In this episode, I discuss the concept of incels and why you should stop worrying so much about what other people think of you. Instead, you should focus on yourself and your goals and stop worrying about what others think about you.
00:00:00.000Greetings my esteemed subscribers. Today I thought to share some of my great wisdom.
00:00:07.000I thought to chime in to the discussion regarding incels.
00:00:13.000Now, I'm sure you've seen and heard many guys claiming to be experts on how to be popular among women or how to gain women or whatever it might be.
00:00:29.000I'm not one of those guys. I will actually tell you to stop thinking about women.1.00
00:00:35.000So I'm not gonna talk about how you can be oh so popular with the ladies. I'm gonna talk to you about...1.00
00:00:42.000I'm going to recommend you. I'm going to recommend that you stop thinking so much about women.
00:00:49.000Now, as I said, I'm no Casanova. I don't know the minds of all women.1.00
00:00:53.000But I can only suppose that it is supremely unattractive with a man or a young man or a guy who goes around worrying about what women will think of him.
00:01:07.000Now, before I begin to elaborate on my thoughts, I will say though that you should think about...
00:01:17.000You should care about what others think of you when it comes to how you present yourself.
00:01:23.000So be as... Do look as good as possible. Be as well trained as possible. Be well dressed. Be well groomed. Take care of your hygiene.
00:01:32.000And above all else, make sure to be socially pleasant. Socially skilled. So you have those things in place.
00:01:42.000But beyond that, if you go around trying to appease women, having that as your goal, to be approved by women, that is a...
00:01:57.000It's a faulty hierarchy. In a more reasonable and traditional society, you look to the other men of your tribe for approval.0.92
00:02:08.000Primarily the older men of the tribe. Those are the ones you want to impress and who you seek approval from.
00:02:18.000Now, if you seek approval from some loose women, because the women who use the term incel, they aren't...1.00
00:02:28.000How shall we put this diplomatically? They aren't perhaps the best of women. They aren't perhaps the women who would make for good wives and mothers.1.00
00:02:40.000So, you know, if you get upset by some modern woman calling you an incel, yeah, it's not too much to worry about.
00:02:52.000So if you go around viewing yourself in that way, that you base your identity upon the fact that you can't gain sexual access to loose women,
00:03:05.000I mean, that's not a good way to view yourself or to view the world.
00:03:10.000And I can only suppose that women will pick up on it as well, that they see, okay, this guy, he views me as an authority.
00:03:18.000And, of course, that's not particularly attractive in terms of hierarchy either.
00:03:23.000Instead, focus more on my teachings. Focus less on women and more on my teachings.0.99
00:03:30.000Some people might say that I'm arrogant, that I have a big ego. I don't have a big ego. I have a big heart.
00:03:37.000And I care about you. That's why I say it. I want you to have a good and happy life. I don't want you to go around being sad for the fact that you, to use the terminology of the normies, that you aren't getting laid.
00:03:54.000I try to meet the normies halfway by using their lingo. Anyway, point being, I don't want you to spend or waste time identifying as something that isn't really all too impressive.
00:04:09.000Now, I've met many impressive men over all these years because of the various situations and contexts I've been in.
00:04:19.000None of them have cared all too much if they are attractive to women.
00:04:27.000They have been attractive to women precisely because they haven't thought about it, because they are pursuing their own goals.
00:04:34.000Because they are concerned with other ideals than what a modern woman will think is sexy in them.0.98
00:04:47.000All men, if you think this way, please stop. I implore you, please stop thinking in these terms.
00:04:54.000No, in terms of your happiness, your quality of life. Imagine if you are a 23-year-old guy who isn't currently getting any access, sexual access.
00:05:07.000You can either go around lamenting this fact, thinking about it. Oh, life is so bad. I can't get this.
00:05:16.000And then if you constantly focus on the things you don't have, yeah, then you will not enjoy life as you should.
00:05:23.000Instead, if you think this isn't really a concern for me. And yes, I understand it's easy to say that, oh, you shouldn't think about sex or women or whatever.
00:05:32.000But the strong of you, at least, you can do this. And if you can turn that energy into something productive, then you will prosper.
00:05:42.000It's ancient knowledge. Ancient esoteric knowledge right here.
00:05:47.000So anyway, then a few years go by, the 23-year-old guy is suddenly, I don't know, a few years older at least.
00:05:53.000And he finds someone who will become his wife. Then the problem has been solved.0.92
00:06:01.000And he has been happy that he didn't worry all too much about it, but instead that he pursued his own goals.0.89
00:06:07.000Now, related to this is a great lie of our modern era, and that is that you need to have sex.0.87
00:06:16.000Now, if you are in a loving relationship, it's all good, then of course you should have and enjoy it as a natural part of life.
00:06:24.000Sex is good. It's something that God, Mother Nature, has given us to enjoy.
00:06:31.000So this is not some religious life-denying attitude towards sex. This is not what I'm saying.
00:06:40.000What I'm saying is that if you don't have, if you currently don't have access, sexual access, then don't think,
00:06:49.000Oh, this is something I really, really need in my life. This is something I must have.
00:06:53.000Because it's really not. Especially if you know that sooner or later you will have it.
00:06:58.000So it's not something you worry about. The things you need is to be out in nature, to get some sun, to train, to eat well,
00:07:08.000to have good friends, good friends, more important. This is perhaps a topic for another video.
00:07:14.000That instead of focusing so much on women, focus more on how to find friends, how to be a good friend.
00:07:21.000You need camaraderie. This is perhaps even more important in this day and age when many guys feel alone.
00:07:28.000Find friends before you start worrying about women.
00:07:31.000So if you think, oh, I'm missing sexual access in my life, but then you don't have any male friends.
00:07:37.000Yeah, find friends first. Then you start worrying about things that are farther away in terms of importance.
00:07:45.000Sex you can have later. You absolutely don't need to have sexual access at this particular moment.
00:07:52.000Especially not if you're a younger guy. One thing if you get to the age of marriage and having children and stuff like that.
00:08:01.000It's a different situation. But if someone says to you that if you don't have sexual access at all times, you are bad and you're doing it wrong.
00:08:12.000It's not true at all. It's nothing impressive by living that sort of lifestyle and it won't make you more impressive.
00:08:20.000It won't give you more opportunities later on. So keep that in mind.
00:08:25.000Again, if you believe this lie that as a young man you need to follow your urges and you need to have sexual access.0.97
00:08:33.000If you don't, you're bad. If you choose to listen to those people, then it's not good.
00:08:39.000Instead listen to me always. Listen to me when I say that. Don't worry about it.
00:08:44.000I'm not saying don't worry about it as some sort of hippie nonsense.
00:08:49.000I'm saying it because it's true. I'm saying it because I want you to focus on finding friends.
00:08:55.000Creating yourself into a higher being. Focusing on your own goals.
00:09:01.000If you want to find happiness as a man, then you have to find a purpose and a quest.
00:09:07.000And then you spend every waking hour focusing on how to reach your goals.
00:09:11.000That is your focus. Now to end this video, I will paraphrase a section from Bronze Age Mindset.
00:09:20.000And that's basically a chimp in nature does not play with himself, so to speak.1.00
00:09:29.000Because there is no time. He is too occupied with mastering space, mastering himself.
00:09:37.000Only a chimp in captivity will do these sort of things.
00:09:42.000You can view it in the same sense. Both when it comes to touching yourself and to sexual access out of a loving relationship.0.99
00:09:54.000You can view it in the same way that those things, they aren't only a waste of time.
00:10:00.000More importantly, they are a waste of vital energies within you that you can use for a higher purpose.