The Culture War - Tim Pool - Gen Z Men Are SCREWED, The Dating Market Is BROKEN ft. Hoe_Math

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00:01:18.640 The reason that that doesn't work anymore is because women feel comfortable, you know, playing the field and doing what they want for as long as they can. 1.00

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00:03:44.340 We have HoMath here.

00:03:45.660 I just want to open up.

00:03:46.560 This is what we're going to be discussing.

00:03:48.240 The Gen Z romance gap.

00:03:49.920 Why half of young men are not dating.

00:03:52.900 What is going on here?

00:03:54.200 I don't know what's going on.

00:03:55.000 This is why I had to bring in HoMath.

00:03:56.660 HoMath, can you hear me?

00:03:58.020 I can hear you.

00:03:59.040 What is going on, Patriot?

00:04:00.660 I had to bring you in for this story.

00:04:02.320 I had to figure out what's going on, and there's no one better than you to break this down.

00:04:06.880 What are your thoughts on the great, I guess they're saying the hoeless generation. 1.00

00:04:11.520 This is a generation with no hoes, and what is going on? 1.00

00:04:15.100 Where are the hoes at? 1.00

00:04:15.840 It's becoming a very salient question.

00:04:18.400 Yeah.

00:04:18.740 It's, I mean, I don't know where to start.

00:04:21.080 It's such a broad question.

00:04:22.860 The attitudes that men and women have towards each other, young men and women in particular,

00:04:27.700 have changed a lot.

00:04:28.640 I am in, you know, a very particularly good position to understand this because I sort

00:04:37.380 of like aged into and out of my dating market value in such a way that I started dating Gen 1.00

00:04:46.680 Z girls, like as they were, you know, getting old enough to date. 1.00

00:04:52.260 In my 30s, I was dating Gen Z girls in their 20s as they were rising in their market value. 0.99

00:05:01.000 So I got to date millennial women when I was young and Gen Z women when I was, you know,

00:05:06.300 starting to age out.

00:05:07.640 And I can see the attitude changes that have come through, you know, the internet and changes

00:05:14.620 in culture.

00:05:15.240 And you can list the, I was trying to make an acronym for it.

00:05:18.500 Like I use the awful acronym in my last video for the affluent white female urban liberals. 1.00

00:05:25.160 I'm trying to make an acronym for the things that get taken over that send messages into

00:05:30.920 society that really change what people think.

00:05:33.260 And there are things like government and media and education and of course, technology and

00:05:42.560 they're creating attitudes.

00:05:45.700 These, the messages coming through these things are creating attitudes in both men and women

00:05:51.040 that they don't, they're more misanthropic.

00:05:54.540 They like people less.

00:05:55.580 They go out less.

00:05:56.420 They have less hope.

00:05:57.800 The women have higher expectations of the men than they used to. 0.98

00:06:03.280 They're, people are colder towards each other.

00:06:05.820 They're much more calculating.

00:06:07.720 Yeah.

00:06:08.060 When, when I was younger, I noticed that younger women were much more likely to just want somebody 1.00

00:06:13.520 that they liked.

00:06:15.200 And as I got older, I mean, you know, and this is also a function of me getting older

00:06:19.680 too, but I noticed that the women are, are much more looking for men that can do something 1.00

00:06:24.420 for them.

00:06:25.080 And that something can be, you know, it can be, uh, uh, excitement like sexual excitement,

00:06:30.820 or it can be money, which is what I've drawn here.

00:06:35.600 Um, can you see my whole screen?

00:06:37.180 Yeah.

00:06:38.080 Cool.

00:06:38.560 So it can be, you know, either the one thing or the other, but what I've noticed is that

00:06:42.540 more and more of the young women seem to be, you know, splitting that up between people.

00:06:47.120 Like they're getting one thing from one place and one thing from another place.

00:06:50.320 You've heard of hoflation, right?

00:06:52.180 You've seen, uh, the whatever podcast, which is just that I, I just love that Brian does

00:06:57.020 that so often.

00:06:58.800 And so perfectly that he just brings on these women who are, he says that he's not looking 0.60

00:07:04.500 particularly hard to find examples of, of these awful attitudes and women, but even 0.95

00:07:10.240 if he is, it's just really important that people see that because it's, it's the entitlement

00:07:15.240 and it's the, um, the egotistical, like people have been asking me to make videos on egocentrism

00:07:22.900 and that really is at, at the core and at the root of it.

00:07:27.760 I think egocentrism has been increasing since the boomer generation.

00:07:32.620 I'm sure you've seen those memes where it's like, they have the old sepia tone photo, you

00:07:39.840 know, of the old, like the guy in the top hat and the woman in a bonnet.

00:07:43.980 And, and, and they say like, we just want a better life for our children.

00:07:46.620 And then the next generation is, we just want a better life for our children.

00:07:49.340 And then the boomers say, you entitled brats, get your own money. 1.00

00:07:52.940 And then the millennials say, kids not happening.

00:07:55.300 Right.

00:07:55.700 Right.

00:07:56.260 So it just sort of started with the boomers, the entitlement and the egocentrism, the me 0.98

00:08:01.580 generation, and it's getting worse and worse every generation.

00:08:07.300 Yeah.

00:08:07.540 So I think that's, that's at the core of it.

00:08:09.560 And, you know, there's so many aspects of it.

00:08:11.800 Like this is why I keep making successful videos about it.

00:08:15.520 There's so many aspects of it and so many things to watch out in the field of, of dating

00:08:21.360 and so many strings to pull on.

00:08:23.580 Like economics has a role in it and changing demographics has a role in it.

00:08:29.220 And the affordability of living has a role in it.

00:08:31.800 Like, you know, women just don't want men who can't afford a basic life and more and 0.96

00:08:36.380 more men can't afford a basic life, but, um, yeah.

00:08:41.140 But, but basically it is, you know, if I was going to put it all into one bubble, it's

00:08:49.200 the way that we view each other has changed because so many other things have changed and

00:08:53.260 I'm working on a way to sum that up.

00:08:55.360 Well, it's because even at the macro level, you know, okay.

00:08:59.020 We, we see these, these issues with the dating market.

00:09:01.380 Like you said, the way that I totally agree.

00:09:03.460 I think zoomers, um, are increasingly distrustful of basically everyone. 1.00

00:09:08.880 I think some of that is obviously, um, like an internal issue with zoomers, but I think

00:09:12.760 a lot of it is external.

00:09:13.640 I think, yeah, you, like you said, demographic change.

00:09:15.620 I mean, again, we have a very low trust society now.

00:09:18.220 So again, people are just increasingly skeptical.

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00:09:51.960 Um, movement, women are terrified because of like feminism. 1.00

00:09:55.140 It's been internalized sort of a fear of men.

00:09:57.760 Um, but then even at the micro level, I think about my own life, you know, I come from a,

00:10:02.220 a Christian background.

00:10:03.560 I know a lot of great men, great women that would make great husbands, make great wives,

00:10:08.300 and they just can't seem to find each other.

00:10:10.200 So even removing the macro trends that we're seeing, even at the stock of people that would

00:10:15.720 make great spouses, they're even having trouble finding each other.

00:10:19.560 Like all the institutions that, that would have facilitated those people finding each

00:10:23.040 other are just gone.

00:10:24.380 It's like what, 70% of couples are forming through online now.

00:10:27.620 I mean, it's like crazy. 0.94

00:10:29.900 Yeah, it's ridiculous. 0.88

00:10:31.320 Um, the, the breakdown of society is like, it's almost complete.

00:10:34.860 It's people are really mostly just sitting at home, looking at the phone and getting all

00:10:40.860 of their ideas through the phone.

00:10:42.500 And it's so, I don't know, ironic, I guess, is, is the first word that comes to mind that

00:10:49.080 I'm trying to fix that through the phone.

00:10:50.540 And I'm trying to say to people like, Hey, while you're here, you know, um, get a grip

00:10:56.160 on reality, uh, and, and try to remember that.

00:11:01.940 And, you know, remember isn't even the right word because these people never lived that life,

00:11:06.180 but try to realize that real life, you know, doesn't happen.

00:11:11.180 It's not mediated through a screen and you're only seeing what people want you to see.

00:11:16.480 And you're supposed to get out and, uh, uh, you know, go have real life experiences with

00:11:22.660 people.

00:11:22.880 But whenever I tell people that they just say, well, how am I supposed to do that?

00:11:26.920 No one else is doing that.

00:11:28.460 Yes.

00:11:29.000 There, you know, I have, I have coaching clients who say, where am I supposed to go to meet

00:11:32.480 girls? 0.96

00:11:32.960 And I go, well, what about this?

00:11:34.180 And what about this?

00:11:34.720 And what about this?

00:11:35.120 And they go, no one's there.

00:11:36.180 They, uh, they talk about, uh, church.

00:11:38.300 I think, I think Pearl, uh, Davis, you know, Pearl.

00:11:41.500 Yeah.

00:11:42.200 I think she was the first one to, um, clue me in to the fact that, uh, that opportunistic

00:11:50.020 women had begun, had begun using church as a place to target innocent men to be used. 1.00

00:11:56.000 Like they, they are, they kind of know that they've lost their market value.

00:12:01.040 I'm just going to write lies here coming out of the phone to be clear about it.

00:12:05.620 Um, they, they, they know that they're losing their market value.

00:12:08.340 So they go to church and they find guys who are all innocent and they say, oh, I found

00:12:11.780 Jesus, you know, I'm, I'm clean and pure now.

00:12:15.220 Sure.

00:12:15.480 And so like, even church is not a great way to, to meet women anymore.

00:12:19.620 So it's like, if you don't meet someone in school, which they all think they're too young

00:12:25.900 to settle down anyway, then where is the social, like, where are the social places you're supposed

00:12:31.480 to go to meet people?

00:12:32.980 They're gone.

00:12:33.360 And the third places are evaporating and yeah, it's all going through online and that is

00:12:37.780 all mediated through the apps and you know, the experience of the apps, like you don't

00:12:41.460 have to tell this to any man.

00:12:43.240 We all know, like, even though I had times that I was successful on apps, I had years

00:12:48.840 where I was like, uh, I remember one girl back in the, in the, in the 20 teens, I think

00:12:56.120 trying to tell me that she felt bad for me because the apps are so hard on men.

00:13:00.740 And I was like, I don't, what are you talking about?

00:13:02.480 But a few years later I learned, you know, I figured out exactly what she meant.

00:13:06.760 I kind of fell out of the top 20% there.

00:13:09.580 You don't have to tell men how hard those apps are on them.

00:13:13.520 Um, but women usually don't get it. 1.00

00:13:17.260 Like I made a video about this a long time ago about how I, I had, I wish I kept the drawing.

00:13:23.720 I had a girl make a profile for me because, you know, she thought that it was, it was what 0.97

00:13:29.820 I put on the phone that was, that was, uh, uh, not working as must be bad information.

00:13:37.500 So I let her do it and I let her, uh, choose a picture of a guy that she thought was cute.

00:13:42.820 So we made a fake profile with a guy she thought was attractive and we tested her written profile

00:13:49.160 with my photo and with this guy's photo.

00:13:52.260 And she saw the difference was night and day.

00:13:53.960 And she just never really knew how to process that information.

00:13:57.640 So women are not really, not really getting what the experience of the apps is doing to

00:14:06.060 their own minds.

00:14:06.820 Like people don't have enough perspective on their own minds to know that their experiences

00:14:14.600 are not normal.

00:14:15.640 So, yeah, it's like the women, the, the, the, the impact that apps has on them is they 1.00

00:14:21.500 have perceived options.

00:14:23.200 Like they have endless options, which isn't the case off of the apps.

00:14:26.740 And then for men, it's perceived scarcity, which also isn't the reality off the apps.

00:14:32.000 And so for both people, it ends up forcing them into making bad decisions where women they're

00:14:36.760 passing up on what would be great options.

00:14:39.100 And then men, again, with perceived scarcity, they just take the first woman that's available 0.93

00:14:43.680 and end up in a really bad situation.

00:14:45.600 I've seen this happen time and time again, where a lot of men that are my age, I'm 25.

00:14:50.600 So a lot of zoomers, as soon as they get their first girlfriend, even if it's a terrible 1.00

00:14:54.140 match, a terrible fit, they just go all in.

00:14:57.040 Cause again, that perceived scarcity that they've grown up around.

00:14:59.680 And especially if they went onto the date, like the dating apps, uh, it just one shots

00:15:03.400 you and you just immediately think there must be something wrong with me.

00:15:05.420 So if a girl finally likes me, then I just need to lock this down as quick as possible.

00:15:09.300 Yeah.

00:15:09.660 And I mean, if it, if it is that hard to meet anyone and start a relationship, is it perceived

00:15:15.160 scarcity?

00:15:15.860 It's true.

00:15:16.440 At what point does it become actual scarcity?

00:15:18.900 Cause it's scarcity of attention.

00:15:20.640 It's scarcity of how much time you can actually get talking to women that are interested in

00:15:26.300 you.

00:15:26.460 So, you know, I, I understand why somebody would, you know, go for the first one and, uh, and

00:15:32.660 make something more of it than it really is.

00:15:35.260 Right.

00:15:35.660 And, uh, yeah, you know, people come to me for solutions.

00:15:39.540 And one of the things that I'm really, really good at is getting people to understand themselves.

00:15:45.300 Like people come to me with a question and, uh, and they say, you know, why did I feel

00:15:50.320 this?

00:15:50.680 Why did I do this?

00:15:52.080 Uh, what do I do about this situation?

00:15:54.000 And I'm really good at like walking them through themselves until they find the answer.

00:15:58.780 But I'm, I just don't have all of the solutions for what do we do in a society that doesn't

00:16:06.320 have options for us.

00:16:08.100 Right.

00:16:08.860 I mean, cause that's, that's the thing is the applications people give are just from

00:16:13.720 older people, especially are just kind of lazy. 0.78

00:16:16.560 Like they just don't understand the reality.

00:16:17.820 I mean, the church thing is a perfect example.

00:16:19.180 Like I'm a Christian, I'm a devout Christian.

00:16:21.000 And I would not really recommend church as a place to find a spouse purely because most

00:16:26.140 of these really, I got like worth churches that are worth your time to attend.

00:16:30.060 There's not really going to be anyone your age that's there if you're young.

00:16:34.020 Um, and, and then to your point there is occasionally, but oftentimes they could just

00:16:38.980 be a viper.

00:16:39.900 They know better, or even if they really had this change, you're still signing up for

00:16:43.640 a lot of like baggage that maybe you don't realize you're signing up for.

00:16:46.360 Cause again, a lot of these guys that are in these churches and by extension, the girls,

00:16:49.660 but that grow up in the church and stay in the church, have a degree of innocence, a

00:16:53.080 degree of insulation from how the world actually is.

00:16:56.520 Um, it's just a really grim situation.

00:16:58.560 So it's like, I mean, best case scenario you could, but it seems like the only couples that

00:17:02.540 I know from my life found each other in college or online through the apps mostly.

00:17:08.100 How old are you?

00:17:09.000 I'm 25.

00:17:10.280 Yeah, that makes sense.

00:17:11.480 So they found each other in college or through the apps and it's not, is it, I mean, what

00:17:16.180 percentage of your friends would you say are finding or actually finding relationships?

00:17:19.660 through the apps?

00:17:21.160 Like 20, 30%, I would say.

00:17:23.260 Yeah.

00:17:23.640 That's not a lot.

00:17:24.200 So you just got a lot of single friends.

00:17:25.940 Yeah.

00:17:26.260 Yeah.

00:17:26.880 And, uh, it's becoming in vogue.

00:17:29.020 This is, this is really specific to, uh, DC and New York.

00:17:33.100 I've noticed this has become very in vogue to set friends up with, I know it sounds crazy,

00:17:37.540 set friends up with each other, but like, that's a very rare thing for zoomers to do. 1.00

00:17:41.060 And so I've heard like in the last two or three years, a lot more of my friends going

00:17:44.860 on blind dates, these sorts of things.

00:17:47.160 But my hometown, you know, Memphis suburbs, that is.

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00:18:42.600 That's where most of my friends are single and really suffering.

00:18:47.060 I don't know if it has to do with maybe New York and DC having the probably a much higher

00:18:51.340 proportion of single women because of the way careers just work the way the industries 0.99

00:18:55.540 work.

00:18:57.380 But yeah, it's a lot of these guys that again have really good jobs, but that's it.

00:19:02.860 They live to work.

00:19:03.760 They're really getting hammered.

00:19:05.600 Um, so they're not like you're saying they're not interested in dating or, uh, they, they

00:19:10.060 probably would be, but a lot of them have tapped out cause they have, you know, a hinge

00:19:13.000 account that gets one like every month.

00:19:14.700 And so, right.

00:19:16.680 So you're saying I got a little confused with what you're saying there.

00:19:19.560 You're saying that people are setting their friends up with each other, but they are,

00:19:23.240 they do that less in DC and New York.

00:19:24.920 No, I'm saying in New York and DC, it's, it seems like the dating mark is actually a bit

00:19:27.980 healthier, which is funny.

00:19:28.960 Cause I think the narrative online, especially on the right is that these cities are like cesspools

00:19:32.900 with all these, uh, like, you know, awful.

00:19:34.900 And that's true, but it does seem like that's where you're finding a higher proportion of

00:19:39.000 couples than you would find.

00:19:40.700 Right.

00:19:41.100 Yeah.

00:19:41.600 It definitely, when I lived in the cities, it was easier to get attention from women. 1.00

00:19:45.660 Like that's where all the young people go to meet each other. 0.99

00:19:48.080 It's just that most of them are, you know, insane. 0.99

00:19:50.800 Right.

00:19:51.400 When you, when you live in that really dense, uh, social, it's like a black hole.

00:19:57.380 It's like a social black hole.

00:19:58.920 It's like gravity.

00:19:59.720 The, and the more, um, density of opinions that you're surrounded by, the more likely

00:20:07.080 people are to have them.

00:20:08.680 And the women that I would meet, like right in the heart of the cities were, their opinions

00:20:13.420 were absolutely insane.

00:20:14.460 And then I would like get to know them for two or three days and just go, there's absolutely

00:20:17.660 no way that this is going anywhere.

00:20:19.500 I'm not going to, you know, buy a ring for someone who believes the thing you just said.

00:20:24.380 That's like setting my whole life on fire.

00:20:26.500 So it's like, that's where they all are, but they also are, you know, the, the, uh, yeah,

00:20:33.920 I'm sure you've seen that graph also of the, um, like if this is more conservative and this

00:20:41.040 is more liberal or maybe it's the other way around, but they have the, um, they show the

00:20:47.660 men going like from liberal, like slightly more conservative and they show the women going 1.00

00:20:53.380 like that.

00:20:54.440 Yeah.

00:20:55.320 Yeah.

00:20:55.900 Yeah.

00:20:56.160 That is, that is, this is to me the core of what, of what's happening and why, because

00:21:06.500 this is, that's women setting the frame. 1.00

00:21:09.160 They're using their phones.

00:21:11.060 They're negotiating collectively.

00:21:12.860 So, uh, I, I made a video called a baby talk about how they, they try to talk down to you.

00:21:22.000 They try to control situations.

00:21:23.520 I made a video called, uh, who is a 10 about how they collectively negotiate through the

00:21:29.160 phone.

00:21:29.440 They have this network that they would never have in real life without social media where

00:21:33.720 they take all these, you know, the rules that are forged in the black hole of the cities

00:21:37.840 and they just communicate them outward through the phones.

00:21:41.380 And, uh, and then the women get in their heads that, um, like they're going to go protest 1.00

00:21:50.740 ice.

00:21:51.380 And if their husband says no, then you have to divorce him because he's abusing you.

00:21:55.100 There is just insane kinds of beliefs that come through the phones and they feel them so

00:22:00.880 strongly and they believe that that's true.

00:22:02.900 And how are you supposed to date women like that? 0.99

00:22:05.980 Yes.

00:22:06.780 I just didn't try.

00:22:08.060 I just stopped trying.

00:22:09.460 I moved away.

00:22:10.660 Well, cause it's, it's, it's, it's, you're unable to go on, on rescue missions for two

00:22:15.560 reasons.

00:22:15.800 I hate this, this narrative from the right wing from conservatives is they place all of

00:22:20.580 the blame on men where they're like, you know, men just aren't strong anymore.

00:22:23.840 Like women are desperate to be led, but it's these good, there's a good, uh, Scott Greer

00:22:28.100 says that there was a good man scarcity.

00:22:29.760 You know, there's this scarcity of men.

00:22:31.420 And he's, he's using this to mock these conservatives, but it's like, okay, maybe

00:22:35.860 that's true.

00:22:36.800 Men's like testosterone has gone on a little bit, but the women just, even if there was 1.00

00:22:39.940 a like total, you know, alpha or whatever, women just by and large really don't seem 1.00

00:22:44.880 to have the desire to be led because by and large they can lead their own lives because

00:22:48.460 the economy facilitates that.

00:22:50.080 And now they can be a man and a woman simultaneously.

00:22:53.180 Exactly.

00:22:53.540 Yeah.

00:22:53.880 So they're like, this is, this is men listen to me a lot more than women do. 0.98

00:22:59.900 And so I craft my messages mostly towards men, obviously.

00:23:04.020 And, uh, you know, the main message that I tell men is, you know, number one, I, I, uh,

00:23:10.060 talk about individual problems and I say, for example, in my baby talk video, like when

00:23:15.260 women talk to you like this, here's how you respond, here's how you deal with it. 1.00

00:23:18.960 So I give them real life skills, but number two, I say that like, no matter what the circumstances

00:23:25.420 are, the situ, the, the answer to the situation is always be more of a man.

00:23:30.260 I always use this little red arrow to just symbolize, you know, moving upward, getting

00:23:35.540 better at things, becoming stronger, grow your money, grow your portfolio, grow your

00:23:40.580 skillset, grow your social network.

00:23:42.500 Be more of a man is always the answer for men, but that doesn't guarantee it's going

00:23:49.380 to work.

00:23:49.960 Like that's not a, that's not a promise of, uh, that's not a, a contract that, that says

00:23:55.360 you're going to get a woman if you do that. 1.00

00:23:57.220 When I was in my twenties, I had a, uh, you know, a very sudden, um, time where I, I started

00:24:04.480 changing myself and I became more physically attractive and then women liked me a lot, but

00:24:08.540 I still was not very much of a man.

00:24:10.180 And I still was very liberal and I believed all this stuff they taught me in college and

00:24:14.540 everything, very wishy-washy.

00:24:16.240 And I learned a kind of slowly, like I, I went from, you know, a mess to good, to good

00:24:23.700 looking enough to be successful in the apps in like one year.

00:24:26.940 And then it took me about six years to become more of like a man, like what a man should

00:24:31.620 be.

00:24:31.860 Yeah.

00:24:32.220 And I noticed that women responded better to it, but as time went on and everyone got

00:24:38.020 more liberal and as I moved again towards the center of the city, the more they would

00:24:42.240 just reject it.

00:24:43.340 They just, they really don't want to be led.

00:24:45.600 They say they want to be led, but they want to be led in the way that they already feel

00:24:50.400 like they want you to go fight ice for them or something.

00:24:53.920 And it's like, but that's not what being a man, yeah, that's you setting the frame.

00:24:57.460 That's you telling me what you want me to do.

00:24:59.360 And this is not what I believe is right.

00:25:00.820 So it's like either you have to get behind me.

00:25:04.580 Um, I had a drawing for that too.

00:25:07.080 They're all, they're all cut up.

00:25:08.760 I'll just redraw it.

00:25:09.700 I had a, uh, I had a drawing with a man in the center and then, um, and then there's danger

00:25:16.940 over here and where she wants to be is over here. 1.00

00:25:20.980 So it's like people talk about bad boys and everything.

00:25:23.840 And why do women like bad boys? 1.00

00:25:25.200 Well, it's because they want you to be more bad than the danger.

00:25:29.040 Sure.

00:25:29.380 Right.

00:25:29.660 And so women are perceiving ice has the danger and not as illegal immigrants, which is, you 0.91

00:25:36.620 know, insane.

00:25:37.480 Yeah.

00:25:37.760 And there's no way that we can get a hold of that.

00:25:40.880 There's no, there's nothing we can do about that because we just don't control the media

00:25:45.340 that they're watching.

00:25:47.440 So, you know, it's being, becoming more self-possessed and everything.

00:25:52.900 It doesn't, it doesn't, it's like a chemical formula.

00:25:57.740 It's not really like addition and subtraction where the more of a man you become, the more

00:26:01.840 women will listen to you. 1.00

00:26:03.560 It's like, uh, you have to also understand the, like what she perceives as safety, what

00:26:11.960 she perceives as good and evil and right and wrong.

00:26:14.560 And there are some women who will, they'll just be very impressed. 0.99

00:26:18.800 Like, oh, you work out.

00:26:20.160 Oh, you dress well.

00:26:21.040 You have your life in order.

00:26:22.100 You have a good job.

00:26:22.900 But you don't believe all, all my crazy liberal things.

00:26:26.120 So that's it. 0.74

00:26:26.860 I'm ghosting you.

00:26:29.360 Yes.

00:26:30.120 Well, that's, that's like such a good point as being more, because something I've noticed,

00:26:34.300 we saw the data come in a few months ago where it inverted.

00:26:37.780 We're now men, the more, a higher proportion of men want to be a father, have a family, et

00:26:44.760 cetera, than women. 1.00

00:26:45.780 Because that was always the stereotype is like, oh, women will do whatever it takes for a ring. 1.00

00:26:49.320 And, and, you know, men are the ones holding out on these women and et cetera, et cetera. 0.78

00:26:52.960 That got completely flipped on its head.

00:26:54.300 Now it's the other way around where it seems like majority of my friends that are men are

00:26:58.140 like very desperate for a family and that, and that sort of comfort that comes with that.

00:27:01.740 And the women are increasingly more willing to test the waters, um, in their twenties and

00:27:06.340 thirties and see what they can do before they, I guess, settle down for lack of a better

00:27:09.240 word.

00:27:09.360 So it's just really bizarre.

00:27:10.980 And in addition to that, I'm noticing, I don't think this, I think it's a healthy impulse, but

00:27:16.560 it's not a good tendency to have is a lot of men, their goal in life is to get married

00:27:22.240 and have children.

00:27:22.940 And it's like, I agree that's noble and I want that as well, but that should be an outcome

00:27:27.880 from success.

00:27:28.860 Like you, that, that gyre, like that, like is generated from success, like a great family

00:27:33.900 life, et cetera.

00:27:34.660 I don't know what your take is on all that.

00:27:36.820 Yeah.

00:27:37.240 I mean, that's like, that's the formula that we used to have that, you know, the, the,

00:27:42.180 you, you'd be born and you'd grow up and you would, um, I think I have that somewhere

00:27:48.340 else to just redrawing all my charts today for you, uh, that you would, you basically

00:27:54.820 would be born and you would grow in like your attractiveness starts at, you know, in your

00:28:06.280 teens and peaks when you're about 27 and comes down slowly.

00:28:10.500 And for a woman, it starts in her teens and it peaks at like 22. 1.00

00:28:15.840 And then it comes down, you know, a little bit faster than a man's. 0.78

00:28:19.360 And then also as a man, you have a secondary value, which is your money, which, you know,

00:28:28.140 ideally gets high and stays high.

00:28:31.880 And, um, at some time around your, you know, physical attractiveness and your economic attractiveness,

00:28:39.960 you just become a viable candidate to get married.

00:28:43.440 And these things are just not, they're just not working like that anymore.

00:28:47.160 That, that paradigm is shifted because of very artificial pressures on the economy.

00:28:55.140 And people don't understand that they're artificial too.

00:28:57.700 Like I make this point so much, I've, I've drawn the picture, I've shown it so many times,

00:29:02.760 but just drawing the picture, you know, it communicates the concept, but it doesn't prove

00:29:08.340 it.

00:29:08.600 So now I have to make a whole big, long video to prove it.

00:29:12.560 Um, I'll zoom in.

00:29:15.740 It's just the reason that that doesn't work anymore is because women feel comfortable, 1.00

00:29:21.840 you know, playing the field and doing what they want for as long as they can, because they

00:29:26.640 know that, that this and this is going to support them.

00:29:31.100 And they're not really aware that it's coming from anyone.

00:29:34.480 That's something that I call, I call that Santa ism because it's like Santa brings everything.

00:29:38.900 And so people who don't understand that someone is paying the cost, they will say things like

00:29:46.600 healthcare should be free.

00:29:48.800 Education should be free.

00:29:50.160 Everyone should be allowed to live in America.

00:29:52.360 And it's like, this is the should be allowed.

00:29:54.960 It costs money.

00:29:56.140 Yeah.

00:29:56.540 It costs something, but they're not aware of the cost.

00:29:59.440 So I don't know how to communicate that to people.

00:30:03.020 I think it's fundamentally impossible to get most people to understand that, especially

00:30:07.720 women. 0.81

00:30:08.220 I think the average man, when, when he grows up understands that things aren't free, someone

00:30:14.540 pays for them.

00:30:15.240 But I think the average woman pretty much never learns that.

00:30:18.000 Yeah.

00:30:18.900 Even, even as she gets older, she just sees things as raining from heaven.

00:30:23.360 Absolutely.

00:30:23.840 Well, I mean, that's why you, you, you see, uh, like by a women, again, this is, you saw 0.97

00:30:29.820 this over and over again in the United States was like after the murder of Irina Zerutska.

00:30:33.900 So many of them had more of an issue of people's reaction to the murder than the actual murder

00:30:39.840 itself.

00:30:40.480 Yet they will go around and say, I can't walk at night.

00:30:42.660 Isn't this horrible?

00:30:43.400 This is the fault.

00:30:44.200 And again, this visual of who is the enemy in their head is like this chud, uh, like frat 1.00

00:30:49.300 bro or something.

00:30:50.000 When in reality, like the reality on the ground is it's actually the immigration policy and the

00:30:53.780 crime policy that is sort of deployed by the party that you keep voting for.

00:30:58.620 So it's like, there's just like, you're pointing out this complete detachment.

00:31:02.240 Cognitive distance. 0.85

00:31:02.580 They're insane.

00:31:03.260 Yeah. 1.00

00:31:04.060 They're insane. 0.92

00:31:04.740 The, the, the technology has made them insane.

00:31:07.060 And, you know, I might be, some people might think it's an extreme opinion, but, um, I don't

00:31:13.520 think, I don't think that we can really survive as a society if we continue to let people use 0.95

00:31:20.520 media this way.

00:31:21.200 It's just, I have this, this little drawing I've used in a over and over where the girl

00:31:26.260 is just watching the phone and it says man bad.

00:31:28.660 And then that is just her worldview now.

00:31:30.740 And then she starts seeing this guy as doing all the stuff that she saw on her phone.

00:31:35.380 She starts acting on it and never really gets up to the place where she's, you know, observing

00:31:41.300 herself from the outside and saying, should I believe these things?

00:31:43.920 It's just this cycle of just repeating what the phone gave me feelings.

00:31:48.880 And then I see someone in real life.

00:31:50.600 And so my feelings must be coming from him.

00:31:52.860 Yeah.

00:31:53.300 I don't think we're going to get out of that ever.

00:31:55.720 Yeah.

00:31:56.860 Ah, yeah. 0.65

00:31:57.800 I, I, yeah, it's going to, I, this is why it sucks for these people that are, again,

00:32:02.440 I, I respect their impulses, very like liberty minded, et cetera.

00:32:05.240 But it's like, we're in such a mess.

00:32:07.360 It's going to take drastic action to get out of a lot.

00:32:09.860 It's going to be, yeah, it's going to be drastic.

00:32:11.640 Like there's, there's going to be, um, there's going to be, you know, all there already has

00:32:19.480 been major changes in population.

00:32:20.860 That's going to continue.

00:32:22.280 There's going to be, uh, uh, huge changes in lifestyle.

00:32:25.200 I think, I think we're going to see things become less available that people are very

00:32:29.840 accustomed to.

00:32:30.740 Yes.

00:32:31.360 Yeah.

00:32:31.680 There's, there's just not going to be the same support structure that that's, that's

00:32:36.780 again, the, the cost of things, the support structure that's always been there, that the

00:32:45.200 roads are always going to be paved.

00:32:46.940 That's just not true.

00:32:47.980 If you don't have people doing it, um, I think at some point people will start noticing like,

00:32:53.960 Hey, what happened to the quality of life?

00:32:56.660 And then the way that I've been saying it on Twitter is that women are going to lose their 0.97

00:33:01.280 rights one way or another, either they'll come to their senses and say, okay, maybe we

00:33:06.800 shouldn't be in politics or they will keep going, you know, leftward.

00:33:12.000 They'll keep going, keep going, uh, uh, this way.

00:33:17.260 Yeah.

00:33:18.180 That, that spike will keep getting bigger and then everything will crash so hard that they

00:33:22.940 won't have like the concept of rights will be silly because it'll just be like, well,

00:33:27.320 it's no one's washing the clothes and I have to go kill an animal to eat.

00:33:30.860 So, yeah.

00:33:32.560 So what do you mean?

00:33:33.160 What do you mean rights?

00:33:34.340 Right.

00:33:35.080 Yeah.

00:33:35.380 I, I, I totally, it's the only way it can go.

00:33:37.300 I mean, South Korea is, is what, 10 years ahead of us. 0.94

00:33:40.680 They already have this divergence like at an extreme level.

00:33:42.880 So we're already seeing that again, the men just collectivize there and they, and they

00:33:46.700 enact their will at the ballot box.

00:33:48.040 So with that, I know we're kind of running out of time here.

00:33:50.660 I just wanted to read this quick super chat to give your thoughts on it.

00:33:53.360 This was from a Guido 240.

00:33:54.820 Um, it's, I believe it's a man.

00:33:56.780 He says, as a parent of a 16 year old and 13 year old, I worry so much for my kids,

00:34:01.460 a boy and a girl, uh, and their future and finding a spouse slash family.

00:34:06.500 I don't know what your thoughts are on, I mean, we, we kind of touched on a lot of

00:34:11.820 that, but it's gotta be a tough spot to be a parent right now.

00:34:15.080 Sorry, one more time?

00:34:15.880 No, I was like, it's just gotta be a tough spot to be a parent right now.

00:34:18.180 Cause it's one thing telling that to a 16 year old, but how do you tell that to their

00:34:21.100 parent?

00:34:22.340 It is.

00:34:22.940 I, I, I'm actually, you know, being popular and, and having, you know, millions of people

00:34:28.420 know who I am.

00:34:29.360 Um, I get a lot of women coming into my inbox and I'm, I'm having to think about like, what 1.00

00:34:37.000 if I'm a parent at some point, what kind of world is that going to be?

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00:35:32.920 I'm, I'm putting myself through that.

00:35:34.940 Like, I can't really imagine what it's like for people who are already parents, but I like,

00:35:41.880 I don't know what to tell them any more than I would know what to tell the kids because

00:35:47.020 I know what the formula is.

00:35:48.460 You have to make something of yourself and then you have to show it to people and then

00:35:52.760 someone likes it and then you, you know, you work on your relationship and you have open

00:35:56.240 communication and all that.

00:35:57.640 But if there's nowhere to meet people and if the, you know, the, the requirements are insane,

00:36:03.920 they, they want you to be part of like a polycule or some insane liberal city crap, then it's

00:36:11.180 just a non-starter.

00:36:13.000 So I guess all I can really say to that, that person is like, uh, I feel ya, you know, I

00:36:18.400 get it.

00:36:19.780 It's, um, it is a lot to worry about.

00:36:23.220 Well, yeah, I mean, I agree.

00:36:25.060 A lot of this is like, what are you going to do?

00:36:27.120 You kind of look, have to look towards policymakers and a lot of these instances is very unfortunate,

00:36:31.000 but it's just the reality of things.

00:36:32.780 Yep.

00:36:33.080 Well, we are running out of time here.

00:36:34.760 I really appreciate you coming on and demonstrating in real time.

00:36:39.680 All of this is so fantastic to have you.

00:36:41.860 Where can people find you to get more?

00:36:43.560 I imagine a lot of people know already, but for those who don't.

00:36:45.380 Yeah.

00:36:45.980 Yep.

00:36:46.360 So you just, you know, look up how math anywhere, uh, that's on YouTube.

00:36:52.280 Uh, I am, um, I have link tur dot E E slash home math.

00:36:59.860 That's where, that's where you can go to find everything that I do.

00:37:03.020 You can find my videos, you can find my charts, you can find everything I do there.

00:37:08.500 Uh, YouTube is the main thing I do.

00:37:11.180 I'll be making a lot more videos soon now that I'm finally settled in a house.

00:37:16.040 And, uh, yeah, like if you can't find everything I do from here, you just don't know how to

00:37:19.520 use the internet.

00:37:20.240 So just go to the link tree.

00:37:21.480 So true.

00:37:22.080 Well, awesome.

00:37:22.740 Well, I appreciate you so much for coming on.

00:37:24.720 I hope we can have you back on soon because this is fantastic.

00:37:26.940 Yeah, sure.

00:37:27.060 I appreciate it.

00:37:27.400 Yeah.

00:37:27.500 Thanks for having me.

00:37:28.220 All right.

00:37:28.540 See you later.

00:37:29.480 Okay.

00:37:29.780 Bye.

00:37:30.000 Bye.

00:37:30.920 All right.

00:37:31.440 Well, that was the great home math.

00:37:33.100 That was a blast.

00:37:33.900 That was real.

00:37:34.300 I mean, it's blackbilling in a lot of ways because he's absolutely right, obviously, but 1.00

00:37:37.780 him laying out the formulas and, um, actually sort of elaborating on just kind of stuff that

00:37:44.020 I'm pontificating and he can actually explain it in detail.

00:37:46.860 Um, it's excellent.

00:37:47.780 So hopefully we can have him back on soon.

00:37:49.720 Cause again, there's so many different topics we can get into, but with that, we got to wind

00:37:54.760 the show down.

00:37:55.400 It's unfortunate.

00:37:56.100 We're out of time folks.

00:37:56.880 So with that, you can follow me on X and Instagram at real tape Brown.

00:38:03.180 Come give me a follow over there and we'll be back tonight for Tim cast IRL at 8 PM.

00:38:08.220 Make sure you are there 8 PM Eastern.

00:38:09.960 I've been informed that I need to be telling you which time zone it is 8 PM Eastern.

00:38:13.440 And this show will be back tomorrow at noon Eastern.

00:38:16.280 So I will see you then.

00:38:17.420 Thank you very much for watching.

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The Culture War - Tim Pool - February 28, 2026

Gen Z Men Are SCREWED, The Dating Market Is BROKEN ft. Hoe_Math

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