377. This is for the Anonymous Online Trolls | Dr. Gad Saad
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Dr. Gad Saad is a professor at Concordia University, researcher, podcaster, and author of the new book, The Sad Truth About Happiness: Eight Secrets for Leading the Good Life. Dr. Saad was one of the first and only academics to support me when I was embroiled in the first round of controversy that enveloped me, when I stirred up the first controversy that our idiot government stirred up. He was also the first person who had the courage or chutzpah to interview me and to discuss my situation with me. And I think that s become more and more evident over the ensuing months and years, and I want to thank him for that courage and for his willingness to stand up and speak out against a government that didn t seem to care much about what I had to say. He s also the author of a new book called, the Sad Truth about Happiness, which is out July 25th, and it s coming out on Amazon on July 25, 2019. I can t wait for you to read it. If you haven t done so already, I encourage you to do so. It s going to be worth the time and effort it takes to get it out there and read it and write about it. And if you re interested in learning more about happiness, then you re in for a chance to get a copy of the book on Amazon. It s coming soon. Thanks for listening and share it with a friend or family member who needs a good life. or friend who s also looking for some tips on how to live their best life or someone who s looking for a better one. . Timestamps: 1:00:00 2:00 - What is a good day? 3:30 - How do you feel about the good life? 4:15 - What do you think of your job? 5:40 - What are you looking for? 6:10 - What would you like to hear from me? 7: What are some of your thoughts on a friend? 8:00-9: What do I think of a friend you would like to see me talk about? 11:30 9:30- What are your favorite piece of advice? 12:15- What s your favorite thing about someone else? 13:00 -- How do I feel about a friend s tan? 14:40- What kind of thing do you want me to do?
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Today I'm speaking with my friend, Dr. Gad Saad, professor at Concordia University,
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researcher, podcaster, and author of the new book,
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The Sad Truth About Happiness, Eight Secrets for Leading the Good Life.
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I've got to say, Dr. Saad was one of the first and really one of the few academics who supported me
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right at the beginning when I was embroiled in the first round of controversy that enveloped me
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or that I stirred up, you know, or that our idiot government stirred up,
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which is a more accurate description of the whole event.
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Gad was one of the first people who had the courage or the chutzpah, I guess that's the word,
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to interview me and to discuss my situation with me.
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And, you know, he played that very, very straight.
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And I don't think it was obvious to him at all at that point when he took that risk.
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You know, he didn't know anything about me, really.
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He could have easily decided, like so many people did, that I was just fundamentally reprehensible
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and, you know, stayed on the safe side of the fence.
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But I don't really think that's the sort of person he is.
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And I think that's become more and more evident over the ensuing months and years.
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One of the things I learned, you know, in the last six or seven years is that
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courage is a very, very rare virtue, much rarer than I even thought.
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You know, I'd studied totalitarian states for a long time, and I knew that people were
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easily led into a state of pathological silence.
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But I didn't understand how rapidly that could occur and how few people, even in a free society
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with a long history of freedom, would be loath to speak and how rapidly that could occur.
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You know, and then you do see people who stand up and say things that might get them in trouble
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and some of them are just people who are unwise, right?
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And who are willing to impulsively say what comes to mind.
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And then there are other people, and they're much rare, who are thoughtful and who've carefully
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considered what they have to say and are willing to say it anyways.
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And you fell into that camp right away, and you've been pursuing that for a good long time.
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And, you know, also with a sense of humor, which is, I think, a sign of mastery, by the
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You know, you just wrote a book called The Sad Truth About Happiness that's coming out
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And, you know, it is the case that I think you're a credible observer on that front, because
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you have this playful aspect that doesn't disappear even when you're dealing with serious
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And so I think that makes you a credible observer on that front.
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You could say one or two comments about how good my tan looks after spending two weeks
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We'll finish with the reciprocal compliments, but it's been a delight forging a friendship
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As you said, I think we got to know each other about seven years ago.
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And, you know, of the ecosystem that we both navigate in, regrettably, many people turn
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And you're certainly not one who exhibits any cowardice.
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And it's a pleasure and honor to be your friend.
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Yeah, well, and we have areas of mutual interest as well.
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You know, I've been interested in the psychology of entrepreneurship and of managerial and administrative
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I spent a lot of time studying that and also very interested in evolutionary psychology
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And so we have those overlaps, which is quite interesting professionally.
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And so I thought that's part of where we can go today, as well as talking about your book.
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Let's start with your last book, The Parasitic Mind.
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And then a year later, in October 2021, the paperback came out.
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Well, it's always difficult to be excited about how well it's done when you're speaking
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to someone who sold 12 million copies of his last book.
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So if we don't use you as a benchmark, then I think it did remarkably well.
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But as I often tell my wife, it's done incredibly well, but not enough to give me an exit strategy
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But maybe I'm saying this in front of guys behind the line who are all proud to be Quebecers.
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I love Quebec, but I'm not very happy about, as you might agree with the sort of socialist
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So hopefully the next book will offer me at least the option of having an exit strategy
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Well, the university that you happen to inhabit also has a very pronounced left-wing tilt,
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It's amazing that you've been able to survive there at all.
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So do you want to just familiarize people with the thesis of the parasitic mind?
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And then we'll turn to your new book, and then we'll talk a little bit more about evolutionary
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So my last book, what I was trying to do is argue that in the same way that all sorts of
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animals can be parasitized by neuroparasites, actual parasites that can go into an animal's
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brain, altering its behavior to suit its reproductive interests, I argue that human beings can be parasitized
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by another class of pathogens called idea pathogens.
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And so these ideological parasites can then cause us to take positions that are truly maladaptive.
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And so what I do in the book is I first describe many of these idea pathogens, postmodernism,
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social constructivism, biophobia, cultural relativism, and a slew of other such parasites,
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all of which were regrettably spawned in the university ecosystem.
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Because to sort of borrow from George Orwell, it takes intellectuals to come up with some of
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And so then what I do is I trace the spawning of these brain parasites, and then I offer
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hopefully an effective mind vaccine against these parasitic ideas.
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There's a few things that I'd like to clarify on that front and get your opinion about.
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So the first is, is that you could imagine something approximating a Darwinian race between sets
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of ideas for memorability and communicability, right?
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So for an idea to spread, it obviously has to be memorable, which means it has to be adapted
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But it also has to be charismatic enough so that the people who remember it will also communicate
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And so stories seem to fit into that category quite well.
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So you could imagine that there's a competition between sets of ideas, and it's sort of a detached
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In some ways, it's the free Darwinian play of ideas that could occupy our cognitive space,
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both in terms of memory and on the communicative front.
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And so you could think about those ideas that come to the top of that as either having some
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practical function or as actually serving as, in some ways, as genuine parasites in the
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So, you know, I've been delving into the, since about 2016, psychologists have finally, in
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their wisdom, determined that there is such a thing as left-wing authoritarianism.
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And so that would be a web of ideas that are correlated in, in that if you have one, you're
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I did some of the work on that, early work on that with one of my students, Christine
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We found a set of progressive ideas and then a set of totalitarian leftist ideas that combined
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the progressive ethos with the willingness to use fear and compulsion and force to implement
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And so we found, we found the following predictors because we were curious is do this, does this
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system of ideas exist or is it just a right-wing, you know, conspiracy delusion?
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And the answer is there's clearly a set of coherent, statistically coherent left-wing ideas that
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are allied with the willingness to use compulsion and force.
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And we found four major predictors of the proclivity to have that idea set.
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And the first predictor, and it was a walloping predictor, negative 0.45 if I remember correctly,
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verbal intelligence and left-wing authoritarianism correlated more highly than verbal intelligence
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So when you ask yourself, you know, how can people be daft enough to accept this relatively
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reductionistic and simple-minded view of the world, everything is about power, one of the
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answers to that is, well, they're not very verbally sophisticated, okay?
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The third best predictor was having a feminine temperament, independent of being female, right?
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And the fourth best predictor was having ever taken even one explicitly politically correct
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So now, since then, other people have developed analogous models of left-wing authoritarianism
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And one of the most interesting predictors that has emerged is there's a very powerful relationship
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between the dark tetrad personality characteristics, including malignant narcissism, and the proclivity
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In fact, the correlation between malignant narcissism and left-wing authoritarianism is 0.6,
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which is so high that you could make the case, because the scales are somewhat unreliable,
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you could make the case that they're not distinguishable on the measurement front.
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Okay, I know this is a long-winded question, but I want to specify it exactly.
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All right, so the dark tetrad personality types, they show subclinical characteristics
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of psychopaths, and psychopaths are predatory parasites.
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And so we could imagine there's two forms of parasitism going on here.
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There's the Darwinian competition between idea sets for memorability and communicability,
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but then there's the proclivity for people who occupy the parasitical niche in the human
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ecosystem, and that would essentially be psychopaths, to utilize ideas like the parasitical idea
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sets that you described for their own truly parasitical purposes.
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And then I want to decorate that with one more thing.
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I think this is actually, especially because of the emerging virtualization of the world,
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I actually think that there's an existential threat here, because parasitism is an unbelievably
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And there's always been parasitical people, criminals and the like, and the most parasitical
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And we've evolved mechanisms to keep the parasitical predators under control.
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And all of our evolved mechanisms for dampening down the parasite, the predatory parasites,
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And so I think our whole culture is enabling the predatory psychopaths on the criminal front
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And then you have all the demon troll types, you know, who are polluting the political discourse,
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So if you're an online troll, you're much more likely to show all the dark tetrad traits,
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narcissism, Machiavellianism, psychopathy, and to top it all off,
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There's a lot of good stuff that you put in there.
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Number one, your first point about the battle between Darwinian ideas,
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there's actually a whole field called evolutionary epistemology
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So think back of Richard Dawkins when he introduced the concept of the meme
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So there was a whole field that unfortunately hasn't lived up to its promise called memetic
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theory that exactly tries to model what you said, which is there's a bunch of ideas floating
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around and what is the Darwinian mechanism that allows some ideas to be selected versus
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Now, in my book, and then I'll come in a second to some of the predictors that you spoke about
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In my book, I basically argue that what is common to all of these parasitic ideas is they wish
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to be free from the pesky shackles of reality, right?
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So postmodernism, as we both commented on, is the ultimate granddaddy of all parasitic ideas
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because it basically frees us from the pesky shackles of objective reality because it purports
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Transgenderism frees me from the pesky reality of my genitalia.
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Social constructivism frees me from the idea that there might be innate biological differences
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So it really stems originally from the noble notion of seeking to maximize empathy, right?
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So the idea starts off as a noble idea, but then it metamorphosizes into complete garbage
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in the pursuit of that empathy to the detriment of truth, right?
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Number two, regarding your predictors, actually, I'm familiar with the study that you mentioned.
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I think it was a thesis that you supervised, correct?
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Right. So we actually looked, so I'm actually working right now with a graduate student myself
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where we're looking, and we've actually looked at the thesis that you supervised with your
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student. We're looking at another set of predictors that might interest you, Jordan.
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And specifically, we're looking at morphological predictors of ideological positions that people
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Now, that's uniquely interesting because you might otherwise not think that your morphology
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But it turns out, and I discussed this in The Parasitic Mind, that, for example, your likelihood
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of supporting military interventionism is correlated to your upper body strength.
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Not surprisingly, so now I'm talking about male subjects.
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So there's a paper, I don't know if you guys know this, but there's a paper that was published
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two months ago, something like that, looking at, they used facial averaging of activist types
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on the left and then conservative types. You saw that. So the conservative...
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Well, I was upset that I saw that paper because they're kind of, they're stealing some of our
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thunder. Now, you might remember in the parasitic mind, although I remember, I think I first proposed
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this theory to you in our first conversation when you came on my show. Remember, I talked about
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male social justice warriors as sneaky fuckers. That's an actual term, right?
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Well, sneaky fuckers is actually not a term that I came up with to be profane. It's actually a
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zoological term that captures in nature the idea of kleptogamy, where you're trying to steal
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mating opportunities. So for example, let's say you have a type of fish where there are two
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phenotypes of a male, you know, of a male. There's the dominant physically imposing male,
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and then there's a whole bunch of other males that actually pretend to be females so that they can
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sneak by the dominant males and then have a surreptitious coupling opportunity with the
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females. And that became known as the sneaky fucker mating strategy. And so in the parasitic
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mind, I argue that male social justice warriors are instantiating a form of sneaky fucker strategy,
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right? Look, I'm very sensitive. I hug trees. I cry when I watch Bridget Jones' diary. See,
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I'm not, you don't have anything to be afraid of. And then hopefully that can allow me to
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have access to some willing and available females.
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So do you know their literature on orangutans? So, you know, there's two forms of male, well,
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there's two forms of male orangutan in any given eco, like what would you say, roughly tribal
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local ecology. So there's one form of male develops, he's like the quarterback orangutan.
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He gets so big, he can't even really be arboreal. He has the huge fat pads around his face that make
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him round, that makes his face round. And he's very physically powerful. And the females come to him
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to mate. But then there are other male orangutans in the same area that for a long time, anthropologists,
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primatologists thought were juveniles. But it turns out they're not juveniles. They're males who don't
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undergo the complete transformation into the non-arboreal male. And they use exactly the mating
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strategy that you described, right? So there's-
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Well, that's why I was so, I'm always amazed that people get so triggered by your lobster analogy,
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because the whole field of comparative psychology operates on the premise that we could learn a lot
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about human cognition by studying our animal cousins. I mean, right? I mean, that's the whole
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premise behind the tree of life. So I don't really see why someone would be so triggered by the fact
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that you use the dominance hierarchies of lobsters to then make certain points about human society.
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There's a whole field called comparative psychology that does that. So to me, the people who are coming
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after you for those kinds of analogies between us and other animals are simply displaying their
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Yeah, well, they're mad at me because if lobsters have hierarchies, it's pretty hard to blame hierarchy
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on capitalism. You know, because we haven't discovered a sub-genus of capitalist lobster yet,
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and it strikes me as highly unlikely that we will.
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But let me ask you this. I mean, we're going off sort of our, but I mean, conversations are organic,
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so this might be a good opportunity to talk about this. Why do you think that you trigger a lot more
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animus than I do? Because one could argue that I actually, on any given Tuesday morning,
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will tweet as many, if not more things that are quite, quote, controversial. And yet somehow I,
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now obviously your platform is larger than mine, but even if we correct for that, even if we do it
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per capita, there seems to be something. And by the way, I've been asked that many times when I appear
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on shows because people know that we're friends and they'll ask me, you know, how come you don't get,
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so let me turn it to you since we're now chatting. Do you have a theory as to why you are such a
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polarizing figure? Whereas, you know, I might, one can argue, I take positions, you know, I mean,
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I'll criticize Islam a lot more forcefully than you do. And yet somehow I don't trigger as much
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animus. What do you, what do you think is the driving?
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Maybe I annoyed people on more fronts simultaneously than you did partly. Well, so what happened? This is
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a possible explanation. You know, when, when things first blew up around me in 2016,
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I already had 200 hours of lectures on YouTube. And so, you know, I was pilloried as a right-wing
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demon, essentially, by the sorts of people that we're discussing who like to do that sort of thing
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to hide their own character, let's say. And then people looked me up online and went to my YouTube
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channel and then found, you know, this extra hundreds of hours of content, which demonstrated
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rather incontrovertibly that I wasn't the sort of person that I was being accused of being, but also
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touched on all sorts of other topics that people might not have expected, like in the religious and
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mythological domain, the psychoanalytic domain. And so, I think the fact that I had that storehouse of
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lectures already stored up when, when, when the trouble emerged, expanded out my reach in a very
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dramatic manner. And that's probably, you know, as the first occupier of that position in some ways,
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because I was an early adopter of YouTube. I know you were too, but, you know, I think I got there a
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little faster than you did and a little, a little broader. And so, I think that's probably a fair bit
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of it, you know. I wonder also if, so like in my latest book now, which I guess we'll talk about
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in a second, I also engage in prescriptive remedies. You know, here are some steps by which you can
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increase your happiness. But historically, I've been much more of a descriptive psychologist, right?
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I describe how things are. Now, in your case, by virtue of you also being, having been a clinician,
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by definition, you engage in the ecosystem of prescriptions a lot more. And that I think
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triggers people's ire because you're telling them how to behave. And by doing that, you're obviously
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going to alienate people. Whereas I come along and I say, here are the evolutionary reasons why
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there are differences between men and women. And I stopped, I stopped there. Whereas by you taking
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the prescriptive jump, that probably augments the amount of animus that you receive. What do you
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think of that? Yeah, yeah, yeah. I think, I think that's a reasonable proposition as well. I also think
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that, I think we could develop that line of, of, of hypothesis a little further too. I think that
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many of the people who have an animus against me, and almost all those people are anonymous online
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trolls, by the way, because I never encountered that, or virtually never in my, my actual life.
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Quite the contrary. I think they're very, very irritated that my simple-minded prescriptions,
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like take some responsibility for yourself and don't play the victim because it's not good for you
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or for anyone else. I think they're very, very annoyed that, first of all, I'm calling them out on
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their hypothetically empathic virtue signaling attempts to escape from all possible responsibility,
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which is exactly what they're doing. And second, they're very annoyed that the simple ideas that
00:26:47.060
I've been putting forward and the simple, somewhat conservative ideas in that they're traditional,
00:26:52.500
they're very annoyed that those work. And then they're also annoyed because I have this very deep
00:26:57.700
interest in religious issues that also, you know, grates on people to some degree. And this is
00:27:05.440
something you and I are going to talk about because it overlaps with our interest in mimetic ideas,
00:27:10.100
because religious ideas are mimetic ideas for better or worse, you know, and, and we can talk
00:27:15.780
about that. So, you know, and then I'm also, I think I'm also probably enabling, to the degree that
00:27:24.480
I'm enabling young men and, and speaking to them about the virtues of their ambition instead of
00:27:30.840
dismissing them as pathological, you know, patriarchal oppressors. That's also very annoying,
00:27:37.180
especially to the types of men that you're describing who want to sneak about in the background
00:27:42.140
and pretend to be virtuous and harmless, which is a pretty damn pathetic way of comporting yourself
00:27:47.360
in my estimation. Like I've watched those kinds of men operate in the protests against me,
00:27:53.160
you know, and so I can be surrounded by a mob of pretty decent screaming harpies and, you know,
00:27:58.820
they're annoying as can possibly be imagined. But when I look at the men that are with them,
00:28:03.140
they just make my blood run cold. Like those are, and that's with my clinical eye, those are not good
00:28:08.640
people. You know, they're hanging around those, those women who are doing the harpy thing. And
00:28:14.580
they're there as exactly the kind of parasitical predator that you're describing. And I can see that.
00:28:19.180
And they are not, they're not the sort of person that you would want anyone you cared for to come
00:28:24.480
to, to have any association with whatsoever. Plus, because they have to be sneaky fuckers in your
00:28:30.500
terminology, you know, they're bitter and resentful, and they're very likely to want to tear down
00:28:35.460
anything that approximates true accomplishment, because all those who have true accomplishment are
00:28:41.240
their genuine competitors. And that's partly why I think the radical left-wing authoritarians
00:28:46.440
go after merit so assiduously is that, you know, they're, they operate on a completely
00:28:51.520
non-meritorious basis. And it's in their best interest to present merit itself as a falsehood
00:29:00.760
What do you think is the, the main predictor of folks like you and I, who are willing to speak
00:29:09.720
our minds unencumbered by any shackles of political correctness? And maybe I'll start by answering
00:29:15.600
it for myself. I absolutely think it's an indelible part of your personhood. But if I were to give a
00:29:22.420
more vivid account of that, I always tell people when they ask me, you know, why do you take on
00:29:28.300
these risks and speak your mind? And then, as you know, Jordan, last year, I received some pretty
00:29:33.060
serious death threats and many, many years. And you were very kind to right away contact me.
00:29:39.000
Well, you get more flack on the Jewish front, eh? So like, I've got more flack, but I would say I
00:29:45.100
haven't got flack as serious as some of what's been levied against you. Like I've been fortunate
00:29:51.420
enough to escape that. Now, because I'm associating with all the evil Jews at the Daily Wire, I get some
00:29:57.600
anti-Semitic blowback, you know, but it hasn't, and I've watched a lot of that online and it's bloody
00:30:03.300
vicious. The anti-Semitic parasitical psychopaths are in a demonic class of their own. They're so-
00:30:13.340
Yes, yes. And so you've, so I have been targeted more frequently, but I think you've been targeted
00:30:23.060
That is true. But to make the point about my unique situation in terms of why I take the risk,
00:30:29.880
I always argue that at the end of the night, when I put my head on the pillow,
00:30:34.340
it is important for me in order to be able to sleep well at night, to know that I did not modulate
00:30:40.840
my speech in any way and walk away from defending the truth. If I feel that I have done that,
00:30:48.520
then I would feel fraudulent and I would feel inauthentic. And one of the, probably the highest
00:30:55.140
ideals that I hold to, you know, close to my heart are freedom and truth. And so I speak not because
00:31:03.500
I'm, you know, trying to signal that I'm courageous. It's because I don't know how to be
00:31:08.600
anything else. So for example, it took me a lot of effort while I was on my Portugal vacation
00:31:14.460
to not jump in, you know, whenever I'd go on Twitter and see some idiot saying something,
00:31:19.600
my first instinct is to always come in, you know, with some correction. It's just an indelible part
00:31:27.300
of my personhood to speak the truth. And of course, in my forthcoming book, as you know,
00:31:33.580
we might talk about, I talk about authenticity and realness as a important pathway to happiness,
00:31:41.220
right? I mean, even, you know, the ancient Greeks, as you know, the Delphic maxim,
00:31:45.000
know thyself. And so I know myself and I know that I can't modulate my speak. So that's my answer
00:31:51.480
for why I can't hold back. And I always speak the truth. Is it the same for you? Would that exact
00:31:57.420
answer apply to you? What drives you to take the difficult positions that you take?
00:32:02.160
Well, I think, I think, you know, they say the fear of God is the beginning of wisdom. And
00:32:08.460
I think that what happened to me in the course of my studies is at least an analog of that. You know,
00:32:13.660
Gad, I started studying totalitarian atrocity when I was 13. You know, it's really been an obsession
00:32:21.120
of mine. And it was really a psychological obsession rather than a political one. So
00:32:26.880
I was always curious about the psychology of the perpetrator, right? What sort of person
00:32:35.440
would you have to be to do those sorts of things? Or what spirit would have to inhabit you? You know,
00:32:42.060
one of the things I learned, I learned a lot of things. I learned that it's easier to be that way
00:32:47.880
than you think. That you could enjoy it more than you might possibly imagine and that people do.
00:32:55.460
And that the true grip of the totalitarian state isn't top-down tyranny. It's everyone's willingness
00:33:03.620
to abide by the principles of the lie. And so the more totalitarian the state, the more every single
00:33:10.520
person in that state is gripped by the lie. And for me, that's indistinguishable from hell.
00:33:18.340
And I think I mean that practically and also metaphysically. And I learned that the willingness
00:33:25.880
of people to utilize their speech instrumentally was literally the pathway to hell. And so once I
00:33:33.520
actually understood that and understood it in a manner that made it an incontrovertible truth for
00:33:39.280
me, everything else became less frightening by contrast. It's like, so when I spoke out against
00:33:45.220
this idiot Bill C-16 back in 2016, which was the forerunner of much of the trouble we're seeing now,
00:33:51.900
especially on the gender insanity front. You know, on the one hand, there was the threat of me
00:33:57.800
putting my job on the line. And as it turned out, my clinical practice, and of course, making myself
00:34:03.200
unpopular with the government. And I thought, that's nowhere near as frightening to me as the
00:34:09.740
prospect of losing control of my tongue, because I know where that leads. That leads to the worst
00:34:14.480
place you can possibly imagine. And I know that. Like, I wouldn't even think for me that it's an axiom
00:34:20.540
of faith. It's like, no, I know how totalitarian states develop. They develop when people who have
00:34:27.400
something to say don't speak. And I don't want to go there.
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I think I've lived that reality having grown up. I mean, some of your viewers may not know my
00:35:50.240
personal history. Having grown up in the Middle East, having gone through the early parts of the
00:35:55.640
Lebanese Civil War, I always contextualize any threats that I might face in my job, which of course
00:36:03.660
are serious to what I faced when I grew up in Lebanon. And it's no surprise then that many of
00:36:10.780
the staunchest defenders of Western values end up being immigrants like myself, because we have sampled
00:36:18.680
from the wide buffet of possible societies. And we know that the Western experiment is not,
00:36:27.200
it's an outlier, right? It's an anomaly. And therefore, it typically takes people who did not
00:36:34.360
grow up in a Western tradition, who've escaped the hell holes from which they've escaped, to then be
00:36:40.800
able to say, hey, Westerners, don't take for granted the freedoms that you have. And so if you look at
00:36:48.820
many of the, you know, think of Ayaan Hirsi Ali, right? She can speak, you know, with a lot of
00:36:55.480
clarity and authority about some of these issues, precisely because she too has come from a similar
00:37:05.840
Yonmi Park is another fantastic example. We've both had wonderful chats with her. And, you know,
00:37:12.200
I don't know if you know Yasmine Mohamed, who didn't grow up. Do you know Yasmine Mohamed?
00:37:17.740
She wrote a book. I think she grew up in Canada, but she had a very tough upbringing where she was
00:37:25.440
married to an Islamic extremist who forced her to wear the niqab and so on. And so I wonder also if
00:37:31.940
the fact that we come, we meaning myself and Ayaan and Yonmi and so on, we come from these societies
00:37:38.280
affords us a bit more leeway when we speak than someone like you, because, you know, you're the,
00:37:44.900
you know, evil Western white male, whereas, you know, we're quote, you know, brown people and so
00:37:50.820
on. And so we do have high victimology scores. So when we then play the oppression Olympics against
00:37:58.460
those who might be coming after us, we can always cash in our chips because as I've often joked,
00:38:05.860
but I'm being serious, that my victimology poker card is going to be higher than most people,
00:38:11.140
as will Yonmi Parks, as will Ayaan Mercy Ali. Whereas the fact that you don't have that currency
00:38:17.320
puts you at a distinct disadvantage in the victimology poker game, right?
00:38:23.220
Right, right, right. Well, yeah. So that might be one level of defense that I don't have automatically.
00:38:29.540
So, okay, so let, I want to delve a little bit more deeply into your observations about your
00:38:35.460
conscience. And I want to tie that into our discussion of memes and parasitic ideas, okay?
00:38:43.220
And I want you to, and I think for those of you who are watching and listening, Gad and I have had
00:38:50.020
some exchanges in the past with regards to our somewhat differing opinions about the utility of
00:38:54.720
Jungian ideas about archetypes. And I want to segue into that, given this particular issue,
00:39:01.520
I think it's a good entry point. So Gad, I've been reading the biblical corpus in great detail
00:39:07.840
in the last months. And of course, previous to that, because I'm writing a new book called
00:39:13.520
We Who Wrestle with God. And one of the things that I discovered in the analysis of that sequence
00:39:20.160
of stories was that there was a transformation at the time of Elijah, which is what makes him a
00:39:26.960
canonical prophet. There was a transformation in the conceptualization of what constituted
00:39:33.680
the highest animating principle, the ultimate deity, let's say, Yahweh in this particular case.
00:39:40.640
And this occurred when Elijah stood up against the prophets of Baal. And the prophets of Baal,
00:39:47.760
Baal was a nature god. And so you could imagine among primordial people, and there's certainly
00:39:54.240
echoes of this still within our own psyches, that extraordinarily awe-inspiring natural events
00:40:02.240
would produce a kind of religious apprehension. So that could be earthquakes or typhoons or
00:40:07.520
or tornadoes or thunderstorms. You know, these manifestations of quasi-cosmic force that
00:40:17.440
can in some ways, they definitely inspire awe and can bring you to your knees. Now, Baal was a nature god,
00:40:25.280
plain and simple. And so what that meant at that time was that the highest authority to which people
00:40:32.080
owed fealty was the authority that made itself manifest in the storm and in the earthquake and in the
00:40:37.840
thunder. Now, Elijah had an intuition. He was, what would you say, a uniquely isolated follower of Yahweh
00:40:48.720
at that time, because the Israelites, the Israelite king had married this woman named Jezebel and she
00:40:55.520
brought Baal worship into the Israelite society and attempted to obliterate the worship of Yahweh
00:41:03.520
as an enterprise and really reduced the ranks of the Yahweh supporters to almost nothing. To Elijah,
00:41:10.960
you might even say. Now, Elijah defeated the priests of Baal in a head-to-head competition,
00:41:18.080
which I suppose was the archaic equivalent of a debate. But then he had to run off because Jezebel
00:41:23.520
got wind of his victory and was going to kill him. And then he spent some time in a cave.
00:41:27.680
And when he was in the cave, he experienced an earthquake and he experienced a thunderstorm and
00:41:34.480
some of these magnificent displays of nature. But he had this intuition that whatever the ultimate
00:41:41.280
voice was, was a voice that spoke within and not externally. And so it's Elijah, it's in the book of
00:41:48.800
Elijah that you first find the phrase, the still small voice within essentially. And so what happened
00:41:56.160
was there was a transformation of the notion of the highest deity to something that was external and
00:42:02.400
a manifestation of the grand, what would you, the grandiosity of nature to this idea that no,
00:42:10.160
it was something akin to the voice of conscience within. And so the reason I'm bringing that up is
00:42:16.400
because it's a radical psychological transformation and a subtle one. But I also think, I want to know
00:42:21.520
what you think. You said that there are two things that give you abiding, that you have abiding faith in.
00:42:28.240
And one is the power of the word, right? You're a professor, you're a writer, you're a communicator,
00:42:33.520
you're a podcaster, and you are very careful in your selection of words. And not only,
00:42:39.120
so not only do you have faith in the word, let's say, but you also believe that your highest moral
00:42:48.480
obligation is to be guided by your conscience in the formulation of your words. Okay, so now you
00:42:56.960
could think of that, and this is where I want to know your opinion. As far as I can tell, one of the
00:43:04.000
the meme-like qualities of the biblical corpus is the increasingly sophisticated insistence,
00:43:12.400
as the stories unfold, that the highest animating principle is to be understood not as a manifestation
00:43:20.640
of the awe-inspiring power of nature, but in terms of something that is relational, that's
00:43:27.760
associated with the conscience, and that's tied to something like adherence to the spoken and
00:43:35.680
communicated truth. And so, and that that's become a very powerful meme in the West, right?
00:43:41.920
The dominant meme, you might say. And so, I'm wondering what you think about that. Like,
00:43:47.920
especially given your admission, let's say, that the principle that does animate your behavior,
00:43:54.000
for better or worse, is this fidelity to the accuracy of the word.
00:44:00.640
Right. So, I guess, I mean, there are several ways that I can answer this. One of which is that I don't
00:44:06.560
need to situate my pathological and obsessive defense of the truth in a supernatural cause. Having said that,
00:44:18.240
though, or in a supernatural, you know, reason, right? Having said that, though, as an evolutionist,
00:44:24.320
I'm fully aware that the default value of human beings is precisely to be moved by religion. In other
00:44:34.320
words, being a non-believer is certainly not the default value of humans. That often surprises people
00:44:42.800
because they often think that, given that I'm not particularly religious, that somehow I have a
00:44:49.040
built-in animus towards religion. To the contrary, I fully understand the functional value of religion.
00:44:56.560
But, and I can concede that point without necessarily believing that, you know, the specific
00:45:03.440
supernatural elements are true. I can see that there is great value in the moral stories and the
00:45:09.600
parables and the allegories that are taught. And so, a lot of the stuff that you might talk about,
00:45:14.400
or a lot of the stuff that, you know, the Jungian archetypes, I could completely situate them within
00:45:19.760
an evolutionary paradigm and fully agree with them. I think the main place where I might disagree with
00:45:26.320
some of the more religiously oriented folks is that I stop at simply recognizing their functional value
00:45:33.680
without necessarily believing in their veracity, the actual, right? So-
00:45:37.680
Okay, okay. So, let me ask you about that. So, let's take that apart very carefully, okay?
00:45:43.680
Because you said that you can take the stance that you've taken with no reference to the supernatural.
00:45:51.920
All right. So, let me delve into that and you can help me clarify my thinking on this, in this regard.
00:45:56.960
So, okay. So, the first, I'm going to make some, I'm going to offer some propositions.
00:46:01.760
The first is, is that you're strangely, and I don't just mean you, I mean human beings in general,
00:46:08.160
but also particularly you, you're strangely beholden to your conscience. And in some ways,
00:46:14.720
it operates as an autonomous entity, right? Because you know, you know this, your conscience will call
00:46:20.400
you on things. And you could say, well, my conscience is me. But then I would say, well,
00:46:26.960
if it's you, why the hell don't you get the pesky little thing under control
00:46:31.920
and bend it to your will instead of subordinating yourself to its claims?
00:46:38.800
And then I would say its claims because I think that you can make a credible case that
00:46:44.320
the voice of conscience within you is very much analogous to the voice of conscience within me,
00:46:52.000
let's say, but also within all people. And that in that manner, the person who does determine to
00:46:58.320
abide by their conscience is conducting themselves in accordance with something that, if not supernatural,
00:47:05.760
at least has to be given status as something transcendent. Like, let me decorate that a little bit.
00:47:12.480
You know perfectly well that when you're thinking something through, right? When you have a
00:47:16.720
pressing question on your mind, that you'll get flashes of intuition. And I don't really think
00:47:22.880
there's a hell of a lot of difference between intuition and revelation, technically speaking,
00:47:27.360
right? And it isn't obvious at all where those flashes of intuition come from. And I think that if
00:47:33.120
you're a genuine scientist, the voice of revelation within isn't really distinguishable from that
00:47:40.160
willingness to pursue the truth and the willingness to attend to the voice of conscience, right?
00:47:45.680
Because you're supposed to be pursuing the truth as a scientist and you lay yourself open to...
00:47:51.040
So can we separate transcendent and supernatural in some manner that's productive?
00:47:58.400
I'm not sure that I'm able to answer the precise question, but what I can
00:48:02.400
say is that our conscious, our morality is exactly what you would predict of a social species in a very
00:48:14.320
material way, right? Because, and I'm willing, and as a matter of fact, many ethologists and evolutionary
00:48:20.160
scientists have already made these arguments, that there is a very compelling scientific argument that can
00:48:26.240
explain the evolution of morality without situating it within some transcendent, you know, religious
00:48:33.520
framework. Because many of the religious folks will say, yeah, sure, evolution can explain why we have
00:48:39.200
opposable thumbs, evolution can explain why there are sex differences, but it can never explain morality.
00:48:46.560
And of course, many evolutionists, some of whom are incredibly accomplished thinkers,
00:48:51.120
have argued that there is nothing uniquely magical about the construct of morality. When you have a
00:48:57.520
social species, the most dangerous thing that, you know, humans have faced in our evolutionary history,
00:49:05.440
other than predators, is our conspecifics, is other people. We're walking through the savannah,
00:49:11.360
and here comes another group of folks that are unrelated to us. We don't know if they are friend or foe,
00:49:16.640
and that's why one of the reasons we've evolved coalitional thinking, right? Blue team versus red team.
00:49:20.800
And so it makes perfect sense when you have a non-solitary animal to evolve things like a conscience,
00:49:28.160
things like the emotions of anger, retribution, vengefulness, right? So all of these mechanisms,
00:49:36.080
whether it be morality or our emotional system, can be completely couched in an evolutionary adaptive
00:49:43.520
framework. But again, that said, I think that it makes perfect sense for an animal like us, who's
00:49:51.040
developed this big prefrontal cortex, who is regrettably aware of their mortality, to be uniquely
00:49:59.040
intoxicated by religion. Because religion offers us the ultimate pill for the most fundamental problem
00:50:06.080
which we face, which is the recognition of our mortality, right? If I have high cholesterol level,
00:50:11.520
and if we agree that, let's say, having bad cholesterol is bad for you, although, of course,
00:50:16.000
that's debated, then I can go see my physician, he can give me a statin, and my cholesterol scores
00:50:22.000
will drop. Unfortunately, there is no pill for my mortality fear other than the religious solution,
00:50:30.560
right? And so to me, as a functional analysis, it makes perfect sense for us to be susceptible to
00:50:39.040
believe in religion. Now, I don't think, and here I'm going to link up to, I saw that you've recently
00:50:44.720
been having some spicy exchanges with Richard Dawkins. I don't think I'm nearly as,
00:50:52.880
I don't exhibit as much animus towards religion as does, let's say, Richard Dawkins. Again, I think
00:50:58.880
because I'm coming from the perspective that there are very clear evolutionary reasons why we evolve to be
00:51:05.120
believers. And so, and oftentimes, this assuages some of the anger that the religious folks might
00:51:13.600
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00:51:19.360
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you deserve. There are two fundamental ways by which evolutionists can study religion. There is what's
00:52:22.800
called the adaptation approach and the exaptation approach. So maybe I could take a minute or two to
00:52:29.120
address them. The adaptation approach is why would religion have ever evolved? What survival or mating
00:52:38.240
advantage would be conferred would be conferred on those who are religious as opposed to those who are
00:52:43.360
not religious? And the top argument that's been proposed is one by David Sloan Wilson, the evolutionary
00:52:50.880
biologist who actually he wrote a great book called Darwin's Cathedral, which if you haven't read it, Jordan,
00:52:56.240
I think you'd enjoy it. He uses a group selectionist argument to argue that religious group as
00:53:04.080
compared to non-religious groups are going to have greater likelihood of surviving because religion
00:53:10.160
affords you greater cohesion, communality, cooperation. And so that would be one approach to
00:53:18.320
situating an evolutionary understanding of religion. The exaptation approach, many of your viewers may not
00:53:24.640
be familiar with that term. An exaptation is a byproduct of evolution. So for example, if I say,
00:53:31.760
why do humans have the color of the skeleton that they have, that itself was not adaptive,
00:53:37.840
it's a byproduct of evolution. Now the top guy for the exaptation approach of religion is an
00:53:46.000
evolutionary anthropologist named Pascal Boyer, who basically argued that religion piggybacks on neural
00:53:56.000
systems that evolved for other reasons. And hence, it's a byproduct. So even if you are someone who
00:54:03.760
is not very religious, but you are grounded in evolutionary theory, you can fully understand why
00:54:09.600
it is so easy for most people to be religious rather than non-religious, if that makes any sense.
00:54:14.720
Okay. Okay. So let me address a number of the things that you just said. The first comment I might
00:54:24.640
want to make, and you tell me what you think about this. Gad, I don't think that it's
00:54:31.120
unreasonable from a narrative perspective to frame you as someone possessed by the same
00:54:39.680
spirit that made itself manifest in the prophetic tradition. Now, and this makes sense to me, partly
00:54:46.000
because of your cultural heritage and the way that you approach ideas. But I also think that it's true
00:54:52.000
in a more than merely passing sense, you know, because one of the things that you see that constantly
00:54:59.120
characterizes the prophetic tradition in the Old Testament is that people like
00:55:04.320
Jonah. So I just took the story of Jonah apart for this book that I'm writing. And so it's very cool,
00:55:10.400
Gad. So this is the proposition in Jonah, right? Jonah is just minding his own business.
00:55:16.720
And God makes himself manifest to Jonah in the form of a call from conscience. That's the simplest way to
00:55:25.120
think about it. And he tells Jonah, there's this city up near you called Nineveh, which is full of
00:55:31.520
foreigners that hate you and that are your enemy. But they're deviating from the desirable path.
00:55:38.080
And I'm thinking about wiping them out. But I think you should go up there and say what you have to
00:55:45.200
say on the off chance they'll listen so that they tap themselves back onto the straight and narrow and
00:55:52.480
don't reap divine retribution. And Jonah, being a very sensible person, says, yeah, I don't think I'll
00:56:00.880
do that. It doesn't sound like a great deal for me. It's me who's a foreign Jew against 120,000 of my
00:56:09.120
enemies. Why the hell do you think they'll listen to me? I don't really care if they're saved anyways.
00:56:15.040
How about I just go in the other direction? So he rejects this call to speak right now. He's on a boat
00:56:21.840
getting the hell out of there. And the sailors, the storms come and the waves rise, and now the ship
00:56:29.840
is in danger. That's the first hint in the story that by refusing to speak when you're called upon,
00:56:36.320
you put the ship itself in danger. That could be the ship of state, right? Now the sailors are kind
00:56:41.040
of superstitious, and they think someone on this boat is on the outs with God or with their gods.
00:56:47.520
We better find out who it is so we can rectify this situation. So they go interrogate all the
00:56:53.040
passengers. And Jonah admits that he has defied a direct order. And so he basically tells the sailors,
00:57:02.320
who were somewhat loath to do this, by the way, to throw him into the ocean where he's going to drown.
00:57:08.000
And you might think, okay, so what does that mean? Well, this is what it means to me is that if you're
00:57:12.640
called upon to speak and you stay silent, then you're going to put the ship in danger and at the
00:57:18.880
great peril of your own life. So now they throw him in the ocean. You think, well, that's about the
00:57:23.600
worst thing that could happen to poor Jonah because now he's way the hell away from shore and he's going to
00:57:27.520
drown. That isn't the worst thing that happens because the next thing that happens is that
00:57:32.240
some horrible demon from the abyss itself rises up from the bottom of reality and takes him in its
00:57:38.240
jaws and pulls him down to hell. And I say hell because that's how Jonah describes it. And it's
00:57:43.840
also a type of the harrowing of hell that is laid out in the gospel stories much, much later. And so
00:57:51.680
this is my sense of what that story means. And I think this is something particularly relevant
00:57:57.520
to the experience of the Jews, let's say in the 20th century, is that if you're called upon to speak
00:58:04.400
and you reject that call, not only do you put the ship in danger and your life, but then you're going
00:58:11.120
to be like, what would you say? The jaws of hell itself are going to close around you and take you to
00:58:16.480
the bottom, the very, very bottom of things. And I do think that's what happens to states when the
00:58:22.080
people in the states don't speak. So Jonah is down in hell for three days in the belly of this whale,
00:58:29.520
this dragon whale. And, you know, he has a chance to think and he decides, well, you know,
00:58:35.760
maybe I should have said something when I was called upon to say something. And he repents and the whale
00:58:41.040
spits him out and then he goes to Nineveh and he talks to all the foreigners who are his enemies
00:58:46.720
and they actually listen and God decides not to destroy them. Now, you know, that in that story,
00:58:52.560
the spirit of your ancestors and mine is portrayed as the voice that calls from within to stand up and
00:59:02.000
say what you have to say, even to those who would want to destroy you, even to those who have habitually
00:59:08.400
been your enemies. And that if you don't do that, well, you, you bring the forces of death and hell
00:59:14.960
against yourself and everyone else. And so, well, there's, see, that's not exactly a, what would you
00:59:21.120
say, a testament to the existence of the supernatural, but it is definitely the testament to the existence of
00:59:29.680
something transcendent that you have moral obligation to. And so, well, so...
00:59:36.240
Yes. Yeah, no, I, I, I buy all of that. That's precisely why when people ask me, well, how can you
00:59:44.160
be so attached to your religious identity and not be much of a believer? It's precisely for the reasons
00:59:50.320
that you said, which is, I come from a very long line of, uh, of thinkers. Uh, there are cultural
00:59:58.400
values that come with being Jewish that I'm very proud of. Uh, I don't know if you saw it just on a
01:00:04.960
slightly, uh, a note of levity. Have you seen Jordan, the, the Dutch AI group that put together their best
01:00:14.880
rendition of what Jesus would look like? Have you seen that image? No, no, I haven't. Where would I
01:00:20.880
find that? Uh, well, that image, it turns out, looks hauntingly like the guy that you're speaking
01:00:28.000
to right now, right? And I mean, it's literally shocking. So if you take that image that the AI
01:00:32.960
Dutch researchers came up with and you take it, now I'm not, I'm not engaging in, in a delusion of
01:00:38.560
grandeur saying that I'm Jesus, but what I'm saying is that there is a lot to be proud of in the
01:00:44.000
heritage that I come from. I'll tell you a quick story, personal story that speaks to that kind of
01:00:48.800
Jewish ethos that I discussed in my last book in the parasitic mind. Uh, when I was talking about,
01:00:57.120
you know, the differences between, uh, values of one culture and another that, which by the way,
01:01:02.080
speaks to your point about personal responsibility and so on. So after I had finished, uh, so I did a
01:01:08.560
undergrad in mathematics and computer science and then an MBA at McGill. I'm saying this not to
01:01:14.800
flaunt my CV because it's relevant to the story. And so after I had finished my MBA, I, my goal was
01:01:20.400
always to continue, you know, do a PhD, behavioral science and so on. But one of the places I had been
01:01:25.440
accepted to for my PhD was University of California, Irvine. And my brother at the time lived in Southern
01:01:30.000
California. He was a very, very successful entrepreneur. And he was trying to convince me,
01:01:35.280
having just finished my MBA to take a couple of years, put on the proverbial suit, work with him
01:01:40.960
a few years, get some experience. And then of course, go back and, you know, pursue my PhD. But
01:01:45.440
I was really not interested in that. I always knew that I wanted to be an academic. Well, when I returned
01:01:50.640
home to Montreal and my mother had caught wind of the fact that my brother was trying to convince me to
01:01:57.520
stop my studies for a few years, she takes me to a side room. She says, come, I want to speak to you.
01:02:03.120
It seemed like an ominous thing that she wants to talk to me. I said, well, what's up, mom?
01:02:07.200
She said, well, I hear that you're thinking of not continuing with your PhD. And before I could
01:02:12.800
even assuage her fears, she said, well, do you want people to know you as somebody who dropped out of
01:02:19.280
school? So for her, for the standards of excellence of my family, having a degree in mathematics and
01:02:26.720
computer science and an MBA, and then not going on and doing your PhD would, would bring shame to the
01:02:34.320
family, would be a, a manifestation of having dropped out of school. Now, of course I didn't do
01:02:39.600
my PhD to, to please my mother, but it gives you a sense of, right. You're speaking as the clinician
01:02:48.080
that you are. And so, right. And so, and so that gives you a sense of the importance that,
01:02:57.520
you know, learning has, it's really a pathological desire for, that is instilled within you from the
01:03:05.680
youngest of age to be a learned person. And so I can be incredibly proud of that heritage because it is a
01:03:13.760
real material heritage. It's a real sociological reality, cultural reality to be from that long
01:03:20.800
tradition of Jews. Again, without necessarily buying into every single element of the supernatural.
01:03:27.360
So for example, even if I were to concede that God exists, I can't imagine that the ruler of the
01:03:35.360
universe cares about whether you light the Shabbat candles at 821 or 822. But I can promise you that
01:03:44.640
if you go to some of the Hasidic neighborhoods in Montreal, where there are very Orthodox Jews,
01:03:49.680
they would argue that no, no, God absolutely cares at the exact minute when you, so, so in that sense,
01:03:58.320
I could be very, very much tied to my religious heritage without necessarily caring about some of the
01:04:04.960
the ritualistic elements. Okay. So, so I want to tell you about a study that someone brought to my
01:04:10.720
attention about six months ago. It's not a very old study and it's a really remarkable study. And in
01:04:17.440
fact, I think it's revolutionary. So it turns out, you know, that when, when DNA molecules are damaged,
01:04:23.920
they can repair themselves and they generally do that with spectacular accuracy, but the accuracy varies.
01:04:28.880
Okay. So imagine this, imagine that there's a hierarchy of genes and that some genes are so
01:04:37.440
fundamental that if they vary even a trifle, the organism that they produce will be non-viable.
01:04:45.680
And then imagine that there are other genes, like the ones that code for eye color, where there can
01:04:49.280
be tremendous variability with virtually no consequence. Now, there might be minor consequences,
01:04:54.160
like maybe, maybe blue-eyed blondes have a sexual advantage over those who aren't blue-eyed and
01:04:59.360
blonde, you know, because of attractiveness, but all, but, but having brown eyes or darker hair
01:05:05.600
doesn't make you unviable, right? Now, it turns out that there is a relationship between the accuracy
01:05:13.120
of DNA repair mechanisms and the canonical status of the genes that are being repaired is the more
01:05:21.040
fundamental the gene is to the morphology upon which existence itself depends, the closer to 100%
01:05:29.360
accuracy the repair mechanisms manage. Okay. So, so that means there's a core set of genetic axioms,
01:05:38.720
you might say, that don't vary with mutation. And there's a peripheral set that are allowed to vary,
01:05:45.520
you might say, as experimental variations on the adaptational landscape. Now, I think there's an
01:05:55.520
analog between that and conceptualizations, let's say means, is that there are some axioms, some
01:06:05.520
conceptual axioms that have to remain utterly unchanged across time. And then there is a host of
01:06:15.360
more peripheral propositions that can vary substantively with, with, with no disadvantage
01:06:24.160
and maybe some advantage because of the variability. And I think also that we regard the canonical
01:06:31.920
axioms as deep and profound, and we're affected if they move, where we're willing to abide by,
01:06:41.040
to allow and even to enjoy variation on the fringe. And so I'm wondering, you tell me what you think
01:06:47.200
about this with regard to what you claim is that, you know, you said that you're unwilling to adhere to
01:06:54.960
the more gay un distinctions that are made on the religious front. And some of those might involve,
01:07:01.520
right. The propositions of the existence of something supernatural
01:07:06.480
and inexplicable in its fundamental nature. But, but it also seems to me that for you, that's allied
01:07:14.240
with an unshakable faith in certain axiomatic presuppositions, some of which we already discussed,
01:07:20.560
which is like, is it incorrect for me to say that your attachment to the communicated truth
01:07:28.800
is most appropriately conceptualized as adherence to an unshakable axiomatic faith? Like, I don't
01:07:38.960
understand how, I don't understand how it isn't. So if you don't think it is, then help me understand.
01:07:44.480
Right. So, so for example, now let's bring in, say my, my math background. In mathematics,
01:07:51.920
there are axiomatic truths, right? So take, for example, the transitivity axiom. If I prefer car
01:07:58.080
A to car B, and I prefer car B to car C, it must be that I prefer car A to car C. If I don't, then
01:08:05.280
that's called an intransitive preference. And therefore I'm, I'm committing a violation of rationality.
01:08:10.720
Those are axiomatic mathematical truths. But there are also empirical truths, right? If I
01:08:17.040
throw a person off a 100 store story building, 100 times out of 100, I'll know exactly what will
01:08:24.240
happen because there's a thing called gravity. So in other words, I can pursue truth without,
01:08:31.920
and as you said, universal truth that is invariant to time or place. And those truths,
01:08:38.320
while we may couch them in a supernatural cause, I can completely adhere to them without them being,
01:08:44.960
you know, co-opted with a, with a supernatural element. So for example, in the parasitic mind,
01:08:50.800
I hope we'll have a chance to talk about my forthcoming book soon. We can actually talk about
01:08:54.800
it in the context of religiosity and happiness. If you'd like, that could be a good segue. But in my
01:09:00.560
last book, I, in chapter seven, I talk about how to seek truth. And I, I offer the epistemological
01:09:07.360
approach called nomological networks of cumulative evidence. And I think we had discussed that privacy,
01:09:13.920
privacy, right? So the idea there is that if I want to demonstrate to you, Jordan, that there is a
01:09:20.480
unshakable universal truth, what would be the data that I would need to amass and present to you
01:09:27.040
for you to start coming around to me. And the way that you do that, if you're building a
01:09:31.520
nomological network of cumulative evidence, is you come up with data that, that is across cultures,
01:09:38.000
across eras, across species, across methodologies, across theoretical frameworks. And if all of these
01:09:45.760
triangulate to demonstrate that your phenomenon is universal, then you're well on your way to having
01:09:51.840
built a rather unassailable, unassailable argument. And so notice that I've been able to do that without
01:09:58.160
ever requiring some higher supernatural authority to contextualize that truth. And so again, I'm very,
01:10:07.280
very open to the idea that people need religion. I think religion in most cases serves more benefits
01:10:16.320
than, than, than, than, than costs. Although I wouldn't have left Lebanon were it not for religion,
01:10:23.120
right? Because it is specifically religious hatred that caused me to leave Lebanon, right? It wasn't
01:10:31.440
feasible in the mid seventies when the Lebanese civil war broke out to be Jewish in Lebanon, because
01:10:37.040
Lebanon is exactly what happens to a society that is completely organized along identity politics lines.
01:10:44.560
So it's particularly dismaying that the progressives in the West wish to
01:10:49.760
model that from which I escaped in Lebanon. But in that case, the reason why we had to leave Lebanon
01:10:56.080
is exactly due to religion, because somehow our religious heritage was no longer possible to, to
01:11:03.440
hold, to practice in Lebanon, and we left. So I kind of have an ambivalent relationship with religion.
01:11:08.800
All right. So, so let me ask you, okay, let me ask you a couple of things about that. So,
01:11:17.120
and this is something that we both grappled with as academics, you know, the universities have become
01:11:22.480
very corrupt. Now, you could argue on the one hand that that corruption is just an extension of the
01:11:29.040
intellectual enterprise as such. Or you could argue that the corruption that's made itself manifest in
01:11:36.080
the universities is a, is a parasitical excrescence on the core enterprise, the intellectual enterprise
01:11:45.520
of the universities. Okay. Now on the religious front, the same issue emerges, right? The question is,
01:11:52.880
is that when, you know, you already pointed out earlier that the parasitical predator types can
01:11:59.520
utilize strategies of empathy, let's say, to, to amplify their attractiveness on the sexual front,
01:12:07.920
right? So they can co-opt something that emerged for other reasons and bend it to their own purposes.
01:12:15.280
So is it, so what do you think is more reasonable? Like, do you think that on the religious front that
01:12:22.320
the danger you were exposed to in Lebanon is a merely a consequence of the fact that the religious
01:12:27.200
enterprise itself is flawed and will produce this multiplicity of competing and often murderously
01:12:33.520
competing claims? Or is it reasonable to assume that something analogous happens on the religious front
01:12:40.000
and that the fundamental conflict is a consequence of the predatory parasites twisting
01:12:46.640
fundamentally axiomatic and necessary religious claims to their own devices and, and sowing discord as a
01:12:52.640
consequence? Well, I can't be so charitable as to give religion a free pass because many of the religious
01:13:00.240
narratives, certainly in the Abrahamic faiths, are precisely us versus them, right? So, so there is no way to
01:13:09.520
misinterpret some of the teachings in many of these books, whether it be Deuteronomy, so the Old Testament,
01:13:16.880
whether it be in certain Christian doctrines, and certainly when it comes to Islamic doctrines, it is very
01:13:23.760
difficult to quote misread or mistranslate. And it's certainly difficult to tell someone who's, who Arabic,
01:13:30.800
Arabic is their mother tongue, that I'm misunderstanding what is being communicated, let's say, in some
01:13:36.960
elements of, you know, the Islamic faith. My point here is not to uniquely bash Islam because, as I said,
01:13:42.880
all Abrahamic faiths have a us versus them mentality. So I think what happened in Lebanon is not
01:13:52.240
some human co-opting of otherwise benign and loving religious narratives. Let's put it another way, and
01:14:00.480
again, this you may not like because I'm borrowing from Richard Dawkins, and I know that you've been having a
01:14:04.720
little tiff with him. Richard Dawkins famously said that the difference between an atheist and a very
01:14:12.000
staunch believer is really very minimal. If we assume that there are 10,000 gods, the very religious
01:14:19.280
person is an atheist on 9,999 gods, but is very fervently a believer in one, whereas the non-believer atheist is a
01:14:29.840
non-believer on 10,000. So there's only a difference of 9,999 to 10,000. That strikes me as a pretty compelling
01:14:37.040
argument. Let me put it another way. In The Consuming Instinct, which was one of my earlier books in 2011, I had a whole
01:14:43.440
chapter where I was talking about the thought experiment of what might happen if an extraterrestrial
01:14:51.120
being came to earth shopping for the one good faith. And what I did there, I mean, some people might think
01:14:58.080
that I was, you know, being facetious, but actually I was being deadly serious. I said, take every single
01:15:04.160
issue that you could think of from the most consequential to the most banal, and I can find you two
01:15:10.880
religions that purport the exact opposite prescription. Does God want you to eat prosciutto?
01:15:19.120
Yes, if you're Catholic, absolutely no, if you're Jewish or Muslim. What's God's view on homosexuality? I can give you
01:15:27.840
some that are totally okay with it, some that are not. I mean, literally, I give a million. So how can you then argue for a
01:15:34.980
specific religion when on any given point I can find two religions that are perfectly contradictory?
01:15:41.620
Okay, okay, okay. So I think I have an answer to that that you might find at least interesting. So I
01:15:48.500
forgot that in your book you laid out the rationale for nomological networks. Let me just develop that a
01:15:53.780
little bit, and this is your new book. Okay, so the idea of a nomological network is akin to the idea of
01:16:01.780
sensory quintangulation. Let's call it that. And so everyone knows that we have five senses.
01:16:10.180
Now, each of those senses uses a qualitatively different strategy of measurement,
01:16:17.060
right? Somewhat independently evolved. And so our proposition as embodied biological organisms is that
01:16:25.620
if something manifests itself simultaneously in the domains covered by the five dimensions of our senses,
01:16:33.220
it's real, right? So what's real? You can taste it, you can touch it, you can see it, you can hear it, you can feel it.
01:16:40.020
If you can do all five of those, then there's a pretty damn good chance that it's real.
01:16:46.580
Now, actually, that turned out not to be real enough. And that's partly why the development of language
01:16:55.620
had some adaptive utility. Because you and I can communicate, I can use your five senses transmitted
01:17:06.500
to me through the linguistic domain to calibrate my five senses, and then we can do that en masse.
01:17:12.820
And to a large degree, that's what science does. All right, so you take multiple independent sources
01:17:18.420
of measurement. And if they converge, then you assume that there's something there. Fair enough so far?
01:17:25.460
Yeah, I'm with you. Okay, okay. I would say, from what I've been able to understand,
01:17:32.500
that that's what the Jungians did in their archetypal analysis. Now, you can debate, as the postmodernists
01:17:40.180
have, about whether or not what they found was spurious. But in my Maps of Meaning book,
01:17:46.740
what I tried to do was to take what the Jungians had discovered by constructing a nomological network
01:17:53.060
of cross-cultural mythological analysis. And I tried to beat that against the measurement techniques
01:18:00.740
of behavioral psychology and neuroscience. And I found, at least I claimed in that book, to have found
01:18:07.380
like a substantive, non-trivial, and surprising degree of overlap. So let me, and I think this is
01:18:14.500
relevant to your book on happiness. Now you tell me what you think about this, because happiness doesn't
01:18:19.380
just mean transitory hedonic joy. And you certainly don't think that, because that isn't how you live.
01:18:25.780
So the core element of the hero archetype is the injunction that you should advance courageously
01:18:36.500
in the face of threat, if said threat stands as an obstacle between you and a valid goal.
01:18:43.780
Right, right. And so that's different than rabbit mythology, which would be when you see a wolf freeze.
01:18:51.700
The human myth is, no, no, when you encounter a threat, you explore it until you master it.
01:18:59.460
Okay. And as far as I can tell, all the variants of hero mythology are basically that, right? It's the
01:19:04.180
dragon fight, is that you find the terrible predator, and that's what a dragon is. It's an emblem of the
01:19:10.500
predator. And you encounter that voluntarily, and as a consequence, you get the virgin, so that's on the
01:19:16.180
sexual front, and you get the gold, and that's on the material front. And so, and you know, the Jungians,
01:19:22.260
to their credit, and I really do think to their credit, pointed out that that underlying narrative,
01:19:29.060
structure, makes itself manifest cross-culturally in a multitude of forms. Now, unfortunately, to
01:19:36.660
understand that, you have to throw yourself pretty deeply into that body of research, right? And it's
01:19:41.540
pretty arcane, and Jung thought symbolically, and so he's not a particularly, he's not a thinker who's
01:19:49.620
particularly amenable to people whose primary mode of thought is rational rather than pattern recognition.
01:19:56.180
Right, right, right. So, but, like, I do think the Jungians used a nomological network,
01:20:01.780
and I think that the core religious doctrine that they converged on was something like the universal
01:20:07.380
validity of the hero myth, and the redemptive quality of that courageous advancement in the
01:20:13.940
face of the unknown. And so, that's a place where you could, because your question was, well,
01:20:19.780
there's all these competing religious claims, right? And I'd say, well, there's no way I can
01:20:25.620
offer a contrary perspective to that viewpoint, given the multitude of contradictory religious claims.
01:20:31.620
But then I would say there's a hierarchy of claims, and some of them are more central.
01:20:36.420
And there is a convergence at the level of what claims are most central, and I think the convergence
01:20:42.020
is analogous to your proposition that you should abide by the truth in your communicative,
01:20:47.860
in your exploration and your communicative enterprise. And I think that's associated with
01:20:51.860
the kind of happiness that you're writing about in your new book, right? A kind of deep happiness.
01:20:56.020
Yes. Right. I mean, I agree largely with all that you've said about the universal myths that the
01:21:03.300
Jungians talk about. And again, there have been many studies from an evolutionary perspective that look,
01:21:08.020
for example, that if I want to study female sexuality, the best way to study it is to do a
01:21:16.020
archetypal analysis of the male hero in romance novels. And it turns out that the male hero in romance
01:21:23.220
novels is the exact same guy in every single romance novel that has ever been written. I mean,
01:21:29.060
to the point that you would think it's been plagiarized. He is tall, to my detriment, since
01:21:34.180
I'm not tall. He wrestles alligators on his six pack and wins. He is a surgeon and a prince. He's
01:21:42.900
reckless in his behavior, but he can only be tamed by the love of one woman. And so I just described
01:21:49.140
beauty and the beast. Exactly. And so these archetypal narratives are universal precisely
01:21:58.020
because they are an indelible part of human nature. And that manifestation exists independently of
01:22:04.740
whether you believe in the supernatural origin of those stories or not. But if I can just quickly
01:22:10.340
segue into my forthcoming book. So I do talk about religiosity and happiness in my forthcoming book,
01:22:17.780
and you and many other folks who are very pro-religion will be happy to know that the research shows,
01:22:25.620
and I know that you probably know this, that there is a moderate correlation between religiosity and
01:22:31.220
happiness. Meaning that on average, people who are more religious tend to manifest higher happiness
01:22:38.820
scores. But we can discuss why that is. Now, I argue that that doesn't mean though that if you're not
01:22:44.820
religious, you can't find your way to mount happiness. And I can couch it in a divine language.
01:22:53.380
So you and I are right now engaging in an intoxicating conversation that is truly divine, right?
01:23:00.100
Friendships are divine, as Aristotle said, and as I describe in my book. The love that you have for
01:23:05.940
your children and your wife is a form of divine love. Having purpose and meaning in your chosen
01:23:14.420
profession, I talk about that in the book. I basically argue that the two most important
01:23:18.420
decisions that either make you happy or incredibly miserable is choosing the right spouse and choosing
01:23:24.900
the right profession. If you make those two choices correctly, you're well on your way to being a happy.
01:23:30.180
That was Freud's observation, right? Work and love. That was his prescription for a meaningful
01:23:34.660
existence. Exactly. And look, and he said it 100 years ago, and I've said it today, precisely because
01:23:41.940
they are universal truths to our earlier point. You know, one of the things that I did in this book is
01:23:47.060
really delve into the, you know, the ancient Greeks, you know, Epictetus and Seneca and Marcus Aurelius.
01:23:55.940
And here I want to point to a quip that my fellow Lebanese friend Nassim Talib once told me,
01:24:03.860
which turns out to be hauntingly true. He once was teasing me that he said, I don't know what you
01:24:10.660
study in psychology, Gad, because everything that there is to know about human nature,
01:24:14.980
the ancient Greeks have already said. And now he was, he was quipping me, he was teasing me.
01:24:19.700
Uh, but as I started delving into that literature, I said, I think Nassim might be right because I
01:24:26.980
would get some, I would get some insight, for example, about the link between cognitive behavior
01:24:33.300
therapy and some, some other, you know, mechanism of, you know, happiness and so on. And then I find
01:24:40.580
out that Epictetus had made that exact point over 2000 years ago. So, so I think that there are these
01:24:47.060
universal truths that exist, whether it is in how we seek happiness or in, in any other domain of
01:24:53.860
human import that are universal precisely because they are an indelible part of our human nature. I
01:24:59.220
mean, that's why I love evolutionary psychology so much because it is very difficult to have powerful
01:25:04.580
explanations of human behavior void of an evolutionary understanding of our species. And so it always amazes
01:25:10.900
me that people exhibit an animus to evolutionary psychology. What else could it be? Like, where did your brain
01:25:16.340
come from if you take it outside of the purview of evolutionary theory? So one of the things that
01:25:21.700
I talk about in the book that speaks to your very kind introduction at the start, where you talked
01:25:26.180
about me having a sense of humor, I have, I have a whole chapter on, I call it life as a playground.
01:25:31.380
And I basically argue that even the most serious pursuits, for example, the pursuit of science is a form
01:25:40.180
of play. It's the highest form of play, right? Because in the same way that you try to solve a
01:25:45.220
1,000-piece puzzle by putting the pieces together, well, what is science? It's drawing links between
01:25:51.620
a whole bunch of variables that heretofore you didn't know were linked together. So the whole
01:25:56.180
endeavor of science is a form of orgiastic higher-order play, right?
01:26:04.420
And so that's, by the way, one of the reasons why I have the sense of humor that I have is because I
01:26:11.460
think it's a very, very powerful way to communicate very serious things. Some people will say, oh,
01:26:17.780
but aren't you abasing yourself as a serious professor by donning that pink wig or by self-flagellating
01:26:25.220
because you're mocking that you're friends with Jordan Peterson? No, because mockery is actually
01:26:31.620
a astronomically powerful way to demonstrate certain forms of lunacy, right? That's why
01:26:38.820
dictators will usually try to eradicate the satirists first. They don't go after the guys
01:26:44.580
with the big muscles. They go after the guys with the sharp tongues and the stinging pen because those
01:26:50.420
are the ones that are the biggest threat. So Gad, you might be interested in this. So
01:26:55.620
I spent a lot of time studying Jak Panksepp's work on play. And he detailed out the neurophysiology
01:27:03.540
of play to a greater degree than any other scientist that I know. And Panksepp conceptualized play
01:27:12.820
really, I would say, as the state of highest possible neural integration.
01:27:18.260
Because play only emerges when all competing, motivating, and emotional systems have been
01:27:26.740
satiated and put aside. So if you're able to enter into a state of play, that's actually an
01:27:34.020
indication that you've mastered the domain in which you're exploring so thoroughly that no other competing
01:27:40.740
motivations whatsoever can emerge to disrupt that. You know, and laughter eradicates muscular
01:27:49.780
tension. When I used to work out with my friends, we used to make jokes when people were bench pressing,
01:27:55.220
and as soon as they laughed, they couldn't hold the weight anymore, which was a good part of the joke.
01:28:00.100
But, you know, I've spent a lot of time in my last tour laying out the idea to my audiences that the
01:28:07.540
antithesis of tyranny is play. Tyranny is a spirit of sorts, right? It's a malevolent spirit. And you
01:28:14.420
might say, well, what the hell's the opposite of that? And I don't think it's joy. And I don't think
01:28:19.460
it's like the absence of fear or pain. I think it's literally play. And so I think you're dead on in that,
01:28:26.660
in the allying of the spirit of play with the highest form of happiness. It's really something to aim for.
01:28:33.300
You're exactly right. And actually, so to link play with our earlier discussion about, you know,
01:28:39.860
choosing the right spouse. So as you know, Jordan, you know, one of the fundamental rules,
01:28:46.660
universal rules for a happy marriage is the birds of a feather flock together, Maxim. So there are sort
01:28:52.500
of two competing ideas, opposites attract versus birds of a feather flock together. Now, if you're
01:28:57.060
interested in a short term sexual dalliance, then opposites attracts might perfectly, might work
01:29:01.700
perfectly well. I may be introvert, you're extrovert, you may bring me out of my, you know, sexual
01:29:07.220
shyness, but that's for a short term, you know, dalliance. But for short, for long term relationships,
01:29:14.740
it is birds of a feather flock together, at least on things like life goals, values, belief systems,
01:29:21.940
it's not at all opposites attract. Now that principle of birds of a feather flock together applies
01:29:27.620
specifically to playfulness. And there's very, very interesting research, which if you're not
01:29:35.380
familiar with, I'd be happy to send you some links that looks at how people who assort on their adult
01:29:44.580
playfulness scores tend to have happier marriages. And I give several examples.
01:29:49.140
Oh, I'd like to see that. Yeah, I'd like to see that.
01:29:50.980
Yeah, I'll be, I'll be happy to send you that. Okay.
01:29:52.980
And so for example, one of the things that makes, I mean, I know you've met my wife a few times,
01:29:57.540
and you know that we have a very strong relationship, we've been together for 23 years,
01:30:01.380
is that we're constantly in play mode, right? She can rib on me. And so, you know, so for example,
01:30:07.220
I'll walk into the room, you know, I'll, you know, engage in some kind of faux grandiosity,
01:30:12.420
showing off my muscles. And then she'll say something like, oh, we might need to fortify the
01:30:18.820
base of this house, because I don't think your ego fits in this house anymore, right? So that's a
01:30:24.020
very fun, right? And we're constantly engaging in this kind of play. We're very, very good friends with
01:30:30.100
each other. Now, of course, you can't always predict a priori when you're choosing to marry someone,
01:30:35.540
whether you score perfectly, compatibly on all of these things. But trying to find someone who
01:30:41.460
shares your life mindsets is certainly a prescription for leading a happy marriage.
01:30:47.700
Right, right. So that you can play together. Maybe that's why Eve was made out of Adam's rib.
01:30:53.780
Perhaps. There you go. Bring it in the religious narrative. Wonderful. Some of the other things
01:30:58.340
that I talk about is I talk about, so I argue that the most fundamental universal law that is most
01:31:07.700
ubiquitous is something that Aristotle had already talked about in his Nicomachean ethics book,
01:31:14.740
the golden mean, right? Too little of something is not good. Too much of something is not good. And the
01:31:20.260
sweet spot lies somewhere in the middle, right? Which mathematically is referred to as the inverted U,
01:31:25.700
right? Somewhere in the middle is the top. And I demonstrate in one of the chapters that whether
01:31:30.820
it be at the neuronal level, the individual level, the economic level, the societal level,
01:31:38.740
the same pattern of the inverted U manifests itself across countless domains. So for example,
01:31:45.860
how much alcohol should you consume? That follows an inverted U. How much fish should you consume? That
01:31:51.460
follows an inverted U. How intense your exercise should be? That follows an inverted U. And on and
01:31:58.260
on and on. So the challenge is to try to find where your sweet spot is. And if you can find that,
01:32:04.500
you're well on your way to happiness. Another thing that I talk about in the book is how to
01:32:09.300
assuage the threats of regret at the end of your life. So, and here I talk about my former professor
01:32:17.620
of psychology at Cornell, Thomas Gilovich, who's a pioneer of regret theory. He argued that there
01:32:23.300
are two sources of regret, regret due to actions and regret due to inactions. So I regret that I cheated
01:32:29.380
on my wife and now my marriage is over. That's a regret due to action. Versus regret due to inaction
01:32:35.140
is I always wanted to be a artist, but I became a pediatrician because my dad was a pediatrician.
01:32:41.380
And it turns out that people's most looming regret are those of inaction, right? The what if,
01:32:50.900
Gad, do you think that's the same thing that befalls people when they hold their tongue,
01:32:56.100
when they have something to say? Because that's a form of inaction that could easily result in regret.
01:33:03.700
That's exactly right. Exactly right. And that's why, by the way, to use my earlier argument about when I put
01:33:08.900
my head on the pillow and I need to feel that I didn't walk away from defending the truth,
01:33:13.860
I would be regretful if I did that. If I held my tongue and did not weigh in on Twitter to some inane
01:33:22.580
BS that someone, then I would be very regretful and therefore I live a life, some might argue, of
01:33:28.900
obsessive authenticity. And I say obsessive because sometimes I'm authentic to a fault. I can't hold my
01:33:35.300
tongue if it means that I'm doing it for careerist reasons because then I feel as though I'm being
01:33:42.340
inauthentic, right? And so, but that makes me happy because then my personhood has no fissures. I don't
01:33:49.940
feel like a fraud. I feel real. And for better or worse, then I present myself to the world with full
01:33:58.580
Gad, how do you, you know, how do you, Twitter's a good example, you know, because
01:34:04.900
you're very active on Twitter. I don't know if you're as active as I am on Twitter, but we have
01:34:08.980
a pretty, it's a close battle. And I think our style of interaction on Twitter is analogous.
01:34:14.980
So I have a couple of questions for you there. It's like, how do you protect yourself against using
01:34:20.740
your, what would you say, your charismatic forthrightness? That's a good way of thinking
01:34:25.460
about it. How do you protect yourself against using that egotistically and for instrumental gain?
01:34:29.940
I mean, you have a wife that pokes fun at you and that's helpful, but, and how do you know you're
01:34:34.260
doing that? And how do you know when you're poking and prodding to be authentic that you're not,
01:34:41.780
you know, you're not mouthing off and going too far and showing off and, and, and, you know,
01:34:46.260
engaging in an ego display on that front? How, how, how do you, do you think you always keep
01:34:51.460
yourself in check and how do you do it if you do it successfully?
01:34:54.980
That's, that's an amazing question because I've struggled with that conundrum when two
01:35:00.740
important values within me conflict with one another. So on the one, so let me give you an example.
01:35:08.260
I may have a good friend who's spouting nonsense on Twitter. Okay. And because of my
01:35:15.860
values, maybe my middle Eastern values, you know, you don't go after a friend. So I'll hold my tongue
01:35:20.980
for a while, but then I start, there's that voice in my head that says, but wait a minute,
01:35:25.860
if you hold your voice and don't correct that person, if you think that they are uttering gibberish,
01:35:33.060
then you're being inauthentic. That's exactly what happened. Not that I wish to bring him back to the
01:35:37.700
forefront, but that's what happened between Sam Harris and me, because we were on very friendly terms.
01:35:43.460
We got along very, very well. We we've gone out to dinner. I'd been on his show. And for about four
01:35:49.300
or five years, I kept completely quiet about his, you know, Trump hysteria, because I felt that I,
01:35:55.300
I owed him because I knew him. I had to have kind of a higher standard of restraint. But then at one
01:36:02.340
point I felt that my being restraining in my interactions with him, I was being inauthentic to
01:36:09.780
the truth. And therefore I went after him and I thought was a playful way, but he didn't take
01:36:14.980
well to it. And regrettably, I guess, I presume that we're no longer friends now, which is a real
01:36:20.420
shame. And so I struggle with that exact issue. But I think the fact that I struggle with it is
01:36:26.180
itself a form of ultimate humility, right? Because if I didn't struggle with it, if I was always self-assured
01:36:33.940
in everything that I did without having the back voice in my head telling me, are you doing the right
01:36:38.420
thing, then I would never engage in these auto-corrective behaviors. So I don't have
01:36:42.580
a definitive answer. I do struggle with that issue. Is it always best to tell the truth,
01:36:47.780
or should you hold your tongue once in a while? It's a tough one to navigate.
01:36:51.460
Well, how much do you think, how much of a role do you think the social connections that you have
01:36:56.260
play in helping regulate your behavior? Like, you have a good relationship with your wife. Like,
01:37:00.820
are there, are the people in your family, the people that you're close to, are they keeping an eye on
01:37:05.220
you and giving you a whack when they think that you've stepped out of line?
01:37:08.900
Well, certainly my wife is very good at doing that because in her case, she sees the fact that
01:37:15.300
I might get angry at some insane thing that's being said on Twitter. And then she'll kind of
01:37:22.180
come in because she'll see me like having, you know, kind of shaking my head on my laptop. She says,
01:37:27.060
okay, what are you upset at now? Who said what? And then she'll try to kind of come in and say,
01:37:31.940
why don't we go out for a walk? Or why don't we play with our children? And so that's another
01:37:37.700
thing that makes choosing the right spouse so important because they recognize your behavioral
01:37:43.460
traps. They recognize where you might falter and they make you a better person. And I hope I also
01:37:50.900
offer that to her. And so it turns out to be a beautiful symbiotic relationship. And I see
01:37:56.340
how you interact with your wife. You share a similar love of your wife.
01:38:00.580
Yeah. You know, and I think we like, we used to play together as kids,
01:38:04.260
say like we were childhood friends and that's true. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. And, and you know,
01:38:08.660
what's really been interesting, Gad, and this is really a form of miracle as far as I'm concerned.
01:38:13.300
And I, I think it's because both of us passed so close to death in the last few years. I mean,
01:38:19.060
Tammy almost died every day for about eight months. It was really quite awful. And I was out of commission
01:38:24.340
for two and a half years. You know, when we, when we came back together, we were pretty alienated from
01:38:30.740
one another because I really hadn't been around for two years and she had been recovering from her
01:38:35.220
terrible illness and to some degree in isolation. And, you know, we dive, our pathways had diverged to
01:38:40.580
some degree. And I was still quite sick when I came back home, you know, and what saved us was
01:38:47.460
the habit of play that we had established over decades, you know, and we came together again
01:38:53.300
in the field of play and that reunited us very quickly. And the thing that's been so miraculous
01:38:59.300
about this and it, it really has been a staggering revelation to me is that that spirit of play has
01:39:08.580
magnified itself now to such a degree that when I'm with her and we're in a playful mood, I can see
01:39:16.660
her across in some ways, I can perceive her across the whole span of the time that we spent together
01:39:22.500
right from, you know, 1969 to now. And it's like, I'm playing with that person that I've always
01:39:29.060
known, you know, and that's actually deepened as we've got to know each other over the decades,
01:39:35.220
that's got more and more profound and also more and more like a return to the state of mind that
01:39:41.860
we had when we were young kids, eight years old, you know, playing together as friends.
01:39:47.300
And that's really, it's an amazing thing. It's certainly one of the best things that's ever
01:39:51.860
happened to me in my whole life. So, you know, and Eve, the word Eve, I learned this from Ben Shapiro,
01:39:57.060
the word Eve means beneficial adversary, right? It means something like optimal partner in play.
01:40:03.460
That's fine. Oh, I didn't know that either. Yeah, isn't that cool? That's so cool.
01:40:08.260
That is very, very cool. Yeah. So, so the, you know, one of the things, one of the reasons why I
01:40:13.620
wrote this book, I never thought that I would write a happiness book. I thought that Jordan Peterson had
01:40:18.260
already occupied that niche. But the reason why I wrote the book is because a lot of people would write
01:40:22.660
to me and say, how is it that you always are able to present yourself to the world as happy? And, and
01:40:28.820
there, and of course, about 50% of your happiness comes from your genes. That can't be controlled. Some
01:40:34.500
of us have a sunny dispositions. Some of us have a more gloomy disposition, and that's fine. But the
01:40:40.020
good news is that there's still 50% up for grabs, right? So even if 50% of your genes is coming, of your
01:40:45.780
happiness is coming from your genes, there is another 50% that the choices that you make, the
01:40:50.580
mindsets that you adopt that can either increase the likelihood of happiness or decrease it.
01:40:55.940
And so I thought, you know what? I'd never thought about the idea of writing a book of happiness,
01:40:59.780
but tons of people are approaching me with, you know, asking, soliciting advice. Why don't I take
01:41:04.820
a shot at it? And that's what led to my latest book. Well, you know, maybe to, to, to tie this back to
01:41:10.180
the way that we opened our conversation, you know, maybe one of the reasons too, that has protected you
01:41:15.460
to some degree against being pilloried too extensively, except in those serious cases that
01:41:21.780
we discussed, is the fact that you've been markedly good at maintaining that playful
01:41:28.740
mien through all of your interactions, right? And that you are willing to put yourself forward,
01:41:34.420
you know, on a fairly, on a fairly regular basis, even in an absurdist guise with your fright wig and
01:41:41.940
your self-flagellation whip. And, and so, you know, I think that good humor has also been
01:41:47.460
a really good, it's not a defensive shield, you know, because that, that, that, that's like
01:41:52.580
something you're hiding behind. You're not hiding.
01:41:55.220
And it takes humility, right? And it takes supreme self-confidence, right? Because
01:42:00.820
someone could look at that and say, my God, this guy's looking like a buffoon. And so it takes a
01:42:05.380
lot of courage to your earlier point, to be able to put yourself in that position, right? I remember
01:42:10.580
the, one of the first times that I, I know we've both been on Jordan, on Joe Rogan's show many times,
01:42:16.260
one of the nicest compliments that he gave me, he said, you know, you're, you're really cool because
01:42:20.180
you're not like many other professors who take themselves too seriously, right? So, so I can be
01:42:25.620
austere and professorial when I need to be, when I'm speaking at Stanford, and I can be a complete
01:42:30.180
joker when the occasion demands it. And so, and, and one doesn't diminish from the other. You can both
01:42:35.460
be a serious person and an incredibly playful person. That's certainly a path to happiness.
01:42:40.260
Oh yeah. Yeah. You bet that that's an optimized path to happiness, right? That look,
01:42:44.420
that's a really good place to stop. And so your book is coming out in late July. That's the
01:42:50.020
sad truth about happiness. You said it comes out on July 25th. And so those of you out there who
01:42:55.780
are pouting way miserably and wretchedly might want to go pick up that book and see if you can pick up
01:43:00.020
a tip or two. And also, you know, as we discussed, Gad wrote the parasitic mind, and that's definitely a
01:43:06.020
book worth picking up if you haven't done that already. So you could, you know, buy both, what the
01:43:10.820
hell, you know, and then you can free him from the terrible shackles of the communists at Concordia
01:43:15.940
University. And that'd be an addition. From your lips to God's ear. No kidding, eh? So look,
01:43:20.980
thank you very much for talking to me today. It's always a pleasure to talk with you. I hope we see
01:43:25.300
each other in Montreal in person at some not too distant point in the future. That seems highly
01:43:30.180
probable. For those of you watching and listening on YouTube, thank you very much for your time and
01:43:35.300
attention. I hope you appreciated the conversation as I did. To the Daily Wire Plus folks for facilitating
01:43:41.780
this conversation. That's much appreciated. The film crew here in Toronto, that's appreciated as well.
01:43:47.620
I'm going to take Gad over to the dark side, the Daily Wire Plus side, behind the paywall.
01:43:54.740
And we're going to talk about more autobiographical and personal issues, I would say. That's generally
01:44:01.540
the tenor there. And so if you want to join us there, please, please feel welcome and invited. We
01:44:08.020
certainly appreciate your patronage. And otherwise, Gad, thank you very much for talking to me today.
01:44:15.540
Yeah. And good luck with the launch of your book, man. I hope that you rip up the bestseller charts
01:44:20.260
and that the New York Times is forced to put you in its list.
01:44:25.380
Thank you so much, Jordan. Such a pleasure to talk to you. And please stay in touch. I might be coming
01:44:30.420
down to Florida at some point soon. Are you going to be in Florida anytime soon?
01:44:33.860
Are you coming down to do some lectures for Peterson Academy?
01:44:37.540
I am. The only decision is whether it's going to be in Toronto or Florida. I'm discussing it
01:44:42.580
with your people. So that's on the roster, I think, for August. So I'll reach out to you.
01:44:50.100
Well, so that's the thing. Of course, it could be the happiness book or evolutionary psychology
01:44:56.340
or the parasitic mind. My penchant is to go with the happiness stuff, if only to time it with the
01:45:02.660
current book. But we'll see. I'm open to all possibilities.
01:45:05.220
Well, you could do three sets of lectures and then you wouldn't have to choose.
01:45:08.820
Yeah, that would be good. Okay. Well, look, hopefully we'll see you there or we'll see you
01:45:16.020
You bet, man. You bet. Talk to you soon. Bye-bye. Bye-bye. Bye-bye.