The Golden One - July 16, 2020


How to Attract a Good Woman in the Modern World


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How to get a good woman in a time of decadence and degeneracy. How to present yourself in the best possible way to a woman so that she will be attracted to you. A good woman is someone who has not been out to create a family and who hasn t been out in the public eye. A woman who has been out and about and has not had a loving relationship will probably not think it's too fun to have a loving husband. This is why a woman who is a good wife will be much more attracted to a good man who has a clear purpose and who can be a good father to her children.

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00:00:00.000 Greetings my esteemed subscribers. Today I want to respond to a very commonly asked question and that is how to obtain a good woman in a time of decadence and degeneracy. 0.94
00:00:14.000 First and foremost a little black pill I need to give you as a disclaimer and that is women are more likely to follow the mainstream culture. 1.00
00:00:24.000 The mainstream culture at the moment isn't very good in the sense that it doesn't promote wholesome values, family values etc.
00:00:35.000 So keep that in mind if someone says oh you know there are plenty of good women out there. 1.00
00:00:41.000 There are good women out there, of course there are, but the majority of women I'd say they are victims, they are products of our time. 1.00
00:00:50.000 So keep that in mind so I'm not going to say oh just listen to my advice and you are guaranteed a good woman.
00:00:57.000 These thoughts I'm about to share just a way for you to maybe optimize your chances of stumbling upon a good woman. 0.96
00:01:08.000 So basically this is a huge topic, it would take longer for me to exhaust the topic, but some general advice.
00:01:20.000 And again as I said before I usually say this whenever I talk about the mujeres, about the women. 0.98
00:01:27.000 I'm not a Casanova, I'm merely a philosopher prince wandering in the forest and meditating upon the primordial truth.
00:01:36.000 So I approach this from a philosophical perspective.
00:01:41.000 Then of course I have a very good wife myself that I love dearly and who is very nice and good loving and kind to me.
00:01:48.000 So yeah I can at least have some personal experience to back it up.
00:01:55.000 But I usually don't like to talk about personal experience because everyone is different, everyone is in a different situation.
00:02:02.000 So then it's better to talk about the more general things, the more philosophical aspects of it.
00:02:10.000 So anyway, what you first and foremost have to do is to present yourself in the best possible way.
00:02:18.000 Imagine if you are a woman and your primary goal is to get a good husband who can be a good father to her children. 1.00
00:02:26.000 So then you ask yourself, here we have a woman, she wants to have this. 0.69
00:02:33.000 How should I present myself to be the most attractive match for her?
00:02:38.000 Is it to present myself as someone who is out and about at nightclubs, you know, taking, posing with lightly clad women?
00:02:47.000 You know, I understand if you are a younger guy, if you are maybe 23 or something, it can be cool to show others,
00:02:54.000 So I'm such a lad, I pose with other women, but if a wife material woman sees that, she will probably be a bit, you know, hesitant.
00:03:04.000 Step back, what sort of guy is this?
00:03:06.000 So instead it's better to portray yourself as someone who, you know, is dedicated to your goals.
00:03:11.000 And that's also something that is, in general speaking, attractive for a woman.
00:03:17.000 A man who is on his quest, he has a clear purpose.
00:03:22.000 No woman would like a guy who is unsure of where he's going. 1.00
00:03:27.000 So that is one thing to keep in mind.
00:03:30.000 And, you know, you are, optimally speaking, if you're being seen as wanted by other women,
00:03:37.000 that's a good sign for even a good woman, because that means you have a high quality in terms of sexual market value. 1.00
00:03:47.000 But if you portray yourself as someone who likes to be out and about, you know, partaking in a degenerate lifestyle,
00:03:55.000 Yeah, a good woman will probably not be all too keen on settling down with you, because you are not reliable in that sense. 0.93
00:04:05.000 On the other hand, if you portray yourself as someone who is very disciplined, you have a clear goal, and you also, you want a woman to share in your journey.
00:04:16.000 Yeah, that is an attractive prospect for her.
00:04:19.000 You know, a stable good man who is focused on, you know, his career, or business, or whatever it might be.
00:04:25.000 He focuses solely on that, and he says to the world via how he portrays himself,
00:04:31.000 You know, I am on this mission, I am on this ship, we're going straight forward.
00:04:36.000 It would be great to have a wife and a family to share in this journey.
00:04:41.000 So contrast that against someone who maybe works at some job, and every weekend he goes out to nightclubs, etc.
00:04:51.000 You know, it's quite easy to understand who will be more attractive for a good woman.
00:04:56.000 And of course a good woman is someone who is out to create a family, and who hasn't been out and about too much.
00:05:04.000 Also speaking of which, if you want a virgin, or at least a woman who has not been out and about so much,
00:05:12.000 She will probably appreciate a guy who hasn't been out and about too much also.
00:05:18.000 Because if she has a more sound attitude towards intimacy, she views sex as something, you know, that is between a loving couple.
00:05:30.000 Yeah, then she will probably not think it's all too fun to have a potential future husband who has been with many different women.
00:05:40.000 This also includes pornography, and I can just say that on a personal note.
00:05:45.000 When I get, you know, credit from women, I get, you know, a compliment, they say thank you for talking about porn. 0.99
00:05:53.000 And this is natural. Of course no woman would like to see her future husband, or her boyfriend, or her husband to watch all of these naked women on a screen. 1.00
00:06:05.000 Same thing there. If you have a good woman who believes sex to be something intimate between a loving couple, 0.72
00:06:15.000 And then she knows you watch porn. Now of course no one will admit to watching porn just like that.
00:06:23.000 But say you are on Instagram and you see me commenting, you know, stop watching porn. 0.72
00:06:29.000 And then you say, oh, isn't, isn't porn good for you? 0.58
00:06:32.000 And then a woman sees, see you commenting that and then she says, you know what, this guy watches porn.
00:06:40.000 So just a little example there. But, you know, think about the kind of woman you want. Try to mirror that. 0.59
00:06:50.000 If you want a woman who has been more virtuous, okay, then you can be virtuous yourself and show with how you present yourself that I live a more wholesome life.
00:07:04.000 Should we say. So if you have, yeah, if you have an Instagram account, you can of course decide how you portray yourself.
00:07:14.000 So maybe not a good idea to, you know, show how much you're out on drinking, etc.
00:07:21.000 It's better to post physique and talk about your goals, what you're doing, etc.
00:07:28.000 So, basic point. Be a good man and you will increase your chances of attracting a good woman.
00:07:37.000 Now of course this might sound very abstract, but if you have, you know, that mentality that you portray yourself as a stable man,
00:07:49.000 that is a very good candidate to be a good father and a good husband.
00:07:55.000 And of course, settling down for a woman is a huge investment. It's a huge investment for a man as well.
00:08:04.000 But the point is that if she wants to take that leap of faith and settle down with someone, she will of course look at as many factors as possible.
00:08:16.000 And if you portray yourself in a stable way, yeah, more likely to be with a good woman.
00:08:25.000 And also in terms of practical measures, you know, portray yourself in a disciplined matter.
00:08:31.000 You know, be well trained, be well groomed, be well dressed, be clean, be friendly, be polite, you know, have confidence, have charisma.
00:08:40.000 And all of these sort of things come into play.
00:08:44.000 So, yeah, you can talk a lot more about looks maxing and, you know, the biological attraction.
00:08:52.000 But I'm just throwing it in there for good measure that, you know, your looks and how you present yourself,
00:08:59.000 of course it plays into attracting a good mate.
00:09:04.000 You know, you have certain things that are, you know, applies for both attracting, you know, loose relationships and solid relationships.
00:09:14.000 Then also we can talk a bit about what you can look out for in a woman. 0.99
00:09:19.000 So, you know, you have now said to yourself, okay, I will try to present myself in the best possible way.
00:09:26.000 I'll start working on my social game, on my goals in life, on my physique and everything like that.
00:09:32.000 But then you also ask, okay, what kind of woman do I want?
00:09:37.000 And it's the same thing, you know, look for a woman who mirrors your ideals.
00:09:44.000 So, things to look out for, you know, if she has an Instagram, for example, or in social media, you can see.
00:09:50.000 Is she posting pictures of her drinking alcohol at some nightclub?
00:09:56.000 Yeah, might not be the best match for you if you are serious about having a family.
00:10:02.000 And this is what this video is about.
00:10:05.000 Maybe I should have said it in the beginning that we're out for, you know, women to have a family with.
00:10:11.000 We're not out for any short-term relationships or anything like that.
00:10:16.000 You know, if you want to have short-term relationships, etc., this is not the channel for you.
00:10:21.000 Plenty of other channels who will talk about game and pickup and that sort of stuff.
00:10:27.000 It's not what I'm about at all.
00:10:29.000 But anyway, if you look at her and you see she's about that sort of life, yeah, maybe she's not a good match to settle down with. 0.72
00:10:39.000 Same thing, you can look at her qualities.
00:10:44.000 So, she can say that, oh, I'm a traditional woman and I am out for this and that.
00:10:50.000 And then you say, okay, do you like to cook and bake?
00:10:53.000 And she says, nah, I can't really do that because of whatever reason.
00:10:57.000 Yeah, she might not be the best option either.
00:11:01.000 Because, you know, a wife should be able to nourish your children. 1.00
00:11:05.000 And if she can't cook, she can't make the best possible nutrition for your sons and daughters. 1.00
00:11:13.000 Which is, of course, not a good thing at all.
00:11:17.000 Then, of course, if you're a man, you should know how to cook as well.
00:11:20.000 But it's even more important for a good woman how to cook. 1.00
00:11:26.000 Can she bake? That's good also. 0.99
00:11:28.000 But the main thing is that, can she make good nutritious meals if she can't even cook? 1.00
00:11:33.000 Yeah, that's a warning bell in my view, at least.
00:11:37.000 So, that's something to look out for.
00:11:40.000 Then, of course, also, how is her health?
00:11:43.000 Has she taken care of herself?
00:11:46.000 Has she smoked half of her life?
00:11:49.000 If she has, okay, why has she smoked?
00:11:52.000 Has she drunken a lot of alcohol?
00:11:54.000 Yeah, not optimal either.
00:11:55.000 You know, a woman's body is also a temple. 0.95
00:11:59.000 If she wants to give birth to many healthy children, she can't have misused her body. 1.00
00:12:06.000 So, that's something you can, you know, look at as well.
00:12:12.000 Is she fit? Healthy? Again, comes into play.
00:12:16.000 You can't have someone who has mistreated herself.
00:12:20.000 Because it's not good.
00:12:22.000 You know, self-explanatory. I don't need to talk more about that.
00:12:26.000 Then, another thing is to, you know, ask about her relationship with her family.
00:12:32.000 Especially with her father.
00:12:34.000 You know, again, I feel a bit, I feel a bit bad for saying it.
00:12:40.000 Because there are so many women who perhaps, you know, they've grown up without a father.
00:12:45.000 And they're good anyway.
00:12:46.000 But, one thing you can at least keep a look out for is the relationship with her father.
00:12:53.000 Is it good? Then it's good.
00:12:55.000 If it's not good, then it might be a good idea to, you know, talk about it.
00:13:01.000 What might have happened there.
00:13:03.000 And this is something for future reference.
00:13:06.000 That I am, you know, the absence of fathers in children.
00:13:10.000 Huge problem.
00:13:11.000 But that's for another video.
00:13:13.000 Just throwing it out there.
00:13:14.000 So you can keep it in mind.
00:13:16.000 Then, of course, what sort of friendship group does she have?
00:13:22.000 Does she have friends who are also out for the same sort of goal?
00:13:29.000 You know, getting a good husband and creating a family.
00:13:33.000 Or are her friends more inclined to be out doing normie stuff.
00:13:40.000 Being out at nightclubs, etc.
00:13:43.000 Because women, of course, they follow, again, they follow the social setting to a higher extent. 0.99
00:13:47.000 So her friends are important.
00:13:49.000 Her friends and family are important.
00:13:51.000 You are not only marrying a woman.
00:13:54.000 You're also marrying into her family.
00:13:56.000 You're also marrying into a lot of different things.
00:13:59.000 So understanding that makes it easier to make a rational decision when it comes to these things.
00:14:12.000 Then also, of course, you should always have your good friends at hand.
00:14:16.000 And you should listen to their advice.
00:14:18.000 And they can say to you if this is a good match or not.
00:14:22.000 Because it's quite often, quite common for guys to...
00:14:26.000 You know, some guys, they're weak mentally. 0.85
00:14:29.000 So they are being very easily led by women. 0.99
00:14:33.000 So they fall in love or they have some sort of, you know, crush on a woman.
00:14:39.000 And then they act all, not in the most rational way, so to speak.
00:14:46.000 Then it's good if you have good friends who can point you, who can steer you in the right direction.
00:14:51.000 Say like, okay, no, this is not a woman you can have a long-term relationship with. 0.94
00:14:57.000 Just because you feel a physical attraction to her doesn't mean it's good in the long term.
00:15:02.000 So then it's also good to listen to your mates.
00:15:06.000 And let them have a say in whichever woman you wish to proceed with. 0.96
00:15:12.000 So yeah, a lot of things to keep in mind.
00:15:16.000 A lot of things to meditate upon when it comes to this complicated and oh-so-important question.
00:15:27.000 But basically, to conclude.
00:15:29.000 Imagine you're looking at yourself in a mirror.
00:15:32.000 What do you see?
00:15:34.000 Do you see a guy who is being perceived by potentially good women as a stable family father?
00:15:43.000 Who can protect his family?
00:15:45.000 Who can provide for his family?
00:15:47.000 And who is on his way somewhere?
00:15:50.000 Who is not just lingering about?
00:15:53.000 Who's not just unsure of himself and what he wants to do in life?
00:15:59.000 And yeah, if you want a virtuous woman, it might be a good idea to be a virtuous man. 0.96
00:16:06.000 And portray that as often as possible.
00:16:09.000 That this is what I'm about.
00:16:11.000 I'm about, you know, this set of values.
00:16:15.000 I've said this before.
00:16:16.000 Look at this ring.
00:16:17.000 I have named it Unbreakable Loyalty for a reason.
00:16:21.000 And the culture I want to present to especially younger guys is one of honor.
00:16:30.000 It's one of being a stable family father.
00:16:35.000 It's not about saying, oh, it's cool to pick up women and having one night stands and game and everything like that.
00:16:43.000 It's not what I'm about at all.
00:16:45.000 And ultimately, it's not particularly cool.
00:16:47.000 Because ultimately, you don't get anything from it.
00:16:50.000 You get a quick validation from a woman. 0.93
00:16:54.000 Why do you need a validation from a woman is my question. 1.00
00:16:57.000 If you're about that lifestyle.
00:16:59.000 Maybe you have some sort of insecurities that you need to work on.
00:17:03.000 But you know, your insecurities, they can't be cured because a woman finds you sexually attractive. 1.00
00:17:08.000 You can only heal yourself from within.
00:17:11.000 So that's something to keep in mind as well.
00:17:15.000 Anyway, point being, if you want a virtuous woman, be a virtuous man. 0.65
00:17:22.000 And present yourself as such.
00:17:24.000 Then also, of course, if you are on the lookout for a woman, view her in the same sort of light as you view yourself.
00:17:35.000 Will she be a stable mother?
00:17:38.000 Can you create a future?
00:17:40.000 Can you create a nuclear family with this individual?
00:17:45.000 Is she a chaotic individual who likes to be out and about? 0.84
00:17:51.000 Or is she someone who, you know, she has a clear goal.
00:17:54.000 She wants a family. 0.99
00:17:55.000 She has that female nourishing side of her. 1.00
00:18:00.000 Is she healthy?
00:18:02.000 Is she happy?
00:18:03.000 Does she have any problems?
00:18:05.000 You know, all of these sort of things, they matter in the final calculation.
00:18:11.000 If it's a good match.
00:18:12.000 Is it good for your children to settle down with this woman? 0.96
00:18:17.000 If she has a lot of problems, then they might come up later on in life.
00:18:21.000 Which will be to the detriment of your children.
00:18:24.000 If she's stable.
00:18:25.000 If she, you know, she has the same vision as you.
00:18:28.000 You're on the same page, so to speak.
00:18:32.000 When it comes to your future, yeah, it's a good thing.
00:18:36.000 So I have rambled enough, but I hope it was somewhat enlightening at least.
00:18:43.000 And to all guys out there, have a low time preference.
00:18:49.000 Don't despair that you don't have someone right now.
00:18:53.000 But just, you know, work at yourself so that in a few years you might have someone to, you know, settle down with.
00:19:01.000 And, yeah, best of luck.
00:19:05.000 Although luck has little to do with it.
00:19:07.000 So, focus on yourself.
00:19:09.000 First and foremost, create yourself into a good match.
00:19:13.000 Create yourself into an attractive man who can supply, protect for his family in a good way.
00:19:22.000 And you might stumble upon a woman and then you are ready.
00:19:26.000 And you can say to her, you know what, I'm a good match.
00:19:29.000 So, anyway.
00:19:31.000 Thank you for watching.
00:19:32.000 XXO.
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