The Golden One - January 06, 2019


Incels, Female Hypergamy and Misplaced Female Sense of Entitlement

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Incels and Female Hypergamy and the sense of entitlement modern women have is a very important topic to discuss, especially if talking about the well-being of western civilization. I discuss the difference between the princesses of old and modern society, and why modern women are more likely to settle for the same kind of men.

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00:00:00.000 Greetings, true friends. Today I want to elaborate upon the incel question and female hypergamy 0.99
00:00:06.540 and the sense of entitlement modern women have. So it's a very deep question. I'm just going to 0.95
00:00:13.500 paint with a very broad brush here and try to bestow some wisdom and enlightenment upon you
00:00:19.440 all because this is obviously an interesting topic and a very alarming topic, especially if
00:00:24.640 talking about the well-being of western civilization. So first and foremost we need to correctly
00:00:30.780 identify that female hypergamy is something good in nature at least and is something that is 1.00
00:00:37.280 perfectly natural and men are also hypergamous. We obviously want someone who is genetically a good 0.99
00:00:44.580 match for us so that our offspring will have hopefully better genetics than ourselves because
00:00:49.820 things such as beauty, intelligence, they will be of great help when it comes to the evolutionary
00:00:56.340 game. So anyway, the problem in the modern world is that females, they are all going for the same 1.00
00:01:05.100 kind of guys. Back in the day, 300 years ago, the Tanner's daughter, she knew that she had a choice of
00:01:12.780 four or five different guys maybe. She could marry the Miller's son for example, she could marry the
00:01:19.800 local farmer's son, she could marry the fisherman's son, etc. But she never had any delusions of
00:01:26.060 marrying the prince and she was content with that. She was perfectly happy with going with a man who
00:01:31.700 loved her. They raised a family together and she never thought, oh I wish I could be with a prince
00:01:36.860 because she knew that that was not her place. She knew that her place was to marry someone within
00:01:42.520 her own social class, someone who was roughly her equal, so to speak. And obviously the princesses of
00:01:50.620 the time, they were hypergamous or their fathers were hypergamous in their stead. Obviously any nobility
00:01:56.980 wanted his daughter to marry as high up in the hierarchy as possible and in order to do so, yeah,
00:02:02.360 the virtue of a woman was very prized. I mean you had to be a virgin to get a good match unless perhaps 0.96
00:02:10.080 you were a widow or something like that. So virtue very important, beauty obviously very important and
00:02:16.060 these noble women, they were no slouches. They were all studying really hard to be a good match so that 1.00
00:02:24.160 they could help their husbands who perhaps had to run an estate and needed some help with that. So
00:02:29.400 obviously these women, they were good in a lot of ways. And if you compare that with modern women, 0.99
00:02:37.040 how many modern women are reading books? No, they're not because they're busy being on their 1.00
00:02:41.940 smartphone, scrolling through whatever social media. So the point here is that the princesses of old,
00:02:49.220 they had a lot of qualities which enabled them to be justly hypergamous. So they had everything,
00:02:55.620 they checked off every box in the list and then they could choose, okay, this is a good match for me,
00:03:01.860 a certain prince or a king or something like that. Obviously not always something to do with love,
00:03:06.580 but that was the way it was at least. And today you have a lot of women, all have been taught by 0.75
00:03:13.780 society that they all deserve the prince, they all deserve prince charming, whereas they don't have
00:03:20.020 the same virtues and qualities that the princesses of old had. So they're not virtuous, they're perhaps
00:03:25.600 not as beautiful, they're perhaps not as intelligent, they're not perhaps as educated. And educated I don't
00:03:31.680 mean a course at the university, I mean real education that you actually know something that
00:03:36.200 you can contribute to a high capacity man. So there you have the problem in its essence. Back in the day
00:03:43.460 everyone knew their place, all women knew that they could choose from a group of men in their social
00:03:49.580 class in their local community. And the men knew also that they had a few choices in regards to
00:03:55.220 fair maidens. And then their families did some dealing back and forth. Today in the individualist
00:04:01.860 society, you don't really have a community which helps you with that. So you have to do that yourself,
00:04:07.000 it's a free for all. And yeah, the 20-80 rule, it does apply. Obviously, all women are aiming for the 1.00
00:04:14.900 top guys. The problem is that most women aren't realistic in that, that most women do not deserve 1.00
00:04:21.360 Prince Charming, despite them having been told so their entire lives. So my argument is the following,
00:04:27.180 that women were happier back in the day because they settled for something that was reasonable. 0.95
00:04:33.480 So they didn't spend all too much time dwelling upon the fact that they wanted the prince. Because
00:04:38.940 they knew from, because they knew from an early age that this was not going to be the marriage for
00:04:44.280 them. They were gonna have to settle for less. And I don't mean that in a bad way, I mean that in a
00:04:50.280 good way. Because they were probably much happier in that regard than most women are right now. So
00:04:55.980 yeah, there you have it. Female hypergamy. In nature, something good. Obviously, you want your 1.00
00:05:01.580 female relatives to aim as high as possible. And you also want to help your female relatives become 0.93
00:05:07.840 as attractive to high status males as possible. So if you have a younger sister, you can talk to her
00:05:13.420 and say, you know what, this is perhaps some things you could think about when it comes to attracting
00:05:18.140 high status males. So instead of spending so much time scrolling through social media, you should
00:05:23.420 perhaps try to learn something, become a bit more interesting. Because yeah, I'm very sorry to say,
00:05:29.640 not sorry, the majority of women, the absolutely majority of modern women, they're not all too
00:05:34.400 interesting. And I mean, if you can't have a interesting conversation with a woman, then you
00:05:41.220 probably want a woman you actually can have an interesting conversation with. So for any women who are
00:05:46.200 listening to this, absolutely, try to educate yourself, try to read a bit more, try to be
00:05:52.120 someone who can talk about more things than makeup and hair. And although that can be interesting as
00:05:59.180 well, of course, I'm not saying that you should neglect your female hobbies, etc. Because that's 0.66
00:06:04.600 perfectly natural too. But I'm just saying that you should be able to contribute with more than just
00:06:09.980 your looks. And obviously, for all incels who are in this position, yes, nature looks this way. Females 1.00
00:06:16.860 are hypergamous. But here's the thing, females want to go up in status. They don't necessarily want 1.00
00:06:22.360 someone who is the prettiest, most ripped model out there. They can settle for someone who has a good 1.00
00:06:30.640 income, has a good social status, all these sort of things. So do not spend all too much time worrying
00:06:36.800 about your appearance, saying, oh, I'm not beautiful enough to get a girl. Like I talked about in my
00:06:42.880 previous video, you can do things to increase your status so that women will perceive you as a good
00:06:49.620 match anyway. So don't lose hope. That is not a good idea. And again, if there is something that I can
00:06:59.520 just assume that women do not find particularly attractive is someone who constantly worries about
00:07:05.480 the approval of women. So instead, be a force of nature, be out there, go after your goals, and do 0.98
00:07:11.860 not fret all too much about how unfair life is. Life is the way it is. We are in a bad situation, which is
00:07:18.600 called the modern world. We don't have the luxuries that our forefathers had 300 years ago. Then basically
00:07:25.280 everyone got a wife handed to them by the community. Same thing, the woman itself got a husband handed to
00:07:32.440 her by the community. Obviously, I'm painting with a broad brush here, but it was easier back then. It's
00:07:37.640 much harder now. It is what it is. I am not happy with how many things in the modern world look, especially
00:07:43.620 when it comes to, you know, the social dynamics of things. But we have to adapt ourselves to the
00:07:49.760 situation, make the best of a bad situation. And yeah, what can you do? Basically what I said in my
00:07:54.900 last video, try to improve yourself as much as possible. Try to get a higher social status. And what do I
00:08:02.240 mean with that? Yeah, that you should be a valued male member, that you should be seen as someone
00:08:08.720 who is reliable, who is a man of honor, that you have the respect of other men. And when you have
00:08:14.180 the respect of other men, females will see that and say, okay, this guy has the approval of other
00:08:19.960 men. That must mean that he is, you know, capable of also providing for a family, etc.
00:08:25.560 So, to conclude, yes, female hypergamy, it can be good. It is definitely natural. The problem 0.99
00:08:33.960 is in the modern world that people no longer know their places. So therefore they have unrealistic
00:08:39.940 expectations of what kind of guys they can get. So, thank you for watching. XOXO, boom!