The Glenn Beck Program - March 15, 2025


Ep 249 | Why Everyone Should Be TERRIFIED of Former ESPN Host Sage Steele | The Glenn Beck Podcast


Episode Stats

Length

1 hour and 20 minutes

Words per Minute

167.15685

Word Count

13,394

Sentence Count

1,051

Misogynist Sentences

33

Hate Speech Sentences

26


Summary

Sage Steele is one of my favorite people in the world. She was one of the most beloved broadcasters on ESPN for 16 years, until they punished her for just saying, I don t think I want to put that in my body . Having a different opinion, plenty of sports anchors could speak their minds freely as long as they were woke, but not her. She found a way to speak to the nation without them.


Transcript

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00:00:16.140 And now, a Blaze Media Podcast.
00:00:19.220 Today I'm talking to a woman who is one of my favorite people in the world.
00:00:25.560 She took on Disney. Nobody takes on Disney.
00:00:28.960 ESPN. She is one of the country's most loved broadcasters.
00:00:33.520 And if you're a sports fan, you absolutely know who she is because you watched her on ESPN for 16 years
00:00:37.920 until they made the mistake of punishing her for just saying,
00:00:41.580 I don't think I want to put that in my body.
00:00:44.080 Having a different opinion.
00:00:46.200 Plenty of sports anchors could speak their minds freely as long as they were woke, but not her.
00:00:51.960 She found a way to speak to the nation without them.
00:00:55.440 We are going to have a fascinating conversation.
00:00:57.620 Sports, faith, politics, taking on the mouse.
00:01:02.440 Welcome to one of my favorite people in the world, veteran anchor, mother of three,
00:01:07.620 host of the Sage Steele Show, Sage Steele.
00:01:10.980 How are you?
00:01:26.340 Fabulous.
00:01:26.820 It's so good to have you.
00:01:27.580 Thank you.
00:01:28.160 I'm honored to be here.
00:01:29.440 You've never been on my show.
00:01:30.760 No.
00:01:31.360 Isn't that crazy?
00:01:32.300 I know.
00:01:32.760 How is that possible?
00:01:33.580 I'm going to let the past be the past.
00:01:35.820 I know.
00:01:36.200 I'm not going to hold a grudge.
00:01:37.900 No.
00:01:38.380 It is an honor.
00:01:39.840 And I told you this.
00:01:41.480 I know you hear from everybody.
00:01:42.580 But you've inspired me more than you know.
00:01:46.000 So thank you.
00:01:46.660 That's really good.
00:01:47.260 Thank you.
00:01:47.800 You've inspired me and so many other people with what you did.
00:01:51.180 I mean, I don't want to dwell on this because everybody's told the story, but I think it's
00:01:56.260 important to set the table.
00:01:58.380 What you did in COVID and just standing up and even risking, I don't even know if you
00:02:06.680 knew that, but risking a job of standing up and saying, and when you, if I'm not mistaken,
00:02:12.700 that was your dream job for a long time, right?
00:02:15.300 It was.
00:02:16.520 I used to love Disney.
00:02:19.840 I know.
00:02:20.260 Walt wouldn't recognize it anymore.
00:02:22.940 They've just become this monstrous machine.
00:02:27.540 How much, what did that feel like?
00:02:31.420 I mean, when you, cause all you did at first, if I remember right, is you came out and you
00:02:35.600 were like, I took the jab and I didn't want to.
00:02:38.400 And you were right.
00:02:39.360 You didn't denigrate them a little bit.
00:02:42.300 That's arguable.
00:02:43.220 Maybe.
00:02:43.960 Okay.
00:02:45.580 I did it on an off day on a podcast.
00:02:49.400 Um, just, you know, yes, I, I had, I had no choice if I wanted to keep my job and I didn't
00:02:56.620 appreciate that to be forced to take a shot.
00:02:59.700 Um, and I had done enough homework just to know that there's a lot of questions about
00:03:03.800 it.
00:03:03.920 And so this is September of 2021.
00:03:06.180 And, um, you were one of the first publicly, weren't you?
00:03:10.460 I guess so, but I didn't mean to.
00:03:12.640 Yeah, no, I know.
00:03:13.560 I just, I had talked to my agent at the time and who had talked to people at ESPN.
00:03:18.760 They were saying she really doesn't want to do it.
00:03:20.720 And then I thought there were other treatments or vaccines that they were researching that
00:03:25.180 might be somewhat different.
00:03:26.960 Um, would you ask them to consider letting me wait six months?
00:03:31.520 I just didn't feel comfortable.
00:03:33.420 And my agent said, well, you know, you could get a religious exemption.
00:03:35.980 I'm like, but that's a lie.
00:03:37.880 This isn't about religion for me.
00:03:39.980 Um, well, you could get a medical, but well, that's a lie.
00:03:42.120 I like, I was trying to do it the right way.
00:03:44.580 I could have gotten a fake card.
00:03:46.000 Well, that was a lie.
00:03:46.780 And then I thought, well, then they'd really go after to make sure mine's right.
00:03:50.860 Because they knew I was hesitant.
00:03:52.360 So I just waited to the very last second and went and got the shot on the last possible
00:03:59.640 day in order to be fully vaccinated by September 30th, 2021.
00:04:04.700 And then went on a podcast.
00:04:05.820 And all I said was, cause I swear to you, this wasn't a prop.
00:04:09.660 It was warm and I had a short sleeve on it and the bandaid was on.
00:04:12.800 And I'd come straight from the shot to the podcast into yours that I gave in.
00:04:18.220 Right.
00:04:18.420 And I didn't remember.
00:04:19.480 And it was on Jay Cutler, the former quarterback, his, his brand new podcast.
00:04:23.400 And he said, um, what's the bandaid?
00:04:26.300 And I just was like, oops.
00:04:28.420 And, uh, and I said, I, I took it.
00:04:32.480 Um, but I, I think this is where I got in trouble.
00:04:35.480 I think it's sick and wrong for any company to force anyone to do something to their body
00:04:43.220 that they don't want to, but that is right.
00:04:45.880 Correct.
00:04:46.400 It is right.
00:04:47.520 At that moment, I guess people were more sensitive.
00:04:49.780 And I said, but I complied because I need my job and I love my job.
00:04:55.780 And I'm not surprised because it is a big global company, Disney, like many others that we're
00:05:00.260 forcing.
00:05:00.760 I said, I'm not surprised, but I'm upset.
00:05:02.800 But here we are and onward.
00:05:05.100 And that, that was it.
00:05:06.700 And what happened?
00:05:07.720 How fast did it take for you to get the phone call?
00:05:10.080 As soon as the podcast hit, uh, there were a couple other things that made some headlines
00:05:13.500 from the podcast that I apparently were, I wasn't allowed to say, um, opinions based on
00:05:18.520 my experiences as a woman in locker rooms for 25, 30 years.
00:05:22.460 And as a biracial woman, those, uh, topics around that got me in trouble, but, um, it
00:05:27.880 was day after it dropped and it's, it started off with, you know, your, uh, what you said
00:05:34.580 isn't going over well, um, at headquarters.
00:05:38.240 And I'm like, what are you talking about?
00:05:39.900 I like, I complied, you made me do this.
00:05:41.940 I did it.
00:05:42.280 I can have an opinion, but I followed the rules.
00:05:45.440 Um, and then it quickly went South and, um, I had to, I was given the choice to issue,
00:05:51.880 um, a formal apology, a statement, um, or I don't have a job.
00:05:57.720 I'd be fired and to be suspended with pay, but to be suspended.
00:06:02.440 Um, and I'll just for the context that for people who have through the years said, Oh,
00:06:06.720 well, you caved, you took the shot.
00:06:08.420 Yeah, I did.
00:06:09.240 I did.
00:06:09.900 I also, um, unfortunately had been recently divorced.
00:06:13.780 Um, and I was the sole, still am the sole, you know, provider, breadwinner for three
00:06:20.440 kids.
00:06:20.780 All of them are in college right now as we speak.
00:06:22.660 So when I say I needed that job, um, I needed that job and that's my responsibilities to those
00:06:27.640 kids.
00:06:27.980 So as much as I did break and I still, um, I'm disappointed in myself in some ways for
00:06:32.960 giving in to the mandate.
00:06:34.520 I, I had no choice for a different reason.
00:06:38.420 I, you know, I, I never forced anybody to take it.
00:06:42.520 I think that's, it's your body.
00:06:44.960 Yeah.
00:06:45.260 You know what I mean?
00:06:46.100 Um, but, uh, I almost took it because we were going over to the middle East and it was,
00:06:53.360 remember the Afghan thing and we were trying to save all these people.
00:06:58.140 And I didn't have to be there, but I wanted to be there and lead some things.
00:07:04.440 And we thought that the country wasn't going to let us in unless we got the jab.
00:07:09.740 Yeah.
00:07:10.180 And we all were sitting in a parking lot here in Dallas waiting for the attorney to say
00:07:17.800 you have to take it or not.
00:07:19.600 And I wrestled with that.
00:07:22.660 Um, and I'm so glad I didn't.
00:07:25.040 Do you, do you, I mean, from what you know now, does it freak you out at all that you
00:07:30.780 took that?
00:07:32.940 The only reason I can honestly say no is because the night before I wasn't sure I was going
00:07:39.960 to do it till I walked in the stupid little pharmacy at a grocery store in the middle of
00:07:45.780 nowhere, Connecticut.
00:07:46.880 The night before I went to bed in tears because I was like, if I don't do this, how am I going
00:07:51.180 to feed my kids?
00:07:51.840 How am I going to give my husband his alimony checks?
00:07:55.180 Like I real issues, real questions.
00:07:58.060 And I just, I went to bed and I just prayed for a sign.
00:08:01.940 And when I woke up the next morning and I got in the shower, I was crying still because
00:08:07.580 I'm like, what am I going to do?
00:08:10.100 And I opened my eyes and I haven't told this story often because it makes me cry.
00:08:14.680 Like, um, this was a house that I had done some renovations, but I still hadn't done
00:08:20.760 the bathroom and there was some ugly brownish marble tile on the other side of the glass
00:08:25.660 of the shower.
00:08:26.420 And I saw it.
00:08:27.220 And for the first time, after three years of living there for the first time, when I looked
00:08:29.960 at that one spot, I saw the outline of an angel in the marble, I'd looked at that 10,000 times.
00:08:38.380 And at that moment I realized I asked for a sign and I took that as you will be protected.
00:08:47.940 So I'd like to believe that what went in me that day was water.
00:08:54.000 I don't know, was not the vaccine.
00:08:56.360 I also had to keep my job, had to get a booster in order to, um, do my job and, um, cover the
00:09:02.920 masters as I always had.
00:09:06.260 And I knew I was risking it, but I, I, I felt I did have a choice, but in order to keep my
00:09:13.160 job, I felt I had no choice.
00:09:15.120 And I just had felt like, okay, God has taken care of me all this time.
00:09:19.140 And that was a sign to me that angel in the marble.
00:09:21.040 If you wouldn't have seen that, what decision would you have made?
00:09:27.620 I don't know.
00:09:29.240 I don't know.
00:09:30.960 I was this close to walking away and just, and just getting, going back to court and say,
00:09:38.080 I can't pay him all this money.
00:09:39.120 Like, I, I don't know, but I, I know that then this is the, maybe the coolest part.
00:09:45.260 Besides the angel in the, in the ugly marble.
00:09:48.480 I went into the pharmacy.
00:09:50.340 It sounds like a bad Hallmark movie.
00:09:54.040 Christmas with the angel in the ugly brown marble.
00:09:58.480 Who has brown tile marble or whatever.
00:10:01.080 When I sat down in the chair and the stupid grocery store pharmacy in the middle of nowhere,
00:10:05.860 Connecticut, the sweet, I don't, she probably wasn't a nurse, probably like, you know, like
00:10:10.400 me off the street, putting the shot in.
00:10:12.500 And she looked at me and she's like, are you okay?
00:10:14.560 Cause my eyes were red.
00:10:15.660 And I said, no, I'm being forced to take this, to keep my job.
00:10:21.280 And I'm afraid.
00:10:22.960 And this sweet woman looked at me, grabbed my hand and said, this is so wrong.
00:10:31.020 And I'm so sorry.
00:10:33.120 Wow.
00:10:33.480 And then she put it in my arm.
00:10:38.960 Something changed in me at that moment.
00:10:41.680 Like something in me, uh, anger, something changed.
00:10:48.040 And, um, I didn't, I don't think I knew it at the time, but, uh, I felt it.
00:10:55.340 Tell me what that means.
00:10:56.900 Anger.
00:10:58.000 How do you, like, they pushed me too far.
00:11:00.500 Okay.
00:11:01.440 As it's going in, as it was too late, it, it, it fired me up in ways that I think I'm
00:11:07.620 seeing today still.
00:11:08.700 My mom and I were like, whoa, but, um, something about her acknowledging how wrong it was to
00:11:15.800 this complete stranger as she did it, she needed a job too, right?
00:11:21.040 Like there's so many people who felt that it was wrong, but we're afraid to say it.
00:11:25.020 But then she saw me crying, but still doing it.
00:11:27.560 Um, I drove right home.
00:11:32.020 I sped home because I was late.
00:11:33.860 Cause I sat in the parking lot debating whether I was going to do it for way too long.
00:11:37.580 So I was late to get home to do Jay Cutler's podcast.
00:11:40.660 So I believe that like I was fired up that I was put into that position.
00:11:45.260 And so when I said what I said, um, I was holding back, but I meant it when I said, I
00:11:50.960 thought it was sick and scary because it is.
00:11:53.560 It changed so many people.
00:11:55.840 I mean, I remember being on the air, coming home from Christmas vacation, seeing what was
00:12:02.740 happening before anybody was really paying attention, seeing what was happening in China
00:12:06.880 and going on the air and saying, this is disturbing.
00:12:12.960 I don't know what it is yet, but this is disturbing.
00:12:15.480 These signs aren't good.
00:12:16.680 Then they started locking people up and everything else.
00:12:20.980 And I remember saying on the air, uh, don't fear the virus, fear what comes and what people
00:12:30.840 do because of the virus, uh, the changes that will happen.
00:12:34.960 And, but I said at the same time, but I can't imagine that we will ever do anything like
00:12:41.440 that in America.
00:12:42.280 We'd go crazy.
00:12:44.400 Well, I got the crazy part, right?
00:12:46.420 Yeah.
00:12:47.140 But just, I mean, I couldn't believe what we turned into and still in some ways are still
00:12:56.200 are.
00:12:56.600 It's sick.
00:12:58.360 And it is shocking, especially here, China.
00:13:01.240 You know, you can kind of understand.
00:13:03.220 Um, I remember I was thinking about this the other day about, you know, in order to go
00:13:08.320 to work, in order to go anywhere, you had to go to the fricking drive through and get a
00:13:16.100 swab up your nose to your brain.
00:13:18.440 Basically the things that we said yes to, we, all of us that said, said, said yes to, that's
00:13:26.820 what's so scary.
00:13:27.420 But I believe that was the beginning of us realizing, I think it was, I mean, RFK, he
00:13:35.900 changed, we didn't agree on any, he actually, one point I was on when I was hosting a show
00:13:41.880 on CNN because I disagree on the, uh, on the cures for climate change.
00:13:48.980 I can read a temperature gauge, you know, but I don't believe these, what they're planning
00:13:54.680 on doing is a good thing.
00:13:55.860 He actually said, you're a traitor and you should be tried for treason.
00:14:01.940 When I said to him, that's the only thing in the constitution that's clearly spelled
00:14:05.680 out.
00:14:05.960 That's the death penalty.
00:14:07.060 And he said, yes.
00:14:09.060 Right.
00:14:09.740 So I've never had a lot in common with RFK.
00:14:13.420 He came on the show and I said, you remember that time?
00:14:16.800 He said, oh yeah.
00:14:18.820 And he said, COVID changed me.
00:14:21.300 He said, I never thought, he said, I was too flippant and just, I just never thought we
00:14:27.260 would ever become the people like that.
00:14:31.100 And he said, when I saw COVID and what we were doing, I couldn't believe it.
00:14:37.160 And I want nothing to do with it.
00:14:38.940 I mean, that's a massive change.
00:14:41.520 Especially for Kennedy, for RFK, he was able to say stuff like that.
00:14:49.220 And basically the death penalty.
00:14:51.160 Yeah.
00:14:52.140 So if you agree, but you did, it wasn't just COVID finish what you, what happened in the
00:14:56.820 rest of that interview that got trouble for.
00:14:58.600 Well, the first and chronological order, the first thing was, um, women in sports and just
00:15:05.220 talking about how much it had evolved through the years.
00:15:07.780 I graduated from college in 1995.
00:15:09.340 And so I was always the only woman in the locker room always.
00:15:12.400 And then there were younger women coming along who I would, you know, I didn't have a female
00:15:17.260 role model or someone to take me under their wing in the locker rooms and to tell you how
00:15:20.800 to kind of manage that whole thing or dealing with all the coaches and traveling and what
00:15:24.860 that looks like.
00:15:25.940 And so, um, I tried to do that with women, um, along the way.
00:15:30.480 And I just saw how more and more women would come in the locker room, but then I'd look
00:15:36.060 and I'm like, what is, what is she wearing and why?
00:15:40.400 So I said, that's the one thing that's been disappointing is because when women, um, not
00:15:46.060 all, oh my gosh, of course, I think most are certainly very professional, but when you
00:15:49.980 go into a locker room or any business area, conference room, whatever, it does matter what
00:15:56.380 we're wearing as men too, but certainly as women.
00:15:58.320 And so when you go into those spaces and you're hanging out and stuff showing, and you're more
00:16:04.260 worried about like how sexy you look and how good you look, that takes away from your credibility
00:16:08.980 and all the women who've come ahead of you.
00:16:11.380 So I said, women, we are smart.
00:16:14.460 I have two daughters that are in college.
00:16:16.520 We talk about those a lot.
00:16:17.380 Women are so smart.
00:16:19.840 Let's not play dumb.
00:16:21.280 Like, well, oh, I felt uncomfortable because you know what?
00:16:24.640 If you're wearing that, I'm going to look at you and I like men, but like at the end
00:16:27.980 of the day, we know what we're wearing.
00:16:30.680 I'm just saying, be professional as you would anywhere else, not look like looking like you're
00:16:36.320 going to a nightclub.
00:16:37.400 So that turned into Sage deal believes women who dress that way.
00:16:41.360 Oh, deserve to be raped.
00:16:44.160 That's what headlines were.
00:16:45.220 That was nothing compared to Jay asked me about being biracial and why it's so important
00:16:52.600 to me.
00:16:53.720 If I'm asked to say yes, biracial, not just black.
00:16:58.020 So in other words, they wanted you to be more black.
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00:18:50.520 I told the story of what happened when I was on The View in 2014 with Barbara Walters
00:18:56.100 and Whoopi and Sherry Shepard and Jenny McCarthy.
00:18:58.740 That was the cast at the time.
00:19:01.080 And they said, hey, can we talk about you being biracial and how important it is to you?
00:19:04.420 I was like, sure.
00:19:05.100 So we get on there and it's live.
00:19:06.400 And Barbara Walters asked me, you know, about my background.
00:19:10.840 And then she said, so why don't you just identify as black?
00:19:16.020 And I said, well, because I'm not.
00:19:19.860 I mean, I'm both.
00:19:21.040 At that time, ironically, I found out later when I saw the tape behind me, they put up a
00:19:24.800 picture of my family, my black dad, my white mom, and my two brothers.
00:19:31.100 And hi, I'm both.
00:19:32.640 I'm actually 50% of each.
00:19:34.460 And I'm so proud of all of me.
00:19:37.000 Right?
00:19:37.520 Isn't that diversity?
00:19:38.440 Isn't that what we want and promote in this country?
00:19:41.560 So she said, well, 2014, well, the president says he's black and he's biracial too.
00:19:47.060 And she goes, what do you do when you fill out the census?
00:19:50.160 And I was like, I don't, I don't know.
00:19:52.300 I checked both or all of them or not.
00:19:53.680 I don't care, but I'm not going to exclude one.
00:19:55.900 And I said about Obama, I said, well, congratulations to the president.
00:20:00.680 I think it's fascinating that he was raised by his white mother and his white grandmother
00:20:07.280 and his black father, unfortunately, was nowhere to be found.
00:20:10.340 Like he wrote a book about it.
00:20:12.000 This is not breaking news.
00:20:12.980 Couldn't say that in 2014.
00:20:14.300 Couldn't say it anytime.
00:20:15.280 Right?
00:20:16.280 But I said, you do you.
00:20:18.700 Identify how you want.
00:20:20.540 I'm going to do me.
00:20:21.480 And I'm pretty sure that my white mom was there the day I was born.
00:20:26.300 And I'm so proud of all of me.
00:20:29.900 Why is that bad?
00:20:31.460 So you're telling me I'm not enough of this, but tomorrow you're going to say I'm not enough
00:20:34.700 of this.
00:20:35.020 Like I can't keep up.
00:20:35.980 This is me.
00:20:36.680 I feel like I represent so much of America where we're mixed race and it's beautiful.
00:20:41.380 So I it was actually not a big thing then in 2021 when I repeated the exact story on this
00:20:47.980 podcast.
00:20:48.800 It was Sage Steele hates black people and the sellout, the coon, all of the language that
00:20:54.500 I don't like to repeat.
00:20:55.420 Um, so that was the other big thing.
00:20:58.300 And that along with the Disney common is what got me shot down and canceled.
00:21:03.000 And the ironic thing is when they pulled me off the air and said, you must issue this
00:21:07.540 statement, um, or you're out of a job is what they told my agent, apparently not directly
00:21:12.820 to my face.
00:21:13.500 Um, I was sick, sicker than I've ever been in my life with COVID after of course, getting
00:21:21.980 the shot that was supposed to prevent me.
00:21:23.660 So I'm in bed, unable to breathe at times.
00:21:27.020 Like it was, it got me hard alone.
00:21:30.020 My kids were with their father for eight days.
00:21:32.660 I was alone.
00:21:33.120 I'd never been in a darker place in my life being canceled by every person I thought was
00:21:38.640 a friend, every network, every peer, every, everything, and all black people, not all
00:21:43.740 of course.
00:21:44.320 Yeah.
00:21:44.660 So, um, that was the beginning of my end, um, at ESPN, which was also the beginning of
00:21:51.980 a beautiful new beginning, like all of it, all of it.
00:21:55.640 But I look back and I still, um, I swear to you, I would not change a thing.
00:22:01.920 And, um, there will always be pain from that because.
00:22:08.640 Um, the only reason I stood up and sued later is because ESPN and Disney allowed all of
00:22:17.680 my peers who leaned to the left, who hated Trump, who loved Obama and loved everybody.
00:22:25.880 They could say whatever they wanted on ESPN platforms, live on an NBA show to talk about
00:22:31.520 Roe versus Wade being overturned while talking, instead of talking about basketball or the don't
00:22:35.820 say gay bill on a football basketball show.
00:22:38.120 So my point is just be consistent.
00:22:41.780 You cannot allow all of them to say whatever they, on ESPN platforms, nothing to do with
00:22:46.220 sports.
00:22:46.700 Well, I'm on a podcast on an off day talking about my experience as a biracial woman, my
00:22:51.240 experience with taking this shot and complying with your rules.
00:22:54.140 Especially when I can't comment on your experience because I'm a white cisgendered man and I can't
00:23:02.100 even relate to your, that's, I mean, that's, I can't comment on it.
00:23:05.520 They'll shut me down.
00:23:06.940 No way.
00:23:07.300 I can't have an opinion on anything.
00:23:09.720 Can't.
00:23:10.160 But then you, biracial, you should not have a biracial.
00:23:15.460 I mean, it's, it's really crazy.
00:23:17.320 I mean, we've, we've gone insane.
00:23:19.840 And I mean, I've been on the view, nasty, but I was talking to Jay Leno this weekend
00:23:29.940 and he calls me up.
00:23:32.740 He's like, well, you got insane.
00:23:34.140 I don't understand.
00:23:35.340 And, uh, and he said, uh, he said, Glenn, I'm, I'm out.
00:23:41.140 He said, I take my fire truck.
00:23:42.700 He's got an old fire truck.
00:23:43.800 Take my fire truck out to the, to the fires.
00:23:47.280 He said, because he's firemen are, are eating and they're working 15, 18 hours a day.
00:23:54.160 And he said, they need food and they're getting box lunches.
00:23:58.100 And he said, I just thought it'd be nice to have one hot meal a day.
00:24:02.200 Yeah.
00:24:02.400 He said, so I bring my fire truck up and I, you know, bring all these.
00:24:05.280 He said, Anderson Cooper comes up to me and says, what are you doing here, Jay?
00:24:09.260 And he said, you know, these guys are eating, you know, sandwiches.
00:24:13.540 And I think one hot meal a day would be good.
00:24:15.820 So I'm bringing them hot, hot meal.
00:24:17.200 He said, you know, that was twisted into, he said, that was twisted into Jay Leno takes
00:24:23.940 on America's box lunches.
00:24:27.600 What?
00:24:28.120 He's like, what?
00:24:30.180 He's like, we have lost.
00:24:32.400 Our minds.
00:24:33.740 So stupid.
00:24:34.640 It's crazy.
00:24:36.300 It's embarrassing and it's pathetic.
00:24:37.360 It is.
00:24:37.840 And that, but that is why we're here today.
00:24:40.780 Yeah.
00:24:41.000 That is why Donald Trump is back in office because they pushed us too far.
00:24:44.400 And I actually believe it took every bit of what has happened.
00:24:47.920 It did.
00:24:48.220 Leading up to 2020, Black Lives Matter, George Floyd, all of the things, how the Democrats
00:24:55.280 chose to run Kamala's campaign, how they chose to put her there in the first place for people
00:25:00.200 to get to the brink of disaster before realizing.
00:25:04.740 I don't think everybody realizes that though.
00:25:06.820 No, I don't.
00:25:07.300 I think a lot more do.
00:25:08.800 Oh yeah.
00:25:09.160 Like I'm so obviously or else we wouldn't be here.
00:25:11.300 Not many are willing to say it out loud.
00:25:13.240 Maybe.
00:25:14.180 I think we were actually blessed by the Lord that he didn't win in 2020.
00:25:19.720 Totally agree.
00:25:20.400 Right.
00:25:20.620 Totally agree because it would have just been, oh my God, four more years of this crazy person
00:25:25.200 instead of going, oh, he's not that bad because look what these people did, not just
00:25:32.120 allowed to happen, did to us.
00:25:34.820 And it was intentional and they didn't think that we would smarten up in time.
00:25:38.740 Why would they think that?
00:25:39.980 Look at how we lined up and went and got that shot just like I did.
00:25:43.660 So why would they think that we would, you know, be like, oh, why would they think that
00:25:48.640 after what they did to the election in 2020, I have always been an election denier.
00:25:52.720 I don't care.
00:25:53.100 You can tell me what you want.
00:25:53.980 I've seen enough videos.
00:25:55.540 I'm not an idiot and I'm choosing to see what's in front of me instead of ignoring it
00:25:59.500 or at least, you know, choosing to say it.
00:26:02.260 It took every bit of this crap for us to get him, get to where we are today and to get him
00:26:08.940 back in office and a better version as a president, as a human being.
00:26:13.560 I think him, first of all,
00:26:18.640 I think it hardened him.
00:26:21.060 I think when 2020 happened, he was like, and I said to him, I talked to him right after
00:26:27.320 the election and I said, Mr. President, I don't have any proof, but you'll never convince
00:26:33.620 me that that was fair.
00:26:34.780 But I don't have any proof.
00:26:36.340 That what was fair?
00:26:36.980 The election.
00:26:38.160 2020.
00:26:38.740 Yeah.
00:26:38.860 Okay.
00:26:39.700 Um, uh, I said, but you know, uh, I'm sorry for everything that you've gone through and
00:26:46.580 he, he just really had a hard time with that.
00:26:49.180 However, in time he, I think he just started to catalog.
00:26:55.980 Okay.
00:26:56.880 What happened here?
00:26:58.480 He had no time to think what happened.
00:27:00.820 What didn't I know?
00:27:01.660 You notice he doesn't have his family as the only people around him this time.
00:27:05.660 Yeah.
00:27:06.180 He knows now who I can trust.
00:27:08.360 He had no one he could trust.
00:27:10.160 So he started catalyzing and then when they started coming after him and his family, the
00:27:16.980 first time I talked to him, when they first went after, uh, his children, I think it was
00:27:23.760 his son or maybe it was Ivanka and, uh, Ivana.
00:27:28.040 And she said, uh, or he said to me, they went after my effing children and I saw real anger
00:27:37.860 from him for the first time.
00:27:39.900 However, he then had to go through court and everything else.
00:27:43.620 And by the time he gets up to the assassination attempt, he's not that way anymore.
00:27:49.800 He's not that way.
00:27:50.600 And then the assassination attempt happened.
00:27:53.380 And I think that was, I know it was, that was a God moment and it humbled him instead of
00:28:02.920 becoming angry.
00:28:04.000 He just became even more determined.
00:28:06.980 Yeah.
00:28:07.100 And look at him now.
00:28:09.800 He's what he's, he's back to the Donald Trump I knew in 2008 or 10 or, you know what I mean?
00:28:17.060 That wasn't running for politics, wasn't running for president.
00:28:19.960 He was comfortable in his skin.
00:28:22.160 He knew the game.
00:28:23.460 He knew what he was playing.
00:28:25.180 It was a four year period that I think just took him absolutely by surprise.
00:28:29.540 Yeah.
00:28:30.120 And look at him now.
00:28:31.920 He, I didn't know or think, of course I didn't know.
00:28:36.940 I didn't know him or anyone around him at that time, but I didn't think he was going to
00:28:40.120 run again.
00:28:40.580 I thought, you know what?
00:28:41.800 Like this is a sad ending, but yeah, I mean, of what benefit is it?
00:28:46.100 You certainly aren't going to have more money in your pocket after he had less.
00:28:49.620 As we know, nobody has come out with less except Donald Trump.
00:28:52.880 Right.
00:28:53.660 But I do think that he, he had, yeah, he had to go through it.
00:28:58.980 He's more humble, despite what people want to think, because number one, the assassination
00:29:03.020 attempt.
00:29:03.540 And I feel his belief in God.
00:29:06.320 He speaks about it much more than he ever has.
00:29:08.880 In a real way.
00:29:10.220 Beautifully, like very genuine.
00:29:12.440 And I also think that from a business perspective, almost, I mean, we all have to take a step back
00:29:18.920 sometimes to be our best selves.
00:29:21.020 And during that time when he was ticked off and rightfully so because of what happened in
00:29:24.940 2020.
00:29:25.520 And then of course, coming after him, you have more time to assess and how can I be better?
00:29:30.800 And I loved when he went on Joe Rogan and talked about what he did wrong and how he admit, like
00:29:37.620 he admitted that he should have vetted people better and not hung on because he's loyal and
00:29:43.720 he didn't have the right people to admit that is incredible.
00:29:48.020 Remember when Barack Obama was asked, what did you do wrong?
00:29:50.860 And he said, nothing, nothing, nothing.
00:29:52.800 How about Kamala Harris?
00:29:53.780 What would you change?
00:29:54.900 Nothing.
00:29:55.720 Like if you just show a little bit of humanity, what would I do differently?
00:29:59.700 I believe people see that and go, oh, you know what else it is?
00:30:03.300 It's really good leadership when you can own your crap.
00:30:07.180 And then as an employee, I said in 30 years in the industry, I've had maybe enough true
00:30:14.400 leaders on one hand.
00:30:16.040 People have the title, but they don't know how to lead.
00:30:18.840 When he did that, to me, it was a massive thing for me to see as I look up to our commander
00:30:25.140 in chief, him and some others.
00:30:28.480 And he acknowledged, this is where I can do better.
00:30:32.020 And now we've seen it.
00:30:33.060 And I also think that 48 hours after he was shot, to be there in Milwaukee, I guess it
00:30:37.980 was.
00:30:38.920 And the shots that they took of him, shots, shouldn't use that word, the close ups of him
00:30:44.520 sitting there while his 17 year old granddaughter had the courage to get on stage and speak about
00:30:50.480 her grandfather.
00:30:51.940 You saw the tears in his eyes.
00:30:54.660 We are seeing the human side of Donald Trump.
00:30:58.360 We saw it.
00:30:59.040 It's beautiful.
00:30:59.280 We saw it that week, unlike I've ever seen it before in anyone else.
00:31:04.020 You could watch it happen in real time from the minute he was.
00:31:09.360 And let me show you this to the, to the ground.
00:31:12.400 To the fight, to the next day, you could see the hesitance in Milwaukee as he's walking.
00:31:20.580 He, remember, he walked out of that and then he stopped.
00:31:23.240 I do too.
00:31:23.900 He stopped for a minute and you were like, he's not the same man.
00:31:27.860 Not the same man.
00:31:29.300 He was not like, look at me.
00:31:31.700 Yes.
00:31:32.460 He was absorbing it.
00:31:34.020 And he was, I think.
00:31:35.700 Yeah, he was also, it, it, for the first time he showed it, because he actually really
00:31:46.760 likes people, but you don't see that.
00:31:49.620 You know what I mean?
00:31:49.900 He's got such a, but you could see how much the people meant to him.
00:31:57.200 Yes.
00:31:57.980 When he stood up, he told me, I saw that no one had run.
00:32:02.080 And they were, I'm going to tear up saying this, and they, they didn't run.
00:32:08.580 They were with me.
00:32:10.240 That's when he cemented his relationship.
00:32:13.600 I'm never walking away from these people.
00:32:16.180 And he always said to me that it was about the people that he had promised, not the big
00:32:21.120 wigs, the people that came to his rallies that he promised he would fix.
00:32:25.120 That moment for him, I think he realized they're the ones I can trust.
00:32:31.180 Yeah.
00:32:31.620 And I will fight for him.
00:32:33.420 And then for him to come out, and he had that applause, you could see him, he was grateful.
00:32:40.520 He was grateful.
00:32:42.900 People don't want to acknowledge his human side.
00:32:45.560 It's easier not to.
00:32:46.620 It's easier to hate somebody when you, when you, when you only see the one thing.
00:32:51.600 I had never met him until a few months ago, you know, during, during the election, the campaign.
00:32:59.420 And, um, you know, he's no different from us and the way that he wants to be liked, you know, maybe it's not everything for him.
00:33:10.380 Obviously not.
00:33:10.880 Or else he would have never done this.
00:33:12.540 Certainly not again.
00:33:13.480 Or he would have just acquiesced.
00:33:16.120 Just like everybody else.
00:33:17.340 Yeah.
00:33:17.540 Just don't say those things.
00:33:19.480 Yes.
00:33:19.860 Just like everybody else.
00:33:21.040 And, um, I love that about him.
00:33:24.040 I love actually seeing that part because that means, oh, we have a little something more in common.
00:33:30.600 I'm getting over that disease of being a pleaser and like trying to make people like me.
00:33:35.560 I give up.
00:33:36.020 I can't, I came from an alcoholic family and that was my role.
00:33:39.240 I was the little clown.
00:33:40.400 I was the little, Hey, everything's okay, everybody.
00:33:43.560 And, uh, I still fight that.
00:33:46.160 I still do.
00:33:47.100 Yeah.
00:33:47.280 Not strangely, not on the air.
00:33:50.320 I got into radio when I was 13.
00:33:53.560 And so I've told everything to this that I've never told to people.
00:33:58.740 I mean, my first wife, I came home one day after I talked about my mom's suicide and, uh,
00:34:06.280 it was a really traumatic moment for me.
00:34:08.220 And I got home and she said, your, your mother killed yourself, herself.
00:34:16.320 I don't, I don't, this is different.
00:34:20.320 For me.
00:34:21.060 Your wife didn't know?
00:34:22.260 She didn't know.
00:34:24.560 I didn't even think about it at the time.
00:34:27.760 Oh my goodness.
00:34:28.960 Yeah.
00:34:29.620 Yeah.
00:34:29.820 Because your wife was listening.
00:34:31.480 She was listening and she was like, what, what, wait, what?
00:34:35.860 And, um, it's just, it's weird.
00:34:40.360 So I don't have a problem saying hard things to it, but I have a hard time, uh, in real life.
00:34:49.000 I don't like confrontation.
00:34:50.800 It's the alcoholic, you know, it's the alcoholic in me.
00:34:53.620 I don't like confrontation.
00:34:55.880 You know, um, I was talking about that today on, about Trump and his tariffs.
00:35:01.160 You know, I think people, they want America first.
00:35:06.120 They want to do the right thing.
00:35:07.460 They want the end of the war in the Ukraine.
00:35:11.020 But the minute a leader stands up and says, knock it off and sit down and you too, everybody
00:35:19.180 gets uncomfortable.
00:35:19.960 Well, let's not do that.
00:35:21.020 That could cause it's Reagan saying those guys, that's an evil empire.
00:35:25.900 Yes.
00:35:26.660 You have to change the game.
00:35:28.800 You have to.
00:35:29.760 And you, you did that.
00:35:32.440 Oh gosh.
00:35:33.120 You did.
00:35:33.460 You changed the game.
00:35:34.600 That's a big turn there.
00:35:34.880 No, but you did.
00:35:36.400 I don't know.
00:35:37.640 I don't know if I did.
00:35:38.300 And it certainly wasn't my goal.
00:35:39.760 I know.
00:35:40.500 But you did.
00:35:41.640 And you, I think you, I think you still are, um, women's sports.
00:35:48.600 I mean, what's been happening with women's sports and they're all saying, I'm doing it
00:35:56.180 to protect women.
00:35:57.140 And I honestly, I don't even understand the mathematics that gets you there.
00:36:02.360 It's so stupid.
00:36:03.860 It's so stupid that this is even a conversation.
00:36:07.160 Um, and the hypocrisy in it is just so thick, you know, I, I, do you think anyone is sincere
00:36:17.040 in that?
00:36:17.460 Um, well, I, I, in, in saying that men can be women and women can be men and it's totally
00:36:25.540 cool.
00:36:26.020 And I don't, I think that they, yes, but they're part of the mentally ill group and that, that
00:36:30.620 group is growing.
00:36:31.440 Yeah.
00:36:32.220 Sadly, but there's no other way because these are the same people that said, follow the
00:36:35.980 science, follow the science.
00:36:36.980 And then I'm anti-science.
00:36:38.780 Right.
00:36:39.240 Um, you know, I was even today because you speak out, you know, and say, Hey, I, this
00:36:45.080 obviously the record is clear on the science that just happened and they still will say
00:36:50.880 that was science and you were wrong.
00:36:52.400 Exactly.
00:36:53.320 And I wanted to kill everybody around me by not being vaccinated.
00:36:56.300 Exactly.
00:36:56.960 I do think it's a, people have mental issues and, or just absolutely refuse to acknowledge
00:37:06.660 something that might make them look like they're more in the middle on something, which again,
00:37:11.440 it's this, there's very few issues that are black and white.
00:37:13.680 And this is right.
00:37:15.300 Um, I think the, the reason, one of the reasons I keep speaking up number one, yes, because
00:37:19.820 these young women, um, but also when I was at ESPN, I, I was part of ESPN W, which I love
00:37:27.300 W for women.
00:37:28.340 And that, and it was an annual like conference retreat summit every year, I think starting
00:37:32.380 in 2010.
00:37:32.980 And I was the original host for 11 straight years, 10 or 11 straight years.
00:37:38.020 Um, until this year, that year in 2021, when I, when I spoke up and it's all the strongest
00:37:45.980 women and athletes and executives from all different corporations, whether it's Lululemon
00:37:50.800 or Nike, like Gatorade all over the place.
00:37:54.220 And the silence that we continue to see here, you can't hear it because they're silent is
00:38:02.480 mind boggling and disgusting to me.
00:38:05.400 All these women who stand up there and preach pro women, pro this, pro that we don't, you
00:38:10.900 don't do enough highlights on us.
00:38:12.200 You don't do enough, this and that, then salaries.
00:38:14.140 And now you're silent at the most obvious time.
00:38:17.120 Title nine is something we always talked about.
00:38:18.700 Billie Jean King came to the conference several times.
00:38:21.040 I mean, she was right there in the middle of it.
00:38:23.460 I was born in 1972.
00:38:25.020 That's the beginning of title nine.
00:38:27.300 And now they're willing to take this and allow it.
00:38:31.200 And they're actually encouraging it.
00:38:32.480 Some and are part of it.
00:38:33.720 I've said from day one with this, if we just as women's sports casters came together
00:38:39.200 and said, OK, there is room for everyone and we will figure this out because this is not
00:38:45.220 about excluding anyone transgender.
00:38:48.200 But if we just stood up, this would have ended.
00:38:50.880 But instead, there's been one and a half people in the sports industry, two people, me and my
00:38:55.820 friend Samantha Ponder, who also got fired from ESPN last fall because she's a conservative.
00:38:59.720 And then we're silenced because of it and canceled and threatened and you're losing a door because
00:39:05.500 we're standing up for women.
00:39:07.720 It's no different than COVID to me.
00:39:10.620 They want to control.
00:39:13.320 They're making money from this stuff.
00:39:15.620 And if we continue to stay quiet, there is blood on our hands.
00:39:19.920 And I firmly believe that.
00:39:21.560 Oh, if you ever read, I'm trying to remember who wrote this.
00:39:24.740 Back in the 50s, there was a book, I think it's called Ordinary Men.
00:39:28.540 And it was done by a researcher.
00:39:31.640 Some of the worst Nazis were the best police officers of Poland.
00:39:37.840 OK.
00:39:38.140 OK.
00:39:38.440 They were fair, they were decent, they were honorable, and they quickly became the worst
00:39:45.280 of the worst of the Nazis.
00:39:47.360 OK.
00:39:48.220 And so this researcher went back and tried to figure out what the hell happened because
00:39:53.840 it happened that fast.
00:39:55.100 So fast.
00:39:55.900 And I'm doing horrible injustice to her theory, but it's absolutely right.
00:40:02.100 Like, one person said, do it, or you're fired, you're out.
00:40:10.460 And they did it, and then it just was a Rubicon.
00:40:14.380 They just crossed it, and then they just had to continue to reinforce that they were on the
00:40:20.860 right side.
00:40:21.980 Yeah.
00:40:22.400 And it just got worse and worse and worse, and they could no longer see it.
00:40:25.960 Once they crossed the river, once they did that, it was over.
00:40:30.940 And it's, I feel like that's what we're doing again.
00:40:34.780 I mean, thank God not to that degree.
00:40:36.860 But people have just crossed the river, they've burned their families, burned people, they stood
00:40:44.260 for things that no person in their right mind today would still be backing up, but they
00:40:51.280 can't, they can't go back.
00:40:52.800 They feel like they can't go back.
00:40:54.580 And there's, and I understand the fear in many ways.
00:40:57.920 I have noticed, though, lately with all of these topics, political, cultural, whatever,
00:41:03.260 I think this is something I need to work on.
00:41:05.600 I have no more patience for people who live in fear.
00:41:08.660 I don't.
00:41:09.520 And I'm not saying that from a mean, whatever perspective, but I think it comes from some
00:41:14.060 personal stuff too, where when you live in fear, I mean, I'm, I'll just say I'm, I'm
00:41:18.600 divorced, you know, I was married for 20 years and there, I wouldn't change a thing.
00:41:22.440 And I, I, I love what we had and I have my three kids and I'm grateful, but I was shocked
00:41:28.440 when you and I met at AmFest with Charlie Kirk's thing.
00:41:35.140 And I've, I've known about you, but we'd never met.
00:41:41.080 Had we ever talked before?
00:41:42.120 And I was so immediately impressed with your strength and the sense of you just know there's
00:41:52.420 successful people are either total frauds or they just know who they are.
00:41:59.040 And that's why they're successful.
00:42:00.700 Yeah.
00:42:01.100 Um, and I just was overwhelmed by that.
00:42:03.400 And then you started talking to me and putting little breadcrumbs out about, you were afraid
00:42:10.580 in a relationship, you're afraid and it doesn't, that doesn't equate.
00:42:15.500 It doesn't work.
00:42:17.100 Have you ever talked about it?
00:42:18.600 Are you willing to talk about that?
00:42:20.940 Yeah.
00:42:22.300 What, what was that?
00:42:23.680 What happened?
00:42:25.580 In my marriage?
00:42:26.700 Yeah.
00:42:26.920 With you being afraid, how, how did that happen?
00:42:31.800 Cause you don't seem like a woman who's afraid.
00:42:34.200 Yeah.
00:42:34.560 I, I'm not anymore.
00:42:35.940 But why were you?
00:42:38.060 What happened?
00:42:39.420 Um, very well intended.
00:42:41.800 I think, uh, only girl, first child.
00:42:49.440 Um, I just, the, the pleaser in me just, I wanted to make sure everybody around me was
00:42:56.100 okay and happy and I come from an incredible, you know, my parents, I'm 52.
00:43:00.440 My parents will be married 54 years this year as an interracial couple that get married
00:43:05.640 in 1971 where my mom's family or parents, not family, but parents disowned her for marrying
00:43:13.000 a black man and all that they've been through.
00:43:15.540 They are my why, my strength, my everything along with my kids.
00:43:19.420 Um, and not, but, but, and I, I just, I was that girl and I wanted to please and please
00:43:25.800 the teachers and please my coaches and please everybody and make sure everybody's good.
00:43:28.940 And I, um, married, uh, my first boyfriend, met him in college.
00:43:34.500 I was 20 and got married at 26, almost 27.
00:43:38.780 And, um, yeah, divorced at 47.
00:43:42.060 So that's all I knew my whole adult life, my whole life, you know?
00:43:47.040 And, um, it was a, again, I say this, I wouldn't, I wouldn't change anything, but it
00:43:51.720 was, um, it was, he was a stay-at-home dad and it was great for many years as my career,
00:44:00.500 you know, continued to, um, and I had this, I mean, I was always, I had guilt, I had guilt
00:44:08.240 for not being home as much as I wanted to be.
00:44:12.000 I had guilt for, okay, having, being too successful at some point, which, which how did that make
00:44:18.580 my husband feel, um, and he, he was going to go back to work when the baby got into first
00:44:24.960 grade and never did.
00:44:26.720 And that's why we're here today, et cetera.
00:44:29.540 Um, but what were you afraid of?
00:44:31.640 I was afraid of everything.
00:44:34.320 I was afraid of, I just, I don't know when I say everything, I can't even think of how
00:44:41.520 to summarize it because I was afraid that, um, if I wasn't home enough, then I wouldn't
00:44:46.520 be a good mother.
00:44:47.540 And my friends who all stayed home were judging me.
00:44:51.220 I was afraid that if I was too successful, then it would make my husband feel smaller
00:44:54.720 because he's the man.
00:44:55.540 And I'm very, very, very traditional.
00:44:56.880 And I didn't, the whole role reversal, I didn't like anyway, but I was doing well.
00:45:00.200 So it's the right thing for the family.
00:45:02.140 Um, so I made myself smaller.
00:45:04.800 Oh my gosh.
00:45:05.700 And every way to try to make sure everybody around me didn't feel like I thought I was
00:45:11.500 all that on TV and all the things.
00:45:14.720 And then I was afraid to address the issues because I'm Catholic and we don't get divorced.
00:45:21.040 You don't, you don't, you don't do that.
00:45:23.340 I was afraid of the judgment.
00:45:24.480 I was afraid God would be mad at me.
00:45:26.900 Um, the fear was everywhere.
00:45:28.880 And then, and then you're not enough racially, right?
00:45:34.300 Because I'm not white and I'm not black.
00:45:36.920 And so then you have to choose.
00:45:38.440 And if I say this, then I'll be too white.
00:45:39.960 If I say this and I'll be too black and then I'm different.
00:45:42.840 I'm not black enough because I have white hair that like, it went everywhere.
00:45:47.860 And so then, okay, I'm doing well.
00:45:49.700 And I was good at my job and I worked my butt off and everybody was happy.
00:45:53.840 And then I had these, these things were happening in society where I'm like, that's wrong.
00:45:58.800 That's not okay.
00:46:00.720 But if I say something, then I'll be too far over here.
00:46:04.540 And then I won't be liked by the left and people who look like me because, so you just
00:46:08.860 stay silent.
00:46:10.160 And then, and then if I, then I would speak up.
00:46:12.280 This makes my head hurt.
00:46:13.300 I know.
00:46:13.900 Do you see why?
00:46:14.520 This is why I'm probably wearing my hair curly because it's just everything.
00:46:17.900 But I, I just, it was smarter to stay quiet, Glenn.
00:46:23.040 So much smarter.
00:46:24.060 Um, from every perspective, certainly for work, financially, I mean, what I've lost financially
00:46:32.220 is insane.
00:46:33.920 Um, but God, it feels good to be true to myself in every way now.
00:46:40.560 And to realize that if I'm leading with my heart and if I'm doing it in what I believe
00:46:46.340 is the right way, leading with kindness, but strength as well, man, if you don't like
00:46:52.940 me, that's kind of on you because I'm actually a really nice person and loyal and supportive.
00:46:58.680 And if you don't like me because of my opinion, that's on you.
00:47:02.980 It just took half a century to get there.
00:47:05.340 And that's really annoying.
00:47:06.700 But now because of all the people I was around, including my leaders and bosses and teammates
00:47:12.060 and coworkers and peers and people in my personal life, which I've made kind of obvious
00:47:15.700 here, when you live in fear, I can't be around you because I need someone to continue
00:47:21.100 to uplift me as well.
00:47:22.100 Let's make a team or do this together.
00:47:24.880 And I shudder at the thought of what had, what my life would look like if I had continued
00:47:31.560 to live in that fear, whether it be with my opinions, um, standing up about what I thought,
00:47:39.220 um, was wrong with forcing someone to put a shot in their body.
00:47:43.500 That's an experimental unproven shot.
00:47:46.860 Or even if I had, um, lived in fear of what everyone would think of me for making the decision
00:47:53.340 to end my marriage and where I would be today.
00:47:55.840 Even though I have no idea what tomorrow is, I don't know what my, my professional life
00:48:01.300 is going to turn out to be.
00:48:02.660 I don't know if my little show is going to work.
00:48:04.420 I don't know if I'm going to get married again.
00:48:06.760 I don't know if my kids are going to hate me or like me tomorrow.
00:48:08.940 Depends on how much I give them for spring break.
00:48:10.440 Like, like, I don't know, but I'm okay with it.
00:48:14.440 And it's just, I'm so grateful that God has allowed, and it's all God has allowed me to
00:48:20.240 like say, trust that day in the shower.
00:48:24.040 When I saw the angel and the ugly Brown marble, like, I feel like it was a turning point and
00:48:31.520 I have trusted with every aspect of my life and the fear has gone away.
00:48:37.120 What a blessing to have been canceled 150 times, to have the, to have been, um, embarrassed
00:48:46.840 intentionally by my company intentionally.
00:48:49.140 What a blessing to have lost all the, all the money, um, that was right there on the table
00:48:54.840 for me to take.
00:48:55.920 What a blessing for some family members to be like, she's a nut job, keep her away.
00:49:01.100 What a, what a blessing to have been called a coon, a sellout other names.
00:49:10.020 I won't say, um, people I thought were friends to go away and say, yeah, I'll, I'll be friends
00:49:17.620 with her.
00:49:17.960 Don't put it on Instagram.
00:49:19.420 Don't show anybody that I'm having lunch with her.
00:49:21.660 I am so, I swear to you, I'm so grateful for every moment because God has been there every
00:49:29.260 step of the way.
00:49:29.960 He always was.
00:49:31.100 I just wasn't willing to see it.
00:49:35.340 Sorry.
00:49:35.920 That was way, that was not soundbite length.
00:49:38.360 I'm very sorry.
00:49:39.620 No, no, um, no more fear.
00:49:45.480 No more.
00:49:46.080 I think, I think that's the most common, I think that's the most human thing that we
00:49:59.540 all have in common is fear.
00:50:01.720 I know I was, you know, I am, I'm an alcoholic, but when I was a practicing alcoholic, it all
00:50:09.560 came from the fear of, I don't want people to find out about this or who I am, or I'm
00:50:16.580 not sure I am any good.
00:50:18.240 I know all of this crap and we're all just living in fear.
00:50:23.700 And, and when we, when we admit it and when we let others see it, two things happen, I
00:50:38.920 think, at least in my life, one, um, you find real people, you know, you find people are
00:50:47.780 coming up to you and going, I can't believe you did that, but thank you.
00:50:52.640 Right.
00:50:53.940 And, um, can we get some Kleenex?
00:50:56.620 And the other thing is, um, you become the most powerful person on the planet.
00:51:04.980 Everybody is afraid of you and they're afraid of you because they can't manipulate you.
00:51:14.620 They don't, you should be, I think you probably are the most predictable person in anyone's
00:51:22.880 life because you're so clear on what's true and you're not afraid to walk away.
00:51:30.420 That terrifies people.
00:51:32.640 It does.
00:51:33.600 It's wonderful, isn't it?
00:51:35.140 I mean, not the terrifying them, but it's wonderful.
00:51:38.340 It is.
00:51:39.180 And I never knew.
00:51:41.920 And every time I've shared a little bit, probably started in like 2018 after the first time I
00:51:48.860 got canceled in 2017.
00:51:50.240 Every time I did, every time I shared something, thank you.
00:51:58.540 She did a great job on my makeup today too.
00:52:00.640 Goodness gracious.
00:52:01.880 You'll let me know if it sticks to my days.
00:52:03.380 Yeah, I will.
00:52:04.040 Every single time I've opened up about anything personally, which I was afraid to, you try to
00:52:09.280 protect your kids, try to protect everything.
00:52:11.100 I, you know, I still try to, believe it or not.
00:52:13.560 Um, professionally about the decision to stand up and sue the employer that I loved.
00:52:21.580 Um, every time I have received such a gift and one response from somebody on social media,
00:52:31.460 on an email, at an airport, in a women's restroom, at a restaurant, the number of people now who
00:52:40.840 come up to me, grown men in tears, thanking me because they're afraid to say something about
00:52:48.300 women's sports and keeping men out of them for their daughters.
00:52:51.640 It has overwhelmed me.
00:52:54.440 And that's the, that's what I'm trying to do on my little show as well.
00:52:58.800 It's like every time we open up, not only are we helping ourselves, we're helping others.
00:53:02.900 And they say, Oh my gosh, this person that looks like they have it all together and they,
00:53:08.360 and on TV and famous and money and all that, they're going through that too.
00:53:13.680 So I now believe that like, it is what it is.
00:53:18.800 I don't even care.
00:53:19.700 Think I'm a loser because I cry too much, but you're with me.
00:53:26.040 Exactly.
00:53:26.440 But like, we are helping others just by being true to ourselves and that is a gift.
00:53:32.200 And I know that there's some strength in that, but to me, the credit has to go back to my faith.
00:53:38.120 Oh, I don't, I wouldn't have done it without faith.
00:53:40.520 No way.
00:53:40.920 And what you have chosen to overcome and address, whether it's right here or in any other way,
00:53:48.780 um, it is, that's the win.
00:53:51.780 And I actually think that that's how we all heal and recover as a society is we stop trying to be
00:53:58.740 so damn perfect and keep it all together and be so like, no, I mean, do you see this hair?
00:54:04.080 Like there are so many imperfections here that now I just embrace them.
00:54:07.820 Stop talking about your beautiful haircut.
00:54:09.120 Look at mine, look at mine.
00:54:10.700 Then look at yours.
00:54:11.540 Stop.
00:54:12.080 Naturally, mine is the same color as yours.
00:54:15.020 Believe me.
00:54:15.280 No.
00:54:15.740 A hundred percent.
00:54:16.240 I'll show you later.
00:54:16.760 The roots are back here.
00:54:17.640 But, but I, I'm, I'm so great.
00:54:21.180 This is what I said to my kids.
00:54:22.760 Um, whether it be speaking up, standing up for yourself or in relationships, please don't
00:54:30.480 waste my pain.
00:54:32.480 Please take my crap and use it and be better and smarter and wiser and fearless.
00:54:42.980 And I'm so glad.
00:54:46.100 And Glenn, the day before the day before my lawsuit dropped in April of 2022, I spoke to
00:54:53.520 each of my kids separately to say, this is what's happening tomorrow.
00:54:56.820 Um, one was in college and then two were in high school.
00:54:59.300 And I just want you to know that this is probably going to be ugly.
00:55:03.480 Um, I don't want you to defend me.
00:55:05.620 This is about free speech.
00:55:07.480 And that's why I'm doing this.
00:55:08.520 You and I have so much in common.
00:55:09.320 I had the same conversation with my kids.
00:55:11.560 Oh my God.
00:55:12.000 Like, I just didn't want, I didn't want them to feel the need to stay, to defend me because
00:55:17.380 it does get old.
00:55:18.180 And teachers and coaches and other parents would say things to my kids.
00:55:21.240 And I was like, tell them to talk to your mother.
00:55:23.000 And that's when, that's when the ugly sage will come out because you touch my kid, I
00:55:26.740 will cut you.
00:55:27.400 I will hurt you and I'll go to prison for you.
00:55:29.440 But I said, don't defend me.
00:55:30.940 Just remind people that everybody has a right to their own opinion and diversity of thought.
00:55:34.560 That's all you have to say.
00:55:36.120 Um, and I said, but I'm sorry for what is to come because I know it's going to be ugly,
00:55:40.740 but just know I cannot be quiet anymore.
00:55:43.580 And I'm so sorry, but I love you.
00:55:45.920 And do you know, each one received it differently.
00:55:48.200 My son, who's in the middle, I always say between my two crazy daughters, my, my saint
00:55:55.000 son, who's like, Oh boy, it's going to be the best partner someday.
00:55:58.100 My son stopped what he was doing.
00:55:59.980 And he looked at me and he said, Mom, it's about time you stood up for yourself.
00:56:05.760 He was 17.
00:56:07.960 I thought I was protecting my kids this whole time by staying quiet.
00:56:13.080 And in the meantime, what did they see?
00:56:14.900 They saw me being quiet and afraid and not true to myself and small.
00:56:24.800 And so I'm teaching that we're teaching our kids to be strong and to do all those things.
00:56:29.800 But what example are we showing them?
00:56:31.820 The opposite.
00:56:33.200 Shame on me.
00:56:34.300 So I knew at that moment that even if Disney won, hello, David versus Goliath, they could
00:56:38.880 bleed me dry in five minutes.
00:56:40.640 One thing they do well is litigate.
00:56:42.700 Very good.
00:56:43.280 Very well.
00:56:43.840 Even if they won, I actually just won because my kid, they saw me saying enough.
00:56:54.180 I knew my career there was going to be over.
00:56:56.340 When you sue your company, it's over.
00:56:58.760 And by the way, I was still on air for 16 months after that lawsuit dropped.
00:57:02.960 So I would sue them while on their screen every single day.
00:57:05.360 And it was so scary every day to walk in there and do those live shows.
00:57:10.540 But my kids saw their mom.
00:57:15.960 Supporting them, supporting everybody and fighting.
00:57:18.560 And so I did know at that point that I'm here for more on this earth to be their mama, even
00:57:27.560 when I drive them crazy, which is a lot.
00:57:30.200 And to use my voice.
00:57:33.480 I knew I was done at ESPN.
00:57:35.120 I didn't know what was next.
00:57:35.960 But to help others who also lived in fear.
00:57:38.580 And I know now that that's why God has me here.
00:57:41.820 I'm going to give you a list of people and you tell me what they have in common.
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00:58:19.400 Most moms do not want to do this.
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00:59:23.860 You go back to 1971, your parents.
00:59:28.360 Right over here in the dark.
00:59:29.940 That's the Archie Bunker set.
00:59:31.320 That's all in the family.
00:59:32.600 I love the music.
00:59:33.440 That was the first one to really deal with interracial.
00:59:38.800 I mean, 1971, your parents were ahead, way ahead.
00:59:44.840 Your dad was, if I'm not mistaken, the first black varsity football player, right, at West Point.
00:59:53.960 Yes, sir.
00:59:54.320 I'm trying, again, I'm trying to balance this.
01:00:02.860 That wasn't fear.
01:00:05.120 That was not fear.
01:00:09.300 How did you, how did they influence you?
01:00:13.000 Or how did you miss that epic stance from them without fear?
01:00:20.460 Gosh, I don't mean to make you.
01:00:22.260 No.
01:00:22.780 I love this.
01:00:23.840 Yeah.
01:00:24.320 How did I, because they put through the fear, but then I.
01:00:30.360 You were raised, you're just talking about, you're just talking about, I taught my children.
01:00:34.000 I think I can teach my children and they can learn from my example, but I don't think they
01:00:39.520 actually learn until they face their fire.
01:00:42.880 Yes.
01:00:43.280 You know what I mean?
01:00:43.700 So is that the same with you?
01:00:45.460 Because your parents faced fire.
01:00:48.240 You had to, as a young kid, the white mom, black dad, you had to be.
01:00:54.260 You had to be the odd person out in school.
01:00:58.220 How did you?
01:00:59.580 What happened there?
01:01:02.700 What happened was the environment in which I grew up was beautiful as an army kid, military.
01:01:11.160 It was a safe space.
01:01:13.680 There was a lot of kids who looked like me.
01:01:16.120 There were so many interracial marriages in the military, if you think about it.
01:01:19.680 And everywhere you went in the world, and I lived in four countries by the time I was
01:01:23.140 11 years old.
01:01:24.060 Right.
01:01:24.300 Everywhere you went, there were kids who knew what it was like to move and to start over
01:01:28.180 and to, you know, okay, now I have to find new friends on the playground and then on your
01:01:34.980 sports teams, et cetera.
01:01:36.020 And so it was, it was the most diverse upbringing because racially and all that, but it was a
01:01:46.040 bubble because we all took care of each other there.
01:01:49.420 And so then my senior year of high school, the army moved us from Fort Carson, Colorado,
01:01:55.100 Colorado Springs, to Fort Benjamin Harrison outside of Indianapolis.
01:01:58.240 And it was my senior year of high school and there was no school.
01:02:03.280 It was a small army post, which is now a state park.
01:02:05.520 It's no longer, um, with the downsizing of the military in the nineties, it changed.
01:02:10.760 And so I went to, um, a public school there in a non-military town.
01:02:16.100 And I have 1800 students at Carmel high school.
01:02:19.540 I was the only black student.
01:02:22.300 Um, I say by racial, of course, but yeah, the only one.
01:02:25.500 And so that was my first time feeling different was as a senior in high school, not all those
01:02:31.920 years leading up to it.
01:02:33.320 And so I'd been protected, um, and also protected a good thing or a bad thing.
01:02:37.080 Well, in hindsight, you know, it was my first experience with racism.
01:02:42.700 Did you know that it was out there?
01:02:46.000 Uh, no, but just not.
01:02:48.440 No, I mean, yes, I guess, but there was no internet, you know, it was a different world.
01:02:52.520 Um, I grew up in a time, I grew up in a time, I grew up in Seattle and I think there were
01:02:58.240 like four black people at the time.
01:03:00.060 So I didn't, I couldn't relate to the South.
01:03:04.080 I couldn't relate to what, what that was.
01:03:06.660 It just seemed like a distant kind of, you know what I mean?
01:03:09.940 Yeah.
01:03:10.260 So when I moved back East and I start seeing, oh, oh, oh, there's a real, there's a real
01:03:17.680 split here.
01:03:18.600 You know what I mean?
01:03:19.180 I mean, first time I went South and I felt like I was, I stopped, I remember stopping
01:03:24.060 from gas for gas and I felt like I was in deliverance and I'm filling up gas and this
01:03:29.620 guy says, those are Yankee plates.
01:03:33.600 And I'm like, oh dear God, they're going to eat me.
01:03:36.960 And I think they have slaves.
01:03:38.760 I don't know what's happening here.
01:03:40.360 I mean, it was just, you know, different world.
01:03:43.280 So you kind of had the same.
01:03:44.840 Um, uh, yeah, because I was so protected with the diversity in it, you know, it was, again,
01:03:50.940 it was beautiful.
01:03:51.640 It was perfect in my mind.
01:03:53.060 And then one day I was walking to class and, um, was surrounded by a group of boys, uh,
01:04:02.140 who I, one of them I thought was my friend and, um, N word, um, go back to Africa, look
01:04:10.620 like a gorilla, go back, like just, um, the ugliest moment of my life up to that point.
01:04:16.180 Um, and I, what year was that?
01:04:19.620 1990 senior of high school, 89, 90.
01:04:22.520 Yeah.
01:04:23.520 Wow.
01:04:24.400 So, I mean, other people are like, yeah, dumbass, this is how it is in the real world.
01:04:30.080 And I was like, well, it's never what I experienced and that changed me.
01:04:32.860 And then, so my, I went home and I mean, they cornered me and it was the worst.
01:04:36.840 And I escaped and ran to class and I mean, they weren't going to touch me, but it was verbal.
01:04:41.320 And so I got home that day from school and told my mom, my dad was, I'm out of town with
01:04:45.620 military and we went in the, into school the next day and to talk to the principal.
01:04:51.100 And, um, he basically, he looked at me and my mom and said, I don't believe you.
01:04:55.340 It didn't happen.
01:04:56.680 He didn't believe that it happened.
01:04:57.440 He thought we were making it up.
01:04:59.200 So that changed me.
01:05:03.100 My poor mother who was, you know, I had no reason to make that up.
01:05:09.700 Um, and I mean, I named names and they did nothing.
01:05:13.040 And so a couple of weeks later, I remember I, I, I was walking around school.
01:05:17.980 It did change me.
01:05:18.760 And I had my eyes on the ground.
01:05:19.960 I was no longer this kind of bubbly, like, and this woman tapped me on the shoulder, a
01:05:26.800 teacher, and she pulled me into her classroom and her name was Agnes Cam.
01:05:31.800 She was the German teacher.
01:05:33.020 I didn't take German.
01:05:34.340 She knew who I was.
01:05:35.160 I stood out, I guess.
01:05:36.160 Um, and she said, I, I want you to know that I heard what happened and I'm so sorry.
01:05:42.700 And she said, but look at me, she goes, you are doing more for Carmel high school than
01:05:50.720 we can ever do for you just by being here.
01:05:54.040 Don't let this affect you.
01:05:55.440 I don't know if I ever saw her again, but I remember that verbatim and just by staying
01:06:04.060 there, just by being in the classroom and being someone that looked a little different
01:06:07.920 from all of these kids, um, in a rich white suburb, North of Indianapolis, by the way,
01:06:13.700 90% of them were awesome.
01:06:15.460 This is not a referendum on the town that experience though.
01:06:19.600 And told I was a liar by the principal did change my life, but that was, I think the
01:06:26.360 beginning of realizing, okay, you can be different and still be okay and still have friends and
01:06:33.040 still, you know, and then onto college and then through my career.
01:06:36.360 And at times when mom and dad, you know, the career wasn't going well, or the bosses were
01:06:41.540 awful, no leadership.
01:06:43.120 My parents would say, okay, you can't control them.
01:06:46.740 You can control your reaction.
01:06:48.160 And when I was little, my, my two younger brothers, we had to memorize part of the cadet
01:06:55.160 prayer that my dad had to recite a hundred thousand times while at West Point.
01:06:59.580 And this prayer eventually made me fearless.
01:07:05.200 Say it.
01:07:07.260 Help me to choose the harder right instead of the easier wrong and never to be content with
01:07:13.440 a half truth when the whole can be one.
01:07:16.020 Mm-hmm.
01:07:18.160 Every part of that that meant nothing as a kid saved me as an adult through all the stupid
01:07:25.660 drama at ESPN and Disney, through my marriage, through every day.
01:07:31.800 If you're at the grocery store and you're in a rush, do you want to put the cart back?
01:07:34.660 But it's the right thing.
01:07:35.800 Put the cart back, right?
01:07:37.160 It's the harder right when you're in a rush.
01:07:38.780 Mm-hmm.
01:07:39.080 Sounds stupid.
01:07:41.020 And to not ever be content with a half truth when the whole truth can be one.
01:07:46.680 I mean, I had no choice at some point.
01:07:50.180 If I'd been reciting this and then made my kids memorize it.
01:07:54.180 Harder right.
01:07:55.280 The harder right was what?
01:07:57.560 Was to say, no, Disney.
01:08:00.940 No, ESPN.
01:08:02.720 You are hypocrites.
01:08:04.820 And this is not fair.
01:08:06.200 And I have other friends who feel the way I do, but would never say it because of their,
01:08:11.720 maybe they're smarter than me for staying silent.
01:08:13.820 But the harder right is what?
01:08:16.960 Is to stand up, even though it cost me everything, literally and figuratively.
01:08:22.760 The harder right is to have that conversation with a friend.
01:08:27.220 The harder right is in your relationships to be the example for your kids.
01:08:33.240 And if I'm telling my daughters and my son, you listen to this and don't stay comfortable
01:08:38.960 because you think that's what everybody else wants.
01:08:41.520 And then I'm not going to, like, if I say that, but don't live it,
01:08:44.880 why would my kids ever then become fearless?
01:08:48.180 It's the harder right.
01:08:49.740 And it sucks sometimes because we know what it is.
01:08:53.140 Like in here, we all know what the right thing is.
01:08:56.480 It's just easier to ignore it and to not tell the whole truth.
01:09:07.540 I'm the whitest white guy you've ever met.
01:09:11.520 And I remember when Barack Obama became president.
01:09:19.140 I think there is times, and even the, I think the intent of a lot of people that were involved in BLM,
01:09:31.260 not the crazies, not the socialists, not the, you know, Marxists,
01:09:35.060 but the people who are actually marching going, there's a problem here.
01:09:38.660 I thought that was so healthy.
01:09:42.120 And, like, I cannot relate in 1990 that somebody would have said that to you.
01:09:50.880 And that might seem like a distant past to some, but it wasn't that long ago.
01:09:56.620 And somehow or another, it just, I think it's just because it became politics.
01:10:04.640 This is the kind of conversation that people need to have,
01:10:08.780 where you're actually hearing one another and sharing experiences that the other people,
01:10:16.760 I can't relate to, but we just, we don't have these conversations very often.
01:10:23.180 And have we passed the point of being able to, or are we coming,
01:10:30.840 have we just taken a long circle back to where maybe we were getting to in the early 2000s?
01:10:39.780 And maybe it's just my point of view, because I thought we were not perfect by any stretch.
01:10:45.820 There is racism.
01:10:47.040 There was and there still is, and it's real.
01:10:50.220 And there always will be.
01:10:51.340 Always will be.
01:10:52.640 Always will.
01:10:53.260 Opposition in all things.
01:10:55.540 But I felt like we were getting better.
01:10:58.680 And then all of a sudden, I felt like because it became so political,
01:11:01.880 like everybody just built up walls and we're not going there.
01:11:07.120 Are we getting back to a point to where maybe we can have a real dialogue and actually grow from here?
01:11:16.940 I think so.
01:11:18.080 I have hope, but I'm an eternal optimist and glass half full always.
01:11:23.700 I do think so.
01:11:24.280 I was so sad at how socially and culturally things, I think, got worse under Barack Obama.
01:11:35.180 I mean, I think if we can go back and look at when things changed and when he was, you know, in power, I thought it would be.
01:11:49.020 Listen, to me, I did not vote for him.
01:11:51.740 I voted for John McCain and I didn't vote for him in 2012 either.
01:11:56.060 But in 2008, I was excited.
01:11:58.840 I didn't vote for him.
01:11:59.820 But number one, he's the commander in chief.
01:12:01.840 That's how I was raised.
01:12:02.760 Military kid.
01:12:03.460 My dad's West Point.
01:12:04.240 Retired colonel.
01:12:04.840 Absolutely, I support you and supported Joe Biden for that reason, too.
01:12:09.140 If the president wins with, you know, making America great before that was a thing, then we all win.
01:12:16.360 Like, of course, you support your commander in chief.
01:12:17.940 And that's how I was raised with my father.
01:12:20.200 But in general, like I understood.
01:12:22.920 I understood why so many people, certainly people of color, were so excited about Barack Obama.
01:12:31.220 And to me, it wasn't about race, though, because I was thrilled to see it.
01:12:35.240 By the way, biracial.
01:12:37.100 I thought it was me.
01:12:39.120 I remember saying this on the air after he won because I wasn't a fan of him because I think he was a Marxist.
01:12:44.480 Totally.
01:12:44.740 He is.
01:12:45.600 But I remember saying he has the opportunity to transcend race.
01:12:53.460 You know what I mean?
01:12:53.960 To be able to say none of that matters.
01:12:57.700 And none of that was done.
01:12:59.320 None of that was done.
01:13:00.100 And to me, it was beautiful to see that.
01:13:02.820 Yes.
01:13:03.160 On the stage in Chicago with his wife and daughters on that night.
01:13:06.560 Like, beautiful in so many ways.
01:13:08.480 To me, he was just the wrong black president.
01:13:11.220 That's all.
01:13:12.160 Like, it's not about black, white, Asian, female.
01:13:14.460 I don't care.
01:13:16.200 I'm not voting for that reason, actually.
01:13:19.060 Content of character versus color of skin and what you stand for.
01:13:22.400 I guess, again, it only matters when it's convenient for you.
01:13:26.120 Like, I don't know.
01:13:26.680 Now, my grandmother at the time was in her late 80s.
01:13:31.280 My dad's mom, she was black.
01:13:33.680 I mean, late 80s, maybe 90 years old.
01:13:35.160 And I remember her crying.
01:13:37.320 Like, I didn't like that he won.
01:13:39.180 But I respected that for a 90-year-old black woman who was born in 1920.
01:13:43.280 What she witnessed, so I get it.
01:13:46.760 100%.
01:13:47.160 He divided instead.
01:13:50.220 And then it continued.
01:13:51.460 And even at the very end of this last political campaign, the campaign with Trump and Kamala,
01:13:58.520 even at the, what did he say to black men at the end?
01:14:00.440 He's scolding them for not voting for her because she's a sister.
01:14:04.200 She's one of us.
01:14:04.920 What?
01:14:05.920 The divisiveness continued and it was intentional.
01:14:08.880 Instead of saying, you know, just because I'm black doesn't mean that we think alike.
01:14:14.700 Or, wait a minute, then you're the racist if you think just that this dictates how we feel or should feel.
01:14:21.480 What we should be doing.
01:14:22.660 And I do think that we're getting back there in some ways.
01:14:25.740 Having the conversation, remembering.
01:14:28.100 Everybody has an opinion.
01:14:29.080 And to me, our opinions are based on what?
01:14:32.720 Our own personal experiences.
01:14:35.060 So you can't tell me and I can't tell you because you don't know me and I don't know you in that way.
01:14:40.760 Your wife, your first wife, didn't know that about your mother.
01:14:45.600 I mean, my goodness.
01:14:47.360 So to judge is so close-minded.
01:14:51.040 And there's such an obvious lack of tolerance and acceptance and true diversity of thought.
01:14:58.140 So, but is there a place to where tolerance becomes a danger?
01:15:06.900 For instance, I've never had a problem.
01:15:10.100 You want to, you want to transgender, you want to do, I don't care.
01:15:14.100 It's not my life.
01:15:14.880 It's your life.
01:15:15.740 I don't care.
01:15:16.580 That's, I think one of the best things about Americans is live your life.
01:15:22.140 I'll live my life.
01:15:23.060 I don't care.
01:15:23.720 Yeah, I don't care.
01:15:24.560 But because we are tolerant of people saying, no, that's a female when, I'm sorry, it is a dude.
01:15:35.820 Okay?
01:15:36.040 You can't follow the science.
01:15:39.580 You can't change that.
01:15:40.920 So, you know, you look at this and they try to make, people try to make you feel bigoted
01:15:47.380 when you're like, no, no, no, I, I, it's not about them.
01:15:51.220 It's about my daughter and my friend's daughters.
01:15:55.520 Should there be a transgender league?
01:15:59.720 Like, I mean, I don't even know what, I mean.
01:16:04.340 Like, what's the solution here?
01:16:05.880 What's the solution?
01:16:06.700 Yeah.
01:16:08.580 First of all, as far as the tolerance, I say, say what you want, do what you want.
01:16:14.400 Great.
01:16:15.500 Identify how you want.
01:16:17.100 And there's rules.
01:16:18.440 And there's rules in society based on that.
01:16:21.620 You know, I mean, I like it when people say, oh, okay, I'm a, I'm a billionaire then.
01:16:28.540 Go ahead and believe that.
01:16:29.500 But have you, have you seen her checking account?
01:16:31.480 Right.
01:16:31.700 Probably not.
01:16:32.460 Like, I think sadly, it's not going to happen.
01:16:35.820 I think that in sports in particular, first of all, it's fascinating that it's only happening,
01:16:43.020 going one direction.
01:16:44.180 Are there women trying to go play on the men's volleyball team in college?
01:16:50.480 No, it's only going one way because we know that it's not going to, it's impossible.
01:16:55.480 Like, it's just not.
01:16:56.660 So women own everything, own everything.
01:17:00.620 And that includes, like right now, apparently in the NCAA, right?
01:17:03.860 Okay.
01:17:04.080 You can't compete on the same team, but you can still be in women's spaces and women's
01:17:08.980 locker rooms.
01:17:09.640 You can still, you still get the benefit, which means you can take scholarships that are supposed
01:17:16.100 to go to women if you identify as a woman.
01:17:18.760 So let's finish the deal, close the book on that and make it all women all the time there.
01:17:24.080 Because we know that there are basic scientific differences.
01:17:29.060 And over here, it's open, open category, men plus open, do whatever you want.
01:17:36.520 But if you were born as a male, you are a male.
01:17:42.540 One of the problems right now with the NCAA is proof of male, female is your birth certificate.
01:17:49.460 Well, I believe in 44 states, you can change your birth certificate.
01:17:53.380 So that's a problem too.
01:17:54.500 It's got to be shored up.
01:17:56.100 DNA test.
01:17:57.180 They were talking about where you're going to have people having to check people's, you
01:18:01.020 know, pants.
01:18:01.860 No, we just do a DNA test.
01:18:04.320 It's so simple.
01:18:04.920 It's really so simple.
01:18:05.800 If we could do it that quickly, you know, in a drive up parking lot, shove it up to my
01:18:10.000 brain to let me know if I have COVID, like we can do this and it's actually more simple.
01:18:13.840 So to me, that's the solution.
01:18:15.200 And I will never accept people saying that we are anti this, anti trans, anti gay.
01:18:21.900 No, no, no.
01:18:22.540 I'm not anti anything.
01:18:23.880 I'm actually pro woman.
01:18:25.560 Number one, first and foremost, which is what you've been telling me, all the feminists
01:18:28.560 out there who are sitting on their damn hands continuously, all the Democrats that voted
01:18:33.200 against the protection of women and girls in sports act recently.
01:18:36.800 Shame, shame, shame on you.
01:18:39.780 Women, these female politicians who continue to talk out of both sides of their mouth.
01:18:45.800 So that's the solution.
01:18:47.280 Female here, male plus open, and no more women will have to get hurt or lose scholarships.
01:18:56.940 I didn't even look at my nose.
01:18:58.460 I don't, I didn't, I have so many things to ask you and I didn't even get to them.
01:19:01.980 You are truly one of my favorite people in the world.
01:19:06.080 I just, I just love you.
01:19:08.840 I just think you are amazing.
01:19:11.200 Thank you so much for coming.
01:19:12.700 I don't know that you know what that means to me.
01:19:15.800 Thank you.
01:19:16.540 And for, um, always allowing everyone to just be true to, true to themselves.
01:19:23.260 That's what people like you are, why I have hope you've been doing this a long time and
01:19:27.400 you have evolved, but not changed that part of you.
01:19:31.620 And that is what makes America great.
01:19:34.440 That's why we're going to be okay.
01:19:35.920 I have to believe that.
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