The Golden One - 10 Fatherhood Insights – The Golden One Livestream

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00:01:27.620 Welcome, everyone.

00:01:29.640 So I suppose most of you follow me on Telegram.

00:01:34.580 If you don't, then do so.

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00:01:39.260 Also, I suppose you follow me on Instagram or X or all three would be great if you do also.

00:01:45.760 So anyway, as I mentioned, I wasn't satisfied enough with last week's stream, simply because I thought I could do better.

00:01:56.060 I wanted to do justice to a quite important topic, and of course I also wanted the streams to be available on YouTube, even after I have streamed.

00:02:08.580 So I wasn't satisfied enough to keep the previous stream up.

00:02:16.920 So that's why I'm redoing it.

00:02:18.660 And I have this notebook.

00:02:21.320 Look how aesthetic that is.

00:02:23.140 You can see on the back side there as well.

00:02:26.040 Absolutely aesthetic.

00:02:28.020 Thank you to my beloved wife for this and another Lord of the Rings themed notebook.

00:02:34.520 So I have actually some notes here.

00:02:35.920 I will read them for you now.

00:02:38.300 So this is the stream I had, or the presentation.

00:02:42.100 And also, all of the superchats, I will respond to those at the end of the stream.

00:02:47.920 So I'll have my presentation.

00:02:49.860 So this is actually a presentation.

00:02:52.100 It's not only a schizo stream where I'm rambling.

00:02:54.360 I actually want to make a presentation about a few points.

00:02:56.760 And hopefully it can be useful to some of you, whether you're watching now or later on.

00:03:03.900 Who knows?

00:03:05.140 So anyway, here are my notes.

00:03:06.540 did some calligraphy up here as well i usually do when i note in a note i have the title

00:03:12.060 calligraphy so foundational style anyway that's a tangent and i will not go on tangents here i will

00:03:18.760 stick to the topic sometimes i or i always go on tangents in these streams anyway first point

00:03:26.400 why become a father two the years before health and fitness three pregnancy emotional and practical

00:03:35.260 And that is, you know, more relating to how you can act towards your wife

00:03:40.620 Four, the delivery

00:03:42.620 So this is something I spent quite a bit of time talking during the latest stream

00:03:48.980 And I will also explain my take here

00:03:51.600 Five, postpartum

00:03:54.440 So the first time after delivery

00:03:59.040 Six, don't stop your own quest

00:04:02.600 Don't become a dad

00:04:04.100 Now I will explain what I mean with becoming a dad.

00:04:08.460 I want you to become a father, but I don't want you to become a dad.

00:04:11.940 I will explain later what I mean.

00:04:14.340 7. Role model or a reference point.

00:04:18.460 This is especially important for daughters.

00:04:21.480 8. Habits influence children.

00:04:24.860 9. Creativity and education.

00:04:27.660 10. Books for story time.

00:04:29.660 So I actually have here next to me a bunch of books that I took from the shelves to show you.

00:04:37.780 I've said for a little while now that I was going to make a video on it,

00:04:41.920 but I thought I've said it so many times and I seem to never get around to do it,

00:04:45.620 so I'll just show in this video instead.

00:04:49.160 So anyway, those are the points. Maybe I'll put some show notes in the description.

00:04:53.440 so anyway with all that said i will begin my my lecture i'm the professor of wisdom

00:05:02.400 here in shambhala and i hold lectures no that sounds a bit too too pretentious i will say um

00:05:09.520 klaus schwab disrupted my wi-fi connection says uh my man jan i will i will read your super chat

00:05:18.200 later on good to see her good to see her so anyway why become a father so the you have a few different

00:05:26.060 aspects i will start with maybe the so we have of course the more you know expected ones you know

00:05:35.000 to continue your bloodline and to you know because of something you're supposed to do but i would say

00:05:41.100 maybe the most powerful one would be the creative aspect that you can create life you and your wife

00:05:49.020 of course uh so for me when i looked at so why i wanted a third child also i looked at the um

00:05:57.120 the daughters we have and i said to myself look at what beauty we can create i wanted more of it

00:06:04.840 and I think that would be

00:06:07.960 when you view it from that perspective

00:06:09.940 now I'm esoteric maxing a bit here

00:06:12.480 but it is to bring a new perspective to fatherhood

00:06:15.900 and to parenting

00:06:17.180 and something you might not have heard before

00:06:18.920 because I'm sure you've heard many other reasons

00:06:21.520 to become a father

00:06:22.280 but I would say that the creative aspect

00:06:24.360 that you can create something

00:06:26.540 that is more worth than anything else

00:06:29.460 so for me as a creative person

00:06:32.540 I like to paint

00:06:33.400 I like to create

00:06:34.180 I like to, you know, make content, all of these things. Now, shaping, raising a child is like the,

00:06:44.380 perhaps the highest creation you can do. Now, of course, there are artists and they have their

00:06:51.080 magnum opus, you know, in architecture and all of these things. But for most people, and this is

00:06:56.540 also something you can do aside a different career, but when I go to bed now, tonight, I have

00:07:03.940 stacked up three wins in my win column one for each child because i know that i have helped

00:07:10.680 one day extra one day i have you know supplied for them provided protected all of these things

00:07:16.660 so i have created no of course not only me my wife of course also but the the sensation of

00:07:24.180 creating something that you're creating life that is i think it appeals to most humans because we

00:07:30.260 are a creative species we create we get that creative energy from god and then we create

00:07:36.200 something from it or someone even more powerful so there's a big debate why aren't people having

00:07:42.800 children which i might make um a separate video on it but i can just say now like yeah of course

00:07:49.280 many people they don't want children because it's a massive reduction in life quality but i would say

00:07:56.340 that the, like, satisfaction you have of creating life,

00:08:02.040 creating something beautiful,

00:08:03.600 if you think your children are beautiful, that is,

00:08:06.940 which hopefully for everyone who's watching this,

00:08:09.220 you will think,

00:08:10.320 then that's a great satisfaction indeed.

00:08:15.600 So I suppose that,

00:08:18.920 hopefully, this makes somewhat sense at least.

00:08:22.060 So the creative aspect,

00:08:23.300 that every single day you know that you have...

00:08:26.340 help to shape and grow a child it's quite powerful the more i think about it then also of course it's

00:08:32.900 the status aspect when you become a husband and a father you know this ring here i have two rings

00:08:37.760 one magical ring here boom and then here's the wedding band you you will get a different status

00:08:43.600 both in the eyes of society and also in your own perception so for me i always wanted to be

00:08:50.300 a husband and a father because that was aligned with my ideal version of myself that i want to be

00:08:56.320 a father, just to sort of reach to my ideal version. And then you can also sense on others

00:09:03.740 that they do like you more, I would say, actually, when you're a father. Quite interesting observation.

00:09:12.520 But of course, you shouldn't become a father just to please others. It needs to be, you know,

00:09:17.440 the motivation, it needs to come from within that you want to establish yourself as a father figure.

00:09:22.820 and again to have that creative drive to to see and shape something or someone something would be

00:09:30.440 like the family a metaphysical structure of a family and a direction on your ship you build a

00:09:36.800 household together with your wife and then the some ones are then the the children or one child

00:09:43.540 if you have that as well i would say that you know if you if you hesitate at least have one child

00:09:49.060 it's quite easy to only have one child I would say

00:09:52.920 and then you can still do many things

00:09:56.900 like when you have three children will be a bit harder of course but I still think

00:10:00.560 if you have the possibility again the satisfaction of you seeing

00:10:04.360 a family grow hard to beat hard to beat and then also you will be

00:10:08.900 always full of love so many different

00:10:12.900 reasons to become a father but I would say that when

00:10:16.280 when you feel the call for it which i did when i was like 27 or so 28 something like that it might

00:10:23.720 come earlier for some might come a bit later for some but i would say to act on it and don't

00:10:28.540 hesitate too much you know if you wait for the perfect opportunity the opportunity might not

00:10:33.940 come so it's always a good idea to to go for it so i know you know some other guys they might be

00:10:39.880 a bit older they still hesitate but i would say to you just just go for it you will not

00:10:45.080 you will not regret yourself most likely you will not regret yourself but you will most likely also

00:10:51.580 do regret yourself if you if you don't act upon this impulse so anyway um you know plenty reasons

00:10:58.660 to become a father i just want to highlight that that sense of achievement you will get every

00:11:03.940 single day so every single day for me i know that i have a few things like okay have i shown them

00:11:10.860 love have i taught them something have i been there for them have i made them feel loved have

00:11:15.820 i read a story for them have i played something with them all of these things then i say yes to

00:11:20.660 myself and then i stack up a w a win in in my win column uh and then you sort of have a constant

00:11:28.740 constant achievements coming your way because you um you help them grow and that sense of um

00:11:35.600 of love anyway uh much more to be said about that moving on to the second point the years before

00:11:46.020 health and fitness there's something else i talked about in the latest stream of course you should

00:11:51.860 train at the moment right now when i was in my 20s i didn't train with the knowledge that oh one day

00:11:58.280 i'm gonna be a father and i'm going to give good epigenetics to my children so they will be stronger

00:12:03.440 and healthier and you know have better lives I trained to reforge myself into a demigod to be

00:12:10.340 honest I'm not gonna you know I'll be completely honest with all of that but there's a bonus a big

00:12:15.380 bonus that you will be one giving your opportunity your um your children a better opportunity to have

00:12:23.300 a better life via better health so this is absolutely true epigenetics what you do in your

00:12:28.880 life will activate genes in your own children so also if you have the opportunity to choose a wife

00:12:36.260 or you know you have you know it's hard to to the dating market but for those you if you have a

00:12:44.080 choice always go for a woman who who has been healthy who has abstained from various degenerate

00:12:53.020 behaviors of smoking and drinking and gods forbid drugs and stuff like that so choose

00:12:57.440 the healthiest woman. And here's also something to keep in mind that there's a lot of, you know,

00:13:04.600 arguments saying that women, they age and they lose their vitality. Of course they do, but it

00:13:09.540 also depends greatly on how they've lived in life. Same thing if you look at a, you know, 35

00:13:15.420 year old guy. You have some guys that have started to deteriorate ever since they were 25. Some guys

00:13:21.680 like myself 37 000 years old but i'm still a force of nature it all depends on how well you're taking

00:13:29.440 care of yourself so anyway i understand that the main like motivating factor for a 20 year old guy

00:13:36.320 to go into the gym and to be healthy and to abstain from various things it's not gonna be to

00:13:40.520 bring necessarily epigenetic advantages to his children but know that as a bonus i'm giving you

00:13:47.100 this bonus now that next time you're in the gym or when you eat well, you will do your future

00:13:52.540 children a great service. And even if you end up not having children, it's still a good

00:13:57.380 investment for you to... Yeah, it's good. I have talked about fitness for so many years.

00:14:09.980 Not as of late though, but I began my YouTube journey by talking about fitness.

00:14:15.180 So, anyway, I'm having a sip of a magic potion.

00:14:26.720 Electrolytes, from your name, of course.

00:14:31.000 Three, pregnancy.

00:14:33.100 Emotional and practical.

00:14:34.900 So now we're going from being in a good shape yourself, and this is also leading up to the pregnancy.

00:14:41.160 You can always view it like half and half.

00:14:42.780 the child is half you half your wife and your your gunpowder it needs to be in good health

00:14:51.440 so think of it in that sense as well that um you know you say if you plan a conception

00:14:58.780 in a few months then it's super important for you to optimize everything with your health

00:15:05.220 so eat as good as possible of course abstain from all alcohol i mean you shouldn't drink alcohol

00:15:11.220 anyway if you drink alcohol i don't know what to tell you anymore i you're breaking my heart if you

00:15:18.120 drink alcohol so don't drink alcohol anyway so optimize your diet up until conception because

00:15:24.780 the health of your gunpowder will also determine the health of the child just as the health of

00:15:31.800 your wife's biology will also determine the health of the child so be as healthy as possible

00:15:39.180 the years leading up to conception, and especially the months leading up to conception.

00:15:46.300 Anyway, pregnancy, emotional and practical.

00:15:51.560 So this is quite obvious. I had this point anyway, just to be ultra clear,

00:15:57.900 that practically speaking, you will have to do more, take on more of the workload of your wife

00:16:05.820 the longer she progresses in in the pregnancy so but yeah just it comes quite naturally and

00:16:13.580 optimally if you're a woman and you're watching this do talk do talk do communicate in an effective

00:16:19.340 manner i know this can be hard for many women that they they don't talk and they expect a man

00:16:25.120 to understand things um so do communicate uh because your man will probably be very happy to

00:16:33.240 help in in whatever capacity especially you know if you're a big bell and you're trying to do things

00:16:37.560 so just ask and that also can be um for all men who are watching this view it as a as a sacred

00:16:46.060 mission of sorts that you're extra helpful the the longer gone in um in pregnancy you are um

00:16:54.980 then also to to note hormones you know women they are quite you know cyclical beings and they're

00:17:01.820 quite affected by emotions and the hormonal level during and after pregnancy just you know goes up

00:17:08.560 and down so be be a bit extra patient keep in mind that it is hard for her all of these changes

00:17:15.480 she's literally growing a child within her so it's gonna be a roller coaster of um of emotions

00:17:22.620 um so that is something to keep in mind um as well so be a bit more patient uh if she's

00:17:30.760 emotional and sensitive completely normal just be there for her and uh and also on the practical

00:17:38.260 side just physiologically she's not going to be as able to do things because yeah she has a big

00:17:43.360 belly so um quite obvious but i just wanted to have that said uh for the delivery and that is

00:17:51.680 yeah if you if you watched the latest stream uh i will recap what i said there so if it's your

00:17:58.880 first child it will probably be a bit nervous for you it was certainly nervous for me first time i

00:18:07.120 still remember i was you know really hyped up and pumped up and i i was not not relaxed in the list

00:18:16.740 so what i can say is that do be at the ready but try to become because your wife it's her time to

00:18:25.060 you know do the thing it's her her time to shine so to speak so just be there for her be a calm

00:18:30.900 presence so the less nervous you are the better it is for her because she wants you to be to not

00:18:37.320 be stressed that's the last thing she wants to you to be so be as calm as possible how to do this

00:18:42.960 yes be have a plan know in your mind what you want to do so same thing as a gym session or a fight or

00:18:50.460 a game of warhammer or whatever it might be have a plan what you're doing first so to use a quite

00:18:55.940 concrete example if you have a car drive to the hospital the day before scout out the way okay

00:19:03.640 you know the way by heart um where are the parking spots so this might sound quite like quite mundane

00:19:12.340 things like scouting a parking lot ahead when we're talking about such a thing as fatherhood but

00:19:16.960 when you have when you have these things in mind already when you have formulated

00:19:20.800 a plan in your mind then your stress levels they will reduce greatly same thing for anything in

00:19:27.680 life if you want to reduce stress have a game plan before you actually do something so construct

00:19:32.760 this scenario in your mind it's not gonna be 100 the same as in your mind but still

00:19:38.200 you know i know the way there i know the parking i know where to go from the parking to

00:19:45.780 the um the building itself and of course for us now this was our third time there so i knew it

00:19:53.400 knew it by heart uh which also made me a lot more um relaxed and i can only suppose julia

00:20:00.820 more relaxed also since she could sense my presence and also since it was a was her third

00:20:06.300 time um easier for her so delivery uh just something because it might be a bit daunting

00:20:14.620 might be something to you know i know some guys they are a bit nervous especially if it's their

00:20:21.160 first child and i again i was nervous as well but don't be no reason to be nervous just

00:20:26.580 plan the day be at the ready as i said in the latest stream i had my usual amount of caffeine

00:20:32.900 so one coffee in the morning then two espressos later in the day and then i started to sip on a

00:20:38.280 big half a liter red bull not something i recommend usually but i i made an exception

00:20:43.660 because Julia said, okay, it's probably go time today.

00:20:46.280 And I said, yeah, it's now I need to be at my ready.

00:20:52.060 So, you know, calm, collected, felt calm, collected,

00:20:56.520 but still needing some extra energy to just stay there,

00:20:59.740 to be alert should something happen.

00:21:03.560 Now everything went swimmingly fine and everything like that.

00:21:06.500 So it was no need, but it still felt good to be, you know,

00:21:10.420 completely ready for anything.

00:21:13.660 all right we're moving on to five postpartum

00:21:23.580 now there is um maybe you've heard postpartum depression so a woman can get depressed after

00:21:33.000 having children or having you know giving birth and there are a few different reasons here one

00:21:40.280 can be because of the body image uh imagine yourself if you're a fit guy and then you

00:21:46.320 something happens so that your body looks completely different um it's gonna be you

00:21:53.080 know it's gonna take its toll on your mind looking yourself in in the mirror you know you have a lot

00:21:58.240 of sagging skin you have you know stretch marks you you will feel well i mean i can't speak for

00:22:05.160 a woman i'm just speculating now i'm just like thinking logically how it would feel um to to go

00:22:12.340 from one body to another body and also women they tend to stress a lot also they tend to

00:22:20.920 blow problems out of proportion some men do this as well so then it's even more important for you

00:22:27.800 as a man to sort of ground her to be a stable rock to say you know you're still beautiful and

00:22:33.280 everything like that because in her mind it's gonna be a massive difference but in actuality

00:22:38.460 it might be a minor difference but do keep that in mind so she's gonna be extra sensitive

00:22:43.540 first because all of the hormones like going up and down like crazy like a roller coaster of

00:22:49.160 hormones going up and down body image change which is normal i can understand that as well

00:22:57.040 and then also something actually an interesting observation back in the day when I was more into

00:23:05.600 the fitness the fitness realm there were guys they got depressed after bodybuilding competitions

00:23:15.280 so they had prepared for a bodybuilding competition and then when it was done they

00:23:20.360 sort of got semi-depressed now the reason for this is if you if you don't have a goal you will be

00:23:27.180 depressed it's just how humans are if you don't have a goal in your life then that's a recipe for

00:23:32.420 disaster it's a recipe for um for unhappiness so what happens then for a woman is that she's had

00:23:39.760 her goal for so long she goes through pregnancy taking care of everything and then it ends the

00:23:45.780 pregnancy the quest is done and then she might feel depressed but it doesn't need to happen but

00:23:52.180 it just can be good to be aware of it that such a thing can indeed occur but maybe the most

00:24:00.220 like important thing to keep in mind is the hormonal roller coaster so just as during

00:24:07.940 pregnancy just be a bit be a bit more patient and be a bit more understanding and calm and

00:24:14.160 everything like that moving on to point number six and this is super important don't stop your

00:24:24.800 own quest don't become a dad now when i say a dad you should become a father but you should not

00:24:32.840 become a dad so a dad in this sense i mean you you you get a dad bod for example dad it sounds

00:24:43.480 it's not a nice sounding word it sounds like it sounds too soft it doesn't sound cool father

00:24:49.560 it sounds cool dad it doesn't sound cool at all you have a dad bod you're a dad now and it's not

00:24:56.120 good for you to identify as a dad because it doesn't it doesn't give you a good feeling it

00:25:02.660 doesn't give you gravitas to yourself it doesn't add to your self-perception but if you view

00:25:07.320 yourself as a father as a patriarch that's something that can actually increase your

00:25:11.960 self-esteem so don't stop on your own quest and this is such a tragedy you can see a guy getting

00:25:19.000 married and he has children and he completely changes you know if he has children if he has

00:25:25.100 friends without children he stops seeing them because he wants to be he wants to live the

00:25:31.340 family life that's all he is now he's only a family man he's only a family guy he's only a dad

00:25:36.480 And that's what he is now. His biggest goal in life is just to care for children.

00:25:44.320 Of course, you should do that. You should be involved and everything like that.

00:25:47.520 But if you lose your own goal, then it's not going to be good for anyone.

00:25:53.360 It's not going to be good for your wife.

00:25:55.160 I'm sure she doesn't want a homebody with a dad bod.

00:25:59.140 Someone who loses his passion. Someone who loses his thumos.

00:26:02.880 um same thing for the children i'm sure they don't want someone who's low thumos who doesn't

00:26:10.420 have any any goals any direction any any energy any passion because that's also something to keep

00:26:16.240 in mind i talked about at some stage was it a video or a stream or a podcast i talked about

00:26:23.520 the list recently um when a man reaches like 35 or so it comes to a point where either he starts

00:26:32.500 to deteriorate can happen earlier or he continues along a path of excellence and he keeps pushing

00:26:39.520 and that's when you see longevity someone who is high thumas high capacity does things being a man

00:26:48.600 of action high up in in ages so i wrote for my birthday a little update like a birthday update

00:26:56.580 that Leonidas was, okay, let's see if I, hopefully I get this right now, but I think it was 60

00:27:04.620 at the Battle of Thermopylae when they stopped the Persians or bought time for the other Greeks

00:27:11.000 to assemble an army. So you can see in the great film 300, Leonidas, 60 years of age there.

00:27:19.860 Why could he be an elite soldier at such an advanced age? Yes, because he still had that

00:27:26.220 higher orientation, he did not become a dad in the sense that he did not become a slobba, a dad

00:27:33.340 bod, a homebody. He continued along his path of excellence to pursue glory for Sparta. That is why

00:27:40.860 he could perform at a high age. Chandevalet, the Grand Master of the Hospitaller Order,

00:27:50.380 I believe also that he was 70 during the Great Siege of Malta

00:27:55.920 when they defended Malta against the Ottomans.

00:27:59.840 You know, massive feat of heroism by him and the hospital order.

00:28:08.900 How could he be a force of nature at 70 years of age?

00:28:12.040 There are some guys, there are some men who are completely run down at the age of 70.

00:28:17.240 Yes, because he had a divine mission in front of him.

00:28:19.840 because he was still concerned with higher orientation that brought him energy now of course

00:28:26.080 if your only goal is to be a good father that is still the same because if you have a good

00:28:31.540 orientation higher goal which we all do by the way because we need to sort of save the west we

00:28:36.460 need to save european civilization otherwise it will not be a good place for our children to grow

00:28:41.400 up so we sort of we have our mission presented already in front of us and that's a good thing

00:28:46.360 because then that means we can be high-performing for a long time.

00:28:53.720 So anyway, same thing when it comes to such a thing as the gym.

00:28:57.440 Don't stop going to the gym just because you get married and you have children.

00:29:04.000 It's actually even more important that you go to the gym

00:29:06.800 and that you are fit when you have children.

00:29:09.480 i would never want my children to see me weak or see me um you know a low low capacity i want them

00:29:18.440 to always for as long as i live to look at me and and think this is a force of nature

00:29:23.600 so i don't understand at all uh people are even blaming saying oh i can't go to the gym because

00:29:29.820 i have children i will if you have children even more reason for you to go to the gym um absolutely

00:29:35.040 not not acceptable to um to to slob a max

00:29:40.780 also this is something going into my own motivations of being a father i looked at

00:29:51.160 you know men of action throughout history they're not defined by their fatherhood but

00:29:56.400 they are fathers usually they have a family and they sort of bring the family along on their

00:30:00.800 on their journeys so that's something to keep in mind now moving on to point number seven

00:30:11.080 role models being a role model being a good point of reference so this goes into this the previous

00:30:18.220 point as well that you are you know the especially important if you have daughters that they have

00:30:27.760 one reference point. For boys, they can always find an external role model from an older guy of

00:30:35.840 the tribe to sort of emulate. It's good, of course, if his father is also capable and everything like

00:30:43.900 that and can present himself as a good example. But for a boy, he can always find external role

00:30:49.220 models within the tribe, hopefully. So hopefully someone he can relate to and who has, there's

00:30:55.580 some sort of kinship between them.

00:30:57.880 Now, for our daughter, it's not really the case.

00:31:01.120 She has one point of reference, and that is her father.

00:31:04.680 So the father says not with words, but with his being.

00:31:09.700 He says, this is what a man is.

00:31:11.340 This is your reference point as to which sort of man you should end up marrying.

00:31:17.460 This is not something you can fake.

00:31:19.340 This is not something you can create a theory about.

00:31:22.940 This is not something you can talk about even.

00:31:25.240 you just have to embody certain things so if you do want your daughter to increase the likelihood

00:31:31.940 of finding a man with certain qualities then you need to embody those qualities so the way you are

00:31:39.600 and this is something you know when when you live with children you there isn't any way to escape

00:31:46.780 this there isn't any way to um sort of go in and out of a role you're always on you're always you

00:31:53.640 always need to be in a certain way you always need to be um yeah your best so to speak so um

00:32:02.840 something to to keep in mind so what you are is also that will influence your your children

00:32:09.180 greatly and this is something you can see as well that children they usually end up becoming like

00:32:14.640 their parents in in some way or another so huge responsibility especially if you have if you have

00:32:20.940 a daughter then it's a huge responsibility

00:32:22.580 then you can never relax

00:32:25.120 or rest or be

00:32:26.840 low thumos

00:32:27.740 also speaking of which, there's an obvious

00:32:31.080 thing so I didn't even put it in my points

00:32:32.840 because it's so obvious like provide and protect

00:32:34.840 naturally of course

00:32:36.260 but keeping that in mind

00:32:39.080 as well, if you have a daughter you are her

00:32:40.840 protector for the rest of

00:32:43.060 your life

00:32:43.580 so you cannot, it goes against

00:32:47.040 your duties if you

00:32:48.360 become weak

00:32:50.940 point number eight goes into the same thing here habits influence children and this is something

00:32:59.480 for anyone who has children and if you're listening to this you will notice that whatever you do it

00:33:05.800 will influence your children so your habits the way you speak for example i've caught myself many

00:33:11.460 times i want to you know say something bad because something happens or whatever and then i sort of

00:33:17.120 catch myself because i was like okay i'm not supposed to say that but because if i do you

00:33:21.600 can bet that they will pick up on it and they will imitate so the the language use it well

00:33:27.260 try to use a good language because that is the language they will pick up on

00:33:32.060 so you know good clear communication everything like that now no one is perfect i'm not saying

00:33:38.960 that you should be perfect but try to at least model your habits to become a bit better because

00:33:45.920 everything you do, it will impact your children. So you can, I'm sure there's a study you can find,

00:33:52.640 maybe you can Google it, maybe you can do it later, I don't know. But if you look at something

00:34:00.980 like parents who have tattoos, their children will probably also have tattoos. Parents who

00:34:08.880 smoke cigarettes their children will probably also smoke cigarettes parents who x their

00:34:16.560 children will probably also do x or bx or whatever so you can put in whichever habit

00:34:22.680 whichever behavior and then i would at least say there is a big you know correlation or causality

00:34:30.400 between the the behavior of the parents and the behavior of the children so whatever you do is

00:34:36.520 also the habits you're gifting to your children. So same thing as we were talking about

00:34:42.680 epigenetics, that you can gift your children good health via your epigenetics. You can also gift

00:34:51.440 them good habits. Good habits. We eat eggs for breakfast. We drink our milk in the evening.

00:34:59.860 we do take care of our hygiene we you know wash our hands when we get home

00:35:06.300 through the door we're polite and courteous all of these things these

00:35:10.660 habits that you present to them they will imitate and they will carry with

00:35:17.620 with them for the rest of their lives so whatever you do this is something you

00:35:22.340 can only really appreciate when you become a parent yourself that whatever

00:35:26.260 you do it will have an impact on your children so uh point number nine creativity and education

00:35:34.420 so this is something when it comes to the style of parenting also you want to you know give them

00:35:43.700 direction but not too you shouldn't be too rigid because then you might end up with someone who

00:35:49.700 hates the things you want to present uh to them so i'm not saying that you should be no direction

00:35:55.340 at all. I'm saying that you should give direction but also some room for creativity. Otherwise you

00:36:01.320 might end up like this. Many of these Americans, they grew up in Christian households and the

00:36:06.920 Christianity is so overbearing that they start hating Christianity. So this is actually quite

00:36:11.760 interesting when I read, you know, the accounts of American pagans and they're really, really

00:36:16.660 anti-Christian. Now I'm not a Christian. I haven't grown up Christian. But since I haven't grown up

00:36:22.260 as a Christian I don't have the same aversion to it either because I wasn't bombarded and

00:36:27.040 tormented by an overzealous Christianity. So anyway that can be something as well that

00:36:33.220 let your children come to whichever conclusions they want under good direction. So of course

00:36:40.980 gently lead the way but you don't want to stifle their creativity by being too on them as well.

00:36:47.300 Then of course also when they go to school and if the school says something really crazy then

00:36:52.140 you can you know present an alternative uh view and then but optimally speaking they should come

00:36:58.160 to the conclusions themselves which they most likely will do will do this is a discussion i've

00:37:04.800 had like oh how do we ensure that our children do not end up woke if they go to public schools but

00:37:11.280 here's also like most children they usually end up like their parents anyway i know there are

00:37:17.140 exceptions, especially when they don't respect their father, then they sort of, they don't trust

00:37:22.160 his judgment in a lot of things, which can be understandable if it's a slobba who doesn't

00:37:28.900 inspire trust. I actually have two, I don't believe I've told these stories before, so I might as well

00:37:34.240 do it now. I had two conversations. First, when I was 16, and I talked to a 16 year old girl in my

00:37:43.440 class and we were just talking random conversation and she said that she had been to train handball

00:37:49.340 at a certain place so nearby the school so it was like two three train stations away from her home

00:37:54.900 but it was at night or like maybe seven eight in the evening but she said she felt a bit unsafe

00:38:00.880 so she called her father to ask like okay can you can you come and pick me up i feel a bit unsafe

00:38:05.760 going to the train and he said something like you know no you have to take the train i'm sorry i

00:38:11.240 can't come and get you and at the moment i was like okay that's a bit strange but now sometimes

00:38:17.780 you know when i the conversation stuck with me in my mind for some reason and now since becoming a

00:38:25.480 father myself i have revisited that conversation and now i get you know my blood almost boils

00:38:31.100 because it's such a such a scumbag of a father who can't collect his who can't get his daughter

00:38:36.520 at 10 minutes away with the car

00:38:39.240 when she feels unsafe at night.

00:38:43.600 Not even being out doing something bad,

00:38:45.900 just a training, a handball training,

00:38:48.020 and he couldn't get her.

00:38:49.000 So, you know, if you have that sort of father,

00:38:51.640 of course you're not going to respect him.

00:38:53.140 If it's not there for you,

00:38:55.560 no one will respect such a father,

00:38:58.460 especially a little girl.

00:38:59.900 So therefore, then it might be natural

00:39:01.960 that she goes away or he goes away

00:39:03.940 from the worldview of the father.

00:39:06.520 second conversation i must have been like 20 22 or something i talked to a girl also a similar age

00:39:14.440 and she said something along the lines of um she had asked she had some issues with finding a place

00:39:20.900 to stay and she asked her father like okay can i come and stay with you and he had said no

00:39:25.780 and at the time when we had this conversation so yeah like 17 years ago for some reason i still

00:39:33.140 remember the conversation and when i became a father myself i revisited it i revisited the

00:39:39.240 conversation in my mind and i thought to myself what an absolute scumbag of a father a girl is

00:39:44.180 like 20 years of age and she can't stay at home for a while until she finds a new place

00:39:47.800 complete madness complete madness and then you know many guys they wonder why are all these girls

00:39:54.180 so messed up many girls are messed up because their fathers are messed up because they haven't

00:39:58.760 been protective because they haven't been loving because they haven't set a good example they

00:40:03.640 haven't been a good reference point they haven't connected to the divine energy like a good father

00:40:09.960 should absolute madness i get angry just thinking about it um so so yeah um what's just something i

00:40:18.480 i thought to mention at least so also like if you want your children if you want anyone to listen to

00:40:23.540 you you have to build up gravitas this is true for if we're talking about such a thing as like

00:40:29.340 youtube or live streaming or content creation or holding speeches or being a leader or whatever it

00:40:35.380 might be you need to have gravitas for people to listen to you and same thing for father then back

00:40:41.120 in the day the father used to be a figure of respect of authority and then of course via

00:40:48.080 hollywood propaganda the father figure has been someone of ridicule a slobba who doesn't take care

00:40:53.760 of himself who doesn't set a good example who is just uh not not a moral example at all and the

00:40:59.440 sort of role of a moral arbiter it falls to the woman she's the moral person in the household

00:41:04.960 and the father is just um a doofus a joke so don't don't become a dad that's my best advice then

00:41:13.040 so become a father don't become a dad so we have reached point number 10 this is um books to read

00:41:22.560 to your children now this is the peak peak coziness um in life that is actually to read

00:41:30.320 to your children to have your child in your lap with a book in front of you and read

00:41:35.600 that is the peak coziness so i will show some books now

00:41:43.040 All right, let's see here.

00:41:48.820 So, just some random books I took.

00:41:50.680 We have like, I think, ten of these.

00:41:53.520 So, OG stories.

00:41:55.240 You can never go wrong with this.

00:41:57.120 So, Rapunzel.

00:42:00.300 Groodprinsen.

00:42:01.220 The Frog Prince.

00:42:03.340 And we have The Little Mermaid.

00:42:05.400 So, we have like ten of these.

00:42:07.080 Quite short books.

00:42:09.200 So, I think Julia found this online a few years ago.

00:42:13.040 Nice illustrated as well here.

00:42:15.880 So classic tales by, you know, the OGs.

00:42:19.200 So H.C. Andersen from Denmark, Brothers Grimm from Germany.

00:42:26.320 So classic tales.

00:42:28.260 So you look for the classic children's authors and you will not go wrong.

00:42:32.180 I have more here.

00:42:34.700 So this is one I've read for a good few years now.

00:42:37.960 So you can hear Osborn illustrated stories for bedtime.

00:42:42.320 really nice as well so has a few good few pictures a bit of text makes it

00:42:48.920 quite immersive so this we've read many many times very good very good stuff so

00:42:53.880 some classic tales here as well then we have some he's taking books at random

00:43:00.780 air no in no particular order here's a book

00:43:04.360 so the animals in Yggdrasil so the world tree got from a friend

00:43:11.900 a while back so this is maybe for when the children are a bit younger so not a lot of text

00:43:16.540 but some nice paintings just you know introducing the mythological creatures in living in the world

00:43:23.240 tree in germanic mythology or norse mythology so here we have the fenris wolf so some good stuff

00:43:31.420 right there then something else we've read a lot from also osborne illustrated stories from the

00:43:40.560 Greek myths. Super nice as well. So I shared a picture of this when the discourse was about the

00:43:49.960 new Odyssey film, which I don't want to watch. So I said I read this, the Odyssey, instead. So you

00:43:57.960 have some other classical Greek myths here as well. So Bellerophon and Pegasus, for example. So

00:44:04.960 read quite a lot of this as well we have one with norse myths also and not as many

00:44:11.120 many illustrations but we have read that as of late too um

00:44:15.820 we have here retold and illustrated by val biro so that's a name to keep in mind so val biro right

00:44:26.840 there so we have two more of these books also classical tales so arabian nights and then

00:44:32.220 mother goose fairy tales so if you look for this

00:44:36.020 Val Biro great stuff great stuff indeed so quite nice

00:44:39.480 you know classical tales

00:44:41.000 and yeah some nice illustrations as well

00:44:46.540 so read plenty of all four of these books

00:44:49.740 maybe there are actually more I'll have a look

00:44:52.740 if we can procure some more classical tales from the author

00:44:56.360 uh then we have also like this is something i took down from the shelf as well because i thought to

00:45:04.800 show the magnificent book of dinosaurs so this can also be a good way to just introduce them to some

00:45:09.660 some some interesting things such as dinosaurs i like dinosaurs myself when i was small so i

00:45:15.100 thought it was a good idea then i saved the best for last this is if you become a father

00:45:23.900 or a mother this is the mandatory reading frog and toad this is the coziest so the peak cosiness

00:45:33.700 is to read frog and toad to your children so this i can absolutely recommend very very wholesome so

00:45:39.800 it's about a frog and a toad and they are friends they do things together so yeah extremely cozy

00:45:45.620 so um i i can definitely recommend if there's one book i want to recommend it's frog and toad

00:45:51.280 So, God bless Arnold Lobel for making the stories.

00:45:55.840 I've actually read this so many times.

00:45:57.900 So, my elder daughter, she refers to me as Frog, and I to her as Toad.

00:46:02.640 So, if you wonder why I alternate calling my elder daughter my beautiful princess and Toad,

00:46:09.560 that is because I've read this so many times.

00:46:11.960 So, yeah, good stuff, good stuff.

00:46:15.680 So, I believe that was all ten points.

00:46:18.680 I hope my

00:46:19.840 yes I do have

00:46:22.980 The Spirit of Yule by Tom Roussel

00:46:25.100 it's somewhere here

00:46:26.260 we read it last

00:46:27.700 Christmas, read some other

00:46:30.420 we actually read

00:46:32.260 this, the Arthurian legends

00:46:34.860 they have in Osborne as well

00:46:36.900 so we read that too

00:46:39.120 but anyway I think that's

00:46:41.180 it, I think those were my

00:46:43.000 points, now of course we can talk

00:46:44.600 for hours

00:46:47.020 about fatherhood and different experiences but i think those were some points that hopefully can be

00:46:52.700 insightful um to um to you um so anyway let us go to hopefully i've gotten plenty of

00:47:11.020 plenty of super chats let's see i'm gonna look at power chat first here

00:47:15.420 okay let's see here yes any thoughts on dealing with the possibility of never becoming a father

00:47:34.940 um okay that's a super good question i just want to respond to something you notice that most of

00:47:42.260 books here except for this and the yggdrasil book they were in english so some heads up to swedish

00:47:50.100 parents do have a look because if you the majority of swedish children's books they are not good not

00:47:57.540 good at all i don't like them in the least a lot of degenerate stuff going in so if you receive as

00:48:06.340 a present from someone you know it might be a well-meaning relative or whatever do check out

00:48:11.220 the book before so it's not um so it's not something strange so you can notice this if

00:48:16.900 you are at like um a children's hospital and they have some books lying around usually some strange

00:48:23.700 some strange stuff going on so essentially it's like the the the number of books you can have

00:48:29.620 in english it's just massive the number of books in swedish it's not so big so you can

00:48:34.900 procure good books in english and then for swedish books yes we could find these ones

00:48:39.060 in swedish so of course it's good but you just have such a wealth of nice books in english so

00:48:46.200 it's just a matter of finding the best stories and i don't mind reading in english either so

00:48:51.020 good to to learn english at an at an early age so some some stories are in swedish some in english

00:48:58.100 yeah okay let's go let's go here from frederick any thoughts on dealing with the possibility of

00:49:06.340 never becoming a father so this is actually something that you know will happen to a lot of

00:49:12.420 guys so you know it might be tough but you your bloodline is still continues because as long as

00:49:24.580 your people your tribe lives on you live on in a certain sense like genetically and biologically

00:49:30.280 speaking it's not like you your your dna needs to go on it can also be a relative's dna then part

00:49:39.020 of you still live on and if we're talking a bit more spiritually speaking like your your spirit

00:49:44.440 it continues on in in the tribe as well so don't view it as the end if an entire tribe dies if an

00:49:52.700 entire people dies yes then then that's bad but for one guy to not become a father don't beat

00:50:01.120 yourself up about it sure you might miss out on a few things but as i said like when it comes to

00:50:07.840 boys it might be the case that a boy doesn't look to his father to be a good role model

00:50:13.860 so he can look to other guys in the tribe so there's where you can come in as as a man and

00:50:19.720 you don't have children same thing here if you model yourself as being a high thumos force of

00:50:25.640 nature for the rest of your life so i have uh i have a supporter bailey maybe he's checking in i

00:50:31.780 don't know maybe he's watching this later on uh really good physique he's an older guy you know

00:50:36.200 with a big gray beard really good physique when he posts physique i think to myself look at the

00:50:43.060 look at the pace he's setting here look at the example he's setting look at the look at him look

00:50:50.740 at his physique this is how i can also look i need to keep a high pace so even if you don't have

00:50:58.420 children you can still influence countless of others so you know be a good example and you don't

00:51:05.120 know who who you will inspire by that example and also when we're coming into the more like

00:51:12.560 Gotham City element, you know, a lot of white guys, they grew up now, they see, they look at

00:51:18.360 older white men and they sense that they aren't particularly high thumos, they aren't so capable,

00:51:24.040 they're a bit dorky, they're a bit slobba. So here you can have, even if you don't have children of

00:51:29.120 your own, just by presenting yourself as a high energy individual, you can bring joy and confidence

00:51:37.420 to them so fatherhood it's also about being an uncle you know you might not become a biological

00:51:44.000 father but you can be an uncle which is also a respectable position to have so sure you don't

00:51:50.200 become a father maybe who knows okay so then become a good uncle become a good role model

00:51:55.400 that others can can look to for um um for yeah again being being a good example we're getting

00:52:06.480 close to an hour now, so my

00:52:08.540 energy, despite preaching

00:52:10.660 about being high energy, my energy

00:52:12.420 is dipping a little. I need

00:52:13.620 a little sip here.

00:52:19.100 So same thing

00:52:20.120 for a woman

00:52:22.260 who doesn't become a mother.

00:52:24.880 You know,

00:52:25.240 you can still try to take care of children.

00:52:29.120 Perhaps you can become a godmother.

00:52:31.360 Perhaps you're an aunt.

00:52:33.000 Try to be as involved with

00:52:34.480 the children as possible because i can tell you this like as a as a father of three now like the

00:52:39.620 more help you can get with your children the better and it can be such a simple thing as just

00:52:44.420 you know playing with a child for an hour or two it does wonders for the family it's extremely

00:52:50.540 appreciated so if you have you know if you have the opportunity especially as a woman if you have

00:52:56.620 that opportunity do please do it it's good for you it's good for the family you are connecting

00:53:02.660 with and now for a for an uncle then if you pursue the path of being a tribal uncle you know a man

00:53:10.320 an older man in in the tribe without children still like you and especially now that we're

00:53:17.820 in the situation where we have you know competing tribes within us within society super important

00:53:25.280 for you to present a good example so that our younger guys our younger white guys they don't

00:53:30.480 need to look at the older white guys and you see um you know guys men going around like this

00:53:36.680 um so anyway that that is what i would say uh about the possibility of never becoming a father

00:53:44.780 that historically speaking as well like not all european men have become fathers you know plenty

00:53:51.300 of guys they've died childless but the story goes on as long as the tribe survives part of you

00:53:58.660 survives as well and you still have you still have a great role so this is also like i say for

00:54:08.340 me as a father of daughters i need to be a high thumos man for the rest of my life but also you

00:54:14.560 can view it the same way you can also view it in a in a tribal sense that you want to be a

00:54:19.760 you want to be high thumos okay so i'm repeating myself a bit but i think i got the the message

00:54:28.020 through there so anyway thank you frederick for the super chat much appreciated and yeah just

00:54:32.940 just keep being keep being high thumos um let us move on let's move on

00:54:44.460 itamar the semi-borean that is 80 israeli shekels i have learned the sign uh i got a nice um

00:54:53.500 nice donation, nice contribution

00:54:55.620 last stream as well, so I had to look what

00:54:57.620 the sign was, so yeah

00:54:59.700 good stuff, make European fathers great

00:55:01.800 again, yes, good message, thank you

00:55:03.760 for the support, and

00:55:05.020 I think this fine gentleman has been

00:55:07.620 with me for a good few years now as well

00:55:09.600 and yeah, absolutely, make fathers

00:55:11.740 great again

00:55:12.280 as I've said, just restate the following

00:55:15.760 point, that fatherhood

00:55:17.940 you influence your children

00:55:19.400 so much, it's crazy

00:55:21.920 when you think about it

00:55:23.500 All right, we have ChudknightofBohemia007, 50 check currency.

00:55:33.260 Paladin of Bretonnia, wish you a great stream, brother.

00:55:36.860 Thank you, my man John.

00:55:38.820 John always checks in.

00:55:41.740 I said in the latest stream, so he gifted me some Bretonnian footnights for Warhammer for my birthday.

00:55:50.420 and I said I would paint up

00:55:52.120 the champion in the unit

00:55:53.940 so I will paint him

00:55:55.680 paint the model in his honor

00:55:57.640 now since I've decided to make a stream

00:56:00.020 just a week after, a week later

00:56:02.040 I haven't had the time but for next stream

00:56:04.420 my dear Jan, then I will

00:56:06.040 showcase, I will reveal

00:56:07.420 my paint job of the model

00:56:09.440 so anyway, thank you for checking in

00:56:11.820 and thank you for the super chat

00:56:13.660 we have Mikaina

00:56:15.500 20 British pounds

00:56:18.180 thanks a lot Mikaina

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00:57:40.760 good to have here has becoming a father changed your view on other men i can't say that it has

00:57:48.840 to be honest uh not really so the only thing it really changed well okay it's it's changed a lot

00:57:56.760 of a lot of perspectives but something i did uh sort of okay so let's say like maybe 10 years ago

00:58:06.280 or eight years ago something like that there was a meme saying like oh we need to all have

00:58:10.920 a lot of children to save europe i also wrote and this is something i regret and i'm ashamed of

00:58:17.000 myself i wrote in the first version of demigod mentality that you know we need to have more

00:58:23.080 children to save europe uh but that is to miss the point the point is not to have children to

00:58:28.600 save europe they say to save europe we need to you know regime change we need political power

00:58:35.560 otherwise we're just bringing children into an anti-white system so that was something that

00:58:40.920 changed when i became a father myself it's like having children my my children they're not a

00:58:47.400 political point uh they uh you know the the political the solution is political not having a

00:58:53.580 a lot of children so that is basically the maybe the main thing i changed my mind on so now i have

00:58:59.920 three children so of course but that is to to do with my own creative satisfaction and

00:59:07.740 the divine will i believe it's god's will the will of the gods the will of freya and frey that i

00:59:15.480 i should have children but it's not a political thing at all so that is maybe the thing that

00:59:23.040 change the most for me um funnily enough um so when someone when some men say oh i have a bunch

00:59:31.460 of children so therefore i've done my part and it's like no hombre you have absolutely not done

00:59:35.760 your part the ones who are working for regime change in whichever capacity they have done their

00:59:40.640 part just having children it doesn't really help to be honest now that said i mean you should have

00:59:45.880 children if you can but it's not a political action at all all right john chad bohemian

00:59:52.720 chad knight of bohemia aka john aka my main man john brother thanks a lot for the stream

01:00:00.400 just wanted to check in and show support i have a question i have a very good friend

01:00:04.360 he would like to have kids but he is too burned up with but he's too burned much up

01:00:11.800 oh god it's uh i think klaus schwab he finally found out that i'm doing a stream and now he's

01:00:18.060 starting to send radioactive 5g energies into my mind so i can't even read properly so i blame

01:00:24.180 bill gates the world health organization klaus schwab they're sending energies into my brain

01:00:30.320 so i can't read but i will try to infer the meaning here uh he would like to have kids but

01:00:35.340 he's too burned up much with women what would you suggest i wouldn't think about it too much

01:00:41.200 if he finds a woman

01:00:44.640 he gets on well with

01:00:46.240 just get to it

01:00:47.240 don't need to hesitate so much

01:00:49.120 if he wants children

01:00:50.400 just make it happen

01:00:51.520 I'm sure if he finds a good woman

01:00:54.560 and he clicks with her

01:00:55.500 just go for it

01:00:56.860 you don't need a date for 5 years

01:00:59.760 you don't need a date for even 3 years

01:01:01.620 just get at it

01:01:02.500 get to know each other

01:01:04.000 are you a good social match

01:01:06.320 do you come from similar backgrounds

01:01:08.580 do you have similar goals

01:01:10.440 are you biologically compatible

01:01:12.980 do you have a good chemistry

01:01:14.700 then just go

01:01:15.380 no need to overanalyze it

01:01:17.600 and burnt up with women

01:01:19.480 it's like

01:01:19.940 he's also missing the point there

01:01:22.920 because you focus too much on women

01:01:24.440 it's not about women

01:01:25.260 it's about your journey

01:01:26.240 becoming a father

01:01:27.080 from her perspective

01:01:29.500 it's about her journey

01:01:31.280 becoming a mother

01:01:32.220 and you do it together

01:01:33.680 you create something beautiful together

01:01:35.660 so all women aren't the same

01:01:38.460 you know you have

01:01:39.200 okay he's burned up with other women

01:01:41.360 but that's not his wife

01:01:42.780 these other relationships they have nothing

01:01:45.460 to do with his

01:01:46.540 his yearn to become a patriarch

01:01:49.660 and to create a family

01:01:50.700 but anyway thank you 200 check

01:01:53.620 currency

01:01:55.300 I need to read up what

01:01:56.980 it's actually called

01:01:58.260 but anyway thank you Jan much appreciated

01:02:01.140 and then we have 10 euros from

01:02:05.380 Christoph

01:02:07.380 if I pronounce that correctly

01:02:11.200 no message though but thanks a lot

01:02:13.200 anyway so yes

01:02:15.280 I believe that is

01:02:16.540 all of the

01:02:18.560 all of the contributions

01:02:21.020 yes

01:02:25.160 I do believe so

01:02:26.080 anyway I hope

01:02:29.160 it was a good stream I hope I redeemed

01:02:31.060 myself in the eyes of my

01:02:32.700 my audience

01:02:34.920 so I had some notes

01:02:36.820 Maybe I should start taking notes for my live stream.

01:02:40.180 Usually I've just relied on the muses hitting me.

01:02:44.000 But yeah, good stuff.

01:02:45.780 Good stuff.

01:02:46.260 Thanks a lot to everyone for checking in.

01:02:48.280 Thanks for all of the generous super chats.

01:02:51.560 It's much appreciated.

01:02:53.100 And yeah, we'll see you in the next video or stream or podcast.

01:02:59.540 Do subscribe to The Greatest Podcast.

01:03:01.900 It means the world to me.

01:03:03.160 Great ways to support as well

01:03:07.720 Okay, we're getting another from Joe Gaskins

01:03:10.260 10 British Pounds, thank you very much

01:03:12.400 I understand you mate

01:03:13.780 I don't like running ads through meta either

01:03:16.240 Just to clarify, I've got a furniture business

01:03:18.760 Not a meta ads business

01:03:19.960 So don't reach out unless

01:03:21.700 You need a bedside

01:03:23.520 Ah, okay, okay, okay, I understand

01:03:25.460 Sorry, I

01:03:26.760 Again, Klaus Schwabia

01:03:29.980 Sent energies to my brains

01:03:32.060 I can't think straight.

01:03:35.820 But yeah, noted.

01:03:37.480 Anyway, thank you for that.

01:03:39.080 Check crowns.

01:03:40.080 Sorry for grammatical errors.

01:03:41.600 I'm tired.

01:03:42.320 Yeah, well, I think Klaus Schwab has attacked you too, Jan.

01:03:45.040 It happens.

01:03:45.900 He knows we're on to great things here.

01:03:49.180 So he sends this 5G energies into our minds.

01:03:53.380 Check crowns.

01:03:54.220 Cool stuff.

01:03:54.820 Same as Swedish crowns then.

01:03:57.040 All right.

01:03:57.520 Awesome.

01:03:58.300 I will leave it at that.

01:04:00.000 and again thank you for

01:04:01.760 listening everyone

01:04:03.620 I wish you all a

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