#277: Krav Maga – The Self-Defense System of Israeli Special Forces
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Krav Maga has gained an international reputation as an easy to learn, yet highly effective self-defense system. Developed for the israeli military forces and battle tested in real life tactical situations by police and military forces around the world, Krav Magma has gained a reputation for being an effective self defense system. Today, in the podcast, I talk to David Khan, Chief Instructor of the U.S. Israelian Association, the author of several books on Krav maga, including , about the origins and history of the system, its philosophy and fundamental moves, and how to use the systems combatives in a defensive scenario. After the show is over, check out the show notes at .
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brett mckay here and welcome to another edition of the art of manliness podcast developed for
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the israeli military forces and battle tested in real life tactical situations by police and
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military forces around the world krav maga has gained an international reputation as an easy
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to learn yet highly effective combative and self-defense system today in the podcast i
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talked to david khan chief instructor of the u.s israeli krav maga association the author of
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several books on krav maga including krav maga defense david and i discussed the origins and
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history of krav maga its philosophy and fundamental moves and how to use the systems combatives in a
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defensive scenario really fascinating show after the show is over check out the show notes at aom.is
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slash krav maga all one word we can find links to resources where you delve deeper into this topic
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david khan welcome to the show hey brett great to be on with you uh so you are a krav maga instructor
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the um i guess the the chief officer at israeli krav maga here in the united states um before we get
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into talking about krav and what exactly it entails can you tell us a little bit about your background
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how did you get involved in krav maga and i mean what are the types of people you train as a krav maga
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instructor sure uh my first experience with krav maga was my uh first week of law school and the
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experience floored me literally uh the first american to ever do krav maga rick blitzstein um i had played
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ivy league football and i wanted to try some kind of um self-defense and i wanted immediate gratification
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as all people seem to and uh rick look take a look at me and he thought that'd be a good example
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and he took me in what we call cavalier which is a wrist takedown and he ended up with his size eight
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and a half on my neck in front of all these people and while i should have been embarrassed i thought
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it was the coolest thing in the world and i said i gotta do that so that's how i stumbled literally
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on krav maga i i didn't know what it was i probably even mispronounced it the first uh few times i took it
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um but it's become really quite popular and that that's a good thing for the most part although
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obviously there are certain um criminal elements that are trying to get their hands on it as well
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and um my background again i i i'm a non-practicing attorney i work with technologies i write patents and
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i i love teaching krav maga um been fortunate enough to write uh five books on it uh matter of fact the
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the fourth book uh just won a national book award uh as we mentioned uh in the category of sports
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although it's anything but sporting uh and it was called professional tactics so that that was a
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real nice award with all the major publishers uh competing for the title and uh fortunately we we
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took it um we actually won a similar award exact same award back in 2010 with a weapons defense book
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so um in addition to the the books we've been able to write we've done a bunch of um dvds uh four
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different sets and through it all we've been contacted by um most of the major law enforcement
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agencies we've trained to date um the veritable alphabet of the federal agencies fbi dea secret
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service marshal service uh department of corrections uh department of justice police um department of
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defense police etc coast guard and then uh fortunately all uh five branches of the united states military
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uh including the uh the coast guard um we were invited down to quantico to train with the marine
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corps which also then led to an fbi invitation to train their academy with them along with dea um
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chain some tier one um groups and it's really just been a marvelous thing and right so i mean what are
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the origins of krav magas so it's called israeli krav magas i'm imagining it originated in israel but
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why why did the self-defense system originate in israel it actually originated uh in late uh or actually
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early uh 1940s and late 30s in slovakia uh by a man named emic lichtenfeld who founded the system
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and uh emi had a background in in boxing and in western wrestling and judo um his father was a chief
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inspector for the slovakian police but it was developed and um uh invented as necessity to protect
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the jewish community and the difference between the the uh nascent krav maga training and uh sport
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fighting was simply that uh krav maga as it was it was really self-defense it didn't get uh called
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krav maga into the late 40s but such as it was was developed again to protect the jewish community and
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the key differentiator was that there were no rules in a street fight and that uh emi was always
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outnumbered um along with his his colleagues who helped her and he realized right away that um again
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there could be no sporting applications which mean there are no rules but most importantly
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uh every uh combative or strike or um countermeasure had to count there was no room for uh wasted motion
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or ineffective combatives in other words a punch had to be a knockout if it could be a kick had to
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take out a knee uh a knee had to need somebody in the groin uh an eye gouge had to do the trick and
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distract and then he can move on to the next opponent so um by its very nature it was visceral um it was
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meant only for self-defense not to use be used offensively and uh emi ended up um emigrating
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uh from or escaping the nazis in slovakia and ended up fighting for the british army in uh north africa
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and uh he was wounded he was decorated and then he made his way to um what was to become israel
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and the early uh israeli military leaders recognized that emi had a distinct talent for
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hand-to-hand combat and a great way of teaching and they um suggested that he uh ramped this up for
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the uh the fledgling um israel defense forces which had at that point been a number of organizations
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including the hagana the palmach and the polyam um which were really um uh self-defense groups and
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they they formed the national army which was israel defense forces and to this day krav maga is the
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official hand-to-hand combat system um the krav maga that's taught in the israeli military does
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differ in uh different units uh it's not uniform uh but it is still called krav maga and uh we call
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it israeli krav maga because it comes from the israeli krav maga association there are many different
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types of krav maga that that people have put spins on but um we refer to it israeli krav maga
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because it is the original organization with the most evolved krav maga and krav maga that's a hebrew
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word right yep means contact combat or close combat uh krav means a struggle uh first used in
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the old testament uh when uh as my research seemed to show that gabriel uh struggled as opposed to
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fought with the angel of death and it's used elsewhere and maga means uh proximity and actually
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in my um fourth book i had a uh i'm forgetting it right now but i'll come back to it if you'd like
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uh it's actually one of the original um uh explanations behind krav maga about preparing
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one's fingers for battle and my hands for war that's one of the first references to the word
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oh that's cool um so you kind of hit on some of the principles of krav maga so it's you know make
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every uh strike count just basic motor movements beyond that are there some other principles that
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guide krav maga yes there are um like every good self-defense it's to recognize the incipient
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conflict or violence that's coming to you or you know targeting you and to avoid it it's just better
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to see that this is not going to end up in a good situation and to extricate yourself but
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if push comes to shove uh and we've got to react physically in other words all de-escalation the
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de-confliction anything you can say is not going to uh de-conflagrate the situation uh krav maga focuses
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on preemptive action in other words if you see that an attacker is winding up to hit you we're going to
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deploy a weapon against you from the waistband the back or is palming a weapon um will preempt and
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that could be any number of of counterattacks but they're meant to cause injury not necessarily to
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hurt but to cause injury to survive the situation um coupled with that is the um the all-important
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principle of simultaneous defense and attack which simply means that every defensive measure that's
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taken a counterattack is also launched um so if somebody were throwing a punch at your head
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uh using the preemptive self-defense you could use a straight punch because a straight attack will
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always um reach the target faster than a round attack and incidentally it takes about three times
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as long to land a hook punch as it does a straight punch but if you wanted to defend the straight
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punch with a simultaneous defense and attack principle you would um defend with uh the near side
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arm if it's a right punch you defend with your left you would block using a rotational defense to
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attack the attacker's arm while simultaneously either punching or using a palm or an eye strike
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to the attacker's face so you're blocking and attacking at the same time and simultaneous defense
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and attack is that retzev like r-e-t-z-e-v that's um a method of counterattacking developed by
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grandmaster haim gidan uh my instructor i'm very proud to be a student and that means continuous combat
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motion um basically it's harnessing the body's natural movements it's using optimized combatives in other
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words as i land a kick to the knee of the groin my weight is already transferring forward allowing me
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to use uh that same side punch like a left kick to the groin imagine followed by immediately by a left
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punch followed by a right punch and because of my weight now coming forward with the right punch
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it optimizes a right knee so basically it's harnessing the body's momentum and it's creating
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economy emotion and it's either recognizing an opportunity to strike a vulnerable anatomy in a um in
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assailant or creating your own opportunity by a salvo of uh strikes i can put it to you this way
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maybe it is the equivalent of a um a single shot from a maybe a semi-automatic rifle hitting where
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you need to hit and then the rifle opens up fully automatic so it's like a single fully automatic burst of
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of uh attack so that makes sense yeah that does make sense um so what do you think is the the mind
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mindset shift that needs to take place for people to use krav magov effectively um compared to the
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mindset they might have with other defensive uh systems well i think that all good systems share
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uh the mindset that we really uh emphasize which is attack the attacker um that person intends to do
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you harm you've got to react with extreme prejudice where the situation warrants it and uh i'm going to
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say neutralize a threat and that people can interpret neutralize as they wish but basically um you know
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i'm a lawyer by training so it's very important for civilians to understand that they've got to use
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proportional force uh in other words you can you can counterattack until that uh threat that person
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can no longer counterattack you but if you continue uh you know to administer punishment because you're
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angry after the fact that's going to come back and haunt you legally and morally perhaps as well
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um but it's really an aggressive mindset it's that i'm not going to lose this and it doesn't matter
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what that other person knows i'm going to take the fight to him or her because they've given me no
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choice and i'm going to end it quickly on my terms um again it's an overwhelming counterattack
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and um again it's with extreme prejudice there's just you know you again you've got to reconcile
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yourself that you've done everything you can to avoid this situation the attack is coming your way
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and you've got to defeat it uh whatever it takes so you mentioned that part of uh krav maga is going
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for inflicting damage to you know very vulnerable parts of the body um what are the those vulnerable
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parts that krav focuses on and um how do you go about attacking them yeah the primary targets of
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course the obvious ones uh the eyes the uh the temple uh the throat the sides of the neck the groin
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the knees and then you've also obviously got the internal organs including you know kidneys spleen
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um the solar plexus the um again the uh the mandible process uh the back of the skull it's really
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wherever you can cause damage and what we mean by damage is uh structural damage to anatomy um either
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pushing the uh the the tissue beyond its natural elasticity or dislocating joints or breaking bones
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you know even uh popping out an eyeball if you've got to do it's a life and death situation
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by um inserting your thumb and digging into the attacker's eye and uh gouging that eyeball out
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and that that's as i said that's visceral and um thank goodness that most people are averse to doing
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something like that it has to be taught to most people but um some people come by it naturally
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again this is when everything else has failed and there's no choice but to defend yourself
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how do you train for like gouging an eyeball out right like i see how you can train for a punch right
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because you can punch a body bag a gouging an eyeball how do you practice for that well one way
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of course is if you have a uh practice dummy like a bob but they're rather expensive so we can do it a
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couple different ways when we actually practice with a partner we only find the eyebrow you find
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the cheekbone in other words if you have a listener um trying this out in the sense you know
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mentally what you would do is you take your right hand the the person who's listening i'm doing
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it right now as i speak you put it on your left cheekbone and by putting the hand on the left
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cheekbone in other words you're facing somebody else but you're practicing on yourself it automatically
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gives you a guide into the eye it's called the rule of thumb if you will so obviously when we
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practice uh like everything we've got to use extreme control which is one part of the problem
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i got trained in other words i'm i'm at the level um my senior instructors are where we can actually
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kick somebody's knee without taking it out we've got the control but that has to be built up over time
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and that takes proper instruction um so you ask a very good question um when i was working with one
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of the military branches they were going to test whether the problem got worked or not
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and very very tough guys and the guy i put myself in a very bad position i put myself in a guillotine
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on the ground i said okay you can choke me out and the um friend of mine i won't say which branch
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but the uh the friend of mine said i i can really choke you out uh he became a friend afterwards
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matter of fact i said sure if i pass out i'll pass out if i tap i tap out and again he says i can
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really choke yet i said yeah you can if you can but what happened was i uh i did the defense and
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uh again before i knew him well uh he said sir my eyeball is coming out i said well it's in
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release as i'm gritting my teeth as he's choking me and i'm releasing so um you can put that kind
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of pressure into the eye lid and people will generally relent but you got to be careful right
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i know this probably sounds goofy i think i read somewhere where someone like would put like
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orange slices like on a bob dummy and like practice like sticking their thumb in the orange
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slice to get like get used to that could be get used to the feeling of putting their thumb in an
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eyeball oh man but no that that that well could be i mean it it's similar to using a watermelon when
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you're using edge weapons you know to understand how uh a um a blade is going to penetrate the human
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torso it's about the same uh tension suction and uh same thing with biting you know when when we we have
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biting uh sometimes you'll take a piece of fruit and orange with the peel still on it you'll use
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your incisors you'll rip it out just to simulate biting if you had to you know for example bite
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somebody's neck if they were choking you from the uh you know from the front or or wherever it may be
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or bear hug is a better example of that um so you can definitely use all sorts of fruit or balloons or
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you know anything you want to simulate um human anatomy right this is gonna be funny there's gonna be
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like guys sticking their thumbs in oranges and their wives are gonna come in like what are you doing
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and i'm training to gouge someone's eyeball out getting back to this idea of practicing for krav
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um because it's it's a real world right in most of the situations you're going to encounter uh in
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real world defense like you are not expecting it um so how do you train for an event you don't expect
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right because like when you're training you know the guy's going to going to attack you so in krav how do
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you train yourself to be ready uh for those unexpected moments where you have to defend
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yourself great question um krav maga is built on instincts uh and we hone those instincts for
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example um if something is unexpectedly thrown at your head or somebody were to swing at your head
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and you saw it coming you would flinch and that means your arms would come up and you'd probably tuck
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your chin raising your shoulders so krav maga uh to uh make it most effective builds on our natural
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instincts and uh for example when you're caught what we call the negative five which is courtesy of a
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good friend of mine near my man um who headed up the counter-terror training uh in israel for krav maga
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um when you're putting the negative five you don't expect it and that's where your your trained tack is
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your conditioned response has to come in so we train to do just a few things very well that will handle
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uh the myriad attacks you might face uh for example the um the hook punch defense we're talking about
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the outside movement to block it would be the same thing it's a sucker punch from your left or your
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right we see something coming to the head we flinch we move away from it as we deflect and then
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counter-attack if you can um so what it distills down to is just understanding a few core movements to
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get you off a line of attack or to react and that has to come with training but the great thing about
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krav maga why people seem to enjoy it so much or find it um so easy to learn and retain so again
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it's built on that flinch response or for example if you were uh somebody were going to try to kick
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you in the groin you know another street trick uh most people if they see it coming will drop their
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hands or they'll cross their legs well we don't want to drop the hands but we will build on that
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crossing the leg response to deflect it with the forward leg uh in other words if you were you know
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you're standing there and somebody went at you you'd turn to the side well we build on that
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by using the forward leg to deflect and turn the attacker away taking his dead side what does a
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typical session look like right so you can prepare yourself for these events that you're not expecting
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right like how do you train for the unexpected it actually it might be helpful to to say one thing
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about the krav maga that not all krav maga training is the same and that with our specific training the
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krav maga from um we practice and we train against concerted resistance in other words somebody who's
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throwing a full force attack at you because if you don't train that way you do yourself a disservice
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uh in in three ways one the speed of the attack or the unexpectedness of the attack
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uh so it's one and two and then the ferocity of it the power coming at you so you've got to learn how
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to attack uh the best way you can um in terms of simulating it and by our combatives we're actually
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throwing very good combatives the most effective and optimized combatives so when you can defend against
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those kinds of attacks where somebody's attracting the attacking limb very quickly to simulate you
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know a trained attacker it's it's easier to defend against somebody who's not so trained um but we're
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not spending a whole lot of time doing uh jumping jacks and sit-ups and push-ups and fighting in the
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air um so what we can do for example is we'll have a partner stand the hands are down in a negative five
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position you're not ready for a fight and we'll have that partner circle around the um you know the
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practice partner who's defending and throw any kind of attack doesn't matter what it is and the attack
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you know it could be a it could be a punch it could be a kick it could be a choke a push a takedown
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anything and that's what we call uh open training where you know something will happen but you don't
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know what as opposed to choreograph training where you say hey i'm going to throw a punch at you now
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which of course we build it up beginners would do the closed training where they know something is
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coming but even within the closed training we begin to build it out like for example you don't know
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a great punch from the left to the right or a hook from the left or the right so it's a 25 percent
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proposition for each kind of attack you can get but you've got to react um so using good you know
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mma gloves and control uh we will go at each other full force in fact it's one of my favorite practice
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drills um in addition we also practice from what i'll call a de-escalation stance which i talk a bunch
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about in um the the late the fifth book krav maga defense where you're not putting your hands up in a
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fighting stance because that's going to um basically indicate that you you're you're engaging
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in uh mutual combat which where you lose your self-defense ability you know it's a fight
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and you're not ready for it so um that's kind of my my favorite kind of drill we'll spar as well you
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know where the hands do go up and you're fighting but that's the way we got to train um same thing
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with getting choked from the rear we will walk up somebody in the class and choke him or her if we
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understand they know the technique and you'll have to react uh from you know an unprepared state
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because if you can react from an unprepared state if you're prepared obviously you've got the
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advantage so let's kind of talk about specific uh scenarios um so the basic idea of krav you're
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going to use your flinch your startle reflex use basic gross motor movements to go for vulnerable
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parts of the body but let's say uh there's more than one attacker um so how do you what's your
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strategy whenever you're you have two or three attackers on you because i mean they don't do it like in
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the movies where they just all wait around while one attacker goes for you and then then the next
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one goes they're coming at you simultaneously no no you you hit a you hit another great point uh in
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fact it's the very essence of krav maga it's what emi the founder had to face uh more times than not
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and the key is you do not um fight more than one person at a time and you never get in the middle
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of multiple assailants you know especially if there were three assailants in other words let's say that
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the uh the listener is facing three people to his or her left middle and right whatever happens the
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defender is going to go to his or her left or right but never down the middle even if the attacker in
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the middle comes at you and what we do is again we take the attack to the attacker again attack the
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attacker and we always try to line the um attackers up and that means brutalizing the uh closest threat
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the near the near threat if there's a weapon we'll take it away and use it against all three but you
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never want to fight two people at once and you always want to keep moving remember you're the
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target they're not the target they're trying to envelop you and you gotta work effectively now
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interestingly uh one one bit a bit of tradecraft here you you get the old westerns where your people
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were outnumbered and maybe it's two against four and one guy says i'll take those two you take the
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other two that's not the way we do it either if they were two against four the two people would
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still fight one person knock him or her down uh you know neutralize him and then continue but it's
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never uh fighting more than one person and we'll we'll fight two against one four in our favor yeah
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but not the other way around we won't defend against two and you just mentioned uh weapons
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uh improvised weapons is that an important part of krav maga as well sure um anything that you can pick up
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uh can be a weapon uh change in your hand can be held at your side it can be launched at um somebody's
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face with a simultaneous kick to the groin or the knee um you know the keys are always taught
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thought of as um slashing but they can actually be used as a distraction where you're you're getting
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the guy to put his hands up clouding his vision and then uh taking out his knee um you know umbrellas
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um mobile phones i've got i've actually got a training curriculum for mobile phone use you're
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going to have a good insurance claim on claim on your hand uh i've developed a device too for that
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we'll see how that turns out um and anything you can pick up um you know a wall can be used as an
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improvised weapon too if you if you do what we call tai sabaki and you turn and you um channel the
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attacker's momentum uh forward and you use it to ram him into the wall um you know car doors anything
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and everything can be used by you keeping in mind that it can also be used against you so um the the
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best defense i think all self-defense systems say is the best defense is to avoid confrontation in
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the first place and you write a lot about this in your books so what are some of the pre-conflict
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indicators that people should be looking out for and what can you do to avoid or de-escalate these
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conflicts terrific point um as all good self-defense will tell you you know it's using common sense first
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and foremost i would also say you couple that with um your intuition uh there's a great book and i
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would advise all readers to pick it up if they're interested in the topic uh called the gift of fear
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by gavin de becker very well-known book basically what gavin de becker is suggesting is that trust your
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gut you will sense that there's a problem if something doesn't feel right it's not trust yourself
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forget social mores of you know offending somebody if you're an elevator that kind of thing
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um and again uh there are different hooks that people use or different provocations you know
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so much of what people think of as violence is is avoidable in social violence and um again made it
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made a a very important point in book number five about social violence versus raw violence and
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social violence can be avoided somebody giving you a stare and hoping that you'll return the stare so
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they can escalate with you uh it could be a verbal um you know provocation hey what are you looking
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at for example or you know something to that effect and again those things can be uh avoided or ignored
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um a couple tips maybe for for our listeners here um if somebody looks at you and you return the gaze any
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um return gaze beyond three seconds uh and emotional intent is usually indicated in other words if you
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look at somebody and then you look away not down and i'll explain that momentarily but if you look
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away you're not um challenging him or her if you look down though you break your gaze and look down
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it may be just what that person wanted to see because now you've shown you're subordinate in some way
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you look down so if you can look to the side and keep panning for uh potential threats let's say
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then you've introduced a degree of uh equanimity in other words you're you're not challenging the person but
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you're not backing down either um verbal challenges can be uh forgive the pun a bit more challenging
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simply because it's directed at you it's a direct um challenge or provocation and you know you got to
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rehearse this ahead of time and say hey you know somebody gave me a problem hey you know it looks
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like you had a tough day i i did too or a sincere apology may be in order even though you may not have
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anything to apologize for if you just want to avoid it and much of this is just posturing it's it's a
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form of social dominance where somebody wants to show off to uh either a peer it could be a
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girlfriend it could be even his or her own children or you know group setting uh young males are more
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susceptible to it obviously and um you know to that point you just have to think about what you would
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say to uh to try to be conflict the situation um i had a an instance where i was on a train uh going
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um from um uh newark new jersey and for whatever reason this hard-bitten guy with a tattoo
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uh on that you know on his face uh teardrop in fact you know took issue with me and he used the
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time monitor hey what are you looking at and i thought ah here we go but i said to him rather
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than saying nothing i said is that your beautiful baby girl and he looked at me that startled and he
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and i said is that your beautiful girl i said she's about 13 months and he didn't know what to say
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other than smile and the mother um he's the father the mother was was smiling from ear to ear because
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i talking about their child with um sincerity and i opened the train door uh or i held it for them
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and rather than having a an aggressor going back and forth you know i made a cursory friend and wish
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them uh have a great day when they left so it changed from his wanting to start in with me
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to changing the subject um sincerely and getting him off target me right i love that it's great advice
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there um so david in martial art in combative circles there's always enormous debate about
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which system is the best i mean things can get really heated and um what kinds of criticism do
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you think people give levy at krav maga and how do you counter those those criticism now again another
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great uh question brett you know um i i'll i'll begin with the explanation that good minds think alike
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for example when i was just teaching uh a um a special forces group and when we approach
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these um fantastic uh fighters and these hardened wars and heroes in my book the idea is to introduce
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just a few tactics that they might uh use to augment what they do it's not to replace what they do
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and that's respect from um you know from us towards their professionalism um because the fact is
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there are only a few things out there you're not going to reinvent the wheel with combatives for example
00:28:39.140
a thumb gouge to the eye a uh a chop to the uh you know the carotid sheath uh uh a thrush to the
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windpipe a kick to the groin that kind of thing but what counts is how you deliver them and the
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method in which you deliver them and um i'm not in any way going to say that krav maga is the best
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fighting system in the world obviously i'm biased towards it it's what we do um but when we talk
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about fighting systems you have to um equate the time it takes to get proficient which is why krav maga
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is so popular because you can ramp up in a very short order versus some of the more complicated
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systems which are no doubt um very very formal fighting systems but they do take a long time to
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master and uh equally important not everyone may be able to do it because remember with the krav maga
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um training or the evolution of it um emi and the subsequent idf instructors had to be able to teach
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18 year old recruits along with um men in their 50s who were doing the reserve duty which is uh not
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as old today but it's the same thing so it's got to work for everybody it's got to work for people
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who are large small athletic not athletic and firm even even people with disabilities in a wheelchair
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and that's where krav maga sort of stands out um the one difference i will say and i'll go down on
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a limb here is that our weapon defenses may be when i say may uh be some of the best in the world
00:29:55.280
because it was developed around modern weaponry for example our handgun disarms our long gun disarms
00:30:00.340
uh you know again it's not a time-honored system from several hundred years ago now trying to um
00:30:08.140
morph itself and to uh to change the way they do things to take away an ak-47 the ak-47 uh existed
00:30:15.800
and krav maga was developed in a way to take it away um but the system does change too you know for
00:30:21.180
example the the weaponry and the idf now they're using bullpup design submachine guns you don't have
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a very long weapon so the krav maga the combatants with the weapon change as well in the tactics
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um so to answer your question further on on comparing systems um that's sort of like discussing religion
00:30:37.020
and best not to sometimes uh but as i say i have respect for everything whatever uh if somebody has
00:30:43.520
a very strong background in most systems and they come to a krav maga training the instructor
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the krav maga instructor has got to be good and legitimate in other words uh in my opinion having
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trained with one of the top guys in israel on there really about three organizations there now
00:30:56.800
uh obviously the top in my opinion being grandmaster gidon um the point is that um you've got to be able
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to handle um yourself uh in any situation multiple opponents uh and you got to be um proficient
00:31:11.720
everything from weapon defenses to ground survival to multiple opponents to uh being able to roll
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uh and find what we call cover in an active shooter situation or if necessary take an active
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shooter down pummel them take the weapon away and hopefully get some help well david let's say
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someone's listening to this uh conversation these days i want to get started with krav maga i mean
00:31:30.860
what's the best way to get started best ways to take a look uh you know what are the local schools
00:31:35.580
around you um listener and try it out and see if it's a good fit um the the krav maga that we
00:31:41.860
specifically teach um it takes it takes a long time to develop instructors we really have to master
00:31:47.280
it per the uh original israeli krav maga association guidelines as i said you know some training is
00:31:52.860
going to be better than nothing um we do have some online training which is becoming increasingly
00:31:56.540
popular uh it's basically i've succeeded in getting 90 percent of the system online and it's about 42 hours
00:32:03.920
350 lessons worth but that is meant to augment you know in-person training and so um if people do
00:32:11.640
look at our training materials they will see differences in what we do versus many of the
00:32:16.860
krav maga splinter groups out there but i'm going to you know just compliment krav maga as a whole and
00:32:21.720
um you know people should go out and try it and i would suggest that if the organization or the
00:32:26.540
instructor is good at what they do uh two things will happen one they'll invite you in for a class
00:32:32.120
as a trial and they won't charge you and two they won't require you to sign a yearly contract
00:32:38.160
which my i myself would be averse to because you have to as an instructor believe that people are
00:32:43.740
going to want because they love what you're doing you're giving them something of great value and they
00:32:47.980
want to come back as opposed to being charged every month uh and having to feel they've got to go back
00:32:53.160
if that makes sense and david where can people learn more about your works for example your online
00:32:57.380
courses uh very kind of you brett uh the website is um www mastering krav maga.com so it's www
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mastering krav maga.com all one word and um our videos are very popular on amazon uh that's the
00:33:12.880
best place to get them in fact uh the first video is actually amazon's choice which simply means that
00:33:17.720
amazon because of the 250 um rating uh ratings that have come in it's about a 4.85 out of 5
00:33:24.620
uh has designated it uh its choice for anything that's typed in krav maga um along with the five
00:33:30.060
books that are available uh so that much appreciated for the opportunity to explain where to get our
00:33:34.620
stuff well david this has been a great conversation thank you so much time it's been a pleasure thanks
00:33:38.740
so much and i i just encourage everybody to to be safe and um i really appreciate the interest in
00:33:43.940
uh israeli krav maga uh and lastly any any questions about it generally can be answered on our website
00:33:48.980
www israeli krav all one word.com so that's israeli krav.com my guest name is david khan he's an
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instructor at the u.s israeli krav maga association the author of several books on krav maga including
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krav maga defense's latest they're all available on amazon.com he's also got some dvds which i own
00:34:04.700
which are pretty cool you can also find out more information about the u.s israeli krav maga association
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by going to israeli krav.com also make sure to check out our show notes at aom.is
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slash krav maga where you can find links to resources where you can delve deeper into this topic
00:34:18.580
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