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00:04:06.000No, I wouldn't say that because I have some friends who are still not married and don't have kids and they're conservative and they're finding it hard to find a mate.
00:04:15.000But if you're saying traditionally speaking, like the women who don't have kids are more left leaning because they choose not to have kids, that's a whole different topic.
00:04:34.000But also, too, you have to understand, and that also goes back to how'd you know it was time to get married?
00:04:40.000Understanding your biblical role as a wife and a mother, and knowing that you're ready to step into that motherhood, that being a wife, and that type of era of your life, if you will.
00:04:54.000Here's a good one What traits should conservative women be looking for in men, and vice versa?
00:05:07.000I was going to go off one of the questions that talked about the apps, but I think women for looking for their future spouse need to hone in on the fact is he going to lead you closer to Christ or further away?0.50
00:05:28.000Make sure that you are not looking for a man who.
00:05:33.000Or, you know, the men that are just grabbing the low hanging fruit, meaning on the apps.
00:05:40.000Women get upset when they go on a date with a guy they found on an app and all of a sudden they ghost them, or all of a sudden they're just not communicating with them anymore.
00:05:49.000To me, it's because the guy didn't have to hunt for them.0.55
00:05:53.000Not saying they have to hunt for a woman, but they do have to seek out a wife.
00:05:57.000And since they didn't have to, they made it so easy on an app to just press a button, it's just a number.
00:06:04.000In their head, like you want to be so much more than I'm not saying apps are bad, I mean, they're not the greatest thing.
00:06:10.000I've had friends who did find their significant other on an app, but the likelihood it's like the lottery the likelihood of you finding your future husband or wife on an app is a lot less likely to happen.
00:06:23.000So, that to say, I'm so blessed, it's so hard because I literally won the jackpot with my husband, vice versa.
00:06:37.000I will say women should look for men that have self control and men should look for women that are willing to submit, which is basically a non feminist woman.0.99
00:06:58.000Marriage in the right context is so beautiful because your husband will give up anything and everything for you in a healthy manner, but they will literally love you.
00:07:09.000And honor you and cherish you above all, and put all the noise aside and focus on wife, children, family.
00:07:19.000Daisy says there were quite a number of questions on submission.
00:07:43.000I love that you are such a you are so intentional with your faith and you are so intentional with just how you are as a father and a husband.
00:07:55.000But as a wife, I am to quote unquote submit to you, which is a beautiful word, by the way, because that's the order of how it's supposed to go.
00:08:44.000We're talking about the beautiful, beautiful, sacred marriage of when you are at the altar, you become one with your spouse.
00:08:53.000And the problem is, is that I feel as if some women, after they have children, they lose that fire that they got.
00:09:01.000At the altar, that fiery spirit of this is the man I've been praying for.
00:09:06.000And they get burned out because of the kids or because of circumstances.
00:09:11.000And then it's like, submitting to my husband, that sounds exhausting.
00:09:15.000It's supposed to be liberating, it's supposed to be freeing.
00:09:17.000You are in charge of what you're in charge of.
00:09:19.000Your husband's in charge of what he's in charge of.
00:09:21.000And it's supposed to be a beautiful marriage of a teamwork and symbolic within biblical marriage and symbolic within how God and Jesus and everything.
00:09:34.000Your whole faith is supposed to operate.
00:10:02.000Yes, submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.
00:10:04.000This submits that both husbands and wives are called to serve and prioritize each other's needs.0.50
00:10:09.000Do you think that most women struggle with it because of a kind of feminist mentality that has seeped in?
00:10:18.000Yeah, because I feel as if Christianity in itself has become semi feminized from the standpoint of, I know we've talked about this before, you know, the Pinterest Christianity with the little flowers all over the beautiful scripted font and like making the Bible.0.52
00:10:43.000It's a beautiful, beautiful, not even a story.
00:10:49.000I mean, it is a story, but it's a beautiful book on how to live your life.
00:10:54.000And it has nothing to do with being feminine or being masculine.
00:10:58.000It's all about Jesus, it's all about God.
00:11:00.000It always leads you back to God and always leads you back to how you're supposed to live your life biblically.0.98
00:11:06.000But yeah, women, I think, are offended by that because they feel as if it makes them lesser.1.00
00:11:14.000Than they are, which it makes them feel like they don't have the choice or the voice that they need to have in order to be quote unquote liberated.
00:11:21.000But that's the exact opposite when you're in a biblical marriage, you are supported and you're loved, and your viewpoint is just as important.
00:11:30.000But you have to let your husband lead.0.65
00:11:35.000How much are life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness worth to you?
00:11:40.000This is the question America's founders had to answer.
00:11:43.000You see, for more than 150 years, America's 13 colonies governed themselves until.
00:11:49.000Britain declared they had no right to self rule.
00:11:51.000So, ordinary people had to make extraordinary choices and risk their lives, their fortunes, and their sacred honor to fight for independence.
00:12:01.000And in victory, they built one of the most stable and lasting republics in human history.
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00:13:20.000Do you hear a lot of struggle with that topic of submission from women you talk to?
00:13:28.000Yes, from the women who are not strong Christians, who are just more of in the world trying to figure out and navigate their marriage based on that standpoint.
00:13:41.000But I think it goes back to what you were saying the men need to be prepared to take on that role.
00:13:47.000That's not a light role to carry, being the leader of the home.
00:13:53.000So I think what happens is men who aren't prepared for that season of life, they leave.
00:14:02.000And so the women come in and put those pants on because they feel like I have to be this role.1.00
00:14:08.000I have to play this role and I need to be the provider or I need to.
00:14:14.000And also, too, I think mom guilt falls into it, too, of like I'm not providing for my family.
00:14:18.000If they worked in the workforce prior and now they're a stay at home mom, which is a huge blessing to have that opportunity to raise your babies like that, I think that they feel as if they're comparing their season to other people's.
00:14:31.000And so that's where I think, you know, you get.
00:14:34.000The moms and wives that are not wanting to submit.
00:14:38.000But I think the husband needs to always be in a position of understanding his biblical role as well for that to all, you know, mesh together.
00:14:46.000And even if the husband understands it and reminds his wife or the wife reminds the husband, like, let's pray together.
00:14:53.000Let's recenter our relationship and marriage to make it healthy and Christ centered.
00:15:33.000I honestly, this is so I got I this is how I know God made us for each other because anytime I do get quote unquote hate, it's the same stuff you get like.
00:15:43.000That I don't even want to say it's not even worth saying it or repeating the things that we're called or the names that we're called.
00:15:52.000I've lost family members, I've lost friends, but I actually am kind of grateful that that's happened because God has pruned my life in a way where I am surrounded in a circle now by people who love us, support us, pray with us, encourage us.
00:17:32.000They have a CVS receipt length checklist of what they want.1.00
00:17:37.000There is a growing theme that women, if women are actually grading, they say they're unhappier with the dating pool right now than men.0.78
00:18:12.000You're going to be swept up, and these flowers are going to be flying around you, and you're going to be so like, Butterflies in your stomach, and so I feel as if when people don't feel that immediately, they're like, Oh, this person's not the right one, or they're just I don't know.
00:18:26.000I think they're caught up in what they're supposed to.0.54
00:18:30.000That just is there like a Christian Tinder?0.81
00:20:08.000But as women, you need to take care of yourself in order to.1.00
00:20:11.000You can't be looking like Adam Sandler and expect that you're going to.1.00
00:20:16.000And men, just figure out ways to make more money.
00:20:18.000I don't want to say it's not that hard, but if you work hard and apply yourself and obsess, you can make more money and you will be more valuable.
00:20:24.000But like you say, stop spending money on alcohol, stop playing video games.
00:20:29.000Invest in yourself, learn more, be scrappier.
00:20:34.000I don't want to say it's easy because it's not necessarily easy, but it's easy to not be poor.
00:20:41.000If you were a man, you have to make a decision, a conscious choice to not have a poverty mindset.
00:21:13.000Being able to walk, yeah, because you know, when before I met you, when I last was, when I went previously, was with my mom on a pilgrimage.
00:21:22.000And the whole time I was there, I was praying for my future husband.
00:21:25.000Didn't know it was you, and we were both in Israel at the same time.
00:21:28.000But anytime I could find a place to put a little piece of paper of a prayer in a hole in a wall, that was me.
00:22:03.000I don't even know if I told you that in dance class yesterday.
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00:24:48.000How would you tell young married couples who are going to start having families to prepare or ready their marriage for the changes that come with it?
00:25:08.000Instead of investing in a bunch of clothes that they'll grow out of really quickly, they should put have a you know, how people do honeymoon funds.
00:25:25.000Yeah, so instead of doing you know, how they do the honeymoon fund, they should do a fund where it's overnight help if they don't have a family member to help them.
00:25:58.000Because those memories are way more important than.
00:26:01.000So, how would you tell young married couples who are going to start having families to prepare, ready their marriage for the changes that come with it?
00:26:10.000Yeah, look, the man has to, I mean, I'll be very honest, the man has to start earning enough money where the.
00:26:16.000The wife or the mom does not have to work.
00:26:18.000And if the man is incapable of doing that, well, then figure it out.
00:26:23.000A more tangible side for a female perspective, make sure that you don't get so hyper fixated on the birth process once you're about to have a child.1.00
00:26:36.000Like, don't be so fixated and obsessed with, I am going to have a child on my couch, in my living room, free birth, no drugs, and then leave no room for.1.00
00:26:49.000God's will, if that totally does not happen.
00:26:51.000Because I know we had a birth plan, and the only thing that went to plan on that birth plan was that we had a child.
00:27:03.000So, what, young married couples, look, keep your faith obviously first and try to identify any fleshly problems that you might be having.1.00
00:27:17.000So, if the wife might have a gossip problem or a spending money problem, or the husband might have an alcohol problem or a pornography problem or a drug problem, don't welcome kids into the world.0.99
00:27:32.000I shouldn't say you should always welcome kids in the world, but try to get those things settled before you enter kids in the world.0.67
00:27:37.000I think before we go to that next question, I think it's because you mentioned gossip.1.00
00:27:43.000I think it's really important that women do not.
00:27:48.000Do not gossip to their friends about their husband.
00:27:53.000Because, first of all, friends can be very unforgiving when it comes to certain things with husbands.
00:27:59.000But what you talk about with your spouse behind closed doors needs to stay there.
00:28:05.000It goes through one ear and literally ends at the other ear.
00:28:09.000And you do not share it, you do not repeat it.
00:28:11.000You have to continually invest in the confidence in one another that you're on the same team, you support each other, you love each other, you're not going to undercut each other.0.59
00:28:21.000You are not going to sabotage one another unknowingly because you're trying to impress a friend that you have a husband that does XYZ.
00:28:31.000And wives do not compare your husband to other women's husbands.
00:28:38.000Like, Hank does XYZ so well with a hammer.
00:28:55.000Love him so much that and understand and hold in your heart that God has put you guys together for a reason to have a beautiful family, and children are a blessing from the Lord.
00:29:07.000And don't forget your husband in the process, and don't forget your husband in the chaos of having kids.
00:30:01.000Gigi gets those little Montessori toys every month, and there's this one that has the buckets that balance.
00:30:07.000If I put something in one of those buckets, it's going to drop down.
00:30:10.000And if I try to balance them, both buckets are filled, which is not realistic.
00:30:16.000I can't spend half of the day doing one thing.
00:30:21.000I missed out half of that time with being with the kids.
00:30:24.000So, like, you have to choose where your heart has to be fully with the home.
00:30:31.000You have to make that decision on your own, but you can always, after your kids are in school or after they're in high school, you can always go back to work.
00:30:39.000You can always find a way to get back into the workforce.
00:30:43.000But if you miss those precious first few years, that is so hard to make up because memories are so much more important than an added paycheck.
00:32:28.000And your wife should have nothing to do with it.1.00
00:32:30.000I mean, they can have input, but you should release that burden from your wife and just take care of all the money.
00:32:36.000I have to say, having to provide for myself, just as a woman, having to provide for yourself, especially because when I was living in New York City, it all fell on me.
00:32:50.000I love the fact that I can relinquish that role to my husband.
00:32:55.000Because he's so good at it, but relinquish it to him and say, I trust you so much.
00:33:00.000I know you're going to help provide for our family.
00:33:02.000That is one less thing I have to not deal with.
00:33:05.000I've watched my mom have to deal with that while she had her own business and she was my mom and dad in one package because my parents got divorced when I was really young.
00:33:14.000But to be able to relinquish that to you is so liberating.
00:33:19.000And I can focus on other things that are way more important because that's your domain and I don't have to worry about it.
00:33:28.000That is not capable of completely and totally handing the finances, that you should not marry that man.
00:33:35.000Finances will break a marriage quicker than anything else, period.
00:33:40.000How much are life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness worth to you?
00:33:45.000This is the question America's founders had to answer.
00:33:48.000You see, for more than 150 years, America's 13 colonies governed themselves until Britain declared they had no right to self rule.
00:33:56.000So ordinary people had to make Extraordinary choices and risked their lives, their fortunes, and their sacred honor to fight for independence.
00:34:06.000And in victory, they built one of the most stable and lasting republics in human history.
00:34:11.000Now, experience the American Revolution like never before, thanks to our friends at Hillsdale College.
00:34:16.000Revolutionary America, a new documentary from Hillsdale Studios and narrated by Tom Selleck, brings the founding of our nation to life through the voices of those who lived it, alongside insights from leading scholars and commentators.
00:34:29.000I'm telling you, Hillsdale has outdone themselves with this.
00:34:44.000I mean, listen, at a time when history is often distorted in schools and classes, immediate, this is your chance to see the story as it really happened and ask yourself what would you risk for freedom?
00:34:55.000Face the decisions our founders grappled with in Revolutionary American, a Hillsdale Studios film, only in theaters May 31st through June 2nd.
00:35:03.000So, get your tickets now by going to hillsdale.edu/slash revolution.
00:35:08.000You do not want to miss this opportunity to see this on the big screen.
00:35:11.000Hillsdale.edu slash revolution to locate a theater near you and buy tickets for Revolutionary American.
00:35:19.000One more time that's hillsdale.edu slash revolution.
00:35:26.000But what if he checks all of the boxes?
00:36:25.000And Daisy just said she has a stay at home friend who just went on a date and said the guy on the first date, he wants to be a stay at home dad in the future.
00:39:02.000And I know that for some young girls out there, or even older women who are still looking for their human, a season of waiting is to encourage you to just continue to trust God's timing.
00:39:16.000And if you're in a season of pruning, that's probably because God's trying to refine you.
00:39:21.000And if you're in a season of fruitfulness, then enjoy that and embrace that.
00:39:28.000I will add to that that men have a much longer horizon of waiting.1.00
00:39:49.000Because some women will, they have to be equipped for it too and their hearts prepared for it, or else they're going to stick their kid in front of Coco Melon.1.00
00:40:13.000Next question How would you wait well for a spouse?0.95
00:40:18.000First of all, this is more of a health standpoint.0.91
00:40:22.000Get your blood work done every six months.0.94
00:40:24.000Don't have sex before you get married.0.88
00:40:25.000Don't have sex before you get married.
00:40:28.000Really be intentional about growing down before you grow up and out, meaning make sure that your heart is so rooted in Christ.
00:40:38.000Make sure that you're reading the Bible every single day.
00:40:42.000Make sure that you're in a position where you're living your life that He has to seek God in order to even be able to touch the slightest bit of your heart.
00:40:52.000And make sure that you are taking good care of yourself.
00:41:35.000There's always something to be grateful for, and just find a way to be able to get yourself in the proper mindset and headspace of knowing that you are.
00:41:45.000So intentional about this time, and you're in a stream of significance rather than focusing on what everyone else has.
00:41:54.000And you are in a position where, when and if the man has sought you out, and he will tell you, I am intentional about this.
00:42:04.000I'm not trying to beat around the bush.
00:42:06.000I want to date you and I want to marry you.
00:42:08.000When it's that type of guy, you will know and you'll be ready.
00:42:10.000You won't say, Oh, I don't know about this.
00:42:50.000You get excited to homeschool your kids and you get to relearn everything all over again.
00:42:54.000And you're excited about learning about triangles and octagons and proper grammar all over again because you have that brain space to do it and you're excited.
00:43:09.000Plus, we want to travel with the kids.
00:43:10.000And plus, to be honest with you, I do not want to deal with kids going up to either of our children and being like, I hate you because of your father.
00:43:18.000Eventually, once they get old enough, they'll.