The Charlie Kirk Show - July 20, 2025


What Every Young Man and Woman Should Hear — My Speech from CLS


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My conversation at the Chapter Leadership Summit where we talk about sex, dating, and marriage from a biblical perspective. Today's episode is from a keynote I gave at Turning Point USA High School and College Leadership Summit.

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00:00:00.000 Hey, everybody.
00:00:00.000 Happy Sunday.
00:00:01.000 My conversation at the Chapter Leadership Summit.
00:00:04.000 We talk about sex, we talk about dating, all from a biblical perspective.
00:00:08.000 I think you're really going to enjoy it.
00:00:09.000 Get involved with Turning PointUSA at tpusa.com.
00:00:13.000 That is tpusa.com.
00:00:14.000 And start a college or high school chapter at tpusa.com.
00:00:18.000 Thanks to Alan Jackson Ministries for your continued support.
00:00:21.000 Buckle up, everybody.
00:00:22.000 Here we go.
00:00:23.000 Charlie, what you've done is incredible here.
00:00:25.000 Maybe Charlie Kirk is on the college campuses.
00:00:27.000 I want you to know we are lucky to have Charlie Kirk.
00:00:30.000 Charlie Kirk's running the White House, folks.
00:00:34.000 I want to thank Charlie.
00:00:35.000 He's an incredible guy.
00:00:36.000 His spirit, his love of this country, he's done an amazing job building one of the most powerful youth organizations ever created, Turning Point USA.
00:00:44.000 We will not embrace the ideas that have destroyed countries, destroyed lives, and we are going to fight for freedom on campuses across the country.
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00:01:22.000 All right, everybody, we having fun here at the Chapter Leadership Summit.
00:01:29.000 This is a high energy group.
00:01:31.000 I love it.
00:01:34.000 We had this wonderful breakfast before.
00:01:36.000 Who is at the breakfast?
00:01:37.000 A couple people here.
00:01:39.000 And I could talk about politics the whole time.
00:01:42.000 Instead, I'm going to talk about something much more important, which is dating.
00:01:45.000 Well, that's true.
00:01:46.000 We'll talk about Jesus too.
00:01:51.000 We're going to talk about dating, marriage, and kind of the state of all of that.
00:01:56.000 That's more important than talking about marriage.
00:02:03.000 And so I'm going to have a very direct message for men and then a very direct message for women. 0.60
00:02:08.000 So I'll offend everybody in the room and then we'll do questions.
00:02:10.000 How does that sound?
00:02:13.000 All right.
00:02:14.000 But first, I want to say, you guys on the front lines, starting turning point USA high school chapters, starting turning point USA college chapters, you are on the front lines of saving this country.
00:02:23.000 And you look around, our numbers are increasing.
00:02:25.000 We are happier.
00:02:26.000 We are joyful.
00:02:27.000 We love the nation and we're going to defeat the left.
00:02:30.000 It's just a matter of time.
00:02:32.000 We're going to win this country.
00:02:33.000 We're going to win.
00:02:37.000 And the energy in here is incredible.
00:02:39.000 So I was sitting at breakfast this morning and I would go to table by table and I'd say, how many of you are unhappy with the dating pool?
00:02:46.000 Raise your hand if you're unhappy with the dating pool.
00:02:49.000 Those of you not raising your hand, how many of you are in relationships?
00:02:52.000 Almost every hand goes up, right?
00:02:54.000 So I went to table by table and people were saying similar things.
00:02:58.000 They said, you know, I just can't find a woman. 1.00
00:03:01.000 I just can't find a man that all people really care about is hookup culture.
00:03:06.000 All people really care about is immediate gratification.
00:03:10.000 And so I thought to myself, there needs to be a message delivered here at the chapter leadership summit to men of what men need to do and to women, what women need to do, because the problem's on both sides.
00:03:21.000 And I'm not going to say one side more than the other, even though I have some personal opinions on that, but you'll try to be able to guess.
00:03:27.000 But more importantly, though, if we do not value the most important things, it should be God should be the most important thing in your life.
00:03:34.000 Jesus Christ is your Lord and Savior, most important thing.
00:03:38.000 But then beyond that, it's getting married, having children, building families, leaving a legacy, doing big and great things.
00:03:47.000 And that goes for everybody in this room.
00:03:50.000 Right now, our generation, well, I'm a little bit older than you, but it's kind of in the younger demo.
00:03:57.000 We are the most suicidal generation in history, the most anxious generation in history, the most medicated generation in history.
00:04:05.000 And there's something seriously wrong where we are the least married generation.
00:04:10.000 And also, we are less likely to have babies than any other generation prior to us.
00:04:17.000 We have more comforts.
00:04:19.000 We have more cell phones.
00:04:20.000 We have more things at our disposal.
00:04:23.000 And yet we are having less children and we are literally not repopulating the species.
00:04:27.000 So there's a lot of things going on here.
00:04:29.000 The first and foremost is we do not value the ultimate thing.
00:04:33.000 And the ultimate thing should be loving God, loving people, and raising children in a society that follows God's commands against the culture, not in consistency with the culture, to stand, on my opinion, on eternal truths, fight for the country, fight for our civilization, and then also understand that you, especially as men, but women as well, you are obligated to do difficult and hard things.
00:05:00.000 The West was built, our nation was built on delayed gratification, not instant gratification.
00:05:07.000 That maybe I'm not going to go do what feels good in the moment.
00:05:10.000 I'm going to forsake what feels good and I'm going to parlay that into the future.
00:05:16.000 Now let's talk about this.
00:05:17.000 So the dating pool is a complete catastrophe.
00:05:20.000 Men are unhappy with women.
00:05:22.000 Women are unhappy with men. 1.00
00:05:23.000 And you're both wrong.
00:05:24.000 Let's start with men. 1.00
00:05:25.000 Men, very simple.
00:05:27.000 If you are spending inordinate amount of times staring at screens, playing video games, and not being active and productive, that is deeply unattractive to women. 0.99
00:05:38.000 Women, do you agree? 1.00
00:05:41.000 If you are addicted to pornography or watching porn at all, stop doing that.
00:05:46.000 If you are doing drugs and smoking weed, stop doing that.
00:05:51.000 And I'll even go a step further.
00:05:55.000 I personally do not drink alcohol.
00:05:57.000 If you want to drink alcohol, that's fine.
00:05:59.000 If you want to do that, that's fine.
00:06:00.000 But if you want to be a high performer, Donald Trump doesn't drink alcohol.
00:06:04.000 Tucker Carlson doesn't drink alcohol.
00:06:06.000 I don't drink alcohol.
00:06:07.000 It will set you back.
00:06:09.000 Mornings will be a little bit more sluggish.
00:06:11.000 You'll forget stuff.
00:06:12.000 Nothing good happens after midnight while both parties are drunk.
00:06:16.000 So if you want to have a life of ease, go keep drinking.
00:06:21.000 But if you want to go do heroic and great stuff, maybe it's time for you to battle your flesh and not just always get drunk every single night and say, you know what?
00:06:29.000 No, instead of drinking alcohol, I'm going to go to the gym.
00:06:32.000 Instead of drinking alcohol, I'm going to hang out with friends and talk about deeper and more purposeful things.
00:06:36.000 I'm going to go to a Bible study instead of a bar.
00:06:40.000 Now, men, one of the most unattractive things that women tell us that they find in men is that young men have no self-control. 0.98
00:06:51.000 Young men do not know how to control themselves. 1.00
00:06:53.000 Ladies, would you agree?
00:06:56.000 Oh, don't worry.
00:06:57.000 I'm going to do the whole other side of this in a second.
00:06:59.000 So you better be ready.
00:07:00.000 You better be ready.
00:07:01.000 They're like, oh, yeah.
00:07:04.000 It's going to be an equal opportunity offender.
00:07:07.000 Young men, you need to have a destination in your life.
00:07:10.000 If you are on a date and a young lady says, well, what are you doing? 0.97
00:07:13.000 You're like, I kind of meander.
00:07:16.000 And I, you know, I go on DraftKings and I, you know, I own crypto and like, I don't know.
00:07:24.000 Aunt loser. 1.00
00:07:26.000 Instead it should be.
00:07:28.000 Instead, it should be.
00:07:29.000 I'm studying this because of this.
00:07:31.000 I'm going to start a business.
00:07:32.000 I'm going to work for this person.
00:07:33.000 I want to be able to make this much money by this period of time to provide for a family.
00:07:37.000 And I don't care how hard it gets, but I'll provide for you and provide for the kids.
00:07:40.000 And I will be the protector and the covering over the family.
00:07:43.000 Follow me because I'm going to lead us.
00:07:44.000 That's what they want to hear.
00:07:45.000 Thank you.
00:07:51.000 And let me tell you, there are voices out there that say, oh, young men, all modern women are garbage and just use them for sex and just use them for pleasure.
00:08:01.000 And that's BS.
00:08:02.000 And I'm going to tell you, you cannot be a Christian and believe that. 0.99
00:08:06.000 Are there problems with modern women? 1.00
00:08:08.000 Yes.
00:08:09.000 But our Lord and Savior came to this earth because God could have just teleported Jesus Christ right onto the earth.
00:08:16.000 But instead, our Lord and Savior came through a womb of a woman.
00:08:20.000 Christianity values women in a proper biblical context. 0.53
00:08:23.000 So some of the narrative that I hear at times from men that say, oh, I hate all women and they're not worthy of respect and honor.
00:08:30.000 God used women all throughout the scriptures, whether it be Ruth or Esther, whether it be Deborah.
00:08:36.000 And unfortunately, this is lost in a lot of the angst that young men have, that they'll say, I'm just done with all women.
00:08:42.000 First of all, even if it's hard, maybe you should work to improve your own life to make yourself more attractive to the woman that you want to one day find.
00:08:52.000 And there needs to be the current modern state is that they want men to be women and women to be men. 0.99
00:09:01.000 We know that.
00:09:02.000 And they want men to kind of walk around in a beta state, kind of walking around in their sweatpants all the time.
00:09:08.000 They haven't showered in three days.
00:09:10.000 They sleep until 3 o'clock in the afternoon.
00:09:13.000 Nothing about that is interesting or attractive.
00:09:15.000 Men, you know what your call to action is?
00:09:17.000 Go do something hard.
00:09:19.000 Go do something difficult.
00:09:20.000 That means go wake up at 5 o'clock in the morning.
00:09:23.000 Go for a run.
00:09:24.000 And I'm going to go there.
00:09:25.000 Men, there's no excuse to be overweight.
00:09:28.000 It's not interesting or attractive to women. 1.00
00:09:30.000 Seriously.
00:09:32.000 Go to the gym.
00:09:34.000 Stop eating so much crap.
00:09:36.000 Go on the Maha diet. 0.95
00:09:38.000 Fast for a couple of days.
00:09:40.000 Try keto.
00:09:41.000 Eat a steak, not a soy protein latte.
00:09:49.000 Everybody in this room can make yourself 5% to 10% more physically fit.
00:09:54.000 Oh, Charlie, I'm just born this way.
00:09:56.000 I have, no, look, everybody has their challenges or their struggles.
00:09:59.000 Some people have metabolisms where they eat three pizzas and it disappears.
00:10:03.000 I get it.
00:10:04.000 There is no excuse, though.
00:10:05.000 You can make yourself 10% more attractive in this room.
00:10:08.000 You can.
00:10:09.000 You can go to the gym.
00:10:10.000 You can fast.
00:10:11.000 You can go on a better diet.
00:10:12.000 You can decide, you know what?
00:10:13.000 You know what's another good thing about not drinking alcohol?
00:10:15.000 A lot of calories that you're no longer putting in your body.
00:10:18.000 A lot.
00:10:21.000 And for men, make yourself so desirable that women want to be with you. 0.59
00:10:28.000 What does desirable look like? 0.91
00:10:30.000 It doesn't mean you have to go look like a supermodel or an actor.
00:10:33.000 Women want piety in a man. 1.00
00:10:35.000 They want someone that will say, you know what?
00:10:37.000 Let's go to church together.
00:10:41.000 Let's not just go to some degenerate kind of environment.
00:10:46.000 Do you know one of the things that women want more than anything else is they want the confidence and the security that when life gets difficult and when life starts falling apart, that that man will lead them towards security and stability. 0.53
00:11:03.000 Because deep down, women have a very well-built and finely tuned, God-given instinct that they'll be able to tell in a man when the bullets start firing, is this guy going to protect me and protect my kids?
00:11:14.000 And is he going to provide or is he going to run for the hills?
00:11:17.000 And for you as the man, you need to be able to demonstrate that.
00:11:21.000 And it's in ways you might not have imagined.
00:11:23.000 And let me just give you some other practical advice.
00:11:24.000 Men, if you go on a first date with a woman and you split the check, we got serious problems.
00:11:34.000 I don't care if you have to go into debt, refinance your home, or scrub the dishes for three weeks.
00:11:42.000 You do not allow a woman to pay on the first date. 1.00
00:11:46.000 Period.
00:11:48.000 Period.
00:11:51.000 Oh, Charlie, I don't have the money.
00:11:55.000 Figure it out.
00:11:57.000 Get a job.
00:11:58.000 Borrow money.
00:12:00.000 Take out a loan on a credit card.
00:12:02.000 I don't care if you don't have $41 to cover her meal. 1.00
00:12:07.000 What is more important?
00:12:09.000 The money in your pocket or the character in your heart?
00:12:15.000 And don't worry, I'm almost done with the male portion, and then it's going to get even more fun, okay?
00:12:23.000 Which is men.
00:12:25.000 Let's be honest, we got to raise our game in this culture.
00:12:29.000 We are constantly around one.
00:12:30.000 They say, oh, just go place another bet on this running back to run 100 yards.
00:12:35.000 Just go to the cannabis dispensary and medicate yourself.
00:12:38.000 That's all a bunch of BS.
00:12:39.000 Go look to your grandfather's generation that stormed Normandy Beach, that built this nation, that started big businesses, that went on adventure.
00:12:47.000 If the most important thing for you is just feeling good, you're going to end up miserable.
00:12:53.000 But if the most important thing is doing good, you will end up purposeful.
00:12:58.000 Purpose will give you happiness.
00:13:00.000 You see, we live in a country where they think that purpose, where they think that happiness is pleasure.
00:13:07.000 We know that purpose is above all of this.
00:13:09.000 Serving God, understanding why we are here, that we are made in his image, that there is a struggle of good versus evil.
00:13:16.000 By the way, you're involved in that struggle every single day on the college campuses.
00:13:20.000 Every day you get to fight for what is good and what is true and beautiful.
00:13:23.000 So next time when you're on a college campus, and if you want to be a man, this is what you do.
00:13:27.000 If you want to stay a boy, go and do what your other friends do.
00:13:30.000 But men say, you know what?
00:13:32.000 No, I'm actually not going to go hook up with a bunch of girls. 1.00
00:13:34.000 I'm going to save myself for marriage.
00:13:35.000 Actually, I'm not going to go do that.
00:13:37.000 But if you want to go be a boy, go do that.
00:13:41.000 It takes no skill and no talent and no self-restraint whatsoever just to follow your flesh.
00:13:47.000 An animal can do that.
00:13:49.000 A dog can do that.
00:13:50.000 Do you know what mature people do?
00:13:51.000 Mature people say no to what feels good and they pursue what is good.
00:13:57.000 And far too often on college campuses, we have these grown boys and I'm talking to a lot of you in this audience and it's time for you guys to up your game.
00:14:04.000 It's time for you guys to stop doing just what feels good all the time.
00:14:07.000 Oh yeah, we're just going to go get, you know, blackout drunk till 2 a.m. and hook up with some stranger.
00:14:11.000 No, no, no.
00:14:12.000 If you want to stay in the lower standard, a miserable, miserable cycle of debt and suffering and depression, lack of community, go do that.
00:14:21.000 Instead on a Saturday night, say, you know what?
00:14:22.000 I'm going to hang out with some friends that are not going to drink, are not going to engage with this stuff.
00:14:28.000 And then maybe on Sunday morning, I'm going to go to church or I'm going to go to mass and then I'm going to go work out and then I'm going to study.
00:14:33.000 Who will be happier?
00:14:35.000 You know I'm right.
00:14:36.000 Who will be happier?
00:14:38.000 Come 12 high noon on Sunday.
00:14:40.000 The person that went crazy full of regrets, the person that went out late at night, trying to find the next 10 second orgasm, or the person that went to go after something holy or went after something divine.
00:14:54.000 And if you are not, the final thing I'll say this to the men, and then we'll go to the woman's side, which is you need to be consuming information, content, and community. 0.97
00:15:03.000 Information, content, and community around you that lifts you up, does not tear you down.
00:15:07.000 You are an average of the five people you spend the most time with.
00:15:11.000 List those people.
00:15:12.000 Who are the friends around you?
00:15:13.000 Are they lifting you up?
00:15:14.000 Or are they just talking about just quick, quick, easy gratification?
00:15:19.000 Because guess what?
00:15:19.000 The fun will end at one time.
00:15:21.000 Eventually, you're going to get out of college and the graduation ceremony will be underway and you're handed that useless diploma and you're then going to have to enter the world.
00:15:30.000 And all of a sudden, if you're like 20 pounds more overweight, but you have a lot of good memories with the buddies because you guys got a lot really drunk.
00:15:36.000 Great, terrific, okay?
00:15:38.000 The world is brutal right now.
00:15:40.000 It's tough.
00:15:41.000 Things are expensive.
00:15:42.000 It's hard to find wives. 1.00
00:15:43.000 It's hard to raise children, I should say.
00:15:45.000 to build families.
00:15:45.000 Thank you.
00:15:53.000 you Hey, everybody, Charlie Kirk here.
00:15:57.000 I'm excited to tell you that I'll be speaking at the Culture and Christianity Conference at World Outreach Church, just south of Nashville, Tennessee, this September, and I'm inviting you to join me.
00:16:08.000 My friend, Pastor Alan Jackson, organized this conference so we can address the issues we're facing in today's culture, but through the lens of God's truth.
00:16:16.000 We'll talk about what's happening in the church, the media, and with our help.
00:16:19.000 When you'll attend, you'll gain insight and valuable perspectives on what's happening in the world today.
00:16:24.000 Learn how to recognize truth from deception.
00:16:26.000 Find boldness so you could defend your faith with confidence and compassion.
00:16:30.000 Join me, Pastor Alan, Sage Steele, Dr. Bill Lyle, and many more.
00:16:35.000 September 19th and 20th.
00:16:37.000 Registration is now open.
00:16:38.000 There's never been a more important time to seek the truth, embrace the truth, and boldly deliver the truth to the people around us.
00:16:44.000 Come find out what's happening in the world around us and what you can do to make a difference.
00:16:48.000 Learn more and register at alanjackson.com slash Charlie.
00:16:52.000 That's alanjackson.com slash Charlie.
00:16:54.000 I'll see you there.
00:16:58.000 Okay, so now for the women. 1.00
00:17:01.000 Who's ready for that?
00:17:02.000 The men are ready for that.
00:17:04.000 Because the men have gotten their talking to.
00:17:07.000 Stop being boys, start being men.
00:17:09.000 Okay.
00:17:12.000 Now we're ready for the women, okay? 0.99
00:17:14.000 And now who's ready for me to get in a lot of trouble?
00:17:18.000 All right.
00:17:21.000 Women, number one, it is unspeakably unattractive to your fellow man when you have body counts that are five, six, seven, eight. 1.00
00:17:30.000 Men do not want to date women that are sleeping around campus all the time, period. 1.00
00:17:36.000 They don't.
00:17:38.000 And I see a lot of these women looking around right now. 1.00
00:17:40.000 Oh, you were applauding when I was bashing men, but when all of a sudden I'm criticizing women, you can't do that. 0.69
00:17:50.000 If you could clap for the truth on one side, be able to receive it.
00:17:53.000 It is unattractive to men when you're going around and you're bragging about how many other men you're sleeping with.
00:17:58.000 Number two, be a godly woman who, who, who is willing to submit to a husband under the covering of Almighty God.
00:18:18.000 And if you have had your belief or your mindset so muddied, so polluted by modern culture, and you call yourself a Christian, I'm going to challenge you on that. 0.60
00:18:29.000 Because in a marriage, you're going to submit to your husband and you should submit to your husband. 0.98
00:18:33.000 And by the way, the husband has an unbelievable responsibility to then submit to God and to make sure that marriage and that family is under a godly covering.
00:18:43.000 Now, some women in this audience are like, nope, not for me. 1.00
00:18:46.000 I'm going to make my own income.
00:18:48.000 I'm going to find a man and we're going to be egalitarian.
00:18:50.000 That's fine, but I'm going to just push back.
00:18:53.000 That's not God's design for marriage.
00:18:54.000 The man is the head of the household.
00:18:56.000 That is as the Bible prescribes it.
00:18:58.000 The Bible has prescribed it very and has worked for thousands of years.
00:19:01.000 And let's just ask the question, is it working?
00:19:04.000 This idea of egalitarianism?
00:19:06.000 Divorce rates are nearly 50%.
00:19:08.000 Depression is on the rise.
00:19:10.000 Anxiety is on the rise.
00:19:11.000 Because deep down, deep down, and I know this is true.
00:19:15.000 Deep down, the ladies, even in this room that play the girl boss thing on Instagram, deep down, you're begging for a man to lead you. 1.00
00:19:22.000 Deep down, you are begging for a man to provide for you.
00:19:28.000 You want it.
00:19:29.000 You might be afraid To say it, you might be afraid to articulate it, but deep down, you want your metaphorical Prince Charming to come.
00:19:37.000 So, when he does come, be willing, be open.
00:19:42.000 And for ladies, you have a lot more bargaining power than you might think. 1.00
00:19:45.000 I was asking at the table after table after table.
00:19:48.000 I said, Why is it that young women, because here's the thing, it is not new that men want sex a lot. 0.66
00:19:54.000 That is not new.
00:19:55.000 What is new is that women are giving it to them. 1.00
00:19:58.000 That is new.
00:19:59.000 That is a failed feminist project. 1.00
00:20:01.000 Why are women doing it so much? 1.00
00:20:04.000 Well, the reason, honestly, is that what I heard from the, this morning, women want love and they're seeking it in that way.
00:20:10.000 Young ladies, start saying no. 0.99
00:20:12.000 Start saying no.
00:20:14.000 Men, men want what they cannot have. 0.99
00:20:18.000 And all of a sudden, if the godly, conservative, attractive, well-put-together women on a college campus start saying, nope, actually, you have to date me seriously.
00:20:29.000 I have to know your name and know a little about you, actually.
00:20:35.000 All of a sudden, men are going to be like, well, forget all this.
00:20:38.000 Then men are going to start aiming themselves towards you. 0.97
00:20:41.000 And when they do, you need to ask the tough questions, which is, can you control yourself?
00:20:47.000 Are you, all the things I talk about with men.
00:20:49.000 And on the same side, in the same side, everybody, for young ladies, there is this toxicity that is infected.
00:20:57.000 Because everyone says toxic masculinity, there is toxic feminism within the ranks of the dating pool. 1.00
00:21:04.000 And it is toxic.
00:21:07.000 Which is, you do not have to be a man.
00:21:13.000 You don't have to present yourself as a man.
00:21:15.000 Embrace your femininity.
00:21:18.000 Allow the man to open the door for you.
00:21:20.000 Allow him to pay for the first check.
00:21:22.000 In fact, even more than that, you should expect that.
00:21:27.000 And young ladies, I'll just be very honest, though, that the bitterness that so many young women espouse towards young men, that's the reason why a lot of young women cannot find partners.
00:21:40.000 And I'll be very honest.
00:21:42.000 For the young ladies in this room, how many of you say having a family is more important than having a career?
00:21:46.000 Raise your hand.
00:21:47.000 Okay, let me just speak to you a truth.
00:21:49.000 If you are not married by the age of 30, you only have a 50% chance of having children.
00:21:55.000 If you do not have kids by the age of 30, only 50% chance.
00:21:58.000 Now, in college, they'll be like, you could freeze your eggs, you could wait for yourself.
00:22:01.000 If your top priority is family, then your top priority should be family right now.
00:22:05.000 It should be finding a husband here at CLS or the Student Action Summit.
00:22:08.000 Go find a husband. 1.00
00:22:11.000 Why are you wasting your time?
00:22:15.000 The men are like, finally, hallelujah.
00:22:18.000 Right?
00:22:23.000 For the young ladies in this room, stop consuming all that crap. 1.00
00:22:26.000 Stop listening to that degenerate sex podcast.
00:22:28.000 Call her daddy or whatever that garbage is. 1.00
00:22:30.000 Stop doing that.
00:22:31.000 It's disgusting.
00:22:33.000 I can't believe anyone listens to that garbage.
00:22:35.000 Apparently her audience is mostly women. 0.95
00:22:37.000 It's disgusting.
00:22:38.000 It's gross, actually.
00:22:40.000 And start as young women going to church, prioritizing what matters most, having community around you that wants to have children and wants to actually build a family.
00:22:56.000 And look, I could tell you, marriage is the most awesome thing.
00:22:58.000 Erica and I have the most incredible marriage.
00:23:00.000 We have two kids.
00:23:01.000 It's amazing.
00:23:02.000 But I'm also, I'm not going to lie to you.
00:23:08.000 It's hard.
00:23:09.000 It's difficult.
00:23:10.000 It's challenging.
00:23:11.000 There's sleepless nights.
00:23:12.000 If you want an easy life, go be a liberal.
00:23:18.000 If you want ease, just go say, you know what?
00:23:22.000 Give me my money.
00:23:24.000 I'm going to just watch Netflix all day long.
00:23:26.000 I'm going to smoke weed.
00:23:28.000 And that's going to be my life.
00:23:30.000 But you're not here in the summer for what's easy.
00:23:32.000 You want what's deep.
00:23:34.000 You want what is good and what is profound.
00:23:37.000 Young ladies, this is going to get me in trouble.
00:23:40.000 I don't care.
00:23:44.000 I've deleted Instagram off my phone, but at times I get these profiles sent to me where it's always like you read the profile and it's like John 3, 16, you know, with the cross, the young lady.
00:23:55.000 And they're dressed like something out of Playboy.
00:23:57.000 And I say to myself, do you think that's the way to win a man?
00:24:03.000 Do you think just plastering your half-naked body all over Instagram, just so you know, oh, wow, men only look at me for my body and look at their social media.
00:24:14.000 I wonder why.
00:24:16.000 Because you put the entire body for the world to see out for everybody.
00:24:20.000 Stop doing that.
00:24:21.000 Stop it.
00:24:29.000 And people will say, Charlie, you have no right to tell women.
00:24:33.000 You can do it if you want.
00:24:34.000 I'm telling you, it's preventing you from getting what you want.
00:24:38.000 Because women say like, well, if I plaster myself like it's the Sports Illustrated swimsuit edition all over my social media, men are going to come to me. 0.98
00:24:45.000 Oh, men will come, but they will not stay.
00:24:48.000 Thank you.
00:25:01.000 Let me see how else I can get myself in trouble.
00:25:03.000 Oh, yeah.
00:25:05.000 Young ladies, demonstrate to your future husband you know how to run a home. 1.00
00:25:13.000 Show them, yep, I know how to cook. 0.93
00:25:15.000 I know how to raise kids.
00:25:16.000 I can be tender.
00:25:18.000 I know how to do the laundry.
00:25:19.000 I can clean.
00:25:20.000 People say, you're reducing womanhood. 1.00
00:25:22.000 Running a home is one of the hardest things in the world.
00:25:22.000 I'm sorry.
00:25:25.000 My wife does stuff that like, I don't even understand. 1.00
00:25:28.000 Like, how do you do that?
00:25:30.000 Let me go even further.
00:25:32.000 Being a mom, these are the courageous warriors of our time.
00:25:36.000 We've reduced it as if they're like, oh, you just want them to be birthing centers. 0.58
00:25:40.000 Everybody, we should lift up the moms of America as being the most beautiful, important things in our country.
00:25:52.000 And we look around, we're like, oh, I'm an important woman because I'm a CEO of some shoe company.
00:25:59.000 Yay.
00:26:00.000 No, okay, okay, fine, great.
00:26:02.000 Doesn't impress me.
00:26:03.000 Do you know what does impress me?
00:26:04.000 When somebody comes to one of our turning points and say events, they're like, Yeah, I'm a mom of five.
00:26:09.000 That's impressive.
00:26:11.000 That's impressive.
00:26:13.000 And guess what?
00:26:16.000 The mom of five is going to have a legacy. 0.99
00:26:19.000 When she's on her deathbed, she'll have dozens of grandkids around her and five kids loving her. 0.80
00:26:25.000 The CEO of the shoe company or Alex Cooper.
00:26:28.000 She's going to, I mean, I don't know if Alex Cooper will have kids or whatever.
00:26:32.000 And I hope she does.
00:26:32.000 It might de-radicalize her because she's done such damage.
00:26:35.000 That perverse individual has done such damage to the female psyche in this country. 0.99
00:26:39.000 It's like unspeakable.
00:26:40.000 Men are just like women and we should liberate ourselves.
00:26:43.000 Really, how's that working?
00:26:44.000 Super depressed.
00:26:45.000 Young ladies are on medication like we've never seen before. 1.00
00:26:48.000 And they're searching for something that does not exist because they're denying what is right in front of them.
00:26:52.000 And so if you want to live a life of depth and of purpose, especially young ladies out there, this is the hardest thing because the men thing is easy.
00:27:00.000 I could talk to men all day long, right?
00:27:02.000 The thing with young ladies is that you might reject everything I'm saying. 1.00
00:27:06.000 This is just a man saying it.
00:27:07.000 Fine, you can say that.
00:27:08.000 But I'm going to tell you right now, you have to basically, you have to sound out, you have to silence out everything that you've been told by the entire popular culture.
00:27:17.000 The whole popular culture has told you men are equal to women and that you have to go on your own path all the time.
00:27:24.000 And the most important thing is just your bank account.
00:27:27.000 And if you want to go pursue your career, God bless you.
00:27:29.000 That's okay.
00:27:30.000 I'm not even shaming you into doing that.
00:27:30.000 It's a free society.
00:27:32.000 But guess what?
00:27:32.000 Statistics show 90% of the women here in this room deep down would want a family more than anything else.
00:27:38.000 And you want kids.
00:27:39.000 And guess what?
00:27:40.000 You can always pursue your career later.
00:27:44.000 You can always pursue your career later.
00:27:48.000 Last, last thing.
00:27:49.000 Young ladies, this is those who got me probably the most trouble, and then we'll go do some questions. 0.61
00:27:54.000 Young ladies, you are the best at shaming your friends. 1.00
00:27:58.000 You're amazing at it.
00:28:00.000 Mean girls is legit. 1.00
00:28:01.000 It's like an actual thing.
00:28:04.000 Stop being around other women friends without a little bit of social shame when they start bragging about their body counts and they're just talking about free sex all the time. 0.94
00:28:16.000 You don't need them as your friends.
00:28:18.000 And in fact, you should just give them a little side eye.
00:28:21.000 Be like, I'm not going to do that, actually.
00:28:24.000 They're not your friends.
00:28:31.000 And young ladies, your presentation does matter.
00:28:33.000 You can't choose your genetics.
00:28:35.000 You can choose your presentation.
00:28:37.000 You can choose how seriously you take your skincare routine.
00:28:40.000 Matters.
00:28:41.000 How you dress, whether or not you try to get that extra 5% to 10% of how you look, how you present.
00:28:47.000 That really does matter.
00:28:48.000 Because the modern world says you could just, and by the way, this whole new phenomenon, I go to these college campuses, and these girls are wearing these bike shorts. 1.00
00:28:56.000 Do you understand how deeply unattractive that is to men?
00:29:00.000 Men, do you agree?
00:29:02.000 And these young women are dressed as if they, it's some, and the young ladies are shocked to hear this. 0.87
00:29:11.000 If you want men to look at you no different than a New York strip steak, just dress around in this like ridiculous like bike shorts thing.
00:29:20.000 It's disgusting, actually.
00:29:24.000 But if you want, especially on a college campus, to be valued and appreciated, they only care about my body.
00:29:32.000 Okay, well then start creating an aura around you of piety.
00:29:37.000 Aura!
00:29:43.000 And femininity. 1.00
00:29:47.000 Young ladies, you have a lot more power than you realize.
00:29:49.000 If every young woman all of a sudden said, nope, we're going to stop giving free sex, the men would follow and would no longer be boys, they'd be men. 0.98
00:29:56.000 You do not need to chase that.
00:29:58.000 Instead, you should say, I'm saving myself from marriage.
00:30:00.000 I'm going to trust God of my plans.
00:30:02.000 And if I don't find my man, I don't find my man.
00:30:04.000 If you prioritize it as your biggest priority and your number one priority in your first couple of years, your success will be remarkable.
00:30:04.000 But guess what?
00:30:11.000 So now I'll say this for both sides.
00:30:14.000 And then we'll do questions.
00:30:16.000 You both got problems.
00:30:18.000 And here's my last kicker.
00:30:20.000 If you're a young man or a young woman in this audience, if you can't find a mate, it's your fault.
00:30:28.000 It's the modern women. 1.00
00:30:29.000 Yeah, you're right.
00:30:30.000 The men are all degenerates.
00:30:32.000 Okay, fine.
00:30:33.000 I bet I could find five things you could prove immediately.
00:30:36.000 It is easy to blame other people for your problems.
00:30:39.000 If you want to find the person to blame as to why you are alone, go look in the mirror.
00:30:44.000 It'll be one of the most important decisions you can make in your life.
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00:31:29.000 Let's do some questions.
00:31:30.000 God bless you guys.
00:31:31.000 Thank you.
00:31:35.000 Hi, Charlie.
00:31:36.000 My name is Knox, and I'm a senior in high school from Fort Worth, Texas.
00:31:40.000 And in the theme of the chapter leadership summit, what advice do you have for getting more student engagement for our chapter from the very beginning in an area that may not be as familiar with you or turning point?
00:31:51.000 So first thing that let's quiet down, guys.
00:31:56.000 The first thing is that people want to be part of something that is fun.
00:32:00.000 So you want to make it fun.
00:32:01.000 You want to make it joyful.
00:32:02.000 You want to make it purposeful.
00:32:04.000 But honestly, so much of it has to do with you.
00:32:06.000 One of the reasons why the left-wing groups on campus are dying is that the people that are running them are so ugly on the inside and out.
00:32:13.000 They're so nasty and no one wants to associate with them.
00:32:17.000 So be the opposite of that.
00:32:19.000 Be welcoming.
00:32:20.000 Even if people have different viewpoints, be open.
00:32:25.000 Be long-suffering.
00:32:27.000 Be honestly like, okay, you don't agree?
00:32:28.000 That's fine.
00:32:29.000 Still come.
00:32:30.000 No one wants to join a movement with unhappy people.
00:32:34.000 It's one of the reasons why we've had such success at Turning Point USA.
00:32:37.000 God bless you, man.
00:32:37.000 Thanks for running the group.
00:32:38.000 Thank you.
00:32:44.000 Hi, Charlie.
00:32:45.000 My name is Delaney.
00:32:46.000 I'm from Turner, Maine.
00:32:48.000 And I'm someone who, like, my biggest goal in life is marriage.
00:32:52.000 Like, anything else, like, I want to be a mom so much.
00:32:55.000 I wanted to know how you and Erica keep a God-centered marriage and a healthy marriage.
00:33:01.000 Yeah, it's a great question.
00:33:03.000 So, by the way, if you want to get married as your top priority, then the chances are you will.
00:33:09.000 What you make your top priority in life, you likely hit.
00:33:13.000 You think about it.
00:33:14.000 For a lot of young people, their top priority is just to feel good.
00:33:18.000 They make it happen.
00:33:20.000 It's amazing.
00:33:21.000 We are creatures designed by God to have to aim at something, to have to have a destination, to have to have purpose.
00:33:28.000 For us, so I'm actually writing a book about this.
00:33:30.000 I'm a big believer in it.
00:33:32.000 I think that everyone here should do this, which is I honor the Sabbath every year, every year.
00:33:37.000 That's your week.
00:33:39.000 And I encourage everyone to do this.
00:33:41.000 Turn off your phone for one day a week.
00:33:44.000 The world will keep on turning and you will be happier.
00:33:46.000 What that has meant for our marriage, by honoring the Sabbath, it makes it easier to spend time with the kids, to go to church, to be with one another, and to kind of have a holy covering around that.
00:33:57.000 And so I encourage all of you guys, you are not so important where you have to have your phone on every single day.
00:34:02.000 Pick one day a week for us.
00:34:04.000 It's Friday night to Sunday morning.
00:34:05.000 I turn my phone off completely.
00:34:07.000 I'm unreachable by the outside world.
00:34:09.000 My mind gets clarified.
00:34:11.000 My body feels better.
00:34:13.000 I'm not going down checking for notifications all the time.
00:34:16.000 And so that's one of the ways we do it.
00:34:18.000 And secondly, it's through spiritual disciplines.
00:34:20.000 My wife and I pray together.
00:34:22.000 We fast together.
00:34:24.000 We go to church together.
00:34:25.000 And men, let me tell you something that you will never forget.
00:34:28.000 When you get married, it is your biblical obligation to bring your family to church on a regular basis.
00:34:34.000 That is the man's role.
00:34:35.000 Now, let me tell you.
00:34:38.000 Let me tell you.
00:34:39.000 When you do not do that and the mom brings the kids to church, that's still okay.
00:34:45.000 But studies show that if the mom only brings the kids to church, the likelihood of the kids falling in the faith is very low.
00:34:52.000 But if the dad brings the kids to church, the likelihood is extremely high.
00:34:58.000 And I'm sure a lot of you were raised in families where the mom was very religious and the dad was, meh.
00:35:04.000 Who here can resonate with that?
00:35:05.000 Raise your hand.
00:35:05.000 A lot of hands go up.
00:35:07.000 Men, don't create that family for yourself.
00:35:10.000 I know that, you know, you want to sleep in or, you know, you want to watch a football game.
00:35:14.000 Get your act together.
00:35:16.000 Bring your wife, bring your kids, and bring them to church. 0.99
00:35:19.000 That sets an example for your kids that you value God over comfort.
00:35:24.000 It's a very, very important truth.
00:35:26.000 Thank you so much.
00:35:27.000 Thank you.
00:35:33.000 Good morning, Charlie.
00:35:34.000 My name is Yaslam.
00:35:35.000 I'm from Texas.
00:35:36.000 I am studying both business and Christian studies as someone whose deepest desire is to be a wife and a mom and embrace a biblical family.
00:35:43.000 Do you believe that the current economic climate in the U.S. will realistically support that lifestyle for future generations?
00:35:49.000 Right now it does not.
00:35:50.000 And this is something I hope President Trump really fixes.
00:35:53.000 It is harder than ever to own a home, harder than ever to afford basic necessities.
00:35:57.000 By the way, just so we are clear, this is not an excuse not to have kids.
00:36:01.000 Even if you don't have the money to have the kids, you should still have kids.
00:36:04.000 It's never a reason not to bring new souls into this world.
00:36:08.000 It might be hard.
00:36:10.000 It might be difficult.
00:36:13.000 There might be some challenges, but it will develop your character.
00:36:17.000 We need to make it easier to be able to own homes.
00:36:19.000 We need to, first and foremost, we need to deport about 20 million people in this country that are here unnecessarily. 1.00
00:36:29.000 Secondly, we need to make it easier to own homes.
00:36:31.000 We need to build like 10 million homes.
00:36:33.000 The American dream that your parents experienced is increasingly out of reach for many of you.
00:36:39.000 This is why President Trump won, and it's time that we actually fulfill that mandate.
00:36:43.000 It is harder than ever to support a family of four in this country.
00:36:46.000 In 1985, you could support a family of four with about 35 weeks of labor, one husband or one father.
00:36:54.000 Now it requires 60 weeks of labor, so the wife has to go into the workforce. 1.00
00:36:58.000 People say, Charlie, what is success look like?
00:37:02.000 If I was running the whole operation, it would be one very simple goal.
00:37:05.000 You ready?
00:37:06.000 I want a country where the mom does not have to go work if she does not want to go work. 0.99
00:37:12.000 It's that simple.
00:37:15.000 If she wants to go work, great, fine, terrific.
00:37:19.000 No, I mean that.
00:37:20.000 Like some people make it work, but I think you all in this audience know there's something cruel and unusual for a mom of a nine-month-old to have to give over that nine-month-old to strangers to go work at some stupid dead-end job as like an administrator.
00:37:36.000 Nothing against her.
00:37:36.000 She's got to do what she's got to do.
00:37:38.000 There's something wrong about that.
00:37:39.000 There's something disordered about that.
00:37:41.000 There's something cruel and unusual.
00:37:43.000 Here's my nine-month-old baby daycare.
00:37:45.000 And by the way, if you use daycare, that's fine.
00:37:46.000 I'm not criticizing you.
00:37:47.000 But I think deep down, most moms sob inside when they drive to daycare, wishing they could actually raise their kids all day long, but the economics are messing it up. 1.00
00:37:57.000 And let me just say one last thing to the men.
00:37:58.000 For men out there, this will not apply to all of you because some of you guys might end up being police officers or firefighters or join the military.
00:38:05.000 And God bless you for that.
00:38:06.000 We need more people to do that.
00:38:07.000 I mean that.
00:38:09.000 However, men, you need early on in life to do whatever it takes to try, if it makes working two jobs, not sleeping, going through the night, that during that precious period of time, you can buy, literally buy, your wife to be able to stay at home.
00:38:30.000 We as men should do everything humanly possible to make that happen.
00:38:35.000 Thank you so much.
00:38:35.000 God bless you.
00:38:39.000 Good morning, Charlie.
00:38:40.000 My name is Mason Fouquet.
00:38:42.000 I'm the vice president of the Wichita State University chapter.
00:38:45.000 My mom and dad have religiously followed your videos for years.
00:38:48.000 They've made me a huge fan, and I was able to join Turning Point through that, so I'm extremely thankful.
00:38:53.000 My question is, one thing my mom always tells me is that she's scared for my generation when we're in our 40s, 50s, and 60s.
00:39:01.000 What do you think is the number one most imminent danger for us that we're going to be seeing as we get older?
00:39:07.000 Several.
00:39:07.000 Great question.
00:39:08.000 First and foremost, and I think we're changing it.
00:39:10.000 I think you guys are changing it just by.
00:39:13.000 I got to remark on something.
00:39:14.000 And by the way, Art, can you give it up for the turning point?
00:39:16.000 You say, staff, they do such a great job.
00:39:18.000 Don't they do a great job?
00:39:19.000 And so, they really do a great job.
00:39:22.000 But let me say, we've been doing this chapter leadership summit for a couple years.
00:39:29.000 And a couple years, six years ago, seven years ago, there wouldn't have been this kind of applause for God or for traditional masculinity or femininity.
00:39:38.000 This is a new thing that you and Gen Z are leading.
00:39:42.000 So I think we're starting to spiritually repair the country.
00:39:45.000 So the biggest problem more than anything else is spiritual sickness.
00:39:49.000 The fact that we are distancing ourselves from God, that we think we're our own God, it's a massive problem.
00:39:55.000 That will destroy everything.
00:39:56.000 That will explode the national debt.
00:39:58.000 That will keep the borders open.
00:40:00.000 That will make kids increasingly trans. 0.99
00:40:02.000 That's a huge problem is the spiritual sickness.
00:40:06.000 If we can fix that, the next couple other problems is we need to deport 20 million people or else we will not have a country, period. 0.93
00:40:14.000 We need mass deportations and we need them now. 1.00
00:40:16.000 Thirdly, other threats.
00:40:21.000 You look at the rise of Zoran Mamdani and Europe.
00:40:25.000 The rise of Islamism in the West is a major problem. 1.00
00:40:30.000 If you do not share American values, you are not welcome in the United States of America.
00:40:36.000 End of story.
00:40:36.000 Period.
00:40:41.000 And so the rise of Islamism is a major, major problem. 1.00
00:40:47.000 And so finally, I would say other threats.
00:40:50.000 Obviously, the debt and the deficit, our educational gap, but I'm actually optimistic.
00:40:55.000 You know, I'm optimistic.
00:40:56.000 You understand this room, you know, 1,200 students like you could change the world.
00:41:00.000 The impact that you can have on campus, the offices that you will run on, and guys, do you understand?
00:41:05.000 We're going to have 7,000 up in the main room coming up in just a couple of hours.
00:41:09.000 And so the ripple effect of what 7,000 people can do that are building godly marriages and putting together ordered homes and supporting their churches and supporting their communities.
00:41:20.000 Imagine that ripple effect.
00:41:23.000 So I got a lot of concerns, but I also am staring at a lot of hope.
00:41:27.000 Thank you so much.
00:41:27.000 God bless you.
00:41:28.000 Thank you, Charlie.
00:41:29.000 We'd love to see you at Wichita State.
00:41:30.000 Thank you.
00:41:34.000 Hello, Charlie.
00:41:35.000 I am 19 years old and I'm engaged to the love of my life and my best.
00:41:39.000 Amazing.
00:41:40.000 That's incredible.
00:41:40.000 Give it up for you.
00:41:46.000 So we met in church and we've been together for four years now.
00:41:50.000 I wanted to know what your advice is for criticism from others outside of the church, even criticism in the church for being engaged and getting married so young.
00:42:00.000 This is so amazing.
00:42:01.000 So what denomination are you?
00:42:03.000 We're non-denominational.
00:42:04.000 Yeah, just to be clear, again, I'm not Catholic.
00:42:07.000 I have big problems with Catholicism, but I have incredible respect for Catholicism, like more so than almost most evangelicals.
00:42:13.000 There would not be, I think, a single Catholic diocese that would criticize a 19-year-old for getting married.
00:42:19.000 Like, what is wrong with us evangelicals that someone would dare criticize a 19-year-old for getting married?
00:42:25.000 Shame on us as evangelicals who do that.
00:42:27.000 It's disgusting, actually.
00:42:29.000 Disgusting, right?
00:42:32.000 So I want you to think about this.
00:42:34.000 Here's a young lady at 19, and I pray your marriage works out and lasts long, and you should need to work at that.
00:42:40.000 I'll give you some advice on that, right?
00:42:42.000 But they're like, oh, you're too young.
00:42:43.000 So here's a young lady that's rejecting hookup culture. 1.00
00:42:47.000 She's rejecting kind of aimless promiscuity.
00:42:49.000 She wants to have children, I'm imagining, right?
00:42:52.000 And she's doing it at a young, appropriate age, and you receive criticism by doing that.
00:42:57.000 You know what that goes to show?
00:42:59.000 The American evangelical church has been infected by modernity and feminism, and that needs to be completely collapsed and rebuilt in a biblical image.
00:43:13.000 It's repulsive.
00:43:15.000 And it doesn't surprise me because so much American Christianity, again, this is why so many kids are becoming Catholic. 0.87
00:43:21.000 I'm trying to tell evangelicals, I'm like, it's happening, it's happening fast.
00:43:25.000 Again, I have deep respect for Catholicism, and I get it.
00:43:28.000 I understand it.
00:43:29.000 Again, I'm not Catholic, but I think Catholicism has done a lot of good for the world and continues to.
00:43:35.000 But one of the reasons why is that our American evangelical churches have become so socially liberal.
00:43:42.000 And this is an example.
00:43:43.000 The criticism, tune it out.
00:43:45.000 You serve one entity, and that is God and God Almighty.
00:43:49.000 You don't serve man. 0.95
00:43:50.000 You don't serve their approval.
00:43:53.000 You serve God.
00:43:54.000 Now, let me give you some piece of advice.
00:43:57.000 You need to do premarital counseling.
00:43:59.000 I hope you are.
00:44:00.000 But I'm going to write a book.
00:44:01.000 I got a couple books.
00:44:02.000 I got the Sabbath book.
00:44:03.000 And then the next book I'm going to write is 100 questions that you need to answer before you get married.
00:44:08.000 And people are really excited about this, right?
00:44:10.000 So let me give you a couple.
00:44:13.000 Are you ready?
00:44:14.000 Okay.
00:44:15.000 I hope you know this.
00:44:17.000 You need to know first your own nature.
00:44:19.000 Are you introverted or extroverted?
00:44:21.000 And then you need to know your spouse's nature.
00:44:23.000 Are they introverted or extroverted?
00:44:24.000 You need to ask another question.
00:44:26.000 I got like, I got 100 of them.
00:44:27.000 Another really good one.
00:44:29.000 Were they raised?
00:44:30.000 This is one that almost no one ever asks.
00:44:32.000 Were they raised in a home that was open or closed?
00:44:36.000 How many of you were raised in a closed home?
00:44:38.000 No friends over, very quiet nights.
00:44:41.000 You know what I'm talking about, right?
00:44:42.000 Parents were like, you know, don't ever bring anyone over without permission.
00:44:46.000 You do a barbecue once a decade.
00:44:48.000 You know what I'm talking about?
00:44:49.000 Now, how many of you were raised in an open home, which was like full house?
00:44:53.000 Everyone comes on over.
00:44:54.000 You know what I'm talking about?
00:44:55.000 Now, imagine you're about to get married to someone that was raised in an open home and you were raised in a closed home, right?
00:45:04.000 Disaster.
00:45:05.000 They're going to just start inviting people over.
00:45:07.000 You're a party.
00:45:08.000 You're not used to that.
00:45:09.000 You're like, wait, no, no, the home is sacred.
00:45:11.000 Like, no, the home is open.
00:45:12.000 The home is fun.
00:45:13.000 And that creates a ton of tension.
00:45:15.000 Here's a big one who's going to control the money, do a sample budget for three years.
00:45:21.000 What's an acceptable amount of debt?
00:45:22.000 Who gets the credit cards?
00:45:23.000 Who pays off the credit cards?
00:45:25.000 How often are you going to vacation?
00:45:26.000 Here's another one that no one talks about.
00:45:27.000 What types of vacation?
00:45:29.000 For example, I think cruises are no different than Gitmo.
00:45:32.000 Like, I think cruises are awful.
00:45:35.000 Do you agree?
00:45:36.000 People can boom me.
00:45:37.000 Do you guys agree?
00:45:38.000 No, that's fine.
00:45:41.000 I'm not marrying you, so I don't care.
00:45:43.000 So I don't seek to appease your weird love of being seasick for eight days and eating food that gives you food, seasickness, and a bunch of people fighting in the pool.
00:45:52.000 Like, what is that?
00:45:53.000 That's a vacation?
00:45:54.000 Like, I mean, I think cruises are disgusting.
00:45:57.000 But anyway, some people love cruises.
00:46:00.000 And they want, like, for them, it's big.
00:46:02.000 You know, you don't have to worry about anything.
00:46:03.000 And I get that.
00:46:03.000 Everything's taken care of.
00:46:04.000 It's fine.
00:46:04.000 It's not how I'm wired.
00:46:05.000 So you have to figure out what type of vacations.
00:46:07.000 Here's the biggest one that almost never gets discussed because it's taboo.
00:46:10.000 You need to say, honey, what vices are you currently struggling with, public and private?
00:46:16.000 And what will be acceptable vices in our marriage?
00:46:19.000 It's better to find out now if you're struggling with pornography than later.
00:46:23.000 Because you can figure that out.
00:46:25.000 You can have sympathy for it.
00:46:26.000 People don't talk about, oh, my husband doesn't watch pornography.
00:46:29.000 He maybe doesn't.
00:46:29.000 Maybe does.
00:46:30.000 But you should confront that.
00:46:32.000 Or what will be acceptable vices?
00:46:33.000 Will it be okay to drink in the home?
00:46:35.000 How often will drinking be tolerated?
00:46:38.000 One drink, two drinks, three drinks?
00:46:40.000 Drinking on weeknights, drinking on weekends?
00:46:42.000 How about this?
00:46:44.000 How early are we going to wake up?
00:46:45.000 Are you a sleeper in or are you an early riser?
00:46:48.000 Right?
00:46:48.000 Other things.
00:46:49.000 Is it okay to smoke marijuana?
00:46:51.000 Are we going to have dessert a lot?
00:46:52.000 Are we going to be okay to kind of just be a slovenly couple or do we really want to care about our fitness and how we look?
00:46:57.000 This is important stuff that you think you probably know about your spouse that you don't.
00:47:02.000 That needs to be said audibly and written down and a third party needs to coach you through that.
00:47:08.000 And all of a sudden, you know, they'll say this and he'll be like, oh yeah, it's perfectly fine that I smoke a cigar.
00:47:12.000 You smoke a cigar?
00:47:14.000 Big, right?
00:47:16.000 And so you go through that early and you figure out some framework because here's the key.
00:47:20.000 Premarital counseling will give you the framework to refer to when things start to fall apart because they will.
00:47:27.000 And if you didn't do that premarital work, there's no framework and everyone acts surprised.
00:47:32.000 And the other one, which I think is really important, does your spouse have male friends?
00:47:38.000 If you are marrying a man and he does not have close male friends, that is a red flag.
00:47:43.000 I'm just being, I'm not trying to break up your marriage, by the way, but it is critical if a man does not, and then meet his friends.
00:47:50.000 And for men out there, same with your future wife.
00:47:54.000 Does she have close female friends and meet her friends? 1.00
00:47:57.000 Because let me tell you right now, when things go bad, she's going to start spending time with her friends and you want to know who they are and what their character is.
00:48:05.000 Final point.
00:48:06.000 This is more for men than it is for women. 0.99
00:48:08.000 Men, you are marrying your future mother-in-law.
00:48:13.000 The mom becomes the mother more times than not. 0.96
00:48:16.000 Make sure you get to know the mother, who she is, how she acts, gets along with her.
00:48:21.000 And if not, be like, is that who I would eventually want to be with 20 or 30 years from now?
00:48:26.000 My mother-in-law is like the greatest person ever.
00:48:27.000 She's an angel.
00:48:28.000 It's a lot of advice.
00:48:30.000 I don't remember your question, but I wish you well on your marriage and God bless you.
00:48:34.000 So thank you.
00:48:35.000 Thank you.
00:48:39.000 Hey, everybody, Charlie Kirk here.
00:48:41.000 I'm excited to tell you that I'll be speaking at the Culture and Christianity Conference at World Outreach Church just south of Nashville, Tennessee this September, and I'm inviting you to join me.
00:48:51.000 My friend, Pastor Alan Jackson, organized this conference so we can address the issues we're facing in today's culture, but through the lens of God's truth.
00:49:00.000 We'll talk about what's happening in the church, the media, and with our help.
00:49:03.000 When you'll attend, you'll gain insight and valuable perspectives on what's happening in the world today.
00:49:08.000 Learn how to recognize truth from deception.
00:49:10.000 Find boldness so you could defend your faith with confidence and compassion.
00:49:14.000 Join me, Pastor Alan, Sage Steele, Dr. Bill Lyle, and many more.
00:49:19.000 September 19th and 20th.
00:49:20.000 Registration is now open.
00:49:22.000 There's never been a more important time to seek the truth, embrace the truth, and boldly deliver the truth to the people around us.
00:49:28.000 Come find out what's happening in the world around us and what you can do to make a difference.
00:49:32.000 Learn more and register at alanjackson.com slash Charlie.
00:49:36.000 That's alanjackson.com slash Charlie.
00:49:38.000 I'll see you there.
00:49:42.000 My name is Ashley.
00:49:43.000 I'm from North Carolina, and I do have a question, but before that, I just wanted to let you know.
00:49:47.000 I'm married.
00:49:48.000 I have two children.
00:49:49.000 Praise the Lord.
00:49:50.000 God bless you.
00:49:50.000 Thank you.
00:49:54.000 I just want to let you know that listening to you, being around you, and being around all the people here, being a part of Turning Point has changed my life more than anything.
00:50:03.000 And I'm so appreciative of it.
00:50:04.000 And I love, it's crazy that I'm even this close to you.
00:50:07.000 Like, this is nuts.
00:50:09.000 But I tried to find a question that you hadn't been asked before because I figured everybody had been asking about abortion and stuff, but nobody did.
00:50:18.000 Anyways, my question is, what are your thoughts on physician-assisted suicide?
00:50:23.000 Should it be legal for individuals with severe depression or should it be limited to those with terminal illnesses?
00:50:30.000 I'm against it in all cases.
00:50:32.000 I'm against physician-assisted suicide.
00:50:34.000 So let me tell you why.
00:50:38.000 First, it's called euthanasia clinically is what it's called.
00:50:44.000 First of all, in Canada, it is widespread.
00:50:47.000 There is a guy by the name of Dr. Kvorkian.
00:50:50.000 Dr. Death, you might remember reading about him.
00:50:52.000 You should research Dr. Kevorkian.
00:50:55.000 And it turns out he was doing it in a predatory way, finding people with depression and just getting them up for just assisted physician suicide.
00:51:02.000 Why do we stand against it?
00:51:04.000 Well, in a culture of life, absent you taking another life, because I am actually pro-death penalty because you deserve it, because the Bible commands it.
00:51:12.000 But outside of that, just because you have depression, that is not a reason to take your life.
00:51:17.000 And I know that people suffer from it, but we do not believe that you just press the escape hatch on life when things are difficult or hard, that life is a precious gift from God.
00:51:26.000 So people will say, well, it's their choice.
00:51:28.000 It's bodily autonomy.
00:51:30.000 What we find is that these clinicians are literal predators.
00:51:34.000 They will go after poor people that are suffering and just offer them this.
00:51:38.000 And they have so much potentiality.
00:51:40.000 Last point I'll make on this.
00:51:41.000 There was a young lady.
00:51:42.000 I think she was in the Netherlands or in Sweden.
00:51:45.000 She was like 31 years old.
00:51:46.000 Do you guys remember this?
00:51:47.000 She was on TikTok about a year and a half ago and it went super viral.
00:51:52.000 And she was like, I'm depressed.
00:51:54.000 I've tried everything.
00:51:55.000 I'm going to do physician-assisted suicide.
00:51:57.000 31 years old.
00:51:59.000 I'm sorry.
00:51:59.000 There's something deeply wrong with modernity and the West.
00:52:03.000 If a 31-year-old goes and kills herself with physician-assisted suicide.
00:52:08.000 And guess what?
00:52:09.000 We already have a suicide epidemic.
00:52:11.000 Why would we make it even bigger?
00:52:13.000 The problem is not that it's too easy to kill yourself.
00:52:16.000 It's that we've not given people the right reasons to live.
00:52:19.000 And everybody, if you want to summarize modernity, it is a death cult.
00:52:24.000 Modernity is abortion, death cult, physician, physician, suicide, death cult, endless war, death cult.
00:52:30.000 I mean, you look at the amount of culture of death.
00:52:33.000 We stand for a culture of life.
00:52:35.000 What does it say in the scriptures?
00:52:37.000 The enemy has come to lie, steal, cheat, and destroy.
00:52:40.000 Christ says, but I have come to give life and life more abundantly.
00:52:44.000 John 10, 10.
00:52:45.000 God bless you.
00:52:46.000 Thank you so much.
00:52:47.000 Thank you.
00:52:53.000 Hey, Charlie.
00:52:54.000 First of all, it's so nice to finally meet you in person.
00:52:58.000 My name is Colton Reisgaard.
00:53:02.000 My question is, as a leader of a conservative organization at UNC Wilmington, how can we win over students who quietly agree with us, but are too afraid to speak out on campus?
00:53:14.000 Yeah, it's a tough question.
00:53:15.000 I mean, that's where you need to try to build your chapter into critical mass, to try to get the membership numbers and to try to get the students that are so big that they can't ignore you.
00:53:24.000 And I think we've done that.
00:53:25.000 I mean, where's my University of Florida, Florida State University?
00:53:28.000 Our campus tour this last semester was unbelievable.
00:53:31.000 By the way, we're going to a lot more of your campuses this fall.
00:53:34.000 We're coming to a campus near you.
00:53:36.000 It's going to be amazing.
00:53:38.000 So I wish I had a more non-generic answer, but generally, here's what I'll say.
00:53:44.000 You need to make it fun.
00:53:45.000 You need to make it where people feel that they will not have the social cost of them being deleted.
00:53:51.000 And you do that through numbers, and you do that through you kind of taking the bullets for them, if that makes sense.
00:53:56.000 We're running low on time.
00:53:57.000 I wish I could give a longer answer.
00:53:58.000 Thank you so much.
00:53:59.000 God bless you.
00:54:00.000 God bless.
00:54:00.000 Thank you.
00:54:03.000 Hi, Charlie.
00:54:04.000 It's an honor to meet you.
00:54:05.000 My name is Michael Abel, and I am the treasurer of the Cleveland State University branch of TPUSA.
00:54:14.000 And my question is, what is your opinion of Edward Snowden and should President Trump pardon him?
00:54:21.000 Yes.
00:54:22.000 He should be pardoned.
00:54:23.000 Thank you very much.
00:54:24.000 God bless you, Charlotte.
00:54:25.000 Thank you.
00:54:28.000 Hello, Mr. Kirk.
00:54:30.000 It's finally nice to meet you.
00:54:31.000 My name is James Joseph Ahm, and I'm the president of the Catholic University of America.
00:54:35.000 First and foremost, my girlfriend is a huge fan of yours.
00:54:38.000 I want to give a shout out to my girlfriend, Haley. 0.98
00:54:40.000 I love you so much, Haley.
00:54:42.000 You're the president.
00:54:43.000 I love you so much, Haley.
00:54:45.000 Now, my question is for you, is my chapter has been facing a lot of, like, our administration has tried multiple ways to shut our chapter down.
00:54:55.000 At Catholic University.
00:54:56.000 Yes, at Catholic University.
00:54:57.000 That's the thing.
00:54:58.000 I know it's the Catholic school, but our administration, they're extremely liberal.
00:55:02.000 But my question is for you is for future people who, you know, want to continue my chapter, because currently I'm the president and my secretary is here.
00:55:10.000 I don't know where he is, but he's somewhere here.
00:55:12.000 How can I still maintain my connection with people in my university while also still continuing like my day-to-day life?
00:55:20.000 So do you mean once you graduate or I'm already graduated, sir?
00:55:23.000 Yeah, you need to find a core of good students.
00:55:26.000 So succession planning is a big thing that we deal with at Turning Point USA.
00:55:29.000 You have to find a good core of students that are younger.
00:55:32.000 And honestly, I bet you can find them through the student organization fair.
00:55:36.000 But are you going to work in DC or are you going to move out of DC?
00:55:40.000 I'm going to stay in DC because that's what I'm going to do.
00:55:41.000 Staying in DC helps, right?
00:55:44.000 But finding at least two or three core students to be able to pass that chapter down is instrumental and very important.
00:55:51.000 God bless you and get married young.
00:55:52.000 Thank you, man.
00:55:53.000 Thank you so much.
00:55:57.000 Hi, Charlie.
00:55:58.000 My name is Emmett Roberts.
00:55:59.000 I am the chapter president at the brand new chapter at the College of Central Florida in Ocala.
00:56:05.000 Awesome.
00:56:06.000 First of all, I just want to thank you so much for everything that you've done for America, but also for Christ.
00:56:13.000 You are a great example of what it means to be Christ-like.
00:56:17.000 In your debates, you're not only there to preach the truth and protect America, but you're there to preach the gospel.
00:56:28.000 And you do that with such compassion.
00:56:30.000 And I just wanted to thank you for that.
00:56:32.000 Thank you for that.
00:56:33.000 My question goes back to home.
00:56:35.000 I lead a Bible study, and we have about 25 kids.
00:56:40.000 And we got a family in from Canada.
00:56:44.000 They're immigrating, and the older brother, and that, there's two siblings.
00:56:50.000 The older brother is a friend of mine.
00:56:51.000 He just turned 18.
00:56:52.000 So he has the decision of whether or not to actually pursue citizenship.
00:56:58.000 I have a lot of respect for him.
00:57:00.000 And he's not really considering pursuing citizenship in America.
00:57:05.000 Because first of all, and I agree with him on this, is that we are citizens of the kingdom of God.
00:57:12.000 And he says, second of all, that any earthly citizenship is essentially irrelevant.
00:57:17.000 So I have two questions.
00:57:18.000 First of all, should I, as a Christian, should I try to persuade him or convince him to pursue American citizenship?
00:57:26.000 And second of all, how do I?
00:57:28.000 Yeah, so from a Christian perspective, a citizenship is not irrelevant.
00:57:33.000 You should remind him.
00:57:33.000 That is not a biblical stance.
00:57:35.000 So the people of Israel had different laws and customs than those outside of the nation of Israel.
00:57:40.000 Even Paul, when he was under persecution, he invoked his Roman citizenship.
00:57:45.000 It mattered to Paul.
00:57:46.000 So that's a good thing to tell your friend, being like, even when Paul was up against all the opposition, that is why Paul was beheaded.
00:57:53.000 He was not crucified because Roman citizens were never crucified.
00:57:56.000 It was in Roman law.
00:57:58.000 So citizenship actually does matter.
00:58:00.000 We get the whole concept of citizenship from the Bible.
00:58:02.000 If he doesn't want to be an American citizen, then I would ask him, then why are you here? 0.73
00:58:08.000 Why are you benefiting from all the blessings, enjoying all the privileges, but you want to engage in none of the responsibility?
00:58:18.000 How is that biblical?
00:58:20.000 How is it biblical just to live in a place and I'm not saying he's leeching, but he's not contributing.
00:58:26.000 He might be paying taxes, but now when you're a citizen, it is a different standard.
00:58:30.000 It is a different standard.
00:58:32.000 And so I would ask him that question.
00:58:34.000 And again, there's nothing biblical about his belief.
00:58:37.000 He is right that our true citizenship is in the kingdom of God.
00:58:40.000 The Bible also says, though, that nations will be judged in the end of times, that nations and boundaries and borders are all biblical examples for that reason.
00:58:48.000 Nehemiah built the wall in the book of Deuteronomy. 0.51
00:58:50.000 There were stones put around the border edges of the nation of Israel.
00:58:55.000 And so it sounds like it's somewhat of a modern socially left view that he has.
00:59:01.000 And if he doesn't want to be an American citizen, ask him, fine, why don't you go to Ottawa or Toronto and tell me how free it is versus here in America?
00:59:11.000 Why don't you go on the streets of Toronto and give a sermon in the open air about how Muhammad was a pedophile? 0.98
00:59:19.000 Can you do that?
00:59:21.000 No, they would come after you for hate speech, blasphemy laws, or some Muhammadan would come hunt you in the streets.
00:59:27.000 We in America have freedom of speech.
00:59:29.000 And what drives me nuts, I'm not saying your friend is in this category, is people that come here and have no appreciation for how awesome this country is and how amazing it is.
00:59:39.000 Thank you so much.
00:59:45.000 Hey, my name is Hank Limbaugh from Johns Creek, Georgia.
00:59:47.000 And I was wondering, what effect will AI have on future jobs?
00:59:52.000 A huge effect.
00:59:53.000 I mean, that's part of one of the reasons why I say college is a scam.
00:59:56.000 A lot of the jobs that you guys are pursuing are going to be replaced.
00:59:59.000 However, I will say that when I asked people their majors, there were some really good answers.
01:00:04.000 You know, animal science, that's not going to be replaced by AI anytime soon.
01:00:07.000 You know, certain electrical engineering jobs.
01:00:09.000 But what will be disrupted is that mid-level management, the middle part of the, I see the college scam book right there, the kind of middle part of these companies.
01:00:19.000 What matters most, and unfortunately, this is lost on a lot of college education.
01:00:23.000 What matters most is not the skills you get, but the character you develop.
01:00:28.000 The character you develop will be everlasting, much longer than the skills that you get while you're in college.
01:00:34.000 But look, I mean, I bet half you guys in this audience are writing your essays with ChatGPT.
01:00:38.000 Like, I bet.
01:00:39.000 And you know I'm right.
01:00:42.000 Oh, only one fourth.
01:00:43.000 I'm sorry.
01:00:43.000 Yeah.
01:00:44.000 But look, AI can be a good thinking partner, but I'm telling you guys, be very careful if you are replacing your own ability to reason with AI.
01:00:53.000 You will be less human, and there is nothing sacred and nothing biblical with you outsourcing your humanity to a bunch of numbers on a screen.
01:01:01.000 Thank you so much.
01:01:02.000 Appreciate it.
01:01:02.000 Thank you.
01:01:05.000 This will be our last question.
01:01:09.000 Hi, I'm Mackenzie, and I'm actually a Canadian citizen.
01:01:14.000 So my question for you is, as someone who is pursuing American citizenship.
01:01:20.000 Good for you.
01:01:20.000 You want to be a citizen.
01:01:21.000 Yeah, good.
01:01:22.000 Yeah.
01:01:25.000 As someone who is pursuing American citizenship, how do I get involved in American causes without being able to vote?
01:01:32.000 So you can volunteer as a Canadian citizen.
01:01:34.000 You can help on campaigns.
01:01:36.000 You can advocate with part of Turning Point USA.
01:01:38.000 You don't need to be a citizen for any of that.
01:01:40.000 But once you become a citizen, then you can vote.
01:01:42.000 All those things as a Canadian citizen are so important.
01:01:45.000 And just the demonstration and the contrast between how Canada is right now versus America is such a dramatic one that I think should invigorate almost everybody.
01:01:54.000 So thank you so much.
01:01:55.000 Really appreciate it.
01:01:56.000 In closing, everybody, what makes your presence here so dramatic is that you have signed up for something hard.
01:02:06.000 If you wanted what was easy, you would be a campus liberal shouting about some alleged injustice.
01:02:11.000 But you have decided, even though you might get canceled, even though you might be smeared or slandered, that you are pursuing the betterment for the United States of America.
01:02:20.000 And look around this room.
01:02:23.000 You are not alone.
01:02:25.000 In this room, you are not alone.
01:02:27.000 You are around thousands of other fellow travelers that are willing to also fight and sacrifice for this nation.
01:02:34.000 So what does success look like for your generation?
01:02:37.000 20 years from now, we want to look back at this chapter leadership summit.
01:02:41.000 We want to say 20 years from now, church attendance has gone up.
01:02:43.000 20 years from now, we want to say that the birth rate was reversed.
01:02:46.000 20 years from now, we want to say the suicide rate has reversed.
01:02:50.000 20 years from now, we want to say that you're able to own homes, run businesses, that men can be men and women can be women, and that men will no longer be in female sports or female locker rooms.
01:02:59.000 20 years from now, 20 years from now, we want a nation that speaks English, has a unified culture, that values God again, that has not been taken over by the communist Chinese or by radical Islamism.
01:03:16.000 And my goodness, if you take 1,100 turning point USA superstars like all of you, and 1,100 libs, I will bet on you guys every single time to win this country.
01:03:29.000 Every single time.
01:03:31.000 God bless you guys.
01:03:32.000 Thank you so much.
01:03:36.000 Thanks so much for listening, everybody.
01:03:38.000 Email us as always, freedom at charliekirk.com.
01:03:40.000 Thanks so much for listening.
01:03:41.000 God bless.