The Comment Section with Drew Afualo

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00:01:37.100 what's up you guys this is the first episode of my new show reading the stars we're here we made it

00:02:01.040 i literally traveled all the way from new york city to the valley of los angeles california i was

00:02:08.100 lost but now i am here i'm so excited to bring you guys along with me on this journey where we

00:02:14.000 basically meet a new superstar every week we get into their astrology we get into what's going on in

00:02:20.020 their lives and also you guys get to be a part of it as well we do take fan submissions at the end of

00:02:26.200 each episode and we get into any questions that you guys have for them we vibe out it's going to

00:02:32.560 be a good time my first guest tonight is going to be drew afwalo she is the baddest bitch of all time

00:02:39.040 in my book and i'm sure in yours she is a virgo sun cancer moon sagittarius rising and she uses she her

00:02:48.660 pronouns we had the most epic conversation in history we talked about her superhero origin story

00:02:56.140 we talked about the art of being mean i'm so excited to have her on today everybody at home drew afwalo

00:03:03.700 that's how we communicate yeah what do you call it what do you call it when you do the the dots and

00:03:13.680 you're like morse code morse code whoa that's how we communicate i feel like people don't really

00:03:20.480 understand that the bitches who really do like live their life with the long acrylic nails yeah

00:03:25.240 it's like a whole new um intellectual property absolutely we communicate in like short and simple

00:03:33.960 we've ascended to a higher plane yeah that's us it's spiritual not everyone can do it not everyone

00:03:40.240 not everyone's built for it no that's like god took his time yeah for real for real um so i met you

00:03:50.440 for the first time yesterday and i think what's so interesting i mean i've been following you for

00:03:57.120 again i don't even know how long um you've always just been please you've always just been like a part

00:04:03.780 of my for you page like i think like every 50 videos you know you show up and you cussing somebody

00:04:09.760 out and i'm like hey okay but you know i think the thing about you that i love so much is you know

00:04:15.940 obviously there is this like beautiful like confidence but i think the thing that makes the confidence that

00:04:24.940 you display so beautiful is because it's grounded in something oh thank you that's so sweet yeah like

00:04:33.360 you're so grounded it's something that i like when i came on your show and i was nervous i had the

00:04:40.760 idea that i was nervous at first and i was like no no no because i'm gonna sit down with her and

00:04:45.280 she's gonna make me feel like i'm at home stop yeah i yeah maybe that's my earth sign probably me

00:04:52.500 being so grounded probably i don't know i i think i'm just someone who's like very i'm if someone if

00:04:58.860 there's steady hand on the wheel everyone else in the car will be okay yeah that's kind of how i

00:05:03.240 run my online presence too yeah it's like it's all right i got us yeah i'll take care of us don't

00:05:09.020 worry yeah but i papa's got you please i think what's also so cool about you is you know i mean

00:05:16.960 there's just so many different sides to you me saying this like this is the second day i'm meeting

00:05:21.840 you but these are the vibes that i'm picking up well we've known each other for a long time yeah

00:05:25.860 spiritually spiritually yeah i'm telling you yeah i mean that i agree i agree i agree yeah and i think

00:05:33.660 about like you and i think like there's so many beautiful different sides of you there's a side of

00:05:39.980 you that's you know but they come out at different points because i feel like you know something about

00:05:46.500 you i feel like uh you know you're a cancer moon so you kind of have this really strange uh intuition

00:05:55.080 yeah that's like a pulse on the reality you know when you have to be one side of yourself

00:06:00.700 you know when to be the other side of yourself yeah you know when it's safe to be this side of

00:06:05.720 yourself absolutely you know yeah it's also like um a big reason why i feel i feel so driven to

00:06:12.400 protect people because my cancer moon is makes me really sensitive very empathetic contrary to what

00:06:17.920 it may seem like on tiktok but that's like what drives me to like be so blunt and frankly violent

00:06:26.340 with my responses to people who attack like others unprovoked yeah because it upsets me it makes me

00:06:33.220 really angry so yeah i've channeled it into when i was younger i used to be a lot meaner but now i've

00:06:38.880 channeled it into more of a comedy thing like laughing at them because i feel like that stings a little

00:06:44.300 bit more cuts a little deeper yeah you laugh you know i think though i think it's so funny because

00:06:49.320 i know like you know some of those men will get um which if you are not familiar drew is notoriously

00:06:55.960 known for coming up with some of the best ways to really put men in check when someone's not putting

00:07:05.500 them in check yeah and the thing about drew is i feel like you know the men will definitely retaliate

00:07:11.260 and be like you're so violent and now you didn't have to say all that yeah but what i've noticed

00:07:16.280 is that you speak to people in a way that they understand yep absolutely you know what i mean

00:07:20.760 yeah that's again like it's one of those things when you're bigoted like you're not going to listen

00:07:26.180 to one of the marginalized groups that you think lesser up for using like politically correct terms

00:07:31.660 yeah you're you're not going to listen to them yeah obviously because you find shit like that funny

00:07:36.180 so that's why i don't waste time trying to teach you yeah i'm just gonna hurt your feelings yeah and

00:07:42.340 then you're gonna regret saying it and that's why i always i always tell people like i don't want to

00:07:46.640 change them i think that's the part we're missing yeah people think like i'm on a mission to change

00:07:50.960 them i'm not i really don't care like i don't give a shit what you do in your regular life i just make

00:07:56.240 you shut the up yeah to be honest yeah and then it works so that's my goal that's my goal is to get

00:08:02.300 you to shut up you're like you let's use douchebag number 13 764 as an example today well and that's

00:08:12.400 and it's also like when i attack looks and stuff because sometimes people are like what makes you

00:08:16.720 any better i'm like well i'm not a bigot so i'm automatically better but other than that like

00:08:22.380 anything i attack is either something that's was a patriarchal value like height right calf size

00:08:31.540 hairline those are all standards set by other men yeah they think i'm the one who made those yeah

00:08:36.800 i didn't right so when you attack them they get hurt because they're misogynistic because they're

00:08:42.100 ruled by the patriarchy or it's something that's considered conventionally attractive so like big

00:08:47.060 muscles for example i'll make fun of them and then they're like that's so mean but those are

00:08:51.420 conventional beauty standards no one's oppressing you because you're in shape yeah so like so it's

00:08:57.580 important to make fun of it because i'm like you look a fool yeah you look stupid yeah and they

00:09:02.540 don't like feeling like that yeah so like so like i want to know what i want to know is you know i

00:09:11.380 don't want to call it a villain origin story i want to know what your like superhero origin story was

00:09:19.580 has this always been the vibe what like like you know when you were like growing up like what was the

00:09:25.560 vibe like how would you like how was that like going to school did you go to school with like boys and

00:09:30.600 girls yeah how was that yeah how was that i mean for me i i think sometimes people think it's like

00:09:38.060 either a lie or it's like exaggerated but i've like genuinely my rope has always been ridiculously short

00:09:44.460 when it comes to men always literally always i've been vastly irritated since i came out the womb

00:09:51.140 specifically with men and i can't tell you why because i had a i have a great dad a dad i have a

00:09:56.560 great father figure i have multiple father figures in my life all of whom are very strong men yeah who

00:10:02.420 don't like get their jollies off sucking the life out of women yeah so i've seen how men should treat

00:10:09.640 women yeah also wait quick quick quick sidebar yeah hey drew's dad you're so gorgeous wait hold on i

00:10:16.200 wanted to i wanted to tell this story and i i forgot when i had when i had her on my show i forgot to

00:10:22.180 talk about this anthony made a tiktok and subtweeted my dad yes and i just want to bring it to light

00:10:28.560 and i saw she was talking about father's day uh shout out she's all the way some of you've been

00:10:34.040 gatekeeping your dads yeah and so then the top comment on that video said the way that i know this

00:10:39.280 is about drew she was like i was gonna at her but i didn't want to get into it you know what i mean

00:10:44.660 and i found the video i saw to my for you page i was sitting there on father's day and i went over

00:10:52.060 to my friend victoria's house victoria paris hello hi yeah um but um we um we were sitting there at

00:10:59.100 the dining room table as her girlfriend was doing something with legos yeah and she was like yo have

00:11:03.960 you seen drew's dad i was like no not yet and then like we pulled the pics and i was like wow and these

00:11:10.100 pics are recent like these are like within the past year and a half so he still looks good today

00:11:15.080 my dad is my dad and that's all i'm gonna say on that yeah i stopped tagging him and my brother

00:11:23.320 because i was like y'all hoes lost trust yes you lost privilege go stand in the corner please that's

00:11:28.880 what i say about my dad she put us in timeout i said put your phone on my dresser immediately

00:11:34.100 that's why with him well speaking of my dad my dad's a great my dad has been a wonderful dad my

00:11:39.680 entire life so when men are like that's because you don't have a dad i'm like i had the best dad

00:11:45.360 that's why i'm like this because you are trash compared to him like how he treats women i'm also

00:11:51.800 someone so like someone culture is very matriarchal so we hold women in very high regard in my culture so

00:11:58.440 women are like the son of our families so we all orbit around them so the fact that in a regular

00:12:05.400 american culture it's not like that at all i've known that forever so i i didn't like it so that's

00:12:11.680 why i've always growing up throughout school i was real mean to boys a lot i got in trouble a few times

00:12:18.640 when i was one time when i was a kid i was playing do you remember the game four square yeah you sit on

00:12:24.040 the four points cherry bomb yeah please yeah so we're playing four square um and then this this

00:12:30.360 young boy we're the same age right he cheats right and so he cheated and then he was telling me it was

00:12:37.440 my turn to be it i was like no because you're a cheater and he was like no like started trying to

00:12:43.160 like be mean to me and then i called him a name and then he started crying and then went and told on me

00:12:49.240 so then i had to go sit in the thinking chair which is timeout and i was sitting in the chair

00:12:53.620 and my teacher goes do you know why you're sitting here and i go yeah because i called him a name and

00:12:59.540 she was like okay well you can get out of the chair if you go say sorry and i was like i will not

00:13:03.480 and i refused to apologize i was i'll do the time but i will not apologize for the crime

00:13:08.220 because i was like he's a cheater and he should suffer consequences yet i'm the one sitting here

00:13:12.980 and then she told i sat there on all day i literally sat there for hours because i just refused

00:13:18.580 to apologize and so then she told my mom and my mom told me to this day i don't tell me she couldn't

00:13:24.580 she tried so hard not to laugh because i was like he's a cheater like i'm not apologizing for that

00:13:29.940 yeah i surely will not yeah and i did my time i sat there yeah i suffered i watched everyone have fun

00:13:35.600 and i was like worth it to me yeah so i called him jumbo and i didn't know it meant fat i just thought

00:13:45.100 it was mean i'm dad you called him jumbo and he wasn't jumbo i'm dad but it was also his name

00:13:50.400 was kwan if you ever see this kwan i don't forgive you yeah kwan if you ever see this and i called him

00:13:58.100 jumbo because i just watched dumbo for the first time and that's his mom's name and for some reason

00:14:03.580 that was the first so let that be a reference to me calling his mom's name is dumbo his mom's name

00:14:07.880 is jumbo oh her name's jumbo his name's dumbo oh i don't know why i thought like i don't know why

00:14:15.680 that was the first thing that came to my mind but i compare men to cartoon characters a lot

00:14:19.560 so there you go okay hold on i have to make a similarity to you i think one of the reasons why

00:14:25.120 like i enjoy your personality so much is just like my older sister she's 11 months older than me so we

00:14:32.120 were always super close like irish twins yes and she's a cancer moon as well she's a capital love

00:14:37.880 yeah so there's this thing about her where you know she would never really you know call herself

00:14:44.600 tough she would never really call herself anything she's too low-key for that but something about

00:14:50.140 her convictions yeah like when she believes in something you can't shake her on it yeah and also

00:14:56.280 it's like interesting because i see the same thing in you what i love about you is there's a little

00:15:02.760 part of you that kind of like when people get uncomfortable you kind of like that low-key

00:15:07.320 you're like i actually want to see you really like rattle the cage yeah never get too comfortable

00:15:13.120 when you're on me yeah yeah yeah i feel that yeah some of my boyfriend's friends are like afraid of me

00:15:19.520 yeah like they've told my boyfriend like i'm low-key afraid of your girlfriend yeah and i always tell

00:15:23.680 me a little healthy dose of fear i don't think hurts anybody yeah i think that's good stay on

00:15:28.160 those toes babe i yeah agree stay on your p's and q's you know what i mean what i think is so sick is

00:15:34.180 like okay so one real menace vibes all the way down yeah all the way down anyways um but i also think

00:15:45.000 it's so cool because you know it seems that when people when i've you know when other i've met other

00:15:52.780 people who sort of kind of might have a similar approach but what makes them different and what

00:15:59.240 kind of i think sets you apart is i i think that like your intentions come from a pretty

00:16:04.580 genuine and like wholesome place where i think sometimes people respond in the way that might

00:16:13.080 appear similar to how you respond to defend themselves yeah but you're kind of normally not

00:16:19.260 really on the defense no you might be on the defense for someone else to defend them if they

00:16:23.680 can't defend themselves yeah but for you you you're kind of just like yeah i can see what this is yeah

00:16:31.700 you know what i mean no yeah absolutely i think it's like a it's a real delicate balance because

00:16:38.080 sometimes you know i've gotten criticisms where people are like i don't even think she's that funny

00:16:42.480 i'm like well that's you know humor is subjective like whatever you find funny may not be funny to

00:16:46.980 somebody else but like i don't care about that like if you don't find me funny that's not really

00:16:50.220 a big deal to me yeah um but when people are like that's not even mean like see i i always say you go

00:16:56.520 for the obvious kill yeah i go for something that's gonna stick in that crowd for the rest of your life

00:17:01.480 you're never gonna go another day without thinking about me because you're gonna be thinking about

00:17:06.080 that yeah now that's mean yeah i said me living in your head is mean yeah you telling someone

00:17:11.680 they're ugly like yeah like it stings initially yeah right but then if i tell you that you look

00:17:17.360 like your toes hang over the front of your slide you're gonna think about that for the rest of your

00:17:21.340 life for the rest if i told you that you look like mountain dew code red is your favorite gas station

00:17:26.440 drink whoa you're gonna think about that for the rest of your life and i feel like we never talk about

00:17:30.400 how creative you know what i mean that's those are the ones that hurt the most to me yeah those are the

00:17:36.060 ones that are the funniest to me yeah when you're very very specific like because i'm like you just

00:17:42.300 calling someone fat and ugly like means nothing yeah you know what i mean like you're going for

00:17:46.720 the superficial totally i think what's so sick about you is if we're about to get jumped by the

00:17:51.600 bullies and there needs to be someone who's you know jumps up in the front and is like stop in the

00:17:57.380 name of love it's gonna be your care bear ass yeah so i want to know because you know i think

00:18:05.500 sometimes you know because you can give the strong one vibes yeah i want to know like what things like

00:18:13.860 do you care about what things are important to you what motivates you um i think what i care about

00:18:22.540 most in the world is like my family like my loved ones um i care what they think about me the most

00:18:29.160 right um i care what the people who love me think about me like my fans all the like marginalized

00:18:36.040 groups that i try so hard to defend i care about what they think right um whenever we've had like

00:18:42.400 i've had open discussions with my fans when i'm like hey what do you guys think about this

00:18:45.780 i'm so open to reception because i know that not everyone's perfect and nobody nobody started out

00:18:52.460 being extremely woke and present and everything we all did and said things that we are no longer

00:18:59.300 advocating for when we were younger i'm talking like things that are funny to laugh at i'm not

00:19:04.400 talking like racism or homophobia yeah that's not what i'm talking about those things are like

00:19:09.240 there's always been like a a very clear line yeah you know what i mean stuff like that but it's like

00:19:14.500 terminologies like words we used to use to laugh at things that we used to find funny are no longer

00:19:20.240 funny because now we know better which is the beauty of growth and evolution yeah so i care a

00:19:25.860 lot about when people are telling me because like i'll give you a good example right when i first

00:19:30.040 started making content i would always specify cis men right i always said like cis men is who i'm

00:19:35.560 talking to i did that several times and then one of my followers who's trans a trans man messaged me

00:19:41.880 and told me asked me politely and very like educational like they asked me can you please not

00:19:49.560 specify anymore because this invalidates trans men because you're distinguishing between the two

00:19:55.480 like you're saying like oh you aren't these men or you're not real men whatever that may be

00:20:00.320 so i never specify anymore because he was right you know what i mean like and that's the last thing i

00:20:06.400 ever want to do is be like someone who isn't open to learning more about stuff like that yeah so i was

00:20:14.100 like i totally understand where you're coming from so i amended it so i stopped doing that because and

00:20:19.600 that was a long time ago but i stopped doing that because i always want to be someone who's open

00:20:23.660 to learning but at the same time i want to be as inclusive as i possibly can yeah those are things

00:20:28.860 that i care about a lot when it comes to my content like being open and receptive to things like that is

00:20:34.320 important to me yeah so you know you know what i just want to really quickly round of applause you

00:20:39.380 guys for drew for having a working brain and a beating heart and a beating heart yes nail class

00:20:48.140 love that that's actually it's very rare these days i feel like you know bitches are waking up

00:20:55.520 which it's not that serious it's never that serious but bitches are waking up yeah um and i feel like

00:21:01.380 i think you know it's it's it's cool that you know especially when i see like you kind of rolling with a

00:21:08.260 crew you rolling with the posse every time you roll up and it's always your family yeah and that's so

00:21:14.360 beautiful to me thank you you know yeah i appreciate that yeah my family we rolled deep i was like

00:21:19.760 my team and here here and also my team that manages me and everything knows too like if i can i ask for a

00:21:27.520 plus six yeah if i can and it's all family yeah like and i just bring them because i need them and

00:21:33.160 yeah they like to come along so yeah it's a win-win yeah do you think that um it's so interesting do

00:21:39.880 you think like because i obviously like you know the things that you sort of plug into your character

00:21:48.400 come from like how you were raised yeah do you think like in your family dynamic like you're the

00:21:56.000 strong one as well um i mean yeah i guess it's i guess it depends on your definition or of strong

00:22:03.940 or like where do you think you fall like what like what role like where are you in the list of of like

00:22:09.780 well i'm a middle child right so yeah so my sister's the oldest and we have a baby brother

00:22:15.480 um i'd say my mom's probably the strongest out of my entire family my mom is just like

00:22:20.760 my mom's that girl same you know so she she's been pushing and working my mom had us really young

00:22:26.780 like both my parents were my parents are high school sweethearts so yeah so they've been together

00:22:31.660 been together for a long time that's crazy yeah i love that i think they're going on 30 years

00:22:36.600 so my parents have been together for a long time right so um i would say out of the three of us

00:22:43.280 my brother's probably the most like la la la right because he's the baby so like he gets to be that

00:22:49.580 way he gets to be aloof because he has two uh older sisters and everyone lets him low-key yeah

00:22:55.940 yeah yeah yeah my mom lets him get away with murder um and then my sister my older sister is like

00:23:02.280 she's like the mom of the siblings like my mom my sister takes care of all of us like

00:23:07.340 my sister literally used to help me uh submit for financial aid when i was in college every year

00:23:12.840 yeah my sister did it for me yeah like i'd be like hey uh can you help me and then she's like

00:23:17.520 does that mean you just want me to do it and i was like i mean don't threaten me with a good time

00:23:21.620 yeah i was like she did it anyway she sets our doctor's appointments she calls and figures things

00:23:27.540 out for us like she's done that forever so i think for me i'm more of a i'm strong in the sense of like

00:23:34.620 i don't let anyone walk all over my sister or my brother because both my brother and my sister are

00:23:40.260 very open yeah and very forgiving and in that sense it's not an i with my brother i think it's

00:23:46.240 naive with my sister i think it's just trusting both of them are just very trusting yeah and i

00:23:50.240 don't trust anybody yeah so every time i'm like no like i tell my sister no you deserve better than

00:23:55.160 that absolutely not yeah my brother sometimes i give my brother insults like i'll tell my brother

00:24:00.700 what's he look like and then i say okay this is what you say to him the next time he tries to say

00:24:04.680 something this is what you say to him yeah i do that with my brother all the time i'm like this

00:24:07.980 is a don't ad lib just say the lines that i gave you yeah he goes all right cool because my brother's

00:24:13.540 just so sweet that he doesn't think about things like that yeah and so i'll tell him i'm like what's

00:24:18.240 he look like describe him to me paint me a picture so i can think of something funny to say so like i'd

00:24:23.140 say i'm strong in that sense yeah and far as far as my family dynamic but like every single one of us

00:24:27.720 brings something essential to like our family so i think that's why i bring them everywhere yeah i understand

00:24:33.840 that yeah i honestly would if i could yeah they're just always so my family's so busy they're always

00:24:39.880 we're all workaholics and yeah all like you know i think same honestly my little sister it's so funny

00:24:46.580 so when i was growing up and i was in high school i was like the like i was like i was raised catholic

00:24:51.660 like i was definitely like virgo rising all the way down like i went to catholic school until i was

00:24:57.180 probably in the sixth grade and then you know but i was still the wild child because you know i was not

00:25:03.640 going to miss out having a good time and i think that i'm one of those people who you know i think

00:25:08.940 also you having a sagittarius rising yeah something about you know the thing that even though you are

00:25:14.380 close with your family you do sort of take the same perspective and bring it or extend it to the rest

00:25:22.440 of the world yeah meaning like you sort of you know you have a worldly perspective yeah you know

00:25:27.900 and so i um and we march to the beat our own drum oh yeah yeah oh yeah we step out did you get in

00:25:33.780 trouble the most because i did i did yeah yeah i definitely i was the most expensive child i'm proud

00:25:38.360 of that i you know i definitely like got in trouble the most um same and i think that i always tell you

00:25:45.680 know my mom it's so great that my mom is like the best mom in the world same with mine to my little

00:25:53.240 sister especially and i think i was part of that because i i feel like i low-key shaped that

00:25:59.740 relationship like it's it was really me you say you're welcome yeah you're welcome like i definitely

00:26:03.940 chilled her out a lot because i really was rocking the boat whenever i could i didn't even mean to it's

00:26:08.860 just that i literally like was like i'm just trying to i'm about the vibes like we have similar

00:26:15.500 stories in that sense yeah yeah because my mom says about my older sister my my mom was like she

00:26:20.420 was the perfect baby never cried loved everyone like so sweet like she was so like hi hi to everyone

00:26:28.980 everything she goes so when i got pregnant with you i was like this gonna be easy because dason was a

00:26:33.820 walk in the park and then she came i she said i came out mad oh i came out i came out the womb mad

00:26:40.080 so like i was grumpy i never let anybody hold me i was so angry all the time i was a picky eater

00:26:47.160 stubborn know-it-all carries that's a virgo thing you know what speaking of it being a virgo thing i think

00:26:53.720 i want to also add this segment because as i'm talking to people i'm realizing that i pick up things

00:27:00.020 about signs yeah like what things i feel like you know certain signs could benefit from knowing yeah

00:27:05.880 i feel like as a virgo rising i peeped at virgos whenever you feel like you know life is crazy and you

00:27:12.340 don't feel like yourself yeah just start criticizing shit you will start no i mean i know it sounds

00:27:18.380 ridiculous but it will start making you feel like i woke up this morning and i was so disheveled

00:27:26.200 yeah i woke up at 3 a.m and i was like oh my god i was thinking about the show thinking about you

00:27:31.480 which by the way i had a dream about you which is lemon gemini moon so i like literally like i

00:27:36.720 i do like go on tangents and i realized that we have talked about three different subjects in the

00:27:41.500 past 30 seconds let me while that though yeah so i had a dream that you know you and i were sitting

00:27:47.400 at this restaurant in calabasas called shibuya best sushi ever but we weren't getting sushi we were

00:27:52.620 eating like shrimp and chicken on top of rice and like pineapples okay have you seen those it was so

00:27:59.980 random i was like what and it was like multiple pineapples with food in it i was like girl you

00:28:04.540 know it's a dream because i would never order that yeah at a sushi restaurant yeah and it was just you

00:28:09.460 and me and it had like some like kind of chipotle mayo on top of it interesting and i was like this

00:28:13.980 is this does not seem to go together were we having fun yeah we were having fun it was a good time

00:28:18.740 all right love that i was with the shit i love rice too me too yeah like i can't live without

00:28:23.640 carb girl carb girl keep the ass fat yeah you know what i mean feed her feed her

00:28:28.780 so but i i was like thinking about this and when i woke up i was it was like really early

00:28:35.720 and then i was like let me just start getting my day started and i was like hell no went to sleep

00:28:41.100 woke up at seven i was like shit so then i woke up and i started thinking about what we were doing

00:28:47.220 today and i just started criticizing things that i was doing oh yeah i started criticizing things that

00:28:52.360 i was doing yeah i started criticizing like you know things i felt could be better things that i

00:28:56.960 felt like i could you know ease into yeah and i felt like when i did that i started to feel more like

00:29:03.540 myself yeah and not for the sake of criticizing but for the sake of being like these are my thoughts

00:29:10.760 yeah this is who i am this is how i roll this is what i like yeah i honestly i agree with you

00:29:16.560 because i think a hallmark of being a virgo is the workaholic thing is big right um overachieving

00:29:24.180 is a big virgo thing um and also being hypercritical of your work ethic and how you're being if you're

00:29:31.520 being productive and how yeah is a big virgo thing so workaholic like stubborn about not taking breaks

00:29:37.900 about not you know what i mean like just constantly constantly working so like i always feel better when

00:29:43.020 i could criticize what i'm doing because i can control it and virgos have a big control thing

00:29:48.700 yeah so like they they have to control things it's so weird we're also big know-it-alls which i feel

00:29:53.940 like virgo men i've i've slandered many people on twitter about astrology capricorns mainly i started

00:30:01.600 a capricorn hay train i made it oh i made it trend yeah because that's how much that's how much fire i was

00:30:07.340 spreading about capricorns you guys are all right yeah anyways with virgos i said virgo men came

00:30:12.560 straight from hell i'm convinced yeah crawled right out of the sewer genuinely like pennywise and then

00:30:17.380 i described virgo men as like i feel like virgo men i feel like sagittarius men had like bad sushi

00:30:24.340 and threw up and then virgo men like became they were born out of it yeah that makes sense yes i describe

00:30:30.700 virgo man as like uh the dude at a children's birthday party that's like too rough with the pinata

00:30:35.960 like gets in the line and it's too aggressive yeah too much too much take it down a notch yeah

00:30:42.500 right it's for kids it's we're all having a good time yeah that's virgo man that's like a summary

00:30:47.460 of this is the kid's party bro yeah have you ever played a board game with a virgo man yeah good luck

00:30:52.000 good luck because you're losing all the pieces when he throws it at the wall because he's losing

00:30:55.800 oh you know what i mean yeah he's one of those yeah so he's one of those yeah you know i have to say

00:31:02.360 this is my favorite part of the show because i sit down this is called reading with the stars

00:31:06.420 love but it looks like when this part of the show comes on the fan submissions we're about to do

00:31:12.500 yeah they get to read us and i never know i never listen to them so i'm excited so let's get the fan

00:31:19.860 submissions you guys called on a voicemail on a number that i always put on my story whenever we

00:31:24.460 do them um we're gonna play some of them right now so we can hear them out loud and we'll react to

00:31:29.100 them in literally real time yeah let's do it hey uh this is eris wanting to talk to drew and ask

00:31:35.280 you some questions um how do you feel about sag woman who do you fangirl the most over and the

00:31:43.340 biggest tip on having self-worth that's it thank you drew love you so much sag women i i love sag

00:31:50.140 women we ride for sag women yeah and she's a sag woman yeah my mom and sister are both sag women

00:31:55.700 so like i i fuck heavy with sagittarius women honestly the only bad things i have to say are

00:32:01.060 about men shocking yes the branding she's consistent yeah yeah yeah absolutely the second one was i

00:32:07.980 actually had an experience in my life where i was a sag man and it was so bad that i literally aborted

00:32:15.180 the mission and decided to be a sag woman they got it wrong yeah y'all got it all wrong got it wrong

00:32:20.300 and i was got it wrong the stars got it all wrong you're incorrect yeah they're like you're gonna be

00:32:24.900 a sag man in this life i said hell no and that's that's part of your virgo yeah refusing yeah no

00:32:31.320 yes i think not yes i think you're wrong yeah i'm not gonna do that well i rest my case

00:32:35.860 a virgo fangirling that's a rare sight no it truly is that's so funny i i'm to be honest with you

00:32:44.520 because i i work in this industry now yeah you know you you meet a lot of people that you've seen

00:32:49.520 before only in like movies tv online totally um it takes a lot to shake me i don't think i've ever

00:32:55.200 been like oh you know what i mean if i was gonna fangirl over someone you know who i'm a really big

00:33:03.040 fan this is so random but you know i'm a really big fan i can't wait like i'm manifesting that one

00:33:07.620 day i'll get to meet um caesar milan do you know the the dog whisperer i idolize that guy do you let

00:33:15.740 me tell you something if you do nothing else go on disney plus and watch the the dog whisperer tell

00:33:21.820 me it doesn't change your life i i swear to god i watched it and i was like i'm a dog trainer i

00:33:27.000 actually used to be an assistant for this woman who was adamant about getting her dogs checked every

00:33:34.140 quarter with a whisperer was it caesar milan i don't think so then then he doesn't count yeah

00:33:40.140 that's why there's only one and i swear to god my boyfriend and i got so into the show over quarantine

00:33:45.920 especially that i started training the dogs i was like i am more than qualified i've watched like a

00:33:51.380 hundred episodes i'm dead i'm more than prepared yeah i started doing a little thing it doesn't really

00:33:56.780 work that well for me because i'm not the chosen one he is got it so i've i i watched that show like

00:34:03.180 my life depends on it like like one day the apocalypse is going to be on the brink of

00:34:07.600 happening and they're going to be like we need a dog whisperer that's not caesar milan and then i'm

00:34:10.520 going to step to the plate you're going to be like i'm going to be there pick me i'm going to be like

00:34:13.620 choose me i mean love me i would say him oh my god i would die to meet him also the rock but i think

00:34:21.420 that that's just pretty on brand yeah because we're both someone men like just the two of us out here

00:34:27.040 brother it's just the two of us friend so yeah that's what probably i mean i fangirled really

00:34:32.860 really hard when i lizzo duetted my video yeah so love her stan her forever i don't know i just

00:34:40.160 can't really think of anyone that would make me like i feel like you're the same yeah i don't have

00:34:44.080 many people that would make me feel that way i think i literally only have two people in mind and

00:34:49.640 it's no three people it's stevie nicks oh that's a good one brandy the singer oh love that iconic and

00:34:58.020 rihanna oh that's a good one there was one time i was actually leaving my barber shop yeah and i was

00:35:04.320 in the east village in new york and i saw this rolls royce suv and outside of it was asap rocky

00:35:12.000 and some other dude um some other dude they were like smoking a doobie or something like that and

00:35:18.380 whatever and i walked by them mad casual whatever and then once i was like a block past them i literally

00:35:28.040 my heart started palpitating i missed a couple beats because i my brain caught up and was like

00:35:34.880 that dude knows rihanna that's how i would feel if i saw asap rocky too literally honestly you know rihanna

00:35:42.520 yeah oh my god like are you a friend of rihanna's friend of rihanna oh i swear to god if someone

00:35:48.100 like a baby with her if someone ever meets asap rocky please approach him that way yeah that'd be

00:35:53.100 so funny yes oh i live you're rihanna's man right yeah right right you know her right yeah you know

00:35:58.660 her can you tell her to hang out with me uh beyonce is a big one totally like obviously my virgo queen

00:36:05.560 my virgo queen the only virgo that matters is beyonce yeah only virgo that matters only virgo that

00:36:10.760 matters her and keanu reeves yeah that's cool i'm cool with that yeah yeah people have called me

00:36:16.280 john wick so that makes sense yeah yeah yeah that was john wick for halloween oh last year and my

00:36:21.940 my boyfriend was the dog that gets murdered that sent him on a spiral that was literally that was the

00:36:27.940 two of the biggest dog you've ever seen in your life please no yeah some people were like i don't

00:36:33.160 get it like when they saw us which like i'm like bitch girl if you know you know because i was like i

00:36:38.020 was gender bending john wick essentially yeah so wearing my dad's clothes please and then uh and a

00:36:44.280 wig and then when we posted the pictures they were like oh okay that's awesome they were like that's

00:36:50.980 sick i like that yeah but yeah they call me john wick because it's like someone they're like you know

00:36:56.060 baba yaga is like a big thing so i'm just a boogeyman whoa wait do we have another um fan submission

00:37:02.280 so we're gonna go on to our second fan submission right now let's do it play it up hi antony and

00:37:09.280 you um i'm a huge fan of you guys but i just wanted to ask you guys is there a phase like a fashion

00:37:17.620 phase you guys both went through that you want to go back but you know you could never repeat it

00:37:23.980 and can you tell us what i want to go back to but could never that we went through but we can

00:37:33.960 never go back through oh man i went through a real i guess now you would call it maximalism okay but i

00:37:42.160 was ahead of the curve but i was on my maximalist grind did it look like garbage yes but i was free

00:37:49.040 and i think i would love to do that i can no longer um but i used to wear all the colors and

00:37:55.400 all the patterns real like ashley tisdale core you know what i mean early 2000s yeah that was me

00:38:00.720 layering wait because how old are you 24 okay yeah so you're not that far away from me but yeah like

00:38:05.900 real real early disney channel like d-com era yeah yeah yeah that would be fun to go back to i like

00:38:12.040 kind of like remade a couple looks of that last year it was kind of it was definitely kind of

00:38:18.620 like i'm not i think that like i'm not beyond putting a dress and um and like jeans or pants

00:38:25.420 i was gonna say i think they're a serve they're a serve i mean trends are cyclical right so they

00:38:29.460 always come back totally but um low rise i'll jump off a building instead you know what don't bring

00:38:35.420 those back i will say i think that like i just i don't know like i feel like for some people it

00:38:45.040 looks really good i agree yeah right and i that's that's like my biggest thing with fashion is like

00:38:49.920 i you just find what looks best on you yeah and i want to just quickly say not that i would ever go

00:38:56.580 back to it but there was this era that i had like junior year of high school where i had this like

00:39:01.960 one like top man leather jacket that i would not let rest throughout the months of july i remember i was

00:39:10.900 like walking outside in the humidity of like somewhere in the boonies in north carolina because

00:39:16.540 my parents were like oh like you want to go out but we're not driving you it was before i had a

00:39:20.240 license oh mind you i failed my permit test 13 times so they're like we're not gonna let you drive

00:39:25.820 any of our cars anytime 13 i thought you're gonna say three because i was gonna say same

00:39:29.900 but we can't relate yeah i feel actually twice i passed the third time on the stupid permit when i got

00:39:37.100 my license i passed on the first try yeah me too yeah let's see turns out our parents were wrong

00:39:41.860 yeah yeah my mom was literally this is again look there's a reference back to my sister because

00:39:47.500 i failed twice and my mom took off work or like left work early to take me no and my mom was so mad

00:39:52.880 that she was like the third time ask your sister i'm not bringing you anymore yeah because my sister

00:39:57.080 was chauffeuring me everywhere because she was the only one who had a license so then i she took me

00:40:01.580 she's like dude you gotta pass this time bro i was like i know i was literally just like words of

00:40:07.140 encouragement your sister's a sag right yeah words of encouragement from a sag there you go dude you

00:40:11.760 gotta pass this time bro like actually that's it okay we're gonna go into our third fan submission

00:40:17.740 our last one yeah perfect i'm so excited this is addison um i guess i don't i guess this is a question but

00:40:25.800 um how do you guys feel like about regular people i guess wanting to be friends with

00:40:34.080 influencers or celebrities per se i feel like there's so many personas online that i feel like

00:40:40.600 i would get along with but it's just so like fuck to reach out and be like oh my god like i think we'd

00:40:45.520 be great friends because influencers have to be careful about like who they hang out with and reach

00:40:51.660 out to i just was wondering like how do you guys feel about stuff like that that's tea that's a

00:40:56.640 really that's a real interesting question yeah um i don't want to say i think it's bad i just think

00:41:03.920 that you should i mean it seems like this person is is aware that it's like awkward like it's a little

00:41:09.680 strange like if you're really if you're a really big fan of someone and then you just want to like

00:41:15.420 hang out with them yeah you know what i mean maybe i just can't relate though because like the people

00:41:20.200 that i'm really big fans of i like never want to meet i don't want to know yeah like what if

00:41:24.300 they're terrible what if they're annoying totally you know what i mean i don't want to know so like

00:41:28.580 i don't know i i guess it's like i feel like so for me like and i think this is partially the fact

00:41:36.600 that you know i'm a sag and i'm african and i just it's just like we are so it takes a village

00:41:44.420 yeah to do anything yeah it takes a village to literally do anything literally i'm so about the

00:41:49.220 vibes yeah so i've met people before who you know have seen me or know me from my videos they

00:41:56.240 didn't really give like fan behavior yeah because the vibes were like so sick and like we're so cool

00:42:02.480 like i i will like if the vibes are right i will talk to anyone like i do love that yeah it's all

00:42:09.880 about the vibes the vibes don't lie like you know yeah you have to i think you just like have to be

00:42:14.980 you have to be cognizant too that like creators who you see online is not their entire personality

00:42:22.160 oh my god that's just one facet of it so you may think that you would want to be friends with this

00:42:26.240 person yeah and then you meet them in real life and you're like actually yeah thank you so like not

00:42:31.140 to say that that's about me or you yeah but like you think you know them is like what i think is

00:42:36.500 important to distinguish because it's parasocial yeah so like you feel so close to this person because

00:42:41.720 you watch them all the time you learn all these things about them but like it the risk it's not

00:42:47.620 reciprocal in that sense like i don't know anything about you totally so you coming at me with like i

00:42:52.660 know everything about you i think we would be friends i think that should be left up to us yeah

00:42:57.560 because you know a lot about me but i don't know anything about you i agree a thousand percent yeah

00:43:01.420 because like and i think that's also one reason why i love you know being able to do different

00:43:05.400 things on different platforms like do this show it's like a different side of me i feel exactly

00:43:09.980 because like you know to see me on like a bbl timeline is one thing yeah but that's like so

00:43:16.420 like one side of my personality and it's like one one hundredth one one hundredth like if that so

00:43:22.660 totally that's why i'm like you know some people like when they meet me in real life they're like

00:43:28.320 you're actually a lot more quiet and like laid back i'm not shy by any means but like i'm just a lot

00:43:34.520 more chilled out than they thought i would be i expected you to be exactly how you are

00:43:39.020 see some people like uh i'll give you a good example teffy yeah you know teffy yes she's

00:43:45.140 so fun she's wild in real life but she would never think that when you watch her content yeah you

00:43:50.920 know what i mean like you you watch her content she seems real calm and and like wise which she is

00:43:55.500 yes but that's only one half of her yeah totally the other half of her she's so fun she's literally

00:43:59.880 so she's such a good time i was like walking i was walking to my hair appointment which i literally

00:44:05.080 have a hair appointment every week i was walking to my hair appointment and like i get a call from

00:44:10.620 her i'm like hello she's like yo i for real just you just passed my table like we were it was

00:44:17.740 somewhere in like in like nolita and in new york yeah and i went back i went back she's like just

00:44:23.740 come back the way you were walking and i turned back and she's sitting there with a different hair

00:44:27.820 color and she's like bro yeah i'm like yo this is that's why i said teffy teffy's a good example

00:44:33.960 too because like that's only one half of her yeah one one like piece of the pie yeah but she's like

00:44:39.060 so fun and loud and crazy and like just like the most the best time at the party yeah so like you

00:44:45.500 would never gather all of that though just from like her advice videos totally because she is really

00:44:50.540 a wise person and she's really patient and kind and loving yeah which is a whole nother side to her

00:44:55.640 i feel like and not just like right there just like answers the question yeah it's kind of like

00:44:59.440 i like if you if you let these people that you see like on the internet and you see and you look up

00:45:07.060 to or you follow if you like meet them in real life irl and you let them be who they are yeah you

00:45:14.500 know and it works then yes you know what i mean exactly that's my point because i was like let us

00:45:19.020 decide that yeah but also for safety reasons we can't just hang out with you just because you think

00:45:23.840 we would get along yeah i wish that would you know i wish the world wasn't that way but just

00:45:28.700 like for pure safety that's why we don't do things like that yeah but you know like we will you and i

00:45:34.940 talked about this a little bit yesterday offline but like meeting people in real life that are big

00:45:38.840 fans of your content is like and beauty beauty and race that's an inside joke that's an inside joke

00:45:45.860 beauty and brain oh my god that joke would kill if we could tell it yeah so like i think it's like

00:45:55.460 um it's real like specific to the person depends it depends just tread carefully and like be nice

00:46:01.760 when you meet them in person like don't don't overstep or anything like that and i'm sure like

00:46:06.480 it'll if it happens naturally let it happen let it happen yeah organically but if not it's okay too

00:46:12.260 you know i mean not a big deal yeah oh my god no a hose is going off film this though a hose is

00:46:18.520 going off right now hold on y'all the hose is still going but the hose are also still going

00:46:23.200 the hose are sitting here the hose are sitting right here well you guys unfortunately this is

00:46:32.840 the end of this episode which i'm really sad i literally never want drew to like i could literally

00:46:40.240 talk to drew forever period but i just want to say thank you so much for tuning into another

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00:47:05.400 the comment section on the same channel period so drew where can they find you on social media

00:47:09.780 you can find me at drew off wallow on literally everything except facebook that's not for you

00:47:16.360 that's for me also if you like see like a random man like man like crying if you see like some random

00:47:22.520 man crying on your tiktok fyp like if you look below in the caption they just tag her right there

00:47:28.420 and just click that you can follow her right there there you go yeah there you go yeah

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