TURN THAT YEARN UP Ft. LaurDIY & Jeremy Lewis ｜ The Comment Section Ep. 134
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On today's episode of the Common Section Show, we're joined by the couple to end all couples, Laura and Jeremy Woo! They are two of my favourite couples in the entire world, and I'm so happy to have them on the show.
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We fill up our Stanley Cup every morning and drop ice everywhere, and we're like, man, I wish we just
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had a little dog who was stoked on ice. Are you going to get that? Yeah. They're like, I just stepped
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in this. The fuck? Yeah, no, like, because I, they'll just, what's wrong with you? You sloth. You barn animal.
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Hey, everyone, and welcome back to another episode of the Common Section Show, starring me,
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your fave, who cares about me, onto the guest. Today, we have the iconic, the legendary,
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the couple to end all couples, Miss Laura DIY, and her husband, Jeremy. Woo!
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Hello. Welcome to the show. One of my fave couples in the world. Oh my god, thanks for having us.
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One of the few straight couples I'm friends with. Let's go! All my friends are gay. Same. I know, same.
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Same. Us too. Us too. We're each other's token straight. It started out as a joke. Literally. It's not a joke anymore.
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Yeah, it's not. Yeah, yeah, yeah. It very quickly became not a joke. No, we are very much like the token
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straight couple of so many of our gay friends. Same, same. They're always like, but you guys, it's not the same with you.
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You could pass. Yeah, they're like, it's not the same with you. Like, I hate straight people, but it's not the same with you.
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Thank you so much for coming on the show, both of you.
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I just wanted to see your mom again, to be honest.
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I'm so happy to have both y'all on the show. Y'all are legends, especially in the YouTube game.
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You've been on the internet for a long time now.
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It's when people hit you with like the, oh, you're so OG.
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I used to watch your videos when I was in elementary school.
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That's about the time I go, do you want a picture?
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I feel like, so I have a quarterly spiral, I would say, career-wise, emotionally-wise,
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personal-wise, like quarterly on a quarterly basis.
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And I feel like there was a point where, again, like referencing kind of like my older content,
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where I was making a content shift in terms of transitioning to like an older audience.
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And I feel like starting a new platform, like a podcast, is like a nice clean slate to be able
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And this was kind of, I think it was right before COVID started too.
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And so the only co-host and best option, obviously, is the one that was in my COVID bubble.
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Not that Moose and Diggy don't have like so much great things to say.
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I mean, you saw our house and our setup and stuff.
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I know, when I was telling Lauren about it, she was like, oh, this is all.
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Like I can press a record button and that's about it.
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They're like, wait, wait, wait, wait, really quick.
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So we, were you online during the era of the Roast Yourself rap parody music?
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Not like a, not an era that I'm proud of to have participated in.
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But in that era, we were both in other relationships and the company that Jeremy worked for, which
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was like an independent music distributor, had partnered with my management company.
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So, little old me in 2015, 16, trying to put my parody music on Spotify, got partnered with
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Jeremy's company, and he was the liaison between me and the platform, and so we had
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multiple calls and emails back and forth two years before reconnecting and being single.
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Which, which, like, fast forward five years, made it into my vows, which was, literally
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You know, like, we, I found him on social media, and I was like, oh, shit, I was like,
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And, like, his social skills, he can, like, carry us, like, speak a full sentence.
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Like, his, his, his general, like, hygiene is just, like, you know, quite solid.
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I think back to it, it's funny, because we had each other's numbers.
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But I will say, like, there was not a world where that information given to me in the work
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We had to, like, get reintroduced in, like, a different, I guess, perspective.
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It made it, it makes it even crazier that you were just, like, casually working together
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So then he saw me, two years later, like, fast forward, he saw me on Raya and was, like,
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This was, like, before it, like, really helped filter your DMs.
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Because what's funny is, like, I'll sit on the couch today just, like, checking them DM requests.
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Well, you know, like, the DM filters now are so good.
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Like, they've got them, like, categorized into, like, nice little folders.
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And I was, like, I'm, this is my first time being single in L.A.
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I was, like, I'd love to go on dates with people that, like, I know aren't going to be a serial killer.
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Like, trying to go on dates with people that have, like, some mutuals.
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It was funny, because, like, I called her to confirm before the first day.
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Yeah, I was, like, what are you calling me for?
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No, but it almost, like, was reverse psychology.
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Sometimes I think you're gaslighting me into thinking I'm weird.
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No, he called me, and, like, I'm, like, not, like, a phone call person.
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Like, an unannounced phone call, I'm, like, fucking, like, panicky.
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We went to a cute little restaurant around the corner from my spot.
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And then he also showed up with a dog toy, which was really nice.
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And what's funny is, this is, you must not have been, like, two.
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I'm too concerned with me being a serial killer, because the moment I gave it to you, like,
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you put it to the side, and then, like, at the end of the day, did you want to come
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That could have been the last time anyone saw you.
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Yeah, do you want to, like, hang out more a little?
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And then it was a very, um, I think I'd give you a cheek kiss.
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Like, I'm newly single, though, so I have no idea.
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Like, my first line to him on Hinge literally was, hey, friend.
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But, like, classic guy, I was like, all I need, no worries, the door is open.
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I think it's, it's, I think what your approach was very good, because it's, like, it's almost
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like when you adopt shelter dogs, you gotta, you gotta let them come to you.
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So, good men are kind of, like, whenever you're ready.
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No, Jeremy was, was a little bit awful before me.
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But, like, the, dating in LA, you, you look across the table, and you just see someone
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who's like, you've been on a lot of terrible dates, haven't you?
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Because, like, it, like, the expectations are, like, oh, that makes me sad to even think
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I was shocked when my boyfriend showed up on time.
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That's so funny, because I was ignoring my boyfriend, too, when he was initially talking
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We had, like, a pretty, like, not chill, like, first month or two.
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We went from not knowing each other at all to, like, hanging out pretty incessantly.
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Yeah, I mean, I feel like you and your boyfriend were the same.
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I think intentionality throws me off, because that's never how men have ever been.
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Because dudes have always been, like, bold and, like, saying things that, like, is, like,
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You would just see someone be, like, wildly bold in the street and, like, professing love.
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But, like, boo box on, like, the, at the window.
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Some people have been, like, bring back yearning.
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It's crazy, too, because I made a TikTok recently talking about that, like, with my boyfriend,
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Like, I said, he'd be like, can I see you tomorrow?
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But then past that, like, sometimes, like, one time I literally just didn't text him back
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He was going to meet my brother, and he was just so intentional.
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And then he called me out on it because I, like, made up a reason why I lied.
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He was like, I don't do anything I don't want to do.
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So if I tell you I want to see you, it's because I want to see you.
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And then he actually did show up and want to see you?
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And what's sad about that is that's, like, so exciting.
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How has it been, like, now that you're in front of the camera.
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But, like, the moment I got here, this is the last.
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Like, there was no part of me that was like, oh, this is not a life that I want to live.
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But I also, like, looked behind the cameras and was like, why does everybody have a Rolex
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And I'm looking over here at people that are all more talented than me.
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How has the transition back in front of the camera been?
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Especially on this side, because now it's more like social media.
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Yeah, I mean, I enjoy it, but also I think it's difficult to not, like, lose a part of
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And also, I don't have any interest in making this the main focus of, like, my life.
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And so there's a sense of, not, like, inauthenticity, but there's a sense of, like, when you don't
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want to do something forever and you already know that, but you are doing it regularly.
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Yeah, it's like a balance that you have to strike.
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Like, I'm curious, like, how has your relationship been on social media?
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Because I know social media, they love being in our business.
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So I had a super public relationship in my last relationship, like, on the daily vlog grind.
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So I think when Jammer and I started dating, I, like, kept him very protected and under
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wraps and offline for, like, a solid year before I even, like, posted anything about him just
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because I was, like, you know, nervous, scarred from past traumas of being, like, too chronically
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online and, like, letting people in too much of the relationship.
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And I think, like, the issue with daily vlogs is that, like, you're editing together, like,
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So it's not, like, an accurate depiction of the reality of the relationship.
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And not that a podcast is either, but I feel like the conversations that we have together
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on the podcast, like, even if we broke up tomorrow, I would look back and be like,
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We're, like, talking about our opinions on, like, finances and relationships.
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Like, it just feels a lot more authentic where we're sharing just, like, our general
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opinions at the same time doing it together, but we're not sharing, like, this crazy part
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But anybody who's, like, one thumb scroll away and watching for four seconds and, like,
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But if you've been listening for 35 minutes and anything is said, like, you obviously are
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interested enough in, like, what we are saying or, like, we'll give the time.
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So, like, there's a little bit of, like, a, I don't know, like, a litmus test of, like,
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And just, like, when there's more context around any conversation, I feel like it's
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just a little bit, a little bit better as well.
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And then that kind of keeps some stuff private.
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Like, the stuff that you want to keep private, you keep private.
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And, like, when I started dating again, I was, like, I'm going to find me a man who posts on
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Like, is his face on the Wild Till Night Instagram?
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But, like, at Jeremy Michael 22 posts maybe twice a year is, like, our wedding collab post
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to go to, like, both of our friends and families.
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I was, like, this is the kind of person that I need to be with.
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Like, sometimes in a relationship, like, when you're kind of, like, the one in front of the
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camera, there's only space for one sometimes, depending on the personality.
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Well, and it's also, like, it's nice to, like, my boyfriend's the same way.
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Like, I've talked to my other girlfriends in the industry, and you know this, too, I'm
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Like, you guys have lots of friends, too, who may be single right now.
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Like, but I've told you, you need a man that's, like, online enough to, like, get your references
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But not so online that he's, like, someone, too.
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But, like, that's just for when it comes to the influencer space.
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My boyfriend is, like, a post on it twice a year kind of thing, too.
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And, like, the way that he's in your content, like, yesterday when, you know, he was, like,
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helping promote the tour, and you throw, like, a bucket, your dad throws a bucket of water
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Like, that's, like, an amazing way for him to, like, be a part of it, where it's, like, not
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But people still get, like, a glimpse into, like, him obviously being, like, funny and caring
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And, like, he's come on my show with my sister, like, on 2 Idiot Girls, and we had fun, and we had
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I'm like, can I just tell you about this thing, like, that doesn't matter?
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Like, he's just, like, he'll just chime in every now and then.
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Oh, my favorite has been, like, I'll be halfway through that 45-minute story and just go,
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The other day, I was like, this was, like, a month ago.
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I was literally, I woke up early because my alarm went off, and then I was obviously
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So, I'm, like, looking at everything, checking emails, whatever, and then I start watching
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videos, like, opinions or whatever, and then I watched one, and I didn't like it, and
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it was a mean video about Beyonce's new album, and I loved her new album, so I was
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like, what the fuck, when I watched it, and then I literally woke my boyfriend up, and
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And he was like, I am now, and I go, can I tell you about something?
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Like, I literally was like, and then, and then she said this, and that makes no sense
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because I was just going off, and then he was just staring at me, and he's like,
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like, listening to me, but his eyes were, like, barely open.
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And then he goes, I cannot believe, like, how many words you have right now.
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But I feel like, you know, sometimes you just need, like, got it.
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Like, if he's someone who's not, like, annoyed by that, because if I tried to pull that shit,
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No, but, like, I would, like, not a morning person, but, like, I know that.
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Like, I wouldn't try and be a yapper at 6.30 in the morning, because I know how that would end.
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I feel like I can be more of a morning person than you.
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I'm not, like, a wake up in the middle of the night and take care of the dog when they puke kind of person.
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Like, I can hear a dog gagging in the crate, and I can get his little, I can hold his ears back, get him in a trash can.
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But I've seen her, like, go from, like, dead asleep to just, he's going to puke.
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Yeah, just two little Lincoln logs just living in our house.
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And they're, one of them's completely deaf, and we fostered him for, like, a month.
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And then, so, my first baby's name is Squid, and then my second baby's name is Tuna.
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Were you, like, nervous to have to raise a dog that couldn't hear you?
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I feel like, well, okay, so Squid we've had four, he's now two, which makes me want to
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kill myself, because when he dies, I'm going two.
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Mine could, mine could never be insured, if I'm being honest.
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I didn't get it initially, which was a mistake on my part.
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But honestly, within eight months, my baby Squid started having problems because he's a Frenchie.
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Issues, like, honestly, like, if you have the time and the money, they're wonderful dogs.
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And, um, but he was perfect, like, for the first, like, six to seven months, and then
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And so, like, now he has, he's, like, I call him, like, my peanut allergy kid.
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Dude, and that shit, I couldn't, when I first started putting him on it, it's because
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He would vomit, like, any time, like, anything.
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He would eat, and then an hour later, he would, like, and it, the way he would vomit, like,
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I would take him to the vet, and I'd be, like, something's wrong with him.
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Like, I just kept telling him, something is wrong with him, and they're, like, oh, it could
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He's okay now, because I had to take him to a specialist, because I took him to literally three
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different vets, and they all kept telling me, oh, it's probably a Frenchie thing.
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Yeah, I was, like, I don't believe you, and his vomiting is not normal, and so I took him
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Like, what do you mean his vomiting isn't normal?
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The vet asked me, the specialist, she goes, can you describe the kind of vomit?
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Like, how, I was, like, okay, have you ever seen The Exorcist?
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And then when her head spins all the way around, and she vomits black shit, it just shoots
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You know in the beginning of Jurassic Park when that lizard goes, and it goes, that's what
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I was, like, what's your diagnosis for that shit?
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Like, I don't know what that is, but it's not normal.
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Yeah, she, uh, that's when we found out he needs prescription kibble.
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She's, like, most Frenchie, he probably has a food allergy, that's what it is, and she's,
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Not our dogs being on the same fucking prescription shit.
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Like, you have to buy it from the prescription bed.
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Yeah, and you have to, like, submit the prescription script to get the freaking kibble.
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And it's, like, it's one of those where it's, like, he cannot eat anything else.
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We used to call them ice cookies, because he would, every time he hears the ice machine,
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he would go and sit, and then he'll shake and lay down.
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We literally just talked the other day about how we wish that our dogs were excited about
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ice, because we fill up, like, our, like, Stanley Cup every morning and, like, drop ice everywhere,
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and we're, like, man, I wish we just had, like, a little dog who was stoked on ice.
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No, like, because I, they'll just, ugh, what's wrong with you?
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I think to myself, though, like, the, like, pups in natural selection, it's been decades.
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It's that we've, we've allowed some of the softest boys.
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The Bull Terrier was bred to be a fighting dog.
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Like, they, they move, and in, almost in slow motion.
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I mean, she leaves, and they look at me like, what are you going to do for us?
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They'll, like, start doing rounds, and then they'll, like, think it's her.
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By the way, I'm the one gonna feed you tonight, guys.
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He was like, how can I win them over right now?
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Wait, so it's Moose, and then what's your other book?
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And so we adopted Moose's dad about two years ago.
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I grew up next to a full-size Bull Terrier, who was so sweet.
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And was, like, buddies with him, and then when I moved to L.A., there was a mini Bull Terrier
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who lived in my building in Hollywood my first year in L.A., and I was like, oh, shit.
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A small spoon, a small Tabasco, anything mini, I'm in.
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I do have a small spoon collection from different restaurants.
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I would never klepto from, like, a small business or a small, like, family-owned restaurant.
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But, like, if I'm in a cheesecake factory and they bring on a small spoon, that shit's
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So, anyways, met the mini Bull Terrier, and I was like, oh, this is amazing.
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I also, like, want to be able to pick up my dog in an emergency, like, would love to have
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Small dog, not for me, because I also don't want to, like, actually kill it if I trip over
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But in an emergency, at 40 pounds, I want to be able to scoop you up and go.
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Just in case of a fire, you're, like, practicing picking them up.
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Because our dogs are going to fucking, if there's a fire, dead.
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If there's a fire across the street, they'll, like, run to it.
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Like, yeah, they're dead if we don't do something about it.
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And so, from, like, six months, we would take him.
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Like, we could, like, park him in a corner and, like, walk across the gym.
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So, he's really good in, like, public and everything.
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And so, we took him to my parents' house because we were all, like, swimming at my parents'
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And he just runs and launches himself into the pool.
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And he, mind you, he's been to my parents' house many times.
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And, like, when he was sinking, I was, like, grab him, grab him.
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But he was fine once we put him on the sidewalk.
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And then Brittany was, like, well, he just jumped with so much confidence.
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Was, like, and, like, they love, like, baking in the sun.
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Lauren's biggest fear is that we're going to send our dogs to daycare and they're not going
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Can you just make sure he just doesn't cook for too long?
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Yeah, could you, like, could you limit his sun exposure?
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You're like, I would like to have a meeting with you, please.
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Her mom is, I think, beginning to become concerned she won't have enough time for a
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Between, like, the six cents of the yakking and, like, the sunscreen application, it's a full-time
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Well, like, for dogs that, like, don't have a ton of fur, they don't really have fur, like,
00:29:03.840
It's all snoot, and it points straight up at the sun.
00:29:05.580
So, like, it really does need, like, a little layer of SPF.
00:29:12.800
You're like, when he's 40, he's going to have wrinkles.
00:29:19.700
Yeah, I adopted tuna, my boyfriend and I, because.
00:29:23.840
No, we had squid for, like, a year and some change before we got tuna, but the reason
00:29:29.540
why we got tuna, because we were entertaining the idea of another dog, but then I started
00:29:34.400
And so we were like, oh, I don't know about two, like, we knew we wanted to get another
00:29:37.960
Frenchie, but squid, because he was an only child, he started, like, he's the perfect
00:29:47.760
No, it's just any time he was around other dogs, he would just get so excited.
00:29:59.120
Literally me as a child, when I, like, finally, because I'm only a child, like, I'm like,
00:30:07.540
Yeah, social interaction with other children my age.
00:30:09.920
And I was like, dude, I feel like he's a homeschool kid, and he's not socialized properly.
00:30:15.020
I was like, that window is closing, and then he's going to be annoying.
00:30:17.240
Like, we're going to be that couple with a dog that can't be around other dogs.
00:30:20.460
And a lot of my family and friends have other dogs, like, and they would just get so annoyed
00:30:27.220
And Frenchies have a lot of energy, and they love to, like, do the little nipping and the biting,
00:30:31.540
which is not aggressive biting, but not all dogs like that energy.
00:30:35.540
And so I was like, okay, I don't want him to, like, try to play and then get attacked or
00:30:39.920
something, so, like, we need to get him a friend.
00:30:42.180
Like, I was like, I need to get him a fucking friend.
00:30:45.400
And you got him one that was deaf, which is strategic.
00:30:52.380
I, like, found him on a website, and then I, like, messaged the guy.
00:30:56.320
But I wrote that, like, we already have a Frenchie.
00:31:01.380
Like, we're more than equipped to take care of him.
00:31:07.580
And then the guy even told me, he was like, honestly, the reason why I picked you guys
00:31:10.580
is because you said you have a Frenchie and you understand their high maintenance because
00:31:14.120
But when we went to go meet him at the dog park, he was so cute.
00:31:17.740
Like, you know, like, he was a man taking the pictures.
00:31:30.140
I was, like, showing the pictures to my family and they were, like, oh, cute.
00:31:38.380
I was, like, I'm telling you, I have a good feeling about it.
00:31:39.980
And then when we met him, my boyfriend was, like, he's way cuter than I thought he was
00:31:55.860
One was from, like, a hundred yards away, it felt like.
00:32:01.540
He goes, yeah, you know, he hasn't really had any problems.
00:32:04.200
Like, he had one issue with his back, but he's good now.
00:32:08.460
And then he goes, also, I can't confirm this, but I think he's deaf.
00:32:16.940
And I was, like, have you gotten him to take test it, to get tested for it?
00:32:20.240
And he goes, yeah, but the reason why I took him was because on Fourth of July, like, where
00:32:24.580
he lived, there was, like, a huge fireworks thing.
00:32:27.440
And so a lot of, they always send out things to people with dogs.
00:32:36.860
And then I was, like, because I thought Squid was deaf.
00:32:42.380
The pool interior actually has that same quality.
00:32:49.420
Yeah, but, like, the crack of a banana from 300 feet away.
00:32:52.820
No, because Jeremy really did think that, like, Diggy, our new dog, had hearing issues.
00:32:56.320
He was, like, I really think there's something wrong.
00:32:57.860
And I was, like, bitch, fucking sit down and watch this.
00:32:59.980
And literally I put a piece of toast in the toaster.
00:33:05.000
And, Diggy, you hear the little paws coming towards you.
00:33:12.880
And I'm, like, well, he could just be a bad listener.
00:33:15.420
So when I took him, we fostered him for, like, a couple weeks before we adopted him.
00:33:20.120
And I was, like, just did, like, a whole little physical.
00:33:25.720
And then the guy told me when he took him to the vet, it's not affecting his quality of life.
00:33:29.060
So, you know, he was saying, like, it's probably not worth getting a test because it's, like, $400 or whatever to get a hearing test.
00:33:37.600
You can't stand on that side and I'll stand on this side and not clap.
00:33:39.620
Well, that's why my vet was, like, well, I could test it.
00:33:44.340
Open up the bag of the favorite food behind him.
00:33:47.500
Well, he, like, he slammed something down on the counter and that made him look.
00:34:09.420
Well, ours picked up epilepsy, like, week three, week four.
00:34:13.180
He had had a seizure, like, a year before we adopted him.
00:34:18.980
And we're, like, here's all his, like, medical records or whatever.
00:34:46.660
I think maybe it was probably in his first year that he did have a seizure.
00:34:58.260
And when we brought him home, like, they meshed well.
00:35:15.360
I think he just didn't want to, like, spend the money to get him tested.
00:35:22.700
Thankfully, like, he has completely 180'd Squid.
00:35:29.000
Because they would, like, WWE wrestle on my couch.
00:35:38.460
And then they take 10 minute breaks in between.
00:36:00.620
Squid was in a real, like, I'm going to WWE wrestle this bitch every single day.
00:36:08.800
And because Tuna's deaf, it doesn't bother him as much.
00:36:20.320
Are there any other artists that are aware that the other exists yet?
00:36:34.280
They'll do WWE SmackDown on their couch for, like, about 60 seconds once a day.
00:36:40.440
And that's kind of it for, like, acknowledging each other's existence.
00:36:44.340
But, like, they'll wake up in the morning and, like, sniff each other and be, like, oh, are
00:36:48.520
Like, did you forget that you also live with this dog last time?
00:36:58.620
Aren't you glad you're, like, you're raising something with your boyfriend just to, like,
00:37:01.660
get a sense for what he does and doesn't care about in that, like, style?
00:37:10.500
The one thing my boyfriend, like, just struggles with severely is dog shit.
00:37:22.640
Like, he would rather clean, like, human vomit than clean dog shit, which I don't get.
00:37:31.740
I don't, I've never thought to myself I'd rather clean human vomit.
00:37:35.140
I've never been like, yeah, that's, that's the bullshit.
00:37:37.140
Well, me personally, I like to clean human vomit.
00:37:39.120
But I was like, I would rather clean a toilet than a kitchen.
00:37:43.080
Jeremy, brain cells, he walks in the kitchen, brain cells exiting.
00:37:57.360
Do you just not like cooking or do you not like cleaning?
00:38:06.880
But I come back sometimes from having seen, like, the mess that I left and I go, what happened?
00:38:17.840
And I walk in, I'm like, what the fuck is this tornado in here?
00:38:20.500
Is the elf gonna take care of it that we don't have?
00:38:30.620
I do want to be clear, though, that, like, although Jeremy cannot, cannot literally function
00:38:33.700
whatsoever in the kitchen, all of our tech stuff and, like, security of our house,
00:38:37.060
like, we have a very, like, balanced household, I'd say, so, like, I don't want anyone to,
00:38:43.960
Like, Dave, week two, you were like, you take the trash out.
00:39:04.100
Yeah, the problem is Lauren doesn't like to cook, so.
00:39:08.760
We're on that, like, meal delivery service situation.
00:39:13.740
That's one of the greatest curses of this is the opportunity to eat out every fucking day.
00:39:26.880
My sister kept calling it the drink fridge because there was no food in there.
00:39:30.460
Yeah, because every time I buy food, I'm gone for weeks.
00:39:36.240
Like, so then I'm like, I can't buy groceries because I'm just gonna, they're gonna go bad.
00:39:40.840
But it's because I would grocery shop like how I did before I did this, which is like,
00:39:44.140
you know, you buy for the week or you buy for a couple weeks.
00:39:47.100
But now I have to buy in, like, two-day increments.
00:39:49.880
I literally shop, grocery shop, like, I'm gonna have to go on the run in, like, a couple days.
00:40:04.560
Just grocery shopping in general or just the vibes in there?
00:40:17.280
And I'm like, guys, this is where the deals are.
00:40:22.000
Because I don't like, like, I love Whole Foods.
00:40:24.520
I feel like they're, like, prep food is so great.
00:40:25.860
But I also want to be able to, like, buy the shittiest, most, like, fake bag of chips in
00:40:30.940
And, like, someplace, like, Whole Foods, you can't do that.
00:40:36.460
Give me, like, the fake shit with a preservative.
00:40:40.740
Oh, I tried the Haley Beaver smoothie for the first time.
00:40:50.160
I had to take out a second mortgage and then I got it.
00:40:55.120
I haven't heard one person like, this is gross.
00:41:05.620
I think to myself, if I had a smoothie named after me, one, it wouldn't be $30.
00:41:11.780
I think one of the things when people have like, you like this?
00:41:13.820
I feel like the consensus is like, it's expensive, but it's really good.
00:41:17.540
I can imagine like, oh, it sucks and it's expensive.
00:41:20.940
It's one of, it's like, I was, I saw a TikTok, because obviously I've been seeing people talk
00:41:27.420
And then I saw one TikTok of two grown men being like, can I tell you something?
00:41:32.280
They're like, that bitch knows her way about a blender.
00:41:35.140
I saw that one and I go, all right, I'm going to try it.
00:41:42.360
They didn't want to be able to go, this is stupid.
00:41:46.400
And I, and I went and I tried it and it was good.
00:41:51.360
There's a couple of things I feel like that have really changed Jeremy's life.
00:41:53.580
Like not only like now being his wife, like obviously that was like a life change as well
00:41:56.640
But the two things I feel like I got him off Carmex and onto Aquaphor.
00:42:02.400
I had no idea that I was putting salt in my lips.
00:42:04.180
This man, this man was drinking lukewarm room temp water and I got him a Stanley and I was
00:42:13.880
It's just me and the girls walk around with our jugs of water.
00:42:19.420
When I saw those Stanleys, like when they first started getting popular, I told my sister,
00:42:23.600
I was like, I think I need to try that white girl cup.
00:42:35.500
The things that I would get out of bed for once I'm already in, walk all the way downstairs,
00:42:39.460
walk all the way back when I have water sitting to my left.
00:42:52.380
I know there's stuff like that I've put my boyfriend on too.
00:43:07.220
You're like, I was actually fully cooked when I met him.
00:43:14.640
Like, as far as products go, I really don't know.
00:43:16.660
Because when I first started dating my boyfriend and I went in his room for the first time,
00:43:21.100
But he had like, one, his bed, it was like pushed in the corner.
00:43:26.900
And then when we moved in together, I was like, okay, so I want to rearrange some things.
00:43:42.280
And he was like, oh, does it have to be like that?
00:43:45.060
And I go, well, I'm not a teenager, so I'm not going to roll off my bed.
00:43:48.480
Do you want me to scoot to the end and get off?
00:44:04.260
And he was like, I know, but what does it hold?
00:44:10.080
He goes, oh, I just plug it in and put it on the windowsill next to him.
00:44:15.680
And I was like, okay, well, I don't have one, so we're buying end tables.
00:44:19.800
I think by like the single mother who raised me, I instilled a few of those things.
00:44:26.200
When I walked in the apartment, I was like, oh, this is a fully cooked man who like knows
00:44:30.080
It's funny too, because my boyfriend was raised by a single mom.
00:44:41.880
And there was nothing, yeah, and like there was, it was never going to be anything on
00:44:52.080
So it's like, why get a throw blanket if it's not going to be soft?
00:44:57.360
When I first moved in with my boyfriend too, I was like living, oh, this was right before
00:45:01.860
So I had like moved in and then I had to stay there because of COVID, but I was with his
00:45:08.380
And obviously because I'm moving in, I like have all of these products and like I have
00:45:14.820
And because I'm a Virgo, I know when my shit is touched.
00:45:18.060
And my boyfriend, yeah, so I would go in there and I would see things out of order and I was
00:45:24.260
And I would tell my boyfriend and I'm like, I think your brother's using my stuff.
00:45:32.380
Yeah, it was like, like my serums and my moisturizers and all that.
00:45:36.020
And I go, and I don't care, but where's he putting it?
00:45:43.280
I literally found out like he was like, like he's in a fucking Nordstrom.
00:45:48.380
But don't you just see a video of him by himself going, huh, let's try this out.
00:45:52.640
He was literally just sampling everything because they had never like done stuff like that
00:45:57.180
Like my boyfriend used to just put baby lotion on his face and that's it.
00:46:05.360
Literally, like dabs his wet, like water washed face off with the same towel that he wipes
00:46:34.500
But also he's white, so I'm like, you gotta step this up now or else it's gonna go downhill
00:46:40.300
I did notice that other white dude couples with Asian women, and I'm like, you look terrible.
00:46:47.720
If it gets too far, then it starts looking like I'm a mail-order bride.
00:46:54.000
I mean, when's the last time you saw a beautifully, like, oh, the white guy looks great at 80 and
00:47:07.180
So, yeah, I now go to her Botox doctor to try and just keep me frozen in time.
00:47:11.080
To keep the eyebrows at the level they're supposed to be.
00:47:24.040
Okay, so I've heard, though, that, like, if it stops the sweat in that area, but it'll find
00:47:30.520
That's like rolling the dice on a gamble that I don't know if I want to take.
00:47:35.960
Like my forearms, my, like, elbow pits are just, like, perspiring, and I'm like, I don't
00:47:42.920
Because I'm a sweaty girl, like, I get hot really easily.
00:47:46.120
Yeah, so I, and I sweat the most, like, on my hairline and, like, my neck area.
00:47:52.780
Oh, yeah, and it's the first place people look.
00:47:55.560
So, when I'm sweating, they're like, it's hot out here, huh?
00:48:03.620
No, like, if you were to, like, remember, like, the show Room Raiders?
00:48:08.640
If you were, like, go into our room and look at the bed and go, I wonder which side the
00:48:13.680
six foot four kind of hairy dude sleeps on, and you would think that it was hers, for sure.
00:48:21.260
But I'm also on, like, anti-anxiety medication, and that makes that, like, it makes it really.
00:48:31.100
So thanks for violating my HIPAA rights anyways.
00:48:35.340
Yeah, you definitely have more temperature issues than I do.
00:48:37.620
Yeah, no, but it really fucks with your, like, heat regulation.
00:48:39.520
If you're hot or if you're cold and you walk by the temperature on the wall.
00:48:45.460
If it was 72 degrees and you wanted to make it cooler.
00:48:52.820
But let's say it was, like, let's say you're already at 69.
00:48:55.680
And let's say, oh, you know, it's too cold in here.
00:49:08.040
Like, even in the car, it's, like, either the AC is at 10 or it's at 2.
00:49:24.900
So, like, living together, too, I've had to really adjust, like, comforters, like, sheets.
00:49:29.800
Like, I have to get comforters that are cool enough but still warm.
00:49:42.500
But do you both, you know, like, you can, like, tuck a sheet.
00:49:47.860
Do you like the nurse's corner or do you hate the nurse's corner?
00:49:49.980
Is that the one where it's, like, it does not move?
00:49:55.780
Like, one that goes on top of the fitted sheet.
00:50:05.300
So you're telling me that you're sweating directly into the comforter.
00:50:11.320
So the both of you are just too, just water pollinating.
00:50:14.920
And it just goes into the comforter every week, week over week, year after year.
00:50:20.220
When you could just have that one little sheet that you put that into the washer and everything
00:50:26.240
You know what's funny is the flat sheet goes on my bed when I'm washing the other sheet.
00:50:33.160
And that flat sheet's always clean because I never use it.
00:50:43.580
I just, I don't understand why you wouldn't want to keep.
00:50:59.380
Like I got to be able to kick a Lego and get it over on top of the comforter and stuff.
00:51:05.740
He wants me to be in a fucking asylum of flat sheet tucked into the sides.
00:51:09.880
I don't know because it'll just be kicked out over the week.
00:51:13.300
Eventually I'll get into bed and like it's just in the bottom of the corner of the bed.
00:51:18.120
Listen, I don't take responsibility for what happens when I'm on the front of this.
00:51:19.920
You guys are passively putting the sheet on and on and kicking it off.
00:51:24.820
Mind you, we have like that eight sleep thing where it's like changes the temperatures for both sides.
00:51:32.760
It's also not as soft because I have like a cooling blanket that I also use.
00:51:37.160
She's got the heat up with the cooling blanket.
00:51:55.140
My boyfriend doesn't really care about the flat sheet.
00:51:58.980
Listen, if this man didn't have end tables, he's fine.
00:52:02.020
One day you're going to have that conversation.
00:52:06.960
I know he's he starts to like he'll develop like really weird like things now, which I'm
00:52:14.740
I've been with you for seven fucking years and he never gave a shit about that.
00:52:23.120
He's like, when you do this, you have to put it back, which I am always doing that to him.
00:52:27.160
I'm like, hey, hey, hey, do you mind just maybe.
00:52:38.360
But then sometimes if there's only one in there, we share it.
00:52:40.540
But he'll take it out and use it to shave, but then won't put it back in there.
00:52:44.080
And I don't notice till I'm like balls deep in my everything shower.
00:52:48.060
Then I have to get out dripping wet and I have to creep over there and look for the
00:52:53.120
And then I'm like, you didn't put the razor back.
00:52:58.640
I have like two hand towels hanging on the stove.
00:53:05.260
And he uses it and then he puts it on the counter.
00:53:11.000
And I literally, the other day I go, if I like, I don't care how much time has
00:53:16.320
Every time you use this, like, I know it was you because it's in this exact
00:53:26.620
You have, um, and you, you, you made it very clear to me early on.
00:53:30.240
The sink should always look as if it's never been used.
00:53:33.540
Have you tried to clean dried cheese off of the bottom of the sink?
00:53:39.880
This sink should look like it came from Lowe's today.
00:53:49.700
When he lets a scrambled egg die in the sink and cook on there for like two days.
00:53:59.180
And then this is actually one that we haven't talked about and I'm so excited that we can
00:54:03.680
Is that after he showers, so we have like in our closet, we've got a middle island that's
00:54:08.560
got drawers, but like we always, we both have, we both have like, um, we both like throw,
00:54:15.180
you know, like it's like the corner chair in the bedroom that just like gets shit tossed
00:54:19.860
So, so we both like, we both have a bad habit of like throwing like, you know, a t-shirt
00:54:27.280
And then after he showers, he leaves his wet towel on top of both of our shit.
00:54:34.720
And so it's like, if my man does the same fucking thing, he's like, you just made all
00:54:46.900
Like, but, but, you're like, come over here and feel these.
00:54:53.900
I admit, I couldn't do better than that, but when's the last time I failed to follow the,
00:54:58.040
the, the key that you gave me for the dishwasher?
00:55:01.600
So she wants, she, there's a very specific place that she wants all the forks.
00:55:08.000
Back left, the spoons go front right, and then you've got the knife section, and then
00:55:12.460
you've got like the like ladles and things, and they must go, and they're one, and you
00:55:18.640
Again, I'm the kitchen elf who unloads the dishwasher, so it's like, just keep the fucking
00:55:25.260
But now, of course, every once in a while, like, you know, like her assistant or like
00:55:28.720
someone will be at the house or whatever, and like, I'll see a rogue for her.
00:55:34.860
She is not going to be happy when she sees that.
00:55:37.720
And you're going to want to hear it from me, not her, okay?
00:55:53.920
I don't know if I'm going to remember, but I'm going to try.
00:56:00.360
I wonder why it always does make it to the floor.
00:56:04.280
I just swore and I put this on top of Lauren's clothes.
00:56:08.800
I'm going to the wedding that we're going to this weekend.
00:56:11.540
When people ask how is life post-wedding, this is the conversation we should just present
00:56:20.220
Oh, I thought of something my boyfriend fucking hates that I do.
00:56:22.940
I just remembered as you were talking right now.
00:56:26.180
We sometimes share shirts, big graphic t-shirts and stuff.
00:56:34.700
And so he hates when I take off his shirts and I stretch the neck to put it so it doesn't
00:56:44.840
It's something that even if it's a little like this, he goes, throw it in the trash.
00:56:55.460
Also, I feel like that's the lesser of two evils between foundation.
00:57:06.480
Notice how when you walk in the closet, there's a left side and a right side?
00:57:17.880
And that was the last time any laundry of mine was done by her.
00:57:20.920
My boyfriend's really particular about laundry.
00:57:24.320
We just like the clothes to look like what they look like when we put them in the washer and dryer.
00:57:36.420
Oh, she's just waiting for something bad to happen.
00:57:39.340
But socks, though, I'll just throw them in there.
00:57:41.760
And my boyfriend's like, the socks are like blue?
00:57:52.660
And I have very few things I enjoy in this life, and that's one of them still.
00:57:55.260
No, honestly, they'll highly recommend fucking up the laundry early on in the relationship
00:58:22.220
Well, it's like, you don't have a dry clean either.
00:58:25.920
I don't want to buy clothes that need to be dry cleaned.
00:58:29.540
I don't want to buy clothes that need to be dry cleaned.
00:58:33.100
You still have to go out of your way to, like, schedule the drop-off and the pick-up.
00:58:39.540
The other thing my boyfriend really gets irritated about is lint.
00:58:44.500
Because she's never, like, emptied the lint drawer.
00:58:50.980
When I lived in Toronto, okay, so when I first moved into, like, my university residence,
00:59:00.360
It wasn't me, because I didn't know there was a fucking lint catcher.
00:59:03.160
My mom did my laundry until I moved out in high school.
00:59:12.220
So, eventually, I, like, am living on my own in Toronto, my fourth university.
00:59:15.780
And my boyfriend at the time was, like, he's, like, this is, like, my shit's not getting dry.
00:59:21.160
There had been a year and a half worth of fucking lint in this lint catcher.
00:59:25.360
It was one of those ones that's, like, a plate that gets inserted into the dryer.
00:59:31.020
The fact that I had not set that apartment on fire is so incredible to me.
00:59:34.540
That happened in the first house I lived with my boyfriend.
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Because he wasn't changing the lint trap either.
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But it's because we got a different washer and dryer.
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And he thought, I don't know if he just thought, well, this one doesn't have one.
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It's that one, that sneaky one that, like, lays flat and flush.
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Well, that, and then I remember, like, I don't know, month three of us hanging out, me maybe moving in probably about that point.
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I look up at, like, the air filter, and I go, it's awful black.
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I just think to myself, you would just be eating just toxic air.
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But I feel like between the two people, you just bring them together, like, you make up for the other person's idiot.
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Yeah, you train, you train, you trade brain cells.
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You're like, because then sometimes I'll do things for my boyfriend, and I'm like, you don't know this?
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We have that, but sometimes I go, is that a Canadian thing?
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And I used to believe that, like, some of these most, like, just atrocities to just the world were just, like, a normal thing somewhere else.
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And then, like, I would speak to anybody else who's Canadian, and they're like, that's not a thing.
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You should have just started saying it was Canadian.
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She told me their money smelled like maple syrup.
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So Canada rolled out these, like, plastic bills.
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You said someone told me, and you told him for a fact.
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Yeah, and I was like, yo, you know what I heard today?
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And she goes, so they rolled out this new bill.
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And I was like, I heard if you scratch the maple, it smells like maple syrup.
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So what did I do at the next meeting filled with a bunch of Canadian executives?
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Guys, you'll never guess I learned about your money.
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And, like, you could tell they were being so nice.
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You might want to go tell your Canadian girlfriend.
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Who do you think is the more social one out of you?
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It's just, like, I don't want to see people in the way that I used to see them.
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I think that's just getting older, to be honest.
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At the end of the day, I hear about all of the conversations you've had.
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I believe, like, you got to get, if I don't get, if I don't see it, what am I meant to
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When I, like, when I first started dating my boyfriend, because we knew each other in
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Like, I thought he was very extroverted like me.
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I am so, like, again, a yapper to my fucking core.
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I could talk for hours with no one in the room.
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Like, and I found that out as we were dating, because I was like, damn, you're, you're literally
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Like, I thought you were like me and you're not.
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And I was like, you actually hate talking, which is true.
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Um, even when we would walk in the grocery store, like past, like, Girl Scouts or whatever,
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or even kiosks in the middle of a mall, he always puts me on that side because he doesn't
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She would make me talk to the Girl Scout and say, no, we're, we're good today.
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Oh, you know, I would be the one that has to do like the, the interaction with the public,
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but I don't, but as far as like being social, that's like, if we're going to like go to
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But if there's like a hard email to send, I'm sending it.
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If there's a call, that's a little awkward email I can do, but like phone confrontation,
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Like a hard phone conversation, like communication with like friends and stuff.
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I'm totally fine with, but like if I had to like fire someone or like ask an uncomfortable
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But like by uncomfortable, like, you know, uh, confirming.
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Or if I had to like ask for a raise, like even something like that would rather die.
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I'm, I sometimes literally just go like, I was like, we should, we should just talk on
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Like, cause I don't know if you guys could guess this about me, but I am very confrontational
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And I'm always like, no, no, actually he doesn't want that.
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But just to kind of like wrap it, what would y'all say is your best piece of advice for
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couples in general, just like sustaining like a healthy relationship, but past that existing
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Cause like, y'all talked about how like, it's good that you have like separation now, like
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from your work life, especially working together too.
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I mean, I feel like for the work and relationship balance for us, like we really capitalize on
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focusing on our own personal strengths because I think we also too like mesh well together
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cause a lot of like his techie strengths and I've got like more like artistic creative
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And so we don't have, like we do have obviously some overlap, but like we, I think lean in
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the direction of just naturally being better at different things, which just worked out
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So like, I really let him, I let him take the reins on like all the tech stuff and you
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We've always also been like, if like our relationship comes first, no matter what.
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And if that means that we're sacrificing a fucking ad read, like who gives a shit?
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That's not, that's not the priority by any means in terms of like putting our relationship
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Like we sat down before we started the show and like, I literally created a priority stack
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and I wrote down like, what, what are the three things that we care about in, in the
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We both agreed at any point in time, any of the things that are below number one get in
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I don't care if we have, I don't care if it's a contract.
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I don't care if there's money on the table over there.
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And so I'll, we can work with you, but like it's done.
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I do apologize for the inconvenience that's causing you, but like, we can't move forward
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And I just don't think that there's that many problems that would be as big as they've become
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for people if they just talked about it earlier.
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I feel like we talk about resentment a lot on our podcast about how it's like the moment
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that you start feeling any kind of resentment, I feel like you have to nip in the butt and
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Like even, even acknowledging that like, okay, this might be really stupid and feel really dumb
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And I want you to know how I'm feeling and I'm starting to feel this way.
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And so before it becomes like a bigger issue, I feel like resentment is just like the most,
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And it can just make things go so south so fast.
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Like because the person who's feeling it often doesn't want to admit they're feeling it.
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Like I'm always like, I later on, I'm like, let me tell you why I was upset with you,
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But I want you to know why I feel, I felt stupid at the time.
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And like now I realize it, but we haven't talked about it.
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But I want to talk about it anyway, just like, so you're aware.
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And like the amount of times I feel like I've said that and halfway through the conversation,
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I realize more about why I'm upset in the first place is like, I don't know.
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I've had so many epiphanies like that where I'm kind of like, I just want to tell you
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I just want to tell you so I can get it off my brain and then it can die.
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But then it dies versus like, then it kind of just festers and gangrene.
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And I feel like also too, as soon as both people in the couple are aware of something
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that's happened before, it like sets you up for success in the future if you encounter
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And like, if you don't respect your partner, I don't know how much communication is going to help.
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Like if you really don't think that like they're...
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If you fucking hate your boyfriend, you should leave.
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I even think you could hate somebody, but if you respected them, you could get to a better place than that.
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Because a lot of guys just don't respect their partner.
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And like, I'm like, oh, you legitimately at a certain point, you're like, ah, yeah,
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but like they're just not capable of earning your respect.
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Yeah, like there's no foundation to build anything on.
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You think you're on this pedestal and you think she's on this one.
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Yeah, it's like communication is built on trust.
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And if you don't trust that your partner is capable and sentient enough to understand
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and like offer them respect, then you can't communicate problems to them.
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But I think that's wonderful that y'all were like, we come first.
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So like any problems past that, like, I don't give a fuck about this enough to like lose
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The check is never going to be big enough that it's worth it to like lose your whole relationship
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And if there's anyone out there that maybe wants to like try and search something up.
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Literally, Jeremy's got his, you know, biannual Instagram post.
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We're wild till nine on podcasts everywhere you get your podcasts.
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Do you have an Instagram account for your dogs?
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Honestly, Moose has got some like sizable brand deals.
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I'm like, oh, so you did better than me this month?
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I could have made as much as Moose to when I first moved to LA for the first, I don't
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My manager's like, so I guess I'm repping a jog now.
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But he skipped the ramen noodle diet, went straight to filet.
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Thank you all so much for joining us on this episode of the comment section.
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I don't even know when y'all are going to see this, but I was on their podcast.
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