00:06:56Most people are too busy worrying about their own T-shirt that they're wearing.
00:07:00and the disaster that you're bracing for there was another small study out at penn state
00:07:07they took chronic worriers people who worry all the time but i think we're all becoming chronic
00:07:12worriers and we said write down all of your worries and then check back in 30 days more than
00:07:1890 of what people wrote down never happened and of the few that did about a third of those turned
00:07:25out to be much better than they had expected there's a roman philosopher who wrote uh
00:07:34it was a couple thousand years ago we suffer more often in imagination than in reality
00:07:42nothing has changed except the size of the screen we do it on fear of success however is stranger
00:07:53The guy who did Maslow's, you know, hierarchy of needs, he said he saw it so often in people, the fear of success, that he gave it a different name.
00:08:05He called it the Jonah complex is after the, you know, Jonah, you know, who didn't do what he was called to do.
00:08:13So Maslow wrote, we fear our highest possibilities.
00:08:17listen to this we are afraid to become the man we glimpse in our best moments now why would anyone
00:08:26be afraid of winning why would anyone be afraid of being your your best self it's amazing
00:08:33you're afraid of it because success raises the bar and then you can't lower it again
00:08:41not for others but more importantly for yourself if you actually lose the weight if you actually
00:08:47get sober, you start the company, you become the husband that you always hoped you'd be.
00:08:52Now you have to keep being that guy every single day because success, it's proof.
00:08:59Now it's going to cost you some old friends, the ones who liked you better when you were stuck with
00:09:03them. But that voice in the back of your head keeps asking, who do you think you are? Who do
00:09:10you think you are. That's a lie. But once you prove you can, you no longer can say, I can't
00:09:18do it. I couldn't do it because you did it. So failure threatens what you have, but success
00:09:26threatens your excuses. And most of us are comfortable living in excuses. I'm going to
00:09:33talk about this slightly next hour where I'm talking about, everybody's talking about
00:09:39affordability and everybody's arguing about what affordability they're arguing the wrong thing
00:09:43they're arguing excuses i want to find the real reason not the excuse
00:09:49when i started the world's first online network everyone said it was impossible impossible
00:09:59and i have to tell you there were days where i thought it is impossible we're never going to make
00:10:05it. And I knew that if I failed, it would be humiliating because all of the people who wanted
00:10:13to dance on my grave would hold a massive party and it would be just a massive humiliation.
00:10:21But also there were times when I was afraid I would succeed because the company is built kind
00:10:28of, you know, around me and I'd have to carry it. And both, both fears taught me something.
00:10:35or no, didn't teach me, tried to convince me that I should accept just stay in the car.
00:27:15There's something really important about being an owner.
00:27:18And when I say an owner, I just mean like being in the owner class of society, being in the like the self-sufficient class of society, being in the like I can provide a life for myself and potentially a family.
00:27:30You know, it doesn't have to be like you live in a mansion or anything like that.
00:27:33But like, I got you like there will be a roof over your head.
00:28:59I think, yeah, I think she's been on the show a few times. That has made this argument many, many times that absolutely ownership is critical. It's critical to freedom. It's entwined in America. And the elites are the ones who don't want you to own anything. They want to own everything. And it's why we need to fight back and own things.
00:29:16What I find so evil about this clip is this has been a strategy of both the Democrats, and I know you talked about this on your show over the past couple of days, as well as some of the quote unquote, you know, far right and libertarian podcast bros to take something that is a serious issue and elevate it and bastardize it in a way where it seems that everything is hopeless.
00:29:45And I'm not saying that we don't have real issues, because I've also come on here and talked about the real affordability issues and the fact that we do need to increase ownership.
00:29:54But for Dave Smith to say that everybody needs a million dollars a year to be in the average, I mean, that's like the top 0.5 percent of income in this country.
00:30:11And yes, housing is expensive and there are policies that we should be putting in place at the federal and local level, but they're the ones who are making it sound hopeless.
00:30:23And instead of saying, well, here are the things that you can do and here's what you should be looking into.
00:30:28And if you know, if you're young and you're thinking about how do I approach school, like, here's your approach. They're absolutely using hyperbole in order to demoralize. And the impact of that, which I think was intentional, and as I think you know, is intentional, was to get the Republicans out of power. And I think that part is evil and disgusting.
00:30:51i i agree with you i mean i have you know it's it's crazy because i'm being beaten up by the
00:30:57left and the right because i you know commented on van jones you know and everybody's like there
00:31:02is a real affordable yeah of course there is there is i mean yes i i'm i'm at the gas station
00:31:08with people i see what gas costs me and i'm shocked by it i go to the you know i go to a
00:31:13you know mcdonald's drive-thru with just me and my wife and i see it's 35 and i'm like what the
00:31:23The problem is everyone's pointing the finger at blame and fear and no one is talking about the actual issues and what can be done to fix those things.
00:31:35And not mentioning how many of those issues are state and local and have been driven by democratic policy.