Alex Clark joins the show to talk about her new show, Spillover, and why conservative women are having a hard time finding a good man. She s a woman expert, and she s got a lot to say about it.
00:01:10.000We will not embrace the ideas that have destroyed countries, destroyed lives, and we are going to fight for freedom on campuses across the country.
00:01:40.000Once a week, I have an interview with somebody that has an amazing jaw-dropping story or expertise in something that typically is going to matter, educate, or entertain women.
00:03:16.000There's a huge problem with young women right now.
00:03:20.000And remember, there was another chart that came out that was really exciting because it told us at the beginning of summer, I believe, that young men were skewing heavily conservative.
00:03:39.000A huge fault of this lies on conservatives.
00:03:42.000So the way that we have historically been reaching out to women has been an utter failure because we thought the whole facts don't feelings thing, that was going to work.
00:03:53.000Works with young men, which we're seeing the payoff in young men, turning to conservatism, but it totally fails in reaching young women.
00:04:01.000Emotionality actually matters a lot to women.
00:04:05.000And so when we approach issues like, you know, abortion or black lives mattering and all this, we do need to appeal to the emotional points first.
00:04:14.000That is the only way we're going to get through to them.
00:04:15.000But conservatives kind of gave up on that in the last five, six years, and now we're seeing the results.
00:05:53.000And, but is there kind of this new identity of like single womanhood that is seeping in that is almost they want nothing to do with conservatism regardless of how we we brand it?
00:06:08.000Yes, but I'm going to tell you, it's vaporizing quickly, quickly.
00:06:13.000So millennials now, the oldest of us are getting into their 40s.
00:06:19.000Remember, most of the young people weren't thinking, when we're saying young people, like the people in this poll, mostly they're Gen Z. With millennial women, we're getting older.
00:06:28.000And then those of us who purposefully chose a path, no marriage, no kids, pursue the job opportunities first, career first, we're all realizing that a lot of our unhappiness is stemming from that.
00:06:42.000And so that whole facade of this is what's going to make you happy is girl boss culture is completely evaporating.
00:06:50.000And so we're waking up and because of that, a lot of Gen Z women are starting to wake up.
00:07:20.000They don't realize that the talking points, that the strategies they have been spoon-fed their entire life doesn't work.
00:07:28.000And so that's what they're holding on to is like, well, I have to be a Democrat.
00:07:32.000I have to vote Democrat because I'm helping others.
00:07:34.000They don't realize that conservatives want the same thing.
00:07:37.000Our ways of achieving that are just more effective.
00:07:40.000I mean, we can see that when you just compare Trump's presidency to Joe Biden's presidency so far, you can see that in action, the evidence.
00:10:16.000There's no such thing as a chemical imbalance.
00:10:18.000So all these women are getting on pills to fix a fake problem that causes other problems.
00:10:23.000Then we're told to medicate for those things.
00:10:26.000So we are on, young people are on more medications than we've ever been on in history.
00:10:33.000And that's a whole nother thing, you know, causing psychosis.
00:10:37.000Benzodiazepins and Xanax and Zolof and Prozac.
00:10:40.000It's the most medicated generation in history.
00:10:42.000So help me understand, Alex, and I mean this sincerely, how are we supposed to compete on emotional terms with the left if they do it so nakedly and pander to it?
00:10:55.000So one thing that I've been doing with the spillover recently is really diving deep into the specific lies that we were promised by feminism that have not panned out because they have had over 50 years to do their little experiment on us and the evidence really falls in our favor.
00:11:12.000So that whole idea of put your career first above a family, that's where you're going to find your fulfillment.
00:12:10.000I don't know the stat off the top of my head, but in droves because they're realizing this was a lie.
00:12:15.000So what I'm telling you is when you realize that this was a lie that the medical establishment told us would make our lives better as women, well, this isn't true.
00:12:23.000How many other things haven't been true?
00:12:45.000Chances are you've been out here before the chaos in the markets, oil and stocks, just when you thought it was safe and interest rates were rising.
00:14:32.000You don't care about people that are less fortunate and have all these mental health struggles.
00:14:37.000We feel terrible and guilty about that.
00:14:40.000But, you know, nobody is explaining to these young women that the stats show after four years of transitioning, all these kids want to detransition.
00:16:05.000There is a very viral clip of you of some trans person coming up to you and saying like, hey, they didn't come up, guns a blazing, so I think this helped.
00:16:14.000But they were like, so I transitioned as a kid and I'm starting to wonder if I made the right choice or whatever.
00:16:18.000You had a very calm, thoughtful, you took your time approach telling them.
00:16:56.000And by the way, I'm the most pro-life, far-right person ever.
00:16:59.000I'm not questioning your bona family on that.
00:17:00.000It's not that, but I'm just saying what works.
00:17:02.000And appealing to things having to do with our roles, our purposes, women, and you've been sold a lie that you can have it all because that's the biggest thing right now that's working with women.
00:17:29.000No, I mean, yesterday, literally every person that was listening and or debating was all men.
00:17:35.000And what was their biggest problem with conservatism?
00:17:38.000Well, the liberal men, they obviously suffer from low testosterone and, you know, have been very damaged by, you know, pharmacological agents, not right now.
00:18:03.000No, but there were some young ladies there, but the young ladies that were there were super trad con, like very Christian, wanted a husband, you know, very politely dressed.
00:20:09.000I would say, I'm not telling you that you can't have a lot of sex.
00:20:12.000I am telling you to acknowledge that when you have sex, when you participate in this act, there is a known consequence.
00:20:21.000And I'm asking you to accept that that is always a possibility.
00:20:25.000When you go to a vending machine at a hotel and you click the Coke button, you are acknowledging that more than likely something is going to come out.
00:20:36.000When you have sex, you are pushing that button on the vending machine, knowing a baby could come out.
00:20:42.000So if you know that, you are actively, you are saying, I agree to this risk of this behavior.
00:21:14.000But wouldn't it be better to tell the young woman that having as much sex as you want is bad for her?
00:21:18.000Yeah, you can go into like the emotional damage.
00:21:20.000No, you can go into all that kind of stuff.
00:21:22.000Like, well, what would you say about, you know, the rates of depression, the statistic that couples who engaged in a lot of premarital sex before they're married are more likely to get divorced than couples who waited till they were married?
00:21:35.000You know, all of those different types of things.
00:22:25.000You should tell her immediately where you see the relationship going.
00:22:31.000If you're interested in a relationship, if you're not interested, if you are looking for marriage, if you're looking for something casual, you should say that from the get-go.
00:22:40.000And also, I believe you should be having the conversations about religion, politics, those types of views before the first date.
00:22:49.000So before you even go, before you even drive to the restaurant or the bar to have one drink or coffee shop, whatever you're doing, you should have those conversations first.
00:22:58.000So you don't, neither of you waste your time.
00:23:01.000For many, many years, we were told it's taboo.
00:23:04.000Don't talk about this kind of stuff on a first date.
00:23:05.000And now it's so unbelievably important.
00:23:14.000So let me ask you, do young ladies that you speak to that are single, do they complain that young men are too masculine or at least fake masculine or acting too feminine?
00:24:18.000So, but young ladies are saying when I'm dating a man, the thing that is the most concerning and or the relationship ender is that they're just, they're not as serious.
00:25:10.000Because you're talking about a personal relationship versus just like a stranger you don't know.
00:25:14.000So how much more receptive are you when you have rapport with somebody, you feel like you know them for them to tell you something that's going to shake your worldview?
00:25:21.000A stranger on the street, you know, you essentially are a stranger on the street when you're tabling and these kids have never talked to you before.
00:25:27.000You being like, this is bad, like immediately they're not receptive.
00:25:30.000But if you're in a relationship with someone you like, someone you've established that much, those girls are a little bit more likely to be okay with you saying, this is where this is going.
00:25:40.000These are my intentions with you, et cetera.
00:26:24.000You get your podcast, Real Ex Clark on YouTube.
00:26:26.000And we talk a lot about this and women's roles and, you know, what a biblical role for women should look like and interesting conversations with a new guest every single Friday.
00:26:37.000And look, as much as we pick on women because they deserve it, men are a disaster, right?
00:26:59.000So, I mean, what comes first, I will say, my personal opinion, the institutions are creating unhappy women and they're not helping men.
00:27:10.000But if men really had their act together, they could rescue a lot of these young ladies from these institutions.
00:27:15.000Yeah, both men and women don't go to college, learn life skills, learn how to do laundry, learn how to iron, learn how to cook, develop a Develop a deep relationship with Christ, get plugged into a church community, start learning about things like birth and motherhood and parenting and education, homeschooling.
00:27:48.000But in this season of my life, then I'm focusing on these things and I am doing everything I can to prepare and become the person that is worth marrying.
00:27:57.000Do you think that it is generally true that if young women did those things, they'd become more conservative.
00:29:00.000Take it seriously because we are losing both young men on the right, not because of their political views, because of their culture, relationship views, but we are losing young women to political views.
00:29:29.000It's not the red pill the way that I think of it.
00:29:32.000It's this kind of like hedonist King Solomon thing, like have sex with everything that moves type thing.
00:29:37.000Have sex with everything that moves if you're a man.
00:29:39.000Get vasectomy so that you don't procreate and then don't get married.
00:29:43.000This is so red pill has a double meaning.
00:29:45.000So red pill is no longer conservatism.
00:29:47.000Red pill is now when you start seeing guys online, when you start seeing guys online saying things like, I've been red pilled recently, they're talking about I'm totally disenfranchised with romantic relationships and women.
00:30:49.000So I would go in there with the intent.
00:30:52.000With the intent to break through to the male audience and don't worry about clowning on the leftist chicks on the podcast with you as much.
00:31:01.000Do a little bit of that because it's fun.