William Ian Miller, a historian, professor of law, and the author of The Mystery of Courage, explains how centuries of philosophers, soldiers, and storytellers have approached courage and the hard-to-answer questions its manifestations raise.
00:07:36.020How's the fear supposed to be managed?
00:07:38.160You also begin the book with this example that showcases how, yeah, once you think about courage, it's like, what is this exactly? And the example is this. It's the description of a good coward. What can the good coward tell us about the mystery of courage?
00:07:56.300Yeah, here is this. When you start reading these memoirs, you just run into these wonderful storytellers. Here is a guy writing about a civil war experience about 30 years after the fact. And he describes a man in his unit whom he calls the good coward. He didn't think he was a good coward when he was in the war with this guy.
00:08:19.460He thought of him as just a plain old coward.
00:08:22.200But now in reflecting on him, 30 years later, he thinks that he might have been, in fact, the most courageous of it all.
00:08:40.820He comes back to camp maybe a day or two later, is miserable.
00:08:45.100He does all the grunt work for everyone.
00:08:47.480He's trying to make amends for having run.
00:08:49.820And then the next battle, he runs away again.
00:08:52.660But every time he lines up, takes his steps forward until the guy next to him gets crunched, he manages to steel himself to do it the next time.
00:09:03.820So the guy who wrote this up, a guy named Robert Burdett, says, you know, now that I think about it, he might have been the most courageous of us all.
00:09:12.680Us young guys, we were just all hell-bent for leather.
00:09:40.400there's a sense that the author was not kind to him and is now making amends by writing this
00:09:46.420memoir 30 years later. Yeah, so the guy had the courage to keep trying and trying and trying again.
00:09:52.040He kept trying. So like Tim O'Brien, many of your listeners will have read some of Tim O'Brien's
00:09:58.100work, a Vietnam War vet. He wrote a memoir, and he's just 23 years old, called If I Die in a
00:10:05.900combat zone. And the whole book is a desperate attempt to figure out what courage is and
00:10:12.480whether he managed okay and to come up with a theory that would describe, to make it possible
00:10:20.680for him to have delivered at least reasonably well. And what he describes, he comes up with
00:10:27.760a theory. He was terrorized the whole time. He would just feel his stomach caved in. He would
00:10:34.120just feel sick with nausea panic terror and he said i just knew i didn't deliver then but i
00:10:41.360promised i would do better the next time and so what he comes up with a theory is of averaging
00:10:47.740your performances over time um some days you'll have it some days you won't and you know in the
00:10:54.620great epics like the homeric epics and stuff like that battles never lasted even one day
00:11:01.040they lasted an hour or so before one side turned and ran. So the efforts that you had to muster up
00:11:09.560were every spring to get it together once or twice to deliver. But imagine yourself when the
00:11:16.860most hellish of all wars, World War I, imagine yourself in a battle that in some places on the
00:11:23.680Western Front lasted four years. You were under constant shelling and sniping for four years.
00:11:31.040Well, then nobody makes it. Everybody finally runs out of courage. They go crazy.
00:11:39.060You note that in the earliest discussions of courage from ancient philosophers,
00:11:44.000it was either placed first among virtues or no lower than third among the four cardinal virtues.
00:11:50.600Why has courage always been ranked so highly?
00:11:53.640I think one is the people who are writing are men. And of course, it's the most anxious concern about little boys growing up and stuff like that. That's one issue. But the standard one is the explanation that if you don't have courage, you don't have the space in which to exercise the gentler virtues like temperance, charity, prudence and stuff like that.
00:12:17.700It buys you the space where you can cultivate kind of leisure hours and more refined behaviors.
00:12:25.980You can think of it as the spiny outer shell of love.
00:12:29.580Can you imagine saying you love somebody and you won't go into a burning house to try and get them out?
00:12:34.240What does love mean without a certain amount of courage?
00:12:40.600Courage makes civilization and all the civilized virtues possible.
00:12:43.800And it creates the security where we can even think about the sort of softer pursuits of life.
00:12:49.800Something you talk about in the book when trying to suss out the definition of courage is that sometimes philosophers or people writing war memoirs or politicians or whatever, there seems to be a bit of self-interest in how they define courage.
00:13:32.420But it was only allowed to upper class men too, and not to slaves or to workers or to
00:13:38.240lower class men so you have like definitions that are always kind of let's say favoring one group as
00:13:47.700against another and so people fight over what is courage to get themselves to qualify i mean there's
00:13:54.200a big debate right from the start although the philosopher nietzsche made it into a big deal but
00:13:59.760it's right there from the very start in the first writings about courage is whether the most proper
00:14:05.680courage is displayed on offense that is in the charge or whether it's displayed on defense
00:14:13.040that is taking it taking crap and not running and as we moved into modern warfare where battles
00:14:22.720lasted months taking it and not cracking became more the defining way of describing courage but
00:14:32.100You know, it's funny, the battle of offense versus defense is constantly being still fought over.
00:14:38.960But now we end up in our country with the silliness of people thinking that if you invest in a Silicon Valley startup, you're showing courage.
00:14:46.700I mean, that's that, but that's a move.
00:14:49.320Everybody's trying to claim it for their own behaviors.
00:14:52.240And some of them are just downright laughable.
00:14:56.720So there's often been a class divide with courage.
00:14:59.100So you have the upper class guys who are like, you know, these lower class guys, you know, they're just brutes, they're thugs, and you know, it's just the mean streets that made them tough. But that's not the same thing as courage. And then you got the lower class guys who are like, you know, look at these effet rich guys, these officer guys, you know, think so highly of themselves, but they're actually really soft. And they're going to be cowards when the stuff actually hits the fan. And you just generally have different types of men, each claiming that courage belongs to people who are like them.
00:15:25.440And we might popularly think of courage as belonging to a certain type, but the interesting thing you see in war histories is that you couldn't always tell from the type who is going to be courageous.
00:15:52.700He was not. He was just a sweet, decent man. And it turned out he was a good soldier. He turned
00:16:01.300into a creditable soldier. He got two bronze stars for certain rescue missions he went on.
00:16:07.540It's funny. One of the things that is a frequent theme in a lot of the Civil War memoirs and in
00:16:13.240the World War I memoirs is that there was no predicting from social background or employment
00:16:21.040who would deliver who would actually be the good soldiers and sometimes it was the accountant and
00:16:28.380not the barroom brawler and in fact the letters home from soldiers always love to note any time
00:16:36.800one of these street thugs or barroom brawler types cowered and ran when you know they probably
00:16:43.220cowered and ran no more than anybody else did but the other soldiers like to note that when they did
00:16:49.620But one of the things that the unit commanders kind of constantly refer to is how surprised they are at who delivers and who doesn't, that there's no kind of predicting or because of people have good days and bad days of counting on a person who basically is pretty good delivering all the time or counting on a person who is pretty not good not delivering sometimes.
00:17:15.960I mean, in this idea of offensive versus defensive courage, you make the point that as warfare changed from ancient warfare, where like you said, a battle might last maybe an hour, you did the charge, it was kind of a shoving match.
00:17:33.740And so you needed that offensive courage, but then as war changed to mechanized warfare, um, and you, you had to just trench in and just endure, we started valorizing the courage of defense, of endurance, but I still think there's, we still valorize, we still hold in high regard that offensive courage.
00:17:54.640yes we do i i would recommend uh people to read tim o'brien's a little memoir if i die in a combat
00:18:02.360zone because he says you know the charge the charge that's the thing that's pure courage but
00:18:08.680then he just like day in and day out he's just starting to think it can't be just that but it
00:18:15.040still holds this kind of emblem for us of of i think ultimately the real kind of just basic
00:18:23.900original conception of courage is you facing off against another guy whose eyes you can look into.
00:18:31.760Modern warfare, you never see the eyes of your enemy except in the rarest circumstances and
00:18:37.060usually only when they're prisoners. The eyes who are watching you and judging you in modern
00:18:42.560warfare are your mate's eyes. And it's different when you're matching up courage against something
00:18:49.800else. You talk about how Aristotle, when he was trying to figure out what courage is,
00:18:56.280he thought that courage requires higher reasoning than practical wisdom. So here's another example
00:19:02.260of kind of hoity-toity philosopher guy, maybe using a little bit of self-interest to define
00:19:08.360courage. You're suspicious of that rendering of courage or seem to be suspicious of that
00:19:13.620rendering of courage. Well, I'm suspicious because the philosophers are always making,
00:19:18.080like unless you bring reason to the fray and know exactly when you should expend your courage
00:19:25.620only for valued goals and get it the cost benefit analysis exactly right you're just being oh either
00:19:33.880an insensate dumbbell like a celt in aristotle's view or a ferocious lion who just as is just all
00:19:43.080fury they want to bring reason and certain kinds of let's say mental refinements into the arena
00:19:50.840and i am always suspicious of that and tim o'brien again has another wonderful example
00:19:56.940there's a dying marine out in the mud and somebody hollers for a medic and in heavy
00:20:02.940firefighting this medic runs out and ministers to this dying marine holding up a plasma bag
00:20:10.900an ideal target. So when he comes back, O'Brien says, you know, a manifest action of courage and
00:20:18.680actually a useless action because the poor guy was dead anyway or going to die. And just a noble
00:20:25.960act, but also just doing his duty. And the medic just says, well, I don't know, somebody call her
00:20:32.560medic and I just guess I ran. So Tim O'Brien is kind of upset with the lack of kind of
00:20:39.080intellectualizing of the demand made on this medic. Like you said, you researched and wrote
00:20:45.560about the Icelandic sagas. I don't imagine those Vikings really intellectualizing courage all that
00:20:52.580much. Well, you know, they have their standard interesting little discussions about when you
00:20:58.700pick your moments to fight and when you eat crap and just sit back and wait. And they have a saying
00:21:05.680that says only the slave avenges himself immediately but the coward never does what
00:21:13.440that saying is meant to do is saying you do not waste the opportunity to have the ball in your
00:21:20.760court to make the next move to take revenge you don't waste it by hitting back right away
00:21:26.720you make the other side stew wondering when you're going to hit back but eventually you have to hit
00:21:33.980back or you become a coward. In that world, forgiveness is very hard to make into a virtue
00:21:40.880because it looks so much like cowardice. But managing your time between when you take the
00:21:48.200crap and then when you avenge it is your time to make the other side a nervous wreck. And so,
00:21:56.260you know, there's all these kind of complicated, they talk about it. They talk about don't be a
00:22:00.340hothead. Don't hit back, eat that one. And they have a kind of a standard rule that if you avenge
00:22:06.280every offense, you have a very short life. Sometimes you just shrug your shoulders and
00:22:12.600say it's not worth responding to. So it sounds like the Vikings did have a bit of Aristotelian
00:22:17.460practical wisdom. They had a ton, I think much more than the philosophers nowadays do, because
00:22:23.120they lived in that world they truly bore the risks and um they're very smart about it it's
00:22:31.000very interesting in those societies as to what constitutes fair play are you supposed to give
00:22:36.000your opponent a fair chance notice in hamlet our probably most famous revenge story hamlet comes
00:22:46.140up behind claudius and he's praying and claudius doesn't know hamlet's behind him with his knife
00:22:52.360pulled to stab him in the back. But Hamlet hears he's praying and thought, oh no, if I kill him
00:22:58.980now, his soul goes to heaven. Hamlet wants to make sure his uncle goes to hell. But he shows, no,
00:23:06.120not even the least bit of moral problem in stabbing him in the back. So the point is,
00:23:14.100you take your revenge, you don't have to offer fair odds. This reminds me of this idea of
00:23:20.620fairness, it reminds me of, I think of Odysseus and Achilles. So sometimes Odysseus gets kind of
00:23:26.340portrayed as like the not courageous guy because he's wily and sneaky, but he did some courageous
00:23:32.300things. Oh, he sure did. He sure did. But there's constant battle about, you know, whether you can
00:23:39.700win by trickery or whether you're supposed to just win by macho kind of your force against their
00:23:46.760force. But Montaigne, the great French essayist, writes, nobody says we can't take advantage of
00:23:53.220our enemy's stupidity just as well as our enemy's physical weakness. Yeah, right.
00:23:59.820And since 90 percent of warfare is about trying to fool the other side as to what your alignments
00:24:08.840are, how many troops you have, which units they are, and so on and so forth. So trickery is just
00:24:14.720part of the game too. Oftentimes when we think about, okay, is this person courageous? We
00:24:21.220typically talk about, well, if you're courageous, you'll be courageous across all domains. Yeah.
00:24:28.260And that's just not true. It's not true. Yeah. I've seen that in my own life. In my own life,
00:24:31.620there's certain domains where I feel like I'm pretty courageous, but then there are other ones
00:24:35.520where I'm not. And I grew up in Green Bay, Wisconsin and I went to a working class high
00:24:41.020school and there are the tough guys and then there are the little, you know, weenies like me.
00:24:46.940And they would, the tough guys turned out to be remarkably generous in letting me alone because
00:24:53.780there was one or two domains in which I showed less fear than they did. And it was in drag racing
00:25:00.740for some strange reason. So I was willing to crash a car and die before they were. And so they cut
00:25:08.100me slack in other domains where I was not very, where I was just a downright coward, like in
00:25:15.120barroom brawls or something like that. And they were actually kind of generous in their attributions.
00:25:21.140And you know what? It's interesting in the war memoirs, there's some people who are totally
00:25:25.900courageous and cool under artillery bombardment, as opposed to some who just completely collapse
00:25:32.860in terror under bombardment. Then there's some who can't take rifle fire and some people who
00:25:39.520are completely relaxed under rifle fire. But no one is cool under every way of dying, under every
00:25:49.160weapon. And there were these studies to try and map on soldiers' understanding of the dangerousness
00:25:57.240of a weapon. That is how really lethal it was. And it's frighteningness. And you would think
00:26:03.660that the frighteningness and dangerousness should map on, but it doesn't. So like Stuka dive bombers
00:26:10.680scared the crap out of people and they were very unlethal. It was just the noise they made that
00:26:15.520terrorized everybody. But there are people who just preferred rifle fire to artillery fire and
00:26:20.920people who could handle artillery fire, but couldn't handle rifle fire. And it's just like
00:26:25.760for each weapon or for each kind of demand made on you, you needed a courage of its own sort to
00:26:32.500deal with it. So there wasn't one kind of, unless you were a crazy person, there wasn't one kind of
00:26:39.380seamless virtue that could handle it all. Yeah. So Montaigne said a man who is truly brave will
00:26:45.740always be brave in all occasions. And I think Montaigne's wrong there. Yeah. Yeah. There's
00:26:50.660some examples where you see this. I remember reading about a boxer. I forget who it was.
00:27:22.520if they heard a thunderstorm, they were all cowering and shaking. They couldn't bear
00:27:28.500thunderstorms. I mean, it was just that terrors are even culture specific as to what will be
00:27:35.460considered a terrifying thing. But a constant thing that is made in literature is like a warrior who
00:27:42.200will face like nonstop, you know, bombardment, but can't get up the nerve to ask a woman out on a
00:27:47.720date. Right. You think they should be able to do it, but they can't. They can't. Well, it's
00:27:54.540interesting about your book. I mean, all the examples we've been talking about so far have
00:27:59.900been physical courage or martial courage. And your book primarily focuses on physical or martial
00:28:05.900courage. And people today, since we don't, a lot of people don't face circumstances where they have
00:28:12.560to display physical courage. Yeah, right. We talk a lot about moral courage, but is moral courage
00:28:19.120without physical courage, really courage? I don't feel, I make a claim in the book,
00:28:25.960the standard moral courage is that kind of stand up and meeting type of courage to take and express
00:28:32.400a decent kind of a moral unpopular view to risk being mocked and laughed at, sneered at, howled
00:28:42.120that to state what most people will recognize is an honorable, decent view. But can you imagine
00:28:50.900if that person could be backed off from stating that view if somebody just shot him a look and
00:28:58.160said, after the meeting, man, you're going to deal with me. And then he sat down and didn't say a
00:29:03.840thing. So moral courage needs a certain amount of not being able to be scared off your ability to
00:29:11.400make your stand, you still have to be able to back it up. So I'm not sure that there's a coherent,
00:29:19.460consistent distinction between moral and physical courage. In the writings like U.S. Grant, Ulysses
00:29:25.340Grant in his wonderful, brilliant memoir he wrote when he was dying, kind of sneers that moral
00:29:31.060courage, kind of understanding that without the physical behind it, it's just not there.
00:29:38.040You know, there's another thing that kind of is interesting, too. Generals will say that there's no shortage of courage that they see in their men in battle, that, in fact, courage seems to be quite common.
00:29:52.740But then you get into certain domains where it's rare beyond belief, and those tend to be the moral domains, standing up for right in an unjust regime or something like that, incurring risks to your job and your reputation by taking an unpopular but clearly morally right position.
00:37:03.040So this idea, you know, men valorizing courage, your interesting point here or interesting argument is that maybe the women are the ones who inculcated this culture of courage.
00:37:14.580they certainly it wasn't a case where the women are sitting back and saying oh the men and their
00:37:19.700crazy views of courage the women were the ones who are inculcating it into the little kids in
00:37:24.980many of these cultures and who are wholeheartedly behind it and i think it's interesting this whole
00:37:31.000idea of courage being entwined with masculinity or manhood i think a lot of us in the 21st century
00:37:37.120might think oh yeah we're over that you know we're more enlightened but i i still think there's a
00:37:43.500vestige of it in men today i mean i think you know if you call a guy a coward or a chicken they're
00:37:49.840gonna be like oh wait a minute here i got we gotta step outside we're gonna take care of this
00:37:53.600yeah you can't it's still the worst insults i mean you and just think of how much growing up
00:37:59.820as a little boy the day-to-day just playing were often courage contests who could jump off the
00:38:07.060highest you know wall or the roof or who could go steal strawberries from mrs jones or i mean
00:38:15.300they're all tests of undertaking risk and once you showed yourself able to do that you only bought
00:38:22.940yourself a little bit of space for that day you weren't a weenie but then the next day there'd be
00:38:28.320some little test like a boxing match or a wrestling match or something like that yeah with masculinity
00:38:34.960or manhood, the rents due every day. The rents due every day. One law student said that the
00:38:40.940horrors of men, the anxiety of men in the sex act, where men have, if they fail, it's obvious to the
00:38:49.360woman. So maybe it's that is the deepest core anxiety. I'm saying this tongue in cheek, but
00:38:57.100it's certainly one of the core anxieties about manhood. Something that's interesting to observe
00:39:02.280with the genderness of courage is that even though courage has traditionally been associated
00:39:08.000with masculinity, women can be courageous too. And something you talk about is that women have
00:39:13.700historically been associated with the defensive side of courage. So taking pain, taking the pain
00:39:19.800of childbirth, enduring hardship. People have often said that women are actually better than men
00:39:26.340at defensiveness, courage, but it's still not typically part of a woman's, you know,
00:39:32.640self-identity. Like for a man being called a coward is one of the worst insults. But if you
00:39:38.040call a woman, a chicken, they're probably not going to be that offended or want to fight you
00:39:42.360over it. So I think we've explored some of the cultural ideas around courage and, you know,
00:39:48.740it's muddled and it's kind of like what's going on there, but let's return to something we were
00:39:53.180talking about at the very beginning of our conversation and get more into the psychology
00:39:57.420of courage and its relationship to fear. Do you think courage requires an internally
00:40:03.080courageous stance or can you be courageous while being terrified as long as you act courageously?
00:40:09.480My view is that you're lucky if you somehow get rid of the fear and just
00:40:15.820do what you have to do. But are you going to think that anybody is even, I would think somebody
00:40:23.280would be more courageous who is just overcome with fear, who still manages in spite of it
00:40:29.420to do what needs to be done. One of the things that's very interesting in a lot of these war
00:40:35.160memoirs from manifestly brave guys who were decorated, there was no doubt about them
00:40:41.880delivering under fire. Many of them do not understand why they got the medal other than
00:40:48.380that they just somehow managed to do something. They don't know how they did it. All they can
00:40:54.860remember was that they were scared out of their wits. So they think my internal state,
00:41:00.820scared out of my wits, was what we think of as the cowardly state. That I ended up doing the
00:41:06.320right thing happened by kind of accident. My body was on automatic pilot. We get the reverse
00:41:11.940in what were common claims in the Civil War of a guy failing to go forward because his legs give
00:41:21.520out, weak legs. And Lincoln was famous for pardoning those guys who were brought up and
00:41:27.100court-martialed to be shot for not advancing for cases of weak legs, where as far as the internal
00:41:33.540state of the guy going forward he wants to go forward he is trying to keep up with the guys
00:41:40.080but his legs give out so his body revels against his courageous intentions or his dutiful
00:41:48.440contentions what do you do then when the body just refuses to go along for the ride although
00:41:54.840your brain and your psyche is gung-ho for your body to go along for the ride but it doesn't
00:42:01.360You know, I've been in my whole life a motorcyclist.
00:42:04.760I've ridden, now I'm going to be 80 in a couple of weeks.
00:42:09.000And I've had more near-death experiences in the last five or six years
00:42:26.600They're not paying attention to the road and putting my life at risk.
00:42:29.740well every once in a while you get put in a situation where you're dead you're dead you can't
00:42:35.780believe the situation you're in and something just takes over my body took over an automatic
00:42:42.200pilot and did probably when i got through the mess the only thing that could have been done
00:42:47.320to gotten out of it alive did i know what i was doing no my body in the exact opposite of weak
00:42:53.740legs took over when my mind was utterly in a state of terror and blank. So the body still
00:43:00.540functioned, did the only thing when I got back, when I would come out the other end and burst out
00:43:07.060in the giggles because I couldn't believe how close a call it was. I couldn't believe when I
00:43:12.300thought about it that I did the only thing that could have been done to escape. So there you get
00:43:17.340kind of an anti-matter of the weak legs phenomenon. Right. So you're terrified,
00:43:23.740but your body somehow took over and did the thing that you were supposed to do.
00:43:27.560The body took over and did the right thing. That is what the military actually came to
00:43:32.240think would be gained by the constant drilling, nonstop drill, drill, drill, so that the body
00:43:40.980would behave automatically when the brain was just cashiered out in a state of terror.
00:43:47.340And again, that makes you ask yourself, was that courageous? If you're just like a automaton?
00:43:54.340Yeah, that's the you don't. The assumption that most military leaders had is that all armies will eventually turn tail and run that what's being contested between two armies is their fund of courage.
00:44:06.180it's kind of a moral battle and one side will cave and one won't. I'm not sure that's exactly
00:44:12.220right because one of the things that happened in the Civil War was that people started to see that
00:44:19.820courage just didn't matter. It's which side had the biggest guns and the most men. That the amount
00:44:26.920of, you know, bravery might have a little nice little point here, but ultimately it was just
00:44:33.520the sheer amount of material brought to bear that was the difference. The courage didn't make
00:44:41.160the difference in a battle. Now, of course, you could come up with some counter examples, but
00:44:46.080in a large sense, it's true. What role does shame and honor play in courage?
00:44:52.520Oh, it's the name of the game, right? Aristotle and some will say that courageous deeds done
00:44:59.540because you would be unwilling to bear the shame of not delivering, being called a coward, being
00:45:06.360just mocked. It's not the perfect courage. It's like you're more scared of being shamed in public
00:45:14.560than you are of getting killed. I just think that's a total misrepresentation. Every epic
00:45:22.060hero fails to be courageous then by that measure. The shame of being seen a coward is what makes
00:45:29.460many men deliver. And there's a funny little saying that I found in the 17th century,
00:45:37.020more men would be cowardly if they only had courage enough. And it's the sign of like being
00:45:42.640driven, the fear of being disgraced drives them to go forward in battle when what they want to do
00:45:49.620is run. It's complicated. I don't see how you get courage without the honor-based, shame-driven
00:45:55.560aspect to it. I just don't understand how it's psychologically possible, except for a few very
00:46:01.140rare, rare people. It also raises the point that courage isn't just an individual virtue.
00:46:07.540It really is a social virtue. You have to have an audience or an imagined audience to really
00:46:14.440think about, well, I'm going to be courageous. Because I mean, it's hard to be courageous when
00:46:19.740you're by yourself. Yes, you better believe it. I think the one true test of whether you are
00:46:27.100courageous is whether you would go through the action when you are safely not seen. You could
00:46:34.600actually walk back and nobody would think that you shirked a duty. You would be home free. So
00:46:41.540you're totally alone with no eyes watching you of your own side and will you still do the thing
00:46:50.420you're supposed to do if you do it then that is pure pure courage lonely courage yeah i mean if
00:46:58.320i look at my life when you know i've encountered having to muster up courage to do something
00:47:03.460particularly when i was a kid i remember i was with a bunch of boy scouts and we were doing
00:47:08.600cliff dives off some really high cliffs and i couldn't do it but everyone else was i was
00:47:14.220terrified and the thing that finally got me to do it was i just was thinking i can't leave this
00:47:20.580place and be the only guy that didn't jump off that cliff like i wanted to avoid shame i wanted
00:47:25.160honor but for me it was great because i actually did this thing and i felt really great afterwards
00:47:29.900and then after i did it i was able to just jump off this cliff over and over again i wasn't scared
00:47:34.160anymore. Of course, the shame motivated you to do it. I don't understand how most of us even do
00:47:41.780remotely courageous things unless we're too ashamed not to. Yes, the fear of cowardice.
00:47:47.980The fear of cowardice or the fear of being seen. Now, that's why the eyes, will you ever blame
00:47:53.960yourself, if alone, for your failure? No, you will, but we're never as hard on ourselves as
00:48:00.500mocking others will be hard on us. Is there a tipping point where shame-driven or a fear of
00:48:08.900cowardice-driven courage is no longer virtuous courage? Well, you know, I deal with this in a
00:48:16.200chapter talking about the Japanese performance in World War II, where death before dishonor,
00:48:22.900which is a rare achievement for which medals are awarded in the West, was just the norm in Japan.
00:48:32.540I mean, whole entire 40,000 men, contingents on the island Saipan refused to be taken prisoner
00:48:40.280and all got killed. Compliance in the West of those kind of things, just impossible. You don't
00:48:46.720see it. So is it that that courage, that death before dishonor become too easy for them? You
00:48:53.560wonder the cultural pressure to conform, the cultural shaming culture so powerful that
00:49:01.300everybody suicided. Is it a virtue then? Oh, God, imagine the peer pressure in the Japanese culture.
00:49:10.200Ooh, doesn't mean they didn't make great soldiers. Man, oh man, did they make great soldiers.
00:49:16.720But you wonder if the virtue, it didn't become too easy for them.
00:49:21.780You know, the problem, a very difficult problem, when you see discussions of suicide, people say, oh, that was cowardly.
00:49:29.660Whereas, people who say that, I think, are wondering whether they would have the nerve to do it.
00:49:36.000Yeah, that reminds me of Bill Maher, the talk show host.
00:49:40.320He got into a lot of hot water right after 9-11 when he said it took courage for the terrorists to fly a plane into a building.
00:49:51.300And I remember I heard that and I was thinking about, well, yeah, you know, like, I couldn't do that.
00:49:55.460Well, I couldn't do it, but could you if you thought you were going to heaven?
00:49:58.900If you actually firmly, a 1.0 belief, thought you were going to heaven?
00:50:03.160So I always wonder whether the courage of, let's say, a suicide bomber is indeed same with the early Christian martyrs.
00:50:11.380If you think that you're guaranteed and really believe it without any doubt, although I wonder if martyrdom isn't because you do doubt and you want to prove that you're punishing yourself for doubting.
00:50:23.560But if you really don't doubt, then you're just doing the rational thing in your rating of values and payouts.
00:50:37.080And another question that arises with the terrorist example, and the reason people were so upset about Bill Maher's comments, is that we typically think of courage as having courage for a morally good cause.
00:50:51.100But does the cause need to be good for courage to be real, or is courage a morally neutral virtue?
00:50:58.000No, you know, it's one of the problems that people have, according their enemies, courage. I mean, take the case of the monstrously evil Nazi regime. There is no doubt that many of those soldiers were utterly courageous and very good soldiers. So you're unfortunately with courage, you have to admit that it can be employed for good or bad purposes.
00:51:23.700I think we mentioned this earlier, but this idea that I thought was really interesting,
00:51:27.860this idea that courage is finite, that you only have so much of it.
00:51:32.740You talk about in this book, I think there's many people who study this in the military
00:51:35.980or they sort of observed it, is that soldiers right fresh on the battlefield, they weren't
00:53:00.180So starting in the Great War, World War I, people started to talk about having fixed funds, a fixed amount of courage.
00:53:10.460And you try not to draw on your account too often because it'll just be run down to bankruptcy and then you end up in a vegetative state and basically post-traumatic stress disorder or what they called shell shock back then.
00:53:26.340I mean, here's another thing that muddles the moral calculus of courage. And you talk about this in the book. It's the factors of intelligence, expertise, and experience.
00:53:36.940You know, it's just like, who's tougher? Who's the person who has more courage? The guy who's an actual trained swordsman, who is a, you know, an Olympic gold medalist and sabers, or the clown against him who's never picked up a sword in his life and still fights him. I mean, who's more courageous? The guy with skill, his courage isn't even brought into play.
00:54:00.360I suppose it was brought into play during the period when he was learning how to be a good
00:54:06.940fencer. But skilled people get their courage devalued. Think about the people who do bomb,
00:54:14.260you know, defanging bombs. Obviously, they are trained to do it, but the risk level is so high
00:54:22.040that just a fly landing on their finger or something like that could detonate the charge.
00:54:28.520I don't know with certain kinds of expertise will devalue the courage that it takes but certain ones
00:54:35.600it just seems to take a lot of guts no matter when and how trained you are at it yeah and in terms of
00:54:42.580the the example of the bomb diffuser like the skill of being able to do that allowed them to
00:54:48.480display more courage like you had to be skilled to to defuse the bomb so you could display that
00:54:52.820courage to actually defuse the bomb but I think other philosophers have talked about this
00:54:57.160intersection between skill and expertise and courage. I think it was Montaigne. He talked
00:55:03.360about people who are skilled swordsmen require less courage than the unskilled swordsmen because
00:55:08.680you have that expertise, so you know you can win. Well, yeah, Montaigne goes with that. He just says
00:55:13.900that, in fact, in duels, you get this crazy behavior of the French aristocratic class
00:55:19.380where the side who gets the choice of weapons will pick a weapon that he knows he's not as good with
00:55:26.200as the other guy just to prove that he's more courageous. In other words, handicapping himself
00:55:31.660purposely so that he's testing his courage rather than his swordsmanship. And, you know, then the
00:55:39.040thing about intelligence is how do we measure kind of intelligence? One of the ways is that smart
00:55:44.620people are able to discern risk. They're mathematically more astute. They will discern
00:55:51.220odds and risk at quicker and more accurate levels than dumber people. And that will tend to make
00:55:58.560them more risk averse in situations in which a dumb person doesn't see any risk. So the smart
00:56:04.980person looks like the coward. And of course, in fact, they often are because they're seeing too
00:56:10.020much risk in a world. Again, it's hard to figure out like who's being courageous here. Again and
00:56:16.120again, is that mystery of courage. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. So I'm curious after spending years thinking
00:56:22.160about this book and working on it, what do you want someone to do with the unsettledness of
00:56:27.900courage that this book explores? Be more modest about how we ascribe it and when we do and when
00:56:37.180we don't. But also I think kind of aspirationally, it's good to want to be courageous and it's good
00:56:45.320to try and do those things which you can without cheating and without great inflation cause think
00:56:54.180that other people maybe you are not the best person to make the call will say nice nice good
00:57:00.920work one thing you argue in the book is that modern middle class life rarely demands real
00:57:09.400courage from us you know the type of courage we've been talking about the sort of physical
00:57:13.840martial courage of, you know, being like, yeah, I might die. So we've kind of trivialized the word
00:57:20.740we call, you know, we call it courageous to, you know, stick to a diet or start a business or maybe
00:57:26.580reveal an embarrassing secret about ourselves. I mean, we do things like, you know, bungee jumping
00:57:31.360or skydiving to practice courage. So it's sort of like simulations of courage, the ancient courage.
00:57:39.140Do you think something's been lost when a civilization stops regularly asking its members to be genuinely brave?
00:57:57.900You know, it's funny because Adam Smith, like the guru of modern capitalism, was very, very nervous about the fact that wealth would make the people indolent.
00:58:43.600And so you get all this kind of, you know, extreme sports and stuff like that, where people are desperate to find situations where they can increase the risk levels in their life, but still pretty safe risk levels. There's not somebody sitting behind a loophole shooting at you, right?
00:59:00.340Maybe one of the mysteries of courage is what happens to a society when people don't have to exercise much courage anymore. And whether we can still train up those capacities somehow in the absence of immediate threat. Well, Bill, this has been a great conversation. We covered a lot of ground here. This has been really interesting.
00:59:21.020Very good questions. You were very prepared. Thank you very much for having me and thank you for doing such a professional job with this.