The Comment Section with Drew Afualo

00:00:00.000 What do you want people to know about f*** boys or f*** boys?

00:00:05.060 Honestly, guys, don't do it.

00:00:07.820 Don't do it in the missionary position.

00:00:09.420 Don't do it.

00:00:10.560 Just don't do it.

00:00:11.440 Promise?

00:00:11.820 Don't do it.

00:00:12.400 All right.

00:00:12.640 Everybody get some rubbers.

00:00:18.120 Hey, everyone, and welcome back to another episode of the comment section show with me,

00:00:22.340 your favorite girl, the one and only.

00:00:24.260 Today, I'm with one of my faves, one of the first people to ever have me on her podcast,

00:00:29.780 Miss Cammie Crawford, Miss Catfish, Miss Catfish, Universe, and Neve is Mr. Catfish.

00:00:37.360 Yeah, basically.

00:00:38.740 Basically.

00:00:39.220 I'm so happy to have you, dude.

00:00:40.560 Thank you so much.

00:00:42.080 Seriously.

00:00:42.540 Me and Cammie go way back.

00:00:43.800 Way, way back.

00:00:44.860 So my first week of my podcast, Relationship, I had to have Drew on to talk about anything,

00:00:51.740 honestly, but we talked about f*** boys, and it was one of our best episodes that we've

00:00:56.080 ever had.

00:00:56.380 Oh, stop.

00:00:57.240 I promise you, people were so excited to see you on there.

00:01:01.040 You have the most amazing fan base, honestly.

00:01:03.660 I know.

00:01:04.220 They're incredible, and honestly, funnier than me sometimes.

00:01:06.480 I find it disrespectful for them to be so funny.

00:01:08.720 You're like, chill out?

00:01:09.260 Yeah.

00:01:09.680 Calm down.

00:01:10.120 Take it down a notch.

00:01:11.060 All right?

00:01:11.340 Take it down.

00:01:11.840 I'm the star.

00:01:12.600 That's what I always like to tell them.

00:01:14.220 But me and Cammie, we literally, I think I was like, God, not even.

00:01:18.340 I was like only a few months into like being a creator.

00:01:20.760 It wasn't even full time at the time.

00:01:22.300 Really?

00:01:22.580 And then I went on your podcast.

00:01:23.760 Yeah.

00:01:24.340 I wasn't even signed to anybody at the time.

00:01:26.320 So we launched that in September.

00:01:28.960 Yeah.

00:01:29.240 And I think we had you on probably in like October.

00:01:31.700 So that was the beginning.

00:01:32.940 And now look at you.

00:01:33.900 Yeah.

00:01:34.460 Seven mil later.

00:01:37.240 All the dead balding bodies behind me.

00:01:39.880 Oh.

00:01:39.900 The carnage I've laid waste.

00:01:42.520 Carnage.

00:01:43.620 The carnage.

00:01:44.900 Every time I see one of your videos, whenever I see the clip of somebody saying some bullshit.

00:01:49.880 Yeah.

00:01:50.280 And then I see you go.

00:01:53.100 Yeah.

00:01:53.700 I'm like, oh, she's about to go away.

00:01:55.220 I literally told them, I'm like, that's me rebooting after I have to watch it.

00:01:58.860 Yes.

00:01:59.240 I have to like restart a little bit.

00:02:00.980 Annihilation.

00:02:01.300 In my palate.

00:02:02.480 You know what I mean?

00:02:02.780 Yeah.

00:02:03.300 A cleanser.

00:02:03.960 Yeah.

00:02:04.240 A little cleanser.

00:02:06.340 I love it.

00:02:06.640 Me and Cammie go so far back.

00:02:08.100 It's like so funny.

00:02:08.940 We always like run into each other at events.

00:02:10.700 Yes.

00:02:11.040 And then events you go to, I don't go to.

00:02:13.220 And then I go to, you don't go to.

00:02:14.540 Yes.

00:02:15.020 And I always have FOMO because I'm like, I could have seen Drew.

00:02:17.940 I could have talked to Drew.

00:02:19.220 Because sometimes I don't go to events because I'm like, I don't want to talk to anybody.

00:02:22.560 I feel you.

00:02:23.220 Everybody's weird.

00:02:23.940 I feel you so hard.

00:02:24.960 And then I see the one person that I love.

00:02:27.720 Can talk to.

00:02:28.040 And I'm like, great.

00:02:29.540 Great.

00:02:30.120 Thanks for the invite.

00:02:31.060 I missed it.

00:02:31.540 Honestly.

00:02:32.120 Also, Cammie's Miss Sports Illustrated too this year.

00:02:35.780 Everyone go look up Cammie's Sports Illustrated spread.

00:02:39.000 You look so good, girl.

00:02:40.280 Thank you.

00:02:40.720 Yeah, go look at my butt.

00:02:41.760 Go look at my butt.

00:02:42.780 Take a look at my butt.

00:02:44.160 That's so incredible.

00:02:45.380 Were you so excited?

00:02:46.400 I was beyond excited.

00:02:48.600 But also, like, it was something that I had wanted for a really long time.

00:02:53.140 Yeah.

00:02:53.480 But just never thought would happen.

00:02:56.540 Because like, what a far-fetched dream.

00:02:58.680 No, truly.

00:02:59.540 Like, who thinks that something like that is going to happen for them?

00:03:04.180 Or expects it to happen.

00:03:05.320 Yeah.

00:03:05.680 But like, also low-key, I think my Scorpio God complex, like, back in the day, was like,

00:03:09.700 this is going to happen for me.

00:03:11.420 The ultimate manifestation.

00:03:13.160 I know.

00:03:13.660 Cammie's a Scorpio, and I love Scorpio women.

00:03:15.660 I tell people all the time how much I love Scorpio women.

00:03:17.820 I think the only Scorpio man I really love is Chris Clemens.

00:03:20.560 Like, he's a Scorpio, and I love Scorpio.

00:03:22.200 Is he Scorpio?

00:03:23.000 Yeah.

00:03:23.940 And I love, Scorpio men are very hot and cold.

00:03:27.420 It's very hit or mess.

00:03:28.240 Hot button topic.

00:03:28.720 Yeah.

00:03:29.500 Men, period.

00:03:30.500 Men, period.

00:03:31.040 But you're Virgo rising?

00:03:32.240 Virgo rising, Libra moon.

00:03:34.000 Oh.

00:03:34.520 She's got a lot going on.

00:03:35.680 The Libra keeps you grounded.

00:03:37.060 Otherwise, you'd be off the rails.

00:03:39.160 I feel like the Libra keeps me in the sky.

00:03:41.160 Does it?

00:03:41.600 In delusion.

00:03:42.380 You think?

00:03:43.000 In the land of delusion.

00:03:44.300 My boyfriend's a Libra.

00:03:45.640 Yeah.

00:03:46.660 He's a Libra.

00:03:47.800 Wow.

00:03:48.560 Taurus moon.

00:03:49.900 Sagittarius rising.

00:03:50.660 We're both Sagittarius rising.

00:03:51.600 Ooh.

00:03:52.300 I know.

00:03:52.900 Spicy.

00:03:53.300 We fought a lot in the beginning.

00:03:54.460 We're okay now.

00:03:56.120 Spicy.

00:03:56.720 Yeah, the communication part was a little hard.

00:03:58.520 In the beginning.

00:03:59.280 Oh, my God.

00:04:00.120 I can imagine.

00:04:00.780 Because as my Sag Venus.

00:04:02.380 Yeah.

00:04:03.340 It's hard.

00:04:04.460 It is hard.

00:04:05.540 Especially with Libras are stubborn.

00:04:07.860 Yeah.

00:04:08.440 Yeah.

00:04:08.640 And like I said, the delusion.

00:04:11.840 It's the delusion of it all for me.

00:04:13.280 Yeah.

00:04:13.500 One time my boyfriend told me, he's like, when we fight, like, you just talk so fast and you're

00:04:17.460 so like, you have everything you want to say already and I can't keep on.

00:04:20.580 It's the Virgo.

00:04:21.460 That's how I'm saying.

00:04:22.760 Any time I want to annihilate someone between my Scorpio sun, my Scorpio Mercury, and my Virgo

00:04:27.860 rising, I have listed, like, sheet protectors, laminated binders full of information.

00:04:36.600 That's not what she said two years ago.

00:04:37.940 Yeah.

00:04:38.200 On January 10th.

00:04:38.760 Let me go back to February.

00:04:40.700 Yeah.

00:04:42.200 February 14th.

00:04:43.480 Valentine's Day.

00:04:44.260 Yeah.

00:04:44.580 This is where you had me.

00:04:46.340 I know.

00:04:46.780 Sometimes I'll literally be like, do you really want to talk about that?

00:04:49.140 Because we can, because I have several things I have to say, too, if you want to bring some

00:04:52.400 stuff up.

00:04:52.940 Are you sure?

00:04:53.860 So.

00:04:54.320 Are you sure?

00:04:55.100 Do you want to go there?

00:04:56.700 Okay.

00:04:57.240 But thankfully, we're good now.

00:04:59.220 Therapy helps.

00:05:00.200 It does.

00:05:01.000 It really does.

00:05:01.900 I highly, I advocate for therapy all the time.

00:05:03.420 Yeah.

00:05:03.660 Yeah.

00:05:03.880 My therapist.

00:05:04.820 Everyone.

00:05:05.500 I asked her if I was her funniest client.

00:05:08.620 She said yes, of course.

00:05:09.900 But I feel like she was just trying to appease me.

00:05:11.480 Yeah, exactly.

00:05:12.460 Be honest.

00:05:13.140 Did you say swear on my life then?

00:05:14.640 No.

00:05:14.820 I literally was like, don't lie to me.

00:05:17.760 Yeah.

00:05:17.880 I know it's true.

00:05:19.400 Because of the Libra delusion.

00:05:20.580 Yeah.

00:05:20.960 I know it's true, but don't lie to me.

00:05:23.660 I feel like my boyfriend's Libra.

00:05:25.220 Maybe it's the Taurus, too.

00:05:26.560 It's very like, it'll be fine.

00:05:28.980 Just about everything.

00:05:29.860 Yeah.

00:05:29.960 Because I stress so badly about things I can't control because that's my Virgo.

00:05:34.080 But he's always like, it'll be fine.

00:05:36.280 And then I go, well, how do you know?

00:05:37.520 How do you know?

00:05:38.260 And he goes, because it will.

00:05:40.280 Yeah.

00:05:40.480 And I just can't, I cannot even fathom thinking like that.

00:05:44.260 I wish so dearly I could.

00:05:46.160 That's the internal battle that I have.

00:05:47.660 Because I have the Virgo where nothing is turning out right.

00:05:50.720 Everyone's going to know that nothing is right.

00:05:52.440 Yeah.

00:05:52.580 Everyone's going to know that the smallest detail is missing.

00:05:55.100 And then I'm going to die.

00:05:55.120 The smallest detail that nobody knows about except for me.

00:05:58.560 Yeah.

00:05:59.920 Everybody's going to find out.

00:06:00.860 Yeah.

00:06:00.960 And then the Scorpio is like existential dread.

00:06:02.960 Yeah.

00:06:03.220 Like it's over.

00:06:04.300 The world is ending.

00:06:06.240 And I might as well just not even be here.

00:06:08.400 Yeah.

00:06:08.660 And then Libra's like, but it'll all work out in the end.

00:06:10.480 It always does.

00:06:11.240 Yeah.

00:06:11.360 And the Virgo and the Scorpio are like, shut up.

00:06:12.640 I'm like, he's literally my Libra.

00:06:15.740 That's why I'm genuinely like, but how do you know?

00:06:18.260 Yeah.

00:06:18.460 It's like, cause it always does.

00:06:19.640 I'm all, but what if this time it doesn't?

00:06:21.160 Yeah.

00:06:21.560 Well, what are the odds?

00:06:22.280 I'm like, I don't know.

00:06:24.180 That's why I'm like, that's the point.

00:06:25.540 That's why I'm so upset.

00:06:27.240 100%.

00:06:27.600 Everything is failing.

00:06:28.900 I know.

00:06:29.480 That's why he's, it's like grounding for me to have a Libra.

00:06:32.980 Maybe I'll find one for myself.

00:06:35.060 Highly recommend.

00:06:35.840 Yeah.

00:06:36.080 I like Libra men.

00:06:36.980 Yeah.

00:06:37.560 What kind of men do you stay away from?

00:06:39.860 Pisces.

00:06:40.940 Pisces men.

00:06:41.560 And Cancer.

00:06:42.260 Honestly.

00:06:42.740 And Cancer.

00:06:42.960 Water sign men.

00:06:43.840 That's so funny.

00:06:45.080 No.

00:06:45.200 My brother's a Cancer.

00:06:46.260 Sorry.

00:06:48.180 He has the most chaotic big three.

00:06:50.200 It's like Cancer, Sun.

00:06:52.340 I think he's an Aries, Moon, Gemini, Rising.

00:06:56.220 Chaos.

00:06:57.060 Are you okay?

00:06:58.420 Is my mom okay?

00:06:59.560 Do we need to talk about this?

00:07:01.780 Oh my God.

00:07:03.280 Chaos.

00:07:03.640 Chaos, but the rest of his chart like kind of balances it out because you know how like

00:07:08.460 same, my dad's a Pisces.

00:07:10.960 So isn't that so strange?

00:07:12.020 Like I, I, whenever I talk shit on astrological science, like some, like I started Capricorn

00:07:17.260 slander once, like, and I was leading a hate train so much so that I got it to trend on

00:07:21.360 Twitter.

00:07:21.700 I was just going off like on Capricorn.

00:07:23.360 Capricorn slander.

00:07:24.660 Capricorn slander all day, every day.

00:07:26.380 That's so funny.

00:07:27.280 Cause like, I just like have such a strong feeling about Capricorns.

00:07:30.800 I don't have any feeling about Capricorns cause I feel like I don't meet any, except for

00:07:34.740 the women and the women that I know are like bad-ass.

00:07:37.100 Like they're on there and they're good.

00:07:38.520 And I always say to you, I'm like, this only applies to men.

00:07:41.280 Everything only, everything negative.

00:07:43.080 That's negative.

00:07:44.200 Men.

00:07:44.960 Like it's like, file this mail cabinet.

00:07:47.640 Yeah.

00:07:48.000 They suck.

00:07:48.700 Yeah.

00:07:49.220 And a lot of people, I was like, what, what's the sign that gets the big like side eye from

00:07:53.520 you?

00:07:53.880 And everybody said Pisces men.

00:07:55.960 Yeah.

00:07:56.320 And cancer men.

00:07:57.020 Yes.

00:07:57.540 You want to know why?

00:07:58.180 Every single person.

00:07:58.660 Because they're terrible.

00:08:00.540 That's why they are quite simply, they're terrible.

00:08:03.900 To put it plainly, they're awful.

00:08:06.020 I think it's cause they're so emotionally in tune.

00:08:08.480 Like most water signs are, but then they like manipulate you.

00:08:11.320 They are so manipulative and they, because they are so emotionally in tune, they can really

00:08:16.660 like make you feel like they are sorry.

00:08:20.620 Like things are going to change.

00:08:22.160 Like, and they really, they, they sell it.

00:08:24.500 Yeah.

00:08:24.820 They sell it.

00:08:25.400 It's like a bill of goods.

00:08:26.240 And then nothing.

00:08:28.420 Yeah.

00:08:28.740 Then they just like forget.

00:08:30.160 Then they gaslight you.

00:08:31.160 Oh yeah.

00:08:31.680 Yeah.

00:08:31.940 Oh, it's what would ever make you think that I wouldn't do that to you?

00:08:34.940 Cause you told me you wouldn't do it to me.

00:08:36.860 Oh, it's kind of probably why you listened.

00:08:38.760 Yeah.

00:08:39.020 And they're like, that seems like it's kind of on you.

00:08:40.740 Sorry.

00:08:41.720 Sorry, babe.

00:08:42.360 That's why I asked.

00:08:42.940 Cause it leads right into our topic for today.

00:08:44.940 Cause speaking of men that we avoid, right.

00:08:47.440 We're talking about boys today.

00:08:50.080 Boy behavior.

00:08:51.260 Right.

00:08:51.620 We were well aware, very familiar.

00:08:54.740 Yes.

00:08:55.120 Have you had experiences with boys in the past?

00:09:00.280 I told you Pisces men.

00:09:02.320 Right.

00:09:02.760 I feel like it's, I feel like it's a rite of passage for women who unfortunately like

00:09:07.960 men.

00:09:08.460 Yeah.

00:09:08.840 1000%.

00:09:09.580 That's a rite of passage.

00:09:10.320 And that is why I was thinking about this the other day.

00:09:13.800 Yeah.

00:09:14.380 If I was given the choice at birth, what do you want to like?

00:09:18.940 That's what I'm saying.

00:09:20.080 Do you think that I would have chose men?

00:09:21.920 Yeah.

00:09:22.120 You think I would have put myself through this?

00:09:23.800 Wasn't a choice, babe.

00:09:24.760 It wasn't.

00:09:25.240 It was not a choice.

00:09:25.800 And if it was, I would choose women.

00:09:27.760 1000%.

00:09:28.040 I would choose women every time.

00:09:29.540 Every single time.

00:09:30.300 First of all, we're clean.

00:09:32.060 Yeah.

00:09:32.680 Gorgeous.

00:09:33.460 Right.

00:09:33.760 Smart.

00:09:34.440 Yeah.

00:09:35.640 Emotionally in tune.

00:09:36.680 Emotionally in tune.

00:09:37.960 Communicative.

00:09:39.100 Right.

00:09:39.740 Like, so loving.

00:09:42.200 Nurturing.

00:09:42.520 Them?

00:09:44.400 What do you bring to the table?

00:09:45.680 Nothing.

00:09:46.080 And then they have the nerve to ask us, what do we bring to the table?

00:09:48.620 They always, they always ask that.

00:09:50.880 You can't even build a table if you want to.

00:09:52.100 That's why I said, you don't even have a seat on this table.

00:09:54.520 You know nothing about carpentry.

00:09:56.040 Yeah.

00:09:56.320 The whole, what do you bring to the table argument, I've shot down a million times, but I always

00:10:01.020 tell people like, you don't have a seat at this table, so don't worry about what's being

00:10:04.140 served, babe.

00:10:05.320 You don't need to worry about it.

00:10:06.240 It's none of your concern?

00:10:07.100 None of your concern.

00:10:08.020 Because like, you don't even know where the restaurant is.

00:10:09.720 Like, I didn't even send you the location.

00:10:11.000 I didn't send you the Addy, bro.

00:10:12.040 So what are you worrying about?

00:10:13.080 What are you doing here?

00:10:14.300 It's like, and only the like worst types of men ask questions like that.

00:10:17.880 Yes.

00:10:18.140 With nothing to offer.

00:10:19.340 They have nothing.

00:10:20.380 The ones on TikTok that make these long drawn out videos.

00:10:23.380 I can't tell you.

00:10:23.920 Oh my God.

00:10:24.320 When I posted a clip from my podcast.

00:10:28.380 Yeah.

00:10:29.120 And it was about the fact that I am not doing wifey shit anymore.

00:10:32.140 Yeah.

00:10:32.660 Because after being in a five year long relationship where all I was doing was wifey shit and I

00:10:36.760 didn't end up with a ring or wifey status and you still want to act up.

00:10:41.240 Now moving forward in my dating life, I'm not doing wifey shit anymore.

00:10:44.700 And I had a bunch of men being like, well, we're not doing husband shit anymore.

00:10:48.120 Well, since when?

00:10:50.880 Since the beginning of time?

00:10:52.300 You guys haven't really been doing that.

00:10:54.560 When were you ever doing husband shit?

00:10:56.060 That's what I'm saying.

00:10:56.720 When were you ever doing anything that qualifies as husband shit?

00:11:00.880 They're like, I was about to start and I saw this video and now I'm never going to do

00:11:04.560 it ever.

00:11:05.400 You could kiss that goodbye, lady.

00:11:07.040 Great.

00:11:08.080 Great.

00:11:08.780 And I literally had to tell them like, this does not apply to you because I would never

00:11:12.720 have sex with you.

00:11:13.540 Oh my God.

00:11:14.140 So you don't even have to worry about this.

00:11:15.380 The amount of times I've had to say that, dude.

00:11:17.260 I've literally said like, it'll never not be funny to me when you have someone who's

00:11:21.280 ugly trying to tell you you're ugly.

00:11:22.740 Yeah.

00:11:22.880 Like, okay.

00:11:23.680 Oh yeah.

00:11:24.700 Yeah.

00:11:24.880 Looks like twins.

00:11:26.440 Yes.

00:11:27.200 Twin behavior.

00:11:29.100 But you know that I was getting the opposite comment.

00:11:31.620 I was getting, she's pretty, but she's never going to be able to get a man.

00:11:34.900 Oh wow.

00:11:35.900 Because my track record says otherwise.

00:11:38.160 Yeah.

00:11:38.440 Sure.

00:11:39.060 Sure.

00:11:39.360 But the thing is, you would never qualify.

00:11:41.860 Yeah.

00:11:42.260 Like you don't need to worry about it.

00:11:43.780 Just the audacity in general, like to think that you're even in the same lane.

00:11:46.360 Go ahead and log out for me.

00:11:47.300 Yeah.

00:11:47.680 Like go ahead and log out for me.

00:11:48.760 Go ahead and put the ranch away from me, babe.

00:11:50.260 That's why I'm so like, oh, it, it, it always kill.

00:11:54.880 It kills me when they say shit like that.

00:11:56.500 They're like, oh, like a woman, like, like this kind of behavior, like you can, you're

00:12:01.160 never going to settle down.

00:12:02.280 My girlfriend would never.

00:12:03.680 Oh, if we were dating, we're not.

00:12:05.960 We're not.

00:12:06.380 That's why I made one to these, like, that's not like, like if you were my girl, she's not.

00:12:10.940 She's not.

00:12:11.780 Take that thought, go ahead and pluck it out of there and throw it in the trash.

00:12:14.940 And that's why you're upset.

00:12:16.100 First of all, because you could never bag that.

00:12:18.020 So you don't need to worry about what she's wearing.

00:12:19.500 And it's talking about.

00:12:21.360 Oh my God.

00:12:21.860 Yeah.

00:12:22.180 It's genuinely so like quitting before you get fired.

00:12:24.600 Yes.

00:12:24.900 They're like, you're not even looking in their direction.

00:12:26.840 They're like, just so you know, I would never date you in a million years.

00:12:29.380 I would never date you ever.

00:12:31.140 You never had the qualifications.

00:12:32.300 You're like, okay, same.

00:12:34.040 I would never date you.

00:12:35.180 You never met the standard.

00:12:35.700 Well, that's you being, that's you being superficial.

00:12:37.980 Like they literally turn the tables on you every single time.

00:12:40.880 Then so be it.

00:12:41.360 They move the goalposts every time.

00:12:42.900 They're like, well, actually that's a little different.

00:12:45.140 And I've talked about this before, but like the whole idea of like creating a fantasy

00:12:52.860 in which you get rejected.

00:12:55.080 That's weird.

00:12:55.940 Why are you romanticizing that?

00:12:57.340 You're cosplaying, getting rejected.

00:12:59.480 They're like me in a bar.

00:13:01.080 And they're literally like, the girl's like, I want a man who's rich.

00:13:04.480 And he's like, oh, I just want to get to know you.

00:13:06.100 She's like, get out of here.

00:13:07.600 They're wearing a towel on their head.

00:13:08.900 Yes.

00:13:09.180 I'm like, girl, you're acting this out for yourself.

00:13:12.200 Like when does this happen to you?

00:13:14.100 Yeah.

00:13:14.340 And then you go, how many times has this happened?

00:13:16.140 Well, never.

00:13:17.400 But if it did, she wouldn't be my girl.

00:13:20.200 Yeah.

00:13:20.920 That's the point.

00:13:21.780 Okay.

00:13:22.000 Well, yeah.

00:13:23.100 Cause in make believe land, anything's possible.

00:13:25.120 I mean, like if I closed my eyes and imagined I could make up anything in my head.

00:13:28.880 Yeah, exactly.

00:13:29.480 That's weirdo behavior.

00:13:31.180 They have too much time on their hands.

00:13:32.060 Yeah.

00:13:32.340 And it's, and it's always the same dude.

00:13:34.640 Oh yeah.

00:13:35.040 There are carbon copies of each other.

00:13:36.600 They're all just copy, paste, copy, paste, copy, paste over and over and over again.

00:13:39.320 Yeah.

00:13:39.460 Saying the same thing, regurgitating the same thing.

00:13:41.660 Yeah.

00:13:41.780 It's like, what do you bring to the table?

00:13:43.820 I would never date you, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.

00:13:45.820 It's like, okay.

00:13:46.480 And it's also like, clearly the plane that was boarding with the point, you missed it.

00:13:51.820 Yeah.

00:13:52.540 Girl.

00:13:52.800 You missed it.

00:13:53.380 Left on the tarmac, babe.

00:13:55.940 You're still at TSA.

00:13:57.040 Literally Top Gun style.

00:13:58.060 You're so far behind, bro.

00:13:59.340 You flew off into space.

00:14:00.180 And you missed it because they'll be like, well, if you're not showing men what it is that

00:14:06.400 you can do, how are they supposed to know if they want to wife you up or not?

00:14:09.340 Okay.

00:14:09.960 Clearly, I'm not saying that I'm just going to meet a man and just sit there and look

00:14:13.880 pretty and not say anything.

00:14:15.380 No one ever said that.

00:14:16.200 But what I'm saying is I'm not going to be finding you a therapist, doing your laundry,

00:14:20.440 cooking you food every single night.

00:14:21.880 Yeah.

00:14:22.460 Doing all of the activities.

00:14:23.680 Look, see, my fucking jewelry can't even take this.

00:14:26.020 Doing all the things and then getting nothing, getting zero benefits.

00:14:30.460 And you're not giving me anything.

00:14:32.800 Well, because you don't need them for anything else.

00:14:34.680 That's why I said we've reached a point now where women don't need you to get a bank account

00:14:39.100 or buy a home or buy a car, which is what we needed for so long.

00:14:43.820 Yes.

00:14:43.960 Because they were like, back in the day.

00:14:45.180 I'm like, oh, like during segregation times?

00:14:47.120 Yeah.

00:14:47.800 Yes.

00:14:48.080 I wish I want to go back to there.

00:14:49.440 Yeah.

00:14:49.780 You got bigger issues, babe.

00:14:51.340 You got bigger problems, babe.

00:14:52.760 Don't worry about that.

00:14:53.500 So you want separate water funds.

00:14:54.560 Yeah.

00:14:54.820 That's why I'm like, I'm like, you mean during like when women had no rights, like when women

00:14:59.640 couldn't even vote.

00:15:01.060 Yeah.

00:15:01.180 Is that what you're talking?

00:15:02.020 Yes.

00:15:02.280 Okay.

00:15:02.440 Different issue.

00:15:03.060 But that's why with stuff like that, you have to like, just be nice now.

00:15:07.140 You have to be a good person.

00:15:08.240 Yeah.

00:15:08.600 You have to be self-sufficient.

00:15:09.920 And men are like, too much.

00:15:11.300 Yeah.

00:15:12.060 All you bitches want is all these things.

00:15:14.160 You just want money.

00:15:15.360 Yeah.

00:15:15.500 They're like, you just want a one percenter, man.

00:15:17.200 I mean, I'm not going to say no, but at the same time, that's not what I said.

00:15:21.000 I said, be nice and respectful and don't be a bigot.

00:15:23.640 Yeah.

00:15:23.920 That's too big of an ask.

00:15:25.620 They're like, that's, well, now.

00:15:27.600 I can't even be a bigot.

00:15:29.440 I can't even be a Kanye fan anymore.

00:15:30.960 Yeah.

00:15:31.100 You're like, now what?

00:15:32.800 What's next?

00:15:33.860 Like, they're like, so like blown away.

00:15:35.920 Like, geez, there's just everything.

00:15:38.220 You guys have such high standards, which is, and it's the bar is like so remarkably low.

00:15:42.120 I've talked about this before with other guests, but like when you ask single women

00:15:46.320 and who are interested in men and they want to date men, what they're looking for.

00:15:50.180 Yeah.

00:15:50.540 You're like, what are you looking for in a man?

00:15:51.820 They'll literally be like someone who's like nice, respectful, clean, you know what

00:15:57.740 I mean?

00:15:57.940 Like maybe not mean to your mom.

00:15:59.680 Like doesn't believe that putting soap suds between their ass cheeks is more than enough.

00:16:04.600 Is gay.

00:16:05.280 Uses a washcloth, like, you know, real base level.

00:16:08.640 Gets in there.

00:16:09.060 Yeah.

00:16:09.540 And then if you ask the same kind of dude, like who's also single, but terrible, what

00:16:13.980 they're looking for, nothing but looks.

00:16:16.120 I want big titties, no tummy, big act, like no attitude.

00:16:19.920 Yeah.

00:16:20.220 It has nothing to do with the internal.

00:16:22.480 It has to only do with the external.

00:16:24.080 And that's how I was like, that's how you know the bar's in hell.

00:16:26.440 Yes.

00:16:26.780 Because women are like, just be nice to me.

00:16:28.120 Yes.

00:16:28.560 And they're like, well, how about no?

00:16:31.980 How about no?

00:16:32.940 Are you willing to trade in exchange for maybe something else?

00:16:36.040 Maybe other.

00:16:36.880 What about I have a beard?

00:16:38.860 Yeah.

00:16:40.320 I mean, I don't live with my mom.

00:16:41.780 Is that good enough?

00:16:42.760 It's like, it's, it's truly like, that's why I'm like, hold your standards high.

00:16:46.260 Keep them high.

00:16:46.800 You have to keep them high.

00:16:47.720 These riffraff, like they'll, they'll literally wash to the side and you'll find somebody who

00:16:51.300 deserves you.

00:16:52.260 No, truly.

00:16:53.400 Scoundrels.

00:16:54.220 So we're going to go into these videos, but for those of you who are new, what we like

00:16:58.700 to do here on the comment section is we like to take videos that I was tagged in that

00:17:01.860 are applicable to our topic and we bring them here.

00:17:04.200 We break them down.

00:17:04.840 We make fun of them.

00:17:05.520 I'm like, men cry always.

00:17:07.080 That's always top of list.

00:17:08.540 That's like on my, the, my top of my to-do list all the time.

00:17:11.180 It's my internal to-do list.

00:17:13.340 So this first video, I just like to give summaries of them.

00:17:15.900 It says, when you say something like, I just took a shower and they say without me, it's

00:17:21.300 a real s*** boy line, right?

00:17:22.880 I mean.

00:17:23.740 Or when you send like a selfie and they say, go lower.

00:17:26.720 When you're talking about something random and they say, my parents aren't home and they

00:17:29.820 send you a winky face, you should come over.

00:17:32.380 They always say this kind of stuff when you talk to them at night, especially, right?

00:17:36.420 It's real like F boy behavior.

00:17:38.400 It's the shower for me.

00:17:40.140 Without me?

00:17:41.100 Sir, I have a $40 body scrub and I am literally lathered from head to toe in shaving cream.

00:17:50.480 Yeah.

00:17:50.980 No, I don't want you.

00:17:51.820 No, without, that's my me time.

00:17:53.320 Get out.

00:17:54.140 I don't need you.

00:17:54.720 I have a Joe Malone candle burning and I've got a nice playlist going and you being a

00:18:00.900 part of that never was in the equation.

00:18:03.480 Never, ever, ever.

00:18:04.380 You're like, oh, I'm getting ready to go to a funeral and they're like, without me?

00:18:08.080 What are you doing?

00:18:08.800 Showering?

00:18:09.920 Without me?

00:18:11.360 Yeah.

00:18:11.960 You're mourning the loss of your father without me?

00:18:13.920 Actually, I just had explosive diarrhea and now I'm cleaning myself.

00:18:17.220 So yeah, without you.

00:18:18.260 I just shit myself.

00:18:19.400 I literally just shit my pants.

00:18:20.580 Shit.

00:18:21.100 Without me?

00:18:22.380 That's why I said just say the most wrong.

00:18:24.720 Wild thing.

00:18:25.660 Like, let me just say, like, I'm literally digging for treasure right now.

00:18:29.300 Yeah.

00:18:29.600 I'm like, truly, I have a metal detector.

00:18:31.440 I'm outside.

00:18:32.100 I'm in my bathing suit.

00:18:33.560 Yeah.

00:18:33.800 And they're like, bathing suit?

00:18:35.640 Without me?

00:18:36.480 None of the other things.

00:18:37.200 Nothing.

00:18:37.600 Nothing.

00:18:37.940 I'm digging.

00:18:38.480 I'm desecrating graves and they're like, what are you wearing though?

00:18:42.120 Naked?

00:18:42.800 Is this a thong?

00:18:45.320 It's so cringy, dude.

00:18:46.820 Like, doesn't it give you the ick?

00:18:48.120 It's disgusting.

00:18:48.960 The absolute ick of it all.

00:18:50.540 I've talked about icks before a little bit on my podcast with my sister.

00:18:54.600 Two Idiot Girls.

00:18:55.500 We just did episodes on icks.

00:18:57.860 This is a huge ick, obviously.

00:18:59.720 Okay.

00:18:59.900 What's your biggest ick?

00:19:01.040 My biggest, biggest, biggest ick?

00:19:02.700 I've described it on the show before.

00:19:05.100 Well, I'll change it.

00:19:06.160 I'll do another one.

00:19:07.500 One of them is like when men plug their nose and jump into water.

00:19:11.880 They're like, grow up.

00:19:12.920 Grow up.

00:19:13.560 Grow up.

00:19:14.380 Literally, you're not going to drown.

00:19:15.440 Actually, drown instead of doing that.

00:19:17.080 Do you know what mine is?

00:19:18.320 I just discovered it.

00:19:19.480 I was talking to my therapist.

00:19:20.260 Oh, my God.

00:19:20.600 I would love to hear it.

00:19:24.700 It's a safe space here, Cammie.

00:19:27.360 We talked about it.

00:19:28.300 I've just realized it.

00:19:29.740 I've known it for a while.

00:19:31.080 Yeah.

00:19:31.740 But it really came to fruition the other day.

00:19:34.560 Okay.

00:19:34.840 And I was hanging out with this man.

00:19:36.100 Mm-hmm.

00:19:36.440 And he started to doze off.

00:19:39.600 And I realized, sleepy men are my biggest ick.

00:19:47.280 I don't want to see you wake up.

00:19:48.920 I hate when they wake up and their eyes are so beady and they have the crust.

00:19:54.040 And they just look so vulnerable.

00:19:55.540 I just don't like it.

00:19:56.980 And then they have a drool crust.

00:19:59.160 I hate it.

00:20:00.620 I hate it.

00:20:01.520 When they're falling asleep, he was literally falling asleep and then was trying to act

00:20:06.560 like he wasn't.

00:20:07.820 So then he asked me a question.

00:20:10.100 He was like, what's your favorite color?

00:20:11.340 And I was like, go to bed.

00:20:12.560 Go to bed.

00:20:13.780 Actually, I'm going to punch you in the face.

00:20:16.940 I'm going to knock you out.

00:20:18.140 So you can go to sleep.

00:20:19.640 Or you go to the movies with them and they start falling.

00:20:22.860 Be a man.

00:20:23.860 That's so good.

00:20:24.340 What if somebody came in to attack us right now?

00:20:27.120 You're half asleep.

00:20:28.360 Alpha men don't sleep.

00:20:29.660 Don't sleep.

00:20:30.300 Stand up like a vampire and just stay awake 24-7.

00:20:33.800 Like, literally, don't close your eyes.

00:20:35.500 Why are you sleeping?

00:20:36.960 As a man?

00:20:38.600 Why are you sleeping?

00:20:41.040 As like the alpha, you know what I mean?

00:20:44.400 What are you so tired from?

00:20:47.280 Exhaustion?

00:20:47.860 What are you tired from?

00:20:49.160 Wake the f*** up.

00:20:51.060 And get out of my house.

00:20:53.000 I don't like it.

00:20:54.420 I don't know how to explain it.

00:20:56.100 That's so f***ing funny.

00:20:56.700 Every time they wake up and they're like...

00:20:59.300 You know?

00:21:00.580 Like, when they come out of it a little, like...

00:21:02.400 Zombie?

00:21:02.600 No, what's worse is, like, when you shake them awake and they're scared and they're not expecting it.

00:21:06.820 Yeah, and they go like...

00:21:07.900 And they're, like, blinking like this.

00:21:10.000 I hate it.

00:21:10.940 Literally, like, grow up.

00:21:12.460 Literally grow up.

00:21:14.440 Why are you five years old?

00:21:16.060 You're like, when they hit REM, ew.

00:21:18.060 Ew.

00:21:18.720 You're dreaming?

00:21:20.180 When they're dreaming.

00:21:21.260 Are you dreaming about me?

00:21:21.960 Who are you dreaming about?

00:21:24.120 Yeah.

00:21:24.320 If not me, then who?

00:21:25.360 But, look, is that not the same as, like, showering without me?

00:21:28.860 Are you dreaming?

00:21:29.420 Was it about me?

00:21:30.020 Yeah, was it about me?

00:21:30.660 No.

00:21:30.960 Is it not the same?

00:21:31.740 Yeah.

00:21:32.200 You're like...

00:21:33.320 Actually, I had a nightmare and you were in it.

00:21:35.240 Yeah.

00:21:35.340 I don't know if you count that.

00:21:36.680 Like, I had a nightmare.

00:21:38.480 I had a dream I killed you.

00:21:39.560 That's what you should say after that.

00:21:40.760 They were like, did you dream about me?

00:21:43.060 No.

00:21:43.340 I had a dream I killed you.

00:21:44.440 I don't know if that's the same.

00:21:45.480 I had a dream you cheated on me.

00:21:46.160 So, I guess, technically.

00:21:47.420 Right?

00:21:48.600 That's so funny.

00:21:49.540 That's a great face.

00:21:50.520 Dude, I'm sleeping.

00:21:51.660 That's so funny.

00:21:51.980 Do you have any others?

00:21:53.140 I mean, that's, like, my biggest one right now.

00:21:55.080 Yeah.

00:21:55.600 I don't know what it is about it.

00:21:57.340 The new moves, I feel you.

00:21:58.240 But my therapist agreed with me.

00:21:59.560 I thought she was going to be like, let's unpack.

00:22:02.240 She's like, let's unpack what this is about.

00:22:04.480 She was like, oh, same.

00:22:05.460 What is it about male vulnerability that makes you disgusted?

00:22:10.000 But that...

00:22:10.720 It just looks so...

00:22:11.520 I attribute, like, icks to, like, them looking silly to me.

00:22:16.060 Yes.

00:22:16.180 It makes my butthole clench, bro.

00:22:18.540 I hate it.

00:22:19.280 It folds in on itself whenever I see them do certain things.

00:22:22.540 God, what was it?

00:22:23.560 The one I described on one of my other episodes and people were like...

00:22:26.420 I'm like, it's an ick.

00:22:27.880 It's funny.

00:22:28.260 Let's all laugh.

00:22:28.880 It was literally when men are, like, enjoying themselves at a concert by themselves.

00:22:33.020 Like, it's like a dude that, like, came up, tagged along.

00:22:36.180 Yeah, and they're like, oh, my God.

00:22:38.780 There's something about it.

00:22:39.960 I just want to, like, literally run up and deck them.

00:22:42.280 I just like that.

00:22:42.860 I can't control it.

00:22:43.320 Why are you having fun?

00:22:44.120 As a man, why are you enjoying yourself?

00:22:45.880 Why are you enjoying yourself?

00:22:46.440 That's why I was like, am I just evil?

00:22:48.100 But, like...

00:22:48.580 I think it's because men just irritate the absolute shit out of me all the time, so...

00:22:53.480 The government is taking my rights away and you're having fun?

00:22:55.660 And you're having...

00:22:56.180 What's so funny?

00:22:57.200 Like, when they're enjoying yourself?

00:22:57.860 You're sleeping at a moment like this?

00:22:59.000 What's so funny?

00:22:59.880 That's like...

00:23:00.400 You're tired?

00:23:01.680 From what?

00:23:02.360 From what?

00:23:02.980 Yeah.

00:23:03.520 Getting on my nerves.

00:23:04.600 That has to be the only thing.

00:23:07.240 Have you noticed, too, that a lot of men twitch in their sleep?

00:23:11.000 Violently.

00:23:11.500 I'm like, are y'all okay?

00:23:12.700 I saw someone literally say that's the lies trying to leave their body.

00:23:15.760 Oh.

00:23:17.260 In the middle of the night?

00:23:18.520 Yeah.

00:23:19.000 And they'll, like, grab you or something?

00:23:20.680 Yeah.

00:23:21.080 Or they, like, hit you.

00:23:22.160 Sometimes they accidentally hit you in their sleep.

00:23:24.540 No.

00:23:24.820 Or when they wake up and they're like, what?

00:23:26.480 Yeah.

00:23:26.700 I wasn't talking to you.

00:23:28.860 Hmm?

00:23:29.380 Wasn't talking to you.

00:23:29.900 And they're all sleepy.

00:23:30.760 Hmm?

00:23:31.780 What'd you say?

00:23:32.900 Nothing.

00:23:33.260 Go back to sleep.

00:23:33.900 Shut up.

00:23:34.240 You're so disgusted.

00:23:35.320 Go back to sleep.

00:23:36.140 Go to bed.

00:23:36.660 You're so disgusting.

00:23:37.820 Ugh.

00:23:39.680 Don't call me.

00:23:40.420 I'll call you.

00:23:41.060 Yeah.

00:23:41.360 Thanks.

00:23:41.380 Just wait for my call.

00:23:42.360 Thanks.

00:23:43.040 Also, leave.

00:23:44.840 I just, and then I just, honestly, another ick.

00:23:47.160 Yeah.

00:23:47.880 When they won't leave.

00:23:49.300 Oh, they don't catch just a hint.

00:23:50.900 Sometimes, as a Scorpio, I just want to be by myself.

00:23:53.540 I feel that.

00:23:54.620 I need to recharge.

00:23:55.740 Yeah.

00:23:56.360 And I also don't want to have to explain to you, so I'm also a bad communicator.

00:23:59.960 Yeah.

00:24:00.200 So I'm not going to tell you that I need to be left alone.

00:24:02.120 Yeah.

00:24:02.200 But if you stick around far past the due date, you're like, girl.

00:24:07.160 Get out.

00:24:07.700 Leave.

00:24:08.200 Get out.

00:24:08.580 And you're sleepy on top of that?

00:24:10.480 Go sleep in your own house.

00:24:12.120 What are you doing?

00:24:12.620 Like, none here.

00:24:13.020 Keep up a house.

00:24:13.740 What are you doing for me right now?

00:24:15.320 I feel that.

00:24:16.040 Like, when they don't catch the hint.

00:24:17.640 I think purposely, they, like, don't take the hint that you want them to leave.

00:24:21.460 Mm-hmm.

00:24:22.100 Ugh.

00:24:22.400 That's so irritating.

00:24:23.760 But then when they want, then they make all these videos about post-nut syndrome and, like,

00:24:29.020 wanting the girl to leave.

00:24:30.160 We want you to leave, too.

00:24:31.540 Yeah.

00:24:32.420 Honestly, before that, and even more so after, they're like, get out.

00:24:36.520 Yeah.

00:24:37.220 Yeah.

00:24:37.860 Get out, dude.

00:24:38.840 Just leave, for f***'s sake.

00:24:40.580 Get out.

00:24:41.040 Yeah.

00:24:41.320 It's like just exhaustion.

00:24:42.600 You're like, oh, my God.

00:24:43.620 Now you want me to talk to you on top of that?

00:24:45.700 That's what's like.

00:24:46.580 Come on.

00:24:46.920 That's why I know men like that who say things like that, make videos, like, terrible like

00:24:50.960 that about, like, the post-nut syndrome shit.

00:24:52.600 Yes.

00:24:53.240 Is literally, I'm like, I know for a fact you have no bitches because, like, no woman acts

00:24:58.860 like that.

00:24:59.380 No bitches.

00:24:59.780 Like, I know for a fact you don't have, you get no puss whatsoever.

00:25:04.320 No.

00:25:04.400 Because if you did, you would know that women don't act that way.

00:25:07.800 Exactly.

00:25:08.080 Especially if it's, like, a friends with benefits situation or whatever.

00:25:11.000 Women are the first to leave.

00:25:12.740 I've always been the first to leave.

00:25:13.440 After a sleep, they literally put their clothes on and leave.

00:25:15.720 Put my clothes on and leave.

00:25:17.300 And I'll literally be like, thanks.

00:25:19.400 Yes.

00:25:20.020 You never buy.

00:25:20.840 Don't call me.

00:25:21.820 Appreciate you.

00:25:22.780 This is fun.

00:25:24.040 The most, like, it's the most intense form of delusion that they have.

00:25:28.540 Yeah.

00:25:28.660 They live in a fantasy world, truly.

00:25:29.920 Do you think that we're in love with you after five minutes of fame?

00:25:34.440 After mediocre dick?

00:25:35.980 Like, okay.

00:25:36.680 Pretty sure I'm good.

00:25:37.280 Sure.

00:25:37.660 Sure, sure, sure, sure, sure.

00:25:38.780 Pretty sure I'm good.

00:25:40.000 I'm going home.

00:25:40.800 I'm going to order a big bowl of ramen.

00:25:41.920 It took longer for me to shower, but, like, that's fine.

00:25:44.420 That's totally cool.

00:25:45.260 It's not a big deal.

00:25:46.180 I genuinely, when I was younger, whenever dudes, like, wouldn't catch the hint,

00:25:49.740 when I was with friends, like, you know, sometimes you're, like, a wingman,

00:25:52.580 so you go with your friends so they can hook up with someone,

00:25:55.300 and then you're kind of just, you're like, this is a business trip.

00:25:57.580 I'm here for her and her only.

00:25:58.760 I'm here to entertain you for a minute so that you don't try to play Xbox

00:26:01.720 You and I can talk across from each other on the couch.

00:26:03.520 Yeah.

00:26:03.680 So when I would go with my friends to these, like, meet and greets,

00:26:07.200 I'd sit there, and then sometimes if they came over to my house,

00:26:10.800 then I'd have to, like, entertain them like a baby.

00:26:14.140 You're like, do you like, what do you like to watch on TV?

00:26:16.700 Like, literally, like, a baby.

00:26:17.860 What are you in the mood for?

00:26:18.760 Yeah, they're like, what are you going to school for?

00:26:20.760 Like, it's, like, superficial shit.

00:26:22.840 If they, like, didn't catch the hint, I'd literally be like,

00:26:25.260 all right, you guys got to go.

00:26:26.640 Like, I started just telling people.

00:26:28.180 Yeah.

00:26:28.380 Because sometimes they won't read the room, and it's infuriating.

00:26:31.140 And I'm like, I have shit to do.

00:26:32.500 I'm tired.

00:26:33.180 Yes.

00:26:33.860 I want to take my pants off and go to sleep.

00:26:35.820 I want to take my pants off.

00:26:36.520 I want to watch The Great British Bake Off, and I want you to get out.

00:26:39.020 I want to be able to fart in peace.

00:26:41.180 Get out.

00:26:42.520 Literally, I want to take my bra off and lay down.

00:26:44.720 Get out.

00:26:45.260 Like, I genuinely would be like, all right, time for you guys to go.

00:26:47.900 Yeah.

00:26:48.080 Everyone's got to leave.

00:26:49.000 Thanks.

00:26:49.420 My friends were like, that's so funny.

00:26:51.020 Like, I was trying to, like, hint.

00:26:52.300 They don't read hints.

00:26:53.540 No.

00:26:53.660 Like, they, like, purposely ignore it.

00:26:54.760 No.

00:26:55.040 You have to grab them by the throat.

00:26:59.020 Whisk them to the room.

00:26:59.960 Like, literally, like, a security guard.

00:27:01.280 Yes.

00:27:01.500 Like, throwing them out.

00:27:02.920 Come with me.

00:27:03.500 Yeah.

00:27:04.360 They don't get it.

00:27:05.440 They don't.

00:27:06.100 It's just so gross.

00:27:07.680 So, the comments on this video, like, this first one says, they always want to be the

00:27:11.940 crustiest dudes, too, who say things like that.

00:27:14.020 Always.

00:27:14.940 It's the, can I, where my hug at type of dudes.

00:27:16.820 Yeah.

00:27:17.920 Without me?

00:27:18.960 Yeah.

00:27:19.620 Where my hug at?

00:27:20.260 They're like, or, like, when you're really, really mean to them because you don't like

00:27:24.040 them because they're creepy.

00:27:25.220 And then they're like, girl, you're always playing around.

00:27:28.100 I literally hate you.

00:27:29.280 Like, sometimes I've told.

00:27:30.920 I don't like you.

00:27:31.400 Men to their face.

00:27:32.340 I'm like, I literally hate you.

00:27:33.540 Like, I can't stand you, bro.

00:27:35.120 And they laugh and they think I'm kidding.

00:27:37.960 I'm like, you guys joke.

00:27:39.400 You guys are ill.

00:27:40.520 It's not a joke.

00:27:40.900 Like, I'm literally telling you to your face.

00:27:42.020 I hate you.

00:27:42.720 Yes.

00:27:43.260 I was talking to this guy that my friend was talking to the other day and she FaceTimes

00:27:47.800 me and he takes her phone and starts talking to me.

00:27:50.300 And he was so annoying.

00:27:51.640 Yeah.

00:27:52.100 That I literally was like, you're bothering me.

00:27:55.440 Give my friend back her phone.

00:27:56.760 He was like, ah, you're so funny.

00:27:58.300 I said, no, actually, you're getting on my nerves.

00:28:00.260 And you're like, okay.

00:28:01.640 Pass the phone back.

00:28:02.620 Go ahead and pass that back, bitch.

00:28:04.280 Yeah.

00:28:04.540 I genuinely, sometimes I'm just like.

00:28:08.980 I'm not trying to be mean.

00:28:10.420 No.

00:28:10.920 But like, I don't have to like you either.

00:28:12.700 Like, sometimes too.

00:28:14.000 Like, yeah.

00:28:14.360 Like, boyfriends of friends or whatever.

00:28:16.320 Or like guys they're dating or seeing.

00:28:18.560 They're like, oh, your friend's like, she's like kind of a serious one, huh?

00:28:21.580 I'm like, I just hate you, dude.

00:28:22.800 Just don't fucking like you.

00:28:23.680 I find you repulsive.

00:28:24.880 Like, you disgust me.

00:28:25.460 I think you're disgusting.

00:28:25.920 But I'm also, I'm not dating you, so.

00:28:27.500 Can't believe my friend is allowing you to get on top of her.

00:28:29.340 Yeah, literally.

00:28:30.040 Like, my friend deserves better, I guess is what I'm trying to say.

00:28:32.280 I guess I think like you're disgusting is probably like where I'm getting.

00:28:35.500 I guess when it really comes down to it.

00:28:37.240 Yeah.

00:28:38.020 Like, I guess like.

00:28:39.500 You repulse me.

00:28:40.560 Yeah.

00:28:40.820 If I'm, yeah.

00:28:41.280 To put it simply, I wish you were dead.

00:28:43.860 So, like, sometimes I hate, like, I genuinely be like, nah, I just hate you, dude.

00:28:49.500 And they'll be like, oh, you're just so funny.

00:28:51.720 You're so funny.

00:28:52.540 You're crazy, girl.

00:28:53.680 And they're like, all right.

00:28:54.680 But at least you express yourself.

00:28:55.860 Whatever makes you leave.

00:28:57.160 Like.

00:28:58.220 Whatever makes you the most uncomfortable where you have to exit the situation right away.

00:29:01.760 I just can't even, can you imagine the delusion to be like, oh my God, she's, she's literally

00:29:06.920 like flirting with me, girl.

00:29:10.600 That's the funniest part.

00:29:11.700 When they think it's banter, it's not.

00:29:15.400 It's not.

00:29:16.220 So you being like quirky, you playing hard to get.

00:29:18.400 Because I genuinely don't know how to not be myself.

00:29:22.020 Same.

00:29:22.600 A thousand percent of the time.

00:29:24.240 Same.

00:29:24.820 And if I'm feeling something, I have to share it.

00:29:27.840 Same.

00:29:28.640 Same.

00:29:29.400 I have to say it.

00:29:30.400 If not, my face will.

00:29:31.660 If not.

00:29:32.280 Yeah.

00:29:32.760 My face, my whole body.

00:29:34.640 Yeah.

00:29:35.020 I'll react.

00:29:35.380 I'll break into hives.

00:29:36.140 I'm not trying to risk that.

00:29:37.440 No, truly.

00:29:38.180 So it's better I just tell you how I feel.

00:29:39.880 Yeah.

00:29:40.180 And let you deal with the hurt of that.

00:29:41.960 Yeah.

00:29:42.400 And then we can move past it.

00:29:43.880 You know what I mean?

00:29:44.160 We can move past it.

00:29:44.760 Because you'll be gone.

00:29:45.640 Yeah.

00:29:46.820 I say all the time, like, if I didn't like you, you wouldn't have to guess.

00:29:51.380 Like, you wouldn't have, you wouldn't have to be like, I wonder if she.

00:29:53.660 Okay.

00:29:54.140 You would know.

00:29:55.020 Exactly.

00:29:55.660 You wouldn't have to guess.

00:29:56.220 Because I've definitely met people, especially girls who are like, I didn't know if you liked

00:30:01.300 me at first.

00:30:02.160 You would know.

00:30:02.900 Yeah.

00:30:03.140 I promise you wouldn't have to guess.

00:30:04.620 You would know.

00:30:05.440 And if you think that I don't like you, you're probably right.

00:30:08.180 Yeah.

00:30:08.940 Go ahead and trust that gut.

00:30:10.320 Go ahead and trust that gut instinct.

00:30:12.000 Believe in yourself.

00:30:12.840 Yeah.

00:30:13.500 Because.

00:30:14.220 I'd trust your first instinct if I were you.

00:30:16.740 No, truly.

00:30:17.700 And then especially with men.

00:30:19.480 Yes.

00:30:19.600 I'm like, I get even more like, I'm so like, oh man, I don't even care.

00:30:24.620 I don't care at all.

00:30:25.360 And when they ask too, and they're like, you, you don't, you don't with me.

00:30:28.320 No.

00:30:29.240 Yeah.

00:30:29.480 And you go, not really.

00:30:30.820 No.

00:30:31.000 And then they go, ah, like, dude, it's just like a never ending.

00:30:34.140 It's like a never stop.

00:30:35.740 It's like, ah, crazy girl.

00:30:38.320 No, babe.

00:30:39.140 I know.

00:30:39.440 Sometimes I'll have, um, men who like know my boyfriend, like whether they like work in

00:30:44.680 the same area or they like known him prior to him dating me.

00:30:48.520 Sometimes they're like, oh, like, um, I, I get nervous around your girlfriend.

00:30:52.420 Like, I don't know if she would like me.

00:30:53.660 If you have to guess, chances are, I probably don't.

00:30:58.040 You're right.

00:30:58.680 Well, whatever you're feeling right now on point, I, that's what I'm saying.

00:31:02.420 Like you, you wouldn't like a healthy dose of fear.

00:31:05.060 I think is good.

00:31:06.460 1000%.

00:31:07.060 Yeah.

00:31:07.360 Like if they're, a lot of them are afraid of me.

00:31:08.900 A lot of my boyfriend's friends are afraid of me, which is okay.

00:31:10.820 Like I'm cool.

00:31:11.440 I think that's a good thing.

00:31:12.980 That's a great thing.

00:31:13.820 You know what I realized in my last relationship that his best friend wasn't afraid of me one

00:31:19.440 time towards the end, literally the last week of our relationship, he came up to us.

00:31:23.780 We were out at a party and he comes up to us and did not acknowledge me.

00:31:29.300 And just talked to my boyfriend at the time.

00:31:32.640 Yeah.

00:31:33.360 In front of my face.

00:31:34.780 And I'm looking at him like, yes, he's met you before.

00:31:38.480 I'm looking at him.

00:31:39.600 Like, I will literally headbutt you.

00:31:44.420 Knock you the f*** out.

00:31:46.160 Yeah, literally.

00:31:47.060 You're just going to come up to him and start having a conversation.

00:31:49.520 Like he had just came up to him at this party.

00:31:51.460 And that's when I realized, oh, something's up here.

00:31:54.580 Yeah.

00:31:55.060 Something's off.

00:31:55.700 Because you're also allowing him to not acknowledge me.

00:31:59.340 He doesn't feel like he has to acknowledge me.

00:32:01.780 Yeah.

00:32:02.380 Something is amiss.

00:32:03.480 Yeah.

00:32:03.680 I can't even tell you.

00:32:05.080 That's a huge pet peeve of mine.

00:32:06.820 When you're in a group and like someone comes up to the one person.

00:32:10.280 Yes.

00:32:10.660 And they don't even try to acknowledge the other people.

00:32:12.580 Hate it.

00:32:13.340 I always do it.

00:32:14.460 Like I just, I just do it out of reaction because I hate when people do it to me.

00:32:19.200 Like if they're talking to other people.

00:32:20.880 And especially with my boyfriend.

00:32:22.400 Like if they never address me personally or they're not like, oh, I'm so and so by the

00:32:26.320 way.

00:32:26.660 Yes.

00:32:27.000 Nothing at all.

00:32:27.620 Sometimes I'll just interrupt.

00:32:29.320 Like if they don't.

00:32:29.700 Hi, I'm.

00:32:30.320 Yeah.

00:32:30.900 Oh, I'm Drew by the way.

00:32:32.060 Yeah.

00:32:32.220 I'll literally just interrupt.

00:32:33.240 But my boyfriend does it too.

00:32:34.400 He's like, this is my girlfriend.

00:32:35.520 Yes.

00:32:36.020 That's how it should be.

00:32:37.020 Yeah.

00:32:37.360 When there's respect.

00:32:38.160 Right.

00:32:38.560 But I feel like the guy friends especially need to have a certain amount of fear because

00:32:44.120 you're not going to be that homeboy.

00:32:47.500 Yeah.

00:32:48.060 That brings bitches around.

00:32:49.620 Yeah.

00:32:49.940 My man.

00:32:50.600 And thinks that it's okay.

00:32:52.000 Yeah.

00:32:52.160 If they have a little bit of fear and respect for you, honestly.

00:32:54.840 Yeah.

00:32:55.500 They're not going to even go there.

00:32:57.020 Yeah, truly.

00:32:57.920 But it's always the crustiest friends.

00:33:00.940 The most beat friends.

00:33:02.240 The most beat, sweaty, gross, greasy, grimy.

00:33:07.740 Broke.

00:33:08.600 Broke.

00:33:09.440 The brokest of friends.

00:33:11.560 And most importantly, broke.

00:33:13.440 Yeah.

00:33:14.660 Those are the ones.

00:33:15.760 Yeah.

00:33:16.280 They're the ones who do the shit.

00:33:17.660 Truly.

00:33:18.020 When I first started dating my boyfriend, we were dating, I think, probably like three

00:33:23.960 months, two and a half, three months.

00:33:25.000 And then we became like official, like actual boyfriend and girlfriend.

00:33:27.980 Um, and then one of his like friends at the time, he's no longer friends with this person

00:33:32.920 for obvious reasons, but he like was telling him like, oh, are you still, he's like, oh,

00:33:36.840 let's go out.

00:33:37.660 Um, I'm trying to like hook up with girls.

00:33:39.380 Mind you, this guy's in a relationship, a committed relationship.

00:33:41.820 And then my boyfriend was like, I'm good.

00:33:45.020 I'm going to hang out with Drew today.

00:33:46.260 And he's like, oh, is that still going on?

00:33:48.300 And he was like, well, yeah.

00:33:49.720 And he goes, oh, he goes, well, he literally, my boyfriend told me this.

00:33:53.640 He told him like, oh, well like, yeah, like have fun, but like, don't commit to her.

00:33:58.840 And then he was like, first of all, this is in your goddamn business.

00:34:03.320 Number one.

00:34:03.860 Second of all, it's too late.

00:34:05.040 I already committed to her because he asked me to be his girlfriend like the week before

00:34:08.020 that he had asked him, is that still going on?

00:34:11.340 And he was like, yeah, that's, he tried to tell him to just fuck around with me and not

00:34:14.980 commit to me.

00:34:15.880 And then my, my boyfriend's never been that kind of guy.

00:34:18.360 So he was like, I don't think I like this guy anymore.

00:34:21.760 Yeah.

00:34:22.020 He literally told me the story that day.

00:34:23.720 But I think also one thing, I think all guys who have girlfriends are like, are in a committed

00:34:31.580 relationship.

00:34:32.080 They all have that one friend.

00:34:33.860 Yeah.

00:34:34.440 There's always that one friend that's going to literally ruin your relationship.

00:34:38.460 No, truly.

00:34:39.160 They're like on a mission to do it.

00:34:40.820 And because they think they have group think.

00:34:42.840 Yeah.

00:34:43.480 And it's all dumb.

00:34:45.020 Yeah.

00:34:45.480 It's all idiots.

00:34:46.460 You don't have one good sound mind in the group.

00:34:49.640 No.

00:34:49.940 Like in a girl's group chat, there's usually at least one sound bitch in the group.

00:34:53.720 Yeah.

00:34:54.020 That's like, listen.

00:34:54.780 Well, I don't know.

00:34:55.640 I don't know about that.

00:34:56.500 Yeah.

00:34:56.560 Yeah.

00:34:56.780 They're very like logical.

00:34:58.180 That's me.

00:34:58.620 Cause I'm the mom of my group.

00:35:00.000 Yeah.

00:35:00.360 I always, you know, I don't like to be devil's advocate all the time.

00:35:02.860 I'm always willing to put, you know, the gat in the trunk and go pull up at his house.

00:35:06.680 Yeah.

00:35:07.040 Yeah.

00:35:07.360 Literally.

00:35:07.780 With some eggs and some teepee and some feathers.

00:35:10.720 Whatever you need, bro.

00:35:11.780 Whatever you need.

00:35:12.600 Let's go ruin his day.

00:35:12.840 I got the shovel in the back.

00:35:14.000 Let's go.

00:35:14.740 Let's bury his ass.

00:35:15.900 Yeah.

00:35:16.460 But occasionally when my friends are tripping, I'll be like, you're tripping.

00:35:19.460 Yeah.

00:35:19.720 Like you should apologize to him, whatever.

00:35:21.700 And I'm the last person to apologize.

00:35:23.180 So if I'm saying you should apologize, you should apologize.

00:35:26.920 You've done something wrong.

00:35:28.000 Yeah.

00:35:28.280 But for those guy friends that are like that to their friends and relationships, you see

00:35:32.700 that they're happy.

00:35:33.880 You, the girl is cool.

00:35:35.100 Like you see that she's got shit going for herself.

00:35:37.120 You know, there's nothing out here because you're still out here scoundrel.

00:35:40.120 Single.

00:35:40.740 Literally.

00:35:41.680 Literally single and looking everywhere for anything under a rock.

00:35:45.820 Yeah.

00:35:46.480 With a vagina and a pulse.

00:35:47.560 No, truly.

00:35:48.340 You know what's out here.

00:35:50.080 Yeah.

00:35:50.800 Do you want to f*** him?

00:35:52.760 Listen.

00:35:53.340 Because if that's the case, say something.

00:35:56.280 I mean, do your best.

00:35:57.480 Say something.

00:35:58.100 Yeah.

00:35:58.520 That's right.

00:35:58.960 Sometimes I, I, it's, the line gets very thin with stuff like that.

00:36:04.400 You're in love with him.

00:36:05.080 And I've talked, and I've talked about that before with you too, as far as like famous

00:36:08.860 dudes as, as well, like athletes or actors or singers or artists, whatever.

00:36:14.380 Um, like when regular, regular dudes who don't have fame and fortune and all of that, when

00:36:20.860 they hear that you have like talked to men of influence at some point, they're always

00:36:25.940 like, he would never, he would never date you.

00:36:29.360 Yes.

00:36:30.080 Why?

00:36:30.360 Cause you, cause you want to date him?

00:36:31.800 Right.

00:36:32.020 Like, I was like, let me tell you something.

00:36:34.060 I, I had NFL players hitting me up when I was literally 19, when I was 20.

00:36:39.500 Of course.

00:36:40.900 So they're a lot easier.

00:36:42.400 Just like you.

00:36:43.120 I was all men are easy.

00:36:44.440 So just like you, I mean, just like you, they're really easy, except the differences.

00:36:49.240 They have like fame and fortune.

00:36:50.980 Yeah.

00:36:51.200 I was like, they're all the same.

00:36:52.580 It's not hard to get to them.

00:36:53.660 Sometimes girls ask me, girl, how do I bag an athlete?

00:36:56.300 And also just be in the room.

00:36:57.860 Exit.

00:36:58.160 Like just be next to them.

00:37:00.220 You know what you should do?

00:37:01.040 Be alive.

00:37:01.780 Yeah.

00:37:02.600 Be in the room.

00:37:03.720 Proximity, babe.

00:37:04.380 That's literally how you do it.

00:37:05.560 Honestly, if you're dead in the room, you could still have a chance.

00:37:08.260 That's how like, if you're a ghost, you probably could still do it.

00:37:11.500 I'll be like, that's why I said proximity and like disinterest is like the biggest way

00:37:15.640 to go.

00:37:15.720 Oh yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:37:16.500 Because it shows them nothing.

00:37:18.280 Yeah.

00:37:18.300 If you don't know who they are, you've never seen them play.

00:37:20.320 You don't know anything about them.

00:37:21.780 Give them nothing.

00:37:22.160 They like that even more.

00:37:23.400 I have had conversations with people and had these guys' favorite rappers come up and

00:37:31.160 stand there and stare at me, waiting for me to acknowledge them.

00:37:34.800 Yeah.

00:37:35.120 I refuse.

00:37:36.100 And then they like that even more.

00:37:37.340 Don't even look at them.

00:37:38.240 That's what I said.

00:37:38.800 Because you're easy.

00:37:39.840 Don't.

00:37:40.340 Because you're easy.

00:37:41.380 Because y'all are ran through.

00:37:42.600 Respect yourself.

00:37:43.800 Have some self-reflex.

00:37:44.940 Fatherless behavior.

00:37:45.800 Yeah, literally.

00:37:46.440 Literally.

00:37:46.760 Like, just truly fatherless behavior.

00:37:49.560 This is why we have to protect the American family.

00:37:53.120 Yeah.

00:37:53.680 You are the reason.

00:37:55.500 We need to make sure there's a man in the house.

00:37:57.280 Because look what y'all sons are doing running the streets like that.

00:38:00.780 Sluts.

00:38:00.940 For the streets, honestly.

00:38:02.320 Sluts.

00:38:02.620 A bunch of sluts.

00:38:04.040 Everywhere.

00:38:04.800 And the summer's here.

00:38:06.180 Hoochie Daddy's.

00:38:06.860 Hot Girls Summer.

00:38:07.760 Everywhere.

00:38:08.140 I know, right?

00:38:10.580 God.

00:38:11.260 I'm on some clothes.

00:38:12.340 Honestly.

00:38:13.000 Respect yourself.

00:38:13.720 Love yourself.

00:38:14.360 Love yourself.

00:38:14.880 Love yourself.

00:38:15.240 Love yourself.

00:38:15.880 Okay, so I'll just go on to this next video.

00:38:18.060 So this next video is basically someone saying how guys will tell girls, don't tell people

00:38:23.500 we're dating.

00:38:24.120 We're just friends.

00:38:25.400 Like, basically, they want all the perks of a relationship and the responsibility or accountability

00:38:29.020 of a relationship.

00:38:29.920 But if that girl were to go off and starts talking to another guy or starts dating, they

00:38:34.000 get really mad.

00:38:34.520 Cheating on me?

00:38:35.320 Yeah.

00:38:35.720 They're literally like, I thought it was just me and you.

00:38:37.840 Oh.

00:38:38.480 It's a weird double standard that guys can mess around and be F boys, but girls can't do anything.

00:38:43.420 Well, duh, right?

00:38:44.900 Duh.

00:38:45.240 It's very, like, hat on a hat.

00:38:46.880 Like, what?

00:38:49.120 Women are not held to the same standards as men?

00:38:51.940 I was watching a video about this the other day about, like, how women have been taught

00:38:56.260 to date in the complete opposite way that men have.

00:38:59.980 If women are dating, it's like you have to have one person that you're dating and you

00:39:03.720 have to commit to that person.

00:39:04.960 Yeah.

00:39:05.000 But when men are dating, like, and obviously, this is a very binary sense, but when men are

00:39:09.000 dating, they're taught to date multiple girls at once until you find the one.

00:39:13.460 You have to spread your seed.

00:39:15.240 Conquer all.

00:39:16.240 So you're royal oats.

00:39:17.240 So you're royal oats because you're so important.

00:39:20.540 You're not.

00:39:21.660 But, like, women are taught to cater to one guy because if you're dating multiple guys,

00:39:26.660 you're a slut.

00:39:27.400 Yeah.

00:39:27.580 And if they also, if they date one guy and he's the worst, like, for whatever reason,

00:39:34.420 they're supposed to stay and take care of him because what if he's going through something?

00:39:38.360 What if I don't like you?

00:39:40.700 Like, what if you irritate the **** out of me?

00:39:42.980 Like...

00:39:43.080 The whole ride or die concept...

00:39:44.720 No way.

00:39:45.320 ...doesn't appeal.

00:39:46.140 Absolutely not.

00:39:47.120 And it only applies to women because as soon as men...

00:39:49.540 Women get pregnant and men leave.

00:39:51.080 Yes.

00:39:51.620 And cheat.

00:39:52.460 They birth life.

00:39:53.760 They literally give birth to a child that is also yours and they leave.

00:39:58.840 So, like, you want me to stay and you don't have a job?

00:40:01.680 Like, girl, like, no.

00:40:03.460 She wasn't with me when I was down.

00:40:04.960 Yeah.

00:40:06.580 You've been down.

00:40:07.520 You're still down.

00:40:08.380 First of all, I had COVID and you weren't there for me.

00:40:10.860 Yeah, you were.

00:40:11.940 So, like, um, yeah.

00:40:14.460 I had a temporary illness.

00:40:16.560 You weren't there for me.

00:40:17.320 And you didn't even hit me up to ask me if I was cool.

00:40:19.720 So, like, that's why I'm saying, like, yeah, the ride or die mentality.

00:40:23.480 It only applies to women.

00:40:24.680 It's like they are conditioned to believe that they have to endure the harshest, most

00:40:30.800 emotionally abusive conditions and labor it because they're women and that's their job

00:40:35.280 is to take care of people.

00:40:36.380 Wrong.

00:40:36.540 You have to go through it.

00:40:37.680 And then you'll see these men be like, well, my mom and dad have been together for 40 years

00:40:42.020 and she rode through him with everything that...

00:40:44.240 First of all, your father was emotionally and physically abusive.

00:40:46.340 Yeah.

00:40:47.100 So was your grandfather.

00:40:47.600 You mean when women couldn't even get a job?

00:40:50.620 Like...

00:40:50.720 And your mother needed to be able to get a bank account.

00:40:52.380 Yeah.

00:40:52.680 And your daddy was there.

00:40:53.880 Yeah.

00:40:54.440 That was not love.

00:40:55.040 You're telling me if your mom had the opportunity, now she wouldn't leave him and go find somebody

00:40:58.960 else, like, at the time?

00:41:00.080 But she'd been in it too long.

00:41:01.480 Yeah.

00:41:01.620 And that's why even now, like, you're seeing people who have been together for how long,

00:41:05.360 how many years finally getting divorced?

00:41:07.700 Yeah.

00:41:08.200 Because you don't need them anymore.

00:41:09.820 Because they're able to.

00:41:11.340 And they're able to, like, go out on their own and work for themselves and own their own

00:41:15.740 property and all of that.

00:41:16.920 Let's just say it's like loveless marriages.

00:41:18.820 Yes.

00:41:19.120 I'm like, those, that's, I would rather be alone.

00:41:21.780 But this is what these guys look up to.

00:41:24.080 They're like, my grandparents were together for 55 years.

00:41:27.860 Your grandma's miserable, bro.

00:41:29.360 Were you like, your grandparents were together before the invention of toilet paper?

00:41:32.000 So, like, maybe I'm not taking advice from them.

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00:42:20.740 You know what I mean?

00:42:34.640 Like, maybe not.

00:42:35.760 Your grandma wore, like, long johns to bed instead of underwear, like...

00:42:39.420 Your grandma was training better.

00:42:40.560 Yeah, literally, like, your grandma was...

00:42:42.080 Because she had to.

00:42:44.280 Not because she wanted to.

00:42:46.000 Your grandma came over on the Mayflower, bro.

00:42:48.040 Like, I really don't give a damn what she's doing.

00:42:50.580 That's why I say, okay, go marry her.

00:42:52.140 Go marry your grandma, then.

00:42:53.240 Your grandma didn't know how to read.

00:42:54.380 Yeah.

00:42:54.920 Because she wasn't legally allowed.

00:42:56.400 So, like...

00:42:57.660 So, yeah, I'm gonna go ahead and say...

00:42:59.200 She didn't know what divorce papers looked like.

00:43:01.120 Yeah, I think that...

00:43:01.500 Because she was illiterate.

00:43:02.320 I think the pickings were slimmer back then, I would assume.

00:43:06.140 The opportunity was not as, like, prevalent as it is now to, like, go out and be on your

00:43:11.600 own.

00:43:11.820 Also, chances are your grandmother was 17 and your grandfather was 35.

00:43:15.500 So, you really want to get into it, let's...

00:43:19.260 If that's your dream, then, like, go to jail.

00:43:22.660 Like, that's what I'm saying.

00:43:24.180 Prison.

00:43:24.800 Like, literally, prison for life.

00:43:26.400 God, like, people were emotionally and mentally, like, in the confines of these relationships.

00:43:32.880 Like, it wasn't because they were in love.

00:43:34.880 It wasn't because they were happy.

00:43:36.480 Yeah.

00:43:37.060 Like...

00:43:37.600 Well, and it's like, that's what you...

00:43:38.900 So, you want a maid.

00:43:40.280 Yes.

00:43:40.700 So, you want a nanny.

00:43:41.460 A nanny.

00:43:41.760 A caretaker.

00:43:42.400 Like, okay, go hire someone.

00:43:44.100 I don't know.

00:43:44.420 You're not paying me.

00:43:45.540 That's why I said, are you paying me what therapists make?

00:43:47.960 Because then maybe, yeah, we can hang out for an hour twice a week.

00:43:51.760 Yeah.

00:43:52.160 Like, and you pay me 50 grand, and then I will tell you...

00:43:54.520 Because then you're all about money.

00:43:55.500 Yeah.

00:43:55.720 And you're a bill.

00:43:56.880 Right?

00:43:57.140 And I'm going to take all these notes, and then I'm going to say...

00:43:59.700 It says here you're a bitch.

00:44:01.020 Yeah.

00:44:01.200 It's my diagnosis as a doctor.

00:44:02.480 My diagnosis?

00:44:03.460 There you go.

00:44:03.960 You're a little bitch baby.

00:44:05.120 Yes.

00:44:05.580 That is that you're bitch born and bitch bred.

00:44:07.500 So, good luck with that.

00:44:09.020 That'll be 50 grand.

00:44:09.900 So, the comments on this video, this first one says, or, um, if he or she doesn't want

00:44:16.480 others to know about your relationship, just leave.

00:44:19.920 I mean, yeah.

00:44:20.820 Like, they're talking about men.

00:44:22.140 Like, if men are like, we're not together, but we're together.

00:44:25.040 Yeah.

00:44:26.140 Yeah.

00:44:26.320 I get girls asking me, like, a situationship.

00:44:29.080 They ask me about that all the time.

00:44:30.260 They're like, what should I do if...

00:44:31.480 Leave?

00:44:31.700 Leave.

00:44:32.180 The thing is, again, binary sense.

00:44:35.440 Men are very simple.

00:44:37.020 Yeah.

00:44:37.920 Heterosexual men are very simple.

00:44:41.740 Yeah.

00:44:42.080 Easy, simple, stupid.

00:44:44.260 Yeah.

00:44:45.800 The three.

00:44:47.060 Big three.

00:44:47.780 Truly.

00:44:48.140 That's their big three.

00:44:49.580 Yeah, that's their big three.

00:44:51.080 That's it.

00:44:52.020 So, if a man wants to be with you and wants to lock you down and doesn't want anybody else

00:44:56.980 to have you, he's going to do the things that it takes to make that happen.

00:45:01.620 Because men are also territorial.

00:45:03.560 Like, that's just in their system.

00:45:05.980 Like, they have to divide and conquer at all times in the worst ways most of the time.

00:45:10.640 Yeah.

00:45:10.980 Literally.

00:45:11.500 But, like, when it comes to their woman...

00:45:13.700 Yeah.

00:45:14.640 They're going to lock it down.

00:45:15.800 Yeah.

00:45:15.880 So, if it's been months and you still don't know what this is, it's because it's nothing.

00:45:19.860 Yeah, exactly.

00:45:20.900 I say, if you have to ask, it's nothing.

00:45:23.260 It's nothing.

00:45:23.940 Like, if they're not lost, they're not like, well, maybe...

00:45:27.020 No.

00:45:27.660 They just don't want to.

00:45:28.580 No.

00:45:28.840 And that's the sad part.

00:45:30.040 Like, that's the sad truth because I've had to give that advice to people and they're like,

00:45:34.420 well, what do I do if, like, he treats me so well when we're alone?

00:45:38.180 He doesn't take pride in you.

00:45:39.920 Yes.

00:45:40.040 He's ashamed of you to some extent because he won't claim you.

00:45:43.800 Like, he's not going to claim...

00:45:44.920 Mm-hmm.

00:45:45.140 It's like a weird term, but he will not tell other people that you're with him.

00:45:49.740 Yeah.

00:45:49.920 And don't you want someone that's proud to be with you?

00:45:53.120 Yes.

00:45:53.340 Because that's what you deserve?

00:45:54.620 So, I'm always like, if he wanted to, he would.

00:45:57.480 Yes.

00:45:58.060 It sucks because some people are like, well, that's not always the case because...

00:46:01.560 Listen, I'm never going to waste my time being with someone I have to convince to want to be with me.

00:46:06.140 Period.

00:46:06.500 No way, dude.

00:46:07.680 Life is way too short.

00:46:09.580 I had a boyfriend in high school who...

00:46:12.000 Well, it was like high school to college.

00:46:13.920 Yeah.

00:46:14.000 And in college, I knew his high school friends.

00:46:16.760 Yeah.

00:46:16.960 But once we got to college, he wouldn't take me around his college friends.

00:46:20.320 And we were long distance.

00:46:21.540 So, his argument was, when I finally have time with you, I just want to spend time with you.

00:46:27.140 But in the back of my mind, I'm like, but you're not introducing me to the people that you talk to me about all the time.

00:46:32.440 I don't know them.

00:46:33.040 They don't know me.

00:46:33.860 Not that they would have added respect for me if I was around them, but at least there would be some familiarity there.

00:46:38.800 Yeah.

00:46:39.100 And also, I don't know what bitches you think that you have a girlfriend or don't know if you have a girlfriend.

00:46:44.460 Exactly.

00:46:44.740 I didn't even make my presence known.

00:46:46.000 Exactly.

00:46:46.360 And so, I finally told him, I was like, I feel like you're treating me like a runaway slave.

00:46:49.280 Like, I feel like you're hiding me in the basement.

00:46:50.880 Harriet Tubman is coming to take me along.

00:46:53.400 And you're just fucking...

00:46:55.100 You're like, what is this?

00:46:56.540 You got me in a cottage in the basement.

00:46:58.380 Yeah.

00:46:58.600 And you're just feeding me bread and cheese every three days.

00:47:00.560 Like, you're like, is there like...

00:47:02.920 Are you on the run or something?

00:47:04.040 Like, what's going on?

00:47:05.100 Yeah.

00:47:05.220 Why can't I be seen?

00:47:06.240 Like, why can't we go out together?

00:47:08.880 Yeah.

00:47:09.240 And we never, like, went anywhere.

00:47:11.020 Yeah.

00:47:11.320 And that got to me because I was just like, I deserve to be with somebody who wants to

00:47:15.960 be able to be seen with me and show other people and introduce me.

00:47:19.780 And like...

00:47:20.040 Yeah.

00:47:20.580 Because as much as you're talking to me...

00:47:21.720 And have you be a part of their life.

00:47:22.920 Yeah.

00:47:23.140 Exactly.

00:47:23.580 It's about being a part of your life.

00:47:25.060 Yeah.

00:47:25.360 And if this person doesn't want you to be a part of their circle, are you really even

00:47:30.940 a part of their life at all?

00:47:32.040 Yeah.

00:47:32.100 Like...

00:47:32.580 Well, there's a reason.

00:47:33.480 There's a reason.

00:47:33.960 There's always a reason.

00:47:35.120 There's always a reason.

00:47:35.440 There's always a reason.

00:47:36.580 And like, you have to be conscious of the fact that this person could be trying to play

00:47:41.440 out a narrative for other people that doesn't have you in it.

00:47:44.820 Mm-hmm.

00:47:45.800 When you're in the confines of your own little home and like your hookup situation.

00:47:49.940 Literally.

00:47:50.460 You're the main character in this play.

00:47:52.620 Yeah.

00:47:52.740 It's double life.

00:47:53.780 Hannah Montana.

00:47:54.500 Okay.

00:47:54.820 You're like, you're living another life.

00:47:56.800 I can tell.

00:47:57.080 He's putting that wig on and he's going out.

00:47:58.680 Yeah.

00:47:59.060 And he's stepping out.

00:48:00.360 And you bitches.

00:48:01.220 Yeah.

00:48:01.600 And you're not a part of the story.

00:48:03.880 I know.

00:48:04.220 And you should be.

00:48:05.060 You should be.

00:48:05.960 And that's why they should take pride in having you.

00:48:07.700 And that's like what I've told people.

00:48:09.220 Like, if he wanted to, he would.

00:48:10.580 Because like, sometimes I would post videos about what my boyfriend has done for me.

00:48:13.560 Mm-hmm.

00:48:14.380 And they're like, man, like, if he wanted to, he would.

00:48:18.060 And I'm like, it's true though.

00:48:19.380 Like, you know, when they take pride in your relationship and they're happy to have you,

00:48:23.480 they feel lucky to have you because that's how they should feel because you're a prize.

00:48:26.600 Then they'll treat you as such.

00:48:27.740 And it's always like, whenever I would tell them about what my boyfriend does for me,

00:48:30.520 sometimes they'll be like, well, what do you do for him?

00:48:33.840 None of your business, bitch.

00:48:35.740 Like, nothing.

00:48:37.860 Absolutely nothing.

00:48:38.780 I literally treat him like a pain.

00:48:40.460 I step on him every morning.

00:48:41.740 Yeah.

00:48:41.920 And then he, that's why he loves me so much.

00:48:43.560 Every morning at 5 a.m., I kick him in the face and tell him he's a bitch.

00:48:47.540 Yeah.

00:48:47.780 And I make him sleep outside.

00:48:48.820 Like, what do you, what do you think?

00:48:50.220 That's why I was like, when you're in a dog cage, when you're in a grownup relationship,

00:48:52.940 you can come back here and then we can talk about it.

00:48:55.600 Cause you have no idea what it takes to be in a grownup relationship.

00:48:57.900 Thank you.

00:48:58.320 Clearly.

00:48:58.880 Or the, the ones who, when they say, if he wanted to, he would.

00:49:01.780 And then the people who are like, well, maybe he doesn't know how.

00:49:03.660 Okay.

00:49:03.800 Well, call me when you do.

00:49:05.180 Let me know.

00:49:05.980 Let me know when you know how.

00:49:07.060 Well, it's like, it's not my job to like, wait around for you to figure it out.

00:49:10.900 Let's waste my time.

00:49:12.080 2K 22.

00:49:13.140 Go to therapy.

00:49:14.000 Yeah.

00:49:14.840 I don't have time for you.

00:49:16.340 No.

00:49:16.840 Like actually though.

00:49:18.400 So that's why I'm always like, they're like, what should I do?

00:49:20.460 Leave.

00:49:21.040 Leave.

00:49:21.600 That's what I tell you.

00:49:22.240 Leave.

00:49:22.740 Leave.

00:49:23.380 And if he really wants to, he'll do something about it.

00:49:26.360 And if not, then you have your answer.

00:49:27.660 Either way.

00:49:28.220 Yeah.

00:49:28.400 You come out on top no matter what.

00:49:29.920 But you also have to acknowledge as a woman, why you think that you deserve less.

00:49:34.480 Because that could be an even deeper conversation that you need to have internally.

00:49:39.520 You have a staff meeting inside.

00:49:41.160 There you go.

00:49:41.640 And figure out why you think that you don't deserve to have it all.

00:49:45.920 Or why you think that it's not accessible to you to be able to have it all.

00:49:49.080 And I've told people that too.

00:49:50.880 Especially about like when they're like, why do I always gravitate towards men who don't want to commit to me?

00:49:56.080 Right?

00:49:56.680 They act like an F boy.

00:49:58.080 They leave me hanging all the time.

00:49:59.500 And they kind of like call me in in the fourth quarter like they always do.

00:50:02.500 Why do I always attract men like that?

00:50:04.480 And I said, well, you have to ask yourself, why do you think that you, that's what you deserve?

00:50:09.140 Yeah.

00:50:09.380 You think that's the best you could get?

00:50:10.800 No.

00:50:11.340 Right.

00:50:11.500 That's like you, you think that you don't deserve anything better than that.

00:50:15.280 So you need to raise your standards, raise your bar.

00:50:18.060 Yes.

00:50:18.360 And the way you look at yourself, you need to tell yourself, I deserve the best.

00:50:20.840 So I'm not doing this shit anymore.

00:50:22.100 Yes.

00:50:22.380 Choose you.

00:50:23.180 No one's ever going to love you like you love you, girl.

00:50:24.860 So I always tell them, choose yourself first always because then the men that are worth your time and worth their salt will literally step up and it won't be a chore to like take care of you, to love you, to support you.

00:50:37.320 Like some of these men swear emotional support is like the heaviest lift.

00:50:42.200 Like they're just like exhausting.

00:50:44.380 It's exhausting being with you.

00:50:45.780 Yeah.

00:50:46.240 To support you, to uplift you, to empower you, to be like, I'm proud of you.

00:50:50.740 Yeah.

00:50:50.880 You're so awesome.

00:50:51.740 Like, man, like, um, words of affirmation is your love language.

00:50:55.240 Quality time.

00:50:56.240 Mine too.

00:50:56.740 That's fine.

00:50:57.200 And acts of service.

00:50:59.680 Like take something off my plate.

00:51:00.860 Cause I will do everything.

00:51:02.120 Yeah.

00:51:02.600 If you, I will do it all.

00:51:04.560 Yeah.

00:51:04.980 But like, do something, do something.

00:51:07.200 It doesn't have like an acts of service is not like, Oh, I need you to be serving me on a soda.

00:51:10.960 It's just like little things, little things, little things like making your coffee in the morning and stuff.

00:51:15.540 My boyfriend does that for me.

00:51:16.600 The smallest things I will be on my knees.

00:51:19.460 Same.

00:51:21.020 You give me the bare minimum, babe.

00:51:23.360 Me and you.

00:51:24.660 Like, please.

00:51:25.620 You could have a bad bitch like Cammy if you just stopped.

00:51:28.480 And you too have a bad bitch like me.

00:51:30.560 Call the number below.

00:51:31.640 Yeah.

00:51:31.920 Call this number.

00:51:32.660 Apply down here.

00:51:34.840 But it's true.

00:51:35.780 And be weary of the men that try to make you think that you don't deserve those things.

00:51:39.820 Cause that's the other thing.

00:51:40.760 It's like the brainwashing that takes place when you start dating guys who are like, Oh, well, you need emotional availability.

00:51:48.100 Like that's too much.

00:51:48.960 Or you're too much.

00:51:49.800 Or you think too highly of yourself.

00:51:51.820 No, you're just not the one.

00:51:53.400 Yeah.

00:51:53.700 So go ahead and get a basic bitch.

00:51:54.840 Cause that's what you qualify for.

00:51:56.620 That's on period.

00:51:57.480 Okay.

00:51:57.900 Stop shopping.

00:51:59.380 Do not be shopping at the Bentley dealership.

00:52:02.220 Take your ass on over to Kia.

00:52:05.020 Yeah.

00:52:05.820 If you got Kia Soul money, go on over there.

00:52:09.060 And that's okay.

00:52:09.920 And that's fine.

00:52:10.680 That's why I say that all the time.

00:52:12.540 I'm like, you deserve the best to hold out for the best.

00:52:16.020 Because if you give these stray cats an inch, they will take a mile.

00:52:20.680 Let me tell you something.

00:52:21.940 And they'll be at your window every night.

00:52:23.340 No, truly they'll be scratching every night.

00:52:25.720 Do not feed the strays.

00:52:27.080 I used to call one of my friends.

00:52:28.080 We used to call one of my friends the stray cat girl because she would feed those strays like crazy.

00:52:33.500 I'd be like, this guy literally doesn't wear shoes.

00:52:35.900 Yeah.

00:52:36.400 Ever.

00:52:36.980 His feet are black.

00:52:38.880 Walked through the valley a death head ass.

00:52:41.400 Girl, ditch this guy.

00:52:42.840 But she was dating a guy once that broke into her home to go use her shower because he didn't have a home.

00:52:48.500 Girl, no.

00:52:49.400 What?

00:52:49.780 I'm sorry, but no dick is worth that.

00:52:51.180 I'll tell you that much.

00:52:52.220 I swear.

00:52:52.680 She goes, yeah.

00:52:53.520 I was like, all my stuff was moved around.

00:52:55.260 And I was like, did you come to my house?

00:52:56.620 He goes, oh yeah, I had to take a shower.

00:53:00.720 Bitch, goodbye.

00:53:02.340 Literally, I'm calling the cops goodbye.

00:53:03.820 Like, what is wrong with you?

00:53:05.440 And for me, on the flip side of that, for me, I literally cut this one dude off I was talking to for a long time

00:53:10.660 because he made up a word in front of me and I just couldn't do it.

00:53:13.200 I was like, I can't.

00:53:14.160 That's the Virgo in you.

00:53:15.220 What was the word?

00:53:15.940 I don't remember and I wish to God I did.

00:53:18.080 He used to say conversated all the time, though, which is another made up word.

00:53:21.920 Conversated?

00:53:22.440 I hate that word, dude.

00:53:24.000 And I know it's not real.

00:53:25.740 It's not real.

00:53:26.700 It wasn't that word, though.

00:53:27.660 It was another one.

00:53:28.260 And he made it up in front of me in the midst of telling me, like, how he's, like, super smart.

00:53:33.520 And I was like, interesting.

00:53:35.360 And did you tell him it wasn't a word?

00:53:37.060 I was just like, well, I said, what did you say?

00:53:38.960 And he repeated it to me and I go, that's what I thought you said.

00:53:41.660 Unfortunately, that's exactly what I thought you said.

00:53:43.900 It's funny because now I'm booked for, like, the rest of 2017.

00:53:47.120 So, like, you'll never see me again.

00:53:48.180 Never.

00:53:48.460 But, like, you know, peace and love, though.

00:53:50.080 Yeah.

00:53:50.320 Have a great life.

00:53:51.340 Good luck to you.

00:53:52.360 I literally told, that's why I told my wife, we used to tell her she feeds strays all the time.

00:53:55.560 She would be like, stop telling me that.

00:53:57.220 And I'm like, that's, girl.

00:53:58.460 A man broke into your house because he didn't have access to running water in this country.

00:54:05.160 And he admitted it, too.

00:54:06.540 Like, he was literally like, oh, yeah, that was me.

00:54:08.960 He jumped the fence and went in through the back door.

00:54:11.000 Girl.

00:54:12.220 No, ma'am.

00:54:12.960 I'll tell you that.

00:54:13.900 But was it good?

00:54:14.640 It was.

00:54:15.640 Apparently.

00:54:16.480 Evidently.

00:54:16.820 Because she hooked up with him a few more times.

00:54:19.180 I was like, bitch.

00:54:20.360 First of all, he literally has fleas.

00:54:22.020 That's why it's, like, cruel.

00:54:24.340 Oh.

00:54:25.160 She was like, I know.

00:54:26.100 Isn't that wild?

00:54:27.000 I'm all.

00:54:28.540 Girl.

00:54:29.180 It's disgusting.

00:54:29.620 You down bad it.

00:54:30.560 And you need to get.

00:54:31.320 Get up.

00:54:31.920 Stand up.

00:54:32.560 Oh, my God.

00:54:33.200 Some of the amount of times I've been like, stand up, bitch.

00:54:35.760 Please, for the love of God, stand up.

00:54:37.180 Oh, my God.

00:54:37.540 That's why I've literally talked about it on my last couple episodes where, like, sometimes

00:54:41.540 girls will be like, why don't you talk about these men?

00:54:43.080 They're so good.

00:54:43.860 I'm like, first of all, that's not what they come to my show to see.

00:54:46.360 No.

00:54:47.060 That's not how I built my platform.

00:54:48.360 But second of all, it's like the most, like, basic level shit.

00:54:51.180 Like, men being like, you shouldn't hit women.

00:54:54.860 Well, yeah.

00:54:55.760 I mean.

00:54:56.420 You should support women's rights.

00:54:57.940 Literally.

00:54:58.420 And my friend Isaiah was like, he's like, oh, this is the one.

00:55:01.240 I'm going to wipe him.

00:55:02.640 I'm like, what?

00:55:04.200 Like, bare minimum shit like that.

00:55:06.380 But that's.

00:55:07.080 They're like, you should be respectful to women.

00:55:09.780 Yeah.

00:55:10.620 I love you.

00:55:11.400 Yeah.

00:55:12.140 All the comments.

00:55:12.900 Yeah.

00:55:13.080 Where are the ones like this at?

00:55:14.160 Yeah.

00:55:15.260 They're like, are you single?

00:55:16.780 Asking for a friend.

00:55:17.920 And I'm the friend.

00:55:18.720 I can't.

00:55:19.640 You can't give these men too much.

00:55:21.080 Because I feel like they know what gets us off.

00:55:24.120 Like, they know.

00:55:24.660 They do.

00:55:25.560 They give.

00:55:26.120 Listen.

00:55:26.580 As stupid as they are.

00:55:27.660 Yeah.

00:55:27.900 I've said before.

00:55:28.900 Like, especially fuckboys.

00:55:30.740 Like, as dumb as they are.

00:55:31.960 They have like a sixth sense about vulnerability.

00:55:34.940 And like, they prey on women's vulnerability.

00:55:37.700 Like, truly they do.

00:55:38.660 So like, they can sense from a mile away if you really want to be with someone.

00:55:43.640 Yeah.

00:55:44.080 And then they'll just like play the whole.

00:55:46.360 They'll play all the roles.

00:55:47.560 They'll be one woman show.

00:55:48.740 Act like they're the best person in the world.

00:55:50.220 And then just rip that rug right out from under you.

00:55:52.580 Oh, yeah.

00:55:52.740 They can sniff it out.

00:55:53.720 At your lowest.

00:55:54.220 They can sniff it out.

00:55:54.800 Yeah.

00:55:55.080 Like, as stupid as they are.

00:55:56.540 They can sense that.

00:55:57.580 Yeah.

00:55:58.280 Can't sense other.

00:55:59.520 Anything else.

00:56:00.180 Nothing at all.

00:56:00.860 But a vulnerable woman.

00:56:02.040 A woman at her lowest point.

00:56:03.160 Yeah.

00:56:03.480 They can smell that from a mile away.

00:56:05.360 Gotcha.

00:56:05.500 Gotcha, bitch.

00:56:05.860 Like a bloodhound.

00:56:06.540 Truly.

00:56:07.100 I've said to someone's like, how do you know?

00:56:08.760 Like that they're not.

00:56:10.100 Or like, how do you know?

00:56:11.420 It's like for real.

00:56:12.200 Whatever.

00:56:12.880 I'm all.

00:56:13.140 Well, everyone's gauge is different.

00:56:14.300 Yeah.

00:56:14.760 But like, for me, I told them like how they react to you when you're not happy.

00:56:20.840 Stress.

00:56:21.760 Upset.

00:56:22.340 Sad.

00:56:22.760 Angry.

00:56:23.460 Even if it's not at them.

00:56:24.940 Yeah.

00:56:25.100 How they deal with you in those moments.

00:56:27.220 Yes.

00:56:27.580 Very indicative of what kind of partner they're going to be.

00:56:29.740 Yes.

00:56:30.240 If they run and hide, they desert you.

00:56:32.240 They like make you feel crazy.

00:56:33.680 They belittle your emotions.

00:56:35.300 Yeah.

00:56:35.520 Gone.

00:56:36.040 Or the ones that like, and I've experienced this too, that try to like manage you.

00:56:41.180 Yeah.

00:56:41.360 Like when you're upset and they'll like, they immediately try to come up with a solution.

00:56:44.840 And I am guilty of this too sometimes.

00:56:46.620 Yeah.

00:56:46.720 Because rising Virgo.

00:56:48.120 Yeah.

00:56:48.480 And like, I like to help my friends.

00:56:50.840 Same.

00:56:51.220 Whenever they're going through something like, I want to fix.

00:56:53.360 I want to fix.

00:56:53.840 I'm a fixer.

00:56:54.520 Yeah.

00:56:54.680 Same.

00:56:55.520 But I feel like in a relationship and you learn this as you date people and like learn

00:56:59.380 what their love languages are and what they're, how they are emotionally.

00:57:02.840 Like you learn that sometimes I don't need you as my man to fix things for me.

00:57:07.860 Sometimes I just need you to let me vent.

00:57:09.480 To just be there.

00:57:10.300 Just be there.

00:57:11.100 Yeah.

00:57:11.520 Listen to me.

00:57:12.280 And like, I know that my sisters aren't bitches, but if I'm coming to you and being

00:57:16.680 like, my sister's such a bitch, I can't stand her.

00:57:18.740 She's, I don't need you to come in and be like, she's not a bitch.

00:57:23.040 You love her.

00:57:24.500 No.

00:57:25.240 For right now.

00:57:26.220 She's a bitch.

00:57:27.660 We don't come in the circle with me or else.

00:57:30.120 Or get out.

00:57:30.700 No, literally.

00:57:31.060 You're either on my team or you're against me.

00:57:32.800 Also, you're on her side.

00:57:33.920 Oh.

00:57:34.160 So you're like.

00:57:34.700 So you want to be with her?

00:57:35.420 Yeah.

00:57:35.940 Why don't you just be with my sister?

00:57:37.580 Like.

00:57:38.160 I'll give her your number.

00:57:39.100 Honestly.

00:57:39.380 You know what I mean?

00:57:40.660 Like whenever, or like you're going through a work issue and you're like, I'm just going

00:57:43.740 to quit.

00:57:44.260 I hate everybody.

00:57:45.000 Blah, blah, blah.

00:57:45.820 You're not quitting.

00:57:46.960 You're not a quitter.

00:57:48.040 Today.

00:57:48.400 I am.

00:57:49.580 Just give me like.

00:57:50.660 So.

00:57:51.180 An hour.

00:57:52.400 Just give me.

00:57:52.940 I'll get back to normal.

00:57:54.540 I'm not irrational.

00:57:55.660 I'm not crazy.

00:57:56.620 I've said that too.

00:57:57.060 I'm not actually quitting.

00:57:58.600 But like.

00:57:59.360 Yo.

00:57:59.480 What are you stupid?

00:58:00.320 What would make you ever think I would quit?

00:58:02.000 Are you dumb?

00:58:02.840 Are you stupid or something?

00:58:04.680 God.

00:58:05.160 But then.

00:58:05.520 But then imagine they'll be like.

00:58:06.900 Maybe you should quit.

00:58:08.140 What?

00:58:08.680 Yeah.

00:58:08.940 And then you're like.

00:58:09.440 What are you talking about?

00:58:10.320 This is the opportunity of a lifetime.

00:58:12.160 This is my job.

00:58:13.380 Switch it immediately.

00:58:14.220 This is my career.

00:58:15.100 This is what I'm passionate about.

00:58:15.940 You don't care about my passion.

00:58:16.600 You don't want me to work.

00:58:17.600 So you want me to be at home.

00:58:18.920 You just keep switching it.

00:58:20.140 I know.

00:58:20.280 That's why.

00:58:20.720 I literally.

00:58:21.700 Like.

00:58:21.960 That's why I've talked about people.

00:58:23.060 Especially if you're upset with them.

00:58:24.780 Yes.

00:58:24.960 How they deal with you in those moments.

00:58:26.200 Yes.

00:58:26.540 It's really important.

00:58:27.580 It's indicative of how like.

00:58:28.840 Because not.

00:58:29.520 And not all men communicate the same.

00:58:31.720 Like obviously.

00:58:32.460 We're all.

00:58:32.740 Obviously speaking in binaries.

00:58:33.940 But like.

00:58:34.600 My communicative language is a lot different than my boyfriend's.

00:58:37.420 So like.

00:58:37.820 We had over time.

00:58:39.240 Learned how to communicate with each other.

00:58:40.680 Yeah.

00:58:41.000 But like.

00:58:41.760 In the beginning.

00:58:42.620 He's a very like.

00:58:44.160 Literal person.

00:58:45.440 So if I.

00:58:46.060 Don't tell him.

00:58:47.220 What I'm upset about.

00:58:48.080 And why.

00:58:48.660 He'll just assume I'm okay.

00:58:49.880 Because I didn't say anything.

00:58:51.120 I think that's a lot of men too.

00:58:52.300 And then I'm like.

00:58:53.220 That was a test.

00:58:54.140 Yeah.

00:58:54.420 And you failed.

00:58:55.160 It failed.

00:58:56.160 Flying colors.

00:58:56.740 I can't believe.

00:58:57.620 You didn't ask me.

00:58:58.540 Why I was upset.

00:58:59.540 Even though when you asked me if I was upset.

00:59:00.940 I said no.

00:59:01.520 I can't believe.

00:59:01.940 I can't believe you didn't ask me three times.

00:59:03.880 I can't believe.

00:59:05.600 On the fourth try.

00:59:06.220 I was going to tell you.

00:59:07.160 And you only asked me three.

00:59:08.240 And that's on you.

00:59:09.400 So like.

00:59:09.820 That's on me.

00:59:10.960 That's me.

00:59:11.520 That's literally me.

00:59:12.240 I'm like.

00:59:12.500 When your back's to them.

00:59:13.880 And you're like.

00:59:14.580 Yeah.

00:59:15.280 Oh yeah.

00:59:16.260 Are you.

00:59:17.300 Are you.

00:59:20.520 Turn around in the bed.

00:59:21.780 And you look and they're sleeping.

00:59:22.740 Yeah.

00:59:23.000 Oh.

00:59:24.320 My biggest ick.

00:59:25.680 My biggest ick.

00:59:26.800 Maybe that's why you hate sleeping.

00:59:27.860 I think that's why.

00:59:28.800 Because I've definitely cried.

00:59:30.160 While my ex-man has been asleep.

00:59:32.620 Or all of them.

00:59:33.700 Well you're fighting.

00:59:34.140 Every time.

00:59:34.760 Because you should wake up.

00:59:35.740 Yeah.

00:59:36.040 You should wake up.

00:59:36.620 I can't believe that this isn't keeping you up all night.

00:59:38.680 Like it's keeping me up all night.

00:59:40.080 Even though I'm tired too.

00:59:41.180 Sometimes I'll literally be like.

00:59:42.200 I'm tired too.

00:59:43.160 Yeah.

00:59:44.440 And I'm still here.

00:59:45.320 I'm clocked in.

00:59:46.200 I can't believe you're not clocked in.

00:59:47.400 I can't believe you didn't punch your time card like me.

00:59:49.340 I just don't care about this relationship.

00:59:54.460 Okay.

00:59:54.960 Thank you all.

00:59:55.880 I think that's going to do it for this episode.

00:59:57.980 Thank you so much to my bestie.

00:59:59.820 Cammie Crawford.

01:00:00.620 For being the world's hottest.

01:00:02.520 And most talented.

01:00:03.300 And most busiest person in the world.

01:00:04.860 I love you.

01:00:05.400 I literally adore you.

01:00:06.700 What do you want people to know about.

01:00:08.640 Boys.

01:00:09.040 Or F boys.

01:00:11.920 Honestly guys.

01:00:13.280 Don't do it.

01:00:14.700 Don't do it in the missionary position.

01:00:16.280 Don't do it.

01:00:17.460 Just don't do it.

01:00:18.300 You know.

01:00:19.320 The reality of the situation is.

01:00:21.860 While.

01:00:23.020 Of course.

01:00:24.280 I want to put all of the blame.

01:00:25.920 On the F boys.

01:00:27.380 I think that we have to also acknowledge.

01:00:30.980 What we're accepting.

01:00:32.520 Of.

01:00:33.260 What we're not.

01:00:34.660 Yes.

01:00:34.880 What we deserve.

01:00:36.040 What we don't.

01:00:36.960 Like.

01:00:37.480 When you are clear about that.

01:00:39.580 Of course.

01:00:40.440 They creep in.

01:00:41.540 Yeah.

01:00:41.740 Every once in a while.

01:00:42.480 I've been a victim.

01:00:43.600 Myself.

01:00:44.140 Yeah.

01:00:44.640 But.

01:00:45.400 When you are clear.

01:00:46.760 About what it is that you.

01:00:48.400 Want at the end of the day.

01:00:49.680 If you just want to.

01:00:51.540 Sneaky link.

01:00:52.340 Yeah.

01:00:53.420 Enjoy.

01:00:54.000 By all means.

01:00:54.780 Don't get emotionally attached though.

01:00:55.920 Yeah.

01:00:56.460 And if you can't do that.

01:00:57.940 Without that.

01:00:59.100 Don't even bother.

01:00:59.660 Yeah.

01:00:59.820 Don't bother.

01:01:00.560 Don't even bother.

01:01:01.120 No friends with benefits.

01:01:02.120 No.

01:01:02.400 It's not for everyone.

01:01:03.060 You gotta be this tall ride this ride.

01:01:04.740 Like.

01:01:05.100 You gotta.

01:01:05.340 There's requirements.

01:01:06.420 Yeah.

01:01:06.620 If you're gonna go in that route.

01:01:07.760 But like.

01:01:08.700 Just know.

01:01:10.320 That you deserve the best.

01:01:11.600 Mm-hmm.

01:01:12.880 And ain't nobody got time.

01:01:15.260 For that.

01:01:16.060 Yeah.

01:01:16.420 Life's too short.

01:01:17.920 Passenger side of his best friend's ride.

01:01:19.320 Yeah.

01:01:20.540 He doesn't have a car.

01:01:21.820 TLC told us so long ago.

01:01:23.080 TLC told us.

01:01:24.400 They warned us.

01:01:24.940 When we were basically in diapers.

01:01:26.480 Yeah.

01:01:27.640 We should have known.

01:01:29.280 They've been there.

01:01:30.160 He wasn't man enough for me.

01:01:31.260 Tony Braxton.

01:01:31.800 Like make a playlist.

01:01:33.840 And just understand that you deserve better.

01:01:36.320 Exactly.

01:01:37.340 Where can everybody find you Kami?

01:01:39.300 Well you can find me on all socials.

01:01:41.260 At Kami Crawford.

01:01:42.320 K-A-M-I-E.

01:01:43.560 The E is important.

01:01:44.220 People like to leave it off.

01:01:45.720 They think it's like for fun.

01:01:47.500 It's not.

01:01:47.560 It's a suggestion.

01:01:48.120 My name.

01:01:49.680 That's gonna be my name.

01:01:51.040 Yeah.

01:01:51.280 And then my podcast Relationship airs every Friday.

01:01:54.800 That's.

01:01:55.780 At Relationship.

01:01:56.760 Dear Media.

01:01:58.120 Period.

01:01:59.320 Period.

01:01:59.700 Point blank.

01:02:00.280 Right.

01:02:00.520 And Catfish.

01:02:02.000 Oh my god.

01:02:02.300 I always forget.

01:02:02.940 Of me plugging yourself.

01:02:04.720 Yeah.

01:02:05.060 I'm like and Catfish.

01:02:05.980 Are you kidding?

01:02:06.580 Catfish every Tuesday on MTV at 8, 7 central.

01:02:10.040 Love that.

01:02:11.000 Thank you so much for joining us.

01:02:11.940 Thank you.

01:02:12.240 I absolutely adore you.

01:02:13.360 I love you.

01:02:14.240 If you want to catch full length episodes.

01:02:16.260 They drop every Wednesday at 12 p.m. Pacific Standard Time.

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01:02:33.740 Bye.

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