Ep 9 | Sean Spicer | The Glenn Beck Podcast
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1 hour and 26 minutes
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179.67572
Summary
Former White House Press Secretary Sean Spicer joins Jemele to discuss his experience in the public eye, and why he thinks we ve lost the ability to communicate with one another. He also discusses the dangers of groupthink, and how we need to learn to be kinder to each other.
Transcript
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I mean, you're kind of sick if you don't, right?
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We make choices specifically calculated to circumvent hardship.
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We're genetically hardwired for pain avoidance.
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How many times have you grown or improved from accomplishing something easy?
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How do you know how far you can go if you've never been shattered?
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John F. Kennedy said we do these things not because they're easy, but because they are hard.
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Frederick Douglass, it's not light that we need, but fire.
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We need the storm, the whirlwind, and the earthquake.
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If you combined a storm, a whirlwind, and an earthquake into one mega-natural disaster,
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I think that's what the equivalent would be of what my guest had to endure in the public eye.
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You might even say he had the hardest job on the planet for a while.
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He had to explain the comments and the actions of a very unpredictable boss,
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while at the same time fend off attacks from a hostile media.
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All the while watching his likeness, mocked, ridiculed, and laughed at on late-night television.
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He's actually a very mild-mannered guy who had a bright future.
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He gained new insight on how we've lost the ability to communicate with one another.
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What Frederick Douglass called the fire and the thunder gave him a unique outlook
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Sean, tell me who you were before you were Sean Spicer.
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Well, I hope to some degree I'm still that same person.
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I think a lot more people know who I am versus who I think I am.
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I like to think of myself as a good person, as a loyal friend, as a hardworking individual,
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as a person of faith, as a person who values family.
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I think to get to your question, the difference is that I stepped into a limelight
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where people got to see me in a way that, A, I didn't even see myself.
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And see a very small sliver of a person and make profound judgments as to who I was.
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But I think that if you ask, you know, the friends that I had before,
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I walked into the West Wing of the White House,
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they are still the friends that I have today and would say that I'm the same guy,
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except it's a lot harder to walk down the street.
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We live in a really weird time where people aren't always thought of as people at all.
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It's almost a cartoon character or a, I don't know, but they're not people.
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Because you wouldn't say the things to people that we say to each other now in person.
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And we get this little teeny sliver, and that's all we know,
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How much of that are we responsible for in today's society?
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I think there's some of it that we are responsible in the sense that
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when we say or do things, we are held accountable for them.
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is that no one wants to understand the full context.
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So if you screw up on a national stage, it's that becomes, in my case,
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the caricature of the rest of your life, or at least to the foreseeable future.
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And no one cares about anything else that you have to say,
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or the context in which you said what you said in the first place.
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we're always accountable for what we say and do.
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I think where I have a bit of an issue with the current environment
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is that then we sort of stamp a judgment on that person and say,
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therefore, you are branded this for the rest of your life.
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And it's, you know, I've been in Republican politics for over 20 years.
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I've seen and always preached about the liberal bias and I've seen it,
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but I had not seen it in the visceral nature that has existed in my world
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for the last 18 to 24 months in the sense that these same people
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who preach about tolerance and civility are the first ones to cast judgment,
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are the first ones to denounce anyone else's views
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that they don't deem as being part of the groupthink
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and the progressive movement that exists right now.
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It's that you feel like if you're going to get along in this current environment
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that you can't be anything but part of the current progressive liberal mind meld that's going on.
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And that's actually troubling as far as I'm concerned.
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I've had somebody who is deep on the other side
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and somebody that I think people would look at and say,
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And they have come to me and said, I am being eaten alive.
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I think the left, is there a difference between the left and a Democrat?
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I would argue that there is, but it's becoming harder and harder to be a Democrat
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So do you say that as somebody who is in Washington
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or you say that as somebody who is in the middle of the country?
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I think it's somewhat true on the right, but I don't think as much
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in the sense that there used to be people that you could talk to
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that would say, you know what, Glenn, I'm just not political.
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It is hard now to not have a side, especially on the left,
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where if you don't agree to all the enumerated progressive pieces of the agenda,
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You can't be a hardworking, union-working, gun-toting Democrat
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that just says, hey, I believe in the financial and economic pieces
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Now you have to buy into the entire social progressive movement
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And anyone who's just there because their father or their mother
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or their grandmother or grandfather were a Democrat is not good enough.
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And you see this with some of the few remaining folks.
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In my world where I see it are sort of the longstanding political operatives,
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to your point about Washington versus the country,
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where I bump into a lot of these guys who have built a career
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in Democratic politics and now are finding themselves dragged further
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and further to the left because either their clients or the issues
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or the campaigns, and I say campaigns not necessarily political,
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but sort of the advocacy campaigns that they work on,
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are creating issues where if they're working for a corporation,
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they're trying to figure out how to out-left the next.
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And I think people who would consider themselves Democrats now are troubled.
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And you saw that in the last election where a lot of people then ended up saying,
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well, then I'm going to vote for Trump because I'm not necessarily a Republican,
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Let me ask you the same question, other direction.
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Ben Sasse, what, second most conservative person in the Senate?
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If you step out of line with the Trump train, it's going to cut you in half.
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One is that there is clearly this, and they're branded never Trumpers,
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but there is no question in my mind that you still have this swath of Republicans,
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but there is a clear delineation between those who are bought in on the,
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I think where I see the big break between sort of the traditional Republicans and conservatives
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If you look at what Trump has championed, tax cuts, less regulations,
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these are Republican and conservative ideals that people have fought for decades on.
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And I can, as a former assistant U.S. trade representative,
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now I would agree that there is fundamentally a difference between what Trump supports.
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But at the end of the day, what he is really arguing for,
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if you look at what he did with NAFTA, what he did with South Korea,
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he updated trade agreements that I think benefit American workers.
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And that's where I would agree that there is a delineation.
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what the Ben Sasses and some of these other folks,
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And I'm not saying I agree with everything he says or does
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And there are qualities to each of us that I think we would like to
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improve or make the case that if they had this,
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I don't think he'd be president if he wasn't tweeting and being,
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and he wouldn't have gotten all the things done.
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go to the UN security council and publicly ridicule them and then say,
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but I give him points for everything he's doing.
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are we an all or nothing society on both sides?
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Do I have to agree with every single gender on the left or I'm a heretic?
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do I have to agree with every single thing Donald Trump says or does,
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the way as a Christian that I am brought up teaches me to be kind and
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but I would argue to your point is that we've had politicians on both sides of
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the aisle for decades now that have given us the most eloquent talking
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points who have told us what we should and what we want and what our
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ultimate goals and aspirations are and achieved very little in many cases.
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Richard Nixon was a monster and didn't act like it.
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that's one reason I don't like political correctness.
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We're never going to find a secret tape of him.
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I still expected some degree of normalcy and protocol and decorum of tradition and historical
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And he created somewhat of an impression that that's what he was going to do.
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so let's set up a structure and an operation in a traditional way.
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that was not the way that we probably should have looked at it.
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There are things that we should have adjusted for and strengthened and bolstered and not necessarily put our attention to that we,
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We focus a lot of attention every week on putting out a weekly address,
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which was something that every president had done and frankly had outlasted its usefulness,
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but especially under a president Trump sitting there,
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and him sitting in front of a chair and talking about policy for 12 minutes or whatever it had usually been was something that had outlived its usefulness.
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But it took a ton of man hours to actually produce every week and a president who really didn't want to do it.
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And yet we're focused on doing it because it was what you were supposed to do.
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but you think about how much time and effort was put into a product and,
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and something that nobody heard that nobody heard that he didn't want to do that,
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that we were doing only because tradition dictated that we were supposed to do it.
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And it was a painful because we were always finding excuses as well.
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on the deck of the USS Gerald Ford that was about to be commissioned.
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And it took a lot of time and effort to prepare.
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And if you think about some of these little tasks,
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a ton of buildup to them for something that frankly,
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no one was watching and he detested the idea of doing it because he knew that he knew how to communicate better than anybody.
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why am I wasting this time doing this outdated forum that no one's watching when I can tweet that will get massively more amounts of attention than this product.
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I've got to figure out who I'm about to get offended.
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and how many of them are him sitting on the john at three o'clock in the morning going,
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I don't know too many of them come out at three in the morning.
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And then there are other days in which I wonder,
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don't you like how I created this narrative arc that's going to end up in this place
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he's going to tell you that's exactly what I intended.
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the problem is it ricocheted off this wall first.
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I do think that there is a strategic element to how he's thought this out.
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That's one thing that you can never take away from.
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You can be talking about anything in the world.
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He can change the narrative in a way that I don't think,
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when you use it and how you use it comes down to what you're asking about.
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And that's something that only he kind of keeps in the back of his head.
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I've always thought that was a cop out for every other president.
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especially if it was within 45 minutes of the briefing,
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So let's say you're 45 minutes away from when your briefing is about to start.
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He may be having lunch with the secretary of state or a world leader or what have you.
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it'll be 738 in the morning and suddenly he'd be up in the residence,
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was there one that you could point out that you thought was spectacular and one that you thought,
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So the first one has got to be the Covfefe tweet because you're,
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and then obviously there was the one about Mika Brzezinski that,
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and I'm not a big fan of some of the stuff that,
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the attack on them while I understood why the president was frustrated with them.
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so there were days in which I understood because of some conversations that we
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why he had a particular level of frustration or concern or problem,
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but we would be doing something where we had had in particular the,
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that first one that he gave that was just getting wild,
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now this is going to change the subject because in many cases,
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I think people were looking for a reason not to talk about the good and we
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the first six months were unbelievably disruptive,
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the next successor in the line of people who can do exactly what the people
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I think a lot of times there's a little bit of miscuing.
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especially the full impact of every time he says and does stuff,
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the implications that it has and the strategic advantages that it can have.
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George Bush told me before he was leaving the office,
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which the media was making it look like a bloodbath on our side.
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There are people that are analyzing in Russia and China.
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I would never want to be across a negotiating table from George W.
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And I had had a chance to meet him a few times when he was governor in these private meetings.
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I saw him a few weeks ago at an event and he is personable and funny and smart,
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you realize that every single word is looked at in the context of,
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Gibbs made some comment about our relationship with Britain.
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I'd had the luxury of been in the foreign policy realm to some degree.
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everybody gets that it's being maintained at a level that it always has.
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And Gibbs said something that was just a little off.
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And suddenly there was this concern in Britain.
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Bush understood clearly that every movement look on non look.
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enunciation suddenly communicates this posture of the United States.
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And I think you and me and a bunch of other people who've had that opportunity and privilege to see him privately and then obviously observe him as president know what a contrast there is because he is brilliant and funny and warm and caring.
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And I asked the president about it and he said something.
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their hands are tied and they're going to do exactly the same thing.
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He pretty much did exactly what Bush was doing.
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Donald Trump doesn't care about every little word or every little look.
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Somebody who was in the Obama administration told me the problem was Obama was a radical.
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He believed in hope and change and all the things he talked about.
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the system was there and it was the Clinton system.
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the department of state that are filled by a bunch of,
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well-meaning people who the problem is they've got these guardrails and they go,
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Because otherwise we don't know what's on either side of the guardrails.
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probably because no one's ever driven off the guardrail.
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you can't close down Gitmo because if you do this,
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you're going to release these folks and they're going to go here and bad
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I got elected to do certain things and I'm not here.
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I write about this in the book that I think was so interesting.
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And what was hard for me is that after a few months,
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And what happened was he was proved right over and over and over again.
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I'd like forgiveness or I shouldn't go after this person.
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But he proved that you don't necessarily pay the political price that you supposedly,
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the odds behind the curtain that it's going to be huge.
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And all of these bad things as he was making decisions on Paris and Iran and,
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what's fascinating about Trump is that he's realized it's sort of like,
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And at some point he puts his hand out and goes,
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don't do these things that you're saying you're going to do because bad things are going to happen.
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Because really I did this and nothing happened.
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And where I think he's shown is that for the most part,
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if you do the right things for the right reasons,
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because you believe in them and it's not saying do dangerous things,
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he's not sending nukes off to somewhere or going to war with country,
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which is we said that we're going to do the following,
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or I think it's in our country's interest to do X,
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And yet the economy hasn't gone to hell in the handbasket.
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the world hasn't crumbled as everyone predicted.
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what's different with Trump is that he's willing to go out and do what he said
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he was going to do because he realizes that it's not,
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it is what he believes is in the best interest of the country.
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And they published a story the other day that said,
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so-and-so even agrees that the Russians tried to game the election and,
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I think when he first came in more so than now,
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the press was trying to delegitimize him using anything they could.
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But he couldn't just step in and become the president.
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the infamous press conference where you had to be thinking,
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that everything that you just said is right in the sense that the press was trying to figure out how can we find some nitpicky way of saying that it's not,
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that the people on the mall weren't as many as Obama.
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is that you came in as a transformational president.
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And my view is that you rise above it and basically say,
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whether or not you're being successful or unsuccessful by how many people showed up at any event.
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I guess that's a little different because there isn't a monetary aspect to it,
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I don't mean to sound like I've taken a bunch of psychology classes,
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you understand that you can only take so many punches without going,
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So if you just look at the evolution of the campaign,
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and when you constantly are told you're not good enough,
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or you have this inequality or inequity that is not as good as what it's supposed to be.
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there were plenty of times when I wanted to just rip the bark off somebody.
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led in internally by my wife who would just go,
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when you know now online when you live in your people who don't know you take shots.
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I didn't mean anything or I made a mistake and I'm not looking.
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and I had a good group of folks that would talk me down.
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and I think sometimes the president just after,
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it's not just the campaign and being president,
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And so I say all that because I think to some degree,
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if you've been told forever that you're not good enough,
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And you've continued to hit these bars of success.
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what do I have to do before you say I actually did something good?
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And so it's easy for a lot of people to sit back sometimes and say,
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how come you guys made such a big deal out of this?
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We probably should have been the bigger people.
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But retrospect and hindsight are really easy to look back on any situation.
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So whether it's a conversation that I had with my wife and I get better every day
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where I'll look back and I'll call her sometimes and I'll go,
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this morning I probably should have listened to you a little bit more or,
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could I have been a little bit better about this?
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Or could I have tried to show that whatever it is professionally,
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but I don't know that every one of us is wired that way.
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Some of us have this insatiable desire to hit back when hit.
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And so I can only explain it that way because for people who don't deal with it
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who don't have to walk down the street and have people yell at,
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them who don't have people online attacking them,
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it's like people who are Monday morning quarterbacking and saying,
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coming at your head and trying to knock you down.
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You tell me that I should have thrown the ball,
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I think is where I made my mistakes with Donald Trump during the election.
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So I didn't believe he was going to do the things that he's done,
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I just couldn't understand how anybody would do that.
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So I lectured people instead of doing what a friend does and say,
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They have punched half of the country in the face for decades.
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TBR commencement speaker at this liberal arts college that I went to.
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And it was their way of feeling good about having,
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And then they protested him until the point that he said,
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it feels less safe on campus and doesn't feel that he,
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do you know what it's like to be a conservative on a college campus?
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Do you know what it's like being a conservative and,
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and being able to have a conversation at a dinner party?
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I was having this discussion in a moderate Q and a,
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put a make America great hat and walk down 15th street in DC.
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You'll see plenty of Obama and Hillary shirts and bumper stickers.
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But to be a conservative in this world is difficult.
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And the problem to your point where you hit the nail on the head is that
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they have no understanding of what that's like.
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So I met with a network executive after the election and she said to me,
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We are going to open up pop-up bureaus in different key areas of Trump country.
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we missed this election because we didn't get it.
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We were headquartered in LA and New York and Washington DC and other major
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What was going on in Michigan and Pennsylvania,
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this sense of disconnect and of being overlooked by the government and by the
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at a gas station or somewhere where they will be conducting commerce.
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we will try one of these things called Walmart.
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but their idea of getting outside the beltway is going to the Iowa state fair,
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interviewing people in the terminal on the way out and then saying that
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And that leads us to being in two separate groups and both sides being angry at each other
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that's the even more difficult problem that we have,
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which is that there is this decision that is made so early in conversations now,
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horrible person that doesn't care about people,
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because you could not possibly care if you voted or supported that,
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I learned that lesson because I knew my audience and my audience rebelled when I said,
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And I did what I think the rest of the media should have done.
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I don't think I'm smarter than the rest of the country.
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you start to activate empathy and you start hearing the pain that the country is in.
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And I think there's a slice of Democrats that we have,
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there is a difference between a socialist and somebody who just wants more welfare for the country.
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And it's not a Canadian system because that's a capitalist system.
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I think we took a whole section of people that are,
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and we gave them no place to run because they said,
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And the actual socialists at the time were saying,
00:44:06.640
And so they got into bed and now those people are waking up.
00:44:17.300
but I think it's on both sides where we've driven people to corners who there is no way
00:44:24.220
Now you can't sit in the break room at work and say,
00:44:34.660
And people can just see how they're not killing people.
00:44:43.420
I had an individual the other day that posed this question to me at an event that I was doing
00:44:54.180
Do you think that we should be spending X amount of dollars?
00:45:17.660
And we've created this system where you're either black or white odds or even,
00:45:27.160
then I'm going to question you as to why you haven't chosen either me or them.
00:45:31.340
then this is who you are and this is what you are and you're wrong and you're bad.
00:45:37.380
We're jamming people into corners because the dialogue has stopped.
00:46:00.280
I remember SNL did some funny mocking of me and a chalkboard.
00:46:40.520
And then it hit a tipping point for me when they did the restoring sanity thing on the mall after we had done restoring honor,
00:47:19.120
the first time it happened was when it was Saturday Night Live.
00:47:38.060
She had gotten up early and was getting everything ready for the kids so we could go off to church.
00:47:43.900
we have two small kids and we were rushing to get out the door.
00:48:00.760
And so I walked out and I saw a bunch of whatever.
00:48:04.440
can we swing by Dunkin' Donuts on the way home to get a donut?
00:48:09.720
And I sat there in my kitchen and I watched it.
00:48:30.120
I'm now going from part of like this iconic show that I grew up on reciting skits and,
00:48:48.580
this is not who I was a behind the scenes staffer.
00:49:25.780
And I think that's the difference is that where I was like,
00:49:31.420
the super soaker thing was hysterical and she's shooting folks in the thing.
00:49:43.920
and you could almost tell that there was this arc where they were like,
00:49:50.060
let's find a way to really needle and be mean about it.
00:50:10.380
I think part of it is that's why they do it is to figure out how far can
00:50:30.500
what's something that I don't know about the president.
00:50:43.280
if people could see those two elements beyond the,
00:50:57.200
I think is he likes the tough negotiator businessman exterior that he has
00:51:03.760
I don't think that the media actually wants to show that.
00:51:12.140
was the line for you that they were getting mean?
00:51:16.660
Or were you starting to realize I'm a person and I'm,
00:51:43.140
And I think what upset me was if you asked my family or friends,
00:51:54.640
they would probably come up with hopefully a similar set of adjectives.
00:52:02.500
I'm not sure any of those would be ones that they would choose.
00:52:08.720
and part of the reason I wrote a book was because I wanted to say,
00:52:11.980
I'll be candid about who I am and what I believe.
00:52:28.660
but it wasn't like I was intentionally going out there saying,
00:52:31.340
I'm going to be a jerk or I'm going to mislead somebody.
00:52:37.140
part of it was because I wanted people to say like,
00:52:40.900
I have no faults and I would do it all over again the same way.
00:52:45.320
I talked to a politician a couple of days ago in,
00:52:49.200
do you have any regrets in your political career?
00:53:03.220
and part of what I wanted people to see is that.
00:53:09.260
it's okay to say I screwed up and I have been blessed with a ton of forgiveness of people.
00:53:17.420
And I hope that people can see that sometimes if you screw up and you do say,
00:53:25.260
I hope you can accept my apology or understood that there was no intention of,
00:53:32.420
that that might be a better way to exist amongst each other in this society.
00:53:36.820
Studies show 68% of people will immediately begin to listen to somebody who just the sentence before they were convinced and they would not listen to them at all.
00:54:17.740
And the one thing I can tell you that I love more than anything else is when somebody says,
00:54:36.120
are even worse when someone says to those who may have been offended.
00:54:42.420
And I've tried when I screw up or when I mistake.
00:54:46.760
I apologize for the following because I did this and own it.
00:54:51.320
I think when it's genuine and real and people can,
00:55:14.540
I think that part of what I want to do to the extent that I can is say,
00:55:34.800
because I've experienced it with my family and my children,
00:55:39.020
and I have also experienced the thought that I will forever be remembered by
00:55:47.260
And it's nothing like what Kavanaugh is going to be written for generations.
00:55:54.960
And when they had to take his children out because it became violent and frightening,
00:56:22.820
because when you have been wrongly accused of anything,
00:56:32.800
you have a degree of understanding that I don't think many people do.
00:56:36.720
And so when I saw both the attack on him and his response,
00:56:45.020
I would have come out and not done this gingerly.
00:56:51.700
my character in front of my family in the world and not expecting to come
00:57:02.500
Ashley sit there and listen to this has got to be unbelievably painful.
00:57:06.820
But then to have the kids and his parents and his parents,
00:57:19.040
and this is what made it so difficult is that I,
00:57:31.160
but the hard part about this was that I looked at this and said,
00:57:53.060
it doesn't matter what decisions he casts on the Supreme court for the rest of
00:58:03.220
I guess the difference between me and it sounds like you and,
00:58:09.320
where you've been accused of things or called names in a very public way is
00:58:20.520
and to some degree feel somewhat defenseless because until that hearing,
00:58:38.000
and you want me to sit back and not amplify and make it bad.
00:58:41.520
Like how many people only heard the one accusation and not the response?
00:58:47.480
How many people are going to have that indelible mark in their head and says,
01:00:16.540
But what do you think of the connection with the half of the country that has been called a bigot,
01:00:31.920
he was almost speaking for half the country who had been called names for so long saying,
01:00:53.320
It was almost a Howard Beale kind of connection where people were like,
01:01:30.120
And now here's the thing that I thought fascinating.
01:02:19.720
there wasn't a person in this country that you could bump into,
01:02:29.200
but everybody picked a side and it was intense and raw.
01:02:41.640
we were asked to judge something where there is no yes,
01:02:48.420
what I thought was fascinating is what I just told you is how I
01:02:54.280
Let's see what we've got to have an open mind about this.
01:03:09.260
but I find it fascinating when you talk about all these other
01:03:13.200
I think there's something with Claire McCaskill's husband that's just
01:03:16.100
There is something that occurred with Keith Ellison,
01:03:29.620
which was the problem the left had in this argument was the hypocrisy
01:03:40.920
What about all these other women that have made the,
01:03:50.460
I'm trying to think of Amy Klobuchar was asked,
01:04:03.720
this champion of women was asked by the Washington post,
01:04:19.640
a political entity that probably has five people in the HR department is hardly an
01:04:25.060
And suddenly this incident that allegedly happened in Minnesota,
01:04:28.680
she's putting her faith and trust in the democratic national committee to
01:04:32.520
And yet no one in the media asked to follow up.
01:04:37.100
And yet that's how the left deals with their own.
01:04:40.180
And yet when it came to Kavanaugh and this accusation,
01:04:59.040
even the media tried to make this out to women versus men.
01:05:01.400
It wasn't more and more women that I talked to were like,
01:05:05.980
this undermines some of the serious allegations that people that I know have put
01:05:10.520
and I thought it's going to go down as a very defining moment.
01:05:31.120
But that joke was to get you to watch the point I was trying to make.
01:05:36.720
It doesn't mean that I was right on my theories,
01:05:39.760
but I was accurate in the information that I presented.
01:05:50.640
there's got to be journalists out there who will say that guy's a nut job and
01:06:03.740
Can we just look at that and see if that's right?
01:06:07.240
Nobody ever went and looked at the facts of what I was laying on.
01:06:21.500
shocked because I thought somebody's intellectually honest and curious.
01:06:47.440
The degree to which people will say or do anything to get a clip or a click blew my mind.
01:07:00.340
I had countless instances where a journalist would walk back after a briefing and say,
01:07:07.420
my boss really wanted me to make a big point today about this,
01:07:12.740
There were times when they knew we couldn't answer a question.
01:07:20.600
can you guarantee the president's now Sarah's what?
01:07:26.400
Who in their right mind can guarantee anything unless you spend 24 hours,
01:07:34.080
And then the headline afterwards on CNN was white house cannot guarantee X.
01:07:44.940
can you guarantee that Glenn won't do the following?
01:07:52.060
which is I need to be able to get up on the evening and says when asked today,
01:07:54.760
the white house refused to guarantee the following.
01:07:57.360
And it makes it sound like you're being evasive or untruthful.
01:08:05.740
are you going to win that race in Georgia eight?
01:08:09.700
I'm unable to think the white house today refused from the podium to
01:08:14.500
because you know that you can't answer a political question from the
01:08:18.840
And I was constantly amazed at the number of people who'd ask a question
01:08:22.460
purely for the goal of trying to get a clip or a click out of it when they
01:08:27.140
knew the answer or they knew the reaction ahead of time.
01:08:33.980
The president says the press is the enemy of the people.
01:08:48.520
on the sedition act and they went so far as saying,
01:09:09.480
it is being fed this steady diet and you really are the main nutrition
01:09:16.520
that that body is getting and you're filling it knowingly with untruths and
01:09:38.580
I hate when people making an assumption as to who I am or what I believe
01:09:44.980
to use a broad brush with any industry and say,
01:09:50.660
So here's the problem I have with that statement.
01:10:02.140
and I'm probably missing 50 other people plus columnists and whatever that I
01:10:09.560
I hardly think any of those people are bad or those institutions are.
01:10:16.600
And so I think when you throw the baby out with the bath water,
01:10:23.280
one of the things that I did when I was press secretary is I started to call
01:10:28.200
I brought in talk radio for the first time via Skype.
01:10:34.840
the other thing is I stopped calling on the people in the front row.
01:10:37.960
I made them listen to other people's questions because my view was,
01:10:43.280
allow other issues and questions to get heard by everybody so that the
01:10:49.360
CNN didn't decide what the narrative was every day.
01:10:57.200
So my belief is that the media has a right to say what they want.
01:11:05.220
any given week down further and further every week,
01:11:15.400
The proliferation of these people online podcasts,
01:11:21.940
I don't want to get my news from there anymore.
01:11:28.800
but all of these people are rising and these institutions,
01:11:42.980
they are going to be a victim of their own narratives.
01:11:52.220
There's a rise in alternative forms of media and other platforms.
01:12:01.640
if you turn on some of these cable news channels,
01:12:04.420
is one critique of the president after another,
01:12:07.220
trying to figure out who can fumble further to the left.
01:12:34.600
There is a tweet that a White House reporter sent out the other day.
01:12:53.960
the reporter went and went after this individual and said,
01:13:01.840
only in the era of Donald Trump would this occur.
01:13:07.300
do you realize that people can see these tweets?
01:13:27.380
after someone says something about a white supremacist,
01:13:42.360
So for all these folks who talk about Trump's tweets,
01:13:52.720
there is nothing that one of their own can't do.
01:14:07.420
where we now are living in a world that is playing for keeps.
01:15:17.340
And the criteria that I gave when they approached me about this,
01:15:32.680
I got plenty of criticism from folks on the right that said,
01:15:37.020
but the thing that I thought was so funny is for eight hours,
01:15:47.660
We're not going to agree on policy or politics,
01:15:53.340
I'm glad you came out and showed that you could be a little self
01:15:56.720
The second that the left rose up and it was about 12 hours from the
01:16:05.960
James Corden had to apologize three times for giving me a kiss on the
01:16:15.680
that was great that you came out and did that 12 within 12 hours was
01:16:19.760
although I don't agree with anything he did and he's a horrible person.
01:16:23.880
There are plenty of times when I think folks on the left,
01:16:29.520
but they may do something or have an experience.
01:16:51.500
kind and respectful was apparently too much for the left.
01:17:01.580
How dare you quote the phrase that came out was,
01:17:17.060
who are you to set the bar as to what is normal and fair?
01:17:30.980
I first sat down here before you walked on the stage,
01:17:39.860
I want to start with who he was before he became the cartoon character.
01:18:04.680
And the irony is think about how many times they've had.
01:18:13.700
but Alec Baldwin had this outrageous fit with his,
01:18:18.880
And how many of them have these breakdowns or instances in public,
01:18:23.160
and yet they go through whatever they have to Hollywood cleansing and they
01:18:31.940
I'm not the one who publicly yelled at my daughter or a family member or
01:18:36.580
You may not like my politics or my policies or what I've said.
01:18:44.540
What I stood for and what we fought for and what we accomplished,
01:18:47.500
but somehow they get a pass on everything that they do.
01:19:24.860
I've had some entertainment projects that have come my way.
01:19:34.600
and so part of it as I enter next year is to evaluate some of these opportunities and figure
01:19:40.000
out what is the most sustainable thing for my family.
01:19:46.540
I've got to figure out whether I want to grow that.
01:19:51.580
I've got a podcast of my own that just came out with Katie Pavlich called everything's going
01:19:57.220
we've got a limited engagement with intercom for 12 episodes.
01:20:01.900
I'm not in any hurry for the first time in my life.
01:20:04.460
I'm not staffing somebody else and I'm enjoying it.
01:20:09.860
And I don't feel this sense of immediacy to determine what the path is for the next 10,
01:20:19.180
make some money along the way and provide for my family,
01:20:23.860
part of it is to figure out which one of these routes has got the sustainability that I need
01:20:43.640
There are things that I did that there are things that I said,
01:20:48.320
There are days when I look back and in the heat of the moment,
01:20:52.640
there was a reporter who came in and did something and I'd say,
01:20:59.520
And so do I look back on small interactions like that?
01:21:04.780
Do I look back on advice that I gave the president or didn't give him?
01:21:09.600
I look back on a whole series of things and I think that,
01:21:13.580
but I have no regrets in the sense of what I've done and why I've done it.
01:21:20.420
I grew up in Rhode Island in a family that voted.
01:21:25.060
I didn't know the difference between Republican and Democrat to college.
01:21:28.360
And here I am standing in the press secretary's office,
01:21:32.780
20 feet from the Oval Office with walk-in privileges and whatever.
01:21:45.860
I have pictures of me and my parents when I moved to DC,
01:21:48.640
standing outside the gate right in front of Lafayette park.
01:22:02.100
But I don't know that there's an interaction that I've had over my adult
01:22:28.440
What's going to make the next day better than the next?
01:22:30.700
What's going to make my interaction with you better than the one that I had an
01:22:36.540
I should be a little bit more pleasant or I should make sure I thank them for
01:22:57.580
I hope that I'm not working like in a sense of working for money.
01:23:04.500
I'd love to be doing stuff with my kids more like,
01:23:14.480
And to figure out a way between now and the time I'm 60 years old to be
01:23:25.060
If I can go out and be supporting things that I love and interact with my kids,
01:23:36.020
I hate to say this because I don't think if we don't have a course correction,
01:23:49.860
And so I think at some point we have to have this,
01:23:59.660
but different experience after Vietnam in the seventies where people were at each
01:24:03.420
other's throats and we were riding in the street and whatever.
01:24:07.260
And I wasn't old enough to understand or appreciate how that the country went
01:24:30.080
Because if you expect every politician to fix your problem of every world leader,
01:24:35.840
And the point that I make to people is the next time that someone has a
01:24:58.340
but we cannot expect government and everyone else to solve our problem.
01:25:04.360
And what troubles me most is as I still believe the greatest country on the,
01:25:10.060
If people keep seeing us devolve in the way that we are as a society,
01:25:23.400
And I think it's going to take a lot of leaders standing up and saying,
01:25:28.880
We need to be a little bit more respectful and civil.
01:25:39.880
and allowing a lot of the discourse to go so far off,