Getting Your Kid to Leave - 5⧸23⧸18
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1 hour and 47 minutes
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Summary
Fox News claims that the FBI spied on the Trump campaign, but there's no proof of it. Robert De Niro says he's banning Trump from eating at his restaurants, and it's a good one.
Transcript
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Back Ray and Jeffy for Glenn this week on the Glenn Beck program, 888-727-BECK.
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A lot going on with the president and his tweets this morning.
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The FBI apparently got a spy into the Trump campaign.
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At least that's the claim on Fox News and President Trump tweets.
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There doesn't seem to be any proof of that, but they're running with it.
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Uh, so, I mean, if Fox and Friends says it and the president tweets it, it must be so.
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They opened the show today with a, uh, with a reading of Trump's latest tweets, which apparently
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set off the president on another wild tweet storm, and he's, uh, he's calling this spygate.
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And so he tweeted out, uh, new bombshell in the Obama spying scandal.
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Even Clapper, world's dumbest former intelligence head, who has the problem of lying a lot, use the word spy when describing the illegal activities.
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He later tweeted out, uh, look how things have turned around on the criminal, criminal deep state.
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They go after phony collusion with Russia, a made up scam.
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And end up getting caught in a major spy scandal, the likes of which this country may never have seen before.
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Hey, you left out what goes around comes around my friend.
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He's calling, he's calling this the biggest scandal in American history.
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We've had some serious scandals in American history.
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I'm not sure that we can put this up there with those yet.
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Let's wait a day or two or maybe at least 15, 20 minutes.
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Find out if there's any evidence of a spy in the Donald Trump campaign.
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And there's no campaign right now, except on Twitter, where he seems to be continually campaigning.
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But, I mean, the Russian investigation, the collusion thing, there's no evidence there either.
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There's no evidence that Trump colluded with Russians.
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And this just keeps going on and on and on and on.
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That was the Mueller investigation for the first year.
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So, I don't know how many more millions on top of the 10.
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Now, Rudy Giuliani said yesterday or the day before that it was going to end by September 1st.
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But that was also in part with the stipulation that Trump would testify in front of Mueller, right?
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So, there's some bad news, though, for the president.
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He may just want to resign from the office of the presidency.
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Robert De Niro has banned him from all of his restaurants.
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Can you imagine the crushing disappointment that Donald Trump is feeling today?
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At least, well, not with Robert and not at his restaurants and not the deliciousness that is Nobu.
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And he also said he wouldn't remain in any restaurant that the president is in at the same time.
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That has to be crushingly disappointing to President Trump.
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Now, you know, not only, though, is De Niro batting him from Nobu, and, I mean, that's
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as crushing as that is, De Niro is also batting him from his hotel chain.
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First of all, today was the first day I knew that he had a restaurant chain.
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I'm guessing that Donald Trump stays in, I don't know, Trump hotels.
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I mean, De Niro has just been crazy nuts over Trump.
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Maybe he's made enough money in his movie career.
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He doesn't care that he's pissing off half of his potential fan base.
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But, you know, to these Hollywood leftists, it seems like these political things are more
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Or at least they don't think there'll be any repercussions.
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But I can't imagine Trump fans supporting anything that Robert De Niro does now.
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But send out some thoughts and prayers to President Trump today on this.
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The first Nobu opened in 2013 as a boutique hotel inside Caesars Palace in Las Vegas.
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There's one in Chicago, one in Marbella, one in Riata, one in Los Cabos, one in Barcelona.
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And the one that they talked about him opening up on some beach was going to be kid-free.
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He doesn't want any, you know, he's just an old guy that doesn't want children around him.
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No, I'm not, I'm not going to, I'm not going to support his crappy restaurant.
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Um, it was, I'm just reading that the, the Dallas restaurant was closed for a private
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You might want to, Hey Nobu, you might want to update your, uh, stupid website.
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Well, they're, look, they're, they're too boutique-y to, uh, update websites.
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Uh, so if there's seven hotels, does it say how many restaurants there are?
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Yeah, no, the most, I'm guessing that maybe the restaurants are with the hotels.
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Uh, triple eight, uh, seven, two, seven B E C K.
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Also, we got to get into this, uh, Tommy Lahren situation.
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I, why do people think it's okay if you politically disagree with somebody's opinions that,
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When, when did that, it seems like that's a fairly new thing.
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And it's kind of agonizing, really ugly, uh, really nasty.
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And even the president, uh, tweeted about her today.
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And, you know, I'm not the biggest Tommy Lahren fan there is, but this is really despicable.
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I mean, that's really, really despicable behavior.
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And, and since I thought it was the left that was totally tolerant of others.
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They're accepting of everybody's lifestyle of everybody's opinions.
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They don't have to agree with you, but by golly, we're, we're tolerant and inclusive.
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How long ago was it that Glenn is at the park with his wife and people are throwing stuff
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So that, I don't know how long ago that was, but I mean, right there is another example.
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Well, we were, we were in New York, so like 2011, maybe.
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It's Pat and Jeffy for Glenn on the Glenn Beck program.
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So, uh, Tommy, Tommy Lahren is out to brunch on Sunday with her mom.
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She and her mom are just trying to go to brunch in Minneapolis, Minnesota at some nice rooftop
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And a bunch of the customers there just accosted her, yelling obscenities at her, throwing drinks
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One of the videos shows the, somebody throwing a drink on her.
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As she walks by, walks out, they toss a drink on her.
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That's okay for the left to do is that's all right.
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The people were tweeting about, uh, whoever that guy is that cussed her out.
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Uh, that's how people responded to Tommy Lahren being attacked out again with her mom.
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And, and even the article that, uh, that on, I think this, I got this from a media.
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Even the article is written kind of like, uh, they're glad it happened to her.
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Tommy Lahren was accosted by an angry, angry horde of brunchers at a Minneapolis restaurant
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Lahren, the platinum blonde agitator and Fox news contributor.
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I mean, and again, do we have the greatest experience with it?
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Probably not, but she certainly doesn't deserve that.
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Just because she speaks her mind and she's a Trump fan, all these people think you have
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the right now to throw drinks on her and to call her a vicious, ugly names when you see
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I don't remember seeing stories like that about people on the right or the left being accosted
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like this when they went out to restaurants, when they were out in public, that other people
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felt free to spit on them or throw drinks on them or, or yell, disgusting, vile words
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It just, I mean, we've gotten so ugly as a society.
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And it just, it does confuse me because the left is so tolerant and inclusive and accepting
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of everybody's opinions and lifestyle, the culture, huh?
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I mean, can they even pretend to make that point anymore?
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I don't, I don't know that you even try to pretend that the left is tolerant anymore because
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Tolerance just doesn't enter into this equation at all anymore.
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Uh, 888-933-93 or 888-727-BECK is our phone number here.
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Uh, also Michael Bloomberg was, uh, at a big conference, Michael Bloomberg, the former mayor
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of New York city at one time, a supposed Republican.
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And then of course he gave up that sham because, uh, it was so ridiculous.
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Nobody believed he was a Republican and he went independent.
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Listen to what he is preaching here at the, uh, international monetary monetary fund, uh,
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Some people say, well, taxes are regressive, but in this case, yes, they are.
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That's the good thing about them because the problem is in people that don't have a lot
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And so higher taxes, we should have a bigger impact on their behavior and how they deal
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He's saying tax people so that they can't do the things you don't want them to do.
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He's been that, he's had that thought for a long, well, yeah, the soda tax ever in New
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York, uh, getting rid of salt in New York, tell people what they can and can't eat.
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We're just trying to tell you what you can and can't eat because you don't know, you
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And I know things that you don't know, like a salt's not good for you and you shouldn't
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So I listened to people saying, oh, we don't want to tax the poor.
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Well, we want the poor to live longer so that they can get an education and enjoy life.
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So, so we have to tax them because they're so stupid that they're going to do things
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They're so brainless and they make such poor decisions.
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Let me make the decisions for them by taxing them out of the market of every bad thing they
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And that's what, why you do want to do exactly what a lot of people say you don't want to
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The question is, do you want to pander to those people or do you want to get them to
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If you raise taxes on full sugary drinks, for example, they will drink less.
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And there's just no question that full sugar drinks are one of the major contributors to
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obesity and obesity is one of the major contributors to heart disease and cancer and a variety of
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And look, we've got to stop these fat idiots from hurting themselves even more.
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We've got to protect them from themselves, right?
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I mean, otherwise they're going to just become giant fat pigs that they got diabetes.
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They got all kinds of heart issues, but if we tax them so much that they can't afford the
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You can get fat on a lot of other things besides soda.
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So what are you going to do if they get fat eating ice cream?
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Then you're going to tax ice cream more, right?
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With this kind of mentality, if the social engineering you're doing on soda drinks and
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salt and all of those things that you're trying to keep away from them, if that doesn't solve
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the problem of them hurting themselves, you're going to have to go to the rest of the everything
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So it's like saying, I don't want to stop using coal because coal miners will go out
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We have a lot of soldiers in the United States and the U.S. Army.
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But we don't want to go start a war just to give them something to do.
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And that's exactly what you're saying when you say, well, let's keep coal killing people
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because we don't want coal miners to lose their jobs.
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The truth of the matter is there aren't very many coal miners left anyways, and we can find
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But the comparison is a life or a job or taxes or life.
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He's acting like you have one can of soda, and it's going to kill you, and I've got to
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So how could this guy have ever called himself a Republican?
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But he changed so that he could just stay in office longer.
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I mean, he was Republican, Democrat, independent.
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It was just a matter of so that he could just stay in office.
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People realize Michael Bloomberg is one of the most dangerous people in America because
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And he's so socialist and social engineering oriented, and he wants to control everything.
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He just wants to control every aspect of your life.
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Let me go through your diet and pick and choose the things you can now eat.
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I've been talking about sort of the disintegration of society and how people think it's perfectly fine to attack people with whom they disagree when they see them out in public.
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Especially for people who are so inclusive and tolerant.
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You're throwing drinks on a person because you see them on Fox News saying things you don't like?
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I honestly could not imagine doing that to anyone.
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And I don't know that there's anyone that I despise enough where I would either be angry that I was in the same place with them or that they were in the same place with me.
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If I saw Michael Bloomberg out without his bodyguards, I wouldn't treat him like that.
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I mean, let's say Mike and I are, you know, dining separately at Nobu and, you know, I just want to eat.
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And if Michael Bloomberg walked in and you see the waitress leading them to the table and you'd say, oh, huh.
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And if you were to cross paths with them, let's say you cross paths with them.
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Let's say you and Mike, you know, happen to go to the restroom at the same time at Nobu.
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I might say, pooh, not crazy about a lot of your ideas, Mike.
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Hey, I noticed you got some armed guards with you.
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How come you don't think other people should be able to defend themselves?
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And this is why when we talk about this every day, we talk about how do we ever come back
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And that's what Glenn's been trying to do is find people on the other side who share
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the same concern and they're willing to reach out and say, all right, let's find some things
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Maybe we can agree on at least freedom of speech and treating each other decently.
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How often have I harped on it's time to bring about prison reform?
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As a matter of fact, I'm glad it's finally taken care of.
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The House voted 365 to 58 or something like that yesterday.
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I mean, it was an overwhelming passage of this prison reform bill.
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And this is interesting because as we're talking about, this is one of the issues on which the
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right and the left have come together on prison reform.
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In fact, Van Jones was just on, I think it was CNN, and they were talking about the fact
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that he and the president agree on this, on this prison reform thing.
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Van, before we get into the serious discussion here, I would like to replay for you the
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Primarily because he constantly says such nice things about me.
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So, Van, as you yourself have noted, you are left of Pluto.
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So, why is someone left of Pluto sitting next to Jared Kushner being praised by the president?
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Not only is he left of Pluto, he's a revolutionary communist.
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Well, I tell you, it was a surreal moment, and it came as a result of real consideration.
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As you know, and as the president pointed out, I'm tough on this White House.
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If you give me 100 issues on 99 issues, I've been beating them up hard because I'm for human rights.
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I mean, he just ran down a list of things we hate.
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No, I'm for taking human rights away from everybody.
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They should all be oppressed by Michael Bloomberg.
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To a decision, if on 99 issues I'm against you, but on one issue, someone like Jared Kushner,
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whose dad went to prison, wants to do something.
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And on that one issue, it would help women who are being brutalized in prison.
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It would give people the opportunity to come home earlier if they're earning their way home
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If you could actually do something to help somebody, do you just do nothing?
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Because you don't like them on 99 other issues.
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That's exactly what we're talking about, though.
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There's a guy on the extreme left, and he has come together with President Trump on this
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And so have a lot of Republicans and Democrats in the House come together on it.
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So there are some things on which we can agree, and those are the things we need to find
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and talk about so that we're not throwing drinks on people we disagree with when we see them
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Jack in Texas, you're on the Glenn Beck program.
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And the old example might be, in the past years, would be that a man say something improper
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to Tommy Lauren, let's say if they're having dinner, and then after he says something improper,
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However, what happens now is they're not learning the social etiquette because their father is
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And I think that really what we need to do is outlaw pornography and then tell people, you
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know, when you get married, you're going to have to pay a little bit more than just your
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That way, if you invest in it, at the beginning, you're like, yeah, this is serious.
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Well, after we outlaw pornography, because that's crude, rude, and disrespectful to women
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Then you would say, let's say, instead of $150, let's say you would have to pay a greater
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fee of, I don't know, some amount of money that's going to make you uncomfortable.
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Or you're going to have to assign an agreement that says if you get divorced, you'll have
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Because the cost to our society is so grave with divorce.
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The cost is like, it spreads from not only that family.
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You don't want police to come into your house and try to separate your parents.
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And then when you have the repercussions spreading through our community, it's breaking down our
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So we have crazy stuff like this, and people think like that's allowable.
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So Jack would replace social engineering with more social engineering.
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Just thinking, wait, he's making all kinds of new rules, man.
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And I'm still unclear as to whom he wants to pay a lot more money to and for what.
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But I can guarantee you that we're all going to be paying for that.
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But I know you're excited about banning pornography.
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We have a completely different outlook on that.
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Terry in South Carolina, welcome to the Glenn Beck program.
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Just wanted to let you know, I'm a Republican, and I've got three grown daughters, and my
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mother-in-law lives with me, and my wife, well, if you listen to the liberals,
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I've talked her into voting Republican, one of my grown daughters is a Democrat, and so
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And as for that Tommy Lahren incident, we would be mortified if we were at a restaurant and
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I mean, if I'm seeing somebody being treated that way, you're going to intervene.
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I grew up with four sisters, so I learned at an early age, respect for women.
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My dad would have turned me into a stain on the wall if I would have turned the stain
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And something that, you know, all of my daughters have learned at a very early age, and they've
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been complimented on it time and time again throughout their years growing up, is their
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I mean, my youngest used to get awards in school for respect.
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And it just amazes me, though, how far the left and the liberals have gone to the point
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where, well, they've honestly, they've gotten to the point where my two Democrats in the
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family are honestly considering voting Republican.
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And my daughter that, yeah, my daughter that is a Democrat that's very liberal, she is,
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in her own way, a little social justice warrior.
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And she sees things that go on with groups of people that she's with that she comes home
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and tells me, and she says, Dad, she says, I want things to change, but I don't agree
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And when we have family get-togethers, you know, Thanksgivings and everything else, yes,
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we do talk politics, but there is the utmost respect for everybody's opinions.
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Well, my mother-in-law, sometimes she talks with her mouth full of food.
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And I, for one, can't wait for the midterms to keep some Republicans in there because we
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really need to rein in this liberal, I don't even know what you want to call it anymore.
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Because it's not a wave, and it's just, they've gone too far.
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I thought we did that, and then apparently we didn't.
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And I think, I think the Democrats are going to be surprised at nowhere.
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They think they're taking back the House, and maybe the Senate, I don't think either one's
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I don't think, you know, and Glenn has been saying lately that they've overplayed their
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Now, it does feel that way, but that doesn't necessarily make it so.
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It's pretty hard to overplay your hand with some of these extremists.
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It's Pat Gray and Jeffy for Glenn on the Glenn Beck Program.
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I mean, you look at the comments on that, and the comments, in fact, it ties right in
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with the Tommy Lahren thing, because they were commenting on Twitter almost in real time
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as people were throwing drinks on her, and people were commenting on Twitter how great
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Just the ugliness factor on social media has increased to such an extent that you can't
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help but spill over into our real lives, right?
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But it's really easy on Twitter, because you're anonymous.
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Nobody's going to know where you are, or who you are, or where you live, or any of that.
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Whereas, in person, if you're that nasty, you could get punched in the face.
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You know, if you talk to people face-to-face, they get it.
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Although, you know, like I said, it feels that way.
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And then you see the Tommy Laring experience at the restaurant with their mom, and you think,
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But, no, because she supports Trump and has some opinions you don't like, you got to throw
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You're on the Glenn Beck Program with Pat and Jeffy.
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I just, first, I just want to thank you guys for what you do, because, man, there's times
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I want to bang my head, but you keep me laughing and keep me, at least keep it light.
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But, Bloomberg, I just, you know, that's just one example.
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They major in the minors, and then, you know, they don't take care of the important stuff.
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Like, he's going after soda, but, I mean, if you really wanted to go after something
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important, and, again, I'm neither here nor there, you could go after alcohol, because
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That has more, you know, on the medical side that they've got to take care of things.
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I mean, there's just so much more that they could focus on, and they don't.
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And don't let them know about that, because they will.
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Don't forget, at noon Eastern, right after the show, you can join me for my own show,
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Also on the iHeartRadio app, and all over the place, as a matter of fact, Blaze Radio
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and Television Network, immediately following this.
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When is it time for your kids to get out of your house?
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We're into a kind of a, you know, we're talking about how nasty society has gotten.
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It's also gotten a little lackadaisical in certain areas, with kids staying at their
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parents' house until they're 40, in some cases.
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And whether, you know, you get a part-time, let's say you get a part-time job, and you got
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You have to get a four-year university, maybe five or six.
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And then you got to study maybe for the master's and the doctorate.
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And all through that, you either have a part-time job or you don't, because it's tough to have
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And so you're just about to run out of your parents' insurance and have to get your own.
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So if you have to get your own, then you certainly can't afford a place.
00:37:27.000
If you're paying for your own insurance, you can't.
00:37:29.080
Even if you can't afford your own insurance, there's no way you can afford your own place.
00:37:34.040
So you might have to stay downstairs or upstairs or wherever you stayed in your parents'
00:37:41.260
You don't want to go out because something bad might happen.
00:37:45.080
There's an interesting case in New York where a couple went to court to get their 30-year-old
00:38:01.860
In fact, they wrote up an official eviction notice and went to a lawyer to use the correct
00:38:11.960
language and called him by his full name and the whole legal nine yards.
00:38:21.260
They went through it all and demanded that he get out and he refused.
00:38:26.060
And yesterday, a Supreme Court judge in New York said, yeah, kid, you need to get out
00:38:39.940
And he called, his name is Michael Rotundo, 30, again, 30.
00:38:51.060
I mean, it was kind of like similar to the documentary Failure to Launch with Matthew
00:38:57.020
McConaughey and Sarah Jessica Parker because he would not leave the house.
00:39:04.080
And What's-Her-Face, Kathy Bates, was the mother.
00:39:11.240
You know, to me, I would think that would put a little crimp into your love life.
00:39:40.480
Aren't they separate from the rest of the house?
00:39:49.900
But not in the DFW area because there's no such thing as a basement.
00:40:01.960
All I know is that you can't have a basement, so you have 10 stories.
00:40:06.740
So, anyway, strange that you would have to go to court to get your son out of the house.
00:40:15.840
So, when is it too old to be living with your parents?
00:40:21.960
Is it, I mean, 30 certainly seems to qualify as too old to be living with your parents if
00:40:32.480
And normally, it's kind of an unspoken thing, right?
00:40:37.320
Normally, the kid, the child is like, hey, I love living here.
00:40:51.180
I want to date girls, and I can't bring them back here.
00:40:56.640
If that's not a pretty good incentive right there, there's something maybe a little bit
00:41:02.360
But you want, I mean, there's an independence thing that kicks in.
00:41:05.680
And it usually kicks in in your teens, and you can't wait to get out of the house by
00:41:12.020
You want to go, and you want to be on your own, and you want to do your own thing.
00:41:17.520
But you've been with them now for 18 years, and now it's time to go do your own thing.
00:41:22.240
And, you know, I love my kids, and I believe they love us.
00:41:26.280
You have to go out and get established so that, you know, later on, we can move in with
00:41:35.280
If I ever have to depend on that, I've told them, shoot me in the head.
00:41:56.100
So there is a, normally with human beings, there's a natural desire to be independent and
00:42:02.720
to go out and spread your wings and try to fly.
00:42:12.000
Then the parents are there usually to help you get back up on your feet and go fly again.
00:42:17.240
And if that means that they come back for a little while, good.
00:42:30.320
I mean, if you need to come back for a couple of months.
00:42:36.880
But what if it took longer than two months to get back on your feet?
00:42:37.980
If it took six months or a year, then it's too long.
00:42:42.500
Now, I don't know anybody who's faced a situation like that.
00:42:44.800
When you reach that point that it gets too long.
00:42:49.760
Then you start encouraging them to maybe go out and spread your wings again and see if
00:43:27.340
Because even when he got the judge's decision, he absolutely refused to accept it.
00:43:35.740
Said he's going to appeal and he's not going to leave.
00:43:40.120
And he said, it seems like, you know, I should be provided with, you know, 30 days or so
00:43:51.880
I mean, you can't be expected just to move out.
00:43:59.660
And if it takes you 30 days to get your mind right after a court has told you to get out
00:44:05.900
of your parents' basement, I think there's some other issues.
00:44:13.920
So I'd like to know what the cutoff is because things have changed.
00:44:27.260
And if you didn't want to get out, we're going to encourage you and maybe force the issue
00:44:31.700
a little bit because it's for your benefit to get out and do your own thing.
00:44:36.300
I mean, I'm trying to remember how old I was back in 1901.
00:44:51.340
Aren't you working on your third family by then?
00:44:54.300
I just remember being home and thinking, I've been here enough.
00:45:05.780
And amazingly, my mother, who I loved and I know she loved me, didn't stop me.
00:45:15.700
If you ran that same theory past your wife right
00:45:21.140
now, I'm guessing she wouldn't stop you either.
00:45:40.060
Triple eight, triple eight, seven, two, seven, Beck.
00:45:46.920
Talking about this story where a 30-year-old had to be taken to court by his parents to get
00:45:55.800
Now, I've seen studies where it's not unusual anymore.
00:45:58.840
There's- I don't remember the exact statistic, so I'm not going to try to cite it.
00:46:02.280
But it was- their point was, things have really changed in America.
00:46:09.280
But now, it's not unusual for people in their 30s, sometimes even their mid-30s, to still
00:46:25.360
And this particular guy, who was finally booted out by a judge, was 30 years old and had no
00:46:36.040
If you're willing to go to court against your parents and say, nope, I'm not leaving your
00:46:41.020
You're going to have to continue to take care of me.
00:46:45.340
That takes a lot of giblets, I think, and a lack of shame of any kind.
00:46:50.000
And there's another issue in our society, which a lot of people have no shame anymore.
00:47:00.820
I'd be humiliated if I was 30 and living with my parents.
00:47:07.360
And again, I don't know how you date under those circumstances, because it can't be that
00:47:21.520
Watch Star Trek most of the, you know, Star Trek reruns a lot of the day.
00:47:27.100
But right, if you come over and you say, hey, come on over, we'll hang out.
00:47:33.780
And you can watch Netflix while I go do my paper route.
00:47:41.080
When we're halfway through the show, you guys want some popcorn?
00:47:55.160
You're on the Glenn Beck program with Pat and Jeffy.
00:48:08.600
So I think that people are staying with their parents so long because, you know, parents
00:48:14.180
My goal as a parent, and I only have a four- to two-year-old, but starting now, I'm going
00:48:19.380
to do everything I can to make their lives miserable.
00:48:31.900
I don't know if you want to start at four years old, but, you know, maybe at 14.
00:48:35.640
What is the appropriate time to start with that?
00:48:42.700
So I drove by a Starbucks that had a Chipotle next door yesterday, and I seriously laughed
00:48:48.380
for like five minutes because they have public restrooms.
00:48:52.260
And you know that that restroom is going to get blown up.
00:49:05.540
It has to be a problem for Starbucks because if you've now created a place where the homeless
00:49:10.820
can come in and sit down, maybe just relax for a while in a pleasant environment, you
00:49:19.660
Uh, I mean, of course it's going to become a homeless camp or you just, you know, bring
00:49:26.180
Starbucks is a little bit nicer than the Burger King down the street.
00:49:29.300
So you grab some Burger King and stop at a Starbucks to eat it.
00:49:35.160
If you don't have to buy anything and they made that clear, you don't.
00:49:38.260
So what do you think the appropriate age is though, too, let's make their lives miserable.
00:49:41.480
I, I, I agree with you that for maybe not for, yeah, maybe, you know, it's toward the
00:49:53.360
Well, I mean, in your home, it had to be miserable the whole time.
00:49:59.380
Just, I mean, just by accident, you made their lives.
00:50:06.900
Uh, Nikki in North Carolina, you're on the Glenn Beck program.
00:50:12.760
So I am the youngest of four, but when I was 18, I graduated.
00:50:17.260
I graduated high school and I went to work like my butt off that summer and left the
00:50:22.660
But I have a brother who lived at home until he was 28, got married, then got divorced.
00:50:27.900
I moved back in with my parents and never left.
00:50:30.540
And now both of my parents have passed and he can't function in society on his own.
00:50:35.400
Like he has no clue how to function as a human being and an adult.
00:50:40.200
You have to set them up and you have to kick them out.
00:50:43.280
Otherwise, they will end up dependent on everybody in society when you're gone as a person.
00:50:51.340
Were your parents okay with him being there at 28?
00:50:57.540
And then when he got divorced, he moved back and my mom babied the heck out of him.
00:51:10.580
And you would think that my brother helped, but he really didn't help a whole lot.
00:51:13.980
My sister was the one that helped my mom take care of my dad, even though she didn't live with them.
00:51:18.380
And then when dad passed, mom had to have him home there because at least she wasn't alone.
00:51:31.800
No, he's 52 years old and doesn't know how to live on his own.
00:51:37.800
And that's another reason why you want to get him out.
00:51:40.140
I mean, you're not kicking him out because you're mean and you don't love him.
00:51:42.900
You're kicking him out because you do love them and you want them to experience life.
00:51:51.120
Jeff in Pennsylvania, you're on the Glenn Beck program.
00:51:54.900
Pat and Jeffy, such a pleasure to talk to you guys.
00:51:57.980
Pat, I remember meeting you in King of Prussia for a book signing.
00:52:04.820
Were you the guy that was just like about halfway back?
00:52:20.600
And I got a nine-month-old, a two-year-old, and a four-year-old.
00:52:26.840
And I'm already ready for them to go to kindergarten.
00:52:29.240
So I'm 34, and I went to Penn State, and after graduation, I got a job at a healthcare system in their marketing department.
00:52:42.040
And it went great until I got canned, and then that was in 2008, and got moved back in with my mom.
00:52:52.500
And it was just through about three months, I ended up finding a girl, and we moved in together out in Philadelphia.
00:53:03.740
And I just could not wait to get out of that house the moment I stepped foot in there.
00:53:09.660
And I think, dare I say, I mean, I don't know if it was just me personally, but why is it that I feel it's more of like a conservative, liberal thing,
00:53:20.000
where it's like I couldn't wait to get out of there.
00:53:23.060
And I honestly, I had some dark thoughts of going back and living in with my mom the moment I had to, and I needed to get out of there.
00:53:31.540
But I don't understand this mentality of other young guys or girls that don't want to get out, and they're okay with just sticking around.
00:53:42.540
Yeah, we're just—premature hang-up elation there.
00:53:45.700
We're just not wired that way, that we want to live with our parents under their roof for, you know, our adult life.
00:53:54.620
No, we're wired that we want to go out and experience it ourselves and create our own thing and start our own families.
00:54:16.340
The reason they can't get rid of them kids nowadays is because they don't make them do nothing.
00:54:20.540
They won't even empty the trash, for God's sake.
00:54:23.080
Listen, when I went to work at 15 years old, it's a part-time job, because I still went to school.
00:54:35.400
I was washing cars in a Chevrolet garage, and they made it.
00:54:42.120
It wasn't much, but at least I learned to support myself.
00:54:49.560
I had to get up in the morning, go to the job, and then go to the morning.
00:55:16.500
We've been talking about this really interesting situation of a couple of parents, mom and dad,
00:55:23.100
trying to get their son, a 30-year-old son out of their house.
00:55:26.080
And he refused, so they took him to court and had him evicted through a judge in upstate
00:55:40.940
It certainly struck a chord, at least with me, because I don't understand it.
00:55:45.240
And I know that we're trying to work our way through it and decide that maybe it's a different
00:55:51.700
But, I mean, I just, for me, I just remember, I grew up in Michigan, and I wanted to get
00:56:00.400
And when I had the opportunity to save enough money to get a bus ticket out of Michigan, I
00:56:10.240
It is something, because normally, it's not going to be in every case.
00:56:18.060
Normally, something clicks inside of you, and you want to become independent.
00:56:24.200
You don't want your parents telling you what to do every minute of the day.
00:56:27.060
You want to go when you please, come back when you want.
00:56:36.920
And if you don't have a lot of money, you try to make do.
00:56:41.900
Or, in my case, I loved Franco-American spaghetti in a can.
00:56:48.120
I ate the store-brand shells and cheddar mac and cheese.
00:57:05.460
At that time, I was working part-time at the grocery store.
00:57:08.920
And the dented ones, they didn't sell out in the aisle.
00:57:19.580
You probably took cases of stuff from the grocery store.
00:57:35.760
I could remember thinking, I can't stomach another one of these shells and cheddar boxes,
00:57:49.700
I remember my last winter in Montana, I was living in Billings at the time.
00:58:03.260
I thought I'd made it, man, because I'm in Billings now.
00:58:09.100
And there was a two-week period of time where the high temperature for the day didn't exceed
00:58:30.220
I actually had to walk to work every day for a couple of weeks.
00:58:34.220
Or get a ride from a friend if they had time or whatever.
00:58:39.580
And it actually teaches us how to overcome adversity.
00:58:47.880
I mean, I, you know, I remember walking when I first, when I first landed in Florida and
00:58:52.940
not having a car and walking everywhere and you hope to get a ride some days and people
00:58:57.100
will get mad at you some days because you didn't ask them for a ride because you felt
00:59:02.360
And I just, you know, I just remember thinking, you know, I'll save enough to get a car.
00:59:09.100
And when I get, I mean, I felt it was the end of the world happy when I got that first
00:59:22.460
My first car was in like a 10 year old LTD and it cost me 50 bucks.
00:59:27.940
Well, this car, I remember the guy selling it to me, it was supposed to be more than
00:59:31.160
80 and I was, I was giving him 20 bucks a week until it got to like 150 or $200.
00:59:38.380
And, uh, and, uh, after, uh, after I reached 80, he just said, let's come and get the car.
00:59:51.880
Kim in Oklahoma, you're on the Glenn Beck program.
00:59:57.460
Um, I just wanted to add a comment about the kid thing.
01:00:06.140
Um, but when we started having kids, we had three, they knew the entire time growing
01:00:11.140
And when they graduated, they had three choices, military, go to college.
01:00:21.920
And I have one that left one that went to college and now one just graduated.
01:00:26.660
And he's not making up his mind just yet, but he's got a time limit.
01:00:35.100
So, so if they don't have a plan by the time they're 18, they're gone anyway.
01:00:40.800
Or would you allow them some leeway to stay with you?
01:00:43.280
I feel like she's allowing this last one, a little leeway.
01:00:48.980
Because what, what happens is, you know, okay, you decide you want to go to college.
01:00:55.440
Sometimes you get a little extra time before you ship out.
01:00:57.400
Um, if you want to just move out, then we'll give you a little bit of time.
01:01:03.820
You've got like six months to find some place to go and then get yourself there.
01:01:14.300
It's hard, especially with the new mindset in our society that everybody's got to be taken care of and pampered.
01:01:19.120
And, and so you kind of maybe even buy into that.
01:01:41.880
You've known this your whole life, that this was your deadline.
01:01:44.860
I spent a small fortune on those camping gear in the garage.
01:01:48.400
You can have the one that says your name on it.
01:01:53.660
But when you stick to it, I think it benefits everybody in the long run.
01:02:13.940
I'm going, for your 18th birthday, I'm going to buy you a tent.
01:02:17.260
I'm going to write studio apartment on the box.
01:02:49.060
She goes, well, I'm not really sure yet, but I think I better find something big enough
01:03:10.400
But again, it's hard to stick to those standards when the time comes.
01:03:14.320
Because then you're like, you're feeling guilty.
01:03:21.740
But part of love is making tough decisions on their behalf.
01:03:30.620
Connie in Alabama, you're on the Glenn Beck Program.
01:03:34.360
I'm listening to y'all and thinking back with my boys.
01:03:38.480
The motto for me is, get them to hate you, they'll leave and never come back home.
01:03:51.200
One's put himself through college after we paid a little bit.
01:03:58.000
It's going to make them what they are in the future.
01:04:01.300
You may not be where you are today because you didn't go through what you went through.
01:04:16.480
I did my job, and they moved on, and they have a lot of people we know that kids are
01:04:24.900
And you tell them, get them to hate you, they'll leave and never come back.
01:04:30.760
Scott in Pennsylvania, you're on the Glenn Beck Program.
01:04:39.680
I think we want better for our kids than what we had when we were growing up.
01:04:45.460
My parents both died when I was young, so I lived with my sister.
01:04:51.560
As soon as I was 18, I was out, and I moved to Florida and had to do everything on my own.
01:04:55.660
I paid for my own school, paid for my own car, and I actually had to ride a bike to work
01:05:09.980
I'll let him stay for the four years because I'm helping pay for the school.
01:05:16.140
And if he moves out and I'm paying for the school, there's no guarantee he's going to
01:05:20.840
I know if he's under my roof, he's going to school and he's getting the education.
01:05:24.120
But if he wants to get, like, a master's or anything after the four years, that's on him.
01:05:33.560
It's interesting because paying for school and going to school at the same time, that's
01:05:53.440
And they should be able to go to whatever college they want without any repercussions
01:06:24.260
They believe they have a Harvard education come to them and it shouldn't cause any debt
01:06:33.680
But the Democrats, this is interesting because progressivism has helped us.
01:06:38.040
Yeah, it's helped ruin our society because they have reinforced with the kids that you
01:06:42.980
shouldn't have to have any debt for going to college.
01:06:45.160
I mean, that's what they're trying to do in New York as we speak, right?
01:06:48.680
I was trying to say, hey, if you live in New York, you go to college for free.
01:06:56.140
Somebody else's society is paying for it for you.
01:07:00.360
And it's, well, we're reaping what we've sown, aren't we?
01:07:08.240
More Pat and Jeffy for Glenn on the Glenn Beck program coming up.
01:07:27.600
We should probably make clear there's obviously some exceptions to this leaving home rule.
01:07:35.780
Now, we have been sparked into this discussion by a 30-year-old who was taken to court by
01:07:43.920
Judge ruled in their favor, ordered him to leave.
01:07:51.700
And so we're talking about when the appropriate time for your kids to go and not necessarily
01:08:04.120
You know, there's certain circumstances in life that warrant you altering.
01:08:11.940
Or, you know, maybe somebody has a disability or a handicap of some kind.
01:08:25.440
But the generic amount of percentage of children.
01:08:39.360
Because we are wired a certain way to become independent, start our own family, and so on.
01:08:47.940
But things have changed in the last 20 or 30 years.
01:08:54.300
And kids aren't prepared anymore to face adversity.
01:08:57.440
So what are they going to do when they encounter it?
01:09:05.860
Okay, well, if there's something really extraordinary, yeah, but there's got to be a time limit on that, right?
01:09:13.100
You're not still going to be here when you're 30.
01:09:15.180
And some of the problem, right, is that the, you know, when you say the kids aren't prepared to go out on their own,
01:09:20.260
I mean, that has a lot to do with us just dropping them off at school and saying, take care of our kids,
01:09:31.400
We gave it back to the school system and said, here, you raise our kids.
01:09:36.280
And we don't know what they've been taught at school in a lot of cases because people just don't ask.
01:09:44.660
Well, that's not the case in schools anymore either.
01:09:51.480
Got a little piece of paper that said they got B pluses straight through.
01:09:59.640
So, yeah, I mean, there's a lot to this and we probably need to be more involved than sometimes we are in their lives to help them get prepared.
01:10:11.700
So, Lauren in New York, you're on the Glenn Beck program.
01:10:18.240
I actually live up here in upstate New York, not too far away from where this all happened, but I'm still confused.
01:10:23.860
Why in the world somebody would want us to live with a parent?
01:10:42.720
It's just that we have developed people that don't know how to react to it.
01:10:47.240
So the natural instinct is, boy, I want to get out, but I don't know how to do it.
01:10:52.520
And a lot of kids now think, well, I want to get out, but I'm not living in a little apartment.
01:11:26.700
By the way, you can join me for my own show immediately following this one every weekday.
01:11:37.120
Every time Pat says, join me on my own show, you hear that.
01:11:44.580
Which means that at noon Eastern, it's Pat Gray Unleashed on the Blaze Radio and TV Network.
01:11:50.100
This summer, we're opening up the studios here, as we have done the last quite a few summers,
01:11:56.360
to share the Mercury One collection and have everything from Hollywood and pop culture to torture items and a vampire hunting kit to items that highlight how citizens have exercised their rights throughout history.
01:12:13.360
And there's so many historic, you know, truly American, iconic things to look at and see and hear the stories about.
01:12:26.200
If you're not in the DFW area, I hope you'll book the weekend to be here.
01:12:41.960
15, 16, 17, according to this paperwork right here.
01:12:57.120
What a great gift that would be to come down here and...
01:12:59.820
And tour the museum, maybe get a tour from Glenn, or Stu, or Jeffy.
01:13:05.180
I mean, if you're going to want a special Father's Day, you're going to want the tour from me.
01:13:17.920
This is the week I'm on vacation, so I will not be leading a tour.
01:13:25.860
We have planes to fly all over the world in hours.
01:13:28.180
That is true, but no planes come back from where I'll be to here.
01:13:36.520
We've been talking about this 30-year-old who was booted out of his parents' house by court order.
01:13:47.520
The parents actually drew up eviction notices that he ignored.
01:13:51.700
We'll help you pay for your first month or whatever.
01:14:03.780
There's so many places that you can get jobs at.
01:14:11.140
Look, you're not going to get a job right away unless you're one of the fortunate ones
01:14:18.280
where you can move into your parent's house similar to what you're living in with your parents.
01:14:25.180
That's part of the problem is that this generation, a lot of them,
01:14:28.940
seem to feel like they're entitled to start where the parents end up.
01:14:46.340
I remember milk crates as its tables and, you know, being thankful that that's what we had.
01:14:55.940
I mean, you don't make a lot of money at first.
01:14:59.600
But the mindset is, I guess, now you shouldn't have to do any of that.
01:15:03.760
You should just have luxury from the minute you leave your parents' home and you live in a beautiful mansion
01:15:17.540
It leads you back into the Instagram world, right?
01:15:21.680
Everything and Facebook and Twitter and all, you know, all of social media and the internet
01:15:30.160
And we are all living and able to go to the south of France whenever we want.
01:15:36.040
And we've just babied and pampered our kids for so long now.
01:15:40.460
And then they've been babied and pampered at school with dumbed-down curriculum.
01:15:46.580
And we've changed the grading system so that nobody fails.
01:16:10.260
And so I think that's, in large part, what's happening.
01:16:13.740
And then you have a guy like this who's 30 years old and apparently has no shame.
01:16:21.840
Your parents took you to court to evict you and you're still fighting and you're going
01:16:25.380
to appeal and you have, you're not embarrassed by that?
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I mean, we should try to get a hold of him and see if we can make him embarrassed.
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I don't know why they're mad that I'm living here.
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He lives in his parents' basement and he will be 41 years old this year.
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It's clear that we're talking about the same Billings.
01:17:22.720
So, this guy is 41, lives in his parents' basement.
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Does he not have a job or what's going on in his life?
01:17:30.940
He originally moved out and got into financial trouble, so he brought himself back.
01:17:36.360
You know, the parents were going to take care of him just like they do.
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However, he got really, really comfortable, and now he's very financially stable.
01:17:45.320
In fact, for his 40th birthday, he flew himself over to Europe for two weeks.
01:17:50.200
He flies himself over to go to the premier soccer games.
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He's doing quite well, but he's not planning on going anywhere.
01:18:08.140
And are the parents okay with that, or would they like him to leave?
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I think they're frustrated, but they have accepted it at this point.
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They must be in their 60s, and they're still supporting their son at home?
01:18:22.320
I mean, if he's making some money, he's got to be providing a little bit, right?
01:18:30.900
Well, at least you got that much going for him.
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And I'm not sure that that's going to be in the cards for him.
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He may be interested, but as you were talking about earlier, kind of difficult to bring
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Plus, if he's in his 40s, and you're right, the folks have got to be up there, right?
01:19:06.040
And so, you know, at some point, you're like, come on over and we'll watch some TV.
01:19:11.460
I'll just roll mom into the bedroom and we'll be okay.
01:19:17.760
Susan in Florida, you're on the Glenn Beck Program.
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He was living in his parents' home until he was over 30, and they finally sold their house.
01:19:44.680
Well, I think they were ready to sell their house, but that's what, you know, catapulted
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But he cared so much about just living and milking the system that he didn't think about
01:20:00.260
So, once they sold the house and he got out, he got back up on his feet eventually, apparently?
01:20:11.980
He sank into, you know, addictions, and it wasn't going well, but he's much better now.
01:20:18.300
He's, you know, on a clean and sober path, and he doesn't have a successful career.
01:20:24.120
I mean, nothing like that ever happened, but he helps people.
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But, you know, he's independent, and he's a contributing member of society.
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And, you know, my parents both passed away, and he did come back for three years after
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If he, and this is just a hypothetical question, I'm sure it will never happen.
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If he decided that he didn't want to pay you rent anymore in the house that you were renting
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If he was only unable to pay because of, you know, illness or something like that, I mean.
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I mean, he's, and, you know, he totally regrets those years of the cloud that he was in.
01:21:36.700
And he's, he's, of all, there are four brothers and a sister.
01:21:42.240
He is, you know, he's, he's come a long way, but he had to go through a really hard
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And, of course, my parents coddled him, you know.
01:21:56.320
It's, it's, it was probably a little more unusual than, though, wasn't it?
01:22:07.620
When you look at extended, extended families living with, uh, with children and grandchildren,
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Grandparents always lived with their, you know, children and their grandchildren because
01:22:32.540
When, when you're getting old, yes, then, you know, the, the kids take care of the parents
01:22:37.440
like the parents took care of the kids when they were young.
01:22:40.120
So that makes total sense, but that doesn't, now that is not happening as much.
01:23:04.020
It's, uh, Pat and Jeffy for Glenn, who's on vacation this week.
01:23:09.560
We're hearing more and more about these, uh, sonic attacks.
01:23:13.200
Another, another one that we had, where were they happening?
01:23:22.380
Now there's been a sonic attack on the American consulate in China, apparently.
01:23:26.920
And a staffer has suffered a brain injury as a result.
01:23:32.420
So, uh, they're looking into that, uh, to see what's going on.
01:23:36.480
We've been talking about this, uh, amazing story of a 30 year old lived with his parents.
01:23:41.160
They decided, okay, it's time for you to leave.
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So they went to a lawyer, actually had eviction notices written up.
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Your parents have to write up an eviction notice to get rid of you.
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I mean, he's going to, they're going to have to sell.
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They're going to have to be like the lady that just called.
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Uh, first I wanted to say I'm a, I'm a long time listener.
01:24:32.880
Um, but, uh, yeah, the story is absolutely insane.
01:24:40.580
Um, I don't have years and years of experience, but I mean, you know, my dad asked me to leave
01:24:47.100
the house when I turned 18 and, uh, he offered me like this guy's parents that he offered me
01:24:52.980
I mean, he paid my rent, he bought me groceries, um, all that stuff.
01:25:02.140
I mean, I took full advantage of it, um, became addicted to drugs, dropped out of college.
01:25:07.680
And when that happened, my dad said, you know what?
01:25:16.260
And, uh, I went into some really dark times, but because of that, and me and my dad are
01:25:22.940
He's forgiven me for, uh, for what I did, but he, uh, because of that today, because of
01:25:28.720
what he did, because of him dropping me and saying, you know what, you need to learn how
01:25:43.380
And if he had continued to baby and coddle me, have you talked with your dad about how
01:25:48.380
tough that was to just say, nope, that didn't work.
01:25:56.880
When you see your son in a spiral, like you apparently were in that, that could be really
01:26:05.320
He's told me, he told me it's the hardest thing he ever had to do.
01:26:09.640
Watch from a distance as I just continued to, what, what seemed to just throw my entire
01:26:16.000
And it wasn't until, I don't know if I'm allowed to talk about it, but it wasn't until I found
01:26:22.280
I don't know if you're allowed to talk about it on this show either.
01:26:27.920
Separation of church and radio laws in the, in the constitution.
01:26:34.020
So what exactly happened when he cut you off and you were on your own and you didn't have
01:26:41.000
Were you able to continue to at least stay in, in wherever it was you were living?
01:26:47.220
Um, well, to be honest, I, uh, I turned the apartment that I was living into a drug house
01:26:54.760
Well, that's what, that's, that's one way to go.
01:27:00.180
And, uh, man, it led to, it led to me becoming an extreme methamphetamine addict, homeless,
01:27:09.220
And all, all along my dad would, uh, he would, he would call me and talk to me and he'd say,
01:27:15.620
I'm always here for you emotionally, but I'm, I'm, I'll never give you another penny.
01:27:24.480
I mean, he, he just went to my wife's graduation.
01:27:26.940
Uh, she graduated college and you know, he's, he's just, he's extremely proud of where I've
01:27:32.640
And I actually do some work with a local rehab here.
01:27:41.640
Uh, Dakota, not everybody pulls out of that and, and especially not this quickly.
01:27:46.880
I, I don't know if I could, I'm strong enough to do that.
01:27:58.960
Uh, John in Montana, you're on the Glenn Beck program.
01:28:03.420
Um, yeah, I've got, uh, my girlfriend lives with me and so does her.
01:28:10.620
Um, does not have a job, has no intention of moving out.
01:28:14.460
I found him a job, uh, doing a labor for a contracting company.
01:28:19.560
Uh, he would be making Davis bacon wages, working for the state, you know, doing state
01:28:24.860
And it was on, it was on the road, but he'd be on the road five days a week and they put
01:28:33.900
His grandfather told him not to take it because he would be traveling.
01:28:40.060
And then I didn't even get this kid to pick up dog poop.
01:28:42.200
And I'll tell you what, the next person that says to me, marijuana, it does not screw up
01:28:47.680
All I do is point to him because look what it did.
01:28:50.720
It took every bit of ambition out of this kid that he ever, that he would ever have.
01:28:57.640
And I keep telling my girlfriend, you know, he's going to be living with us when he's
01:29:07.380
And I just proved me wrong, but I don't want to wait another 20 years to be proved wrong.
01:29:20.480
I don't want to say because it's a smaller town.
01:29:24.280
Uh, so are, are there any, like, can you get him into rehab in the area?
01:29:30.100
Um, I don't know that he's even doing marijuana anymore.
01:29:33.720
My girlfriend tells me that he's not, there are never any drugs in the house because I
01:29:40.260
He's 15 and he's already working out at the country club.
01:29:44.160
You know, I mean, my wife, my ex-wife and I, we do have a very strong work ethic.
01:29:48.640
We, you know, we were both raised that way and my son loves money.
01:30:00.440
And this, his mom even buys him his cigarettes, this 20 year old.
01:30:06.200
I was just wondering, maybe I could move in, stop by, say hello for a little while, you
01:30:11.200
Well, you were just talking about maybe moving to the Billings area.
01:30:43.880
With Pat and Jeffy, triple eight, seven, two, seven back.
01:30:50.040
Uh, that, uh, solo star Wars story starts, uh, opens on Friday and they're expecting the
01:30:58.180
lowest opening of all the star Wars movies, which wouldn't surprise me.
01:31:05.000
And people are speculating that it's star Wars burnout.
01:31:11.620
We don't want to see, I mean, they've been substandard movies, I think as a rule, it's
01:31:18.560
just me, but I did not like, and I thought I did at first, but then I saw it again at
01:31:23.000
home and I thought, how did I like this at first?
01:31:28.960
This is, but you know, you give it so much slack because it's star Wars and I've such
01:31:35.020
been such a big fan since it came out that, you know, you just want to love it.
01:31:40.660
And so they've got that goodwill baked into the franchise and then they disappoint us almost
01:32:17.580
Because I went back and watched them again because we had to watch everything.
01:32:24.480
And, uh, and then, so you get to the originals and you think, okay, at least I remember this
01:32:29.600
in my head is being good and I can make it through this one.
01:32:35.980
You'll never convince me the first three aren't, aren't good because they are.
01:32:40.160
And I'm going to take a rash, a wrath from people because the star Wars lovers.
01:33:04.340
Uh, also, uh, just to bring you up to speed on a couple of other things.
01:33:08.820
Um, the Trump, Donald Trump and Fox news, uh, spy gate situation heating up.
01:33:16.700
The president's been tweeting about the spy gate scenario.
01:33:19.260
That's the biggest scandal in American history.
01:33:21.500
I don't know if they have an ounce of evidence of it.
01:33:24.920
Uh, if there's any kind of guy that said so, but somebody is saying so.
01:33:44.240
Also, uh, of concern is yet another Ebola outbreak in Africa.
01:33:51.440
And they say that, uh, superstition in the democratic Republic of Congo is causing them some pretty
01:34:00.540
Some people are refusing medical care and instead they turn to preachers and prayer to chase
01:34:06.500
away the threat because they think it's coming from some kind of curse.
01:34:11.500
And now it's also moved into a, a, a big metropolitan area that, uh, makes it, you know, obviously
01:34:17.340
grow faster when the, when the sickness starts spreading.
01:34:21.620
Cause it's usually, uh, they felt pretty comfortable as comfortable as you can feel with it because
01:34:27.660
it's in the outskirts and in the, uh, you know, in the country, but, and once it hits
01:34:32.260
the metropolitan areas, it could spread big time.
01:34:34.440
And there's also concern if that wasn't enough for you, there's also a big concern now of
01:34:39.080
yellow fever, uh, coming from, uh, South America and Brazil.
01:34:43.280
And so, uh, don't, I mean, you don't have to worry about it.
01:34:46.400
You've been, you've been, I mean, everyone, everyone has been vaccinated, right?
01:34:56.860
I don't think I'm up to speed on my yellow fever vaccinations.
01:35:00.220
Oh man, you need to get that, you need to take that thing care of.
01:35:05.900
Maybe you tie this into, uh, what we've been talking about for the last hour or so.
01:35:10.600
The, uh, 30 year old who won't leave his house.
01:35:13.080
Maybe the parents tell this guy we've been exposed to Ebola.
01:35:17.740
We gotta be better get out for your own safety.
01:35:22.600
Isn't wearing a mask worth getting rid of the 30 year old?
01:35:25.400
Five minutes ago, I was just bleeding out my eyes.
01:35:43.580
You're on the Glenn Beck program with Pat and Jeffy.
01:35:49.180
My father walked up to me, put his arm around me.
01:35:57.560
He gave you a six whole months, six whole months.
01:36:01.580
I found a job, moved 400 miles away and started my life.
01:36:08.200
I, uh, my furniture consists of four milk crates.
01:36:12.480
I got from the grocery store and, uh, some boards that I picked up at a construction site
01:36:24.360
So you wanted out just as badly as he wanted you out.
01:36:33.640
I've got people here that I work with that are in their upper forties that are still living
01:36:45.620
To those of us who understand the situation it is.
01:36:48.460
I mean, I, I do understand the stories of, um, you say, get a divorce and you go back
01:36:58.000
to, uh, have a roof over your head for maybe a month to, right.
01:37:04.340
With the, if your parents have a house and a space for you.
01:37:14.820
Like if you're, if you've fallen on really hard times of circumstances, you know, a lot
01:37:20.040
of things have gone against you and you just need a little, I need to breathe.
01:37:26.960
Then that, you know, that's one thing, but coming back to stay.
01:37:38.940
Um, first of all, the fact that his parents have coddled him all these years and never
01:37:43.600
held him accountable, uh, which they should have started doing from childhood on.
01:37:49.680
That's one part of the problem, but the other part of the problem and John in Montana picked
01:37:55.940
As soon as I saw that guy on TV yesterday on the news, I, the first thing that hit me was
01:38:06.280
Everybody I know that still smokes pot, they live in, they live in another world.
01:38:15.060
Another world of procrastination and not doing any more than they absolutely have to.
01:38:21.120
And I really think that's a big part of the problem.
01:38:24.520
It, so you're, you're saying it just saps the motivation out of people?
01:38:29.720
I mean, it, you know, they, they become psychologically addicted and well, I'll go look for a job tomorrow,
01:38:39.420
Um, and there's, there's some pictures online if you want to check it out.
01:38:44.560
So that's what tipped you off that he's maybe a pothead.
01:38:47.520
Well, he looked like something out of the seventies.
01:38:54.060
And I do, you know, I mean, I grew up with a lot of these people and I, I, you know,
01:38:59.860
I've seen it, I see it even now sometimes when I'm out and about, you can just tell.
01:39:04.800
And, um, it just takes you down that path that it's pathetic because I'm sure he has
01:39:12.720
no idea what, what, what, how good he would feel if he could just regain his self-respect.
01:39:19.720
Uh, doing a little profiling there of a long hair, definite profiling of a long hair.
01:39:26.200
I just, this is the first time I've seen the picture.
01:39:29.760
I'd like to see the house, but the kid, the kid, he's 30.
01:39:32.920
The, the guy, uh, is a long hair and, uh, Cindy is doing some extrapolation that long
01:39:39.920
hair equals pothead, which because he's white, it's okay to do.
01:39:47.220
If this was a minority, that would be completely out of bounds and we'd have to shut that down.
01:39:52.980
We'd have to snap you back on that whole theory, but because he's white, we'll allow it.
01:39:58.880
And plus it looks as though she could be right.
01:40:13.620
And I will say that there's a number of, you know, when you, unless you're already established
01:40:22.420
in some sort of position of being a super smart, uh, person, uh, at a particular place of
01:40:34.000
employment, you're, there's a lot of places that you would go to looking like that and
01:40:41.240
You're saying it's tough to get a job when you've got that long scraggly hair that looks
01:40:54.080
I mean, people wait on you all the time with long hair and a beard.
01:41:05.560
My son, loving very much, great young man, but boy, the last year and a half, you know,
01:41:13.700
Never studious at all, but, uh, really started hanging around the wrong crowd and, you know,
01:41:18.340
drugs, all types, um, smoking friends of his, um, got addicted and had to go through rehab
01:41:26.720
But, um, anyway, and, you know, just went and get a job around the house and so forth,
01:41:31.460
but still in school, man, 60 days before graduation looks at me and says, dad,
01:41:42.980
And then, uh, you know, within two days, you slept in the house, second day into it,
01:41:49.440
It's like, son, this house is for, uh, moving forward or moving on.
01:41:58.300
If your kid lives there until 40, shame on you.
01:42:05.760
the sucker fish likes eating food off the bottom.
01:42:08.480
You know, if, if you're going to, if you have no motivation and we need sucker fish,
01:42:14.520
But if some, if you're going to coddle someone and they can get along on the bottom,
01:42:19.340
Cause if they figure out they need to move up the food chain, good.
01:42:26.520
My son went on and got a job in construction, then moved on to electrician where he wanted
01:42:33.680
I've been down there to see him two or three times.
01:42:40.940
I helped him cause he's doing the right thing for six, seven months, you know, going to
01:42:44.500
work every day, work now working as an apprentice, uh, his car broke down and so forth.
01:42:51.200
He was riding his bike 11 miles one way every day, including in the rain.
01:42:55.380
Um, I Ubered him a couple of times cause he's doing his stuff now, but he rode a bike for
01:42:59.860
two months and now he's, you know, the family down there helped him get a truck.
01:43:04.080
So he's got a truck to use, but you know, and he, he was giving all the wrong signs.
01:43:11.020
Unfortunately, I don't know if it would make a difference either way, but, um, you know,
01:43:15.260
I kept saying, you know, God, he's got to have work ethic.
01:43:21.820
And doggone if he doesn't, I don't want my son to be, I want my son to be happy.
01:43:28.260
It's theirs, their journey, but you know, get them to get started on their journey or
01:43:36.800
11 miles to work on a bike in Miami where it's hot and humid.
01:43:47.860
Motivated to do a lot of things and go the extra mile.
01:43:56.340
That's why I walked when I, when I went to Florida, because the public transportation,
01:43:59.620
it took longer to take the public transportation that it did for me to walk.
01:44:09.140
I mean, I don't necessarily appreciate the tone when you asked me that question.
01:44:41.320
I found a story in the Washington Post that mentioned some of his quotes.
01:44:44.360
Uh, the 30-year-old kid, the 30-year-old man who, uh, his parents took him to court to evict him from their house.
01:44:55.680
And now, according to the story, Michael is a self-described businessman.
01:45:04.020
He's, he's a businessman living in, in his parents' basement?
01:45:07.280
Just because you're a businessman doesn't make you a good businessman.
01:45:11.180
He also has a son of his own who he lost custody of.
01:45:15.560
Probably because he lives in his parents' house.
01:45:20.540
But he said, he said, uh, his, his parents, they stopped feeding me.
01:45:28.580
And they even cut me off of the family phone plan.
01:45:37.860
No, I didn't realize there was that kind of abuse.
01:45:40.760
So, your mommy stopped making dinner for you at 30 years old?
01:45:44.920
And they decided that you had to pay for your own food?
01:45:52.740
And he said that this entire situation is really unfair.
01:46:00.580
And he needed, he also wanted to, uh, he needed, uh, more time to be prepared to move out.
01:46:09.640
He didn't have a reasonable amount of time to vacate.
01:46:18.020
I bet you he still has the Netflix password, though.
01:46:32.740
Meantime, you can check me out, uh, in just a minute here.