137. Maps of Meaning 09: Patterns of Symbolic Representation
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In this episode, Dr. Jordan B. Peterson discusses the role of archetypes in our understanding of the world, and why they are so important. Dr. Peterson uses examples from Carl Jung and Freud to illustrate the importance of archetypal representation and how it can be used to understand the world we live in, and the role archetypes play in shaping our ideas and ideas of reality. Dr. B.P. offers a roadmap towards healing, showing that while the journey isn t easy, it s absolutely possible to find your way forward. If you re suffering, please know you are not alone. There s hope, and there s a path to feeling better. Go to Dailywire Plus now and start watching Dr. P. Peterson on Depression and Anxiety. Let s take a step towards the brighter future you deserve. The Daily Wire Plus is a new series that could be a lifeline for those battling depression and anxiety. We know how isolating and overwhelming these conditions can be, and we wanted to take a moment to reach out to those listening who may be struggling. With decades of experience helping patients, and offers a unique understanding of why you might be feeling this way. In his new series, Dr., Dr. J.B. Peterson offers a road towards a brighter future. Peterson offers the roadmap towards a better, more positive and more hopeful future you can begin to live in a healthier, more fulfilled life. Thank you for listening to this podcast, and let s take the first step towards feeling better, let s feel better. -Joel Peterson. (Dailywireplus.org) . - The Dailywireplus is a podcast that could help you feel better, not just better, but a little bit better, a lot better, everyday, and a little more beautiful, more wholeheartedly, more confident, more hopeful, more peaceful, more grateful, more aware of your day to day, and more positive, more of a better of your future, a little less of a place to live your best day more of you can be your best, thank you, thank you for being kinder than you can help you, more beautiful than you know you're not less lonely, more understanding you, I love you, and you'll have it, more gratitude, more uplifting you, you'll learn more of that, more appreciation, and so much more, - Thank you, thanks for listening,
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Hey everyone, real quick before you skip, I want to talk to you about something serious and
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important. Dr. Jordan Peterson has created a new series that could be a lifeline for those
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be, and we wanted to take a moment to reach out to those listening who may be struggling.
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With decades of experience helping patients, Dr. Peterson offers a unique understanding of why you
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might be feeling this way in his new series. He provides a roadmap towards healing, showing that
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while the journey isn't easy, it's absolutely possible to find your way forward. If you're
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So today we're going to delve a little bit more deeply into the realm of symbolic representation,
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and I'll tell you what I think I'm doing, and then I'll show you a bunch of examples of it,
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then I want to tell you a couple more stories, and so I'll tell you the stories in the second half
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of the class. So, you know, it was Carl Jung who popularized and differentiated the idea of
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archetypes. They weren't his idea. Platonic forms are archetypes, essentially. Ideals are an archetype,
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and so, but Jung, the thing that I think he did that hadn't been done before was to suggest that,
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as well as suggesting, as Freud did, that human beings are composed of sub-personalities.
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Jung pointed out, as Freud did to some degree, that some of those personalities have a universal
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character, and so that they can be thought about as transcendent entities. And you could think about
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those, while they have been thought about, and even put forward as gods of one form or another.
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Now, when Jung talked about archetypes, it was never clear what he meant, and I think the reason for
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that was because the archetype is a very complicated idea, and a very complicated phenomena, and you can
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think about it biologically, and you can think about it socially, and you can think about it as something
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that the individual participates in creating. So it's not that easy to localize it. And as well,
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Jung was never clear about what the universe of archetypes looked like. At some times, he spoke as if they were
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a relatively small number, and then at other times, he spoke as if they were innumerable.
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And I think the reason for that is, in part, it depends on the level of analysis, right? The more
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transcendent the archetype, the fewer they are, but they differentiate, because you might say, well,
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how many hero archetypes are there? And one answer could be one, but they differentiate all the way
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out into the diverse range of works of fiction that we have. So you could say there's as many variants of
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the hero archetype, roughly speaking, as there are works of fiction. So you think about it as a hierarchy
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with the ultimate archetype at the top. So then another question might be, what does the landscape
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of ultimate archetypes look like? And I think that that's, well, that's what I tried to lay out, and that's
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what I'm trying to lay out in this diagram. So now, why do you want to know that? There's a practical reason,
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there's a number of practical reasons, as well as intellectual reasons. One of the most relevant
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practical reasons, as far as I'm concerned, is that integrating narratives, and so those would
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include political narratives, integrating narratives have their force because they draw on universal
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archetypes. Otherwise, they wouldn't have any power, right? Because they're basically stories,
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an integrating archetype, like the story that people, that Hitler sold the Germans, or that the Germans and
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Hitler co-created, which is a much more accurate way of thinking about it. That had motive force,
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because it had an archetypal essence. And so, political stories derive their power from the
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underlying archetypal representations. Obviously, because they have to be concerned with the things
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that people find important, right? How can you sell a political message to someone if it isn't about
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something they find important? And if it's important to them, it's going to be grounded, at least to
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some degree, in their biological substructure. I mean, if you're talking to hungry people about food,
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it's a story that you can tell, right? Because it hooks them deeply. It hooks deep into their
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motivational systems. To use a narrative of utopia, which is the land of milk and honey,
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roughly speaking, a very, very old idea, you're also tapping deeply into intrinsic human longings.
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And so, the idea that political narratives incorporate archetypal themes is not really,
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it's not an idea that I would consider particularly controversial. Putting it that way might be.
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Okay, so, the problem with political narratives, in my estimation, is that they can rapidly transform
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themselves into ideologies. And ideologies are dangerous for a variety of reasons, but the primary
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reason for their danger, I think, this is a hypothesis, is because of their one-sided nature.
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What happens is that they capitalize, parasitize, I think is even a better way of thinking about it,
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a profound underlying narrative, but they don't tell the entire story.
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And so then, if you're looking for orientation in the world because you're fragmented and chaotic,
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and somebody provides you with a partial story, that's going to serve an integrating function.
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And it's very... one of the things you see in psychotherapy is that if you're chaotic and confused,
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and you go see a therapist who has a particular kind of practice, Freudian, behavioral, cognitive,
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Rogerian, whatever, there's a high probability that undergoing that course of therapy is going
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to be good for you, and that you might even come to view your life in the terms of that
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therapeutic practice. And you might say, well, you... why is that therapeutic practice right for you?
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Maybe it could have been Rogerian instead of Freudian, say. And the answer to that is, yeah, well,
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it probably could be... could have been, because, roughly speaking, any coherent ordering principle
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is better than none. And so that's also a good way to think about human development from an intellectual
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perspective, is that partly what has to be provided to individuals as they mature into adults
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is some kind of ordering structure. And this is one of the facts that people who criticize
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the dogmatic element of religious belief don't really understand. They don't understand that
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you can't... you have to provide people with a determinate structure of some type,
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even if it's constricting and restricting and crushing, for that matter.
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You have to pass through a disciplinary structure before... and even in principle, you could be free.
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Before you're disciplined, you're not free. You're just chaotic. And so you have to practice some set
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of routines and rituals. Now, you could say, well, they don't necessarily have to be religious, and
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they could be secular. You could become a lawyer. You could become a plumber. You could become a
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carpenter. And I would say, yes, that's far better than not becoming anything. But the problem with
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an identity that isn't rooted into the archetypes is it leaves you incomplete. Because the archetypal
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rooting of the identity is what helps you grapple with the fundamental existential problems of life.
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And whether you're a carpenter or a plumber or a lawyer, they're still going to... your soul is still
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going to hunger for some deeper form of identity. And you're not going to get that without being...
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without having your practical identity encapsulated in something that's... that's greater from a
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philosophical perspective. And perhaps even deeper than philosophy, which I think the archetypal
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stories are... they're the... they're the structure within which philosophy itself is embedded.
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And outside of that is a behavioral structure. We've talked about how those evolve. You know,
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there's... there's a behavioral evolution of something approximating a consensual morality,
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and then stories about that consensual morality emerge. And then inside that, the... the structures
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of philosophy nest. And all of those things have to be addressed by your identity to some degree,
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or you're weak. That's the problem. You're beset by doubts. You're beset by anxiety.
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You're easy to stop. And you don't have much motivation. And none of that's good. It's not good
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at all. Because life presents you with enough real obstacles in the for... in the face of genuine
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suffering. So that unless you're strongly grounded and have a real reason for moving forward,
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you're going to get stopped. And as soon as you're stopped, you are one miserable thing.
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Because it's... it's almost like the definition of human misery is to be paralyzed by anxiety and
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emotional pain, and also have no motive force forward. It's a terrible state. And so you don't
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want to be in that state, and you have to have an identity that's powerful enough and deeply rooted
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enough so the most profound doubts that might emerge about your life are met by something of
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equivalent force. Okay, so we're going to review the symbolic domain, and briefly, and then I'm going to show
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you a bunch of different examples of how it plays itself out, partly archetypally and symbolically,
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but also partly politically. Because I want to show you how both of those things... how those things
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parallel one another. And partly what I'm hoping is that understanding the full domain of archetypal
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symbolic representation will also inoculate you against ideological possession. Because you'll know
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when you're told a half-sided, one-sided ideological story, you'll know that there's something missing
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in the story. There's... there's... there's pieces that aren't being told, or there's part of the story
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that isn't being revealed. So if it's a story about how tyrannical modern culture is, and how oppressive,
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you think, well, yes, obviously, but what about the beneficial aspect of it, and how is that being
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represented and dealt with? And so... and it's the same story about the negative element of the human
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being, which you hear stories like that all the time, because I think perhaps more intensely since
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the 1960s, but... but... but because I wasn't around before then, I don't know what it was like
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previous to that. There is this idea that people hold, and that's promoted, that there's something
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fundamentally, you know, cancerous about human beings. It was the Club of Rome, I think, when they
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pronounced that everyone on the planet was going to die of starvation by the year 2000,
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that human beings were no better than a cancer on the planet. It's like, well, yeah, you know,
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there's lots of things about us that could be improved, but when you... when you portray the
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human only as negative, the question should arise, it's like, fair enough, but what about the positive
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part? Why aren't you telling that story? And it doesn't take you... you know, all you have to do is be
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sick once and go to a hospital where you get competent care to understand that, you know,
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and you can get incompetent care too, but sometimes you get really competent care, you think, yes,
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it's really good that there's some people out there who have their act together and are trying
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to put things together, you know, and you can't forget that in your story, and you don't want to
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forget that in your story about yourself either. So what is the fundamental landscape? Well, the basic
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idea is that it's... it's... it's predicated... you can look at it multiple different ways. It's
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predicated on the contrast between explored and unexplored territory, or the contrast between
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the interpretive structure that philosophers like Kant talked about and the real-world manifestation
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that underlies... whose existence underlies the validity of empirical thinking, right? There's you
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and your structure, you interpret the world, but there's also the world informing you. And so
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that's the explored territory versus unexplored territory, something like that, or it's order
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versus chaos, or it's... or it's... another variant of that would be it's the hero going out into the
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unknown to... to encounter the dragon of chaos and to gather the information that... that's out there
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in the unknown. And... and... and I tried to make the case to you, because I'm often accused,
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most recently on Sam Harris's podcast, of making up post-hoc stories. You know, you have a set of
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stories, you can interpret them any way you want. Of course, that is a danger, because you bring an
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interpretive structure to bear on every set of facts. How do I know that this isn't just an arbitrary
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post-hoc analysis? And my answer to that, it's a technical answer, is it manifests itself at
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multiple layers of analysis simultaneously. And the probability that it's merely an imposition of an
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a priori interpretive structure is decreased by the number of different levels of manifestation
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that you can detect the phenomena. It's... it's an... it's... it's axiomatic. That's why you have
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five senses. That's why... because they each report a different level. That's why in science,
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use multiple methods to detect the same thing. So one of the things I tried to point out is that
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you can map this archetypal structure onto brain structure quite nicely, even onto hemispheric
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structure and the function of the subcortical systems. But even more particularly, you can map
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it onto the function of specific neuropsychological systems within the... within the neuro... within
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the biological neurology. We do have an interpretive structure, right? That's your map, so to speak,
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of... of expectation and desire in the world. That's your model. There's a brain area, roughly
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the hippocampus, although this is an oversimplification. It compares that with incoming sense data,
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which is also a model, but we won't get into that for the sake of argument. So that's explored
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territory. Unexplored territory. And the thing in the center doing the comparison, that's the
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knower. And so... so it strikes me as highly unlikely, although you're welcome to criticize
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away, that you'll see that kind of stacking of evidence across multiple domains of inquiry
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without there actually being a pattern there. So it's not merely post hoc analysis. And even the
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people who derived these patterns, like Jung to begin with, let's say, looked cross-culturally
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at least to say, well, here's... here's a manifestation of a pattern, and here's a separate culture,
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and you can see the same pattern. So there's some attempt there to be methodologically rigorous.
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He did the same thing with people's fantasies and dreams. And then again, by mapping those
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onto people's behavior and therapy, also had them test out the ideas in the world. So these
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aren't as trivial methodologically as people make them out to be. And especially that's the case
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when you can put a biological underpinning underneath them. So the proposition is explored
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territory, unexplored territory, and the explorer, roughly speaking. And then a differentiation
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of those two things into positive and negative. Why? Because everything complex has a positive
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and negative element. And so explored territory can become stultifying and crushing. That's tyranny.
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But it also provides the structure that informs and protects you. And unexplored territory, well,
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that can kill you, obviously. But it's also the place that you need to go when you're static and
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dead, and you need new water, and you need new life, and you need new information. So it's a
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constant movement out into the unknown and back, and out into the unknown and back. And that's what
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human beings are like, right? We're information foragers. And then the individual is both positive
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and negative. And you know that. Because you know yourself, and you know other people. And you know
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yourself, you can be... There's parts of you there that are good, classically speaking, or good even by
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your own definition. And other parts that really could use, to say the minimum, a tremendous amount
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of work. And you also know that about other people. And if you get truly unlucky with yourself
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or other people, it won't merely be that you're not trying hard enough. You'll encounter something
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in you, or someone who's absolutely malevolent and bent on destruction. And that's also not a
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hypothesis. You know, the literature on post-traumatic stress disorder reveals quite clearly that people
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typically develop post-traumatic stress disorder because they encounter some form of malevolence.
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And if it's ever happened to you, you know that it's no joke. It's not some figment of your
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imagination. Quite the contrary. So... And then that entire world, that's sort of the world that can
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be comprehended, is nested inside a broader symbolic network. And that seems to be the symbolic network
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that's made up of the dragon of chaos, which is something like our representation of the set of
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unknow... the set of all currently unknowable things. It's a very strange category, right? It's
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like the category of zero or the category of infinity. And the reason that we formulated that
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category is because we don't only want to know how to solve a problem. Just like we don't only want to
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know how to win a game. We want to know how to win the set of all possible games. And we want to solve
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the set of all possible problems. And so what human beings have been trying to do for the last
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forever is trying to figure out how to solve the problem of the set of all problems. And we actually
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have some ideas. One is play to win the metagame and not the game. That's one solution. Another
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solution is go out into the unknown voluntarily and gather the information that lies there because
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that continually updates you. The other one is to make sacrifices. And that was discovered in an
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articulate form not very long ago. And the idea of sacrifice is something like, well, you don't just
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have to solve the problem of how do you survive in the present, which is roughly the problem that
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animals are always trying to solve. You have to solve the problem of how you survive in the present,
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given that you also have to survive next week, next month, next year, and among other people.
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And the answer to that, in part, is the answer of sacrifice, which is to give up something that
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you desperately want now, that would even be useful right now, so that you accrue more benefit across
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a broader span of time. A very, very difficult lesson for animals to learn. Animals have a terrible
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time learning that. But even human beings have a terrible time doing it because there's some real
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intelligence in getting while the getting is good. But it's a suboptimal strategy,
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if you can stabilize the environment and spread out your adaptive capability over wider spans of
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time, well, so much the better. You get what you need now, and you get what you need later, and
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you get what you want, and so does your family and other people. A much better solution. But that
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requires, it requires precisely sacrifice, because it requires sacrificing the present for the future.
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And that idea of sacrifice emerged, like all of our ideas, first in action,
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in acting these things out, and then conceptualizing them with our bodies, like in drama,
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just the way that Piaget described children first assimilating the structure of their parents' actions
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by imitating them, rather than by breaking them down into systems of rules, understanding the rules,
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and incorporating the rules. That isn't how we work. We act and figure things out in action,
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and then we imitate our own actions. And to imitate your own actions is to act yourself out,
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or to act other people out. You can do that without having explicit, articulated knowledge.
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And that's, it's so crucial to understand that, because it explains a great mystery,
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which is how can we tell stories that have meanings that are deeper than we know?
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And the answer to that is, we have information encoded in our behavior that transcends our
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understanding. Well, how? Well, we're constantly modifying each other. Constantly. And the world's
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constantly modifying us. And there's no reason that while being modified, we should also be able
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to track how it is that we're being modified. We have to figure that out afterwards. And it's
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extraordinarily difficult to look at a whole culture, or even a single individual, and to say,
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well, what is that person? Or what is that societal structure? It supersedes our conscious
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capacity for representations. We're always playing catch-up. That doesn't mean that we don't act out
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things we think sometimes. You know, that the causal pathway can't go the other way, because it can.
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But more frequently, it's bottom-up rather than top-down, which is how everything works in the
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biological world. Animals do and have wisdom, but they don't know what they do, and they can't
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articulate their wisdom. So it's self-evident that a process like this must have occurred.
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I mean, I was talking about wolf dominance behaviors online the other day, and somebody
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tweeted and said, it's only captive wolves that dominate each other through aggression.
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It isn't necessarily the most aggressive males that are dominant in the wild. And I thought, well,
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yes, I know that. That's what De Waal has already documented among chimpanzees. The thing that emerges
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as appropriate to lead and then to be imitated as leader isn't untrammeled aggression. It's some process
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that is akin to my interests and your interests matching over some period of time with all of us
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considered simultaneously, right? That's some equilibrated state of social behavior embodied
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even in the behavior of wolves, the behavior of rats who know how to play fairly, the behavior of
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chimpanzees, and certainly in our own behavior, much more complexly, in no small part because our social
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structures are much bigger than those of animals. So therefore, much more complex. Robin Dunbar has
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indicated, for example, that one of the best predictors of brain size, predictors or correlates
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more likely. One of the highest correlates of brain size, especially, I think he only looked within
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primates, is group size. And that makes sense, right? Because the complexity of the social organization
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increases dramatically as the number of individuals involved increases. And I wouldn't say it's group
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size, brain size that determines group size. It's brain size determines group size determines brain size
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determines group size in a loop. And many other factors are involved in expanding cortical
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representation as well. So as far as I can tell, there isn't anything contentious in those claims.
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And it gives us a basis out of which the archetypal stories can emerge. And it explains why we can
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see revealed truth in them, so to speak. Because the truth was instantiated in the behavioral realm,
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not in the conceptual realm. And through the... You know, you see this in your own life. You watch
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yourself. And one day you go, aha! That's what I've been up to this whole time. That happens to
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people in therapy all the time. Or you're dealing with some other person, and they tell you something,
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it's like the last piece fell into place. It's like, oh, I had you completely wrong. Now I get what
00:23:19.700
you're up to. And what's happened is, my representation has become more complete, but also matches your
00:23:25.940
behavior better. There's a concordance between what I've observed and what actually manifests
00:23:30.680
itself. And so, well, so for the derivation of wisdom from the observation of behavior.
00:23:38.260
You do the same thing when you analyze a Shakespeare play, you know? A Shakespeare play never happened.
00:23:45.180
But Shakespeare extracted out patterns that happen all the time. And if he hadn't extracted them out,
00:23:50.620
no one would watch the plays, right? The plays are interesting precisely to the degree
00:23:54.640
that the play is about something that's about you and something that's about you and something
00:23:59.840
that's about you. It has to be something that's common to everyone. And you watch the play, and
00:24:04.440
you partake in it through imitation. Even though you're sitting down, you partake in it through
00:24:08.840
imitation. And then maybe later you go for coffee with your friends and say, well, what was that all
00:24:13.180
about? And that's your attempt to take the behavioral wisdom that's coded in the story and make it
00:24:19.060
articulate. And we're doing that all the time. Whenever you discuss a movie, you do that.
00:24:23.300
And that's how educated people actually interact with literature, right? Because if you're
00:24:27.440
uneducated, roughly speaking, you go see a movie and you just go see it. You never think about it
00:24:33.740
as something that was produced. You never think about it as a cultural entity. And you never do
00:24:39.040
that higher order analysis. And when you first encounter the idea of even doing that, you might
00:24:43.880
be resistant to it. Because it seems in some sense to destroy some of the magic of that pure
00:24:49.600
immersion in the form. But that doesn't mean that people who go to movies and don't talk
00:24:54.460
about them afterwards aren't learning anything. Quite the contrary. They're just learning using
00:24:59.760
a very abstracted form of imitation. And then you might imagine, you don't go to a movie.
00:25:05.820
You go to a hundred movies. And you imitate something that's in common across all the movies.
00:25:12.220
Well, what's that? Well, that's an archetype. The archetype is what's common across stories.
00:25:17.960
And so we're trying to get to the bottom of what's common across stories. And this is the best I've
00:25:22.580
been able to do. It also maps quite nicely onto Heidegger's representation of the world, which is
00:25:27.820
something I only found out later. He has three domains of reality that correspond to this very,
00:25:32.520
very precisely. And then Freud's conception is also very similar. Id, ego, superego, right? The id is the
00:25:40.040
natural force within you, positive and negative, because Freud was smart. He knew there was always
00:25:44.640
that dichotomy. Then the ego, that's you, the individual, positive element, negative element.
00:25:49.660
And the superego, which controls you, represses you, inhibits you, and civilizes you, but is also,
00:25:55.640
can also be a complete tyrant. And so part of the reason Freud's theory obtained such purchase so
00:26:02.800
rapidly was because it filled a, it filled a hole, an archetypal hole that needed to be filled
00:26:08.700
for psychotherapeutic practitioners who, in some sense, had taken the place of priests and ministers
00:26:14.700
and, and that sort of, and rabbis and that sort of person. So, okay. So that's the, the representation.
00:26:24.180
And then, well, we've talked about the representation of chaos, and I would think about that. And this is
00:26:29.460
a radical thing to think. It's sort of predicated on the idea that what you confront
00:26:33.780
in your, in your experience is not so much the material world, but potential. As such, it's the
00:26:41.860
potential that you're constantly contending with, that can destroy you and bring you down, but also
00:26:46.780
has, has, as part of its nature, that which you can extract and use to build and grow. And, and we don't
00:26:55.600
think of ourselves as interacting with potential. We think of ourselves as determined by a material
00:27:02.680
substrate. But I don't think the idea that we're determined by a material substrate is as powerful
00:27:08.900
an idea as the idea that we interact with potential. And I also don't think that the idea that we're
00:27:14.240
determined by a material substrate is a more scientific idea than the idea that we're interacting
00:27:19.200
with potential. Because I think that, and I do this with hesitancy, because any time you delve into the
00:27:24.680
quantum realm, the hypothetical quantum realm to ground your arguments, you're doing something very
00:27:30.640
dangerous. But the quantum view of the world seems to be something like being is a field of potential
00:27:38.340
from which forms emerge. It's something like that. And some of the physicists, like Wheeler,
00:27:43.440
for example, believe that consciousness plays a key determining role in that, whatever that role
00:27:48.720
might be. So it's not reasonable to think of these ideas as somehow outside of the realm of scientific
00:27:55.800
conjecture. Not in the least. Especially because they can also be given a deep evolutionary grounding.
00:28:03.500
And that is, why do we represent potential with a symbol like this? Well, it's because that's a
00:28:09.660
great symbol for what lies outside our field of competence. What is that? Predators. Dangerous predators.
00:28:17.100
Snakes, raptors, carnivores. All amalgamated together in a monster. And it's the monster that, well, it's also
00:28:26.580
the monster that even offers fruit. That's the story in the story of good and evil. Well, or in the story of
00:28:33.060
Adam and Eve. Well, obviously. Because you always hunt for nourishment in the face of predation.
00:28:38.660
Obviously. Always. And that's a paradox. But it's a paradox that's embedded in everything that you do.
00:28:49.380
The strange thing about these categories is they're not exactly logical categories. They're
00:28:53.400
paradoxical categories. And those sorts of things aren't supposed to exist, because generally the
00:28:57.960
rule for a category is it can't contain itself and its opposite at the same time. But if you've ever
00:29:03.360
dealt with a person on an intimate basis, you know perfectly well that the category indicated by
00:29:09.260
their name contains many paradoxical elements. And they might be paradoxical enough so you can't even
00:29:16.160
live with the person. Right? They're not homogenous enough so that you can plot a path forward with that
00:29:22.360
entity. Too many things pulling both you and them apart. So some things are A and only A and not B,
00:29:30.660
but some things are A and B at the same time. And complex categories have that nature.
00:29:38.180
I showed you some of the representations of Osiris and Isis emerging from the conjoined serpent.
00:29:47.500
And that's what this diagram represents to some degree. It's, well, what does the chaos of potential
00:29:55.160
first differentiate itself into? You could say, well, it differentiates itself into yin and yang.
00:30:00.680
That's the right way of thinking about it. It differentiates itself into chaos and order.
00:30:05.000
And those are the father and the mother of everything that comes after them. That's one way of thinking
00:30:10.020
about it. And they each have their symbolic realms. And so I've listed some of the common symbols that
00:30:15.300
are associated with these two realms. Now, it's a difficult thing to pin down, because what one of the
00:30:23.220
symbols mean has to be defined in relationship to the other. So, for example, if you think about
00:30:28.900
the sky, the earth in relationship to the sky, it's easy to make the earth feminine and the sky
00:30:35.540
masculine. That's a common symbolic representation. But if you contrast the earth with the water,
00:30:40.940
then the water tends to be represented as feminine and the earth as masculine. And so the symbolic
00:30:47.140
representations can shift depending on the literary context, let's say, the broader literary context.
00:30:53.160
And that means you can't just do a one-to-one mapping of the symbolic entity onto the underlying
00:30:59.500
archetypal structure. You have to be attentive to context and nuance, of course, because we're
00:31:07.140
talking about literature. You know, it's not like you can use a dictionary of symbols to get your way
00:31:12.180
through something as complex as Shakespeare. But you can see the underlying patterns and use them,
00:31:19.200
especially, I think, if you know the fundamental map. But anyway, so here are the more common
00:31:23.020
symbolic representations. Chaos transforms itself into the great mother. That's the queen. It can be
00:31:31.180
the evil queen or the good queen. It can be the fairy godmother or the queen that provides the poisoned
00:31:36.160
apple to Snow White or the queen that locks the prince. What's his name? I don't remember. The prince
00:31:44.200
in Sleeping Beauty in the dungeon and tries to destroy him. The queen, Tiamat. We've talked about Tiamat.
00:31:51.460
The material world. Material. Matter. Mother. Right? So the material world is the mother of all things,
00:31:59.500
and matter is mother. The land of the dead. Dark water. Unexplored territory. Nature. Mother nature,
00:32:06.720
obviously. The night sky. Contrasted against the day sky. Isis. Queen of the underworld. The womb. The
00:32:12.640
forest. Barbarian lands. Anomalous occurrences in the grave. And the great father. The king.
00:32:20.260
The emperor. Apsu. And Tiamat. Locked together, as we discussed in the Mesopotamian creation myth.
00:32:26.180
The ancestral spirits. The family. The city. Explored territory. Culture. The day sky. Osiris.
00:32:32.880
God the father. The village. The nation. The predictable. The monument. Stone. Anything
00:32:39.140
that's built in stone to last is a representation of the great father. That's why there were monolithic
00:32:45.840
religions spread across the northern hemisphere for thousands and thousands of years. Those people
00:32:51.860
were building things and carving things in stone to make memories. That's what their monuments were
00:32:56.500
for. To bring the past into the present and future on a permanent basis. And to try to instantiate
00:33:03.100
something solid that everyone could stand upon. Well, sometimes solid isn't what you need. Sometimes
00:33:08.740
what you need is fluid and liquid. But the solidity is there to give you something to stand on.
00:33:14.320
Even though it can become something arid and dry. You see in the story of Exodus, Moses is a master
00:33:20.760
of water. And the pharaoh is the king of desert stone, roughly speaking. And the pharaonic Egypt
00:33:27.640
is portrayed as a tyranny because it's nothing but dry stone. And Moses brings water to that.
00:33:34.780
That's chaos. That's partly the Red Sea story. And partly Moses' ability to get water out of rocks.
00:33:40.720
And when that's necessary. And part of the reason that he's found to begin with floating on water
00:33:45.940
when he's an infant. Which is also something that almost killed him, right? Because, well,
00:33:50.240
you don't want to put your infant in a basket of rushes and put him to float on the water.
00:33:54.500
So that's a brief overview of the manner in which images and stories can be used to represent
00:34:02.220
the first division of this underlying reality. You know nothing. What do you do? You establish a
00:34:08.980
center. You explore from the center. It's a domain of safety. And that's surrounded by
00:34:15.740
the unknown. So, and that's what children do. We already know this. If you watch how children
00:34:20.180
explore, it's more evident if you look at children who are somewhat inhibited. Because really extroverted
00:34:26.660
and emotionally stable children, they'll just explore. They won't recede. But children that
00:34:31.560
are sort of balanced in their emotional response. Imagine you bring an 18-month-old to a new
00:34:39.280
playground. A mother's standing there. She's the pillar at the center of the world. Around
00:34:44.480
her is explored territory. And the reason it's explored is because the child knows how to interact
00:34:49.700
with the mother. And so one thing you want to know about kids is you can have multiple caregivers
00:34:54.240
for your kids. You can have a nanny. You can put them in daycare. But they do not like having their
00:34:59.700
primary caregiver switched. It's like everything transforms when that happens. And it destabilizes
00:35:06.160
them badly. So if you're going to have other people take care of your kids, it's better that
00:35:10.420
it's the same other person. Well, obviously. I mean, they're going to form an intimate and loving
00:35:16.400
relationship with them with any luck. And if that disappears, it's like a death. But it's worse than
00:35:22.260
that in some sense. Or the reason that the death is bad because the child's conceptual world,
00:35:27.720
their familiar world, familiar family, their familiar world collapses. So children hate that.
00:35:34.140
Now, they can bond to multiple people. That's not a problem. But they do not like having their
00:35:38.340
caregiver shifted because that defines their territory. So the child is adapted to the mother's
00:35:44.680
presence and has been ever since birth if everything's gone well. So it's a place of security
00:35:49.100
and stability. Partly because the child knows how to act around the mother. But also partly
00:35:53.560
because if the child encounters anything that he or she doesn't understand well in the presence
00:35:59.020
of mother, the mother will instantly intervene to provide the knowledge necessary to encapsulate
00:36:04.100
the unexpected occurrence. Okay, so the child's by the mother. And maybe he's holding on. And
00:36:10.680
that gives him ventral contact. It's comforting. It's comforting. It produces opiates. It decreases
00:36:17.280
pain. It's directly comforting. And so then the child is maybe they're shy. They're going
00:36:22.400
to take a few looks at what's around first and start to... They're frozen, clinging to
00:36:27.820
something secure. And then if nothing negative happens, they start to relax. Just like a rat
00:36:33.840
that's been put into a new cage, they start to relax. And they'll start to look. And that's
00:36:38.300
the first manifestations of voluntary exploratory behavior. And maybe if there's other people
00:36:43.300
around, they'll look and smile. And then they'll hide. Right? And the smile is an invitation to play
00:36:47.960
or interact. But so it's a foray out into the world. Smile, eye contact, then hide. Maybe they'll do
00:36:53.900
that multiple times and get a game going. And that establishes something stable going on between them
00:36:59.120
and the stranger. Does the stranger know how to play? And then maybe they'll loosen up. And they'll
00:37:04.140
start to explore. And then they go out away from the mother and start interacting with the world
00:37:08.580
until something happens that overwhelms them. Then they'll run back. Get a hug. Maybe have a
00:37:14.980
sleep. Because maybe they've processed enough. And then you can encourage them to go back. And so
00:37:19.320
what they're doing is they have the flag planted on an unknown territory. That's mum. The flag.
00:37:26.080
Right? They circulate around there. Because it's secure. Make forays outwards where the dragons are.
00:37:33.020
Gather what's of interest. And if it's too much, they run back. And the mum says, it's okay. No
00:37:39.240
problem. Or gives them a little rock. Or maybe feeds them something. And lets them have a little
00:37:45.600
rest. And then off you go. Play again. Out they go again. And so what the child is doing is continually
00:37:51.020
moving out. Extending its explored territory into the unknown. Just like the Star Trek voyagers.
00:37:57.200
And then moving back to security. And then moving out farther. And then moving back to security.
00:38:02.620
And hopefully at some point, they carry with them their own security. Once they become competent.
00:38:07.980
Once you've incorporated all the competence of your parents, you don't need to go back. Well,
00:38:13.940
and even if you do, it isn't going to help. You've transcended this security. And that's
00:38:19.640
what makes you an adult. Hopefully that happens. So that's why the hero architecture,
00:38:27.200
is the central human story. It's because that's how we learn. It's an imagistic representation
00:38:32.240
of the process by which we make sense out of the world. So of course it's redemptive. Because
00:38:37.940
by definition, that's the pattern we use to expand our competence in the world. How could
00:38:42.880
it be anything other than redemptive? And it's tied in with the... Here's how it's tied
00:38:47.140
in with the idea of sacrifice. Every time you learn something, especially painfully, which
00:38:52.280
really means you learned it, there's a bunch of things that you already knew that you had to
00:38:55.840
let go of. Because they're wrong. And so there's no learning without sacrifice. And
00:39:00.600
now that means is that there's no learning without the retooling of structures that you've
00:39:04.300
already been using. And that's because you actually have a complete map of the world,
00:39:09.820
always. But it's low resolution. It's low resolution. And then if you go out there and
00:39:16.840
into a particular area that you've only mapped in a low resolution way, you'll learn details
00:39:22.260
that force you to update the low resolution representation. And sometimes that can mean
00:39:27.020
abandoning whole pieces of it. Because they're just wrong. You think this is like this. You
00:39:31.980
think your girlfriend is like your mother. Well, you may find out that that's absolutely
00:39:36.780
wrong. And the degree to which you use this low resolution map to map her, you're going
00:39:41.800
to experience nothing but trouble. So in fact, in all likelihood, that's what you'll experience.
00:39:46.760
Because your girlfriend is not your mother. Or at least she shouldn't be.
00:39:55.220
So when you go out and you encounter something new, it always means the demolition of parts
00:39:59.640
of you that are still unformed and incomplete. And so there's a sacrificial element to exploration.
00:40:06.140
And that's partly why people don't like to talk to people who have ideas that are different
00:40:09.280
than theirs. Because you might think, well, sure, we differ. Why can't we just talk? If you
00:40:14.480
know things I don't, all the better. But no, if you know something I really don't know,
00:40:18.760
it's going to challenge something I already presume. And if it really challenges, it will
00:40:23.460
disintegrate. And I'll do a little trip into the underworld before I can restructure myself.
00:40:29.820
And if you really challenge me, it might be an almost complete dissolution.
00:40:34.300
So who wants that? Well, here's how you want that.
00:40:38.700
The only circumstance under which you will want that is if you know that the alternative
00:40:47.940
differentiate you and make you strong. You shy away from that, your map stays low resolution,
00:40:54.640
and you make yourself weak. Because you're not practicing that process of letting go and
00:41:01.120
transforming. And letting go and transforming. Because you want to become a master at that.
00:41:04.980
You don't want to be a master at darting your territory, even though that's extraordinarily
00:41:10.260
useful. You want to become a master of taking the walls apart and extending them and building
00:41:16.240
them up. And taking the walls apart and extending them and building them up. And that, because
00:41:20.420
you'll never run out of utility for that. And that can mean that unknown becomes something
00:41:25.180
that's your friend instead of your enemy. And that would be a wonderful thing. Because,
00:41:29.320
of course, people respond to the unknown as if it's their terrible enemy. It's like, don't
00:41:33.080
be so sure about that. What you know might be your enemy. What you don't yet know might
00:41:38.460
be the best friend you have. And it's highly probable. Because what do you know? And there's
00:41:43.260
an infinite number of things you don't know. So you might as well make friends with them.
00:41:47.600
And then you also start to understand that you are precisely the thing that can move into
00:41:53.160
the unknown as if it's welcoming. And grow and develop as a consequence. And that makes
00:41:59.860
you a much different thing than the thing that has to be terrified of everything it doesn't
00:42:03.920
understand. You're just in a permanent state of existential horror under those conditions.
00:42:09.080
And you're dangerous to other people, too. Especially if they don't agree with you.
00:42:12.700
There's another way of representing it. The dragon of chaos stands for the potential that
00:42:18.340
surrounds us. Inside of that, there's the unknown. The unknown that you actually come into
00:42:23.520
contact with, right? That's the unknown as it actually manifests itself in your world as
00:42:28.240
something you don't understand. Instead of just the potential for that. Because we say,
00:42:32.200
look, you know perfectly well that as you're sitting here, there's all sorts of things you
00:42:36.740
don't know everywhere. But where are they? Well, they're not manifesting themselves at the
00:42:43.160
moment. They're only in potential. But we could have a discussion that became argumentative.
00:42:49.120
And then all of a sudden, it would be as if emissaries of that unknown had entered the
00:42:53.460
space. And that's the unknown that's defined in relationship to what you know. That's what
00:42:57.840
you actually experience, instead of it only being potential. It's a tough thing to get,
00:43:01.900
because they're both unknown, right? You think, well, how can there be two different categories
00:43:05.680
of unknown? Well, latent and manifest. That's a good way of thinking about it.
00:43:10.120
No, in a relationship, it's going stably. But you know that sooner or later, something will
00:43:15.760
come up. Okay, up. From where? Why up? Well, from beneath. Well, what do you mean beneath?
00:43:23.840
Well, it's from your complex. The person you're in a relationship with, in with, is complicated
00:43:30.620
and complex. That's implicit in you. It's inside your conceptual structure. That's a way of looking
00:43:37.400
at it. Now and then, when there's a disagreement, it will manifest itself. And you know that.
00:43:42.380
You know that there's still trouble brewing ahead in a relationship. Always. And that's
00:43:47.260
part of what keeps them alive. There's an interesting piece of empirical work done on
00:43:53.180
this a while back. So you might think, well, what does the optimal relationship look like
00:43:57.320
in terms of positive and negative emotion? You might say, well, utopia. Nothing but positive
00:44:03.120
interactions. It's like, no. Imagine you get people to code the interactions they have with
00:44:09.700
their partner during the day. You know, you sample it. You say, was that interaction
00:44:13.580
positive or negative? And then what you're trying to do is predict the longevity of the
00:44:17.640
relationship. Okay, so here's the data. If it falls under five positive interactions to
00:44:23.840
one negative interaction, the relationship doesn't continue. Fair enough. Too much negative.
00:44:29.220
That's easy to understand. If it exceeds 11 positive to one negative, the relationship doesn't
00:44:34.160
last. Why? No challenge. Right? What do you want from your partner? Bliss? No. No, no,
00:44:42.900
you don't. You want periods of peace punctuated by a good fight. And that, because that means
00:44:48.460
you respect them. It means you have something to offer each other. And it means that you're
00:44:52.100
both growing. And so you don't want the fight to be too dramatic, because, well, then you
00:44:56.820
retreat. You can't settle it. But the person that you can completely map and who only does
00:45:01.420
positive things for you, it's like, A, you don't know that person. B, they're not communicating
00:45:06.020
with you, nor you with them. Maybe they're just subordinating themselves to you or you
00:45:10.300
to them. And you're not growing. You want someone who can... It's... A real relationship
00:45:15.820
is a wrestling match. It's a grappling... It's a grappling phenomena that you both emerge
00:45:21.020
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00:45:25.940
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00:45:31.340
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00:45:34.900
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All right, so here's some symbolic representations. The two on the left are Jonah.
00:48:35.400
Jonah and the whale. So the story of Jonah is an interesting one. I'll just go over it very briefly.
00:48:45.900
There's a city, and the city is full of people who are sinful. What does that mean? Well, to sin is an
00:48:52.580
archery term. It means to miss the mark. So these are people who aren't oriented properly. And so the
00:48:57.180
city is in a chaotic state. And God tells Jonah that he's going to go to that city and tell them
00:49:01.780
just exactly what's up with them. And Jonah thinks, no, I'm not going to do that. And why?
00:49:07.760
Well, that doesn't require much explanation. It's like, how popular are you going to be
00:49:12.260
if you go to a city full of chaotic people and tell them why they're stupid and wrong?
00:49:18.180
Jonah thinks, no, I'm not going to do that. I don't care if God's telling me to do it. So his
00:49:22.420
conscience is telling him to do it, or his destiny is telling him to do it, or his orientation with
00:49:27.580
higher morality is telling him to do it. You can read it any way you want. And so he
00:49:31.900
thinks, no, I'm hopping on this boat, and I'm getting as far away from that city as I possibly
00:49:35.520
can. And so he does that, and then the storm comes up, because God thinks, no, you're not
00:49:40.960
getting away. If I told you to do something, you're not getting away from it. A storm comes
00:49:45.300
up. Well, what does that mean? Well, it's easy.
00:49:47.980
Betray your destiny. And see how long it takes you to be drowning in a storm. It'll happen
00:50:00.440
immediately. And of course it will, because what's calling you to be your best is exactly
00:50:06.500
the thing that's pushing you forward to manifest yourself most fully in the world. It's what
00:50:11.000
you need. You run away from that, the boat's going to start to rock very, very quickly.
00:50:16.040
Well, you all know that. You know that perfectly well. It's, hell, all you have to do is not
00:50:22.180
study for an exam that you know that's coming up to see everything start to, the storm waters
00:50:27.220
start to rise and everything start to rock. It's pretty bloody obvious. So anyways, he's
00:50:31.800
on this boat, and there's a storm. And all of the people on the boat, who can't quite discriminate
00:50:38.580
chaos from weather, because they haven't differentiated the world to that degree, think, oh, the boat
00:50:44.740
wouldn't be about to be swamped if we hadn't, some of us hadn't done something stupid and
00:50:49.900
wrong. And there's logic in that. You know, you might think, well, God has nothing personal
00:50:55.280
against you because of the storm, so you're confusing levels of analysis. But you've got
00:50:59.400
to give these people some credit. It's like, maybe they did do something stupid. Maybe they
00:51:03.600
didn't cock the damn boat properly. Maybe the ropes aren't in as good a shape as they might
00:51:08.120
be. Maybe they weren't paying attention to the weather when they went out on the ocean.
00:51:11.560
You know? Or maybe they haven't made peace with their brother, and so their hearts are
00:51:16.180
bent and twisted out of shape, so they don't make particularly good sailors. It's like the
00:51:20.560
idea that you encounter a storm because you're stupid and wrong is a really good idea, even
00:51:25.120
though it's not of infinite applicability. Anyways, they draw lots. It's a primitive thing
00:51:31.060
to do. It's like, well, it's someone's fault. We don't know who. We're going to throw someone
00:51:36.240
overboard, the worst sinner. Obviously, that's what God wants, some kind of sacrifice. So they
00:51:41.360
all draw lots, and someone loses. And then Jonah stands up and says, well, sorry, guys.
00:51:46.060
Like, I know that I've got a problem with God at the moment, so it's probably me. You
00:51:49.940
better throw me over. And they don't really want to, but he finally convinces them. Over
00:51:54.080
he goes. And the storm settles. Well, you know, sometimes if you're in a group of people
00:52:03.500
in an organization, there is someone in the organization whose head isn't screwed on exactly
00:52:08.280
straight. And they know exactly why it is and what they've done wrong and what puts
00:52:12.420
them in that position. And they are poisoning the entire enterprise. And if you throw them
00:52:16.900
overboard, or better, if they agree voluntarily to leave, then the storm will abate and everything
00:52:22.440
will be okay. So anyways, they throw Jonah overboard and a whale comes up and swallows
00:52:28.540
him and takes him down to the bottom of the ocean. Well, we already know what that means because
00:52:31.920
we watched Pinocchio. It's like when God abandons you because you've abandoned your destiny and
00:52:38.720
the storms come up, the probability that you're going to be taken down to the depths is
00:52:44.420
extraordinarily high. And that happens in people's lives all the time. Well, so down there, Jonah
00:52:49.180
repents. Well, what do you do when you're in the underworld? Well, you've been there before when
00:52:54.200
things fall apart on you. Your friends have abandoned you. You're not as popular as you could be.
00:52:57.760
You can't stand to look at yourself in the mirror. Into the underworld you go and you think,
00:53:01.940
geez, I've done a lot of things wrong. You know, maybe I should reconcile myself with the world and
00:53:06.620
I could get out of this. Well, so that's what Jonah does. He thinks, all right, I've got this
00:53:10.440
destiny. I better go do what God says. So the whale spits him out onto the beach and off he goes to the
00:53:17.280
city to tell them what's wrong. Well, that's what that represents. That's these symbols. You know,
00:53:23.600
it's so cool. This second one, I really like. It's so interesting because you see Jonah re-emerging
00:53:29.580
from the whale and he's got a halo around his head. You say, well, what's a halo? Well, have you
00:53:34.240
ever looked at a quarter? Well, think about a quarter. A quarter is the moon. And who's on the
00:53:41.600
quarter? The queen. The queen is surrounded by the halo of the moon. The queen is queen of the night.
00:53:48.400
Gold coin. That's the king's head on the sun. That's the halo. Well, what comes out of the
00:53:54.380
belly of the fish? It's the illuminated human being. It's the spirit of the illuminated human
00:54:00.540
being. Well, that's what that means. Well, what does that mean? Well, what else would come out of
00:54:05.700
chaos? You know, if you fall apart and then you put yourself back together, what is it that comes back
00:54:11.040
out? Well, at least you're in better shape than you were before, you know? And then maybe you do that
00:54:16.260
20 times in your life or 50 times and you do it voluntarily. Every time you do it, you're more
00:54:21.700
like the thing with the halo and less like the thing that's, you know, being thrown overboard by
00:54:27.140
your friends. And then you see this representation on the right. This is a very complicated
00:54:32.080
representation. So in this one, you see Christ who's carrying his cross with the sun behind him.
00:54:37.520
That's the halo that I was talking about. He's the person who's voluntarily accepted the necessity of
00:54:43.720
death and renewal. That's what the cross represents. And so it's a, it's an, it's a,
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what would you call it? An abstracted representation of this, a further developed idea of this.
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And then you see in the back, this is a feminine symbol, right? It's a, it's a symbol of birth.
00:55:01.240
And you'll see, you'll understand more when I, when I show you the symbols later, this is the eternal
00:55:05.680
opening in the world from which new forms emerge. It's the place from which babies emerge. And you can
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tell that if you look carefully, because you see all these little heads there with wings on them,
00:55:15.860
those are all spirits waiting to be born. And so the hero emerges from the, from the eternal feminine,
00:55:22.600
willing to die and suffer. And in doing so, just defeating the snake, the snakes down there and
00:55:30.600
the adversary at the same time. Well, it's no wonder we don't understand those images. I mean,
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they're so unbelievably rich that how could you possibly articulate them? That's why they emerged in
00:55:41.260
imagistic form to begin with. The artists get there before the philosophers, long before the
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philosophers. The dramatists get there way before the artists even. And so we figured it out. We
00:55:53.840
represented it in art and literature and music and drama. And then we're on the cusp, so to speak,
00:55:59.460
of understanding it in a fully articulated manner and not a moment too soon.
00:56:04.180
So what does it mean for this symbol to emerge from, the feminine symbol, let's say, to emerge
00:56:12.060
from chaos? Well, this picture, this is a picture of Venus, the goddess of love, right? And so I cut
00:56:19.280
this picture out of a larger picture and it's Venus manifesting herself in a transcendent space in the
00:56:24.400
sky in the same way that Christ did in the previous representation. And she has rays coming off her and
00:56:30.620
there's all these men who are knights kneeling in front of the image. Well, what does that mean?
00:56:37.140
Well, it means that men use the image of female perfection to motivate themselves.
00:56:42.120
And that's exactly right. That's precisely what they do. You see that in the Tom Sawyer story.
00:56:46.720
So Tom Sawyer is about 12 years old and he's still hanging around with his friends like Huck Finn.
00:56:51.800
And this girl moves across the street, Becky, and she comes out and he's struck by her for the first time
00:56:56.620
in his life. Something's changed. And the first thing he does is hop up on a picket fence and show
00:57:02.100
off and balance in front of her. And he's saying, well, look at me, look at me. He's like the male
00:57:06.640
bower bird building something beautiful so the female will approve of it. And it's motivation.
00:57:12.860
You know, and that's something that I think modern women don't really understand about men.
00:57:17.140
They don't understand that, at least to the degree that males are uncorrupted and not bitter because of
00:57:24.040
being rejected. They're doing everything they can to kneel before the eternal image of the feminine
00:57:28.780
and try to make themselves worthy. That's the chivalry story, right? That's what you should
00:57:36.060
encourage in your partner. And so out of chaos emerges this first form. It's the feminine form.
00:57:42.980
It's partly the form that represents novelty as such. And on one hand, it's promise. On the other
00:57:50.220
hand, it's threat that you wouldn't believe. And I don't know, because I don't know, I don't
00:57:54.800
understand the situation with women as well as I understand the situation with men, obviously,
00:57:59.160
being a man. But I don't know if women have any idea how paralyzing they are to especially young men.
00:58:08.960
A very large number of my clinical clients, but also young men I've talked to in general,
00:58:15.040
are absolutely terrified of women because they're terrified of being rejected.
00:58:19.160
And the terror exists in precise proportion to their attraction to the woman, which is a horrible
00:58:25.260
paradoxical situation to be in. It's often why men make such fools of themselves in front of women
00:58:31.700
that they're attracted to. It's because, first of all, they don't see the woman that they're attracted
00:58:35.400
to. Because what the hell do they know about her? They don't see her as an individual. They see her as
00:58:40.080
the manifestation of a judgmental ideal. And then it's only in establishing the relationship with the
00:58:46.480
actual woman that they can start differentiating between the judgmental ideal and the actual
00:58:51.660
individual woman. And that also requires a sacrifice. And the sacrifice is, you never can
00:58:58.580
have an ideal woman. So to have a relationship with any woman, you have to sacrifice the relationship
00:59:05.380
with the ideal woman. And you have to see the individual woman and separate her from the ideal.
00:59:12.100
And that's the same thing that happens to the hero in Sleeping Beauty, right? He sees the evil queen
00:59:17.380
who actually turns into the dragon of chaos. And it's not until he can defeat her that he can
00:59:24.580
establish a relationship with the actual princess. And that's exactly the case. I had one of my clients
00:59:31.020
who ran this men's group, which was quite interesting. One of the things they had the initiates
00:59:36.280
do, which was very intelligent, was to go out and ask 50 women in one day for their phone
00:59:42.720
numbers. Why? Politely, properly, you know, it wasn't, it wasn't, it was a game, but it wasn't
00:59:49.160
a stupid game. And the idea was, get over your fear of rejection. And how do you do that? By
00:59:56.040
encountering it continually and continually and continually, so that you're no longer paralyzed
01:00:01.800
by this. Here's, I love this cartoon. This is from a underground comic for people who smoke way too
01:00:13.720
much marijuana. And it's called, these people are the fabulous furry freak brothers. And they were
01:00:19.580
created by Gilbert Shelton, who was one of the first underground cartoonists, and one of the least
01:00:24.500
pathological ones with the best sense of humor. And he writes these stories about these stupid hippies,
01:00:29.420
three of them, the fabulous furry freak brothers. You see two of them there. And all they do is smoke
01:00:34.920
pot and avoid responsibility, and run away from the police. But it's a nice satire. And so,
01:00:42.000
and they have this cat. And the fat one, Fat Freddy, has the cat. And they're too lazy to even give the
01:00:48.740
cat a name. So it's Fat Freddy's cat. And it has its own adventures, mostly with, like, an army of
01:00:54.560
cockroaches that lives inside their, like, horrible, slummy, hellhole of a living place. And so,
01:01:00.540
anyways, it's quite comical. And so, the hippies have stumbled across a small fortune and stoned out
01:01:07.260
of their minds on cocaine. They go out to set up utopia in the countryside. They buy this terrible
01:01:11.980
piece of property, but they're so deluded that they think it's like a mansion. And they bring their
01:01:16.380
cat. And I don't know if you've ever had a cat, but cats don't like to move. It really bugs them.
01:01:21.340
And so, they're not comfortable when you bring them to a new place. They're like the rat that's
01:01:25.920
been taken out of its comfortable cage and put into a new cage. And the cat, you put a cat in a
01:01:29.980
new room, and it, depending on the cat, obviously, but generally, they'll retreat into a corner and
01:01:34.640
meow piteously and be very unhappy for quite a substantial amount of time. And so, the cartoonist
01:01:41.460
actually mapped this out quite nicely. So, the hippie takes the cat out of the box and says,
01:01:46.360
our new home. They're out in the forest. This is an urban cat. It's never been in the forest.
01:01:51.260
It doesn't know what the hell's up in the forest. And the cat's looking rather dubiously
01:01:55.040
and thinks, so this is the country. And then, it's put on the ground, and it starts to slink,
01:02:00.080
as he says, slink, slink, out into the forest. And that's actually what animals do. It's a
01:02:04.920
predator evasion crouch. And so, if they're put in a new territory, they'll hunker down and freeze
01:02:10.980
first. And then, they'll slowly unfreeze and start to explore. They sniff first, and then they'll
01:02:17.160
start to move. But they do it, like, with trepidation and slowly and try to hide. And
01:02:22.300
so, that's what the cat's doing. And the cat goes out into the unknown far enough, sniffing,
01:02:27.160
and all of a sudden, POW! It goes underneath the house. Just like the toddler running back
01:02:32.520
to the mother. And the other, another hippie there, I think that's Phineas, says, where'd
01:02:38.960
the cat disappear too now? And the Fat Freddy character says, under the house. And then
01:02:43.420
the cat's under there in the dark, with big eyes, looking terrified, saying, you'd hide
01:02:47.820
too if you'd smelled what I did. And so, what it smelled was this thing that has, like, the
01:02:53.180
head of a wolf, and antlers like a deer, and the tail of a skunk, and the feet of, like,
01:02:59.240
a chicken, and horrible claws. It's like, well, what is that? Well, it's a monstrous amalgam
01:03:05.080
of that which lurks in the unknown. And so, the cartoonist, the comedian, got it
01:03:10.040
perfect. Said, well, what is there? What is out in the unknown? Well, you need one
01:03:15.020
representation, not a thousand. And so, you take pieces of what's out there that are
01:03:21.440
relevant, and you create a single image out of that, and you say, well, this is what's
01:03:26.380
out there. And you might say, well, no such animal as that exists. And that's actually
01:03:32.200
incorrect. An animal very much like that exists. It's just a superordinate, low-resolution
01:03:40.240
category. It includes all those weird animals that might hurt you that are out in the forest.
01:03:45.720
That's a useful category. Weird animals that might hurt you. And that's a real category.
01:03:51.700
You know, you might say, well, there's differentiated things within that category. It's like, yeah,
01:03:56.380
every category has that nature. It can still be further differentiated. Maybe not protons.
01:04:03.380
You know, they can even be differentiated with regards to location, at least. So, every category
01:04:08.020
can be further differentiated. The question is whether the category has some functional utility,
01:04:13.440
or at least that's one of its questions. It's like, that's the thing to be afraid of.
01:04:17.800
Okay, good. Now you got it. This is the category of all things to be afraid of.
01:04:21.740
What do you do in response to that category? All right. So, then we go to the next representation.
01:04:28.580
This is Kali. A-A-L-I. Hindu goddess of destruction.
01:04:35.240
She's the thing that you encounter. She's the thing that makes things go bump in the night.
01:04:40.440
What is that thing? Well, let's take it apart a little bit.
01:04:43.200
Because you can't see this image until you understand it. You would be able to if you were Hindu,
01:04:50.820
because you'd be in the culture, and you'd know what the image represented. But some people in here
01:04:55.240
might be Hindu, but not very many people. So, okay. So, let's talk about this image.
01:05:00.480
It's a horrifying image. And so, here's how this image emerged. It emerged in the imagination of people
01:05:05.700
who were tormented for millennia about just what the hell lurked out there in the unknown.
01:05:11.240
And some artist was seized by a revelation, a horrifying revelation of just what that was.
01:05:16.880
Okay, so what is it? Well, first of all, she's in a container of fire.
01:05:23.780
Why fire? Well, fire is useful and destructive. Right? And you also cannot look away from fire.
01:05:30.620
And so, it's a really good symbol of that which you cannot look away from. It's eternally meaningful.
01:05:36.660
Fire is eternally meaningful. Why? We can't keep our hands off fire, right? We're descendants
01:05:41.240
of the first insane ape who was so obsessed by fire that he couldn't stay away from a burning
01:05:48.340
landscape and learned how to master it. He's our forefather, that person. We're obsessed by fire.
01:05:55.400
It's magical to us. And it transforms. It burns and transforms. So, from a symbolic perspective,
01:06:00.160
it's a very useful source of imagistic representation. Okay, the fire is there.
01:06:07.420
And then inside the fire, these are skulls. You see them? All lined up there. So, it's not just fire.
01:06:13.360
It's the fire of death that consumes. So, that's where Kelly lives. So, that's fun to start with.
01:06:20.260
And then, there she is with her hair on fire, because her hair's on fire in case she isn't
01:06:27.520
frightening enough just because of where she lives. Her hair's on fire. And her headdress is made out of
01:06:31.820
skulls. So, that's nice. And then she's like an insect, like a spider. See, she has all these legs.
01:06:37.780
And why is that? It's because we don't really like insects. And, you know, they set off our bug
01:06:41.960
detectors, and they can bite us. And they're quite horrifying. And many people have spider phobias,
01:06:47.200
particularly. And no wonder. And then, she's got a weapon in one hand here. And then, you see,
01:06:56.360
she's eating something. And you see here, her belly is concave. Well, why? Well, she's in a birth
01:07:03.200
position. She's just given birth to this unfortunate character who she happens to be standing upon.
01:07:09.380
And he's disemboweled. And she's eating him intestines first. And that's Kelly. It's like,
01:07:15.920
that's horror. It's a representation of horror and death and destruction and transformation. It's
01:07:23.140
feminine as well. What do you do in the face of his mother nature? That's another negative element
01:07:28.440
of mother nature. What do you do with something like this? Well, that's the eternal question. And
01:07:33.700
the answer is quite straightforward. You make sacrifices to her. And if you make the proper
01:07:38.940
sacrifices, then she turns into her beneficial counterpart. And that's exactly what you do
01:07:44.080
do in life. If in the face of horror and death, you make sacrifices, so you transform the terrible
01:07:50.960
destructive element of nature into that thing that continually offers you what you need.
01:07:56.420
It's, it's, it's, of, that discovery is one of unparalleled brilliance. And, you know,
01:08:03.360
we don't get it. We think it's primitive. It's, and no wonder, you know, you can understand
01:08:07.660
human sacrifice. That sounds pretty primitive, man. It's terrifying. But the idea of sacrifice,
01:08:14.140
it's an act of, the, the idea itself is a conceptualization of utter genius. And why do
01:08:19.800
you expect it to come forward first in its perfect form? It's not going to do that. It's going to come
01:08:24.380
forward imperfectly and roughly and brutally, and then hopefully be refined across time, which is
01:08:30.580
exactly what has happened. You see, even in the biblical stories, the transition from human sacrifice to
01:08:35.520
animal sacrifice. And then with us now, it's a transition from animal sacrifice to psychological
01:08:40.800
sacrifice, because we're sophisticated enough to do that. We can let go of concepts and abstractions
01:08:46.520
and things that we're holding on to that we should no longer hold on to and progress in that manner.
01:08:52.140
It's, it's increasing articulated psychological sophistication. But we still make sacrifices,
01:08:58.500
and we hope that they'll be accepted, and we hope that they're of high enough quality so that they work.
01:09:05.520
Well, that's a representation of Diana. You could think of Diana, there's an opposite,
01:09:11.060
Durga, in Hinduism. And she comes forth if you make the proper sacrifices to Kelly. But I wanted to
01:09:18.340
show you alternative representations from different cultures of these archetypal forms. This is Diana,
01:09:24.900
positive feminine, whoop, multi-breasted, right? She's the thing that nourishes the world. And so that
01:09:30.440
would be, on one hand, your mother, who obviously protects you from the terrible aspects of fire and
01:09:36.880
danger. But also, nature conceptualized as the positive feminine in general.
01:09:44.480
The source of all fertility, and all food, and all beings, and all good things. Something that you want
01:09:50.400
to have on your side. That's for sure. And you might say, if you acted heroically, properly, and you played
01:09:57.060
the metagame and not the game, and you made the proper sacrifices, then you'd never encounter Kelly.
01:10:01.900
You'd only encounter her benevolent counterpart. And so then you might say, well, does she even exist
01:10:06.420
then? That's something that's very interesting, is because the degree to which the terrible part of
01:10:11.720
the world manifests itself in your life is proportionate to how insufficient you are.
01:10:17.880
And we don't know the full extent of that. If you got your act together completely,
01:10:21.460
maybe all the suffering would disappear from your life. Or at least maybe all the unbearable
01:10:26.540
suffering. And maybe all the suffering, or the unbearable suffering, from the lives of people
01:10:31.760
around you, too. And you already know that, because there are people that you'll go to in a crisis
01:10:36.280
that you can rely on, and you know they'll help you. And you wonder what the world would be like
01:10:41.160
if you were like that, and everyone else was like that, too. We'd have a lot fewer crises.
01:10:45.880
And the ones that we do have would be a lot more manageable. And so when people say, well,
01:10:51.180
why is the world so rife with suffering? One answer to that is because we're not yet what
01:10:56.600
we could be. And at least that's an answer that we have some control over, right? You're not going
01:11:01.260
to talk God out of making the world suffer, that's for sure. And you're not going to negotiate directly
01:11:05.940
with Mother Nature. But you might be able to put yourself together a little bit and see if that
01:11:09.960
works. At least it's under your control. And God only knows what the upper limit of that might be.
01:11:15.880
Well, here's the decomposition of the fundamental archetype. The dragon of chaos differentiates,
01:11:23.940
on the one hand, into the feminine. That's the unknown. And the feminine differentiates further
01:11:28.220
into the negative feminine than the positive feminine. The negative feminine is the reason
01:11:34.200
for witch hunts. It's the reason for, you know, there's a whole group online called Men Going
01:11:43.160
Their Own Way. M-G-T-O-W. That's a very interesting group to go study. There's lots of them. I don't
01:11:49.660
know how many of them there are. And most of them are older. Many of them are men who've
01:11:53.380
been through a particularly horrifying divorce for one reason or another. And they've had
01:11:58.300
enough of women. So they tell the young men that they're teaching, never have a permanent
01:12:03.560
relationship. Never share your territory with a woman. Never share your possessions.
01:12:07.800
Make sure you never live together. And don't stay with one long enough to enter a common
01:12:13.260
law relationship. Because you'll be stripped of everything that you have.
01:12:16.880
Well, that's a hell of a thing to be telling people. But what's happened is that the female
01:12:20.920
has been manifested in their life only as the negative archetype. And they've got that confused
01:12:25.720
with all women. And that's partly, you know, you've got to ask yourself, if you know the
01:12:30.560
mythological stories, maybe if you made the right sacrifices, you wouldn't have so much
01:12:33.980
trouble with women. It's a good question to ask yourself first. And I would also say,
01:12:40.080
you know, if you're a woman who has trouble with men, or you're a man who has trouble with
01:12:44.640
women, it's not the women and it's not the men. It's you. Because the women are telling
01:12:50.180
you what's wrong with you. And the men are telling you what's wrong with you. And if you
01:12:54.300
don't listen, then it's you. It's either you or all men. Well, that's easy. It's all men.
01:12:59.640
Well, that's certainly how it's played out in the world right now. It's like, no, it's
01:13:03.780
not all men. You can be, by definition, by definition. And it's not all women. That's
01:13:10.120
for sure. I don't want to have anything to do with women. It's like, you're a pathetic
01:13:13.820
weasel. That's the same statement. Here's some lovely representations. This is Mary, represented
01:13:23.280
in very different eras. This is a very old one. This is about 12th century. I absolutely
01:13:27.720
love this image. It's so profound. So what you see here is Mary as eternal mother of
01:13:33.260
the infant, okay? She's sitting on the crescent moon here. She's tween of the night. And
01:13:37.760
underneath, you can't see this very well, but underneath the moon, there's a reptile. And
01:13:41.780
she's got it crunched nicely underneath her feet. And that's Satan, in part, which means
01:13:46.420
protect your children from malevolence. And it's the predator. And so what's the proper
01:13:53.440
orientation for her mother? Protect your infant from malevolent predators. Obviously, right?
01:13:59.420
That's the holy image of the mother. So she's holding the infant safely in her arms. She's
01:14:04.240
queen of the universe. And she's coming out of this strange tunnel. It's the same. These
01:14:08.220
are called a mandorla, by the way, this tunnel. And it's actually... This is going to be very
01:14:13.840
strange, but I'm going to tell you what it is anyways. It's like a hole into the fabric
01:14:17.800
of time and space. And it's revealing an image that's eternal, that's outside of time
01:14:23.340
and space. And it's outside of time and space because it recurs all the time. It never ages.
01:14:29.880
It's an image that transcends temporality. Now, you might say, well, is it real? And the answer
01:14:35.400
to that is, well, it depends on what you mean by real. Something that transcends temporality
01:14:39.660
is pretty damn real. And so that's what that hole in the sky represents. It also represents
01:14:46.380
the place from which all forms emerge. So there's a biological component to it, too.
01:14:51.220
Right? So it's as if these divine figures are standing in front. Well, I'll show you
01:14:56.560
in a minute of what they're standing in front of. And you see here the same thing with these
01:15:00.220
little putti. That's what they're called. Sort of embedded in the flesh-like folds
01:15:04.320
around here. And you see Mary here holding the infant again away from the terrible predator.
01:15:10.660
That's the serpent of chaos down there in the ocean.
01:15:14.140
And that's, again, what does that mean? Why would the serpent of chaos be in the ocean?
01:15:18.500
Well, how many of our ancestral infants do you suppose were eaten by crocodiles at the
01:15:23.220
waterhole? Plenty. Plenty of them. And so that's something to be terrified of and to
01:15:28.500
take precautions against. And so, and then this image here, the older one, see all these weird
01:15:34.680
little figures in the background here? You can't see them, but they're musical instruments.
01:15:38.660
They're all sorts of archaic musical instruments. And so here's what the image means. It means
01:15:44.880
the potential from which this figure is emerging is like a musical construction. So it's like a
01:15:52.280
symphony. It's this patterned layer. It's patterns, layer upon layers of harmonious patterns that make
01:15:59.420
up being. And out of that emerges this image. And that's what that image represents.
01:16:03.600
And that's what music represents. It represents this patterned potential that we're constantly
01:16:08.740
interacting with. It's deeply, deeply meaningful. That's why we love music so much.
01:16:13.600
But that's an absolute work of genius to put those two things together. It's remarkable.
01:16:20.400
So, well, let's stop there. And we'll meet again in 15 minutes. And then this, so that's
01:16:33.680
the positive feminine on the left. And then on the right, that's the gorgon. And that's
01:16:38.500
the thing that fills you with terror when you look at it. There's another representation of
01:16:43.500
the positive feminine. It's another representation of Mary. There are representations very much like
01:16:47.400
this of Isis with Horus on her lap. And people often consider those precursors,
01:16:52.160
their Egyptian statues, precursors to the Christian iconography. And, well, I suppose in some sense
01:16:59.320
they are insofar as they predated them in time. But the fundamental issue is that, well, that
01:17:05.900
this image has to be held up as transcendent. And by that I mean it's got to be, it's an image that's
01:17:12.520
got to be at the basis of a value structure that actually works insofar as there's going to be
01:17:17.000
human beings. Because there aren't any human beings without the infant and the mother. And so if
01:17:21.340
that's not held up as an image of ultimate value, then everything falls apart. And it's something our
01:17:27.340
culture does extraordinarily badly. I had a client recently admit to me in ashamed tones that she
01:17:34.160
wanted to have children. I thought, I said, well, you don't have to be ashamed of that, especially not
01:17:38.300
if you're talking to me. And she said, oh, that's such a relief because I can't talk to anyone about it
01:17:42.180
at work. They seem to think that it's, you know, degrading. That you can hardly diagnose a culture
01:17:48.180
as more pathological than that. That's so appalling. And it's so hard. It's one of the
01:17:53.420
things I really feel badly for young women, because they're not guided through this with any sense
01:17:57.760
whatsoever. And I'll tell you what my experience has been working with women. And you can take this
01:18:02.400
for what it's worth. And I've worked with women who've achieved the highest levels of their
01:18:07.640
profession. I don't mean just in academia, but in a number of different fields. This is what happens.
01:18:12.860
We'll take the typical woman, conservative woman, because they're more typical, conscientious,
01:18:17.600
not particularly open. So they're dutiful people. You know, they're existing within the structures of
01:18:22.720
their society. So I'll take female lawyers as a classic example. So they're very good at high school,
01:18:27.960
very hardworking, very intelligent, but very dutiful and often rather agreeable. And that's important
01:18:34.200
because it means, to some degree, that they want to please and they'll do what they're told. And so
01:18:38.240
part of the reason I think that women are outperforming men in elementary, junior high school,
01:18:42.840
high school and university is because they're more likely to be obedient. And I know that to some degree
01:18:47.360
because we did analysis of students in Quebec and found out that one thing that predicted grades over
01:18:52.800
and above intelligence and conscientiousness was agreeableness. And agreeable people got better grades
01:18:58.540
than their IQ and conscientiousness would predict. And that's particularly negative for men. So imagine
01:19:03.540
this is what's happening. So you're a borderline student and you're also a bit rebellious and
01:19:10.940
antisocial. I'm going to fail you. Like you're right on the cusp. Don't like you much. You fail.
01:19:16.960
You have exactly the same grade profile, but I like you. Tick. You move ahead. You don't.
01:19:23.060
And so one of the things that's dividing men from women as they progress through school is the degree to
01:19:28.560
which they're agreeable. Now, that works out to some degree for women insofar as the agreeableness
01:19:33.900
moves them forward. But they encounter the negative elements of being agreeable later in their careers.
01:19:38.520
Anyways, the women are very good in high school. Then they go to college. They're very good in college.
01:19:44.700
They nail their damn grades. They do their studying. They get their A's and they, and they ace their LSATs.
01:19:50.680
So they're smart too. Then they go off to do their articling and they're really, really good at it.
01:19:54.800
And then they get offered an associate position and they're really, really good at it. And then by the
01:19:58.900
time they're 30, they make partner. And let's say they're in high pressure, high paying jobs.
01:20:04.240
$250,000 a year. $300,000 a year. $500 an hour. Okay. What's your life like? You work all the time.
01:20:13.760
Period. 70 hours a week. 75 hours a week. Flat out. And you don't get to make any mistakes.
01:20:20.940
And if your client calls you at three in the morning on Sunday, you say, I'm really glad to
01:20:26.000
hear you, hear from you. Because if you don't, there's some hot law firm in New York that'll
01:20:30.340
take your client from you at a moment's notice. And the client is paying you, whatever, the firm,
01:20:35.900
$750 an hour, of which maybe you get $350. And what they want is an answer about something really
01:20:41.220
complicated. Right bloody now. And you can say all you want about the fact that women have a difficult
01:20:46.800
time with that because it's a male-dominated patriarchy. Any female lawyer who's hit 30 and
01:20:52.660
is a partner that has any sense at all knows that's complete bloody rubbish. It's market determined right
01:20:57.400
to the core. What happens to the women when they're in their 30s? They all leave the high-end law firms.
01:21:04.480
Why? Because who in their right mind would want to live like that? That's the issue, right? Once you
01:21:11.300
make about $60,000 a year for your family, but let's say for you personally, additional income
01:21:17.080
makes zero, has zero impact on your quality of life. Zero. So why work 80 hours a week? Well, men
01:21:24.880
will do it. Some men, very few. A handful of hyper-competitive men who are obsessed with hitting
01:21:30.840
the pinnacle of the given dominance hierarchy they're in will happily work 80 hours a week and
01:21:36.100
they'll forego everything else. Relationships, family, children, way in the second category.
01:21:42.840
And so those men are often very difficult to live with too because they're so obsessed with
01:21:46.460
their career. It's hard to have a relationship with them. And maybe they don't have much of a
01:21:50.100
relationship with their kids, but they're damn good at what they do. And part of that is, is they're
01:21:54.200
smart and disciplined and they'll work non-stop all the time. It's like an obsession. And that's the
01:22:01.040
sort of people who run things. Those are the people who run things. Well, they're often also
01:22:05.900
disagreeable too, because you want to, you want to manage people? Really? They're not going to like
01:22:10.240
you. You know, and it's not an easy thing to not be liked. And actually, if you're an agreeable
01:22:14.640
person, and women are more agreeable than men, it's quite painful to be disliked. But if you're
01:22:19.460
in a managerial and executive position, the probability that people are going to like you
01:22:23.720
is quite low. Now, if you're a real son of a bitch, then they're going to dislike you more.
01:22:28.040
But it's, it's, those, those positions are very stressful, partly because of the interpersonal
01:22:32.480
dynamics. And they're also incredibly, incredibly competitive. So the women hit that at 30, and
01:22:38.900
they're completely qualified. And the law firms are bloody desperate to keep them, because it's
01:22:43.380
really hard to find highly qualified people, especially once you've put all that time into
01:22:47.260
training them, especially if they're also good at bringing in business. The law firms trip over
01:22:51.600
themselves to try to keep them. They can't. The women think, why in the world am I doing this? Why in the
01:22:57.400
world would anyone in their right mind do this? Especially because they're often married by that
01:23:02.120
point, too. And generally, they've married a husband who makes as much money or more than them.
01:23:07.180
So they don't need the damn money. And so they think, well, there's more to life than this, which
01:23:11.760
is exactly the right thing to think. And so then they go and find a job that's nine to five and
01:23:16.760
controllable, so that they can hire a nanny and have some kids and have a life. And it's like, yes,
01:23:22.220
that's the intelligent thing to do. So we've got things backwards in our culture. We're thinking,
01:23:27.840
at least in part, why aren't there more women in positions of power? Wrong question. The right
01:23:33.600
question is, why are there any men at all who want those positions of power? Because it's not just
01:23:39.300
positions of power. You have to be such a knothead to think that. Oh, it's a position of power. It's
01:23:44.440
like, sure. But it's a position of overwhelming responsibility. And if you make mistakes, you're done.
01:23:50.880
Right? It's not like you occupy that position of power, and everyone does what they're told all
01:23:55.380
the time, and your life is easy. It's like, forget about that. People are on your case to do exactly
01:24:00.380
the right thing all the time, 100% of the time. And maybe you want that, and maybe you don't. So
01:24:06.160
the, what, I don't know what people think. If these people are all sitting in their offices with their,
01:24:10.420
like, feet up on the desk, smoking cigars and oppressing the world. It's like, that isn't how it
01:24:15.000
works. Those people, they work flat out all the time. So, and it's fine if that's what you want.
01:24:22.020
And some people are like that. They're hyper-industrious people, right? From a trade
01:24:25.160
perspective. No matter where you put them. If you put them in a forest with an axe, they just wander
01:24:29.900
around chopping down trees nonstop, right? Because they're, it's built into them. But if you want to
01:24:35.520
have a balanced life, and you should want that, you know, because the other thing you'll find,
01:24:40.000
this is God's gospel truth, is that the older you get, if you have any sense at all, the more
01:24:45.920
important your family is to you. Like, the utility of your career, maybe that peaks around 35 or 40,
01:24:52.540
and it starts to decline pretty rapidly after that. And what happens, if you're fortunate,
01:24:57.860
you have someone in your life that you love, that you've woven yourself together with, and you have
01:25:02.020
some kids, so that you have something to do from the time you're 50 till the time you're 80.
01:25:06.700
And so, it's a real mistake. It's a barren future without children, man. I can tell you that. It's
01:25:11.820
a real mistake. And so, we do a terrible job of, say, putting that image forward and saying, well,
01:25:17.720
yeah. Now, you know, because women have access to the birth control pill now, and can compete in the
01:25:23.540
same domains as men, roughly speaking, there is a real practical problem here. It's partly an economic
01:25:29.440
problem now, because when I was roughly your age, it was still possible for a one-income family
01:25:35.000
to exist. Well, you know that wages have been flat, except in the upper 1%, since 1973. Why?
01:25:45.560
Well, it's easy. What happens when you double the labor force? What happens? You have the value of labor.
01:25:52.500
So, now we're in a situation where it takes two people to make as much as one did before. So, we went from a
01:25:57.460
situation where women's career opportunities were relatively limited, to where they were relatively
01:26:03.080
unlimited, and there were two incomes, to where, and so women could work, to a situation where women
01:26:09.160
have to work, and they only make half as much as they would have otherwise. And now we're going to
01:26:13.960
go into a situation, this is the next step, whereas women will work because men won't.
01:26:20.040
And that's what's coming now. So, there was an economics, economist article showing that 50% now of
01:26:26.800
boys in school are having trouble with their basic subjects. And you look around you in universities,
01:26:31.980
you can see this happening. I've watched it over decades. I would say 90% of the people in my
01:26:37.200
personality class are now women. There won't be a damn man left in university in 10 years,
01:26:41.800
except in the STEM fields. And it's a complete, bloody catastrophe. And it's a catastrophe for
01:26:47.620
women, because I don't know where the hell you're going to find someone to have a, you know, to marry
01:26:51.920
and have a family with, if this keeps happening. So, and you think, when you're 19, because you're so
01:26:57.060
clueless when you're 19, you don't know a bloody thing. You think, well, I'm not really sure I want
01:27:01.220
children anyways. It's like, oh yeah, you tell how well you've been educated. Jesus, dismal.
01:27:07.500
Dismal. Without fail, I got to tell you, without fail, I've watched women go through their
01:27:13.200
professional careers. Many, many of them. It's a very rare woman who, at the age of 30,
01:27:18.340
doesn't consider having a child her primary desire. And the ones that don't consider that,
01:27:24.100
generally, in my observation, there's something that isn't quite right in the way that they're
01:27:28.160
constituted or looking at the world. Sometimes you get women who are truly non-maternal, you know,
01:27:32.800
by temperament. They have a masculine temperament. Disagreeable. They're not particularly
01:27:37.340
compassionate. They're not maternal. They don't really, they're not that interested in kids.
01:27:41.440
Fair enough, man. But there aren't that many of them. And there's plenty who will not admit to
01:27:47.340
themselves that that's what they most desperately want.
01:27:49.500
Do you think women would be better off if they had kids earlier, focused on career, say, in their 30s?
01:27:55.960
Ah, who knows? Like, it's like, it really is a problem.
01:28:01.760
Yeah, it's a really tough one. I don't think anybody knows the answer to that, because...
01:28:05.500
If you're 35 and your kids are, say, 10, 11, then you can go get a bachelor's degree, get your master's.
01:28:11.320
Well, it seems to be more easy that way than having the career first and then trying to raise young kids.
01:28:19.460
Yeah, I can't answer that, because I've seen women do a good job of it both ways. And you do get the
01:28:26.100
odd woman who manages a high-powered career and kids, but Jesus, those women, man. Like, they buy more
01:28:32.960
powerful microwaves because it'll take 45 seconds to cook the food instead of a minute. And I'm not
01:28:38.380
kidding. It's like they're up at 5, they exercise for half an hour, they make breakfast, they get
01:28:43.120
their kids ready to work, they go to work, they work 14 hours at 14-hour days, flat bloody out. They
01:28:48.000
come home and work for another two hours to get their kids organized. They have a nanny to help
01:28:52.800
them out, and then they work for two more hours before they go to bed at, like, 1. And then they're
01:28:56.280
up at 5, and they do that again. And I'll tell you, you better be tough if you're going to do that
01:29:00.240
physically, too, because you'll just burn yourself to a crisp. I've seen some women manage it, you know,
01:29:05.520
but they're, like, they're tough, and they're rare, because that's a hell of a, a hell of a
01:29:11.520
regimen. And then if anything goes wrong, you know, you have a sick kid or something like that,
01:29:15.520
or there's any sort of crisis in your family, it's just, you know, it's, then it becomes too much.
01:29:22.240
And I don't know the answer to that, you know. I mean, the advantage women have is they live about
01:29:26.220
eight years longer than men, because testosterone kills men. So...
01:29:30.800
Well, that, that, that's right. They pay up front and, and gain on the, on the, on the,
01:29:37.600
in the long run. But how, it isn't clear how our society should sort this out. We don't know,
01:29:43.120
and it's partly, we don't know what to do now that women have control of their reproductive
01:29:48.640
Yep. Yes. Well, and the thing is, young, stupid people have the advantage of being young.
01:30:15.200
Middle-aged, stupid people have the disadvantage of being middle-aged. And so if you're going to
01:30:20.160
hire a young, stupid person, or a middle-aged, stupid person, you'll go for the young, stupid
01:30:24.400
person. And I'm, by stupid, I mean, you know, not, not, I'm being sarcastic, obviously, but I,
01:30:29.540
I mean, without, without experience, and just getting started in the world, you're much more likely to
01:30:34.140
favor someone young, because there's an instant explanation for their relative cluelessness.
01:30:39.200
And it's a problem, you know. So, so I don't know what the answer is. But one, one answer certainly
01:30:46.260
is, at least in part, is to start letting young women know what being 30 and being female is like,
01:30:53.160
because, and also to disbuse them of the notion that there's something magical about a career.
01:30:57.660
First of all, most people don't have careers, man. They have jobs. And the reason you get paid for a job
01:31:02.880
is because you're being asked to do things you wouldn't do unless you were being paid.
01:31:06.420
And so, it's not, it's not some, it's not some utopia of cigar smoking with your boots up on your
01:31:12.680
desk. That's for sure. Not, not that that would be such a utopia to begin with. But, all right. So,
01:31:19.520
so anyways. So this is more differentiation of the archetype, fundamentally. So you see the dragon of
01:31:27.400
chaos here, that potential manifesting itself into this ambivalent feminine figure, both, both promise
01:31:33.140
and threat. And then I've, I've mapped this one out. So the ambivalent feminine figure,
01:31:38.480
so sort of multivalent, gives rise to the positive mother. And then the positive mother gives birth
01:31:42.960
to the hero. And that's Hercules there. And this, I like this image a lot. So Hercules is in this
01:31:48.600
container. So that's, you can interpret that both as something feminine, the container, but also as a
01:31:53.680
representative of culture, because it's a boat that's floating on the chaotic ocean here. So that's
01:31:58.240
Hercules. He has to be in a container that sustains him in the murky water of chaos.
01:32:03.580
And you see, he's going out into the unknown, and he's got a lion's skin on. And that's partly
01:32:09.420
because one of the initiation rituals for, for young men, when there were lions, say, in the Middle East,
01:32:15.940
and that wasn't very long ago, was that you had to go out and kill a lion with a spear, or with a bow
01:32:19.740
and arrow, or something like that. It's like, that's, you know, impressive, all things considered.
01:32:25.680
I mean, you really think about that for a minute. You really want to go out and try to kill a lion
01:32:29.400
with a stick? It's like, it probably, you probably wouldn't be quite the same after you did that.
01:32:34.580
That would be my guess. And so anyway, so there's Hercules. He's got his lion's skin on, and that
01:32:39.160
shows that he's assimilated to the lion, the dominant sort of animal, and that he's also mastered it.
01:32:44.000
And he's got his bow and arrow. So he's, he's going to hit the target properly. He's not, he's someone
01:32:48.800
who doesn't sin, because he can hit the center of the target. And he's got this club, which I really like,
01:32:53.520
because it's covered with eyes, just like Marduk, the Mesopotamian hero. Well, what do you want to do
01:32:58.260
when you go out into the unknown? It's like, arm yourself and pay attention. And so that's what you're
01:33:03.640
trying to produce, if you're a good mother, is this figure that can go out into the unknown, armed,
01:33:09.440
accurate, and able to pay attention. And that's a hell of a thing to participate in. It's really fun.
01:33:16.240
I found having children incredibly entertaining. It's a ridiculously entertaining thing to do,
01:33:20.840
because for a bunch of reasons. One is that it's the only relationship you'll ever have in your life
01:33:26.440
where you, where you actually have a chance of establishing something that's close to perfect
01:33:30.320
is with your kids. Because when they're delivered to you, so to speak, they're, they're, in some sense,
01:33:35.880
they're perfect. And your job is to maintain that perfection, if you can. And you do that by being
01:33:41.260
a good parent, by being encouraging, by being on their side, by taking care of them. And you can have a
01:33:46.480
absolutely pristine relationship with the child. That doesn't mean it's not full of trouble, because it is.
01:33:52.340
But it's, it can easily be the best relationship you'll ever have in your life. And in fact, I think that's,
01:33:58.200
it can be the worst, too. And, you know, sometimes you get unlucky, and your child is sick, mentally or physically,
01:34:03.300
and things fall apart, and it's not your fault. But, and sometimes it is your fault. But it's a real gift.
01:34:09.940
And you, you have to play this game of protection and encouragement, right? Protection and encouragement.
01:34:15.880
And get that dynamic right. And then you build, you help someone develop into something that's,
01:34:21.780
well, exactly this, that can take on the trouble of the world forthrightly. And, man, that's what you want.
01:34:28.920
That'll make it worthwhile, that's for sure. Now, let's see. I've got to figure out where I want to go next.
01:34:34.700
Well, I've talked about the dragon fight, so I won't do that. Oh, yes, we might as well look at some of the,
01:34:38.500
the, we'll look at the same thing on the patriarchal side of the equation. So,
01:34:42.900
the, it's the great father and the great mother that emerge out of chaos, let's say that.
01:34:48.520
You, you can think about that over the evolutionary time span, too, because it's the fundamental
01:34:53.100
differentiation of life into one, into two sexes. You know, the fundamental differentiation of being
01:34:59.540
into two sexes that interact creatively to produce, to produce new being. It's a very, very deep motif.
01:35:06.140
And so, the dragon of chaos differentiates itself into the great father. And that's God,
01:35:11.860
the father. That's an image there. And you see, he's sitting in front of the sun. And the sun is
01:35:16.620
behind him. And the sun is the thing that comes up out of the darkness in the morning, and then
01:35:21.440
shines the light on everything with which we can see, and then collapses again into the darkness
01:35:27.280
at night, right? And so, at night, it fights its battle with the forces of darkness and chaos,
01:35:32.600
and emerges triumphant in the morning. And that's why we have solar gods, because the highest deity
01:35:38.900
is assimilated to the dominant, the dominant phenomena in the sky. And, well, and no wonder,
01:35:45.500
because the sun is also what gives life, and that provides light, and that does send the darkness
01:35:51.020
away. And to notice that there's something symbolically useful in that, that you can also
01:35:56.400
apply to the ideal person, is another act of conceptual metaphoric genius. And so, behind
01:36:02.420
God the Father is the sun. S-O-N, sun. And you see, he's ruling over a walled city here. And you
01:36:10.420
can think about God the Father here as the spirit of the walled city. That's a good way of thinking
01:36:15.480
about it. And so, and why, what does that spirit mean? Well, forget about the supernatural element
01:36:21.300
of this, or the transcendent element of it, even. How do you represent society? Okay, you've got
01:36:30.540
your walled city. Okay, why is it walled? That's the fundamental structure of a city. Why is it walled?
01:36:37.300
Well, because you have to have a border between what's yours and what isn't yours, or a border
01:36:41.000
between your territory and the outside world, right? Otherwise, it's not delineated and defined.
01:36:45.860
So, the first thing is, it's something that's walled off. It's a defined space. Inside that,
01:36:51.700
there's a dominance hierarchy. It's a masculine dominance hierarchy, because like chimps, our
01:36:56.460
fundamental dominance hierarchy is masculine. Okay, so the dominance hierarchy is, what's the
01:37:01.860
same across all the men? And then it's more than that. It's, it's what's, it's what's the same across
01:37:09.660
all men, insofar as they found their position in the dominance hierarchy, insofar as they're
01:37:14.560
supporting it, insofar as they're expanding it, and insofar as they're trying to strive
01:37:19.420
up it. So it's averaged across that. But then it's more than that, because it's not just the
01:37:24.080
men that live now. It's also the men that used to live, and the men that will live. And you
01:37:29.800
think, what are you relating to when you relate to other people? Well, in part, you're relating
01:37:34.800
to the spirit of the men that will soon live. And that's what a contract is, right? You make
01:37:40.600
a contract with the potential society of the future. It's embodied as a spirit. And so you act
01:37:46.460
appropriately in relationship to the patriarchal spirit, because if you act in accordance with that
01:37:52.500
structure, then you can extend your contractual relationship with other people across time.
01:37:59.180
It's brilliant. It's a brilliant conceptualization. That's independent of any supernatural or
01:38:04.600
transcendent reality. I'm not saying it exists in necessary opposition to such things. I'm just
01:38:11.180
saying that you don't have to introduce the idea of such things into the conceptualization
01:38:16.280
in order to understand the symbolism. Now, I think it's more complicated than that, because
01:38:22.760
if you think about this thing as a spirit, a spirit is an essential pattern of personality. Let's call
01:38:30.640
it that. To the degree that you're a well-civilized representative of the social world, you are
01:38:37.120
actually inhabited by that spirit. And so what should happen as you mature is that as you become
01:38:43.200
older, you should become God the Father. That's what you're aiming at. You want to embody that central
01:38:49.200
spirit that characterizes the civilization. And that spirit's very complex. And that's why you
01:38:55.060
often see it in relationship with the representation of God the Son, because the masculine spirit
01:39:00.620
isn't, the spirit in general, the spirit of civilization, isn't exhausted by its patriarchal
01:39:05.720
representation. That's the dogmatic form, like Osiris, right? It's only the structure. That has
01:39:11.700
to be allied with the thing that keeps the structure alive. So you want to be both of those things at
01:39:16.320
the same time. The embodiment of the civilization and the force that transforms it and moves it
01:39:22.380
forward. And that's what you're supposed to be being taught. That's what university is for. Well,
01:39:27.900
that's what it used to be for. Now it's mostly there to produce politically obsessed idiots.
01:39:33.000
Oh, anyways. Sorry about that. But it gets very frustrating. So, all right. So then you get
01:39:39.360
the picture. That's what that represents. That's what it's trying... That's an idea that's been
01:39:44.020
trying to emerge in the human imagination since the beginning of time. And it's not a trivial idea.
01:39:49.340
It's an unbelievably profound idea. And it differentiates, too. And this is what makes
01:39:54.460
it complicated. What kind of relationship do you have with your father? Your real father.
01:40:00.060
It's often ambivalent, right? Because there's an element of him that encouraged you, hopefully,
01:40:05.360
because without the encouragement of your father, man, the world is a dismal place.
01:40:09.840
It's very difficult to be a courageous person unless you have your father in body and spirit
01:40:15.820
behind you. It's very demoralizing. Like, it really kills people not to have their mother.
01:40:21.100
They just don't recover from that. But... And I think people can recover from a fragmented
01:40:26.840
father relationship. But it's the next worst thing. You know, because if your father rejects
01:40:33.880
you or doesn't form a relationship with you, it's as if the spirit of civilization has left
01:40:38.780
you outside the walls as of little worth. It's very difficult for people to recover from
01:40:44.360
that. So the father should be an encouraging force, but can be a tyrannical and crushing force.
01:40:49.360
And so that's very... That's a very difficult thing to get right. Partly because
01:40:53.680
if you're my son, then I should impose the highest standards of behavior on you.
01:41:01.360
And I should always be judging what you're doing. I should be judging it with the aim of making
01:41:07.740
the best in you come forward. But getting that balance exactly right is very difficult.
01:41:13.900
And so it's easy for a father to swing too much into judgment, let's say. And of course,
01:41:19.960
mothers can play this role too. To swing too far into the domain of judgment and to be too
01:41:24.160
harsh. And to the degree that the father has his own pathologies, he's going to do that
01:41:28.960
imperfectly. You know, he might be someone who's the father who devours his son because
01:41:34.920
he's jealous of the new possibility, the new potential, the struggle for attention and love
01:41:42.400
from the mother or from the other children in the family. There's all sorts of things
01:41:48.660
So that's the father as wise king. And that's another symbol that's been lost, I would say,
01:41:53.960
to a massive degree in modern universities. Because all we're taught is to tear that down.
01:42:00.160
And to not even notice that it manifests itself everywhere, especially in the universities,
01:42:04.480
which are... Like, they're as close to an ideal environment as you could... As human beings
01:42:08.580
have ever been able to create. It's as simple as that. And if you can't be grateful for the
01:42:13.960
structure of the university with all its imperfections, then you're completely blind to this element
01:42:19.140
of the archetype. And that's the opposite of it. That's the son that devours, the king
01:42:25.040
that devours his own son. That's a tyrant. You know, that's like the mother who's too
01:42:29.940
overprotective. It's the male version of that. And the mother that's too overprotective says,
01:42:34.520
I'll never let anything happen to you. It's like, well, maybe you actually want to have
01:42:38.740
something happen to you. You know, it's a bit of an all-inclusive statement.
01:42:43.000
It's like, no, I'm going to make you strong. So any number of things can happen to you.
01:42:47.460
And when you're... When you need some care, I'll be there. But otherwise, like out into the world
01:42:52.260
with you, that's the right attitude. And for the father, it's like, get your bloody act together.
01:42:57.140
But I'm on your side. It's because... Not because I want to destroy you or demean you or push you down
01:43:02.420
in the dominance hierarchy, but because I want the best in you to emerge.
01:43:06.180
And so you need standards. It's like, what are you doing wasting your life?
01:43:09.900
There's way more than that to you. Get your act together and bring it out.
01:43:14.480
And that's a message that people really want to hear if they have any sense at all.
01:43:17.860
And generally, they do want to hear it. So, you know, I was talking...
01:43:24.080
I've been talking to a lot of people recently, as perhaps you know.
01:43:27.380
And I was talking to one of the leaders of the Conservatives this morning.
01:43:30.920
And they're asking me about... The person was asking me about Bill C-16.
01:43:34.900
But more specifically about talking to young people.
01:43:39.240
Because the Conservative leadership struggle is going on right now.
01:43:44.580
And I said, well, look, one of the things you could do for young people
01:43:47.040
that no one's doing is to talk to them about responsibility.
01:43:50.700
Because everyone talks to young people about rights.
01:43:55.660
It's like, oh, God, how many rights do you need?
01:43:59.660
Like, you have more privileges than any people who've ever lived anywhere.
01:44:10.080
It's so demeaning that you have to be protected and have your rights.
01:44:14.120
It's like I said, there's a huge marketplace for responsibility.
01:44:17.580
That's what you want to talk to young people about.
01:44:19.380
It's like, get your act together and do something worthwhile with your life.
01:44:25.880
the Conservatives actually have something to sell young people, right?
01:44:32.660
Because that's where life has meaning with responsibility.
01:44:36.200
The more responsibility you take on, the more meaning your life has.
01:44:39.580
And the higher degree of responsibility that you agree voluntarily to try to bear,
01:44:52.000
You know, it's like you have four kids say, well, that's plenty of responsibility.
01:44:58.180
It's going to be rough, you know, because it's complicated.
01:45:00.680
You have a complicated job and you try to help the careers of the people around you.
01:45:05.820
You try to solve tough problems and aid suffering and do all of that.
01:45:17.340
And young people are starving for that because no one ever tells them that.
01:45:39.800
Because if we aren't, we're not going to survive.
01:45:57.140
Some of these popular mythological stories, myth-based fairy tales, modern fairy tales, have got things really right.
01:46:07.500
So, I think I told you that in the Google engineers' investigations of female sexual fantasies, the pirate played a large role.
01:46:18.200
Werewolf, vampire, pirate, surgeon, billionaire.
01:46:23.140
Well, pirate, you know, captain of the high seas and someone willing to break rules.
01:46:28.480
Well, so the idea of the great father as the pirate is a good one.
01:46:41.280
Well, it isn't because he's got a hook, precisely.
01:46:46.600
It's because he's being chased by a crocodile with a clock in its stomach.
01:47:01.680
He's terrified into resentment and evil, roughly speaking.
01:47:07.640
And so, that's the father in the Peter Pan story out in Neverland, which is the archetypal domain.
01:47:15.100
Well, why would Peter Pan want to grow up to be Captain Hook?
01:47:28.820
Well, why would you sacrifice the potential of youth to become nothing but a death-obsessed tyrant?
01:47:46.360
She's just this perfect little thing that's always around whenever Peter Pan needs her.
01:47:50.660
But the problem with Tinkerbell is that she's a fairy and fairies don't exist.
01:48:01.980
And, you know, maybe it's better to be king of the lost boys than not to be king at all.
01:48:08.340
King of the damned is not exactly something to...
01:48:11.000
It's not a dominance hierarchy to strive for dominating.
01:48:20.780
So that's a negative element of the Great Father.
01:48:29.100
This is a representation of Moses receiving the rules for living from God on high.
01:48:36.700
And I see that's a story of the revelation of structure.
01:48:46.540
Now and then we get a glimpse of what the moral structure is.
01:48:48.960
And it hits people with the force of a revelation.
01:48:52.300
And that's partly what the story of Moses lays out.
01:49:09.520
And it's something like, to transcend your littleness.
01:49:15.040
That's what's at the top of the dominance hierarchy.
01:49:17.500
It's what's at the top of all possible dominance hierarchies.
01:49:23.200
That's the father who supports the son that's transcending his own vulnerability.
01:49:36.080
You know, you admire people who are courageous.
01:49:39.420
And when you decompose that, it means that they're able to act appropriately.
01:49:44.560
And in a helpful, compassionate, wise, and tough manner.
01:49:49.300
Despite the fact that they're beset with all of the problems of mortality that beset everyone else.
01:50:10.740
Because there's more to the Father than the state.
01:50:16.320
And that's the problem with nationalism and its totalitarian variance.
01:50:36.380
You need to be around people who are like you, so to speak.
01:50:44.500
And to make its head the bearer of the archetype of the knight.
01:50:49.860
Without having that element of individuality in it.
01:50:56.660
Because the National Socialists were hyper-national.
01:51:22.100
So that's the woman worshipping the strong father.
01:51:28.620
You see, he's surrounded by people there who focused in on him.
01:51:40.540
And you see right there that Hitler and the Nazis are assimilated to a mess of predatory snakes.
01:51:46.560
Well, if you want to appeal to someone's determination to destroy, you say, well, here you are.
01:51:56.660
And then you say, well, there's the snakes right there.
01:51:59.280
And the thing is, it's true to some degree, because you have plenty of snakes, just like everyone else.
01:52:12.480
Especially if there's already tension between the groups.
01:52:14.920
Or if the other group is identifiable in some manner.
01:52:28.420
You don't want to burn everything that the person that you fear owns.
01:52:33.060
You want to burn everything that the person who disgusts you owns.
01:52:36.920
And so you'll see people who are pushing the nationalist agenda hard.
01:52:42.400
Everything that was outside of the Aryan domain of purity wasn't to be feared.
01:52:50.720
And it should be destroyed and purified by fire.
01:52:55.600
The Nazis were unbelievably great at using fire of purification as a symbolic message.
01:53:05.120
And then you see here, this is an English poster from the World War II.
01:53:10.040
Asking people to buy bonds to fund the American or the British war effort.
01:53:19.640
Japan and Nazi Germany reaching out to the virgin mother and her infant child.
01:53:26.160
Deep subordination of archetypal imagery for the purposes, well, I hesitate to say propaganda.
01:53:33.880
Because World War II, in some sense, was pretty clear cut.
01:53:42.820
So the goose step, everybody moves exactly the same way.
01:53:45.940
Everybody's put, everybody's turned into exactly the same carbon copy of everyone else.
01:53:55.460
And the hierarchy becomes incredibly rigid and homogenous.
01:54:03.620
But it's terrible if you don't know where you're going.
01:54:07.000
You need some flaws in the crystalline structure.
01:54:12.380
And that's why you can't have everyone being the supreme leader's acolytes.
01:54:16.580
The whole bloody thing wanders off in one direction.
01:54:19.420
And because we don't know the right direction to go, wandering off in a single direction is extraordinarily dangerous.
01:54:36.340
This is one of the things that made fascism so difficult to fight.
01:54:39.040
Because with communism, because it was a fully articulated philosophy, you could attack it rationally.
01:54:49.660
Huge mass rallies and highly emotionally supercharged meetings.
01:54:55.940
And so Hitler built the biggest parade grounds in human history to host the Nuremberg rallies.
01:55:02.360
And he would get in front of them on this huge stage with, you know, with Greek columns.
01:55:09.060
And have blocks of thousands of people organized perfectly.
01:55:14.680
And order is associated with disgust sensitivity.
01:55:22.400
And behind him, he would have all of the searchlights from the Luftwaffe lined up.
01:55:28.920
Shooting their lights straight up miles into the sky.
01:55:31.320
So he'd stand in front of these incredibly impressive displays of light.
01:55:35.340
Long before there were rock shows and so forth doing that.
01:55:45.560
And if people were listening, he'd say more of it.
01:55:47.500
And if they were listening, he'd say more of it.
01:55:52.720
The mob got exactly from Hitler what they wanted.
01:55:59.360
And the worst horrors that were ever perpetrated on people.
01:56:04.120
Because there's no shortage of perpetrated horrors.
01:56:17.220
Some old man kissing a gilded statue of Stalin before it's going to be torn down.
01:56:26.800
And not the children that his policies starve to death, as you might well imagine.
01:56:31.760
There he is in his military uniform sitting on what's all, for all intents and purposes, a throne.
01:56:53.660
You may know, and perhaps you don't, that I was nominated to be rector of the University of Glasgow.
01:57:00.800
And today, yesterday, the different candidates put up their manifestos.
01:57:08.120
And the student newspaper put them up and then wrote analysis of the manifestos, which were biased.
01:57:14.780
And they were appallingly biased and one-sided.
01:57:19.900
And they said, well, we have a perfect right to our political opinion.
01:57:26.780
And maybe you could be just trying to tell what's happening.
01:57:31.760
And they said that one of the candidates that they clearly recommended, who seems to be a person who's perfectly heroic in his own right.
01:57:41.260
I mean, he's taken on very many difficult legal cases and worked for the oppressed and downtrodden who clearly exist.
01:57:49.120
It was either him or another candidate, it doesn't really matter, that they described as bolshie and outspoken.
01:57:57.840
It's like, well, you know, he's appropriately bolshie.
01:57:59.820
It's like, it's no different than saying, well, he's appropriately Nazi-like.
01:58:05.780
I mean, there were 50 million people that were killed in the Soviet Union by the Bolshies.
01:58:15.440
And all the other places, there were radical left bloodbaths.
01:58:26.740
It's the participation in some of the deepest intellectual morasses of evil that human beings have ever managed to create.
01:58:44.060
That sort of cartoon would have gotten you killed in the Soviet Union.
01:58:46.960
There's Stalin as Satan himself in a stained glass representation.
01:58:50.400
There's a statue of Stalin covered with red paint for the blood after the wall came down.
01:58:56.560
There's Stalin as what, it's very much like Modena's Satan, right?
01:59:00.680
You look at that, and it's exactly the same marketable idea.
01:59:03.960
There's the Americans going, hat, cap in hand to get a little largesse from Papa Stalin.
01:59:09.080
But that's a painting of the communists forcibly collectivizing the productive farmers in the Soviet Union in the early 1920s.
01:59:19.880
Everything from whom they stole and raped them and murdered them and shipped them off to Siberia and killed them and wiped out the productive farmers of the Soviet Union.
01:59:28.340
And then starved six million Ukrainians to death.
01:59:31.840
And there's some poor kid in the 1930s whose ribs are showing, you know, taking a bath in this pot with his eyes wide.
01:59:38.760
And, you know, he's one of the fortunate ones because he's still alive.
01:59:49.660
Well, that's the decomposition of chaos into God the Father, half providing security and order and half providing tyranny.
02:00:01.340
You try to interact with it in a way that enables the positive part of it to come forth.
02:00:09.260
Chaos gives rise to the Father who's nurturing and encouraging.
02:00:18.860
It's very hard to find that image, I can tell you.
02:00:21.160
And so, and then that gives rise to the proper balance of, the proper attitude from the Father produces the same thing.
02:00:31.880
The consciousness, the consciousness of the child that's willing to go forth, eyes open, and voluntarily confront chaos and turn it into order.
02:00:41.560
And that's the proper pathway for human beings.
02:00:47.260
I showed you that diagram, you know, of how you decompose a value structure.
02:00:53.560
And you can do it right down to the level of detail.
02:01:08.460
You put these skills together, and you represent them with abstract concepts.
02:01:25.820
The question is, what's at the pinnacle of that?
02:01:30.900
Because these things should be organized all the way up into a complete hierarchy.
02:01:53.140
That's no different than the story of the collective hunt.
02:01:58.060
You build yourself into someone that can have a long-term relationship with someone of the opposite sex.
02:02:03.580
Generally speaking, so that you can bring children into the world and turn them into exploratory heroes.
02:02:11.980
And that thing that's at the top, it's the same thing.
02:02:15.000
It's the integration of all of those things into the same thing.
02:02:21.220
It's the same as the thing that emerges from the belly of the whale.
02:02:25.480
And you also know that because you know that you have the capacity for admiration.
02:02:38.200
And that's a partial representation of the ultimate ideal.
02:02:47.580
So it was a map I tried to make in some sense of my own identity.
02:02:52.660
I mean, just using myself as an example of someone typically situated in society.
02:02:59.100
So, you know, I have this role, which is kind of a high-resolution role.
02:03:06.880
And so the father and husband thing is sort of nested inside of that because it's dependent on my economic success to some degree.
02:03:13.840
And then that's nested inside a capitalist structure.
02:03:16.440
And then that's nested inside, well, I said American personality, but it's sort of, that's good enough.
02:03:22.540
And then that's nested inside the humanistic Western personality and inside the Judeo-Christian personality.
02:03:27.840
And that's all nested inside this thing that's best conceptualized as something approximating the exploratory hero.
02:03:34.900
And so that's a value structure that's, and you know, you can differentiate that to a much higher level than father and husband.
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And we did that when we decomposed things right down to, you know, their motor actions.
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And this is, I think, there's something that's transcendent about this.
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So they're all operating properly at the same time, all the way up and all the way down.
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Like, if you get all those things together, your physiology would be organized and oriented properly too.
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Oh, you know, and that means your organs work properly and the micro elements of them work properly and all the way down.
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And then if everything is organized like that too, the society starts to work.
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Everything starts to organize itself along a horizontal axis where each level of the structure supports every other level.
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That's what you feel when you're engaged in doing something meaningful.
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And you can also feel like that as a kind of strength that pushes you forward instead of pulling you backwards.
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So, and I think that your, our nervous systems are very sophisticated.
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And they can tell us when they're in the right place at the right time.
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And I think you experience that when you're deeply engaged in music as well.
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Say you're in a cathedral and you're listening to some remarkable music.
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You're in this, you're at the center of the world.
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And it's an indication that everything is stacking up along this one pole.
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That produces a religious experience if it works properly.
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If you're not having a quasi-religious experience.
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And just because you don't know that that's what's happening doesn't mean it isn't what's happening.
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People have been gathering together in groups and transcending the limits of their pathological individuality through music and ritual since the beginning of time.
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It's just that the religious element of it is stripped away partly because we've criticized that to death so carelessly that we can't integrate it anymore into ceremonies like that.
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People hunger for that more deeply than anything else.
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You touched on this today, but also in your conversation with Sam Harris.
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I wanted to ask, is there a relationship between the mythological idea of sacrifice, human sacrifice or whatever type of sacrifice, and the psychological idea of delayed gratification?
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And if so, could it be a factor in the relation, in the correlation between conscientiousness and...
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The question is, is there a relationship between the idea of sacrifice and delay of gratification?
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Well, the conscientiousness relationship is a tough one.
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You know, we tested to see if conscientious people were more likely to delay gratification in classic delay of gratification tasks, and we found no effect.
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We found IQ effect, and we found a reverse effect for extroversion and positive mood.
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And so, what happens is that happier people are more impulsive.
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They're more likely to grasp what's right in front of them in the present.
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But conscientiousness is an extraordinarily tough nut to crack.
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And I do think it's associated to some degree with the proclivity for sacrifice of the present to the future.
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But finding ways of testing that has proved very, very difficult.
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So, but the relationship between sacrifice and delay of gratification, those are the same words.
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You know, you may know the marshmallow experiment.
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And that is, well, basically, you take kids, four or so, and you say, you sit them in a room and at a little table, and you say, here's a marshmallow.
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If you don't eat that for 10 minutes, we'll come in and give you another marshmallow.
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And so, the kids, and they videotape the kids, and the tapes are actually pretty funny because the poor kids do everything they can not to look at that candy or marshmallow.
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It's like they sit on their hands, they hum, they look at the ceiling.
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And some of them just, you know, it's like, oh, to hell with it.
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And those, well, the data showed, you know, and I wouldn't say this study has been replicated many times,
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but the data showed quite clearly that the kids who could delay gratification at an early stage were doing quite a bit better later in life.
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Now, I don't know to what degree that was controlled for IQ, because such things matter.
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But the point is, is that, well, the point is the point that you're making, is that you can delay,
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you can only delay gratification intelligently, though, if the social structure is stable.
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Because basically what, if you delay gratification, you're making a bargain with the potential future.
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And the bargain is everybody's going to keep acting the same way so that the future is the same as the present.
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Because otherwise, you'll delay gratification, and then everything will fall apart.
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And you won't get your cake, and you won't get to eat it.
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It has to be stabilized by the contractual relationship between people before delaying gratification is a useful strategy.
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This is also why you see, in chaotic circumstances, where the future becomes uncertain,
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people forego delay of gratification very, very rapidly.
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And perhaps appropriately so, although you can get a spiral going in the other direction.
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So, could the idea of sacrifice be, like, the behavioral precursor of the psychological,
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sorry, the methodological idea of sacrifice be the behavioral precursor of psychological daily gratification?
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You know how you usually say, for something to become part of what you have to take it out first,
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and then become, and then understand it, please?
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Because what happens, as you stabilize societies, being conscientious becomes more useful.
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And so then you're going to be selected for, as a consequence of being conscientious,
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and that's going to stabilize the society even more.
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So, that's where, let's call it a genetic transformation,
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produces a behavioral transformation that transforms the environment,
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so the genetic transformation is more likely to propagate.
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You can get unbelievably rapid evolutionary movements when you get a loop like that developing.
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And that's also how, in some sense, a meme can be turned into a genetic...
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So, if you have an idea that spreads through the culture,
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such that those who hold that idea are likely to be more successful,
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then the meme and the biology will align themselves across time.
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That's that, to some degree, that's what's happened,
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as religious stories have propagated themselves as well.
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Because as the idea of the hero becomes clearer, so to speak,
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and then it manifests itself more clearly in the society,
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then the selection pressures get more positively related to that kind of behavior,
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or how should we draw the line between pharmaceutical interventions
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I mean, at what point is depression and anxiety should be treated with medicine,
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how do you differentiate the utility of behavioral
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for conditions like depression versus medical treatments?
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don't underestimate the utility of medical interventions.
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And it's physiologically extraordinarily damaging.
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If it works, well, maybe it'll help you get your life together.
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well, maybe you're depressed because your life isn't very well together.
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You know, they're qualified, industrious people
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