WHO WANT ME? Ft. Fortune Feimster | Episode 183
Summary
This week on The Comment Section Show, we have the iconic, the legendary, and the hilariously hilarious fortune fiefster! She's a 45-year-old woman in nicknames who happens to be one of the funniest people I've ever met, and she's not even half as tall as you might think.
Transcript
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i'm a 45 year old woman in nikes what that's crazy but that's west coast baby
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that's you blending in everyone that else my age is not wearing this i promise you
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hey everyone and welcome back to another episode of the comment section show starring me your fave
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everybody knows me who cares about me on to the guests today we have the iconic the legendary
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the unbelievably hilarious fortune fiefster welcome to the show i wanted to get in on those
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woos yeah you have to it's it's real group think i love it the energy everyone's a sheep in here
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it's great yeah don't matter woo come on it's a real like monkey sea monkey kind of vibe i have
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over here but i'm honored to have you i am so honored to be here thank you for having me
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please you're an icon and a legend i think you're so hilarious oh thank you and i've been watching
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you for a while not in a creepy way i love it i love to be watched from afar in a creepy or non-creepy
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way i'll take it you're not picking either watching this episode of the comment section is presented by
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life's all right yeah you're a busy bee i am yeah you got a lot going on i just got back from iceland
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oh my god how was that it was so fun i did a show over there oh okay and what's the crowd like in
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iceland very great i mean icelandic people are kind of quirky anyway yeah so they i think got the
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silliness that i'm bringing to the table they were picking up what you were yeah we kind of and and i'm
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a sturdy woman and they have sturdy women it's the one country where i don't get called sir i loved it
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that is a win yeah yeah depending on who you ask that is a win they're like you're one of us i said
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sure i get it though i'm also a sturdy woman listen we but we hold it down i think so people come to
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us they want us to be the base of their pyramids when they you know one of those cute pictures where
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everyone's on each other or the base we're holding it down at the bottom yeah okay i got you it's either
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that or i'm taking the picture so either one she'll take the picture right i know being a big
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everyone in hollywood is itty bitty small they're itty bitty but we're doing our own thing i know
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i just i was shocked when i got here a lot of short people yeah everybody's so unbelievably tiny like i
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had maryn morris here yeah and she sat in that chair like an american girl doll she's like this part
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of the chair yeah like her feet were completely straight i was like you're too small her legs
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yeah i was like you need to you need to grow more i'm like god dang can i fit in this i know you and
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me both but i come from a big family do you come from a big family i sure do yeah big i you know
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what's funny is like when i tell people like my perception of like larger bodied people or just
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tall people big people yeah is vastly different from other people's because sometimes when they see
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because my dad is 6'6 oh yeah so my dad's a big dude so like when they see me they're like whoa
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if they saw my dad i don't know what would happen you're like i ain't nothing well how tall are you
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i'm six feet yeah i'm 5'10 okay nice i think i'm gonna start lying and saying i'm 5'10 yeah yeah
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because i'm getting into acting oh not yeah when i'm six in front of it i'd love to get some advice
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from you on that okay but like i just started dipping my toe into acting i would love to move
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into it and i obviously like i do self-tapes and you know for the slate they have you say like
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where you're where you're located and your height yeah and i just recently hired an acting coach and
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i asked him i said can i ask you a question yeah does height matter like when i say because i tell
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i say i'm six feet in the slate but i think it's working against me me not even factoring talent
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i'm like it has to be cares about my acting it has to be my what do they think about my height
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that's what's preventing me from getting the role can you say five five eleven that's why i he told
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me five ten five ten five eleven yeah i mean i guess if you say five ten no one's they don't really
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know measure me yeah and if you do then i say misogynistic and you already have the job at that
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point well and i and i when i asked him he was like that's a great question in short yes it does
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he's like so i have some clients that are men and i'm like well that doesn't make me feel good
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opening the conversation like that like all right and he's like and they're like six three six four
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i have a couple and he goes when the role comes in and superhero i'm like he's six four right when
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it's love interest i'm like he's five ten oh and i was like that's a huge jump i'm gonna start
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telling people on five two i think that you i think five tens where to land i think so that's
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where we're gonna go i even told my fiancee i was like what about five nine he goes no yeah no five
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ten he's like they're gonna know you're lying just like i was like all right relax not too much
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on me calm down calm down yeah but i i was really thinking i was like i really think guys i was me
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telling my team i know nothing i'm like i think it's my height yep i think that's why because some
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of the reads they're not huge parts but like some of the they're like love interest uh-huh so if i say
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six feet they're gonna be like damn well because all the guys in hollywood are like five six i know
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and then i'm like well what's a girl to do i'm not reading for the love interest part so i don't
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i don't worry about it i'm the quirky crazy person that flies into a scene and acts insane
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well maybe i gotta switch up my my mo i mean listen i think you should go for whatever you want to do
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but that i've learned where my sweet spot is and mine is being the insane person and you're and you're
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booking the roles left and right i mean yeah i gotta learn from you yeah i i i'm so curious because i
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have this this is just a random fear me just creating problems on nowhere but i was like
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i was thinking about love scenes in movies okay have you done a lot of love scenes no no one's
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weirdly enough hollywood's not asking for that i i had my first on-screen smooch okay how was that
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and uh it truly was just a smooch it's like like that they're like don't don't do too much not too much
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okay on the mini project i was actually my character gets engaged on the show and we don't
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kiss in hindsight that's wild that is crazy i'm just proposing this person and we're like
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you sound like brothers every time so yeah somehow my first on-screen kiss was uh in foobar this last
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season and uh we like uh had some big victory and she just gives me a little smooch but but it wasn't
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like the yeah it wasn't just how was it how that would be awkward doing the like that's what i'm
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saying because i was thinking me and it was so funny when i had this irrational fear i was telling
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uh my cousin who's my hair makeup artist it's like four in the morning we're glamming he's like
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he's like glaring and i'm like and then i'm thinking what if i have a love scene like how am i
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gonna do that like just the thought of doing it aches me out so bad that i like it makes me not
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want to act like i'm being so serious i will do it if i will do it i will do it yeah hollywood if
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you're listening um that being said though i was telling i was like and then what am i gonna do
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am i just not gonna take the role like i'm i'm creating these fake scenarios that have not happened
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i didn't even yeah i guess cross that bridge when they when it gets here yeah how am i possibly gonna
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do a love scene oh how am i gonna break it to james cameron how am i gonna tell him
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how am i gonna tell christopher nolan i can't go through with the scene just be ready to talk to
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an intimacy coordinator me prepping yeah they coordinate all that stuff right and i'm telling
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him and he goes okay first of all you haven't booked anything so calm down and i was like right
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you're right you're right yeah i needed that let's wait for that part he's like second of all why
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don't you just wait till you book something yeah i was like all right yeah but also can't gab do all
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the things try out for the love interest part and also the crazy i think i would make an awesome
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like crazy best friend or like a for sure bitchy mean girl i think i would kill yeah absolutely
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either one a fun friend or crazy friend you got both how is the auditioning process like do you
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have any tips for me i hate it the auditioning part is the worst yeah i i book everything that's
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handed to me but when they go you got the part yes yes uh but not when i audition it's a longer road
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um but at this point in my career i'm kind of like it's not like i'm i would understand if it
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was like a part that's like way out of my wheelhouse but most of the stuff was in the
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vein of what i do like you so i'm kind of like at this point like you know you've seen me do this
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you know i can do it a thousand times my range is that big yeah like i disagree you either want this
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or you don't i think i could see you in house of the dragon or something maybe i think you could
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be some scary ass person and like a scary movie that's you know oh yeah one of those i could do
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something like that they'd make me crossdress for sure yeah they put me in one of those they'd make
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me that giant gnome that was fighting with the wildlings like that's who they'd cast me as i'd be
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like the woman in a trailer that's a band you know been abandoned by everyone and just like
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you know hadn't just a couple of bathed in a long time i'd be one of those people
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but yeah auditioning heck it's not the best because it's you know some people are amazing
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auditioners and then on the day they don't really bring it yeah that's true which i don't think is
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helpful yeah uh i i like to think i bring it on the day um you said just wait well because it's
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that's like with stand-up too and if i've had to like host something they kind of want you to go
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through your material earlier in the day you're just gonna like i'm like it'll be fine later
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trust me it's gonna kill yeah when it's time you kind of come alive that's that's t sort of how i
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do it i love that though i think the acting coach i worked with too he told me like a lot of times
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it's confidence more than anything yeah like moving with confidence is like a big huge part of it sure
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and he's like and then sometimes i'll when people like they start booking off confidence like they
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don't really need me as much and then if they get something that's harder yeah they'll come back to me
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and then work on that yeah okay that makes you feel a little bit better it's good that you're
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going to somebody that helps i mean i've been to people throughout you know my career especially
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if it's a harder um uh role or like i've tried out for things that it that are out of my wheelhouse
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and i've been proud of putting that work that you know pushed myself to do something different but
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yeah i think it you know getting off book very important i used to like complain about that all the
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time really like i don't want to memorize this but it really makes a difference like no that's
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so true present yeah that's so true look people in the eye when you're you know doing the audition
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and um and yeah the confidence definitely helps if you're like timid or yeah totally they don't want
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that i'm sure yeah when you're doing it no that makes me feel a lot better about it especially i want
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to move to stand up like all right i would love to know like what drew you to stand up in the first
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place like what made you want to go into it well i started the groundlings first love um iconic yeah
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they're so great uh improv first and then sketch comedy uh how do you like improv i love it so silly
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you know i love it but it's like it's ridiculous but that's the best part about the groundlings is
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that you you're an adult kind of not caring what people think which i love yeah you're allowing
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yourself to be silly and creative and their their goal is to push you to the point where you're not
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judging yourself oh i love no ego involved yeah so i think that's bled into my stand up of
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not being afraid to be silly look silly or be silly totally i'm not trying to be some you know sex pot up
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there i don't look like one i'm not trying to be one i'm just being ridiculous yeah and uh i think
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that started with improv totally um and then sketch helped me learn how to write and essentially most of
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my acting uh skills came from improv improv and doing the the sketch shows uh so i was there about
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six years and while i was there uh i started my own sketch comedy group oh cool what was the name
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gas money because we were just trying to make gas money i always ask the name i love the name yeah we
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were broke i just needed some gas money uh but it was uh i found it was hard to get stage time back
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then now they have a lot more opportunities yeah uh but back then you only got stage time if you were
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in the company i was like how do we get in the company if we don't have stage time so i started
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my own group while i went through the school and a friend came to a show and she was like why aren't
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you doing stand-up and yeah i was like because it looks really hard and she's like just do it so
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she helped uh get me in touch with a friend of hers who had a class i took a class like a nerd
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and i'm so that's cool though but i think it's kind of fun to do that because it's a structure
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totally uh where you're like oh once a week i'll go do this class and that will make me on stage and
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make me get in uh talking to a microphone and you don't necessarily no one can really teach you how
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to be a stand-up but they can teach you like here's some general structure structure and just do it
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and uh it got me to just do it and at the end of the six weeks there was like a show
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and and once i got out on stage and did did the set i was like oh i'm hooked did you love it i loved
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it immediately immediately i love that though yeah so great and i think having done improv and sketch
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it made me way more comfortable on yeah stage because half of stand-up is just learning to be
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comfortable that's true and uh if the audience can sense that you're not comfortable yeah they are
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not on board with you that's true uh they sniff it out right away almost immediately yeah like
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blood in the water but again that confidence if you yeah if you're having a good time you're like
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your your energy's telling them they're in good hands yeah totally they'll be at ease that's such
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a good point i like did i i tried stand-up i was avoiding it forever because i was like i love
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stand-up so much that i was like i really don't want to find out the hard way i'm bad at it like
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because it's literally like going up there and perform and then they're just they don't have to
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laugh yeah you're not funny they're not going to that's true so that was like and i have my ego is
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not too big to admit i know i'm funny online yeah doesn't always translate but you're confident
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yeah that is true i am very confident but i was like i was worried and maybe that's proof that i
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wasn't like an asshole being trying to do stand-up because you know men will tell like a couple jokes
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on tiktok and they're like i should quit my job i should be a professional stand-up i should start
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picking up shifts at the laugh factory yeah but just you doing your your podcast and i know you've
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toured and i mean that's great like practice for that just being on stage being in a mic yeah it's
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already half the battle and our mutual friend caleb he bullied me into trying stand-up that's what
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caleb's for to bully people he's so funny and he came and watched me live um here in la and then
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afterwards he was like you need to do stand-up yeah and he because and he was telling me and i
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was like i mean maybe but i was i know you know caleb i do you wouldn't lie to me he would have a
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great time no just uh tell you the truth if he thought otherwise uh be like girl you should not
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be doing this you wouldn't have a ball yeah going down that road he's like it was fun you shouldn't
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do it anymore but it was fun have you um well in stand-up have you noticed any like are there any
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cities that are your faves to tour oh my gosh there's so many good cities i mean i've been
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touring now 15 years uh period non-stop uh i got to stand up 2007 and then started touring 2010
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um a lot of crappy shows and uh cafeterias of right colleges and stuff like that but uh i just
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you know i if every year and a half i would go back to a new city uh and build you know call it
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building the markets and so i'm very lucky that a lot of these markets i have been building every
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once a year every year and a half so i go back to these places and have such a nice rapport like
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um chicago's one of the best that was fun chicago's fun yeah yeah uh dallas very cool yeah i mean i
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i i'm shocked sometimes that where i sell i i sell more tickets in dallas than i do like in san
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francisco it's bizarre to me i i don't quite understand southern's winning over gay yeah i don't
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know so um that's a trip nashville's great i mean uh but then you go to these some of these like
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random markets like a mobile alabama i i was like having dinner in a restaurant on the main strip that
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leads to the theater and after dinner my opener and i are walking i'm like let's just walk to the
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theater and it's like a parade start everyone's like jumping out of their cars and like hey hey
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and he's like what's happening i go i don't know they're just so pumped to like have you know people
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come to their city that's true because they're smaller they're smaller and so some of these bigger
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cities you know or have a plethora of entertainment and and they're used to it my manager says they're
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spoiled they are like la san francisco new york yeah so i like to go to these smaller markets
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and uh it's it feels like such a treat you know that yeah uh they treat me well and and i have
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such a good time so that's good at this point there's not there's very few places where i'm like
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i'm not going back there uh most places i'm pretty pumped to return yeah joel kim booster told me it
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was arizona like he was like phoenix specifically he's like i love me yeah he goes i've gone twice
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bombed both times not for him we laughed about it he was like and the second time i was like well
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you know the first time was different you go second time even worse so i said never mind don't book me
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there anymore we laughed about it but i i get what you mean because when i was on tour last year i was
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shocked that one of our first cities that sold out was columbus ohio oh columbus is an amazing yeah
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i was like y'all are freaks out here like i was shocked at how many people showed up and for me that
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they have a huge gay community there yeah so i get a lot of love in columbus but it is a very good
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city for comedy it was so fun yeah i had a blast there dallas too dallas was really fun for me when
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i went there uh i'd love to ask this uh question to comics but like do you have any jokes that you
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know hit in certain cities versus others yeah i mean like when i'm in the south i know that i i'm
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talking more about biscuits and my hooters jokes and stuff it's a bit more irreverent there or i or
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i have jokes about church and stuff like there are churches on every corner there um and then
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maybe like west coast maybe talk more gay stuff but for the most part because i'm always working
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towards shooting a special yes so every tour of mine now is very structured it's a year and a half to two
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years yeah it's a hundred uh cities at least uh 150 shows and and the whole uh year and a half to two
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years i'm just building the act towards filming it okay so most of the time yeah it's a similar
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set but it's constantly evolving yeah and i'll change the order a lot i'll punch stuff up so
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it's fun for people to see it like some people will see in the very beginning yeah and how it
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evolves near the end yeah and then some stories once you know because two years have passed you're
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like that story's not as fun anymore yeah pull it and and something new will have years yeah
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that's by the time the special comes out two years yeah but still you're working all the time yeah
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and it's it's wild like i've uh done three hours and two half hours i never thought i'd have this
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much material that's crazy i didn't think i'd have one hour so i can't believe i'm you know to that
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point but it's just a different time it used to be comics put out a special one every four years
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yeah totally and now when you're as unbelievably funny as you they're like more more more more i don't
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know i just think people are like consuming content so much faster yeah the landscape has
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shifted so now if you don't put out one every two years they're like what are you doing and you're
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like isn't this enough and i'm like filming in between like i'm acting for like five months in
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between so maybe so yeah but no this will be about a year and a half to two years but okay but yeah
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for yeah i think at this point the people coming to my shows most of those people know yeah they love me
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or who i am um so i'm not having to win them over as much which is nice it's helpful yeah oh yeah
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well i mean you worked your ass off to get the audience so that makes sense that's part of the
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building those markets totally occasionally there will be some people that wander in and you can see
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the shell shock like where am i who are what are all these gays doing
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there's this many of you here but i actually my audience about it's about half and half okay
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half straighties half gays right i get real shocked when i have straight men in any room i'm in i'm like
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really they're yeah they're usually with a the girlfriend who's exactly and the girlfriend's
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always like i dragged him here and you're like okay yeah he's like yeah she did all right relax
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but there is such a victory in seeing the guys like their arms kind of cross in the beginning
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where they're like you can tell they were dragged did not want to be here and were dragged uh and
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then they're the ones that you know at the end of the show high-fiving me like that was a funny
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that's always feels good i agree to see them like come on to uh the side of really loving it yeah get
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on board yeah yeah you're like i'm gonna get you don't you worry get you mister and i know you're
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from the south you're from north carolina yeah we're in north carolina uh it's a tiny town called
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belmont right outside of charlotte okay t because my assistant we were talking yeah she's from
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wilmington yeah she was telling me all about it i was like don't know anything this that's my thing
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to do to white people is like when they're from the same geographical location i'm like i know
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someone who's from yeah like you guys know each other yeah my agent's canadian so any any time i meet a
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canadian person yeah she's in the room i go she's canadian you're so pumped about it you guys have
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so much in common you should talk have you ever been in north carolina no i haven't i don't think
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wait on tour no i don't think so me forgetting like i don't believe so no but we are planning to go
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to her hometown oh really yeah like because she wants to show us around well it's pretty great
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you'll like it yeah yeah she was telling us all about it she talks about it all the time sometimes
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are like what it was all the rage back yeah katie holmes right yeah i know about it like who was it
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james vanderby i know so the south is in your set a lot i bet well it's just part of you part of me
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yeah i've been here 22 years in la but my accent is very thick i don't know how to shake it it's not
00:24:37.740
going anywhere i'm glad you still have it i mean it i think it's different yeah it's it's uh it helps
00:24:43.600
me with comedy in that i can like ham up some things yeah as a result and use it to my advantage
00:24:50.460
um but yeah i think having just grown up in the south and being around a lot of characters uh
00:24:56.960
people that are real who you when you describe them to people are like there's no way that's a
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real person like that is the people that i grew up around so it's such a part of me and my storytelling
00:25:08.900
totally that uh that yeah that part of me just kind of comes out but i've been west coast for so long
00:25:14.600
that it's this mix of like that southern thing and the manners with the west coast chill yeah uh
00:25:22.960
kind of selfishness into one yeah a lot of selfishness i'll do what i want and uh jeans
00:25:28.820
a lot of jeans i'm a 45 year old woman in nikes what that's crazy but that's west coast baby
00:25:40.840
that's you blending in yeah i'm like go home and my everyone that else my age is not wearing
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this i promise you when you said in between touring stand-up uh you also film and obviously
00:25:55.020
you're a very successful actor as well um how'd you get into acting like how'd you was that kind
00:25:59.420
of a natural progression from stand-up yeah i was on chelsea lately for four years three years as a
00:26:06.060
writer and then on the panel and so i would do a lot of sketches for them and coming from the
00:26:11.740
groundlings uh doing a lot of characters and um so i was dabbling in that world but not real like
00:26:18.360
acting um and i it just was always a goal of mine to do it love and uh so i took acting classes and
00:26:25.440
uh on my in my free time and then when chelsea uh chelsea's show ended i got i tried out for a
00:26:34.060
pilot for fox uh and got it and so that was like my first big uh booking of of something and i was
00:26:42.060
so excited it was a tina fay produced pilot and really funny uh and it just it was gonna get picked
00:26:49.860
up it was one of those uh hollywood things where it was set to go and then the they fired the
00:26:55.380
president of the network and the new people came in there's all that politics behind the scenes and
00:27:01.240
it's out of your control yeah so it went away but uh i had tina's ear for a second and i i was like
00:27:08.120
let me just picture i'm gonna just picture a show and i i just picture you know they say write what
00:27:13.500
you know yeah and so i just pitched an idea based on my life and uh she she really liked it so the guy
00:27:19.780
that wrote the pilot i had just done he wrote it with me and we sold it to abc uh and shot and we got
00:27:26.780
to shoot the pilot it was called family fortune uh really cool like a little bit before it's time
00:27:32.140
because i played a gay person in the south okay because this is like 10 years ago yeah and uh
00:27:37.660
that would kill now oh i know it back then they're like we can only put on one gay show at a time
00:27:43.400
kissing yeah and ellen's still here so you can't that's right that spot's been taken yeah and uh and it
00:27:50.720
didn't get picked up um but uh one of the writers on the mindy project lang fisher who also uh co-created
00:27:59.160
um never have ever with mindy kayling yeah uh she told mindy about me she's like i just did punch-ups
00:28:06.280
on this pilot and they had this part of um that was of a southern uh brother sister duo and uh it was
00:28:14.480
supposed to be three episodes and uh they hired me for the three episodes that led to like nine
00:28:20.160
episodes which led to three seasons so shout out to mindy uh she is who basically started my acting
00:28:27.620
career that's so um i everything i learned about being on set and being a professional actor was
00:28:32.760
on that show and i was in such good hands i mean mindy's an incredible writer and showrunner and
00:28:39.720
creator and i never had to worry about anything the the jokes the the material was incredible
00:28:45.020
yeah so to like get to like have three years of acting classes basically yeah on a mindy kayling
00:28:51.880
show on a huge pretty incredible yeah absolutely and i just have been acting ever since that just
00:28:57.380
opened the door fucking cool did you get to do like um a lot of improv and stuff once you were like
00:29:01.880
on that show no because just because they're her having come from the office like their writing was so
00:29:09.200
good that it needed nothing from me like occasionally i'd add a little something here and there yeah
00:29:15.420
that's one of the few projects i've been on where i did not add a thing that's um but once i left there
00:29:22.320
a lot of things i've done they'll they'll be like because i kept writing and i was kept selling projects
00:29:29.140
and um so my writing got better over the years and so they'll usually be like film it how it's written
00:29:35.420
and then do your thing so like in office i did this small part in my office christmas party
00:29:41.180
uh where i played the uber driver to jennifer anison and they said to me like this scene is kind of a
00:29:46.820
throwaway scene but it has an important piece of information you have to tell her there's a christmas
00:29:51.260
party at the office uh but you can basically rewrite the scene and i'm like oh cool so i
00:29:56.020
completely rewrote the whole scene yeah and then improvise this whole thing about her name being an
00:30:01.540
old name and god bless jen ranison she just went along with it you know she just had no idea what
00:30:09.420
i was gonna say i had no idea what i was gonna say and it just led to this whole crazy scene
00:30:14.180
that ended up testing super high when they were um testing the movie and they brought me back to end
00:30:21.580
the movie so it's it's cool when you get to like put your little stamp on things hell yeah and you're
00:30:26.840
just that fucking funny well i just think as my stand-up has grown hell yeah people now trust like
00:30:33.360
they go oh well we know she writes for herself totally so let's uh there's a little more trust
00:30:39.320
there i guess yeah yeah do you have like i wouldn't say a favorite but would you say there's some
00:30:43.760
aspect of the business that you like more or lean more towards like writing acting stand-up
00:30:48.120
definitely not writing no it's so hard even though you're really good in it i mean it's just i just
00:30:53.200
do it because i have to yeah you know it feels like homework if it i i would have never guessed
00:30:59.000
in a million years like when i was in college that i would be writing all the time it feels like
00:31:04.460
college has never ended i just always torture like i open my computer i'm like oh god it really is
00:31:11.960
like that because you know you're writing like books almost right literally it's like writing a
00:31:16.960
book and um so and i'm always creating pilots and projects and so it's just so i've been working on
00:31:25.980
one movie idea for seven years damn it's constantly being rewritten constant notes so it's my least
00:31:33.400
favorite but it is the most um efficient to like if i had not written that pilot for myself i would
00:31:43.080
not have gotten the menu project you know what i mean totally because if i had auditioned for the
00:31:46.620
mini project probably wouldn't i gotten it based on my audition skills but so i learned early on in
00:31:54.160
my career that to create for yourself uh is your best avenue you see that with your podcast it's
00:32:01.240
opened so many doors right yeah you're so fucking me you've got to create your own path yeah you have
00:32:07.200
to show the business the industry what you can do they're not waiting to to give you that opportunity
00:32:14.040
that's so true um so yeah so that's what i learned early on was just like i gotta forge my own path
00:32:20.040
because when i started being different was not celebrated yeah uh and it was not um represented in
00:32:28.320
no and and they were they just did not know what to do with me so i had to show them yeah
00:32:34.460
and you could do yeah so now i'm just continuing to do that so at this point the writing is just a
00:32:39.800
means to an end uh i think i stand up is probably the most rewarding because um i'm actually getting
00:32:48.440
to stand in front of people and uh get an immediate reaction yeah hear the laughter yeah and i'm sharing
00:32:54.460
who i am i'm telling a lot of personal stories so i think people feel like they know me as a result
00:32:59.640
yeah so it's created this very like relatable interaction between me and whoever watches my
00:33:05.760
stuff and then acting is just fun it's fun after being on the road for so long you know you've been
00:33:10.880
on the i don't do tour buses but you've been on tour it's yeah you get so tired you don't do the
00:33:15.720
bus i don't do the bus i can't do the bus i did the bus and i flew some yeah i only did 22 dates
00:33:21.700
like in like four and a half weeks so it was like almost like six days on one day off okay
00:33:27.040
like four or five days on two days off like that's kind of how we did it um and i really thought i
00:33:32.320
was like i'm gonna hate that fucking bus like i just felt like that was gonna be the case
00:33:35.520
then when we started doing it and we were like driving every night i was like every time the bus
00:33:40.600
left me i was like oh really every time you were like in your little nook yeah and like you have
00:33:45.520
all your things yeah it's just like going in the hotels like going in day rooms and shit like
00:33:48.940
that it felt like i was on the run i felt like jason born i just felt like going there change my
00:33:53.660
underwear shower wipe everything down leave yeah so it felt like every time i was like i can't even
00:33:58.400
lay down i know i can't even pull up this blanket yeah i literally just have to wipe i have to change
00:34:03.560
my chonies and head out yeah i mean if i was gonna do like i could like oh you gotta do like a
00:34:08.740
bunch of dates in this amount of time i could i would do a bus yeah but because i i draw
00:34:14.340
spread it out yeah i i think because i'm a a cancer so i like to be at home i'm a home buddy
00:34:20.820
me too so if i'm like gone for if i was gone for months at a time on a bus i think i would have a
00:34:25.480
hard time with that yeah that is yeah taylor thompson told me she tours like that yeah like
00:34:30.520
she kind of does it in long spurts yeah she's kind of a little more relaxed yeah because i i want
00:34:36.740
to have balance you know like i work really hard because and and have my hands in a lot of
00:34:44.420
different things but i think also like having a life seeing friends seeing family going to lunch
00:34:50.320
with someone totally it's important yeah and so i don't want to just disappear for like six months
00:34:55.580
on a bus i agree i think i call that normal human people time like now because i'm like i need to go
00:35:00.820
hang out with people who don't give a fuck about me yeah yeah i need to hang out with people who don't
00:35:04.220
think i'm the most hilarious bitch they've ever met you need the balance you gotta stay grounded
00:35:08.100
that's for sure do you have friends and family that are pretty humbling for you oh everybody in
00:35:11.860
my life is very humbling yeah caleb's one of them he's in both my lives i have not been allowed to
00:35:17.720
be too full of myself ever i'll be like i'm important and then i'm like cleaning out some
00:35:24.340
junk drawer of my mom's and i'm like all right whatever i know sometimes i i forget who it was but
00:35:32.240
oh no i was like my sister at once she told me i had posted a video or something that was me
00:35:38.280
making fun of someone and then she was like how's the funniest one you've posted in a while
00:35:41.980
oh so and i said i post every day but thanks yeah thank you every day thank you that's gonna be
00:35:48.120
great thank you yeah i'd actually love those notes thank you they mean a lot to me please continue
00:35:54.240
giving me this constructive criticism have you ever gotten any uh any notes on your on your sentence
00:36:00.160
stuff from like unsolicited notes oh god all the time from fans yeah fans men anyone yeah of course
00:36:06.800
people like to put their two cents in right listen i don't mind if someone's like hey i have a funny
00:36:12.300
tag for you because uh i mean usually it's garbage but um once in a blue moon someone's got like
00:36:20.280
oh you're like all right that was kind of funny i didn't think of that and i'm like very appreciative
00:36:24.340
because as you heard with the writing i'll take any help i can get yeah uh but yeah sometimes people
00:36:29.840
will you know throw in a few notes you're like okay let's calm down now my mom's very good about
00:36:37.540
uh she'll keep it real with like oh that's not my favorite story but but when she loves something
00:36:45.440
she really loves it so then i know i'm on to something nice nice balance yeah that's take
00:36:50.840
what do you know grace cool and schmidt no but what a fun last night i know how cool and schmidt
00:36:56.100
cool and schmidt isn't that funny yeah she's a she's a stand-up too and she um she's really funny
00:37:01.040
i might know her face some but how could i forget that name though yeah yeah she uh she told me that
00:37:07.180
her grandma watched her stuff once and was like i just don't get it like you're not really marketing
00:37:13.420
towards like 50 and up oh god and she was like yeah believe it or not that's not my target
00:37:18.140
she's like i don't want them to come to my show they probably won't like what i'm talking about
00:37:23.780
yeah and she's and she's gay too so she's like yeah believe it or not um over a certain age like
00:37:28.120
they're not really looking at me that's funny yeah so i get i get it though yeah i would be like
00:37:33.320
but you know it's like i'm not i'm not marketing to like 20 year olds you know like what
00:37:39.040
how are they gonna relate to me you kind of know where your lane is that's too that is very true
00:37:45.060
that's why i love to ask especially female comics i love to ask if they've ever gotten
00:37:48.620
yeah from people in the crowd oh you're always gonna get notes i mean that's just that's just
00:37:54.120
part of it you're also gonna just get comments in general yeah whether you want them or not
00:37:59.140
they're coming yeah i try not to pay too much attention to it i'm just sort of always doing my thing
00:38:05.140
um and you know what that's why you're doing so fucking well because you're not listening to
00:38:08.520
some bullshit ass notes yes i'll listen i'll listen to the comics in my life that i you know
00:38:13.740
same back and yeah i welcome their notes and want and want the feedback yeah but from a random i'm good
00:38:20.940
it's okay one of us is getting paid to do it so it's i think i have a pretty good idea you tell
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i did a set recently um like semi recently and i again like when i did this set like i was put on
00:39:09.660
the car like on the lineup like so like nothing about that is me asking for notes right but this
00:39:15.600
like i did get notes like my team met with like the people that booked me yeah and they were like
00:39:21.120
oh like we did have some notes like on the set which i thought was shocking wait the people that
00:39:26.360
booked you had notes oh that's odd and it's because that's not the norm right and it's because
00:39:31.360
it was uh brand sponsored so these at first my team was confused because they were like
00:39:36.980
you guys have notes or they had notes like we don't want you to talk about say this kind of thing
00:39:42.580
yes it might look bad for the brand but not even it wasn't even for that because i didn't say anything
00:39:46.520
bad about the brand in fact i amplified the brand very much so because it was like uh it was something
00:39:51.940
that i knew was important so i didn't say anything bad about the brand didn't talk bad on it nothing
00:39:55.560
yeah um their note for me was that i was too mean to men and that could be isolating so interesting
00:40:02.580
and i was supposed to be on another show and i was like yeah i'm not going to that shit like you guys
00:40:06.700
are hold on you're you're telling me you're not allowed to talk about that but that is interesting
00:40:11.500
and i remember i text caleb and he said giving a comic notes on to just be nicer in the set is
00:40:17.840
probably one of the funniest things i've ever fucking heard well just that you were being too
00:40:21.720
mean about men it's hilarious and i barely touched them if i'm being honest i was fighting with one
00:40:27.980
hand tied behind my back because i knew so some man gave you that yes and they like he was like i
00:40:33.780
don't know i just felt like she was alienating me mind you he's like a 50 year old man i'm like
00:40:37.780
yeah believe it or not bitch you're not my target audience that's not not the target yeah the jokes i
00:40:42.260
was telling in the laughter you were hearing was for everybody else in the room and i killed too
00:40:46.980
yeah if i may say so myself say it say it girl you have two eyes and two ears you heard what you
00:40:52.160
heard i will say in the beginning like a joke sometimes i use is like is there anyone here
00:40:58.940
that was like a plus one and has no idea who the fuck i am like that's sometimes something i i'd start
00:41:04.860
out with yeah and then there's always and especially if there's men in the room i know they're gonna raise
00:41:10.020
their hand because they want attention right and they like to claim this spot of like i don't know who
00:41:14.940
you are yeah and then i go okay well i hope you enjoy the show i did this all tour too i was like
00:41:19.100
i hope you enjoy the show hope you have fun and if you don't i have your money already so it really
00:41:24.720
doesn't matter either way i don't care if you have a good time and i just kind of get into it yeah
00:41:29.200
um and that's what feminism means to me exactly that's called making the patriarchy work for you
00:41:35.920
okay i do have some fun facts about you oh okay if you'd like to get into it yeah okay right here we
00:41:41.640
have in high school it says you were a debutante and you went to etiquette training to prepare oh
00:41:47.340
my god when i see you i think you think a pretty little lady a southern delicate flower yeah that's
00:41:55.660
not my most proud time of my life uh my mom made me i wasn't even gonna ever talk about it but when i
00:42:01.440
was doing my uh first special sweet and salty my producer was a friend is a friend of mine she's
00:42:08.080
like you gotta talk about this like is it so crazy and it's so not you that like it's a funny like
00:42:14.080
tidbit about you and it was something that my mom made me do really um because she had been one
00:42:21.220
she had been a debutante but by the time i was coming around we were broke like no money and it costs
00:42:29.200
money to do these parties and have all this stuff so like you know i'd come home and the couch would
00:42:33.880
be missing you know i'd much rather have a couch than go to this dumbass party but she was so i
00:42:42.400
think trying to kind of reclaim those days totally you know and i'm like we're not that's not us like
00:42:48.280
my dad grew up in a trailer like those days are long gone you you did not marry well i don't know
00:42:55.120
to tell you you did not marry a guy that was gonna keep your status in uh the debutante world
00:43:03.240
right but she yeah so i did this i did this thing and i had to learn like manners and stuff and how
00:43:09.240
how was it wipe my mouth and oh like which fork to you yeah all that stuff i mean it was fine but i
00:43:15.880
you know so not me and uh so it was the summer between high school and college that i had to do
00:43:23.720
it oh nice the most humiliating age i know and going to these tea parties but a good friend of mine
00:43:31.360
was in it too and that kind of made it a little less terrible i feel it speaking of brother uh brother
00:43:39.340
wives yeah um i they you have a there's a ball like yeah you're coming out to society so i came
00:43:46.300
out twice and um they have usually are presented by like your dad but my my mom's like your father's
00:43:53.600
not doing this and uh some of my brothers did it so there's a picture of me in a white wedding gown
00:43:59.800
with my brother in a tux and it looks like i'm marrying my brother i knew it i knew you guys
00:44:05.160
i knew it i was onto it i knew it they were mad because i was right and now it's time for a new
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save the every day uh it says that you played college soccer college tennis and you graduated summa
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cum laude so did i get it look at us look at that girls uh how did you find comfort in the chaos of
00:45:27.200
college life i love college me too i loved college i had a blast i went to a women's college not i didn't
00:45:33.880
know i was gay um which was a no you just really wanted to be around only women i know it was a real
00:45:38.920
missed opportunity um but i'd always been like an overachiever totally i loved it in high school too
00:45:44.720
like same college all the things i like went to class all the time i never skipped i was like
00:45:50.040
student body president i just loved it so i found great comfort in the chaos i loved being busy
00:45:55.900
loved being social loved the dorms chatted with everybody they thought i didn't study because i
00:46:02.900
was constantly chatting but i would go in my room at like 11 and study for a couple hours and then sleep
00:46:09.060
you and caleb have a lot in common yeah that too i made fun of him when he was on my show last time
00:46:14.180
i made fun of him because i said i knew he was in a frat like he joined a frat that's so funny and i
00:46:18.440
i made i was like what are you doing that's philanthropic and then i was like i'm kidding
00:46:21.720
i know you did a lot of philanthropy in college because you student body president too yeah and
00:46:25.320
he was like yeah i was gonna say you're about to feel real bad when i tell you all the stuff
00:46:28.040
yeah that's because you're a big chatter right i think that's a southern thing you love a good chat
00:46:32.740
too i love a chat yeah but i can also be very quiet as well i have both sides i'm a little bit
00:46:38.360
more introverted than one might assume but that's just where i regroup yeah and then i go out
00:46:44.080
and chat i get that when i'm talking a lot or performing a ton afterwards sometimes i go sit
00:46:50.320
somewhere by myself yeah i just stare you just gotta be alone for a little bit yeah and i just
00:46:53.640
i'm like i need to shut the fuck up for a second yeah because i talk a lot you talk a lot sometimes
00:46:59.380
i'm like i don't want to hear one more story out of my mouth and i'm going to go sit in a corner
00:47:04.560
and yeah stare sit on a bench yeah i'm just gonna sit and be like i'm gonna say a word
00:47:09.580
i'm gonna stare right into the camera that's what i would do no wonder we're looking into
00:47:13.120
the camera so that's right that's disassociating uh this next one says that you realized you were
00:47:18.940
gay when you were 25 while watching a lifetime movie yeah that's right which lifetime movie was
00:47:23.880
it the truth about jane i don't know if you've ever heard of it it's uh it's stalker channing who
00:47:30.640
plays rizzo in greece okay uh was the mom and her like 16 year old daughter realizes she's gay
00:47:37.320
and has a mentor at school a teacher who's gay um and as i described it uh the the 16 year old
00:47:45.560
comes out to her mom and her mom's like boo and then by the end of the movie she's like yay
00:47:50.360
and i was like and that's the movie um but i had had you know it was weird it was i i talk about how
00:47:58.500
it was just different times when i was 25 it was like youtube was just starting and yeah there was
00:48:04.060
no will and grace or maybe it just come out um the l word had just come out like but when i was
00:48:12.240
growing up there was none of that stuff you know none of that uh representation so i never like saw
00:48:18.780
myself in anything and and i just grew up in a very small town that i did not know one gay person
00:48:24.980
i did not see a gay person hold hands till i was in college yeah um so i was just very naive
00:48:32.060
to that world and knowing what that was in myself uh and so when i moved to la it was starting to
00:48:39.160
bubble up i was starting to feel the thing and that you're kind of like fighting like this cannot
00:48:43.520
be i have to i haven't found the right man which is insane and every time you say you gag a little
00:48:49.420
yeah like now it seems like crazy that that was even a possibility right um and then i was
00:48:56.400
watching that movie and just something about seeing this person who's young being brave enough to like
00:49:03.220
come out made me go at the end of the movie i was like oh my god i'm i'm gay and i said it out loud
00:49:09.280
for the first time and it was what kind of cemented it for me of like oh this is real yeah and so my
00:49:16.540
joke was you know they say that uh having gay people in movies will make people gay and they're
00:49:23.120
right and in my case you are correct you're right okay one out of a million this in this particular
00:49:31.680
case you are right yep i think that's a beautiful thing though like representation like that i think
00:49:36.900
is so yeah you need it because you know if especially if you grew up in a small town my my town was
00:49:42.080
12 000 people yeah um if you don't know people like you or see people like you like you know
00:49:49.100
something's different yeah you know in that uh you don't know what it is just feels like something's
00:49:57.120
off yeah and when you're young and you're gay and you don't know it you just know that boys don't look
00:50:02.880
at you a certain way you don't have the rapport with them in a certain way so you just feel like you
00:50:09.700
don't quite fit in like why and it and it can't help but chip away at your self-esteem to an extent
00:50:16.380
like why am i not the object of this person's affection right and you don't know that well
00:50:21.840
the reason is because you know you're meant to you're not you just have no idea yeah you just don't
00:50:26.760
know so you just think something's wrong with you um so that when you see that in front of your face
00:50:33.640
and it that light bulb goes off you go oh my god yeah that was the missing puzzle piece all along
00:50:40.320
i wasn't it wasn't that i was undesirable or i was this or that or it wasn't it just i didn't know
00:50:45.980
yeah absolutely and now it seems you know thankfully there's a lot more representation
00:50:50.680
it's talked about a lot more yeah you see it a lot more yeah it's not quite as hidden um but but
00:50:58.220
still matters for sure absolutely and that's why i think you're even though writing is the bane of
00:51:03.200
your existence in a lot of ways i also think it's a beautiful thing that you write so much because
00:51:07.640
it like that kind of writing is so important like writing characters like that based in real life
00:51:12.580
and not always centered in trauma and of some kind i think it's a beautiful thing well thank you i think
00:51:17.160
that's why you just keep selling them over and over again you're trying to the computer i'm just
00:51:21.820
telling my story you know i love it i'm just trying to yeah that's kind of i know what to do is tell
00:51:27.320
my story and my how i see the world and if it helps people in any way yeah i'm that's like the
00:51:33.500
cherry on top i think that's why it's working so well for you the universe is working with you and
00:51:38.380
for you thank you universe that important thank you of course okay we have more fun facts uh this one
00:51:45.420
says you got your comedy start taking improv classes at ground lanes in la after moving here from your
00:51:50.700
hometown oh it says when you were 23 you got a job as an entertainment journalist interviewing people
00:51:55.680
on red carpets and it turned into a full-time job for seven years yeah was that with chelsea too or
00:51:59.760
no that was right before chelsea okay so that was during there was like an eight-year period where i
00:52:04.600
was trying to make it in comedy and so my day job was being a journalist okay which was really cool
00:52:11.780
like to you know that to that have sorry we can't talk to have that be my day job yeah it was like
00:52:20.140
awesome because it was like adjacent to the business i got to learning a different side of it too yeah i got to go on
00:52:25.400
all these red carpets and i interviewed all these people i really admired all like all these you
00:52:30.580
know huge movie stars and tv stars and yeah i went to like the grammys and the oscars and the emmys i
00:52:36.900
went to movie premieres and i was you know started when i was 23 and did that until i was 30 um and that's
00:52:43.440
what kept my bills paid and then at night i did comedy um so i love it you have been working your ass off
00:52:50.380
oh yeah so yeah if i had wanted to be a journalist as a career i would have i've made it yeah like
00:52:56.100
totally it did not get better than that in that world uh and i i worked for some amazing people
00:53:01.820
that knew i wanted to be a comic because sometimes you're working at one job and they don't like that
00:53:06.620
you have another goal yeah totally uh but they were so like supportive and like i bet it only enhanced
00:53:13.140
your skill as an interviewer yeah i mean because i do carpets now too all the time i'd love to know
00:53:17.640
your experience like how is that how did you like interviewing people well we were in the we were
00:53:21.500
in the beginning stages of the internet having all the entertainment news on it right and so
00:53:26.820
you would see all these people ham it up for the cameras yeah and then come to me and be like what's
00:53:32.480
up what's going on because it was like print journalism right so it's different but i we were like we
00:53:37.440
actually reach a lot more people than this hell yeah whatever you know random cable on cable yeah
00:53:43.340
and uh but like once people started talking to me and he heard my accent they kind of like dropped
00:53:50.400
the pretenses and just had like a real conversation with me totally so that's some really lovely
00:53:55.080
conversations with actors and stuff and and i talked to a lot of people on the phone for like 30
00:54:00.600
minutes and what happens i'm like just really interesting talks right um people that i've it's
00:54:06.800
funny i've since run into publicists or people photographers from the red carpet they'll see me
00:54:13.200
now on the other side and it's such a trip right bet it's also they are this it's the same people like
00:54:18.760
working especially during the award season circuit like you see the same people every time and they
00:54:25.000
are so drama rama oh really like in press boxes you know like in those press uh like areas and stuff
00:54:33.180
like because everybody knows each other so it's almost like it feels to me like uh like if we
00:54:39.040
were all at camp together and this is like our mess hall and then we all come here and everyone's
00:54:43.040
talking about each other yeah i just like sometimes i just be listening sometimes the girls fight
00:54:47.240
at those things oh that's funny yeah when i was doing the red carpets the it was entering into
00:54:52.960
that phase of the paparazzi was becoming a big thing yeah uh star magazine was a big thing and
00:55:00.320
like when they were like stalking celebrities like tabloids weird that was a weird thing and i
00:55:04.800
would overhear them talking about all the lengths they were going to to like spy on them i was like
00:55:09.820
y'all are crazy weird that was like those were like the lindsey lohan britney spears that era
00:55:16.400
paris hilton era where they were you'd see them all over town following them everywhere like it was
00:55:22.220
like like a caravan almost yeah it was wild i you would just see this train of people just like
00:55:27.860
you're like what is going on it'd be like lindsey lohan going to the ivy or something
00:55:31.700
it's a weird time it was weird la back then was there yeah it was different there was just like
00:55:37.860
celebrities everywhere and cameras everywhere very weird i think that's so cool that you were um
00:55:44.580
on the carpets for so long too because i've been doing carpet stuff for a minute now like i'm i'm
00:55:49.820
really kicking it into overdrive lately and i love doing carpet stuff yeah they could care less if
00:55:55.220
i'm there though like i sometimes people are like oh my god you got to go to the oscars i'm like
00:55:59.380
yeah they also told me they'll shoot me dead if i step outside the shrub so like there's you know
00:56:03.220
there's when i get there i'm the help like when i get there they're like valley some cars while you're
00:56:07.060
here yeah it's so useful it's a weird thing it's like cool you're like adjacent to it but right and
00:56:11.860
it's like you're also there and that's cool but yeah it's it was a trip i interviewed like anna nicole
00:56:18.660
smith and like oh that's crazy julie andrews yeah i mean all the way from you know tom hayes
00:56:25.140
is like yeah all the all these neat people um that i just i'm actually i because in my in that
00:56:32.020
special sweet and salty i mentioned i talked about how uh when i first started the red carpets
00:56:37.140
i wanted to look more la so i went to forever 21 and uh bought a velour uh tracksuit with a pink
00:56:44.980
cupcake on the back and everyone thought i was kidding i was like no no i bought a velour tracksuit
00:56:50.260
you know and that said red carpet yeah to me i thought this is very la red carpet and you know
00:56:55.460
the these clothes dissolved in the sun after like five days they're like twenty dollars and dissolved in
00:57:01.380
the sun and everyone was like ha ha hilarious and um there's a documentary about serene mckellen and i'm
00:57:09.380
in i was at the lord of the rings premiere and you can see me with my pink your knock off track suit
00:57:15.860
yeah i have a pink cupcake interviewing serene mckellen i took a screen grab i'm like i told you
00:57:25.140
at the lord of the rings for me yes so that you're just like i need to make a statement
00:57:30.580
i'm interviewing serene mckellen in a blue velour tracksuit with a pink cupcake on the back
00:57:35.700
like not okay i would love that though i mean god i i just was really trying to be the my best la
00:57:44.580
and pull focus at any point and i did because i'm sure they were like what is that i i sometimes i'm
00:57:53.060
sure you got this question a lot too like i'll get questions about celebrities like how are they like
00:57:57.540
yeah are they cool and i'm like most of them are kind of weird but like they're normal they're very nice
00:58:01.700
yeah for the most part i i honestly have had way more positive ones than negative ones and negative
00:58:07.220
ones i've had they weren't talking to me like it was just i saw something so i was like oh that's
00:58:11.300
kind of weird yeah but thankfully i haven't really had any terribly negative ones like it was like
00:58:16.580
generally nice but i think too and you're i feel like this is the same kind of energy you have too
00:58:21.620
where it's like i've told people if you just talk to them like they're normal most oftentimes
00:58:26.100
they'll be awesome because especially when they're that famous like they've been they've
00:58:30.740
been so not normal for so long like nobody treats them normal that's not their like immediate family
00:58:36.340
like it's true they live in this weird bubble where like everybody like is so careful and weird around
00:58:42.900
them and awkward so i feel like when you're just kind of like normal to them they open up a little bit
00:58:47.780
more yeah i mean that's kind of how i've always been like when i was a journalist i just was like hey
00:58:52.260
what's up let's chat and that's what i'm like now on set when i yeah i've gotten to film with some
00:58:58.100
really cool people and but i don't go in too hot you know yeah i'm like i'm gonna let them come to
00:59:03.300
me or or i'll just like give people their space and i'll just be like hey how's it going this is
00:59:09.140
so cool yeah absolutely i feel like it's it's a very you're a big energy reader too like a vibe reader
00:59:15.780
that's the cancer in me and i'm a cancer moon there you go so there you go yeah i just feel i feel
00:59:21.700
people's thing you know and so if i can pick up pretty quick if if i'm like oh this person does
00:59:28.740
not want to be bothered i don't bother them you know or if they're in a weird mood or whatever
00:59:33.940
right and eventually the you know if you're especially if you're working on set with this
00:59:38.180
person at some point they'll come around and be like what's your deal you know so you gotta you do
00:59:43.540
just like let them come to you uh but then you can tell if someone's energy is open totally and
00:59:49.780
yeah i just kind of read the i think i read the room well same and i and it's funny because i've
00:59:54.100
told people like when they whenever they're like oh they should all everyone should be journalists
00:59:57.780
mind you i uh like on carpets mind you i went to college for journalism so i do actually have a
01:00:03.300
journalism and i was a journalist for a long time so yeah i learned how to shoot edit right all that
01:00:07.860
stuff so like i actually do have the credentials i did not so my point being now that i do this as
01:00:14.180
like an influencer right there is that debate that's like it shouldn't be influencers it should
01:00:18.740
be journalists to which i say like i don't think the badge matters nearly as much i think it's the
01:00:24.660
ability to read a room yeah it's far more useful like the ability to talk to someone and have a
01:00:29.540
conversation and i feel like and i and sometimes i've joked i've been like i've seen how women on the
01:00:35.060
internet treat me in real life and i'm a again i'm a clown for hire there's no way you'd be able to
01:00:41.300
talk to timothy chalamet normal right i've seen how you treat me you guys treat me weird and he's
01:00:45.860
way more famous than me like that's where i'm like i think like the ability to relate and be normal
01:00:51.540
and cool and read a room it's very important right because i think sometimes too when you try to force
01:00:56.580
silliness on people that do not want to be oh yeah you can tell when they don't want that
01:01:02.180
immediately i pick it i'm like perfect no fun got it in the back we're gonna keep it straight
01:01:07.220
now yeah and i i did the white lotus premiere this year and uh parker posey is obviously a huge
01:01:13.860
person in in the white lotus this season and she was killer and uh they told me a ton they were like
01:01:19.780
you know she doesn't um love interviews anymore like oh really yeah because i she's just been doing
01:01:25.620
it forever i'm sure she's just sick of it and like the premiere was the last stop on their press
01:01:29.540
store so they were like basically telling me like don't hold your breath like if she doesn't
01:01:33.140
want to talk i'm like yeah all right i'm not gonna force it and i told them i was like i'll save
01:01:37.620
everybody the headache i really don't force it if they're not feeling it for sure i promise i won't
01:01:42.340
and they were like okay so she came and uh she she agreed to talk to me for a little uh and so i was
01:01:48.020
talking around and i asked her like a real standard question how do you feel being here whatever kind
01:01:52.020
of warm her up yeah and then she was being so like she's so witchy i just sensed it about her i was
01:01:57.620
like she i feel like she loves astrology i feel like she looks like yeah that was kind of her energy
01:02:02.580
and then i said what's your sign when she said something she goes there you go you got her
01:02:07.780
i'm a scorpio could you tell and oh she's a scorpio yeah that makes things a little bit
01:02:13.300
right like it makes more sense right and so when she was she's kind of protective yeah yeah and then
01:02:18.420
so when i said that she was what are you and then we just kept talking she talks so like pageantry like
01:02:23.460
the way she talks yeah it's very like old hollywood right and so then uh she talked to me for a minute
01:02:28.020
and i was like it was so lovely to meet you she goes oh are we done we're done now more and they
01:02:32.260
were so like i can't believe she was so fun with you and i was like i read her vibe and i didn't
01:02:38.100
ask her too many silly things right whenever like i was like older people don't like to be
01:02:42.100
asked to dig into that meaningful uh the stars the stars yeah yeah we wanted to align on the stars
01:02:49.220
okay i have another fun fact for you uh it says one of your first credited roles was janitor in the
01:02:55.220
movie the secret lives of dorks oh my god yeah that was like i that was the very first acting
01:03:01.220
role i ever did and it was like i was when i was on chelsea lately nice someone saw me on chelsea
01:03:06.900
and just was doing like an indie comedy and they were like does she want to play a janitor and at
01:03:12.660
that point i just wanted the experience so i was like sure yeah but yeah it was that was my first taste
01:03:18.980
of anything i mean when i first auditioned i want to say i auditioned for something like uh
01:03:24.980
i don't remember what it was early on and i did my audition looking right into the camera
01:03:30.820
and the lady had to stop me she goes um don't look in the camera look at me and i was like uh-huh
01:03:35.940
okay and then and then at the end she goes all right um now let's slate and i go
01:03:40.180
what what is that she's like you just say her name and yeah i know what it is but do you know
01:03:48.020
so i had no clue so i mean you know i always say they they have these acting classes people there
01:03:54.180
should be a class of practical things like here's how to audition don't look here's what this means
01:04:00.020
and like when you're on because i had a friend who's a big stand-up who had a for an acting role
01:04:04.260
for the first time and i knew she wasn't going to know a lot of the lingo so i called her and i was
01:04:09.940
like this is what you know this is like hitting your mark this is finding your light this is you
01:04:14.580
know this is what this means and when the ad you know that you just need a class of like hear all
01:04:20.020
the things right i think that would be more as much as a help as yeah the verbiage exactly yeah
01:04:27.060
and they do talk in shorthand yeah yeah you know what's funny is um when i did last year i i was in
01:04:33.300
an nba commercial uh-huh for reasons i still don't understand they asked me to come i said i love it
01:04:38.900
yeah i'd love to be there you're like i'm six feet that's when you owned it that's where my
01:04:44.020
that's where it was working in my favor exactly and um in one of my scenes or the only scene actually i
01:04:50.500
had was uh with kelly roland uh-huh which is nuts hell yeah and uh so yeah so she she was so nice and
01:04:58.500
so professional but i remember like they told me what i was gonna do like my line was follow me kelly
01:05:04.260
that was my my one line i think i killed it but they wanted me to like close a laptop and like
01:05:10.180
in earnest and be like let's go kind of vibe so i was like okay uh-huh so when i was practicing it
01:05:16.260
was one of those things where it's so simple and it's one line that i felt like i was overthinking
01:05:20.740
it a little bit and then for some reason like for like two takes in a row i looked at the camera twice
01:05:26.340
like ah and but i do that now yeah but in a way where i was like and then the director would be
01:05:32.420
like cut don't look at the camera and i'm like oh my god i'm so sorry sorry about that like sorry
01:05:36.340
and then every time it came around i'd be like well it's so hard because it just naturally you're just
01:05:41.460
like sort of drawn to it i mean even in this latest food bar i i i'll be at you know talking to someone
01:05:48.500
and i'll be like oh my god i just stared down the barrel of the camera i'm so sorry then they're
01:05:54.820
like well don't end the scene but keep going right i know you're like sorry about that guys looking
01:06:00.260
right at the camera like just keep going i agree with you though on verbiage yeah they should you
01:06:05.620
should make like a glossary yeah because like when you're starting out and you want to know how to
01:06:10.580
audition what to do yeah right very intimidating and i feel like even with uh especially when you're on
01:06:17.380
the set like in the the heat of it and everyone's watching and then when everyone gets quiet yeah
01:06:22.500
because i remember too when i first started doing this um i was almost exclusively just like online
01:06:27.380
people influencers right and um sometimes like at the beginning we would be everyone would have to
01:06:33.700
be super super quiet because we were trying to do obviously it's a podcast yeah but then after a
01:06:37.860
while i was like i don't mind if you can hear laughter i think that makes it more fun yeah and caleb
01:06:41.620
shows like that too which i was like i think it adds to the ambiance of it i think that's fun but before
01:06:46.020
uh there would be no laughing at all like no noise and i would have to tell like comedy creators or
01:06:51.380
comics or whatever like i would say like it's gonna feel like none of your jokes are hitting because
01:06:56.020
no one's gonna laugh right but just keep your eyes on me i'll laugh the whole time like no matter what
01:07:00.420
i'll laugh honestly and earnestly and they're like okay because and then it would kind of make them
01:07:04.900
nervous because oh really because it's so quiet and they're not used to like you know sets like that
01:07:09.620
where everyone has to be quiet and do it but i'm like you like i had a meeting uh with like tv movie people
01:07:15.620
whatever last week and they were like oh do you have any like preferences in terms of like where
01:07:21.140
you're leaning towards comedy drama whatever romance and i go my energy right now is who want me
01:07:27.220
who want me that's kind of my energy which one do you want me yeah what do you need there you go
01:07:32.180
i don't care you have to be open to different opportunities oh absolutely i've done a lot of
01:07:36.580
stuff over the years for free and a lot of you know like yeah you just you do you do the thing and
01:07:42.820
i and a lot of people get very short-sighted about that right i mean like now i don't have to
01:07:48.420
do that as much thankfully yes but i spent many years doing it i get that and my friends who wouldn't
01:07:54.660
i i would just say you know you don't know opportunity will come from that and like who will
01:07:59.540
you know who you'll meet or you have to be open to to just doing to working doing things it's not
01:08:06.020
about the money at first i agree and it's like the it defeats the purpose of art too yeah like the goal is
01:08:11.300
to be famous and make money yeah so it's like for years i just said yes and you're so me until i
01:08:16.980
could finally say no that's nice now i say no a lot but but i said yes for many many years yeah and i
01:08:25.620
and i'm so with you because i i really do believe like i i have a very long-term vision for like so
01:08:32.500
i do a lot of things i've done a lot of carpet stuff for free like yeah because i knew it would be
01:08:36.820
a really good look for me but just to kind of wrap us right i would love to know if you have any
01:08:42.660
like advice for like upcoming artists i can't even just call you a stand-up or an actor because you're
01:08:47.540
a jack of all trades but if you have any advice for any upcoming artists maybe want to get into the
01:08:52.420
industry um i mean i guess it it would depend on what field yeah if it's a stand-up uh i well i would
01:09:00.420
recommend improv classes to anyone actually it doesn't matter i love that though it doesn't
01:09:04.340
matter if you're whatever even i when i started it was i had like a lawyer in there a secretary like
01:09:12.260
that's fun though tax uh one of those cpa yeah i was like one of those things called um because
01:09:17.460
people just want to be more comfortable talking totally uh so in if you're an actor or stand-up i i
01:09:24.820
would do some improv to just get out of your own way to get the ego out of it and be silly you know
01:09:32.100
uh so i always recommend that groundlings is a great place because it's very silly but also ucb
01:09:37.700
um if you're a stand-up you there's no path other than you just have to do it like you can't wait you
01:09:44.740
just have to get on stage you have to write and you won't know if you're good until you try it and
01:09:50.580
then once you start it if you like it yeah uh it just requires you doing it a lot yeah um tons of
01:09:57.700
reps yeah i'm only uh as comfortable as i am because i've done it a bazillion times yeah um so and and
01:10:06.340
stand-up is one of those um mediums where there's it's a great equalizer like the biggest comics still
01:10:13.380
have to go back to the club that's you know jerry seinfeld's a billionaire and he's
01:10:17.380
probably at a comedy club tonight in new york um kevin hart has to go to the comedy club like you
01:10:24.100
have to work material out and they workshop new sets and stuff all the time yeah that's such a
01:10:28.980
good point yes so if they can go to the comedy club so can you can uh so you just have to remember
01:10:35.780
that it just stand-ups just gonna require more of an every day or every week effort than like acting
01:10:41.940
acting your fate is in more of the hands of other people that's that's why i do like stand-up is
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because when things were happening for me stand-up is what got my career going totally i was so tired
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of waiting around for someone to be like you can do this yeah you can be in my project where a stand-up
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go get a spot tonight you know yeah absolutely um so keep that in mind uh if you're wanting to be a
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performer um and if you're wanted to be in acting yeah classes and yeah like you said the networking
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is so important meeting because in classes you'll meet people who are like oh i'm i'm gonna do this
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short film do you want to be in it yeah and that stuff gets practice and all that practice and meeting
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more people yeah it's basically you just have to do something yeah you know what i mean that's the
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advice that is like you have to do something if you're paralyzed with fear waiting for someone to
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pick you it will not happen that's so true uh i especially if you're not a straight cis yeah it's
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just not gonna land in your lap no not at all so my all i can offer is that whatever that field is
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you're wanting to do just do it yeah uh and obviously we live in a time where social media
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is very popular it's a huge tool and that's a giant tool that you can start cultivating your
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own fan base before you even step on stage you know there's a lot of people now who have a fan
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base and who've never done stand-up they could go sell out a theater tomorrow that's just though
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and that's good for them and i've seen a lot of them yeah and they love to post crowd work and also
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and no other material but you know how does that work i don't know but people are people are buying the
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tickets so uh so yeah there are different there there are lots of opportunities now to um do it
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not necessarily get famous yeah but if you want to do it you can do it you can get a podcast mike
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you can video yourself and put it on social media right whether or not people watch it or listen
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no one can't control that right i i said once to someone because sometimes they'll ask me like oh how
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do i start a podcast how do i start this how do i do that um i've told them like with podcasting
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especially or any sort of long form and you want to be like funny or personality or whatever i've
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told them don't even worry about equipment don't worry about lighting don't worry about cameras don't
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worry about anything put your phone up yeah start it and talk for 45 minutes see if you can do it
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yeah i know it's hard not many people can that's why it's very hard you'd find it like i because i think
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sometimes when people think like oh i want to do pockets where i want to be at stand up or whatever
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yeah i think a lot of times they think especially if you're talking podcasting they think like i want
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to be the person who gets to sit and be asked questions yeah as opposed to someone who's driving
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the right you know what i'm saying like someone has to drive the ship someone does yeah so i was like
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just see if you can talk see if you can ramble i can talk for so long i could talk for 90 minutes
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about sandwich that's what makes you be able to do this so well successfully
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because you do you have to be able to talk you have to have you have to know your own skill set
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right and also do people you just have to also be yourself i agree figuring out who you are i mean
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that's a bigger life thing yeah but if you were essential to it if you know who you are that is a
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big help too that's true because i tell comics all the time i'm like who you are on stage is not who
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i'm talking to in life and then it's a big disconnect there and that means the audience knows something's
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a miss yeah that's so true they're a lot smarter than sometimes i think people give them credit
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for and so i'll see some of these comics that are so funny just like pretend to be something else
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yeah i'm like no we're on to you we're on to you i know it because i know you but they're on to you
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and and you can feel it too like that disconnect that you're talking about when you see someone get
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up on stage and you're like oh that is like a caleb that is who he is chris fleming yeah you're like
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that is who you are i can't be anybody and that resonates with people totally so i anytime you're
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trying to be somebody else it's not it's just not going you might get to a certain place because you
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learned a plus b equals c sure you learned the the formula but what's really going to resonate with
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people is if you're sharing who you are and they and they grab on to it totally especially uh ripping
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off other people's bits too like yeah what works for some people may not doesn't need to work for
01:15:10.740
you and probably shouldn't because everybody is so uniquely themselves i know some of my comic friends
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too have told me that's been their one beef with social media and stand-up the world's kind of
01:15:19.700
colliding is feeling like uh it's easier to steal jokes right because people can record and stuff
01:15:24.580
and uh rip off material and like yeah the internet doesn't have the capacity to like source right so like
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right so one person could tell a joke it doesn't do that well but then someone else could see it do
01:15:36.820
it on theirs and it takes off and then that person gets credit for the joke as opposed to the other
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well and it's just there there's so many parallel thoughts too you you can tell a joke and you're
01:15:47.380
like oh so-and-so told that 40 years ago you're like what you know like like or or or the i the
01:15:53.540
similar idea a theme you're like well yeah many people are gonna have a sim you know i know what you
01:15:59.540
mean you know like oh playing around equipment is dangerous you know like that it's a theme
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everyone's gonna yeah think but you're gonna have your own take on it i agree but it's like you can't
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claim a theme um and so that's i agree something that people have to keep in mind as well but if
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it's like a verbatim thing then yeah or it's like so specific to your life that you're like you took
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that shit from me yeah like that's mine yeah like if someone said they came out watching a lifetime
01:16:25.300
movie and you're like wait don't watch my next stand-up special then i may have squirreled that
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one away for me and they're like and it was the truth about jane you're like come on that couldn't
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have happened to you you didn't even know that movie well thank you so much for coming on the
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show i think you're so awesome oh you too this was a treat it was truly so awesome to get to know
01:16:46.180
you a little bit better i loved it and i really do think you are so talented and i can't wait to see
01:16:50.660
what you keep making oh like you're a jack of all trades for real that's what friends are for
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thank you so much for coming on the show do you have anything that you'd like to promote at all
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just that i'm on tour i'm uh going to i'm in the beginning of this tour so many many cities are
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literally i'm on like 20 things on netflix that's true you're not even joking i'm not
01:17:25.940
joking i'm not joking one time this is so funny i'm so glad you said that because one time i was
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scrolling through the little like uh recommended for you yeah i saw you in like four things yeah
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i get around yeah you're real easy on netflix yeah well thank you so much for coming thank you
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