The Charlie Kirk Show - January 30, 2024


Charlie Goes to Gomorrah


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In this episode of The Charlie Kirk Show, President Donald Trump sits down with Turning Point USA President Charlie Kirk to discuss what it means to be a Christian and a parent. What does it mean to be happy? How does it feel to have a child? What is it like being a parent and being a leader in your community?

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00:00:00.000 Hey everybody, today the Charlie Kirk Show.
00:00:01.000 So I went on this podcast.
00:00:03.000 It is called Whatever.
00:00:05.000 It is a viral podcast where they talk about dating and relationships.
00:00:10.000 And you might have seen clips of it before.
00:00:12.000 Some of the panel participants are actively involved in producing pornography and some very graphic things.
00:00:18.000 So I just want to give you a warning before you listen to this podcast.
00:00:21.000 I think you'll find it interesting.
00:00:23.000 I ask some direct questions.
00:00:24.000 I try to listen and try to share the truth.
00:00:28.000 So enjoy this conversation.
00:00:29.000 There's a fair amount of spicy topics here.
00:00:31.000 So please, if you're a minor or if you just don't want your day ruined by more graphic conversation, just don't listen to this.
00:00:39.000 And this is your warning.
00:00:40.000 Really have a heart for you guys.
00:00:42.000 So just know that before going in.
00:00:44.000 But if you want to kind of see me go into the arena and battle for truth, you might enjoy this podcast.
00:00:49.000 Email us as alwaysfreedom at charliekirk.com.
00:00:51.000 Special thanks to whatever for hosting us.
00:00:54.000 That is the name of the podcast.
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00:01:03.000 Buckle up, everybody.
00:01:04.000 Here we go.
00:01:05.000 Charlie, what you've done is incredible here.
00:01:07.000 Maybe Charlie Kirk is on the college campuses.
00:01:09.000 I want you to know we are lucky to have Charlie Kirk.
00:01:12.000 Charlie Kirk's running the White House, folks.
00:01:16.000 I want to thank Charlie.
00:01:17.000 He's an incredible guy.
00:01:18.000 His spirit, his love of this country.
00:01:20.000 He's done an amazing job building one of the most powerful youth organizations ever created.
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00:02:03.000 Well, I think, you know, you're being the only married person here.
00:02:07.000 I think that's perhaps a good jumping off point.
00:02:10.000 I think a lot of people, both men and women, they're kind of frustrated with the current dating landscape.
00:02:15.000 Do you have any thoughts on this?
00:02:16.000 What's your diagnosis?
00:02:18.000 And any solutions?
00:02:21.000 And we'll go.
00:02:21.000 We'll open it up.
00:02:22.000 Sure.
00:02:23.000 Yeah.
00:02:24.000 Yeah, I think people need to date with the intent to marry.
00:02:27.000 Yeah, I'm a big critic of hookup culture in its current form.
00:02:30.000 I believe sex should be sacred and is sacred.
00:02:33.000 And it's really way thrown away way too generously in this society and culture.
00:02:38.000 And I can tell you I'm super blessed.
00:02:40.000 I have the best wife in the world.
00:02:41.000 We have an amazing life.
00:02:42.000 Building a family is the coolest thing ever.
00:02:45.000 And my prayer for all of you is that you one day can do that.
00:02:48.000 That's so cute.
00:02:50.000 It's honestly the most joyful thing.
00:02:52.000 And I've had some pretty amazing experiences.
00:02:54.000 I've been very, very blessed.
00:02:55.000 Very lucky, you could say, but very blessed is the word I would use.
00:02:58.000 And the greatest joy I've ever had is coming home to my little daughter running up to my leg.
00:03:03.000 There's nothing that even comes close to it.
00:03:04.000 Not flying on Air Force One, not meeting with presidents.
00:03:07.000 That's all that pales in comparison to your little girl coming up and squeezing your leg.
00:03:14.000 Okay.
00:03:15.000 Got it.
00:03:16.000 Does anybody else have any thoughts on that?
00:03:18.000 With, you know.
00:03:19.000 Yeah.
00:03:20.000 So I just wanted to circle back because you said something that caught my attention and I disagree with it.
00:03:27.000 You said something like, I hope all of you can experience that.
00:03:30.000 And I mean, I don't disagree with that.
00:03:31.000 I hope we can all experience joy in life like that.
00:03:34.000 That's amazing.
00:03:35.000 But I just feel like I don't know why you said it that way.
00:03:41.000 Like, maybe we're not going to experience that because we don't have the same values as you.
00:03:48.000 Is that what he said?
00:03:50.000 I thought it was.
00:03:50.000 I don't think that's not the impression I got, but if Charlie wants to answer.
00:03:55.000 Well, if I said it that way, I didn't mean it that way.
00:03:57.000 But Molly, do you think that, is that a goal that you would want in your life to be a mother?
00:04:03.000 100%.
00:04:04.000 Yeah.
00:04:05.000 Do you think that in your self-described current line of work that that is more or less likely?
00:04:13.000 What do you mean by likely?
00:04:15.000 Like, I mean, maybe you can tell me more about your line of work.
00:04:22.000 What would you like to know?
00:04:23.000 Do you think that it's going to create a good, happy family in the future?
00:04:31.000 Right now I'm working on it.
00:04:32.000 Yeah.
00:04:32.000 Me and my boyfriend are doing really well in our relationship.
00:04:37.000 And honestly, I think, contrary to what most people would believe, I think being in porn has strengthened us.
00:04:47.000 Why is that?
00:04:48.000 I've never heard that.
00:04:50.000 Can you tell me why?
00:04:51.000 So basically, like being in porn and having sort of like this open type of relationship where you can have sex with other people.
00:05:00.000 Obviously, there are certain boundaries in the relationship, but it really makes you think about, you know, what's important, why you love this person.
00:05:09.000 And, you know, you start to really hold things true that are deeper than just sex.
00:05:14.000 And I think that on top of that, you can share sex with other people together.
00:05:19.000 And that's really bonding.
00:05:20.000 That's really fun.
00:05:22.000 Are you ever worried that do you ever get jealous of him if he has sex with other people?
00:05:27.000 Yeah.
00:05:28.000 Oh, you do?
00:05:29.000 Yeah.
00:05:29.000 So how does that strengthen your relationship?
00:05:32.000 Because we're able to talk about it.
00:05:34.000 And I think every time that I bring up a concern and he's able to soothe it and we're really able to like work on that bond, it just makes it stronger.
00:05:44.000 Have you ever, when you were having sex, do you ever think it's more than physical?
00:05:49.000 That maybe there's emotional and spiritual connections you might be introducing?
00:05:54.000 No.
00:05:55.000 So it's a purely physical experience?
00:05:57.000 Yeah.
00:05:58.000 See, for me, sex is more than physical.
00:06:01.000 It's actually, that's the least part of sex for me because I get to share it with my soulmate.
00:06:06.000 It's my best friend.
00:06:07.000 It's definitely a big energy exchange.
00:06:09.000 Yeah, it's a big energy exchange.
00:06:10.000 And so Molly, I would ask, respectfully, you know, wouldn't you want to only share that energy exchange with the person that you love most and want to have children with?
00:06:20.000 I think sex can exchange different types of energies.
00:06:24.000 So like you can exchange an intimate type of energy or you can exchange a really passionate, like horny type of energy.
00:06:31.000 You can exchange dull energy during sex.
00:06:34.000 You can exchange manipulative energy during sex.
00:06:37.000 Sex can be used for a wide variety of things.
00:06:42.000 And I think the biggest one is like marital spiritual connection, but you can't deny that there's other benefits to it as well.
00:06:55.000 If you could be with your boyfriend currently and I waved a magic wand and I said you can make a million dollars a year and never do porn again, would you?
00:07:02.000 No.
00:07:05.000 Okay.
00:07:05.000 Period.
00:07:07.000 Okay.
00:07:08.000 What?
00:07:09.000 Are you making more than that a year, Molly?
00:07:13.000 Not yet.
00:07:14.000 Oh, well, then.
00:07:16.000 I mean, aren't you doing that?
00:07:18.000 That's your profession, so I assume you're doing that to make money, correct?
00:07:21.000 Yeah, 100%.
00:07:22.000 Well, also.
00:07:22.000 But Charlie just has a magical wand.
00:07:24.000 He's got...
00:07:24.000 That's not the wand.
00:07:26.000 For the sake of argument.
00:07:27.000 He's used the wand.
00:07:28.000 You can make a million dollars a year.
00:07:30.000 You don't have to do the adult content.
00:07:33.000 Well, the thing is, I wouldn't have to do it.
00:07:35.000 That would be great, but I would still want to do it.
00:07:38.000 I mean, personally, I'm an exhibitionist.
00:07:40.000 I love putting my sexual self out there for other people to see, for other people to touch themselves to, have fun with.
00:07:49.000 I love it.
00:07:50.000 Can I ask you a question?
00:07:52.000 Since you're about presenting yourself to the world, do you have a good relationship with your father?
00:07:58.000 Okay, here we go.
00:08:00.000 No, I don't talk to him.
00:08:03.000 I'm not surprised.
00:08:04.000 Yeah.
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00:08:17.000 America's founders recognized an obvious fact of life.
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00:08:27.000 But they also recognize that the tall and the short among us, the swift and the slow among us, are still human beings if we are recognizable as human beings.
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00:08:40.000 Rights attached to human nature, rights that come from God.
00:08:43.000 The Declaration of Independence names three of the big ones.
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00:09:10.000 I actually think it's principled that you said you wouldn't give it up just for money because that shows that you do it for reasons beyond just like financial ones.
00:09:16.000 It shows you have like a genuine passion and interest in it.
00:09:18.000 Grid1 Motorsports donated $200.
00:09:22.000 In other words, sex is whatever she needs to make believe it is at the time she needs to rationalize it.
00:09:28.000 It's called ho-logic.
00:09:30.000 Oh.
00:09:30.000 I wouldn't use that language, but Molly, what I would say is you seem like a sweet person.
00:09:36.000 Maybe something to think about as the years go on that maybe sex should just be saved to the person you love most.
00:09:42.000 I would ask you or the panel, what would your definition of love be?
00:09:46.000 Me and the whole panel?
00:09:47.000 Or just anyone?
00:09:48.000 I mean, that's just a fundamental question with dating, right?
00:09:51.000 Is that a tough question, guys?
00:09:52.000 It's kind of, yeah.
00:09:53.000 Yeah.
00:09:54.000 It's a good question.
00:09:54.000 Love is complicated.
00:09:56.000 You know what?
00:09:56.000 Let's go around the table.
00:09:58.000 No, it's great.
00:09:59.000 It's great.
00:09:59.000 It's great.
00:10:00.000 We'll go around the table.
00:10:01.000 Do you want to answer?
00:10:02.000 So your question is, what is love?
00:10:04.000 Yeah, that's a song.
00:10:06.000 What is love?
00:10:07.000 It's a good song.
00:10:07.000 Yeah.
00:10:08.000 How would you define love?
00:10:09.000 Because I think shouldn't that we all agree that's probably a good goal of dating to find love?
00:10:14.000 Do we all agree on that?
00:10:16.000 Yeah.
00:10:16.000 Yes.
00:10:17.000 So we'll start with you.
00:10:18.000 We'll go around the table.
00:10:19.000 If you guys want to give your answers for that, go ahead.
00:10:23.000 I feel like love is an emotional connection between two people that value each other and accept each other for who they are.
00:10:32.000 I feel like that's what love is.
00:10:33.000 I feel like real love is when you find kind of, I guess, things you don't like about the person you're with and you still choose to be with them and grow with them either way.
00:10:45.000 I feel like that's real love.
00:10:47.000 I feel like that's more of a romantic type of love.
00:10:49.000 I feel like love is something that's going to transcend just romantic relationships.
00:10:53.000 And I would say it's like an emotional bond that exists between human beings.
00:10:57.000 And I say human beings just to specify that I don't think it exists between people and things because I think that's kind of materialistic.
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00:11:08.000 Sorry, go ahead, Aaron.
00:11:09.000 Go ahead.
00:11:09.000 Just that I think love is a connection that exists between people, not things.
00:11:13.000 To get away from more of like a materialist understanding of like people saying, I love my car or I love this item or whatever.
00:11:19.000 I don't really think that constitutes love.
00:11:21.000 But other than that, I would not be able to really define it.
00:11:23.000 It's a question that philosophers have been debating since the beginning of time.
00:11:26.000 I don't know that it'll be answered on this podcast.
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00:11:43.000 For the record, I'm not old enough.
00:11:44.000 Oh, you're not old enough to be the VP pick.
00:11:46.000 Okay.
00:11:47.000 I thought we had a whatever exclusive here, Charlie Kirk.
00:11:50.000 35.
00:11:50.000 The VP pick.
00:11:51.000 Okay, I'm sorry, Erin.
00:11:52.000 Go ahead.
00:11:53.000 No, just that.
00:11:54.000 Oh, okay.
00:11:54.000 What about you?
00:11:55.000 I agree with both of them.
00:11:56.000 So I don't really have anything else to add.
00:11:59.000 Okay.
00:12:00.000 All right.
00:12:01.000 There is different types of love.
00:12:03.000 Obviously, we don't feel love for our parents the same way we do with a romantic partner, friends.
00:12:07.000 Poor friends, yeah.
00:12:08.000 Yeah, but with that being said, I would classify love as a deep connection and emotion that you share with someone and also kind of like really hoping for the best for that person for who they are and their future and just like what you hope you can do together as well.
00:12:23.000 Okay.
00:12:25.000 I agree with them as well.
00:12:26.000 I think love is accepting someone for all of them, not just the good parts.
00:12:32.000 And I think that it should be like unconditional if you're going to love someone, that it should be, you know, the good and the bad.
00:12:41.000 That's a tricky one for me because I have a hard, I'm difficult to kind of deal with the term love and things around it.
00:12:48.000 I'm kind of scared of it.
00:12:50.000 But I feel like the main type of love that I like to focus on is just the self-love.
00:12:54.000 Like as the rest of the girl is saying, there's so many different types of love you can find in a partner, but I feel like, I don't know, I couldn't imagine myself loving someone unconditionally, but myself, sure, I can find ways.
00:13:06.000 Can I ask a question?
00:13:07.000 Absolutely.
00:13:08.000 Go ahead.
00:13:09.000 Why do you think you're afraid of love?
00:13:11.000 I don't know what it is.
00:13:12.000 I think maybe the commitment is like, yeah, it's scary, isn't it?
00:13:17.000 Other people, are you afraid of love?
00:13:20.000 I don't feel that way.
00:13:21.000 I feel like people are afraid of happiness because happiness isn't long-term.
00:13:26.000 You can't stay happy forever, especially with the person.
00:13:29.000 It's not always going to be perfect.
00:13:31.000 So I feel like a lot of people are scared of love because I feel like, well, let's say you're in a relationship with somebody, right?
00:13:38.000 And I guess the best thing you can hope for is to end up dying together.
00:13:43.000 No matter what, it's never like foreverlasting.
00:13:46.000 So I don't know.
00:13:47.000 I think that's how it is.
00:13:49.000 And it's also scary because if you give more to someone and they don't give it back, that hurts a lot.
00:13:59.000 I think honestly, that's the most beautiful part about love because true love doesn't really care whether you're loved back.
00:14:09.000 It hurts if you're not loved back, but you're still going to love that person or yourself or whatever.
00:14:15.000 But I think that love in general is just a deep understanding and acceptance of a human being.
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00:15:39.000 Yeah, the Greeks had four words for love.
00:15:42.000 English has screwed this up.
00:15:43.000 So in Greek, the first word would be phileo, which is the brotherly love, the city of brotherly love, Philadelphia, right?
00:15:50.000 So we all know that what that's like to love a sibling, right?
00:15:53.000 But that's a completely different type of love than storge in Greek, which is to love a child, which is my wish for all of you.
00:15:59.000 It's a great thing, as I said.
00:16:01.000 Also, there is eros, which some of you may have had before, which is erotic.
00:16:05.000 We get the English word erotic from.
00:16:07.000 But then there's this.
00:16:09.000 You looked at me.
00:16:11.000 Did you look at her?
00:16:12.000 I did kind of glance right in your direction right as you said that.
00:16:17.000 So, and then the last is agape, which I'm a Christian.
00:16:19.000 We believe that's the highest form of love, which you guys mentioned, sort of, which is you would give your life for that person.
00:16:25.000 And that's a very hard thing, right?
00:16:27.000 I would give my life for my wife in a second and for my child.
00:16:30.000 And I guess my question is, and anyone can chime in, through the current hookup culture-only fans, is it more or less likely to get towards that ideal self-sacrificing type of love?
00:16:45.000 Yeah.
00:16:47.000 Personally, I was just going to say, personally, I think that a lot of people today are so wrapped up and stuck because they don't know how to love themselves.
00:16:56.000 And that causes, you know, a lot of stuff to happen, and it can cloud your mind from really being able to, what's the word I'm looking for?
00:17:08.000 Pursue and look for a connection with another person.
00:17:11.000 And also with like social media and like dating apps and stuff now, like people are so used to having options and just like literally just having like whoever they really want to.
00:17:22.000 So it's like a lot harder for people to be like, I guess, more serious because once, I don't know, like for a lot of people that are into like hookup culture and stuff, like, I don't know.
00:17:38.000 I just feel like there's a lot of options and people don't take it serious because there's so many people to choose from.
00:17:43.000 And like if they don't like one thing about you, they're like, oh, okay, I'll just find someone else then.
00:17:47.000 Like, I don't know.
00:17:48.000 It's kind of.
00:17:49.000 Yeah.
00:17:50.000 But I think that goes in terms of like anybody, not just OniFans people.
00:17:54.000 Yeah.
00:17:54.000 OniFans obviously does get in the way of someone wanting to take you serious.
00:17:58.000 But I've actually noticed Onifans has got a lot more guys in my DMs.
00:18:02.000 So when I post booty pic, everyone is loving me.
00:18:05.000 Well, do they love you or do they lust you?
00:18:07.000 Well, it's fair.
00:18:08.000 Probably more.
00:18:10.000 To feed my attention ego.
00:18:13.000 If you could find a stable soulmate, would you quit that line of work?
00:18:18.000 If you were totally financially supported?
00:18:20.000 Similar to the question, Amali.
00:18:22.000 I mean, anything to make me stay in bed all day, I'll do it.
00:18:26.000 So yeah, but in terms of a soulmate, I don't know.
00:18:30.000 Like, I'd rather myself be my own soulmate.
00:18:32.000 Like, I was raised by an independent mother.
00:18:34.000 I haven't really seen much of a, like, kind of, I guess, a relationship.
00:18:39.000 But I also feel like you don't really need it.
00:18:41.000 My mom has done everything for herself and for me.
00:18:44.000 And so, I don't know.
00:18:45.000 I just, I feel like menopause as well.
00:18:47.000 I'm going to get sick of them.
00:18:48.000 And I'll be in a marriage that I will regret.
00:18:50.000 So.
00:18:50.000 Sick of who?
00:18:51.000 If I get married.
00:18:52.000 So if I die.
00:18:54.000 You guys have such a dark view of marriage.
00:18:55.000 It's a beautiful thing, everybody.
00:18:57.000 It's this exciting.
00:18:59.000 Have you had to marry me?
00:18:59.000 It's amazing.
00:19:00.000 No, trust me, part of the problem is the culture is so dark and terrible.
00:19:05.000 It is.
00:19:05.000 I will be perfect.
00:19:06.000 It's very hard.
00:19:08.000 Marriage is very difficult.
00:19:09.000 It's the hardest thing I've ever done.
00:19:11.000 And raising kids is even harder than that.
00:19:12.000 And I've done some difficult stuff.
00:19:14.000 But it's by far the most fulfilling.
00:19:16.000 Charlie, do you think people should wait until marriage to have sex?
00:19:21.000 Ideally, of course, yes.
00:19:23.000 But I'm not here to judge people.
00:19:24.000 I mean, I'm not here to say that you're a bad person or whatever.
00:19:27.000 That's, I have my.
00:19:29.000 Sorry, can I just ask?
00:19:30.000 Yes, sure.
00:19:31.000 Did you wait till marriage?
00:19:32.000 Oh, really?
00:19:32.000 It's the greatest decision of my life.
00:19:34.000 Wow.
00:19:35.000 I would not be able.
00:19:36.000 Imagine you waited till marriage and you find it they have to be aware of it.
00:19:38.000 I had other reasons.
00:19:39.000 I would hate that.
00:19:40.000 I would be so happy.
00:19:42.000 I think more important things.
00:19:44.000 Well, you can't leave it up to the marriage day, man.
00:19:48.000 Sexuality.
00:19:49.000 Let's play the other side of it.
00:19:51.000 Imagine going into the bedroom on your marriage night and knowing that you both have each other for the first time, you never had to share that human being.
00:20:00.000 Yeah, true.
00:20:01.000 But then again, I lost opportunity to a virgin as well.
00:20:04.000 Or imagine if they were really experienced and they were an awesome lay and you guys also had a connection.
00:20:08.000 That would also be really fun.
00:20:09.000 Or if they're a man, they might be thinking about other women for the rest of your relationship.
00:20:12.000 I don't think men stop thinking about other women just because they get married.
00:20:16.000 I really doubt that.
00:20:17.000 We'll do that no matter what.
00:20:18.000 No, men's minds are rather undisciplined.
00:20:20.000 You are right.
00:20:21.000 That is true.
00:20:22.000 But they don't have other experiences or pair bonds, especially for young women, which pair bonds are a real thing to compare that to.
00:20:28.000 But look, I will go back to what I said.
00:20:31.000 Sex is a very powerful thing.
00:20:33.000 We all agreed with that, right?
00:20:35.000 And I think you have.
00:20:36.000 It's a tool, one might even say.
00:20:38.000 It can be used.
00:20:39.000 It could be abused.
00:20:40.000 It could be.
00:20:41.000 But in its ideal, which I fully acknowledge, it's very, very hard to do.
00:20:45.000 Very hard, very hard, very difficult.
00:20:47.000 But should be a goal that I would like to see more people at least talk about in a non-judgmental way that is worth aspiring to.
00:20:54.000 And it's not impossible.
00:20:56.000 It's not impossible.
00:20:59.000 It's not popular, but it's not impossible.
00:21:03.000 Okay.
00:21:05.000 Did you have a response, Erin, or I thought someone over here had a.
00:21:09.000 I don't think so.
00:21:10.000 I feel like I had something to say about that.
00:21:11.000 Oh, did you have, yeah, sorry, did you have more?
00:21:14.000 If you could wipe the slate, I know this is hypothetical, if that's okay.
00:21:18.000 Well, I remember what I was going to say now.
00:21:19.000 You were saying that, like, oh, if you only have one partner, you're not going to think about other people.
00:21:23.000 But I actually feel like that might make you wonder even more.
00:21:26.000 Yeah.
00:21:26.000 You'll be seeing all these girls online.
00:21:28.000 You'll be watching porn.
00:21:29.000 You'll be thinking about all these other things.
00:21:30.000 And it's like, all you have is one person.
00:21:32.000 And like, I don't know.
00:21:33.000 I feel like that would kind of open up a lot of curiosity.
00:21:35.000 Yeah, that would drive me crazy.
00:21:37.000 I would always be wondering what I was missing, and did I miss out on something good because I was holding out for something that maybe turned out not to be what I thought it was.
00:21:46.000 Yeah, looking around, I can't say that I think I'm missing much, to be honest.
00:21:50.000 Not around this table.
00:21:51.000 I'm just saying.
00:21:52.000 No, not around this table.
00:21:52.000 I just say the country.
00:21:54.000 No, I just, just in general, not around this table.
00:21:56.000 I just.
00:21:57.000 What am I missing?
00:21:58.000 You know, I have a.
00:22:00.000 By the way, is he missing anything?
00:22:02.000 Yeah, what.
00:22:03.000 Is he missing?
00:22:04.000 I mean, if you're saying that she's like the one who wants to weigh in, what's he doing?
00:22:07.000 No, I missed it.
00:22:09.000 Not every day is amazing.
00:22:11.000 Well, obviously, unless you're missing out on some good threesomes.
00:22:14.000 That's all I'm going to say.
00:22:16.000 If that is the compelling argument.
00:22:19.000 I don't know why that's not working.
00:22:21.000 Our audience.
00:22:21.000 Look, everything in life is a choice.
00:22:23.000 I get to have a soulmate that I get to go on an adventure with and a beautiful daughter, and you get to have orgies.
00:22:29.000 Thanks so much for listening, everybody.
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