WHO WANT ME? Ft. Fortune Feimster | Episode 183
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Summary
This week on The Comment Section Show, we have the iconic, the legendary, and the hilariously hilarious fortune fiefster! She's a 45-year-old woman in nicknames who happens to be one of the funniest people I've ever met, and she's not even half as tall as you might think.
Transcript
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i'm a 45 year old woman in nikes what that's crazy but that's west coast baby
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that's you blending in everyone that else my age is not wearing this i promise you
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hey everyone and welcome back to another episode of the comment section show starring me your fave
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everybody knows me who cares about me on to the guests today we have the iconic the legendary
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the unbelievably hilarious fortune fiefster welcome to the show i wanted to get in on those
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woos yeah you have to it's it's real group think i love it the energy everyone's a sheep in here
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it's great yeah don't matter woo come on it's a real like monkey sea monkey kind of vibe i have
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over here but i'm honored to have you i am so honored to be here thank you for having me
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please you're an icon and a legend i think you're so hilarious oh thank you and i've been watching
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you for a while not in a creepy way i love it i love to be watched from afar in a creepy or non-creepy
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way i'll take it you're not picking either watching this episode of the comment section is presented by
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off to college at amazon save on college save the every day how you feeling how's life going for you
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life's all right yeah you're a busy bee i am yeah you got a lot going on i just got back from iceland
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oh my god how was that it was so fun i did a show over there oh okay and what's the crowd like in
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iceland very great i mean icelandic people are kind of quirky anyway yeah so they i think got the
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silliness that i'm bringing to the table they were picking up what you were yeah we kind of and and i'm
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a sturdy woman and they have sturdy women it's the one country where i don't get called sir i loved it
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that is a win yeah yeah depending on who you ask that is a win they're like you're one of us i said
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sure i get it though i'm also a sturdy woman listen we but we hold it down i think so people come to
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us they want us to be the base of their pyramids when they you know one of those cute pictures where
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everyone's on each other or the base we're holding it down at the bottom yeah okay i got you it's either
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that or i'm taking the picture so either one she'll take the picture right i know being a big
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everyone in hollywood is itty bitty small they're itty bitty but we're doing our own thing i know
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i just i was shocked when i got here a lot of short people yeah everybody's so unbelievably tiny like i
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had maryn morris here yeah and she sat in that chair like an american girl doll she's like this part
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of the chair yeah like her feet were completely straight i was like you're too small her legs
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yeah i was like you need to you need to grow more i'm like god dang can i fit in this i know you and
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me both but i come from a big family do you come from a big family i sure do yeah big i you know
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what's funny is like when i tell people like my perception of like larger bodied people or just
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tall people big people yeah is vastly different from other people's because sometimes when they see
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because my dad is 6'6 oh yeah so my dad's a big dude so like when they see me they're like whoa
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if they saw my dad i don't know what would happen you're like i ain't nothing well how tall are you
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i'm six feet yeah i'm 5'10 okay nice i think i'm gonna start lying and saying i'm 5'10 yeah yeah
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because i'm getting into acting oh not yeah when i'm six in front of it i'd love to get some advice
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from you on that okay but like i just started dipping my toe into acting i would love to move
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into it and i obviously like i do self-tapes and you know for the slate they have you say like
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where you're where you're located and your height yeah and i just recently hired an acting coach and
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i asked him i said can i ask you a question yeah does height matter like when i say because i tell
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i say i'm six feet in the slate but i think it's working against me me not even factoring talent
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i'm like it has to be cares about my acting it has to be my what do they think about my height
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that's what's preventing me from getting the role can you say five five eleven that's why i he told
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me five ten five ten five eleven yeah i mean i guess if you say five ten no one's they don't really
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know measure me yeah and if you do then i say misogynistic and you already have the job at that
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point well and i and i when i asked him he was like that's a great question in short yes it does
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he's like so i have some clients that are men and i'm like well that doesn't make me feel good
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opening the conversation like that like all right and he's like and they're like six three six four
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i have a couple and he goes when the role comes in and superhero i'm like he's six four right when
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it's love interest i'm like he's five ten oh and i was like that's a huge jump i'm gonna start
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telling people on five two i think that you i think five tens where to land i think so that's
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where we're gonna go i even told my fiancee i was like what about five nine he goes no yeah no five
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ten he's like they're gonna know you're lying just like i was like all right relax not too much
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on me calm down calm down yeah but i i was really thinking i was like i really think guys i was me
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telling my team i know nothing i'm like i think it's my height yep i think that's why because some
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of the reads they're not huge parts but like some of the they're like love interest uh-huh so if i say
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six feet they're gonna be like damn well because all the guys in hollywood are like five six i know
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and then i'm like well what's a girl to do i'm not reading for the love interest part so i don't
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i don't worry about it i'm the quirky crazy person that flies into a scene and acts insane
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well maybe i gotta switch up my my mo i mean listen i think you should go for whatever you want to do
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but that i've learned where my sweet spot is and mine is being the insane person and you're and you're
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booking the roles left and right i mean yeah i gotta learn from you yeah i i i'm so curious because i
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have this this is just a random fear me just creating problems on nowhere but i was like
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i was thinking about love scenes in movies okay have you done a lot of love scenes no no one's
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weirdly enough hollywood's not asking for that i i had my first on-screen smooch okay how was that
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and uh it truly was just a smooch it's like like that they're like don't don't do too much not too much
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okay on the mini project i was actually my character gets engaged on the show and we don't
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kiss in hindsight that's wild that is crazy i'm just proposing this person and we're like
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you sound like brothers every time so yeah somehow my first on-screen kiss was uh in foobar this last
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season and uh we like uh had some big victory and she just gives me a little smooch but but it wasn't
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like the yeah it wasn't just how was it how that would be awkward doing the like that's what i'm
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saying because i was thinking me and it was so funny when i had this irrational fear i was telling
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uh my cousin who's my hair makeup artist it's like four in the morning we're glamming he's like
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he's like glaring and i'm like and then i'm thinking what if i have a love scene like how am i
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gonna do that like just the thought of doing it aches me out so bad that i like it makes me not
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want to act like i'm being so serious i will do it if i will do it i will do it yeah hollywood if
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you're listening um that being said though i was telling i was like and then what am i gonna do
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am i just not gonna take the role like i'm i'm creating these fake scenarios that have not happened
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i didn't even yeah i guess cross that bridge when they when it gets here yeah how am i possibly gonna
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do a love scene oh how am i gonna break it to james cameron how am i gonna tell him
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how am i gonna tell christopher nolan i can't go through with the scene just be ready to talk to
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an intimacy coordinator me prepping yeah they coordinate all that stuff right and i'm telling
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him and he goes okay first of all you haven't booked anything so calm down and i was like right
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you're right you're right yeah i needed that let's wait for that part he's like second of all why
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don't you just wait till you book something yeah i was like all right yeah but also can't gab do all
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the things try out for the love interest part and also the crazy i think i would make an awesome
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like crazy best friend or like a for sure bitchy mean girl i think i would kill yeah absolutely
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either one a fun friend or crazy friend you got both how is the auditioning process like do you
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have any tips for me i hate it the auditioning part is the worst yeah i i book everything that's
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handed to me but when they go you got the part yes yes uh but not when i audition it's a longer road
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um but at this point in my career i'm kind of like it's not like i'm i would understand if it
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was like a part that's like way out of my wheelhouse but most of the stuff was in the
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vein of what i do like you so i'm kind of like at this point like you know you've seen me do this
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you know i can do it a thousand times my range is that big yeah like i disagree you either want this
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or you don't i think i could see you in house of the dragon or something maybe i think you could
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be some scary ass person and like a scary movie that's you know oh yeah one of those i could do
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something like that they'd make me crossdress for sure yeah they put me in one of those they'd make
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me that giant gnome that was fighting with the wildlings like that's who they'd cast me as i'd be
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like the woman in a trailer that's a band you know been abandoned by everyone and just like
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you know hadn't just a couple of bathed in a long time i'd be one of those people
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but yeah auditioning heck it's not the best because it's you know some people are amazing
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auditioners and then on the day they don't really bring it yeah that's true which i don't think is
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helpful yeah uh i i like to think i bring it on the day um you said just wait well because it's
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that's like with stand-up too and if i've had to like host something they kind of want you to go
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through your material earlier in the day you're just gonna like i'm like it'll be fine later
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trust me it's gonna kill yeah when it's time you kind of come alive that's that's t sort of how i
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do it i love that though i think the acting coach i worked with too he told me like a lot of times
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it's confidence more than anything yeah like moving with confidence is like a big huge part of it sure
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and he's like and then sometimes i'll when people like they start booking off confidence like they
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don't really need me as much and then if they get something that's harder yeah they'll come back to me
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and then work on that yeah okay that makes you feel a little bit better it's good that you're
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going to somebody that helps i mean i've been to people throughout you know my career especially
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if it's a harder um uh role or like i've tried out for things that it that are out of my wheelhouse
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and i've been proud of putting that work that you know pushed myself to do something different but
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yeah i think it you know getting off book very important i used to like complain about that all the
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time really like i don't want to memorize this but it really makes a difference like no that's
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so true present yeah that's so true look people in the eye when you're you know doing the audition
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and um and yeah the confidence definitely helps if you're like timid or yeah totally they don't want
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that i'm sure yeah when you're doing it no that makes me feel a lot better about it especially i want
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to move to stand up like all right i would love to know like what drew you to stand up in the first
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place like what made you want to go into it well i started the groundlings first love um iconic yeah
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they're so great uh improv first and then sketch comedy uh how do you like improv i love it so silly
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you know i love it but it's like it's ridiculous but that's the best part about the groundlings is
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that you you're an adult kind of not caring what people think which i love yeah you're allowing
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yourself to be silly and creative and their their goal is to push you to the point where you're not
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judging yourself oh i love no ego involved yeah so i think that's bled into my stand up of
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not being afraid to be silly look silly or be silly totally i'm not trying to be some you know sex pot up
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there i don't look like one i'm not trying to be one i'm just being ridiculous yeah and uh i think
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that started with improv totally um and then sketch helped me learn how to write and essentially most of
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my acting uh skills came from improv improv and doing the the sketch shows uh so i was there about
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six years and while i was there uh i started my own sketch comedy group oh cool what was the name
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gas money because we were just trying to make gas money i always ask the name i love the name yeah we
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were broke i just needed some gas money uh but it was uh i found it was hard to get stage time back
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then now they have a lot more opportunities yeah uh but back then you only got stage time if you were
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in the company i was like how do we get in the company if we don't have stage time so i started
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my own group while i went through the school and a friend came to a show and she was like why aren't
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you doing stand-up and yeah i was like because it looks really hard and she's like just do it so
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she helped uh get me in touch with a friend of hers who had a class i took a class like a nerd
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and i'm so that's cool though but i think it's kind of fun to do that because it's a structure
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totally uh where you're like oh once a week i'll go do this class and that will make me on stage and
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make me get in uh talking to a microphone and you don't necessarily no one can really teach you how
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to be a stand-up but they can teach you like here's some general structure structure and just do it
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and uh it got me to just do it and at the end of the six weeks there was like a show
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and and once i got out on stage and did did the set i was like oh i'm hooked did you love it i loved
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it immediately immediately i love that though yeah so great and i think having done improv and sketch
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it made me way more comfortable on yeah stage because half of stand-up is just learning to be
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comfortable that's true and uh if the audience can sense that you're not comfortable yeah they are
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not on board with you that's true uh they sniff it out right away almost immediately yeah like
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blood in the water but again that confidence if you yeah if you're having a good time you're like
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your your energy's telling them they're in good hands yeah totally they'll be at ease that's such
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a good point i like did i i tried stand-up i was avoiding it forever because i was like i love
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stand-up so much that i was like i really don't want to find out the hard way i'm bad at it like
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because it's literally like going up there and perform and then they're just they don't have to
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laugh yeah you're not funny they're not going to that's true so that was like and i have my ego is
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not too big to admit i know i'm funny online yeah doesn't always translate but you're confident
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yeah that is true i am very confident but i was like i was worried and maybe that's proof that i
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wasn't like an asshole being trying to do stand-up because you know men will tell like a couple jokes
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on tiktok and they're like i should quit my job i should be a professional stand-up i should start
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picking up shifts at the laugh factory yeah but just you doing your your podcast and i know you've
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toured and i mean that's great like practice for that just being on stage being in a mic yeah it's
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already half the battle and our mutual friend caleb he bullied me into trying stand-up that's what
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caleb's for to bully people he's so funny and he came and watched me live um here in la and then
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afterwards he was like you need to do stand-up yeah and he because and he was telling me and i
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was like i mean maybe but i was i know you know caleb i do you wouldn't lie to me he would have a
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great time no just uh tell you the truth if he thought otherwise uh be like girl you should not
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be doing this you wouldn't have a ball yeah going down that road he's like it was fun you shouldn't
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do it anymore but it was fun have you um well in stand-up have you noticed any like are there any
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cities that are your faves to tour oh my gosh there's so many good cities i mean i've been
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touring now 15 years uh period non-stop uh i got to stand up 2007 and then started touring 2010
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um a lot of crappy shows and uh cafeterias of right colleges and stuff like that but uh i just
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you know i if every year and a half i would go back to a new city uh and build you know call it
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building the markets and so i'm very lucky that a lot of these markets i have been building every
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once a year every year and a half so i go back to these places and have such a nice rapport like
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um chicago's one of the best that was fun chicago's fun yeah yeah uh dallas very cool yeah i mean i
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i i'm shocked sometimes that where i sell i i sell more tickets in dallas than i do like in san
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francisco it's bizarre to me i i don't quite understand southern's winning over gay yeah i don't
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know so um that's a trip nashville's great i mean uh but then you go to these some of these like
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random markets like a mobile alabama i i was like having dinner in a restaurant on the main strip that
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leads to the theater and after dinner my opener and i are walking i'm like let's just walk to the
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theater and it's like a parade start everyone's like jumping out of their cars and like hey hey
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and he's like what's happening i go i don't know they're just so pumped to like have you know people
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come to their city that's true because they're smaller they're smaller and so some of these bigger
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cities you know or have a plethora of entertainment and and they're used to it my manager says they're
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spoiled they are like la san francisco new york yeah so i like to go to these smaller markets
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and uh it's it feels like such a treat you know that yeah uh they treat me well and and i have
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such a good time so that's good at this point there's not there's very few places where i'm like
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i'm not going back there uh most places i'm pretty pumped to return yeah joel kim booster told me it
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was arizona like he was like phoenix specifically he's like i love me yeah he goes i've gone twice
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bombed both times not for him we laughed about it he was like and the second time i was like well
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you know the first time was different you go second time even worse so i said never mind don't book me
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there anymore we laughed about it but i i get what you mean because when i was on tour last year i was
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shocked that one of our first cities that sold out was columbus ohio oh columbus is an amazing yeah
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i was like y'all are freaks out here like i was shocked at how many people showed up and for me that
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they have a huge gay community there yeah so i get a lot of love in columbus but it is a very good
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city for comedy it was so fun yeah i had a blast there dallas too dallas was really fun for me when
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i went there uh i'd love to ask this uh question to comics but like do you have any jokes that you
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know hit in certain cities versus others yeah i mean like when i'm in the south i know that i i'm
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talking more about biscuits and my hooters jokes and stuff it's a bit more irreverent there or i or
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i have jokes about church and stuff like there are churches on every corner there um and then
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maybe like west coast maybe talk more gay stuff but for the most part because i'm always working
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towards shooting a special yes so every tour of mine now is very structured it's a year and a half to two
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years yeah it's a hundred uh cities at least uh 150 shows and and the whole uh year and a half to two
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years i'm just building the act towards filming it okay so most of the time yeah it's a similar
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set but it's constantly evolving yeah and i'll change the order a lot i'll punch stuff up so
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it's fun for people to see it like some people will see in the very beginning yeah and how it
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evolves near the end yeah and then some stories once you know because two years have passed you're
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like that story's not as fun anymore yeah pull it and and something new will have years yeah
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that's by the time the special comes out two years yeah but still you're working all the time yeah
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and it's it's wild like i've uh done three hours and two half hours i never thought i'd have this
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much material that's crazy i didn't think i'd have one hour so i can't believe i'm you know to that
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point but it's just a different time it used to be comics put out a special one every four years
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yeah totally and now when you're as unbelievably funny as you they're like more more more more i don't
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know i just think people are like consuming content so much faster yeah the landscape has
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shifted so now if you don't put out one every two years they're like what are you doing and you're
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like isn't this enough and i'm like filming in between like i'm acting for like five months in
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between so maybe so yeah but no this will be about a year and a half to two years but okay but yeah
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for yeah i think at this point the people coming to my shows most of those people know yeah they love me
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or who i am um so i'm not having to win them over as much which is nice it's helpful yeah oh yeah
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well i mean you worked your ass off to get the audience so that makes sense that's part of the
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building those markets totally occasionally there will be some people that wander in and you can see
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the shell shock like where am i who are what are all these gays doing
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there's this many of you here but i actually my audience about it's about half and half okay
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half straighties half gays right i get real shocked when i have straight men in any room i'm in i'm like
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really they're yeah they're usually with a the girlfriend who's exactly and the girlfriend's
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always like i dragged him here and you're like okay yeah he's like yeah she did all right relax
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but there is such a victory in seeing the guys like their arms kind of cross in the beginning
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where they're like you can tell they were dragged did not want to be here and were dragged uh and
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then they're the ones that you know at the end of the show high-fiving me like that was a funny
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that's always feels good i agree to see them like come on to uh the side of really loving it yeah get
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on board yeah yeah you're like i'm gonna get you don't you worry get you mister and i know you're
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from the south you're from north carolina yeah we're in north carolina uh it's a tiny town called
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belmont right outside of charlotte okay t because my assistant we were talking yeah she's from
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wilmington yeah she was telling me all about it i was like don't know anything this that's my thing
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to do to white people is like when they're from the same geographical location i'm like i know
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someone who's from yeah like you guys know each other yeah my agent's canadian so any any time i meet a
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canadian person yeah she's in the room i go she's canadian you're so pumped about it you guys have
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so much in common you should talk have you ever been in north carolina no i haven't i don't think
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wait on tour no i don't think so me forgetting like i don't believe so no but we are planning to go
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to her hometown oh really yeah like because she wants to show us around well it's pretty great
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you'll like it yeah yeah she was telling us all about it she talks about it all the time sometimes
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are like what it was all the rage back yeah katie holmes right yeah i know about it like who was it
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james vanderby i know so the south is in your set a lot i bet well it's just part of you part of me
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yeah i've been here 22 years in la but my accent is very thick i don't know how to shake it it's not
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going anywhere i'm glad you still have it i mean it i think it's different yeah it's it's uh it helps
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me with comedy in that i can like ham up some things yeah as a result and use it to my advantage
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um but yeah i think having just grown up in the south and being around a lot of characters uh
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people that are real who you when you describe them to people are like there's no way that's a
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real person like that is the people that i grew up around so it's such a part of me and my storytelling
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totally that uh that yeah that part of me just kind of comes out but i've been west coast for so long
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that it's this mix of like that southern thing and the manners with the west coast chill yeah uh
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kind of selfishness into one yeah a lot of selfishness i'll do what i want and uh jeans
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a lot of jeans i'm a 45 year old woman in nikes what that's crazy but that's west coast baby
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that's you blending in yeah i'm like go home and my everyone that else my age is not wearing
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this i promise you when you said in between touring stand-up uh you also film and obviously
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you're a very successful actor as well um how'd you get into acting like how'd you was that kind
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of a natural progression from stand-up yeah i was on chelsea lately for four years three years as a
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writer and then on the panel and so i would do a lot of sketches for them and coming from the
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groundlings uh doing a lot of characters and um so i was dabbling in that world but not real like
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acting um and i it just was always a goal of mine to do it love and uh so i took acting classes and
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uh on my in my free time and then when chelsea uh chelsea's show ended i got i tried out for a
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pilot for fox uh and got it and so that was like my first big uh booking of of something and i was
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so excited it was a tina fay produced pilot and really funny uh and it just it was gonna get picked
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up it was one of those uh hollywood things where it was set to go and then the they fired the
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president of the network and the new people came in there's all that politics behind the scenes and
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it's out of your control yeah so it went away but uh i had tina's ear for a second and i i was like
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let me just picture i'm gonna just picture a show and i i just picture you know they say write what
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you know yeah and so i just pitched an idea based on my life and uh she she really liked it so the guy
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that wrote the pilot i had just done he wrote it with me and we sold it to abc uh and shot and we got
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to shoot the pilot it was called family fortune uh really cool like a little bit before it's time
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because i played a gay person in the south okay because this is like 10 years ago yeah and uh
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that would kill now oh i know it back then they're like we can only put on one gay show at a time
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kissing yeah and ellen's still here so you can't that's right that spot's been taken yeah and uh and it
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didn't get picked up um but uh one of the writers on the mindy project lang fisher who also uh co-created
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um never have ever with mindy kayling yeah uh she told mindy about me she's like i just did punch-ups
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on this pilot and they had this part of um that was of a southern uh brother sister duo and uh it was
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supposed to be three episodes and uh they hired me for the three episodes that led to like nine
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episodes which led to three seasons so shout out to mindy uh she is who basically started my acting
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career that's so um i everything i learned about being on set and being a professional actor was
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on that show and i was in such good hands i mean mindy's an incredible writer and showrunner and
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creator and i never had to worry about anything the the jokes the the material was incredible
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yeah so to like get to like have three years of acting classes basically yeah on a mindy kayling
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show on a huge pretty incredible yeah absolutely and i just have been acting ever since that just
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opened the door fucking cool did you get to do like um a lot of improv and stuff once you were like
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on that show no because just because they're her having come from the office like their writing was so
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good that it needed nothing from me like occasionally i'd add a little something here and there yeah
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that's one of the few projects i've been on where i did not add a thing that's um but once i left there
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a lot of things i've done they'll they'll be like because i kept writing and i was kept selling projects
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and um so my writing got better over the years and so they'll usually be like film it how it's written
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and then do your thing so like in office i did this small part in my office christmas party
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uh where i played the uber driver to jennifer anison and they said to me like this scene is kind of a
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throwaway scene but it has an important piece of information you have to tell her there's a christmas
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party at the office uh but you can basically rewrite the scene and i'm like oh cool so i
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completely rewrote the whole scene yeah and then improvise this whole thing about her name being an
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old name and god bless jen ranison she just went along with it you know she just had no idea what
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i was gonna say i had no idea what i was gonna say and it just led to this whole crazy scene
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that ended up testing super high when they were um testing the movie and they brought me back to end
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the movie so it's it's cool when you get to like put your little stamp on things hell yeah and you're
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just that fucking funny well i just think as my stand-up has grown hell yeah people now trust like
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they go oh well we know she writes for herself totally so let's uh there's a little more trust
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there i guess yeah yeah do you have like i wouldn't say a favorite but would you say there's some
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aspect of the business that you like more or lean more towards like writing acting stand-up
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definitely not writing no it's so hard even though you're really good in it i mean it's just i just
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do it because i have to yeah you know it feels like homework if it i i would have never guessed
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in a million years like when i was in college that i would be writing all the time it feels like
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college has never ended i just always torture like i open my computer i'm like oh god it really is
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like that because you know you're writing like books almost right literally it's like writing a
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book and um so and i'm always creating pilots and projects and so it's just so i've been working on
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one movie idea for seven years damn it's constantly being rewritten constant notes so it's my least
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favorite but it is the most um efficient to like if i had not written that pilot for myself i would
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not have gotten the menu project you know what i mean totally because if i had auditioned for the
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mini project probably wouldn't i gotten it based on my audition skills but so i learned early on in
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my career that to create for yourself uh is your best avenue you see that with your podcast it's
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opened so many doors right yeah you're so fucking me you've got to create your own path yeah you have
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to show the business the industry what you can do they're not waiting to to give you that opportunity
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that's so true um so yeah so that's what i learned early on was just like i gotta forge my own path
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because when i started being different was not celebrated yeah uh and it was not um represented in
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no and and they were they just did not know what to do with me so i had to show them yeah
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and you could do yeah so now i'm just continuing to do that so at this point the writing is just a
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means to an end uh i think i stand up is probably the most rewarding because um i'm actually getting
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to stand in front of people and uh get an immediate reaction yeah hear the laughter yeah and i'm sharing
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who i am i'm telling a lot of personal stories so i think people feel like they know me as a result
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yeah so it's created this very like relatable interaction between me and whoever watches my
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stuff and then acting is just fun it's fun after being on the road for so long you know you've been
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on the i don't do tour buses but you've been on tour it's yeah you get so tired you don't do the
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bus i don't do the bus i can't do the bus i did the bus and i flew some yeah i only did 22 dates
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like in like four and a half weeks so it was like almost like six days on one day off okay
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like four or five days on two days off like that's kind of how we did it um and i really thought i
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was like i'm gonna hate that fucking bus like i just felt like that was gonna be the case
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then when we started doing it and we were like driving every night i was like every time the bus
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left me i was like oh really every time you were like in your little nook yeah and like you have
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all your things yeah it's just like going in the hotels like going in day rooms and shit like
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that it felt like i was on the run i felt like jason born i just felt like going there change my
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underwear shower wipe everything down leave yeah so it felt like every time i was like i can't even
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lay down i know i can't even pull up this blanket yeah i literally just have to wipe i have to change
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my chonies and head out yeah i mean if i was gonna do like i could like oh you gotta do like a
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bunch of dates in this amount of time i could i would do a bus yeah but because i i draw
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spread it out yeah i i think because i'm a a cancer so i like to be at home i'm a home buddy
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me too so if i'm like gone for if i was gone for months at a time on a bus i think i would have a
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hard time with that yeah that is yeah taylor thompson told me she tours like that yeah like
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she kind of does it in long spurts yeah she's kind of a little more relaxed yeah because i i want
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to have balance you know like i work really hard because and and have my hands in a lot of
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different things but i think also like having a life seeing friends seeing family going to lunch
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with someone totally it's important yeah and so i don't want to just disappear for like six months
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on a bus i agree i think i call that normal human people time like now because i'm like i need to go
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hang out with people who don't give a fuck about me yeah yeah i need to hang out with people who don't
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think i'm the most hilarious bitch they've ever met you need the balance you gotta stay grounded
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that's for sure do you have friends and family that are pretty humbling for you oh everybody in
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my life is very humbling yeah caleb's one of them he's in both my lives i have not been allowed to
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be too full of myself ever i'll be like i'm important and then i'm like cleaning out some
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junk drawer of my mom's and i'm like all right whatever i know sometimes i i forget who it was but
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oh no i was like my sister at once she told me i had posted a video or something that was me
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making fun of someone and then she was like how's the funniest one you've posted in a while
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oh so and i said i post every day but thanks yeah thank you every day thank you that's gonna be
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great thank you yeah i'd actually love those notes thank you they mean a lot to me please continue
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giving me this constructive criticism have you ever gotten any uh any notes on your on your sentence
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stuff from like unsolicited notes oh god all the time from fans yeah fans men anyone yeah of course
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people like to put their two cents in right listen i don't mind if someone's like hey i have a funny
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tag for you because uh i mean usually it's garbage but um once in a blue moon someone's got like
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oh you're like all right that was kind of funny i didn't think of that and i'm like very appreciative
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because as you heard with the writing i'll take any help i can get yeah uh but yeah sometimes people
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will you know throw in a few notes you're like okay let's calm down now my mom's very good about
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uh she'll keep it real with like oh that's not my favorite story but but when she loves something
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she really loves it so then i know i'm on to something nice nice balance yeah that's take
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what do you know grace cool and schmidt no but what a fun last night i know how cool and schmidt
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cool and schmidt isn't that funny yeah she's a she's a stand-up too and she um she's really funny
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i might know her face some but how could i forget that name though yeah yeah she uh she told me that
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her grandma watched her stuff once and was like i just don't get it like you're not really marketing
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towards like 50 and up oh god and she was like yeah believe it or not that's not my target
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she's like i don't want them to come to my show they probably won't like what i'm talking about
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yeah and she's and she's gay too so she's like yeah believe it or not um over a certain age like
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they're not really looking at me that's funny yeah so i get i get it though yeah i would be like
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but you know it's like i'm not i'm not marketing to like 20 year olds you know like what
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how are they gonna relate to me you kind of know where your lane is that's too that is very true
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that's why i love to ask especially female comics i love to ask if they've ever gotten
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yeah from people in the crowd oh you're always gonna get notes i mean that's just that's just
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part of it you're also gonna just get comments in general yeah whether you want them or not
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they're coming yeah i try not to pay too much attention to it i'm just sort of always doing my thing
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um and you know what that's why you're doing so fucking well because you're not listening to
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some bullshit ass notes yes i'll listen i'll listen to the comics in my life that i you know
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same back and yeah i welcome their notes and want and want the feedback yeah but from a random i'm good
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it's okay one of us is getting paid to do it so it's i think i have a pretty good idea you tell
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i did a set recently um like semi recently and i again like when i did this set like i was put on
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the car like on the lineup like so like nothing about that is me asking for notes right but this
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like i did get notes like my team met with like the people that booked me yeah and they were like
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oh like we did have some notes like on the set which i thought was shocking wait the people that
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booked you had notes oh that's odd and it's because that's not the norm right and it's because
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it was uh brand sponsored so these at first my team was confused because they were like
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you guys have notes or they had notes like we don't want you to talk about say this kind of thing
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yes it might look bad for the brand but not even it wasn't even for that because i didn't say anything
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bad about the brand in fact i amplified the brand very much so because it was like uh it was something
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that i knew was important so i didn't say anything bad about the brand didn't talk bad on it nothing
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yeah um their note for me was that i was too mean to men and that could be isolating so interesting
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and i was supposed to be on another show and i was like yeah i'm not going to that shit like you guys
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are hold on you're you're telling me you're not allowed to talk about that but that is interesting
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and i remember i text caleb and he said giving a comic notes on to just be nicer in the set is
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probably one of the funniest things i've ever fucking heard well just that you were being too
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mean about men it's hilarious and i barely touched them if i'm being honest i was fighting with one
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hand tied behind my back because i knew so some man gave you that yes and they like he was like i
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don't know i just felt like she was alienating me mind you he's like a 50 year old man i'm like
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yeah believe it or not bitch you're not my target audience that's not not the target yeah the jokes i
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was telling in the laughter you were hearing was for everybody else in the room and i killed too
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yeah if i may say so myself say it say it girl you have two eyes and two ears you heard what you
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heard i will say in the beginning like a joke sometimes i use is like is there anyone here
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that was like a plus one and has no idea who the fuck i am like that's sometimes something i i'd start
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out with yeah and then there's always and especially if there's men in the room i know they're gonna raise
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their hand because they want attention right and they like to claim this spot of like i don't know who
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you are yeah and then i go okay well i hope you enjoy the show i did this all tour too i was like
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i hope you enjoy the show hope you have fun and if you don't i have your money already so it really
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doesn't matter either way i don't care if you have a good time and i just kind of get into it yeah
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um and that's what feminism means to me exactly that's called making the patriarchy work for you
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okay i do have some fun facts about you oh okay if you'd like to get into it yeah okay right here we
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have in high school it says you were a debutante and you went to etiquette training to prepare oh
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my god when i see you i think you think a pretty little lady a southern delicate flower yeah that's
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not my most proud time of my life uh my mom made me i wasn't even gonna ever talk about it but when i
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was doing my uh first special sweet and salty my producer was a friend is a friend of mine she's
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like you gotta talk about this like is it so crazy and it's so not you that like it's a funny like
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tidbit about you and it was something that my mom made me do really um because she had been one
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she had been a debutante but by the time i was coming around we were broke like no money and it costs
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money to do these parties and have all this stuff so like you know i'd come home and the couch would
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be missing you know i'd much rather have a couch than go to this dumbass party but she was so i
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think trying to kind of reclaim those days totally you know and i'm like we're not that's not us like
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my dad grew up in a trailer like those days are long gone you you did not marry well i don't know
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to tell you you did not marry a guy that was gonna keep your status in uh the debutante world
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right but she yeah so i did this i did this thing and i had to learn like manners and stuff and how
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how was it wipe my mouth and oh like which fork to you yeah all that stuff i mean it was fine but i
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you know so not me and uh so it was the summer between high school and college that i had to do
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it oh nice the most humiliating age i know and going to these tea parties but a good friend of mine
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was in it too and that kind of made it a little less terrible i feel it speaking of brother uh brother
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wives yeah um i they you have a there's a ball like yeah you're coming out to society so i came
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out twice and um they have usually are presented by like your dad but my my mom's like your father's
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not doing this and uh some of my brothers did it so there's a picture of me in a white wedding gown
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with my brother in a tux and it looks like i'm marrying my brother i knew it i knew you guys
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i knew it i was onto it i knew it they were mad because i was right and now it's time for a new
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save the every day uh it says that you played college soccer college tennis and you graduated summa
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cum laude so did i get it look at us look at that girls uh how did you find comfort in the chaos of
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college life i love college me too i loved college i had a blast i went to a women's college not i didn't
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know i was gay um which was a no you just really wanted to be around only women i know it was a real
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missed opportunity um but i'd always been like an overachiever totally i loved it in high school too
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like same college all the things i like went to class all the time i never skipped i was like
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student body president i just loved it so i found great comfort in the chaos i loved being busy
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loved being social loved the dorms chatted with everybody they thought i didn't study because i
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was constantly chatting but i would go in my room at like 11 and study for a couple hours and then sleep
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you and caleb have a lot in common yeah that too i made fun of him when he was on my show last time
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i made fun of him because i said i knew he was in a frat like he joined a frat that's so funny and i
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i made i was like what are you doing that's philanthropic and then i was like i'm kidding
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i know you did a lot of philanthropy in college because you student body president too yeah and
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he was like yeah i was gonna say you're about to feel real bad when i tell you all the stuff
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yeah that's because you're a big chatter right i think that's a southern thing you love a good chat
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too i love a chat yeah but i can also be very quiet as well i have both sides i'm a little bit
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more introverted than one might assume but that's just where i regroup yeah and then i go out
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and chat i get that when i'm talking a lot or performing a ton afterwards sometimes i go sit
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somewhere by myself yeah i just stare you just gotta be alone for a little bit yeah and i just
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i'm like i need to shut the fuck up for a second yeah because i talk a lot you talk a lot sometimes
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i'm like i don't want to hear one more story out of my mouth and i'm going to go sit in a corner
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and yeah stare sit on a bench yeah i'm just gonna sit and be like i'm gonna say a word
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i'm gonna stare right into the camera that's what i would do no wonder we're looking into
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the camera so that's right that's disassociating uh this next one says that you realized you were
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gay when you were 25 while watching a lifetime movie yeah that's right which lifetime movie was
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it the truth about jane i don't know if you've ever heard of it it's uh it's stalker channing who
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plays rizzo in greece okay uh was the mom and her like 16 year old daughter realizes she's gay
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and has a mentor at school a teacher who's gay um and as i described it uh the the 16 year old
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comes out to her mom and her mom's like boo and then by the end of the movie she's like yay
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and i was like and that's the movie um but i had had you know it was weird it was i i talk about how
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it was just different times when i was 25 it was like youtube was just starting and yeah there was
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no will and grace or maybe it just come out um the l word had just come out like but when i was
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growing up there was none of that stuff you know none of that uh representation so i never like saw
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myself in anything and and i just grew up in a very small town that i did not know one gay person
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i did not see a gay person hold hands till i was in college yeah um so i was just very naive
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to that world and knowing what that was in myself uh and so when i moved to la it was starting to
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bubble up i was starting to feel the thing and that you're kind of like fighting like this cannot
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be i have to i haven't found the right man which is insane and every time you say you gag a little
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yeah like now it seems like crazy that that was even a possibility right um and then i was
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watching that movie and just something about seeing this person who's young being brave enough to like
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come out made me go at the end of the movie i was like oh my god i'm i'm gay and i said it out loud
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for the first time and it was what kind of cemented it for me of like oh this is real yeah and so my
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joke was you know they say that uh having gay people in movies will make people gay and they're
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right and in my case you are correct you're right okay one out of a million this in this particular
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case you are right yep i think that's a beautiful thing though like representation like that i think
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is so yeah you need it because you know if especially if you grew up in a small town my my town was
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12 000 people yeah um if you don't know people like you or see people like you like you know
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something's different yeah you know in that uh you don't know what it is just feels like something's
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off yeah and when you're young and you're gay and you don't know it you just know that boys don't look
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at you a certain way you don't have the rapport with them in a certain way so you just feel like you
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don't quite fit in like why and it and it can't help but chip away at your self-esteem to an extent
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like why am i not the object of this person's affection right and you don't know that well
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the reason is because you know you're meant to you're not you just have no idea yeah you just don't
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know so you just think something's wrong with you um so that when you see that in front of your face
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and it that light bulb goes off you go oh my god yeah that was the missing puzzle piece all along
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i wasn't it wasn't that i was undesirable or i was this or that or it wasn't it just i didn't know
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yeah absolutely and now it seems you know thankfully there's a lot more representation
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it's talked about a lot more yeah you see it a lot more yeah it's not quite as hidden um but but
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still matters for sure absolutely and that's why i think you're even though writing is the bane of
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your existence in a lot of ways i also think it's a beautiful thing that you write so much because
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it like that kind of writing is so important like writing characters like that based in real life
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and not always centered in trauma and of some kind i think it's a beautiful thing well thank you i think
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that's why you just keep selling them over and over again you're trying to the computer i'm just
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telling my story you know i love it i'm just trying to yeah that's kind of i know what to do is tell
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my story and my how i see the world and if it helps people in any way yeah i'm that's like the
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cherry on top i think that's why it's working so well for you the universe is working with you and
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for you thank you universe that important thank you of course okay we have more fun facts uh this one
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says you got your comedy start taking improv classes at ground lanes in la after moving here from your
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hometown oh it says when you were 23 you got a job as an entertainment journalist interviewing people
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on red carpets and it turned into a full-time job for seven years yeah was that with chelsea too or
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no that was right before chelsea okay so that was during there was like an eight-year period where i
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was trying to make it in comedy and so my day job was being a journalist okay which was really cool
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like to you know that to that have sorry we can't talk to have that be my day job yeah it was like
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awesome because it was like adjacent to the business i got to learning a different side of it too yeah i got to go on
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all these red carpets and i interviewed all these people i really admired all like all these you
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know huge movie stars and tv stars and yeah i went to like the grammys and the oscars and the emmys i
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went to movie premieres and i was you know started when i was 23 and did that until i was 30 um and that's
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what kept my bills paid and then at night i did comedy um so i love it you have been working your ass off
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oh yeah so yeah if i had wanted to be a journalist as a career i would have i've made it yeah like
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totally it did not get better than that in that world uh and i i worked for some amazing people
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that knew i wanted to be a comic because sometimes you're working at one job and they don't like that
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you have another goal yeah totally uh but they were so like supportive and like i bet it only enhanced
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your skill as an interviewer yeah i mean because i do carpets now too all the time i'd love to know
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your experience like how is that how did you like interviewing people well we were in the we were
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in the beginning stages of the internet having all the entertainment news on it right and so
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you would see all these people ham it up for the cameras yeah and then come to me and be like what's
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up what's going on because it was like print journalism right so it's different but i we were like we
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actually reach a lot more people than this hell yeah whatever you know random cable on cable yeah
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and uh but like once people started talking to me and he heard my accent they kind of like dropped
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the pretenses and just had like a real conversation with me totally so that's some really lovely
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conversations with actors and stuff and and i talked to a lot of people on the phone for like 30
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minutes and what happens i'm like just really interesting talks right um people that i've it's
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funny i've since run into publicists or people photographers from the red carpet they'll see me
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now on the other side and it's such a trip right bet it's also they are this it's the same people like
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working especially during the award season circuit like you see the same people every time and they
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are so drama rama oh really like in press boxes you know like in those press uh like areas and stuff
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like because everybody knows each other so it's almost like it feels to me like uh like if we
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were all at camp together and this is like our mess hall and then we all come here and everyone's
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talking about each other yeah i just like sometimes i just be listening sometimes the girls fight
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at those things oh that's funny yeah when i was doing the red carpets the it was entering into
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that phase of the paparazzi was becoming a big thing yeah uh star magazine was a big thing and
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like when they were like stalking celebrities like tabloids weird that was a weird thing and i
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would overhear them talking about all the lengths they were going to to like spy on them i was like
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y'all are crazy weird that was like those were like the lindsey lohan britney spears that era
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paris hilton era where they were you'd see them all over town following them everywhere like it was
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like like a caravan almost yeah it was wild i you would just see this train of people just like
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you're like what is going on it'd be like lindsey lohan going to the ivy or something
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it's a weird time it was weird la back then was there yeah it was different there was just like
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celebrities everywhere and cameras everywhere very weird i think that's so cool that you were um
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on the carpets for so long too because i've been doing carpet stuff for a minute now like i'm i'm
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really kicking it into overdrive lately and i love doing carpet stuff yeah they could care less if
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i'm there though like i sometimes people are like oh my god you got to go to the oscars i'm like
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yeah they also told me they'll shoot me dead if i step outside the shrub so like there's you know
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there's when i get there i'm the help like when i get there they're like valley some cars while you're
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here yeah it's so useful it's a weird thing it's like cool you're like adjacent to it but right and
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it's like you're also there and that's cool but yeah it's it was a trip i interviewed like anna nicole
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smith and like oh that's crazy julie andrews yeah i mean all the way from you know tom hayes
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is like yeah all the all these neat people um that i just i'm actually i because in my in that
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special sweet and salty i mentioned i talked about how uh when i first started the red carpets
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i wanted to look more la so i went to forever 21 and uh bought a velour uh tracksuit with a pink
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cupcake on the back and everyone thought i was kidding i was like no no i bought a velour tracksuit
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you know and that said red carpet yeah to me i thought this is very la red carpet and you know
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the these clothes dissolved in the sun after like five days they're like twenty dollars and dissolved in
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the sun and everyone was like ha ha hilarious and um there's a documentary about serene mckellen and i'm
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in i was at the lord of the rings premiere and you can see me with my pink your knock off track suit
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yeah i have a pink cupcake interviewing serene mckellen i took a screen grab i'm like i told you
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at the lord of the rings for me yes so that you're just like i need to make a statement
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i'm interviewing serene mckellen in a blue velour tracksuit with a pink cupcake on the back
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like not okay i would love that though i mean god i i just was really trying to be the my best la
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and pull focus at any point and i did because i'm sure they were like what is that i i sometimes i'm
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sure you got this question a lot too like i'll get questions about celebrities like how are they like
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yeah are they cool and i'm like most of them are kind of weird but like they're normal they're very nice
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yeah for the most part i i honestly have had way more positive ones than negative ones and negative
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ones i've had they weren't talking to me like it was just i saw something so i was like oh that's
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kind of weird yeah but thankfully i haven't really had any terribly negative ones like it was like
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generally nice but i think too and you're i feel like this is the same kind of energy you have too
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where it's like i've told people if you just talk to them like they're normal most oftentimes
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they'll be awesome because especially when they're that famous like they've been they've
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been so not normal for so long like nobody treats them normal that's not their like immediate family
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like it's true they live in this weird bubble where like everybody like is so careful and weird around
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them and awkward so i feel like when you're just kind of like normal to them they open up a little bit
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more yeah i mean that's kind of how i've always been like when i was a journalist i just was like hey
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what's up let's chat and that's what i'm like now on set when i yeah i've gotten to film with some
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really cool people and but i don't go in too hot you know yeah i'm like i'm gonna let them come to
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me or or i'll just like give people their space and i'll just be like hey how's it going this is
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so cool yeah absolutely i feel like it's it's a very you're a big energy reader too like a vibe reader
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that's the cancer in me and i'm a cancer moon there you go so there you go yeah i just feel i feel
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people's thing you know and so if i can pick up pretty quick if if i'm like oh this person does
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not want to be bothered i don't bother them you know or if they're in a weird mood or whatever
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right and eventually the you know if you're especially if you're working on set with this
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person at some point they'll come around and be like what's your deal you know so you gotta you do
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just like let them come to you uh but then you can tell if someone's energy is open totally and
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yeah i just kind of read the i think i read the room well same and i and it's funny because i've
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told people like when they whenever they're like oh they should all everyone should be journalists
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mind you i uh like on carpets mind you i went to college for journalism so i do actually have a
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journalism and i was a journalist for a long time so yeah i learned how to shoot edit right all that
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stuff so like i actually do have the credentials i did not so my point being now that i do this as
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like an influencer right there is that debate that's like it shouldn't be influencers it should
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be journalists to which i say like i don't think the badge matters nearly as much i think it's the
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ability to read a room yeah it's far more useful like the ability to talk to someone and have a
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conversation and i feel like and i and sometimes i've joked i've been like i've seen how women on the
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internet treat me in real life and i'm a again i'm a clown for hire there's no way you'd be able to
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talk to timothy chalamet normal right i've seen how you treat me you guys treat me weird and he's
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way more famous than me like that's where i'm like i think like the ability to relate and be normal
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and cool and read a room it's very important right because i think sometimes too when you try to force
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silliness on people that do not want to be oh yeah you can tell when they don't want that
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immediately i pick it i'm like perfect no fun got it in the back we're gonna keep it straight
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now yeah and i i did the white lotus premiere this year and uh parker posey is obviously a huge
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person in in the white lotus this season and she was killer and uh they told me a ton they were like
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you know she doesn't um love interviews anymore like oh really yeah because i she's just been doing
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it forever i'm sure she's just sick of it and like the premiere was the last stop on their press
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store so they were like basically telling me like don't hold your breath like if she doesn't
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want to talk i'm like yeah all right i'm not gonna force it and i told them i was like i'll save
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everybody the headache i really don't force it if they're not feeling it for sure i promise i won't
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and they were like okay so she came and uh she she agreed to talk to me for a little uh and so i was
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talking around and i asked her like a real standard question how do you feel being here whatever kind
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of warm her up yeah and then she was being so like she's so witchy i just sensed it about her i was
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like she i feel like she loves astrology i feel like she looks like yeah that was kind of her energy
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and then i said what's your sign when she said something she goes there you go you got her
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i'm a scorpio could you tell and oh she's a scorpio yeah that makes things a little bit
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right like it makes more sense right and so when she was she's kind of protective yeah yeah and then
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so when i said that she was what are you and then we just kept talking she talks so like pageantry like
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the way she talks yeah it's very like old hollywood right and so then uh she talked to me for a minute
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and i was like it was so lovely to meet you she goes oh are we done we're done now more and they
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were so like i can't believe she was so fun with you and i was like i read her vibe and i didn't
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ask her too many silly things right whenever like i was like older people don't like to be
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asked to dig into that meaningful uh the stars the stars yeah yeah we wanted to align on the stars
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okay i have another fun fact for you uh it says one of your first credited roles was janitor in the
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movie the secret lives of dorks oh my god yeah that was like i that was the very first acting
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role i ever did and it was like i was when i was on chelsea lately nice someone saw me on chelsea
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and just was doing like an indie comedy and they were like does she want to play a janitor and at
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that point i just wanted the experience so i was like sure yeah but yeah it was that was my first taste
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of anything i mean when i first auditioned i want to say i auditioned for something like uh
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i don't remember what it was early on and i did my audition looking right into the camera
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and the lady had to stop me she goes um don't look in the camera look at me and i was like uh-huh
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okay and then and then at the end she goes all right um now let's slate and i go
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what what is that she's like you just say her name and yeah i know what it is but do you know
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so i had no clue so i mean you know i always say they they have these acting classes people there
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should be a class of practical things like here's how to audition don't look here's what this means
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and like when you're on because i had a friend who's a big stand-up who had a for an acting role
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for the first time and i knew she wasn't going to know a lot of the lingo so i called her and i was
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like this is what you know this is like hitting your mark this is finding your light this is you
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know this is what this means and when the ad you know that you just need a class of like hear all
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the things right i think that would be more as much as a help as yeah the verbiage exactly yeah
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and they do talk in shorthand yeah yeah you know what's funny is um when i did last year i i was in
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an nba commercial uh-huh for reasons i still don't understand they asked me to come i said i love it
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yeah i'd love to be there you're like i'm six feet that's when you owned it that's where my
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that's where it was working in my favor exactly and um in one of my scenes or the only scene actually i
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had was uh with kelly roland uh-huh which is nuts hell yeah and uh so yeah so she she was so nice and
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so professional but i remember like they told me what i was gonna do like my line was follow me kelly
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that was my my one line i think i killed it but they wanted me to like close a laptop and like
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in earnest and be like let's go kind of vibe so i was like okay uh-huh so when i was practicing it
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was one of those things where it's so simple and it's one line that i felt like i was overthinking
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it a little bit and then for some reason like for like two takes in a row i looked at the camera twice
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like ah and but i do that now yeah but in a way where i was like and then the director would be
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like cut don't look at the camera and i'm like oh my god i'm so sorry sorry about that like sorry
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and then every time it came around i'd be like well it's so hard because it just naturally you're just
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like sort of drawn to it i mean even in this latest food bar i i i'll be at you know talking to someone
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and i'll be like oh my god i just stared down the barrel of the camera i'm so sorry then they're
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like well don't end the scene but keep going right i know you're like sorry about that guys looking
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right at the camera like just keep going i agree with you though on verbiage yeah they should you
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should make like a glossary yeah because like when you're starting out and you want to know how to
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audition what to do yeah right very intimidating and i feel like even with uh especially when you're on
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the set like in the the heat of it and everyone's watching and then when everyone gets quiet yeah
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because i remember too when i first started doing this um i was almost exclusively just like online
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people influencers right and um sometimes like at the beginning we would be everyone would have to
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be super super quiet because we were trying to do obviously it's a podcast yeah but then after a
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while i was like i don't mind if you can hear laughter i think that makes it more fun yeah and caleb
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shows like that too which i was like i think it adds to the ambiance of it i think that's fun but before
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uh there would be no laughing at all like no noise and i would have to tell like comedy creators or
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comics or whatever like i would say like it's gonna feel like none of your jokes are hitting because
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no one's gonna laugh right but just keep your eyes on me i'll laugh the whole time like no matter what
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i'll laugh honestly and earnestly and they're like okay because and then it would kind of make them
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nervous because oh really because it's so quiet and they're not used to like you know sets like that
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where everyone has to be quiet and do it but i'm like you like i had a meeting uh with like tv movie people
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whatever last week and they were like oh do you have any like preferences in terms of like where
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you're leaning towards comedy drama whatever romance and i go my energy right now is who want me
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who want me that's kind of my energy which one do you want me yeah what do you need there you go
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i don't care you have to be open to different opportunities oh absolutely i've done a lot of
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stuff over the years for free and a lot of you know like yeah you just you do you do the thing and
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i and a lot of people get very short-sighted about that right i mean like now i don't have to
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do that as much thankfully yes but i spent many years doing it i get that and my friends who wouldn't
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i i would just say you know you don't know opportunity will come from that and like who will
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you know who you'll meet or you have to be open to to just doing to working doing things it's not
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about the money at first i agree and it's like the it defeats the purpose of art too yeah like the goal is
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to be famous and make money yeah so it's like for years i just said yes and you're so me until i
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could finally say no that's nice now i say no a lot but but i said yes for many many years yeah and i
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and i'm so with you because i i really do believe like i i have a very long-term vision for like so
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i do a lot of things i've done a lot of carpet stuff for free like yeah because i knew it would be
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a really good look for me but just to kind of wrap us right i would love to know if you have any
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like advice for like upcoming artists i can't even just call you a stand-up or an actor because you're
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a jack of all trades but if you have any advice for any upcoming artists maybe want to get into the
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industry um i mean i guess it it would depend on what field yeah if it's a stand-up uh i well i would
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recommend improv classes to anyone actually it doesn't matter i love that though it doesn't
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matter if you're whatever even i when i started it was i had like a lawyer in there a secretary like
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that's fun though tax uh one of those cpa yeah i was like one of those things called um because
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people just want to be more comfortable talking totally uh so in if you're an actor or stand-up i i
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would do some improv to just get out of your own way to get the ego out of it and be silly you know
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uh so i always recommend that groundlings is a great place because it's very silly but also ucb
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um if you're a stand-up you there's no path other than you just have to do it like you can't wait you
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just have to get on stage you have to write and you won't know if you're good until you try it and
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then once you start it if you like it yeah uh it just requires you doing it a lot yeah um tons of
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reps yeah i'm only uh as comfortable as i am because i've done it a bazillion times yeah um so and and
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stand-up is one of those um mediums where there's it's a great equalizer like the biggest comics still
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have to go back to the club that's you know jerry seinfeld's a billionaire and he's
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probably at a comedy club tonight in new york um kevin hart has to go to the comedy club like you
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have to work material out and they workshop new sets and stuff all the time yeah that's such a
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good point yes so if they can go to the comedy club so can you can uh so you just have to remember
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that it just stand-ups just gonna require more of an every day or every week effort than like acting
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acting your fate is in more of the hands of other people that's that's why i do like stand-up is
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because when things were happening for me stand-up is what got my career going totally i was so tired
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of waiting around for someone to be like you can do this yeah you can be in my project where a stand-up
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go get a spot tonight you know yeah absolutely um so keep that in mind uh if you're wanting to be a
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performer um and if you're wanted to be in acting yeah classes and yeah like you said the networking
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is so important meeting because in classes you'll meet people who are like oh i'm i'm gonna do this
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short film do you want to be in it yeah and that stuff gets practice and all that practice and meeting
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more people yeah it's basically you just have to do something yeah you know what i mean that's the
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advice that is like you have to do something if you're paralyzed with fear waiting for someone to
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pick you it will not happen that's so true uh i especially if you're not a straight cis yeah it's
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just not gonna land in your lap no not at all so my all i can offer is that whatever that field is
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you're wanting to do just do it yeah uh and obviously we live in a time where social media
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is very popular it's a huge tool and that's a giant tool that you can start cultivating your
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own fan base before you even step on stage you know there's a lot of people now who have a fan
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base and who've never done stand-up they could go sell out a theater tomorrow that's just though
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and that's good for them and i've seen a lot of them yeah and they love to post crowd work and also
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and no other material but you know how does that work i don't know but people are people are buying the
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tickets so uh so yeah there are different there there are lots of opportunities now to um do it
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not necessarily get famous yeah but if you want to do it you can do it you can get a podcast mike
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you can video yourself and put it on social media right whether or not people watch it or listen
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no one can't control that right i i said once to someone because sometimes they'll ask me like oh how
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do i start a podcast how do i start this how do i do that um i've told them like with podcasting
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especially or any sort of long form and you want to be like funny or personality or whatever i've
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told them don't even worry about equipment don't worry about lighting don't worry about cameras don't
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worry about anything put your phone up yeah start it and talk for 45 minutes see if you can do it
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yeah i know it's hard not many people can that's why it's very hard you'd find it like i because i think
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sometimes when people think like oh i want to do pockets where i want to be at stand up or whatever
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yeah i think a lot of times they think especially if you're talking podcasting they think like i want
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to be the person who gets to sit and be asked questions yeah as opposed to someone who's driving
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the right you know what i'm saying like someone has to drive the ship someone does yeah so i was like
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just see if you can talk see if you can ramble i can talk for so long i could talk for 90 minutes
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about sandwich that's what makes you be able to do this so well successfully
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because you do you have to be able to talk you have to have you have to know your own skill set
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right and also do people you just have to also be yourself i agree figuring out who you are i mean
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that's a bigger life thing yeah but if you were essential to it if you know who you are that is a
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big help too that's true because i tell comics all the time i'm like who you are on stage is not who
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i'm talking to in life and then it's a big disconnect there and that means the audience knows something's
01:14:12.260
a miss yeah that's so true they're a lot smarter than sometimes i think people give them credit
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for and so i'll see some of these comics that are so funny just like pretend to be something else
01:14:22.100
yeah i'm like no we're on to you we're on to you i know it because i know you but they're on to you
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and and you can feel it too like that disconnect that you're talking about when you see someone get
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up on stage and you're like oh that is like a caleb that is who he is chris fleming yeah you're like
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that is who you are i can't be anybody and that resonates with people totally so i anytime you're
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trying to be somebody else it's not it's just not going you might get to a certain place because you
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learned a plus b equals c sure you learned the the formula but what's really going to resonate with
01:14:57.060
people is if you're sharing who you are and they and they grab on to it totally especially uh ripping
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off other people's bits too like yeah what works for some people may not doesn't need to work for
01:15:10.740
you and probably shouldn't because everybody is so uniquely themselves i know some of my comic friends
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too have told me that's been their one beef with social media and stand-up the world's kind of
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colliding is feeling like uh it's easier to steal jokes right because people can record and stuff
01:15:24.580
and uh rip off material and like yeah the internet doesn't have the capacity to like source right so like
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right so one person could tell a joke it doesn't do that well but then someone else could see it do
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it on theirs and it takes off and then that person gets credit for the joke as opposed to the other
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well and it's just there there's so many parallel thoughts too you you can tell a joke and you're
01:15:47.380
like oh so-and-so told that 40 years ago you're like what you know like like or or or the i the
01:15:53.540
similar idea a theme you're like well yeah many people are gonna have a sim you know i know what you
01:15:59.540
mean you know like oh playing around equipment is dangerous you know like that it's a theme
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everyone's gonna yeah think but you're gonna have your own take on it i agree but it's like you can't
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claim a theme um and so that's i agree something that people have to keep in mind as well but if
01:16:16.260
it's like a verbatim thing then yeah or it's like so specific to your life that you're like you took
01:16:21.460
that shit from me yeah like that's mine yeah like if someone said they came out watching a lifetime
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movie and you're like wait don't watch my next stand-up special then i may have squirreled that
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one away for me and they're like and it was the truth about jane you're like come on that couldn't
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have happened to you you didn't even know that movie well thank you so much for coming on the
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