00:00:00.000Greetings my esteemed subscribers. Today I thought to share some of my great wisdom.
00:00:07.000I thought to chime in to the discussion regarding incels.
00:00:13.000Now, I'm sure you've seen and heard many guys claiming to be experts on how to be popular among women or how to gain women or whatever it might be.
00:00:29.000I'm not one of those guys. I will actually tell you to stop thinking about women.
00:00:35.000So I'm not gonna talk about how you can be oh so popular with the ladies. I'm gonna talk to you about...
00:00:42.000I'm going to recommend you. I'm going to recommend that you stop thinking so much about women.
00:00:49.000Now, as I said, I'm no Casanova. I don't know the minds of all women.
00:00:53.000But I can only suppose that it is supremely unattractive with a man or a young man or a guy who goes around worrying about what women will think of him.
00:01:07.000Now, before I begin to elaborate on my thoughts, I will say though that you should think about...
00:01:17.000You should care about what others think of you when it comes to how you present yourself.
00:01:23.000So be as... Do look as good as possible. Be as well trained as possible. Be well dressed. Be well groomed. Take care of your hygiene.
00:01:32.000And above all else, make sure to be socially pleasant. Socially skilled. So you have those things in place.
00:01:42.000But beyond that, if you go around trying to appease women, having that as your goal, to be approved by women, that is a...
00:01:57.000It's a faulty hierarchy. In a more reasonable and traditional society, you look to the other men of your tribe for approval.
00:02:08.000Primarily the older men of the tribe. Those are the ones you want to impress and who you seek approval from.
00:02:18.000Now, if you seek approval from some loose women, because the women who use the term incel, they aren't...
00:02:28.000How shall we put this diplomatically? They aren't perhaps the best of women. They aren't perhaps the women who would make for good wives and mothers.
00:02:40.000So, you know, if you get upset by some modern woman calling you an incel, yeah, it's not too much to worry about.
00:02:52.000So if you go around viewing yourself in that way, that you base your identity upon the fact that you can't gain sexual access to loose women,
00:03:05.000I mean, that's not a good way to view yourself or to view the world.
00:03:10.000And I can only suppose that women will pick up on it as well, that they see, okay, this guy, he views me as an authority.
00:03:18.000And, of course, that's not particularly attractive in terms of hierarchy either.
00:03:23.000Instead, focus more on my teachings. Focus less on women and more on my teachings.
00:03:30.000Some people might say that I'm arrogant, that I have a big ego. I don't have a big ego. I have a big heart.
00:03:37.000And I care about you. That's why I say it. I want you to have a good and happy life. I don't want you to go around being sad for the fact that you, to use the terminology of the normies, that you aren't getting laid.
00:03:54.000I try to meet the normies halfway by using their lingo. Anyway, point being, I don't want you to spend or waste time identifying as something that isn't really all too impressive.
00:04:09.000Now, I've met many impressive men over all these years because of the various situations and contexts I've been in.
00:04:19.000None of them have cared all too much if they are attractive to women.
00:04:27.000They have been attractive to women precisely because they haven't thought about it, because they are pursuing their own goals.
00:04:34.000Because they are concerned with other ideals than what a modern woman will think is sexy in them.
00:04:47.000All men, if you think this way, please stop. I implore you, please stop thinking in these terms.
00:04:54.000No, in terms of your happiness, your quality of life. Imagine if you are a 23-year-old guy who isn't currently getting any access, sexual access.
00:05:07.000You can either go around lamenting this fact, thinking about it. Oh, life is so bad. I can't get this.
00:05:16.000And then if you constantly focus on the things you don't have, yeah, then you will not enjoy life as you should.
00:05:23.000Instead, if you think this isn't really a concern for me. And yes, I understand it's easy to say that, oh, you shouldn't think about sex or women or whatever.
00:05:32.000But the strong of you, at least, you can do this. And if you can turn that energy into something productive, then you will prosper.
00:05:42.000It's ancient knowledge. Ancient esoteric knowledge right here.
00:05:47.000So anyway, then a few years go by, the 23-year-old guy is suddenly, I don't know, a few years older at least.
00:05:53.000And he finds someone who will become his wife. Then the problem has been solved.
00:06:01.000And he has been happy that he didn't worry all too much about it, but instead that he pursued his own goals.
00:06:07.000Now, related to this is a great lie of our modern era, and that is that you need to have sex.
00:06:16.000Now, if you are in a loving relationship, it's all good, then of course you should have and enjoy it as a natural part of life.
00:06:24.000Sex is good. It's something that God, Mother Nature, has given us to enjoy.
00:06:31.000So this is not some religious life-denying attitude towards sex. This is not what I'm saying.
00:06:40.000What I'm saying is that if you don't have, if you currently don't have access, sexual access, then don't think,
00:06:49.000Oh, this is something I really, really need in my life. This is something I must have.
00:06:53.000Because it's really not. Especially if you know that sooner or later you will have it.
00:06:58.000So it's not something you worry about. The things you need is to be out in nature, to get some sun, to train, to eat well,
00:07:08.000to have good friends, good friends, more important. This is perhaps a topic for another video.
00:07:14.000That instead of focusing so much on women, focus more on how to find friends, how to be a good friend.
00:07:21.000You need camaraderie. This is perhaps even more important in this day and age when many guys feel alone.
00:07:28.000Find friends before you start worrying about women.
00:07:31.000So if you think, oh, I'm missing sexual access in my life, but then you don't have any male friends.
00:07:37.000Yeah, find friends first. Then you start worrying about things that are farther away in terms of importance.
00:07:45.000Sex you can have later. You absolutely don't need to have sexual access at this particular moment.
00:07:52.000Especially not if you're a younger guy. One thing if you get to the age of marriage and having children and stuff like that.
00:08:01.000It's a different situation. But if someone says to you that if you don't have sexual access at all times, you are bad and you're doing it wrong.
00:08:12.000It's not true at all. It's nothing impressive by living that sort of lifestyle and it won't make you more impressive.
00:08:20.000It won't give you more opportunities later on. So keep that in mind.
00:08:25.000Again, if you believe this lie that as a young man you need to follow your urges and you need to have sexual access.
00:08:33.000If you don't, you're bad. If you choose to listen to those people, then it's not good.
00:08:39.000Instead listen to me always. Listen to me when I say that. Don't worry about it.
00:08:44.000I'm not saying don't worry about it as some sort of hippie nonsense.
00:08:49.000I'm saying it because it's true. I'm saying it because I want you to focus on finding friends.
00:08:55.000Creating yourself into a higher being. Focusing on your own goals.
00:09:01.000If you want to find happiness as a man, then you have to find a purpose and a quest.
00:09:07.000And then you spend every waking hour focusing on how to reach your goals.
00:09:11.000That is your focus. Now to end this video, I will paraphrase a section from Bronze Age Mindset.
00:09:20.000And that's basically a chimp in nature does not play with himself, so to speak.
00:09:29.000Because there is no time. He is too occupied with mastering space, mastering himself.
00:09:37.000Only a chimp in captivity will do these sort of things.
00:09:42.000You can view it in the same sense. Both when it comes to touching yourself and to sexual access out of a loving relationship.
00:09:54.000You can view it in the same way that those things, they aren't only a waste of time.
00:10:00.000More importantly, they are a waste of vital energies within you that you can use for a higher purpose.