The Ben Shapiro Show - March 10, 2019


Arthur Brooks | The Ben Shapiro Show Sunday Special Ep. 41


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Length

1 hour and 3 minutes

Words per Minute

222.09096

Word Count

14,162

Sentence Count

941

Misogynist Sentences

5

Hate Speech Sentences

10


Summary

Arthur Brooks is the author of a new book, Love Your Enemies, and the head of the American Enterprise Institute. He s also the founder of the conservative think tank, the AEI, and a regular contributor to the New York Times. In this special episode, we talk about the Dalai Lama s advice on loving your enemies, and how to deal with people who disagree with you, and why it s so important to do so in a culture of contempt. He also talks about why we should all be more civil to each other, and what it means to be a decent human being in a fraught culture, and the best way to do that is to learn to love your enemies. This is an [Expert] level episode, which means some parts of the conversation may not make sense unless you ve listened to the entire thing. If you like what you hear, please HIT SUBSCRIBE on Apple Podcasts or wherever else you get your news and updates, and tell a friend about this podcast by using the hashtag and on social media! to let us know what you thought of the show and what you would like to see us do in the future episodes. Thanks for listening and share it on your stories and your thoughts on the show! Ben Shapiro and Ben Shapiro - The Ben Shapiro Show Sunday Special Thanks to our sponsor, PolicyGenius for sponsoring the Sunday Special with a discount code at linktr.ee/thebigbenapodcast . if you like the show, leave us a rating and review the show on iTunes, and we'll give you 5 stars and a review on the next week's episode will be 5 stars, and Ben will get 5 stars too! and you'll get 20% off the entire show next week for the rest of the week's ad-free version of the podcast next week! Thank you, Ben Shapiro destroys blank blank dot coms ! as well as 5 stars next week, and free shipping, free shipping throughout the entire world! Thanks again for listening to the show next Tuesday, Ben and I'll see you next Tuesday! - Thank you for supporting the show next Monday, next Wednesday, next Friday, next Saturday, next week Monday, June 17th, July 9th, Tuesday, July 5th, September 6th, 8/7th, 9/8th,


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00:00:00.000 I asked none other than the Dalai Lama, and I said, what do I do when I feel contempt for another person?
00:00:05.000 He said, show warmheartedness.
00:00:08.000 And I thought, you got anything else?
00:00:10.000 Welcome to the Ben Shapiro Show Sunday special.
00:00:21.000 We are eager to welcome to the program Arthur Brooks.
00:00:24.000 He's the author of a new book, Love Your Enemies.
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00:01:33.000 Arthur, thanks so much for stopping by.
00:01:34.000 I really appreciate it.
00:01:35.000 Thank you, Ben.
00:01:35.000 I'm just so happy to be here.
00:01:37.000 I gotta tell you, I have teenage kids.
00:01:40.000 I have two sons.
00:01:41.000 One's a junior at Princeton, and one is a farmer in Idaho, and they both think you're cooler than I am.
00:01:45.000 Wow, that's very flattering, and I really appreciate it.
00:01:48.000 Well, you know, your book is called Love Your Enemies, and it says how decent people can save America from the culture of contempt.
00:01:53.000 And I have to get the elephant In the room out of the way immediately, which is that people are going to be asking how is it that Ben Shapiro of Ben Shapiro destroys blank fame could possibly be interviewing you and taking seriously the question of loving your enemies, people who disagree with you.
00:02:07.000 And so I want to go through sort of what you mean by loving your enemies and also what is the best way to do that in a really fraught culture.
00:02:14.000 So let's start with the basics.
00:02:16.000 How did you come up with this idea that the biggest problem we have in the culture is us not loving our enemies?
00:02:21.000 Well, as I'm looking around, and look, we've been going through the same trials and the same tribulations.
00:02:26.000 Those of us who are on the political right, we've seen a lot of bad things happen.
00:02:30.000 We've seen just the way that the whole discourse has been spoiled, and not just by people on the other side, by people on our own side as well.
00:02:38.000 I thought to myself, you know, what's the big problem?
00:02:40.000 And people say, well, we need more civility.
00:02:42.000 or we need more tolerance, that's garbage.
00:02:45.000 We don't need more civility.
00:02:47.000 I mean, if I said, "Hey Ben, my wife Esther and I, "we're civil to each other." You'd be like, "Oh man, dude, you need some counseling." Or my employees at the American Enterprise Institute, they tolerate me and say, "Bad scene, man." These are not high enough standards, basically.
00:03:02.000 I started thinking to myself, what do we need?
00:03:03.000 Well, when you go back to the sacred texts, but the pillars of philosophy in the West, what you find is that there's this subversive teaching, which is basically to love your enemies.
00:03:15.000 This comes from the Gospel of St.
00:03:18.000 Matthew, the fifth chapter, the 44th verse, where Jesus tells his followers to love their enemies.
00:03:22.000 Why?
00:03:22.000 Well, Martin Luther King actually sorted it out for the modern era.
00:03:26.000 When you love your enemies, you find out they weren't Your enemies after all.
00:03:30.000 You know, people will say that, you know, when they look at the internet, they say, you know, Ben Shapiro destroys.
00:03:34.000 One of the things I happen to know is you're not using that language.
00:03:38.000 And when I watch you up on stage, you're tough.
00:03:40.000 You're going hammer and tongs after the people who disagree with you.
00:03:43.000 But by and large, I think that you're engaging with ideas and not treating the people with contempt.
00:03:49.000 And I admire that.
00:03:49.000 Could you be better?
00:03:51.000 Could I be better?
00:03:52.000 For sure.
00:03:53.000 But in point of fact, I think we're going in the same direction.
00:03:55.000 I think we're trying to make progress in the same way.
00:03:57.000 So let's talk about what it means for someone to be your enemy.
00:04:00.000 So, you make the point in the book that there are people who obviously are enemies, right?
00:04:04.000 I mean, they're obviously Islamofascists, they're members of the Taliban.
00:04:08.000 Are those people that we should love?
00:04:09.000 I mean, how do we deal with, are there gradations, in other words, to the enemies that we ought to love?
00:04:13.000 Are there the domestic political enemies, meaning, you know, President Trump's enemy of the people press, and Democrats versus Republicans?
00:04:19.000 Or are there like a legitimate group of people that it's okay not to love?
00:04:22.000 There are gradations, of course.
00:04:24.000 And the main point that I'm making here, when I'm talking about how decent people can save America from the culture of contempt, I'm largely talking for an American audience where we have started to suffer from something that political scientists call motive attribution asymmetry.
00:04:39.000 Big fancy term so that academics like me can get tenure.
00:04:42.000 But basically what it means is that when you feel that you're motivated in your ideology by love, but the other side is motivated by hatred.
00:04:51.000 Now this is something you typically see in the Palestinian-Israeli conflict, but what political scientists are finding for the very first time is that Democrats and Republicans, conservatives and liberals are displaying the same level of motive attribution asymmetry As Israelis and the Palestinians.
00:05:06.000 In other words, we're treating each other internally in American politics as the other, as the enemy.
00:05:12.000 And this is not anger.
00:05:13.000 Anger is fine.
00:05:14.000 Anger is literally not correlated with separation and divorce among married couples.
00:05:19.000 The problem is contempt, the conviction of the utter worthlessness of the other person.
00:05:24.000 That's what we see.
00:05:25.000 And so I'm talking to a largely American audience.
00:05:27.000 This obviously has gradations.
00:05:29.000 We're talking about warfare and people overseas that want to kill us.
00:05:32.000 But I'm telling you, when I'm looking at somebody on the political left in the United States, I can disagree.
00:05:37.000 But that person should not be treated with contempt.
00:05:39.000 Not by me, not by you, not by anybody watching us.
00:05:42.000 And if we can get past that, that is the source of our strength.
00:05:45.000 And I'll admit, when I read the book, I mostly see my own shortcomings in it, things that I can do better.
00:05:50.000 And you tell the story in the book of the first time that you sort of experienced the use of love in order to overcome what you felt was somebody who was attacking you, somebody who wrote you a long email going after one of your previous books, and how you responded to that.
00:06:01.000 I wonder if you might want to tell that story.
00:06:02.000 Yeah, so, I mean, this happened a long time ago, and it was, I was actually, I recalled this because I asked none other than the Dalai Lama, while I was making this documentary film, and I said, what do I do when I feel contempt for another person?
00:06:14.000 He said, Show warm-heartedness.
00:06:17.000 And I thought, you got anything else?
00:06:20.000 Because it seemed sort of weak to me.
00:06:22.000 But then I remembered, I mean, Dalai Lama is a tough person.
00:06:25.000 He was exiled as a teenager from his homeland in Tibet.
00:06:28.000 He was just rolled over by the communist Chinese.
00:06:31.000 And he spent every day for the last six decades starting each morning praying for the communist Chinese leaders that they'll live good and happy lives.
00:06:38.000 That's toughness.
00:06:39.000 And I said, well, how do I do that?
00:06:41.000 And he said, remember a time when you accidentally did it.
00:06:44.000 So I thought back to 2006.
00:06:45.000 I was a professor at Syracuse University in those days, and I had just written a book.
00:06:50.000 I'd written a lot of books, but nobody'd ever read them because they were very boring.
00:06:52.000 And I was living a happy professorial existence, and I wrote this one book that hit the news cycle in just the right way.
00:06:58.000 I think President Bush read it, and it got into the news, and I was on the news every day.
00:07:03.000 It was weird.
00:07:04.000 It happens to academics sometimes.
00:07:05.000 I started selling hundreds of copies a day.
00:07:06.000 My life changed kind of permanently, as a matter of fact.
00:07:09.000 And the weirdest part is I started to get emails from people I'd never met.
00:07:13.000 So I get an email from a guy, I mean, hundreds.
00:07:15.000 When you have a book, you know how this feels.
00:07:17.000 When you have a book that's selling, people feel like they know you, and if they don't like your book, they don't like you.
00:07:22.000 So I started getting emails from people.
00:07:23.000 I loved your book, I want to tell you about my grandma, you know, all that kind of stuff.
00:07:26.000 My email was very easy to get, and I heard from people who didn't like it as well.
00:07:30.000 Okay, two weeks after the book comes out, I get an email from a guy in Texas.
00:07:33.000 Dear Professor Brooks, you are a right-wing fraud.
00:07:38.000 Bad way to start an email.
00:07:39.000 But I keep reading, and I notice this email is like, 2,000 words long.
00:07:43.000 No, more.
00:07:43.000 5,000 words.
00:07:44.000 It's going to take me 20 minutes to read this email.
00:07:47.000 But as I'm reading it, you know, and I'm, you know, I'm game, and he's insulting everything.
00:07:51.000 Like, did you know that the, I think that the columns are in three, table 3.1 are reversed, you idiot, and stuff like this.
00:07:57.000 And as I'm reading through the email, this thing is going through my head.
00:08:01.000 He read my book!
00:08:03.000 I was filled with gratitude.
00:08:04.000 Why?
00:08:05.000 Because it had taken me two years to write it, and he'd read every word.
00:08:08.000 So I decided, you know, I'm just going to tell him what's written on my heart.
00:08:11.000 I got nothing to lose.
00:08:12.000 I'm never going to see him.
00:08:13.000 So I write him back, you're so-and-so.
00:08:15.000 Took me two years to write that book.
00:08:17.000 I put my whole heart into it.
00:08:18.000 You read every word.
00:08:19.000 I'm so grateful to you.
00:08:21.000 Thank you.
00:08:22.000 Send.
00:08:24.000 And then I go back to work.
00:08:25.000 Fifteen minutes later, his response pops back up.
00:08:28.000 Ding.
00:08:29.000 Open up the email.
00:08:30.000 Dear Professor Brooks, next time you're in Texas, if you want to get some dinner, give me a call.
00:08:35.000 Huh, that's power.
00:08:37.000 What it turns out was that, and look, it took me a long time to remember that because I was stimulated in that memory by His Holiness the Dalai Lama.
00:08:44.000 But once I did, I never forgot.
00:08:46.000 I remember the feeling of not just a power, but of warmth.
00:08:49.000 You know, and his point is when somebody treats you with contempt, and Ben, man, you're going to be treated with contempt like, Next time you go out in public, because I've seen it, and you're super good at responding to ideas.
00:09:00.000 But you're going to be treated with contempt.
00:09:02.000 You're going to get a choice.
00:09:03.000 I can answer with contempt, or I can answer with love.
00:09:07.000 No, no, no.
00:09:07.000 To answer with love does not mean to agree with the person.
00:09:10.000 We have a responsibility to say what we think.
00:09:12.000 Why?
00:09:12.000 Because ideas have consequences.
00:09:15.000 And misguided ideas have deleterious consequences for society.
00:09:18.000 But when you answer somebody with whom you disagree with enough respect to show them the disagreement and to do it with love, you'll change at least one heart, and that's Ben's heart, and that's Arthur's heart, and maybe, maybe the other person's heart as well. - So what do you do when somebody comes at you, and it's not just a contemptuous argument about your ideas, what if somebody comes at you, and the way that people have tended to do this lately is to call you legitimately morally deficient.
00:09:40.000 So you give the example of, you're somebody who is pro-gun rights.
00:09:45.000 And the implication is put forward after Sandy Hook that the reason that you are pro-gun rights is because you don't care enough about dead children.
00:09:51.000 Or the reason that you believe what you believe on welfare policy is because you're a vicious racist.
00:09:55.000 How should you respond to that?
00:09:57.000 How is it possible to be warm hearted?
00:09:58.000 Now, I'll admit, my typical strategy when someone calls me a racist is to say, "Well, you're acting like a jackass.
00:10:03.000 "You have no evidence that I'm a racist." Obviously, you are now acting like a jackass because attacking people without evidence makes you such.
00:10:09.000 Right.
00:10:10.000 That's a pretty hostile way to do it, but it feels like the only way sometimes to shake people out of the stupor of slandering people with those sorts of names.
00:10:17.000 And I also am worried that if I say, listen, let me explain to you all the reasons why I'm not a racist.
00:10:21.000 I've already lost the argument.
00:10:22.000 I can't grant credibility to even the statement because the statement is so off base.
00:10:26.000 What's the best way to handle something like this?
00:10:28.000 So, yeah, when somebody says, you're a racist, or, you know, prove to me you're not a racist, it's like, it's when did you stop beating your wife?
00:10:35.000 I mean, it's just, it's an unanswerable question because the premise is entirely wrong.
00:10:39.000 Okay, now, the first thing to remember is that in point of fact, the person is behaving like a jackass.
00:10:45.000 And you're utterly within your rights to say so, but that misses a core opportunity.
00:10:50.000 You take the person on very, very vigorously, but in terms that basically says, I understand the position that you're coming from, which is that you have a huge concern about racism in our society, and I share that concern with you.
00:11:03.000 Don't even take on the charge that Ben Shapiro's a racist.
00:11:06.000 That's idiotic and everybody knows it.
00:11:07.000 But the opportunity is this.
00:11:09.000 Look, when you're on a college campus or you're in the mainstream media and people are watching, there are a ton of people out there.
00:11:15.000 They're not hostile.
00:11:16.000 They're also not true believers of Ben Shapiro.
00:11:18.000 You've got a ton of true believers, but a lot of people are not.
00:11:21.000 They're persuadable.
00:11:22.000 They're open.
00:11:23.000 They're skeptical, but they're open.
00:11:25.000 How are those people going to be persuaded?
00:11:27.000 They're going to be persuaded by the force, not just of the force of your arguments, but the way that you make those arguments, the mercy that emanates from your heart, the love that you actually show, the respect that you show for other Americans.
00:11:38.000 Look, those people who are attacking you, They're not all bad people.
00:11:41.000 They're really concerned about legitimate things.
00:11:43.000 They just don't know how to express it in the right way.
00:11:45.000 And they've never gotten proper direction to treat another human being with respect.
00:11:50.000 So you can turn it around and say, look, I don't like the way you just talked to me, but I do share the concerns that are written on your heart.
00:11:57.000 So I'm going to talk about those concerns because I think I've got a better way to address them that maybe even you do.
00:12:03.000 But at very least, I want you to consider those things.
00:12:05.000 Who's going to be watching that?
00:12:06.000 The persuadable people in the audience.
00:12:08.000 They're going to go, huh.
00:12:09.000 Ben Shapiro, no horns, man.
00:12:10.000 I want to know more.
00:12:12.000 So one of the things that you talk about in Love Your Enemies is the fact that the amount of contempt in our politics has been rising very, very rapidly of recent vintage.
00:12:20.000 Do you think that that's a result of the polarization of politics, or do you think that polarization in politics is a result of the contempt?
00:12:26.000 I feel like it's a bit of a chicken or the egg question.
00:12:28.000 Yeah, I think it's what economists would call an endogenous situation, where one is actually causing the other, and we're in a vicious cycle.
00:12:34.000 And that again, once again, is a big opportunity, because once you cut the cycle, it's no longer downwardly spiraling, and it requires that people who are in the public eye.
00:12:43.000 I mean, I'm very blessed to be in a position where I get to talk in public, you even more, and you have millions of people who are watching this show.
00:12:49.000 And you can actually cut that cycle of contempt and show other people, more importantly, how to do it.
00:12:55.000 Because, you know, what you say, people are going to, they're going to follow you because you're a leader under those circumstances.
00:13:00.000 So sure, polarization leads to contempt.
00:13:02.000 Contempt leads to more polarization.
00:13:03.000 This is actually how all relationships deteriorate.
00:13:06.000 I have a friend, his name is John Gottman.
00:13:08.000 He teaches at the University of Washington.
00:13:09.000 He's the world's leading expert on marital reconciliation.
00:13:12.000 The guy's a hero.
00:13:13.000 He's brought thousands of people back together who would have otherwise gotten divorced.
00:13:17.000 And one of the many things you and I agree on is that a good society must be based on stable, happy families that have love for each other.
00:13:25.000 So this guy, I mean, he really is a modern-day hero.
00:13:28.000 And he notes that what predicts divorce is not anger at all.
00:13:33.000 I mean, thank God I'm married to a Spaniard.
00:13:36.000 Arguments don't lead to divorce.
00:13:37.000 We've had thousands and thousands of them over the past 28 years.
00:13:40.000 What leads to divorce is treating other people like you have contempt for that person.
00:13:45.000 Eye-rolling, sarcasm, contemptuous humor, derisive jokes.
00:13:50.000 These are the things that really predict divorce.
00:13:52.000 I mean, John Gottman can counsel somebody for an hour, counsel a couple for an hour, and know with more than 90% accuracy if they'll be divorced within three years by looking for those signs of contempt.
00:14:01.000 And those are the same things that destroy relationships at all different levels.
00:14:05.000 Friendships, collegial relationships, and in point of fact, that's what's happening in America today.
00:14:10.000 That's the reason that people can't talk to each other, that one in six Americans have literally stopped talking to a close friend or family member because of the election of 2016.
00:14:19.000 That's way worse than politics.
00:14:22.000 That's a crisis of love.
00:14:24.000 When it comes to this problem of contempt, one of the questions I guess I have is that it's very tied, I think, to humor.
00:14:30.000 So, if you wanted to look at, you know, the chief progenitors of contempt in American politics, I really wouldn't look to our politicians first.
00:14:36.000 I'd look to somebody like Jon Stewart, because Jon Stewart spent years basically showing a clip of somebody making a face at that person, and then that was the cue for the audience to laugh.
00:14:44.000 Now, we all enjoy that.
00:14:46.000 Is there a way to separate out humor from contempt, or is it just we need to stop treating politics as entertainment more generally?
00:14:53.000 Well, there's nothing wrong with humor.
00:14:55.000 The problem is mockery.
00:14:56.000 And mocking another person is trying to hurt that person.
00:14:59.000 It's trying to belittle that other person.
00:15:01.000 And it's really tempting.
00:15:04.000 Yes, I give incident temptation regularly.
00:15:07.000 I do, too.
00:15:07.000 I do, too.
00:15:08.000 You know, guilty.
00:15:09.000 And one of the things that stimulated this book, Love Your Enemies, is I saw myself on TV behaving with contempt and treating somebody with mockery, using humor.
00:15:18.000 I mean, I've been telling jokes my whole life.
00:15:20.000 I was the wisecracking kid in the back of the class.
00:15:23.000 When I was growing up, I mean, that's the reason it took me until I was 30 to graduate from college, but that's another story.
00:15:28.000 And okay, and I saw myself doing it and I thought, that's not right.
00:15:32.000 That is, that actually, I'm not living up to my own values.
00:15:34.000 I mean, these people are, they disagree with me, but they're, they're not evil and they're certainly not stupid.
00:15:41.000 And, and, you know, The key moment came for me, Ben, and I'm sure you've had this experience too.
00:15:45.000 I was at this political activist rally in 2014, a couple of years before the 2016 election.
00:15:51.000 And, you know, I do like 175 speeches a year.
00:15:54.000 I'm on the road all the time.
00:15:55.000 Being the president of a think tank is like not much thinking in tanks.
00:15:59.000 It's mostly, you know, on the road, sitting on planes.
00:16:01.000 And I was talking to this group of activists, and I said in my talk, you know, I want you to remember, look, we agree.
00:16:07.000 I said to this group, you know, they were very conservative.
00:16:10.000 I said, we agree on economic policy and foreign policy, but I want you to remember the people who are not here because they don't agree.
00:16:16.000 They're political progressives.
00:16:18.000 And I want you to remember they're not stupid.
00:16:20.000 They're not evil.
00:16:21.000 They're just Americans who disagree with us on politics.
00:16:23.000 And this lady afterwards, she said, actually, they're stupid and evil.
00:16:27.000 It was actually kind of funny, but I thought to myself, that's not where I want to be because I can't make progress.
00:16:34.000 I'm in the business of persuading people so that we can get more dignity, so that people can be lifted up in their dignity and so we can explore the limitlessness of human potential that we can do.
00:16:44.000 That's what America is supposed to be all about.
00:16:47.000 That's what our culture is really.
00:16:48.000 That's why the Shapiros, who I suppose three generations ago were probably like bailing out of some godforsaken shtetl someplace and, you know, coming someplace where they could build their lives.
00:16:58.000 They wanted someplace where they had radically equal human dignity.
00:17:01.000 And the Brookses too, by the way, who are moving west one step ahead of the law.
00:17:06.000 And now look at you and me.
00:17:07.000 I mean, we actually get to sit here talking about ideas in front of hundreds of thousands or millions of people.
00:17:12.000 What a privilege.
00:17:14.000 We can't waste it.
00:17:16.000 We got to bring people in and show them the blessing that really is this country.
00:17:19.000 That's the point of your new book, which is such an important book.
00:17:22.000 - Thank you. - The blessing of what the West really can bring and how we can celebrate these ideas to lift other people up. - Well, in a second, I wanna ask you about the efficacy of contempt because I wanna ask if there's a market advantage to contempt.
00:17:34.000 We'll get to that in just one second.
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00:18:39.000 So when it comes to contempt-- Finally, he's going to talk faster than me.
00:18:42.000 Exactly.
00:18:43.000 When it comes to contempt, the fact is that there is a feeling in modern American politics that contempt is effective business.
00:18:50.000 An ounce of contempt can destroy a bevy of arguments.
00:18:55.000 And contempt for ideas particularly can help destroy a bevy of arguments.
00:19:00.000 It's shorthand.
00:19:01.000 You can just skip the argument entirely.
00:19:03.000 Or you can just completely destroy an actual idea through use of contempt.
00:19:09.000 And then by leaving that out of your arsenal, you're basically surrendering to the other side.
00:19:13.000 And I think that that's where you're seeing a lot of the passion come from on the right, particularly when you have folks who are being hit with the intersectional identity politics or group politics, being called racist, sexist, bigot, homophobes.
00:19:24.000 And they just want to say, listen, socialism is dumb.
00:19:26.000 Socialism is evil.
00:19:28.000 Are there some ideas that are so bad, in other words, that they have earned contempt even in the current contemporary debate, do you think?
00:19:33.000 There are lots of ideas that have earned contempt, to be sure, but there are no people in America who've earned contempt.
00:19:38.000 So how do we distinguish that?
00:19:39.000 Because I really want to dig in on this, because I think that we live in a time where ideas are so tied into our own identity.
00:19:44.000 And we've convinced ourselves really since the 60s that the personal is the political, and that my politics are me.
00:19:49.000 So if you and I disagree on tax rates, and then I attack your tax policy, and I say, you know, I think it's a foolish tax policy, I think it's fallen apart everywhere it's tried, then you take that as a personal affront, and now my contempt for your idea has been interpreted as contempt for you.
00:20:04.000 Is there a way around that?
00:20:05.000 There is, and there is absolutely, because the personal isn't the political.
00:20:09.000 Ideas are not people.
00:20:11.000 People have ideas and ideas can change society and they really affect people a lot.
00:20:15.000 But the most important thing is that we are autonomous individuals, that we are people, that we can generate ideas.
00:20:22.000 And until we can separate out people from ideas, we're going to continue in this really terrible cycle.
00:20:27.000 So how do we do that?
00:20:29.000 By modeling that.
00:20:30.000 This is an incredible source of power.
00:20:31.000 Now, it's much easier to go contemptuous on a particular person and to destroy a particular person.
00:20:36.000 But let's remember, it's ultimately a self-defeating proposition if we're trying to bring more people into our way of thinking.
00:20:43.000 What it does is it locks down our particular base.
00:20:46.000 And we have a president of the United States who's good at base locking.
00:20:49.000 We have his entire opposition in the Democratic Party, 57,000 people who are running for president in the Democratic ticket at this point.
00:20:56.000 All but a couple are basically using the same rhetorical techniques as President Trump.
00:21:01.000 But that's an ultimately self-defeating proposition because what you've got is warring tribes.
00:21:05.000 You're never going to actually bring people into a meaty coalition of those who share certain values such that we can make progress until you can persuade other people.
00:21:14.000 What does that take?
00:21:15.000 That takes leadership by guys like you and me.
00:21:18.000 People who actually have an audience of people out there who are listening to the way that we communicate with other people, who see us pass on the opportunity to treat other people with contempt, to vigorously assert the correctness or incorrectness of particular ideas.
00:21:31.000 I'm not saying we have to agree.
00:21:32.000 On the contrary, agreement leads to mediocrity and stagnation.
00:21:36.000 It's a kind of a monopoly.
00:21:37.000 You know, countries where everybody agrees, they go no place.
00:21:41.000 We believe in competition in markets and in politics.
00:21:44.000 It's called democracy in sports and especially the competition of ideas.
00:21:47.000 When something's wrong, you got to say it.
00:21:49.000 When something's dangerous, you have to articulate that.
00:21:52.000 But separating that out from the individual and always showing love toward the individual, that's a true source of strength.
00:21:58.000 It's hard to do.
00:21:59.000 It's hard to do.
00:22:00.000 I'm trying to do it.
00:22:01.000 That's why I wrote the book.
00:22:02.000 But when you can do that, and when I can do that, people will follow, and that's the beginning of a movement.
00:22:07.000 It seems like a lot of that is really tied down to interpersonal contact, meaning that it's much easier to have conversations with people in person, via phone, than it is over social media.
00:22:17.000 Social media seems like a machine for spinning up contempt, especially Twitter, where you've got 280 characters now to say what you've got to say, get it off your chest.
00:22:25.000 I remember there was a situation recently where I got into a little bit of an online debate with Pete Buttigieg, who's one of the guys running for president on the Democratic side, one of the 57,000.
00:22:32.000 And it started to go sideways, and at a certain point I said, why don't you just come on the Sunday special?
00:22:35.000 I'm glad we engaged.
00:22:36.000 And suddenly it was diffused because it was an actual invite.
00:22:39.000 Did he do it?
00:22:40.000 Is he going to?
00:22:41.000 He's not reached out.
00:22:41.000 I've asked him.
00:22:42.000 We'll see if he does.
00:22:43.000 I'd love to have him on.
00:22:44.000 I mean, really, we're always looking for Democrats to come on.
00:22:46.000 But they are afraid, specifically, of the kind of antipathy that they think they're going to receive.
00:22:50.000 Or maybe they just don't want to be challenged.
00:22:52.000 But I'm happy to have folks on the Democratic left on the show, for sure.
00:22:57.000 But it was that feeling of diffusing that came from, I had a name, he had a name.
00:23:01.000 You talk in the book about the culture of anonymous social media and how Counterproductive it is to the kind of anti-contempt you're looking for.
00:23:09.000 I was hoping maybe you could talk a little bit about that.
00:23:11.000 Yeah, for sure.
00:23:11.000 So I'm on social media, you're on social media, you have tons of people who are following you on social media.
00:23:15.000 And there's a real temptation when we're on social media, and you know, we're dealing with one-on-one people, we have lots of friends, we have lots of people who disagree with us.
00:23:23.000 You know, if I were to ask everybody watching us today, how many of you love somebody with whom you disagree politically?
00:23:30.000 All the hands would go up.
00:23:31.000 And that's, I mean, I hope.
00:23:32.000 I mean, practically all the hands, except for the people who are not listening or not getting out of the house enough.
00:23:37.000 And yet on social media, we de- what political scientists or what social scientists call de-individuation.
00:23:44.000 It's dehumanization.
00:23:45.000 We dehumanize ourselves by becoming anonymous.
00:23:48.000 And as such, we lower our moral standards.
00:23:50.000 I mean, we're here in the Los Angeles area.
00:23:53.000 I live in Washington, D.C., and one of the big problems that we have is people are terrible to each other in traffic.
00:23:58.000 I've got a way where I could solve that, where everybody has to put their name on a bumper sticker on the back of their car and their house of worship.
00:24:05.000 Right?
00:24:05.000 It's like, wow, I just got flipped off by, you know, Mike Smith from Our Lady of Sorrows.
00:24:09.000 I mean, it's unlikely, right?
00:24:12.000 So, you know, so the problem that we have on social media is the ultimate traffic problem, where people de-individuate themselves, they dehumanize themselves, they lower their moral standards, and they engage in behavior they don't like.
00:24:23.000 Well, then they're gearing it toward people who really are publicly putting forth their actual identity.
00:24:30.000 Ben Shapiro, Arthur Brooks.
00:24:32.000 And so the tendency is for us to say, well, that jerk.
00:24:35.000 Not only is he wrong, he's rude.
00:24:37.000 And so I'm going to come back at him.
00:24:38.000 I'm going to come back at him hard.
00:24:40.000 But in so doing, what you've done is you've taken on a phantom.
00:24:43.000 You've taken on somebody who doesn't actually exist.
00:24:45.000 So one of the things that I recommend, I mean, for the self-preservation of these social media companies, they're going to have to stop giving platforms to anonymous users.
00:24:52.000 Because little by little, people are figuring out that social media is no fun and is decrementing their happiness.
00:24:57.000 Good studies show that more hours on social media, less happiness.
00:25:00.000 And by the way, that's also true for Ben and Arthur.
00:25:03.000 Oh, yeah.
00:25:03.000 Thank God for Sabbath for me.
00:25:04.000 Yeah, for sure.
00:25:05.000 For sure.
00:25:05.000 Between Friday night and Saturday night, all of it goes off.
00:25:07.000 I know.
00:25:07.000 Maybe four days of Sabbath.
00:25:08.000 Yeah, really?
00:25:09.000 The social media is appropriate.
00:25:10.000 Really?
00:25:11.000 Yeah, so that's important.
00:25:12.000 I've had these exact conversations with my wife.
00:25:13.000 How do I minimize the number of hours that I'm actually on Twitter?
00:25:16.000 Because there is definitely an inverse proportion between the amount of time on Twitter and human happiness.
00:25:20.000 Oh, for sure.
00:25:20.000 Absolutely.
00:25:21.000 And you feel your chest tightening and, you know, people, what they don't understand is, you know, they're just some guy sitting on his sofa and he's called Bernie Bro 2020 or something.
00:25:29.000 And he goes after Ben Shapiro.
00:25:31.000 Well, you know, Ben Shapiro is a flesh and blood guy, you know, and Arthur Brooks has got actual feelings and we get used to it.
00:25:38.000 So it's kind of okay.
00:25:39.000 But in point of fact, it's a mistake for us to engage at all with people who are anonymous because you're going after people that in a very real way, in a very human way, They don't exist.
00:25:50.000 You gotta love your enemies, by which I mean people who, it turns out, weren't your enemies, but those are people.
00:25:56.000 And people who will not divulge their identities or give part of anything, anything of their humanity, anything of their story, they're saying I'm actually not a human being.
00:26:03.000 For all you know, it's a Russian Twitter bot, and so not worth engaging.
00:26:07.000 So, in your book you talk about, and we've talked a little bit here, about the gradations in terms of, you know, who's worthy of contempt.
00:26:13.000 So the Taliban, worthy of contempt.
00:26:15.000 But, you know, in the United States, the idea is that we are, while we think that we may be enemies, we're actually not enemies, we're brothers in the sort of Lincolnian formulation.
00:26:23.000 I want to ask if that's really true.
00:26:25.000 And the reason I want to ask that is because as certain people on both sides become more radical, I think right now the left is moving in a radical direction faster than the right is.
00:26:33.000 Donald Trump is actually in policy somewhat of a moderate Republican.
00:26:36.000 The left seems to be moving pretty dramatically in a far left direction, including embrace of democratic socialism.
00:26:43.000 You talk about these sort of moral values that you still think unite Americans.
00:26:47.000 What do you think those moral values are?
00:26:49.000 And are you overstating the case?
00:26:52.000 Do you think that we have more in common than we may actually have in common?
00:26:55.000 I may be overstating the case, but I want to err on that side.
00:26:58.000 Why?
00:26:58.000 Because one of the things that I've noticed is that leaders throughout history who are truly aspirational, they're not populist.
00:27:04.000 Because, you know, populism is fundamentally not leadership, it's followership.
00:27:07.000 It's basically, and you've made this point a hundred times, I stole this from Ben Shapiro, but there's a parade going down the street, a populist is a guy who says, there's a parade, I better get out in front of it, they need a leader.
00:27:16.000 Leadership is something that says there's a better future.
00:27:20.000 Can you see it?
00:27:21.000 There's a guy who teaches at Harvard Business School named Daniel Goleman.
00:27:24.000 And he talks about authoritative leadership, which is not, you must come with me.
00:27:28.000 It's not coercive.
00:27:29.000 It says, do you see a better future?
00:27:33.000 Maybe people don't want it.
00:27:34.000 But in point of fact, you have to look at the horizon.
00:27:37.000 You have to look at the moral horizon.
00:27:38.000 You have to say, this is something better.
00:27:40.000 And to hold Americans to their highest and best values.
00:27:44.000 That's a good thing to do.
00:27:45.000 Are we there?
00:27:46.000 No.
00:27:46.000 Am I there?
00:27:48.000 Not every day.
00:27:49.000 But I want to be there, and I want America to be there, and so I'm looking for what I think is kind of the moral DNA of this country.
00:27:55.000 And the moral DNA of this country unambiguously believes in the radical equality of human dignity.
00:28:01.000 Why?
00:28:01.000 Because you make this point in your new book.
00:28:03.000 Everybody's got to get this book.
00:28:05.000 Because it talks about how these Judeo-Christian values, these Western values, are a gift to the world.
00:28:12.000 People, even if they're not religious, we have a lot of people watching us who are atheists, who are secular completely, but they believe in the equality of human dignity.
00:28:19.000 Why?
00:28:19.000 Because we have a culture that's based on the idea that each one of us is made in God's image.
00:28:24.000 God is worthy of respect.
00:28:26.000 That's the essence of dignity.
00:28:28.000 And so each one of us is worthy of dignity.
00:28:30.000 That's what Americans actually believe.
00:28:32.000 Furthermore, the reason that the people came here in the first place is because we believe in the limitlessness of human potential.
00:28:39.000 So let's call Americans the dignity and potential.
00:28:42.000 Are they living up to it?
00:28:43.000 No.
00:28:43.000 Will they ever live up to it completely?
00:28:45.000 Not in my lifetime.
00:28:47.000 But I'm going to work in a social movement, in an intellectual movement, in a media movement.
00:28:52.000 I'm going to work with you.
00:28:53.000 We're going to work together to try to help Americans live up to those standards, even though we haven't hit them yet.
00:28:58.000 I mean, I certainly agree with all of that.
00:28:59.000 I wonder if there are active opponents to some of that.
00:29:01.000 And the reason I say that is because you point out Jonathan Haidt's moral matrix.
00:29:05.000 Jonathan's been on the program, Professor Haidt, and we talked about the five factors, maybe six if you include liberty, which he added later.
00:29:12.000 And you talk about how conservatives and liberals still believe in a couple of them.
00:29:17.000 Compassion and fairness.
00:29:18.000 Compassion and fairness.
00:29:19.000 But even those ones, As Professor Haidt has recognized, are seen in almost diametrically opposed ways.
00:29:25.000 So fairness for conservatives is fairness in the meritocratic sense, the idea that we all have equal rights but that the outcome is not going to be equal.
00:29:32.000 And fairness for many on the democratic side is fairness of outcome, which is directly opposed to fairness of meritocracy.
00:29:38.000 When it comes to compassion, on the right side of the aisle, the value system tends to be, well, compassion is me helping you find a job, develop a skill set, care for yourself.
00:29:46.000 And compassion on the left side of the aisle is, how do I create a system whereby you don't have to care for yourself, whereby we are caring for you?
00:29:53.000 That's real compassion.
00:29:55.000 So if that's the case, then even the most basic values, the ones that are necessary for us to be playing the same game, so to speak, Have those been radically undermined, or do you think that there are bridges that can still be built?
00:30:04.000 I think there are bridges.
00:30:05.000 And the reason is because, let's take something like fairness, where the right really does focus on meritocratic fairness.
00:30:11.000 It's, don't take something that somebody else earned.
00:30:13.000 And the left really does focus much more on redistributive fairness.
00:30:17.000 The idea of redistributing, somebody has more, somebody has less, the person who has less needs more, you take it from the person who has more.
00:30:23.000 Okay, I got it.
00:30:24.000 But that doesn't mean that you and I, who are guys on the center right or on the right, Don't believe in any redistribution.
00:30:29.000 That's wrong.
00:30:30.000 You believe that there should be a welfare state and so do I. I mean, I believe that the free enterprise system, one of the greatest accomplishments ever of the free enterprise system was our ability to support people we've never even met.
00:30:40.000 It's an incredible thing that no system in history has been able to accomplish and it's because of capitalism.
00:30:46.000 Because of the largesse that came from capitalism, and it's such a blessing.
00:30:49.000 I'm so proud of it.
00:30:50.000 And that means I believe in some amount of redistribution.
00:30:52.000 I'm just more meritocratic in that balance.
00:30:54.000 You know, I know a ton of people on the left.
00:30:56.000 I have tons of friends and family.
00:30:58.000 I mean, I used to be a musician and a college professor, and I come from Seattle, Washington, for Pete's sake.
00:31:03.000 I know a lot of people on the left.
00:31:05.000 And they don't think that merit's garbage.
00:31:08.000 They think that America's great because they want their kids to achieve, and they're kind of proud to live in a country where people can start companies and do great things.
00:31:16.000 They just, they want a little bit more redistribution.
00:31:18.000 Now, you find radicals, and when I say this, I mean that approximately, depending on how you count it, the 7% of people who are true polarizing radicals in this country who don't see any common ground.
00:31:29.000 But if 93% of us, give or take, I actually do believe that there can be some common ground, that we can work together in some way, shape, or form, that I'm going to be bridging that meritocratic redistributive divide, and I'm going to be really forgiving.
00:31:42.000 I'm going to be as generous as I possibly can to the people who don't agree quite as much with my meritocratic values, so that I can try to get some fairness that bridges that gap.
00:31:50.000 And I think it can be done.
00:31:51.000 Okay, so in a second I want to ask you where you came from because your story is really fascinating and I want people to hear how you got from French horn to what you do now.
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00:33:28.000 So, I want to ask you about your personal story, because as a person who also grew up as a classical musician, your story is pretty amazing.
00:33:33.000 I mean, you started off as a musician in Spain playing the French horn, and here you are doing public policy and data analysis.
00:33:41.000 How did you get from one place to the other?
00:33:43.000 It's not the typical path, and it's certainly not linear.
00:33:45.000 I mean, when you say, how do you become the president of a big national think tank, the answer is not, you know, play the French horn.
00:33:52.000 I started classical music when I was four years old.
00:33:56.000 This is a typical story.
00:33:56.000 I mean, you're from the arts, too.
00:33:58.000 I started violin when I was four, piano when I was five, French horn, which I was really good at, it turns out, when I was nine.
00:34:04.000 And from that moment, I wanted to be the world's greatest French horn player.
00:34:07.000 That was my real ambition.
00:34:09.000 I just grew up wanting to do this.
00:34:11.000 When I was 19, I was in college.
00:34:13.000 I spent a little less than one year in college.
00:34:16.000 It was the California Institute of the Arts, right here outside of Los Angeles, in Valencia, up in the Santa Clarita Valley.
00:34:22.000 It was a pretty unrewarding experience, I think, not just for me, but also pretty unrewarding for the institution.
00:34:27.000 And they offered me an opportunity to earn my success elsewhere.
00:34:32.000 And so I went out on the road as a professional.
00:34:35.000 I started playing chamber music all around the United States.
00:34:37.000 I did that for about seven months a year, from 19 until I was 25.
00:34:41.000 I played a couple of years with a jazz guitar player named Charlie Bird.
00:34:45.000 We had a group called Bird and Brass, which was fantastic.
00:34:47.000 And when I was 25, I got a job in the Barcelona Orchestra.
00:34:50.000 And the reason, actually, I did that, by the way, was a total startup endeavor.
00:34:54.000 I met a girl.
00:34:56.000 And I met her when I was on a tour in Europe, and she lived in Barcelona, and the only way I was going to have a bid at trying to, you know, I had to go all in.
00:35:04.000 I had to quit my job, move to a place where I never learned the language.
00:35:07.000 I'd known her for a week at this point, but, you know, I called up my dad's dad.
00:35:12.000 This gives you a little bit of insight into the warped world here.
00:35:16.000 I said, Dad, I met the girl I think I'm going to marry.
00:35:17.000 She says, great.
00:35:18.000 I said, not so great.
00:35:20.000 She doesn't live in the United States.
00:35:21.000 She doesn't speak a word of English.
00:35:22.000 And she doesn't know this.
00:35:23.000 And I don't want a restraining order.
00:35:24.000 Anyway, so I quit my job.
00:35:26.000 I moved to Spain, joined the Barcelona Orchestra.
00:35:28.000 And we're about to celebrate our 28th wedding anniversary.
00:35:31.000 OK, so it worked out.
00:35:31.000 Yeah, so it totally did.
00:35:32.000 We have three kids, two of whom are teenagers.
00:35:34.000 But I'm not here to tell you my problems.
00:35:36.000 Anyway.
00:35:38.000 As I said, they're big fans of Ben Shapiro, so that's great stuff.
00:35:42.000 But when I got to Barcelona, I thought to myself, you know, I want to do something more.
00:35:48.000 I dropped out of college.
00:35:49.000 That kind of bugged me.
00:35:50.000 I got nothing against not going to college.
00:35:52.000 All kinds of good lives can happen without going to college.
00:35:54.000 But for me, I kind of felt like I'd screwed it up and I'd failed.
00:35:57.000 So I went back and started studying by correspondence.
00:36:00.000 And I got my bachelor's degree in economics, and I had this weird epiphany.
00:36:05.000 This is why I love your new book so much because it really spoke to me.
00:36:08.000 It reminded me of this epiphany I had in my late 20s when I was studying for my bachelor's degree.
00:36:12.000 I took economics for the first time and I learned this crazy thing that 80% of the world's poverty had been eradicated since I was a kid.
00:36:21.000 I thought that hunger was worse.
00:36:23.000 I thought that the world was worse.
00:36:24.000 And furthermore, I thought capitalism was great for rich people and bad for poor people.
00:36:28.000 And I grew up in a left-wing environment, and I knew nobody who cared about economics or business, but I was learning that two billion of my brothers and sisters had been pulled out of poverty since I was a child.
00:36:40.000 And I learned That it came from five things.
00:36:43.000 Five things.
00:36:44.000 And all economists, left, right, and center, this is not controversial stuff.
00:36:47.000 This is not propaganda.
00:36:49.000 Five things pulled two billion of Ben and Arthur's brothers and sisters out of poverty since 1970.
00:36:53.000 It was globalization, free trade, property rights, the rule of law, and the culture of free enterprise spreading from America all around the world.
00:37:03.000 And I thought, huh.
00:37:05.000 You know, my favorite composer in those days was Johann Sebastian Bach.
00:37:09.000 You know, the greatest composer who ever lived.
00:37:10.000 And he was asked, near the end of his life, why do you write music?
00:37:14.000 His answer was, the aim and final end of all music is nothing less than the glorification of God and the refreshment of the soul.
00:37:20.000 And I thought to myself, how can I answer like Bach?
00:37:25.000 I wasn't answering like Bach as a French horn player in the orchestra.
00:37:28.000 I thought, I want to do something that glorifies God and that refreshes the lives of other people.
00:37:34.000 And I became an economist.
00:37:37.000 From the sublime to the dismal, man.
00:37:40.000 Bach made me into an economist.
00:37:41.000 And then I got my PhD.
00:37:43.000 I taught for 10 years.
00:37:44.000 And then I became president of the greatest think tank in the world, the American Enterprise Institute, where people fight every day for dignity, for potential, and who believe that the free enterprise system is America's gift to the world.
00:37:55.000 But in an artistic way, because the fact is that, unlike most economists, you're a story-driven person.
00:37:59.000 You talk about this in Love Your Enemies.
00:38:01.000 The idea that story is really what connects us, and while you can know all the stats that you want to know, in the end, what's really going to allow you to connect to other people is the ability to identify with them on a one-to-one level.
00:38:11.000 Absolutely.
00:38:12.000 The truth is, it's funny.
00:38:14.000 When you're trained as an economist, you start believing that the force of your arguments is going to win people over.
00:38:19.000 And I wish it did, but I lost arguments for 15 years.
00:38:23.000 People would talk to me about the minimum wage.
00:38:25.000 And I would say, "Don't you understand supply and demand "and you're raising the cost of labor?" And people would say, "You're just a hard-hearted something, something.
00:38:34.000 "And you just wanna put more dollars "in the CEO of Walmart's pocket or something." And I thought, "No," until I realized I needed to tell a human story.
00:38:43.000 Look, I mean, the people who really want to fight for a higher minimum wage, God bless them, they have a really good intention.
00:38:49.000 You know, there was a long time when people on the political left weren't fighting to make work pay.
00:38:54.000 And people who want a higher minimum wage, they're fighting to make work pay.
00:38:58.000 That's a really good objective, until I finally had enough generosity to say, that's an excellent objective.
00:39:04.000 I completely agree with that, because work brings purpose.
00:39:06.000 Work brings meaning.
00:39:07.000 You've had Mike Rowe on your show.
00:39:09.000 Work brings dignity in every single job.
00:39:11.000 Every single job is a blessing and it's good.
00:39:13.000 There's no debt in jobs, right?
00:39:14.000 So, okay, so I really respect that particular objective of the people who want to increase the minimum wage.
00:39:20.000 They're just worried about the ability of people at the minimum wage to be able to support themselves and their families.
00:39:25.000 I'm worried about that, too.
00:39:27.000 So let's talk about a better way to get it done that doesn't imperil the people at the very bottom of the wage ladder to keep their jobs.
00:39:34.000 Let's find better policies, and let's find more open economic systems.
00:39:38.000 Let's share the objective, and let's differ.
00:39:41.000 Let's have a competition of ideas about the way to actually meet that objective.
00:39:44.000 That story's about real people, and that's rocked my world, man.
00:39:48.000 That's completely changed my work.
00:39:50.000 Well, you talk a lot in the book, at least in the beginning, about the 2016 election, what you think happened there, what drove the president, because Trump breaks a lot of these rules, right?
00:39:57.000 President Trump is a master of the use of contempt.
00:39:59.000 It drips from everything that he says.
00:40:02.000 He can be vicious and brutal and very effective in his political warfare.
00:40:06.000 And you talk specifically about sort of a group of folks who you believe felt dispossessed by current politics and were looking for a leader to kind of restore a feeling for them.
00:40:14.000 And you specifically are talking about Yeah, that's a great question.
00:40:17.000 Something that I've contemplated a lot.
00:40:19.000 What did I get wrong?
00:40:19.000 is with non-college educated white males.
00:40:21.000 And it seems like if you're anti-contempt, what do people across the spectrum, including this group of people, need to think about?
00:40:27.000 Yeah, that's a great question.
00:40:28.000 Something that I've contemplated a lot.
00:40:29.000 What did I get wrong?
00:40:31.000 And I know that you're not this huge fan of President Trump, yet we're both trying to understand the dynamics of what's going on in the United States so that we can help our country.
00:40:38.000 You know, the people on the left have always said there's this income gap.
00:40:42.000 And people on the right have always said there's an opportunity gap.
00:40:45.000 And both things factually exist.
00:40:47.000 But the real thing that we missed was the dignity gap in this country.
00:40:50.000 You know, ever since the beginning of the war on poverty, which did amazing things in raising the standard of living.
00:40:55.000 I mean, if you go into the poorest places in the United States, you don't have a calorie deficit.
00:40:58.000 Everybody's got running water.
00:41:00.000 You know, they have enough space to live in.
00:41:02.000 But the truth of the matter is that it's basically that that system in our culture has said to poor people, We don't need you.
00:41:08.000 The basis of dignity is to be needed, to be needed by your family, to be needed by your community, and indirectly to be needed by the economy.
00:41:16.000 We forgot that.
00:41:16.000 We've been moving away from that for a long time.
00:41:18.000 That was exploded, that was exacerbated massively by the financial crisis of 2008.
00:41:23.000 And people who were in positions of authority and power, they didn't seem to understand that there was a dignity gap.
00:41:29.000 And when people feel that they are not needed, man, they're going to fight back.
00:41:33.000 They want somebody who's going to fight for them.
00:41:35.000 You know, Donald Trump, his ideas may have been good, they might have been bad.
00:41:39.000 His ideas about, you know, I'm standing in front of a coal mine or a steel plant saying I'm going to open this thing back up, you might have said, that's a bunch of claptrap, that's not right.
00:41:48.000 But finally, somebody was fighting for people who felt that their dignity had been attenuated.
00:41:54.000 So what are we gonna do about that?
00:41:56.000 I mean, if Donald Trump as a coercive leader is ultimately not successful in his bid, I mean, look, he's got the best economy in decades and his popularity isn't very high.
00:42:03.000 I'm not gonna say, I'm not a political prognosticator.
00:42:05.000 I'm not a meteorologist in the weather of politics.
00:42:09.000 And I don't know what's gonna happen, but whether he's successful or not successful, we have to take a lesson about dignity from this.
00:42:16.000 And that comes from making every single person needed.
00:42:19.000 You want a good policy?
00:42:20.000 It makes people more needed.
00:42:21.000 You want a terrible policy?
00:42:23.000 It makes people less needed.
00:42:24.000 Less needed to their families, which is to say that it splits families apart, it creates incentives for that.
00:42:29.000 Less needed in their communities by fragmenting our communities.
00:42:33.000 And most importantly, in the case that we've seen over the past 10 years, unnecessary to the economy by creating incentives for idleness, by making it harder to find jobs.
00:42:42.000 This is the oracle on how to bring dignity back and how to fix this situation for the United States.
00:42:47.000 This is such a fascinating debate to me, because what I've seen is that there's sort of this continuum when it comes to the dignity gap and the power of work, ranging from Tucker Carlson on sort of the populist, I would almost say, left, to Orrin Cass, who's somewhere in the middle.
00:43:01.000 Did you just say that Tucker Carlson's on the populist left?
00:43:03.000 I mean, he sat in the chair that you're currently sitting in, and he legitimately said that he would outlaw self-driving cars in order to preserve Yeah.
00:43:13.000 for people who are driving trucks, for example.
00:43:14.000 And he's been—he's spoken in his book, his new book, he talks a lot about regulation of the economy, specifically in order to prevent technological progress, because he believes that they're a group of people who are going to be put out of work by that technological progress.
00:43:28.000 That policy is almost indistinguishable in certain ways from Bernie Sanders' policy.
00:43:31.000 And so when it comes to Tucker on cultural issues, he's of the populist right— When it comes to issues of economics and regulation, he's in many ways closer to the populist left.
00:43:41.000 It's kind of fascinating.
00:43:42.000 Then you have folks like Orncaste, who are kind of in the populist middle right, who have suggested regulatory reform, but he's also suggested the idea of a certain amount of redistributionism.
00:43:53.000 Where do you fall along these lines?
00:43:55.000 I mean, how do we cure this problem?
00:43:57.000 Because it seems to me that If we feel we're in a transformative moment, if we feel that we're in a moment where technology is obviating an enormous number of jobs for people who don't graduate from college, then is the solution to that redistributionism?
00:44:13.000 Is the solution to that regulation?
00:44:15.000 Or is the solution to that maybe something else, which is, for the first time in a long time, returning to finding meaning in something other than simply going to a factory and doing a job?
00:44:23.000 Okay, so this is – I'm not a populist.
00:44:25.000 I'm not trying to rhyme here.
00:44:27.000 I'm an optimist.
00:44:28.000 I'm an optimist about what can actually happen in this country.
00:44:30.000 Look, we've had wave after wave of technological change.
00:44:34.000 We've had wave after wave of the way that jobs are sorted, the way that they break up, the way that they're reformulated.
00:44:40.000 And one thing I'm just not willing to accept is that people actually can't see labor markets and skills in new ways.
00:44:46.000 This is America.
00:44:47.000 I mean, the whole idea that somehow it's either no skills and desperation and trying to, you know, hit the brakes on technology so that self-driving cars are somehow illegal or you have to go to college.
00:44:58.000 Those are, that's an insane dichotomy as far as I'm concerned.
00:45:00.000 The truth is we've lacked imagination in this country because we have a completely screwed up educational system.
00:45:05.000 We have an educational system that is great at serving guys like Ben and Arthur, and it's really, really bad at serving people who have all kinds of visuospatial skills.
00:45:14.000 You know, it's crazy that our standardized testing in this country looks at verbal and quantitative, but doesn't look at visuospatial skills.
00:45:21.000 Look, I got a kid.
00:45:22.000 I have a teenage kid.
00:45:23.000 He's turning 19 this year.
00:45:24.000 His name is Carlos.
00:45:26.000 He loves you.
00:45:27.000 He's watching this right now.
00:45:29.000 Carlos graduated from high school.
00:45:30.000 He didn't want to go to college.
00:45:31.000 He wanted to go to work.
00:45:33.000 So he went to work on a farm in Idaho, and he is thriving.
00:45:36.000 He's getting up at 5 o'clock in the morning during harvest.
00:45:38.000 He's driving a $500,000 Combine.
00:45:41.000 He's doing stuff that I can't even imagine.
00:45:43.000 It amazes me.
00:45:44.000 I'm so proud of him.
00:45:46.000 I'm his dad.
00:45:46.000 I could kind of help him make his way so that he could earn his own success.
00:45:51.000 But not everybody is in a family where those opportunities exist.
00:45:54.000 Why don't we have a country that has the imagination to say that not everybody is cut from the same mold?
00:45:59.000 That if you don't go to college you're somehow a loser.
00:46:01.000 That's nuts.
00:46:03.000 What we need to actually do is to beef up the vocational and technical education system in this country so it's just as important as going to college.
00:46:09.000 We need an apprenticeship system that we could experiment with at state and local level.
00:46:14.000 There's all kinds of policy solutions to this, but the cultural question is the biggest one of all, which is actual respect and dignity that goes to people who don't have college educations because they have so much to bring.
00:46:24.000 Look, here's the key stat.
00:46:26.000 Three million people are going to be thrown out of jobs when we have self-driving cars, but we have seven million unfilled jobs in this country today.
00:46:33.000 Look, I go to places in eastern Kentucky.
00:46:36.000 We just shot this documentary film, partly in a place called Inez, Kentucky, where President Johnson kicked off the war on poverty, and you see unemployed people next to unfilled jobs.
00:46:46.000 I talk to people in manufacturing all the time who they can't find workers.
00:46:50.000 What's up with that?
00:46:51.000 That's not because we have too much technology.
00:46:54.000 It's not because we have to make it illegal to innovate.
00:46:56.000 It doesn't matter how much you make it illegal.
00:46:59.000 It's going to happen one way or the other.
00:47:01.000 We have to embrace it and we have to skill up and we need an educational system that treats people with equal dignity whether they go to Harvard or not.
00:47:10.000 And this is one of the areas where I really think that it gets into uncomfortable tension because a lot of folks in conservative and leftist circle, liberal circles, they focus a lot on what the government can do to make these things happen.
00:47:24.000 And it seems to me the vast majority of this stuff has to be done through social fabric.
00:47:27.000 When I say social fabric half the time, I think I'm using a euphemism for religious community, because the truth is that there are a couple of factors that I think were here three generations ago that are no longer here.
00:47:37.000 One of them is the belief that there's a community that is larger than you, that is going to help take care of you if, God forbid, something happens to you, and government has been used as a substitute for that.
00:47:45.000 And the other is that you know that that community exists not just in your city, meaning that When I was talking to Tucker, and I thought it was a fascinating conversation, because Tucker took the position that you should never have to move from your hometown.
00:47:56.000 He said, should you really have to move from the place where your grandparents are buried?
00:47:58.000 And I said, well, you know, there is this biblical call to Abraham, and just in the Joseph Campbell hero's journey, every journey starts with somebody calling you to adventure.
00:48:07.000 So America was always about that call to adventure.
00:48:09.000 But the call to adventure exists largely because I, as a Jew, I can pick up and I can move to anywhere I know that there's a Jewish community and I can walk into somebody's house and I know that they're going to be able to take care of me and they're going to help me out because we share a certain fundamental fabric together.
00:48:24.000 And I think that it's broader than my social community, my Jewish community.
00:48:27.000 I think that it extends also to many religious Christians.
00:48:29.000 I think that it extends to conservatives.
00:48:31.000 But in the absence of that social fabric, I think it's going to be very difficult to build the sense of comfort that you can move somewhere and start anew.
00:48:39.000 How do we rebuild some of these key components?
00:48:40.000 Because we live in a time when people have the greatest ease of travel we've ever had in human history, when, as you say, there are lots of jobs available to people who want them, and people are not moving, when there's this almost feeling of malaise, to use a Carter phrase, that is set over the country, where we feel like we're in a dying community, and if we tell people to pick up and move from those communities, that's a political loser.
00:49:03.000 Right.
00:49:03.000 Telling people to pick up and move from those communities, if you tell people, the best decision you can make is to Graduate high school and then get any job that you can possibly get and don't have a baby out of wedlock.
00:49:13.000 This is considered by a lot of folks in American politics to be discriminatory and terrible.
00:49:16.000 Right.
00:49:17.000 And, you know, for those of us who are kind of freedom-based folks, like, the personal decisions come first.
00:49:23.000 I wonder if there's a fundamental disconnect about the picture of the country itself that is going to be difficult to bridge.
00:49:28.000 Yeah, it's really tricky.
00:49:29.000 One of the things that we've forgotten, both on the political right and the political left, I mean, the political right has become pretty libertarian over the past few—and I've got nothing against my friends who are libertarians, but you've got to remember that that stuff does not work unless the fundamental moral code is existing underneath it.
00:49:45.000 I mean, morals come before markets.
00:49:48.000 Adam Smith wrote The Wealth of Nations 17 years after the theory of moral sentiments.
00:49:53.000 I mean, he believed that we're not dignified, we can't handle a market system unless we actually have our morals together, that we understand and serve each other, that we have a concept of a greater purpose.
00:50:04.000 That's the reason he thought that The Theory of Moral Sentiments was a better book, a more important book than The Wealth of Nations.
00:50:09.000 He went back to it at the end of his life and worked on it.
00:50:11.000 You know, what we've forgotten in this country, on the political right and left, but especially on the political right, is we're all wealthy nations, no theory of moral sentiments.
00:50:20.000 We have to remember that none of this stuff works.
00:50:22.000 I mean, you know, capitalism is a machine.
00:50:24.000 It's a good machine.
00:50:25.000 It's a great machine.
00:50:26.000 It's the best machine for pulling people out of poverty in the history of mankind.
00:50:31.000 But like any other machine, it can be used for, you know, malpurposes.
00:50:36.000 It's like a car.
00:50:37.000 You can drive it to work and support your family, or you can get drunk and drive it into your neighbor's living room and run over them while they're watching television and hurt them.
00:50:46.000 Capitalism actually requires morals, and this is the thing that we have to remember.
00:50:49.000 So therefore, what I would like to encourage people who are watching us to remember is that in America, in an entrepreneurship-based society, we're not just looking for the next innovation that's going to make us richer.
00:51:00.000 We have to be looking for the resurgence of our ideas through social entrepreneurship that will bring our culture back.
00:51:06.000 What really great entrepreneurs should be doing, spiritual entrepreneurs, cultural entrepreneurs, people that are thinking about what the gears should be for a really great America.
00:51:16.000 And by that, I don't mean a richer America, just a more prosperous America.
00:51:19.000 I mean a healthier country where we're happier and where people want to live and people want to raise their kids, where people have a greater sense of adventure, where they have a greater sense of community.
00:51:28.000 That requires the best minds watching us right now to think about themselves as the entrepreneurs that are going to truly bring the country back.
00:51:35.000 That does not necessarily mean developing an app.
00:51:38.000 What that means is developing a congregation, maybe, and that's the kind of entrepreneurship.
00:51:43.000 Man, if we got back to that idea, that, by the way, is the entrepreneurship that made America what it is today, between the Civil War and the First World War.
00:51:50.000 That's the self-improvement and the tent revival and the temperance and the abolitionist spirits that went into the social entrepreneurship.
00:51:59.000 That made it into a congenial environment that drew your great grandparents here.
00:52:04.000 That's why they're not in some town in Ukraine.
00:52:06.000 That's why they are in the United States.
00:52:07.000 And if we want to give people the courage, we have to create the ecosystem that will inspire their courage.
00:52:13.000 If we want them to get a U-Haul, instead of just being depressed about what's going on, we have to create an environment where they have that kind of confidence.
00:52:22.000 Just the kind of confidence that you're talking about.
00:52:24.000 And that requires the innovative spirit, the frontier spirit, that we've kind of lost in this country and we've got to get back.
00:52:31.000 So I want to ask you a base political question because we haven't done any base politics at this point.
00:52:34.000 So I want to ask you, you talk about the distinction between conservative and libertarian and how much of a social welfare state there should be.
00:52:41.000 What is your ideal?
00:52:42.000 What do you think should the social welfare state look like?
00:52:44.000 And full disclosure, I tend toward the more libertarian on this.
00:52:47.000 My view is that You know, the vast majority of social welfare should be done at the non-governmental level by religious communities, ideally.
00:52:53.000 And then if there are people who fall through the cracks, that's where local government comes in, then state government, then federal government.
00:52:58.000 But you talk about sort of the certain levers that you think that we can tweak in social welfare.
00:53:03.000 Where do you see the ideal social welfare state being?
00:53:06.000 What do you think that that level looks like?
00:53:08.000 I mean, I could probably put dollar figures on it.
00:53:10.000 We could kind of go through the spreadsheets on it.
00:53:11.000 That's what we do.
00:53:12.000 That's why God created the American Enterprise Institute, is actually to come up with dollar figures on this.
00:53:16.000 But as a philosophical principle, I have pretty solid libertarian roots like you do, but they're more morally based than practically based.
00:53:25.000 I'm not really that concerned about how much it costs.
00:53:28.000 What I'm concerned about is the deleterious spillovers that happen to people at the margins of our society.
00:53:33.000 And so the key thing for me is using our policy ideas, using our intellect, using the blessings that we've got on behalf of people with less power than Ben and Arthur.
00:53:42.000 That's my view.
00:53:43.000 I mean, I'm very Catholic, you know, in this way.
00:53:47.000 But by the way, where did I get these ideas?
00:53:49.000 We got these ideas from the Jews.
00:53:51.000 You know, this idea that we exist such that we can help people with less power than we have, that can mean a lot of different things.
00:53:57.000 I don't care that much about the money.
00:53:59.000 I mean, I realize that you run out of other people's money sooner or later.
00:54:03.000 What I worry about is the extent to which we've designed programs that demobilize people, that hurt people, that marginalize people and leave them desperate.
00:54:11.000 One of my colleagues, Charles Murray, who wrote Losing Ground in 1984, he pointed this out.
00:54:15.000 The problem with the welfare system is not how much it costs.
00:54:17.000 It's that it harms the people it's supposed to help, and that's the fundamental problem.
00:54:22.000 So my libertarianism, to the extent that we can call it that, is based on that.
00:54:26.000 For the principles, how much it costs, then we're actually getting into accounting.
00:54:31.000 What actually works?
00:54:33.000 Well, what works, the criterion for what works, is does it make people more needed or does it make people less needed?
00:54:39.000 And welfare programs from April 23, 1964 when Lyndon Johnson went to Inez, Kentucky until today have been making people less needed, more comfortable and less needed.
00:54:51.000 And that's the big scandal of that.
00:54:53.000 I'm willing to spend tons of money.
00:54:55.000 I'm absolutely willing to spend actually what it takes if we have a welfare system that will enhance the necessity of people and as such to build up their dignity.
00:55:04.000 And we're not there yet.
00:55:05.000 Okay, so at the very end of your book, Love Your Enemies, you give a bunch of tips for people how to actually get beyond your own feelings about this.
00:55:12.000 As I say, there's a concept in Judaism called Musar, and Musar is the idea basically of people trying to convince you to be better at being a human being.
00:55:21.000 And I took this as a work of Musar.
00:55:22.000 I'm reading it and I'm thinking to myself, okay, how can I do better?
00:55:25.000 So what are some of your tips for folks to help love their enemies, to help get beyond ego?
00:55:30.000 Because a lot of it is about ego submission, about saying like, you know what?
00:55:33.000 Contempt would be the easy response here.
00:55:35.000 I'll take the hit and I'm going to try and love you anyway.
00:55:37.000 Yeah.
00:55:37.000 To begin with, the most important thing to keep in mind is that when somebody treats you with contempt, you have to see it as an opportunity.
00:55:44.000 And this is a real mindset shift.
00:55:46.000 I learned this from our friends, the Latter-day Saints, previously known as the Mormons.
00:55:51.000 I mean, and you know, they would, they all go on missions and it's amazing.
00:55:54.000 It's like, man, how do you deal with the rejection?
00:55:57.000 I mean, because, you know, people are not like, oh boy, Mormon's on the porch.
00:56:02.000 Pretend we're not home!
00:56:03.000 I mean, it's very tough psychologically to say, no, no, you understand.
00:56:07.000 Every time that there is some rejection, that's an opportunity for us to react to the rejection in such a way that people are inherently morally attracted to it.
00:56:15.000 So the first thing to keep in mind is that we have mastery over ourselves.
00:56:19.000 This is the blessing.
00:56:20.000 You know, when we're creating God's image, we're actually able to extend the time between stimulus and response.
00:56:27.000 You know, you're stimulated.
00:56:29.000 If you're treated with contempt and you answer just like that with contempt, then the time between stimulus and response has been minimized because you're not the master of yourself.
00:56:38.000 You can make the decision to answer with contempt, but typically we don't.
00:56:44.000 So what we need to do is to take that time and say, huh, I was just treated with contempt.
00:56:48.000 It's a big opportunity.
00:56:49.000 That's a big opportunity to answer somebody with kindness.
00:56:51.000 And in so doing, somebody is going to see it.
00:56:53.000 It's going to change my heart.
00:56:54.000 And I'm never going to go away saying, you know what?
00:56:57.000 I wish I would have been more of a jerk.
00:57:00.000 That's not what, so that's principle number one.
00:57:02.000 Now principle number two is rebellion.
00:57:05.000 And you know, it's funny, it's one of the things that I, I take a lot of my writing and a lot of my thinking from Saul Alinsky actually.
00:57:12.000 He was a very clever guy.
00:57:14.000 His politics were all messed up as far as I'm concerned.
00:57:17.000 He was wrong on most things, but he was really good on communication.
00:57:20.000 And he's very clever in a lot of ways.
00:57:23.000 And one of the things that he did, and a lot of things that people on the political left have done from time immemorial, is to stand up to the man, is to have a sense of the man.
00:57:32.000 Well, we need to do that right now too.
00:57:34.000 I mean, again, not to treat anybody with contempt, even the man, but to remember that 7% of Americans are profiting from the current environment.
00:57:42.000 Now, I say this with appropriate humility because sometimes it's been me.
00:57:48.000 And I don't want it to be me, and that's why I've written the book, and that's why we're having this conversation, and that's why I'm so grateful that we get to talk about it, because we haven't been perfect, but we want to be better.
00:57:56.000 93% of Americans want to be better.
00:57:59.000 They don't want the current climate of contempt.
00:58:01.000 All the people who are unrepentant about this, who are getting rich and powerful and famous and getting clicks and making money and getting elected to office, that 7%, we need to Leave them behind.
00:58:12.000 I mean, it's time for us to turn that off and to think about what we can actually do to lift other people up.
00:58:19.000 And here's the third one.
00:58:20.000 Here's the third one.
00:58:21.000 Here's the one that's really capturing my imagination.
00:58:24.000 We have to go where we're not invited and say things that people don't expect.
00:58:28.000 That's the sort of the missionary spirit.
00:58:30.000 That's why I admire you.
00:58:32.000 You're unafraid.
00:58:34.000 And you go places where, I mean, technically you're invited by the College Republicans, but you're not invited.
00:58:42.000 I mean, let's be honest, when you're going on to a lot of these college campuses, there's a hostile environment.
00:58:46.000 And the truth is they don't understand you.
00:58:48.000 I mean, I've heard your message for years.
00:58:50.000 You're not coming in a spirit of hostility and contempt.
00:58:53.000 On the contrary, you're talking about big issues and you're trying to explain things in coherent terms.
00:58:59.000 And you represent something.
00:59:00.000 We're all kind of, these days in modern American polarized politics, we're just avatars for something else, right?
00:59:06.000 But you're not invited, but you're going anyway, and you're going in a spirit of adventure, and you're always happy.
00:59:12.000 I can tell.
00:59:12.000 I enjoy it.
00:59:14.000 It's fun, yeah.
00:59:14.000 Of course you do.
00:59:15.000 And look, I write about happiness.
00:59:16.000 I know the tells.
00:59:17.000 I can tell that you're happy to be there.
00:59:18.000 That's a really, really good thing.
00:59:20.000 What we need more is people who have this Spirit of the missionary.
00:59:24.000 They want to be there, even though they haven't been invited.
00:59:26.000 And they're going to say things that people don't expect.
00:59:28.000 Not more hostile, not more outrageous than people expected, but more loving.
00:59:33.000 And not agreeing, but more loving than people expected.
00:59:35.000 And I'll leave you with this one image that's really stuck with me lately.
00:59:40.000 And I closed the book with this, because it had such a big impact on me.
00:59:43.000 My wife and I, we do marriage prep.
00:59:46.000 We teach marriage prep for 25 or 30 couples every couple of months in a Catholic retreat center near our home.
00:59:52.000 And it's really super inspirational, because these guys are in it.
00:59:55.000 They're going to get married for the rest of their lives, till death do us part.
00:59:58.000 And we're just given a little bit of our wisdom, because we've been doing it for a long time.
01:00:02.000 And we were in this chapel at this marriage retreat center.
01:00:06.000 And I noticed a sign over the door, but not a sign when you're going in.
01:00:10.000 It's a sign for people who are in the chapel going out into the parking lot.
01:00:14.000 It's the last thing you see when you leave this chapel.
01:00:16.000 And it said, you are now entering mission territory.
01:00:19.000 I thought to myself, that's not a religious message necessarily.
01:00:23.000 That's Ben and Arthur and our public ministry.
01:00:26.000 Look, we have one life.
01:00:28.000 We have one career.
01:00:29.000 We have one set of opportunities to get out there and spread what's right and true.
01:00:34.000 Your book does this.
01:00:36.000 Your book actually says, this is a gift, share the gift.
01:00:39.000 If I were to summarize, because I got to read the book before anybody watching got to read the book, right?
01:00:44.000 That this is our gift and we get to share it, embrace it with love and happiness and with affection and with positivity.
01:00:51.000 That's, as far as I'm concerned, that's the point of your book.
01:00:54.000 That's what we can do with our public ministry and all the things that we talk about as well.
01:00:59.000 Get out there.
01:00:59.000 Remember that when you go out of the house and you're talking to friends and you're talking to people who disagree with you, you're in mission territory.
01:01:07.000 Don't mess it up.
01:01:08.000 Nobody kicks down the door and threatens somebody unless they join the church.
01:01:12.000 They try to make it beautiful, and they try to make it good.
01:01:15.000 And that's what we can, that's what I can certainly be better at, and that's what I'm dedicating the rest of my life to doing.
01:01:19.000 So, I have to ask you, because you famously, you've been a famous vegan for a long time.
01:01:24.000 How did the vegan, I have to ask you this because I've been getting this question more and more on college campuses, and I really do think that in a hundred years when there are actual appropriate meat alternatives for children, this is going to be one of those areas where in a hundred years people are going to look back and say, you used to kill animals for food.
01:01:37.000 To raise them?
01:01:38.000 To kill them?
01:01:39.000 That's insane!
01:01:40.000 How did you become vegan?
01:01:41.000 How did that happen?
01:01:42.000 My wife.
01:01:43.000 So my wife is always, I mean, all good things in my life come from my wife.
01:01:46.000 I mean, it's, you know, everything I've learned about love, everything I've learned about my Catholic faith, all that stuff comes from my wife.
01:01:52.000 And my wife experiments with different diets from time to time.
01:01:55.000 And I have to say, it always kind of bothered me.
01:01:57.000 I mean, eating, and again, I'm not, you know, I'm gonna get a ton of email from this.
01:02:01.000 Oh no, I get it too.
01:02:02.000 I've expressed some warmth toward veganism, yeah.
01:02:04.000 There's going to be some at me.
01:02:05.000 And I'm not saying that nobody should eat meat and that people shouldn't raise animals and people shouldn't.
01:02:11.000 I mean, fine.
01:02:12.000 But for me, I felt more comfortable getting my sources of protein and getting my nutrition from plant sources for a bunch of different reasons, both health and ethical reasons.
01:02:23.000 And so I tried it.
01:02:23.000 And I got to tell you, man, I feel great.
01:02:25.000 I feel great all the time.
01:02:27.000 I mean, it's weird.
01:02:27.000 I'm 54 years old.
01:02:28.000 I feel better than I did when I was 24 years old.
01:02:31.000 And part of the reason is because I'm living.
01:02:32.000 I was a musician then.
01:02:34.000 Suffice it to say, I'm living a healthier lifestyle.
01:02:37.000 You know, the pack of cigarettes not there, that's good too, you know, among other things.
01:02:41.000 But I find that I feel like I'm in my 20s.
01:02:44.000 I feel great all the time.
01:02:46.000 It has something to do with my diet and my exercise.
01:02:49.000 And I recommend it to anybody who wants to try it.
01:02:51.000 I think it's really good.
01:02:52.000 I would recommend it to you.
01:02:53.000 At least try it for a month.
01:02:55.000 You'll be the two guys on the right who are vegans.
01:02:57.000 I know, and then we'll immediately lose our jobs and be...
01:03:02.000 So I have one more question for you.
01:03:03.000 I want to ask you, where are you going next?
01:03:04.000 Because you were at AEI and now you're moving on.
01:03:07.000 I want to ask about that first.
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01:03:17.000 The book itself is amazing.
01:03:18.000 You should go buy it.
01:03:19.000 Love Your Enemies by Arthur Brooks.
01:03:20.000 Thanks so much for stopping by.
01:03:21.000 I really appreciate your time.
01:03:22.000 Thank you, Ben.
01:03:23.000 Thank you, Ben.
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