000 You know, it's just very simple, basic little things.
02:26:08.000 Someone goes, oh, maybe we'll go for dinner.
02:26:10.000 I say, yeah, maybe.
02:26:11.000 I don't know.
02:26:12.000 I'm in the club tonight.
02:26:12.000 Come here.
02:26:14.000 So, like, if I can tell she's playing games, I'll just bring her along to things I'm already doing.
02:26:18.000 Then if she turns up and she wants to play stupid games, I can ignore her all night.
02:26:22.000 So, I had a girl doing exactly that.
02:26:23.000 Oh, maybe we'll go here.
02:26:24.000 Maybe we'll go there.
02:26:24.000 I said, well, I'm in the club tonight.
02:26:25.000 Come here.
02:26:26.000 Oh, I don't know if I want to come.
02:26:27.000 Okay.
02:26:28.000 Okay.
02:26:29.000 Then she turns up.
02:26:31.000 She turns up.
02:26:32.000 I'm like, oh, hi.
02:26:32.000 It comes to the table.
02:26:34.000 She says something to me.
02:26:35.000 I can't remember what it was.
02:26:35.000 It kind of half a million meets.
02:26:36.000 All night long, I completely ignored her existence.
02:26:39.000 She tried to talk to some other guy.
02:26:40.000 She tried to do all this shit to get my attention.
02:26:41.000 Ignored her like she didn't exist.
02:26:44.000 Next day, she's like, oh, I'll never come to the club again.
02:26:47.000 She doesn't even speak to me.
02:26:48.000 So the last time I took you for dinner, you wouldn't even kiss me.
02:26:50.000 So what's the point in going to dinner?
02:26:51.000 I'm just to the point.
02:26:52.000 It's like, oh, well, yeah, you know, what's the.
02:26:55.000 Anyway, I banged it.
02:26:56.000 So the point is, you just got to be straight to your objective.
02:27:00.000 A lot of men are afraid to say what you mean.
02:27:01.000 I'm not buying you dinner over and over again.
02:27:03.000 You're not going to kiss me.
02:27:04.000 You haven't got to be a creep about it.
02:27:06.000 You just got to be like, look, we've been to dinner three, four times.
02:27:09.000 I like you.
02:27:09.000 If you don't let me back, I'm not going to take dinner anymore.
02:27:10.000 I'll find a girl I like.
02:27:12.000 Why can't we just be friends?
02:27:13.000 Because I'm not looking for a friend.
02:27:14.000 I'm looking for a girlfriend.
02:27:15.000 If you don't want to be my girlfriend, that's fine.
02:27:16.000 I have enough friends.
02:27:18.000 Because they use that friend thing to try and keep getting your attention without having any obligation.
02:27:23.000 If they say friend, then they get all the attention.
02:27:26.000 And if you don't give it to them, you're a bad guy.
02:27:27.000 But they have no obligation to give you what you want.
02:27:30.000 So, when a girl says to me, I want to be your friend, I say, I don't have female friends.
02:27:33.000 Like, what do you mean?
02:27:34.000 It's like, I don't have enough friends.
02:27:36.000 I don't want a friend.
02:27:37.000 I'm looking for a girlfriend.
02:27:38.000 If you don't want a girlfriend, that's fine, but I don't need a friend.
02:27:41.000 So, being a friend, we're fucking.
02:27:43.000 We ain't talking.
02:27:44.000 There's no option.
02:27:45.000 There's nothing between with me.
02:27:46.000 I think there's this.
02:27:49.000 This plays into a problem that often comes up with lads nowadays is that they almost never want to explicitly say why they're talking to girls.
02:27:57.000 It's almost like they want to somehow sneak in.
02:27:59.000 They never want their intention to be known.
02:28:01.000 It's almost like it has to be this, like, Magic trick or something like that.
02:28:04.000 You've been falling into that trap of thinking.
02:28:06.000 Yeah, because you can say it in different ways.
02:28:08.000 So if you say, I'm only speaking to you to have sex with you, it's negative.
02:28:11.000 But if you say, I'm talking to you because you're beautiful, yeah, I think you're gorgeous.
02:28:15.000 So obviously, I want to know my girlfriend because you're beautiful.
02:28:17.000 What negative can she say about a compliment?
02:28:19.000 Well, nothing.
02:28:21.000 And all she can say is, oh, thanks, but I don't look at you that way.
02:28:23.000 You'd be like, all right, cool, no problem.
02:28:24.000 And then I'll never text her again.
02:28:26.000 And then two days later, she'd be like, well, why aren't you texting me?
02:28:28.000 Like, oh, well, if you thought we wanted to be friends, I'm not looking for a friend, I'm looking for a girlfriend.
02:28:32.000 And any girlfriend I find is going to be intimidated about me having a beautiful female friend.
02:28:37.000 So then I look like a nice guy.
02:28:38.000 I look like the guy who doesn't talk to other girls when he has a girlfriend.
02:28:40.000 See?
02:28:41.000 So I'll say, look, then when I go find a girlfriend, she's not going to like that me and your friends because you're beautiful.
02:28:45.000 And if I have a girlfriend, I don't like to do that to her.
02:28:48.000 I don't want her to see me talking to other girls.
02:28:50.000 Then she's going to sit there and go, this guy, fucking, maybe if he's a good guy, some other girl's going to get in and get all his attention.
02:28:55.000 I'm never going to have any of it ever again.
02:28:58.000 Then they start to think, well, maybe I do need to fucking fucking because there's no other way to get his attention.
02:29:02.000 You've got to be careful how you play it.
02:29:04.000 I explain all this in the PhD.
02:29:05.000 The biggest.
02:29:06.000 I lost you a bit there.
02:29:07.000 Sorry, you got me.
02:29:08.000 No, you're back.
02:29:08.000 You're back.
02:29:09.000 You're back.
02:29:10.000 You got your PhD course, so it was all good.
02:29:12.000 It was getting a PhD in there.
02:29:14.000 It's a PhD course, but I've had girls say that to me.
02:29:16.000 I want to be your friend.
02:29:17.000 And I said, I don't have female friends because I don't see what I'm going to gain from it.
02:29:19.000 And when I have a girlfriend, I don't want problems with having a beautiful female friend around.
02:29:23.000 So if you're not interested in me, completely understand.
02:29:25.000 No problem.
02:29:26.000 Have a good life.
02:29:27.000 Bye.
02:29:28.000 And I'm not a dickhead.
02:29:29.000 I'm not aggressive.
02:29:30.000 I'm not rude.
02:29:31.000 I'm not any of the things that some of these pickup artists teach, like to insult her first.
02:29:35.000 All this complete garbage.
02:29:36.000 I'm none of that.
02:29:37.000 I'm a completely nice guy who called her beautiful.
02:29:40.000 And if she ain't interested, I'll never talk to her again.
02:29:42.000 And by doing those things, you just manage your attention.
02:29:45.000 Your intention is clear, and your attention has value.
02:29:48.000 You don't get my attention unless we're progressing towards where I want to progress.
02:29:52.000 That's all in the PhD course.
02:29:54.000 And that's what.
02:29:55.000 Check it out.
02:29:56.000 Check it out.
02:29:58.000 The principles are very clear here.
02:30:01.000 I am a big believer in principles over techniques, as they say.
02:30:03.000 And it is so important to get that stuff straight in your head because principles are hard to get in your body.
02:30:09.000 It's easy to learn them, but it's hard to put them into practice.
02:30:12.000 And that's good because that means you're learning them.
02:30:14.000 And they're always very, very simple.
02:30:15.000 They're always very, very straightforward.
02:30:17.000 It's like, here's two or three principles, kind of get them and start fucking putting them into practice.
02:30:21.000 And that's always the onus is always on action.
02:30:23.000 Like top level boxers, They throw the same punches, but there's just more principles in play, like stuff like speed and knowing positions and all that shit like that.
02:30:33.000 So it's about getting your principles into your head.
02:30:35.000 And I think that's a universal part of just the learning experience.
02:30:38.000 The more you understand that that's a part of life, the more you can get down to first principles, the better you'll do in success in all areas.
02:30:45.000 There's another high level mindset skill we've after pulling out of this conversation, which is fantastic.
02:30:50.000 And Mr. Plenty, your new name, what's your favorite country to have a bank account in?
02:30:57.000 Do you have experience with Georgia?
02:30:59.000 There's someone wanting to get a bank account in Georgia?
02:31:01.000 I don't know the things about Georgia.
02:31:03.000 To be honest with you, all banks everywhere are dickheads.
02:31:05.000 I think crypto is fantastic.
02:31:08.000 You've got to be careful, obviously, you don't get fucked like I got fucked.
02:31:11.000 So, yeah, all banks can be assholes.
02:31:15.000 I don't think you have to really worry about banks until you start making big, big money.
02:31:18.000 But when you have normal sums of money, you're not too big a deal.
02:31:21.000 I think one of the most important things people can do, instead of getting different bank accounts, is getting different driver's licenses.
02:31:26.000 I recommend that absolutely.
02:31:29.000 Because right now, while England's still in the EU, You can take your British license and exchange it for a European license in any other country.
02:31:37.000 There's a couple conditions.
02:31:38.000 You might need like a residential address or whatever, whatever.
02:31:41.000 You can change your license.
02:31:43.000 So you can go to Austria or Slovakia.
02:31:47.000 You can rent a P.O. box.
02:31:49.000 You can sit there for a couple of weeks.
02:31:50.000 You can go to the office.
02:31:52.000 You can find out how it's done.
02:31:53.000 You can fuck around, fuck around, get a foreign license.
02:31:55.000 And then when the police stop you in your home country, you just whip out a foreign license.
02:31:59.000 They can't take it.
02:31:59.000 They can't give you points.
02:32:00.000 They can't do nothing.
02:32:02.000 So every time I get caught speeding, I just send off a fucking American license or a Thai license.
02:32:05.000 I'm like eight.
02:32:06.000 An Estonian license.
02:32:08.000 So, whatever country I'm in, I got to pull out a different license.
02:32:10.000 So, that helps me a lot because when I'm in Romania, I pull out an American license.
02:32:14.000 They don't know what to do.
02:32:15.000 When I'm in England, they send me a letter, fixed penalty.
02:32:17.000 I send them back a Thai license with an international driver's permit, which is legal.
02:32:20.000 I've looked it up.
02:32:21.000 And they're like, well, what the fuck, we went to write to Bangkok?
02:32:23.000 Okay.
02:32:23.000 It just goes away.
02:32:25.000 No one else thinks that way.
02:32:26.000 So, I wouldn't worry about different banks.
02:32:27.000 I would say, anyone who loves their cars, anyone who doesn't want to lose their license, go get a foreign license.
02:32:32.000 Instead of going on holiday to Tenerife and getting drunk, dedicate two weeks to going somewhere, do your research in advance.
02:32:37.000 Leave with a license, and I guarantee you'll be.
02:32:39.000 It's saying so much hassle, and you just pull out on police and like, all right, bye.
02:32:44.000 Nothing can do to you.
02:32:45.000 I do that all the time.
02:32:46.000 That's how I get where I drive my Lambo like a psycho.
02:32:52.000 So it's an interesting thing at play there is that you want to be resistance, you want to be resistant to the machine of the state somewhat because the state has this ability to tyrannize you to some extent and to be a truly free man.
02:33:05.000 Because this new situation where you've got all the paperwork and all the The like all that big elaborate bureaucracy over your head all the time is a very modern thing.
02:33:14.000 Like, the American like America was founded on the principle of like the government, make as small as possible.
02:33:19.000 And now we live in a place where the government is just an absolute like monster and it's everywhere.
02:33:23.000 And so, there is this push is like, how do I live free?
02:33:27.000 How do I, how do I, how do I put myself less accountable to these governments?
02:33:32.000 And this isn't a slight to them, like, they have their place and they have to do what they got to do, but you got to make yourself invulnerable.
02:33:37.000 It's almost like a negotiation thing, it's like you got to have a position of power.
02:33:42.000 So, that you don't have to cook to the government too much.
02:33:44.000 Yeah, you're completely right.
02:33:45.000 Because the government has control over all our lives.
02:33:47.000 So, for a long time, I was thinking, how do I get off the government list?
02:33:50.000 How do I get off the grid?
02:33:51.000 And then I realized it's impossible to be off grid nowadays because you need a passport, you need a bank account, you need a driver's license, you need things.
02:33:57.000 So then I thought, well, if I put myself on as many grids as possible, you can't lock them all.
02:34:03.000 So you can take away a driver's license, you can lock my passport, you can close my banks.
02:34:08.000 I don't give a fuck because I have another passport, another driver's license, and more banks.
02:34:12.000 So I've got eight passports, I've got 14 driver's licenses, and I've got bank accounts in every country I've ever visited ever.
02:34:18.000 So I've got my shit so fucking diversified that if they were to say to me, okay, stop Andrew Tate from traveling.
02:34:24.000 Even they would be like, okay, well, we blocked his English passport.
02:34:26.000 I think he is an American, or we blocked that.
02:34:29.000 Estonia, Nigeria, who the fuck is this dude?
02:34:31.000 They wouldn't even find them all.
02:34:33.000 So that's what I've done.
02:34:34.000 I put myself on so many grids that there's no one government with control over my life.
02:34:39.000 If you're only on one grid, then that one government controls your entire life.
02:34:42.000 I live in Romania now.
02:34:43.000 I don't even know who the president is.
02:34:45.000 It's liberating to me.
02:34:46.000 I don't even know who he is.
02:34:47.000 I don't care about Romanian politics.
02:34:48.000 Some people talk about nothing.
02:34:50.000 But I've got so many other foreign nationals.
02:34:52.000 I'm truly a citizen of the world.
02:34:53.000 I've tried to make myself.
02:34:55.000 Anti fragile by just being a citizen of the world.
02:34:57.000 I can travel with all these different passports, all these different banks, all these different driver licenses.
02:35:01.000 I can live anywhere, go anywhere.
02:35:03.000 I'm a hard guy to track down.
02:35:05.000 I'm just like, that's the way I've done it.
02:35:07.000 So that's why I'd recommend more than bank accounts.
02:35:09.000 Driver's licenses is absolutely worth your while because sooner or later, when you get caught speeding and they're trying to put six points in their license for doing some bullshit 35 miles an hour, you'd be glad you can just pull out something else and say, oh, fuck off.
02:35:21.000 Go away.
02:35:22.000 Yeah, it's a very interesting idea.
02:35:24.000 I'd like to take it to.
02:35:28.000 An interesting place.
02:35:28.000 Like you're a man who speaks his mind.
02:35:30.000 Now, if you did that and you were in a position where someone could just take everything from you fast, you'd be very, very vulnerable.
02:35:37.000 So it is an interesting thing.
02:35:39.000 I guess a lot of guys in our circles, a lot of guys who'd be listening to this, they would be interested in becoming successful and then at that point doing what we consider the moral thing, which is to try your best to stabilize the direction of the West.
02:35:51.000 We'll put it that way.
02:35:52.000 And you're not going to be able to do that if you're vulnerable.
02:35:55.000 And so you need to start to think to yourself, okay, I'll probably have to get invulnerable.
02:35:59.000 And the way to do that will not be.
02:36:01.000 Presented to me in the mainstream path, it'll be actually encouraged away from me.
02:36:06.000 I'll be told to get my fingers deeper in these complicated systems and all this stuff.
02:36:10.000 And you got to figure out how you can pull yourself out of that at some point.
02:36:13.000 Like that is a grown man thing to do at some point once you become successful.
02:36:17.000 Is like, how do I make sure it's not all taken from me?
02:36:22.000 Because, uh, scary to see what happens to those guys like Tommy Robson, as you're saying, but yeah, scary.
02:36:27.000 Yep, happens out of nowhere as well.
02:36:28.000 So you got to be careful.
02:36:30.000 I mean, once you hit billionaire status, it's extremely, it's nearly impossible to hide.
02:36:33.000 But if you've got a couple million.
02:36:35.000 You can disappear.
02:36:37.000 You can disappear.
02:36:37.000 I could disappear tomorrow.
02:36:38.000 No one has a fucking clue where I am.
02:36:41.000 It's like if I want.
02:36:41.000 Yeah, man.
02:36:43.000 On that note, but it's all good.
02:36:47.000 What'd you say?
02:36:47.000 Sorry, come again.
02:36:48.000 I won't disappear yet.
02:36:49.000 I'm going to upset a few more people, but maybe one day.
02:36:53.000 Yes.
02:36:54.000 He's got a few things to say, people, and then maybe he'll vanish once the foundations are laid down.
02:36:58.000 Here's the principles.
02:36:59.000 I'm out of here.
02:37:01.000 But yeah, man, it's been awesome to talk to you, man.
02:37:04.000 I've really had a great time.
02:37:06.000 It's good to really see the reality of the world, not alone in my craziness.
02:37:10.000 So, without doubt, sir, I enjoyed it a lot.
02:37:13.000 I think we dug out some very, very useful things.
02:37:15.000 And of course, it was a great conversation.
02:37:17.000 And thank you very much for the opportunity.
02:37:19.000 People, we're going to close off.
02:37:21.000 No more questions now.
02:37:22.000 There were plenty of other things said there, by the way, apart from questions.
02:37:25.000 So, just I had to skip over them, people.
02:37:26.000 Forgive me for that.
02:37:28.000 And some people were saying on point advice, stuff like that.
02:37:31.000 So, it was quite appreciated by the people who were watching.
02:37:34.000 Thank you all for watching.
02:37:35.000 Follow Tay.
02:37:36.000 On Twitter, he's very entertaining.
02:37:38.000 There, he has a beautiful profile picture as well.
02:37:41.000 Check out his YouTube channel, I will link that.
02:37:42.000 I will link all this stuff below.
02:37:44.000 And I'll also link his PhD program since we did discuss it in depth the principled way to get your life in order with your whammy.
02:37:51.000 And Andrew Tate, thank you very much.
02:37:53.000 People, we are out.
02:37:54.000 Thank you, brother.