DO YOU KNOW LIGMA? Ft. Avery Woods
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1 hour and 10 minutes
Harmful content
Misogyny
48
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Summary
In this episode of the comment section, I chat with the lovely Avera Wood about her journey into content creation and how she got her start as a content creator. She shares how she gained traction on social media through her nursing school journey, how she became a full time content creator, and what it's like being a mom to 3 kids.
Transcript
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Ligma, Ligma balls is a big one. I get, I get them every time. When Dylan Mulvaney was on my show,
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I was telling her about those little like isms. Yeah. I said, have you heard of,
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do you know what Ligma is? And she was like, no, what is it?
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Wait, yeah, you do a good impression. Yeah, she was so like, no. And I was like,
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I feel bad getting you, but Ligma balls. Gotcha. Fucking gotcha, bitch.
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hey everyone and welcome back to another episode of the comment section show starring me your fave
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who cares about me on to the guest today we have the iconic the legendary the amazing the beautiful
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Avery Wood that was a great intro thank you thank you I've done it 113 times
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exactly actually welcome to the show thanks for having me i'm so happy to be here i'm happy to
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have you we go way back we really do since yesterday yeah you know i'm obsessed with you
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same likewise i actually want to tell you the first time i ever saw yourself it was actually
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the stevie vlogs okay the original the ogs which are all gone now yeah the haters they're gone now
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relax yeah everyone calm down chill the kids are safe uh that was the first time i ever saw you on
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wait for you yeah but then i started watching your uh day in the life like vlogs yeah i'm eating
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them up really i love your content you are so supportive because every time i see like like
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your comments kind of like oh my god drew likes my shit it's crazy i love i love the little uh
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your your vlogs and how they like they're very like uh clean and organized and love i'm a virgo
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so oh my god thanks well i try to show more realistic stuff when i can but behind the scenes
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it's it's literally chaos all the time like scotty can attest my house is just full of kids and but
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it's all happy like yeah there will be a time where it'll be quiet and clean but right now it's
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not and so i'm soaking it in my kids are fucking whack jobs but i love them i'm so curious like for
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well i know your lore but just for those that don't know your lore i'm sure they would want
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to know how you got into content creation i know it's been a journey for you yeah so i would say
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really started probably about eight years ago i was in college i knew i wanted to go to nursing
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school and i content creation was kind of for me it was more so on youtube yeah but instagram was
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obviously a thing this is like tumblr days and i loved certain content creators but how i i first
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started gaining traction was sharing my nursing school journey which was really random because i
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didn't really expect it to go that way and also medical influencing was not what it is now like
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it wasn't it wasn't really figs wasn't really big back then yeah it wasn't really common for people
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in the medical field to share their life on social media because there is a a certain barrier that
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has to be respected because of patient privacy and certain things totally so I kind of just
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shared my journey and then my nursing uniforms were Cherokee and they had noticed me and sent
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me a dm and they're like hey can we send you free scrubs in exchange for photos and i was like so
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poor and i said fuck yeah so i would get scrubs post photos and then i kind of started getting
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traction and then they told me i think i had like 300 instagram followers but a private account
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like hey you have to make your profile public and i was like oh i don't know about that yeah
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because i went to a private nursing school and so they're super strict and then i did it and it
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kind of just slowly grew from there and I honestly I for years I only shared nursing stuff yeah a
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little bit of motherhood but not really and I feel like I thought that's only why people followed me
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and liked my stuff totally so I was mostly focusing on nursing and then I kind of started
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dabbling into things that brought me joy which is fashion skincare beauty and that stuff started
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doing better and i was like okay maybe people like me just for me yeah and so i kind of struggled
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with balancing both but i mean for years probably like a solid six years it was mostly just nursing
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and then on my days off i would start to share things i would share things like my pumping
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schedule when i was working long hours and still breastfeeding stuff like that yeah and then i got
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to a point where i gained so much traction that the big corporation i worked for did not like the
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fact that I had such a large social media following they didn't like that it brought me
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attention and therefore them attention but it pissed me off because it didn't bleed into the
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work that I did in the hospital and I felt judged off of my online presence rather than the hard
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work I was doing during the pandemic as a nurse in the ICU yeah and so that really bothered me
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and then I got to a point where I was like why am I here you know but that was a big leap of faith
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for me because i didn't know if people would respect my online presence or continue to follow
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me if i wasn't a working nurse yeah but then i got to a point where i was like okay they're
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following me because i'm avery not just because i'm a nurse yeah i did not know you were doing
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it for that long like yeah as far as posting i knew i knew you were obviously i knew you were
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a nurse for a long time i mean it was very micro i think like for a long time i was between like
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30 and 50k on instagram i was getting like people would be like oh can you post a photo with this
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product for 50 bucks and i was like i'm so poor yes please give me gas money we've all been there
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hair yeah oh my god the the things i did for like there's one i can't even remember the name of it
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but there's one brand that didn't even pay me and they were supposed to pay me two hundred dollars
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cent bird that's what it was yeah not mom remember yeah she's like oh i remember bitch by the way
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yeah uh yeah you owe me two hundred dollars cent bird by the way the price has gone up you're gonna
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have to add a few more zeros yeah uh if you want to hit my line again uh but yeah that's i i totally
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relate to that especially in the beginning too because you're like oh yeah when you have like
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normal jobs especially a job like yours is fucking so hard um you're like you want to pay me to do
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this oh yeah that's crazy that's what was crazy was i i mean i speak very morbidly about what i
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did for a living because i feel like i just cope with humor my husband was the same in his career
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but i worked in the pediatric icu so it was newborn to age 17 to level one trauma so i was putting
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like babies in body bags multiple times a week like i saw some crazy shit yeah stuff that's not
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even on the news and then when I signed with my management team I was like wait what the fuck
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that's like my yearly salary in a month yeah it's crazy yeah it is and you and you think too like
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I mean the way that you said that you started branching into other forms of content to kind of
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like you're like well I kind of want to do other things that aren't all like based around being a
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nurse but also I feel like it's like somewhat of an escape yeah because you're like what you deal
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with is so heavy and traumatic and so it's like getting to do something lighthearted and fun that
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just brings you joy and it also kind of focused on the positives for people that wanted to be
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or in nursing school or were miserable in their job as a nurse yeah because I never talked down
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about the career because I really did love it but then after the pandemic a lot changed and
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then I started getting I would be praised so much for focusing on the good nursing students were so
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appreciative because they're like every time i shadow a nurse they're like pick a different
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career it fucking sucks don't do it and i was there to say i do love it i just don't think
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we're treated the best yeah but then it kind of flipped where people were like why are you only
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talking about the good stuff like don't lie it's hard i'm like of course it's hard but it's yeah
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it's not a bad thing to be a positive person no or to see the the joy or the beauty in saving
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lives totally there because there is a lot of joy and beauty in that yeah there's also a lot of
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trauma and sadness it's it's just duality it exists in all things including content creation
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yeah absolutely like there's a really really awesome side and there's a really awful side
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it's just it's just the reality of the the business that you're in yeah absolutely um but
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when it comes to your content like and obviously like i think a lot of people know you from the
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stevie vlogs but like what made you want to start kind of posting a little bit more about your
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personal life like whether it's just you and what you do every day or your kids or your husband
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i think people would ask and i think i just got tired of seeing like the perfect cookie cutter
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beige mom content yeah i'm not saying that's a bad thing like i look at their stuff and i'm like
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honestly i praise you for having such a clean house and such and what seems like the perfect
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life that's just not me yeah and i also think i saw just a lot of mom shaming for people that
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were speaking honestly about the struggles of being a mom and how hard it is and i was like
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i have a playroom full of the ugliest fucking rainbow toys you could ever see but my kids are
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so happy you know and like yeah i would show clips of my house or morning vlogs they're like thank
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you for not picking up the mess before you showed it yeah because i tried to be as real as i can
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and even though there's hate that comes with that when i admit to things like yeah i do have a nanny
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twice a week or i do have house cleaners that help me every other week you know what i mean yeah
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but that's that's what works for our family and that's how we survive and we're privileged enough
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to be able to afford that stuff yeah but i feel like that honesty has gotten me really far totally
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and again like we talked about even though it come hate comes with that and that triggers a lot of
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people yeah at least i know i'm being authentic for real to what's happening behind the scenes
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yeah well and also you're brave enough to share it like yeah a lot of people can relate but don't
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want to admit that they can relate um because it makes them feel better to sit on like a invisible
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like moral superiority horse like it's like you feel better about yourself because you aren't
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brave enough to show things like this yeah whereas some of us are and that's okay like you don't want
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to show your life that's fine but if i show mine where are you to judge totally that's not really
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your place and also you have the privilege of having the option of who you watch yeah like you
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fucking block me please like and if i can block you for you yeah you don't want to watch my stuff
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but we have as not just as content creators but just as consumers of social media yeah you have
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the beauty of choosing who you want to follow and who you want to have inspire you and crazy how
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that works yeah it's crazy how you have that option the option of free will yeah you don't
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have to watch me girl yeah like sometimes i'll i'll get some mean ass fucking comments from i
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it's rare i get mean comments from women but it is it does happen and when i do i'll go and look
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and like they follow me i'm like why does it always say follow it's so bad why do you follow
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me yeah if it's so awful why are you fucking here yeah and out see me i'm opposite all my
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hates from women because i'm a mom and it's funny because i have so many friends that have the same
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job and their husbands also do content creation where they'll do like dad vlogs yeah and they
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always say like my comment section is full of mom shamers my husband does the same thing and it's
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all praise yeah you're such an involved dad you're such a good dad and my friends are like what the
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fuck i made the same video and you're shitting on me but my husband does it and it's oh good job
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you're such an involved dad it's like why do we have this gender standard and we talked about that
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on my episode where you were talking about where you came from and how your household was which i
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loved hearing it was so refreshing because i i just don't think it just doesn't our sex doesn't
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fucking matter when it comes to parenthood yeah like literally at all yeah uh it's also so um
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ironic because it always goes back to the same like it's it's women who say that are like they're
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they're standing up for women or they're standing up for kids or whatever um but you end up being
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misogynistic and that's the irony isn't it like you end up you're you're you're pushing down other
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women because it makes you feel good for whatever fucking reason but like men the bar is in hell so
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like it's real easy to clear yeah uh like they could just pick up a child and they're like what
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a great dad oh god he's so good to her and they purposely want the attention like oh my god i see
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so many dads and there are some incredible dads on tiktok that i feel like do inspire other men
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to kind of step it up for their wives totally yeah but there are some men that i'm like oh my
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god you want to be praised so hard for being a dad and i'm like i i it's just too much but then
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women post the same thing and it's like you fucking use your kids for content you want attention
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you're such a bad parent whatever the case may be but it also just it's a double standard to me
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because almost every single time i get a comment that shit on me because i show my kids faces on
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the internet i click on their profile and it's a public profile and they're posting mom blogs with
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their kids in it but they have a smaller following i'm sorry i don't care if you have 500 followers
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or 10 million followers you're still doing the same thing i'm doing and shitting on me for it
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and you would be doing it anyway yes and that's my thing about that is like i understand where
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people are coming from when they're like oh you're exploiting children i get that yes but
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You're talking about a very specific kind of content creator.
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Your kids just so happen to be in it sometimes.
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And that's why sometimes when people are like, did you know that so and so, like if I have
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someone on my show or something like, did you know that?
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So like I can make my own decisions based off how I feel they are as people.
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So I don't, I don't form opinions based off random people on the internet.
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like i see it and they're like well clearly that's true because it's on tiktok yeah like that doesn't
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that's not how it works so also i feel like you know there are also other sources evil websites
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on the internet that then trickle into social media that they feel like everything's true i'm
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like anyone and their mom can go log on those websites and say whatever the fuck they want
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yeah and people that hate you will believe it it's just the way it is yeah totally and i've
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i have attempted to do like a normal morning vlog like i would normally do right and my kids are in
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it immediately how is this realistic motherhood i know your kids are with their nanny not everyone
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can afford a nanny where are the kids you know it's like yeah can't say i didn't try yeah it's
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a real it's a real slippery slope and it's and it's it's a like a lose-lose battle because these
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people have already made up their mind yep which is what i've told people before i'm like you've
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clearly already made up your mind so i don't know what you're doing here like are you trying to
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convince other people are you trying to rally the troops like i don't understand like just leave
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like leaving is free um it's not an airport i don't need you to announce your departure go ahead
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and take off girl like it's okay like the other literally the other day i got a comment from a
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lady a girl a lady a woman a lady because she was a lot older than me but she um and that's not
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me being mean like she literally is a lot older than me but she wrote i think uh you know i think
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she's she's saying she so she's not talking to me she's like talking to other people and she's like
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i think she's so like beautiful i genuinely do but like why don't you get your teeth fixed like
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i just don't understand like you have all this money like why wouldn't you do that like she but
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she wrote this whole fucking thing and then her literal username is mommy of four oh see and then
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i go and look i look at her profile she has a mom she has multiple daughters right and so i think
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i'm like what the fuck so i i put it in my story because i was like fuck you first of all but
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second of all i literally was like i really hope that no one talks about your daughters the way
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you're talking about me on the internet like because her excuse because someone else was like
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why do you need to write this and her excuse was like that's the beauty of freedom of speech
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okay freedom of speech these nuts on your forehead bitch i'm putting in my story and i said and i
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literally said i don't blur you to certain names i never do yeah i don't do it for men and i sure
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as fuck don't do it for women so if you're gonna talk crazy and then when they when they get mad
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you want to fucking publicly comment and then i can't blast you don't just what you can't take
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exactly so i had this nasty nasty tiktok it was all about me literally they made their entire page
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just three to five videos a day they would clip my like they were such a fan yeah they would watch
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my entire podcast clip shit post it whatever so she accidentally messaged me from a personal
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account she's a mama four in south dakota i know who you are you're in nurse practitioner school
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i know what your husband does oh god yeah legal things have happened but i'm like her bio is mama
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four psalm three whatever the fuck and she had all four of her kids in her facebook banner i said you
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make me scared for my kids to grow up in the world yeah because if you're that nasty how are you
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raising your kids yeah it's just like you're doing it but you you have all these like qualms
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about how you're raising your kids or how you post content whatever the fuck and then you are
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publicly posting your children like i don't understand like the the correlation makes no
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sense like how are you any different like from the monster you're making me out to be like how
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are you any different from yeah it's exhausting it really is and i i also want to be like bitch
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how do you have the time you have four fucking kids bro like i don't have time to make five
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fake accounts all day just to leave nasty comments because i keep blocking you yeah get a hobby yeah
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i've had i've had that before from men especially like when i was like really pissing them off and
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they were making videos about me like oh my god every fucking two weeks i had a new dude be like
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has anyone ever thought about the fact that she might just be mean yeah they have um believe it
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not yeah we've gone over that many fucking times i am mean you're right uh and so like they would
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make new shit new shit new shit and like there was one i saw once that was like truly one of the
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worst videos i've ever fucking seen and it was like it was this dude who made up this entire
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story like he literally crafted this whole like wow there was characters and plots and
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and twists and turns like he was like made up this whole thing about what my boyfriend
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probably used to do in high school what he did in college what i did when we got together why
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money like all this it was like it's giving obsessed it was so gross too because it was
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very graphic too like it was like objectifying both myself and my boyfriend which okay yeah and
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um it was so gross and disgusting and then the fact that other people in the comments were like
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i knew it it's always so quick and any made-up story they're like i could have predicted that
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yeah i knew it you know what i always knew there was bad vibes actually i knew there was a reason
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why i never wanted to follow her girl it's always go to hell it's always i always got a weird
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feeling about her it's always like shut the fuck i knew it yeah knew what from one minute of my day
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you knew that that i that i cut down an edit for you you knew that about this man that's never met
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me in his entire life yeah yeah he knows he knows for sure yep the inner workings of my relationship
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one time i had a dude um he went live but he you know they can sometimes green screen behind them
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and they write words on there uh he blocked me so i couldn't see it but like the live um had the
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background on it and it said um i dated drew off wallow all throughout high school um who has
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questions and so he literally was not him using it for attention oh yeah girl clickbaiting the
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fuck out of me and then he there was getting it was getting a lot of viewers and the only reason
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i knew about it was because one of my mutuals saw it on their for you page and recorded it
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like screen recorded it and then he dm'd me and was like hey i don't know if you've seen this but
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like this dude is going live and it had a lot of viewers a lot of people asking questions and he
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was saying the he was saying the craziest shit about me like he was saying i was insane he said
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i tried to burn his house down he said i stole his dad's car like he made up all this fucking
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bullshit mind you he's like 23 i'm like we weren't even in high school at the same time yeah hey i'm
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28 so like what the fuck you're six years younger than me and somehow you were in junior high when
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i graduated yeah not only that he's canadian um i've never even been to canada so the fuck are
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you talking about it's so and it's crazy that they i feel like they're so obsessed that they
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actually start believing in themselves because they're not well in the head they have to start
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like yeah really like buying into the bit yeah like the that's why i think the delusion of it
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all is like that's honestly the scary part is how delusional it gets but also it's exhausting
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because i've even told my other creator friends this too like when we've talked about stuff like
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this i've told them like you care because you know who you are and if you didn't care you wouldn't be
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a good person like when people try to spread lies and shit about you on the internet unfortunately
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you cannot control that and honestly it's a big reason why i went to therapy because like when i
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first got started like i was like this is gonna make me go insane yeah i'm already kind of doing
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that so like should probably clock in mentally yeah and thank god i did it's been a huge huge
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help especially with this job but like it starts to make you feel like my friend teffy she's
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described it before as like um this is a job where you're like behind a one-way glass yep so
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everybody can see in but you can't see out nope and you can hear everything they're saying but
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they can't hear you yeah and so it's like it starts to make you feel like you're going insane
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and you have no control yeah you have no control at all and then it's like if you know who you are
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and like obviously like i'm i'm so convicted in who i am i know you are too and you like you know
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who you are and you know the people who love you and matter the most care about you and that's all
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that matters but after a while you start to hear things and people telling you who you are
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and what kind of person you are it starts to really weigh on you because you're like
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i'm not i know i'm not that person but like why do you keep trying to make me believe i am yeah
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it's exhausting also why don't you just focus on yourself yeah girl like go go do what makes you
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happy go be a better person but you're you're not going to change our success and as you try to keep
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shitting on us like we're only going to keep growing and just pissing you off more like
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block me and end your own misery yeah for real dude i'm like this nothing none of this is serving
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you no at this point and i was like i was curious if you had any hate from men if you ever get hate
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from men honestly i have only gotten hate if i like post a photo of me in a bikini or something
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and it's from like a christian man that says i would never allow the mother of my children to
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wear such a provocative outfit a bikini yeah okay well you're gonna freak out when you find
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what happens during sex yeah also i'm like how do you have kids you're gonna freak out i know you
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last two pumps like you're gonna freak out when you find out that people are nude also it's the
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way i'm like did you save it too are you gonna look at it later like why are you on it it's just
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weird i didn't when i would post uh because obviously like when i post my my shit talking
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videos sometimes like literally i'm in my bathroom a lot yeah and some people are like when they're
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like are you in the bathroom I always say I'm in my office which like is not true but like it's a
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running bit now for the last like three years I'm always like this is my office yeah they're like
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your office has a cupboard above the toilet and I'm like yep I don't know but when I've made those
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videos like obviously I don't give a shit what I look like in them and then when I really started
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growing a platform like for real for real and then I started growing on Instagram the first time I
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ever posted any sort of glam pic at all oh oh man the men were so mad at me and I oh by the way you
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beat those the fuck up every time you post like you see me in your comments i'm like oh bitch
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you eat it up the transition videos the titties the glam the hair they're so good well thankfully
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i have adam he's a godsend but he i i remember the very first time i ever posted glampics oh
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the men were so mad at me they were like like fuck she's hot yeah this is fucking facetune
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like blah blah blah i'm like it's a video i don't know how you can you facetune video i don't even
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know but then when they said that i'm like you're mad because i made that pee pee wiggle yeah and
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you're pissed off at me about it and that's not my you felt the tingle in your pants and girl
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take it up with god yeah like you're mad be mad at him okay i don't know what to tell you like
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you're mad because you're attracted to me uh-oh 100 100 i know you're like what yeah and on top
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of that now i'm horny yeah like they're all i want to fuck her too damn god damn it jesus christ
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now it's funny too because even now like that you know like i still fuck up men all the time but
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like now sometimes if i do like transition transition videos or makeup stuff or whatever
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sometimes i'll get the occasional comment where men are like i mean yeah i do it but yeah she
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need to keep the makeup on okay um am i allowed to chime in on whether or not that happens yeah
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do i get to decide if i would fuck you yeah yeah it's like it's like i think that i'm stop right
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there yeah uh like even some dudes like literally have been like i don't know the laugh might bother
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me but i'd still do it would you you should be like should you have you seen my boyfriend
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okay i know you would i wouldn't yeah but like i'm sure you would i'm not that's why i feel like
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that's what you get oh yeah well also like the second you become a mom it's like you're not
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considered a human being anymore you're just like a slave to children which i like okay yes they are
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my number one priority but i'm like that doesn't make me any less of a woman like i'm gonna wear
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a fucking bikini i don't really care they're like i would never yeah let my wife well you're not
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dating or married so don't worry about that yeah or like god her tits are so fake yeah you're right
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because they were like saggy tube socks touching my toes after i breastfed you'd fix them too bitch
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the fuck like literally like tube socks with like rocks and i'm like this far apart like my nipples
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are grazing the thighs like it was of course i fixed them like and you're real open about that
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and i respect you i admire you i recorded the whole process i'm like i breastfed my daughter
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for 14 months and my son for 10 like sorry you're mad i had some loose skin and i cinched it up
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well don't worry you're never gonna get to look at him so relax yeah like chill chill chill out
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girl you don't need that's a problem you don't need to worry about yeah that's a problem you
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don't have yeah personally that's what that's about to be i would never let my well worried
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about getting married first yeah have you touched a boo before probably not saying like you've never
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i've touched more tits than you and i'm a straight my whole life that's what i'm saying as a nurse
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yeah but even when hunter was here and we were talking oh i love him he was like i'm so
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desensitized oh yeah fluids like nudity like i just it's anatomical to me yeah like i don't look
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at a like obviously besides my husband love you but like i don't look at body sexually anymore
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but that's a normal thing like if you did that'd be fucking weird if you were like you could not
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be in the medical field now yeah so yeah when he was when he was here he was telling me he's like
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yeah i'm so like desensitized to fluids especially like he was telling me a crazy story about how like
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uh someone the ij yeah he pulled that out and it was like shooting to the oh yeah i was like the
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roof oh yeah i've done chest compressions on a newborn's actual heart like open chest
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that's crazy yeah that's insane yeah and then and then you're like yeah time to go home yep
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or or the patient passes away and like i carry down the morgue and they hand me okay there's
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your next patient yeah you just no time for processing at all yeah and then they're like
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can't believe she wants to do content creation and not be a nurse i know or it's like someone
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was like weren't you a nurse for one second why don't you just call i'm like you'd like that
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though right yeah it just calm the fuck down they're like you're not an actual warrant you
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can look at my license it's public record yeah yeah well and it's like what are you okay like
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why does it fucking matter what do you get out of that yeah like you're trying to catch me in
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something yeah oh you caught me that's why it's like even when i've talked about the nfl like
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getting fired or whatever i've told people they were like well you were probably really bad at
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your job blah blah and i'm like i i don't know ask them maybe maybe that's why they fucking fired
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me i'm like well i'm better off now you know what's funny is they didn't give me a reason uh
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they just told me leave and never come back so i listened that's kind of how that went for me
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personally so i'm like yeah i told people i got fired because it matters like i'm like yeah and
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you're honest about it yeah yeah and thank thank god they did fire me yeah because now look at me
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oh yeah the second the second i quit it was automatically turned oh you're fired or like
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i know she's far from the hospital actually never even had like a sustained complaint was never late
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yeah nothing ever happened you just don't like that i was able to quit that bothers you it's
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like it it's again a such a no-win situation no but like speaking of that's our topic for today
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we're talking about transitioning from like having a full-time job to being a full-time content
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creator and why men especially hate women like they hate well hate women period and then they
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hate seeing women like find success oh yeah in any medium but especially being a content creator like
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they hate that oh anything we were talking about this earlier today but like anything
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that you're able to elevate your life away from a normal nine to five job is just absolutely shit
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on yeah but especially when it comes to these masculine men that think like are you really
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providing for your family in full like to the point where you guys are as comfortable as my
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family is because i'm gung-ho i'm such a provider yeah well my wife cooks and cleans and shits out
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all these kids like you you're just mad that women have this opportunity to have such a stable career
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in life by doing what we do literally and that pisses so many men off so fucking oh yeah i got
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a i got a comment once i was like see this is what happens when you make women famous for being hot
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on my video i said oh babe you're in the wrong neighborhood girl like that hey hey that's not
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why i got famous that is not at all actually it's so far from yeah why i got a platform bitch
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you're the wrong neighborhood girl yeah um i'm like you're gonna get jumped in these parts but
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also i'm like so you're attracted to me yeah well see i'm hot awesome okay sometimes when men write
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shit stuff like that i'm like this is a really weird way to say you find me attractive it's a
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very strange way to say that like your response you're like thank you yeah thanks appreciate it
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um no thank you i'm taken actually but uh appreciate i appreciate the thought i appreciate
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that okay so i'm gonna read one of these videos to you or two of them actually please do uh this
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one okay so in this video man is commenting on a news article about a woman who created
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a female only nightclub to prevent men from ruining nights out he goes on a rant about how
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this is the dumbest idea he's ever heard that this wouldn't be fun unless you
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And that woman would have to pay for their own food and drinks.
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I don't want fucking creepy men around me.
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I wanted to go out with my girlfriend and I,
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never did because people were so fucking creepy also respectfully like you think i'm hot now you
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should have seen me before i had kids and no man has ever come up to me bought me a drink because
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they're all pussies not one time i'm more likely for a woman at that nightclub to buy me a drink
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rather than men like a normal club vibing because we're friends we're besties yes yeah i feel like
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well also like there's women don't go out and they're like oh i hope there's lots of men there
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like never never like literally ever any hot woman to ever literally ever no they're like going out
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and they see a bunch of men they're like like that's like the reaction is like yeah that man
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right there i know for a fact is salty as fuck because he knows all the hot girls are gonna be
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at that club yeah and he's like and now i can't get in i can't fucking get in it's like and why
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is that like why do women feel the need to create women only spaces maybe because you ruin everything
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and you ruin it because of men like you yeah you um terrorize us so it's like let me have this one
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thing yeah just let me have this one thing that has nothing to do with you i feel like even and
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you know what's funny too is even like lesbian bars or like sapphic bars like yeah bars that
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are exclusively for gay women there are still men there yeah acting a fucking fool like you're still
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there like what the fuck are you and they're like where's the pool table get me an ipa yeah
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they're like the darker the better there comes black whiskey neat thanks i feel like even with
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um when i used to go out like back in the day when i was a major fucking city girl back in the day
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i my friends and i would go out very tactical it's like all right we go well first of all let's
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get drunk before we go because we're broke uh that's the key you get you get absolutely shit
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face before you go then when you get there you get someone to buy you one drink and then you
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nurse it and then you nurse the drunk the whole time you share one drink between your six friends
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but we would like designate we're like okay you the two of us are gonna prowl for men uh to buy
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drinks and nothing more yeah and then everyone else is gonna find a spot we're gonna settle in
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that kind of thing it's so like it's so we have to be so strategic when we go out for safety reasons
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and also so we have fun yeah but like every time a man overstepped i ruined the night for everyone
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i just turned into the wolverine like yes and then i started killing people it's like there's
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a reason women have fucking pepper spray and rape whistles and all these things and give each other
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tips that they have to carry with them or they have to stick together even when they go to the
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bathroom like yeah they're this person is creating a safe environment for a club like that for women
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to enjoy themselves yeah and there's also like i don't know hundreds of others you could go to
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that are not women only that you probably can't get into anyway because your fit is trash and
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they care about that a lot okay the comments on this this says isn't this a crime discrimination
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by gender it goes both ways are you serious that's not how discrimination works but that's
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not really how that works also aren't there like men's only clubs yeah they have like like country
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club yeah yeah okay go join one of those yeah you probably can't get in either yeah i was like well
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that you have to be of a certain tax bracket and a naked old man apparently i think that's a
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requirement too the creator of this comment or this video he wrote why are women trying so hard
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to get rid of men ask other men that question why don't you ask them ask your peers of you
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the person that asks ask your peers ask your fellow man like hey why do women fucking hate us
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yeah and i like how they it's be i think the beauty of social media has given people access
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to like be able to platform how they feel so they're like you know men piss me off for this
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reason or i don't like when men do this but like women have felt this way about men for like
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hundreds of years so it's like it's not new like they're like this new wave of women yeah i also
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think social media has opened a lot of women's eyes to what a man should be doing period because
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there are a lot of kings out there that do respect women yeah and those are the type of men that
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aren't single and are happily married and have families and men like that hate that those people
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are spotlighted because no one wants to fucking date you because women's standards are getting
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higher as they realize that there are actually good men in the world yeah i've even said too
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like i'm like when you ask women like especially like in their 20s um who are single and they
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unfortunately are attracted to men like if you ask them like what their type is a lot of times
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they're like oh you know like someone nice yeah how sad that they're like honey yeah just doesn't
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hate me and then like you ask a man in that same exact situation who's awful and he's like well
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she can't be fucking fat first of all and second of all i know she has to like yeah it's like it's
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all she has to put out five times a week yeah at least you gotta put this dick in your mouth at
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least twice a day and like has to swallow yeah yeah they have the fuck up they have these like
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insane no this is what gets me disgusting yeah you're totally gonna get so nasty but i'm like
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it's always the guys are like she has to swallow but i'm never fucking going down on her
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okay okay sure okay sure and you said you're single yeah okay that's what i thought yeah
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i wonder why god i'm so what a head scratcher i wonder why oh my god this last comment says
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that's okay women hang out like that sometimes they even take all girls trips but it's different
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for men we can't do it uh no you probably just don't have a fucking job to go on yeah you don't
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have the pto logged up babe that's kind of probably why who said men can't go on who said that no that's
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i was like you guys are you're making shit up like literally i don't give a fuck go yeah my
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shit literally he's every year goes on a golf trip i'm like bye bye like aren't you worried
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no i'm not fucking worried like go do your own shit it's just yeah yeah when i uh i had like
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some of my girlfriends over the other day at my house and we were just watching movies and stuff
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and my boyfriend was obviously there because we lived together and he was like i think i'm gonna
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go like get lunch with my parents and i was like really and he was like yeah you know i just want
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you to have girl time so i'm just gonna i'm gonna go hang out with my family i respect and i was
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like thank you so much bye make sure you lock the door thank you so much bye yeah anytime david's
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gone i'm like in our bed like just like sleeping like patrick star just like spreading free oh yeah
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oh yeah and also like men don't give a fuck men who are confident in themselves and in their
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relationship they don't give a shit yeah if their their woman goes out without them oh the insecurity
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that comes behind that one dude oh i used to have this friend that was like yeah i i had this dress
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and mind you it was like her mid thigh and she's like and i like turned in the mirror and he said
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it was too short so i had to change oh break up with him oh no they're married with multiple kids
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oh no i'm like see that to me is so just insecure to project to project that and i'm like if she
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feels good and pretty in that yeah what the fuck yeah it's just i don't know that's like it is it's
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controlling and it's so controlling and it's it's honestly abusive so like it's it's one of those
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things where when because men are like whoa those are my fucking those are my boundaries that's
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another thing i was like the gift of therapizing language being gifted to awful men was a mistake
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yep like the way they use and abuse shit that they do not understand and they've never been to
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therapy so you don't even know like you're not even using it properly yeah and i talked about
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that when i was talking shit on jonah hill because all that shit about him and his ex-girlfriend
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came out and like i mean oh that was fucking crazy it was insane and it was the same shit like
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that makes me uncomfortable that like i don't like when you wear that to work i'm like she's a surf
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like a surfer and you don't want her to wear a bikini to her job oh yeah what is she supposed
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to wear scrubs it's the comments when i'm in a bikini and people like how does your husband feel
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about this bitch he fucking took the picture he's like get it queen you look so fucking hot
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who gives a fuck what he thinks yes i'm like are you kidding me i don't fucking care what he thinks
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yes i know all my all i get that shit too about like with my boyfriend they're like
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that's such a like the fact that he lets you just let's let's me let's stop right there his
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decision let's stop right fucking there bitch uh he doesn't let me do anything because i'm not a
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dog so yeah he doesn't have to let me out the crate for anything really his pet no not at all
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and i've said that too i'm like my man literally takes these pictures of me like yeah and he gets
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it the fuck up and it's his background on his phone bitch yeah sometimes he takes it and he
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goes the lighting's not good we gotta go to a better spot you don't think he has a special
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folder the fuck come on get out of here you know uh do you know desi perkins oh yeah love her down
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yeah uh when i i've obviously i've met her so many times yeah she's the best and she she and i
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were we ran into each other at the barbie premiere okay and i was like hey like casual
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influencer yeah uh it's not a real job yeah i was like influencer things uh the two of us ran
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into each other and we were like just catching up and then she was like oh let's take a picture
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together i was like okay so her husband comes up and he he puts the phone like on the the selfie
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camera yeah and he had a big fucking light and he was like she goes let's take a picture and i thought
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i'm thinking she's gonna like hold up her phone like this and take a picture with me she goes
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steven come and he like came and he was like oh i have it don't worry and he's like holding it like
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this so we can see ourselves and he's holding the light and he's just going yeah no keep going i'm
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just i'm taking a bunch oh yeah taking a bunch oh yeah and then when he left i was like that's what
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i'm talking about bitch oh fuck yeah and she started laughing she goes we've been doing this
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a long time yeah because she's been in the game forever listen also like you which we talked about
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this when when my husband and i decided that he needed to leave his job like you are full-time
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working for me and supporting my career yeah like take that photo like we're in the angle
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take multiple like he fucking knows the drill yeah and they don't care no they're actually
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thrilled in fact yes and they're such hype men like that is a man yeah for real man but
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it absolutely fucking is and i've i've said that too about my man too because they're like well
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you know like how does he feel about he don't give a fuck and even then i've told people i'm like if
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you hate me being on tiktok like you can take it up with him because he encouraged me to join so
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yeah it's honestly his fault yeah i'm here unleashing on all of you and they've said the
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same thing to me about like my dad like they're like fatherless behavior oh whatever oh it's
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probably because you don't have a dad i was like that's honestly incorrect my parents are high
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school sweethearts but also like my dad is such a good man that that's why i turned out this way
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yeah and i was like and honestly when i was first getting started my dad was like i think you should
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be meaner i think you should say more shit i was like yeah i'm trying dude but these these
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guidelines they got me tied yeah they got my hands yeah when you're raised by a man that sets a high
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standard yeah you you know what it takes totally to be a man and then you know what you're not
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willing to accept yeah on top of that yeah uh okay i'm gonna read this next one let's see oh yeah
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this next video here we go in this video a man on a podcast says quote attention is currency
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and quote if i am getting messages that are paragraphs and paragraphs long from a woman
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that's mad at me i know that she loves me he later adds do not listen to what women say listen to
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what they do okay fucking spin me a fucking yarn shit was that a haiku i don't understand
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fucking socrates wait didn't i say something too about um that they don't have like the capacity
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to write something so long or like they're illiterate or something about men or women
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i swear on that one right oh probably uh oh one of these comments says my wife knows i won't read
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a long text if i want to read i open apple books is that even a thing this apple books doesn't
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even exist no your your joke didn't even make sense on top of that you're thinking maybe of
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the kindle oh yeah babe wrong thing well also i i okay so do you remember that trend when they
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were playing that song and it was like girls were like have the little mustache on and then they
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were basically on the video they would write texts when they act like how men treat oh yeah
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so like when i did that trend i literally wrote like when i send him multiple texts saying why
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he hurt me and how that made me feel and he responds with well i don't even know what you
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want me to say like the way that that triggers me oh like my my prey drive gets enacted immediately
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i'm ripping the throat oh i'd be fucking terrified the way that it's like i don't even know what you
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want me to say yeah let's try words yeah let's start there let's open a fucking dictionary let's
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say anything how about that like literally fucking anything yeah and so that video did well because
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a lot of women were like uh they were just writing what men say they're like you're crazy
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or they'll say like it's not even like that like they were just it's not even like well how the
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fuck is it why am i interpreting it then how is it tell me yeah like explain it i don't even know
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what to say i don't even know what you want me to say we're just going back and forth but that's
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how i feel when when they say like they when you send me message like paragraphs i know that she
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loves me or she fucking hates or she fucking hates her guts and she's unleashing on there's
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some real fine line you do so much fucked up shit that she's just writing a list for you to let you
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know don't listen to what women say listen to what they do what okay so if i break up with you
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you listen to that so what are you doing then as a man because obviously you're not doing anything
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right oh nothing at all she's not unleashing on you and then when you even when they say providing
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right and then you're like okay well then i don't want to get a job you just make all the money
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they're like gold digger gold digger fucking whore right the the goalposts move every time
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that's why i'm always like don't don't listen to anything they say like they're they're fucking
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liars like they'll say that and then when they talk about gold diggers like i've i've defended
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women who like date for money many times because i'm like gold diggers is is so funny because that
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term is used by men with no money absolutely at all like i and i made this joke on zaxing but i'm
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like show me a w-2 like i want to see how much money you made last year and i'll tell you if
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you need to worry about gold diggers unless you're paying quarterly taxes girl if you're
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still getting a tax return don't worry about it if you're getting money back yeah don't don't
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worry about it bitch like you're no gold diggers looking for you girl i promise and i've i've been
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friends with women who date for money and they date men with like crazy amounts of money oh yeah
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they're not like oh i mean he looks like he works at state farm i'm gonna date him and not work like
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that's just that's not no like women who date for money and then the men who men who date them know
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they want to date them for money so it's like mutual and consensual and they have the super
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hot chick that is like treating this guy like a king and vice versa it's like good for them it's
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a win-win yeah win-win like i i honestly never uh i never forgot this because we were talking about
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how much we love jenna marbles yeah i love jenna marbles i don't blame you for leaving but like
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come back yeah my virgo queen fucking love you my fellow virgo queen uh but she made a video years
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ago where she was talking about like how much she hates the the phrase nice guys finish last
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and she was like oh i guess she just doesn't want a nice guy and she was like every time men say that
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i'm like you're probably not even that fucking nice like she's like like i there's probably a
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myriad of other reasons why she doesn't like you and you being nice is definitely not one of them
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like you're oversimplifying why she's not attracted to you yeah and she's like and every
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time it's like men who are like swinging for the fucking fences like they're trying to date like
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just an unattainable bitch like just like someone who's just so far out of their league which is not
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necessarily a bad thing but then like you're an awful person on top of that she doesn't vibe with
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you and then they're like well it's clearly because i'm too nice oh i can't oh it's because
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i'm too nice yeah see my thing is like when those men that know that they could never obtain the
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type of women they're obsessed with or my comments like oh well she's fake my response every time is
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but you'd fuck me right and they always delete their comments i'm like tell me you wouldn't want
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to right and you'd still hit on get the fuck out of here okay so if you saw me walking down the
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street you'd be like oh you're fake i would not have sex with you i've said that before about fake
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boobs yeah i'm like you're telling me right now if if a beautiful bitch with fake titties
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took them out in front of you because she wants to like have sex with you you're gonna be like
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are those first of all are those fucking fake put your fucking shirt back on and get out i don't
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fuck fake bitches you fucking liar that's what i was like you're a liar like first of all you've
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never seen boobs in real life but second of all you're telling me if you saw him you'd be like
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hold hold on yeah the only nipple you've touched is your own yeah hold on are these are these real
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oh my god dude come on you're gonna fucking you're gonna fact check some a pair of titties
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yeah liar yeah i don't fucking believe absolutely hey you're a liar uh this next comment says i
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didn't know women oh well this is kind of ironic but he says i didn't know women could type more
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than three words but then he used the wrong form of women like he said i didn't know women
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didn't know well yeah let's go back to elementary school i was like and and man needs better
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grammar oh yeah people hate the fact that we're educated bitches up here too i'm like okay i can
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tell you more than a fucking paragraph message to you and honestly even sometimes like i tell
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like the few times i've like not been like i suck my wiener uh they're like men are like
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you think you're fucking smart and i was like i know i'm smart i just like don't have to prove
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it to you because my worth and value doesn't come from how big my dick is so like i don't have that
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problem like you do so i'm gonna tell you to put my nuts on your forehead and i'm gonna laugh
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because it's gonna make you mad every time like even when when men were like really so far up my
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ass like i think like two summers ago um they would write this shit like uh i don't know if
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you've ever i doubt you've ever seen this comment because i feel like it's so specific to me but
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they would say like oh the the cut's gonna go crazy which is basically them calling me fat
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because they're saying like i'm bulking right now and then when i cut it's gonna look oh it's
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gonna go crazy also your body's so fucking hot i don't hear shit from anyone like yesterday
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wearing those low-rise jeans with your tummy like you look so good thank you people they're just
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mad because they know they'd fuck you but even that they were like the the cut's gonna go crazy
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whatever or they would say um do you have any bulking tips which is again a fat joke and then
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i go yeah you should um have you ever heard of ligma you should totally look into that it really
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helped me a lot and then they're like what's ligma and i said ligma balls i laugh every time
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i've said it hundreds of thousands of times and i laugh every time it hits every time it's so funny
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it's the way that they then interact back then wait what is that maybe i will look into what
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you're suggesting you fall into it every time yeah segundi's that's another one yeah segundi's
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nuts right ligma i got a whole bunch of them a whole bunch dude one time this is so unrelated
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to what we're talking about but one time my boyfriend it was me my boyfriend my sister the
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three of us i forget where the fuck we were but we were all talking and then we were talking about
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something because my parents were there too and then my boyfriend goes do you think that they
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think i'm like your parents son or something which is like gross and weird but i was like no they
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think you're joe's son and then he goes who's joe and then i was like joe mom
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it's so funny because as soon as he said who's joe the way that i was like so excited you're
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like oh bitch it's coming i'm like i fucking got your ass bitch fuck you it's the way they still
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like wait hold on who's joe and you're like it's my time yeah dude the fucking euphoria that
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coursed through my veins i was like i'm gonna live off that for the next year holy shit i was
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like the adrenaline pumping through my veins because i was fucking like no and the suck on
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these nuts yeah so gundies dude ligma ligma balls is a big one i get i i get them every time when
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dylan mulvaney was on my show i was telling her about those little like isms yeah i said you've
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heard of do you know what ligma is and she was like no what is it wait yeah you do a good impression
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yeah she was so like no and i was like i feel bad getting you but like my balls gotcha
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fucking gotcha bitch i got your fucking ass those those jokes make me laugh every time and i feel
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like because they're so juvenile like men get even more mad like they're like fuck you yeah
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they're like but you think you're funny huh and i just right back got them yep and they probably
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got your joke themselves got your ass didn't i oh okay i'm gonna use that yeah you should
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comment please do it's coming ligma secondies i got a whole bunch i'll stay on the moms i'm like
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ligma bitch yeah my fucking mom you should google ligma i bet it would help with all this this uh
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concern you have for me oh you say what's ligma uh-oh
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this last comment says nah they can text you like that and still be lying to you
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and talking to other dudes trust me oh the insecurity yeah well that's a personal
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that's like a that's one of those things you put in a diary yeah you know you don't tell your diary
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she's talking to other girl they're talking to other men blah blah blah well yeah probably
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because look at how you act oh yeah no the way that people will still call like men will still
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comment the fact that scotty is my producer and we go on podcast trips together scotty is the gayest
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man i've ever met he has never once had interest with having sex with a woman do you think my
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husband is like you can't travel we're fucking sharing a bed like we no i was gonna say we
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spoon and i which we don't but we basically cuddle at night people like get the fuck over yourself
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and men will be like your husband's really okay with you traveling with a man uh this man yeah
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yeah yeah and also we're secure enough in our marriage where if i was traveling with a straight
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man he wouldn't fucking worry about it i'm like take your insecurities elsewhere it's like such
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it's such projection oh yeah it's like those are that's a you problem yeah that you're trying to
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make an us thing yeah it's not oh yeah that's crazy they'd say that about scott oh yeah david
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just laughs david's like your guzband okay he's like literally my gay husband yeah you spend more
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time with him than than david no 100 especially on work trips yeah absolutely you're like dude
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what do you think is all right relax yeah i'm like again you don't even have a wife to worry about so
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let's focus on that like i've i've joked about that before because they're like what about
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because even when i've made like gym content or whatever and that is so loose i never fucking do
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that shit because who cares no i love it when you're like i need to turn around your ass i'm
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like yeah get it queen and even those those stupid little fucking shits that i post like men will get
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so angry because like how dare i be in the gym or they'll be like you don't work out or whatever
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the fuck and sometimes men i'll be like i work out all the time more than you probably like i
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that's not probably not true i just lie you're just lying yeah i'll lie to men all the time and
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so they're like oh yeah well i i venture like again you're trying to prove this shit to me
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and that's insane like oh yeah yeah he's like well i bench press this much how much do you bench and
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i'm like literally the same i did this morning that's not true that's not true at all i'm lying
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uh but they get so fucking angry like so angry immediately then he hit him with oligma
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and then you and he bounce and your mama and that's how you get seven million followers on
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absolutely and that is the recipe that's how you get this show right here yeah that's how you get
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your own show uh that's pretty much it but anyways just to wrap uh i know we talked about all kinds
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of silly shit and also very serious stuff um but i'm so curious what your best piece of advice
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would be for anyone who's like currently nine to five or maybe in the same situation you were
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where they're kind of like balancing both yeah and they're thinking about you know maybe doing
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the jump and like maybe trying to transition full-time to content creation like what would
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you say is your best piece of advice for them well I would say I think it's doable for everyone I
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think the people that in their head make it unrealistic there is room on every social media
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platform for everyone there's no capacity yeah I also think don't have such tunnel vision where
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you think when you post content has to be one subject one alleyway you know I started with
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nursing and I still sometimes will share my journey of what I experienced as a nurse but
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i also do makeup beauty fashion travel motherhood nursing like there's so many different things
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you don't have to stick to one thing totally i think consistency is key but i also think
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you can balance it with a regular job because sometimes full-time content creation isn't for
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everyone and once they make that leap they do miss their old job and they go back yeah so i would say
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make sure that it's what you want to do but also there are people that are able to balance both so
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if you're able to like kudos to those people yeah but I would say focus on what makes you happy like
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make the content that makes you happy and for me when I was transitioning out of nursing I realized
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that content wasn't filling my cup anymore because I wasn't enjoying nursing the same anymore after
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the pandemic and the things that brought me joy were my content creation yeah and the content
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creation that was aside from my nursing career yeah and that filled my cup and brought me joy
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when i was postpartum or you know breastfeeding all night and i was scrolling and watching these
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moms and that filled my cup and i wanted to do that for other people totally so i feel like
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finding content that fills your cup and makes you happy because and also being authentic i feel like
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it's it's an impossible thing to post content not being your true authentic self you're gonna burn
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out yeah you're gonna be fucking exhausted yeah and you're gonna get caught really quick yeah
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totally like it's just not feasible anymore yeah so i think if you're gonna dive in dive in head
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first and be who you want to be as a person online yeah because especially with i meet people all the
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time that are content creators and i'm i'm disappointed sometimes in the different person
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that they are yeah it's not like what you thought totally based off their presence online yeah or
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even sometimes i'll meet people and i'm like dude you're so much cooler in person yeah like you
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should be more your authentic self online I think you'll actually be more successful yeah totally
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you are you know but I think with that it's obviously insecurities because it sometimes
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hurts when you get hate and you are your authentic self because you're like people just don't like
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me I've actually gotten that before from other creators like they've asked me about that because
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they were like they have like a very specific shtick and niche yeah but it's not based off who
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they really are and they were like I don't know how you do that because like I just like don't
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want to i don't want people to see who i really am and then judge that like i'd rather get hate on
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like characters i play and stuff totally the other way around totally and i get that i it's hard to
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open that can of worms i also think you know be cautious with mental health because i do think
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people that are on the more sensitive side have a really hard time with even like i've had people
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message me all the time that are like i had one viral video and i never did social media again
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yeah same because the content or the comments are so fucking horrible people are awful and they're
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awful and it doesn't matter what you do or if you improve or take it as like corrective criticism
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those people are just fucking miserable yeah you can't take anything they say at all to heart yeah
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i use emily mariko as an example all the time i'm like she doesn't even i was like she doesn't even
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talk in her videos bro she she doesn't say in comments she doesn't say words not a word
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and literally everyone's like fucking bad vibes yeah where from where'd you get that fucking
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person oh thank god the wedding content's over but you fucking watched it right i know i did
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yeah i watched i watched the fuck out of that shit i ate that yeah when i saw when i saw part
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three i said part one and two and where are they the way i was at the store getting that salmon
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and that fucking mayo and i made my own bowl i actually made that shit too yeah with the fucking
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seaweed shit like it was fucking fire it's it's really just sad because those people are just so
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miserable but look at her she just doesn't read a single fucking comment doesn't respond and she's
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thriving in life pregnant and starting a family and i'm like bravo yeah that's and i've told people
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that's such a good point what you said about like being authentic too because i honestly feel like
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even though your nursing condo was doing so well i feel like as soon as you kind of stepped into it
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for real and like started really showing me where that's when it really took off yeah oh yeah because
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people crave that now and i feel like you know we're the same age so like back in the youtube
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days like they really loved curated perfection yeah perfectly lit perfectly glammed like a
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perfect set perfect camera yeah whereas now they prefer the opposite so they're like i want to see
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more authentic stuff more stuff that's real and more real to me yeah and i feel like that's when
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yours really took off which is oh yeah it's true yeah and i i sometimes i wish i could have another
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kid which i'm not don't fucking talk to me about it okay i'm tubes are tied but because i see a lot
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of it makes me really sad because i do see a lot of women in comments of these just very unrealistic
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mommy content creators which i'm not i'm not nagging on them at all or talking negatively
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but i do think that there's certain things that should be talked about in more of a light like i
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wish i was bigger at that time where i could walk around in my diaper after i had a c-section i can't
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bend over and i'm like holding two kids pumping up all night my baby is colic like those are real
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life things that people and women need to see totally i'm like i wasn't wearing jeans six days
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postpartum with full hair and makeup on yeah i look like shit for munch's bitch like i literally
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looked haggard okay but your baby was thriving oh yeah oh she was cute as fuck and she was
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chunky as hell i made that milk okay which is why my tits were touching my toes she was feasting oh
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yeah i'll show you photos that bitch was 42 pounds at like nine months old i mean she that's on
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period girl and that's on period and how old was she when she was born she was a week early eight
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and a half pounds but her head circumference was 42 weeks so i had to have c-sections my husband
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was born 13 pounds eight ounces period so my boyfriend was born i think 12 12 something my
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i was 9 13 wait do you want kids no no no honestly though i love that like yeah i'm never the type
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of person like when are you getting married when you have kids yeah fucking don't ask it's on my
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time but you know that period and that and that vagina is gonna stay pristine
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yeah i was i was 9 13 my sister was 8 8 damn mom my my brother was 10 oh my god 10 1 and my mom
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had all of us naturally so like i was like yeah hey that's what's up that's what's up my love it
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i know you got i know you got a your husband's tall too oh yeah six five yeah my my dad's six
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six so like that's why my mom had big ass oh yeah and my my my boyfriend was like i think 12 pounds
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ish damn and i was like 9 13 big i had a big ass head too when i was born yeah so i get it
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me and stevie core i tried dude i tried 43 hours with my son naturally unmedicated yeah now that
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bitch is way too fucking big they cut me all the way to my hip bone emergency c-section i felt
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pretty much the whole thing it was horrible 43 hours yeah yeah damn yeah and natural no epidural
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no you're crazy yeah well i didn't actually have the baby vaginally but then when stevie came along
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they were like you can try v back i said the fuck no roll me into the or i am not no i'm good nah
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i'm good yeah and she was even bigger than he was it's like that's my fucking girl right by the way
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for anyone that's going to say i body shame my child by saying she's chunky no i'm actually
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bragging because she was a thick queen and she had that there's also nothing wrong with uh being
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chunky oh yeah there's like literally nothing wrong with it like you put you put negative value on
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words like fat yeah or chubby or whatever yeah like you do that like that's a man-made thing
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there's nothing wrong with also anyone that knows me knows how obsessed i am when like my babies
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they're so thick and chunky they're just juicy like they got the little legs oh yeah little no
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no she was maxed out size six diapers at three months old and the the pediatrician was like
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there's only pull-ups from here i said well we gotta buy them oh yeah she's like damn when you
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come in with your baby oh yeah she's the best yeah period i love a big baby i was a big baby
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that's why i said me and stevie core i had a huge fucking head i love it i was big i need to see
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baby photos i want to make your mom my brother was big as fuck too low like my brother was heavy
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too like he was dense yeah see that's the thing like i picked both my kids up and they people
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ask me all the time if they're twins because they're about the same size like three years
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apart because stevie's just gonna be so tall period yeah well you're tall and your husband's
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i'm tall my husband's tall but my uh my husband's biological father is six foot eight damn and his
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grandmother was six one okay period so my kids are gonna be really tall that's so cool i love that
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though oh i'm so i can't wait for my son to be taller than me yeah you're well also i feel like
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your son's already really tall he's super tall your son's only five yeah i'll pick him up and
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his toes are out like my niece so yeah i'm like dude he's gonna be so big yeah my my sister is
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5'4 and she's been 5'4 since the sixth grade but like she was taller than me for a minute but then
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not since the sixth grade she's like and we're just gonna cap it right yeah they're like and
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you're done uh you're done growing by the way but like when i was in sixth grade i i got like five
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three uh then seventh to eighth grade i grew four inches in like one year so i went from five four
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to five eight like and i wasn't when i was in eighth grade i was five oh my god everyone was
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like you're the they were like sir this is for kids sir sir and i'm like i'm also in the eighth
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grade so oh my god my fucking bad uh but i i passed my mom like way early like i grew taller
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than her way early and my brother for a while we thought my brother was gonna be short we were
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like uh-oh yeah he got dason's gene like he got my mom's gene uh-oh but then he grew he he passed
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me eventually but like i was the tallest for the longest time and i'm the middle child so david was
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six feet tall when he was a senior in high school so he grew five inches when he was 18 that's so
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he said his bones like ached every day that's so similar to my dad my dad was like six one ish six
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two and senior in high school and then when my dad was in his early 20s he grew like four or five
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more inches so my dad's six six now yeah and my boyfriend was like six one ish six two when he
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graduated from high school and now he's six four and one time i made so many men mad on twitter
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which is like the worst app ever but like oh yeah like a year ago also scotty just told me today
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there's like fucking full nudity on there oh yeah and i literally saw i said they have dick and cock
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and balls no that's what he showed me scotty loves it but i was like oh my god balls on twitter
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that is a godless app it was i oh i literally saw it i was like holy shit like full porns on there
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it's crazy i don't know how that's crazy okay yeah but i got fucking banned for a while because i
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showed myself breastfeed my nipple was even showing okay oh all of a sudden all of a sudden
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we care about nudity god but even then i i talked about how tall my boyfriend is like casually and
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then we're like that's not fucking true i was like well what are the odds you know and i don't
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and they're 5a yeah that's not true yeah and then one guy looked up my boyfriend's college
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like football player profile statistics yeah and he was like according to this and this is from
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like 2015 and he was like it said 6'2 and I go yeah my boyfriend grew two inches in like six
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years ago like also it's the way you went that far to look yeah you're a fucking freak first of all
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and I was like but also like you're just mad because you stopped growing in the fifth grade
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and my boyfriend kept going into his 20s that's again take it up with god yeah they're also like
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they're the same people that have like the inserts in their shoes like gain an inch
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yeah it's like turns out your genetics hate you just as much as your barber does
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okay so just to wrap now like i first of all thank you so much for coming on the show no
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thank you for having me i adore you i am obsessed with you yeah i think you're gonna be stuck with
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me and you're gonna get annoyed with me period let's hang out let's make our tall matching
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sambas yeah i literally wore these for avery because i know she's a samba girl cute and i
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didn't have my initials on the back yeah i'm gonna need those yeah period look at us uh but i love
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you forever you're amazing i'm glad you came on the show i appreciate you so much we're twins now
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besties no we are and you opened my perspective to so many things like hey and i remember you
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were the first person to be like yeah congrats you made it and i was like a period that's just
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what happens girl unfortunately like uh as heavy as the head you know yeah but i'm happy you're
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here i'm happy you're on the internet and i'm happy to know you personally love that and thank
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you all so much for joining us on this episode of the comment section uh thank you to my amazing
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guest avery woods where can everybody find you um tiktok and instagram is avery woods and then
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my podcast is the cheers podcast period make sure you guys go tune into avery's podcast i was on
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there she killed it so like i don't know if the episode will be live by the time you see this but
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if it is go watch it or watch all the other episodes you have tons of amazing guests you're
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the best thank you so much for coming on the show thank you so much for joining us don't forget new
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much to my amazing guest avery thank you to all of you and i'll see you next week bye