The Art of Manliness - July 31, 2025


#133: Financial Independence Through the Strenuous Life With Mr. Money Mustache


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In this episode of the Art of Manliness podcast, Brett McKay talks about how he retired at age 30, and how you can do the same if you're in your 20's or 30's. Brett is joined by Pete Mustache, founder of the blog "Mr. Money Mustache" and author of the book "Financial Badassery."


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00:00:00.000 Brett McKay here and welcome to another edition of the Art of Manliness podcast.
00:00:18.240 Now imagine you're in your 20s, a lot of you are actually in your 20s, and someone comes
00:00:23.100 up to you and says, look, with your current job, you don't have to be making millions
00:00:27.080 of dollars a year, just an average middle class job.
00:00:30.860 You could retire at age 30 if you really wanted to.
00:00:34.520 And of course, you'd probably say, well, that's crazy talk.
00:00:36.320 Of course you can't.
00:00:36.980 That's not how it works.
00:00:37.760 You have to work 30, 40 years to save enough so you can stop working.
00:00:42.080 Or the way you shortcut that is you start a business and sell it for millions of dollars
00:00:46.820 or a rich uncle dies, you win the lottery.
00:00:49.280 We're not counting on that.
00:00:50.380 So I'm going to put my 30, 40 hours, 30, 40 years in.
00:00:53.720 And my guest today has done it.
00:00:57.220 He actually retired at age 30 working as a software engineer, and he wasn't making millions
00:01:03.280 of dollars a year.
00:01:05.240 And the way he did it was just through extreme frugality.
00:01:10.300 His name is Pete.
00:01:11.960 He runs a blog called Mr. Money Mustache.
00:01:14.400 I know a lot of you guys follow him.
00:01:15.780 And Pete promotes what he calls financial badassery.
00:01:19.580 And his big argument is that Americans waste a lot of money on stuff that we really don't
00:01:25.420 need, luxuries that make us comfortable.
00:01:28.060 And if we can get rid of a lot of these luxuries or cut back on them, we can actually save a
00:01:35.000 lot of money.
00:01:35.720 And so what he says is like, look, you just live the strenuous life, do things that are
00:01:40.400 hard, and you'll actually save yourself some money that will give you financial freedom
00:01:45.100 a lot sooner than you think.
00:01:46.320 I think it's really fascinating, his approach.
00:01:49.700 So today on the podcast, Mr. Money Mustache and I discuss financial badassery and the mindset
00:01:54.700 shift that needs to take place in order for you to be able to retire early if you wanted
00:01:59.360 to.
00:02:00.160 We're also going to talk about what do you do when you retire early at age 30 or 35?
00:02:05.000 What do you do with your time?
00:02:06.640 And then finally, we discuss some brass tacks things you can do right now to start saving
00:02:11.700 more money to allow you to have some more financial independence.
00:02:15.280 Really great show.
00:02:16.320 I think you're going to like it.
00:02:17.520 So without further ado, Pete, Mr. Money Mustache.
00:02:20.580 Pete, Mr. Money Mustache, welcome to the show.
00:02:24.500 Thanks a lot, Ms. McKay.
00:02:25.360 I'm excited to be here on the Art of Manliness for the first time.
00:02:28.640 So I think you're actually my first mustached guest I've ever had on the Art of Manliness
00:02:32.740 podcast.
00:02:34.080 Well, only in my publicity materials, because actually in real life, I don't always have
00:02:38.180 a mustache, including right now.
00:02:39.960 It's too much maintenance.
00:02:41.800 So in that extent, I'm kind of failing in the manliness contest.
00:02:45.700 But it'll grow back this winter, and then I'll be real again.
00:02:48.800 Then you'll be real again.
00:02:50.060 Yeah.
00:02:50.440 All right.
00:02:50.820 So you have a blog called Mr. Money Mustache.
00:02:53.200 I know a lot of our listeners probably have readers of it.
00:02:57.540 But the story behind it is you retired at age 30.
00:03:00.720 So how did this happen?
00:03:01.660 How did you retire at age 30?
00:03:02.900 And you did this with you're married.
00:03:04.780 You have a kid.
00:03:05.440 I mean, did you win the lottery?
00:03:07.160 Did you have a dead rich uncle happen?
00:03:10.240 What happened?
00:03:11.420 Yeah, it's all the old fashioned.
00:03:12.880 I did everything the old fashioned way.
00:03:14.480 So first of all, I should clear it up.
00:03:15.900 I'm 40 now.
00:03:16.720 So this is about 10 years ago that my wife and I retired.
00:03:19.960 And the reason we did that is in order to start a family, we always figured we were such
00:03:23.860 workaholics back in our 20s that we want to be free from that in order to concentrate
00:03:28.500 on kids when they came along.
00:03:30.620 So that got us motivated to save through our 20s.
00:03:33.780 And we just worked as normal like tech workers.
00:03:36.600 I was we're basically both software engineers.
00:03:40.020 And so no magic, not really stock options or any kind of stuff like that.
00:03:44.240 It was just we lived sort of like a normal lifestyle, but we earned a little bit more
00:03:49.500 than normal, which is not necessary for early retirement.
00:03:52.460 But the real key is just not spending everything you earn.
00:03:55.440 We spent we lived on a little under half of what we took home and invested the rest and
00:04:00.000 just paid off the house, bought normal index funds.
00:04:02.500 Nothing flashy.
00:04:04.120 I did like a rental house or two at times.
00:04:06.880 And when we were done, when we had enough savings, and we're going to get to that later
00:04:10.640 in the interview, it was enough to just live off the dividends and capital gains and rental
00:04:15.240 income from the houses.
00:04:17.260 And then that was enough to cover our living expenses, which are pretty low.
00:04:20.780 And we've been doing it ever since.
00:04:22.600 And only after we realized that very few people did this, did I feel it was necessary to start
00:04:27.700 a blog to explain like, you know, this weirdo did this weird thing that's actually pretty
00:04:32.200 easy to do.
00:04:33.340 Okay, so yeah.
00:04:33.960 So it was just aggressive saving, living frugally.
00:04:36.320 We'll get talked about some of the brass tack things you do.
00:04:38.560 Before we do that, let's talk about the underlying philosophy, because I feel like it's not so much
00:04:44.100 tactical things that are hard to do.
00:04:46.460 It's the mindset that's the biggest change to do what you did.
00:04:50.860 So what's the underlying philosophy behind the Mr. Money Mustache way of finances?
00:04:56.480 Yeah, it's a good question, because I didn't even realize I had an underlying philosophy
00:05:00.200 as a kid and as a 20-year-old.
00:05:02.680 But then I realized it's, I think of everything as kind of like a game.
00:05:06.260 So some people think you win the game if you get the most luxuries and spend as much as
00:05:12.160 your paycheck as you can without getting in trouble.
00:05:14.300 Whereas I always thought I won the game for keeping as much money as possible and accomplishing
00:05:19.640 the most stuff myself.
00:05:21.140 You know, like, for example, I always thought, oh, I'm 20 miles from work right now.
00:05:25.100 I wonder if I could bike there, or I wonder if I can make the bike trip in the winter,
00:05:28.120 or I wonder if there's a way I can get the groceries without resorting to a car.
00:05:32.380 So just little challenges and doing stuff, pushing your own boundaries and doing things
00:05:36.400 that are harder.
00:05:37.520 If you combine that with thinking about what makes you more money and what saves you more money,
00:05:41.740 and that also applies to working harder and trying to kick ass a little bit more in your
00:05:45.700 job, it just kind of automatically, first of all, it makes you happier because accomplishing
00:05:51.260 and learning is a much stronger source of happiness than any kind of like big screen TV or like
00:05:57.300 nicer pair of golf shoes and stuff is going to provide you.
00:06:00.020 So you're happier, but at the same time, you're earning more money and you're spending less money.
00:06:04.040 So it's kind of like these three spokes of a philosophy, which I later rebranded and I call
00:06:10.460 it bad-assity, which is like the desire to be a bit more of a badass in your life tends
00:06:15.180 to make you a lot more wealthy than you'd otherwise be too.
00:06:18.280 Interesting.
00:06:18.780 I mean, but how do you do this when you're surrounded by messaging to do the complete opposite,
00:06:24.300 right?
00:06:24.480 It's not just the media, right?
00:06:25.860 We're advertising, but your friends, your family, they might not do it overtly, but subtly
00:06:30.800 they're like, you know, what are you doing?
00:06:33.080 You should be living this sort of lifestyle, buying stuff, send your, you know, buy your
00:06:37.980 kids nice things, go on that vacation that's really expensive.
00:06:41.480 I mean, how do you make this mindset shift when you're being bombarded with messaging
00:06:45.980 that says, don't do that?
00:06:47.560 Yeah, I really like that question because you're kind of speaking of a US perspective and most
00:06:52.980 of your listeners and readers and mine too are in this country and it's important to
00:06:57.260 realize that we are actually batshit crazy in this country and a lot of other countries
00:07:01.920 don't have the same consumption disease that we have.
00:07:04.860 So you can get a long way just by doing the opposite of what everybody else does because
00:07:09.580 we're all doing it wrong.
00:07:11.080 Everybody is out of shape, you know, like a lot of health problems, self-inflicted and
00:07:15.900 stuff because we're indulging in like, you know, our momentary desires instead of thinking
00:07:21.400 in like a multi-decade plan of like, how can I make my life the best?
00:07:24.740 How can I do the most difficult thing?
00:07:27.020 So if you get negative feedback from society, that means you're doing a good thing.
00:07:31.520 And of course, I'm saying that with a little bit of a joke in mind because, you know, really
00:07:35.740 it's not negative feedback.
00:07:37.040 It's just slightly questioning.
00:07:38.460 Like, for example, you know, people in my town, my friends know that I finished working,
00:07:43.520 I have lots of savings, but I still ride around on an old bike and they see me carrying
00:07:47.820 like a bike trailer full of groceries home from the store instead of having like my servant
00:07:53.020 drive it, drive it in the limo and deliver it and prepare my meals and stuff.
00:07:57.260 They know that I just like doing stuff the hard way because that's a more satisfying life.
00:08:02.960 So you really, I think it's in your mind that people are criticizing you.
00:08:06.340 If you confidently like set out to do a new, more badass lifestyle, really you end up getting
00:08:12.360 more respect instead of less.
00:08:14.340 If people see that you're serious about it and you're pretty confident in your own internal
00:08:17.920 values.
00:08:19.060 And then the second part of that is just tune out of TV and advertising.
00:08:23.480 Like, you know, TV is designed for nothing but to make you want more stuff like a shiny
00:08:28.540 or bigger pickup truck and stuff.
00:08:30.180 And I've never really been into that.
00:08:32.160 So, you know, I just got rid of TV about 1999 and haven't turned back.
00:08:37.160 I'll still watch like great movies and stuff, but just there's just no need to absorb advertising
00:08:42.120 of any sort.
00:08:43.220 You can just wipe it out of your life now that the world is more modern and you get
00:08:46.960 to choose the information that's pumped into your head.
00:08:50.340 Yeah.
00:08:50.740 So between those two things, you know, people should try them and come back to me if they
00:08:54.520 have any problems, see if those are working.
00:08:56.540 Yeah, this is great.
00:08:57.060 And you hit on this idea of not being a consumer.
00:09:00.760 But I think it's really interesting because we've written about this on the site before,
00:09:03.940 you know, anthropological studies about masculinity across cultures.
00:09:07.820 One thing that anthropologists have found is that to be a man, what separates men from
00:09:12.400 boys and primitive tribes, as well as larger industrial cultures like us, is that whether
00:09:18.640 you're a producer or a consumer.
00:09:21.020 Yeah, that's awesome.
00:09:22.000 That's a great way to make the distinction.
00:09:24.100 I think I get a lot of joy out of producing stuff.
00:09:26.860 Like I'm currently living in a house that I built for myself, for my family, from almost
00:09:32.000 from scratch.
00:09:32.560 It was a 1950s kind of dump when we moved in and then I tore like the whole roof off.
00:09:36.640 And producing this house, and I've built other houses in the past, and producing writing
00:09:42.480 and producing stuff through my jobs in the past was always where all the joy came from.
00:09:47.660 And I find like when I occasionally indulge in consumption, it doesn't really give me as
00:09:53.180 much thrill as I thought.
00:09:54.500 You know, like sometimes one time I went to a resort in Cancun and everybody's just bringing
00:09:59.100 me stuff and all the buffets are ready for you.
00:10:01.760 And all there is to do is just take, take, consume, sit down.
00:10:05.820 And I was like, well, what can I do here?
00:10:07.800 Like, is there, do these guys working on the hotel need any help?
00:10:10.540 Like I was looking around for something to keep me occupied for the week I was there because
00:10:14.680 there's no production to be done.
00:10:15.940 And I think that's a great way to shift the balance of your wealth is to suddenly think
00:10:20.860 about producing and consumption is kind of like a necessary thing, but you kind of minimize
00:10:26.780 that because it gives you more resources to produce, which is where all the fun really
00:10:30.280 is at.
00:10:30.660 Yeah.
00:10:31.400 And what I love about your philosophy, it's un-American, but it's very American at the
00:10:36.340 same time, because what you're advocating is basically what our founding fathers advocated,
00:10:40.920 our great, great grandparents, like do it yourself, save as much as you can, produce, don't consume.
00:10:46.160 But I guess there was a shift, I guess, in the after the world, second world war where consumption
00:10:50.560 became a way of life for Americans.
00:10:52.400 Right.
00:10:52.800 And there's still a lot of production going on in the background.
00:10:55.500 I think it's a bit of a, people are trying to fool us, you know, like spend, spend, support
00:11:01.240 the economy.
00:11:02.060 Like that's not really what's going on.
00:11:03.460 The part, the reason the country is strong is because of all the great stuff that we produce
00:11:07.180 and consumption doesn't even have to be quite as much of a part of that.
00:11:10.880 Like, first of all, you can export your stuff.
00:11:12.660 If you make the best cars like the Tesla Model S, ship it over to Germany and they're
00:11:16.840 buying them instead of BMWs, then you're winning that part of the economic game.
00:11:20.400 And the other thing is if you produce stuff that delivers long-term dividends, like for
00:11:24.960 example, you build up a big, awesome solar power factor or whatever that delivers energy
00:11:30.280 for like the next century, that's the kind of production that is like a long-term benefit
00:11:35.660 to society instead of just building a bunch of pickup trucks, wearing them out, burying
00:11:39.900 them in the ground, build another bunch of them.
00:11:41.780 Like, so there's different kinds of production and consumption that have different long-term
00:11:45.380 effects on a country's wealth.
00:11:46.700 So I like to move towards the stuff that actually creates lasting strength and lasting wealth.
00:11:52.500 All right.
00:11:52.600 So Mr. Money Mustache is playing the long game.
00:11:54.840 Yeah.
00:11:55.360 Awesome.
00:11:56.140 All right.
00:11:56.360 So you advocate or talk about financial independence and there's lots of books I've talked about
00:12:02.300 that.
00:12:02.900 Your Money or Your Life is one that I read and had a big influence on me.
00:12:06.960 But how do you define financial independence?
00:12:09.040 How do you know when you are financially independent?
00:12:11.900 That one's a pretty easy answer.
00:12:13.160 I think it's just never having to work for money again, which doesn't mean that you don't
00:12:18.420 have to work.
00:12:19.180 You don't feel like working.
00:12:20.380 Like I enjoy working every day, but money is no longer a factor.
00:12:25.000 Like, you know, this guy's going to pay me more, even though I don't like working for
00:12:28.220 him.
00:12:28.840 You no longer make that choice.
00:12:30.520 You never, no longer sell out your core values.
00:12:33.600 And I even call this, I actually changed the word in my blog to being calling it retirement.
00:12:38.240 Some people say financial independence, but I really like the word retirement because
00:12:42.980 it's just sort of has a more of a final say.
00:12:46.160 And I'm trying to redefine retirement kind of and say, well, guess what?
00:12:49.800 Everybody should keep doing the work that they care about.
00:12:52.880 You should quit your job if you don't like it, but you can call yourself retired as soon
00:12:56.740 as you're financially independent.
00:12:58.180 And it's just like a celebration, you know, celebration word, just my own personal preference.
00:13:03.160 Awesome.
00:13:03.380 Um, so, uh, you advocate some serious, a serious savings rate, uh, 50% to 75% of your income.
00:13:11.320 And I know for some people, a lot of people who are listening, there's like, that's just
00:13:14.140 like, no way you can't do that.
00:13:16.240 Um, so how do you do that on a tactical brass tax level?
00:13:20.840 How do you save, squirrel away 75% of your take-home pay?
00:13:24.560 Yeah.
00:13:24.840 Well, that's a key thing is first of all, think about take-home pay because when you first
00:13:28.660 say like 50% of your income, people will say, wait a minute, almost 50% goes to taxes.
00:13:33.260 Like, or whatever you, you got to understand, you're talking about your post-tax take-home
00:13:38.560 pay, and then you should be able to work on saving a portion of that.
00:13:41.880 And so the first thing is to say, so wipe out the prejudice where you say that's not
00:13:46.920 possible because it is, you can live on 10% of your take-home pay.
00:13:50.520 If you really got bad-ass about it, you know, people do this.
00:13:53.420 People live on $4,000 a year in the U S so, um, and it's a matter of being smart and how
00:13:59.760 far you're willing to go on it.
00:14:01.000 Now, I never had to go anywhere close to that far.
00:14:03.560 Like my family lives on, like we've always lived on at around, um, 25,000 of spending.
00:14:09.200 Um, just because that's as much as we can manage to spend without feeling like we're
00:14:14.020 running out of stuff to buy.
00:14:15.940 Uh, as for the brass tax question though, uh, you just got to think about the main places
00:14:20.760 to optimize.
00:14:21.580 The biggest one in America is cars.
00:14:23.280 A lot of people spend about 500% what they need to on driving around and not really ending
00:14:29.400 up anywhere different at the end of the day.
00:14:31.440 So tricks for that include like prioritizing living close to what you do, live close to
00:14:37.060 work, switch jobs, switch houses.
00:14:38.700 If you have to don't drive a big automatic transmission SUV, you know, get yourself like
00:14:43.300 a nice used Honda and make it last for 15 years.
00:14:47.460 And, uh, then there's food, cooking your own food, not going out for dinner as much, but
00:14:53.200 still keeping it social by hosting dinners and having friends that do the same thing.
00:14:57.800 So people end up having more fun at lower cost.
00:15:01.080 And then there's just the general leakage.
00:15:03.140 Like a lot of people walk around, like picking up objects all day from stores or shopping
00:15:08.840 malls.
00:15:09.280 And if you just kind of cut that out, reform your days so that shopping isn't really a
00:15:14.560 part of it.
00:15:15.320 A lot of people end up dropping a thousand dollars a month from their, from their spending
00:15:19.500 just right there.
00:15:20.960 Yeah.
00:15:21.480 So thinking of the big three is what gets you to, um, to the 50% or even 75% savings rate.
00:15:28.140 Yeah.
00:15:28.560 And I guess a lot of it's just being mindful of yours.
00:15:30.440 I think a lot of people just spend money mindlessly.
00:15:32.640 They don't even know where their money's going.
00:15:34.880 Totally.
00:15:35.140 Like how many people have cable TV, a hundred dollars a month or more.
00:15:39.240 That's an expense you can just wipe out today.
00:15:41.540 Just be like, hello, I don't need cable TV anymore.
00:15:44.120 And that's like $1,200 a year compounds into like 15,000 per decade by the time you invest
00:15:50.940 that money conservatively.
00:15:52.680 And that's just by erasing something that you don't need anyway, because, you know, you should
00:15:56.760 be out there producing instead of consuming other people's like reality TV.
00:16:00.440 If you like watching sports, go out and play sports.
00:16:03.920 That's it.
00:16:04.660 So it's a, it's a harsh, harsh thing to say on the art of manliness podcast.
00:16:09.060 There's a lot of, a lot of better stuff to do with your time than watching TV.
00:16:12.180 And how do you do this with kids?
00:16:13.460 I'm sure some people are listening.
00:16:14.540 They're like, okay, well, yeah, that's easy.
00:16:16.100 If you're single, right?
00:16:17.440 I can live a Spartan life.
00:16:18.640 But how do you do that when you're married and you have kids?
00:16:21.520 Well, kids are, I always wondered that too, until I had my own kid.
00:16:26.040 And it turns out they're not as expensive as people say.
00:16:29.000 It's kind of up to you how much kids cost.
00:16:31.880 So obviously, like there's a certain amount of healthcare costs with a kid that are somewhat
00:16:36.700 unavoidable.
00:16:37.500 And there's food they do eat.
00:16:39.480 But other than that, it's pretty, pretty flexible.
00:16:42.140 It depends how much stuff you buy your kid and how much time you spend with them.
00:16:46.660 Like, for example, if you're home with your kids, like we were, then that saved a lot on
00:16:51.460 daycare, which often costs over $1,000 a month.
00:16:55.240 There's activities.
00:16:56.800 So I kind of encourage my son to do whatever he wants because we can afford it.
00:17:01.200 But just because he has access to his parents so much, he's less into like the travel sports
00:17:05.840 teams and stuff and more into doing things in the neighborhood.
00:17:08.480 It's a little bit more of like a previous generation, the way things run in my town where
00:17:13.560 the kids run around in a pack free and they play in the creek and play sports in the park
00:17:19.660 behind my house and stuff like that.
00:17:21.740 So it's amazing how cheap kids are.
00:17:23.680 I think my son, we've kind of added it up just very casually.
00:17:26.960 And it's averaged to under $300 a month since he was born.
00:17:31.480 And some people spend 10 times that amount on a per kid basis.
00:17:36.300 So it's just, I wouldn't encourage you to cheap out, you know, like deny your kids of
00:17:41.380 stuff in order to save money.
00:17:43.000 But if you just think of it in a different way, the expenses tend to melt away.
00:17:48.140 Yeah.
00:17:48.280 The kids aren't that expensive.
00:17:49.240 Like my son, like our, my son's clothes, he's four.
00:17:52.120 We've always bought clothes from friends who had kids and they grew out of them.
00:17:57.260 And it was like nice stuff.
00:17:58.480 It was like stuff from the Gap, but like we got it for like way cheap.
00:18:01.400 Your friends are usually thankful if they can unload their kids stuff to you.
00:18:06.200 So yeah, that's a really good point.
00:18:07.360 I didn't even think of clothes because they've generally, until he was a certain age, they
00:18:12.320 kind of just flowed in from other people.
00:18:14.040 And similarly, we passed his smaller clothes on to other people.
00:18:17.820 Yeah.
00:18:17.980 Now that he's nine, like he's big enough and growing a little more slowly that he truly
00:18:22.380 destroys each item of clothing before it leaves the house.
00:18:25.780 So there's no more hand-me-downs and stuff, but that's, you know, clothes are just amazingly
00:18:30.460 cheap these days.
00:18:31.520 So as long as you're not in, in a fashion competition, you're not going to spend more
00:18:35.160 than like a hundred dollars or $200 a year on kids stuff.
00:18:38.160 Yeah.
00:18:38.760 So are there any things you're doing like to have proactive conversation about money
00:18:43.740 with your, your son?
00:18:45.420 Yeah.
00:18:45.820 I like that question.
00:18:46.700 Cause I'm, I kind of hope he ends up with the same luck that I have with, uh, with not
00:18:51.620 being really overly material desire burdened.
00:18:55.880 Um, so first of all, there's living by example, which seems to work.
00:19:00.080 He, he sees what his parents do with money and he sees how we're not really into buying
00:19:03.500 flashy stuff.
00:19:04.740 We just have one old Toyota for our car.
00:19:07.560 And, uh, whereas other friends of his, where the parents still do have to work might have
00:19:12.920 like multiple BMWs or big SUVs, but there's other stuff, not having TV, I think really helps
00:19:18.540 him because he's not, he's not barraged with a lot of kid advertising all day.
00:19:22.740 We don't take him around to shopping malls cause I just pick up the necessities just
00:19:26.700 through Amazon and everything gets delivered to the house.
00:19:29.600 So there's not a lot of retail therapy.
00:19:32.320 And, uh, the final part that's been kind of cool is that he gets his own money now.
00:19:35.880 So if he wants something like a toy or a video game, he has to fund that out of his
00:19:39.960 own account and we keep his money in a spreadsheet that I call just the bank of dad.
00:19:44.960 So anytime he gets some money, like earns it or gets it from a birthday present or
00:19:48.520 whatever, from a grandparent, he puts it into the bank of dad.
00:19:51.500 I give him 10% interest, which, you know, kind of updates automatically every month and
00:19:56.500 he can see his balance.
00:19:57.660 He can check it from his little computer.
00:19:59.640 So now he has an incentive to leave the money invested, which is just how it should be for
00:20:03.520 an adult.
00:20:04.120 It was like, well, I could burn $50, but then suddenly I'm making $5 less per year
00:20:09.540 on interest.
00:20:10.520 So he has, he's a balance.
00:20:11.920 He still buys stuff.
00:20:12.960 He's generous with his little buddies, but he's not going to blow it all on just nothing because
00:20:18.140 he likes the idea of the passive income.
00:20:20.720 And that's the real thing.
00:20:21.520 Adults should be trading off too.
00:20:23.000 Like if I'm going to, if I want to fork over $100,000 for a Tesla Model S, I have to realize
00:20:27.740 that a hundred is no longer going to be working for me for the rest of my life.
00:20:31.700 It's going to be sitting in the driveway depreciating.
00:20:34.360 And that's one of the biggest things that keeps my spending in check is just realizing I'd
00:20:40.280 like to keep the nest egg in there working so that kids can actually get that concept
00:20:44.440 pretty early too.
00:20:46.320 Awesome.
00:20:46.540 Well, besides saving, spending less than you earn, what else do you do or what else do
00:20:51.760 you advocate that people do to supplement their income, like support a family while not working
00:20:56.560 for money?
00:20:57.540 Right.
00:20:57.900 Well, that's a, that's a nice shortcut because first of all, it is possible to just save so
00:21:03.660 much that you never have to earn another cent, but most people don't do it that way, especially
00:21:07.840 if you're, you're fairly early in the financial independence and you quit your main job.
00:21:13.340 A lot of people will keep a side job.
00:21:15.740 So for me, I really like doing carpentry, just like pro casual pro level carpentry around
00:21:22.640 the neighborhood for people.
00:21:23.580 So even over these last 10 years, I've still done different sizes of jobs, just kind of
00:21:28.720 like when my son has taken a nap or when he's in school, just go over and do some work for
00:21:33.080 people that I like spending time with.
00:21:35.560 And so it's a little bit extra money.
00:21:37.400 My wife has experimented with stuff as well.
00:21:40.460 After she quit working in software, she got a real estate license, which is a fun thing
00:21:44.920 for a lot of people to experiment with.
00:21:46.620 She did some house selling and now she has an Etsy shop that she, where she's making
00:21:51.760 like a kind of neat handcrafted bracelet and necklace kind of stuff.
00:21:57.360 And her Etsy shop is taking off quite a bit.
00:21:59.560 So people never lose their desire to produce after you quit the job.
00:22:03.820 So you're probably going to make money even after you retire.
00:22:07.340 But that just to expand your question a little bit, I also think if you kind of get focused
00:22:11.820 about this and you get excited about challenge and hardship and, you know, the focused mind,
00:22:17.660 you can often earn a lot more than you'd think in your regular career as well.
00:22:21.980 So I was always trying to think of my job as the number one priority while I had it as
00:22:27.080 a software guy.
00:22:27.900 And I think that helped me earn more than I otherwise would, which allowed my career to
00:22:33.160 be a bit shorter.
00:22:33.800 So I think people should, while you're still employed, you should really pour it on and
00:22:38.180 like switch jobs as needed or switch roles.
00:22:41.860 And a lot of people can make a lot more money than they currently do.
00:22:45.560 Awesome.
00:22:46.080 So here's a question.
00:22:47.240 I know it's probably not, you're not going to have a specific answer, but roughly how
00:22:50.740 much does someone need to save in order to retire early?
00:22:54.080 Is there like a rough percentage of your income that you get?
00:22:57.120 What is it you should be shooting for?
00:22:58.660 Right.
00:22:58.920 That's a pretty easy question actually.
00:23:00.300 And because the financial companies, you know, like Fidelity or whatever, they often confuse
00:23:04.840 you by talking about how much of your income you need.
00:23:07.100 And that's totally wrong.
00:23:08.820 What you need to do is figure out how much you're spending and then you need 25 to 30
00:23:13.480 times that amount invested and that will generate passive cash flow that you can live off more
00:23:19.200 or less for the rest of your life.
00:23:20.980 So that's just a really good rule of thumb.
00:23:23.100 So if you spend $10,000 a year, just because it's a round number, you'd need $250,000 of
00:23:28.720 investments to reliably deliver you that money forever.
00:23:32.720 And then this is where the rubber meets the road because a lot of people, higher income
00:23:36.400 people will build up a lifestyle for themselves that costs $100,000 a year.
00:23:41.120 Well, it turns out to fund that you need between $2.5 and $3 million invested to keep
00:23:48.060 that kind of cash fire hose going, which is pretty hard to save up that much money unless
00:23:52.960 you're a really high earner.
00:23:55.140 So I optimize on both sides, trying to earn more, trying to design an efficient lifestyle,
00:24:00.280 which is why I always use this $25,000 figure.
00:24:03.820 $25,000, if you have your house paid off, which is how I do things, is more than enough
00:24:09.820 to fund like a family of three or four in most U.S. areas.
00:24:14.000 So in that case, you need about $600,000 plus pay off your house.
00:24:19.500 $600,000 to $700,000 is enough to retire on plus the value of your house.
00:24:23.400 So you could think of it as about $1 million.
00:24:25.000 It sounds like a scary number if you're a beginner at saving, but once you get into
00:24:29.420 these 50% savings rates, the numbers really start to crank up unexpectedly and suddenly
00:24:35.280 you're dealing in six-figure changes instead of three-figure changes in your wealth each
00:24:40.040 year.
00:24:40.860 So is this money that's not – they're in index funds, but they're not in a retirement
00:24:45.620 account?
00:24:46.560 You're right.
00:24:47.040 Well, I would encourage you put as much as you can into the retirement account because
00:24:50.760 you can read about the details later.
00:24:52.580 But there's ways to get that out earlier or you could spend your post-tax money first
00:24:57.180 and then gradually work into your retirement money as you're older.
00:25:00.480 Or you might end up earning more money as a carpenter or whatever after you retire anyway.
00:25:04.300 So you don't worry about those details other than put it in there.
00:25:07.840 And yeah, index funds is the easiest way and it's a safe way.
00:25:11.820 If you're at all interested and skilled in rental house management or income properties,
00:25:16.580 you can get a higher rate from that than you can from stock investing in general.
00:25:22.600 But it's not an easy – you do have to know a little bit.
00:25:25.020 You have to be somewhat motivated to learn and understand why it doesn't work in San
00:25:29.880 Francisco very well and why it does work in Oklahoma pretty well because of the price-to-rent
00:25:34.740 ratios being more favorable in some different areas of the country.
00:25:40.100 And yeah, the whole paying off the house thing, there's like two sides of that debate.
00:25:44.360 Some people say you shouldn't and some people say you should pay it off early.
00:25:47.940 Why – because I've heard the argument you shouldn't pay it off early because there's
00:25:50.360 tax benefits up.
00:25:51.040 But I've never understood that argument because you're basically paying the bank money so
00:25:56.040 you can save a little bit on taxes.
00:25:57.620 Right.
00:25:58.040 It's true.
00:25:58.700 It's kind of a win-win question.
00:26:00.680 You can't really go wrong as long as your other alternative isn't buying a boat with that
00:26:04.360 money.
00:26:05.280 If you pay off your house, you're getting a 4% return or whatever your mortgage rate is.
00:26:10.180 And a compromise to make kind of the best of both sides of the coin might be to leave
00:26:16.220 your house unpaid off while you're working.
00:26:18.360 So max out the index funds while you're working and your income is high, especially if you have
00:26:23.500 an expensive house because you're going to be up in the – above the standard deduction.
00:26:28.080 So you'll actually be really benefiting from the mortgage write-off.
00:26:32.260 And then once you quit, your income will be a lot lower because you're just living off
00:26:35.720 investments instead of your massive doctor or lawyer salary or whatever.
00:26:40.520 And then you could transfer some money to pay off your house.
00:26:43.060 And that really lowers your monthly expenses a lot.
00:26:45.720 They lower your cash flow requirements, which just makes people relaxed.
00:26:50.020 And it's a fairly good investment.
00:26:51.400 It's a 4% guaranteed fixed kind of yield, which you can't really get anywhere else right
00:26:56.980 now.
00:26:57.980 And it protects you from fluctuations in the stock market because you'll always have
00:27:03.420 that $0 monthly mortgage bill.
00:27:05.640 You'll just be paying property taxes and that's it.
00:27:07.620 So what's the one thing that someone who's listening to this podcast right now, what can
00:27:13.640 they start doing today to start on the road to financial independence?
00:27:18.000 Well, you could start learning about other people who have done it.
00:27:20.960 That's one thing to do.
00:27:21.820 Or you can just start taking action, like make sure you have a good working bike and start
00:27:27.480 replacing car trips with a bike.
00:27:29.020 I like that as a psychological bridge to better money management because it's a challenge.
00:27:34.180 It saves you money, but it's also getting you more physically fit and it's changing your
00:27:40.120 mindset so that suddenly you are active instead of passive and you're figuring out how you're
00:27:46.180 solving problems in the world instead of just relaxing and pressing the gas pedal.
00:27:50.140 So I like to use the bike as both like the figurative and the literal model for the first
00:27:55.960 step to a financially prosperous life because it's kind of the perfect example of the stuff
00:28:00.480 you have to do if you really want to get ahead of everybody.
00:28:03.160 Awesome.
00:28:04.240 So do hard things, like find something that's hard and do it.
00:28:06.960 Yeah.
00:28:07.440 And if you, I would say the bike is a perfect, you know, that can be the hard thing unless
00:28:11.780 you've got something else in mind.
00:28:13.640 Awesome.
00:28:14.100 Well, Pete, where can people learn more about your work?
00:28:16.260 There's only one place, just my blog, mrmoneymoustache.com.
00:28:20.180 And it's showed up on a lot of other stuff like newspapers and podcasts and stuff recently.
00:28:25.460 So you can poke through those in my media section too, if you want more of these big picture
00:28:30.180 interviews, but really if you want to just crank through some of the early articles and
00:28:34.420 then see if they, if you take a liking to them.
00:28:36.860 And if you do, then there's, there's a never ending chain because I've been writing this
00:28:40.740 thing for four years.
00:28:41.500 So there's a lot there to, uh, to have fun with.
00:28:44.100 All right.
00:28:44.880 Well, Pete, mrmoneymoustache, thank you so much for your time.
00:28:47.260 It's been a pleasure.
00:28:48.760 Likewise.
00:28:49.300 Thanks so much.
00:28:52.660 Our guest today was Pete.
00:28:53.780 He's the owner of the blog, mrmoneymoustache, and you can find out more about his work and
00:28:58.060 some more advice on personal finance by badassery at mrmoneymoustache.com.
00:29:03.780 Well, that wraps up another edition of the Art of Manliness podcast.
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00:29:26.920 Until next time, this is Brett McKay telling you to stay manly, to stay manly, to stay manly,
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