The Comment Section with Drew Afualo - Toxic Masculinity ｜ Drew Afualo ft. Manny MUA ｜ THE COMMENT SECTION EP 6

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00:01:12.220 Hey, y'all, and welcome back to another episode of the Comment Section Show, starring me, that bitch, Drew. 1.00

00:01:18.720 Today on the show, we have one of my favorite people on the internet since forever and ever and ever, the beautiful, amazing Manny M.U.A.

00:01:27.540 I'm like, thank you.

00:01:30.300 Thank you for having me.

00:01:31.340 Oh, my God.

00:01:31.640 I'm so happy to have you here.

00:01:33.020 Thank you. 0.92

00:01:33.460 I am absolutely shitting myself. 0.62

00:01:35.900 No way. 0.98

00:01:36.760 My panties are soaked.

00:01:38.140 Oh, my God.

00:01:38.580 Good.

00:01:38.920 Mine are too.

00:01:39.440 Looking at you.

00:01:39.800 Oh, perfect.

00:01:40.580 A snail trail.

00:01:41.500 Matching gems, matching soaked panties.

00:01:44.520 I'm wearing red lace today.

00:01:46.120 There you go.

00:01:47.900 Period.

00:01:48.540 Honestly.

00:01:49.480 I'm so happy to have you here.

00:01:50.980 Literally, you're one of the OG beauty YouTubers I've always watched.

00:01:54.460 Oh, thank you so much.

00:01:54.920 Forever.

00:01:55.320 It's like an honor and a privilege.

00:01:56.880 Well, thank you.

00:01:57.600 It truly is.

00:01:58.400 I'm so happy to be here.

00:01:59.380 It's so cool.

00:01:59.560 I cannot believe I'm looking at your beautiful, wonderful bee face.

00:02:02.920 Beat the house down, boo. 1.00

00:02:04.200 We met before this.

00:02:05.440 Yeah.

00:02:05.700 Just like, just casually, and it was so calm and chill, and I'm like, how you really feel.

00:02:09.360 Yeah, I'm like, that's what I told you.

00:02:11.780 Soaked panties.

00:02:12.660 That's how I really feel.

00:02:13.460 I know.

00:02:13.680 I love it.

00:02:14.180 A waterfall.

00:02:15.520 Flood in her basement.

00:02:16.780 I'm a fire hydrant, honestly, right now.

00:02:18.660 I can't believe it.

00:02:20.040 A sprinkler system.

00:02:20.920 Like, Manny is honestly one of the OG beauty gurus in the game.

00:02:25.320 Like, truly.

00:02:26.300 Eight years going.

00:02:27.380 That's crazy.

00:02:28.980 Eight years?

00:02:30.120 I've been doing it back then since before, like, you know, bearded boys on YouTube.

00:02:34.920 Yeah.

00:02:35.500 Beauty people were even doing it. 1.00

00:02:36.820 That's what I'm saying.

00:02:38.060 Like, I just can't believe that it's, like, so full circle for me right now.

00:02:43.180 That now I'm sitting here with you.

00:02:44.880 It's so amazing.

00:02:45.820 That's so cute.

00:02:46.420 I love that.

00:02:47.000 All right.

00:02:47.500 Love that for us. 0.86

00:02:48.660 Sorry for jerking. 0.99

00:02:49.020 I'm like, I'm done jerking you off for now. 0.99

00:02:52.380 Okay. 0.99

00:02:52.820 You're edging me.

00:02:53.680 Honestly, honestly.

00:02:54.740 I feel edged.

00:02:55.280 This is, like, the perfect topic to talk about with you today, too.

00:02:58.560 So today we're going to be talking about toxic masculinity with Manny.

00:03:03.200 I know it well.

00:03:04.320 That's what I'm saying.

00:03:05.120 I was literally going to ask, like, what are your initial thoughts when I bring up toxic masculinity?

00:03:09.120 I mean, honestly, like, my entire journey, like, I feel like it started off with literal toxic masculinity.

00:03:13.200 You know, I grew up in a very, you know, I'm a Latino, so I grew up in a Latino household, very machismo vibes. 0.99

00:03:18.960 And so for me, it was very, like, you know, don't ask, don't tell about me being gay and, like, you know, very much like you're a boy.

00:03:26.920 You have to play with boy things.

00:03:27.860 You have to play sports.

00:03:28.840 Very that.

00:03:29.460 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:03:29.860 So, you know, me being who I am today, you know, gay and beauty guru and all this kind of thing, it was so opposite of what I grew up with.

00:03:37.920 Yeah.

00:03:38.320 So it really was, I was swimming the battle upstream.

00:03:40.540 I also grew up Mormon.

00:03:41.480 So, like, that was another, like, extra check on my list.

00:03:44.720 I said, baby, I am a little salmon swimming upstream.

00:03:47.780 These bears are out here. 0.99

00:03:49.020 Literally, you're like, does anybody else want to fuck me today? 0.99

00:03:52.100 Does anyone else want to, like, ruin my day? 0.99

00:03:54.040 Yeah.

00:03:54.240 Like, I'm talking, like, literally, I would be full beat, full glam, jump out of my window to go to work at Sephora because my parents only thought I worked at JCPenney.

00:04:01.540 Yeah.

00:04:02.120 But I worked at Sephora.

00:04:02.980 So, you're like, technically, I'm not lying.

00:04:04.260 No, I'm not lying.

00:04:04.920 It was Sephora in the JCPenney.

00:04:05.840 Exactly.

00:04:06.340 I was like, yeah, I'm getting checks from JCPenney.

00:04:07.960 Yeah.

00:04:08.440 So then I would literally be jumping out the window and then I'd be coming back home in my car.

00:04:11.980 I would be taking off all my makeup before I get in the house.

00:04:13.920 I'm like, so I'm just working in shoes today. 0.99

00:04:16.360 You're like, I sold some fucking. 0.99

00:04:17.660 So many manly shoes. 1.00

00:04:19.340 Dude, they're so cool.

00:04:20.760 So many boxers.

00:04:22.240 Yeah.

00:04:22.860 So many.

00:04:24.240 Yeah, Supreme, belts.

00:04:26.600 Nike.

00:04:26.920 What else do men wear? 0.52

00:04:28.140 I don't know.

00:04:29.660 What else do men wear? 0.52

00:04:30.520 I'm like, tube socks, right?

00:04:32.600 Yes.

00:04:33.040 Okay, so what was, like, like, what would you say was your transition to, like, kind of accepting more of your feminine side and kind of releasing the toxicity?

00:04:41.780 You know, for me, I think it was about, like, more inner strength and inner journey because I really did feel at the time when I was in my early 20s, late teens, like, I really didn't have anyone.

00:04:50.320 You know, because I, like, I just, I mean, I did, I had my family, I had, like, the support of everyone.

00:04:53.860 But I didn't have, like, them in that way that I felt like they were going to support every piece of me.

00:04:58.020 And I think that it was more so about, like, having to self-soothe and, like, be okay with myself.

00:05:02.640 Yeah.

00:05:02.980 And I was like, I want to do this for me.

00:05:04.760 Yeah.

00:05:05.100 And I want to go on this journey myself.

00:05:06.700 And it's, like, not about pleasing everyone because I was very much a people pleaser kind of kid, right?

00:05:11.380 I got straight A's.

00:05:12.860 You know, I played sports.

00:05:13.920 I played football.

00:05:14.700 I played, like, I did all this, all those kind of things that it was, like, the classic, like, man should be doing.

00:05:19.500 Yeah.

00:05:19.800 But I feel like the reason I did that is because I was hiding the fact that I was gay this whole time.

00:05:23.180 So I was, like, good at everything.

00:05:24.480 Yeah.

00:05:24.920 So you're, like, overachieving. 0.73

00:05:26.400 Yes, I was overachieving because I'm, like, okay, I'm going to make up for the fact that I'm gay. 0.72

00:05:30.000 And so when they, if they find out I'm gay, then I'm, like, oh, but, like, look how great he is.

00:05:33.620 You know?

00:05:34.140 So I feel like that was kind of my, like, struggle for a long time.

00:05:37.360 And it wasn't until I got into really going into college and, like, making friends, gay friends.

00:05:41.040 I didn't have gay friends growing up.

00:05:42.200 Yeah.

00:05:42.640 You know, I was in this little bubble.

00:05:43.740 Yeah.

00:05:43.880 I was in this little tiny little bubble for a long time.

00:05:45.400 And so kind of meeting them and, like, you know, friends of mine expressing who they were authentically made me want to express myself authentically.

00:05:53.180 So I finally was just, like, I'm going to rebel. 0.99

00:05:55.300 And then you became a big, fat slut. 1.00

00:05:57.040 Yes! 1.00

00:05:57.720 No, literally.

00:05:58.920 No, literally.

00:05:59.600 I got a tongue piercing. 1.00

00:06:00.340 That beautiful journey turned into you being a big whore. 1.00

00:06:02.740 It turned into me being a hoe. 1.00

00:06:04.120 Yeah.

00:06:04.820 And I was hoeing.

00:06:05.520 Rightfully so.

00:06:06.340 Honestly, as I should.

00:06:07.260 It's a rite of passage.

00:06:08.400 I think so, too, especially in, like, early 20s.

00:06:10.420 Yeah, college. 1.00

00:06:11.160 I was like a bitch. 1.00

00:06:11.780 I was, like, working. 1.00

00:06:13.020 I was, like, a waiter.

00:06:14.160 And after my shift, I'd go out to the club.

00:06:15.520 And I'd be, like, walking around.

00:06:16.440 I'd be, like, do you want to make out?

00:06:17.980 I'd go with a random stranger.

00:06:19.200 You're one of those.

00:06:19.720 And I'd get out.

00:06:20.380 I was?

00:06:21.140 You're one of those.

00:06:21.840 No longer.

00:06:22.940 I was one of those.

00:06:23.760 I'd be, like, let's make out.

00:06:24.520 And then we would.

00:06:25.100 Like, I didn't care back then.

00:06:26.460 Because I was just, like, very, like, well, I lived my life so sheltered.

00:06:29.800 So I'm not going to do it this time.

00:06:30.840 Yeah, for so long.

00:06:31.380 For so long.

00:06:31.780 So you're, like, this is my time to shine.

00:06:33.980 I literally went from, like, this outlier to this one.

00:06:36.080 I'm, like, can we just get in the middle?

00:06:36.800 One extreme to the other.

00:06:38.100 Yeah. 1.00

00:06:38.480 I went from being a literal hermit to a slut. 0.99

00:06:41.420 I'm, like, I need to be a little intermediate. 0.99

00:06:43.120 You know what?

00:06:43.660 Maybe a little work-life balance.

00:06:45.160 Just a little.

00:06:46.000 Just a tiny bit.

00:06:47.320 A sprinkle.

00:06:48.100 Yeah.

00:06:48.520 Just, like, a tiny, tiny, tiny bit.

00:06:50.000 A little bit of a sprinkle.

00:06:51.680 So, like, you said you already started wearing makeup when you were working at Sephora, obviously.

00:06:55.680 Yes.

00:06:56.060 Right?

00:06:56.460 So, like, is that, like, kind of what opened up your journey?

00:06:58.900 What made you want to start becoming a beauty YouTuber? 1.00

00:07:01.020 You know, I actually did drag a few times.

00:07:02.720 Oh, I love that.

00:07:03.640 And it wasn't even drag.

00:07:04.820 Let's be honest with ourselves here.

00:07:05.900 No, it wasn't.

00:07:06.000 It was, baby, it was cross-dressing. 1.00

00:07:06.820 That's kind of what opened your world to it.

00:07:09.560 But I swore I was, like, this tiny, little, petite, little thing. 1.00

00:07:12.440 Not in my six-foot ass being 200 pounds. 0.99

00:07:14.480 Like, literally being like, I'm so fishy. 1.00

00:07:16.260 I'm so fishy.

00:07:16.660 You're like, oh, my God.

00:07:17.620 They could never tell I'm a man.

00:07:19.260 I passed so well.

00:07:20.000 I literally was like, I'm passing.

00:07:21.420 You could never tell I'm a man.

00:07:22.520 Your beard is out.

00:07:23.200 You're like, I'm passing so well.

00:07:24.380 Five o'clock shadow.

00:07:25.120 I hear that.

00:07:25.200 Yeah, you're like, oh, my God.

00:07:26.560 They can't even tell.

00:07:27.520 I'm clockable.

00:07:28.160 Right?

00:07:28.520 I'm clockable.

00:07:29.140 When I was a brick.

00:07:31.040 I literally was a brick.

00:07:32.120 I swore.

00:07:33.280 I was convinced.

00:07:34.140 But the thing is, when I did that, it kind of opened me up to this, like, whole feminine

00:07:37.120 beauty that I just was so, I loved it.

00:07:39.540 Like, I absolutely loved it.

00:07:40.220 But the thing is, I didn't love, you know, wearing wigs and wearing dresses and heels.

00:07:43.920 I didn't like all of that kind of aspect of doing drag in that way.

00:07:46.960 But I was like, but I loved the makeup.

00:07:48.000 You're kind of, like, temp-gauging it.

00:07:49.760 You're like, okay, I did all of it, and I kind of only like this part.

00:07:52.800 Yeah, I only like that part.

00:07:53.500 So I'm like, so can I just take that portion and run with that?

00:07:56.780 And I was like, if I can do this.

00:07:57.960 But I was like, but I don't really want to shave either.

00:07:59.360 Like, I don't want to do any of that stuff.

00:08:00.740 I just want to, like, have fun and express myself in an artistic way.

00:08:03.960 Love that.

00:08:04.300 And that's, like, how makeup became for me. 1.00

00:08:06.340 Yeah, and now you're, like, on YouTube, and now you're that bitch. 1.00

00:08:09.260 And now I'm that girl. 1.00

00:08:10.480 Period.

00:08:11.500 You know what's so funny?

00:08:12.820 When you messaged me on TikTok, I was like, okay, period.

00:08:16.220 And I said, Manny Mua, the one and only, started following me.

00:08:21.560 Stop.

00:08:21.900 And that's why, like, my sister got me your Life is a Drag palette for my birthday. 0.91

00:08:25.780 Stop.

00:08:25.900 Yeah, when it first dropped.

00:08:27.220 She got it for me.

00:08:28.080 Oh, 2018.

00:08:28.700 And I still, and I still use her.

00:08:30.820 Maybe she is that girl. 0.95

00:08:31.940 I still use her to this day.

00:08:33.180 Stop. 0.59

00:08:33.680 I use her to beat my face the house down. 1.00

00:08:35.640 I literally used it today.

00:08:36.660 Did you?

00:08:37.160 Yes, dude.

00:08:37.820 I literally did today.

00:08:39.280 It's so universal.

00:08:41.060 It is.

00:08:41.540 It truly is.

00:08:42.260 And, like, the pigment is unreal.

00:08:44.040 Thank you so much.

00:08:44.680 It makes it so much easier, like, when I do looks, because I'm no beauty guru.

00:08:49.120 Like, believe it or not, I actually woke up like this.

00:08:52.900 I thought that of you.

00:08:53.860 I literally opened my eyes, and I was completely.

00:08:56.200 And she had a full cut crease. 0.97

00:08:57.820 And then I, I flew here on a cloud.

00:08:59.820 Oh, right.

00:09:00.480 And a rhinestone in the hair. 0.75

00:09:01.600 Yeah.

00:09:01.760 Yeah.

00:09:02.240 And then I came down, and I was like, oh, my God.

00:09:04.220 She was like, oh, my God.

00:09:04.800 I'm needed.

00:09:05.120 What are the odds we're matching?

00:09:06.720 And I was like, it was so easy to get rid of this one.

00:09:08.260 Don't be swearing with one stone on each eye.

00:09:10.100 I'm like, I'm euphoria.

00:09:12.460 Me, too.

00:09:13.080 I'm like, I'm living my Maddie Perez.

00:09:14.600 Yeah.

00:09:14.820 No, literally, we swear.

00:09:15.940 Honestly.

00:09:16.780 Well, I'm so, like, I think it's, like, just so perfectly aligned that we're talking about

00:09:21.460 toxic masculinity, because you're kind of, like, the epitome of someone who's breaking

00:09:25.260 all those barriers.

00:09:26.460 Because you're someone who's, who's tall, right, and confident, and very manly.

00:09:32.420 And then at the same time, you can beat a face down, right?

00:09:36.480 And you wear it so confidently.

00:09:38.460 So, like, I'm sure you've dealt, I mean, obviously, as creators, we deal with hate all the time.

00:09:42.600 So, like, I'm sure, have you dealt with men, like, kind of dealing with their own internalized

00:09:47.180 toxic masculinity, and then, like, projecting it onto you?

00:09:50.720 Honestly, all the time.

00:09:51.680 Like, more so in the beginning.

00:09:53.180 Like, I would get so, like, eight years ago, like, online, especially, because I, you wouldn't

00:09:57.840 see a lot of boys doing makeup, you know what I mean?

00:10:00.320 Or if you did, it would be more, like, female presenting, where it'd be, like, oh, like,

00:10:03.900 almost, like, dry or things like that.

00:10:05.120 Yeah.

00:10:05.280 But because I was, like, one of the first dudes to be wearing a beard, and very obviously

00:10:08.540 presenting as male, having fun with makeup, and using it as my artistic outlet, it was 0.99

00:10:13.900 very, like, go kill yourself. 0.99

00:10:15.700 It was very, like, you're a, can I say F-A-G here? 1.00

00:10:19.100 No, right?

00:10:20.400 I'm gonna say no, probably.

00:10:21.700 We're gonna say no. 0.99

00:10:23.100 But, you know, it was very, like, go kill yourself, very, like, insane, like, very homophobic 0.99

00:10:26.220 comments. 0.99

00:10:26.960 Yeah.

00:10:27.360 You know, I get that a little bit now, still.

00:10:29.500 I mean, I think I'll get it for a long time, forever, literally.

00:10:32.160 Yeah.

00:10:32.400 Um, but it's not nearly as bad as it once was.

00:10:35.340 Yeah.

00:10:35.600 Which is really, really cool.

00:10:36.360 And it's almost always, like, it's just a projection.

00:10:39.420 It always is.

00:10:40.120 It's truly, like, what the things they hate most about themselves, or they wish that they

00:10:43.860 could do.

00:10:44.660 Mm-hmm.

00:10:45.000 Like, that you are obviously living your own truth, they wish that they could also embody

00:10:49.380 that.

00:10:50.200 And then they see you doing it, and they get so pissed. 0.94

00:10:53.600 It's like that, like, it's like the bully who's, like, bullying, like, the gay kid, but 0.91

00:10:56.460 it turns out he's, like, actually in love with him. 0.86

00:10:57.880 Yeah, he's, like, in the closet.

00:10:58.880 It's literally that.

00:10:59.900 And I'm like, stop beating me up.

00:11:01.980 I would sleep with you if you asked.

00:11:03.320 You're like, it's okay.

00:11:04.320 Oh, my God.

00:11:05.060 Please.

00:11:05.480 I'm down.

00:11:06.200 It would just ask me.

00:11:07.560 Just use your words.

00:11:08.740 Yes.

00:11:09.140 You can ask me.

00:11:09.920 Just ask me. 1.00

00:11:10.440 And you say, and I'm a slut, so it works out great. 0.99

00:11:12.500 It would have worked gorgeously back then. 0.99

00:11:14.060 And we mesh perfectly.

00:11:16.620 And literally.

00:11:17.600 And figuratively.

00:11:19.340 And physically.

00:11:19.740 And emotionally and spiritually.

00:11:21.040 And all of the above.

00:11:21.960 And mentally.

00:11:24.920 Perfect.

00:11:26.180 Okay, so for those of you who don't know, on the comment section show, what we do here

00:11:29.940 is we pick several different videos that I've been tagged in.

00:11:33.420 And I always say, I bring them here, and I just rip them to shreds.

00:11:36.400 Oh, I love that.

00:11:37.140 Like a phone book and like a strong man, just right down the middle.

00:11:41.240 You know what I mean? 1.00

00:11:41.860 Just tear them, you asshole. 1.00

00:11:43.320 The most masculine man. 1.00

00:11:45.160 Yes.

00:11:45.440 Ever.

00:11:46.080 The strong man that you're thinking of, that's me.

00:11:48.280 Just tear it.

00:11:48.900 Just ripping. 0.92

00:11:50.220 Rip it right down the middle. 0.80

00:11:51.480 I love it.

00:11:51.760 I know you could.

00:11:52.280 Right?

00:11:52.640 I just do it.

00:11:53.340 I do it for a living now.

00:11:54.480 So, I mean, it works out.

00:11:55.920 Right?

00:11:56.380 So, this first video that I want to go over with you.

00:11:59.720 Basically, this is, I would assume, like a straight man.

00:12:02.760 And he's basically talking about how he dresses well, he wears chokers, he gets pedicures,

00:12:08.700 he like does skin care, he has platonic female friends.

00:12:12.760 And then like, because he does all those things, people always ask him if he's gay.

00:12:17.040 Right?

00:12:17.700 So, doing the bare minimum.

00:12:18.840 Yeah.

00:12:19.220 So, like washing between your cheeks.

00:12:21.380 Yeah. 0.99

00:12:21.980 But it's like, oh, you're gay. 0.98

00:12:23.180 Yeah. 1.00

00:12:23.320 If you don't have skin marks, you're definitely gay. 1.00

00:12:25.380 Yeah, like he's going to town on that gooch and people are like, what do you like to 1.00

00:12:29.500 kiss boys?

00:12:30.320 Yeah.

00:12:30.640 You have to kiss boys in your spare time. 0.77

00:12:32.760 Clean your gooch. 0.89

00:12:33.320 Clean your gooch. 0.81

00:12:33.440 Yeah.

00:12:34.000 And your taint, your gooch, all of it.

00:12:35.900 All of it.

00:12:36.480 Get all up in there.

00:12:37.080 The whole perineum.

00:12:38.220 If we want to get there, if we want to go there.

00:12:40.120 Well, if you're going to go down there, you might as well.

00:12:41.980 Clean it.

00:12:42.520 You know what?

00:12:42.980 Spend a couple days down there.

00:12:44.720 You know what I mean?

00:12:45.120 Take the scenic route.

00:12:46.800 You know what I mean?

00:12:47.220 You have to.

00:12:47.720 Get there.

00:12:48.200 That's why I'm like, do you ever see men, like, I've seen, I explained this to my boyfriend,

00:12:51.760 who's a straight man, right?

00:12:53.440 I was telling him how there's like this thing on TikTok where men were making fun of like, 0.85

00:12:59.060 like these aggressively straight, toxic masculinity and trans males were saying like, it's gay 0.99

00:13:05.760 to wash between your cheeks. 0.99

00:13:07.720 Do you remember that?

00:13:08.580 I sure do.

00:13:09.440 And my boyfriend didn't believe me.

00:13:10.820 He was like, there's no way people think that.

00:13:12.620 I was like, I'm, I'm telling you.

00:13:14.620 It's literally so wild.

00:13:16.240 It's an illness.

00:13:17.360 It is.

00:13:17.820 It's unwell.

00:13:18.380 Can you, being so choked out by like toxic masculinity. 0.99

00:13:22.880 It's like, it's like, those are the guys that are like, that's so gay. 1.00

00:13:26.000 Yeah. 0.96

00:13:26.440 That's like the epitome of like that kind of thing. 1.00

00:13:28.140 Because you washed your hands after you took a shit. 1.00

00:13:30.340 Yeah. 1.00

00:13:30.720 Yeah.

00:13:31.000 And they're like, what are you, gay or something? 1.00

00:13:32.620 I'm not with that gay shit. 1.00

00:13:33.800 Yeah. 1.00

00:13:35.080 Very that.

00:13:35.920 He's like, why don't you just go kiss that guy over there?

00:13:37.940 Literally, why don't you just go make out with him? 0.95

00:13:39.260 Yeah. 1.00

00:13:39.440 Go make out with him then, since you're so gay. 1.00

00:13:41.360 It's crazy. 0.99

00:13:41.740 Like, I just feel like it's so wild to like, and honestly, like, what's so bad about asking,

00:13:46.060 if someone's asking like, are you gay?

00:13:47.280 Like, what's so bad about that?

00:13:48.740 It's not. 0.86

00:13:49.260 There's literally nothing wrong with like, oh, are you gay? 0.56

00:13:51.520 Like, oh, no.

00:13:52.520 It's like, oh, but then the whole toxic masculinity kind of comes into the picture there.

00:13:55.740 Yeah.

00:13:56.120 And it's like, oh, am I not presenting manly enough?

00:13:58.120 Yeah, exactly.

00:13:58.780 Am I not being masculine enough?

00:14:00.540 It's like a patriarchal thing.

00:14:02.060 Yes, exactly.

00:14:02.660 It's almost like the societal role of like, oh, well, if I'm showing emotions, if I'm, you

00:14:07.020 know, X, Y, and Z kind of things of like, I am therefore not being masculine enough and

00:14:12.140 I am therefore gay.

00:14:14.020 Yeah.

00:14:14.560 But it's not, and it has nothing to do with that.

00:14:16.180 Honestly, and I, and I've made TikToks about this in the past too.

00:14:19.360 I'm like, there's nothing wrong with washing your face or brushing your teeth.

00:14:24.860 Who, who doesn't do that though?

00:14:26.520 Babes, brush that tongue. 1.00

00:14:27.960 Go to town.

00:14:29.100 We don't want no cheese tongue.

00:14:30.720 Yeah.

00:14:30.900 No, seriously.

00:14:31.880 I don't want you to open it and see the yellow pages.

00:14:34.740 If you have halitosis.

00:14:36.220 Yeah.

00:14:36.720 I'm going to need you to go.

00:14:37.680 Yeah.

00:14:37.920 Yeah.

00:14:39.120 You have bigger.

00:14:39.820 I'm going to need mouthwash. 0.69

00:14:40.800 You have bigger issues.

00:14:41.840 Mm-hmm.

00:14:42.120 Mm-hmm.

00:14:42.500 That's what I'm saying.

00:14:43.240 Like, it's just.

00:14:44.420 There's worse issues than getting asked if, are you gay?

00:14:47.260 Yeah. 0.75

00:14:47.860 And it's just bizarre to me that like, just basic level human hygiene is considered homosexual.

00:14:56.280 That is the gag.

00:14:57.680 That's it.

00:14:58.460 That's the gag of the century.

00:14:59.300 And it makes me gag on top of that.

00:15:01.180 Me too.

00:15:01.640 And it's like, yo, like, I just, I just don't understand like this whole like concept of

00:15:07.880 the fact that being clean therefore makes you gay. 0.53

00:15:10.060 I, I don't know what the parallel is.

00:15:12.480 I don't either.

00:15:13.280 The roadmap doesn't exist to me.

00:15:15.240 I can't draw the connection.

00:15:16.780 It truly isn't.

00:15:18.220 I just think like, like I have a dad, obviously I have a dad, but like my dad's involved in

00:15:23.340 my life.

00:15:23.800 Right.

00:15:24.040 And then I have a little brother and like, they both like shower all the time, wear deodorant

00:15:29.180 and all that stuff. 1.00

00:15:29.760 Like my dad hates like musty ass. 0.99

00:15:33.500 Like, I just like, can't, I can't relate. 0.99

00:15:36.500 Like I can't, I literally cannot.

00:15:38.060 I just, my boyfriend's the same way.

00:15:39.540 Like he showers, takes care of himself.

00:15:41.680 My boyfriend also has really long hair.

00:15:43.620 So like he has a hair routine that we do, we share.

00:15:47.120 He has a turby twist.

00:15:48.600 You have a turby twist.

00:15:49.340 I love that.

00:15:49.760 I love a turby twist.

00:15:50.760 I love that he's like so comfortable with himself because I feel like at this point it's literally

00:15:55.340 just, it's basic hygiene, but it's like, you almost have to be comfortable with yourself 0.96

00:15:58.320 and you're comfortable with your own sexuality to be doing basic ass things. 0.97

00:16:01.580 Yeah. 0.92

00:16:01.720 And it's just, it's wild to me that like some men would be like, not me though.

00:16:05.920 I'm going to be pig pen from the peanuts.

00:16:07.660 Yeah.

00:16:08.260 And you can't stop me.

00:16:10.040 I'm going to be in a trough.

00:16:11.140 And I'm so, and I'm so straight. 1.00

00:16:13.780 And I, and I just love pussy so much because I don't wash my own ass. 1.00

00:16:17.720 Everybody's like, that's literally them. 1.00

00:16:22.960 That's literally them in a pig trough like going to town.

00:16:26.080 Oh my God. 0.93

00:16:27.020 It's just, it's obscene to me.

00:16:29.280 It's honestly sick.

00:16:29.700 It truly is.

00:16:30.600 You know, my boyfriend, like the other day I was looking at my skincare stuff because

00:16:33.560 I have like a morning and night routine and like my face oil and my moisturizer severely

00:16:38.240 depleted.

00:16:39.040 And I said, who's been touching this?

00:16:41.300 Right.

00:16:41.580 So I asked him, he goes, my face was really dry.

00:16:44.040 And I said, what are you dumping like a trough of it on your hand?

00:16:47.620 I said, you use it sparingly.

00:16:49.300 There's a dropper.

00:16:50.640 A dropper, babes.

00:16:52.320 One to two max.

00:16:53.980 Warm it up.

00:16:55.020 Put it on the face.

00:16:56.000 He's like, oh, I literally was just pouring it on.

00:16:58.080 Yeah.

00:16:58.700 That's, that's, that's a straight guy.

00:17:00.120 That's a straight guy.

00:17:00.820 And a waste of money.

00:17:02.220 At least he knows he's like taking care of himself.

00:17:03.820 Yeah.

00:17:04.020 Like he's a wearer.

00:17:04.940 Yeah.

00:17:05.100 He was like, my skin feels so soft.

00:17:06.820 I'm all, does it?

00:17:07.680 Aw.

00:17:08.200 That's $80.

00:17:09.140 Yeah.

00:17:10.400 Are you gonna go to Sephora and get me another?

00:17:11.600 Yeah.

00:17:11.820 I was like, okay, cool.

00:17:12.720 I'll be looking for it then.

00:17:13.940 I'll be looking for the refill.

00:17:14.940 I'm waiting for the receipt.

00:17:16.400 Yeah.

00:17:16.620 So the comments on this video literally say, like this first one says, toxic masculinity

00:17:21.920 can die, but also answer the question.

00:17:26.780 Well.

00:17:28.400 Can he answer the question?

00:17:29.820 Can you?

00:17:30.380 I mean.

00:17:31.060 But again, at the end of the day, like the question's not a huge deal.

00:17:34.040 It really isn't.

00:17:34.500 If someone asked me, are you straight?

00:17:36.140 One, are you delusional?

00:17:37.360 But two, like I would not be offended by someone asking me that.

00:17:40.700 Yeah.

00:17:40.980 But that's because classically, straight people are like what's sought after. 0.63

00:17:44.600 Like straight is the number one, the go-to.

00:17:48.060 Yeah, the goal. 0.99

00:17:48.200 And being gay is like you're less than. 1.00

00:17:50.100 Yeah. 1.00

00:17:50.260 You're less than human if you're gay. 1.00

00:17:51.420 Yeah. 0.99

00:17:51.780 So there's like, there's nothing wrong with it.

00:17:53.580 Right.

00:17:53.680 Like I get asked that all the time.

00:17:55.660 Even though I've told people many times.

00:17:57.620 Yeah.

00:17:57.960 Unfortunately, I am so heterosexual for me.

00:18:00.880 Unfortunately.

00:18:01.540 Unfortunately for me.

00:18:02.360 You think I would choose to like men?

00:18:03.700 That's not, I'm saying, I, let me tell you.

00:18:06.780 That's, let's, let's really go there.

00:18:08.260 No, honestly.

00:18:08.840 Let me sip some water real quick because I swear to God.

00:18:11.260 If women are majestic, if I could, I would sweep women up in a heartbeat. 1.00

00:18:17.420 So would I.

00:18:18.300 I genuinely feel like that.

00:18:19.680 Yeah.

00:18:20.080 Genuinely.

00:18:20.460 They smell good.

00:18:21.380 They take care of themselves.

00:18:22.240 They look so beautiful.

00:18:23.760 And if you're real.

00:18:24.400 I could glam them.

00:18:25.100 Right?

00:18:25.760 Every morning before work.

00:18:27.800 I would be such a good husband or like boyfriend.

00:18:31.020 Right.

00:18:31.440 And like I get, I honestly get comments every single day of like, I wish you were straight. 0.98

00:18:35.300 I wish you were straight.

00:18:36.160 Like very like, I would totally date you if I was straight.

00:18:38.100 And I'm like, where are the men saying that to me?

00:18:40.040 Yeah.

00:18:40.920 Nowhere.

00:18:41.280 This is really one.

00:18:42.040 Literally nowhere.

00:18:43.060 I mean, I'll get like, I'll literally get like nudes on my dams and I'm like, what am

00:18:46.940 I going to do with that?

00:18:48.060 And you're all safe.

00:18:48.580 What am I going to do with your hole?

00:18:49.820 You're all, what am I going to do with that?

00:18:50.740 Save.

00:18:51.280 Anyways.

00:18:52.300 Screenshot.

00:18:52.740 Anyways.

00:18:53.320 That's besides the point.

00:18:54.300 That's besides the point.

00:18:54.840 But like, don't send me nudes.

00:18:55.840 Or do.

00:18:56.560 Or do.

00:18:57.560 I don't send nudes.

00:18:58.400 I just get them.

00:19:00.640 Period.

00:19:01.240 Honestly. 1.00

00:19:02.120 Like a true slut. 1.00

00:19:03.460 No, literally. 1.00

00:19:04.860 Literally.

00:19:05.340 I don't send them.

00:19:05.860 You just receive them.

00:19:06.560 You just get them.

00:19:07.180 There you go.

00:19:08.740 This next comment says, chokers are sus. 0.73

00:19:12.200 Everything else is cool.

00:19:14.180 A necklace?

00:19:15.480 Oh, choker like.

00:19:16.700 Like a choker.

00:19:17.200 Oh my God.

00:19:17.620 Not me being like choker. 1.00

00:19:20.900 Dead ass. 1.00

00:19:21.520 That's the slut. 1.00

00:19:22.640 I was like. 1.00

00:19:22.740 I think that's the bad part of my.

00:19:24.340 That's the part I've been trying to like oppress.

00:19:27.600 There you go.

00:19:28.240 Get back.

00:19:28.680 Go.

00:19:28.860 We are born again.

00:19:30.980 She's for.

00:19:31.460 Yeah.

00:19:31.780 Right.

00:19:32.140 Yeah.

00:19:32.300 Born again.

00:19:32.760 Right.

00:19:33.180 Bathe in his blood. 0.79

00:19:34.680 You know.

00:19:36.560 Yes.

00:19:38.920 Yes.

00:19:39.120 His third eye.

00:19:39.740 Yeah.

00:19:39.920 Right.

00:19:40.620 That's why I don't.

00:19:41.640 I don't.

00:19:42.020 Again.

00:19:42.580 Joker.

00:19:43.000 Like what?

00:19:43.560 Like that's just a fashion statement.

00:19:44.740 That's what I'm saying.

00:19:45.540 Like fashion is like again an artistic expression.

00:19:48.080 It's expression.

00:19:48.780 That's all it is.

00:19:49.460 It's like I just don't understand like why anyone has to be a certain type of way sexually

00:19:52.320 to express themselves in whatever way they want to.

00:19:54.460 Yeah.

00:19:54.880 Well and like if you think like of the most like aggressively straight dude that that says 0.99

00:19:59.480 shit like that. 0.99

00:20:00.840 What do they wear? 1.00

00:20:02.960 You know what I mean?

00:20:04.180 What?

00:20:04.440 Like gym shorts?

00:20:05.060 Yeah they wear like a hoodie.

00:20:06.880 They wear tube socks and vans to the beach.

00:20:09.960 You think I'm going to take advice from that dude?

00:20:11.280 They'll run into the water with vans on.

00:20:12.660 No seriously.

00:20:13.720 They like they swim in a big t-shirt.

00:20:15.520 It's because they don't want to show their toes. 0.99

00:20:17.020 Because that's gay. 0.99

00:20:18.500 Because they don't take care of the toes. 0.99

00:20:19.880 And they're yellow.

00:20:20.620 Because they're talons.

00:20:22.060 Yeah.

00:20:22.300 No.

00:20:22.580 They are literally cliffhanging like this.

00:20:24.800 Oh my god.

00:20:26.680 It's giving me eagle.

00:20:28.300 It's giving me.

00:20:28.940 It's giving me bald eagle.

00:20:30.300 It's giving me velociraptor.

00:20:31.860 It's giving me climbing in the tree with your teeth.

00:20:35.060 With your toes.

00:20:35.500 Yeah.

00:20:35.580 Literally like that.

00:20:37.020 Hanging upside down.

00:20:37.940 Yes.

00:20:38.480 Literally.

00:20:39.360 Curled like a horn of a goat.

00:20:41.120 Dude what's a mountain goat?

00:20:44.660 A mountain goat.

00:20:45.540 Yeah.

00:20:45.760 A ram.

00:20:46.780 Uh huh.

00:20:47.740 What's more disgusting?

00:20:49.060 I can't think of anything.

00:20:49.940 I honestly don't know.

00:20:50.600 I can't even tell if like I would prefer the shoes or bare feet on that one.

00:20:54.200 I don't know.

00:20:55.400 Honestly at that.

00:20:56.120 If the toes are looking like that.

00:20:57.640 Sleep with your shoes on.

00:20:58.580 Sew them to your feet.

00:20:59.660 I would like them to be.

00:21:00.620 I want them soldered.

00:21:02.320 I never.

00:21:02.820 I want them to be like.

00:21:03.640 Soldered on.

00:21:04.020 Like a Bratz doll where you take them off.

00:21:05.860 It's just a peg.

00:21:06.880 Yes.

00:21:07.200 That's what I want it to be.

00:21:07.880 I completely agree.

00:21:08.340 I don't want to see the feet.

00:21:09.780 I don't want to see your mold.

00:21:10.880 You don't have feet unless they're in shoes.

00:21:12.540 I want you to take them off like a Lego.

00:21:14.360 Like.

00:21:14.800 You know what I'm saying?

00:21:18.420 That's what I want too.

00:21:19.240 No.

00:21:19.460 Seriously.

00:21:20.080 I completely agree.

00:21:20.940 It's just like.

00:21:21.400 But I think that's why they're doing it. 0.96

00:21:24.080 Because they think it's gay. 0.79

00:21:25.160 Yeah.

00:21:25.460 It's like this like never ending cycle.

00:21:26.820 It's just.

00:21:27.420 It constantly leads back.

00:21:28.740 It does.

00:21:29.040 To the same start point.

00:21:30.760 But just like.

00:21:31.420 The men who dress.

00:21:32.500 They dress like.

00:21:34.420 I don't even know.

00:21:35.320 Just the world's worst Applebee's customers.

00:21:37.800 Oh my god.

00:21:38.640 Yes.

00:21:38.960 That's how they be dressing.

00:21:40.400 They just show.

00:21:41.240 Like the dudes who stay way too late.

00:21:43.000 Don't tip.

00:21:43.820 Oh.

00:21:44.060 Those types of.

00:21:44.540 That will literally.

00:21:44.980 Dine and dash.

00:21:45.540 Yeah.

00:21:45.740 You were.

00:21:46.080 You were a server.

00:21:47.020 Yes.

00:21:47.260 I was a server too.

00:21:48.280 I've been dine and dashed before.

00:21:49.160 Have you really?

00:21:49.880 Yes.

00:21:50.240 And I literally.

00:21:51.500 I had to pay for half the meal.

00:21:52.960 My manager was like.

00:21:53.960 They made you pay for it?

00:21:54.860 They made me pay for it.

00:21:55.780 Why?

00:21:56.080 It was like a mom and pop place.

00:21:57.640 Oh.

00:21:57.880 And I remember being like devastated.

00:21:59.700 Because I'm like.

00:22:00.000 I was so good.

00:22:00.580 I was like.

00:22:00.900 I was a good waiter.

00:22:01.780 Yeah.

00:22:02.080 Me too.

00:22:02.460 I was like fire.

00:22:03.420 I was like very.

00:22:04.320 I would keep track of everything.

00:22:05.320 I was really really good.

00:22:06.020 Yeah.

00:22:06.220 And then one table just left.

00:22:07.060 It was like a four.

00:22:07.840 A four top.

00:22:09.220 Left me on like.

00:22:10.640 And during like a brunch time.

00:22:12.060 Oh my god.

00:22:12.960 Like so like peak hours.

00:22:13.320 And I ran outside.

00:22:14.940 Like literally ran with the quickness.

00:22:16.720 Like Sonic.

00:22:17.340 Oh my god.

00:22:17.920 I was like.

00:22:19.280 Searching.

00:22:19.800 Couldn't find him.

00:22:20.520 I was a server for like.

00:22:22.160 Three months in college.

00:22:23.560 Oh.

00:22:23.880 That is one of the hardest jobs.

00:22:26.020 I've ever had.

00:22:27.660 Like I.

00:22:28.180 I truly.

00:22:29.000 I give it up to like.

00:22:30.060 Food service industry.

00:22:30.840 The multitasking.

00:22:32.280 Just like.

00:22:33.060 The people pleasing.

00:22:33.760 Dealing with people.

00:22:34.220 Oh that's up.

00:22:34.460 Like people.

00:22:35.460 Like go out with the intention of being awful.

00:22:38.220 Why?

00:22:38.500 Which is crazy.

00:22:39.220 They go out in a bad mood.

00:22:40.400 They're like.

00:22:40.660 You know what I'm going to do?

00:22:41.480 Go to a restaurant. 1.00

00:22:42.480 I'm going to shit on the waiter. 1.00

00:22:43.160 I'm going to sit down. 0.99

00:22:43.540 I'm going to make this waitress.

00:22:44.740 It's going to be their problem now.

00:22:46.000 But I'm having a bad day.

00:22:47.380 Honestly any sign of like.

00:22:48.780 So like if I'm like on a date or something.

00:22:50.080 Yeah.

00:22:50.240 And like going to be weird with the waiter.

00:22:51.120 I'm like.

00:22:51.320 Yeah.

00:22:51.620 This is the first day.

00:22:52.380 An only date will ever be on.

00:22:53.720 Same.

00:22:54.180 Like that is a one clear sign of like. 1.00

00:22:56.000 You're a psychopath. 1.00

00:22:56.820 Yeah. 1.00

00:22:57.020 And you're not too aware.

00:22:57.720 If you're like rude for no reason.

00:22:59.140 For no reason.

00:23:00.160 I'm like oh you're unwell. 0.99

00:23:01.200 You're unhinged. 0.95

00:23:01.740 It's fine. 0.97

00:23:02.040 I worked.

00:23:02.460 I worked in a restaurant that was like.

00:23:04.400 On the higher end a little bit.

00:23:05.900 So like I got tipped out really well.

00:23:08.100 But was it worth it?

00:23:09.880 I don't know.

00:23:11.280 It wasn't for me.

00:23:11.500 They truly don't.

00:23:12.800 It's back breaking work.

00:23:14.340 I know.

00:23:15.140 I know.

00:23:15.620 They don't get paid enough.

00:23:16.280 Just like teachers.

00:23:17.120 I think like teachers and waiters.

00:23:18.820 Need to get paid way more.

00:23:20.180 They deserve so much more.

00:23:20.940 Oh my god.

00:23:21.540 They really really do.

00:23:22.260 They need a medal of honor is what they need. 0.67

00:23:24.240 Because people are truly awful.

00:23:25.420 I feel like people have been like.

00:23:28.340 Snapped at me.

00:23:29.080 And to like pick up their thing.

00:23:29.940 Because I was waiting for two years.

00:23:30.680 And so I've had like experiences.

00:23:31.860 And they're like.

00:23:32.440 Yeah.

00:23:33.180 And I'm like. 1.00

00:23:33.960 Did this bitch just snap at me? 1.00

00:23:35.100 Like snapping their fingers at me. 1.00

00:23:36.640 Like as if I'm a literal.

00:23:37.660 Like a butler. 0.97

00:23:38.620 Slave. 0.97

00:23:39.940 I'm like. 0.99

00:23:40.700 What the hell?

00:23:41.100 And so my manager went up to him and was like. 0.95

00:23:42.480 Don't snap at my waiters.

00:23:43.680 Yeah.

00:23:44.060 Which I thought was really sweet.

00:23:44.840 So I'm like.

00:23:45.040 Oh my god.

00:23:45.280 Your manager.

00:23:45.940 I'm like.

00:23:46.460 That's nice.

00:23:46.960 My manager hated me.

00:23:48.720 My manager fired me.

00:23:49.800 I thought when my manager was fired actually.

00:23:51.420 Now that you think about it.

00:23:52.100 Oh my god.

00:23:52.580 For what?

00:23:53.120 For sexual harassment.

00:23:54.440 You?

00:23:55.020 Yes.

00:23:55.340 He was like staring at me like being hella weird. 1.00

00:23:57.100 And like grabbed my ass once. 0.99

00:23:58.560 And like the whole thing. 1.00

00:24:00.000 What?

00:24:00.420 I like never told that story actually.

00:24:02.220 But I totally.

00:24:03.040 But I totally.

00:24:03.860 Like that totally happened to me.

00:24:04.980 That's crazy.

00:24:05.600 He was super super creepy too.

00:24:06.340 Very creepy.

00:24:07.460 Ew.

00:24:07.820 And he would be like looking at me when I would like bend over to grab something.

00:24:10.360 And I'd be like.

00:24:11.860 Ew.

00:24:12.760 And finally I passed the threshold of a grab.

00:24:15.840 Psycho.

00:24:16.520 I'm glad you got him fired. 0.68

00:24:17.920 Sure did.

00:24:19.080 Told all the other managers.

00:24:20.140 I'm like.

00:24:20.320 Hey.

00:24:20.540 So about him.

00:24:22.100 Yeah.

00:24:22.800 Mm-hmm.

00:24:23.220 He's got to go.

00:24:25.460 That's wild.

00:24:26.400 It was wild.

00:24:26.900 It was super wild.

00:24:27.460 There's no way.

00:24:28.820 My manager literally let me go because he was mad that I wouldn't stay.

00:24:33.340 Like I went to college in Hawaii so that's where I was serving.

00:24:35.660 Uh-huh.

00:24:35.920 And he was like are you not staying for Christmas?

00:24:37.540 I'm like no I'm going home.

00:24:39.160 Mm-hmm.

00:24:39.600 And I only worked like four days a week so I was like I told you this is a part-time

00:24:43.460 thing for me.

00:24:44.140 Yeah.

00:24:44.340 He's like if you want to be.

00:24:45.420 You want to move up in this world?

00:24:46.680 I'm all in the restaurant business.

00:24:49.540 If you want to be head waiter.

00:24:50.880 I said girl this is money for me to get drunk on the weekends.

00:24:53.600 Come on.

00:24:54.440 This is fun.

00:24:55.340 Come on.

00:24:55.780 This is my just.

00:24:56.520 I'm like I leave here and I buy a 30 rack for me and my friends.

00:24:59.180 Come on.

00:24:59.880 Come on.

00:25:00.200 And that's all you're doing.

00:25:01.260 You think I want my future to be here?

00:25:03.100 No.

00:25:03.420 Right.

00:25:03.660 And they act like it's like some huge thing.

00:25:05.760 Yeah.

00:25:06.000 Literally like like it's a lifelong commitment.

00:25:08.040 Like I joined the army when I literally.

00:25:10.860 Baby I'm literally I'm passing out croissants.

00:25:12.660 That's what I'm saying.

00:25:13.480 I don't know what to tell you babe.

00:25:14.580 I'm serving salads like left and right.

00:25:17.160 And I literally he I remember he like put me on call.

00:25:20.200 That was his way of firing me.

00:25:21.940 But he was like we're moving you on call.

00:25:23.460 Like he basically called me the worst server in the world.

00:25:25.100 I was like okay.

00:25:26.220 And then I went home and I cried because you know I was like.

00:25:28.520 I mean it's still like.

00:25:29.380 I left.

00:25:29.760 I was like whatever.

00:25:30.980 I don't care.

00:25:31.460 And I went home and I was like oh my god.

00:25:33.720 Who gets fired from a restaurant job?

00:25:35.900 No literally I was devastated.

00:25:38.040 And then he replaces me with a dude.

00:25:40.560 Mind you he had me training someone that day.

00:25:42.500 Right.

00:25:42.620 And it was this dude that kept leaving in the middle of our shift to go do drugs in the bathroom.

00:25:47.460 So then at the end he's like Drew I want to talk to you after your shift.

00:25:50.440 And I go okay it's probably to like talk about this guy.

00:25:53.000 And I was like girl do I have some tea for you.

00:25:55.800 This guy was doing meth in the bathroom.

00:25:57.560 Anyways you're fired.

00:25:58.760 That's what he tells.

00:25:59.300 That's where the conversation goes.

00:26:00.440 He replaces me with that guy.

00:26:01.920 Next day he comes into my shift.

00:26:03.540 Leaves in the middle of it.

00:26:04.320 Goes and eats a dessert in the freezer.

00:26:06.380 Gets fired.

00:26:06.780 Because he was high on meth.

00:26:10.400 Right.

00:26:11.200 So.

00:26:11.940 Then he calls me he's like are you not coming in for your shift today?

00:26:15.260 Brian I no longer work here.

00:26:16.960 Baby I'm on call.

00:26:17.940 Babes I'm on call.

00:26:18.860 Actually I quit.

00:26:20.340 So.

00:26:22.000 I am now taking back the power.

00:26:23.960 Yeah so I was like so.

00:26:25.240 And now I quit.

00:26:26.880 Anyway.

00:26:27.240 That's insane.

00:26:28.180 Part of my villain origin story.

00:26:30.280 I see that makes a lot more sense.

00:26:32.340 Right.

00:26:33.100 Now it makes a lot more sense.

00:26:33.680 That was also not the first time I got fired but that's besides the point.

00:26:36.860 Anyways.

00:26:38.500 Okay so now we're going to go into the next video which is actually pretty on brand because

00:26:42.240 you mentioned machismo.

00:26:43.800 Right.

00:26:44.240 And so this video was basically someone talking about growing up around her family and basically

00:26:48.720 saying they used to always like harp on her that she needed to learn how to cook or

00:26:53.100 else she was never going to find a man.

00:26:54.460 Right.

00:26:54.680 And they were saying she she said she's always hated machismo and like the whole ideology

00:26:59.360 of it.

00:26:59.820 And she told herself that she would never cook for one.

00:27:04.380 Yeah.

00:27:04.620 She would never cook for one.

00:27:05.820 And her family would tell her that if she didn't cook for her man then he would beat 1.00

00:27:09.620 her.

00:27:10.540 And then when she told them that she'd never let a man get aggressive with her they would 0.89

00:27:13.680 laugh at her.

00:27:14.560 Which.

00:27:15.220 That's literally like insane to me.

00:27:17.880 Your family is canceled.

00:27:19.180 Your family should not like you need to find a chosen family.

00:27:21.960 Yeah.

00:27:22.240 Exactly.

00:27:22.640 You need to choose someone else.

00:27:23.700 Honestly family is not always blood.

00:27:26.160 You know what I mean.

00:27:26.720 True tea.

00:27:27.040 I mean that I deal with it I get it because like especially in like Latina culture especially

00:27:32.180 like you know let's say 10 years ago 20 years ago it's very like wife stays home cooks.

00:27:37.600 Yeah.

00:27:38.000 Takes care of the kids.

00:27:38.660 Very traditional.

00:27:39.220 Very traditional.

00:27:40.060 Yeah.

00:27:40.240 Aspect of it for sure.

00:27:41.720 And it's very like man goes out works provides the end.

00:27:45.360 And like that's just what it is.

00:27:46.540 Yeah.

00:27:46.680 And it's just you know very aggressive.

00:27:47.860 I'm like almost like like praising aggressive kind of nature which again is very like just

00:27:54.280 traditionally what it is.

00:27:55.220 Yeah.

00:27:55.480 It's like dated.

00:27:56.680 Archaic.

00:27:57.240 It's archaic.

00:27:57.960 Yeah.

00:27:58.560 Truly.

00:27:58.800 It's literally Neanderthal. 0.76

00:28:00.240 Yeah.

00:28:00.760 Yeah.

00:28:01.240 And like.

00:28:01.920 It's giving large forehead.

00:28:03.240 Well the good news is it's giving Cro-Magnon.

00:28:06.760 It's giving hump. 0.99

00:28:11.800 It's giving evolution.

00:28:13.100 It's giving whale.

00:28:13.920 It's giving Darwin.

00:28:14.280 It's giving Darwin.

00:28:14.380 It's giving Darwin.

00:28:14.540 No but it's just it's it's just wild to me that like like the fact that her family was

00:28:22.460 the one kind of instilling that her which is horrible because it's like your family

00:28:25.800 supposed to be like your backbone.

00:28:27.820 Yeah.

00:28:28.600 Supportive of you.

00:28:29.540 Your support you know.

00:28:30.140 And they're supposed to like you'd think they would like you know it's just like a cultural

00:28:34.560 traditional thing too.

00:28:35.480 I think that's the case with a lot of minority families too.

00:28:37.840 It's like a generational thing.

00:28:39.560 Yeah.

00:28:39.880 And just the fact that they would say that she would get B is just kind of awful.

00:28:43.740 That's horrible.

00:28:44.920 That's literally horrible.

00:28:46.000 Yeah.

00:28:46.320 And then it says that the good news is that the plot twist is now she's married to her 0.92

00:28:50.840 wife who never yells or gets aggressive when she doesn't cook for her because she can 1.00

00:28:55.180 cook for herself which I mean women are superior. 1.00

00:28:58.240 I love a lesbian moment. 1.00

00:28:59.360 Right.

00:28:59.760 Amen.

00:29:00.580 Women are superior period. 1.00

00:29:03.240 We're all thinking it.

00:29:06.320 We love that.

00:29:07.200 That's awesome.

00:29:07.800 That's really really cool.

00:29:08.420 I'm glad that she you know found her happy place essentially.

00:29:11.440 Yeah.

00:29:11.780 Honestly.

00:29:12.400 I'm glad she did too.

00:29:13.740 And it's hard because like in Latino culture it's very like you know in traditional like

00:29:17.040 in more of like a white traditional family it's very like okay everyone's leaving at 0.96

00:29:19.760 18 like you're a grown ass adult you gotta get out of the house. 0.98

00:29:22.680 Yeah. 0.98

00:29:22.960 Latino culture is very like you don't leave till you're like married. 0.68

00:29:25.600 That's the same.

00:29:26.440 Yeah.

00:29:26.660 That's the same for Samoan culture too.

00:29:28.860 Right.

00:29:28.980 It's very normal to live at the house for a long time.

00:29:30.940 Like literally forever.

00:29:31.680 Even when you're married when you have kids.

00:29:33.040 Yes.

00:29:33.500 And even then.

00:29:33.840 Moving back in.

00:29:34.680 Yeah.

00:29:35.020 Yeah.

00:29:35.380 Yeah.

00:29:35.700 Like you leave you get married and then you move back in.

00:29:38.220 Yes.

00:29:38.500 That's the thing.

00:29:38.740 Yeah.

00:29:39.080 So it's just it's like that you're like in that kind of environment for a lot longer.

00:29:42.520 Yeah.

00:29:42.720 Yeah.

00:29:43.160 Traditionally you know Caucasian would be. 1.00

00:29:45.080 Yeah.

00:29:45.720 Absolutely.

00:29:46.540 So like it's like even.

00:29:48.260 It's harder to get out of.

00:29:49.040 More of a slippery slope.

00:29:49.860 It's harder to get out of the mindset.

00:29:51.220 Yeah.

00:29:51.320 We need it for longer.

00:29:52.160 And like also you don't want to upset your family because it's also like such a close

00:29:55.640 bond that you share.

00:29:56.780 I know.

00:29:57.220 So it's like it's such a give and take.

00:29:59.240 Define line.

00:29:59.900 Yeah.

00:30:00.140 It's pretty horrible but I'm glad you chose you girl.

00:30:02.540 Me too.

00:30:02.960 You deserve it.

00:30:04.160 And so the comments on this like this first one says my family did this and I blatantly

00:30:09.300 refused to learn how to cook because of this.

00:30:11.900 Now I'm living on ramen but I'm spiteful.

00:30:14.960 Honestly me.

00:30:15.800 Petty LaBelle.

00:30:17.140 Petty Wop. 0.98

00:30:17.740 The pride daughter.

00:30:18.300 Take it to my grave.

00:30:19.640 Absolutely.

00:30:20.300 Right.

00:30:20.600 She's like I've clocked out.

00:30:21.840 I'm never learning.

00:30:22.780 That's literally me.

00:30:23.360 I literally don't know how to cook.

00:30:24.700 So there's that.

00:30:25.900 You know what's so like crazy is like my boyfriend loves to cook.

00:30:30.340 He loves to cook and he loves to cook for me.

00:30:32.740 That's so cute.

00:30:34.480 Right.

00:30:35.060 Does he have a twin? 0.78

00:30:36.760 Does he have a gay twin? 0.88

00:30:38.820 I'll check. 0.52

00:30:39.720 I'll check that family tree.

00:30:40.860 Yeah.

00:30:41.140 I need you to go down the line.

00:30:42.100 I'll search it.

00:30:42.700 I'm going to leave here.

00:30:44.420 Cousins of cousins of cousins.

00:30:45.060 I'm going to get a 23 and me.

00:30:46.660 I'm going to go.

00:30:47.380 I'm going to spit in this.

00:30:48.540 I'm going to.

00:30:48.980 I'm like it's for research.

00:30:50.260 Trust me.

00:30:51.260 It's for it's for work.

00:30:52.880 It's for work purposes.

00:30:55.220 Okay.

00:30:55.620 This next one says I cook for my boyfriend but he does cleaning and laundry and helps

00:30:59.980 around the house so much.

00:31:01.240 He helps me out so much.

00:31:03.180 He never lets me do anything alone.

00:31:04.780 Period.

00:31:05.340 I think that's perfect.

00:31:06.040 Love that.

00:31:06.260 I think it's an equal partnership.

00:31:08.140 That's what I'm going to say about.

00:31:08.700 Yeah.

00:31:08.720 I think that's such a like a balancing act too because that's like something that I like

00:31:13.740 in Samoan culture like men do all the cooking and cleaning. 0.94

00:31:18.100 So like my dad does the majority of cooking and cleaning.

00:31:20.980 Like my mom works all the time. 0.98

00:31:22.660 My dad works too but like my dad prefers to cook and clean.

00:31:25.600 Yeah.

00:31:26.020 So like that's just like something that's been so normalized to me.

00:31:29.580 So when I see like the rotten garbage on TikTok when they're like my wife should be on the 1.00

00:31:35.280 kitchen.

00:31:36.260 Yeah.

00:31:36.480 And in the same.

00:31:37.520 And in the same note they're like and recount the votes.

00:31:40.640 You know what I mean.

00:31:41.020 Oh my.

00:31:41.620 All in the same breath.

00:31:43.000 Yeah.

00:31:43.260 They're like and don't.

00:31:44.460 Wearing the red hat.

00:31:45.340 Don't tread on me.

00:31:46.160 It's all in the same breath.

00:31:47.140 You know what I mean.

00:31:47.280 A hundred percent.

00:31:47.900 Yeah.

00:31:48.080 I want my gun still.

00:31:49.200 Yeah.

00:31:49.800 Come and take them.

00:31:51.200 Yes.

00:31:52.940 You want to come and take them.

00:31:54.360 I dare you take them. 0.99

00:31:55.080 Like literally I when I see that shit it's just so polar opposite to what I've been I've 0.99

00:32:00.020 grown up. 0.99

00:32:00.520 Totally.

00:32:01.240 So I guess that's like it's something that's cool that's I don't know if it's unique to

00:32:04.920 my culture but like men do all the cooking and cleaning and like women like take care 1.00

00:32:09.020 of babies and elderly.

00:32:10.620 Got it.

00:32:10.920 So like that's kind of like how it works in my family but like my boyfriend cooks and

00:32:14.880 cleans I cook and clean it's like I mean he cooks more than I do.

00:32:17.920 Yeah.

00:32:18.020 I won't lie to you.

00:32:19.220 Don't don't even try.

00:32:20.320 I won't lie to you.

00:32:20.980 Don't even try to find out. 0.99

00:32:21.720 I mean I I use the shit out of a DoorDash app. 0.96

00:32:24.360 You know what I mean. 0.99

00:32:24.800 Oh my God.

00:32:25.380 That's literally I don't cook.

00:32:26.300 A food delivery service.

00:32:26.940 Literally I do.

00:32:30.920 Okay.

00:32:31.380 So now we're going to play a fun little gamey game.

00:32:34.840 Right.

00:32:35.320 And it's going to it's called Are You Toxic? 0.69

00:32:39.260 Are you?

00:32:39.820 By Britney Spears.

00:32:42.560 She comes out.

00:32:43.600 Uh huh.

00:32:44.040 Yeah.

00:32:44.280 She just comes out starts performing.

00:32:45.820 Yeah.

00:32:46.200 A hundred percent.

00:32:46.900 Oh I wish.

00:32:47.120 I mean who knows maybe a little.

00:32:48.520 I know.

00:32:48.840 I think that's what we were just saying.

00:32:50.320 I think we have a little.

00:32:50.820 I think everyone's a teensy bit.

00:32:52.820 I think so.

00:32:53.300 But I think it's also like about like.

00:32:55.740 Balance.

00:32:56.700 Choosing.

00:32:57.240 Work life balance.

00:32:58.060 Work life balance.

00:32:58.700 Girl boss balance. 0.98

00:32:59.840 You know what I mean.

00:33:00.320 As a girl boss. 0.96

00:33:01.800 As a girl boss myself.

00:33:03.500 It's very important to balance the toxicity.

00:33:05.540 I completely agree.

00:33:06.220 As a girl boss myself.

00:33:07.200 Yeah.

00:33:07.480 I agree.

00:33:08.700 There you go.

00:33:09.560 See.

00:33:10.320 It's like my.

00:33:11.120 It's like venom.

00:33:11.840 Like I have to expel it every now and then.

00:33:13.380 Yeah.

00:33:13.660 You know what I mean.

00:33:14.500 Yeah.

00:33:14.680 Just a little bit.

00:33:15.200 Like the little cups that they use.

00:33:16.420 Yeah.

00:33:16.620 Yeah.

00:33:17.380 Uh huh.

00:33:17.900 When they drain it out of them.

00:33:18.880 Yeah.

00:33:18.900 When they're draining.

00:33:19.440 Uh huh.

00:33:19.600 That's me.

00:33:20.280 A milking.

00:33:20.820 Every morning I milk myself.

00:33:22.660 My toxicity.

00:33:23.720 I also milk myself.

00:33:24.660 There you go.

00:33:25.120 But not in the morning.

00:33:27.860 Perfect.

00:33:29.120 Okay.

00:33:29.500 So.

00:33:29.780 I'm going to ask you questions to see if you have traits of toxic masculinity or traits

00:33:36.940 of healthy masculinity.

00:33:38.380 Oh.

00:33:38.580 Okay.

00:33:38.920 So first question.

00:33:40.500 You're magically back to being 10 years old and your sister has stolen your Game Boy

00:33:44.300 color and never returns it.

00:33:46.420 Do you A. Express your feelings.

00:33:48.620 B. Tell your mom and she tells you to cry.

00:33:51.160 C. Tell your dad and he tells you boys don't cry and tough it out.

00:33:54.260 Or D. Fight your sister.

00:33:56.900 I don't know if you have a sister.

00:33:57.940 I don't.

00:33:58.700 You have a brother.

00:33:59.220 I have two little brothers.

00:34:00.200 Oh.

00:34:00.400 You have a brother.

00:34:00.860 Okay.

00:34:01.080 You have a brother.

00:34:01.560 So I think I would realistically it would be like B. I would like tell my mom and dad.

00:34:05.760 I'm like okay you guys handle this.

00:34:07.180 Yeah.

00:34:07.620 They're my siblings.

00:34:08.960 But like you guys are the parents.

00:34:11.560 You tell HR.

00:34:12.980 So listen mom.

00:34:13.680 No.

00:34:14.000 Literally.

00:34:15.000 I'm not kidding you.

00:34:15.800 There was.

00:34:16.120 Oh my God.

00:34:16.880 I just.

00:34:17.160 I'm having a flashback.

00:34:18.320 Literally it was like one birthday.

00:34:19.740 Yeah.

00:34:20.200 It was my brother's birthday.

00:34:21.280 Yeah.

00:34:21.620 And he had said something to me that was so mean and so rude and so nasty.

00:34:24.420 And I told my mom and she was like because of how bad that was you got to

00:34:28.340 take one of his toys.

00:34:30.420 And I was like I want the blow pens.

00:34:33.860 Where it's like the really like.

00:34:35.420 Yeah.

00:34:35.860 And it's like color.

00:34:36.520 Yeah.

00:34:36.880 And I was like see then you'll learn your lesson huh.

00:34:38.840 You're all there.

00:34:39.240 But I didn't like deal with it with him because I was like what do I say.

00:34:42.280 You're all going above you.

00:34:43.080 I'm going up.

00:34:43.840 I'm going above your pay grade.

00:34:44.800 I'm going straight to the CEO.

00:34:46.020 And I'm going straight to mom.

00:34:46.780 I'm going straight to the CEO.

00:34:47.220 And look and I got a toy for it. 1.00

00:34:49.200 And take that bitch. 1.00

00:34:50.240 Take it. 1.00

00:34:50.700 Honestly.

00:34:51.160 So I don't even know what that was toxic or not but I didn't.

00:34:53.740 And I took the blow pens and I loved them. 0.96

00:34:55.680 That's so fucking funny. 0.97

00:34:58.380 Honestly I think I would do the same. 0.98

00:35:00.300 Yeah.

00:35:01.020 When I was little though I might fight my sister.

00:35:03.580 I might just duke it out.

00:35:05.100 You know what I'm saying.

00:35:05.480 Yeah.

00:35:05.700 I mean why not.

00:35:06.360 I just start attacking her and then I fight my mom. 0.99

00:35:09.080 I get in trouble with my mom.

00:35:10.180 Oh my God.

00:35:10.720 Because I chose to fight my sister.

00:35:13.500 So you know lose lose for me.

00:35:15.220 It's a lose lose.

00:35:15.660 It's a lose lose.

00:35:16.540 I think I was always bigger than my brothers.

00:35:18.060 I'm four years older than my middle one and then eight years older than my littlest one.

00:35:22.860 Okay.

00:35:23.140 So I was always so much bigger so I knew that I couldn't like fight them because like I would hurt them.

00:35:26.300 Oh okay.

00:35:27.200 Yeah.

00:35:27.340 I'm a middle child.

00:35:28.200 So my sister is two years older than me.

00:35:29.860 Uh huh.

00:35:30.260 But then our brother my brother is nine years younger than me.

00:35:32.440 So I have a baby brother too.

00:35:33.720 Uh huh.

00:35:34.120 Yeah.

00:35:34.760 So like him he's like he was raised so like far away from me.

00:35:38.100 I was like an adult already.

00:35:39.040 Right.

00:35:39.360 Practically like when he was.

00:35:40.720 A baby so.

00:35:41.680 I did want to fight him.

00:35:42.800 I still want to fight him.

00:35:43.880 Every day.

00:35:44.340 I don't care how big he gets.

00:35:45.440 You're fighting demons just to not fight him.

00:35:46.700 I don't care how big he gets.

00:35:47.840 I'll put him on his back.

00:35:49.080 I don't care how big he gets.

00:35:50.280 He's bigger than me now but I don't care.

00:35:51.680 Yeah you don't care.

00:35:52.280 Mm mm. 0.92

00:35:53.020 I was like I'll put you in the dirt dude. 0.87

00:35:55.300 Uh huh. 0.60

00:35:55.660 Don't forget it.

00:35:56.020 Don't play with me.

00:35:56.920 That's literally my dad still to this day with all three of us.

00:35:59.580 Yeah he's like literally.

00:36:00.460 I'll still be true.

00:36:01.500 Yeah he's like I'll still be true.

00:36:02.240 That's my mom to us too.

00:36:03.320 I'm like dad you have arthritis.

00:36:04.460 Let's calm down.

00:36:05.780 You're like okay.

00:36:07.100 Big talk.

00:36:08.080 Yeah.

00:36:08.400 Okay the next one says a certain famous tiktoker publicly roasts you.

00:36:13.740 Do you A. Fight fire with fire.

00:36:16.320 B. Address the disrespect.

00:36:18.380 C. Lock it up.

00:36:19.820 Or D. Drop her photo in the group chat.

00:36:21.920 C. I'm dropping the photo in the group chat I think.

00:36:26.160 Yeah.

00:36:26.680 Yeah I'm like telling all my friends about it and venting to my friends about it.

00:36:29.520 Yeah.

00:36:29.960 Rather than like venting publicly about it.

00:36:31.720 Yeah.

00:36:32.040 Because I don't want it to be like a full situation.

00:36:33.420 Because I think most of the times if someone's trying you like that they're actually wanting

00:36:36.640 your attention.

00:36:37.880 Especially because it's literally happened to me I'm not kidding you like a couple months

00:36:40.400 ago with this like a female blogger.

00:36:43.520 Yeah.

00:36:43.980 And she was like calling me out by name trying me like fully.

00:36:46.940 Yeah.

00:36:47.320 And I was like I'm not even going to like pay attention to this.

00:36:49.100 I'm just going to go ahead and like talk to my friends about it.

00:36:50.780 Yeah.

00:36:51.260 And just like let it be by guns be by guns.

00:36:52.840 Oh my gosh.

00:36:53.260 Me too.

00:36:53.760 Because I'm like I'm literally like an infant in this world.

00:36:57.560 Yes.

00:36:57.700 So like when I when I have to deal with this stuff now because obviously like men be trying

00:37:01.340 me all the time.

00:37:02.000 All the time.

00:37:02.600 All the time.

00:37:02.980 On TikTok all the time.

00:37:04.140 But it's like so obvious to me now when it's like for like clicks.

00:37:08.100 Like they're beating you when they're trying to beat you.

00:37:09.660 Yeah.

00:37:09.740 Yeah.

00:37:09.800 They're trying to goad me into a fight.

00:37:11.120 Yeah.

00:37:11.500 So I'm like it's funny because you have rocks in your head if you think I'm like on the same

00:37:14.860 level as you.

00:37:15.580 A hundred percent.

00:37:16.160 That's why I was like nah.

00:37:17.460 That's exactly what I felt with her too.

00:37:18.520 I'm like we're not on like we're not not even on the same level.

00:37:22.420 I was literally like you have 2,000 followers.

00:37:24.760 Like what do I get out of doing that?

00:37:26.480 Nothing.

00:37:26.960 Literally nothing.

00:37:27.760 Absolutely nothing.

00:37:28.720 That's why that's why for me I'm like I'd rather just vent about it to my friends.

00:37:31.460 Same.

00:37:31.700 Keep it moving.

00:37:32.320 I do it privately.

00:37:33.400 Yeah.

00:37:33.520 And they almost hate that more.

00:37:35.040 I know they do because in the next day they do it again.

00:37:38.120 Yeah.

00:37:38.260 They just keep poking.

00:37:39.960 And then tag you again.

00:37:41.080 Yeah.

00:37:41.600 And I'm like I don't know what you're asking for girl.

00:37:44.380 You're like girl I'm booked and busy.

00:37:45.720 I'm sorry like I'm literally running an empire.

00:37:48.920 That's what I'm saying.

00:37:50.740 That's what I was like I mean. 1.00

00:37:52.340 Sucks to suck. 0.99

00:37:53.160 That's all I'm all thanks for the house though. 1.00

00:37:55.920 Me.

00:37:57.340 No seriously.

00:37:58.360 Literally.

00:37:59.180 Okay this next one says a female friend tries to explain a situation that she's in and seeks

00:38:03.560 your input.

00:38:04.480 Do you A. 1.00

00:38:05.260 Ask her to keep female bullshit to herself. 1.00

00:38:08.540 B. 1.00

00:38:08.780 Create the emotional space to allow her to vent.

00:38:11.100 C.

00:38:11.360 Tell her to consult her friends.

00:38:12.780 Or D.

00:38:13.760 Flex in the bathroom stall and send her the photo. 0.99

00:38:17.100 Um A.

00:38:17.800 No.

00:38:18.900 No definitely B.

00:38:19.880 I'm definitely like I feel like I'm actually a really good communicator.

00:38:22.420 Me too.

00:38:22.580 When it comes to like talking about like feelings being empathetic sympathetic and anything like

00:38:26.920 that.

00:38:27.120 Like I feel like I'm one of the people that people like my friends go to to talk about

00:38:30.500 certain situations going on.

00:38:32.800 So I think I can I can be an empath.

00:38:34.660 I'm very empathetic as a person.

00:38:36.180 Me too. 0.98

00:38:36.400 I'm not going to be like I'm an empath because I think it's fucking weird. 0.96

00:38:38.460 As an empath. 0.61

00:38:39.280 As an empath I think it's right.

00:38:40.440 I'm like no no no.

00:38:42.000 But I think I can be very I can understand a lot of people's feelings.

00:38:44.200 Yeah.

00:38:44.460 Because I was a people pleaser.

00:38:45.520 Like my whole entire life was trying to understand people's feelings so that I can like mold

00:38:49.240 myself to what they needed.

00:38:50.400 Yeah.

00:38:50.900 You know.

00:38:51.260 So I feel like as an adult I can like see that and be like okay I understand where

00:38:55.340 you're where you're coming from.

00:38:56.980 Yeah.

00:38:57.000 And I can be there for you.

00:38:57.740 See where they're coming from and kind of like relate a little bit more.

00:39:00.660 Yeah.

00:39:00.980 What's your sign?

00:39:02.020 I'm an Aries.

00:39:03.440 Oh Aries man.

00:39:05.200 Uh huh.

00:39:05.880 That's so interesting.

00:39:06.800 I know and I've heard like trauma about Aries men. 1.00

00:39:09.060 No I'm that's why I'm like.

00:39:10.760 Like terrifying.

00:39:12.060 But I'm also like my rising and my moon are like Sag and Leo.

00:39:17.600 So I'm literally triple fire.

00:39:18.500 You're a Leo moon or a Leo rising?

00:39:20.640 I have to look it up on the thingy.

00:39:21.880 I don't remember.

00:39:22.540 I was going to say I'm a Sagittarius rising.

00:39:24.240 Really?

00:39:24.620 I'm a Virgo.

00:39:26.240 Yeah.

00:39:27.360 I'm so like.

00:39:28.320 Virgos are my favorite sign of all time.

00:39:29.720 Really?

00:39:30.360 My best friend's a Virgo.

00:39:31.200 Oh I love that.

00:39:31.800 My best friend in high school is a Virgo.

00:39:32.840 Yeah see you could literally tell you could tell the guy I'm talking to is a Virgo.

00:39:36.240 I literally love Virgos dude.

00:39:38.920 Yes.

00:39:39.220 I love that.

00:39:40.360 No they're the best.

00:39:41.080 You guys are the best.

00:39:41.700 Seriously.

00:39:42.320 Period.

00:39:43.000 You heard it here.

00:39:43.500 Ugh.

00:39:44.440 I can't believe you're an Aries. 1.00

00:39:46.780 That blows my mind.

00:39:47.500 No it's shocking.

00:39:48.340 Especially since you're so empathetic.

00:39:51.380 I know.

00:39:51.860 But I think that's more so not even with my sign.

00:39:54.100 That's with maturity.

00:39:55.040 Maybe that's the trauma.

00:39:56.260 That's the trauma.

00:39:58.980 But see you.

00:39:59.800 That's the trauma.

00:40:00.260 You just blowing and going when you were young.

00:40:02.720 Yeah.

00:40:03.140 That's Aries. 0.98

00:40:03.900 That's Aries. 0.98

00:40:04.460 That's Aries. 0.98

00:40:04.820 That's Aries energy.

00:40:05.560 And I was very like.

00:40:06.240 I would like blow through guys really quickly.

00:40:07.780 I would get very bored.

00:40:08.940 Yes.

00:40:09.320 I was like okay like what's next?

00:40:10.720 Aries men just be starting fires. 1.00

00:40:13.100 And then just be like.

00:40:13.680 And walking away.

00:40:14.080 See you later.

00:40:14.680 No that was that was 100% me.

00:40:16.080 But I mean maturity.

00:40:17.340 Yeah.

00:40:17.940 Trauma.

00:40:18.480 All those things that come with it.

00:40:20.100 Also like the fact that like because I have you know a substantial following and things

00:40:24.240 like that it's made me mature so much faster.

00:40:26.380 Yeah.

00:40:26.680 Than it would if I didn't because I feel like when you have people that look up to you.

00:40:30.560 Like you want to be a person that they look up to.

00:40:32.640 Yeah.

00:40:33.060 So like you in turn you kind of like just make yourself a better version of yourself.

00:40:37.140 Right.

00:40:37.460 Because you want to be someone that's worthy of like this platform.

00:40:41.320 Did not to be a euphoria girly.

00:40:44.080 But did you watch the finale?

00:40:45.460 Of course I did.

00:40:46.040 Okay.

00:40:46.280 So you know how like at the end Rue goes the thought of being a good person makes you

00:40:50.320 want to be a good person.

00:40:51.360 Uh-huh.

00:40:52.340 Period.

00:40:52.880 But it's the truth.

00:40:53.520 Like that's that's like what being an influencer is like. 1.00

00:40:56.020 Like that dead ass is literally what it is. 0.99

00:40:56.780 It's like you want to be good for people because they're looking up to you. 1.00

00:41:00.060 Yeah.

00:41:00.260 And it's enough to make you want to try.

00:41:01.840 It makes you want to try.

00:41:02.940 Yeah.

00:41:03.100 And that's how it was like for me since I started when I was 24.

00:41:06.580 Since then.

00:41:07.400 Love that.

00:41:08.740 I love that you're an Aries man because then it gives me perspective.

00:41:11.280 I love meeting men of different signs.

00:41:13.540 It's so fun.

00:41:14.560 And you're talking to a Virgo man.

00:41:15.720 I am.

00:41:16.380 Isn't that the gag?

00:41:17.220 Yeah.

00:41:17.540 How's that going?

00:41:18.400 It's going good.

00:41:18.880 I like him a lot.

00:41:19.580 Yeah.

00:41:19.960 But I feel like Virgos have always been like very like kind of organized and very like put together.

00:41:23.480 And very like driven with what they want.

00:41:25.580 Yeah.

00:41:25.960 So that's like how I've always seen Virgos.

00:41:27.940 Love that.

00:41:29.100 I was like Virgo men. 0.82

00:41:30.400 I've been like very testy with me in the past.

00:41:32.540 Have they?

00:41:33.040 Yeah.

00:41:33.540 I mean that's because I'm a Virgo.

00:41:34.500 But that's because I'm a Virgo.

00:41:34.520 It's going good right now.

00:41:35.220 Right.

00:41:35.640 Right.

00:41:35.960 You know what I mean?

00:41:36.740 So like that's like too much for me.

00:41:38.180 It's going good now.

00:41:38.880 But like what if?

00:41:40.280 You never know.

00:41:41.340 But see that's the Aries in you. 0.93

00:41:42.920 Waiting for the other shoe to drop.

00:41:44.240 That's the Aries in you.

00:41:45.140 I'm like do I have to stop liking you first before you start.

00:41:46.940 Yeah that's literally quitting before you get fired.

00:41:49.060 That's the Aries thing.

00:41:50.660 See that's me.

00:41:52.420 That is me.

00:41:53.060 I'm like so do you still like me or do I have to stop talking to someone else?

00:41:55.740 Yeah.

00:41:56.940 Tell me now because if that's the case I've never liked you.

00:41:59.040 No literally.

00:42:00.540 Literally that is me to a T.

00:42:02.640 I'm like oh that's fine because like I literally never cared as I'm crying in the shower.

00:42:05.920 Yeah.

00:42:06.400 Girl that's totally fine.

00:42:07.240 That's great.

00:42:07.820 I'm like don't care. 0.98

00:42:08.780 That's honestly perfect because I hate you.

00:42:10.680 Good because I don't follow you anyway.

00:42:12.200 Yeah so and I just blocked you on everything.

00:42:13.880 Yeah.

00:42:14.260 Timing's perfect.

00:42:14.720 So you'll never find me again.

00:42:15.260 Timing kind of works out.

00:42:16.000 But do you know what the gag is though?

00:42:16.900 I feel like a lot of times when I'm talking to guys like.

00:42:19.920 Like they'll put me in the.

00:42:20.780 Let's say they'll put me in the friends.

00:42:21.640 I'm like oh you know I'm just.

00:42:22.340 I'm like okay all good and it sounds good.

00:42:24.260 It's months later they're like you know what I completely changed my mind.

00:42:27.300 Like I actually really do like you.

00:42:28.760 And I'm like that's funny because I actually closed that door already.

00:42:31.440 For me like once I closed the door and I moved on I'm never going back.

00:42:34.700 Yeah.

00:42:35.200 I literally physically can't.

00:42:36.900 Like my body will not let me.

00:42:38.620 It rejects it.

00:42:38.760 I'm like oh no sorry.

00:42:39.480 Like it's like just.

00:42:40.880 It's like a trauma response.

00:42:42.200 It's like don't trust them again.

00:42:43.380 And I literally will not date them.

00:42:44.760 I'm not kidding.

00:42:45.660 Even if I liked them before I'm like too bad you lost your chance.

00:42:48.160 Too bad so sad.

00:42:50.720 Don't care.

00:42:51.400 Don't care.

00:42:52.120 We're moving on.

00:42:53.060 And we're not going to be friends either.

00:42:53.960 Well that's another thing too about Aries is that they move on but they never forget. 0.89

00:42:58.560 Oh no no.

00:42:59.380 Never never never.

00:43:00.300 No honestly it'll always.

00:43:01.300 I mean I.

00:43:01.820 Stored away.

00:43:02.840 It's there.

00:43:03.880 It's in the back.

00:43:04.720 It's in the crevices.

00:43:05.660 Yeah.

00:43:05.840 It's in the crevices of my brain.

00:43:07.240 Just in case you need it.

00:43:08.560 Yeah.

00:43:08.880 To remember.

00:43:09.580 No flat brain here.

00:43:10.820 Mm hmm. 0.79

00:43:11.460 Mm hmm.

00:43:11.840 Remember it all.

00:43:12.700 Remember it all.

00:43:14.800 Oh my god I love that.

00:43:16.360 I love that.

00:43:16.840 Okay so based off all your points honestly.

00:43:20.940 I'm scared.

00:43:21.900 Honestly I think you're more so leaning towards healthy.

00:43:25.860 Okay good.

00:43:26.500 Yeah.

00:43:26.520 A good lean.

00:43:27.420 But so yeah but some of your stuff was so like middle of the road that I was like. 0.90

00:43:31.440 But the answers were literally like the fucking options were they're like go flex in a mirror 1.00

00:43:35.440 or tell her to be a bitch. 1.00

00:43:37.440 Oh yeah. 1.00

00:43:37.740 It's like okay.

00:43:38.800 Tell her to get over herself. 0.98

00:43:39.880 Yeah. 1.00

00:43:40.060 Like she's a big idiot. 1.00

00:43:41.240 Or cry on your shoulder. 1.00

00:43:42.360 Or be there for her.

00:43:44.680 Or be there for her and be an empathetic human.

00:43:46.240 I'm like.

00:43:47.240 Pretty.

00:43:47.760 Yeah so you could be lying to me.

00:43:49.280 No I swear.

00:43:49.960 That's also an Aries thing.

00:43:51.540 That's also an Aries man thing.

00:43:55.100 No I seriously like I.

00:43:56.420 Those are all the things I would definitely do.

00:43:58.080 Yeah.

00:43:58.260 Like don't be answered.

00:43:58.920 You know what I'll say though about.

00:43:59.980 I'm sorry we're talking about astrological science too much.

00:44:02.280 But I'll say about Aries men. 0.99

00:44:04.260 They're so good at like getting along with anybody.

00:44:07.360 I've heard that.

00:44:08.000 They just.

00:44:08.840 Literally.

00:44:09.580 They just blend.

00:44:10.200 A million times.

00:44:10.940 Yeah they blend so effortlessly with anybody.

00:44:12.760 So not only am I an Aries but I was a people pleaser as a child.

00:44:15.100 So it's like can you imagine me like and throw me in the deserts of Abu Dhabi.

00:44:20.280 And baby we're gonna be.

00:44:21.220 I'm riding the camel.

00:44:22.100 Yeah you're making friends.

00:44:22.760 We're gonna be friends.

00:44:23.520 You can make friends anywhere.

00:44:24.700 I will make it happen.

00:44:25.760 I was like throw me in the Amazon.

00:44:26.840 That's truly an Aries.

00:44:27.900 With people eating people.

00:44:29.060 Yeah characteristic.

00:44:30.060 They ain't eating me.

00:44:31.540 Nope.

00:44:32.220 Put the bones on my head too.

00:44:33.460 We're fine.

00:44:34.020 Literally we're like we're good.

00:44:35.020 We're gonna be.

00:44:35.500 I'm gonna be just fine.

00:44:36.360 We're doing just fine.

00:44:37.640 Yeah.

00:44:38.220 That's.

00:44:38.660 Hey girly. 0.98

00:44:39.260 That's such an Aries thing. 1.00

00:44:40.740 You guys can just blend with anybody.

00:44:42.740 That's why some people think y'all are like fake.

00:44:45.240 I totally can see that too.

00:44:46.200 That's why people think that.

00:44:46.660 But it's.

00:44:47.180 I don't see it that way.

00:44:48.000 You know everything's like up for interpretation.

00:44:49.580 100%.

00:44:49.860 So I don't see it that way.

00:44:50.860 I see it as like you guys can just get along with anybody.

00:44:53.300 I'm just trying to be.

00:44:54.220 I'm just trying to get along.

00:44:54.860 I'm literally just wanting to get along.

00:44:55.780 I'm not trying to have strife with anyone either.

00:44:57.540 Yeah.

00:44:58.020 I want it to be like a good vibe.

00:44:59.280 That's another thing too.

00:45:00.660 They strive for no conflict.

00:45:02.520 I don't want conflict.

00:45:03.480 They don't care.

00:45:04.300 I don't.

00:45:04.780 I don't want to deal with it.

00:45:05.560 You don't care.

00:45:06.240 Like care enough to engage in conflict.

00:45:08.080 Exactly.

00:45:08.540 I'm like.

00:45:10.400 I'm going to go play with makeup now.

00:45:12.180 Yeah.

00:45:12.440 All right.

00:45:12.600 See ya.

00:45:13.000 Yeah.

00:45:13.260 I don't care.

00:45:14.000 See.

00:45:14.160 And my big beautiful home.

00:45:15.980 With Zaya.

00:45:16.980 Yeah.

00:45:17.300 With Zaya.

00:45:17.780 What are you going to tell?

00:45:18.300 I love Zaya.

00:45:19.280 Oh.

00:45:19.460 She's like truly.

00:45:20.680 She's.

00:45:21.100 She's so cute.

00:45:21.960 She's you.

00:45:23.060 She's you.

00:45:24.020 Oh.

00:45:24.300 I love her.

00:45:25.020 Like an icon.

00:45:25.900 A legend.

00:45:26.660 Yeah.

00:45:27.260 And just.

00:45:28.060 Gorgeous.

00:45:28.840 And gorgeous.

00:45:29.340 Picture perfect.

00:45:30.080 Yeah.

00:45:30.500 A model.

00:45:31.540 Zaya's Manny's dog.

00:45:32.900 By the way.

00:45:33.180 Yeah.

00:45:33.660 For all those of you who don't know.

00:45:35.600 For you fake Manny MUA fans.

00:45:37.320 Wow.

00:45:37.680 That don't know.

00:45:38.380 Wow.

00:45:38.940 I was there on the ground floor when you got Zaya.

00:45:40.640 You've been there running.

00:45:41.920 I've been watching.

00:45:42.640 I've been watching those YouTube videos.

00:45:44.080 Yes.

00:45:44.400 I was like. 1.00

00:45:45.360 This bitch got a new house. 1.00

00:45:46.620 Uh huh. 1.00

00:45:47.000 She got.

00:45:47.560 She got Zaya.

00:45:48.740 Mm hmm.

00:45:49.480 She's leveling up.

00:45:50.620 I mean.

00:45:50.920 I'm just like a Pokemon.

00:45:52.240 Right.

00:45:52.820 New evolution.

00:45:53.520 Every time.

00:45:54.340 The Moonstone.

00:45:55.040 Okay.

00:46:01.060 So that's going to do it for this episode of the comment section show.

00:46:04.560 I want to thank the beautiful slutty amazing Manny MUA for joining me today.

00:46:10.040 Thank you so much for coming.

00:46:11.900 Thank you for having me.

00:46:12.640 I adore you.

00:46:14.100 I love you too.

00:46:14.920 I'm so in love with you.

00:46:15.960 I'm staring in your eyes. 1.00

00:46:17.340 I'm back to jerking you right off. 0.99

00:46:18.880 Please. 0.99

00:46:19.420 I need to be milked like I said earlier.

00:46:20.840 I'm right back to it. 1.00

00:46:22.300 I'm on that teat bitch. 1.00

00:46:24.000 Please. 1.00

00:46:24.740 I have eight teats like a little cat.

00:46:27.740 Which one do you want?

00:46:28.740 Like whichever.

00:46:30.020 Which one?

00:46:30.280 However many can fit in my mouth.

00:46:31.660 Perfect.

00:46:32.300 All of them.

00:46:33.320 D all of the above.

00:46:34.900 That's the quiz.

00:46:36.220 No.

00:46:36.780 Not the quiz.

00:46:37.180 That's the next game.

00:46:38.080 That's the next quiz.

00:46:38.400 That was literally me.

00:46:39.580 In high school and college.

00:46:41.260 D.

00:46:42.620 All the above.

00:46:43.900 Perfect.

00:46:44.420 And I graduated.

00:46:45.700 I got through it.

00:46:46.740 There you go.

00:46:47.700 Period.

00:46:47.960 That's all that matters.

00:46:48.720 And I want to thank Manny so much for joining us today.

00:46:52.660 And I also want the people to know wherever they can find you.

00:46:57.140 Do you have anything amazing that you want to promote?

00:46:59.740 Oh, yeah.

00:47:00.140 I mean, just on socials.

00:47:01.340 Manny MUA.

00:47:02.300 Yes.

00:47:02.860 That's like my handle.

00:47:04.280 Yes.

00:47:05.160 I also have a podcast with Lunar.

00:47:07.000 Not with Lunar Beauty. 0.66

00:47:07.680 What the hell?

00:47:07.880 With my best friend, Laura.

00:47:08.840 Called Full Coverage.

00:47:10.040 Love it.

00:47:10.540 Absolutely love doing that.

00:47:11.680 It's really, really fun.

00:47:12.760 Yay.

00:47:13.760 Thank you so much for joining me today.

00:47:15.720 I am just so incredibly honored to sit with The Ledge.

00:47:20.280 The Ledge herself.

00:47:21.660 Manny MUA 733. 0.53

00:47:23.420 Period.

00:47:23.920 Love that.

00:47:24.460 And Lunar Beauty.

00:47:25.300 And Lunar Beauty.

00:47:25.740 Of course, my brand, Lunar Beauty.

00:47:26.720 I'm going to be wearing it on my whole face.

00:47:28.540 Yes.

00:47:28.960 Not me being like the CEO.

00:47:30.080 I'm being like, she's cute.

00:47:32.200 Yeah.

00:47:32.740 That's it.

00:47:33.240 Nothing else.

00:47:34.040 Nothing else.

00:47:34.340 And of course, LunarBeauty.com.

00:47:35.820 Yes.

00:47:36.260 Love that.

00:47:37.120 And for those of you who want to be featured on the next episode of the comment section show,

00:47:41.820 please make sure to tag me and all the TikToks you want me to bring here and rip like a phone book.

00:47:47.360 Please. 0.93

00:47:47.840 Like the most toxic masculine men. 0.97

00:47:50.140 Yes. 1.00

00:47:50.560 I'm just going to rip them right open. 0.97

00:47:52.020 Clean their taint. 0.97

00:47:53.180 I don't know.

00:47:53.540 I'm going to end that gooch. 1.00

00:47:54.960 Yes.

00:47:55.140 I'm going to go to town.

00:47:56.280 Please.

00:47:56.880 I'm going to paint the town red down there.

00:47:59.380 I'm going to scrubber.

00:48:00.060 Right?

00:48:00.860 Do you ever see people who don't wash themselves with like loofahs or gloves?

00:48:05.200 Have you ever seen that?

00:48:05.960 What do you mean who don't wash themselves with that?

00:48:07.100 Like sometimes.

00:48:08.120 You've never seen like dudes like showers.

00:48:10.020 They don't have anything to wash themselves.

00:48:11.680 There's just soap in there. 0.99

00:48:13.220 So what the fuck do they do? 0.99

00:48:15.040 They just free ball it. 1.00

00:48:15.680 With their hand?

00:48:16.520 They just be.

00:48:17.120 Yeah.

00:48:17.580 I mean like it's better than nothing.

00:48:19.780 But are they really using it?

00:48:21.400 Who knows?

00:48:21.780 Oh, honestly, I don't know.

00:48:23.120 That's that's that's a mystery.

00:48:25.560 That's unsolved mysteries right there.

00:48:26.800 They're sticking that bare hand in between your cheeks. 1.00

00:48:29.680 Who's doing that?

00:48:31.460 Not me.

00:48:32.200 Not me.

00:48:32.800 Not me.

00:48:33.120 I have a nice little Japanese material that's really that's scrubbing. 0.94

00:48:37.960 I have like little gloves that I literally put on.

00:48:40.460 That's so smart.

00:48:40.700 And I scrub.

00:48:42.160 I need to do that.

00:48:42.760 I'm actually going to totally do that.

00:48:43.300 Then go get a pair.

00:48:44.500 Get a glove.

00:48:45.360 Anyways, that's.

00:48:46.360 Wrap it up.

00:48:46.880 Get a glove.

00:48:48.760 Don't procreate.

00:48:49.400 Do yourself a favor.

00:48:50.400 Yeah.

00:48:53.060 Anyways, thank you so much for joining me on this episode of the comment section show.

00:48:57.320 If you want to watch full episodes, be sure to subscribe to Pass Your Bed Time on YouTube.

00:49:01.480 And also you can stream in on all streaming platforms available everywhere.

00:49:05.520 Every Wednesday at 12 p.m. Pacific Standard Time.

00:49:07.940 Thank you for joining us today.

00:49:09.860 Bye.

00:49:10.300 Bye!

The Comment Section with Drew Afualo - March 23, 2022

Toxic Masculinity ｜ Drew Afualo ft. Manny MUA ｜ THE COMMENT SECTION EP 6

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