The Golden One - May 14, 2020


Quitting Porn and Addictions. The Questing Knight's Vow


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10 minutes

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1,573

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2

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In this episode, I talk about why porn is bad for you and why you should take a holy vow to quit it, and why the first time you try to quit a bad habit is the only time you break a promise.

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00:00:00.000 highly aesthetic welcome to a radiant Scandinavian forest in May I come bearing
00:00:11.220 some wisdom for you all to partake in so that you can better handle addictions
00:00:17.000 and I'm gonna start off by just talking a bit about pornography first and foremost
00:00:22.800 if you want more scientific backing if you are arguing with someone if you're
00:00:27.840 trying to convince a friend or a similar discussion you can check out your brain
00:00:34.380 on porn first link in the description box below then you can get some studies
00:00:40.740 behind why it's bad for you it's always important to be able to back up our
00:00:46.020 claims so anyway I started talking about porn about six years ago so for many of
00:00:52.980 you this is hardly anything new but something I've learned over the last few
00:00:58.500 years is that there is a danger in not understanding that we are in one place in
00:01:08.160 the immaterium for most normlings it's completely news if you say that porn is
00:01:13.620 bad it is getting to the mainstream as we speak but there are still a lot of guys
00:01:19.140 who are completely unaware of it just as the same thing if we're talking about
00:01:23.400 politics or biology or similar matters there are a lot of normies who are
00:01:29.340 completely clueless when it comes to the realities of yeah biology or society etc so
00:01:37.020 keep that in mind and also if I repeat myself in some videos and you say you know
00:01:43.020 what you've talked about this before I talk about it again because I want to
00:01:46.380 reach more guys with the teachings so to speak so basically I thought to label
00:01:55.380 this video the questing knights vow or something equally epic now of course a
00:02:01.320 low thumos guy an ironic guy will only see it and be like you know this sounds
00:02:06.720 silly but that's also because we live in an age where honor isn't really as
00:02:14.100 important as it used to be so if I say that you should take a holy vow to quit a 0.87
00:02:21.060 bad behavior you know yeah you can take it as a joke or you can take it as seriously
00:02:28.320 as you want it and for me I've always gone with a mindset that you know my word is my
00:02:34.740 most prized metaphysical at least possession I have you know if I give my word to
00:02:40.320 someone else or equally important to myself that I need to be true to my word
00:02:46.740 so if I say you know this month I have set out a challenge for myself that I will
00:02:54.120 not eat sugar then I know that I can't break that promise I can't break a promise
00:03:00.740 to myself I can't break a promise to anyone else either now for every time
00:03:07.700 you reinforce your word for every time you gain a victory over yourself it will be
00:03:17.240 easier to maintain your word so if I say to myself yeah I will absolutely 100% do
00:03:25.060 this I've done it many times before then it's easier in the future and also for others as
00:03:32.140 well if you are known as a good man who are always true to your word yeah then it will be
00:03:37.960 easier for others to trust you so you build up a good reputation and you also build up a good
00:03:43.780 reputation internally and this is not my wisdom here I'm sharing I'm sharing someone else who said
00:03:53.500 the first set of abs is the hardest to get absolutely true before I got my first set of visible abs
00:04:03.160 I didn't know I could do it but every single cut after that when I try to get into good shape
00:04:11.160 it's been easier because I know I can do it I know I can overcome myself and that's also if you look
00:04:19.040 on some guys who perhaps are struggling to quit porn or who are struggling to quit nicotine maybe
00:04:25.080 snooze it in Sweden or cigarettes etc they either they do it on the first attempt or they you know
00:04:36.920 fail and keep on failing and for every time you fail and this is a bit blackpilling for most people
00:04:43.600 here I'm sorry but it is the truth and I want to tell you why it gets harder yes it's because you
00:04:50.000 break trust with yourself for every defeat a defeat at your own hand or a defeat at your addiction
00:04:57.120 the easier it will be to you know break that promise the next time so either you go upwards in a positive
00:05:06.100 spiral or you go downwards so it is super important that the first time you give yourself a promise
00:05:12.800 the first time you say you know I will quit porn for example that must be the only time because
00:05:20.040 for every time you fail the risk the chances for you to fail again are increased not the most
00:05:28.080 white pilling thing to say but it is important in understanding your mentality your subconscious or
00:05:35.820 even conscious thought when it comes to breaking addictions so if you have tried to
00:05:41.040 beat nicotine addiction or porn addiction for the 10th time yeah it will be harder than it was your
00:05:51.040 second time because you have so many defeats weighing you down just reinforcing that behavior
00:05:57.040 that you will fail you will crack and as any athlete will tell you you know half of the thing
00:06:03.920 that is being done is in your mind can you do it can you not do it the guys who believe in themselves
00:06:09.680 they can always do it they can always perform more um i've always gone with the mindset that you know i
00:06:16.920 am a i'm a questing knight out for glory and enlightenment and i take a vow to myself that i will go in
00:06:25.580 100 if someone else says you know why is this important i say it's important for me because i have
00:06:32.640 taken this upon myself now of course since we live in a somewhat honorless society it is easy to just
00:06:41.700 point to material reasons you know i have this urge now i am hungry now so therefore i have to eat
00:06:49.360 i need to follow my inner nature at all costs all the time but if you adhere to a more
00:06:56.980 ancient shall we say or a bit more chivalry oriented mentality yeah then you will be able to put
00:07:06.880 other things first such as your word your honor and um you know for a guy a modern man who
00:07:14.200 you know laughs when i talk about chivalry and being a questing knight he laughs and say you know
00:07:20.100 this sounds very silly uh for him of course if he doesn't believe in the concept of honor the concept 0.91
00:07:27.140 of higher virtue yes of course he will continue to watch porn of course he will continue to eat 0.97
00:07:33.000 a lot of bad food um because why not when you just look at it in a world bereft of honor why would
00:07:41.600 you uphold why would you uphold your own honor so you see you need to first and foremost adapt a
00:07:48.380 questing knight mindset then you can start you know getting rid of bad addictions or you can just
00:07:57.820 rely on share willpower that works too but it is here if you have but it's easier if you have some sort
00:08:03.440 of positive vision for um how you view yourself basically so in conclusion view yourself as something
00:08:13.880 more epic something more heroic don't just view yourself as a pathetic porn addict or someone who is 0.88
00:08:21.060 too weak to quit whatever addiction view yourself as a repentant questing knight who has 0.96
00:08:29.120 his honor as the most important thing in his world and everything is worse than not living up to your
00:08:39.600 word of honor adapting that mindset and taking everything a bit more seriously even if you have
00:08:46.480 a whole world and your social setting might only be concerned with pleasure for the moment fine that's it
00:08:55.200 it's also about it's ultimately about your goals if you really want something don't let
00:09:01.900 crab in a bucket mentality get in your way if you want to have a really heroic physique if you want to
00:09:07.680 get rid of your addictions view it as a heroic quest instead of just going to the gym and eating well
00:09:14.860 you need to view it in a more epic sense so anyway i hope that will aid you a bit i understand it wasn't
00:09:23.060 really all too motivating perhaps especially for the guys who have tried to quit for a long time but
00:09:30.920 think of it always that the sooner you do it the easier it gets if you try to go off porn or if you
00:09:40.040 try to go off cigarettes or something the sooner you do it the sooner you will have healed your soul
00:09:47.500 and body and the sooner you can go back to feeling good so if you think oh maybe i should do it one
00:09:52.760 last time just don't it will only delay the final goal so that being said if you watched this far give
00:10:04.460 the video a thumbs up go on to my page legigloria.com order my book and some new fine garments as well of
00:10:13.400 course if they strike your fancy they are supposed to fit an athletic physique so yeah that is what is up
00:10:22.440 anyway thank you for watching xxo boom