The Golden One - November 11, 2019


The Future Husbands of our Daughters


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Length

14 minutes

Words per minute

140.01407

Word count

1,991

Sentence count

102

Harmful content

Misogyny

10

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Toxicity

2

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Hate speech

8

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Summary

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What kind of father do you want your daughter to grow up to be? What kind of husband should she marry? What sort of father should she grow up with? What is a good father to have in her life? What are the qualities you should be looking for in a husband?

Transcript

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00:00:00.640 Greetings Laddingtons! I'm checking in from the Forest of Enlightenment and I'm
00:00:06.560 checking in with some important wisdom. Yesterday was Father's Day here in good
00:00:12.540 old Sweden. My first Father's Day, a highly joyous occasion. I can definitely
00:00:17.820 recommend everyone to become a daddington. Highly cozy and lovable
00:00:22.440 sensation. So in regards to having a daughter I suppose this video is
00:00:28.520 primarily aimed at all fathers who also have daughters. We have to ask ourselves
00:00:34.640 a very important question and that is what sort of husbands, what sort of men
00:00:40.520 do we want for our daughters? And then when we have identified what sort of men
00:00:46.780 we want to be available as husbands in 20 years, 25 years, etc. Then we need to
00:00:53.280 start working on a culture which can facilitate the creation of such men.
00:00:58.280 So if we look upon certain cultural outlets today, first and foremost we have
00:01:03.500 the sort of boomer mentality playboy. If someone comes up to me and say oh I'm so
00:01:08.840 popular with women I am so good because I can you know I'm always hitting on 1.00
00:01:13.940 women etc and I'm such a playboy I will say like I will say the following you
00:01:17.760 know what get out of my face otherwise I will illuminate you to the primordial
00:01:21.920 truth. Because I'm not impressed in the least that sort of boomer mentality. You're a
00:01:27.660 boomer if you think it's cool to be a playboy. That's a severely outdated view of what
00:01:35.940 it is to be cool. Then of course you have also guys who are not masculine in the
00:01:40.680 least. And I don't want my daughter to end up with someone who can't take care of her. 0.90
00:01:45.420 If you look upon my ring here I've named it Unbreakable Loyalty and I can say this to everyone that I have
00:01:55.920 absolutely zero limits when it comes to inflicting violence and horror on anyone
00:02:01.500 who threatens my family. This is also the sort of mentality I want the husband of my
00:02:08.240 daughter to have because then I know he will protect her. I don't want some new male
00:02:13.320 who can't protect her. I don't want a weak man who doesn't believe in violence
00:02:18.640 because it's wrong. I don't want that for my daughter. I want a gentleman. I want
00:02:23.960 someone who can I want someone who can treasure her who can love her and who can
00:02:29.820 also protect her being a gentle man. Don't forget the man part it's very
00:02:34.920 important. So just as I talked about in the recent video called This has to stop.
00:02:41.600 By the way I only use clickbait titles if it's something important I want to talk
00:02:46.160 about so I won't abuse it. But anyway I had to film that. It looked highly epic.
00:03:01.260 So anyway what I was also going to say is that if you endorse a certain behavior that
00:03:10.020 behavior will continue. So to take an example sometimes I am on Instagram's
00:03:16.920 explore page and then I see various UFC fighters pop up. You know their personal
00:03:23.160 instagrams. Sometimes I see Dustin the diamond and he posts a lot with his daughter. Then I
00:03:33.120 give him a like because that is the sort of inspiration for other men I would like to
00:03:40.380 promote. Then if I were to see some other fighter being surrounded by women in a nightclub I will not give a like to that sort of 0.99
00:03:52.340 to that fighter. On that picture. And I mean it takes me no time at all to just press like.
00:03:59.340 So I only try to endorse the behavior that is congruent with the culture I want to promote.
00:04:07.340 So long story short. Same thing as you shouldn't endorse. I'm trying to navigate the ground here.
00:04:25.340 This is great content by the way. Anyway back to the topic. Just as just as you shouldn't endorse females putting out 1.00
00:04:35.340 degenerate pictures. You shouldn't endorse men doing the same. You should only endorse and promote men
00:04:43.340 engaging in such a behavior that can promote a culture that can facilitate for the sort of men you want your
00:04:51.340 daughter to be with. So for me my motivations are sky high to continue to promote a wholesome and good culture
00:04:59.340 with gentlemen. So I don't want there to be playboys. I don't want there to be any boomer playboy
00:05:17.340 mentality guys. I don't want there to be any ironic guys. I don't want there to be any new males. I don't want there to be
00:05:25.340 I don't want there to be guys who do not understand the virtue of loyalty. Those guys will still be around of course.
00:05:38.340 But I'm just going to say that those guys are not possible are not possible matches for my daughter.
00:05:44.340 And I will also say to my daughter that you know you have to look upon a man see is he respected among other men.
00:05:54.340 If he isn't if he's just an attractive guy for women then I will say this is not possible.
00:06:01.340 Because a guy needs to have the respect of his peers otherwise he's not a good man.
00:06:06.340 there are guys who are very popular with women but they're not good men. Then I will say you know what
00:06:13.340 now you have to fight with this laddington this legionnaire and then that guy who perhaps is a Casanova
00:06:22.340 he won't be popular anymore because women obviously do not like men who gets beaten up in a fight.
00:06:28.340 The primordial truth plain and simple. Look at the gloriousness of this forest.
00:06:42.340 That's an aesthetic forest. Reminds me of the first scene in Gladiator when they have the battle against the Germanic tribe.
00:06:53.340 Naturally I chair for the Germanic tribe.
00:06:57.340 And now we have come to a fallen tree which I will show you.
00:07:05.340 So you will think that this is a really aesthetically pleasing video log as well.
00:07:19.340 It's a big tree.
00:07:23.340 I might make a cool thumbnail for the video.
00:07:37.340 I don't know I will decide later when I edit the video.
00:07:40.340 So anyway point of this video is that we have to ask ourselves as fathers what sort of culture do we promote?
00:07:51.340 How do we act? Because the way we act will influence how others act.
00:07:56.340 And that will have a ring on the water sort of effect.
00:08:00.340 So if I can influence a guy who is 20 years of age.
00:08:05.340 He can influence a guy who is 10 years of age.
00:08:08.340 And the 10 year old guy can influence a guy who is 5 years of age.
00:08:11.340 And so it continues. So everything is connected. The way we act influences others.
00:08:19.340 So we have to conduct ourselves in the best possible way.
00:08:21.340 So no degeneracy.
00:08:24.340 No fap. No porn. 0.67
00:08:27.340 Don't endorse that sort of industry.
00:08:30.340 So rambling over. Thank you for watching.
00:08:33.340 XXO BOOM!
00:08:34.340 When I make these video logs I always come.
00:08:35.340 I always get reminded of something else I was supposed to say.
00:08:47.340 I sort of said it but I want to say it again.
00:08:48.340 If someone says to you.
00:08:49.340 It's cool about being a playboy.
00:08:50.340 Then you say.
00:08:51.340 Okay boomer. 0.98
00:08:52.340 That's what you have to respond.
00:08:53.340 Because that sort of attitude.
00:08:54.340 It's not applicable now.
00:08:55.340 I don't find it cool in the least.
00:08:56.340 Then also.
00:08:57.340 I said this.
00:08:58.340 In a interview with.
00:08:59.340 Gallant.
00:09:00.340 Justin Garcia.
00:09:01.340 Aka Master Chim. 0.74
00:09:02.340 I said it.
00:09:03.340 I said it.
00:09:04.340 to you it's cool about being a playboy then you say okay boomer that's what you
00:09:10.760 have to respond because that sort of attitude it's not it's not applicable
00:09:16.280 now I don't find it cool in the least then also I said this in a interview
00:09:23.240 with gallant Justin Garcia aka Master Chim I said it a few years ago and also
00:09:32.180 speaking which he also says congruent and yes I got it from him so thank you
00:09:36.320 shout out to to Justin but anyway I said I was a bit cruder back in the day so I
00:09:44.420 said you know what a proper Chad could rape Casanova so and what I meant with
00:09:53.120 that is that Casanova sure he was good with women but he wasn't he shouldn't 0.67
00:09:59.540 be respected among men because going around seducing women it's not the same
00:10:04.340 as getting a good woman based upon your merits to the tribe or your reputation
00:10:09.860 among other men so there is a difference there and of course we need to be
00:10:16.300 extremely clear about what sort of men gets good attention so even if someone
00:10:22.820 is very popular and is surrounded by women do not give positive attention give a 1.00
00:10:28.280 positive attention to the guys who promote themselves as a good father a
00:10:34.460 good role model so yeah Dustin the diamond for example the UFC fighter I like
00:10:38.960 him plenty of UFC fighters by the way if we're talking about that so yeah that is
00:10:45.200 what is up now I will leave you this might be the thumbnail by the way who knows I'll see
00:10:54.460 now another note I also thought about I thought about elaborating upon briefly
00:11:02.380 since I mentioned it and that is I don't believe that you should be afraid of giving
00:11:10.500 clear instructions to your daughter or if you're a woman perhaps to your son about what sort of
00:11:17.640 partner to avoid because as we can take the mother and son example females are better at understanding 1.00
00:11:25.140 other females so a mother can see perhaps a mile away that this woman is either a good woman or a bad 1.00
00:11:34.820 woman so she can say you know what son you should stay away from this woman because I can see something 1.00
00:11:40.320 something is something is up something is wrong with her she gets bad vibes for some reason and the
00:11:48.240 guy might be completely blinded by her allure so he he can't think clearly so so then it is good to have
00:11:57.440 a mother who steps in and says you know what this is not a good choice you you can't be with this
00:12:02.960 woman and then the father steps in and say you know what son your mother has a good eye for these sort of 0.61
00:12:09.040 things you should listen to her now the same thing must apply if a father says to his daughter
00:12:16.800 this is not a possible match for you because this this man is not good because I can see it because
00:12:24.320 men can judge other men in a way that women can't so she might say oh but this guy is so charming 0.97
00:12:30.000 and he's so good looking et cetera and so on but then his father might know that he is a coward
00:12:37.360 that he has been fleeing from responsibility or fleeing from a fight or whatever it might be
00:12:44.960 then he says you know what this is not a good idea and then the mother must say you know what listen
00:12:51.760 to your father here because he's a good judge of character he's a good judge of men so also speaking
00:12:57.120 about boomer mentality I do believe it's a boomer mentality to leave too much freedom to
00:13:02.320 to your sons and daughters parents are there to guide you I certainly will my wife and I certainly
00:13:10.000 will guide our children to the best of our abilities and just as when we have a son
00:13:18.000 my wife will have a say in what sort of woman he can be with if she notices something is really wrong with 0.98
00:13:25.760 a certain girl yeah it's up to us to guide him in a better direction just the same thing with our daughter
00:13:36.320 so now I think I have said everything I wanted to say I get talkative here in this forest
00:13:45.600 walking in forests are good for you it's good for your cognitive process
00:13:50.480 it gets your mind thinking so anyway now I will leave you now thank you for watching xxo boom
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