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- July 31, 2025
The Perils and Powers of Cowardice
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Brett McKay here, and welcome to another edition of the Art of Manliness podcast.
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Now, there have been many books written about courage.
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About cowardice, however, there's only been one.
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The author of this alone book on cowardice joins me today to talk about why cowardice,
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though much ignored, is at least equally important to understand as courage, and how the fear
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of the former may actually serve as a stronger motivator towards doing daring deeds.
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His name is Chris Walsh, and his book is Cowardice, A Brief History.
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Today on the show, Chris explains how a coward can be defined as someone who, because of
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excessive fear, fails to do what he's supposed to do, and yet how the assumptions behind this
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definition can be hard to pin down.
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We discuss why cowardice has been so condemned through time, so much so that in the military
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it was long considered a crime worthy of execution.
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We also discuss why the fear of being a coward is so tied into manliness, and why that label
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constitutes the worst insult you can level out of man.
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Chris delves in the way that external checks on cowardice, the depersonalization and mechanization
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of warfare, and the rise of the therapeutic lens on life have diminished the moral heft
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of cowardice.
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He then argues that despite this fact, and the way that cultural contempt for cowardice
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and a personal fear of it can lead to negative effects, it remains an important prod towards
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doing one's duty and a foundation of moral judgment.
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And we enter conversation with how we can use the fear of cowardice as a positive motivator
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in our lives.
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After the show's over, check out our show notes at awim.is slash cowardice.
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All right, Chris Walsh, welcome to the show.
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Thanks for having me.
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So you've got a book out called Cowardice, A Brief History.
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And you note in the beginning of the book that there haven't been any books written about
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cowardice.
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Why is that?
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And why did you feel like you needed to do a deep dive into the history of cowardice?
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Yeah, surprisingly, I mean, it is a, I think, an extraordinarily important idea, thing, phenomenon.
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And last I looked, my book was the only text on the subject in the Library of Congress catalog.
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And there's a long history of saying, let's not talk about cowardice, going back to Socrates.
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Dante, I know the man who cataloged human sin and baseness, spends very little time on cowards.
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In fact, he doesn't actually quite put them in hell.
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As Dante and Virgil get into the lobby of hell, Dante notices this sound and sees just
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hordes and hordes of ghosts, entities, people racing along, chasing a banner and says,
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who are those people to Virgil?
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And Virgil says, well, those are the cowards.
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Those are the neutrals, the people who never participated truly in life.
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And then he says, let us not speak of them.
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And Kierkegaard, who maybe talked about cowardice more than anybody, any modern philosopher, also
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kind of makes short work of it and says that the very term, it's sort of evasive and it's
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so terrible that we try to talk about it, but we can't.
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And then when I was actually in the course of writing the dissertation that became the
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book, I got wind of a man named William Ian Miller, who had written a book about disgust
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and he's written some really interesting books.
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And I reviewed, I wrote a review of his book, The Anatomy of Disgust and then wrote and asked
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him, what's he working on now?
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And he said, cowardice.
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And my heart fell because there I was a graduate student and there he was, this eminent writer
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whom I very much admired working on my topic.
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But then he wound up publishing a book called The Mystery of Courage.
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And in it, he said he tried to write a book about cowardice, but cowardice gave way.
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That's what it always does.
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And so in a way, I kind of backed into the topic.
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I started to write about courage and then found myself intrigued by the idea of cowardice.
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Finished the dissertation, abandoned it, ran away from it for five years, and then finally
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went back to it.
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Well, yeah, I think it's interesting.
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Like philosophers, they've talked about cowardice and we'll talk about how they defined it, but
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they don't want to talk about it.
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But as you make the case in the book, cowardice often looms larger in our psyche than courage.
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Yeah, and studies have shown for among soldiers, for example, and the kind of quintessential
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place and the place that I spend the most time examining the phenomenon of cowardice is
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in the military context.
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And it's been often reported that soldiers worry much more about cowardice and about being
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thought cowardly than they aspire to be courageous or held up as a hero.
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And what ultimately motivates soldiers is that sort of fear, the fear of being cowardly and
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the shame that would go with it.
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Okay, I want to dig deep into that.
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Before we do, let's be Socratic and let's do some definitions.
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How have philosophers defined cowardice throughout the ages?
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In fuzzy ways, I kind of run through a couple of things in the book that relate to, so for
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example, Aristotle talks about there being a kind of spectrum between excessive fear, which
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characterizes the coward, and excessive confidence, which characterizes somebody who's reckless.
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And in between, in that golden mean is somebody who is proceeding courageously.
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And he talks about, but not kind of explicitly in the Nicomachean ethics, as I recall, that the
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coward is failing to do something he's supposed to be doing.
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And that is an element of the definitions that actually the sort of standard military definition
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really makes crystal clear.
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That is that a coward is someone who fails to do something he is supposed to do, fails to
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do his duty because of excessive fear.
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And does fear need to be present for there to be cowardice or courage, according to philosophers
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and according to your definition?
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Yes, according to my definition, definitely.
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And in most of the philosophers that I looked at, yeah, there's an element of fear.
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I mean, even to the point where they question sometimes somebody who is fearless.
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If somebody is not feeling fear and they do some daring feat, it's a fair question to wonder,
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are they courageous?
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There are examples of soldiers who just did amazing things and did so with fear.
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And if they don't have fear, then it's, I guess, it's fair to question whether they needed
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courage to do what they were doing.
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And that's where I think actually courage can be a slipperier concept.
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And cowardice is not in part because cowardice makes clear that the matter of duty and the
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matter of fear always figure in the calculations and in our evaluation of conduct and of character.
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Making cowardice is even more slippery.
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Even Aristotle observed that people who are reckless usually are cowards.
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So that's kind of weird because you think, hey, if you're reckless, then you're not cowardly.
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But Aristotle, yeah, maybe in some cases the reckless man could also be a coward because he's maybe hiding.
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Yeah.
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He's showing his bluster to hide his fear.
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Yeah, it's a curious kind of loop where you can put it out on a page, on a continuum, you know,
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the reckless on the left and the cowardice on the right.
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But they kind of meet behind in the phenomenon where we have somebody who's reckless.
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Maybe I think Aristotle might say because they're actually what they fear is being fearful or seeming
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fearful and so act recklessly, causing as much damage sometimes as a coward might.
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Although Samuel Johnson notes that while those two things seem like, in a way, equals, if opposite
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matters, recklessness and cowardice, there's something self-checking about recklessness that,
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you know, if somebody behaves recklessly, reality will get them.
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Somebody launches an attack or something and when they're not supposed to, they'll get
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shot down, whereas the coward can keep running and spreading fear as he goes.
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So there's, yeah, there's curious wrinkles to trying to dissect the philosophical foundations
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of this stuff.
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And it's often very situational too, which makes it hard because like for Aristotle's definition
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of cowardice, it depends on the circumstances in often cases.
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What's the psychological status of the person who we are labeling cowardly or courageous?
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What's the situation they're in?
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So I think that's probably why it's so hard to pin down.
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Even I think Ian Miller, he wrote that, he said that a unitary concept of cowardice can
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never be sufficiently refined to get the moral call right.
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So it's a slippery thing.
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Yeah.
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But you have a working definition that you use throughout your book is a coward is someone
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who, because of excessive fear, fails to do what he is supposed to do.
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And that's supposed to is sort of duty bound.
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And we'll talk about that here in a bit.
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But let's talk about this, like the state of the word cowardice today in our modern world.
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So people talked about it some throughout history, but you show that you have this great graph
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of how often cowardice gets used in books.
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You can do this on Google and it's been declining since about 1800 and just as drops.
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Like, what do you think is going on there?
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Why has there been a decline in our referencing cowardice in our moral vocabulary?
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I think in part that's a kind of a piece with larger trends in our language and thinking
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where we've become less moralistic in the way we judge things, more apt to understand
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failures of conduct or character as the result of psychological ailments, medical issues,
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rather than sinfulness or flaws in character.
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And so that's, I think, a general term, a general trend.
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And cowardice in particular, I think, has been pressed down or displaced by the horrors of
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modern war, the industrialization of war, you know, and war being its quintessential home,
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as I said before.
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Or it's one thing to talk about cowardice when, you know, men are meeting in combat individually
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or in small groups or whatever.
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But when you have giant armies contending against each other from miles away or nuclear arms in
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play, it makes cowardice seem less relevant.
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And so that, coupled with the growth of more of a sort of a psychological mindset that doesn't
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consider, that displaces or delays moral judgment, explain it in part.
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But it's also the case that the graph using this Google Ngram tool goes pretty steadily down
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from 1800 to 2001.
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But then it goes up.
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And that was, I think, mostly or entirely because of rhetoric after 9-11, when the terrorists were
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held to be cowards and the idea of cowardice came into play when we were debating what would
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be the best reaction to the terrorist attack.
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And it's something I actually, in preparation for this discussion, I googled it because I hadn't
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googled it for a while.
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And it's kept going up.
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And I think, actually, during the Trump administration, it was a kind of key word that came up a lot
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and not just relative to war.
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Yeah, I thought that was interesting how it started going up around 2001.
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And you highlight, I remember when this happened, the controversy, when people, we started calling
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the terrorists cowards.
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And then there was this debate, famously, this is what got Bill Maher Act, his show Politically
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Incorrect Acts.
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Like, he made the case, no, where the terrorists, they weren't cowards.
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Like, they got into a plane and, like, flew into it.
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That's not cowardly.
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And so, again, it's that slipperiness of the word.
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It's a hard, like, we know it carries moral weight.
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We want to throw it at people who we don't like.
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But then there's just like, well, was what they did cowardly or not?
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And it causes a lot of debate even still today.
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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And I think the word coward, as opposed to the word cowardice, has been especially, if
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you look at the graph, the usage of the word coward has gone way up in the past 20 years.
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The word cowardice, not so much.
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And I think that's because it's, the word coward is a great insult.
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It's, you know, the Urban Dictionary defines it as the worst insult known to man.
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And, but cowardice, you know, is this abstract concept that's not so easy to throw around
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and requires some thinking, which I obviously think is worthwhile.
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Okay.
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So, as you said in the book, you use military history to explore the cultural history of
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cowardice because that's where it's most salient and most visceral.
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And as you noted earlier, you note that if you look at letters from soldiers or speeches
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by military leaders, there was more of a concern for cowardice than there was for being courageous.
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So, that is, you know, soldiers would write home, especially in the Civil War, they write
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home their family and say, I want to make sure that I'm not a coward.
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They didn't talk about, I want to be brave to bring glory.
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I just, I don't want to shame my family by being a coward.
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So, what's going on there?
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Why is it that this negative attribute seems more of a motivator to do things that you'd
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feel like you're supposed to do than this more positive courage?
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Like, what is going on there?
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Yeah.
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And I think the, partly we can look at sort of the evolutionary history.
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I mean, George Washington actually gets at it.
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One of his first acts when he took over the Continental Army and he came, and I actually
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use this as an epigraph for the book, but he comes to marshal the troops and he's faced
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with a couple of cases of cowardice and he calls it, you know, the worst thing that can
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afflict an army because the cowardice of a single officer may prove to be the destruction
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of the whole army.
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So, there's just the danger of the coward and how much harm they can inflict on one's
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own side that helps explain why it's so condemned.
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And, I mean, but the evidence is just all over the place.
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I mean, as you said, in the Civil War, it was especially salient, maybe, in part because
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soldiers were serving with men from their hometowns.
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Stories of their conduct would be published in local newspapers.
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So, James McPherson talks about how common the fear of cowardice was expressed in letters.
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He also says that that fear is what gave them courage.
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And so, there is a sense in which the worry about cowardice, it's kind of this sort of
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dark side of duty of what is going to happen to you if you don't do your duty, and that
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is you will be thought a coward.
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And the people you care about most in war, meaning the people who are your immediate comrades
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in arms, are going to think ill of you and not trust you.
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And that is something we just don't want, human nature, not to want to be despised by
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those closest to us.
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Yeah.
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And if you look also, one thing that military historians have noted is that when they look
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at diaries or letters or interviews of what compelled men to fight, they didn't say these
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sort of aspirational things for country or some ideal.
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It was also, usually it just got down to like, I didn't want to let the guy next to me down.
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Right.
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I didn't want them to think less of me.
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That's what it was.
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And again, so yeah, cowardice, and from a military perspective, it was feared because
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if a leader showed cowardice or if soldiers started running away from battle, that could
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spread.
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They were aware, we would call it social contagion today with our idea.
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But they understood that if people started running, then like it would cause everyone
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else, like that fear would spread and that would be disastrous.
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And so they really punished it hard.
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And since early human history and militaries, the punishment for cowardice has been harsh.
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Can you walk us through the history of military punishment for cowardice?
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Sure.
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Yeah.
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It could indeed be harsh in ancient times.
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The Greeks, the Romans, you'll probably know the term decimation.
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What it originally meant was the execution of one-tenth of a group of soldiers when that
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group of soldiers had behaved in a cowardly fashion.
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And that was often done by the term is frustiarium, very dramatic, in which the head of the unit
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would gently touch the accused with a cudgel.
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And then the other soldiers would then come at him and kill him.
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And so these soldiers who were doing the punishing were also getting a vivid, up-close
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experience of what could happen to them.
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Also, going back to ancient times, cowardly soldiers would be dressed up as women.
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Branding of soldiers has a long history that faded out, at least in the American context,
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in the Civil War, and also other kinds of humiliation, putting one instance in the Civil War of a
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bunch of soldiers who had fled battle, being put in barrels.
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And one barrel said, I skedaddled.
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Another said, coward.
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Another said, deserter or something like that.
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And they were just required to stand and rotate in front of their comrades in arms to be shamed.
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So yeah, a lot of shaming during the Civil War.
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If you were convicted of cowardice, oftentimes there was a report published in your local newspaper
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saying what you did.
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It's a lot of humiliation, but the ultimate was death.
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It was an executable offense.
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You could die.
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As recent as World War II in the United States, I think there's only one person you talk about.
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Yeah.
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You can be executed for showing cowardice.
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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And certainly in other countries, this happened much more.
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And in World War I, Great Britain executed 306 soldiers for cowardice or related offenses.
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The Germans and the Russians executed many, many more in World War II.
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And yeah, that's the ultimate penalty.
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It's gone, for the most part, out of use.
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And we can talk about why the Germans and the Russians and the British might have been
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slower to relax the punishments.
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But yeah, it's the worst thing a soldier can do.
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And so it's punished accordingly.
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Well, yeah, let's talk about that.
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Because in the U.S., the U.S. used the threat of execution as a deterrent for cowardice.
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Because they picked that up from old world militaries.
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Like George Washington was trained in the British military.
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He brought that in when he took over the Continental Army.
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But as you know, there really weren't that many U.S. executions for cowardice during the
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Revolutionary War.
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In the Civil War, there were executions for cowardice in America.
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But oftentimes, they were commuted.
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Like you just did hard labor.
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And then World War I and World War II, the U.S. didn't execute for cowardice as much
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as European countries.
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Like what happened there?
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Why did the U.S. didn't use execution for cowardice?
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Why did they use it less compared to the European countries?
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Yeah.
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Anyway, I mean, I think because they didn't have to.
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That is, well, I'm thinking of actually my dissertation advisor was Saul Bellow, the novelist.
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And he has a line about, this is something.
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When I say American, I mean uncorrected by the main history of human suffering.
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And, you know, the European powers were not only fighting the war, but their, you know,
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countries were the battlefields.
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And they didn't have the luxury of being gentle with those they thought were cowardly.
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And in the States, I think we could be that way.
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And they're also because of, you know, American consideration for individual difference, maybe
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being greater than in those other places in some ways.
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So also another reason that cowardice was so punished was, as there's the social contagion
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of fear, there also can invite aggression, right?
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People have to be trained to fire on somebody, but they find it much easier to fire on somebody
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whose eyes they can't see.
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And so somebody fleeing is actually a more inviting target than somebody who's not.
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And then also the reputation for cowardice on one side can give confidence and momentum
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to those on the other side.
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And so, and obviously those are considerations for American soldiers and American military
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authorities, but I think they were even more important and pressing on the, on the other
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side of the Atlantic and not to mention Japan and other places.
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And so the last person that was executed for cowardice in America, was it in World War II,
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the private Slovik?
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Right.
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That was, what was it about him, like his case where they're like, yeah, we're going to
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make him the only one we're going to execute for cowardice.
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Yeah.
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And he, and he was technically was executed for desertion and he has a hard luck case in
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all sorts of ways.
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And he was also not his own best witness.
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He wrote a defiant note about why he left.
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And he said, if he has to go out there again, he's going to run away again.
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And I think there are a couple of other similar cases were given reprieves.
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And he was just that, that one case is actually quite an affecting movie about him and his
00:22:30.600
case called the execution of private Slovik with Martin Sheehan playing the lead role, grueling
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movie that was aired on TV and to great acclaim and, and very widely seen in the early seventies,
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as America was trying to figure out how it would get out of Vietnam without feeling cowardly in the
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process.
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Let's talk about this, the idea of cowardice and courage in a military context.
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The most famous book that explores the complexity of courage and cowardice on the battlefield is a book.
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If you grew up in the United States, you probably read, I think I was in 10th grade.
00:23:13.760
And I read this, uh, the red badge of courage by Stephen Crane.
00:23:18.280
What insights about cowardice does Crane extract in that book?
00:23:23.760
Yeah.
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I mean, it's an amazing book and it actually, and it, and it is the book that everybody said when I was telling
00:23:31.400
me when I'm writing about, Oh, you're talking about red badge of courage.
00:23:33.760
Yep.
00:23:33.880
I am, although the book actually never quite mentions that word, but it makes eminently
00:23:40.440
clear that there is this, what Crane calls this eternal debate going on in the youth in Henry
00:23:48.400
Fleming's mind.
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He was 17 years old or whatever, when he joins about whether he would run or whether he would
00:23:55.100
prove to be someone of, of traditional courage.
00:23:58.400
And then he gets his red badge of courage, as you might remember, not in, you know, some heroic
00:24:04.700
charge, but in the course of a kind of chaotic retreat where he's trying to talk to a fellow
00:24:10.720
union soldier who gets agitated with him and smacks him with his rifle butt on the head.
00:24:17.140
But then he's got this kind of what in World War II would be called a million dollar wound.
00:24:21.680
And then, and then when he does charge the enemy later in the book, the depiction of his charge
00:24:29.940
is that it's, it's almost identical to the depiction of when he's running away from the
00:24:37.760
enemy.
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And so Crane kind of, when he was writing the book, he called it a psychological portrait of
00:24:44.200
fear.
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And I think that's what the book does.
00:24:47.480
It just, it insists on holding at arm's length, the traditional ways of, of judging and depicting
00:24:57.500
battlefield behavior that glorified it, that, that, that evaluated it in moralistic terms.
00:25:04.440
And Crane is kind of not having that.
00:25:07.580
He holds all that stuff at a, at a bit of a distance in the book.
00:25:12.000
And we just kind of experience what this youth is experiencing and hoping for.
00:25:18.400
Well, yeah, what's interesting too, you know, when he makes that, the kid makes the first
00:25:20.960
retreat, he realizes that no one saw.
00:25:24.260
Yeah.
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And so he starts doing, he's like, well, it wasn't cowardice.
00:25:27.620
And I think what Crane was trying to get at there is that cowardice and courage, it's,
00:25:32.280
it's very, it's a very social virtue.
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Like it needs, it needs an audience for it to really hold moral weight.
00:25:38.400
Like, yeah, he made his mistakes in the dark, I think as he puts it.
00:25:43.020
And so he was still a man.
00:25:44.760
That's what he, that's what he thinks about it.
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Yeah.
00:25:47.100
Yeah.
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And so if anything is that dependent on social perceptions, then, then how real is it?
00:25:56.580
I think Crane wants us to consider and he doesn't, I don't, I don't think he dismisses,
00:26:03.780
he doesn't say cowardice doesn't exist.
00:26:05.400
Courage doesn't exist.
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But the traditional ways we think of it, and certainly the kind of naive ways that Henry
00:26:12.380
Fleming ponders it do very much get questioned in the book.
00:26:16.300
And then, and then he wrote actually a story called The Veteran, fast forwarding 30 years
00:26:22.000
later, and we get Henry Fleming as a grandfather looking back and kind of making a joke about
00:26:29.000
running away.
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And then actually, if I'm remembering correctly, heroically going into a barn to save some animals
00:26:36.200
and, and, and dying in the process.
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And, and Crane was certainly celebrating that act, even as his grandson was scandalized by
00:26:45.740
the grandfathers, by Henry's making light of a traditional notion of cowardice.
00:26:54.040
It's kind of a proto-Ernest Hemingway or kind of Ernest Hemingway got cynical about cowardice.
00:26:58.700
It's like, yeah, it's, maybe it's not really a thing.
00:27:00.580
You know, it's just, it's just words.
00:27:02.740
Yeah.
00:27:03.440
Yeah.
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One of those abstract words that means nothing.
00:27:06.120
I'm sure you talked about that when you talked about honor.
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Right.
00:27:10.200
No.
00:27:10.500
Yeah.
00:27:10.640
Well, Shakespeare even talked about that.
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Sure.
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What is honor?
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The word.
00:27:14.480
So you mentioned to say the character in Red Badger Courage, when he discovered that no
00:27:18.300
one saw him running away, he's like, I'm still a man.
00:27:21.220
This reason my next question, courage and cowardice is inherently tied up with manliness and
00:27:25.860
unmanliness.
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Why is that?
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What's going on there?
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Yeah, that's a great, great question.
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And I mean, I got to start that inquiry by just thinking about the evolutionary picture
00:27:40.700
again, and why we might be naturally inclined to condemn fearfulness and failures of, you
00:27:50.020
know, born of fearfulness in men more than in women.
00:27:53.300
And one is just like men are bigger than women.
00:27:57.880
And they've done studies of like 10 month old kids who can, you know, tell that difference
00:28:05.240
and react differently to the physical abilities of a bigger person or figure that, and a smaller
00:28:11.540
person.
00:28:12.000
So, so there's a, without being sort of a determinist about it, evolutionarily speaking, there is
00:28:18.680
a sense in which because men are on average significantly larger than women, we're more
00:28:25.180
likely to judge them negatively if they show fear.
00:28:28.580
And also men's lives are cheaper, given that eggs are much rarer than, than sperm.
00:28:36.100
And there are studies of primates, non-human primates, where the males are sentinels in a band and they face
00:28:47.740
greater risks.
00:28:48.440
And if they die, that's too bad, but better that they die than a precious female.
00:28:56.040
So I think that has a little, it's sort of at the foundation of, of why it's a masculine, more
00:29:02.960
associated with masculine framework and then build on that, you know, thousands of years
00:29:09.260
of culture with its own wrinkles in the States.
00:29:13.120
It's, you know, what I think is so fascinating about that, like, you know, cowardice encourages
00:29:17.680
connection to manliness and how gendered it is.
00:29:20.300
Like, I feel like us in the modern age, we think we're above that.
00:29:22.960
Like we're, we're beyond that, but it's still interesting whenever we want to get a dude
00:29:28.120
to do something, you know, what do you, you call him a chicken.
00:29:31.520
And if you call a woman, a coward, like that doesn't have the same sting, but we know if
00:29:37.260
you, if you call it a guy, a chicken, that's gonna, that's gonna sting.
00:29:41.300
Yep.
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Yeah.
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It's deep.
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It's funny.
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We think we're above that, but like those, there's like some vestiges of that still in
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our little primal brain where we know, we know the things that can, can needle people.
00:29:53.520
Yeah.
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
00:29:55.120
And again, and, and, you know, culture does affect that.
00:29:57.520
There's an interesting study comparing Southern and Northern college students and their reactions
00:30:05.160
to insult and the Southern students were more likely to be, to, to react in a strong way
00:30:13.760
to offenses to their honor.
00:30:16.900
But yeah, but it, so, and, and, but I, but even in the North, yeah.
00:30:21.340
Yeah.
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Call a dude a chicken and that's, that can be a motivator.
00:30:25.240
It can be a motivator.
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Right.
00:30:26.380
Like that's the, uh, what in back to the future, right?
00:30:29.060
Marty McFly.
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Right.
00:30:30.160
Right.
00:30:30.300
Call him a chicken.
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And like, that's what God, that's what needled him.
00:30:33.140
That's what got him to do something he shouldn't have done.
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
00:30:35.860
All right.
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So let's talk about the intersection of cowardice and duty.
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Cause your definition of cowardice is you don't do something out of excessive fear.
00:30:42.920
And that's something you're, you're supposed to do.
00:30:46.380
Militaries enforce punishments of dereliction of duty with death.
00:30:51.600
But this is kind of weird because you're coercing someone to not be cowardly.
00:30:57.420
So is, do you kind of, do you strip away the, the moral heft of cowardice by telling someone
00:31:03.860
you have to do this thing?
00:31:05.860
Yeah.
00:31:06.880
Yeah.
00:31:07.360
I mean, I, I, I, I talk about the, the paradox of duty that it is something compulsory we
00:31:15.760
feel, but it's also something that is performed voluntarily duty bound.
00:31:23.840
We are, we are bound to do this duty and that if we're bound to it, then it sounds like
00:31:28.940
we're being forced to, and yeah, it does apply some, some pressure.
00:31:33.400
I mean, Stephen Crane in, in the red badge of courage, Stephen Crane talks about Henry
00:31:37.760
Fleming feeling like he's in a moving box and that box constrains him.
00:31:44.260
It pushes him back and forth, right?
00:31:46.200
It pushes him to the, to the front towards battle.
00:31:48.960
And if he's in a moving box, what he's not responsible for what he is doing.
00:31:54.820
And that theme goes back a long ways.
00:31:59.140
I mean, the, the idea of the Greek or these ancient phalanxes would put soldiers in groups
00:32:07.380
of whatever of, I don't even know what the exact number typically would be something like
00:32:11.660
64 soldiers in an eight by eight box.
00:32:16.020
And, you know, each one of those soldiers maybe is theoretically free to do what they want,
00:32:21.600
but they are in this phalanx that has a power greater than any one of them and is forcing
00:32:29.300
them to go in certain places.
00:32:32.240
Well, you, you also talk about like the ancient generals picked up, like we got to put the,
00:32:35.820
the really fearful people in the middle so they don't have a choice.
00:32:39.600
Right.
00:32:40.380
So it's like, are they actually being brave or cowardly?
00:32:43.100
I mean, they're not, they're not doing anything.
00:32:44.860
There's no agency involved.
00:32:46.280
Yeah.
00:32:47.260
Yeah.
00:32:48.120
Yeah.
00:32:48.600
And, and yeah, that question of, does it, does that take away some of the moral heft?
00:32:52.700
Yeah.
00:32:52.940
I mean, I think it does.
00:32:53.880
It, it, and I think one of the big critiques of cowardice and especially in the past century
00:33:01.460
and a half or whatever, is that the forces constraining human beings and especially soldiers,
00:33:08.300
especially soldiers at war are so great that ideas like courage and cowardice really don't
00:33:15.680
mean anything.
00:33:16.880
We are subject to these greater forces, modernized weaponry and tactics, industrial war.
00:33:23.580
And also, you know, there's been greater understanding of human psychology where we know that some
00:33:29.080
people are differently configured, right?
00:33:31.560
Simply we're going to naturally be more fearful or less fearful.
00:33:35.800
And so that makes us think, hmm, what really, is cowardice really relevant?
00:33:42.420
No.
00:33:42.580
Yeah.
00:33:42.680
And that's what Hemingway, like what he saw in World War I and a lot of that lost generation,
00:33:46.220
that's what caused them to question the whole idea of courage and cowardice.
00:33:49.980
They saw it didn't matter what you did.
00:33:52.720
You're just going to die.
00:33:53.900
Right.
00:33:54.280
And you had no choice.
00:33:55.340
There's nothing involved.
00:33:56.220
There's nothing glorious about it.
00:33:57.680
You'd just be sitting in a trench and then just a shell hits you from two miles away.
00:34:01.960
Right.
00:34:02.520
Right.
00:34:02.760
Yeah.
00:34:03.560
Yeah.
00:34:03.760
James Jones is great about this stuff too in The Thin Red Line.
00:34:06.940
Yeah.
00:34:07.240
That's something he explores as well.
00:34:09.500
All right.
00:34:09.740
So this paradox of duty makes cowardice even harder, particularly with modern warfare,
00:34:15.100
where there isn't oftentimes any agency involved.
00:34:18.720
You're just kind of, I mean, even you talk about the threat of a nuclear annihilation.
00:34:22.560
It's like that's, you're in the box.
00:34:24.300
Like there's, you can't escape the box.
00:34:25.740
And so how do you be courageous or a coward in that situation?
00:34:31.400
That's, it makes it even fuzzier.
00:34:33.800
So another argument you make, sort of the decline in our talk about cowardice.
00:34:38.500
So the changing ways of warfare made cowardice a little fuzzy to talk about.
00:34:43.000
It's sort of harder to convict someone for cowardice when they might not have had a choice.
00:34:47.560
There wasn't any moral action or agency or going on.
00:34:51.100
But you also talk about in the past, I would say 50, 60 years, there's been what Philip
00:34:57.180
Reif wrote.
00:34:58.700
He's, we're living in an age where the therapeutic has triumphed.
00:35:02.700
How has the triumph of the therapeutic taken some of the moral heft out of cowardice and courage?
00:35:08.720
Yeah.
00:35:09.580
Yeah.
00:35:10.160
I mean, Reif's book is really compelling kind of critique of the phenomenon of the therapeutic.
00:35:17.300
It's not, and especially in the modern age, although when it comes to
00:35:20.860
cowardice, I mean, it's not as if there was some time in primeval era when people didn't
00:35:31.320
thought about these terms in totally in black and white ways.
00:35:35.440
You know, the Iliad, the Old Testament, Aristotle, they all acknowledged that different people
00:35:41.560
were different men, especially were differently constituted.
00:35:45.680
And, you know, the Deuteronomy advises to, you know, keep the faint-hearted men at home
00:35:52.660
rather than sending them to war and tainting the troops in that way.
00:35:57.080
But those were, you know, observations that didn't have what we have now, which is a kind
00:36:04.160
of officially sanctioned institutional medical vocabulary for understanding what might otherwise
00:36:14.340
be understood as cowardice.
00:36:15.900
And so it goes back, I trace it back to what was called nostalgia in the civil war.
00:36:21.720
And then in World War I, famously shell shock and then battle fatigue and on to post-traumatic
00:36:30.040
stress disorder.
00:36:31.620
And these are all ways of understanding this transgressive behavior out of fear without judging
00:36:41.460
it and thinking of those behaviors as cause for therapy as opposed to punishment.
00:36:49.400
And I think that certainly has reduced the amount of contempt that we have for cowardice in some
00:37:01.140
cases, and it's reduced the scope of application of the term as well.
00:37:08.820
We simply don't apply it or consider applying it.
00:37:13.100
Even as at the same time, we've already talked about it, it's still a term that has great power
00:37:21.580
and nobody, especially no man, likes to be called coward.
00:37:26.180
And there is great stigma still attached to psychological terms like post-traumatic stress, right?
00:37:33.580
Especially among soldiers and soldiers generally did not want to be known as, you know, a victim
00:37:40.780
of shell shock or of battle fatigue because of the undying stigma attached to those ways of speaking.
00:37:50.860
So it's a complicated, I don't think that the therapeutic has quite triumphed.
00:37:55.940
Reif's son, David Reif is writing a book.
00:37:58.560
I think it's called The Triumph of the Traumatic, and that I think is going to take a similar
00:38:03.960
angle.
00:38:04.640
In the book, I do talk about the excesses of the therapeutic culture, right?
00:38:08.020
The fact that more soldiers applied for a sort of post-traumatic stress diagnosis and
00:38:16.340
attendant benefits after the Vietnam War than actually saw combat.
00:38:21.640
And now the definition of trauma at the heart of post-traumatic stress has become so broad
00:38:29.680
that one need not have experienced trauma firsthand, but just have heard about it to be able to
00:38:36.820
lay claim to being traumatized.
00:38:39.880
And you take that far enough and cowardice could be displaced completely.
00:38:45.780
We can't expect anybody to do their duty, no matter the fear or the tiny cause for fear,
00:38:54.600
because they have been traumatized or they are predisposed to fear excessively.
00:39:00.960
Yeah, it is that concept creep that's happened with that word like trauma or post-traumatic
00:39:07.780
stress disorder.
00:39:09.000
And it's interesting too, you see in some instances where someone who admits like, I've
00:39:14.360
got this problem, I've been traumatized, they actually get like praised, right?
00:39:17.760
Like you're so brave for, you know, admitting you have this problem.
00:39:22.080
Yeah.
00:39:22.260
So it's sort of like a Nietzschean inversion of values.
00:39:24.460
It's like, well, there's one thing that would be a hundred years ago, we'll look down with
00:39:27.300
contempt.
00:39:27.800
It's like, well, this is actually a good thing.
00:39:29.760
Right.
00:39:30.180
And that's, that just mucks up the whole idea of cowardice and courage even more.
00:39:34.740
Yeah.
00:39:35.420
Yeah.
00:39:35.640
Yeah.
00:39:36.080
Yeah.
00:39:36.600
And instead of hiding one's weakness, a hundred years ago, we thought of weakness, we exhibit
00:39:42.820
it proudly even.
00:39:43.940
And I mean, I, I see, you know, benefits of, of these, the larger trend.
00:39:50.080
Certainly, I think we've become more humane about a lot of things and about human difference,
00:39:55.700
but it can be, you know, cowardice still has the power to, I think, motivate us in good
00:40:02.480
ways.
00:40:02.940
It's done untold amounts of damage on the sort of global scale when wars have been fought
00:40:10.860
because of, you know, offenses to honor, because of the worries about seeming cowardly.
00:40:16.380
We escalated in Vietnam in part because LBJ was worried about that.
00:40:22.380
Yeah.
00:40:22.540
He would have, he had like, he'd had dreams where he was being called a coward.
00:40:26.260
Yeah.
00:40:26.660
And it, and that, that was kind of what, it shook him.
00:40:29.480
He's like, I got to keep, I got to stay in Vietnam because I can't be a coward.
00:40:32.580
Yep.
00:40:33.380
Right.
00:40:34.440
And, and then at a smaller scale, you know, people, whatever, violent street corner acts
00:40:40.860
or just the, the deep shame that some people feel about their belief that they're being
00:40:46.700
cowardly can lead to violence against themselves, against others.
00:40:50.100
So there's, so there's definitely reasons to be critical and skeptical about applying cowardice,
00:40:56.360
but I don't quite want to throw out the term entirely because I think it does, if we don't
00:41:02.740
have to fulfill a duty because of fear, then I don't know what kind of morality we can really
00:41:11.220
have.
00:41:11.720
It seems that that's a foundation to moral judgment where we can actually judge some act
00:41:20.680
or based on the questions that the idea of cowardice rightly understood makes us ask,
00:41:29.320
which are, what is our duty?
00:41:31.680
What should we do?
00:41:32.880
And why aren't we doing it?
00:41:34.680
And if it's because of fear, is that fear justified or is it excessive?
00:41:39.340
And I think those are good moral questions that the idea of cowardice keeps in play.
00:41:44.740
Yeah.
00:41:45.120
And I think at the end of the book, you do this, you try to explore what the role of
00:41:48.580
cowardice in just our day-to-day life or moral lives outside of the military.
00:41:52.480
And I think the question you're grappling with is you're just talking about there is like,
00:41:55.800
how do you get the benefits of the fear of cowardice that, as you said, can compel us
00:42:01.140
to do terrible things, go to war, get into fights, do immoral things.
00:42:06.580
I mean, think of, I mean, that's oftentimes like, yeah, if you look at when people do
00:42:10.640
something stupid, it's like, I just don't want, I didn't want them to think I was a
00:42:13.480
chicken.
00:42:14.220
Right.
00:42:14.480
But as you said, you don't want to get rid of it completely because it is, it can be
00:42:17.500
rightly understood.
00:42:18.800
It can be used as a motivator to do good.
00:42:23.560
So have you figured out how to get the benefits of the fear of cowardice without the downsides?
00:42:29.920
I think part of it is just entirely not using the term coward about other people or about
00:42:39.380
yourself, in part because it's just, it sheds far more heat than light.
00:42:45.400
You know, it's a great insult, but, you know, insult really doesn't do much good, I don't
00:42:51.820
think, in the world.
00:42:52.560
But if we contemplate the concept of cowardice and think about those questions that we've
00:43:01.580
just been talking about, that the concept of cowardice pushes us to ask, you know, given
00:43:06.540
that it is, it's focused on duty and fear.
00:43:09.700
Okay.
00:43:09.880
What is our duty?
00:43:11.560
The Google engram for, for duty goes down from 1800 to the present day as well, like cowardice.
00:43:19.480
And so I think it's something that we can usefully think about more than we do.
00:43:27.240
And then thinking about our, thinking critically about our fears.
00:43:31.540
And there's a lot literature out there about how typically, I mean, and Aristotle says it,
00:43:37.260
that we, we fear the wrong things at the wrong time and looking at the fears that 2021 Americans
00:43:45.780
have as opposed to what we, what we fear and what we should fear are two different things.
00:43:51.980
I think banal example is fear of flying versus fear of getting in a car.
00:43:58.120
Everybody knows, or most people know that you're far more likely to die in a, in a car accident
00:44:04.300
than you are in a plane accident.
00:44:05.600
But with most, most people, I think are a little more fearful of getting in a plane.
00:44:09.760
No, and I think you made this good, great case.
00:44:12.040
I liked that.
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I thought it was useful was when, when you explore why you didn't do something, whether
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it was, you didn't quit your job, right.
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And like go after, and cause you're going to go after another job that you thought would
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be better, or you do something morally gray and, and questionable.
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Oftentimes we come with like reasons like, well, it just, it would be too hard or it would
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cause problems or it would financially hurt my family.
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You suggest maybe you're just being like, maybe you're acting cowardly and use that as
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a, as a brace, like kind of sort of a gut check to your, for yourself instead of like
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relying on those, you know, sort of self-justifications, maybe say, well, maybe I was being cowardly and
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what can I do to change that?
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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And then, and, and partly given what we were talking about, the social nature of, of the,
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this phenomenon of cowardice and for that matter of courage, the next move would be often to
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put yourself in a kind of phalanx where you can use the power of your comrades to help get
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you where you want to go, right?
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If your fears aren't going to disappear, but soldiers by banding together can do things that
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they wouldn't otherwise do be more courageous or less cowardly, thanks to the, the bracing
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company of others.
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And yeah, that's, that's the, my kind of self-help pitch for using cowardice to help
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get you where you think you should go.
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Like even Dante, Dante had Virgil the entire time he was in purgatory.
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Right.
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And Virgil was pretty much there telling him, don't be afraid, don't be a coward.
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I mean, he says, I like how you end this in the book talking about how Dante saw the inscription
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over the gates of hell, abandon all hope, ye who enter here.
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And he hesitates.
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And then he tells Virgil, I'm, this is just really hard.
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I don't understand.
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I, this is scary, but Virgil says, you need to go through this.
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And Virgil tells him here, you must put all cowardice to death.
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And that braced Dante for this thing that he did.
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And he was able to get to paradise because he put cowardice to death.
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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And, and, and, you know, that's his spiritual journey and, and I think it applies in other
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realms of life as well in love and friendship, asking those questions and of yourself, what
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should I do?
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Why am I afraid of doing it?
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Uh, it can be a, can be a useful thing.
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Well, Chris, this has been a great conversation.
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Where can people go to learn more about the book and your work?
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One of the things I'm especially cowardly about is social media.
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I think that's brave.
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I'm going to, um, so I don't have much of a presence online, but I'm glad to respond to
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emails.
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I'm at, I'm at Boston university at C Walsh at B U dot E D U C W A L S H at B U dot E D U.
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And I've written about cowardice and sort of international affairs for the magazine.
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Foreign Affairs and about cowardice in academia for the times, higher education and a few
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other things that people might be interested in looking at and then be glad to, to hear
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from anybody.
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Fantastic.
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Well, Chris Walsh, thanks for your time.
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It's been a pleasure.
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Thank you, Brett.
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Really appreciate it.
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My guest name is Chris Walsh.
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She's the author of the book, Cowardice, A Brief History.
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It's available on amazon.com and bookstores everywhere.
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Make sure to check out our show notes at aom.is slash cowardice.
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