158. Minefields and the New Political Landscape | Bret Weinstein
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Dr. Brett Weinstein is a theoretical evolutionary biologist, host of the Darkhorse Podcast, and a former professor at Evergreen State College. In this episode, Dr. Weinstein and Dr. Peterson discuss the events that led to Brett's resignation from Evergreen, dealing with cultural controversy, today's political landscape, paranoia created by having communities online, and more. This episode is brought to you by The Great Courses Plus, an app that provides unlimited access to thousands of video and audio courses on hundreds of fascinating topics, including critical business skills for success.When I was in university, I learned more on the internet than I did in class. Hands down, part of the way I learned was from online platforms that hosted courses like TheGreatCoursesPlus. That s where I learned anything you want for free. Just visit our special URL, thegreatcoursesplus.org/jordanpeterson, and start with a FREE month of unlimited access. Let s take the first step towards the brighter future you deserve! That s a whole month of FREE access to learn anything you ve ever wanted for free, anywhere you want, for FREE. Get started with TheGreat CoursesPlus. Just visit the greatcoursesPlus app, TheGreatCoursesPlus, and you re free to watch, listen, and learn on any device at any time. So sign up now, The Greatest Coursesplus. You re not only learning, you re getting access to unlimited access, but you re also getting a whole bunch of free courses, courses, books, podcasts, and everything else you need to help you become a better human being a better version of yourself. Let s talk about the things you ve always wanted to know about the world, right here and everywhere you want to be a better you deserve to be better. This is the kind of stuff you can do, and it s all possible to do it. - Dr. Jordan B. Peterson, the podcast you can t live up to your best and learn more about it, and how you can be your best at it, so you don t have to be more like it, because you can have it all, and that s the best you deserve it. - let s get your best life, you get it all of it, not just your best, right there, in this episode of The Good Life, right in the next episode of the podcast that s a real life version of The Jordan Peterson Podcast.
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Welcome to the Jordan B. Peterson podcast. This episode was recorded on February 17th,
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2021, and is featuring Brett Weinstein. Jordan and Brett discussed the events that led to Brett's
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resignation from Evergreen State College, dealing with cultural controversy, today's political
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landscape, paranoia created by having communities online, discordant opinion budgets, and more.
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Brett Weinstein is a theoretical evolutionary biologist, host of Dark Horse
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podcast, and a former professor at Evergreen State College.
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I have the pleasure today of speaking with Dr. Brett Weinstein, who I met about five years ago,
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an evolutionary biologist who taught at Evergreen State College until political circumstances made
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it impossible for that to continue. Brett served as the moderator for two discussions I had with Sam
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Harris. Is that right? That is correct, too, in Vancouver. I think that was the first time we met
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in person, wasn't it? I believe we met prior to that at a conference in Vancouver also, a Young
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Libertarians conference. Oh, yes, that group and the UBC group, right. That was before. Yeah, well, and we
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haven't spoken since when? Vancouver? Is that right? It must have been more recent than that. In fact,
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I'm certain it was, but it's been quite some time. Well, so I thought it might be interesting for us
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to catch up and to share that process of catching up on my YouTube channel. So, and Brett, you have a
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YouTube channel and you have a podcast, which the image of which I believe is on the wall, the beautiful
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wall behind you. That's your kitchen that's all done in cedar like that? No, that's one half of my
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office that we, at the beginning of COVID, my son and I, my son produces our podcast and we built the
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studio in this room, making runs back and forth to the hardware store and bugging out of the prior
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space that we were in. So anyway, yes, we erected this in about two days and, you know, the sink
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works and it's all, it's functional, but it's, it's basically my workspace in my office. It makes a
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lovely background. You have some skulls back there too. Sure do. I have skulls in my office,
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interestingly enough. What are they? Well, let's see. We have back there a bear and a seal and the
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juxtaposition is important to Heather and to me because seals are actually bears. They evolved,
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they returned to the sea and their skulls are extremely difficult to distinguish except for
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the teeth. You can tell by the teeth, but otherwise a seal skull looks like a bear skull to an amazing
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degree. And so which one is the seal? Uh, let's see. Yeah. Well, I'm going to, I would guess that
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it's on the one on my right. The seal is the one closer to the plant. Yes. Okay. Cause I have a bear
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skull, which looks more like the one on the left. So. Yep. So, um, when did you start your podcast?
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Well, the podcast started, geez, I'm not good at remembering these things exactly, but the podcast
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started must be about two years ago. And then it went through a radical transition at the beginning
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of COVID where instead of just being a show that we taped, we moved it into this room and Heather and
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I started doing weekly live streams, which, uh, we still do, or I still do, uh, separate discussions
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with people. Um, but the weekly live streams have become a really important component. And what's the
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live stream? What do you do on the live stream? Well, what we do is we point the evolutionary lens
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at important topics, everything from the woke revolution to the fragility of civilization,
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what future governance might look like, uh, basically whatever interests us. And, uh, it's
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accumulated quite a following it's been, uh, you know, it's never something that we intended to do,
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but it turns out that there, as you know, better than anyone, there's a huge hunger for people who
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know something are willing to talk courageously in public and won't mislead you, right? We can all
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Yeah. Well, people do have some desire for the truth. Painful though, that might be. Yeah. And
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Well, that's certainly true. And that actually brings me, you know, the way you introduced this
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discussion didn't give me a chance to say by far the most important thing here, which is it is so
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great to be talking with you, Jordan. We were so worried about you. And I'm sure you're getting that
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message loud and clear, but at another level, it's probably hard to appreciate how profound your
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absence from the discussion has been over the last year. And I know you've been to hell and back,
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and we've been experimenting with hell on earth here while you were away, but it is really,
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really good to be with you. And anyway, I think it's very important that that just be the baseline
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for the conversation. Welcome back. Thank you. That's so nice of you. And people have been so
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welcoming to me, you know, with the exception of the odd journalist, let's say, but online people
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are so good to me that I can't believe it. It's, well, there's many things I can't believe.
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That's certainly one of them. It's very nice to see you and you're looking well.
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Thank you. You as well. Yeah. Well, that's deceiving, unfortunately, but.
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Well, at least you're headed in the right direction. Can we say that?
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That's, that's the theory. I'm, I'm able to work a bit. I'm working about two hours every three days
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now, I would say, doing this sort of thing, which I also didn't expect to be doing as my major,
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what, what will you say as my major occupation? My, my area of occupation has shrunk to a staggering
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degree over the last two years. And that's been quite difficult to contend with.
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Um, well, I hope it's temporary. Um, but I mean, from the outside.
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I'm prepared enough so that I can't be as functional as I used to be, but I can't sit around and do
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nothing because it drives me completely out of my mind to do nothing. I'm used to being occupied all
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the time. And so, but I'm very happy that I'm able to do these discussions. And so far that's been going
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well. So I'd like you to walk me through what's happened to you since the events in Evergreen
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and, and bring everybody up to date on my end. So man, maybe you could start with what happened
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at Evergreen, although I suspect many of the people watching this do know that, does that seem
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reasonable? Sure. Um, yeah, we can, we can start there. I think we should, um, probably
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err in the direction of being sparse with the details and, uh, see where it leads us.
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So in 2017, I was teaching at Evergreen as was Heather, my wife, and she was literally Evergreen's
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most popular professor. I wasn't too far behind. I was very popular as well. Our classes were
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always over full and, uh, we accepted more people than we had to, and had to turn some away anyway.
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And then in actually 2016, the new president of the college, George Bridges, began an initiative
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or a set of initiatives surrounding diversity, equity, and inclusion. And these initiatives
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included the empaneling of a committee that was supposed to look into, um, racism at the college,
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its impacts, and to propose solutions. And as it became clear what they were alleging and proposing,
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Heather and I became very alarmed. And I began to speak out at first in faculty meetings. And then
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when the ability to speak out in faculty meetings became non-existent, I took to our faculty and staff
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email list to talk about the threat to the college that was created by these initiatives. And that of
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course brought about exactly what you would imagine, which were accusations that I was motivated by some
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kind of, uh, racism or white supremacy or white fragility, or who knows what the accusations were
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exactly. But, um, but in any case, I fought back anyway. And my sense was I had tenure and I was well-liked
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and I was well-known at the college. I had been there for 14 years. And so I didn't think they had
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the power to, uh, to get rid of me. And that gave me the ability to say what needed to be said about
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these proposals. Well, the upshot is that ultimately protesters, 50 students that I had never met,
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showed up at my classroom, accused me of racism, demanded that I either be fired or resign.
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I told them I wouldn't. And, uh, riots broke out at the college in which, um, faculty and administrators
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were kidnapped. I was apparently hunted car to car on campus by protesters. The police were stood down by
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the college president. And, um, we were basically left to fend for ourselves with, um, student, uh, patrols
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roving the campus with weapons, baseball bats and the like. So it was a chaotic scene. There was
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a lot of interest in it because it was very colorful, but of course, most people back in 2017
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dismissed this as, um, yes, an overreaction, but you know how college students are. And those of us
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who saw it up close knew that that couldn't be the case, that it would ultimately spill out into
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civilization. And, um, we of course were right. And now it's everywhere. We see it taking over
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institution after institution in the U S and Canada. We see it making tremendous strides in
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government and there's no telling where it ends.
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And what is, I mean, I have a bunch of questions that come out of that. So I'm going to, I'll lay
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out three. Why in the world did this bother you enough so that you took a stand, especially given
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your political leanings, because you were, which I'm not criticizing, by the way, I'm just stating that
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it isn't obvious to begin with why it would be you that would take a stand, say, rather than someone
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else, but you did. And so I'm curious about why. And, um, what is it that you saw coming?
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And what is this it that you're referring to? You've had a lot of time to be thinking about this
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now it's been four years. And I mean, you're, and the other thing I want to ask you about is your
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life was thrown completely upside down. You and your wife, you don't have your job at the university
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anymore. Either of you, despite the fact that you were tenured professors, um, it's not an easy
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thing to get another toehold in academia. Once you've been a tenured professor somewhere, especially
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if you've gone through what you went through, because no hiring committee anywhere is going to
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give you any consideration. Once you've been, um, once you've been tarred by scandal, regardless of
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what your role in it was, they're far too conservative to ever do anything like that. And so, okay, so let's,
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I don't know if I can remember the order in which I, I asked those questions, but the, I think the first
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one was why in the world did you, why in the world were you compelled to, to object, to object? And
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what is it that you were objecting to? Do you think? Well, it's a funny, a funny question for you to pose
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to me because I have the feeling that the answer will be entirely native to you. I literally don't
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believe I had any choice. People frequently ask me why I stood up. And my sense is if I think through
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the alternative, I simply can't live with it. I can't sleep. Yeah, but that doesn't seem to bother
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most people. So I don't get that. Like why, why you? Well, right. I mean, I guess that's the,
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the thing I'm discovering. Um, so you alluded to my political leanings and you and I both know what
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you mean by that. I'm a liberal and I would actually, I describe myself sometimes as a reluctant
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radical. Um, by that, I mean that I believe we must engage in radical change if we are to survive
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as a species, but I also know that radical change is very dangerous. And so it's not like, you know,
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I find most people who would call themselves radicals feel like radical change is always called
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for. And I don't, my, my sense is I hope to see change that makes civilization good enough that I
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get to be a conservative, that I get to say, actually, we're doing so well that we have no choice,
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but to preserve this. If we try to improve it, we'll mess it up. That's where I want to go.
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But what I'm discovering is that the bedrock of my liberalism is nothing like the underpinnings of
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the so-called liberalism of most of the people on the left side of the political spectrum.
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My liberalism comes from a sense that yes, compassion is a virtue, but that policy must be
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based on a dispassionate analysis of problems. Um, it is based on an understanding that there,
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that the magic of the West comes from a tension between those who aspire to change things from the
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better for the better and those who recognize the danger of changing them at all. And, and so in any
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case, I think the short answer is we look around the world and everybody makes arguments that sound
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as if they come from first principles, but most people do not arrive at conclusions from first
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principles. If they extrapolate at all, they don't do it very well. And that results in a severe
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compartmentalization of thought. And that means that when confronted with, um, changes that threaten
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a system on which we are dependent, most people don't recognize it. And if they do recognize it,
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they wouldn't know what to do about it. So, uh, how can I, how can I put it in, in plain terms?
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I had no choice because I was as if on a ship where somebody had proposed to fix our course through,
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uh, a field of icebergs, um, and navigate based on some absurd theory with no grounding. In fact,
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somebody had to object. And I was a little surprised at how few and far between the objectors were,
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but, you know, if I'm to be totally candid about it, at the point that things went haywire
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at Evergreen, I had watched video of you reacting to protesters in Toronto. And it had made so much
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sense to me at a number of different levels. You know, I recognized you as somebody who knew that
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although the initial proposals were arguably symbolic, that they were connected to things that
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ultimately were very much about an exercise of power and a transfer of wellbeing, and that it was
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therefore, um, you know, you felt obligated to stand up and say no, which resulted as you know, better than
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anyone in you being mocked for overreacting. And then here we are years later, and it turns out that you saw
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with absolute clarity what others couldn't even imagine. Yes, but I certainly didn't see what was
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going to happen to me. Right. Well, you know, so. Right. I don't think it wasn't possible to see
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what would happen with specificity. But I am I correct in, uh, seeing that you knew that something
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very dramatic was likely to come from your standing on principle, and that that didn't provide any
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license to do anything, but make that stand? I really can't say, you know, um,
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it's a it's a while ago now. So that that's part of it. But so much has happened to me that's been so
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strange in the last four years that I have very difficult time making any sense of it. I can't even
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really think about especially the last two years. I can't really think about them in any consistent
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and comprehensive way. I mean, my my family situation has been so catastrophic and my illness
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and my wife's illness. It's just been although she recovered completely, thank God. It's just been
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so utterly catastrophic that that my my thinking about it is unbelievably fragmented. Um, and I'm, I'm
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struck dumb still to some degree, by, by all of what emerged as a consequence of me making the first
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videos that I made, you know, I went downstairs, talked to my wife and my son, my son was living at
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home at that time, temporarily. And I said, this piece of legislation is really bothering me because
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it calls for compelled speech. And I looked at the background documents and something wasn't right.
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And I said, I need to say something about they said, well, go for it, you know, we'll see what
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happens. And all hell broke loose, and continues to break loose for that matter, which is one of the
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things that's so bloody strange about it is it doesn't seem to end. And I would have thought when
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it first started, I thought, well, you know, I'd be a flash in the pan for a week or something or two
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weeks or a month or six months or a year or two years or, but it doesn't stop. And I really can't
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understand that. It's, it's, it's beyond my comprehension. Now, I guess it's partly because
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I continue to communicate my thoughts, to some degree, even talking to mainstream media, people,
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although increasingly less, and perhaps not at all from here on in. I mean, I had an interview with
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the London Times. Two weeks ago, three weeks ago, it was published. And, you know, it was just another
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complete, absolute bloody nightmare for my family, my daughter in particular, because they took her to
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task in an extraordinarily nasty way. And, you know, and the journalist who did the interview was
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completely, she, you couldn't invent her. You know, not only the way she, she was, she was so deceitful
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in what she did. But I learned more about her background afterward, as a consequence of another
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journalist who wrote about her. And, you know, she's a very singular person, to say the least. And
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so I did feel at the time, like you did, I guess, that I was more afraid of not speaking than I was
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afraid of speaking. And I have something against being told what to say. It's like, I'll pay the price
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for what I have to say. I'm not going to pay the price to say what you want me to say. You go say
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it yourself, and see what the hell happens. And, you know, maybe that's just a kind of
00:25:21.180
Although I did, I think I did see what has, I did see the beginnings of what has unfolded since
00:25:32.040
then. Although I can't even really put my finger on what it is that's happening.
00:25:39.080
So, well, I wonder a little bit about, you know, in some ways, you know, there's nothing good about
00:25:46.180
why you were absent from the scene. But there may be something good about your having not been there
00:25:55.000
for every moment of it, and being able to come back to the discussion with something like fresh
00:26:00.040
eyes. Because a lot of this is developmental. And, you know, you say you're surprised that
00:26:08.460
this is continuing. And I must say, I'm having the same experience. I feel like I was picked up,
00:26:14.580
you know, my whole family was picked up by a tornado, and we haven't been put down. And,
00:26:18.820
you know, I sort of feel like we rejoined in the tornado during 2020. It was such a crazy year that
00:26:26.000
a lot of people whose lives were continuing in some normal fashion are suddenly aware that things are
00:26:31.420
wildly off kilter. But actually, this raises a question. I think one of the things that I know
00:26:39.740
from my own life, and, you know, I know, of course, a bit about your life, because of the fact that it's
00:26:47.060
public, and because I've met Tammy, and have had a chance to interact with you in that context as
00:26:53.560
well. But the question I have is, I wonder about the difference between a person who might think
00:27:06.680
the way you or I would think about bad policy and, you know, compelled speech and that sort of thing.
00:27:14.640
The difference between a person who might think such a thing in isolation, and a person who has a
00:27:19.180
proper familial context in which to actually check in. So in other words, I have the sense that in part,
00:27:27.520
the reason that I'm able to just simply describe things as they are and do so unflinchingly is because
00:27:37.060
my family understands the same puzzle, and they may have different elements that they see with
00:27:45.860
clarity. But there's no question I can, you know, I can go to Heather and I can say, you know, I ran into
00:27:50.980
this thing today. And here's what I'm concerned it implies. And we can have a rational discussion about
00:27:57.140
it without anybody accusing anybody of moral defects, or any of the things that have become so
00:28:02.300
common. And so, in your case, I know that you have a familial network that provides you that same
00:28:11.720
kind of reality check. And then I wonder, looking at the generation of people advancing the woke
00:28:20.320
revolution, and I see the failure of that very thing. And I can't help but wonder if it isn't
00:28:25.960
connected. In other words, the idea that pair bonding, that marrying and producing a family
00:28:34.180
has become something that most people don't even consider an essential part of life, it's not the
00:28:43.140
objective of the exercise, it's a choice that some people make at best, that that has left people
00:28:49.320
very isolated from any reality check, which makes them very vulnerable when they are threatened,
00:28:55.820
with an accusation like, you're a racist, you're a transphobe, that sort of thing.
00:29:02.180
Now, you definitely need in this book, this is my new book, by the way. And so it's coming out
00:29:08.120
March 2. And I sort of clung to this like a life raft over the last couple of years while I was writing
00:29:13.220
it. There's a section in here about sanity. You know, and it's a critique to some degree of
00:29:18.660
psychoanalytic thought, because the psycho, not that I admire the psychoanalysts tremendously, but
00:29:23.760
they tended to think of sanity as something that was organized inside your psyche, or let's say,
00:29:29.180
inside your brain, for that matter, or maybe even a reflection of healthy brain function.
00:29:34.360
But sanity is to large part outsourced. And what I mean by that is that if you're fortunate and you're
00:29:43.560
well socialized, other people find you acceptable enough to include you in their networks, and then
00:29:50.960
all you have to do is pay attention to the functioning of that network and regulate your
00:29:55.620
behavior as a consequence of the feedback you receive, and you more or less stay sane.
00:30:01.820
And so like, if you have a family, and you have friends, then they'll help you make sure that your
00:30:07.700
jokes are funny and not mean. Because they'll laugh when they're funny, and they'll raise an eyebrow when
00:30:12.820
they're mean. And then you can check in with that. And they'll help you figure out if you're dominating
00:30:17.380
the conversation too much. And they'll, they'll push and prod you as you do the same to them.
00:30:24.540
And everyone stays relatively organized. And when all this hit to begin with, I had quite a large
00:30:31.220
network of people, which expanded at some point to include people like you and the so called intellectual
00:30:37.860
dark web members. And they were helping me check in on my sanity all the time, you know, helping guiding
00:30:44.700
me guide me through the interview process and analyzing my errors and commenting when I did
00:30:51.440
something hypothetically right. And, and my family played an integral role in that. And so that was
00:30:56.560
extremely helpful. I never thought about that. As a precondition for, for saying what I said,
00:31:04.620
but I think there's something about that, that's right. It's certainly the case that I have
00:31:09.180
tremendously supportive parents. Still, they're both still alive, they're still tremendously supportive
00:31:17.900
at a very deep, deep level. And I think that that was a real gift that I had that many people don't
00:31:22.700
have. You know, I've been struck, one of the things that torments me constantly is, and I think it's
00:31:30.100
really hurt me to discover this, is I had no idea how deep the desperation was for people who lack
00:31:45.280
encouragement. It's just because every time I talk about this, it makes me tear up because of what I've
00:31:53.600
seen, I think, but all these people that I've met now, you know, I spoke when I went on my book tour,
00:32:01.720
which was an unbelievable event, unbelievably positive event, but also I would even say to
00:32:10.120
some degree, traumatic, traumatically positive, like it was just too much. I really loved it. But
00:32:15.520
to see the depth of hunger that people had for an encouraging word was unbelievably tragic. And for
00:32:25.960
people to come up to me repeatedly, over and over and over, hundreds, maybe thousands of times and say,
00:32:34.420
you know, I was in such desperate straits, looking for some encouragement, unable to find it. And then,
00:32:40.860
you know, I came across your lectures, I thought, Jesus, it's pretty thin gruel to feed a starving
00:32:46.580
population. I mean, I'm absolutely pleased beyond belief that people have found what I've done useful, but
00:32:53.620
that doesn't decrease the impact of the realization of just how hurt, how much hurt there is. And I, and it is hurt
00:33:09.100
that's ground in a lack of encouragement. I have that I've been encouraged my whole life.
00:33:17.220
now, you know, I also thought somewhat calculate in a calculated way about this, like,
00:33:24.780
and I don't know how far this goes back, but I've, I also organized my life so that I was standing.
00:33:31.980
I had legs out in many directions, I had a clinical practice, I had a business, I had my
00:33:38.000
professorship, I had my writing. You know, I had multiple sources of income, pretty independent
00:33:44.940
areas. And so I, and I did that in part to maximize my capacity for freedom, I thought, well,
00:33:51.480
and this wasn't something I think I thought explicitly, you know, it was part of what unfolded
00:33:56.820
in my life across time. It wasn't easy to take me out. Although I've been taken out a lot,
00:34:05.700
like, far more than I thought might be possible. I can't separate that exactly from intrinsic health
00:34:14.080
problems, you know, but I, I, despite my, you know, I don't have, I, it isn't obvious to me that I can go
00:34:21.880
back to the university. I'm still employed there. I'm on leave. They would take me back.
00:34:26.400
I don't know if I can do it. I don't have my clinical practice anymore, which I really miss.
00:34:33.140
I love doing that. And that was 20 hours a week, you know, I, so that's a lot of time.
00:34:38.840
I finished writing this book, but I'm not writing right now. And so a lot of, I don't have any
00:34:45.780
pressing financial concerns. And so that's, that, of course, that's a huge privilege, a huge benefit.
00:34:50.820
And thank God for that. But despite me being distributed like that, I was still taken out
00:34:58.220
pretty hard. So, yes. Well, you, you know, I, I confess, I have wondered while you were
00:35:10.400
incommunicado over the last year, whether that was just Goliath's good fortune,
00:35:18.460
or if there might be something more to it, because you were such a singular voice at the point
00:35:23.880
that Tammy got sick. And then you did that. Obviously it was a tremendous blow to those of us
00:35:33.640
in intellectual dark web space in our ability to, to fight and to hold the line.
00:35:41.080
Um, but you clearly have been taken out in your words, um, deliberately multiple times and you
00:35:48.320
know how it comes about. I don't know. It's, it's my, it's amazing to me that it continues to happen.
00:35:53.720
And the thing, the thing that's so damn weird is that exactly the same thing continues to happen,
00:35:59.540
you know, and it was just replayed with this times article. Now I have thought,
00:36:04.020
I had a lot of interviews lined up for this book. And once the times article came out,
00:36:13.180
my, I reacted to it, my family reacted to it. And we, we dealt with it effectively. The same thing
00:36:18.480
happened that had happened to me before when journalists had written a hit piece about me,
00:36:23.060
it was extremely stressful because when it happens, you do not know which way it's going to go.
00:36:28.700
And, you know, you can get unlucky and a number of bad things can happen to you simultaneously.
00:36:35.260
All that has to happen is for that to happen once to exceed your capacity to deal with the
00:36:40.280
number of bad things and you're out. That's basically an accident. And I really think that's
00:36:43.920
what's happened. What happened to me in the last few years is that everything that happened socially
00:36:49.780
was unbelievably stressful, positive and negative. You know, the positive end of it was extremely
00:36:56.860
intense and, and, and amazingly compelling and interesting, but the negative end was really,
00:37:04.220
really stressful, you know, and I noticed what happens to people generally speaking. And I don't
00:37:09.560
think I'm making this up is, you know, I've watched the typical person who gets mobbed on Twitter
00:37:15.740
will get mobbed by 20 people and it'll last for two or three days. And they'll apologize like mad.
00:37:22.780
They're so stressed out. They retreat right away. And it's really hard on them, you know,
00:37:27.600
and that happened to me, like, I don't know how many times, a hundred times, 200 times.
00:37:33.780
And really publicly, you know, I've been called every bloody name in the book and that's been
00:37:38.820
really literally, I mean, I remember one day where I was called a Jewish shill and a Nazi the same day,
00:37:44.600
you know, by two competing publications. And I thought maybe they canceled each other out,
00:37:49.220
you know, but, but, and that's been very hard on my family, you know, and, and, and although they,
00:37:56.300
they're doing reasonably well under the circumstances, but then, you know, Tammy got sick
00:38:02.140
terribly and, and, and in a really nasty way. And then her, when the, her surgery was complications
00:38:09.680
multiplied and she was near death daily for months. And then this proclivity I had for depression
00:38:16.460
seemed to have become untreatable and that took me out. And so, and I'm still struggling
00:38:25.120
with that. You know, I get up, I can hardly stand up when I wake up in the morning. I feel so bad.
00:38:32.300
I can't believe I can be alive and feel that bad. I stumbled downstairs and I'm in the sauna for about
00:38:38.220
an hour and a half. And then I can stand up long enough to have a shower, which I do for about 20
00:38:43.740
minutes. And I scrub myself from top to bottom, trying to wake up. And then I can more or less
00:38:49.320
get upstairs and I eat. And then I go, I walk like 10 miles every day because I need to do that in
00:38:55.740
order to deal with this, whatever it is that's plaguing me. And I can get myself to the point
00:39:03.260
where by this time in the afternoon, I'm more or less functional, but then it repeats the next day.
00:39:13.620
It is. It's terrible. It's so terrible. It's so terrible that I can't think about it without
00:39:19.940
it being traumatic. So I have a hard time figuring out where to place my mind because this has been
00:39:26.020
happening. It's been happening every day really for two years. I think it's fair to say that every
00:39:31.640
single day of the last two years has been worse than any day I had previous to that.
00:39:38.600
Oh my goodness. And what a predicament you're in then, because I can hear, I would guess it anyway,
00:39:46.240
knowing you and knowing of you in the way that I do, but you're caught in this predicament where
00:39:52.700
that's really intolerable. And frankly, most people wouldn't tolerate it. But you also know that there
00:40:01.040
is, you know, both at the level of your family and at the level of those who admire you and listen to
00:40:09.040
you and are, you know, waiting to hear the little bits of affirmation that they need, the little bits
00:40:15.560
of guidance that they were unable to get in the world. You know how much good comes from your facing
00:40:23.380
that, uh, what sounds like a completely excruciating, um, existence. Yeah. It's perverse beyond
00:40:31.200
comprehensibility, which is sort of the hallmark of a traumatizing experience because it is exactly
00:40:37.540
that. And I, I, I look at it and I can't get my, I can't wrap my mind around it. It, well, and I,
00:40:44.400
and also that the, uh, the, my degree of exposure, I mean, you know, when I, when I decided to make
00:40:53.280
those videos, I was playing with YouTube and I was playing with fire. Like YouTube is fire in a way,
00:41:00.140
social media is fire in a way that is unimaginable. It's so powerful. YouTube will see, but YouTube
00:41:09.280
demolishes the printing press in terms of, of its long-term significance. I mean, because now
00:41:16.980
we can, now you can do with video and audio what you did with print and it's way easier.
00:41:23.580
You have access to a massive audience with no intermediaries whatsoever. And, you know, I,
00:41:30.000
and I, I don't know really how to grapple with that either, how to comprehend it.
00:41:37.400
Well, I mean, actually this brings me to one of the things I've been hoping to talk to you about
00:41:42.780
for the longest time. So I think there's a part of you that finds, um, you've always been very
00:41:50.580
gracious about it and, and welcoming, but finds my liberalism a bit paradoxical.
00:41:56.000
No, no, I don't look, look, I don't, I understand the catastrophe of the Pareto distribution.
00:42:06.000
I don't like it. You know, it, it, there is this proclivity for capital to accrue in the hands of
00:42:13.140
smaller and smaller numbers of people. It's just capital. It's all goods. You get this terrible
00:42:17.720
problem of distribution that that's like a natural law. And the fact that people object to that is
00:42:24.120
completely unsurprising. And the fact that if it goes unchecked, it destroys societies is that I
00:42:30.780
don't think that's a hypothesis. That's demonstrably self-evident. Um, so I don't find,
00:42:39.980
I especially don't find the concern, the compassionate concern for, for working class people and their
00:42:47.820
wellbeing, the least bit incomprehensible. It's the solutions that are the problem. It's
00:42:54.060
like, well, what should the solutions be? And well, that's, that's where things get very,
00:43:00.580
Well, perfect. And I, I'm, I'm sorry if I implied something that it wasn't, wasn't even my perception.
00:43:08.100
I think you are to an extent a conservative, but I find you, uh, if I listen to you, it's not a simple
00:43:17.500
I'm a conservative for the same reason you are. You already pointed out, like if you're a social
00:43:22.400
scientist and you don't understand the law of unintended consequences, you are not a very good
00:43:29.280
social scientist. I learned from my, my clinical research and from studying clinical research for
00:43:35.000
so long and publishing it too, is that you think your intervention is going to do what you think
00:43:39.920
it's going to do, but it isn't. It's going to do something else. And you, you have to build in,
00:43:46.680
if you, if you have a, uh, an intervention that you think is going to have beneficial results,
00:43:51.760
you have to build in an assessment to see if it has those results. And like, I talked to the woman
00:43:56.840
who headed the, um, um, the name of the, was done in, not in Cambridge, but in, in Massachusetts.
00:44:04.720
It was a longitudinal study of antisocial children. The first longitudinal study was done in a working
00:44:10.000
class neighborhood, just outside of Cambridge. I used to live there and I can't remember the name at the
00:44:13.960
moment, but in any case, this team intervened with kids that were likely to have, uh, uh, they came
00:44:22.480
for broken homes, broken neighborhoods, antisocial neighborhoods. This was done in the 1930s and they
00:44:27.800
intervened at the level of the child and at the level of the teachers and at the level of the parents
00:44:32.580
and ran this multiple year project to reduce risk for negative outcomes among this population,
00:44:40.840
randomly assigned, uh, participants to groups. And by all accounts from the participants,
00:44:48.520
the children, the parents, the teachers, and the professionals who were running the investigation,
00:44:54.260
it was a resounding success. They looked at the results and the intervention group did worse on
00:44:59.820
virtually every outcome measure. And they figured out later that the reason for that likely was that
00:45:04.840
they took the antisocial kids and grouped them together in summer camp. They took them out of the
00:45:09.640
city to put it in them in camp. They thought that would be a good intervention, but grouping them
00:45:14.100
together seemed to produce a competition for antisocial behavior. And it, it overwhelmed all
00:45:19.200
of the other interventions. Um, that was Joan McCord, famous study. And I talked to Joan McCord a lot
00:45:26.720
about that. And, but you see that all over the intervention literature is it's very hard to fix.
00:45:31.920
It's, it's very hard to define a problem correctly. It's very hard to define it, to develop an
00:45:37.280
intervention that's, that addresses that problem and only that problem. And then it's very hard to
00:45:42.500
get the intervention to do what you want it to. And that's what makes me conservative to the degree
00:45:46.660
that I am. So. Yep. No, I think that's, that's incredibly wise. I would add one thing to your list.
00:45:53.260
It's not just that it's hard to get an intervention to do what you want it to do. It is that it is hard
00:46:01.860
to get it to do what you want it to do. And at scale, these things also tend to evolve. So even
00:46:07.840
if you did manage to solve. Right. And so the, the, the problem of unintended consequences
00:46:14.440
coupled with the problem of perverse incentives and therefore bad policy that is effectively
00:46:19.820
corruption is a very frightening problem. And so I do think we are caught in a basically damned if
00:46:26.160
you do damned, if you don't scenario, we can't stay here. And you know, you're, I agree with you,
00:46:32.720
the, um, social media for lack of a, uh, a better term for it is going to dwarf the printing press
00:46:42.100
for various reasons. Some of them because it's so easy, but also because it's of a fundamentally
00:46:48.660
different nature, right? When you're reading a book, it may be that somebody writes something
00:46:53.840
that's bad for you to absorb, but you know, you're reading a book because the experience
00:46:58.840
of it, the, uh, the perception of it is of a book. Whereas, um, social media increasingly
00:47:04.820
fools the mind into, you know, the interaction you and I are having is more or less a face-to-face
00:47:10.920
interaction, but a lot of interactions that look like face-to-face interactions don't have
00:47:15.460
these characteristics. And at best, the impact on the mind is arbitrary. So, you know, we're watching
00:47:21.280
things like amplifiers of threat. And, you know, this goes back to the thing we were discussing
00:47:28.200
But look, with Twitter, for, here's a good example of unintended consequences. It's like,
00:47:32.420
what don't we know? Okay. We don't know what regulates human communication. We know that if you
00:47:39.840
restrict the bandwidth, people don't understand each other as well, but we don't know how communication
00:47:46.120
functions. It's too complicated. Okay. So we absolutely don't know what happens to communication
00:47:51.480
at a large scale when you restrict people to 140 or 280 characters and then put them in a network
00:47:58.740
with millions of other people. We have no idea. And it could be that you, you tremendously bias the
00:48:04.880
discourse towards impulsive anger. It looks like that if you look at Twitter. I mean, and because
00:48:11.260
it's 140 or 280 characters, you can whip something off very quickly. And so it's almost as if the
00:48:16.900
technology is implicitly commanding you to be impulsively aggressive. And then we don't know
00:48:22.160
what it means when only those people who are motivated to be impulsively aggressive that day are those that
00:48:28.280
are communicating. And then when you only see those communications, even though, you know, 10,000 people
00:48:33.320
might read your tweet, only a hundred who are irritated for some reason respond. We don't know
00:48:39.140
any of that. And, and, and we completely underestimate the power of the technology because it looks
00:48:45.360
harmless. It just sits there on your phone and doesn't do anything. And so, you know, God only knows
00:48:51.680
what kind of tower of Babel that is. So, right. And not only that, but, um, the fact that the algorithm
00:48:59.980
changes and we don't get any notice of it, not only do we not have access to whatever the algorithm's
00:49:05.480
content is, but we don't know when it changes, which means it's impossible for us to even track
00:49:10.560
the impact of our own behavior because we can't run a controlled experiment.
00:49:14.760
It's like predicting the stock market. It's an illusion that you're dealing with the same thing
00:49:19.320
every day. It's complete illusion. And then of course, we don't know, you know, the algorithms
00:49:24.940
increasingly have a life of their own and increasingly they're governed by artificial intelligence.
00:49:29.300
And, and it, it builds in, it builds in, it derives implications that we don't even understand.
00:49:35.800
And, and as you pointed out, it all changes so quickly that we can't keep up with it in any
00:49:40.420
event. So, yes. So, right. So, so then the, the conversation, and I'm, I'm certain it's
00:49:48.600
going to take, uh, multiple tries for us to get there. Uh, hopefully we'll have the opportunity
00:49:54.620
for multiple discussions, but the question is, all right, you're a conservative, but you're
00:50:01.500
a wise conservative that understands the importance of liberalism, understands the necessity of
00:50:06.680
tension between the desire not to mess things up with unintended consequences and the desire
00:50:11.760
to solve problems that are actually solvable. And I would argue the necessity to solve certain
00:50:16.220
problems, which will be fatal if we don't solve them. Um, but the, the, the combination, in other
00:50:24.480
words, I think there's a new dialogue that has to happen. Those conservatives who understand the puzzle
00:50:29.440
need to get together with those liberals who understand the puzzle and figure out what the
00:50:34.800
new insights are, because we are somewhere so novel that if there's one thing we can say,
00:50:41.320
it's that our system is unstable and it is putting us in great jeopardy, which means that even if your
00:50:47.340
impulses are conservative and you point out correctly that I have some conservative impulses,
00:50:53.060
even if your impulses are conservative, um, we aren't anywhere, right? We're, uh, we're on a precipice
00:51:00.940
in a windstorm. And at some level, we have to make enough progress relative to the fundamental
00:51:07.400
instability of the system and the fundamental, you know, here, let me take an example. Um, the point you
00:51:16.920
make about social media and the human psyche, you could make exactly the same point about
00:51:24.500
pharmaceuticals and physiology that we know very little about the way the body actually works.
00:51:32.320
Yeah, I could sure make that case. All right. Yeah, I'll, I'll bet you can. The, the hell you've been
00:51:38.140
through makes this point very clearly, but you know, I'm constantly struck by the fact that our
00:51:44.100
narrative about medicine proceeds from an entirely false premise, which is that we know a great deal
00:51:51.580
about the body and have all of these useful interventions. What we have is a lot of interventions
00:51:56.180
where sometimes we know what one of their effects is. We very rarely understand why the spectrum
00:52:02.900
of, uh, you know, collateral consequences are what they are. And all of these systems are linked
00:52:09.120
together and nobody is tracking the long-term implications of anything. So we, we have this
00:52:15.860
sort of obsessive focus on the things that you can detect on very short timescales and almost a
00:52:21.740
studied ignorance of what the same, uh, pharmaceuticals or procedures do to us long-term.
00:52:30.260
Right. And we then, you know, I suspect if you did these statistics properly, I suspect that,
00:52:35.460
that medicine independent of public health kills more people than it saves. I suspect if you,
00:52:43.340
if you factor in phenomena like the development of superbugs in hospitals, for example,
00:52:47.980
that overall the net consequence of hospitals is negative. Now that's just a guess and, but it's,
00:52:54.220
and it could easily be wrong, but it, it also could not be wrong. And that is a good example or
00:53:00.520
that's where my thinking about what we don't know has taken me with regards to the critique of what we
00:53:06.340
do. The fact that it's even plausible is a stunning. Well, you know, medical error is the third leading
00:53:12.800
cause of death, you know, and that doesn't take into account the generation of superbugs, for example.
00:53:21.040
The generation of superbugs, or, you know, if you're thinking broadly about it, um, let's,
00:53:28.340
I don't know where you stand on this issue, but I have been, um, tracking the lab leak hypothesis for
00:53:35.980
COVID and it is very distressing to me that as much as it's an unsettled question, the evidence
00:53:43.060
for the lab leak gets stronger over time. All of the competing hypotheses fall one by one and are
00:53:49.120
replaced by some alternative that hasn't yet been falsified, but that's very ominous to me. And if
00:53:55.260
this is the case, if this was a bug that was modified in the lab through gain of function research and
00:54:02.780
escaped, then you have to add that to the balance sheet with respect to the costs of medical errors,
00:54:11.480
because it looks like if this was an escapee from the Wuhan lab, that it was an escapee from experiments
00:54:19.000
designed to create a vaccine to protect us from future coronaviruses. So we can't say that with
00:54:25.800
specificity, but if we look at the circumstantial evidence of what was being studied, how it was being
00:54:30.760
studied and what the likely purpose of those investigations were, then this is, you know,
00:54:36.680
the mother of all self-inflicted wounds. And it is, uh, downstream of naive thinking about the cost
00:54:45.640
benefit ratio of enhancing the infectivity of, uh, viruses.
00:54:51.560
I know, I did know that, that that's something that you've been tracking and pursuing. I don't have
00:54:59.480
an opinion about it because I don't know enough about it to have an opinion. Um, so I'd also,
00:55:07.080
with regards to conservatism, you know, I don't know if approaching how people should deal with the
00:55:15.740
problems in their lives from a psychological perspective, the viewpoint of a clinical psychologist,
00:55:19.760
I wonder if that kind of automatically makes you conservative in some way, because my locus of
00:55:25.480
concern has always been the individual. And so, and, and individual wellbeing and, you know,
00:55:31.420
being trained as a behavioral psychologist, I always took as my unit of analysis, the enhancement of
00:55:37.800
wellbeing of health, let's say at the individual level and maybe translated into political. And when
00:55:44.360
that's translated into the political landscape, maybe that looks something like conservatism.
00:55:47.980
I don't know. I mean, I never thought about this. I never thought about what I was doing in
00:55:53.020
political terms to begin with. Like even my initial statement about Bill C-16 and compelled
00:55:58.540
speech wasn't supposed to be something specifically political. I just thought the political had escaped
00:56:03.620
its boundaries. It's like, no, you don't get to infringe on free speech. You're no longer in the
00:56:09.140
political realm at that point. That's a different realm. Get the hell back where you belong.
00:56:13.060
That's how it looked to me. But you know, everything, that's another thing that's very
00:56:18.680
peculiar about our culture at the moment. It's almost impossible to have a discussion about
00:56:25.140
anything and have the coverage not be politicized. And I think that's partly a function of how the
00:56:31.840
media, the legacy media work, because they tended to view everything through a political lens.
00:56:36.960
And also a consequence of this insistence, and this, I think, comes primarily from the radical
00:56:42.240
left, that everything is political. And I don't buy that. It's like, you can say that everything
00:56:49.580
has a political aspect, but that's a completely different claim than everything is political,
00:56:55.580
which is a totalizing claim. And I also, as a social scientist, don't like totalizing claims,
00:57:01.200
because most things are multivariate complex. And so, well, so...
00:57:08.440
Yeah. I think we can prove that you can politicize everything, but not everything is political.
00:57:16.800
And that the tendency to view everything in political terms destroys our ability to properly
00:57:23.160
navigate questions on which we actually ought to have alignment. And this is a very disturbing
00:57:30.380
pattern to see every question, including COVID itself, turned into a team sport. Because that is,
00:57:42.360
of course, sabotaging exactly the ability to reason through our various options, and then to get us to
00:57:49.640
move in a coordinated direction to actually address the pandemic. And in some sense, I suspect we are
00:57:59.660
headed to having to accept COVID as a permanent fact of the landscape, when that was not a foregone
00:58:09.500
conclusion, that in effect, our politicizing of this issue is going to leave us with a bug that we
00:58:16.560
Why do you think that? I mean, I've been hoping that, and watching Israel in particular, there seems
00:58:23.080
to be some indication that they've got the vaccinations ramped up to the point where
00:58:26.880
they're having some effect on the rate of transmission of the virus, which is a positive
00:58:31.520
thing. And, you know, I keep hoping that the vaccines are, there's enough of them, and they're
00:58:38.080
getting out there fast enough so that we might be able to keep the bug under control. You're not so
00:58:45.680
No, I'm not. Because for one thing, I know that it's, you know, it's been obvious from the
00:58:53.280
beginning, it was going to evolve. And that the key to managing its evolving out of our control
00:59:00.560
was limiting the number of people who had it and limiting their ability to spread new variants
00:59:06.820
around the globe. And we've done a terrible job of this. Somehow, you know, a year in, it is only
00:59:12.400
beginning to be, it is only beginning to dawn on us that new mutants that are harder for our immune
00:59:19.440
systems to recognize are essentially a certainty. And that the key to ever regaining control is to
00:59:29.120
ensure that when these things arise somewhere, they don't immediately find their way around the
00:59:34.640
globe. So I guess what I would say is, I think we tend to, you know, even the idea of compromise in a
00:59:46.240
political sense is the wrong approach with something like COVID. We should have been much more
00:59:52.320
aggressive earlier on, so that our total level of compromise with respect to civil liberties could
00:59:59.600
have been much less. In other words, if early on, we had engaged in a really intense six week lockdown,
01:00:07.760
and we had ramped up our capacity to test for COVID with precision, so that after six weeks,
01:00:18.080
basically, the idea of six weeks would be, it's very hard to control COVID inside of a household,
01:00:23.040
it tends to bounce around, but that it will tend to burn itself out in most households within something
01:00:29.440
like a six week period. That if we had engaged in that, and then used track and trace to find and
01:00:37.600
control outbreaks following such an intense lockdown, we might not have had to deal with a full year of
01:00:43.600
the half-assed measure. And the sense is, or the sense that I have, is that we're getting, you know,
01:00:52.320
maybe it's a Pareto distribution, maybe it's we're suffering 80% of the harm of lockdowns and getting 20%
01:00:58.960
of the value that we might get for having, you know, not gone the full distance. And, um, unfortunately,
01:01:08.240
I think the prerequisite to our behaving rationally is having a, um, having our experts completely
01:01:18.880
liberated from market forces, from political dynamics and, uh, free to tell us what it is that we need to
01:01:26.800
know and, uh, then getting on the same page and having a proper rubric for evaluating what has
01:01:34.320
worked and what hasn't. And instead, what we've had is a thoroughly politicized discussion from the get
01:01:40.880
go in which even our countermeasures are, uh, fought over on the basis of, you know, if you, you know,
01:01:49.200
why is it that, uh, you know, a Trump voter is much more likely to be a mask skeptic? A question of
01:01:55.120
masks is an empirical question. It shouldn't have anything to do with your political leanings. And
01:01:59.280
yet it undeniably does, uh, in, in North America. And that has, has robbed us of the kinds of controls
01:02:08.640
that we might otherwise have instituted. I wanted to ask you, we, you talk, I'm going to bring the
01:02:16.000
discussion, if you don't mind back to something that we were touching on earlier, that your initial
01:02:20.240
objection when you were at Evergreen to whatever it was that was developing in the background.
01:02:25.520
And now we've had four years to see whatever it is manifesting itself. And so you, what is it,
01:02:32.960
what is it that's happening? Do you think in our politicized landscape? I mean, well, um,
01:02:39.680
I have a guess and it's, it's right up your alley. It's something I I'm intending to explore,
01:02:44.160
um, at greater length, but the basics are this, I suspect.
01:02:53.680
You and I, I think would share the opinion that, um, psychological development is among the most
01:03:01.680
important phenomena for understanding human beings. And it is underrated. We tend to look at the behavior
01:03:08.480
of adults and study it, but we should spend more time thinking about how those adults ended up the
01:03:14.800
way they did in order to, to really understand them. And I think for, uh, you know, for each generation,
01:03:26.560
you have a developmental landscape and what the governing forces are in that developmental landscape
01:03:32.400
has a lot to say about both the insights and the blind spots of the people who emerged from it.
01:03:38.000
And so, um, I would say that for Americans of my generation, I'm a Gen X, uh, the market played too
01:03:48.640
much of a role developmentally, and it has created a kind of lens through which we can't help, but look,
01:03:56.480
it has, you know, commodified things in a way that is quite unhealthy. You were born when?
01:04:03.360
I was born in 1969. Okay. Um, for millennials and maybe even more so for Gen Z, I suspect that there is a
01:04:18.000
pivot to something else. And many people, you know, uh, Jonathan Haidt and Greg Lukianoff have certainly
01:04:23.520
talked about, um, iGen, the internet generation. But what I suspect is really going on is that if you
01:04:31.360
are sufficiently plugged into the internet early enough, there comes a point at which the,
01:04:41.680
your persona on the internet takes primacy. It is more important than your actual physical
01:04:48.960
life persona. Jesus, it's worse than that. It's worse than that. I would say from personal experience,
01:04:56.400
there is more of me on the internet than there is in me.
01:05:02.080
My electronic avatars are far more powerful than me personally, you know, and I can watch this because
01:05:11.840
I've been away for a year and a half and yet my internet presence has steadily
01:05:18.640
increased during that time. And I, I look online now and it's
01:05:30.320
So now, now imagine that as the developmental environment for children. Now here's, here's the
01:05:37.600
connection I want to draw. My contention is that the online landscape is postmodern,
01:05:47.920
right? That if we were just to simply describe it, the rules, the physics of online life are postmodern.
01:05:58.480
It's like living in a dictionary. If I decided tomorrow that I was a woman,
01:06:04.960
right? I could change my internet presence such that I would present in a female way. I could say,
01:06:16.080
hey, anybody who doesn't treat me as female is a jerk. And the point is I have transitioned completely.
01:06:22.400
Right. Now, obviously there's no such thing in the physical world. You can transition, you can take
01:06:29.840
hormones or blockers, you can get surgeries, but no, um, no man has ever become a woman and reproduced in
01:06:40.800
a female way. Right. So the point is the physical world has all kinds of constraints that come from
01:06:49.440
physics and biology, which do not translate to the online world. And for people like you and me,
01:06:54.640
for whom the online world is an add on world, we think, well, obviously real life is the important
01:07:02.160
one. And then the online thing has some interface with it, which is frightening, but we understand
01:07:07.200
how they relate. But if you reverse these two things, then what you get is a generation
01:07:12.720
that it's problem solving mind says, actually, of course you can transition. You can transition.
01:07:21.040
And then it is everybody's obligation to live by who you've told us you are. And anybody who doesn't
01:07:26.880
is a bad person. And what has to be true for that to be the case, right?
01:07:32.000
You know, I had a, I had a fantasy a long while ago that people would end up wearing glasses
01:07:37.600
glasses like the Google glasses that would be illegal to take off and that you'd be mandated
01:07:44.880
to see what people wanted you to see. It was their right to be presented to you in the manner that they
01:07:51.760
chose to present themselves. You know, and I'm not saying that's a particularly brilliant vision,
01:07:56.320
but it's very much in keeping with what you're describing. So.
01:08:00.000
Yep. I think it's, I think it's close. But if you imagine then that an online world in which
01:08:09.840
effectively we can all be equal tomorrow, as long as we say that that's the objective and we can all
01:08:16.320
present as we want and others can be forced to adhere to it or be thrown off of whatever discussion,
01:08:22.640
then all of this begins to make a great deal of sense. And so I'm wondering if we are not in effect
01:08:27.840
in a kind of civil war between those for whom the real world has primacy and those for whom the
01:08:37.120
online world has primacy. And if that's not the fundamental nature of the battle.
01:08:43.200
Well, I think it could be the, the fundamental nature of a part of the battle. I mean, part,
01:08:48.000
obviously part of what's going on is whatever this unbelievably rapid
01:08:52.560
rate of technological transformation is doing to us. I mean, my, my daughter and, and some people
01:09:00.640
of approximately her age. So late twenties are helping me with manage social media, let's say.
01:09:10.720
She's noticed that people five years younger than her have advantages in understanding the newly
01:09:16.160
developed forms of social media that she's already outside of. And so that process of being hooked
01:09:21.840
into the web and that being the determining factor for your worldview is probably accelerating. I mean,
01:09:29.600
it's going to accelerate, obviously it's going to accelerate because the web is becoming more and more
01:09:33.040
dominant and machines are becoming more and more intelligent. So they abstract themselves away from
01:09:38.320
the world. And then the question is, well, what's the consequence of that abstraction? But it's funny that
01:09:44.320
that it's postmodern, that doesn't, there's more going on with whatever it is that's happening
01:09:54.160
than, than technological transformation. But you think that's the fundamental driving factor?
01:09:59.360
Well, I think there are a lot of ways you can look at it. Obviously, I don't think this is a real
01:10:05.200
battle. Obviously the internet runs on hardware in the real world and everybody, you know, when the power goes out
01:10:14.560
we are all reduced to our biological self. So I don't think there is actually anything to fight
01:10:19.520
over. One of these worlds has primacy and the other is an add-on and this is not debatable. But my point
01:10:27.360
is really about the mental confusion that arises from, for most people. I mean, if you think about the lives that
01:10:35.280
most people are living, right, most people at best are working a job in which they trade their labor for
01:10:46.160
money that they get to spend on goods or relatively generic adventures. And the part of their life that
01:10:56.160
is interesting and compelling is, you know, the internet over which they range freely and engage
01:11:02.800
in battle and, you know, they fall in love increasingly and whatever else they do. And so
01:11:10.400
my point is that that is a distortion developmentally. It misleads the mind into misunderstanding
01:11:17.280
what is necessary. If you take the postmodern rules of the internet and you now impose them on politics in
01:11:26.720
the real world, you get crises. You get the basic structure of civilization coming apart in front of
01:11:36.160
our eyes, which I really believe that it is, right? With the homelessness crisis in the US, for example,
01:11:43.040
is jaw dropping. And we have a particularly acute crisis on the West Coast in the US that appears to
01:11:50.960
be the result of people being utterly compelled of their own political beliefs to an extent that even
01:11:58.960
as those beliefs are failing around them visibly, they just double down. So imagining that people who think
01:12:08.400
the internet has primacy are now exerting a force to correct the real world in the direction of their
01:12:16.880
naive internet understanding of things are in danger of crashing the aircraft. And in some sense, people like
01:12:28.480
you and me are responding to what they're saying about how we should restructure the real world and
01:12:34.960
saying, that doesn't make sense. It won't work. It is going to put us in grave danger. It is going
01:12:41.840
to disrupt essential things. And, you know, there are those who can hear us, and we are popular with
01:12:48.480
those who can hear us. And then there are those who regard our pointing out the obvious as a danger
01:12:56.480
to their program who are intent on silencing. And I thought about this obsession with identity from a
01:13:04.960
developmental perspective, too. And I thought this insistence by a loud minority that their determination of
01:13:18.560
their identity take primacy is, first of all, it's wrong, technically, I think, because an identity isn't
01:13:28.240
merely what you feel you are. An identity is way more complicated than that, as any decent social
01:13:33.440
constructionist should already know. An identity is a role, a set of complex roles that you negotiate with
01:13:42.080
other people so that you can thrive across a very long span of time. And it can't be something that
01:13:48.800
you impose on other people because then they won't cooperate with you. Now, you might say that you
01:13:53.680
have a right to impose certain aspects of it on other people. And you could have a reasonable debate
01:13:58.880
about that. But identity is definitely not merely what you feel it is. And it's certainly not merely what
01:14:05.200
you feel it is moment to moment. That identity is actually much more like that of a three or four
01:14:11.680
year old child. And I mean this technically, it's not an insult. So when you're a child, you pick up one
01:14:19.600
identity after another and play with them. So for example, my granddaughter, who's about three at the
01:14:24.960
moment, if you ask her who she is, she has two names, a first name and a second name. And her dad calls
01:14:30.000
her by her second name, and her mom calls her by her first name. So she's Ellie or Scarlett. And she's
01:14:34.640
fine with either of those. But she's also Pocahontas. And if you ask her whether she's Ellie or
01:14:40.560
Scarlett or Pocahontas, she will say Pocahontas. And she has said that for eight months. It's amazing.
01:14:47.040
It's been that persistent. In a child of that age, it's quite remarkable. But what she's doing
01:14:53.440
is playing, you know, and girls will play to be boys at that age, and boys will play to be girls. And
01:14:59.680
they play with multitudinous identities, and then they settle into one. So then the question is,
01:15:06.480
what if you disrupt that play? That's fantasy play. And then another question might be, well,
01:15:11.840
what if you disrupt it with technology? Not that technology itself is producing a message that's
01:15:18.640
counter to that, but that the fact that children are on technology all the time means they're not
01:15:25.120
engaging in that kind of identity establishing fantasy play. And then you might say, well,
01:15:29.840
maybe what you see happening in that case is that it bursts out in late adolescence.
01:15:34.960
And the insistence there that my identity is what I say it is, is actually that the scream in some
01:15:40.880
sense of an organism that hasn't gone through that egocentric period of play where they are
01:15:48.880
in a fictional sense exactly the way they define themselves. You can't tell my granddaughter,
01:15:54.160
who's three, that she isn't Pocahontas. It's stupid to tell her that because she means it in
01:15:59.440
an experimental sense. And all you're doing is interfering with her fantasy play. And so
01:16:04.480
I see a fair bit of this as delayed fantasy play with the kind of pathology that comes up when you
01:16:13.440
delay a necessary developmental stage. Now that could be wrong, you know, when probably is, but
01:16:20.560
still, it looks to me like that's part of what's happening. It's very strange to see this insistence.
01:16:28.240
Like, I just, I just, it's so conceptually unsophisticated. The, the, even the hypothesis
01:16:34.240
that identity is only what you feel that it is. And the intense insistence that that be the case
01:16:42.720
is also another mystery. It's like, why is it that it's a foregone conclusion that other people have
01:16:49.520
to go along with your self-definition? So I think, uh, first of all, that's fascinating and that fits
01:16:56.640
rather exactly with what I'm getting at. And I suspect it is adding a dimension where I was vague
01:17:03.680
about the developmental pathway, but you're absolutely right that a child can take on an
01:17:12.400
identity and effectively within limits, they are allowed to assert that identity and adults will
01:17:17.680
play along with it. Encourage it. Right. Now the, the thing is there's a process. I'm more familiar with
01:17:25.920
the, you know, the male side of this because I, you know, I went through boyhood and, and being a
01:17:33.280
young man. But if you have a misunderstanding about how you present in the world, so you assert that
01:17:41.440
you are one way, then your peers will, you know, if your peers are nice, they will poke fun at you in
01:17:49.600
order to reveal to you what it is that you actually present as so that you can adjust your self-image.
01:17:56.400
Right. And that's part of, that's part of healthy socialization. That's what happens. That's it.
01:18:01.040
Once you pull out of that egocentric stage where you're playing with yourself, then you have to
01:18:08.080
integrate other people into your play. And then it's a, then it's a negotiation. Otherwise you're not
01:18:13.360
accepted by your peers. And so that's another thing that's very interesting is that it is
01:18:18.160
precisely those children who aren't accepted by their peers that insist that their self-definitions
01:18:25.360
rule. And then the, what, one of the things that's kind of terrifying about that is if you know the
01:18:30.880
child antisocial literature, there's a, there's a percentage of children that are quite aggressive
01:18:35.680
at the age of two, almost all of them are male. Almost all of them are socialized out of the
01:18:43.360
regression by the time they're four. The, the percentage that isn't become persistent lifetime
01:18:49.680
offenders. If they're not, if their behavior isn't rectified by the time they're four, which means
01:18:55.120
if they're not transformed into children that are acceptable to their peers, there's no intervention
01:19:01.280
that is being evident in the literature that will reverse that. So I, this is, this is both frightening
01:19:11.280
and it's making me happy in the sense that I believe that the model that we are wrestling to the surface
01:19:17.680
here is accurate and it doesn't fit what most people are expecting is going on. And I think there's a lot
01:19:24.720
of power in understanding it this way, but what you are effectively saying is that there's a period in which
01:19:31.760
self-definition is identity in some sense. And then there is a period of correction at which your
01:19:39.600
uh, insistence on who you are meets everyone's else's insistence on who you are and you then learn
01:19:45.600
who you actually are. And that thing better be a pretty good match for the world, but then yeah,
01:19:50.880
it better be all right. Right. And so I have argued as a, as an evolutionist that the,
01:19:55.760
I would say the, uh, the job of a parent is to mirror the environment the child will mature
01:20:04.160
into so that when they get there, they have the software that is an appropriate match for it.
01:20:08.400
And a lot of, uh, mental health issues come down to a mismatch between the software that your
01:20:13.680
developmental environment produced and the environment you actually live in. And that can
01:20:17.280
happen. That's why you shouldn't be nicer to your children than the world is. In fact,
01:20:21.200
you're doing them a disservice. That's the devouring mother from the psychoanalytic perspective.
01:20:26.400
Right. And this gets into some very uncomfortable territory. What, you know,
01:20:30.080
what does good, if you're a slave, if you're born into slavery and you produce children,
01:20:35.040
how should you parent them? Should you protect them from, you know, all of the implications
01:20:41.360
of slavery? Presumably not. Let's go through this stage idea again, because there's three stages,
01:20:45.280
I think. There's, there's the, the egocentric stage where the child is manifesting multiple
01:20:51.200
identities, self-defined and playing. Then, then that's under the protection of parents. The parents
01:20:57.040
put up a walled enclosure, so to speak, within which the child can do that experimentation.
01:21:03.120
Then the child meets the world of peers. That happens between the ages of four and the ages of
01:21:08.800
17, 18, something like that. And that's when your identity has to expand to include others in a
01:21:17.360
cooperative and negotiated way. You have to manage competition and cooperation, and your identity
01:21:23.400
becomes socialized. And then there's a stage beyond that, I would say, where you kind of pop out of that
01:21:30.220
socialization and you're no longer necessarily a member of the group. It's like a self-actualized
01:21:35.500
person. That's, although I don't like that phrase, the self-actualization theorists thought to some
01:21:42.780
degree in this manner, once you're done with your apprenticeship, you can become post-apprentice and
01:21:48.280
then you can take control of your own destiny to some degree independently of your peers. So hopefully
01:21:55.180
you can get to there. But, and so that's part of the answer to the slavery conundrum. You know,
01:22:00.540
you should be a good member of your group, but you shouldn't only be that.
01:22:05.260
Well, I think there are two different questions. The slavery issue is the very uncomfortable idea
01:22:11.020
that if a parent is supposed to mirror the adult environment that a child will have to get along in,
01:22:17.260
then a person whose children will mature into an arbitrary environment needs to understand that it's an
01:22:24.140
arbitrary environment rather than being protected from it, right? In order to, you know, to properly
01:22:29.900
avoid running afoul of the arbitrary authorities in a slave environment, one has to be developmentally
01:22:36.700
brought into how you navigate below the radar, how you, you know, how you play that game. And so anyway,
01:22:43.040
you would expect the parenting to look very different. And, you know, this idea that childhood is,
01:22:48.100
you know, a, uh, a joyous time where you should be free of all of those adult influences is exactly
01:22:54.500
wrong. It's prep, it's preparation. So, um, though, now if we take this model that I think you and I are
01:23:02.340
agreeing on here about the fact that the, and I, I like your point here, um, that there are three stages.
01:23:10.660
You've got, you've got, I assert my identity independent of the world, then the world and I negotiate over
01:23:17.540
what my actual identity is. And then I'm not an apprentice anymore. And I get to be who I am in the adult
01:23:23.020
world, having been informed by that process. And you imagine that you've got generations now, one and a half of
01:23:30.860
them maybe, for whom the online environment was so compelling and so much the source of most of their affirmation,
01:23:36.660
that its rules have become sacrosanct to them. And those rules really do look like,
01:23:44.980
you know, there it's a, it's a childish world, right? You join some community of people, you tell
01:23:51.840
them who you are. There are rules about them having to respect who you've told them. You know, it is,
01:23:56.600
if I say I'm Pocahontas, who are you to say I'm not? Right. And, um, that in some ways.
01:24:03.760
Well, the answer to that question in the real world is I'm someone you have to get along with
01:24:09.000
in repeated interactions, but that may not be the case at all online. That constraint's gone.
01:24:15.040
Right. You may be able to, you can just pick up and move to the next community.
01:24:18.500
And that's another thing we should talk about, because another thing that's happening online
01:24:22.280
is that I've, I've detected this recently, is that the online environment is also making
01:24:29.040
everyone acutely paranoid. And I think the reason for that is that everyone, it's easy for our
01:24:35.940
thinking to go to, to go astray. And as we talked about earlier in this discussion, other people tap
01:24:43.560
you back into shape and you're, you're surrounded by a kind of random assortment of other people in
01:24:50.000
the real world because you didn't select them. So because it's random, it's, it provides you with
01:24:56.180
what is in essence, relatively unbiased feedback information, but online, you can choose your,
01:25:03.600
your compatriots. And it's likely to be the case that at your weakest point, psychologically,
01:25:11.060
you choose the least demanding compatriots. And so your craziest ideas are the least likely to be
01:25:17.720
challenged. All right. So there's so many interesting threads here. One of them, I, I, my guess is
01:25:26.160
you and I will fall out in the same place here. But if you give me a choice between a community
01:25:31.760
that, uh, believes everything I believe and one in which people believe very different things,
01:25:40.980
I'm not going to choose the one in which people believe the things I believe, because for one thing,
01:25:53.880
I've had, and you've had this experience too. I've had the experience of being in an environment where
01:25:58.800
a very large number of people don't agree with me vociferously. And what I would say is a little of
01:26:04.460
that goes a long way. Even if you're a courageous thinker, I'm not going to put myself in that category,
01:26:10.740
but if even, even if you're someone who wants to be able to tolerate dissent, there's a limited
01:26:20.040
amount of dissent that you actually can tolerate. You are going to seek out an environment where
01:26:24.720
most people agree with you, but some people don't some of the time. And it's kind of like listening
01:26:30.140
to music. You'll like music that's optimally different from what you are enjoying right now,
01:26:36.620
right? If it's exactly the same, it's boring. If it's too different, you can't hear it.
01:26:41.140
There's a, there's a, there's an amount of novelty that you can tolerate, but it's not that large.
01:26:47.860
And so even people who have been trained to look for evidence that disproves their own theories,
01:26:55.400
they're only going to be able to tolerate a tiny bit of that at a time. It's too destabilizing.
01:27:00.460
It's too destabilizing. Well, all right. So I want to link this back up to what you said
01:27:06.400
before about the three stages. So my experience as a scientist is that my most valuable characteristic
01:27:18.300
is the ability to be, to be completely indifferent to the prevailing wisdom on a given point.
01:27:26.600
Right. And I think this is- No, no personal stake in it.
01:27:32.220
Well, I may even have a personal stake. I may come up with an idea that compels me that it's
01:27:38.800
probably right, a hypothesis. And I may advance it and have every single one of my peers say,
01:27:45.800
that's garbage. And my sense is not one of, oh crap, I've said something bad. My sense is,
01:27:52.740
well, wouldn't that be delightful? If I'm as right as I think I am,
01:27:55.700
then the fact that everybody else doesn't get this makes it even better. Right. So my point is,
01:28:03.120
that's not normal. I know that's not normal. And it's not normal for evolutionary reasons that are
01:28:07.960
easy to understand. It takes a lot of training to accomplish that.
01:28:11.760
Yes. Or a developmental environment that rewards it. Right. Sure.
01:28:15.760
If you have, if you have the right experience. But then again, you know, you said yourself,
01:28:19.460
again, at the beginning of this conversation, think about the preconditions for that is that
01:28:24.500
in order to open yourself up to that sort of criticism, you have to be supported in all sorts
01:28:30.460
of ways, you know, and even a, so when I'm functioning as a scientist, I am trying to disprove my
01:28:36.960
presuppositions. No, I'll test them. It's like something, something manifests itself in an
01:28:42.620
experiment. Then I designed three or four experiments to see if I can make that effect go
01:28:46.300
away. And I do that because I don't want to propagate nonsense. And I don't want to pursue
01:28:50.360
nonsense in my own career. But in order to tolerate that, think about how we set up the system is
01:28:55.880
you have to be a tenured professor to do science
01:28:59.280
or have the equivalent position in a research lab. But
01:29:04.720
your economic situation is stabilized. Your social status is stabilized. Like you're protected on 50
01:29:12.260
fronts and then you can open the door and say, okay, let's have some novelty come my way.
01:29:18.180
And, and, and that, that's assuming that you're at a point where you can tolerate any novelty at all.
01:29:23.680
You know, and more curious, more open, more emotionally stable, more intelligent people
01:29:28.540
are more compelled by novelty and can handle it better. But still our, our ability, our ability
01:29:34.580
to handle it is pretty low. And we will find environments that mostly reflect back to us what
01:29:41.520
we want most, most comforting. Well, actually, this, this is, this is fascinating. I wonder if there's
01:29:50.260
not effectively a budget for discordant interactions. And, you know, if we go back to
01:30:00.420
what we were definitely about it at the beginning of the conversation, the fact that not only do Heather
01:30:07.820
and I have a great relationship, but we also speak the same language scientifically. So, you know,
01:30:13.180
it's a kind of across the board sounding board and ability to, you know, I feel no vulnerability
01:30:22.520
there because there's no place where our worldviews aren't compatible. And, you know, I could say
01:30:30.920
similar things about, about Eric. So what that means is that my budget for discordant interaction
01:30:38.840
is probably larger when I get to the outside world, um, because I haven't spent it at home or in the
01:30:48.960
context of family or friends. And, you know, you spend, it is definitely a budgetary phenomenon. You
01:30:54.340
spend, like, you produce a unit of psychophysiological preparation for every unit of uncertainty. And the size
01:31:02.340
of that unit of expenditure varies with your trait neuroticism, because that's like evolution's
01:31:09.300
guess at how dangerous the environment would be. It varies with your position in this, in the dot,
01:31:14.220
in the, in the social hierarchy, because if you're at the top where you're protected, the consequence
01:31:20.240
of an error is attenuated compared to what it would be at the bottom. And that's why social position
01:31:26.300
modulates serotonergic output. So the higher you are in the hierarchy, the more serotonin dampens your
01:31:34.520
negative emotion to uncertain events. And that's in keeping with your, with your actual fragility.
01:31:40.940
Neuroticism determines it. Social hierarchy determines it. Intelligence determines it to some
01:31:46.020
degree, because you're a more effective problem solver if you have a high IQ. So, but you do pay for
01:31:53.860
uncertainty, because if something's uncertain, you don't know what to do. And so you have to prepare
01:31:58.280
to do everything. And that's unbelievably costly, psychophysiologically. It ramps your cortisol
01:32:03.440
production up, and it, it starts to eat away from future reserves. It's definitely a budgetary process.
01:32:11.420
So. Yep. Um, all right. So I want to, I want to see if there's something more, um, with respect to
01:32:23.660
this model in which for people whose developmental environment has been, uh, internet first and who
01:32:34.240
have wrongly encoded the lesson that my identity is mine to define and that those who would challenge
01:32:43.720
it are enemies rather than people doing me a favor of giving me information that I don't have about
01:32:49.320
myself. They are enemies to be challenged and driven out. Um, then this interfaces with those of us for
01:32:58.740
whom the internet is not our primary, uh, developmental experience in the following way. And I, I'm using the,
01:33:07.400
um, the case of trans ideology simply because it's the clearest case biologically. But if you take the
01:33:17.880
rules of trans and I actually believe probably these ought to be the rules online, which is you can
01:33:25.860
present as whatever you want, and by and large, people should just simply treat you that way. And
01:33:31.000
you also, by the way, online have the tools to do that so that you're not creating, uh, uh, some kind
01:33:39.020
of unresolvable, um, paradox. But if we then say, okay, the online rules are that there's no such thing
01:33:47.940
as sex because a man can become a woman simply by, uh, showing up as one. And then we say, whatever
01:33:57.240
must be true in the real world in order for those rules to be the rules everywhere, we are going to
01:34:03.500
make those things true. Therefore, it must be the case that biology was wrong about sex. And what's
01:34:12.980
more that, um, because simply saying that you, uh, are female is sufficient to put you fully in that
01:34:23.760
category, then therefore whatever, um, morphology and physiology you happen to have at the point that
01:34:31.240
you make that assertion is consistent with being female. And we have the absurd discussion that we
01:34:36.400
now see so regularly about, um, basically, you know, female penises and things like this.
01:34:44.680
And so those of us with real world primacy are constantly saying, you can't rewrite the rules
01:34:52.500
of civilization around simple claims and isolation, like all you have to do to be female is say that
01:34:57.780
that's what you are. Um, and that, that battle is one that is now ironically going to be lost in the
01:35:06.420
real world as a result of the fact that actually political power is accumulating in the hands of
01:35:12.900
those who subscribe to the online rules. So the, the, the identity issue is, I mean, it forces us to,
01:35:21.620
to, uh, one of the things I've found so, so challenging about all of this is that
01:35:27.640
these challenges to fundamental assumptions force you to make arguments for things you actually
01:35:34.440
don't know how to argue for. So for example, what does it mean to be female? Well, I don't know
01:35:42.120
because no one's actually ever asked me that question. They just act being female and I act
01:35:46.760
being male, whatever that means. And we don't ever sit down and lay out the explicit assumptions. Now
01:35:51.620
you do that to some degree when you're arguing with your wife about who's going to do what,
01:35:56.060
when, and maybe with your mother and when, with your sister, you have local discussions when,
01:35:59.980
when roles come into conflict, but you never list the axioms that you're using to do your
01:36:06.580
perceptual categorization. And so then when you're forced to defend your presumption, you don't know
01:36:12.200
how to do it because you don't have the arguments at hand. So to be female, I mean, means something
01:36:18.980
like, and I'm going, what do you do? I had a discussion with one of my students, former students
01:36:28.360
today. We're trying to help people develop this. We're trying to develop this program that helps
01:36:33.140
people identify and then accomplish important life tasks. And it forced me to think about something I've
01:36:43.720
thought about over years. What are the important life tasks? Like, okay, so you should get educated
01:36:48.920
to the, to the approximate level of your intelligence. You should be employed gainfully,
01:36:56.740
have a job, or maybe if you're lucky, a career. You need an intimate relationship. You should have
01:37:02.960
some friends. You need a family. You need to regulate the world of temptation, drug and alcohol use,
01:37:08.600
that sort of thing. You have to take care of your health. You need to make some use, productive use
01:37:13.500
of your time outside of work. So there's eight things. Maybe there's more, but that's sort of
01:37:18.780
eight. And maybe you don't need to be fully accomplished along all of those eight, but they're
01:37:25.000
pretty important and they're not a bad start. And if you can come up with a better list, more power to
01:37:29.960
you. But well, let's take one. You're going to have a family, an intimate relationship and a family.
01:37:34.800
Well, the classical way of doing that is that someone's male and someone's female and they get
01:37:39.640
together and they have children and then they have grandchildren. And that's like a third of your life
01:37:45.380
or a quarter of your life or a fifth of your life. I don't care. It's some non-trivial portion of your
01:37:50.900
life. And that identity, male and female, is a precondition to that route through life. And then you
01:37:56.680
have children and they mean something to you and they give you something to do and you have grandchildren
01:38:00.700
and it's the same thing. So by playing out male and female, it's sort of like you've now occupied 25%
01:38:07.260
of your time productively. That's the role. Okay, let's say we blow that apart. Well, then what?
01:38:14.220
What are we supposed to do then? Because you can't pretend that into existence. And that's the
01:38:20.340
postmodern element of this. This is the refusal of the real world. It's like, okay, we'll make identity
01:38:25.820
entirely mutable. But what are the trans kids that came after me in the first demonstration against
01:38:34.080
me? I said, you think I'm your enemy, but I'm not. And the reason I said that being a clinician was
01:38:40.220
because I thought, well, you're adopting an identity that there is no rules for. What the hell are you
01:38:47.440
going to do with that? You're inviting so much trouble into your life, you can't even possibly
01:38:54.200
imagine it because you won't know what to do. And people won't know how to treat you. And so where
01:39:00.340
does that leave you? Now, you might say, well, I'm so distraught about the discordance between my
01:39:06.960
psychological state and my biological reality that that pales in comparison. And maybe there are
01:39:12.420
situations where that's the case. But man, an identity that doesn't solve the problem of how you're
01:39:20.880
going to live isn't an identity. I don't know what it is, but it's not an identity.
01:39:28.420
Yep. And I don't even know how people would change the rules exactly to make that work.
01:39:35.880
So I agree with you wholeheartedly that effectively, our identities are means to an end.
01:39:46.560
And there are conservation laws that apply to the system as a whole. And unfortunately,
01:39:53.960
and this is actually essentially the core argument of the book that Heather and I
01:40:00.520
have just completed. But the core argument is we are living in a period of evolutionary hyper novelty,
01:40:10.580
where human beings are actually the species for which we have the best tools to deal with novel
01:40:18.220
circumstances that our ancestors did not know anything about, but that the rate of change has
01:40:22.960
become so high that there is no conceivable way for us to keep up with it. And what we are effectively
01:40:30.120
Even in principle. Even in principle. The very fact that you can say the environment that we live in
01:40:38.280
is not the one that we were born into, that's way too fast. You may be able to make a discreet jump.
01:40:45.100
Human beings are capable of moving from one habitat to another and figuring out one time what the rules
01:40:52.040
of the new habitat are. But a habitat that is constantly in motion and has become utterly arbitrary
01:40:58.580
with respect to even the most fundamental characteristics is not something to which
01:41:05.500
we can be well adapted, which is causing us to be-
01:41:08.000
Sounds like a powerful argument for conservatism.
01:41:11.880
Yeah, I know. I understand. Well, I do understand. I do understand that. That is,
01:41:15.760
to the degree that I'm conservative in my outlook, that is the reason. It's like, look,
01:41:22.160
I've kept up, you know, like I've transformed myself multiple times over the years. And I was
01:41:28.580
taken out by this illness and it isn't obvious to me that I can catch up again. I've caught up a lot.
01:41:33.840
And I've watched my peers, my high school classmates, my university classmates, and I've seen people
01:41:40.840
who don't have one transformation in them. They're people who, they adapt to the high school environment
01:41:46.240
and that's it. That's where they are for the rest of their life. They peak at 17, they're done.
01:41:50.960
They don't change. Then I've seen people who can manage one transformation.
01:41:54.280
I've seen people, much rarer, who can manage two or three. But after that, it's like,
01:42:01.020
it's, it gets massive drop off in probability with every demand for transformation.
01:42:07.920
And now, like I find myself now, I have to rely on my son for doing some of my technological chores.
01:42:13.260
And I hate that because I stayed on top of it for so long, but I got sick and I fell out. And
01:42:17.980
it isn't obvious to me that I can clamber back in. It's very difficult.
01:42:23.040
Well, if you'll take some advice from a friend, and I'm not even sure,
01:42:27.840
I'm not sure I even have it fully formulated, but the thing you described earlier in the conversation,
01:42:36.340
the amount of effort it takes for you to get to the point where you can be productive in the day,
01:42:44.400
the amount that is riding on your doing it, the number of people who are listening to you and who
01:42:53.060
basically need your influence in their life. And, you know, in some sense, it, you know, it is,
01:43:03.860
it's, it's a mythological story. And I know you will have spotted that a thousand times over,
01:43:09.960
but just the Herculean effort, the tremendous amount that's riding on it and the degree to which
01:43:16.160
you're, you're paying some, uh, inhuman price in order just to continue playing your role is
01:43:23.540
profound. And so the advice to the extent that I have.
01:43:26.800
I don't see how you can see that. It shocks me that you say that. I mean, that isn't to say I.
01:43:43.060
but I can, but I can't, having said that, I still can't believe it.
01:43:48.000
So what I think I would do in your shoes and what I hope you will do is you will,
01:43:55.040
you know, I don't think there's anything about that story that isn't right. I think you're,
01:44:00.080
you're reporting honestly how hard it is. And I know because I've seen it in person,
01:44:05.680
and everywhere else I've seen the effect that you're having on people. And I know how important
01:44:10.680
it is in keeping them out of trouble and steering them in the right direction and giving them hope.
01:44:15.460
And so what I would hope is that instead of reinventing yourself again, or updating yourself,
01:44:26.020
that you would figure out what the efficient way of showing up in the world in that role is and
01:44:40.020
I hope that's why we're having this conversation.
01:44:43.520
I seem to be able to do this so I can do this. And so that's what I'm doing.
01:44:48.940
And I have this book coming out and we'll see how that goes.
01:44:52.120
But I mean, I think, you know, I know your audience, and they will,
01:44:59.100
they'll accept you any way you can show up for them. And I think, you know, the key thing is to
01:45:05.800
figure out how to get out of the predicament of having to go through that Herculean struggle every
01:45:10.560
Yeah, well, it's beyond, I've been struggling with it for two years, I can't get out of it. I can't,
01:45:14.820
well, I mean, I'm out of it to some degree, I'm living at home again, I'm not in the hospital.
01:45:19.300
But the reason I'm not in the hospital is because there's nothing that can be done for me in the
01:45:24.100
hospital. Like, there's no point in me going to a hospital, it will just make it worse.
01:45:28.800
When I wake up in the morning, like any sensible person would go to the emergency room and say,
01:45:32.760
look, this is there's just, this just isn't possible. But it's irrelevant, because all that
01:45:38.400
will happen, and I've been in like four hospitals. So I know all that happens is I'm made much worse.
01:45:43.940
And so I live in 15 minute increments, fundamentally.
01:45:51.840
Wow. Well, I hope you can detect how many people are rooting for you.
01:46:01.460
It's mind boggling. It's life preserving that fact. And I can't believe it, even after this last
01:46:09.500
London Times interview, the amount of support that came pouring in is just unbelievable. I can't,
01:46:17.960
I can't wrap my head around it. I don't get it. Well, but there it is, you know, there it is. But
01:46:24.840
I mean, it makes sense, you know, because those of us who have been on your team or paying attention
01:46:29.940
to you for the last several years, know who you are. And I think, in some sense, your enemies
01:46:39.380
know what you are, they know that a voice like yours carries a tremendous amount of weight,
01:46:45.480
that their fictions will not survive in the context of a countervailing force like that. And so
01:46:52.440
that's why they come after you the way that they do. But, you know, the fact is, people are getting
01:47:00.300
wiser over time, they're recognizing what an attack looks like, you know, at some level,
01:47:06.680
they vary a little bit aesthetically, but the overall picture is the same.
01:47:12.480
There's a new one planned, apparently. So the next thing, yeah, the next thing, this is something
01:47:17.980
that hasn't happened yet, but is apparently coming, a financial expose of my, I don't know,
01:47:26.900
economic existence. So, you know, which will be accompanied by claims that I'm exploiting everyone.
01:47:35.920
Yes, they're going to come after you for succeeding and for people doing, you know,
01:47:41.700
what they can in order to get you to keep going.
01:47:44.880
I live such a sybaritic existence. I drink sparkling water and nothing else, ever. And I eat nothing but
01:47:52.700
meat, ever. And so my luxuries, this is so... It's so absurd. My luxuries have been
01:48:05.740
Well, I sometimes wonder when I look at attacks on you, if the idea is this. There are a certain
01:48:18.000
number of people who haven't spent any time listening to you yet. And if they did, they would
01:48:24.160
quickly gather that you're not what your enemies are portraying you as. So the idea is there has to
01:48:31.140
be a constant stream of suggestions that there's something deeply wrong with you in order to get
01:48:38.680
people not to check in with that question. You know, it's like, you know, Julian Assange, right?
01:48:46.220
The number of things that have been said about Julian Assange that would make you think, well,
01:48:54.140
Right. And so the idea is it has... The stink that they create around you or Julian Assange or
01:49:00.400
another figure that they regard as very dangerous has to be sufficient to drive most people away from
01:49:06.360
even checking for themselves. And I don't think it's working in your case, but I do think that that's...
01:49:12.480
Well, so far, it doesn't seem to... But, you know, there's always the possibility that it'll be the
01:49:16.620
next one that'll work. And it's not like I have any shortage of things wrong with me.
01:49:20.640
There are things wrong with me, you know? Now, whether they're ethical things or not,
01:49:25.140
that's a whole different question. But, like, nobody has a... Nobody has a... What?
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No one has an untrammeled conscience, that's for sure. So... And I'm not too worried about the
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economic attack. I mean, I'll just make my... If it gets out of hand, I'll just make all my finances
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public. I mean, I've never made any apologies for being an evil capitalist. So...
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I think, actually, all the things I've done, I've tried to use market forces to modify because
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I think it's a really good source of feedback. You know, like, I've produced these
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processes to help people plan and assess their personalities. And, you know, we thought about
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giving them away for free, but free is actually a really bad price. And once you start making things
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and starting to put them out in the environment, you find out very rapidly that pricing is very complex,
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and you have to get the price right, and free is not the right price. First of all,
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if people will only use it if it's free, it might actually not be any good. And that's a signal.
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So, why not use that signal? That's how it's appeared to me. And then you have to
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make the thing sustain itself, so it has to generate some income.
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And, anyhow, that, from what I've heard, that's the next thing that's going to happen.
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So, if you, we should stop pretty quick, I guess, although I'm really enjoying this,
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and we will definitely do it again. I would really like that. I had a very fun conversation
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with you. It's so nice to talk about what are essentially scientific hypotheses. I miss that
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so much, because I don't have my graduate students anymore. Your life has changed dramatically.
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If you could have taken a route, I guess I'm asking, you know, would you do it again?
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And I do, but I don't want to ask that in a cliched way. And maybe it's a stupid question,
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because you just don't know, but are you okay? Yeah. Yeah. I mean, you know, on the one hand,
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if I think about it logically, would I do it again? In a heartbeat. There are a few things I
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might do slightly differently, but I'm not even compelled. You know, I think it went pretty well
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in light of what the forces in play were. But, you know, the thing that we've lost
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is security, right? The fact is, the world... I mean, people might, you got a settlement from
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the university, but that was a trivial proportion of your future, your mutual future earnings. It was
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nothing. It was enough so you didn't starve to death immediately, but that was all.
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Right. You know, and if I'm honest about it, we were forced to move out of our home to a
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different city. We uprooted our children's lives, which was quite disruptive. But I really don't feel
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there was any choice. I don't, you know, if I think about it as a matter of choice, I cannot
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find the circuit that would have done anything differently. And I'm not... All I can say is our
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lives are full of purpose. And we're doing fine. The absence of security is something I think about
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a lot. But yes, I would say there wasn't any choice, nor should there have been. And I'm not
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sorry I made the choices I did in the slightest.
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Well, you look good, man. And you look, if you don't mind me saying, you look different than you
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Well, but there's a... I've noticed this in my clinical clients, when they integrate their
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aggression, their face is hardened. And they look determined all of a sudden, instead of
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questioning. And you look like that more than you did. Now, some of that's from getting older,
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Well, I think, you know, if I'm understanding you correctly, it's probably a lot about
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you know, getting catapulted into the big leagues and learning to play that role. It's, you know,
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it's trial by fire. But certainly, it's been fascinating. And I'm looking forward to seeing
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Look, it was great to see you. Say hi to Heather for me.
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I can't tell you how relieved we were to hear that Tammy had recovered and that you were back. And I
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know it's a rough road, but hang in there, brother. We need you. And there are so many people who are
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just thrilled that you've come back from hell to rejoin the battle.