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00:01:25.980 Hey, everyone, and welcome back to another episode of the Comment Section Show starring

00:01:32.740 me, your fave, who cares about me? On to the guests. Today, we have the iconic,

00:01:38.020 the legendary, the amazing, the beautiful Avery Woods. Woo! That was a great intro. Thank you.

00:01:44.780 Thank you. I've done it 113 times. Exactly, actually. Welcome to the show.

00:01:50.660 Thanks for having me. I'm so happy to be here. I'm happy to have you. We go way back.

00:01:54.780 We really do. Since yesterday. Yeah, you know I'm obsessed with you. Same. Likewise. I actually

00:01:59.580 want to tell you, the first time I ever saw your stuff, it was actually the Stevie vlogs.

00:02:02.800 Okay, yeah. The OGs. Which are all gone now. Yeah. Fuck the haters.

00:02:06.880 They're gone now. Relax. Yeah, everyone calm down. Chill. The kids are safe.

00:02:11.580 That was the first time I ever saw you on my For You page. Yeah. But then I started watching your

00:02:15.720 day in the life, like, vlogs. Yeah. I'm eating them up. Really? I love your content.

00:02:20.580 You are so supportive, because every time I see, like, your comments, you're like, oh

00:02:24.540 my God, Drew likes my shit. It's crazy. I love the little, your vlogs and how they, like,

00:02:31.440 they're very, like, clean and organized and I'm a Virgo, so. Oh my God, thanks. I love

00:02:36.340 them. Well, I try to show more realistic stuff when I can, but behind the scenes, it's literally

00:02:41.780 chaos all the time. Yeah. Like, Scotty can attest my house is just full of kids and, but

00:02:46.300 it's all happy. Like, there will be a time where it will be quiet and clean, but right

00:02:50.280 now it's not. And so I'm soaking it in. My kids are fucking whack jobs, but I love them.

00:02:55.100 I'm so curious, like, for the, well, I know your lore, but just for those that don't know

00:02:59.300 your lore, I'm sure they would want to know how you got into content creation. I know it's

00:03:02.920 been a journey for you. Yeah. So I would say I really started probably about eight years

00:03:08.680 ago. I was in college. I knew I wanted to go to nursing school and I, content creation

00:03:17.420 was kind of for me. It was more so on YouTube. Yeah. But Instagram was obviously a thing.

00:03:22.100 This was like Tumblr days and I loved certain content creators, but how I, I first started

00:03:27.760 gaining traction was sharing my nursing school journey, which was really random because I

00:03:31.740 didn't really expect it to go that way. And also medical influencing was not what it is

00:03:36.000 now. Like it wasn't, it wasn't really figs. Wasn't really big back then. It wasn't really

00:03:41.300 common for people in the medical field to share their life on social media because there is

00:03:46.440 a, a certain barrier that has to be respected because of patient privacy and certain things.

00:03:51.600 Totally. So I kind of just shared my journey and then my nursing uniforms were Cherokee and

00:03:57.600 they had noticed me and sent me a DM and they were like, Hey, can we send you free scrubs

00:04:02.000 in exchange for photos? And I was like, so poor. And I said, fuck yeah. So I would get

00:04:07.300 scrubs post photos. And then I kind of started getting traction. And then they told me, I

00:04:12.760 think I had like 300 Instagram followers, but a private account. Like, Hey, you have to

00:04:15.700 make your profile public. And I was like, Ooh, I don't know about that. Yeah. Cause I went

00:04:19.940 to a private nursing school and so they're super strict. And then I did it and it kind of

00:04:23.680 just slowly grew from there. And I honestly, I, for years I only shared nursing stuff.

00:04:30.280 Yeah. A little bit of motherhood, but not really. And I feel like I thought that's only

00:04:35.860 why people followed me and liked my stuff. Totally. So I was mostly focusing on nursing

00:04:40.680 and then I kind of started dabbling into things that brought me joy, which is fashion, skincare,

00:04:46.940 beauty. And that stuff started doing better. And I was like, okay, maybe people will like

00:04:52.180 me just for me. Yeah. And so I kind of struggled with balancing both, but I mean, for years,

00:04:58.640 probably like a solid six years, it was mostly just nursing. And then on my days off, I would

00:05:03.180 start to share things. I would share things like my pumping schedule when I was working

00:05:06.940 long hours and still breastfeeding, stuff like that. Yeah. And then I got to a point where

00:05:11.520 I gained so much traction that the big corporation I worked for did not like the fact that I had

00:05:16.420 such a large social media following. They didn't like that it brought me attention and therefore

00:05:20.260 them attention. But it pissed me off because it didn't bleed into the work that I did in the

00:05:25.280 hospital. And I felt judged off of my online presence rather than the hard work I was doing

00:05:31.140 during the pandemic as a nurse in the ICU. Yeah. And so that really bothered me. And then I got to

00:05:35.980 a point where I was like, why am I here? You know, but that was a big leap of faith for me because I

00:05:42.380 didn't know if people would respect my online presence or continue to follow me if I wasn't a

00:05:46.540 working nurse. Yeah. But then I got to a point where I was like, okay, they're following me because

00:05:49.980 I'm Avery, not just because I'm a nurse. Yeah. I did not know you were doing it for that long.

00:05:53.920 Like, yeah, as far as posting, I knew, I knew you were, obviously I knew you were a nurse for

00:05:57.300 a long time. I mean, it was very micro. I think like for a long time I was between like 30 and

00:06:02.420 50 K on Instagram. I was getting like, people would be like, oh, can you post a photo with

00:06:06.280 this product for 50 bucks? And I was like, I'm so poor. Yes. Please give me gas money. We've all

00:06:10.840 been there. Yeah. Yeah. Oh my God. The, the things I did for like, there's one, I can't even remember

00:06:15.720 the name of it, but there's one brand that didn't even pay me and they were supposed to pay me

00:06:18.560 $200. Sentford. That's what it was. Yeah. Not mom. Remember. She's like, oh, I remember

00:06:24.940 a bit. By the way. Yeah. Uh, yeah. You owe me $200. Sentford, by the way. Price has gone

00:06:31.600 up. You're going to have to add a few more zeros, bitch. Uh, if you want to hit my line

00:06:35.900 again. Uh, but yeah, that's, I, I totally relate to that, especially in the beginning

00:06:40.040 too. Cause you're like, oh yeah. When you have like normal jobs, especially a job like yours

00:06:43.760 is fucking so hard. Um, you're like, you want to pay me to do this? Oh yeah. Crazy. That's

00:06:49.020 what was crazy was I, I mean, I speak very morbidly about what I did for a living because

00:06:54.300 I feel like I just cope with humor and my husband was the same in his career, but I worked in

00:06:58.260 the pediatric ICU. So it was newborn to age 17, the level one trauma. So I was putting like

00:07:02.840 babies in body bags multiple times a week. Like I saw some crazy shit. Yeah. Stuff that's not

00:07:07.960 even on the news. And then when I signed with my management team, I was like, wait, what the

00:07:13.260 fuck? That's like my yearly salary in a month. Yeah. It's crazy. Yeah. And you, and you think

00:07:18.360 too, like, I mean the way that you said that you started branching into other forms of content

00:07:22.580 to kind of like, you're like, well, I kind of want to do other things that aren't all

00:07:27.060 like based around being a nurse, but also I feel like it's like somewhat of an escape.

00:07:31.200 Yeah. Because you're like, what you deal with is so heavy and traumatic. And so it's like getting

00:07:36.320 to do something lighthearted and fun that just brings you joy. And it also kind of focused

00:07:42.660 on the positives for people that wanted to be a nurse or were in nursing school or were

00:07:46.680 miserable in their job as a nurse. Yeah. Because I never talked down about their career

00:07:50.100 because I really did love it. But then after the pandemic, a lot changed. And then I started

00:07:55.960 getting, I would be praised so much for focusing on the good. Nursing students were so appreciative

00:08:00.720 because they're like, every time I shadow a nurse, they're like, pick a different career.

00:08:04.640 It fucking sucks. Don't do it. And I was there to say, I do love it. I just don't think

00:08:09.160 were treated the best. Yeah. But then it kind of flipped where people were like, why are

00:08:14.520 you only talking about the good stuff? Like, don't lie. It's hard. And I'm like, of course

00:08:17.840 it's hard, but it's not a bad thing to be a positive person. No. Or to see the joy or

00:08:23.420 the beauty in saving lives. Totally. Yeah. Because there is a lot of joy and beauty in

00:08:27.140 that. Yes. But there's also a lot of trauma and sadness. Yeah. It's just duality. It exists

00:08:32.400 in all things. Yeah. Including content creation. Yeah, absolutely. Like there's a really, really

00:08:36.080 awesome side and there's a really awful side. It's just, it's just the reality of the business

00:08:41.220 that you're in. Yeah, absolutely. But when it comes to your content, like, and obviously

00:08:45.080 like, I think a lot of people know you from the Stevie vlogs, but like what made you want

00:08:49.460 to start kind of posting a little bit more about your personal life? Like whether it's

00:08:52.860 just you and what you do every day or your kids or your husband. I think people would

00:08:57.240 ask and I think I just got tired of seeing like the perfect cookie cutter beige mom content.

00:09:06.240 Yeah. And I'm not saying that's a bad thing. Like I look at their stuff and I'm like, honestly,

00:09:10.360 I praise you for having such a clean house and such an, what seems like the perfect life.

00:09:15.720 That's just not me. Yeah. And I also think I saw just a lot of mom shaming for people that

00:09:22.960 were speaking honestly about the struggles of being a mom and how hard it is. And I was

00:09:28.280 like, I have a playroom full of the ugliest fucking rainbow toys you could ever see, but

00:09:32.640 my kids are so happy, you know? And like, I would show clips of my house or morning blogs

00:09:37.580 and they're like, thank you for not picking up the mess before you showed it. Yeah. Because

00:09:41.560 I tried to be as real as I can. And even though there's hate that comes with that, when I admit

00:09:46.460 to things like, yeah, I do have a nanny twice a week or I do have house cleaners that help

00:09:50.500 me every other week. You know what I mean? Yeah. But that's, that's what works for our

00:09:54.340 family and that's how we survive. And we're privileged enough to be able to afford that

00:09:57.660 stuff. Yeah. But I feel like that honesty has gotten me really far. Totally. And again,

00:10:02.960 like we talked about, even though it comes, hate comes with that and that triggers a lot

00:10:06.420 of people. Yeah. At least I know I'm being authentic. For real. To what's happening behind

00:10:10.200 the scenes. Yeah. Well, and also you're brave enough to share it. Like a lot of people can

00:10:15.260 relate, but don't want to admit that they can relate because it makes them feel better

00:10:19.520 to sit on like a invisible, like moral superiority horse. Like, it's like you feel better about

00:10:25.480 yourself because you aren't brave enough to show things like this. Yeah. Whereas some

00:10:29.740 of us are and that's okay. Like you don't want to show your life. That's fine. But if

00:10:33.640 I show mine, who are you to judge? Totally. Like that's not really your place. Yeah. And

00:10:38.300 also you have the privilege of having the option of who you watch. Yeah. Like you can fucking

00:10:43.320 block me. I can block you for you. Yeah. I don't want to watch my stuff, but we have

00:10:50.160 as not just as content creators, but just as consumers of social media, you have the beauty

00:10:55.460 of choosing who you want to follow and who you want to have inspire you. And crazy how

00:11:00.360 that works. Yeah. It's crazy how you have that option. The option of free will. Yeah. You

00:11:05.040 don't have to watch me, girl. Yeah. Like sometimes I'll, I'll get some mean ass fucking comments

00:11:09.720 from, it's rare. I get mean comments from women, but it is, it does happen. And when

00:11:13.900 I do, I'll go and look and like, they follow me. I'm like, why does it always say follow

00:11:18.760 back? It's so bad. Why do you follow me? Yeah. Like if it's so awful, why are you fucking

00:11:23.340 here? Yeah. And out. See me, I'm opposite. All my hates from women because I'm a mom and

00:11:28.620 it's funny because I have so many friends that have the same job and their husbands also do

00:11:35.380 content creation where they'll do like dad blogs and they always say like my comment section is

00:11:41.600 full of mom shamers. My husband does the same thing and it's all praise. Yeah. You're such an

00:11:47.200 involved dad. You're such a good dad. And my friends are like, what the fuck? I made the same

00:11:51.680 video and you're shitting on me, but my husband does it. And it's, Oh, good job. You're such an

00:11:57.440 involved dad. It's like, why do we have this gender standard? And we talked about that on my

00:12:02.400 episode where you were talking about where you came from and how your household was,

00:12:05.880 which I loved hearing. It was so refreshing because I, I just don't think it just doesn't

00:12:11.840 our sex doesn't fucking matter when it comes to parenthood. Yeah. Like literally at all.

00:12:16.320 Yeah. Uh, it's also so, um, ironic because it always goes back to the same, like it's, it's

00:12:22.160 women who say that are like, there's, they're standing up for women or they're standing up for

00:12:26.260 kids or whatever. Um, but you end up being misogynistic and that's the irony, isn't it? Like you

00:12:30.960 end up, you're, you're, you're pushing down other women because it makes you feel good for whatever

00:12:35.920 fucking reason. But like men, the bar is in hell. So like, it's real easy to clear. Yeah. Uh, like

00:12:41.940 they could just pick up a child and they're like, what a great dad. Oh God. He's so good to her.

00:12:48.020 And they purposely want the attention. Like, Oh my God, I see so many dads and there are some

00:12:52.260 incredible dads on Tik TOK that I feel like do inspire other men to kind of step it up for their

00:12:56.940 lives. Totally. Yeah. But there are some men that I'm like, Oh my God, you want to be praised

00:13:01.320 so hard for being a dad. And I'm like, I, I, it's just too much. But then women post the same thing

00:13:08.340 and it's like, you fucking use your kids for content. You want attention. You're such a bad

00:13:13.880 parent, whatever the case may be. But it also just, it's a double standard to me because almost every

00:13:21.180 single time I get a comment that shit on me because I show my kids faces on the internet,

00:13:26.280 I click on their profile and it's a public profile and they're posting mom blogs with their kids in

00:13:31.680 it, but they have a smaller following. I'm sorry. I don't care if you have 500 followers or 10 million

00:13:37.780 followers who are still doing the same thing I'm doing and shitting on me for it. And you would be

00:13:42.440 doing it anyway. Yes. And that's my thing about that is like, I understand where people are coming

00:13:47.800 from when they're like, Oh, you're exploiting children. I get that. Yes. But you're talking

00:13:52.460 about a very specific kind of content creator. Yes. Your content revolves around you. Your kids

00:13:57.360 just so happen to be in it sometimes. And I know that. Yeah. And that's why sometimes when people

00:14:01.020 are like, did you know that so-and-so, like if I have someone on my show or something like,

00:14:05.440 did you know that they, yeah, I did. And I have the ability of cognitive thought. So like I can make my

00:14:10.740 own decisions based off how I feel they are as people. Once I meet them, everything's cool. Yep. It's crazy

00:14:16.220 how that works. Right. Yeah. So I don't, I don't form opinions based off random people on the internet.

00:14:21.220 Like I see it and they're like, well, clearly that's true because it's on TikTok. Yeah. Like

00:14:25.380 that doesn't, that's not how it works. So also I feel like, you know, there are also other sources,

00:14:33.560 evil websites on the internet that then trickle into social media that they feel like everything's

00:14:37.720 true. I'm like anyone in their mom can go log on those websites and say whatever the fuck they want.

00:14:42.140 Yeah. And people that hate you will believe it. Totally. It's just the way it is. Yeah, totally. And I've,

00:14:45.820 I have attempted to do like a normal morning vlog, like I would normally do. Right. And my kids are in

00:14:52.980 it immediately. How is this realistic motherhood? I know your kids are with their nanny. Not everyone

00:14:57.900 can afford a nanny. Where are the kids? You know, it's like, can't say I didn't try. Yeah. It's a

00:15:02.800 real, it's a real slippery slope and it's, and it's, it's a like a lose, lose battle because these

00:15:08.620 people have already made up their mind, which is what I've told people before. I'm like, you've clearly

00:15:12.740 already made up your mind. So I don't know what you're doing here. Like, are you trying

00:15:16.340 to convince other people? Are you trying to rally the troops? Like, I don't understand,

00:15:19.640 like just leave, like leaving is free. Um, it's not an airport. I don't need you to announce

00:15:23.980 your departure. Go ahead and take off girl. Like it's okay. Like the other, literally the

00:15:28.500 other day I got a comment from a lady, a girl, a lady, a woman, a lady, cause she was a lot

00:15:33.920 older than me, but she, um, and that's not me being mean. Like she literally is a lot older

00:15:37.540 than me, but she wrote, I think, uh, you know, I think she's, she's saying she, so she's not

00:15:43.180 talking to me. She's like talking to other people. And she's like, I think she's so like

00:15:47.080 beautiful. I genuinely do. But like, why don't you get your teeth fixed? Like, I just don't

00:15:51.140 understand. Like you have all this money. Like, why wouldn't you do that? Like she wrote this

00:15:55.720 whole fucking thing. And then her literal username is mommy of four. Oh, see. And then I go and

00:16:02.440 look, I look at her profile. She has a mom, she has multiple daughters. Right. And so

00:16:06.920 I think I'm like, what the fuck? So I put it in my story cause I was like, fuck you. First

00:16:11.520 of all, but second of all, I literally was like, I really hope that no one talks about

00:16:16.280 your daughters the way you're talking about me on the internet. Like, cause her excuse,

00:16:20.640 cause someone else was like, why do you need to write this? And her excuse was like, that's

00:16:23.940 the beauty of freedom of speech. Okay. Freedom of speech. These nuts on your forehead,

00:16:28.800 bitch. I'm putting it in my story. And I said, and I literally said, I don't blur

00:16:32.140 you to certain names. I never do. I don't do it for men and I sure as fuck don't do

00:16:35.080 it for women. So if you're going to talk crazy and then when they, when they get mad, you

00:16:39.120 want to fucking publicly comment and then I can't blast you. Don't do what you can't

00:16:42.880 take, bitch. Exactly. So I had this nasty, nasty Tik TOK. It was all about me. Literally

00:16:49.260 they made their entire page just three to five videos a day. They would clip my, like they

00:16:53.660 were such a fan. They would watch my entire podcast, clip shit, post it, whatever. So she

00:16:59.320 accidentally messaged me from a personal account. She's a mama four in South Dakota. I know

00:17:02.760 who you are. You're in nurse practitioner school. I know what your husband does. Oh

00:17:06.700 God. Yeah. Legal things have happened. But I'm like, her bio is mama four, Psalm three,

00:17:12.940 whatever the fuck. And she had all four of her kids in her Facebook banner. I said, you

00:17:18.780 make me scared for my kids to grow up in the world because if you're that nasty, how are

00:17:24.280 you raising your kids? Yeah. Well, and it's like you're doing it, but you, you have all

00:17:28.660 these like qualms about how you're raising your kids or how you post content, whatever

00:17:33.740 the fuck. And then you are publicly posting your children. Like, I don't understand, like

00:17:38.540 the, the correlation makes no sense. Like, how are you any different? Like from the monster

00:17:42.680 you're making me out to be, like, how are you any different from that? It's exhausting.

00:17:47.840 It really is. And I, I also want to be like, bitch, how do you have the time? You have four

00:17:52.740 fucking kids, bro. Like, I don't have time to make five fake accounts all day just to

00:17:58.280 leave nasty comments. Cause I keep blocking you. Yeah. Get a hobby. Yeah. I've had, I've

00:18:02.700 had that before from men, especially like when I was like really pissing them off and they

00:18:08.300 were making videos about me, like, Oh my God, every fucking two weeks I had a new dude be

00:18:12.660 like, has anyone ever thought about the fact that she might just be mean? Yeah, they have.

00:18:16.520 Believe it or not. Yeah. We've gone over that many fucking times. I am mean. You're right.

00:18:20.040 Uh, and so like they would make new shit, new shit, new shit. And like, there was one

00:18:24.580 I saw once that was like truly one of the worst videos I've ever fucking seen. And it

00:18:28.700 was like, it was this dude who made up this entire story. Like he literally crafted this

00:18:35.060 whole, like, wow, there was characters and plots and, and twists and turns. Like he was

00:18:40.800 like made up this whole thing about what my boyfriend probably used to do in high

00:18:45.540 school, what he did in college, what I did when we got together, why money, like all

00:18:52.540 this, it was like, it's giving obsessed. It was so gross too. Cause it was very graphic

00:18:57.980 too. Like it was like objectifying both myself and my boyfriend, which, okay. Yeah. And, um,

00:19:03.540 it was so gross and disgusting. And then the fact that other people in the comments were

00:19:07.940 like, I knew it. It's always so quick and any made up story, they're like, I could

00:19:15.040 have predicted that. Yeah. I knew it. And you know what? I always knew there was bad

00:19:18.220 vibes. Actually. I knew there was a reason why I never wanted to follow her girl. It's

00:19:22.560 always, it's always, I always got a weird feeling about her. Shut the fuck up. I knew

00:19:28.200 it. Yeah. Knew what? From one minute of my day, you knew that, that I, that I cut

00:19:33.640 down and edit for you. I was like, this man that's never met me in his entire life. Yeah.

00:19:39.460 Yeah. He knows, he knows for sure. Yup. The inner workings of my relationship. One time

00:19:43.900 I had a dude, um, he went live, but he, you know, they can sometimes green screen behind

00:19:48.860 them and they write words on there. Uh, he blocked me so I couldn't see it, but like the

00:19:53.800 live, um, had the background on it and it said, um, I dated drew off wallow all throughout

00:20:00.260 high school, um, who has questions. And so he literally was not him using it for attention.

00:20:06.360 Oh yeah. Girl click baiting the fuck out of me. And then he, there was getting, it was

00:20:10.020 getting a lot of viewers. And the only reason I knew about it was because one of my mutuals

00:20:13.540 saw it on their for you page and recorded it like screen recorded it. And then he DM'd

00:20:19.360 me and was like, Hey, I don't know if you've seen this, but like this dude is going live

00:20:22.840 and it had a lot of viewers, a lot of people asking questions. And he was saying the, he

00:20:27.840 was saying the craziest shit about me. Like he was saying I was insane. He said, I tried

00:20:32.580 to burn his house down. He said, I stole his dad's car. Like he made up all this fucking

00:20:37.920 bullshit. Mind you, he's like 23. I'm like, we weren't even in high school at the same

00:20:43.180 time. Hey, I'm 28. So like, what the fuck you're six years younger than me. And somehow

00:20:48.100 we were in junior high when I graduated. Yeah. Not only that he's Canadian. Um, I've never even

00:20:51.940 been to Canada. So fuck are you talking about? It's so, and it's crazy that they, I feel like

00:20:56.920 they're so obsessed that they actually start believing in themselves because they're not

00:21:01.060 well in the head. They have to start like really like buying into the bit. Yeah. Like the, that's

00:21:06.500 why I think the delusion of it all is like, that's honestly the scary part is how delusional

00:21:11.140 it gets. But also it's exhausting because I've even told my other creator friends this too.

00:21:16.020 Like when we've talked about stuff like this, I've told them like, you care because you know

00:21:23.140 who you are. And if you didn't care, you wouldn't be a good person. Like when people try to spread

00:21:27.200 lies and shit about you on the internet, unfortunately you cannot control that. And honestly, it's a big

00:21:32.500 reason why I went to therapy because like when I first got started, like I was like, this is going

00:21:36.160 to make me go insane. Yeah. I'm already kind of doing that. So like should probably clock in

00:21:40.860 mentally. Yeah. And thank God I did. It's been a huge, huge help, especially with this job. But

00:21:45.300 like, it starts to make you feel like my friend Teffy, she's described it before as like, um,

00:21:51.680 this is a job where you're like behind a one-way glass. Yep. So everybody can see in, but you can't

00:21:56.740 see out. Nope. And you can hear everything they're saying, but they can't hear you. Yeah. And so it's

00:22:01.000 like, it starts to make you feel like you're going insane. And you have no control. Yeah. You have no

00:22:06.060 control at all. And then it's like, if you know who you are and like, obviously like I'm, I'm so

00:22:10.820 convicted in who I am. I know you are too. And you're like, you know who you are and you

00:22:14.160 know, the people who love you and matter the most care about you. And that's all that matters.

00:22:17.480 But after a while you start to hear things and people telling you who you are and what

00:22:21.620 kind of person you are, it starts to really weigh on you because you're like, I'm not,

00:22:24.880 I know I'm not that person, but like, why do you keep trying to make me believe I am? Yeah.

00:22:29.100 It's exhausting. Also, why don't you just focus on yourself? Yeah, girl. Like go, go do what makes

00:22:35.240 you happy. Go be a better person, but you're, you're not going to change our success.

00:22:40.840 And as you try to keep shitting on us, like we're only going to keep growing and just

00:22:45.780 pissing you off more, like block me and end your own misery. Yeah, for real, dude. I'm

00:22:49.820 like this, nothing, none of this is serving you at this point. And I was like, I was

00:22:53.780 curious if you had any hate from men, if you ever get hate from men. Honestly, I have

00:22:59.140 only gotten hate if I like post a photo of me in a bikini or something. And it's from

00:23:03.980 like a Christian man that says I would never allow the mother of my children to wear such a

00:23:08.840 provocative outfit. A bikini? Yeah. Okay. Well, you're going to freak out when you find

00:23:13.460 out what happens during sex. Yeah. Also, I'm like, how do you have kids? You're going

00:23:17.040 to freak out. I know you last two pumps. You're going to freak out when you find out that people

00:23:22.580 are nude. Also, it's the way I'm like, did you save it too? Are you going to look at it

00:23:26.580 later? I bet you they did. It's just weird. When I would post, because obviously like when

00:23:33.140 I post my shit talking videos, sometimes like literally I'm in my bathroom a lot. Yeah. And

00:23:38.900 some people are like, when they're like, are you in the bathroom? I always say I'm in my

00:23:42.100 office, which like is not true, but like it's a running bit now for the last like three

00:23:45.920 years. I'm always like, this is my office. Yeah. They're like, your office has a cupboard

00:23:49.540 above the toilet. And I'm like, yeah, I don't know. But when I've made those videos, like

00:23:54.840 obviously I don't give a shit what I look like in them. And then when I really started

00:23:58.840 growing a platform, like for real, for real. And then I started growing on Instagram. The

00:24:02.920 first time I ever posted any sort of glam pic at all. Oh, oh man. The men were so mad at

00:24:07.700 me. And I, oh, by the way, you eat those the fuck up. Every time you post it, like you

00:24:11.940 see me in your comments, I'm like, oh bitch. You eat it up. The transition videos, the

00:24:18.020 titties, the glam, the hair, they're so good. Well, thankfully I have Adam. He's a

00:24:23.700 godsend, but he, I remember the very first time I ever posted glam pics. Oh, the men

00:24:28.200 were so mad at me. They were like, like, fuck, she's hot. Yeah. This is fucking

00:24:31.280 facetune, like blah, blah, blah. I'm like, it's a video. I don't know how you, can you

00:24:35.380 facetune video? I don't even know. But then when they said that, I'm like, you're mad

00:24:38.760 because I made that pee-pee wiggle and you're pissed off at me about it. And that's not

00:24:42.780 why you felt the tingle in your pants and you're pissed about it. Take it up with God. Like

00:24:46.160 you're mad. Be mad at him. Okay. I don't know what to tell you. Like you're mad

00:24:49.780 because you're attracted to me. Oh, a hundred percent. I know. Like what? Yeah. And

00:24:55.600 on top of that, now I'm horny. Yeah. Like they're all, I want a fucker too. Damn it.

00:25:00.460 God damn it. Jesus Christ. Now it's funny too. Cause even now like that, you know,

00:25:05.600 like I still fuck up men all the time, but like now sometimes if I do like

00:25:08.960 transition, transition videos or makeup stuff or whatever, sometimes I'll get the

00:25:12.860 occasional comment where men are like, I mean, yeah, I do it, but she'd need to

00:25:18.960 keep the makeup on. Okay. Um, am I allowed to chime in on whether or not that

00:25:24.780 happens? Yeah. Do I get to decide if I would fuck you too? Yeah. It's like, it's

00:25:28.860 like, I think that I'm stop right there. Yeah. Uh, like even some dudes like

00:25:34.600 literally have been like, I don't know the laugh might bother me, but I'd still do

00:25:38.560 it. Would you? You should be like, should you, have you seen my boyfriend? I was

00:25:42.600 like, cause he's way hotter than you. Okay. I know you would, I wouldn't. Yeah.

00:25:47.300 But like, I'm sure you would. I'm not, that's why I feel like that's what you

00:25:51.140 get. Oh yeah. Well also like the second you become a mom, it's like, you're not

00:25:54.580 considered a human being anymore. You're just like a slave to children, which I

00:25:58.880 like, okay. Yes, they are my number one priority, but I'm like, that doesn't make me

00:26:02.260 any less of a woman. Like I'm going to wear a fucking bikini. I don't really care.

00:26:05.500 They're like, I would never let my wife, well, you're not dating or married. So

00:26:10.880 don't worry about that. Yeah. Or like, God, her tits are so fake. Yeah. You're

00:26:14.820 right. Because they were like saggy tube socks, touching my toes after I

00:26:17.460 breastfed. You'd fix them too, bitch. The fuck? Like literally like tube socks

00:26:22.460 with like rocks and I'm like this far apart. Like my nipples are grazing the

00:26:27.000 thighs. Like it was, of course I fixed them. And you're real open about that. And I

00:26:32.720 respect you. I reported the whole process. I'm like, I breastfed my

00:26:36.420 daughter for 14 months and my son for 10. Like, sorry, you're mad. I had some

00:26:41.820 loose skin and I cinched it up. Well, don't worry. You're never going to get

00:26:45.020 to look at them. So relax. Yeah. Like chill, chill, chill out, girl. You don't

00:26:48.960 need, that's a problem you don't need to worry about. Oh yeah. That's a problem you

00:26:51.380 don't have personally. That's what I would never let my, well, worried about getting

00:26:57.480 married first. Yeah. Have you touched a boo before? That's what I'm saying. Like

00:27:00.700 you've never seen a woman. I've touched more tits than you. I've been straight my

00:27:03.660 whole life. That's what I'm saying. As a nurse, I bet. Even when Hunter was here and

00:27:08.020 we were talking about him, he was like, I'm so desensitized. Oh yeah. Fluids, like

00:27:13.340 nudity. Like I just. It's anatomical to me. Yeah. Like I don't look at a, like

00:27:19.580 obviously besides my husband, love you. But like I don't look at body sexually

00:27:23.920 anymore. But that's a normal thing. Like if you did, that'd be fucking weird. If

00:27:28.360 you were like touching patients all the time now. Yeah. So yeah. When he was, when

00:27:32.760 he was here, he was telling me, he's like, yeah, I'm so like desensitized to fluids,

00:27:36.260 especially like he was telling me a crazy story about how like, uh, someone pulled

00:27:40.700 out. Was it the IJ? Yeah. He pulled that out and it was like shooting to the, I was

00:27:44.340 like the roof. Oh yeah. I've done chest compressions on a newborn's actual heart,

00:27:48.020 like open chest. That's crazy. Yeah. That's insane. Yeah. And then, and then

00:27:53.900 you're like, yeah, time to go home. Yep. Or, or the patient passes away and like I

00:27:59.000 carry down the morgue and they hand me, okay, there's your next patient. Yeah.

00:28:02.060 You just, no time for processing at all. Yeah. And then they're like, can't believe

00:28:05.720 she wants to do content creation and not be a nurse. I know. Or it's like someone

00:28:09.200 was like, weren't you a nurse for one second? Why don't you just call? I'm

00:28:12.000 like, you'd like that though. Right. Yeah. It just calm the fuck down. They're

00:28:15.660 like, you're not an actual warrant. You can look at my license. It's public

00:28:18.180 record. Yeah. Yeah. Well, and it's like, what are you? Okay. Like, why does it

00:28:22.640 fucking matter? What do you get out of that? Yeah. Like, are you trying to catch

00:28:25.740 me in something? Yeah. Oh, you caught me. That's why it's like, even when I've talked

00:28:29.620 about the NFL, like getting fired or whatever, I've told people, they were

00:28:33.180 like, well, you were probably really bad at your job, blah, blah, blah. And I'm

00:28:36.660 like, I don't know. Ask them. Maybe, maybe that's why they fucking fired me. I

00:28:41.100 don't fucking know. You're like, well, I'm better off now. You know what's funny is they

00:28:43.240 didn't give me a reason. Uh, they just told me leave and never come back. So I

00:28:46.240 listened. That's kind of how that went for me personally. So I'm like, yeah, I told

00:28:50.520 people I got fired because it matters. Like I'm like, and you're honest about

00:28:54.700 it. Yeah. Yeah. And thank, thank God they did fire me. Yeah. Cause now look at

00:28:58.300 me. Oh yeah. The second, the second I quit, it was automatically turned. Oh,

00:29:01.720 you're fired. Or like, I know she's far from the hospital. Actually never even

00:29:05.640 had like a sustained complaint. It was never late. Yeah. Nothing ever happened. You

00:29:10.100 just don't like that. I was able to quit. That bothers you. It's like, it it's

00:29:14.940 again, such a no win situation. No, no. But like speaking of that's our topic for

00:29:19.900 today. We're talking about transitioning from like having a full-time job to being

00:29:22.960 a full-time content creator and why men especially hate women. Like they hate,

00:29:28.600 well, hate women period. And then they hate seeing women like find success in any

00:29:33.960 medium, but especially being a content creator, like they hate that. Oh,

00:29:38.340 anything. We were just talking about this earlier today, but like anything that

00:29:43.680 you're able to elevate your life away from a normal nine to five job is just

00:29:48.440 absolutely shit on. Yeah. But especially when it comes to these masculine men that

00:29:54.660 think like, are you really providing for your family and full, like to the point

00:30:00.680 where you guys are as comfortable as my family is. Cause you're like, I'm gung ho.

00:30:04.260 I'm such a provider while my wife cooks and cleans and shits out all these kids.

00:30:08.900 Like you, you're just mad that women have this opportunity to have such a stable

00:30:15.600 career in life by doing what we do. Literally. And that pisses so many men off.

00:30:20.200 Yeah. They get so fucking angry. Oh yeah. I got a, I got a comment once. I was like,

00:30:25.040 see, this is what happens when you make women famous for being hot on my video.

00:30:29.540 I said, Oh babe, you're in the wrong neighborhood girl. Like the, Hey, Hey,

00:30:34.000 that's not why I got famous. That is not at all. Actually. It's so far from why I go to

00:30:39.980 platform bitch. You're the wrong neighborhood girl. Yeah. Um, I'm like, you're going to get

00:30:43.940 jumped in these parts, but also I'm like, so you're attracted to me. Yeah. Well, see, I'm hot.

00:30:49.840 Awesome. Okay. Sometimes when men write shit, stuff like that, I'm like, this is a really

00:30:54.240 weird way to say you find me attractive. It's a very strange way to say that.

00:30:58.820 Like your response. You're like, thank you. Yeah. Thanks. Appreciate it. Um, no, thank you.

00:31:03.400 I'm taken actually, but, uh, appreciate, I appreciate the thoughts. Okay. So I'm going

00:31:08.820 to read one of these videos to you or two of them actually, uh, this one. Okay. So in this

00:31:13.920 video, man is commenting on a news article about a woman who created a female only nightclub

00:31:18.620 to prevent men from ruining nights out. He goes on a rant about how this is the dumbest idea

00:31:23.980 he's ever heard that this wouldn't be fun unless you were in LGBTQ female, whatever the fuck that

00:31:31.700 means. And that woman would have to pay for their own food and drinks. Um, yeah, that's kind of the

00:31:38.160 point. I would go out. I don't go out. I would go out if that existed where I live. That's so,

00:31:44.320 that's, I don't want fucking creepy men around me. Oh no. I'll, I'll ruin the night for everyone.

00:31:48.860 Yeah. Even when I was single, I didn't want that. I wanted to go out with my girlfriend

00:31:52.180 and I never did because people were so fucking creepy. Also respectfully, like you think I'm

00:32:00.380 hot now. You should have seen me before I had kids and no man has ever come up to me,

00:32:04.800 bought me a drink. Cause they're all pussies. Not one time. I'm more likely for a woman at that

00:32:11.980 nightclub to buy me a drink rather than men in a normal club. Cause we're vibing. Cause

00:32:16.240 we're friends. We're besties. Yeah. I feel like, well also like there's women don't go out and

00:32:22.660 they're like, Ooh, I hope there's lots of men there. Like never, never. Like literally ever.

00:32:28.460 I've never known any hot woman to ever do that. Literally ever. No. They're like going out and

00:32:33.040 they see a bunch of men and they're like, like, that's like the reaction is like, yeah, that man

00:32:38.500 right there. I know for a fact is salty as fuck. Cause he knows all the hot girls are going to be at

00:32:42.540 that club. Yeah. And he's like, and now I can't get in. I can't fucking get in. It's like, and why

00:32:48.680 is that? Like, why do women feel the need to create women only spaces? Maybe because you ruin everything

00:32:54.040 and you ruin it because of men like you, you terrorize us. So it's like, let me have this one

00:33:00.440 thing. Yeah. Just let me have this one thing that has nothing to do with you. I feel like even, and

00:33:06.000 you know, what's funny too, is even like lesbian bars or like sapphic bars, like bars that are

00:33:10.340 exclusively for gay women. There are still men there. Yeah. Acting a fucking fool. Like you're

00:33:16.460 still there. Like what the fuck are you? And they're like, where's the pool table? Get me an IPA.

00:33:24.480 They're like the darker, the better. There comes black. Whiskey neat. Thanks. I feel like even with,

00:33:31.700 um, when I used to go out like back in the day when I was a major fucking city girl back in the day,

00:33:36.980 I, my friends and I would go out very tactical. It's like, all right, we go. Well, first of all,

00:33:43.360 let's get drunk before we go. Cause we're broke. Uh, that's the key. You get, you get absolutely

00:33:47.460 shit face before you go. Then when you get there, you get someone to buy you one drink and then you

00:33:50.980 nurse it. And then you nurse the drunk the whole time you share one drink between your six friends,

00:33:56.160 but we would like designate. We're like, okay, you, the two of us are going to prowl for men, uh, to buy

00:34:03.140 drinks and nothing more. And then everyone else is going to find a spot. We're going to settle in

00:34:07.680 that kind of thing. It's so like, it's so we have to be so strategic when we go out for safety reasons.

00:34:14.180 And also, so we have fun. Yeah. But like every time a man overstepped, I ruined the night for

00:34:18.820 everyone. I just turned into the Wolverine, like, and then I started killing people. It's like,

00:34:24.140 there's a reason women have fucking pepper spray and rape whistles and all of these things and give

00:34:28.580 each other tips that they have to carry with them or they have to stick together even when they go to

00:34:32.300 the bathroom. Like there, this person is creating a safe environment for a club like that for women

00:34:37.620 to enjoy themselves. Yeah. And there's also like, I don't know, hundreds of others you could go to

00:34:42.280 that are not women only. That you probably can't get into anyway. Because your fit is trash and they

00:34:47.680 care about that a lot. Okay. The comments on this, this says, isn't this a crime? Discrimination by

00:34:53.040 gender. It goes both ways. Are you serious? That's not how discrimination works, but that's not really how

00:35:01.240 that works. Also, aren't there like men's only clubs? Yeah. They have like, like country club type

00:35:06.280 shit? Yeah. Yeah. Okay. Go join one of those. Yeah. You probably can't get in either. Yeah. I was like,

00:35:12.040 well, that you have to be of a certain tax bracket and a naked old man, apparently. I think that's a requirement

00:35:16.240 too. The creator of this comment or this video, he wrote, why are women trying so hard to get rid of men?

00:35:24.040 Yeah. Ask other men that question. Why don't you ask them? Ask your peers. Probably because of you,

00:35:29.500 the person that asked. Ask your peers. Ask your fellow man, like, hey, why do women fucking hate

00:35:34.040 us? Yeah. And I like how they, it's be, I think the beauty of social media has given people access to

00:35:38.900 like, be able to platform how they feel. So they're like, you know, men piss me off for this reason,

00:35:44.040 or I don't like when men do this. But like, women have felt this way about men for like hundreds of

00:35:48.420 years. So it's like, it's not new. Like they're like this new wave of women. Yeah. I also think

00:35:54.260 social media has opened a lot of women's eyes to what a man should be doing. Period. Because there are

00:36:00.980 a lot of Kings out there that do respect women. Yeah. And those are the type of men that aren't

00:36:06.880 single and are happily married and have families. And men like that hate that those people are

00:36:14.080 spotlighted because no one wants to fucking date you because women's standards are getting higher

00:36:19.040 as they realize that there are actually good men in the world. Yeah. I've even said too, like,

00:36:23.360 I'm like, when you ask women, like, especially like in their twenties, um, who are single and

00:36:28.020 they unfortunately are attracted to men. Like if you ask them like what their type is, a lot of times

00:36:32.680 they're like, Oh, you know, like someone nice. Yeah. How sad that they're like funny. Yeah. Like

00:36:38.400 just doesn't hate me. And then like you ask a man in that same exact situation who's awful

00:36:43.320 and he's like, well, she can't be fucking fat. First of all. And second of all, she has to

00:36:48.540 like, yeah, it's like, it's all she has to put out five times a week. Yeah. At least you got to put

00:36:52.880 this dick in your mouth at least twice a day and like has to swallow. Yeah. They have these like

00:36:58.700 insane. No, this is what gets me. Disgusting. Yeah. This is going to get so nasty, but I'm like,

00:37:03.680 it's always the guys are like, she has to swallow, but I'm never fucking going down on her.

00:37:08.320 Okay. Okay. Sure. Okay. Sure. And you said you're single. Yeah. Okay. That's what I thought.

00:37:16.580 Yeah. I wonder why God, I'm so the, what a head scratcher. I wonder why this last comment says

00:37:21.920 that's okay. Women hang out like that. Sometimes they even take all girls trips, but it's different

00:37:26.800 for men. We can't do it. Uh, no, you probably just don't have a fucking job to go on. Yeah. You don't

00:37:32.340 have the PTO logged up, babe. That's kind of probably why who said men can't go on. Who

00:37:37.420 said that? No. I was like, you guys are creating, you're making shit up. Like literally give a

00:37:41.780 fuck. Go. He's every year goes on a golf trip. I'm like, no, I'm not fucking worried. Like

00:37:49.980 go do your own shit. It's just, yeah. Yeah. When I, uh, I had like some of my girlfriends

00:37:57.420 over the other day at my house and we were just watching movies and stuff. And my boyfriend

00:38:01.500 was obviously there cause we lived together and he was like, I think I'm going to go

00:38:04.680 like get lunch with my parents. And I was like, really? And he was like, yeah, you know, I

00:38:08.940 just want you to have girl time. So I'm just going to, I'm going to go hang out with my

00:38:11.760 family. I respect. And I was like, thank you so much. Bye. Make sure you lock the door.

00:38:17.140 Thank you so much. Bye. Yeah. Anytime David's gone, I'm like in our bed, like just like

00:38:21.320 sleep like Patrick star, just like spreading free. Oh yeah. Oh yeah. And also like men don't

00:38:28.880 give a fuck men who are confident in themselves and in their relationship. They don't give

00:38:32.240 a shit if they're, if they're, their woman goes out without them. Oh, the insecurity

00:38:36.820 that comes behind that. Oh, I used to have this friend that was like, yeah, I, I had this

00:38:44.100 dress and mind you was like her mid thigh and she's like, and I like turned in the mirror

00:38:49.700 and he said it was too short. So I had to change. Oh, break up with him. Oh no. They're married

00:38:54.580 with multiple kids. Oh no. I'm like, see that to me is so just insecure to project,

00:39:02.200 to project that. And I'm like, if she feels good and pretty in that, what the fuck? Yeah.

00:39:07.400 It's just, I don't know. It's like, it is, it's controlling and it's misogynistic. It's

00:39:11.320 so controlling and it's, it's honestly abusive. So like it's, it's one of those things where

00:39:16.600 when, cause men are like, whoa, those are my fucking, those are my boundaries. That's another

00:39:21.320 thing. I was like the gift of therapizing language, being gifted to awful men was a mistake. Yep.

00:39:27.920 Like the way they use and abuse shit that they do not understand. And they've never been to therapy.

00:39:33.260 So you don't even know, like you're not even using it properly. And I talked about that when I was

00:39:38.100 talking shit on Jonah Hill because all that shit about him and his ex-girlfriend came out and like,

00:39:42.380 I mean, that was fucking crazy. It was insane. And it was the same shit. Like that makes me

00:39:46.620 uncomfortable that like, I don't like when you wear that to work. I'm like, she's a surf,

00:39:51.940 like a surfer and you don't want her to wear a bikini to her job. What is she supposed to wear?

00:39:57.840 Scrubs? It's the comments when I'm in a bikini and people are like, how does your husband feel

00:40:03.040 about this? Bitch, he fucking took the picture. He's like, get it queen. You look so fucking hot.

00:40:08.120 I was like, who gives a fuck what he thinks? Yes. I'm like, are you kidding me? I don't fucking

00:40:12.480 care what he thinks. Yes. I know all my, I get that shit too about like with my boyfriend. They're

00:40:18.620 like, that's such a, like the fact that he lets you, lets me, let's stop right there. No, it's not

00:40:24.100 his decision. Let's stop right fucking there, bitch. Uh, he doesn't let me do anything because

00:40:29.180 I'm not a dog. So he doesn't have to let me out the crate for anything really. Not his pet. No,

00:40:33.540 not at all. And I've said that too. I'm like, my man literally takes these pictures of me. Like

00:40:38.180 he eats it the fuck up and it's his background on his phone, bitch. Yeah. Sometimes he takes

00:40:43.080 it and he goes, the lighting's not good. We got to go to a better spot. You don't think

00:40:45.840 he has a special folder? The fuck? Come on, get out of here. You know, uh, do you know

00:40:49.460 Desi Perkins? Oh yeah. Love her down. Yeah. Uh, when I, I've obviously I've met her so

00:40:54.220 many times. Yeah. She's the best. And she, she and I were, we ran into each other at the

00:41:00.380 Barbie premiere. Okay. And I was like, Hey, like casual. Influencer. Yeah. Uh, it's not a real

00:41:07.980 job. I was like influencer things. Uh, the two of us ran into each other and we were

00:41:12.180 like just catching up. And then she was like, Oh, let's take a picture together. I was like,

00:41:15.300 okay. So her husband comes up and he, he puts the phone like on the, the selfie camera and

00:41:21.820 he had a big fucking light and he was like, she goes, let's take a picture. And I thought

00:41:25.900 I'm thinking she's going to like hold up her phone like this and take a picture with

00:41:28.220 me. She goes, Steven come. And he like came and he was like, Oh, I have it. Don't worry.

00:41:32.720 And he's like holding it like this so we can see ourselves and he's holding the light and

00:41:36.540 he's just going, yeah, no, keep going. I'm just, I'm taking a bunch. Oh yeah. Taking

00:41:39.140 a bunch. Oh yeah. And then when he left, I was like, that's what the fuck I'm talking

00:41:42.540 about, bitch. She started laughing. She goes, we've been doing this a long time. Cause she's

00:41:47.280 been in the game forever. Listen also like you, which we talked about this when, when

00:41:53.300 my husband and I decided that he needed to leave his job, like you are full time working

00:41:58.740 for me and supporting my career. Like take that photo, like learn the angle, take, take

00:42:05.480 multiple. Like he fucking knows the drill. Yeah. And they don't care. No, they're actually

00:42:09.800 thrilled. In fact. Yes. And they're such hype men. Like that is a man. Yeah. For real

00:42:14.780 man. But it absolutely fucking is. And I've, I've said that too, about my man too. Cause

00:42:19.660 they're like, well, you know, like, how does he feel about, he don't give a fuck. And

00:42:24.060 even then I've told people, I'm like, if you hate me being on tech talk, like you can take

00:42:28.140 it up with him. Cause he encouraged me to join. So yeah, it's honestly his fault that I'm

00:42:32.040 here unleashing on all of you. And they've said the same thing to me about like my dad,

00:42:37.200 like they're like fatherless behavior. Oh, whatever. Oh, it's probably cause you don't

00:42:41.880 have a dad. I was like, that's honestly incorrect. My parents are high school sweethearts, but

00:42:45.260 also like my dad is such a good man that that's why I turned out this way. Yeah. And I was

00:42:50.680 like, and honestly, when I was first getting started, my dad was like, I think you should

00:42:53.600 be meaner. I think you should say more shit. I was like, I'm trying to do, but these, these

00:42:57.660 guidelines, they got me tied. Yeah. They got my hands. Yeah. When you're raised by a man

00:43:02.640 that sets a high standard, you, you know what it takes to be a man. And then you know what

00:43:08.520 you're not willing to accept. Yeah. On top of that. Yeah. Uh, okay. I'm going to read

00:43:12.440 this next one. Let's see. Oh yeah. This next video. Here we go. In this video, a man on a

00:43:17.220 podcast says quote, attention is currency. And quote, if I am getting messages that are paragraphs

00:43:24.060 and paragraphs long from a woman that's mad at me. I know that she loves me. He later

00:43:28.760 adds, do not listen to what women say. Listen to what they do. Okay. Fucking spin me a fucking

00:43:35.640 yarn. Shit. Was that a haiku? I don't understand. Fucking Socrates. Wait, didn't I say something

00:43:40.560 too about, um, that they don't have like the capacity to write something so long or like they're

00:43:47.260 illiterate or something about men or women? I swear on that one. Oh, probably. Uh, Oh,

00:43:53.800 one of these comments says my wife knows I won't read a long text. If I want to read,

00:43:57.320 I opened Apple books. Is that even a thing? Apple books doesn't even exist. No, your,

00:44:04.000 your joke didn't even make sense on top of that. You're thinking maybe of the Kindle.

00:44:08.420 Oh yeah. Wrong thing. Well also I, I, okay. So do you remember that trend when they were playing

00:44:13.900 that song and it was like, girls were like, have the little mustache on. And then they were

00:44:18.540 basically on the video, they would write texts when they act like how men treat. Oh yeah. So

00:44:23.840 like when I did that trend, I literally wrote like when I send him multiple texts saying why he hurt me

00:44:29.880 and how that made me feel. And he responds with, well, I don't even know what you want me to say.

00:44:34.520 Like the way that that triggers me, like my, my prey drive gets enacted immediately. I'm ripping

00:44:42.340 the throat. Oh, I'd be fucking terrified. The way that it's like, I don't even know what you want

00:44:47.360 me to say. Yeah. Let's try words. Yeah. Let's start there. Let's open a fucking dictionary. Let's

00:44:51.140 say anything. How about that? Like literally fucking anything. Yeah. And so that video did

00:44:55.260 well. Cause a lot of women were like, uh, they were just writing what men say. They're like,

00:45:00.040 you're crazy. Or they'll say like, it's not even like that. Like they were just writing what men say.

00:45:05.520 It's not even like that. Well, how the fuck is it? Why am I interpreting it?

00:45:10.640 Then how is it? Tell me. Yeah. Let me know. Explain it. I don't even know what to say.

00:45:16.140 I don't even know what you want me to say. We're just going back and forth.

00:45:20.140 That's how I feel when, when they say like, they, when you send me message, like paragraphs,

00:45:25.420 I know that she loves me or she fucking hates her. I mean, she fucking hates her guts and she's

00:45:29.460 unleashing on you. There's some real fine line. Or you do so much fucked up shit that she's just writing

00:45:35.520 for you to let you know. Don't listen to what women say. Listen to what they do.

00:45:39.580 What? Okay. So if I break up with you, you listen to that. So what are you doing then as a man?

00:45:44.460 Nothing. Because obviously you're not doing anything right. Oh, nothing at all. She's unleashing on you.

00:45:47.880 And then when you, even when they say providing, right. And then you're like, okay, well then I

00:45:51.320 don't want to get a job. You just make all the money. And they're like gold digger, gold digger,

00:45:55.600 fucking whore. Right. The goalposts move every time. Oh my God. That's why I'm always like,

00:46:00.800 don't, don't listen to anything they say. Like they're, they're fucking liars. Like they'll say that. And then when they talk about

00:46:05.380 gold diggers, like I've, I've defended women who like date for money many times because I'm like,

00:46:10.800 gold diggers is, is so funny because that term is used by men with no money at all. Like I,

00:46:17.040 and I made this joke on Zach saying, but I'm like, show me a W2. Like I want to see how much money

00:46:20.420 you made last year. And I'll tell you if you need to worry about gold diggers. Unless you're paying

00:46:24.080 quarterly taxes. Girl, if you're still getting a tax return, don't worry about it. If you're getting

00:46:29.240 money back. Yeah. Don't, don't fucking worry about it, bitch. Like you're no gold diggers looking for you,

00:46:34.020 girl. I promise. And I've, I've been friends with women who date for money and they date men with

00:46:41.500 like crazy amounts of money. Oh yeah. They're not like, Oh, I mean, he looks like he works at state

00:46:47.460 farm. I'm going to date him and not work. Like that's just, that's not, no. Like women who date

00:46:51.920 for money. And then the men who, men who date them know they want to date them for money. So it's like

00:46:56.980 mutual and sensual. And they have the super hot chick that is like treating this guy like a king,

00:47:03.760 and vice versa. It's like good for them. It's a win-win. Yeah. Win-win. Like I, I honestly never,

00:47:08.820 uh, I never forgot this. Cause we were talking about how much we love Jenna Marbles. Yeah. I

00:47:13.280 love Jenna Marbles. I don't blame you for leaving, but like come back. Yeah. My Virgo queen. I can

00:47:19.580 love you. My fellow Virgo queen. Uh, but she made a video years ago where she was talking about like

00:47:25.300 how much she hates the, the phrase nice guys finished last. And she was like, Oh, I guess she just

00:47:30.260 doesn't want a nice guy. And she was like, every time men say that I'm like, you're probably not

00:47:35.600 even that fucking nice. Like she's like, like I, there's probably a myriad of other reasons why

00:47:40.640 she doesn't like you. And you being nice is definitely not one of them. Like you're oversimplifying

00:47:45.540 why she's not attracted to you. And she's like, and every time it's like men who are like swinging

00:47:50.740 for the fucking fences, like they're trying to date, like just an unattainable bitch. Like just like

00:47:55.580 someone who's just so far out of their league, which is not necessarily a bad thing, but then

00:48:00.120 like you're an awful person on top of that. She doesn't vibe with you. And then they're

00:48:03.720 like, well, it's clearly cause I'm too nice. Oh, I can't. Oh, it's cause I'm too nice.

00:48:08.680 Yeah. See, my thing is like when those men that know that they could never obtain the type

00:48:15.300 of women they're obsessed with or my comments, like, Oh, well, she's fake. My response every

00:48:18.680 time is, but you'd fuck me. Right. And they always delete their comments. I'm like, tell me,

00:48:23.720 tell me you wouldn't want to, right? And you'd still hit on. Get the fuck out of here, bro.

00:48:28.780 Okay. So if you saw me walking down the street, you'd be like, Oh, you're fake. I would not

00:48:32.160 have sex with you. I've said that before about fake boobs. I'm like, you're telling me right

00:48:36.460 now. If, if a beautiful bitch with fake titties took them out in front of you, cause she wants

00:48:41.960 to like have sex with you. You're going to be like, are those, first of all, are those fucking

00:48:46.300 fake? Put your fucking shirt back on and get out. I don't fuck fake bitches. You fucking liar.

00:48:53.000 That's why I was like, you're a liar. Like, first of all, you've never seen boobs in real

00:48:57.240 life, but second of all, you're telling me if you saw him, you'd be like, hold, hold

00:49:01.300 on. Yeah. The only nipple you've touched is your own. Yeah. Hold on. Are these, are

00:49:07.060 these real? Oh my God. Dude, come on. You're going to fucking, you're going to fact check

00:49:10.560 some, a pair of titties. Yeah. Liar. Yeah. I don't fucking believe you. Absolutely. Hey,

00:49:14.660 you're a liar. Uh, this next comment says I didn't know women. Oh, well, this is kind of

00:49:19.660 ironic, but he says, I didn't know women could type more than three words, but then he used

00:49:23.620 the wrong form of women. Like he said, I didn't know women. Oh, well, yeah. Let's go back

00:49:29.720 to elementary school. I was like, and man needs better grammar. Oh yeah. People hate the fact

00:49:34.880 that we're educated bitches up here too. I'm like, okay. I can tell you more than a fucking

00:49:39.420 paragraph message to you. And honestly, even sometimes like I tell like the few times I've

00:49:46.660 like not been like, eh, suck my wiener. Uh, they're like, men are like, eh, you think

00:49:51.920 you're fucking smart. And I was like, I know I'm smart. I just like, don't have to prove

00:49:56.160 it to you because my worth and value doesn't come from how big my dick is. So like, I don't

00:50:01.420 have that problem like you do. So I'll, I'm going to tell you to put my nuts on your forehead

00:50:05.120 and I'm going to laugh because it's going to make you mad every time. Like even when, when

00:50:10.160 men were like really so far up my ass, like I think like two summers ago, um, they would

00:50:15.300 write this shit. Like, uh, I don't know if you've ever, I doubt you've ever seen this

00:50:19.780 comment cause I feel like it's so specific to me, but they would say like, oh, the, the

00:50:24.340 cut's going to go crazy, which is basically them calling me fat because they're saying

00:50:28.800 like I'm bulking right now. And then when I cut, it's going to look, it's going to go

00:50:32.200 crazy. Also your body's so fucking hot. I don't hear shit from anyone. Like yesterday

00:50:36.120 we're in those low rise jeans with your tummy. Like you look so good. People, they're just

00:50:41.120 mad cause they know they'd fuck you. But even that they were like the, the cut's going

00:50:46.440 to go crazy, whatever. Or they would say, um, do you have any bulking tips? Which is

00:50:49.840 again, a fat joke. And then I go, yeah, you should, um, have you ever heard of Ligma?

00:50:54.180 You should totally look into that. It really helped me a lot. And then they're like, what's

00:50:58.360 Ligma? And I said, Ligma balls. I laugh every time I've said it hundreds of thousands of times

00:51:04.940 that I laugh every time it hits every time. It's so funny. It's the way that they then interact

00:51:09.280 back then. Wait, what is that? Maybe I will look into what you're suggesting. You fall

00:51:13.720 into it every time. Segundi's. That's another one. Segundi's nuts, right? Ligma. I got a

00:51:19.300 whole bunch of them. I got a whole bunch. Dude, one time, this is so unrelated to what

00:51:24.200 we're talking about, but one time my boyfriend, it was me, my boyfriend, my sister, the three

00:51:28.300 of us, I forget where the fuck we were, but we were all talking. And then we were talking

00:51:32.320 about something cause my parents were there too. And then my boyfriend goes, do you think

00:51:37.780 that they think I'm like your parents' son or something? Which is like gross and weird.

00:51:40.980 But I was like, no, they think you're Joe's son. And then he goes, who's Joe? And then

00:51:46.020 I was like, Joe. It's so funny. Cause as soon as he said, who's Joe, the way that I was

00:52:01.580 like, so excited. You're like, oh, bitch, it's coming. I was like, I fucking got your

00:52:05.920 ass, bitch. Fuck you. It's the way they still like, wait, hold on, who's Joe? And you're

00:52:13.740 like, it's my time, bitch. Buckle up. Yeah, dude, the fucking euphoria that coursed through

00:52:17.540 my veins. I was like, I'm going to live off that for the next year. Holy shit. I was like

00:52:22.040 the adrenaline pumping through my veins. Cause I was fucking like, no. And the suck on these

00:52:27.720 nice. Yeah. Segundi's, dude. Ligma, Ligma balls is a big one. I get, I get them every

00:52:33.180 time. When Dylan Mulvaney was on my show, I was telling her about those little like isms

00:52:37.120 and I said, have you ever heard of, do you know what Ligma is? And she was like, no,

00:52:40.960 what is it? Wait, yeah, you do a good impression. Yeah. She was so like, no. And I was like,

00:52:47.160 I feel bad getting you, but Ligma balls. Gotcha. Fucking gotcha, bitch. I got your fucking

00:52:53.100 ass. Those, those jokes make me laugh every time. And I feel like because they're so juvenile,

00:52:57.920 like men get even more mad. Like they're like, fuck you. Yeah. They're like, but you think

00:53:02.660 you're funny, huh? And I just right back got them. Yep. And they probably now use that joke

00:53:08.260 themselves. Fucking got your ass, didn't I? Oh, okay. I'm going to use that. Yeah, you

00:53:13.600 should. Watch my comments. Please do. It's coming. Ligma, Segundi's. I got a whole bunch.

00:53:17.560 All the Santa moms, I'm like, Ligma, bitch. Yeah. Fucking mom shaming me. You should Google

00:53:21.980 Ligma. I bet it would help with all this, this, uh, concern you have for me. You say,

00:53:26.300 what's Ligma? Uh-oh. Uh-oh. They fell for it. This last comment says, nah, they can text

00:53:34.500 you like that and still be lying to you and talking to other dudes. Trust me. Oh, the

00:53:39.640 insecurity. Yeah. Well, that's a personal. That's like a, that's one of those things you

00:53:43.380 put in a diary. Yeah. You know, you don't tell your diary. She's talking to other girl

00:53:48.360 or talking to other men, blah, blah, blah. Well, yeah, probably because looking

00:53:51.940 how you act. Oh, yeah. No, the way that people will still call, like men will still

00:53:55.720 comment. The fact that Scotty is my producer and we go on podcast trips together. Scotty

00:54:00.840 is the gayest man I've ever met. He has never once had interest with having sex with a woman.

00:54:08.260 Do you think my husband is like, you can't travel? We're fucking sharing a bed. Like we,

00:54:14.260 no, I was going to say we spoon at night, which we don't, but we basically cuddle at night.

00:54:17.760 People like get the fuck over yourself. And men will be like, your husband's really okay

00:54:21.360 with you traveling with a man. Uh, this man. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. And also we're secure enough

00:54:27.840 in our marriage where if I was traveling with a straight man, he wouldn't fucking worry about

00:54:31.560 it. I'm like, take your insecurities elsewhere. It's like such, it's such projection. Oh yeah.

00:54:36.740 It's like, those are, that's a you problem that you're trying to make an us thing. Yeah.

00:54:41.140 It's not. Oh yeah. That's crazy. They'd say that about Scott. Oh yeah. David just laughs.

00:54:45.460 David's like your guzband. Okay. He's like literally my gay husband. Yeah. You spend more

00:54:51.420 time with him than, than David. No, a hundred percent. Especially on work trips. Yeah, absolutely.

00:54:55.200 And you're like, dude, what do you think is, all right, relax. I'm like, again, you don't

00:54:59.080 even have a wife to worry about. So let's focus on that. Like I've, I've joked about that before

00:55:05.080 cause they're like, what about, cause even when I've made like gym content or whatever

00:55:09.160 and that is so loose, I never fucking do that shit. Cause who cares? No, I love it when

00:55:13.640 you're like, you turn around your ass. I'm like, yeah, get it queen. And even those, those

00:55:19.720 stupid little fucking shits that I post, like men will get so angry because like, how dare

00:55:24.280 I be in the gym or they'll be like, you don't work out or whatever the fuck. And sometimes

00:55:29.640 men, I'll be like, I work out all the time more than you probably like, I, that's not

00:55:33.060 probably not true. I just lie. Yeah. I'm just lying. Yeah. I'll lie to men all the

00:55:37.060 time. And so they're like, oh yeah. Well, I, I venture like, again, you're trying to

00:55:41.520 prove this shit to me and that's insane. Like, oh yeah. Yeah. He's like, well, I bench

00:55:45.040 press this much. How much do you bench? And I'm like, literally the same I did this

00:55:48.580 morning. That's not true. That's not true at all. I'm lying. Uh, but they get so

00:55:53.340 angry, like so angry immediately. And then he hit him with a ligma and then you, and he

00:55:58.180 bounce and Joe mama. And that's how you get 7 million followers on TikTok. And

00:56:04.520 that is the recipe. And that's how you get this show right here. That's how you get

00:56:07.360 your own show. Uh, that's pretty much it. But anyways, just to wrap, uh, I know we

00:56:12.520 talked about all kinds of silly shit and also very serious stuff. Um, but I'm so

00:56:16.360 curious what your best piece of advice would be for anyone who's like currently

00:56:21.000 nine to five or maybe in the same situation you were, where they're kind of

00:56:23.420 like balancing both and they're thinking about, you know, maybe doing the jump and

00:56:27.860 like maybe trying to transition full-time to content creation. Like what would you

00:56:31.140 say is your best piece of advice for them? Well, I would say, I think it's doable

00:56:35.560 for everyone. I think the people that in their head make it unrealistic, there is

00:56:40.180 room on every social media platform for everyone. There's no capacity. Yeah. I also

00:56:44.860 think don't have such tunnel vision where you think when you post content has to be

00:56:48.700 one subject, one alleyway, you know, I started with nursing and I still

00:56:53.420 sometimes will share my journey of what I experienced as a nurse, but I also do

00:56:58.580 makeup, beauty, fashion, travel, motherhood, nursing. Like there's so many

00:57:04.420 different things. You don't have to stick to one thing. I think consistency is key,

00:57:09.280 but I also think you can balance it with a regular job because sometimes full-time

00:57:14.040 content creation isn't for everyone. And once they make that leap, they do miss

00:57:17.100 their old job and they go back. Yeah. So I would say make sure that it's what you

00:57:20.460 want to do, but also there are people that are able to balance both. So if

00:57:25.240 you're able to like kudos to those people. Yeah. But I would say focus on what

00:57:30.720 makes you happy, like make the content that makes you happy. And for me, when I

00:57:34.940 was transitioning out of nursing, I realized that content wasn't filling my cup

00:57:39.380 anymore because I wasn't enjoying nursing the same anymore after the pandemic.

00:57:43.300 And the things that brought me joy were my content creation and the content

00:57:48.960 creation that was aside from my nursing career. Yeah. And that filled my cup and

00:57:53.340 brought me joy when I was postpartum or, you know, breastfeeding all night and I

00:57:57.280 was scrolling and watching these moms and that filled my cup and I wanted to do

00:58:00.520 that for other people. Totally. So I feel like finding content that fills your cup and

00:58:04.940 makes you happy because, and also being authentic. Yeah. I feel like it's, it's an

00:58:10.540 impossible thing to post content, not being your true authentic self. You're

00:58:14.860 going to burn out. Yeah. You're going to be fucking exhausted and you're going to

00:58:18.020 get caught really quick. Yeah. Totally. Like it's just not feasible anymore. Yeah. So

00:58:22.480 I think if you're going to dive in, dive in headfirst and be who you want to be as a

00:58:29.260 person online. Yeah. Because especially with, I meet people all the time that are

00:58:33.760 content creators and I'm, I'm disappointed sometimes in the different person that

00:58:39.000 they are. Yeah. It's not like what you thought. Totally. Based off their presence

00:58:42.860 online. Yeah. Or even sometimes I'll meet people and I'm like, dude, you're so much

00:58:46.260 cooler in person. Yeah. Like you should be more your authentic self online. I think

00:58:50.420 you'll actually be more successful. Yeah. Totally. If you are, you know. But I think

00:58:54.200 with that, it's obviously insecurities because it sometimes hurts when you get hate

00:59:00.260 and you are your authentic self because you're like, people just don't like me. I've

00:59:03.820 actually gotten that before from other creators. Like they've asked me about that

00:59:07.140 because they were like, they have like a very specific shtick and niche. Yeah. But

00:59:11.580 it's not based off who they really are. And they were like, I don't know how you do

00:59:14.940 that because like, I just like don't want to, I don't want people to see who I really

00:59:19.020 am and then judge that. Like I'd rather get hate on like characters I play and stuff

00:59:23.680 than the other way around. Totally. Totally. And I get that. I, it's hard to open that

00:59:27.820 can of worms. I also think, you know, be cautious with mental health because I do think

00:59:35.280 people that are on the more sensitive side have a really hard time with even like I've

00:59:40.780 had people message me all the time that are like, I had one viral video and I never did

00:59:45.980 social media again. Yeah. Same. Because the content or the comments are so fucking horrible.

00:59:50.440 Yeah. People are awful. And they're awful. Yeah. They really are. And it doesn't matter

00:59:53.700 what you do or if you improve or take it as like corrective criticism. Those people are

00:59:59.240 just fucking miserable. Yeah. You can't take anything they say at all to heart. Yeah.

01:00:04.740 I use Emily Mariko as an example all the time. I'm like, she doesn't even, I was like, she

01:00:08.200 doesn't even talk in her videos. Bro, she, she doesn't say comments. She doesn't say words

01:00:13.420 in her videos. Not a word. And literally everyone's like fucking bad vibes. Yeah. Where, from where

01:00:18.700 did you get that? You're the worst fucking person. Oh, thank God the wedding content's over,

01:00:22.340 but you fucking watched it, right? I know I did. Yeah. I watched every fucking video. I watched the fuck

01:00:27.040 out of that shit. I ate that. Yeah. When I saw, when I saw part three, I said part one

01:00:31.520 and two and where are they? The way I was at the store getting that salmon and that fucking

01:00:35.120 mayo and I made my own bowl. I actually made that shit too. Yeah. With the fucking seaweed

01:00:40.280 shit. Like I, it was fucking fire too. It's really just sad because those people are just

01:00:45.960 so miserable, but look at her. She just doesn't read a single fucking comment. Doesn't respond

01:00:51.080 and she's thriving in life. Pregnant and starting a family. And I'm like, bravo. Yeah.

01:00:56.640 Yeah. That's, and I've, I've told people that's such a good point when you said about like

01:01:00.200 being authentic too. Cause I honestly feel like even though your nursing condo was doing so well,

01:01:05.180 I feel like as soon as you kind of stepped into it for real and like started really showing who you

01:01:09.100 were, that's when it really took off. Yeah. Oh yeah. Because people crave that now. And I feel

01:01:12.560 like, you know, we're the same age. So like back in the YouTube days, like they really loved curated

01:01:17.120 perfection. Yeah. Perfectly lit, perfectly glammed, like a perfect set, perfect camera. Yeah. Whereas now

01:01:23.240 they prefer the opposite. So they're like, I want to see more authentic stuff, more stuff that's real

01:01:28.500 and more real to me. Yeah. And I feel like that's when yours really took off, which is, oh yeah, it's

01:01:33.160 true. Yeah. And I, I, sometimes I wish I could have another kid, which I'm not, don't fucking talk

01:01:39.760 to me about it. Okay. I'm tubes are tied, but because I see a lot of, it makes me really sad. Cause I do

01:01:46.820 see a lot of women in comments of these just very unrealistic mommy content creators, which I'm not,

01:01:53.380 I'm not nagging on them at all or talking negatively, but I do think that there's certain

01:01:59.140 things that should be talked about in more of a light. Like I wish I was bigger at that time where

01:02:04.300 I could walk around in my diaper after I had a C-section, I can't bend over and I'm like holding

01:02:08.160 two kids pumping up all night. My baby is colic. Like those are real life things that people and women

01:02:15.220 need to see. Totally. And I'm like, I wasn't wearing jeans six days postpartum with full hair

01:02:20.080 and makeup on. I look like shit for months, bitch. Like I literally looked haggard. But your baby was

01:02:26.560 thriving. Oh yeah. Oh, she was cute as fuck. And she was chunky as hell. I made that milk. Okay.

01:02:30.960 Which is why my tits were touching my toes. She was feasting. Oh yeah. I'll show you photos.

01:02:36.360 That bitch was 42 pounds at like nine months old. I mean, she was on period girl. And that's on period.

01:02:42.600 And she was born. She was a week early, eight and a half pounds, but her head circumference

01:02:48.460 was 42 weeks. So I had to have C-sections. My husband was born 13 pounds, eight ounces.

01:02:55.080 So my boyfriend was born, I think 12, 12 something. My, I was nine 13. Wait, do you want kids?

01:03:02.140 No, no, no. Honestly though. I love that. Like I'm never the type of person that when are you

01:03:07.820 getting married? When you have kids? Yeah. Fucking don't ask. It's on my time. But you know that

01:03:12.340 period. And that, and that vagina is going to stay per scene. Yeah. I was, I was nine

01:03:18.300 13. My sister was eight, eight. Damn mom. My, my brother was 10, 10, one. And my mom

01:03:25.520 had all of us naturally. So like, I was like, yeah. Hey, that's what's up. That's what's

01:03:33.300 up. Love it. I know you got, I know you got a, your husband's tall too. Oh yeah. Six,

01:03:38.080 five. Yeah. My, my dad's six, six. So like, that's why my mom had big ass. Oh yeah. And

01:03:43.220 my, my, my boyfriend was like, I think 12 pounds ish. Damn. And I was like nine 13. It was a big,

01:03:49.340 I had a big ass head too when I was born. Yeah. So I get it. Me and Stevie core. I tried dude.

01:03:53.240 I tried 43 hours with my son naturally unmedicated. Yeah. No, that bitch is way too

01:03:59.160 fucking big. They cut me all the way to my hip bone emergency C-section. I felt pretty much

01:04:03.340 the whole thing. It was horrible. 43 hours. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. And natural, no epidural.

01:04:09.020 No, you're crazy. Yeah. Well, I didn't actually have the baby vaginally, but then when Stevie

01:04:14.760 came along, they were like, you can try V back. I said, the fuck no. Roll me into the

01:04:19.080 OR. I am not. No, I'm good. Nah, I'm good. And she was even bigger than he was. It was

01:04:24.960 like, that's my fucking girl. By the way, for anyone that's going to say I body shame my child

01:04:29.320 by saying she's chunky. No, I'm actually bragging because she was a thick queen. Yeah. And she

01:04:34.800 got that. There's also nothing wrong with, uh, being chunky. Oh yeah. There's like literally

01:04:39.040 nothing wrong with it. Like you put, you put negative value on words like fat or chubby

01:04:43.320 or whatever. Yeah. Like you do that. Like that's a manmade thing. There's nothing wrong

01:04:47.120 with that. Also anyone that knows me knows how obsessed I am when like my babies are so thick

01:04:52.240 and chunky. They're just juicy. Like they got the little legs. Oh yeah. Little. No, no, no.

01:04:56.760 She was maxed out size six diapers at three months old. And the, the pediatrician was

01:05:01.820 like, there's only pull-ups from here. I said, well, we gotta buy them. Oh yeah. She's

01:05:08.260 a meanie girl. I loved it. He's like, damn. When you come in with your baby. Oh yeah. She's

01:05:10.840 the best. Yeah. Period. I love a big baby. I was a big baby. That's why I said me and

01:05:14.660 Stevie Cora had a huge fucking head and I was big. I need to see baby photos. I want to

01:05:19.080 make your mom show me. My brother was big as fuck too, though. Like my brother was heavy

01:05:22.140 too. Like he was dense. Yeah. See, that's the thing. Like I picked both my kids up and

01:05:26.400 they, people ask me all the time if they're twins because they're about the same size,

01:05:29.640 like three years apart. Cause Stevie's just going to be so tall. Period. Yeah. Well,

01:05:34.000 you're tall and your husband's tall. I'm tall. My husband's tall, but my, uh, my husband's

01:05:38.760 biological father is six foot eight. Damn. And his grandmother was six one. Okay. So my

01:05:45.000 kids are going to be really tall. That's so cool. I love that though. Oh, I'm so I can't

01:05:49.680 wait for my son to be taller than me. Yeah. You're well also I feel like your son's

01:05:52.880 already really tall. He's super tall. I, I, your son's only five. Yeah. I'll pick him

01:05:56.780 up and his toes are out like my niece. Yeah. I'm like, dude, he's going to be so big. Yeah.

01:06:02.160 My, my sister is five, four and she's been five, four since the sixth grade, but like

01:06:06.240 she was taller than me for a minute, but then not since the sixth grade, she's like, we're

01:06:10.620 just going to cap it. Yeah. They're like, and you're done. Uh, you're done growing by

01:06:13.660 the way. But like when I was in sixth grade, I, I got like five, three, uh, then seventh to

01:06:20.160 eighth grade, I grew four inches in like one year. Whoa. So I went from five, four

01:06:24.220 to five, eight. Like, and I was in, when I was in eighth grade, I was five. Oh my God.

01:06:27.760 Everyone was like, you're the, they were like, sir, this is for kids, sir, sir. And I'm

01:06:33.460 like, I'm also in the eighth grade. So my God, my fucking bad. Uh, but I, I passed my

01:06:38.100 mom like way early. Like I grew taller than her way early. And my brother for a while, we

01:06:43.260 thought my brother was going to be short. We were like, Oh yeah, he got Jason's gene.

01:06:47.020 Like my mom's gene. Oh. But then he grew, he, he passed me eventually, but like I was

01:06:52.100 the tallest for the longest time. And I'm the middle child. So David was six feet tall

01:06:56.320 when he was a senior in high school. So he grew five inches when he was 18. That's

01:07:00.260 so he said his bones like ached every day. That's so similar to my dad. My dad was like

01:07:06.240 six, one ish, six, two and senior in high school. And then when my dad was in his early

01:07:11.420 twenties, he grew like four or five more inches. So my dad's six, six now. Yeah. And

01:07:15.960 my boyfriend was like six, one ish, six, two when he graduated from high school. And

01:07:20.840 now he's six, four. And one time I made so many men mad on Twitter, which is like the

01:07:26.100 worst app ever. But like, Oh yeah. Like a year ago. Also, Scotty just told me today

01:07:30.360 there's like fucking full nudity on there. He's like, and I literally saw, I said, they

01:07:34.640 have dick and cock and balls. No, that's what he showed me. Scotty loves it. But I was like,

01:07:40.080 Oh my God. Balls on Twitter. That is a godless app. It was. I, Oh, I literally saw it. I was

01:07:47.120 like, Holy shit. They have like full porns on there. It's crazy. I don't know how that's

01:07:51.500 crazy. Okay. Yeah. But I got fucking banned for a while. Cause I showed myself breastfeed.

01:07:55.720 My nipple was even showing. Okay. Oh, all of a sudden we care about nudity. God. But

01:08:01.400 even then I talked about how tall my boyfriend is like casually. And then we're like, that's

01:08:05.700 not fucking true. I was like, well, what are the odds, you know, and I don't know. And

01:08:09.380 they're five eight. Yeah. That's not true. Yeah. And then one guy looked up my boyfriend's

01:08:14.860 college, like football player statistics. Yeah. And he was like, according to this, and

01:08:21.680 this is from like 2015. And he was like, it said six, two. And I go, yeah, my boyfriend

01:08:26.620 grew two inches in like six years ago. Like also it's the way you went that far to look. Yeah.

01:08:32.800 You're a fucking freak first of all. And I was like, but also like, you're just mad

01:08:36.800 because you stopped growing in the fifth grade and my boyfriend kept growing into his

01:08:39.660 twenties. That's again, take it up with God. Yeah. They're also like, they're the same

01:08:42.860 people that have like the inserts in their shoes, like gain an inch. Yeah. I was like,

01:08:45.920 turns out your genetics hate you just as much as your barber does. Okay. So just to wrap

01:08:53.880 now, like I, first of all, thank you so much for coming on the show. No, thank you for

01:08:59.120 having me. I adore you. I am obsessed with you. Yeah. I think you're going to be stuck with

01:09:02.240 me and you're going to get annoyed with me. Period. Let's hang out. Let's make our tall

01:09:05.540 matching sambas. Yeah. I literally wore these for Avery because I know she's a

01:09:09.540 Samba girl. Those are so fucking cute. And I need to pick in my life. And they have my

01:09:11.280 initials on the back. Yeah. I'm going to need those. Yeah. Period. Look at us. But I love

01:09:16.500 you forever. I love you. You're amazing. I'm glad you came on the show. I appreciate

01:09:19.400 you so much. We're twins now. We're besties. No, we are. And you opened my perspective to

01:09:24.220 so many things like hate. And I remember you were the first person to be like, yeah, congrats.

01:09:29.340 You made it. And I was like, A, period. That's just what happens, girl. Unfortunately, like

01:09:34.800 as heavy as the head, you know. Yeah. But I'm happy you're here. I'm happy you're on the

01:09:39.380 internet. And I'm happy to know you personally. Thanks. Ditto. Love that. And thank you all

01:09:43.620 so much for joining us on this episode of the comment section. Thank you to my amazing

01:09:47.600 guest, Avery Woods. Where can everybody find you? TikTok and Instagram is Avery Woods. And

01:09:54.560 then my podcast is The Cheers Podcast. Period. Make sure you guys go tune in to Avery's podcast.

01:09:59.680 I was on there. She killed it. So I don't know if the episode will be live by the time you

01:10:03.900 see this, but if it is, go watch it or watch all the other episodes. You have tons of amazing

01:10:08.540 guests. You're the best. Thank you so much for coming on the show. Thank you so much for

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