YOU SERVED, TAXES WAIVED Ft. Violet Chachki and Gottmik
Summary
In this episode of Comment Section, I sit down with two of my favourite drag queens, Gretchen Gottmik and Vicky Tchotchke, to talk about being a drag queen, being in drag, and what it takes to be one.
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I was doing my solo show in Italy at, like, this gorgeous theater, and the Italian mafia showed up with guns.
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No, literally, I was like, zip my dress up. I heard about it. I was like, zip my dress up. Where are they? What are they going to do? They're going to shoot me?
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Hey, everyone, and welcome back to another episode of the Comment Section Show, starring me, your favorite.
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Everybody knows me. Nobody cares about me anymore.
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The way that my audience is getting more and more like, okay, enough, onto the guests.
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And speaking of guests, today, we have two icons, two living legends, two famous drag superstars, the one and only Gottmik and Violet Tchotchke.
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This show is slowly but surely becoming all of my favorite drag queens literally ever.
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I have had so many drag queens, and I will continue to have them.
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You're having an actual coffee, like an actual cup of joe.
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We were, when we were talking before the show, I was saying how y'all work, like, at least
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Everyone thinks they want to be a drag superstar.
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Halloween's probably an exhausting month for drag, I'm assuming.
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What's more exhausting, Pride Month or Halloween?
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I think I'm going to say, because I enjoy Halloween thoroughly.
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Pride is like, I think, more draining just because you have to be like.
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Let's turn on the tears and get the checks to flow it.
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Trixie told me like June is just like the month where she's like, whoo.
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I'm like, they're doing pride campaigns now probably.
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We actually did an episode on our podcast about aging rapidly.
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Just a whole episode dedicated to it because we were like, this is a lot, a lot to talk about.
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I was always like going partying with college people when I was in high school.
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We've been putting SpongeBob memes in our videos like we always do.
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Like in my brain, SpongeBob is like an eternal reference.
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Like they're so like, I know they're so mean to me.
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Sometimes I say things and they're like, OK, old man.
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When I had Conti on the show, I posted a clip where I was like, sometimes people think I'm young, like 19, 20, which is like not a lie.
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I obviously when I'm in drag, I don't look like that.
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But and the amount of comments I got where they were like, you don't look 20.
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I was like, OK, bitch, first of all, humble yourself.
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So y'all have been in the drag world for a minute.
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Forever, I first went out in drag when I was 17, which would be 20.
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2009 is the first time I ever went out in drag in public.
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I don't even want to do math, but I think I was like 19.
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And then I've been doing drag seriously for maybe like three years now.
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What like kind of drew y'all to the art form just like individually?
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I love drag so much because it was just like every form of art that I've ever been obsessed
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If I wanted to go off in any career path, I'm like, wow, as long as I got my like poked
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and prodded corset and wig, I'm ready to go and do it.
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I mean, I think I subconsciously, my body like needed drag as like almost like a form
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And I went to Catholic school, so it was like very like uniforms and like gendered
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And like, I like remember very vividly in Catholic school and like we got our first communion,
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The girls got to pick out like stunning dresses and I couldn't.
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And so for me, drag was like always the thing like, no, no, no, you can't do that.
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And of course, if you tell me, I'm not going to do something like, I'm going to do that
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I feel like I've lived my life out of spite just in general.
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You went from Catholic uniform, corseted to hell.
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So her drag started because she couldn't wear a communion dress.
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If I'm being honest, like I was jealous of the girls in second grade who got to pick
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I'm glad there was a gay boy out there that was looking at my dress.
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There definitely was a gay boy in your class like, I guess I'll put the khakis on.
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So I always ask every drag superstar I've had, I've always asked about drag race, obviously,
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because that's where most people know y'all from.
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Because I know when they describe it to me, they're like hell on earth, hell, awful hell.
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I mean, it was literally, I feel like I was in the Olympics.
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Like, I can't think about anything besides like the strategy and like, how am I going
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And like, they put you in this like literal pressure cooker.
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There's like no distractions, no phones, no nothing.
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And I'm like such a competitive person, too, that I was like, and it's like, I think one
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of the only reality shows that you can truly get a career from still.
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But like, if you do well on drag race, like you have a full blown career.
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It's also like, you know, be like a crowd fave.
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I literally thought I was in like life summer camp.
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I was like every day, like learning a new thing about me and my life.
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And like, room being your like spiritual guide is like fierce.
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And I woke up with like birds lifting my comfort.
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I think a Virgo, especially with like when it comes to like going out.
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And I'm the one rushing everyone off the cliff and making the mess.
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Luckily, I feel like there's always been someone there to pick up the pieces and take care of
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Even on Saturday, honey, I was wilding out and you were nowhere to be found.
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And then I had to DJ at Torture Garden, this like fetish party.
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And so it was like a hard, there was a lot of things to it.
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Lobsters and like fish installations and like fake ice.
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And girl, I was at the front all night, like shirtless, like grabbing the fake ice and
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Y'all were telling me that you're old now or whatever.
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You know, like I'm still the kid in high school going to the college party.
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Like I remember I was in New York a couple weeks ago for work stuff and I got invited
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to a show, which is like, it was a comedy show for like a really famous comedian.
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Are you not like a sneak out early kind of diva?
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I don't know if you can do it in that because it was like a seated event.
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They gave me good seats, which made me feel kind of bad too.
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Just the thought of doing that and being out for that long.
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He's very, very funny if y'all want to look into him.
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Oh, because the only white men I feel comfortable around, the only white men I feel comfortable
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He might have made his show in New York recently.
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And he was like, oh, yeah, you definitely come through.
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Literally, my whole family and team were like, it's going to be fine.
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Well, now with daylight savings, it's the craziest thing I've ever experienced.
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Girl, when the sun goes down, I'm like, I'm going home.
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I'm partaking in the devil's lettuce and I'm laying down.
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That was the night you experienced it for the first time?
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Well, maybe it might have made me perform better, honestly.
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I just meant because you all get recognized even more so.
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I was like, no idea that you can get that high.
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It was Mick who was like, no, no, that's just as relaxed as you.
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I cannot believe that y'all performed like that.
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When I'm like that, girl, I need to be put in a mental hospital.
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Well, this one's on the, we're teetering on the edge.
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Yeah, the day after I skipped that comedy show, well, that night, I was like, well,
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And then my boyfriend had bought them from a dispensary there in New York.
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And he was like, oh, you know, I think the guy kind of upsold me a little bit on the dosage
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because it's not, I ate one yesterday and it was, I didn't feel anything.
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He's like, yeah, I'm going to take another one.
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You know that scene in Wolf of Wall Street where he's on Quaaludes?
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That was literally the way I was like, oh, my God.
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Maybe if I pee and like I get up, it'll help me.
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And the bathroom, it was so strange because they separated the bathroom.
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And so I go into the one with the toilet and I forgot that all the walls are black in there.
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And so I was sitting there and I was kind of who designed this.
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Like I kept thinking like, oh, my God, I'm like in something.
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Yeah, I was literally like, oh, my gosh, oh, my God.
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Like I was just getting worse as I was sitting in there.
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And I was like, and I woke him up and he turned around.
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So if I could see the top of his eye, I'm like, girl, you need to go to the hospital.
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And I was like, if I go to TSA, they're going to arrest me, girl.
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I had to call my I called my mom crying, sobbing.
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She went opposite and went to, like, fight or flight.
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So I take back what I said about being a Virgo and being responsible because I could
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I call my mom instead of calling anyone else for help because my mom could solve it,
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And I had to go, like, hours later and fly home.
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But it was, I don't even want to know what I looked like walking through that airport.
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I've seen a lot of people at a lot of airports.
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Like, he had these bright green pants that were mine.
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And I was like, I was like, is that what you're wearing to the airport?
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And I was like, you should probably change the pants.
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And he was like, if I take these off, I'm not making it on the plane.
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And they also, at this event, they gave us, like, a lifetime supply of these edibles and chocolates
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Because I didn't want to get off my tits again.
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I think the gummies, like, I don't know if they can, like, properly measure.
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And then if you bite a corner, like, did you get the corner that had the edible in it?
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And then you're like, maybe I'll take a little more.
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And then you're seeing, like, you're on Mars immediately.
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And you know what's crazy is I've done that with edibles at least twice before.
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So I feel like I know what that feels like when I'm, like, freaking out.
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I'm like, if I ever catch that guy who sold that edible to my boyfriend in the street.
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What would you say is the hardest gig y'all have ever performed at?
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Whether it's, like, location or maybe costume or maybe just crowd.
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I'm, like, on my stomach with my feet kicking in the air.
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Like, before Drag Race, I was doing drag at a high level.
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I remember probably the worst gig I've ever done was for always private parties.
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That's what every drag queen I've ever hung out with tells me.
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It's like, I would rather go to prison than do another private.
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And you know you're going to be, like, on the floor.
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And they're just going to be, like, at the party.
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Yeah, because I remember one of my friends said, it's because one person there loves drag.
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And then it's, like, I've done, like, 7,000 people at Wembley.
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And then you go from, like, and it's, like, they all know who you are.
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And then all of a sudden I'm, like, in a villa in Venice in Italy at, like, some, like, weird girl's birthday party with all these, like, random Italian people.
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There's, like, a guy with hors d'oeuvres going by.
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Well, they said she's one of the fiercest drag queens in the world.
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Like, Mariangelo over here doesn't know who the fuck I am.
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There was one gig we did recently where there was, like.
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And then you had to, like, walk upstairs, I guess.
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Like, it looked like it used to be a moratorium.
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Don't talk about it upstairs when you go see everyone.
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We prefer if you didn't tell people there's a gas leak.
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There was, like, a massive, like, furnace down there.
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One time the Italian mafia showed up to my gig.
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So, you can put the pieces together from there.
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Honestly, I swayed them with the power of music.
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I thought you said, what's your least favorite gig?
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You could do a whole podcast just on the worst gigs I've ever done.
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There's two other ones I'm thinking about right now.
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There's going to be a whole chapter on the worst gigs I've ever done in my entire life.
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Speaking of podcasts, though, y'all have a podcast together.
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But I think it's been like two and a half years we started it.
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We literally just like got some vintage chairs and like went into my other room in my house.
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I was like, let's talk about things and have opinions.
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I feel like when you have a podcast, especially one like yours, which is so entertaining and
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It's like one half of it is therapy and you're like trauma dumping on each other.
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And then the other half is you're being like, so what's your opinion on peanut butter
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And you start, you just talk for an hour about that.
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The list, we're adding peanut butter and jelly to our list of topics for sure.
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I feel like actually thinking about peanut butter and jelly the other day because we're
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on like a Matilda kick and she was like making peanut butter and jelly, but with like
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the jar that has peanut butter and jelly like all the pre-mix.
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I want us to make like artisanal peanut butter and jelly.
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Like I want to like crush the peanuts ourselves and like do the preserves.
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Like I want to get like ciabatta, like gorgeous artisanal bread and like toast.
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You can make like a gourmet like Michelin star PB&J.
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I've been to many a Michelin star restaurant and I'm not impressed.
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I actually have a lot of opinions on Michelin stars.
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On how much you hate Michelin star restaurants?
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You're getting artistry and then you get food after.
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I'm like, oh, can I get the so-and-so on the side?
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They're like, no, you cannot get the on the side.
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I don't think I've ever been to a Michelin star restaurant.
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Honestly, fine dining of any kind to me personally is a waste of time because I'm a big bitch.
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So like if you give me an entree and it's this big, I'm going to kill you with a gun.
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And I know they're always like, oh, it's about the experience.
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But then maybe you should be an artist and not a chef.
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I feel like it might as well be like a Sam's Club sample they're giving me.
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Yeah, you can come back for three or four more.
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I went to Paris for the first time this year because I went to Paris Fashion Week for a
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And I have never in my life eaten at restaurants where I felt like I wasn't really eating anything
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There's like two spots we like in Paris that have actual food.
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I don't know the names, but I know the stores that are next to them.
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Yeah, there's a vintage store we love next to the restaurant we love.
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I think even when I was there too, we ate at a couple of restaurants that were good.
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But some of them, I was like, this food is so small.
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No, and the range of restaurant in Paris is not, I'm like, okay, French cuisine loves
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But like, I'm feeling a little like Italian or Mediterranean or like whatever.
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It's like they have Thai food and French food and that's it.
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And I'm like, okay, like where can I get a piece?
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One time I ordered a calzone and there was shrimp in it in France.
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I mean, I've been to Paris so many times and I've had so many odd experiences and I've
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That's a very European thing where they don't please slice.
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I'm in my hotel room holding a giant pizza like this.
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And I started tweeting about this because it was happening to me so much when I was in
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They wouldn't cut the pizza up and I'd be in my hotel room and people would start bringing
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Also in Paris, the fact that their elevators are either non-existent or they're for people
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I'm like, why is there a police system for this elevator?
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Imagine having Elmer's glue all over your eyebrows.
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And when you ask for it, they're mean as fuck to you.
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They're like, can't hang with Mother Nature, I see.
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I was like, if I have to climb one more set of stairs, I'm going to off myself.
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This is the weather we've got and this is the weather you're going to deal with.
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This is the way I'm like, I'm so like, America, rah, when I go over there because I just need
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Like, I hate this country, but I go over there and I'm like, you know what?
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I'm just glad we're on the same page here because I feel the exact same way.
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And every time I go there, I'm like, you guys, I'm in drag.
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If the eyebrow starts sweating off, like, it came over.
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The way that that I know where they came up with the guillotine and they use it on that
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The way that those doors give you half a second to get in or they're chopping your head off,
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I saw three people get slammed in those fucking doors.
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Her mom still got on the train and this bitch was sandwiched between the little like, you
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She was like, ah, and then someone behind her just pulled her back and she got out and her
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I mean, anytime I got on any kind of public transportation, I go the wrong direction.
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Like, even when I lived in New York, I'd be like, okay, I'm in Queens.
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Like, I've been in New York dozens of times at this point.
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When people ask me where things, like, like my friend Teffy, she lives in New York and she
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Though when they're always like between Pearl and 27th, I'm going to drop you.
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I was like, what are you, what is this between?
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In Fashion Week, I remember I'd be doing Fashion Week with Miss Fame and we'd be done.
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Like, the highest Louboutin, snatched corsets, wigged, everything.
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And they're like, Miss Traffic, do you want to walk?
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Amber running through Times Square trying to make it to the Marc Jacobs show.
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Full drag, Louboutined up, doe-eyed, lashed, wigged, all of it.
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Also, I feel like their maps lie a lot in New York.
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Like, they'll be like, oh, 27 minutes, you get in the car, it's two hours later.
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I'm in my hotel room somehow, so I'm like, that's just me being late.
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I do, as much as I think the train is convenient, it is also a nightmare sometimes, going on
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Well, then when you go underneath it, I'm like, not right now.
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Then I'm like, someone's going to be local and see that I'm looking at the map and they're
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What's so funny, this is off topic, but not really.
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When I was on the subway last in New York, because I was just there like a week ago,
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there was a girl who saw me on the train and she recognized me only because I saw her
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We're standing there and I hear her telling her friend, I know that girl.
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And then I see her pull out her phone and she's literally trying to look me up, but she
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She goes, and I could hear her telling her, remember, she does, like, I forget what she
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And I'm like, hey, girl, you're not whispering nearly as quiet as I think you think you are.
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And I'm literally standing up right in front of her.
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You, like, put on a hat and a mustache and you're, like, telling her what she does.
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I feel like that's, like, one of the silliest parts of these jobs.
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Actually, last night, our server, we went to this, like, really cute Italian restaurant.
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She's like, I feel like I've seen you somewhere.
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I was like, let me, like, give a little razzle-dazzle.
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Then I was like, she was like, what were you on?
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And I was like, and then we just go, but I think this bitch is so gay.
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I'm like, I swear to God, she was flirting with Violet.
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Because she was like, it was very like, you are just, I just know you.
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And then you were like, oh, you're probably a big fan of me from Drag Race.
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Then I just go, I just have one of those faces, I guess.
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Whenever you get recognized and I don't, I always go like, one for you.
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Yeah, no, I think I, like, love it because I always, I have this, like, gorgeous Gen Z, like, beyond the binary following that I love to actually, like, talk to.
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And Violet, like, hates it because I'll be like, so tell me your story.
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You'll, like, bring people to tears, and I'm like, we're having that talk right now.
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Remember that one time we were in San Francisco, and you were in full drag, and you thought she was asking to take a photo?
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We were, like, outside of the hotel waiting for our car in full hooker drag.
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Tiniest little dresses, pumps, wigged, everything.
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And there's this girl, and, like, it was actually that viral TikTok dress where you, like, pull the thing, and it makes you skinnier looking with the illusion.
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She's wearing that dress, and she's, like, across the parking lot, runs up to us, and is like, oh, my God.
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And then she hands me her phone and steps to the side, and it starts posing by herself.
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Like, I'm like, yeah, of course we can do a photo gorgeous.
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Dude, the way that that happens to you and makes just there.
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I'm always being clocked, and you're just there to witness.
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I feel like fans, a lot of times they have, like, the best of intentions.
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Maybe she wanted to ask for a picture, and then maybe she thought.
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Maybe she was turning it out on me, and she was like, I'm going to get this bitch.
00:45:06.620
We're talking about the art of high fashion in drag, right?
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So, obviously, y'all are, like, huge fashion queens, right?
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That helped bring, like, a very high fashion element to drag.
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So, what would you say was kind of, like, that process for both of you when you were
00:45:21.960
So, like, obviously, your drag evolves a little bit as you, I'm sure, as you get more seasoned
00:45:29.180
So, like, what has that, like, process been like for both of you when it comes to, like,
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I mean, my, it's like, when I, if you don't know me, I'm a transgender man, first on drag
00:46:01.940
But when I started doing drag, I just wanted everything.
00:46:05.580
I just thought I had to, like, prove myself that I was just as good as all the cisgender
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So, I was just over the top with everything and it was so just dragoon out of my mind.
00:46:17.720
Like, the biggest pads and aligners and lashes and it was crazy.
00:46:26.700
And then, like, as I got more comfortable with myself and really, like, into the fashion
00:46:31.140
world and, like, taking more control of, like, my life, I guess, outside of drag, I was like,
00:46:37.720
Like, I am, like, fierce in drag and out of drag.
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And so, I got more comfortable with it and started being more feminine and living and
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actually helped me out of drag, which is just so, I know, it's so crazy.
00:46:49.400
And then I got, I just got to, like, really go off when that happened.
00:46:53.380
And it's, like, drag was actually my art and not something I, like, hid behind.
00:46:58.880
So, now I just design crazy and it's, like, I get to be more pretty and fashion forward
00:47:15.980
Like, even, like, a month ago, I'm, like, wow, really?
00:47:27.780
Like, I remember back in the day, I would get, like, a $500 bookie and I'd be, like, yes!
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I mean, I've always really, really been into fashion and so I sort of, like, was hell-bent
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on getting accepted into the fashion space, which is hard to do.
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But similar to the birthday parties, there's always that one person on the inside who's,
00:48:04.480
like, really, really into you or really into drag and that's the same with the fashion
00:48:08.240
It's, like, there's only a few select people in the industry who really understand what
00:48:13.280
we do as artists, what we do as multidisciplinary artists and can appreciate sort of the fantastical
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And they see the correlation between the fashion world and creative directing for, like, a major
00:48:26.140
brand and then creative directing your drag character.
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So I've been lucky enough to really, like, get some allies in the inside of the fashion
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That's really the only way you can get in there.
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You gotta really, like, force your way in there.
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And being in the room and showing up is, like, definitely, like, I would say, like, 75%
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And then, like, looking correct and having a fresh perspective on drag and constantly
00:48:57.900
Even with, like, the art of drag, though, is so influential on popular culture, which
00:49:02.360
I feel like people, like, brands and, like, high execs are just now coming to terms with.
00:49:13.060
But it's, like, they're just now starting to kind of let the door open just a little
00:49:20.460
But, like, drag is so influential on every type of popular culture.
00:49:28.940
Some people are just now waking up and realizing that a lot of things that are popular now
00:49:33.380
with, like, Gen Z young millennials comes from drag, girl.
00:49:40.280
I thought everyone knew, but I guess you're right.
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They're so closed off to things they don't understand or have never experienced themselves,
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Especially brands and especially in traditional media.
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They're so closed off to what they don't understand and have never experienced or seen before.
00:50:04.140
And I was like, drag has been here for so long, first of all.
00:50:06.440
And second of all, they've deemed a lot of things that are popular.
00:50:09.780
It's almost like they influence young, especially women, but, like, just anyone who's not an awful
00:50:16.280
When they become huge fans of drag, they start implementing so many elements of drag into
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And it was popularized through, like, cisgendered media, but it came from somewhere else, girl.
00:50:38.320
Well, even, like, to speak what you were saying, like, a lot of my fans that I meet at Meet
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and Greed's, whatever, come up with me, they talk about confidence and how watching drag
00:50:47.400
queens has sort of, like, evoked some sort of confidence in their femininity and using
00:50:52.340
femininity as, like, I mean, I think I weaponize femininity.
00:51:00.140
Well, who inspires me is, like, really, really strong female-dominant women who, like, know
00:51:06.840
And then I think me embodying that and, like, mirroring it back, when I hear young women
00:51:17.140
Like, we get to keep inspiring these, like, strong femme people.
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And, like, that's, like, the most rewarding part for me.
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Especially with, like, obviously the last couple years have been...
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It's been a real war on drag from, like, conservative, awful fucking people.
00:51:34.640
And it's very, very frustrating because it's...
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Obviously, it's a mask to just attack trans people, but they're trying to get drag queens,
00:51:44.180
I was just having this conversation with someone the other day, but when they do this
00:51:48.240
They're attacking drag queens and painting them as someone that they're not.
00:51:51.840
I always think to myself, especially about kids, they're like, oh, I'm just concerned
00:51:55.580
I'm like, you'd be surprised how many drag queens fucking hate kids.
00:52:02.220
I'm like, literally so many drag queens fucking hate kids.
00:52:06.200
I literally designed my life specifically so that I would never have to deal with one.
00:52:12.360
And then when I see a child, I'm like, oh, yeah, those exist.
00:52:16.980
Like, when you see, you're like, that's like one out of 100,000 drag queens.
00:52:27.060
Every time you say drag queen, there's 20 that pop up.
00:52:30.380
That was another question I was going to ask y'all is, like, the evolution of drag.
00:52:34.080
Obviously, drag is so popularized now just in cisgendered media entirely.
00:52:37.420
But, like, have y'all noticed a huge shift as far as, like, a lot more people want to go into the drag world?
00:52:43.800
And they want to, like, be – I'm like, I want to be a famous drag queen.
00:52:48.120
And I feel like now with, like, TikTok and everything, it's like they're, like, showing the process so everyone can just learn how to do drag so easy.
00:53:00.420
Like, you can just go on and get, like, the most gorgeous lace front, the most gorgeous corset, the most gorgeous everything.
00:53:09.160
Well, the physicality and the look and the aesthetic is more accessible now.
00:53:28.160
There's, like, some sort of grit element to drag that you can't learn on TikTok.
00:53:34.560
Like, the dressing room shade and reading and learning how to be quick and witty and, like, all those things that, like, I mean, I was raised by wolves in the dressing rooms.
00:53:45.560
They'd be like, you're not wearing those shoes on stage.
00:53:51.340
They, like, really taught me tough love and, like, it wasn't all, you know, kumbaya back then when I was doing it.
00:53:58.920
I was, like, I was raised in Atlanta by the house of Brooks, Nicole Paige Brooks.
00:54:04.680
And, honey, it was, like, not like it is today.
00:54:08.980
And I don't think the caliber that's being produced for the younger queens is, I feel like they deserve more almost.
00:54:15.660
I'm, like, you guys deserve those, like, family, chosen family dressing moments.
00:54:22.300
And it's, like, you're behind a screen learning.
00:54:27.240
There's probably a certain life experience that comes with it, too, and that's what you're getting at.
00:54:31.740
It's, like, you should have the life experience coupled with the technique.
00:54:35.720
Because drag is so much more than just looking pretty.
00:54:38.900
And serving, like, looks, like, whether it's fashion or makeup, it's a lot more than that, I feel like.
00:54:49.420
I mean, it's really about, like, finding your tribe.
00:54:52.680
And, like, being proud of who you are and all of those things.
00:55:01.540
When you're talking about, like, shade and reading and all of that, I was just telling someone,
00:55:05.860
I forget who it was, but I was talking about, like, because, you know,
00:55:08.580
a lot of drag queens, especially on my show, they've talked about how, like, you know,
00:55:11.880
like a Party City wig, bachelorette kind of thing at the drag show, most annoying girls
00:55:20.600
But they're, like, obnoxious and they bother you and they interrupt your set.
00:55:24.160
And we've kiki-ed about that here on the show, which is so funny.
00:55:27.240
But I was saying, a lot of times those girls are the girls that are like, oh, drag queens
00:55:36.040
Which makes me laugh, because I'm like, if you hung out with any drag queens, your fucking
00:55:45.680
I'm like, they are the meanest people alive, which is why I love them personally.
00:55:50.720
And I was like, and the funniest bitches alive and so talented.
00:55:55.880
And they fuck with me because I can take a joke.
00:55:58.820
But that's why I was like, the mean shit, I'm like, that's part of it.
00:56:05.760
Well, I love the videos of drag queens performing at, like, a brunch or something.
00:56:09.740
And there'll be just, like, a girl will, like, get up and go, like, not be paying attention.
00:56:13.440
And the drag queen will just, like, do a pirouette and, like, shove the girl.
00:56:17.520
Sometimes to the point where I'm like, how did they even do that?
00:56:27.660
I feel like, and that's why I was like, y'all don't know anything about hanging out with drag queens
00:56:34.840
Hopefully those synthetic wig girls will, you know, elevate and grow.
00:56:41.260
And I'm sure the next time they go to a drag show, maybe they'll wear a nicer wig.
00:56:46.880
At this point, they'll be on drag race pretty soon.
00:56:49.100
Those are also the ones that, like, hug you by your wig.
00:56:59.080
Girl, speaking of hugging, sometimes when people take pictures of me, because I'm a
00:57:03.740
And I feel like a lot of times when people meet me in person, they're like, oh, you're
00:57:12.020
But I was like, now I'm six feet tall, so I'm like, I'm a big bitch.
00:57:16.220
And sometimes when they take pictures of me, they'll emphasize how much bigger I am.
00:57:19.940
They're like, oh, you're so much bigger than me.
00:57:28.620
This is one of the worst things they do to me, though.
00:57:32.200
But, like, they'll pose with me and they'll hold me like this.
00:57:36.840
Like, and they'll put, like, the little shoulder up.
00:57:38.840
Like, and I'm like, well, don't hold me like I'm your man.
00:57:45.700
When there's a male in our meet and greet line, I'm always, like, yeah, a little feminine
00:57:52.720
And I was like, well, I'm not a man in the line.
00:58:07.880
So, this is one of the TikTok videos that I was tagged in that's applicable to our topic.
00:58:22.760
So, it says, the caption of the video is, get ready with me, avant-garde edition.
00:58:27.080
And the drag queen in the video creates their own high-fashion look from their bedroom with
00:58:35.500
And then, um, the comments are hate comments, obviously.
00:58:39.000
Because when cis straight men see drag, their pee-pee wiggles a little.
00:58:48.480
And, uh, this first comment says, giving man get a damn jeans and t-shirt, really?
00:58:54.860
The funny thing about that is they're using drag lingo.
00:59:03.220
Like, they don't know the lingo has, like, it's a cruel circle.
00:59:07.880
If I was a straight woman and my straight boyfriend's, he goes, I don't know, it's giving man.
00:59:22.860
That's why I'm like, well, most drag queens know they're a man, so.
00:59:41.280
One thing about them, they're going to give you jeans and a t-shirt.
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Two things you can be certain they will give you.
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This one says, why are you girls encouraging such behavior?
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Like, all the girls are like, yes, give it to me.
01:00:14.620
And then he's like, why are you girls encouraging such behavior?
01:00:23.820
The girls that get it, the girls that don't, don't.
01:00:26.120
Everyone plays their little troll role in life.
01:00:36.780
And this last comment says, why gays are everywhere in TikTok trying makeup dresses?
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The funny thing about that is whenever homophobic people are like, oh, everybody's gay now.
01:01:14.620
Um, it's like, well, people have been gay for a very long time.
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I think they're learning in real time in the comments.
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That's why I think like even when you go like so, so, so far back, people were so gay.
01:01:44.880
Before colonization, before gender binary was even introduced in the first place.
01:01:56.620
Like the gender binary and like the idea of like, oh, people are only heterosexual.
01:02:26.700
That's, and that's why I'm like, they're great, great, great, great, great, great, great.
01:02:49.720
Not as much as we were laughing so fucking hard.
01:02:51.780
But what would you guys say is like your best piece of advice for people who are looking
01:02:56.120
to kind of elevate, maybe if they want to be in the drag world, first off, right?
01:03:01.120
Second part is if they're already in the drag world and they want to elevate, maybe get to
01:03:08.100
Um, for both of you being so successful in your careers respectively off of drag race, what
01:03:12.560
would you say is your best piece of advice for them?
01:03:14.820
Whether they're getting started or they're already there?
01:03:16.420
People always ask me this, like, how do I get started in drag?
01:03:19.680
And I'm like, if you haven't started already, girl, don't.
01:03:22.840
Like, if you have to ask for advice, it's probably not for you.
01:03:38.640
Like it's not, I didn't have to check in with someone about advice or like look at a
01:03:50.720
And like, like, I don't think if you need advice to start something, I don't think you
01:04:01.420
And I think nowadays too, it's like, like we were saying how everyone's learning off of
01:04:08.380
I think just really find what makes you unique and run with that girl.
01:04:17.760
And it's like, it's become so commercialized and homogenized.
01:04:26.320
Like everyone had their like own angle, their own stamp, their own signature.
01:04:36.120
Also, I saw, I know one of my, one of my friends who's a drag queen.
01:04:40.540
She was saying too, it's become very like, everyone wants to be very fish, like very
01:04:47.360
Like it's, it's like the art of it is getting a little lost.
01:04:51.760
It's getting very, it's watered down a little bit.
01:04:55.440
Even like, we were saying like cis women are in more drag than drag queens now.
01:05:07.020
And that's probably part of the commercialization of it.
01:05:09.680
You want to be, people want to be marketable now, especially.
01:05:11.920
And it's like, I think this, the, the capitalism of it all.
01:05:20.880
You want to be all these things for, so that hopefully one of these brands can like get
01:05:26.440
you in there and you want to be like, really like, and that's just like not what the essence
01:05:35.700
So it was just a really interesting time for drag in general.
01:05:40.900
And then, I mean, I think like, like you said, like having your own signature and your own
01:05:47.920
I don't even get why you would want to be doing drag if you just like looked like everyone
01:05:55.040
That's, and you know, what's so funny too is that you can look at all, like you, the
01:05:58.640
both of you included and every other drag queen, that's like a legend.
01:06:10.720
The two of you are included in that very specific looks.
01:06:13.640
So it's like, that's to your point, like those are the ones that last the longest,
01:06:18.940
And succeed because they're very unique and very different.
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It's like figure out who you are and then do it on purpose.
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