The Art of Manliness - November 16, 2016


#252: Deadly Survival Skills From a Navy SEAL


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Summary

On this episode of the Art of Manliness Podcast, former US Navy Seal Clint Emerson is back with another book filled with deadly skills. This time around, it's the 100 Deadly Skills Survival Edition, the seal operative's guide to surviving in the wild and being prepared for any disaster in it.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 brett mckay here and welcome to another edition of the art of manliness podcast well last year
00:00:18.860 i had a fellow by the name of clint emerson on the podcast he's a retired navy seal and he came
00:00:22.700 on the show to talk about his first book 100 deadly skills the seal offered his guide to
00:00:27.000 looting pursuers evading capture and surviving any dangerous situation it was one of my favorite
00:00:31.680 episodes from last year and a favorite of listeners as well well clint back with another
00:00:36.260 book filled with deadly skills this time around it's 100 deadly skills survival edition the seal
00:00:41.480 operative's guide to surviving in the wild and being prepared for any disaster in it he along
00:00:45.940 with aom illustrator ted slampiak show readers how to survive in any environment they might find
00:00:50.500 themselves from the desert to the mountains to the sea the book also covers how to manage disasters
00:00:55.600 at home today on the show clint and i talk about the mindset you need to survive any deadly scenario
00:01:00.720 including how to create a tactical nightstand yes a tactical nightstand how to combat clear your home
00:01:05.960 if you want to do that and what to do in a carjacking that and much more stay tuned for this for a fun
00:01:11.800 action focused podcast after the show is over check out the show notes at aom.is deadly skills one
00:01:18.460 clint emerson welcome back to the show hey brett thanks for having me it's awesome to be back yeah
00:01:28.820 so i mean it's been about a year since you're we had you on the show uh you came out with your book
00:01:33.100 100 deadly skill skills the seal operative's guide to looting pursuers evading capture and surviving any
00:01:38.800 dangerous situation and we got a lot of positive feedback from that episode uh people loved it and
00:01:45.580 your book has gotten a lot of positive feedback in the with the rest of the public uh this was a book
00:01:51.900 that became a new york times bestseller sold like hotcakes i mean what do you think accounts for the
00:01:58.940 popularity of this kind of subject where you know you were in the first book you were talking about how
00:02:03.120 to do anal concealments and uh how to survive you know active shooter situations which i can understand
00:02:09.620 because that's that's a thing or like how to bury a dead body uh i mean i sure i'm sure a lot of stuff
00:02:14.460 was fun but there's a lot of actually practical information in there but what do you think is
00:02:17.980 what's what itch are you scratching here with the book well with that first one i mean as you noted it
00:02:24.440 it it had some taboo stuff and taboo cells i mean but the bigger piece of it is it followed the theme of
00:02:31.200 a violent nomad which is you know trying to push people to be a little more self-reliant be more
00:02:36.500 reliable on themselves vice relying on 9-1-1 or people around them and uh kind of give them some skills
00:02:43.740 that are you know nefarious in nature and most of them developed by bad guys and you know the goal
00:02:49.560 really was hey if you know the bad guys offense then you can create a better defense you know this is
00:02:54.300 the basics to you know solid warfare so that first book um certainly hit a bunch of stuff that was
00:03:03.260 entertaining but at the same time informative and that's that's kind of the the overarching goal is you
00:03:10.420 want to give people information that's you know easily remembered and digestible and you know give
00:03:16.800 them just what they need to know without all the other rhetoric and uh do you have any ideas sort of
00:03:21.840 what your readership was like i mean it's i'm sure it's i mean if it made the new york times bestseller
00:03:24.940 list that doesn't mean it was just like the the survival prepper prepper guys are buying it these
00:03:29.560 were like average joes from every walk of life i imagine yeah i mean it's it's uh it became a you know
00:03:36.080 there's some strategy as you know with books you know coming out in october before the holiday season
00:03:41.660 it's a great stocking stuffer but at the same time you know there's you got a group of men that have
00:03:47.560 it sitting next to the toilet and then you have uh families that have it sitting on the coffee table
00:03:53.200 and then you have you know um people that travel business that you know carry it with them everywhere
00:03:58.980 they go um and i was surprised by the number of females that enjoyed the book um because they felt like
00:04:05.100 the skills all those skills is something really anyone can do um and i think a majority of the
00:04:11.280 people that bought it uh were also looking for something new if you look at you know yesterday's
00:04:18.660 survival books they really don't cover today's threats and between you know the first book and now
00:04:25.800 definitely the the second one um you've got 200 solid skills that uh are that really become a playbook
00:04:35.100 when dealing with any kind of crisis or threat that may come walking your way right so yeah you got
00:04:41.340 a second book out uh again like with the first you teamed up with ted slampiak the guy who does a lot
00:04:46.380 of our illustrations on the art of manliness uh it's 100 deadly skills survival edition and concentrates
00:04:52.780 as the title says on being prepared for surviving just about any scenario in the wild in urban areas in
00:04:58.880 your home um so first question there is how does and i think you kind of mentioned it earlier that
00:05:04.640 the yesterday's survival book isn't they're not as they're not that they're kind of outdated so how
00:05:10.420 does the modern landscape make survival a more complicated business than say you know 20 years ago or
00:05:17.520 even like going back you know to primitive times yeah i think it's interesting um you know one
00:05:24.160 the over the bigger issue these days is complacency and i think we touched on it last time i know i
00:05:30.440 touched on with everybody i've talked to and we are leashed to technology and between technology and
00:05:38.200 just natural human behavior to be somewhat to take shortcuts and be lazy um and always looking for
00:05:44.020 the answers at our fingertips um has really just sucked all of our basic human instincts you know kind
00:05:51.160 of away from us and you know when you talk about old school survival skills that you know our fathers
00:05:59.260 and our grandfathers used to know and it was kind of just common knowledge today no one really knows
00:06:06.260 how to do it anymore nor do they want to learn it because they feel like they can just google it
00:06:10.640 and um but the problem is is when you know when the lights go out the power goes down or you know
00:06:16.400 bigger state-sponsored cyber attacks start to emerge you'll find yourself in a very primitive
00:06:21.640 situation except the difference is is you won't have the knowledge you won't know how to deal with it
00:06:27.060 um there's been you know plenty of natural disasters like you compare it to something like katrina
00:06:34.740 where they were surrounded by water but none of it was drinkable and no one knew really what to do
00:06:41.920 with all that water in order to make it drinkable so you know even though the book breaks out
00:06:46.720 skills in the wild the reality is the wild can be in urban environments it just really depends on
00:06:53.480 the crisis that uh that that you know brings it in right that point about cyber attacks that's
00:06:59.180 interesting because i think that's going to be a bigger problem we just experienced one a few months
00:07:03.180 ago that took out a big portion of the internet like i know it affected our store there was a ddos
00:07:08.580 attack and our store was down for pretty much the entire day yeah yeah it's i think you know we
00:07:15.440 don't give it the credit it deserves and when you talk about state-sponsored stuff coming our way
00:07:22.360 whether it's russia or china um or even if it's just you know organizations that are you know anti-usa
00:07:29.840 uh you people forget that it's their cyber infrastructure that controls water transportation
00:07:35.960 you know power grids um all of it can be hacked and then turned off in a split second and then
00:07:43.980 that's when you're left with oh now what do i do you know you can't you can't use your devices you
00:07:49.440 can't log in you can't get on your computer you can't even turn on the lights um those are those
00:07:54.200 moments when you might want to have some skills in your back pocket right uh so uh to to counter
00:08:00.300 that to be ready for the situations where the wild comes to you right for whatever reason you
00:08:05.960 advocate for people to make themselves crisis proof uh so what are i mean let's talk about mindset of
00:08:12.120 becoming crisis through i mean what is what is the mindset that people need to develop in order to
00:08:16.200 become crisis proof as you say yeah you know we talk about awareness all the time but really
00:08:22.680 it still anchors to that you know you have to start paying attention the way i break down awareness
00:08:29.520 is you know your personal awareness that's your projection and demeanor management how you dress
00:08:33.840 how you walk you know a lot of things you write about you know that you know what makes a man a man
00:08:38.560 um and how do you do that without your ego dressing you each day you know our egos dress us and want us
00:08:47.680 to you know basically be different than the person next to us on the subway and when in reality you've got
00:08:55.760 to be the gray guy and so it all starts with your personal awareness you know literally looking in the
00:09:01.000 mirror and going all right what am i telling everyone by what i'm wearing um how i talk uh and what i do
00:09:08.500 my mannerisms um and then from that you know then you get into like third party awareness you know
00:09:14.020 understanding that people are looking at you watching you all the time um and and they're forming
00:09:19.600 you know they're forming opinions and judging you without even knowing you and i think we all know
00:09:24.960 that that occurs but you can manipulate it to a certain degree especially when we're talking
00:09:29.000 talking about man versus man type threats out there then you have situational awareness which you know i
00:09:34.880 think is overused verbally you know and you know it has it we always articulate yeah situational
00:09:40.300 awareness but how often do people actually become more situationally aware and how do you make it a
00:09:47.420 habit um like putting on your seat belt there was a time when no one wore seat belts um and they put
00:09:54.100 annoying buzzers inside your cars and then they you know you can get a ticket and then over time
00:09:59.580 it's become something you do and you don't even know you do it and that's kind of where you got to
00:10:04.640 get awareness it's not about okay i'm going to pay attention all day today because that's energy
00:10:08.480 consuming you you have to kind of piecemeal it a little bit you know like all right on the hour every
00:10:13.620 hour especially while i'm driving i'm going to kind of look around and make sure i know what's
00:10:17.040 going on and slowly introduce it into your into your world so that it then becomes a habit more
00:10:22.640 naturally and then and then of course cultural awareness so you know what's going to offend
00:10:28.220 people what doesn't offend people and making sure you understand the do's and don'ts to the
00:10:34.280 geographical location you're standing on if you combined all of that together now what are you
00:10:39.440 doing you're projecting something much different you're paying attention to things you're you're
00:10:43.920 actually getting educated to a certain degree on kind of the do's and don'ts whether it's third
00:10:49.500 party awareness or cultural awareness and before you know it mentally now you are you know these are
00:10:55.640 all kind of like things you can control uh and now you're you're reducing all of your threat
00:11:01.900 vulnerabilities and hopefully reducing crisis because you know most of the time the clues and the cues are
00:11:08.140 right there staring us in the face and it's not until after the event the incident or the crisis that
00:11:12.880 you go bang your head against the wall going god i saw that coming but i did absolutely nothing about
00:11:17.300 it right so it's a great uh breakdown of the mindset i mean what about the like big picture
00:11:22.960 skills right so the skills you need for different situations are going to vary right whether you're in
00:11:27.300 a desert situation or you're surviving a tornado or you're surviving a riot or whatever but i mean
00:11:34.200 are there bigger picture skills that can cross over to all these different domains that you need to
00:11:38.820 have in your back pocket yeah i think you know when we're talking mentally you know this is something
00:11:45.460 that's not going to be conditioned just by reading a book or overnight it's it's a level of confidence
00:11:50.260 that you've got to have um knowing that all right um you've gotten educated you've got some sort of
00:11:56.800 education in in you know different you know whether it's using the hundred daily skill playbooks or
00:12:02.440 you know experience that you know that you've accumulated over your life you combined all that
00:12:08.060 together and it's all about the confidence that you have when you face these these events and
00:12:13.540 taking control of what you can control you know it's the only things we can truly control when it comes
00:12:21.140 to any kind of event is preparation and response and so mentally you're literally running through
00:12:28.460 okay what can i do right now when i have plenty of time and zero stress that can make me more
00:12:36.060 effective more efficient increased survivability when something bad happens that's all about the
00:12:41.340 prep you know there's things you can do and there's a way that you can think about things you can what
00:12:44.980 if it you know and run scenarios then on the response side which is the other piece you control those are
00:12:51.080 those are decisions that you've already made and now all you do is act them out when a good day goes
00:12:56.920 bad and so i think if people are mentally you know immersing themselves into that what if
00:13:02.520 worst case scenario okay what can i do to prep for something like this whatever that event is
00:13:08.160 and then how would i properly respond to it geez you've just you've just done far more than the
00:13:15.480 average person to be prepared for that event and not only are you preparing yourself now you probably
00:13:21.940 have thought about well okay it's not about just me it's also my family or maybe the people around me
00:13:27.180 and you're actually you know doing something instead of just sitting there right so it sounds
00:13:31.800 like you're getting your ooda loop in gear before the event actually happens before you have to make
00:13:36.540 a decision oh yeah you definitely you know the ooda loop's great for you know dealing with whatever's
00:13:42.960 going on at that moment but yeah you certainly i mean it's a proven fact that you do not want to
00:13:48.820 make decisions in crisis you want to have that stuff already figured out so all you do is act on those
00:13:53.840 decisions you know any decision made in crisis is going to be a 50 50 chance whereas if you kind of
00:13:59.100 think them through and have your decisions already figured out um when you've got more of a clinical
00:14:04.380 you know where you have plenty of time and zero stress you know that's the ideal spot to make your
00:14:11.020 decisions and then if something bad happens you're good to go right so let's get more specific here
00:14:16.920 specific tools and skills a man would want to adopt to learn in order to increase his preparation
00:14:21.420 for a crisis so in the book you cover you go over gear and skills for every environment from the
00:14:27.140 desert to the arctic to the sea and more but let's start at home you have a section devoted to your
00:14:32.260 home that's where stuff can happen disasters can happen um we talked about an everyday carry last time
00:14:39.240 for the the violent nomad uh to consider um but you talk about in the book creating a tactical
00:14:45.300 tactical nightstand uh so what items should a guy have close at hand for his tactical nightstand
00:14:51.800 well you know the one that's uh illustrated in the book and what i talk about is kind of overkill
00:14:57.240 so yeah it was a lot of stuff yeah it's giving people options right i mean we have you know varying
00:15:04.400 degrees of you know people so you know you have lethal non-lethal means of uh dealing with let's say
00:15:11.820 an intruder and so you want your nightstand to kind of represent and have readily available
00:15:17.560 you take your nightstand you really look at it as you know your your kit right you can use it a lot
00:15:22.680 of guys already do this but i kind of wanted to formalize a little bit with options um so you know
00:15:28.880 you you've got to have basic life support basic defense stuff you know um it's you got first aid you
00:15:34.960 can have that there you can have anything everything from a baseball bat to you know you know a firearm
00:15:41.500 of some sort um and then of course you can have you know like in the illustration i got body armor
00:15:47.180 you know you've got you know everything from you know i would always pick bear spray over something
00:15:52.980 like mace you know bear spray has that distance it's got a more potent level of of pepper in it
00:16:01.080 and uh and still just as uh if not more effective than you know mace that you know squirts you know
00:16:08.780 you got to be intimately uh you got to be very intimate with someone to get that mace across
00:16:14.100 whereas with bear spray you can shoot it 30 feet away and if you don't have any of those then it then
00:16:18.420 i then i have some improvised stuff like what you know wasp spray or oven cleaner he's going to cause
00:16:23.740 permanent damage to a guy um but if he's in his in your house then he deserves it um but the big
00:16:30.060 legal takeaway from that is don't think for a second if you use wasp spray or oven cleaner and you carry it
00:16:36.300 like your purse or in your car well now you're talking about a whole that's that's actually
00:16:41.280 breaking the law most people think that would be okay if you can use mace but it's a difference
00:16:45.540 between pepper and chemicals um so when it's your own house your own domain you can get creative with
00:16:52.100 how you need to take care of an intruder and what you put in your tactical nightstand right so you need
00:16:57.900 a concealed wasp spray to walk around the city with your wasp spray can
00:17:02.000 yeah the license a conceal wasp spray license yes otherwise it's illegal and that's that's kind
00:17:09.320 of most people don't know that so whatever you whatever you use to defend your home is going to
00:17:14.460 be 100 legal no matter whatever it is because it's your home it's your domain but as soon as you take
00:17:19.340 some of those creative ideas outside your home you can actually go to jail for it all right so don't
00:17:25.280 get creative outside your home well the other thing on there that i think is extremely useful and
00:17:29.560 completely underrated is a flashlight near in your nightstand yeah yeah i mean i you know as you
00:17:37.540 know i've got some interest in the zero trace flashlight which is you know it's waterproof you can beat
00:17:42.180 people's skull and skull with it and it still works it's it's bright as hell and uh you know so there's
00:17:49.640 so many things a lot of people want to turn on the lights when they hear a noise in their house reality
00:17:54.200 is is you know your blueprint better than anyone else so keep that advantage for you
00:17:59.100 keep your lights out um you using a flashlight you don't want to use it like a spotlight and
00:18:04.760 light everything up because it's giving up your location it's giving a bad guy a place to shoot
00:18:09.040 so you want to use it sparingly and you also want to hold it away from your chest get it out away from
00:18:14.900 your body um when you're using that flashlight because if shots are fired you want them to go
00:18:19.520 you know high and right by you know at your torso and a common mistake is is to kind of you
00:18:25.560 you know hold it at chest level and point it out in front of you um but that's literally just giving
00:18:31.020 bullets you know a place to fly to and you don't want to do that um but you can also use it as
00:18:36.920 deception too you know you can use it to blind a guy and then quickly move you know you turn it on
00:18:42.140 turn it off and move out of the way um in order to give yourself different advantages um tactically if
00:18:48.740 you're having to deal with an intruder in your home but the book certainly lays out you know and of
00:18:53.020 course ted did a great job depicting you know the kind of like day and night with his illustrations
00:18:57.940 um even though the book is kind of you know black and white drawings yeah let's talk about uh home
00:19:03.240 invasion right this tactical nightstand is there in the event that someone comes into your home
00:19:09.060 illegally to to do you and your family harm so i mean how often do home invasions occur is it a
00:19:15.320 common thing or is it pretty rare it's actually on the rise right now for some reason um you're hearing
00:19:21.340 more and more reports of it and what used to be you know okay someone there's two kinds of predators
00:19:27.380 really and this is very general but it's a good rule to follow anybody who's coming to your home
00:19:31.680 during the day wants your stuff right burglars attack homes during the day because they know
00:19:37.180 everybody's at work and at school there's uh you know it's more predictable um whereas someone coming
00:19:44.000 to your home at night typically wants you or wants to harm you so that's your two divisions there
00:19:50.080 between day and night and you know how you how you deal with that obviously is going to be dependent
00:19:56.560 on who you are and where you live and um but the goal is is having a plan you know having some things
00:20:04.240 prepped having a proper response um and then you know having to deal with that as it comes you know i
00:20:12.280 talk about fortifying the home um and it's it's it's more than just your property you know there was
00:20:18.000 plenty of times overseas before we went into a target some targets just knew we were coming no
00:20:23.960 matter how great we were at being stealthy or you know clandestine with our movements and our actions
00:20:29.020 and the reason being is because you know people overseas still operate and you know know that it
00:20:34.500 you know quote unquote takes a village and uh so they're watching everyone's looking out for one
00:20:40.320 another and it seems these days in our neighborhoods no one really even talks to each other much less have
00:20:45.040 each other's phone numbers so they can text one another if they see something strange in the
00:20:48.780 neighborhood so that's where i begin is hey start talking to your neighbors start building you know
00:20:53.940 some alliances with one another and start looking out for each other so that if something strange
00:20:58.120 rolls through the neighborhood you can let everybody know um and second to that is you know i i put in
00:21:05.460 there me as a professional predator i'd look at targets determine their vulnerabilities and then figure
00:21:11.300 out how best to exploit them and so i put the reciprocal of that in the book you know um and
00:21:17.340 it's all about lighting up your you know the exterior of your home the more light there is the better
00:21:22.580 because that makes anybody's creeping up to your house feel completely vulnerable and naked to a
00:21:27.900 certain degree and they want to deal with it um if you talk to like professional burglars they avoid
00:21:33.540 homes that have like toys in the front yard because kids are unpredictable they avoid homes with dogs
00:21:38.920 because no one wants to deal with a dog they avoid homes that have signage in the front yard
00:21:43.580 you know that says alarm system that's clearly visible from the street you don't want someone
00:21:49.220 coming up to your door to determine whether or not you got good locks or a security system
00:21:54.160 you don't even want them you want them to keep them as far away as possible you know so a lot of
00:21:59.060 people will focus on locks and yeah i got an alarm system so i'm good to go but both of those systems
00:22:04.300 are literally tested you know the bad guy has to test that it means he's already too close and and
00:22:10.460 we don't want anybody getting that close we don't even coming in our front yard you know so you want
00:22:14.340 to push people out with some of these tactics and if and for all the single women that potentially
00:22:19.640 are listening you know i always say put a pair of size 12 athletic shoes right at the front door
00:22:24.780 to keep the sexual predators away you know all right so yeah you want to so light light is the light is
00:22:30.160 key illumination is definitely the number one you know when we're talking about you know at night
00:22:37.320 people sneaking up and doing whatever it is they're going to do um and during the day you know having a
00:22:43.060 if they i don't even know if they make big wheels anymore but it doesn't matter if you're a parent or
00:22:47.600 not you've got some kids toys out in the front yard uh that'll keep most of your professional
00:22:53.580 burglars away because it's just once again is there a stay-at-home mom is there not is there kids there
00:22:58.460 right now i don't know i'll move on to the next house so uh you have a section in there about how
00:23:03.160 to combat clear your home um that seems like it'd be a pretty dangerous thing to do i mean under what
00:23:08.860 circumstances would you want to do that and under what circumstances would you not want to do that
00:23:14.280 yeah you know we i think a lot of people that own guns first of all they they know that okay i hear a
00:23:23.420 noise or somebody kicks in my door um you know i'm grabbing my gun i'm calling 9-1-1 and then
00:23:30.180 that's kind of where it stops so i wanted to make it very clear to people that hey you know there's a
00:23:36.400 right and a wrong way of clearing your home if you choose to do so and this is a very personal decision
00:23:42.480 this is for the alpha males out there i mean yeah they're going to call them priority is to get help
00:23:47.320 and get it coming but if help is 15 minutes away or you live even even more rural and you know help
00:23:54.100 is you know 30 minutes away well then there's certain things you're going to have to do for
00:23:58.200 yourself and there's a lot of factors here right if you live alone then sure you can you're you're
00:24:03.420 alone you're an alpha you're an alpha kind of guy i'm going to clear my house i'm not running
00:24:08.400 but if you have family and kids then obviously maybe you know your primary plan is to get everybody
00:24:14.520 out of the home into safety um but for those moments where you feel like you're going to clear
00:24:21.080 the house or you can't run or you can't hide um or you know help isn't coming anytime soon
00:24:26.760 then i wanted to let people know like or at least show them and give them some guidance on how to pie
00:24:32.300 doorways and how to pie corners properly so that you're not putting yourself right in someone's sights
00:24:38.200 um because the goal with you know clearing your home is to clear it you know safely where you can
00:24:45.160 determine you know what the what the current security posture is make sure you are looking out for
00:24:52.380 yourself first um and not put yourself you know right in someone's sights so um clearing a home is
00:24:59.800 is isn't a uh isn't i wouldn't consider it advanced at all but it's just giving given some simple
00:25:06.860 tactics on kind of the do's and the don'ts and talking about the fatal funnel and you know where
00:25:12.220 people's eyes are attracted to you know in a combat clearance situation which is doorways you know and
00:25:17.700 you kind of want to stay out of the doorways you want to pie them properly you can look at a large
00:25:22.340 percentage of a room um just by pying a certain way and and how you sidestep and how you leverage your
00:25:30.700 gun in your field of view what do you mean by pine you're basically slicing if you if you're coming
00:25:37.500 around a corner you're using the corner that wall you know um to one conceal yourself but by
00:25:45.440 sidestepping away and not just you're not just button hooking around a corner and trying to tj hooker it
00:25:51.180 you know what i mean so you know we're not you're not trying to do that you're literally dissecting the
00:25:57.180 room while still leveraging the corner of a hallway or of a room to protect you protect yourself and
00:26:05.380 shield yourself but still being able to to dissect the room in pieces and clear it from from head to
00:26:11.860 toe um and it's it's hard to verbally describe it and that's why the illustrations do such a great job
00:26:19.760 and along with the narrative right so another uh sort of similar to home invasion is carjacking
00:26:26.840 uh is this a common thing or is this becoming less common and it's if it does happen to you like
00:26:33.420 what do you do yeah this is more of a opportunistic you know kind of predator's skill right this is
00:26:40.720 someone maybe on the run that's uh needs a vehicle um but it's also becoming um they're becoming
00:26:49.060 they're probably happening more often overseas than here in the u.s so anybody who travels will
00:26:54.820 benefit from some of those skills um but it's also happening at like atm machines where you you know
00:27:00.000 to drive up atm machines where you're more vulnerable um so there's three really scenarios
00:27:05.480 that can happen you know you're you're walking to your vehicle and somebody says hey you know give
00:27:10.000 me your car give me your keys uh there's you know the more the one that we think about the most is
00:27:16.980 you know you're driving you stop at a red light stop at a stop sign all of a sudden there's a gun
00:27:21.280 pointed at you at the driver's window and then there's another tactic is coming in through the
00:27:26.720 passenger door all of a sudden somebody's sitting next to you with a gun to your head um where they're
00:27:31.740 making you the driver um so there's different scenarios and different ways to deal with it but
00:27:38.500 the big takeaway is knowing that you're driving a you know anywhere between a four to six thousand
00:27:44.820 pound weapon um and when you're talking about that external threat and you're in the you know
00:27:50.060 you're in the cabin of your own vehicle um one everyone needs to know that there is all terrain is
00:27:58.080 drivable and anytime you go to any of the offensive or defensive driving schools i mean you'll hear that
00:28:03.340 more than anything else all terrain is drivable so what does that mean sidewalk that's sidewalks
00:28:09.140 grass you know you're not confined to the white and yellow lines so you have to think kind of outside
00:28:15.840 the box we get kind of stuck you know there's a sidewalk there you know but you know you can drive
00:28:20.140 right over that if you need to but in order to take advantage of drivable terrain you have to give
00:28:25.880 yourself space so when you're driving especially maybe in high threat areas or you're traveling overseas
00:28:30.880 or maybe you're doing business in mexico city i mean it just kind of really depends where you're going
00:28:36.060 and what you're doing but you want to give yourself plenty of space between the vehicles in front of
00:28:41.240 you and around you so that you can leverage that drivable terrain if somebody shows up at your
00:28:47.140 driver's side window with a weapon and so once you have that drivable terrain now if a gun breaches
00:28:53.640 that kind of the threshold of the driver's side door or window you can trap that weapon and hit the gas
00:29:00.880 at the same time and when i say trap i mean literally you're grabbing that weapon and pushing it to the
00:29:05.660 dashboard and then pushing the gas and driving out of there um that guy is not going to be able to do
00:29:13.340 much as soon as you do that and then of course once you start driving keep driving and you know get
00:29:20.180 yourself out of danger get yourself off the x right what happens in the event say the guy gets in the car
00:29:25.540 and got the gun to you i mean what what should be your strategy then um you know i always push you
00:29:32.680 know you're always looking for the first opportunity of escape you never want to let yourself get to
00:29:37.080 the second or third stop um you know that's when survivability and chances of escape become
00:29:44.320 increasingly more complicated so the sooner you can you know literally you don't even need to throw
00:29:51.520 the thing and park you know as soon as you can slow down get out um if it's someone approaching you
00:29:57.640 like a parking garage situation you know it's i put in there you know you need a kind of a distractor
00:30:02.780 and then increased distance you know so whether that's throwing your keys not necessarily at the
00:30:06.880 guy but throwing them off to the left and then you run right you know it's a typical kind of juke left
00:30:11.920 go right movement um and this is where identifying cover becomes so important you know we talk about
00:30:17.900 cover as anything that stops bullets concealment is equivalent to like you know the curtains in your home
00:30:22.900 you stand behind it yeah you're hidden but it's not going to stop a bullet so you know this is where
00:30:28.000 once again going back to awareness you know you're constantly kind of looking around the difference
00:30:33.060 between cover and concealment and you want to always identify cover and if you're in a parking
00:30:37.400 garage situation large structural pillars you're throwing your keys one way you know you're going to
00:30:43.580 run from pillar to pillar to pillar increasing distance between you and the threat and if it's truly
00:30:49.020 your car they want give it up i mean that's that's number one just like your wallet there's there's
00:30:53.640 no there's nothing more precious than your life so give it up it's insured and just get your just get
00:31:00.060 the distance between you and them of course if you're a concealed carry kind of guy then you know
00:31:05.780 and the guy's already got the draw on you well at that point you just have to decide you know if
00:31:09.840 you're gonna take that risk as well and draw your weapon and blast the guy but you know sometimes
00:31:15.260 for you know the average guy that's doing business every day and doesn't carry any weapons then
00:31:20.760 yeah throw your keys one way you run the opposite and uh get away from them so in the last book the
00:31:27.380 first book you talked about active shooter situations um and you revisit again in this book i'm curious has
00:31:33.680 anything changed from you know the first time you wrote the book to what you put in the book this time
00:31:39.660 around well this time the first time around was kind of more holistic in nature you know it's kind
00:31:46.480 of like just run hide fight and that's you know a philosophy that i teach in my day job and also
00:31:52.100 you know um the fbi supports 100 and uh you know i got a lot of people out there that you know have
00:31:58.740 different acronyms different things but really it boils down to you know running if you have if you can
00:32:03.180 run you should increasing your distance from a shooter is always a good thing um if you can hide
00:32:08.880 you know then hide behind things that stop bullets and make sure when you hide know that it's temporary
00:32:14.580 you don't want to be a sitting duck uh and then of course fight you know if you're going to fight
00:32:19.880 fight as a team improvised weapons are everywhere use them um if you're going to take down someone
00:32:25.160 and that's where it rolls into okay now book two i talk about active shooter takedowns you know how to
00:32:32.140 trap that weapon um how to take someone down properly you know it's basic mma macro big motor
00:32:41.380 movements because fine motor movements aren't going to work under stress you know so we want to be able
00:32:46.460 to you know you look at the bottom of the spine the top of the spine you have your head you have
00:32:51.940 your hips and the way you control the body is either you control the hips or you control the head
00:32:57.540 so you know one person is designated for head or hips and then another person's designated for the
00:33:03.340 weapon i go through and illustrate just some examples you know there's no right and wrong when
00:33:07.860 it comes to this stuff it's just when when when right so and then i took it a little bit further
00:33:13.000 and we're talking about theater shootings stadiums stadium uh shootings um you know i kind of break down
00:33:20.360 different tactics and giving people more tactical mindset you know that you don't want to go with the
00:33:26.040 flow necessarily when you when people start you know panicking you know sometimes it's better to
00:33:31.740 you know obviously get down and id the shooter um because the last thing you want to do is run
00:33:38.500 towards fire which a lot of people do when they panic um because they just hear the shots they don't pay
00:33:43.840 attention to where they came from um so i kind of start really digging down into some different tactics
00:33:51.340 that people can leverage in different environments in the second book which which really boils down to
00:33:56.240 the headlines we keep hearing about it in the headlines so this second book i wanted to tackle
00:34:00.820 everything that's in the headlines right so uh another skill you talk about going back to cars is
00:34:07.420 a sinking car right you're driving maybe a bridge collapse and you're underwater in your car
00:34:13.840 how do you escape a sinking car yeah i still find it uh concerning and entertaining that you know you
00:34:24.420 watch the news uh and see people being swept away you know by these uh flash floods and i'm just it
00:34:31.880 baffles me that people continue to think they can drive a vehicle uh through you know potentially five
00:34:39.120 not current cruising across the street you know it's just it's the opposite of hydroplaning you know
00:34:45.000 it's uh it's the water pushing you instead of you sliding across and i don't think i think people
00:34:51.900 underestimate this stuff uh all the time um but it can turn it really can go bad very quickly so
00:35:00.200 i'm giving options to people one reroute if you if there's traffic and everyone's trying to just
00:35:06.420 you know slowly motor across this you know the rapids in front of them you know don't be that
00:35:12.440 guy you know go ahead back up reroute there's always another route but if you find yourself
00:35:17.580 channelized or the traffic's so bad you can't back up or you didn't give yourself any drivable terrain
00:35:22.620 then um okay you know you you or somehow the you know things go bad and now you're being swept away
00:35:30.460 you know one a glass break tool in your vehicle is number one and have it in a compartment that you
00:35:36.880 can get to you don't want it sitting in like you know the cup holder to where you know any major hit
00:35:42.400 and it's going to end up on the floorboard and you can't even reach the thing um two know that hey
00:35:47.100 power windows you know get them open create the exits um sunroofs create the exit uh you you you have
00:35:55.060 time as long as you can control the panic um knowing the difference between like you know the
00:36:00.640 your front your windshield and then the you know the rest of the glass of the vehicle it's two
00:36:06.020 different kinds of glass don't waste your time time trying to kick out a windshield um or break it
00:36:11.560 you know it's better to go for your passenger or driver's side windows um break them and go out
00:36:18.540 sunroofs obviously if you can go out that way um but then i go through all right now okay how's what's
00:36:23.940 some other ways you know there's the common sense ways then there's some other ways your headrest if
00:36:27.200 you if you literally dislocate it pull it out and we actually got to do it where you you know you take
00:36:32.260 the you know headrest is really just two bars stuck down into the seat you can you can remove the whole
00:36:37.100 thing and the bars have points on the end um or the rods and you wedge it between you know the the
00:36:43.460 molding where you're at the bottom of your door and when the glass meet you kind of turn it into a
00:36:51.100 fulcrum stick it down in there pull back and boom the glass will shatter and out you go
00:36:55.660 and it's important to note the two different kinds of glass right you have safety glass which is your
00:37:00.540 passenger windows front and back right driver's side windows all your side windows um but your
00:37:06.740 windshield is is is tempered it's it's set to it's or it's laminated sorry and so it's it's built
00:37:12.280 to withstand projectiles flying at it i mean that's why the windshield is a much different kind of
00:37:19.720 treated glass and it's the last one that you want to try and shatter or break because it's very
00:37:23.900 difficult um so always aim for like passenger driver's side windows when you talk about breaking
00:37:30.060 a window and getting out but ideally you have these windows already open and you're giving yourself
00:37:34.300 an easy means of escape and understand the dynamics of a vehicle too you know when you talk about deep
00:37:39.360 water you know the engine end of the vehicle is going to sink first and you kind of want to get out of
00:37:44.880 the vehicle and go away from the weight you know so if you're in a sports car and your engine is in
00:37:50.760 the rear well then you're going to get out and go towards the hood and if uh if your engine is you
00:37:56.780 know obviously in the front like most vehicles well then you're going to get out and move towards the
00:38:00.800 trunk um so there is some logic in all this but you know most people forget it under stress
00:38:06.240 that's why it's important to kind of think this stuff through um so that if it ever happens
00:38:11.200 you know what to do so another scenario that you you covered in the book that i'd never heard of
00:38:16.120 before that was interesting is this idea of virtual kidnappings uh what's a virtual kidnapping and how
00:38:22.380 do you handle those yeah so these are on the rise um and what it is is one big hoax and it relies a lot
00:38:29.200 on someone understanding or knowing your pattern of life these days we put our pattern of life all over
00:38:36.380 social media and that's why it's important not to you know post everything real time no one needs to
00:38:43.380 know that you're you know at the airport right now or no one needs to know that you're uh you know on
00:38:49.140 vacation or that you're traveling abroad um because this is all pattern of life information that uh bad
00:38:56.520 guys use especially for virtual kidnappings and just a couple of weeks ago in the national news was um
00:39:03.260 a mom who thought her daughter had been kidnapped and so what these guys do they'll they'll call you
00:39:09.440 up and they'll say hey you know we've got your daughter um and then they'll give you a series
00:39:15.800 of directions and have you go around from atm machine to atm machine and then either give you a
00:39:21.200 drop site or use some kind of you know western union you know money transfer um and they'll do that
00:39:28.980 and so they terrorized her basically for five hours straight here she's thinking her daughter
00:39:33.080 um had been kidnapped when the reality is her daughter was still exactly where she was and that
00:39:38.940 was at school um but what these guys it's important to note you know the difference between a real
00:39:44.820 kidnapping and a virtual one the virtual one where no one's been kidnapped but they have you believe
00:39:50.820 that they've got your kid um and then you of course a parent that knows that loves their kid or
00:39:57.820 anything i mean any concern whatsoever is going to do what someone says on the other line
00:40:01.240 but just keep in mind it's one big hoax so knowing the differences between a real kidnapping and a
00:40:08.700 virtual one is important so a virtual one they're going to keep you on the phone for as long as they
00:40:13.820 can because they don't want you to get off the phone and check in with your loved one whereas a real
00:40:19.980 kidnapping they're going to call you from your daughter's phone just to you know that that sends the
00:40:26.420 message okay it's a call from on from my daughter's phone and it's someone else on the line saying i
00:40:32.060 have your daughter and they're going to keep their phone calls very short um so caller id and time on
00:40:38.400 the phone are big indicators of whether you're dealing with a real world event or a hoax okay second
00:40:45.100 the amount of money they ask for if they're asking for hey go to atm machines and pull out a couple
00:40:50.280 hundred bucks here and there you know you might get a thousand bucks out of it it's probably virtual
00:40:55.280 because a real kidnapper they're relying on big big money so they're they're they're not spending a lot
00:41:01.540 of time on the phone because they don't want to be tracked traced um and then they're asking for big
00:41:06.660 big numbers they're probably going to ask for you know have you drop it at a drop site um and then with
00:41:12.980 the virtual they all use a lot of like social engineering and and just psychology and play on your
00:41:18.720 emotions and that's really what it is is one big emotional hoax and they'll tell you hey you know we're
00:41:24.540 watching you we're going to watch you when you go to the h machine we're watching you the whole time
00:41:28.520 if you hang up you know we're going to kill your daughter it's it's a horrible event but it's becoming
00:41:34.280 more and more popular now and so this is where it goes back to social media you don't need to post
00:41:40.360 what you're doing when you're doing it you know especially if you're flying from new york to london
00:41:43.740 everyone knows it's a five-hour flight you know that's five hours that a loved one cannot communicate
00:41:48.600 with you and these guys are pretty smart they won't go deal with the mom and the dad they'll
00:41:55.080 they'll hit the grandmother the grandfather and work them because they're going to be a little
00:42:01.680 probably further disconnected from what the what the loved one has actually got going on and they're
00:42:06.720 going to do nothing but believe this person because they're older and they think it's real and
00:42:10.880 you know they're they're they're probably easier to trick so anyway the book breaks all this down
00:42:16.140 and illustrates it you know with uh with great illustrations kind of depict the difference
00:42:21.600 between the two right well hey clint we've uh there's a lot more we could talk about i mean like
00:42:26.340 like i said in the book or being in the podcast uh you talk about how to survive in desert situations
00:42:31.080 arctic uh on a deserted island things like that um so where can people find out more about the book
00:42:37.340 and your work uh all of the links to buy the book is 100 deadly skills.com that's 100 deadly skills.com
00:42:45.500 and the book is sold where all books are sold i mean whether it's you're at the airport or
00:42:50.400 barnes and noble um you can pick one up i highly recommend actually getting the book because they're
00:42:55.360 built you know they're built to uh withstand blood and water no yeah it's a nice it feels like a
00:43:02.260 survival manual yeah well hey clint this has been a great conversation thank you so much for your
00:43:06.200 time it's been a pleasure hey thank you brett my guest today was clint emerson he's the author of the
00:43:10.520 book 100 deadly skills survival edition you can find that on amazon.com and bookstores everywhere
00:43:15.840 you can find out more information about the book at 100 deadly skills.com also check out the show
00:43:20.100 notes at aom.is deadly skills where you can find links to resources where you can delve deeper into
00:43:24.580 this topic well that wraps up another edition of the art of manliness podcast for more manly tips and
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